1 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: What's up a Happy Hour. It's good to be back 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: with you again this week, but it's also slightly good 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: or sweet because my wonderful co host Michelle is unfortunately 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: under the weather, so she will not be joining us 5 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:18,319 Speaker 1: this week, which is a huge bummer because I wanted 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: to catch up with her and hear all about how 7 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: her birthday weekend, how she enjoyed Wayne Go Tango and 8 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: walked the red carpet with Nate. But we will have 9 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: to wait until the following week to get her on 10 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: to just pick her brain on all of that fun stuff. 11 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: But Michelle, if you are listening to this in the meantime, 12 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: I have to give you a huge shout out because 13 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: you and Nate rocked the red carpet at Wayne Go Tango. 14 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:46,319 Speaker 1: You looked absolutely stunning in that red dress. For all 15 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: of our listeners who have not seen her in this 16 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: incredible number, please go to Instagram. It's probably boasted all 17 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: over your feed. It's probably on her feed. But oh 18 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: my gosh, hot, damn, no one else should ever wear 19 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: that dress because Michelle, you looked incredible and it looked 20 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: like such a fun time. I hope you had a 21 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: great time reuniting with Nate and celebrating your big birthday 22 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: and all of that fun stuff. And you know, for 23 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: everyone listening here, I love to talk. I could just 24 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: go on and go on, but I'm not going to 25 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,919 Speaker 1: do that because we actually have a very fun guest 26 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: coming up and I can't wait to have her on 27 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: because she is not only a fellow podcaster just a 28 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: badass mom, but she has really paved the way in 29 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:34,279 Speaker 1: the world of social media and especially knowing all things 30 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: pop culture in terms of reality television. So very shortly 31 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: we will be having Amanda hirsh On aka not Skinny 32 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: but not Fat. But before we do bring Amanda on, 33 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: I have to give one final shout out to Michelle 34 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: because you know, we've been talking about this for weeks, 35 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: but it is officially her last week of school, last 36 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: week of teaching in the classroom, and Michelle, you have 37 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: put in so much hard work, time, dedication to the classroom, 38 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: to your students, and to their families. But we will 39 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: be thinking of you this week. I'm sure you're just 40 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: going to crash once that day is done, but we 41 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: are sending you so much love and support and enjoy 42 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: those last few hours with all of your students, and 43 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: who knows what the future will hold, but we are 44 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 1: always here to love and support you. But it's an 45 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: exciting week for you. Let me know if you need 46 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 1: anything in the meantime, a bottle of wine, kick up 47 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: your feet, relax, chill for a little bit, and just 48 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 1: treat yourself to some time off. You know, hopefully you 49 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: can enjoy the next three months of this summer break. 50 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: But everyone, before we do, bring on our very fun guest. 51 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,519 Speaker 1: I just have to do a little humble bragging here, 52 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: and not that it's that big of a deal, but 53 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 1: if anyone follows along either me or Thomas on social media, 54 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: you will see that Thomas was supposed to be running 55 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: a big marathon down in San Diego last week, and 56 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: fortunately he caught a very weird, very strange, unique double 57 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 1: lung infection when we were in Hawaii, so he unfortunately 58 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: could not run the marathon. But he, somehow, I don't 59 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: know how he did this, convinced me to run a 60 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: five k and I'm not a huge runner. I'm not 61 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: into cardio. It's not my thing. I don't necessarily enjoy it, 62 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 1: but he talked me into it. And so this past weekend, 63 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: Thomas and I ran our first five well not ours, 64 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: but my first five k together done in San Diego 65 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: with the Rock and Roll Marathon, and it was so 66 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: much fun. And for anyone who has ever ran a 67 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: marathon or a half marathon, or a ten k or 68 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: even a five k, like, kudos to you, because it's 69 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: not easy, I mean, especially running in a marathon. I 70 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: have so much more respect for people who do it 71 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: and who are dedicated and love and enjoy it. But 72 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: it all goes to a good cause. And so thanks 73 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: to everyone who took part in that. Thanks to Tommy 74 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: or drag and my booty out of bed at five 75 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: thirty in the morning, six in the morning to get 76 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: running on the road. And some people have DMed me 77 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: actually asking if I would ever do a marathon or 78 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: if you'll see me running in the future, And I'm 79 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: going to tell you right now you probably will never 80 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: ever in this lifetime see me do marathon, probably not 81 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: even a half marathon, but I would definitely do another 82 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: five k, maybe maybe a ten k if I practice. 83 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 1: But it was just such a fun experience. So shout 84 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: out to the Rock and Roll Marathon in San Diego. 85 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: You guys are incredible, So many people showed up. I 86 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: did not know what to expect and it was such 87 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: a cool experience just with everything all the planning that 88 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: goes into it. But yeah, thanks for all of the 89 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: well wishes and the support with that all of our 90 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: listeners who fall along. That has been received and loved 91 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: and I appreciate it so much. But enough about me. 92 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: We do have a very fun interview coming up with 93 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: Amanda again. She is a force on Instagram with her 94 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: extensive coverage on all things pop culture. Please join me 95 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: and welcoming Amanda Hirst a Happy Hour. Well first, Amanda, 96 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 1: welcome to Happy Hour. We well when I say we 97 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 1: because I know Michelle who is my co host and 98 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: unfortunately a second campy here. We have been wanting to 99 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 1: have you on for a while. We're so excited to 100 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: have you, so thank you for joining us and just 101 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: catch us up on your life. How are you well? 102 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 1: Thank you back. I'm a huge fan, as you guys 103 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: probably know, I'm a Bachelor Nation groupie. I don't know 104 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: what do I call it, like back to our nation, bitch, 105 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just part of your part of 106 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 1: the nation. I'm like part I'm on the sidelines. Of 107 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: the nation. Yeah, we've been like, it feels weird to 108 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 1: not have it on air right now, even though like 109 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: that used to be normal, but we got you so 110 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: like back to back to back to back to back, 111 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: and now we have this spoiled you could call it 112 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: that spoiled over abundance. I don't know. I don't know, 113 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: but I felt both. I felt both. Um, but a 114 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: huge fan, huge fan of Bastination can't wait for what 115 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: is it Paradise to come the next thing. Well, so 116 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: first it'll be the Boucherette the next season that'll air, 117 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: but it's you know, like the duel two women, and 118 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,799 Speaker 1: then the Paradise is about to film like this week. 119 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 1: I think, I know some of the cast is already 120 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: down there, so that'll come out. I'm assuming like September October. 121 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: I don't know the exact dates, but you'll you'll very 122 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 1: soon have back to back seasons once again. Oh my 123 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: god it congrats on your engagement. Thank you. I appreciate it. Yeah, 124 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: he's been showing off his rock whenever he can, his 125 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 1: little bling, you know how Like I'm sure when women 126 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: get engaged, they're like, oh, look at you everything, you 127 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: know what you know? Yeah, but you know, like people 128 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 1: want to do everything with their left hand, and I 129 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: feel like that's how he is. Now. He's like, oh wait, 130 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: let me hold my cup with my left hand and 131 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 1: we get my coffee mug. But I want to switch 132 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: it into this hand. And so he's been showing off 133 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: the ring a lot. So thank you, we can I 134 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: ask you see how I'm switching it around to like 135 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: having you on my podcast, but this I just want 136 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: to know how it works. So is he going to 137 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: get you a ring now? Yes? So I kind of 138 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: stole his thunder a little bit because he did have 139 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: something planned so he I don't know if he has 140 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: it currently or is like in the midst of making 141 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: a ring, but he had a date in mind and 142 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: I have no idea what it is that he was 143 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 1: going to do it. And so when I popped to 144 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: the question early and through him for the loop, I 145 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to take away from what 146 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 1: you have planned. You know, my ring fingers getting lonely 147 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: over here, so I want one too, but I just 148 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: wanted to add to it. So yes, we are probably 149 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: like the only people, which is probably not necessary and 150 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: like you said, over abundance, but like we'll probably have 151 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: two engagements then, so like surprise for engaged again. But yeah, 152 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: he'll he'll he'll do something fun. Are you Are you 153 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: going to tell him, like what you want for a ring? 154 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: Oh he knows, he is well aware. Yeah, one of 155 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: my best friends has made it very apparent to him 156 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: of what I would like the time around, because in 157 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: the past I wasn't really able to design a ring personally, 158 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: and so now this time around, Um, my friend has 159 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: told him, you know, this is what it needs to 160 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: look like, this is exactly what she needs. Don't go over, 161 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: don't go under whatever. So he knows, he's he's a 162 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: smart guy. Yeah, I love that. I also love I 163 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: love the coupling in general because it's so random. It is. 164 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: It is very random. That's what everyone said, especially when 165 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: we first got together. It was a random but then 166 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: like it happened, and then you guys knock on Wood 167 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 1: are like making it and you know he didn't get 168 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: the best at it on his season obviously, Um, and 169 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: you're just making everybody kind of see him. Yeah, he's 170 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: actually a really really great guy and so I'm at least, 171 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: you know, I was lucky enough to meet him in 172 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 1: Paradise and other people were done there too. But you know, 173 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: now I could spend my life with him and I 174 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 1: know that real Thomas now, which I'm like, how the 175 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: hell did they turn you into this? But right? But yeah, 176 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: but I want to ask you, so, when you got 177 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 1: engaged and married, did your husband know what you wanted 178 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: it in advance? Or was he did he just go 179 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: on blind? No? I was twenty six years old, baby, 180 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: I know. You know girls come in the batchelor at 181 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: like twenty three and Imo was like and but for me, 182 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: it's like we were together for five years, so I wasn't. 183 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't need to get proposed to. He 184 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: was like more into that. But yeah, it was a 185 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: complete surprise. I was like caught off guard and he 186 00:09:58,320 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: you know, we were broke at the time, so we 187 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: got me a baby ring, which only you know we're 188 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: married now for six years together for eleven I think 189 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: I only allowed myself to make fun of it like 190 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 1: this year, like like that's like the decade mark of dating. Yeah, 191 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: to be like now I'm like all the time, like 192 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: I need a microscope please, like led zoom in, where's 193 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: my monocle? Right? But now he gets it, but but 194 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 1: it is special because we were at such a different 195 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: point in our lives where like we had no money 196 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: like yet to take like a loan to get this ring. Um, 197 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:37,319 Speaker 1: and and it is really special. I am thinking about 198 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: like upgrading it now, and it's really sweet because he's 199 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 1: so supportive, Like, but I'm I'm not gonna put it 200 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 1: in a drawer. I want to like incorporate it. But yeah, 201 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: like I'm sure a lot of men would be like 202 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: and he's just like wants me to do it. He's like, 203 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: So that's more and more common these days. I mean 204 00:10:56,160 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: I've talked to aunts and just random women who I'll 205 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: comment on their rings and they'll be like, oh, this 206 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 1: is my second ring. We just upgraded it. So I 207 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: feel like it's more common these days. And I love 208 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 1: that you still want to incorporate what he gave you originally. Yeah, 209 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: that's then what is it what I'm going to get 210 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: a new engagement ring? Like bitch, like you've been married 211 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: for whatever years and it means something. So yeah, it 212 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: was the opposite. Like today I saw my sister go 213 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 1: through the process and she of getting engaged, and like 214 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: she knew exactly what she wanted. She had Pinterest picture 215 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:31,319 Speaker 1: she had to the point that she knew like which 216 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: band and which like the under things, like all these things, 217 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, I didn't even have 218 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: a chance to like explore those things, know what I mean? Well, 219 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: and especially I'm sure before social media and like the 220 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: pinterests of the world came up. It's like, I mean, 221 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 1: even doing Thomas's ring, which you would think would be 222 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 1: so damn simple, like a men's wedding band, there was 223 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: so many questions and bits and pieces. I'm like, thank 224 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 1: god I had a friend who's a dueler that could 225 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 1: help me, because I'm like, I don't know what any 226 00:11:57,960 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 1: of you. I don't know what a stone cut is, 227 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: or like what the clarity or any of this shit. 228 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: It's it's wild. I want to ask you. Oh my god, 229 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: I have so many questions for you. But just since 230 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: we're talking about your husband really quick, is he a 231 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: pop culture junkie just like you? Oh my god, he's 232 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: the opposite. He the other day confused like Jason Biggs 233 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: and Adam Sandler, Like he's the opposite. So like, what 234 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: is his thing that he like gravitates too? Well, it's 235 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: really sweet because he's so supportive and like like I'll 236 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: explain to him like who people are so he knows, 237 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: and then he'll get into it be like oh that girl, 238 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: you know, and he'll just find a way to like 239 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 1: make me understand who he's talking about. But he'll never 240 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 1: say the name because he doesn't know. It's just it's 241 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: so much to keep track of. It's like I watch 242 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: so much television and I mean not enough, not really, 243 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: but but a lot of reality TV stars and celebrities 244 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 1: and you know, so, no, he's not in tune with it. 245 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: And you know what, I don't think I like it 246 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: that way. You know. It's like he doesn't need to 247 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,199 Speaker 1: be into this stuff or geek out about this stuff. 248 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: He's just really happy for like me in situations and 249 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: he gets really into it, like oh and like what 250 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 1: about this? And he's very supportive in the on the 251 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: business side. But no, he's not, you know, he's not 252 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 1: into it. I'll be like I got a dam from 253 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: Kim and he'll like be excited, but he's not, like, 254 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 1: you know, into it. I wonder like if there are 255 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 1: a lot of guys that are well, I mean, so 256 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 1: just being in this world, you know, I came into 257 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 1: the Bachelor world back in twenty seventeen, and since then, 258 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: I've met so many guys. You would be surprised at 259 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: the amount of men that I'll meet just randomly, like 260 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: on the straight or grocery shopping, who are huge, huge 261 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: fans and they and you know, you have the guys 262 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 1: who are just so proud of it. They're like, yeah, 263 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: I love the show. I watched like I watched it 264 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: with my guys. And then there's half, like the half 265 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 1: of the group of men who are like, oh, I 266 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 1: watch because my fiance does, or my wife does or 267 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: my girlfriends. I'm like, you guys always blame it on 268 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: the girls, but you secretly get hooked too. So yeah, 269 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: I'm actually surprised at the amount of guys that that 270 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 1: like also recognized Thomas, like he gets spotted. I mean 271 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: he's tall, so he sticks out like a sore thumb, 272 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: but like so many dudes gravitate towards him and they're like, dude, 273 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: we sigh you on the show. We loved you, like 274 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: it's it's so funny, you would not expect it. I 275 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 1: love it. I think I know more men that watch 276 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 1: it with their like women. But I wonder if it's 277 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: like a red flag if you meet a guy and 278 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 1: he watches The Bachelor or not. Well, I've met a 279 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 1: lot of guys that will just do it with their 280 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: guy friends, like um, people like yeah, they're like like, 281 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: I was talking to a guy maybe a month or 282 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: show ago who started watching it and he's my age now, 283 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: so thirties and started in college. I think he was 284 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: part of a frat and they just started watching it 285 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: on Mondays to like, you know, pick up girls and 286 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: to be able to talk about it, and then it 287 00:14:57,040 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: just stuck. So he has his Fantasy Bachelor group on 288 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: Monday still, and it's these dudes in their thirties that 289 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: just watch it together and their wives like, I don't 290 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: even think take part in it. It's so funny to me, 291 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: it is. But I you know, I don't know Becca honestly, 292 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: and well I want to know. I want to know. 293 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: So how long have you been a fan or have 294 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: watched The Bachelor or Bachelortte? What season? Maybe Ben Higgins? Oh, 295 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: some more recent Yeah, I mean it's not that recent. Yeah, 296 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: but that was Joe Joe Lauren. Yeah, I think that's 297 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: when I like really started watching watching before that like 298 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: I knew about it. I think I even was like 299 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: kind of in it when like the Tristan and Ryan 300 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: like those first couples. But I think the Beg Benhiggens 301 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: season was really one. Even today, like I'll get asked 302 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: by people like if you would recommend a season. I 303 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: feel like the Ben like Ben Haigen season is such 304 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: a classic one because he's so like a certain type 305 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: and he got the Joe Joe and you know, well 306 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: he and he was one of that one sicks out 307 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: because he was one of the first people leads to 308 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 1: say I love you to two people, oh right, and 309 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: he and he didn't get as much shit, right, No, No, 310 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: I think I mean I think he did, but not 311 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 1: in the way that other leads coming after him had. 312 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: Like I think I think he like set the precedent 313 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: for the amount of I love you and if you 314 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: should or should it in this whole debate of like 315 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 1: you know, how much should you divulge to somebody you're 316 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 1: about to get engaged too? Right, Like it's but um, 317 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, yeah that was back in like twenty fifteen. 318 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 1: I think you know what's so wild? I was just 319 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: reminiscing about the real World. Have you the Real World ever? Yeah? 320 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: Well yes, young Becca did I mean? And I had 321 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: to hide it from my mom because growing up when 322 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: it was like in its prime, I was in probably 323 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: middle school, like eight elementary school, and I would always 324 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 1: go to my friend's house to watch it, but my 325 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: mom was like very strict on TV, so I couldn't 326 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: watch it at home. But oh yeah, there was there 327 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,640 Speaker 1: was one season where I think Cameron who was now 328 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: on right Southern char I watched her. Yeah and Brad 329 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 1: remember Brad? Yes, yes, And so that's like the prime 330 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: of what I remember. Diego? Yeah, yeah, at San Diego. 331 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: I just yesterday. Oh you know why I thought, like 332 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:29,160 Speaker 1: why it became a topic of a conversation because there 333 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 1: was like a challenge um uh promo and like Kim 334 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: Kardashian wasn't it randomly? And it was just so random. 335 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,439 Speaker 1: It was just a bunch of people from the franchise, 336 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 1: like the batch of the Challenge in real World, which 337 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 1: is still going. They're still doing challenges everybody, and and 338 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian was in the promo being like saying one 339 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: of the lions and the promo and I was like, 340 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 1: this is the most random collab and then here for it, 341 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: but I'm always here for it. And I started remembering 342 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 1: all the players like CT, and then I posted something 343 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: about CT and literally my dams were blowing up of 344 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 1: women just thirsting over this guy that was in the 345 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: real world. And then there was this girl, Bryn. She 346 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: was on a season, she was from Portland, and so 347 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 1: many people from our generation, like millennials that watched the show. 348 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: This was our like induction to reality TV. Yeah, jen 349 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: Zeers don't know what they missed, like and that was 350 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 1: before like a lot of I'm sure editing took place 351 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: and all right, just like it was real well they 352 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 1: say where real people? Yeah, but they lost out on 353 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: like somebody saw Bryn one of like a favorite like 354 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: um waitress saying you know now and and we were saying, 355 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: like they didn't get to enjoy the perks of reality 356 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: TV starts today. Oh it wasn't like you're gonna leave 357 00:18:57,840 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: and you know, maybe you'll get a show or maybe 358 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 1: a pot or maybe a partnership. It was like, no, 359 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: you're back to being a normal person. Yeah, like you 360 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 1: probably get paid for just that stint. I mean, and 361 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 1: I feel like it didn't really take or go to 362 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 1: the challenge. Yeah, like the next thing, like you make 363 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 1: it far enough here, you go to the next show. 364 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like it didn't really take off 365 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,959 Speaker 1: until social media became such a thing with like brand 366 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 1: deals and collabs and now, I mean, there's just so 367 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: much that people don't even realize what it was like 368 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 1: before that. But oh man, anyways, I want to get 369 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 1: into you and how you really got started because you 370 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 1: just mentioned Kim Kardashian and I want to talk about 371 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: the evolution of Amanda into Commanda, because because your followers 372 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: are so loyal and they lost their minds when you 373 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 1: were invited to cover the Hulu premier, So how did 374 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: you get involved in that in the first ones? Like 375 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: who invited you to cover that? Like give me the 376 00:19:53,720 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: whole backstory to this. Well, I you know, I'm yeah, 377 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 1: became Commanda. It was like I was covering the Bachelor 378 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 1: Kardashians summer House, like just you know, fun recapping reality 379 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 1: to be like you know, and I've always loved the Kardashians, 380 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 1: always watched and I think, you know, I did commentary 381 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: on them, and I started noticing I think I started 382 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: noticing that like their friends kind of follow me or 383 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 1: kind of talk to me. And I didn't even allow 384 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: myself to go far in my head like, oh, that 385 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,199 Speaker 1: means maybe they do. But but I think slowly I 386 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:38,639 Speaker 1: started realizing that, like, well, maybe they do know about me, 387 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: because like their friends kind of do, and their friends 388 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: say like, you know, we love your cant like all 389 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: these little things. And then I started getting their pr packages, 390 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:50,959 Speaker 1: which is obviously exciting, Like everything that happened was super 391 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: exciting on its own. It's like, of course I'm in 392 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: a fucking geek out when I get you know, a poosh, 393 00:20:56,200 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: you know, fucking the whole thing. Or but again, I 394 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: never even allowed myself to like think as far as 395 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: them coming on the podcast or you know, caring about 396 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: me at all. Um. But then so so a huge fan. 397 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 1: And then I think the first time was, um, I 398 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 1: never like responded to their stories or anything just because, um, 399 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: you know, you just assume like they're not gonna see it. 400 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 1: They're not gonna see it, so I'm not gonna like 401 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:30,120 Speaker 1: be a huge fucking nerd. So I the first time 402 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 1: I responded to Courtney Kardashian's story, it was because she 403 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: posted that she went on Addison Raised podcast, and I 404 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,399 Speaker 1: was like, oh, she's doing podcasts, Like it was just 405 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: a quick thought, like and I just responded without thinking, 406 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: like you should come on my podcast. And then she 407 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 1: responded almost immediately and I was actually in the middle 408 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,880 Speaker 1: of recording my own podcast, and she responded like, oh 409 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: my god, like shoud I this was Courtney Courtney okay, 410 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh god, And I was like 411 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: recording a podcast live. He going with that, but I 412 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: would be like I gotta go buy no, no I did. 413 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 1: I was like, there was a really funny girl that 414 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: was on my podcast, and I like, I was like, listen, 415 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,360 Speaker 1: we need to like just talk about something that's happening 416 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 1: right now. And she like helped me formulate a response, 417 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 1: you know when like your friends help you with like 418 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 1: a guy. Yes, it was the same thing. I was 419 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 1: like okay, and she's like and I ended up beck. 420 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: If I look at it back, I'll probably cringe because 421 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 1: it was so not me. Because I listened to her. 422 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 1: It was like too proper. It was too like just trying. 423 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 1: But whatever. It's like, you know what. I wasn't going 424 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,919 Speaker 1: to leave her unseen, so I had to pull it 425 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 1: together a real quack. Can you imagine putting Corny Kardashian unseen, right, 426 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: you don't do that. You fucking answer whatever you need 427 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 1: to answer. So that's kind of and then we like 428 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: went back and forth, and then I kind of realized 429 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 1: from there that she knows about me and my coverage 430 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 1: of them, and and that's kind of how it started. 431 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 1: And then a little bit after that, Kim started following me, 432 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,400 Speaker 1: which I thought was like, I was like, why would 433 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: you like, I remember just thinking like, she doesn't need too, like, 434 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: why would you like, that's an accident, No, that's literally 435 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: back I was every day. I was like, today today 436 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: she's going to realize she's made a huge mistake and 437 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 1: you know, keep going with her life. Um but literally 438 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 1: would see her, you know how it shows you like 439 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: the verified person or the person that like you follow 440 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: back in like the circle on the bottom. So I'd 441 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: see her face and I'd be like, it's like your 442 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: mom watching, but you just I just had to keep 443 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 1: doing what I do. I couldn't say, Okay, now I'm 444 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 1: not gonna talk about them negatively ever, or you know, 445 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,919 Speaker 1: poke fun or whatever, even though it does get a 446 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 1: little hard, but um but I was never mean before. 447 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:52,439 Speaker 1: It was always like little snarky things. Um, and then 448 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: it just became kind of yeah and then for the oh, 449 00:23:56,200 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 1: for the for the event. So oh okay. So in February, 450 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:05,239 Speaker 1: I'm sitting in a nail salon and um, you know 451 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: board because it takes so fucking long to get a pedicure. Um, 452 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: and I see an email like from my website, like forgot. 453 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 1: I even had a website Forgot. I had like a 454 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:21,239 Speaker 1: contact body there, and it was like from Hulu being like, oh, 455 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 1: the Kardashians is premiering in April, um, would you be 456 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: interested in having Kim Kardashian on your podcast? And I 457 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 1: was like, what kind of troll does? Who was doing this? 458 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: That's what I thought. I was like, this trolling has 459 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 1: gotten like tell me to die, you know, tell but 460 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: this like this whole level yeah, so I so so 461 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 1: I like, I was like, this is a joke. And 462 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,440 Speaker 1: I looked up the name of the woman and saw 463 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 1: her LinkedIn saw she looked to Hulu had a fucking 464 00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 1: died and uh, how are you acting in this pedicure? 465 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 1: Like are you able to sit steal him, have this finish? 466 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: I feel like I would have been I would have 467 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 1: been like, I gotta go give me my feedback. I 468 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,439 Speaker 1: don't care if they're not paying. I don't know, Becca, 469 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 1: I really don't know. I think I was just like 470 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 1: like looking like who I can tell, but like literally anyone. 471 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 1: I couldn't know anyone. Um And I think it was 472 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 1: just like you know, looking at like trying to really 473 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 1: grasp this and then say, oh my fucking god. And 474 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,879 Speaker 1: again the thoughts running through my head are like why, 475 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 1: like she doesn't need this, she doesn't need to do 476 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 1: a podcast like, um, so it was, yeah, that's rare 477 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: because they typically don't do podcasts. And so, so you 478 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: had Kim on first and then Chloe after that. Correct, 479 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: So I had Kim on and then literally got it 480 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: from Oh so the week I had Kim like simultaneously. Okay, 481 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: So the week I had Kim, right before I'm about 482 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: to fly out to LA, my agent calls me and 483 00:25:56,440 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 1: is like, um and as, oh no, so the day 484 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: so that that day, a day, a few days before 485 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: I flew to LA, all of a sudden, Kim that 486 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,880 Speaker 1: day leaked by accident the premiere info and like people 487 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:14,880 Speaker 1: were talking about it and I was like, excuse me, 488 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 1: I'm like in La that day, like we're having a 489 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 1: podcast a day after, like, why'men uninvited? Not in like 490 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 1: not in any like in a joking way. I was 491 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 1: kind of like I shouldn't be invited, Like what the hell? 492 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: Like totally kidding to myself and to like my family. 493 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 1: I even tried to hint at her, one of the 494 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 1: women who works with Kim that I like communicate with. 495 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,640 Speaker 1: I even texted her trying to hint, being like when 496 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,919 Speaker 1: is the premiere again? And she was like the seventeenth, 497 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,400 Speaker 1: And I was like, cool, I'll be there. No, Like no, 498 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: I thought you'd be like, oh, he's totally come, so 499 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,439 Speaker 1: radio silence. And then that night my agents called me 500 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 1: and were like, not only are you going, like they 501 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: want you to host the carpet and interview the entire family. 502 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 1: And it was the night before or my interview with Kim. 503 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: So it's like it was a lot because I you know, 504 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 1: when you have something important, you want to just focus 505 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: on that. But then it's like, no, the day before 506 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: is like pretty wild too, So um, it was. It 507 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 1: was an experience for sure. How do you even in 508 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: prep for that for the red carpet? Yes, like have 509 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: you had like was this your first one? You'd ever done. 510 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 1: It was my first one. No, I did a little 511 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: fashion week thing for E, but that was my first one. 512 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 1: It was totally thrown into it, like I didn't even 513 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 1: know that, Like when you talk, you have to like 514 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,160 Speaker 1: put it here and right. It's like you have tony 515 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,440 Speaker 1: little things, so many little things to think about. Um. 516 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: But but you know what Becca, like, when you get 517 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 1: these opportunities, you're not like why. I mean like sometimes 518 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: you're like I fucking deserve it them like if I'm 519 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: getting it, and they were actively reaching out to you 520 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 1: to get right, which that's something which says a lot. 521 00:27:55,440 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 1: And and you know, I somehow go into these moment 522 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: moments like just with a blank, like not poker face, 523 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 1: but poker because if I allowed myself to realize what 524 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 1: it is in the moment, I would have a panic attack. 525 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 1: I would like shit my brains out. So I have 526 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,359 Speaker 1: to be like I deserve to be here. I know 527 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:20,400 Speaker 1: what I'm doing. Boom, Like they're normal people. You could 528 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,640 Speaker 1: just be you. They like you for who you are. 529 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 1: So so it's a very Kardashian week because I had 530 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,439 Speaker 1: that and the Hulu thing, and then I'm doing a 531 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: show with E about the Kardashian, So it was like 532 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:35,239 Speaker 1: it was a very Kardashian week. I think that's how 533 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: commander came about, because it was like, how are you 534 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 1: not transforming? How are you part of this family already? 535 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,239 Speaker 1: How am I not part of it? And then a 536 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 1: couple of days after I got back from the Kim interview, 537 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: we were talking about how how good it was, like 538 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 1: me and her team, and they were like, so Chloe next, 539 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 1: and I was like and they're like no, really, so 540 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: what when can you do it? And I'm like, what, 541 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: So if you told me, they can do it right? 542 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: And where I'll come to the moon, I'll come to wherever. 543 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 1: So it's, um, it's a wild it's a wild thing, 544 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: and it just makes me want to do it more, 545 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 1: like you know interview. Well, yeah, I'm sure. It's like 546 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: similar to this is probably a very bad analogy, be 547 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: like similar to tattoo, where it's like you're a little 548 00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 1: nervous at first, you don't quite know how it's going 549 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: to go, but then once you get the taste for it, 550 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, let's keep it coming, let's keep it coming. Yeah, 551 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: And well, and that's like the top of the top 552 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: of who you would want to interview. It's like, yeah, 553 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 1: and thank god they have a thousand members of the 554 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: families you can just sling through them. I want to know, 555 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 1: are there any questions that when you were with them, 556 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 1: but you didn't get the chance to ask them? If 557 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 1: they were to come on again, what would you ask 558 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 1: them next time? I actually got to ask them everything 559 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: that I wanted. But listen, I'm always about them, like 560 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: the little nuanced fan question, you know, like we want 561 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 1: to know, Like I regret not asking while I asked 562 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 1: Chloe how she drinks her coffee, but I didn't get 563 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 1: to ask him. But it's like those little things you 564 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 1: know that that fans want to know, Like we know 565 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: all the headlines, we know the Kanye of it all, 566 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: we know trists and cheated and those things are like 567 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 1: important and you want to talk about them. But I 568 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 1: just love getting like the nitty gritty little yeah, the 569 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: little I like. So this reminds me. I'm sure you've 570 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: seen it in magazines. They have the I love how 571 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 1: you talked in the magazines. Oh my Minnesota accent comes out. 572 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: I love us so bad. But there's like the sections 573 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 1: where it you know, it's like the celebrities, they're just 574 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: like us, and it's pictures of them like walking their 575 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 1: dog or like stepping into a porta potty or picking 576 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 1: up a coffee, And I it's always so funny to 577 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: me because I'm like, of course, they're just like us, 578 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 1: like we're all humans. But then I always wonder, you know, 579 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 1: like little things like what I were watching the Kardashians, 580 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: and I feel like they're always eating salad, So I 581 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: always think, do they only eat salads for the most part, 582 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: Like what else when the cameras aren't rolling, what do 583 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: you eat? Like what's your what are you indulge in? 584 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 1: Like little things like that that it's like probably no 585 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: one gives two shits about, but like I'm curious, but 586 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 1: that's the thing that people really really care. Like when 587 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: Chloe told me that her Starbucks coffee order is like 588 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: a seven pump Chai latte, I was pretty shocked because 589 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: I thought that's like a lot of sugar, yeah, kind 590 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 1: of like I was like, Chloe, like, that's a lot 591 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 1: of like shame of your life on the edge. Yeah, 592 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 1: So I think people love to know that stuff. And 593 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 1: to me, it's like I always say this when people 594 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 1: are like, oh, you know celebrities. You know, they're not 595 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: even the ones on Instagram. It's their assistance or their 596 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 1: social media are like they're not looking or they're not posting. 597 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: It's like, you guys, best be sure these bitches are 598 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 1: on fucking Instagram all day. Now. That's what I really 599 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 1: I feel like learned from this industry. It's like everyone's 600 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 1: life like me. They're on their phones. They care what 601 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 1: people are saying, whether it's about them or about other 602 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 1: stuff they care about. They care about shit, they're watching 603 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: The Bachelor, you know, they're it's like they're not like unicorns. 604 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 1: And you know what, they're probably on their phones more 605 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 1: than we're on our phones when we're saving. Not more 606 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 1: than me because I am a lot, but they're in 607 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: cars and on flights and on all this shit. So 608 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 1: people always think like, oh, they're not going to see 609 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:26,120 Speaker 1: it or you know, and they're very very and especially 610 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 1: the Kardashians, they're they're they want to be very on 611 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 1: the like on the head of what's going on, of 612 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 1: what's being said about them. They there, it's they have 613 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 1: a whole Like I feel like they're just very good 614 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 1: like social media and marketing and stuff. But but yeah, listen, 615 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 1: they have pj's and they have all that stuff, and 616 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 1: they've never taken an uber but they you know, eat 617 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: salads and they have. I was shocked with Chloe. We 618 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 1: had like a pop socket on her phone. It was 619 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: like a chipping pop socket scream. Yeah, So I was like, Wow, 620 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 1: you're so down to earth. I will say, and this 621 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 1: is not to take away and make this about me, 622 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 1: but I will say I met Kendall and Chris when 623 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 1: it was right after I was announced as bacherette, so 624 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: back in twenty eighteen, you know, five years ago, and 625 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,479 Speaker 1: I met them because Kendall was on Ellen and I 626 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 1: was going in to do an interview. So I'm walking 627 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 1: in as Chris and Kendall are walking out and Chris 628 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: gave me a hug and he's like, this was right 629 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 1: after the public breakup that was on the show for 630 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 1: the finale, and she gave me a hug, and she's like, 631 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: f him, and you're welcome to come to our house 632 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: for dinner anytime, and like, you know who I am. 633 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 1: But they it's like, you know, oh my god, I 634 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: didn't know they watched. Yeah, some of them are fans, 635 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 1: and it's it's so it's crazy. It's like, the more 636 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm in this world, the more I hear about actual 637 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: celebrities and like big people who you know, have done 638 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 1: a lot more than I whatever do in my life. 639 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like it's a good escape. Reality. Teev 640 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 1: is a good escape for anyone, and people like to 641 00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 1: downplay sometimes when I'm like, hey, it brings people together. 642 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 1: Is something common to talk about. It's entertaining. It just 643 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 1: brings us all that down to reality. I want to know. 644 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: So you just mentioned a little bit ago you're always 645 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 1: on your phone. What is a typical day in the 646 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 1: life for you. What does that look like? Well, I 647 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:20,439 Speaker 1: have a baby, and it's adorable, by the way, Oh 648 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: my god, thanks, you're so precious. I eat him up 649 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 1: all day. And so it's mainly like him and doing 650 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,799 Speaker 1: my shit and him and doing my shit and them simultaneously. 651 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 1: It's it's fun because most of the stuff I get 652 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 1: to do from home, you know, And I'm really lucky 653 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,399 Speaker 1: in that because I get to hang out with him 654 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 1: so much. But yeah, it's basically between him and making 655 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 1: sure that I'm on top of everything that's going on. 656 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 1: Even though listen, we're human, we're not always able to be, 657 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 1: you know, and most of what I do is like 658 00:34:55,160 --> 00:35:00,200 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm the first person, you know, the 659 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 1: front lines capturing the footage. You know, I'm not TMZ 660 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: and I don't want to be. I'm just the way 661 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,279 Speaker 1: this whole thing kind of started is like, I'm just 662 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 1: really passionate about it, and I like commenting on it 663 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,399 Speaker 1: and I like talking about it. But this is not 664 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 1: like you guys, well, hear it here first, and you 665 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 1: know if so, it's kind of um, that's kind of 666 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 1: fluid for you, Like if something comes up and you 667 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 1: can cover it and talk about it. I kind of 668 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,240 Speaker 1: like that, though you don't make it your entire world 669 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 1: and identity. Yeah, it is such a huge part of 670 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 1: me that it's real. It's not like, oh, I have 671 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 1: to like, you know, know what's going on. It's more like, 672 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 1: if before I started this, I would freak out about, 673 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 1: you know, something that's happening in pop culture to my sister, 674 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,360 Speaker 1: to my husband. I'd be like Courtney got a haircut. 675 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,799 Speaker 1: You know. It's like, now I have a bunch of 676 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 1: people that also care about this shit to freak out 677 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 1: to about, and we all kind of, you know, love 678 00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 1: the nitty gritty stuff. So yeah, it's it's more like 679 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,759 Speaker 1: a fun, fluid thing. Sometimes it's very all over the 680 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: place because it's just like stuff that comes up for me, 681 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:09,920 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'm like, let's just talk 682 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,479 Speaker 1: about Harry styles and you know the moves he makes 683 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:14,800 Speaker 1: on stage or you know this show that I'm watching 684 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 1: right now or or whatever. But well, that's really fun. 685 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,320 Speaker 1: That's why I would say you're so fun to follow, 686 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 1: because it's fluid and it is you, and it's not 687 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 1: like you feel the need to bang out a certain 688 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: amount of content or posts or stories or whatever it 689 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 1: might be over things that you don't care about or 690 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 1: that's not newsworthy to you. Did you would you say 691 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 1: you got you like really kicked off during COVID or 692 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 1: when did you feel like, okay, like I'm kind of 693 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,719 Speaker 1: making it in this world. I think it's hard to 694 00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 1: even say that now. It's such a scary thing to say, 695 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,840 Speaker 1: you know, I think that No, I'm not I'm not 696 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,879 Speaker 1: a COVID. Well, the thing is, I started in two 697 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:57,880 Speaker 1: thousand and sixteen, so a while, it's been like six 698 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: six years. Um, you know, not like a TikToker that 699 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 1: like gained fifteen million followers overnight, you know what I mean. 700 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 1: I've been hustling at this for like a really long time. 701 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:11,719 Speaker 1: But I will say, if I had to really think 702 00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 1: about it, that maybe during COVID people were more bored 703 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 1: and looking for more, you know, outlets to like to 704 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: to to get some escapism. And maybe I think there 705 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 1: were some scandals too. I think it was like there 706 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 1: was Hilaria Baldwin pretending to be Spanish, and then there 707 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 1: was Armie Hammer being a cannibal, and I think I 708 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:37,520 Speaker 1: think definitely there were peaks at that time. But I've 709 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,120 Speaker 1: been doing what I do consistently for the past six 710 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: years and with the same kind of like love for it, 711 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 1: the same dedication, the same motivation when I wasn't making 712 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 1: a dollar. Like it's just wild to think about it, 713 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 1: so it's hard to say I made it. I don't. 714 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 1: I'm like going with the flow, you know, I'm like 715 00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: enjoying the opportunities that come, and I'm enjoying the fact that, 716 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,759 Speaker 1: like I said, I get to do this and be 717 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 1: with my son and be who I am, because that 718 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 1: was that was like my main thing when I got pregnant, 719 00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:11,960 Speaker 1: was like I'm still gonna be this dumb bitch, you 720 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 1: know what I mean. I'm not changing because I had 721 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 1: a baby. I'm not changing because I had a baby, 722 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,399 Speaker 1: and you can say that, but I didn't know how 723 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,080 Speaker 1: it would look, and it was like the way it 724 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,440 Speaker 1: looks is exactly how I pictured it, you know what 725 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 1: I mean. I'm able to give him everything, all the love, 726 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,960 Speaker 1: all the smushing all day, but I'm able to fucking 727 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,359 Speaker 1: doing what I need to do. Yeah, what I wanted 728 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 1: to still have fun on the side. Well, you really 729 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 1: have turned it into a business and then you've just 730 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 1: taken off and not only like have you become like 731 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,640 Speaker 1: an ig and podcast destination for people, but you've you've 732 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 1: done it in a successful way that not many people 733 00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 1: can do. What's the best professional advice anyone has ever 734 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 1: given you? Oh? I think the other day this is 735 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 1: kind of life advice. And I really liked this advice 736 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 1: is that you don't have to be one hundred percent 737 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 1: sure about a decision. You only need to be about 738 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:16,439 Speaker 1: fifty one percent. And I love that. Isn't that so good? 739 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:22,200 Speaker 1: Because I'm such an overthinker and like I overanalyze every 740 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,280 Speaker 1: single thing and like it has to be one hundred 741 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 1: percent or it is not right. And I feel like 742 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: that piece of advice and I think I even posted 743 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 1: and so many people connected with it because people are 744 00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,120 Speaker 1: dealing with like real life shit all the time, like 745 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 1: big moves and job promotions and having a kid not 746 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,880 Speaker 1: having a kid, and even when people ask me about Noah, 747 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,000 Speaker 1: my son and why I and like when I know 748 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,239 Speaker 1: I was ready, it's like exactly that, no one's gonna 749 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 1: tell you I was thousand percent. Read like no, like 750 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,240 Speaker 1: you were a little bit more ready than not ready, 751 00:39:55,400 --> 00:40:00,120 Speaker 1: which is like the fifty one percent for example. But 752 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,759 Speaker 1: but that and the other piece of professional advice I'll 753 00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,880 Speaker 1: give is like, if you really really love something and 754 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:12,600 Speaker 1: you are dedicated to it and like to the extent 755 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,520 Speaker 1: of being all in on it, and you love it 756 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 1: and you do what you do with passion, like you 757 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:21,480 Speaker 1: will succeed. I don't see, you know, and a way 758 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,880 Speaker 1: that that isn't isn't true. I just feel like that's 759 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:30,440 Speaker 1: find what you really love, work hard at it. I 760 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,920 Speaker 1: sound like Kim Kardashian and her like nobody wants to 761 00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: work through things, show up and do the work. Yeah, 762 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,360 Speaker 1: nobody wants to work these days. It's so weird and 763 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: I know it's easier said than done because I was 764 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: working odd jobs for years like that didn't represent me, 765 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,880 Speaker 1: that I didn't feel like we're me, that I didn't 766 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,200 Speaker 1: I didn't give a fuck about because I was like 767 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,879 Speaker 1: not trying to be there, you know what I mean. 768 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,399 Speaker 1: So also like, don't stress if you're twenty five, if 769 00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: you're thirty, if you're thirty five and you're doing something 770 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 1: that you don't think is you, it's okay, you'll find it. 771 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 1: Keep on moving. Yeah, as long as you have the 772 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: drive to find out what fuels you. And even when 773 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:11,840 Speaker 1: you say, like if you find something that you're one 774 00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: hundred percent so passionate about and you find join that, 775 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:17,480 Speaker 1: like you're already winning, whether you consider that a career 776 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 1: or a hobby whatever. Exactly exactly when I started this, 777 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 1: it was a hobby and I was totally content with 778 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:27,200 Speaker 1: it being that. And I always said, like to my family, 779 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,839 Speaker 1: my husband, my sister's like something good can come out 780 00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:35,359 Speaker 1: of it, So like you never know, and and that's 781 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: really cool. I want to ask you this because I'm 782 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,560 Speaker 1: sure I can imagine you've probably heard something similar, but 783 00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:45,080 Speaker 1: like just for me coming off of the show, and 784 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 1: you know, being in the world of reality TV and 785 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 1: then coming on the podcast, and I don't have a 786 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,600 Speaker 1: typical nine to five job, like before I before all 787 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,400 Speaker 1: that I worked in an office nine to five. I 788 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,399 Speaker 1: put in my forty hours of work. And now people 789 00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 1: don't quite understand, like, oh, well, you don't work because 790 00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:01,840 Speaker 1: you're not in the office nine to five and putting 791 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,759 Speaker 1: in forty hours. What do you say to people who 792 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,040 Speaker 1: put down what you're doing because in your mind it 793 00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,239 Speaker 1: is a career for you. Now it came off of 794 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,279 Speaker 1: a hobby, but like, this is your livelihood, this is 795 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 1: how you make money, and you enjoy it. So what 796 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: do you have to say for those people who hate 797 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 1: on you not going into office working nine to five 798 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:26,879 Speaker 1: and like having this traditional role. Yeah, it's funny because 799 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 1: I think I will be the first to admit I'm 800 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 1: a very self aware person. Like as much as I'll 801 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,440 Speaker 1: say yes, it's just job, and yes it's twenty four 802 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:38,280 Speaker 1: fucking seven sometimes more than an office job, I also 803 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 1: will say it's much more fun than an office job, 804 00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 1: and it is not brain surgery, and it's not hard 805 00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,279 Speaker 1: in the same ways that other jobs are hard. But 806 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 1: some I totally will be like, I get you like 807 00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,399 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to say I didn't fucking hate going 808 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,879 Speaker 1: into in office, Like I think there's also like there's 809 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,520 Speaker 1: a spectrum of people that like, don't I'm going to 810 00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 1: the office fucking hate it, fucking hate it, like and 811 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,399 Speaker 1: there was me that I was on a hundred of 812 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:10,000 Speaker 1: like hate it going the office. Always wanted to leave early, 813 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,520 Speaker 1: like was smoking cigarettes to have a break, Like I 814 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 1: was not an office gallon. It's like I knew that's 815 00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 1: not where I should be. But I will say that, 816 00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 1: like every job is different, and of course this has 817 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 1: a lot of fun perks to it, but I also 818 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,279 Speaker 1: work my ass off. But like my mom just satur Day, 819 00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:33,640 Speaker 1: my mom was like, oh my god, like you're so 820 00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:35,840 Speaker 1: busy and you're being so torn and I don't know 821 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,279 Speaker 1: how you're doing. She was like gonna cry. And I 822 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 1: was literally like, Mom, like relax. So I like she's 823 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,279 Speaker 1: taking it to the other extreme where I'll be like, yes, 824 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 1: I'm super busy, I have so much to do and 825 00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,319 Speaker 1: I have a baby and blah blah blah, but this 826 00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,640 Speaker 1: is fun shit and I love it and I'm so 827 00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:54,000 Speaker 1: hashtag blass, hashtag grateful to do it. So I can 828 00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:56,399 Speaker 1: understand that people saying that but also say like there 829 00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,400 Speaker 1: is the other side to it, that it is hard, 830 00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,440 Speaker 1: that it takes a lot out of you, that you 831 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 1: don't really feel like you have days off, and that 832 00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:08,160 Speaker 1: it's a different kind of job for sure, right right. 833 00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,879 Speaker 1: I feel like your mom sounds exactly like my mom, 834 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 1: where she's always like, take a break, go easy on yourself, 835 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,360 Speaker 1: and it's like, my I'm good, thank you. Though I 836 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 1: appreciate the concern, but I'm good and I like what 837 00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,920 Speaker 1: I do, so it's not like I'm drowning over here. Yeah, 838 00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:24,320 Speaker 1: she's like, can't you just take a break. Yeah, we 839 00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:25,960 Speaker 1: gotta get our moms together. I feel like they would 840 00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 1: be two pieces in a pod. What advice do you 841 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:32,520 Speaker 1: have for listeners who potentially want to follow in your 842 00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:36,480 Speaker 1: footsteps and do something similar and build their own small following, 843 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 1: whether that's through Instagram or some other platform. I think 844 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,600 Speaker 1: that it's that again. I think it's the same advice 845 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 1: like if you love if you're doing it because you're like, wow, 846 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 1: hashtag influence her life looks really cool, then you're not 847 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,880 Speaker 1: gonna make it in my opinion. But if you're like 848 00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:01,440 Speaker 1: I'm really passionate about you know, writing fun memes or 849 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:05,760 Speaker 1: about following a certain Bravo show and recapping it, and 850 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 1: I think I could do it really well, and you 851 00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 1: know I would do it anyway, but I want to 852 00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,239 Speaker 1: do on a bigger platform than do it. If you're 853 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,400 Speaker 1: going into it because you're like, oh, I want to 854 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 1: like get pr boxes, then that's not because I'll be 855 00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 1: the Like when I started it, it was like I 856 00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:23,920 Speaker 1: started with a meme account. I was writing funny things 857 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: that made me feel better because I was really depressed 858 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,439 Speaker 1: at that time, and it was before stories. Nobody knew 859 00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 1: who I was, and it kind of evolved in today 860 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:36,360 Speaker 1: I understand, like in this weird, fucked up way that 861 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 1: this is kind of what I always wanted to do, 862 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,560 Speaker 1: because I always did want to be in the entertainment industry. 863 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 1: My dream was to be on like fucking E news, 864 00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 1: and I got to it in this weird, roundabout way. 865 00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,840 Speaker 1: So I'm not saying if your dream is to be 866 00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:51,400 Speaker 1: famous a singer and actor or a dancer, you can't 867 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,879 Speaker 1: have those dreams, that they're far fetched. I'm saying if 868 00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 1: it's like, if it's just you know that you want 869 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,279 Speaker 1: to be famous and you don't know, why are you 870 00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: for the purpose, or you want to just have followers, 871 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,719 Speaker 1: like so many people they just like want followers, you know, 872 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: and it's such as there's a lot more to that, 873 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,160 Speaker 1: And especially in this world where it's it's really not 874 00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:14,879 Speaker 1: only like numbers and how many people follow you and 875 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,400 Speaker 1: what it's it's people that do it. I feel like, 876 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,480 Speaker 1: really think about it as more than that, you know, 877 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:23,120 Speaker 1: and if if if you like really build a community 878 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,839 Speaker 1: and stuff. So if you want to do it, do it. 879 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,080 Speaker 1: But do something that you really love, have a passion for, 880 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 1: and feel like you can add to because it definitely 881 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:36,160 Speaker 1: is a saturated Oh yeah, yeah, Mark, Yes, yeah, yeah, 882 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,240 Speaker 1: Oh gosh. Yeah. It's so funny because I think back 883 00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,560 Speaker 1: to like even when I first went on the show 884 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: and I had started with like four hundred and thirty 885 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,800 Speaker 1: eight Instagram followers, you know, it was just like friends 886 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 1: and people back in Minnesota, and now it's just you know, 887 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,959 Speaker 1: since then, it's skyrocketed. But for me, it's like I'm 888 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:56,600 Speaker 1: not like your typical influencer where I'm like taking pictures 889 00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,640 Speaker 1: in all my clothes and knowing how to pose, Like 890 00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,000 Speaker 1: I feel so awkward when I do that and I 891 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,040 Speaker 1: see all these other accounts I'm like, oh, like she's 892 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,120 Speaker 1: crushing it, she's killing it. But like that is so 893 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:09,000 Speaker 1: not me, and so yeah, you really have to like 894 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,680 Speaker 1: if that's the case, I totally agree and understand why 895 00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 1: you're saying that. Is like to have know the why 896 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,680 Speaker 1: behind it too for sure. Well for yourself, Becca, you 897 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 1: don't have to be like any other bitch. You know. 898 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 1: That's why I only have pictures of my dogs on 899 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:26,000 Speaker 1: it Instagram for the most part. That's me. That's what 900 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 1: makes me happy. You know. I gotta get money to 901 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:32,640 Speaker 1: pay for them for their life. Okay, before we get 902 00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 1: into our game, because we always play our games here 903 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,640 Speaker 1: with our guests, I want to take it back to 904 00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,719 Speaker 1: The Bachelor a little bit just for our happy our listeners. 905 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,680 Speaker 1: So we want to get your take on the current 906 00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,880 Speaker 1: state of affairs in Batchel Nation. So I you know 907 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,640 Speaker 1: that the next season has two Batchel rets cracked. It's 908 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:53,279 Speaker 1: like the dual season with the girls. Okay, what are 909 00:47:53,280 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 1: your thoughts on that? TBH? Was kind of disappointed, just 910 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:06,080 Speaker 1: because like it makes me feel like if I was 911 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 1: in that position, I wouldn't understand why they don't think 912 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,759 Speaker 1: that I can hold it on my own. So I 913 00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: hope that the way that it is kind of like 914 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,560 Speaker 1: makes sense, Like we don't know what it's going to 915 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:20,399 Speaker 1: look like. So didn't love, didn't love the little change up. 916 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 1: But we'll keep my you know, fingers crossed that it'll 917 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,960 Speaker 1: be a fun little twist. Okay, So since you started 918 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:34,319 Speaker 1: watching from ben Cy sniff, there is a couple from 919 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:36,320 Speaker 1: Bacher Nation that you would want to go on a 920 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 1: double date with. Who would it be? I feel like 921 00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:45,280 Speaker 1: Jojo and Jordan are so cute. They're so cute together. 922 00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,839 Speaker 1: I shipped them. I feel like she's kind of like 923 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,759 Speaker 1: this like perfect. Maybe I wouldn't want to go because 924 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:54,400 Speaker 1: she's too perfect an She's like always her hair is perfect, 925 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: She's always like perfectly bad. Yeah, so put together, and 926 00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,959 Speaker 1: they have like a gazillion business said, is I feel 927 00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 1: like they're really right? Yeah? Power couple. Yeah I ship? Yeah, 928 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,279 Speaker 1: Oh god, I know, just like looking at their I've 929 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:11,799 Speaker 1: only met her in person, I've never met him, but 930 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:13,600 Speaker 1: just looking at them and their pictures together, I'm like, 931 00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 1: there's too much beauty in this in the spare it's 932 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,520 Speaker 1: not fair shares for the rest of us. Okay, would 933 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:23,480 Speaker 1: you ever let your son when he grows up and 934 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 1: becomes legal, go on a reality TV show or the Boutchelrette. Yeah, 935 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:35,160 Speaker 1: yeah I would. Yeah, I'm not anti those things. Would 936 00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:39,000 Speaker 1: you still recap him and give him shit for it? Probably? 937 00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,680 Speaker 1: I would be like voting for him. They'd be like, 938 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 1: what are we voting for? Um? I believe that. You know, 939 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:52,080 Speaker 1: I paid forty five thousand dollars for college and looking 940 00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,239 Speaker 1: back at a year looking back like, I'm not saying 941 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,160 Speaker 1: it's I regret it because I don't know where I 942 00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,080 Speaker 1: would be without the education, and if I need it, 943 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:01,440 Speaker 1: it was good to fall back on it. But I 944 00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,000 Speaker 1: feel like you don't know what's going to be in 945 00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:06,520 Speaker 1: like ten twenty years, like if we're all going to 946 00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,719 Speaker 1: be going to college and you know, just doing the 947 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,560 Speaker 1: thing that you're supposed to do, or if people are 948 00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 1: gonna have other ways to um, you know, get make 949 00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:18,239 Speaker 1: a profession and a living. So I'm for whatever he 950 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 1: wants to do, but like, let's aim for like soccer player. 951 00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:26,239 Speaker 1: It's looking entertaining. Yeah, provide that can take care of 952 00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:29,920 Speaker 1: you one day? Yeah, I provide, Yeah, exactly. I love that. 953 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:34,640 Speaker 1: Have you ever had anyone from Bachelor on your podcast? Yeah? 954 00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:44,920 Speaker 1: I had Dylan barber Um Blake, Blake, h Jason another 955 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:55,200 Speaker 1: X Jason. I sling through them. Jason, he's such a 956 00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:58,040 Speaker 1: great one. I know they're all, oh yeah, there would 957 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,880 Speaker 1: be another couple. I feel like Jason and and Caitlin 958 00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 1: are another really fun one. Oh yeah, yeah, wow you 959 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:09,400 Speaker 1: had Blake and Jason. I feel like those are like 960 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,040 Speaker 1: the main ones. I mean, Colton was on my season, 961 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,880 Speaker 1: but wow, and he's engaged, I know. I The thing 962 00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,680 Speaker 1: that's the thing with The Bachelor is like, even if 963 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 1: you want to take off a season because you know 964 00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:23,240 Speaker 1: you're over it, it's like, how would I keep up 965 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 1: with all this shit if I wasn't watching? Well, I 966 00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 1: want to know it's it's hard. It's like you gotta. 967 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,319 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like that's what what hooks people 968 00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,319 Speaker 1: to the show. Probably any reality show is like you 969 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,200 Speaker 1: get to know that I don't even want to call 970 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,000 Speaker 1: them characters, but like the cast, and then you get 971 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,160 Speaker 1: to know who they date and age like this full 972 00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 1: on cycle. But if you take some time off, it's like, 973 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,279 Speaker 1: I mean I've taken some time off before sort of 974 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,120 Speaker 1: the podcast, just because I could, and I was like, 975 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 1: I've missing so much. What the hell is going on 976 00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:52,799 Speaker 1: in this world? Right now. Yeah, So do you plan 977 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 1: to watch Paradise this year which is currently filming, and 978 00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,840 Speaker 1: who do you really hope to see hit the sands? 979 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,520 Speaker 1: So that's a problem out of question because I feel 980 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 1: like Clayton season, Um, I wasn't really paying attention, so 981 00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:11,120 Speaker 1: I literally don't remember anyone, but I think from a 982 00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:15,160 Speaker 1: Shell season, if we get like she had her finalists 983 00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 1: were like really sexual. There's Brandon her runner up, Um Rodney, 984 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:26,560 Speaker 1: who I'm obsessed. Brandon was super like whoa, he was 985 00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,560 Speaker 1: like I love you? Yeah, he was brant to it. 986 00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 1: Rodney was too. Yeah. I feel like Michelle season had 987 00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 1: some oh my god, and Katie's season. Are we going 988 00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:38,640 Speaker 1: to see Greg quick Grippo? Well whatever, I don't know. 989 00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:41,160 Speaker 1: I think he has a girlfriend now, oh he does. 990 00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,759 Speaker 1: I think I could be wrong, but I think he's 991 00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:50,919 Speaker 1: dating a Parisian model Okay, okay, And he always hangs 992 00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:54,840 Speaker 1: around with Andre what's his name? Who's his best friend? 993 00:52:55,000 --> 00:53:00,480 Speaker 1: Andrew made him, I made him more exotic apparently, so 994 00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:04,640 Speaker 1: he so he's always with him, Like I've seen them 995 00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,960 Speaker 1: around the city. There are two for one deal. So 996 00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:11,240 Speaker 1: I feel like, sorry to the women in Clayton season. 997 00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,440 Speaker 1: It's hard. I don't remember that, but I feel like 998 00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,200 Speaker 1: Katie and Michelle season have some good guys. So I 999 00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:19,000 Speaker 1: love Paradise. I feel like with The Bachelor, what makes 1000 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 1: me restless is the many, you know, episodes you have 1001 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:25,920 Speaker 1: at the beginning or Bachelor bechel Ede where it's like 1002 00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,719 Speaker 1: all the people and the drama between them, like I'm 1003 00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,000 Speaker 1: here to see the relationships. And I feel like with 1004 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:34,359 Speaker 1: Paradise you dive right into, like you know, right away, 1005 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,600 Speaker 1: right away and there and there's always more. That's what's 1006 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:41,440 Speaker 1: great is there's multiple storylines going on, multiple relationships happening, 1007 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,040 Speaker 1: which like for me as a viewer, it's much more 1008 00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 1: fun to watch, much more huentertaining. And then it just 1009 00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:48,920 Speaker 1: gets messy too with so many people. Oh my god, 1010 00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,120 Speaker 1: we love it. We love the sweating, we love the 1011 00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 1: mess in as. Oh gosh, Paradise. I it's so hot. 1012 00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,120 Speaker 1: But I will say anyone going is so lucky because 1013 00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:01,080 Speaker 1: the food there is the best. I would go. I 1014 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:02,920 Speaker 1: told Timas I'd break up with him for two months 1015 00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:04,840 Speaker 1: just or a month just to go down to Paradise 1016 00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,960 Speaker 1: to eat. Yeah. The food there's InCred Like I'm the 1017 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:11,719 Speaker 1: resort that you're at. Yeah. Wow, is little. That's that's 1018 00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:15,400 Speaker 1: the tea. It's so good. Um okay, Amanda. Before we 1019 00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,640 Speaker 1: get into this game, I have a two part final 1020 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:21,480 Speaker 1: question for you. Number one, what is next? If there's 1021 00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:23,560 Speaker 1: any future plans that you can share with our listeners? 1022 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:28,240 Speaker 1: And then two also where can everyone go to find you? Well, 1023 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:33,640 Speaker 1: no exciting future plans yet, going with the flow and 1024 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:38,359 Speaker 1: and and just doing my normal shit. And um, my 1025 00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:42,000 Speaker 1: instagram is on skinny ben Off fat and it's a 1026 00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:44,200 Speaker 1: name that has really nothing to do with the content. 1027 00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:48,640 Speaker 1: And so is my podcast. All right, well you heard 1028 00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 1: it from her. Check out her instagram and her podcast. 1029 00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,680 Speaker 1: You won't want to miss it. It's so entertaining. And 1030 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,799 Speaker 1: to end up, like I said, we love our games. 1031 00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,520 Speaker 1: Here at about your happy hour, we I was playing 1032 00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,279 Speaker 1: with our guests. So this is a very easy one. 1033 00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,920 Speaker 1: It's basically rapid fire. We're gonna ask you a question 1034 00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:04,040 Speaker 1: and you just give me the first thing that comes 1035 00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:07,240 Speaker 1: to mind. Super easy, okay, So we'll start out fun. 1036 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 1: What is your signature? Go to drink um the uh 1037 00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:18,120 Speaker 1: um um that what's it called? The shaken ice? Spread? 1038 00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:24,400 Speaker 1: Oh dirt? No? Oh okay um alcohol? Just because I 1039 00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:26,920 Speaker 1: want a coffee, I was thinking of coffee. Alcohol. Is 1040 00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:30,320 Speaker 1: a skinny margarita okay? Or a white wine? I love it. 1041 00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:34,239 Speaker 1: What's the last TV show that you binged? Hacks? It's 1042 00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:36,279 Speaker 1: so good you guys and HBO Max. You have to 1043 00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:43,560 Speaker 1: watch it. I'm obsessed. What song always gets you pumped up? Oh? Um? 1044 00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:48,040 Speaker 1: You know this song? It was popular on like two 1045 00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:52,280 Speaker 1: thousand and ten. It's by strow May and it's French 1046 00:55:52,920 --> 00:56:01,319 Speaker 1: and it goes alone. How would you guys look it up? 1047 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,719 Speaker 1: I was just gonna pull up my phone to try 1048 00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:07,400 Speaker 1: to choose, yam you but yeah, no, so look it up. 1049 00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:11,000 Speaker 1: Strow May a Laura's dance. I think it's called and 1050 00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:14,080 Speaker 1: it's such a like you have one drink, you're ready 1051 00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:18,319 Speaker 1: to go stromm Yeah, okay, yeah, I'll check it out. 1052 00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure I've heard it just right at the club. 1053 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 1: You've heard it? Okay? I think I would know this 1054 00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:26,000 Speaker 1: one after talking to you. But what's your favorite curse word? 1055 00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 1: What I say funk a lot? Yeah, but I didn't choose, 1056 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:33,600 Speaker 1: so it's okay. But is that your favorite? Yeah? Yeah? 1057 00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:36,560 Speaker 1: My mom says like, can you curse less? On the podcast? See? 1058 00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,160 Speaker 1: But do you know that I don't realize that it's 1059 00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:40,479 Speaker 1: so bad when you don't even know, like I would 1060 00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,920 Speaker 1: tell you, like I would swear on my bank account 1061 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:44,640 Speaker 1: right now and be like, I didn't say fuck this 1062 00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,520 Speaker 1: whole podcast. No, I'm the same way, especially if I 1063 00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:49,840 Speaker 1: get behind the wheel and I'm driving, I get major 1064 00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:53,759 Speaker 1: world rage and it's just like word vomit, curse, curse 1065 00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 1: word after curseword that comes out of my mouth. Um, okay, 1066 00:56:56,719 --> 00:57:00,560 Speaker 1: if you could make a cameo on any unscripted what 1067 00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:05,440 Speaker 1: would it be? Dashians Hondo Okay, yeah, would be the second? 1068 00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:13,400 Speaker 1: The second? Um I did maybe Summer House on Bravo. Okay, 1069 00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,400 Speaker 1: Oh I am a family of Summer House. If you 1070 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,920 Speaker 1: could trade closets with any celebrity in the world, who 1071 00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:22,240 Speaker 1: would it be. Oh that's a good one. Hayley biber 1072 00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,240 Speaker 1: H Another good one. Fun fact. She when I was 1073 00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:31,280 Speaker 1: living in La she and Justin you Slive ride around 1074 00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:34,360 Speaker 1: the corner from me, so I would. I would purposely 1075 00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:37,120 Speaker 1: walk my dog every day, and I could tell if 1076 00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,400 Speaker 1: they were in town in that house or not because 1077 00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:43,280 Speaker 1: they'd have extra security and the guard dogs out. Oh yeah, 1078 00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:45,120 Speaker 1: did you get to see them? I saw them a 1079 00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,480 Speaker 1: couple of times. Well, usually like usually at the farmer's 1080 00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,360 Speaker 1: market though that I would go to, they would be there. Yeah, 1081 00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,320 Speaker 1: they'd hit up like the local coffee shops. So yeah. 1082 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:57,440 Speaker 1: And I'm that creepy person that like slid into her 1083 00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:59,800 Speaker 1: DMS to give her the best burrito recommendation at the 1084 00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 1: farm worst market and she definitely did not see it. 1085 00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:06,120 Speaker 1: But you know, I shot my shot there. Okay. I 1086 00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:08,600 Speaker 1: live right by you and Casey. You know you wanted 1087 00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: to get a burrito together. I don't. If you need 1088 00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:13,280 Speaker 1: me to water your plants, I will whatever. I'll hold 1089 00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:16,160 Speaker 1: on the fort when you're gone. Um, what is one 1090 00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:23,840 Speaker 1: thing about you that would surprise your followers? Um? Wow, 1091 00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:28,960 Speaker 1: I don't think anything would surprise my followers. They know 1092 00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:31,600 Speaker 1: way too much about me. It's just like, aside from 1093 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:35,360 Speaker 1: showing them like my pee and the toilet, like literally, 1094 00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:38,240 Speaker 1: I always joke about it. I'm like, I want to 1095 00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,040 Speaker 1: be mysterious, but I'm not. I don't think anything would 1096 00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 1: surprise them at this point. You're an open book, open book. 1097 00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 1: I love that. What's one fashion trend that you wish 1098 00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:52,360 Speaker 1: would come back? Oh? I thought it would be way 1099 00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:55,640 Speaker 1: easier of a question if you'd said which wouldn't come back, 1100 00:58:56,440 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 1: give me that one low Rise jeans. Thank you? If 1101 00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:04,600 Speaker 1: low really yeah, you could wear low Rice jeans. Well. 1102 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,680 Speaker 1: I hate jeans in general just because they're too constructing, 1103 00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:10,360 Speaker 1: but low Rise are the worst, like the worst. Do 1104 00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,440 Speaker 1: you remember wearing them? Like my butt crack was probably 1105 00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:15,560 Speaker 1: hanging out in middle school high school twenty four to 1106 00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:19,160 Speaker 1: seven and then the taile ub against your your tailbone. 1107 00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:22,880 Speaker 1: It's just so uncomfortable. I hate them so bad, hate it. 1108 00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,440 Speaker 1: And so many guys that I talked to, they're like, 1109 00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,480 Speaker 1: we love low Rice jeans. There's the sexy and I'm like, 1110 00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:32,640 Speaker 1: that's disgusting. I could see that because guys don't. They don't. 1111 00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:36,200 Speaker 1: I feel like they don't get what's like good for us, 1112 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:38,640 Speaker 1: you know, tell them to wear them, yeah, tell them 1113 00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,360 Speaker 1: to wear them. Honestly, I'm to buy Thomas a pair 1114 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:44,800 Speaker 1: of low Rice jeans and yeah the butt crack twenty 1115 00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:48,200 Speaker 1: four seven. Okay, last one for this game. What is 1116 00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:52,240 Speaker 1: one word to describe your summer twenty twenty two? Vibe 1117 00:59:53,320 --> 01:00:00,960 Speaker 1: or a phrase or one word? Is hard ac summer? 1118 01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:04,760 Speaker 1: Sure you're in New York, right, I'm in New York 1119 01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:08,680 Speaker 1: and like we don't have like beaches and and you 1120 01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:11,280 Speaker 1: know what I mean, and pools and if you just 1121 01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,000 Speaker 1: you go to brunch, you go to dinner, you go 1122 01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:16,520 Speaker 1: to wherever, and you come back to the fucking air conditioning. Yeah. 1123 01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:18,920 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I used to live on and off 1124 01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,480 Speaker 1: in New York back in the day and throughout the summer, 1125 01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:26,720 Speaker 1: and I was just constantly, constantly sweaty. It's never because 1126 01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,400 Speaker 1: you have to walk here a lot. So it's not 1127 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,600 Speaker 1: like la, we can get in your car um I'm 1128 01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 1: not yeah, I It's like it's you guys. Let's not 1129 01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:39,560 Speaker 1: like title our summers. Let's let it happen planning to 1130 01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:41,400 Speaker 1: have a hot girl summer. Like what if you're not 1131 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:44,520 Speaker 1: going to be hot this summer? You don't know? I hey, 1132 01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:49,360 Speaker 1: go with the flow. I love it. Yeah, okay. We 1133 01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:52,040 Speaker 1: always ask our guests there Rose and Thorn of the 1134 01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:55,160 Speaker 1: week basically like your highlight or favorite moment of the 1135 01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,800 Speaker 1: week and then low light or worse moment. I will 1136 01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:01,080 Speaker 1: let you start if you want to share. Okay. My 1137 01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:07,360 Speaker 1: highlight was it was my birthday, Yes, and I saw 1138 01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:11,880 Speaker 1: that Thank you, and my family did this really cute 1139 01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:13,480 Speaker 1: pick like in the park for me, and it was 1140 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,480 Speaker 1: complete surprised and it was so cute, and then I 1141 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,960 Speaker 1: went to a cold Play concert and that was really fun. 1142 01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:23,080 Speaker 1: And my thorn is that I left the cold Play 1143 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:28,120 Speaker 1: concert to avoid traffic and missed fix You, which is 1144 01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:31,680 Speaker 1: apparently the best song, and like, you know, that's the 1145 01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:34,640 Speaker 1: one I missed, and then everybody's like that's the best song. 1146 01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm like the best, like maybe, like maybe to me, yeah, 1147 01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:42,720 Speaker 1: like star full of Sky full of Stars is just 1148 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,880 Speaker 1: as good. Okay, So that was upsetting. It was hard too. 1149 01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:47,800 Speaker 1: I came to terms with it because then I heard 1150 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:49,960 Speaker 1: that people that stay it took them like two and 1151 01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:52,040 Speaker 1: a half hours to get home. I was happy with 1152 01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:55,800 Speaker 1: my decision, but um, but it sucks a little. Well 1153 01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,920 Speaker 1: that's I mean, if that's that's your thorn, you're doing 1154 01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:03,320 Speaker 1: this week, well, okay, true, Okay, I'm going to start 1155 01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 1: with my thorn. My thorn is that Thomas and I 1156 01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:09,920 Speaker 1: had an offering on a house and this seller can 1157 01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:12,840 Speaker 1: suck my as Demi said in Paradise, suck my ass, 1158 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:16,400 Speaker 1: because he was so terrible and lied about permitting on 1159 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,000 Speaker 1: the house, so we had to back out of that. 1160 01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:24,640 Speaker 1: But my thorn, oh sorry, my rose is probably my 1161 01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 1: mom and God Mom were able to come to California, 1162 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,480 Speaker 1: and it had been years pre COVID was last Sunday, 1163 01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 1: We're able to come out here. So I spent an 1164 01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:36,400 Speaker 1: incredible week with them. We had an abundance of Minnesota time. 1165 01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:39,600 Speaker 1: It was great. Thomas was ready for all of us 1166 01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:41,440 Speaker 1: to be out of the house after that, but it 1167 01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: was such a fun week. So that was probably my 1168 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:46,560 Speaker 1: highlight as of now. But again, wait, where do you 1169 01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:49,640 Speaker 1: guys live in California? Not in LA, but in California. 1170 01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:53,040 Speaker 1: We're in San Diego. Yeah, so I own a place 1171 01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:55,680 Speaker 1: in LA, but I'll probably rent it out eventually, so 1172 01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:58,240 Speaker 1: I'll go back and forth. But I'm in San Diego 1173 01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:03,680 Speaker 1: most of my time, and aren't aren't Dylan and Hannah 1174 01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:06,560 Speaker 1: Gee there too? Yeah, they're down bias. Yeah, Oh that's 1175 01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,960 Speaker 1: a while. Yeah, I haven't seen their new place. I 1176 01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:10,280 Speaker 1: want to check it out. We actually just had her 1177 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 1: on the podcast maybe a month or so ago. But yeah, 1178 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,080 Speaker 1: I want to see their new house. But I absolutely 1179 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,920 Speaker 1: adore them. Yeah. How did San Diego really become the 1180 01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:22,680 Speaker 1: capital of Bachelor our Nation? That's a good question because 1181 01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:26,120 Speaker 1: for the longest time, it was LA and then and 1182 01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:29,880 Speaker 1: then it was New York and then Nashville. I think 1183 01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:33,840 Speaker 1: San Diego. Well, it was either no, it had to 1184 01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:36,400 Speaker 1: have been Katie's season of The Bachelor. They just had 1185 01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,760 Speaker 1: a thousand guys from San Diego and the surrounding area 1186 01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:42,120 Speaker 1: that were on the season. She just had an abundance 1187 01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,960 Speaker 1: of San Diego people, and so I feel like since 1188 01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:49,000 Speaker 1: then in the past year, that's kind of like but 1189 01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:50,880 Speaker 1: a lot of people, but a lot of people don't 1190 01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,480 Speaker 1: necessarily live here. Like a lot of people will come 1191 01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:55,560 Speaker 1: here and party and like they'll take photos with the 1192 01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:58,560 Speaker 1: Bachelor their friends and like hype it up. But for 1193 01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,600 Speaker 1: the most part, not as many lives here, so which 1194 01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:04,600 Speaker 1: to me, I kind of like, but um, yeah, a man, 1195 01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 1: I thank you for joining us. I had such a blast. 1196 01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:09,040 Speaker 1: I feel like I could talk to you forever and 1197 01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:10,880 Speaker 1: I still have so many questions, so we'll have to 1198 01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:13,520 Speaker 1: have you on again. But thank you for coming to 1199 01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:16,160 Speaker 1: Batcher Happy Hour and stay in touch your part about 1200 01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:18,480 Speaker 1: your nation now. So if you ever want to make 1201 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:20,000 Speaker 1: a cameo, I'm sure they'd love to have you down 1202 01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:24,240 Speaker 1: in Paradise or something. Let me let me bartend with wells. 1203 01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:29,720 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's what everyone wants. Food. Oh my god. 1204 01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:34,640 Speaker 1: Next goals, Next goals, thank you so much. Bad take care. 1205 01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:39,120 Speaker 1: A huge thank you too, Amanda. That was such a blast. 1206 01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:41,200 Speaker 1: You know I did miss Michelle. I'm sure she would 1207 01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:43,280 Speaker 1: have loved being here to chat with us, but next 1208 01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:45,800 Speaker 1: week she'll be back. And another big thank you to 1209 01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:48,360 Speaker 1: our Baucher Happy Hour listeners. Thanks for tuning in each 1210 01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,760 Speaker 1: and every week, and please make sure to hit us 1211 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:53,520 Speaker 1: up on social. 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