Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Part one
Speaker 1: behind a scene with a member of the show. What's
Speaker 1: up friends, Happy weekend? It is Best Bits time. I
Speaker 1: am joined this weekend by Abby. Abby, how are you feeling?
Speaker 2: I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good? It's the weekend and after this weekend, all
Speaker 1: my weddings are officially over. Oh my god. Really good.
Speaker 1: This is a big deal. This is a big deal.
Speaker 1: They take so much out of you, they really do.
Speaker 1: And we'll get into that, but first I do want
Speaker 1: to talk about part two. If you're catching up on
Speaker 1: the Bobby Bone Show, the bits you can expect this week,
Speaker 1: Keith Urban stops by the show Bobby Detail going to
Speaker 1: his basketball camp. We did some rejected segments. Lunchbox had
Speaker 1: to serve his punishment. Also, speaking of Lunchbox, he thinks
Speaker 1: work disrespected him, not related to this incident of him
Speaker 1: not following the rules. Basically life skills we don't have,
Speaker 1: and celebrities that we no longer really feel great about
Speaker 1: after things we've seen in the news. So that's on
Speaker 1: part two. If you're checking out the Bobby Bone Showing
Speaker 1: catching up on everything. But for now I'm chatting with
Speaker 1: Abby and we're catching up on life abby. How is
Speaker 1: mister Cheesehead.
Speaker 2: It's going well? Yeah, yes, how's I How are things good?
Speaker 2: They're progressing a lot.
Speaker 1: Okay, any like big things happening? You're smiling.
Speaker 2: I mean we've talked about me like moving in with him,
Speaker 2: so that's a big deal because I haven't lived with
Speaker 2: the guy, so.
Speaker 1: This would be the first time it would. Does it
Speaker 1: freak you out talking about that? It does.
Speaker 2: It's just a lot to it, you know, especially because
Speaker 2: I own my own home and so and he does too,
Speaker 2: so it's a whole.
Speaker 1: But I would move in with him, so well, it's
Speaker 1: just weird.
Speaker 2: It's weird because I'm used to being like in the
Speaker 2: comfort of my own home and having everything the way
Speaker 2: I want it, and so like, oh no, it's a lot.
Speaker 2: But it's going really well.
Speaker 1: Okay, are we like in the belief that Cheesehead could
Speaker 1: be the one?
Speaker 2: I just every time I heard cheese I don't know
Speaker 2: why it's funny to me.
Speaker 1: I guess it's a quandom by his name, because the
Speaker 1: only reason technically have nicknames is until you show them.
Speaker 1: I know you Have you ever said his name?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: I haven't, Okay, then we'll keep calling him cheese head.
Speaker 2: I like cheese said, okay, because he does wear his
Speaker 2: cheesehead on game days, which is really funny. That's probably
Speaker 2: why I'm laughing, But I think, yeah, he could be Okay.
Speaker 2: It scares me and talk about we've said this before.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like I don't know, prepared for the
Speaker 1: other shoot to drop. Always yeah, always.
Speaker 2: I told you I was like, when I'm ten, like
Speaker 2: ten years into marriage, then I'll be like, yeah, this is.
Speaker 1: Is this finally happening yet? Okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, it's good.
Speaker 1: So are you? Are you happily in love? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: am good. I mean I imagine so I probably should
Speaker 1: ask that question before the movie. It's either one. But
Speaker 1: I I think we've talked about that too. I think
Speaker 1: you've shared that. You guys obviously have said you loved
Speaker 1: each other and stuff too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which is the first time I've said it to
Speaker 2: him too. I don't even know if I said that
Speaker 2: to you. Did we talk about that?
Speaker 1: I can't remember. If we don't know, it's hard to
Speaker 1: figure out what we've talked about off microphone or song. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So that's why I'm like, I'm not sure if we
Speaker 1: shared that information.
Speaker 2: I know that's true, but yeah, I say it, and
Speaker 2: I used to be very uncomfortable saying it. I don't
Speaker 2: know why. It's just always been a thing for me.
Speaker 2: It's just something I don't just throw out there. And
Speaker 2: if I do say I love you, I'm like, love you,
Speaker 2: but I'm going to show your first yea.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So now what do you say it to him?
Speaker 1: Is it I love you? Yeah? It is.
Speaker 2: But it's really weird because if he says it to
Speaker 2: me first, sometimes I'm like you too, and he's like abby,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: Like say it back. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So it's Yeah, it's just a lot of things that
Speaker 2: are out of my comfort zone, but like they're.
Speaker 1: Good and he's making you feel safe in doing those.
Speaker 1: So yes, that's a good thing. Yeah, it's good. You're
Speaker 1: all smiles. Oh okay, Well, I'm really happy for you.
Speaker 1: I'm glad it's going so well.
Speaker 2: Thanks.
Speaker 1: What you were sharing something else with me? You were
Speaker 1: talking about she said, there's something I was yeah, Oh uh,
Speaker 1: you got him a cool gift. Why did you get
Speaker 1: him like such a cool gift? What happened? I don't know.
Speaker 2: He like, he just gave me the best birthday ever,
Speaker 2: and he's just so great.
Speaker 1: Then tell me about the birthday first.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so he I don't share too much because
Speaker 2: there's there's some person are like private hey in box
Speaker 2: things I haven't talked about yet. But like, it took
Speaker 2: me to a really nice dinner. I just said, all
Speaker 2: I want is a nice dinner, like a steak dinner,
Speaker 2: because I never go in a steak and so he
Speaker 2: took me to a nice restaurant. They put Happy Birthday
Speaker 2: Abbey on the menu, like I didn't even know places
Speaker 2: did that, Like it was crazy. And then they put
Speaker 2: us in a booth. They give you like a champagne toast,
Speaker 2: and then they bring out dessert and it says happy
Speaker 2: Birthday like on the plate and there's like a little
Speaker 2: cake and a sparkler candle type thing.
Speaker 1: So it was just really sweet. Yeah. What was the restaurant?
Speaker 1: Can you say? Oh, it's called Harper's. Okay, I've heard
Speaker 1: of this place.
Speaker 2: Yes, it's kind of downtown by the amphitheater, y kind
Speaker 2: of social. Oh my gosh, I didn't even know it
Speaker 2: was there, honestly, but it is so good.
Speaker 1: Well and clearly they'd like to take care of their guests,
Speaker 1: so this is great.
Speaker 2: It's very pricey, Like it was very expensive and you
Speaker 2: felt very loved. Yeah, it was really good because usually
Speaker 2: I don't really do much on my birthday, you know,
Speaker 2: I go like with friends or something. But I also
Speaker 2: don't like it's weird. I don't like asking people to
Speaker 2: celebrate me. It's very weird, you know. I just feel
Speaker 2: weird being like, hey, come celebrate me. I don't know,
Speaker 2: it's probably not normal, but so I don't really do
Speaker 2: anything or like try to inconvenience people.
Speaker 1: I think it's more normal than you think. I think
Speaker 1: a lot depending on things we've experienced in our lives,
Speaker 1: there could be stuff associated with birthdays that people are like,
Speaker 1: I you know, it's you'd rather not celebrate than to
Speaker 1: be disappointed, or you'd rather not ask because you don't
Speaker 1: like asking for help. There could be so many number
Speaker 1: of reasons, right, Yeah, but you obviously asked him like
Speaker 1: this is what you wanted, and he showed up, showed out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he knows, like my last boyfriend forgot my birthday,
Speaker 2: so so he.
Speaker 1: Knows how blow up right now, Abbey truly great glow up?
Speaker 2: I know I really love anyway, So he knew, like
Speaker 2: how much that hurt, and so I think he really
Speaker 2: tried to show you know that he does.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm like, wow, someone does who he does?
Speaker 2: So anyway, there is a Titans game. They're playing the Packers,
Speaker 2: and tickets are pretty expensive, but I actually found some
Speaker 2: that are not too much, and so I'm gonna surprise
Speaker 2: him with him.
Speaker 1: Oh so you haven't given to him? I have not No,
Speaker 1: when does When is the game? When does he find out?
Speaker 2: Well, it's Sunday, So I'm gonna tell him. I think
Speaker 2: like this weekend. I don't know when, at what point
Speaker 2: And this is already airing on Saturday, so at this
Speaker 2: point I probably have already told him. So I already
Speaker 2: told him Friday, we're gonna go with her.
Speaker 1: That's okay, Okay, that's exciting. Is he getting to break out? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Probably yeah, because he already like, like, imagine we're not
Speaker 2: going because we're also going to Morgan Wallen and that's
Speaker 2: where we spent all their money on the tickets. So
Speaker 2: he was like, oh no, I don't want to ask
Speaker 2: you to like go to a game, you know, and
Speaker 2: pay that much if you don't really care.
Speaker 1: And I'm like I want to go, So whoa uh yeah, heck, yeah,
Speaker 1: you got Morgan Wallen and you got a Packers game
Speaker 1: for him? Are you not a Bandwagon Packers fan? Really?
Speaker 2: I don't have anything Packers gear.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: It's gonna take a while because I like Broncos and
Speaker 2: I would wear I think I would wear tighten his
Speaker 2: gear like before, really so bad, But no, I want
Speaker 2: to because he's like I would root for your team,
Speaker 2: like if we go watch KU games Kansas basketball, like
Speaker 2: I would hope he would work KU, and he said
Speaker 2: he would, so I feel like I need to like
Speaker 2: support him.
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's hard. It's a hard one speaking
Speaker 1: of k you I assume then, like, is there a
Speaker 1: possibility you might come home for Holidays this year? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I hope so yeah, Yeah, okay, if it works in
Speaker 2: our schedules.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and everything pans out, yes, But I.
Speaker 2: Would like him too. I want to take him to
Speaker 2: a game.
Speaker 1: But two KU game? Would you typically go over Christmas?
Speaker 1: Don't you? Maybe every Thanksgiving too? I guess you could
Speaker 1: go both if there's one. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I usually don't go home for Thanksgiving anyway, so you
Speaker 2: know how hard it is to go home.
Speaker 1: Yeah it's a quick trip.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but at least we have more time. But like
Speaker 2: for us, on a weekend, you leave Friday, you get
Speaker 2: there Friday night at midnight, and then you have to
Speaker 2: leave Sunday morning that evening, so it's like one full day.
Speaker 1: Well and for both of us, like this is why
Speaker 1: I can never go. It's really hard for me to
Speaker 1: go back and visit Manhattan is because it's hard to
Speaker 1: like go to Wichita visit family, and then you have
Speaker 1: to drive to and you can't like fly out of
Speaker 1: Lawrence or Manhattan. There's not like you have to drive
Speaker 1: some more to get somewhere else and fly out, whether
Speaker 1: it's Kansasdy or back to Whichshaw. So it's really hard
Speaker 1: to go and do those in like a very short weekend.
Speaker 1: Like I suppose there is like really small airports there,
Speaker 1: but like you know, I don't have that company. Get
Speaker 1: a private chat back, no worries, Yeah, yeah, okay, so yeah,
Speaker 1: exciting stuff. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I love surprises, so hopefully we'll see.
Speaker 1: You love giving them and getting them.
Speaker 2: Giving them yeah and getting them too, Okay, surprise girl. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I just love it all.
Speaker 1: Love all the surprises that your love language. You feel
Speaker 1: like gifts are part of your love language or do
Speaker 1: you think it's something else.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is, like me, giving them is definitely my
Speaker 2: love language.
Speaker 1: Oh so your love language is gifts? What if you're
Speaker 1: receiving love language quality time and like acts of service?
Speaker 2: I would say, maybe how about any anything I know
Speaker 2: you care?
Speaker 1: That's it the more like when people ask me, I'm
Speaker 1: like all of them, like in some form of fashion,
Speaker 1: I gotta need the whole package. Yeah, it's hard to
Speaker 1: pick just one or the other. It is. I think
Speaker 1: if if I ever had to like really pick, though,
Speaker 1: I think it's acts of service. I think feeling that
Speaker 1: like you're supporting me, and that's probably goes back to
Speaker 1: some deep rooted trauma or something in my relationships of
Speaker 1: like needing to feel like supported and whatever. I think
Speaker 1: acts of service is there. But yeah, all of them.
Speaker 1: I really do need all of them, right, complex human being,
Speaker 1: you make me choose one?
Speaker 2: I know at different times it just depends on the situation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But also I don't know if you feel this
Speaker 1: way too, Like I also give all five two. I
Speaker 1: don't just want to receive them. I also like give
Speaker 1: them all. Maybe we're weird. Maybe everyone was like, no,
Speaker 1: we all have one. I know, Well, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: have them all.
Speaker 2: That is always the question. It's like, what is your
Speaker 2: love language. I'm like, I think it's all, isn't it?
Speaker 2: Everybody does all?
Speaker 1: I think ideally everybody would have all. Yeah. Maybe it's
Speaker 1: that we've been forced to choose. That's true, That's really
Speaker 1: what it is. I okay, So were going to talk
Speaker 1: about O weeken plans a little bit where we're going
Speaker 1: to take a quick break here. All right, I want
Speaker 1: to talk about Morgan wall and a little bit more
Speaker 1: because you're going to his concert at in Knoxville at
Speaker 1: like his home stadium or whatever.
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, And it's insane. I did not know this.
Speaker 2: Did you know that the stadium is gigantic?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Are they all not a thousand seats? Like Titan Stadium
Speaker 2: holds what sixty thousand?
Speaker 1: Wait for real? And this is a college stadium.
Speaker 2: Yes, this college stadium. So when I bought tickets, I
Speaker 2: was freaking out because I don't like asking for tickets
Speaker 2: and I never get Morgan wall On tickets. So I
Speaker 2: was like, I'll just buy them. But they were going
Speaker 2: on sale and so I was like, oh, it's going
Speaker 2: to be so hard.
Speaker 1: To get them.
Speaker 2: So I just kept buying more like I bought. We
Speaker 2: bought two pairs, and because it got better the better ones,
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, we'll just sell the other ones.
Speaker 2: We can't sell them because there's so many seats.
Speaker 1: Are you serious?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: How many are not sold out? No, because there's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's one hundred and one, nine and fifteen. That is huge.
Speaker 1: I mean I'm only get a pictures of it, and
Speaker 1: it looks massive. Why do they have such what are
Speaker 1: the biggest date Okay, keep talking the biggest stadiums in
Speaker 1: the country.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because his show was already Sunday, but we can't
Speaker 2: go Sunday obviously because we have work Monday morning. And
Speaker 2: so when I found out they were going to go
Speaker 2: on sale for.
Speaker 1: Friday or he had a show Friday, I was like, yes, I.
Speaker 2: Didn't realize it was the biggest stadium in the world
Speaker 2: for a college games.
Speaker 1: Wild, So I didn't realize. Okay, I mean Tennessee is
Speaker 1: up there, but Michigan is actually the biggest with one
Speaker 1: hundred and seven.
Speaker 2: Are you hitting me?
Speaker 1: Penn States behind that with one hundred and six. These
Speaker 1: were all thousands, by the way, Ohio State one hundred
Speaker 1: and two, Texas A and m one hundred and two,
Speaker 1: LSU one hundred and two, and then there's Tennessee at one
Speaker 1: hundred and one, and then Alabama hundred and one, Texas
Speaker 1: one hundred, oh my god, and then we dropped to Georgia.
Speaker 1: That's like ninety two thousand. Where have I been?
Speaker 2: I like, I didn't. I guess I don't go to
Speaker 2: many of I have never been to any of those.
Speaker 1: Are they annowling out what are the biggest I really
Speaker 1: don't know a lot of sports. One of the biggest
Speaker 1: stadiums in NFL, because now I'm like, are there bigger? Wow?
Speaker 1: So is there not? Holy? I'm like in shock right now.
Speaker 1: Some of these NFL stadiums are smaller. I'm so confused.
Speaker 2: I am too, what's the deal?
Speaker 1: Like? What am I missing? Like I understand I feel,
Speaker 1: but I feel like there's more money.
Speaker 2: Yes, in NFL football is huge, Like in the SEC.
Speaker 2: When I came here, I was like, whoa, I mean,
Speaker 2: they are serious down here.
Speaker 1: And maybe there's more people investing and they had because
Speaker 1: literally the biggest ones in NFL MetLife Stadium and New
Speaker 1: York Giants Jets eighty two thousand, five hundred.
Speaker 2: That's the biggest one that's the biggest one.
Speaker 1: And then it just drops from there. So how are
Speaker 1: these Oh my gosh, this is wild. Do you think
Speaker 1: college football is bigger than NFL football?
Speaker 2: What's the reason.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm the wrong person to ask. I'm probably
Speaker 1: the wrong person to be talking about any of this,
Speaker 1: But I don't know.
Speaker 2: Like, there's so many students. I guess that go so
Speaker 2: they probably have like huge student sections.
Speaker 1: Oh that and that makes sense. How many students go
Speaker 1: to mission? Now? Now, I mean I'm you're just gonna
Speaker 1: go down a rabbit hole on a rabbit hole. Okay.
Speaker 1: So for University of Michigan, in one like in fall
Speaker 1: of twenty twenty two, it was fifty one thousand. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, that's like that's almost Titans Stadium. You're in Nashville.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's wild.
Speaker 1: So I guess that makes sense. Oh, I know, I've
Speaker 1: extra tickets because I thought it would be hard to
Speaker 1: get God get it? So you ever paid? It's in
Speaker 1: that wild. I just thought that was crazy. But are
Speaker 1: you trying to sell them or are you just yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm trying Okay, no luck like no bavvy, I guess you're.
Speaker 2: But they're tizzy they're going for so cheap now. They
Speaker 2: jacked up the prices when they went on sale because
Speaker 2: Ticketmaster is evil. I said it, They're evil.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think you're alone in that ceiling of Ticketmaster.
Speaker 1: I stopped, honestly, like I I haven't gone to a
Speaker 1: concert if it's not like through the show or something
Speaker 1: in a long time. Because I gave up. I was
Speaker 1: like I would, I wouldn't even get through. I wasn't
Speaker 1: even like trying. I would try and get tickets and
Speaker 1: I couldn't even get through to even try and purchase
Speaker 1: a ticket.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: So I just gave up. They jacked up the tickets
Speaker 1: I got.
Speaker 2: They were two hundred each. They jacked him up to
Speaker 2: six fifty each that my boyfriend got, So now he's
Speaker 2: in the hole that much. We're not gonna sell him.
Speaker 2: It's like we'll probably be able to sell him for
Speaker 2: like one hundred each. Like it's not good. I'mind. I
Speaker 2: told him to buy him too.
Speaker 1: I was just like, just get them there. We want
Speaker 1: to go, we want to be there. But I get
Speaker 1: it because you're gonna panic because you think you're not
Speaker 1: gonna get tickets, and it's that's how he get you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know research. I didn't realize it was
Speaker 2: the largest stadium ever and that there's so many tickets left.
Speaker 1: I didn't know it was that large either.
Speaker 2: But I had never been to a UT game, and
Speaker 2: they always look really fun and there's like fireworks and there,
Speaker 2: you know, all that happening, and I was like, Okay, well,
Speaker 2: Morgan wall and it's his home, that's his team, so
Speaker 2: he's gonna make it big. It'll be cool, it.
Speaker 1: Will be really cool, and it'll be a great experience.
Speaker 1: It'll be great just in the hole, but the design,
Speaker 1: you know, try not to focus on the other side
Speaker 1: of that. You're in some whole money. Heikes.
Speaker 2: Well, I learned my lesson, so I'm never gonna buy
Speaker 2: him when they go on sale.
Speaker 1: Buy them on resale though, because people jack up the
Speaker 1: prices in resale too.
Speaker 2: Which is frustrating. Yeah, it's like, why do you try
Speaker 2: to make money on it?
Speaker 1: Just be cool, just be cool, and like resell it
Speaker 1: for that plus like twenty five bucks. Yeah, yeah, like
Speaker 1: twenty five I'm cool with that. But when you jack
Speaker 1: them about four hundred dollars, no, Yeah, that happens a lot.
Speaker 1: If you start trying to make money every way they can.
Speaker 1: That's for sure. I know we're in a wow blow
Speaker 1: the West out here, man. Wow. Well, let's talk about
Speaker 1: your weekend, shall we? Oh yeah, in another wedding, Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh. I also I fully intend to make a
Speaker 1: second post that will say always a bridesmaid Part two,
Speaker 1: Part two, let's go. I got the reference, thank you.
Speaker 1: It wasna be funny, at least at the very late.
Speaker 1: I can laugh about things in my life, you know,
Speaker 1: like whatever. But yeah, it's one of my really good
Speaker 1: friends from college. They actually already got married the Elope,
Speaker 1: so this is just a big celebration. But I'm still
Speaker 1: fulfilling all the bridesmaid duties and stuff for this like
Speaker 1: big reception that's happening. So it's a little bit different.
Speaker 2: That's some more fun. Like yeah, pressure just like fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, a lot less pressure. And their wedding they're
Speaker 1: like a low man. Colorado was beautiful, so it was
Speaker 1: really like really excited for them, excited to like just
Speaker 1: celebrate and hang out. I get to see my sister
Speaker 1: and brother in law this weekend, which will be like
Speaker 1: an added bonus. So going back to Kansas City because
Speaker 1: I don't get to get home. I guess my dad
Speaker 1: got jealous of my sister, was like, well, why can't
Speaker 1: Morgan find a witch Shaw and then like drive can
Speaker 1: City and then drive I'm like, Dad, I don't have
Speaker 1: enough time for that. Like that, that's squeezing in a
Speaker 1: lot of things at once. So he was Saddy doesn't
Speaker 1: get to see me, but I will be headed to
Speaker 1: Kansas City for like a brief a quick kind of
Speaker 1: thirty six forty eight hours to go back for this
Speaker 1: and then I fly back. Wait, does your sister live
Speaker 1: in Kansas City? No, they live in which shop. Oh,
Speaker 1: but so really funny with this couple. It's my college
Speaker 1: bone to my college best friends. But I went to
Speaker 1: high school with her husband. What in the world they
Speaker 1: met in Kansas City working together? How weird is that?
Speaker 2: That is wild?
Speaker 1: Yeah. I remember when they first started in and I
Speaker 1: was like, wait, what I know him? Like, we're we're little.
Speaker 1: I've seen him multiple times, like and we still stay
Speaker 1: in touch. It wasn't just someone that we went to
Speaker 1: high school. It was like somebody that, like my sister
Speaker 1: was really good friends with. So I always saw him
Speaker 1: and he became one of my friends through that, and
Speaker 1: I was like, this is weird. This is the weirdest
Speaker 1: connection ever. But oh my gosh, that is really weird.
Speaker 1: What a small world. Yeah, for sure, it's such a
Speaker 1: Kansas thing, very very Kansas. But I'm excited for her
Speaker 1: and I think it's gonna be awesome. But I am
Speaker 1: also very excited for Sunday when this is all officially over.
Speaker 1: This year.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot because I remember I was like
Speaker 2: made of honor for two weddings back to back, and
Speaker 2: it's just like because it's.
Speaker 1: So high pressure.
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, it's such a big moment in
Speaker 2: their life and you just want to make it like
Speaker 2: the best you can, and you don't. You want to
Speaker 2: do everything that you can.
Speaker 1: And there's so like there's so much fun, but there's
Speaker 1: so much that goes into them. And you know, you
Speaker 1: have the lead in which is the battery. You have
Speaker 1: bridal parties, you have and then you have the wedding.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, even as somebody who was in a
Speaker 1: relationship been going through, I was, there's so much of this.
Speaker 1: There's so much happening, Like it does not matter the
Speaker 1: season of the life that I mean, there's just a
Speaker 1: lot going on. And when you're the one person that
Speaker 1: lives away from everybody, Like that's the hard part.
Speaker 2: That is the hardest part.
Speaker 1: If you had to travel for everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're just right down the street, that's that's amazing.
Speaker 2: Yes hello, but oh yeah.
Speaker 1: But yeah, So your girls is excited, excited for the wedding,
Speaker 1: excited to celebrate them. Also excited that I finally get
Speaker 1: to have like two months left of twenty twenty four
Speaker 1: that doesn't have any weddings.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's light.
Speaker 1: There's light at the end of the tunnel. There's some light.
Speaker 1: So that's what's going on lately. And I also I
Speaker 1: wanted to talk about your crazy uber driver. You tell
Speaker 1: me sorry, because I'm normally the one that comes into
Speaker 1: the show with crazy uber stories.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, what would you do in this situation? Like
Speaker 2: my driver was so reckless and he was probably in
Speaker 2: his seventies and yes, like he was this cute old
Speaker 2: man christ seventy five eighty actually like la rampa, that's live.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was like, oh, man, I hope he
Speaker 1: goes fast enough to get me there.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm not even kidding. He was going
Speaker 2: ninety and like a sixty five. He was passing everybody.
Speaker 2: He had road rage. He was honking at people, cutting
Speaker 2: them out, never used his turn signal.
Speaker 1: Flying But I was a cute old man when he
Speaker 1: first entered the vehicle.
Speaker 2: Uh huh. He never talked, obviously, I'm glad I didn't
Speaker 2: talk to him because but he was like focused, and
Speaker 2: it looked like he couldn't see very well because he
Speaker 2: was grabbing the steering wheel and then like leaning up
Speaker 2: really far forward, yeah, like to look out the windshield,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh my gosh, Oh my gosh, what's happening,
Speaker 2: what is happening here?
Speaker 1: It's seriously.
Speaker 2: I tried to get a picture of this pedometer because
Speaker 2: it said ninety and I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm
Speaker 2: going to get here so fast.
Speaker 1: But what do I do? Like, you're real, Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not kidding. So wait, how far did you have to
Speaker 1: go in this vehicle with him?
Speaker 2: Gosh, I mean from my house, which is kind of
Speaker 2: farther than you seen twenty minutes from twenty five, I
Speaker 2: would say, okay, further out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you made it safely.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was glad because I do stress because
Speaker 2: sometimes they go like really slower. We get stuck in traffic.
Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, this is a change. I'm
Speaker 2: actually gonna get there like a really fast.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But and I don't I honestly don't know how if
Speaker 2: you spoke English that well, because.
Speaker 1: Okay, so I just you guys never had a conversation.
Speaker 1: Were you at any point where you're like, maybe I
Speaker 1: should ask him to slow down. I thought about it,
Speaker 1: but I just thought it was really awkward. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I never say anything to the Uber drivers and I
Speaker 2: didn't know. I just kind of sat there and like
Speaker 2: just looked at it happened. But then I saw that
Speaker 2: we're passing everybody on the highway. And then once we
Speaker 2: got to the airport, people like cut him out or
Speaker 2: wouldn't move, and he's like and then he would like
Speaker 2: look over at him, and I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was it was a lot.
Speaker 2: But would you say anything?
Speaker 1: I'm probably not. I know, you just got to think
Speaker 1: about those like awkward, Y're awkward if we were not
Speaker 1: talking to begin with, we didn't never say anything, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know that. I don't think I would.
Speaker 1: I think I would have just sat there and been like,
Speaker 1: my life is in your hands. I would to make sure,
Speaker 1: my seat belt was on really tight I did, and
Speaker 1: just brace for impact kind of thing. It's crazy though,
Speaker 1: the amount of like I don't think you and I
Speaker 1: are alone and having that. I think there's a lot
Speaker 1: of wild uber stories.
Speaker 2: Which is crazy that we put someone else's life. No,
Speaker 2: we let someone else put our lives in their hands.
Speaker 2: Like I was just thinking that during that. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, my life is in this dude's hands
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: It is. But also, if you're drinking, like you're in
Speaker 1: a better circumstance to have somebody who is sober driving you,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, So like what's the alternative?
Speaker 1: I suppose not drinking is the alternative and you just
Speaker 1: drive yourself. But like, there used to be really a
Speaker 1: lot of taxis and stuff. But I feel like taxis
Speaker 1: have always been crazy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh I was always scared in taxis. They were
Speaker 2: like this all the time.
Speaker 1: Yes, maybe he's an old taxi driver. I was that too.
Speaker 2: Maybe I think he was.
Speaker 1: And they're just like slightly they're a different breed, they are.
Speaker 1: They not regress it. Okay, I don't think I would
Speaker 1: have said anything. Okay, did you give him a rating?
Speaker 1: Did you be like, hey, maybe slow down next time. Actually, no,
Speaker 1: I don't think I said anything. Did you give him
Speaker 1: five stars and just let it happened?
Speaker 2: I kind of did. Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1: I did the same thing. Oh shoot, he was a
Speaker 1: top driver. I remember seeing that. I always get top drivers. Well,
Speaker 1: maybe people really liked that they got there fast.
Speaker 2: Maybe he's just having a day. That's what I was
Speaker 2: thinking too. I was like, you just have him one
Speaker 2: of those days?
Speaker 1: Did you give him all tip in there? Yeah? I did.
Speaker 1: I've done the same thing and all my crazy ver Sure,
Speaker 1: I still give him five stars and I still tip
Speaker 1: them because I just I don't know. I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1: I feel like if I just catch him in the
Speaker 1: wrong moment, I feel really bad. I know.
Speaker 2: And he didn't even he didn't get out to load
Speaker 2: my suitcase, which I feel like they're not expected to. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it is a nice gesture when they do. But he
Speaker 2: was just just staying in the car, you know, and
Speaker 2: then just flew like a rocket.
Speaker 1: It might have been happening it himself a day.
Speaker 2: We're gonna go with that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and no conversation. He was like just a to
Speaker 1: b A to b A to b. Okay, I did
Speaker 1: want to. I also wanted to bring up with you.
Speaker 1: You reminded me of some things that had happened this
Speaker 1: weekend at the at the weddings. So we had a
Speaker 1: rehearsal dinner this past weekend that was at a super
Speaker 1: fancy restaurant and it was like, literally, the multiple things
Speaker 1: you've talked about have reminded me of this, and I
Speaker 1: forgot it had happened. And this was like five course meal, which,
Speaker 1: by the way, I was so stuffed after. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm literally ill. We'd had a five course meal before
Speaker 1: a wedding the next day. But it was so good,
Speaker 1: and it was the fancy place that they had the
Speaker 1: crummer do you know what I'm talking about? Where they
Speaker 1: come and they scraped the crumbs off of your table. Yes,
Speaker 1: I've never experienced that. Even on your birthday steakhouse they
Speaker 1: didn't do it.
Speaker 2: They didn't do that.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well let me tell you this place did it.
Speaker 1: Fairy's or Perry's Steakhouse in Franklin, Tennessee. It was really good.
Speaker 1: The food was amazing, but the servers over and after
Speaker 1: they cleaned up, they come And what I have learned
Speaker 1: is it is called the crumber. They come and they
Speaker 1: use this like little tool that literally looks like a
Speaker 1: tool from a tool belt and they scrape all the
Speaker 1: crumbs off and they clean off the table before they
Speaker 1: bring out new dishes. Wow. And I was so fascinated,
Speaker 1: Like I was like, this is the coolest thing ever.
Speaker 1: And I you know me, you've been in my house.
Speaker 1: I'm a very OCD cleaning, Like my house is in
Speaker 1: very good order. Yes, I love cleaning things.
Speaker 2: It's the cleanest person I know.
Speaker 1: So this guy's coming Averred. He's using this crummer. I
Speaker 1: did not know that's what it was called. I was
Speaker 1: just like, oh, what's that tool and he's using I'm
Speaker 1: like this is a cool and I'm just watching him
Speaker 1: like fascinating. I was like, oh, there's some more like
Speaker 1: helping him clean the table. And he came back over
Speaker 1: on the next time he goes here, I have like
Speaker 1: fifteen extra ones. So I got to take home a crumber.
Speaker 1: What really, that's so nice? Wait, so what does it do?
Speaker 1: You brush it off into your hand or it has
Speaker 1: a trade they do? They do it has like a
Speaker 1: little ridge on. I think it catches some of it,
Speaker 1: but they also have their hand to like brush off
Speaker 1: into their hand, or sometimes they'll bring a table. I
Speaker 1: actually think it's a plate. I wasn't really focused on
Speaker 1: where it was going as well as of just what
Speaker 1: was happening on the table. I think it was a
Speaker 1: little plate that they brought and oh got it into
Speaker 1: But I have I now have a crummer. Not that
Speaker 1: I'm ever going to be able to use it. I know.
Speaker 1: I just was gonna say, have you used it yet?
Speaker 1: I mean no, I don't have a cloth on any
Speaker 1: of my tables at my house or anything, so I'm
Speaker 1: normally just like wipe it down with the paper. Doubt.
Speaker 2: I love that you have a crumber. Now, I've never
Speaker 2: seen one in use.
Speaker 1: I do. I'll have to show you. It's like you
Speaker 1: if I put this together, Alo's for a dollar. Okay.
Speaker 1: This is the fact that I was so fascinating with this,
Speaker 1: and I was at the table with the bride's family
Speaker 1: and they were laughing so hard. They were like, this
Speaker 1: is this is you were fascinated. Yeah, And then that
Speaker 1: he came over and brought me one, and they're like,
Speaker 1: this is a great story. So that's just that's just
Speaker 1: my life. That's how I heay.
Speaker 2: It's the little things that bring us the most.
Speaker 1: Joy is truly the little things a crummer. And then
Speaker 1: also I have a controversial opinion on weddings when it
Speaker 1: comes to the dance floor. Why do we always form circles?
Speaker 1: Why do we? Why? Why? I get it for the
Speaker 1: bride and groom, right, everybody wants to see them. You
Speaker 1: form around them, you show them you love them. I
Speaker 1: think those moments are really sweet. But as soon as
Speaker 1: the bride and groom are done, let's like scatter, Yes,
Speaker 1: why do circles?
Speaker 2: And they they get formed constantly, they do, and then
Speaker 2: like your pressure to go out to dance in the middle,
Speaker 2: It's like who's next?
Speaker 1: And I don't have a move to go out in
Speaker 1: the middle. I'm like, I'm literally like the flimsy you know,
Speaker 1: the little things that are in front of stores are
Speaker 1: like the little guys that's like me, And I'm like,
Speaker 1: what do you want me to do?
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I know I have to be real gone,
Speaker 2: like very uh huh at the end of the night
Speaker 2: to get in that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, do not push me in that circle? Yeah? Why?
Speaker 1: I just realized that why do we do that? I
Speaker 1: don't know, It's happened at every wedding I have been doing,
Speaker 1: there's always a circle, and the circles really bother me.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because I've been to so many this year
Speaker 1: where I'm like, guys, please stop forming the freaking circle.
Speaker 2: That's actually really funny. How do you get it to not?
Speaker 2: How do you disperse it? You gotta be the circle
Speaker 2: dispersory at this next one.
Speaker 1: I don't know how you disperse it either, Like, once
Speaker 1: it's formed, there's no like turning around, but then it's
Speaker 1: always awkward when it does end, right, like the transition
Speaker 1: between going from the circle back to regular dancing back
Speaker 1: to the circle.
Speaker 2: I think everybody likes to see each other's faces.
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I really and I fully get
Speaker 1: it if there's a song that warrants it right, if
Speaker 1: there's a reason for some level of it, or again,
Speaker 1: the bride and groomer in it and everybody's around them
Speaker 1: totally makes sense now. But for every song or every
Speaker 1: other song, I don't feel like there's a reason for that.
Speaker 1: I feel like we can just all collectively join on
Speaker 1: a dance floor.
Speaker 2: It's fun to stay at the Why.
Speaker 1: Even line nances, you're in lines, nobody's in a circle
Speaker 1: that's true. I don't get it. I just noticed that.
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna notice it every time the circle you're welcome.
Speaker 2: And I do remember that even at Lauren's wedding.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, it happened. It happens at every single wedding.
Speaker 2: It does.
Speaker 1: And I and maybe there's like some some psychology behind
Speaker 1: it that like maybe that's like a community thing and
Speaker 1: we don't know each other, so we're trying to get
Speaker 1: to know. I don't know.
Speaker 2: You don't want to turn your back on somebody, you know,
Speaker 2: because if everybody's back is out, then everybody feels welcome
Speaker 2: and you just feel but.
Speaker 1: Like inevitably with the circle, not everybody's involved. There's always
Speaker 1: people on the dance floor that aren't involved, and nobody
Speaker 1: ever widens the circle, so then it's awkward you have
Speaker 1: people Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, my gosh, there's got a big psychology.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, this is a thing. And it wasn't
Speaker 1: until we talked about the wedding that it then came
Speaker 1: back to my mind. I was like, oh, I had
Speaker 1: this thought. Yes, I like other Morgan was at the
Speaker 1: wedding that I was at. I looked at her and
Speaker 1: I'm not going out right now, there's a circle. Really,
Speaker 1: I'm not did she notice it too or she like
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, it's like it's fine, Like she
Speaker 1: was like nobody. I was like, no, no, no, you don't understand.
Speaker 1: Those are so awkward. They're so awkward, and I'm not
Speaker 1: drunk enough for that.
Speaker 2: I know. I always get pressured like they're like, Abby,
Speaker 2: go out, and then I do it. I'm so embarrassed,
Speaker 2: and I just I don't like it. Yeah, because I
Speaker 2: don't have a go to move. I don't have one.
Speaker 1: Maybe if we get go to moves, it will be
Speaker 1: a better experience. Maybe.
Speaker 2: I feel like people either do like the worm or something,
Speaker 2: or like break dancing thing, and I'm like, I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna do that in dress. I'm not gonna even attempt
Speaker 2: to do it.
Speaker 1: No, Like, listen, I can do a back handspring, but like,
Speaker 1: I can't do that in those settings. I don't have
Speaker 1: the clothes or the shoes for that.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So those are my controversial thoughts and my experiences
Speaker 1: of weddings. This moment, Okay, we're gonna take one more
Speaker 1: quick quick break. We'll be right back, all right. Abby
Speaker 1: has a TV show or movie ever influenced you to
Speaker 1: travel somewhere.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, why do you always gotta bring up
Speaker 2: TV shows.
Speaker 1: And movies anything of all time? Is nothing new that
Speaker 1: you've had to see? Let me think, and I can
Speaker 1: let you think because the reason I'm bringing this up
Speaker 1: is because I've been watching Emily in Paris, which is
Speaker 1: like my favorite show, oh man, on Netflix. It's the
Speaker 1: cheesiest thing ever, and I eat it up. I love
Speaker 1: it. It's just the easiest watch and it's so good. And
Speaker 1: now I really want to go to Paris, Like I
Speaker 1: literally want to be like, I in this moment of
Speaker 1: my life need to go to Paris. It is Yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that show, but well I think you
Speaker 1: would like it. It's also quick episodes.
Speaker 2: Oh good.
Speaker 1: But it is very cheesy. It's like cheesy, man, you
Speaker 1: may not like it. Cheesy romance, like very funny. You
Speaker 1: just kind of root for. She's like fallen in and
Speaker 1: out of love. It's a fun like storyline and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I just like enjoy enjoy the watching of it.
Speaker 1: But she romanticizes Paris so much and she went over
Speaker 1: by herself to like take this job. And now I'm
Speaker 1: like I think I need my Paris moment. I need
Speaker 1: to go to Paris or maybe it's a place like
Speaker 1: London or Rome. I don't know. She's gone to a
Speaker 1: few of them in there, but one of the three
Speaker 1: on a little trip sometime soon.
Speaker 2: Movies definitely do make Paris like seem very romantic. It's like,
Speaker 2: isn't it the City of Romances?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think that is what it's called. Well, and
Speaker 1: I think that's the irony in it too, of like
Speaker 1: me in this space of my life and I should
Speaker 1: just like go and manticize my own life, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. And so like waiting to go to
Speaker 1: Paris with somebody or whatever, uh huh, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: So I went into Paris in high school, okay, with
Speaker 2: like a trip, and I remember the men over there
Speaker 2: are so attractive. You are pointing that out. They're so
Speaker 2: fit because they walk everywhere, they eat healthy, and we
Speaker 2: were and they dressed it was super nice, Like they
Speaker 2: were in like button downs, you know, with like not
Speaker 2: all the way buttoned up, and you're like the sleeve
Speaker 2: rolled up and you're just like, oh my gosh, what's happening.
Speaker 1: So this is why people go to Paris this is
Speaker 1: what you're saying. I think maybe my husband's over there.
Speaker 1: Maybe you never know, I could be in a crape
Speaker 1: or something. You look at the Apple Tower CP. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope he's a crape. But I do hope you're
Speaker 1: enjoying your your crape husband. You're gonna do that.
Speaker 2: You're gonna bond over crapes in the line of the
Speaker 2: crape truck or whatever.
Speaker 1: They have it is. I remember that and I was
Speaker 1: like just in high school. But you know, did you
Speaker 1: like it where you're like Paris is awesome?
Speaker 2: I did, but I think it is one it's very
Speaker 2: like romantic and I'm there with like all my friends
Speaker 2: and like a chaperone, so like it wasn't for me,
Speaker 2: so like I.
Speaker 1: Didn't go explore the city of Love, like really explore, right.
Speaker 2: But I yes, I definitely loved it, Like it's magical
Speaker 2: because like I went on the Eiffel Tower and the
Speaker 2: lights come on at night, Like that's the most magical
Speaker 2: thing I've ever seen. And then we did like a
Speaker 2: cruise on the Sign river like the sign Rivers. I
Speaker 2: don't know how you say it scene sign sign rob
Speaker 2: person ask the Olympics were just in Paris, and I
Speaker 2: already I forget they said it all the time, but
Speaker 2: it was it's so pretty, so yeah, I thought it
Speaker 2: was really.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so you suggested it, so Emily and Paris
Speaker 1: has got me on it, and you suggest it, so Paris,
Speaker 1: maybe in my future, you know, it would be mine.
Speaker 2: I didn't even see all of it, but like Yellowstone,
Speaker 2: I watched a little bit of it, but just like
Speaker 2: going out into open with like horses and just like
Speaker 2: being out in the middle of nowhere with like no people,
Speaker 2: like looking up at the stars. Yeah, I feel like that,
Speaker 2: Like that's what I want in like mountains and just open.
Speaker 2: I don't know, it just looks so freeing.
Speaker 1: I think Yellowstone cause a lot of people to want
Speaker 1: to go to Montana. Yeah, and Wyoming. I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess they're both in similar veins. I'm not sure where
Speaker 1: Yellowstone was shot though, was it? I'll google it another google.
Speaker 1: So keep talking about what you'd want to do if
Speaker 1: you go on your Wyomich or.
Speaker 2: Like Wyoming, one of those you know, Montana, just because
Speaker 2: there's just I want to stay out like in a
Speaker 2: tent or glamp.
Speaker 1: Actually, I want to glamp and be a glamper. Unos stars.
Speaker 1: Interesting Yellstone was filmed in three states. You taught, Montana
Speaker 1: and Texas. Oh it wasn't he Okay, it wasn't no Wyoming, Wyoming.
Speaker 2: I really want to go to Wyoming. But that's what
Speaker 2: makes me just like the freedom of it. And because
Speaker 2: the others it's like hustle and bustle of cities, which
Speaker 2: I like, and how like Paris would be but that
Speaker 2: would just be like I don't know the complete Yeah,
Speaker 2: like all you see is stars. There's not much to do,
Speaker 2: but just like really be one with.
Speaker 1: Nature, you know.
Speaker 2: That's all I want to do is be.
Speaker 1: One with nature. I'm going to go meet my husband
Speaker 1: eating a crape, and you're going to go be one
Speaker 1: with nature. This is lovely for both of us. I
Speaker 1: guess I really like it. Great, Okay, Yellowstone, that's a
Speaker 1: good one. See you did have one. I did know
Speaker 1: you don't watch a lot of things.
Speaker 2: I know I hadn't seen like I've seen one episode,
Speaker 2: but oa.
Speaker 1: It so counts. You know. There is also something that
Speaker 1: I learned and I'm curious how you learned in school.
Speaker 1: Back when we were in school, when what is the
Speaker 1: thing that a butterfly comes out of cocoon. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not the only one, so I thought maybe I,
Speaker 1: like whatever, I learned that butterflies come out of cocoons, right, huh.
Speaker 1: My sister was with my niece the other day and
Speaker 1: they were talking about butterflies. They went to some park
Speaker 1: and my sister goes, oh, look like a Butterfli's coming.
Speaker 1: There's like the butterfly cocoon. And my niece looked at
Speaker 1: her and was like, what what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: And she's like the cocoon like and they're pointing it,
Speaker 1: and she goes, no, it's chrysalis. That's a chrysalis. I know,
Speaker 1: uh huh huh.
Speaker 2: I mean I feel like that's like a scientific word
Speaker 2: for it.
Speaker 1: It is, so I looked it up. Cocoon is actually
Speaker 1: factually wrong. Cocoon is for moss, no butterflies, excuse me.
Speaker 1: And we got taught growing up that was a cocoon
Speaker 1: all of us. I don't know if it was a
Speaker 1: Kansas thing, because you and I are both Kansas. Maybe
Speaker 1: it was just Kansas. I'm so curious if anybody else
Speaker 1: ever learned that, like, it's actually chrysalis. She doesn't. My
Speaker 1: niece doesn't even know the word cocoon, Like, oh so
Speaker 1: they don't even Well, I shouldn't say she doesn't know it,
Speaker 1: but she didn't know it in that context, right of
Speaker 1: Like because.
Speaker 2: We say butterflies more than moths, we're not gonna be like,
Speaker 2: look at that moth.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, because you're not watching a like a moth
Speaker 1: come out. Butterflies like a pretty experience. So you're watching
Speaker 1: it come out of a cocoon. You learn about that
Speaker 1: when you're like a kid, you watch the butterflies come out.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Casey.
Speaker 1: Musgrave, she says crystalis in that song you give me butterflies?
Speaker 1: You know, that's where I'm right. She's like, took me
Speaker 1: out of my crysalis, remember butterflies, Casey Musky a butterfly?
Speaker 1: Why were they teaching us cocoon? I don't know.
Speaker 2: Brought me out of my chrysalis?
Speaker 1: Because I always thought that was cool that she said it.
Speaker 2: They do like a cool effect on.
Speaker 1: It, I see. Oh yeah, kissful of color makes me
Speaker 1: wonder where you've always been. I was hiding in doubt
Speaker 1: till you brought me out of my crystalis, and I
Speaker 1: came to all because of you.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I ignored that. I loved the line,
Speaker 2: but I he brought me out of my cocoon.
Speaker 1: Cocon doesn't hit the same really, glad they're eating him.
Speaker 1: Chrystal Is now not only is it factually correct, scientifically correct,
Speaker 1: it's also prettier than cocoon.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Oh my god. I hope this comes
Speaker 2: up on an easy trivia now we'll get it right.
Speaker 1: Well, no, chrysalis, but you know what, no, because it's
Speaker 1: probably the answer is probably gonna bringing me cocoon.
Speaker 2: What is it called that a butterfly comes out my chrysalisk.
Speaker 1: Lee, Bobby, it's cocoon, but also it's chrysalis. Take your
Speaker 1: book fact check chrystalis.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, oh yeah, is that wild? That is
Speaker 2: that's crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I just thought we, my sister and I were
Speaker 1: mind blown that the way we were taught it was
Speaker 1: a cocoon. And now she's like that does what what
Speaker 1: are you talking about? It's chrysalis.
Speaker 2: It was just so like chrystalis does sound prettier, though
Speaker 2: it sounds more magical.
Speaker 1: Does And also if you think of like a moth
Speaker 1: and a butterfly, one is cocoon and one is chrysalis, whatever.
Speaker 1: So I learned something new this week and I didn't too.
Speaker 1: I didn't know I got taught something wrong. I know,
Speaker 1: all these years, and then maybe since the time we
Speaker 1: were in kindergarten, scientifically they adjusted to that. I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna go with that belief. Yeah. I don't think that's
Speaker 1: actually true, but.
Speaker 2: That was probably just like the general term that they
Speaker 2: you know, like cocoon. It's just easy to say.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it's kindergarten, because to say chrysalis it would
Speaker 1: be like still. I don't know. Maybe I just have
Speaker 1: so many questions. They keep They change the alphabet song,
Speaker 1: they changed cocoons. I'm not a fan of the new
Speaker 1: alphabet song.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: What is it? ELEMENTA wait, A B C empty h
Speaker 1: I JK.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so fun.
Speaker 1: Why would you take that apart? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: love it too, because that was would be like element.
Speaker 2: That's probably why kids aren't understanding it, because it is.
Speaker 1: It makes a lot worse sense. You know, if you
Speaker 1: can't change something, make it better, why wouldn't you? But crazy,
Speaker 1: I don't like change anything new you've learned.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think.
Speaker 1: I mean, we did learn in the rejected segments that
Speaker 1: everybody was about to make fun of me, and then
Speaker 1: I stood corrected, Oh that's true. I wait, it was
Speaker 1: about the doorstoppers. Oh my gosh, I did see that too,
Speaker 1: but I've never tried it. I haven't tried it. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't think a lot of places. I don't think
Speaker 1: a lot of like homes and stuff are built now
Speaker 1: and businesses that have the little springer thing. I think
Speaker 1: that might have been a thing from ye like when
Speaker 1: we were growing up. Because I don't know about you,
Speaker 1: but when I was a kid, i'd go play with
Speaker 1: the doorstop all the time, like I just go.
Speaker 2: Don't it's like a hat.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I always wondered.
Speaker 2: I thought it was such a pointless spring, like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: a pointless spring.
Speaker 1: It doesn't like absorb shock, it's just there. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: I got it because it's like, okay, it stops the
Speaker 1: door from hitting the wall. But an actual doorstopper, which
Speaker 1: is like the same concept of being like doorstopper helps
Speaker 1: keep a door back and stop it. So that's why
Speaker 1: everybody's ready to make fun of me. And I was like, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: there's something do.
Speaker 2: This, Oh I do I've learned something that yellow jackets.
Speaker 2: They're wow, if they sting you, you can go to
Speaker 2: the hospital. I have an infestation and.
Speaker 1: My frothing happening. What's going on?
Speaker 2: They there's just like a nest. So we got back
Speaker 2: like from vacation, and I go through my garage door
Speaker 2: when I pull in, so I'm not really going like
Speaker 2: out front in my front porch. But my pest control
Speaker 2: guy came and he's like, you, like urgent, you have
Speaker 2: a problem of like stinging pests in your front yard.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what happened?
Speaker 2: Did it sting somebody? He's like no, but like there
Speaker 2: is a nest. So apparently they dig underground to like
Speaker 2: make a nest. And he said there could be hundreds
Speaker 2: under there.
Speaker 1: Seriously, yeah, And I like now when I look out,
Speaker 1: I see them flying everywhere, So they're gonna come like
Speaker 1: take care of it and dig it up. They yellow
Speaker 1: jackets are predatory wasp that are common in North America.
Speaker 1: They're known for their painful stings and can be a nuance.
Speaker 1: I picked it. Yeah, they're new, they're more. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a weird way of writing this. Google No, but I
Speaker 1: had so many people message me and they were like oh,
Speaker 1: my husband like mode over one or he stepped on one.
Speaker 1: He got stung thirty times. He was allergic. He had
Speaker 1: to go to the er. They're like, do not get
Speaker 1: stung because once somebody said that if it stings you,
Speaker 1: they release something that tells all of its others who
Speaker 1: come and sting. Also what yes, like they're like, hey,
Speaker 1: come join in. They're evil. I had no idea. I
Speaker 1: thought it was a bee.
Speaker 2: It looks like a normal bumblebee or like just a
Speaker 2: normal bee if you're not looking close.
Speaker 1: But once I look close, they do well. They look
Speaker 1: like if a bee and a wasp had baby. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's what they look like. And they're aggressive. So do
Speaker 1: they just like put like a little like smoke bomb
Speaker 1: in its nest or like.
Speaker 2: Well, people told me to pour like gasoline down.
Speaker 1: That's horrible, Like I don't. I don't like a pezi
Speaker 1: as next person. But that sounds inhumane and it was inhumane.
Speaker 2: But you know what they do you is inhumane when
Speaker 2: they send you to the hospital.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it sounds like they only do it. It
Speaker 1: says they're they're slow to sting, but they are territorial,
Speaker 1: so if you do mess with their nests, they'll sting you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I walked by you. They're protective of their home.
Speaker 2: There.
Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm fighting for yellow dupe.
Speaker 2: They're in my home now, but they're just gonna dig
Speaker 2: it up. And then they put stuff around that they
Speaker 2: try to eat or something.
Speaker 1: And they die. I mean they are an invasive species.
Speaker 1: I say they are. You can go out in the
Speaker 1: middle of a field. You don't need to come by
Speaker 1: my bush. You can go anywhere else right here. Can't say,
Speaker 1: what is it? I can't stay here. You gotta go home,
Speaker 1: but you can't. You don't have to go home, but
Speaker 1: you can't stay here. Wow, that took me a long
Speaker 1: time to find them. Yeah, okay, you.
Speaker 2: Don't even go here.
Speaker 1: So yellow jackets they're danger out. Yeah, watch out. Like
Speaker 1: we learned a lot there, we did. I've never seen
Speaker 1: yellow jacket before, so you've only heard about the show
Speaker 1: about them, but I've never watched the show. I just
Speaker 1: heard their Showhow about him? Yeah, Bobby watches. I'm like
Speaker 1: zombie show. You're right, see, I tune out when you
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