WEBVTT - Best Bits: Abby Gives Exciting Boyfriend Update & Morgan Was Given Something Cool 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:04.000 The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Part one 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:09.360 behind a scene with a member of the show. What's 0:00:09.440 --> 0:00:12.280 up friends, Happy weekend? It is Best Bits time. I 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:15.480 am joined this weekend by Abby. Abby, how are you feeling? 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:17.000 I'm good? How are you? 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:21.080 I'm good? It's the weekend and after this weekend, all 0:00:21.120 --> 0:00:23.319 my weddings are officially over. Oh my god. Really good. 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:26.000 This is a big deal. This is a big deal. 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:28.840 They take so much out of you, they really do. 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:31.320 And we'll get into that, but first I do want 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:33.440 to talk about part two. If you're catching up on 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:35.720 the Bobby Bone Show, the bits you can expect this week, 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:38.639 Keith Urban stops by the show Bobby Detail going to 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:42.560 his basketball camp. We did some rejected segments. Lunchbox had 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:46.400 to serve his punishment. Also, speaking of Lunchbox, he thinks 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:50.080 work disrespected him, not related to this incident of him 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:52.440 not following the rules. Basically life skills we don't have, 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:55.360 and celebrities that we no longer really feel great about 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:57.520 after things we've seen in the news. So that's on 0:00:57.560 --> 0:01:00.000 part two. If you're checking out the Bobby Bone Showing 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:02.800 catching up on everything. But for now I'm chatting with 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:06.560 Abby and we're catching up on life abby. How is 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:07.679 mister Cheesehead. 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:13.560 It's going well? Yeah, yes, how's I How are things good? 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:15.840 They're progressing a lot. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:19.800 Okay, any like big things happening? You're smiling. 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:23.640 I mean we've talked about me like moving in with him, 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:25.959 so that's a big deal because I haven't lived with 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:26.839 the guy, so. 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:28.959 This would be the first time it would. Does it 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.119 freak you out talking about that? It does. 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:34.520 It's just a lot to it, you know, especially because 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:37.119 I own my own home and so and he does too, 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:38.000 so it's a whole. 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:41.280 But I would move in with him, so well, it's 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:41.680 just weird. 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:43.399 It's weird because I'm used to being like in the 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:45.240 comfort of my own home and having everything the way 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:47.600 I want it, and so like, oh no, it's a lot. 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:49.080 But it's going really well. 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:53.640 Okay, are we like in the belief that Cheesehead could 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:54.880 be the one? 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.040 I just every time I heard cheese I don't know 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:57.840 why it's funny to me. 0:01:58.040 --> 0:01:59.600 I guess it's a quandom by his name, because the 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.160 only reason technically have nicknames is until you show them. 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:05.160 I know you Have you ever said his name? 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:05.240 No? 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:07.120 I haven't, Okay, then we'll keep calling him cheese head. 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:08.919 I like cheese said, okay, because he does wear his 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:11.160 cheesehead on game days, which is really funny. That's probably 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:14.800 why I'm laughing, But I think, yeah, he could be Okay. 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:16.959 It scares me and talk about we've said this before. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:19.680 Yeah, you know, like I don't know, prepared for the 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:21.720 other shoot to drop. Always yeah, always. 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:23.320 I told you I was like, when I'm ten, like 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:27.720 ten years into marriage, then I'll be like, yeah, this is. 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:28.200 Is this finally happening yet? Okay? 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:30.040 Yeah, yes, it's good. 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:33.040 So are you? Are you happily in love? Yeah? I 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:36.040 am good. I mean I imagine so I probably should 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:39.160 ask that question before the movie. It's either one. But 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:41.560 I I think we've talked about that too. I think 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:44.040 you've shared that. You guys obviously have said you loved 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:45.000 each other and stuff too. 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:46.560 Yeah, which is the first time I've said it to 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:47.920 him too. I don't even know if I said that 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:49.720 to you. Did we talk about that? 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.160 I can't remember. If we don't know, it's hard to 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:55.120 figure out what we've talked about off microphone or song. Yeah, 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:56.640 So that's why I'm like, I'm not sure if we 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.080 shared that information. 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:00.040 I know that's true, but yeah, I say it, and 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:02.000 I used to be very uncomfortable saying it. I don't 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:03.720 know why. It's just always been a thing for me. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:06.080 It's just something I don't just throw out there. And 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:07.720 if I do say I love you, I'm like, love you, 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:09.880 but I'm going to show your first yea. 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:11.799 Yeah, So now what do you say it to him? 0:03:11.840 --> 0:03:13.880 Is it I love you? Yeah? It is. 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:16.120 But it's really weird because if he says it to 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:19.120 me first, sometimes I'm like you too, and he's like abby, 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:20.200 you know. 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:21.960 Like say it back. Yeah. 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:24.040 So it's Yeah, it's just a lot of things that 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:25.800 are out of my comfort zone, but like they're. 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:28.919 Good and he's making you feel safe in doing those. 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:32.200 So yes, that's a good thing. Yeah, it's good. You're 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:36.000 all smiles. Oh okay, Well, I'm really happy for you. 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:37.400 I'm glad it's going so well. 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:38.520 Thanks. 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:41.320 What you were sharing something else with me? You were 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:45.480 talking about she said, there's something I was yeah, Oh uh, 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:47.240 you got him a cool gift. Why did you get 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:49.960 him like such a cool gift? What happened? I don't know. 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:52.440 He like, he just gave me the best birthday ever, 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:53.520 and he's just so great. 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.360 Then tell me about the birthday first. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:59.880 Okay, yeah, so he I don't share too much because 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:02.680 there's there's some person are like private hey in box 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:04.760 things I haven't talked about yet. But like, it took 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:06.640 me to a really nice dinner. I just said, all 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:08.920 I want is a nice dinner, like a steak dinner, 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:11.400 because I never go in a steak and so he 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:13.600 took me to a nice restaurant. They put Happy Birthday 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:17.400 Abbey on the menu, like I didn't even know places 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:19.000 did that, Like it was crazy. And then they put 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:21.520 us in a booth. They give you like a champagne toast, 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:23.919 and then they bring out dessert and it says happy 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:26.440 Birthday like on the plate and there's like a little 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:29.560 cake and a sparkler candle type thing. 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:33.240 So it was just really sweet. Yeah. What was the restaurant? 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:36.160 Can you say? Oh, it's called Harper's. Okay, I've heard 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:36.679 of this place. 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:39.279 Yes, it's kind of downtown by the amphitheater, y kind 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:40.960 of social. Oh my gosh, I didn't even know it 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:43.160 was there, honestly, but it is so good. 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.080 Well and clearly they'd like to take care of their guests, 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:46.360 so this is great. 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:49.360 It's very pricey, Like it was very expensive and you 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:52.080 felt very loved. Yeah, it was really good because usually 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:53.800 I don't really do much on my birthday, you know, 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:56.000 I go like with friends or something. But I also 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:58.479 don't like it's weird. I don't like asking people to 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:00.840 celebrate me. It's very weird, you know. I just feel 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:03.039 weird being like, hey, come celebrate me. I don't know, 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:05.320 it's probably not normal, but so I don't really do 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:07.320 anything or like try to inconvenience people. 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:09.120 I think it's more normal than you think. I think 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.919 a lot depending on things we've experienced in our lives, 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:15.440 there could be stuff associated with birthdays that people are like, 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.640 I you know, it's you'd rather not celebrate than to 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:22.000 be disappointed, or you'd rather not ask because you don't 0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:23.760 like asking for help. There could be so many number 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:27.640 of reasons, right, Yeah, but you obviously asked him like 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:30.719 this is what you wanted, and he showed up, showed out. 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.680 Yeah, because he knows, like my last boyfriend forgot my birthday, 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:36.560 so so he. 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:40.840 Knows how blow up right now, Abbey truly great glow up? 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:45.200 I know I really love anyway, So he knew, like 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:47.479 how much that hurt, and so I think he really 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:49.400 tried to show you know that he does. 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:52.520 Yeah, and I'm like, wow, someone does who he does? 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:56.360 So anyway, there is a Titans game. They're playing the Packers, 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:58.800 and tickets are pretty expensive, but I actually found some 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:00.960 that are not too much, and so I'm gonna surprise 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:01.720 him with him. 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.360 Oh so you haven't given to him? I have not No, 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:06.479 when does When is the game? When does he find out? 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:09.400 Well, it's Sunday, So I'm gonna tell him. I think 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.240 like this weekend. I don't know when, at what point 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:14.159 And this is already airing on Saturday, so at this 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:16.719 point I probably have already told him. So I already 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:18.920 told him Friday, we're gonna go with her. 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:22.039 That's okay, Okay, that's exciting. Is he getting to break out? Yeah? 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:25.400 Probably yeah, because he already like, like, imagine we're not 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:27.320 going because we're also going to Morgan Wallen and that's 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.600 where we spent all their money on the tickets. So 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:31.600 he was like, oh no, I don't want to ask 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:33.760 you to like go to a game, you know, and 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:35.240 pay that much if you don't really care. 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:39.360 And I'm like I want to go, So whoa uh yeah, heck, yeah, 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.920 you got Morgan Wallen and you got a Packers game 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:45.000 for him? Are you not a Bandwagon Packers fan? Really? 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:46.280 I don't have anything Packers gear. 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:46.520 I don't. 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:48.839 It's gonna take a while because I like Broncos and 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:50.480 I would wear I think I would wear tighten his 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:53.760 gear like before, really so bad, But no, I want 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:56.320 to because he's like I would root for your team, 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.520 like if we go watch KU games Kansas basketball, like 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:01.159 I would hope he would work KU, and he said 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.200 he would, so I feel like I need to like 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:03.800 support him. 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:06.200 I don't know, it's hard. It's a hard one speaking 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:10.400 of k you I assume then, like, is there a 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:14.120 possibility you might come home for Holidays this year? Yeah? 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.160 I hope so yeah, Yeah, okay, if it works in 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:17.480 our schedules. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.480 Yeah, and everything pans out, yes, But I. 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.120 Would like him too. I want to take him to 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:21.520 a game. 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:23.920 But two KU game? Would you typically go over Christmas? 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:26.520 Don't you? Maybe every Thanksgiving too? I guess you could 0:07:26.600 --> 0:07:28.760 go both if there's one. Yeah. 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:31.240 I usually don't go home for Thanksgiving anyway, so you 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:32.800 know how hard it is to go home. 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:33.880 Yeah it's a quick trip. 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:35.480 Yeah, but at least we have more time. But like 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.000 for us, on a weekend, you leave Friday, you get 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:40.040 there Friday night at midnight, and then you have to 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:43.360 leave Sunday morning that evening, so it's like one full day. 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:46.080 Well and for both of us, like this is why 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:47.520 I can never go. It's really hard for me to 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:50.440 go back and visit Manhattan is because it's hard to 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.280 like go to Wichita visit family, and then you have 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.880 to drive to and you can't like fly out of 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.760 Lawrence or Manhattan. There's not like you have to drive 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:00.800 some more to get somewhere else and fly out, whether 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:03.880 it's Kansasdy or back to Whichshaw. So it's really hard 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.720 to go and do those in like a very short weekend. 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:09.600 Like I suppose there is like really small airports there, 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:12.080 but like you know, I don't have that company. Get 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:16.560 a private chat back, no worries, Yeah, yeah, okay, so yeah, 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:18.520 exciting stuff. Yeah. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:21.240 I love surprises, so hopefully we'll see. 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:23.280 You love giving them and getting them. 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:27.600 Giving them yeah and getting them too, Okay, surprise girl. Yeah, 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:28.640 I just love it all. 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:31.080 Love all the surprises that your love language. You feel 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:33.120 like gifts are part of your love language or do 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:33.960 you think it's something else. 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.880 Yeah, it is, like me, giving them is definitely my 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:37.520 love language. 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:41.959 Oh so your love language is gifts? What if you're 0:08:42.000 --> 0:08:46.319 receiving love language quality time and like acts of service? 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:51.720 I would say, maybe how about any anything I know 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:52.080 you care? 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:55.319 That's it the more like when people ask me, I'm 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:58.280 like all of them, like in some form of fashion, 0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:01.120 I gotta need the whole package. Yeah, it's hard to 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:03.120 pick just one or the other. It is. I think 0:09:03.200 --> 0:09:05.280 if if I ever had to like really pick, though, 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:08.319 I think it's acts of service. I think feeling that 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.199 like you're supporting me, and that's probably goes back to 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:15.240 some deep rooted trauma or something in my relationships of 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:18.880 like needing to feel like supported and whatever. I think 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:21.440 acts of service is there. But yeah, all of them. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:25.080 I really do need all of them, right, complex human being, 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:26.280 you make me choose one? 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:29.520 I know at different times it just depends on the situation. 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:31.640 Yeah, But also I don't know if you feel this 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:34.880 way too, Like I also give all five two. I 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:36.840 don't just want to receive them. I also like give 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:42.160 them all. Maybe we're weird. Maybe everyone was like, no, 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:44.280 we all have one. I know, Well, I'm not gonna 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:44.760 have them all. 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:46.600 That is always the question. It's like, what is your 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.800 love language. I'm like, I think it's all, isn't it? 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:49.600 Everybody does all? 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:53.000 I think ideally everybody would have all. Yeah. Maybe it's 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:57.320 that we've been forced to choose. That's true, That's really 0:09:57.360 --> 0:10:00.400 what it is. I okay, So were going to talk 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:01.800 about O weeken plans a little bit where we're going 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:06.640 to take a quick break here. All right, I want 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:08.080 to talk about Morgan wall and a little bit more 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:11.079 because you're going to his concert at in Knoxville at 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:12.280 like his home stadium or whatever. 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:14.800 Right, yeah, And it's insane. I did not know this. 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:17.360 Did you know that the stadium is gigantic? 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:18.240 Like? 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:21.880 Are they all not a thousand seats? Like Titan Stadium 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:23.400 holds what sixty thousand? 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:25.839 Wait for real? And this is a college stadium. 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:27.920 Yes, this college stadium. So when I bought tickets, I 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:29.960 was freaking out because I don't like asking for tickets 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:31.880 and I never get Morgan wall On tickets. So I 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:33.720 was like, I'll just buy them. But they were going 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:36.160 on sale and so I was like, oh, it's going 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:36.920 to be so hard. 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:37.120 To get them. 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:40.600 So I just kept buying more like I bought. We 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:43.760 bought two pairs, and because it got better the better ones, 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:45.000 I was like, oh, we'll just sell the other ones. 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:46.840 We can't sell them because there's so many seats. 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:47.520 Are you serious? 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:47.800 Yeah? 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:52.440 How many are not sold out? No, because there's like, yeah, 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:56.800 there's one hundred and one, nine and fifteen. That is huge. 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:58.360 I mean I'm only get a pictures of it, and 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:01.600 it looks massive. Why do they have such what are 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:04.680 the biggest date Okay, keep talking the biggest stadiums in 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:05.120 the country. 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:07.280 Yeah, because his show was already Sunday, but we can't 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.880 go Sunday obviously because we have work Monday morning. And 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:12.000 so when I found out they were going to go 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:12.559 on sale for. 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:15.120 Friday or he had a show Friday, I was like, yes, I. 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:17.880 Didn't realize it was the biggest stadium in the world 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:21.520 for a college games. 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:26.160 Wild, So I didn't realize. Okay, I mean Tennessee is 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:29.160 up there, but Michigan is actually the biggest with one 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:30.160 hundred and seven. 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:31.160 Are you hitting me? 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:35.319 Penn States behind that with one hundred and six. These 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:37.760 were all thousands, by the way, Ohio State one hundred 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:39.720 and two, Texas A and m one hundred and two, 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:41.520 LSU one hundred and two, and then there's Tennessee at one 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:45.520 hundred and one, and then Alabama hundred and one, Texas 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.160 one hundred, oh my god, and then we dropped to Georgia. 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:50.280 That's like ninety two thousand. Where have I been? 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:53.280 I like, I didn't. I guess I don't go to 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:54.880 many of I have never been to any of those. 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:57.120 Are they annowling out what are the biggest I really 0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:58.640 don't know a lot of sports. One of the biggest 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:02.080 stadiums in NFL, because now I'm like, are there bigger? Wow? 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:05.880 So is there not? Holy? I'm like in shock right now. 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:10.000 Some of these NFL stadiums are smaller. I'm so confused. 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.079 I am too, what's the deal? 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.319 Like? What am I missing? Like I understand I feel, 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:16.720 but I feel like there's more money. 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:21.600 Yes, in NFL football is huge, Like in the SEC. 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:23.200 When I came here, I was like, whoa, I mean, 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:25.160 they are serious down here. 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.640 And maybe there's more people investing and they had because 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:31.640 literally the biggest ones in NFL MetLife Stadium and New 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:34.760 York Giants Jets eighty two thousand, five hundred. 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:36.720 That's the biggest one that's the biggest one. 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:39.679 And then it just drops from there. So how are 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:42.800 these Oh my gosh, this is wild. Do you think 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:46.160 college football is bigger than NFL football? 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:46.880 What's the reason. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:48.720 I mean, I'm the wrong person to ask. I'm probably 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:50.080 the wrong person to be talking about any of this, 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:51.120 But I don't know. 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:53.280 Like, there's so many students. I guess that go so 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:55.280 they probably have like huge student sections. 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:58.440 Oh that and that makes sense. How many students go 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:01.160 to mission? Now? Now, I mean I'm you're just gonna 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:03.760 go down a rabbit hole on a rabbit hole. Okay. 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:07.559 So for University of Michigan, in one like in fall 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:09.600 of twenty twenty two, it was fifty one thousand. Oh 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:12.920 my gosh, that's like that's almost Titans Stadium. You're in Nashville. 0:13:12.920 --> 0:13:13.559 Okay, that's wild. 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:17.439 So I guess that makes sense. Oh, I know, I've 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:20.200 extra tickets because I thought it would be hard to 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:22.800 get God get it? So you ever paid? It's in 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:24.720 that wild. I just thought that was crazy. But are 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:26.080 you trying to sell them or are you just yeah, 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:29.600 I'm trying Okay, no luck like no bavvy, I guess you're. 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:32.800 But they're tizzy they're going for so cheap now. They 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:34.800 jacked up the prices when they went on sale because 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:37.160 Ticketmaster is evil. I said it, They're evil. 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:40.480 Yeah, I don't think you're alone in that ceiling of Ticketmaster. 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:43.840 I stopped, honestly, like I I haven't gone to a 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:45.800 concert if it's not like through the show or something 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:47.960 in a long time. Because I gave up. I was 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:50.000 like I would, I wouldn't even get through. I wasn't 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:52.319 even like trying. I would try and get tickets and 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:54.400 I couldn't even get through to even try and purchase 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:54.800 a ticket. 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:55.959 Oh my gosh. 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:58.320 So I just gave up. They jacked up the tickets 0:13:58.320 --> 0:13:58.720 I got. 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:01.280 They were two hundred each. They jacked him up to 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:04.560 six fifty each that my boyfriend got, So now he's 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:06.839 in the hole that much. We're not gonna sell him. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:08.599 It's like we'll probably be able to sell him for 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:11.480 like one hundred each. Like it's not good. I'mind. I 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:12.400 told him to buy him too. 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:16.960 I was just like, just get them there. We want 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:18.440 to go, we want to be there. But I get 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.240 it because you're gonna panic because you think you're not 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:22.840 gonna get tickets, and it's that's how he get you. 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.440 Yeah, I didn't know research. I didn't realize it was 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:29.480 the largest stadium ever and that there's so many tickets left. 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:30.880 I didn't know it was that large either. 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:33.480 But I had never been to a UT game, and 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:35.640 they always look really fun and there's like fireworks and there, 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:38.000 you know, all that happening, and I was like, Okay, well, 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:40.480 Morgan wall and it's his home, that's his team, so 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:42.920 he's gonna make it big. It'll be cool, it. 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:44.840 Will be really cool, and it'll be a great experience. 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:47.400 It'll be great just in the hole, but the design, 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:50.160 you know, try not to focus on the other side 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:53.080 of that. You're in some whole money. Heikes. 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:54.920 Well, I learned my lesson, so I'm never gonna buy 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:55.840 him when they go on sale. 0:14:56.800 --> 0:15:01.440 Buy them on resale though, because people jack up the 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:02.840 prices in resale too. 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:04.960 Which is frustrating. Yeah, it's like, why do you try 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:05.800 to make money on it? 0:15:05.880 --> 0:15:08.920 Just be cool, just be cool, and like resell it 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:11.400 for that plus like twenty five bucks. Yeah, yeah, like 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:12.800 twenty five I'm cool with that. But when you jack 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:17.120 them about four hundred dollars, no, Yeah, that happens a lot. 0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:19.080 If you start trying to make money every way they can. 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:21.680 That's for sure. I know we're in a wow blow 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:25.640 the West out here, man. Wow. Well, let's talk about 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:29.440 your weekend, shall we? Oh yeah, in another wedding, Oh 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:33.480 my gosh. I also I fully intend to make a 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:35.880 second post that will say always a bridesmaid Part two, 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:39.160 Part two, let's go. I got the reference, thank you. 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:43.040 It wasna be funny, at least at the very late. 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:45.920 I can laugh about things in my life, you know, 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:49.320 like whatever. But yeah, it's one of my really good 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:52.200 friends from college. They actually already got married the Elope, 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.560 so this is just a big celebration. But I'm still 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:58.240 fulfilling all the bridesmaid duties and stuff for this like 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:02.040 big reception that's happening. So it's a little bit different. 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:05.040 That's some more fun. Like yeah, pressure just like fun. 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:08.080 Yeah, yeah, a lot less pressure. And their wedding they're 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.400 like a low man. Colorado was beautiful, so it was 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:14.240 really like really excited for them, excited to like just 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:15.920 celebrate and hang out. I get to see my sister 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:17.600 and brother in law this weekend, which will be like 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:21.040 an added bonus. So going back to Kansas City because 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:23.080 I don't get to get home. I guess my dad 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:26.080 got jealous of my sister, was like, well, why can't 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.160 Morgan find a witch Shaw and then like drive can 0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:31.080 City and then drive I'm like, Dad, I don't have 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:33.080 enough time for that. Like that, that's squeezing in a 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:35.720 lot of things at once. So he was Saddy doesn't 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:37.640 get to see me, but I will be headed to 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:41.400 Kansas City for like a brief a quick kind of 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:43.360 thirty six forty eight hours to go back for this 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:45.280 and then I fly back. Wait, does your sister live 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:47.320 in Kansas City? No, they live in which shop. Oh, 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:51.800 but so really funny with this couple. It's my college 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:54.240 bone to my college best friends. But I went to 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:57.000 high school with her husband. What in the world they 0:16:57.200 --> 0:17:01.200 met in Kansas City working together? How weird is that? 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:02.000 That is wild? 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:04.280 Yeah. I remember when they first started in and I 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:07.760 was like, wait, what I know him? Like, we're we're little. 0:17:07.800 --> 0:17:10.120 I've seen him multiple times, like and we still stay 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:11.560 in touch. It wasn't just someone that we went to 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:13.960 high school. It was like somebody that, like my sister 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:16.479 was really good friends with. So I always saw him 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:19.160 and he became one of my friends through that, and 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:21.480 I was like, this is weird. This is the weirdest 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:24.120 connection ever. But oh my gosh, that is really weird. 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:26.440 What a small world. Yeah, for sure, it's such a 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:31.400 Kansas thing, very very Kansas. But I'm excited for her 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:33.639 and I think it's gonna be awesome. But I am 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:38.080 also very excited for Sunday when this is all officially over. 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:39.200 This year. 0:17:39.480 --> 0:17:42.480 Yeah, it's a lot because I remember I was like 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:44.679 made of honor for two weddings back to back, and 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:47.280 it's just like because it's. 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:48.280 So high pressure. 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:50.199 It's like, you know, it's such a big moment in 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:51.560 their life and you just want to make it like 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:53.879 the best you can, and you don't. You want to 0:17:53.880 --> 0:17:54.879 do everything that you can. 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:57.120 And there's so like there's so much fun, but there's 0:17:57.160 --> 0:18:00.119 so much that goes into them. And you know, you 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:02.480 have the lead in which is the battery. You have 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:04.919 bridal parties, you have and then you have the wedding. 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:08.600 And I'm like, even as somebody who was in a 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:11.400 relationship been going through, I was, there's so much of this. 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:14.119 There's so much happening, Like it does not matter the 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:16.399 season of the life that I mean, there's just a 0:18:16.440 --> 0:18:18.879 lot going on. And when you're the one person that 0:18:18.960 --> 0:18:21.640 lives away from everybody, Like that's the hard part. 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:23.199 That is the hardest part. 0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:25.280 If you had to travel for everything. 0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:28.080 Yeah, if you're just right down the street, that's that's amazing. 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:30.720 Yes hello, but oh yeah. 0:18:30.480 --> 0:18:34.359 But yeah, So your girls is excited, excited for the wedding, 0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:37.880 excited to celebrate them. Also excited that I finally get 0:18:37.880 --> 0:18:39.960 to have like two months left of twenty twenty four 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:41.359 that doesn't have any weddings. 0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:42.480 Yeah, there's light. 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:45.280 There's light at the end of the tunnel. There's some light. 0:18:45.359 --> 0:18:48.879 So that's what's going on lately. And I also I 0:18:48.880 --> 0:18:52.159 wanted to talk about your crazy uber driver. You tell 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:54.320 me sorry, because I'm normally the one that comes into 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:55.520 the show with crazy uber stories. 0:18:55.640 --> 0:18:58.159 Yes, okay, what would you do in this situation? Like 0:18:58.640 --> 0:19:01.679 my driver was so reckless and he was probably in 0:19:01.720 --> 0:19:04.600 his seventies and yes, like he was this cute old 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:08.120 man christ seventy five eighty actually like la rampa, that's live. 0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:09.439 Yeah, And I was like, oh, man, I hope he 0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:10.920 goes fast enough to get me there. 0:19:12.080 --> 0:19:13.760 Oh my gosh, I'm not even kidding. He was going 0:19:13.880 --> 0:19:16.480 ninety and like a sixty five. He was passing everybody. 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:19.280 He had road rage. He was honking at people, cutting 0:19:19.359 --> 0:19:20.959 them out, never used his turn signal. 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:23.240 Flying But I was a cute old man when he 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:24.560 first entered the vehicle. 0:19:24.320 --> 0:19:27.240 Uh huh. He never talked, obviously, I'm glad I didn't 0:19:27.280 --> 0:19:29.679 talk to him because but he was like focused, and 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:31.520 it looked like he couldn't see very well because he 0:19:31.560 --> 0:19:33.720 was grabbing the steering wheel and then like leaning up 0:19:33.840 --> 0:19:38.000 really far forward, yeah, like to look out the windshield, 0:19:38.080 --> 0:19:40.600 and I'm like, oh my gosh, Oh my gosh, what's happening, 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:41.520 what is happening here? 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:42.280 It's seriously. 0:19:42.320 --> 0:19:43.920 I tried to get a picture of this pedometer because 0:19:43.920 --> 0:19:46.520 it said ninety and I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:47.520 going to get here so fast. 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:50.080 But what do I do? Like, you're real, Yeah, I'm 0:19:50.080 --> 0:19:53.119 not kidding. So wait, how far did you have to 0:19:53.119 --> 0:19:54.160 go in this vehicle with him? 0:19:54.240 --> 0:19:57.000 Gosh, I mean from my house, which is kind of 0:19:57.800 --> 0:20:00.960 farther than you seen twenty minutes from twenty five, I 0:20:01.080 --> 0:20:02.800 would say, okay, further out. 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:05.399 Yeah, you made it safely. 0:20:05.680 --> 0:20:09.200 Yeah, And I was glad because I do stress because 0:20:09.200 --> 0:20:11.399 sometimes they go like really slower. We get stuck in traffic. 0:20:11.440 --> 0:20:13.000 So I was like, oh, this is a change. I'm 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:14.679 actually gonna get there like a really fast. 0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:15.199 Yeah. 0:20:15.359 --> 0:20:17.760 But and I don't I honestly don't know how if 0:20:17.800 --> 0:20:20.639 you spoke English that well, because. 0:20:20.440 --> 0:20:22.720 Okay, so I just you guys never had a conversation. 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:25.440 Were you at any point where you're like, maybe I 0:20:25.480 --> 0:20:28.320 should ask him to slow down. I thought about it, 0:20:28.359 --> 0:20:30.520 but I just thought it was really awkward. I don't know. 0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:34.480 I never say anything to the Uber drivers and I 0:20:34.520 --> 0:20:37.199 didn't know. I just kind of sat there and like 0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:39.199 just looked at it happened. But then I saw that 0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:41.760 we're passing everybody on the highway. And then once we 0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:44.280 got to the airport, people like cut him out or 0:20:44.480 --> 0:20:47.520 wouldn't move, and he's like and then he would like 0:20:47.560 --> 0:20:48.879 look over at him, and I don't know. 0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:49.960 It was it was a lot. 0:20:50.160 --> 0:20:51.119 But would you say anything? 0:20:52.640 --> 0:20:56.439 I'm probably not. I know, you just got to think 0:20:56.440 --> 0:20:58.520 about those like awkward, Y're awkward if we were not 0:20:58.560 --> 0:21:02.320 talking to begin with, we didn't never say anything, Yeah, 0:21:02.320 --> 0:21:05.160 I don't. I don't know that. I don't think I would. 0:21:05.160 --> 0:21:06.560 I think I would have just sat there and been like, 0:21:07.080 --> 0:21:08.680 my life is in your hands. I would to make sure, 0:21:08.720 --> 0:21:10.840 my seat belt was on really tight I did, and 0:21:10.960 --> 0:21:14.800 just brace for impact kind of thing. It's crazy though, 0:21:15.200 --> 0:21:18.760 the amount of like I don't think you and I 0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:20.520 are alone and having that. I think there's a lot 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:22.200 of wild uber stories. 0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:26.240 Which is crazy that we put someone else's life. No, 0:21:26.359 --> 0:21:29.199 we let someone else put our lives in their hands. 0:21:29.200 --> 0:21:30.639 Like I was just thinking that during that. I was like, 0:21:30.640 --> 0:21:32.320 oh my gosh, my life is in this dude's hands 0:21:32.359 --> 0:21:32.720 right now. 0:21:32.840 --> 0:21:37.639 It is. But also, if you're drinking, like you're in 0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:41.320 a better circumstance to have somebody who is sober driving you, 0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:44.160 you know what I mean, So like what's the alternative? 0:21:44.320 --> 0:21:47.199 I suppose not drinking is the alternative and you just 0:21:47.280 --> 0:21:50.440 drive yourself. But like, there used to be really a 0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:52.159 lot of taxis and stuff. But I feel like taxis 0:21:52.200 --> 0:21:53.080 have always been crazy. 0:21:53.320 --> 0:21:55.840 Yeah, oh I was always scared in taxis. They were 0:21:55.880 --> 0:21:56.800 like this all the time. 0:21:56.960 --> 0:22:00.600 Yes, maybe he's an old taxi driver. I was that too. 0:22:00.800 --> 0:22:01.720 Maybe I think he was. 0:22:02.640 --> 0:22:05.560 And they're just like slightly they're a different breed, they are. 0:22:06.520 --> 0:22:09.560 They not regress it. Okay, I don't think I would 0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:11.920 have said anything. Okay, did you give him a rating? 0:22:12.920 --> 0:22:17.520 Did you be like, hey, maybe slow down next time. Actually, no, 0:22:17.560 --> 0:22:19.320 I don't think I said anything. Did you give him 0:22:19.320 --> 0:22:20.600 five stars and just let it happened? 0:22:20.800 --> 0:22:21.960 I kind of did. Yeah, I think so. 0:22:22.480 --> 0:22:23.879 I did the same thing. Oh shoot, he was a 0:22:23.880 --> 0:22:27.399 top driver. I remember seeing that. I always get top drivers. Well, 0:22:27.440 --> 0:22:29.679 maybe people really liked that they got there fast. 0:22:30.080 --> 0:22:31.800 Maybe he's just having a day. That's what I was 0:22:31.840 --> 0:22:33.720 thinking too. I was like, you just have him one 0:22:33.720 --> 0:22:34.399 of those days? 0:22:34.480 --> 0:22:36.960 Did you give him all tip in there? Yeah? I did. 0:22:39.760 --> 0:22:41.680 I've done the same thing and all my crazy ver Sure, 0:22:41.720 --> 0:22:43.240 I still give him five stars and I still tip 0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:45.760 them because I just I don't know. I don't. I don't. 0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:47.359 I feel like if I just catch him in the 0:22:47.400 --> 0:22:50.280 wrong moment, I feel really bad. I know. 0:22:50.400 --> 0:22:52.240 And he didn't even he didn't get out to load 0:22:52.240 --> 0:22:55.160 my suitcase, which I feel like they're not expected to. Yeah, 0:22:55.520 --> 0:22:57.439 it is a nice gesture when they do. But he 0:22:57.600 --> 0:22:59.760 was just just staying in the car, you know, and 0:22:59.800 --> 0:23:01.719 then just flew like a rocket. 0:23:01.720 --> 0:23:03.560 It might have been happening it himself a day. 0:23:04.440 --> 0:23:05.280 We're gonna go with that. 0:23:05.520 --> 0:23:07.840 Yeah, and no conversation. He was like just a to 0:23:07.880 --> 0:23:10.000 b A to b A to b. Okay, I did 0:23:10.119 --> 0:23:12.800 want to. I also wanted to bring up with you. 0:23:12.800 --> 0:23:15.480 You reminded me of some things that had happened this 0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:18.560 weekend at the at the weddings. So we had a 0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:21.240 rehearsal dinner this past weekend that was at a super 0:23:21.240 --> 0:23:24.800 fancy restaurant and it was like, literally, the multiple things 0:23:24.840 --> 0:23:26.479 you've talked about have reminded me of this, and I 0:23:26.480 --> 0:23:31.400 forgot it had happened. And this was like five course meal, which, 0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:32.960 by the way, I was so stuffed after. I was like, 0:23:33.000 --> 0:23:35.720 I'm literally ill. We'd had a five course meal before 0:23:35.720 --> 0:23:37.320 a wedding the next day. But it was so good, 0:23:37.920 --> 0:23:40.280 and it was the fancy place that they had the 0:23:40.320 --> 0:23:42.480 crummer do you know what I'm talking about? Where they 0:23:42.800 --> 0:23:45.400 come and they scraped the crumbs off of your table. Yes, 0:23:45.480 --> 0:23:49.159 I've never experienced that. Even on your birthday steakhouse they 0:23:49.160 --> 0:23:49.679 didn't do it. 0:23:49.760 --> 0:23:50.400 They didn't do that. 0:23:50.520 --> 0:23:52.680 Okay, Well let me tell you this place did it. 0:23:53.119 --> 0:23:57.880 Fairy's or Perry's Steakhouse in Franklin, Tennessee. It was really good. 0:23:57.880 --> 0:24:00.600 The food was amazing, but the servers over and after 0:24:00.600 --> 0:24:02.920 they cleaned up, they come And what I have learned 0:24:03.000 --> 0:24:05.639 is it is called the crumber. They come and they 0:24:05.720 --> 0:24:07.639 use this like little tool that literally looks like a 0:24:07.680 --> 0:24:09.480 tool from a tool belt and they scrape all the 0:24:09.640 --> 0:24:11.640 crumbs off and they clean off the table before they 0:24:11.680 --> 0:24:14.840 bring out new dishes. Wow. And I was so fascinated, 0:24:15.200 --> 0:24:16.800 Like I was like, this is the coolest thing ever. 0:24:16.840 --> 0:24:19.520 And I you know me, you've been in my house. 0:24:19.560 --> 0:24:22.359 I'm a very OCD cleaning, Like my house is in 0:24:22.920 --> 0:24:25.440 very good order. Yes, I love cleaning things. 0:24:25.480 --> 0:24:26.600 It's the cleanest person I know. 0:24:27.840 --> 0:24:31.879 So this guy's coming Averred. He's using this crummer. I 0:24:31.920 --> 0:24:33.200 did not know that's what it was called. I was 0:24:33.280 --> 0:24:35.240 just like, oh, what's that tool and he's using I'm 0:24:35.240 --> 0:24:36.920 like this is a cool and I'm just watching him 0:24:36.920 --> 0:24:38.639 like fascinating. I was like, oh, there's some more like 0:24:38.680 --> 0:24:41.240 helping him clean the table. And he came back over 0:24:41.320 --> 0:24:42.919 on the next time he goes here, I have like 0:24:42.960 --> 0:24:45.240 fifteen extra ones. So I got to take home a crumber. 0:24:45.320 --> 0:24:49.480 What really, that's so nice? Wait, so what does it do? 0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:51.640 You brush it off into your hand or it has 0:24:51.640 --> 0:24:53.800 a trade they do? They do it has like a 0:24:53.800 --> 0:24:55.560 little ridge on. I think it catches some of it, 0:24:55.600 --> 0:24:57.400 but they also have their hand to like brush off 0:24:57.440 --> 0:25:00.040 into their hand, or sometimes they'll bring a table. I 0:25:00.040 --> 0:25:02.320 actually think it's a plate. I wasn't really focused on 0:25:02.480 --> 0:25:05.320 where it was going as well as of just what 0:25:05.359 --> 0:25:07.240 was happening on the table. I think it was a 0:25:07.240 --> 0:25:09.840 little plate that they brought and oh got it into 0:25:10.160 --> 0:25:12.320 But I have I now have a crummer. Not that 0:25:12.359 --> 0:25:14.080 I'm ever going to be able to use it. I know. 0:25:14.119 --> 0:25:15.960 I just was gonna say, have you used it yet? 0:25:16.400 --> 0:25:18.120 I mean no, I don't have a cloth on any 0:25:18.119 --> 0:25:19.920 of my tables at my house or anything, so I'm 0:25:19.960 --> 0:25:22.360 normally just like wipe it down with the paper. Doubt. 0:25:22.440 --> 0:25:25.280 I love that you have a crumber. Now, I've never 0:25:25.320 --> 0:25:26.160 seen one in use. 0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:28.639 I do. I'll have to show you. It's like you 0:25:28.680 --> 0:25:31.959 if I put this together, Alo's for a dollar. Okay. 0:25:32.000 --> 0:25:34.080 This is the fact that I was so fascinating with this, 0:25:34.320 --> 0:25:36.359 and I was at the table with the bride's family 0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:39.120 and they were laughing so hard. They were like, this 0:25:39.200 --> 0:25:42.080 is this is you were fascinated. Yeah, And then that 0:25:42.200 --> 0:25:43.720 he came over and brought me one, and they're like, 0:25:43.760 --> 0:25:46.679 this is a great story. So that's just that's just 0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:48.320 my life. That's how I heay. 0:25:48.359 --> 0:25:51.280 It's the little things that bring us the most. 0:25:51.119 --> 0:25:55.000 Joy is truly the little things a crummer. And then 0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:58.760 also I have a controversial opinion on weddings when it 0:25:58.800 --> 0:26:02.240 comes to the dance floor. Why do we always form circles? 0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:05.639 Why do we? Why? Why? I get it for the 0:26:05.640 --> 0:26:07.879 bride and groom, right, everybody wants to see them. You 0:26:07.920 --> 0:26:10.520 form around them, you show them you love them. I 0:26:10.560 --> 0:26:12.760 think those moments are really sweet. But as soon as 0:26:12.760 --> 0:26:14.920 the bride and groom are done, let's like scatter, Yes, 0:26:15.440 --> 0:26:16.440 why do circles? 0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:19.960 And they they get formed constantly, they do, and then 0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:22.160 like your pressure to go out to dance in the middle, 0:26:22.359 --> 0:26:23.160 It's like who's next? 0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:25.600 And I don't have a move to go out in 0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:28.119 the middle. I'm like, I'm literally like the flimsy you know, 0:26:28.160 --> 0:26:30.080 the little things that are in front of stores are 0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:32.320 like the little guys that's like me, And I'm like, 0:26:32.480 --> 0:26:33.399 what do you want me to do? 0:26:33.520 --> 0:26:36.320 Oh my gosh, I know I have to be real gone, 0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:38.360 like very uh huh at the end of the night 0:26:38.400 --> 0:26:39.000 to get in that. 0:26:39.440 --> 0:26:42.000 Yeah, like, do not push me in that circle? Yeah? Why? 0:26:42.160 --> 0:26:43.919 I just realized that why do we do that? I 0:26:43.920 --> 0:26:46.440 don't know, It's happened at every wedding I have been doing, 0:26:46.520 --> 0:26:49.719 there's always a circle, and the circles really bother me. 0:26:49.840 --> 0:26:51.320 Maybe it's because I've been to so many this year 0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:53.560 where I'm like, guys, please stop forming the freaking circle. 0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:57.520 That's actually really funny. How do you get it to not? 0:26:57.680 --> 0:27:00.000 How do you disperse it? You gotta be the circle 0:27:00.160 --> 0:27:01.320 dispersory at this next one. 0:27:01.440 --> 0:27:03.360 I don't know how you disperse it either, Like, once 0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:06.720 it's formed, there's no like turning around, but then it's 0:27:06.720 --> 0:27:10.119 always awkward when it does end, right, like the transition 0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:12.719 between going from the circle back to regular dancing back 0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:13.320 to the circle. 0:27:14.440 --> 0:27:16.440 I think everybody likes to see each other's faces. 0:27:16.520 --> 0:27:20.120 Like I don't know, I really and I fully get 0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:22.359 it if there's a song that warrants it right, if 0:27:22.400 --> 0:27:25.880 there's a reason for some level of it, or again, 0:27:25.960 --> 0:27:28.240 the bride and groomer in it and everybody's around them 0:27:28.440 --> 0:27:32.000 totally makes sense now. But for every song or every 0:27:32.000 --> 0:27:34.800 other song, I don't feel like there's a reason for that. 0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:37.920 I feel like we can just all collectively join on 0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:38.639 a dance floor. 0:27:39.359 --> 0:27:44.320 It's fun to stay at the Why. 0:27:43.040 --> 0:27:45.800 Even line nances, you're in lines, nobody's in a circle 0:27:45.880 --> 0:27:49.200 that's true. I don't get it. I just noticed that. 0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:51.280 Now I'm gonna notice it every time the circle you're welcome. 0:27:51.280 --> 0:27:53.000 And I do remember that even at Lauren's wedding. 0:27:53.080 --> 0:27:56.359 Mm hmm, it happened. It happens at every single wedding. 0:27:56.920 --> 0:27:57.280 It does. 0:27:57.520 --> 0:28:00.480 And I and maybe there's like some some psychology behind 0:28:00.480 --> 0:28:02.320 it that like maybe that's like a community thing and 0:28:02.359 --> 0:28:03.880 we don't know each other, so we're trying to get 0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:04.720 to know. I don't know. 0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:06.680 You don't want to turn your back on somebody, you know, 0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:10.440 because if everybody's back is out, then everybody feels welcome 0:28:10.520 --> 0:28:11.600 and you just feel but. 0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:15.240 Like inevitably with the circle, not everybody's involved. There's always 0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:18.119 people on the dance floor that aren't involved, and nobody 0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:20.800 ever widens the circle, so then it's awkward you have 0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:22.560 people Yeah. 0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:24.199 No, my gosh, there's got a big psychology. 0:28:24.480 --> 0:28:26.680 I'm telling you, this is a thing. And it wasn't 0:28:26.720 --> 0:28:28.640 until we talked about the wedding that it then came 0:28:28.680 --> 0:28:30.159 back to my mind. I was like, oh, I had 0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:32.720 this thought. Yes, I like other Morgan was at the 0:28:32.720 --> 0:28:34.040 wedding that I was at. I looked at her and 0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:35.840 I'm not going out right now, there's a circle. Really, 0:28:36.000 --> 0:28:37.760 I'm not did she notice it too or she like 0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:40.240 I was like, oh, it's like it's fine, Like she 0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:42.560 was like nobody. I was like, no, no, no, you don't understand. 0:28:42.560 --> 0:28:45.000 Those are so awkward. They're so awkward, and I'm not 0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:45.720 drunk enough for that. 0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:48.320 I know. I always get pressured like they're like, Abby, 0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:49.840 go out, and then I do it. I'm so embarrassed, 0:28:49.840 --> 0:28:51.480 and I just I don't like it. Yeah, because I 0:28:51.480 --> 0:28:53.640 don't have a go to move. I don't have one. 0:28:53.680 --> 0:28:56.000 Maybe if we get go to moves, it will be 0:28:56.000 --> 0:28:57.440 a better experience. Maybe. 0:28:57.560 --> 0:28:59.680 I feel like people either do like the worm or something, 0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:01.760 or like break dancing thing, and I'm like, I'm not 0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:03.800 gonna do that in dress. I'm not gonna even attempt 0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:04.200 to do it. 0:29:04.320 --> 0:29:06.280 No, Like, listen, I can do a back handspring, but like, 0:29:06.320 --> 0:29:08.320 I can't do that in those settings. I don't have 0:29:08.360 --> 0:29:09.800 the clothes or the shoes for that. 0:29:11.040 --> 0:29:12.520 Oh my gosh, that's funny. 0:29:12.720 --> 0:29:15.680 Yeah. So those are my controversial thoughts and my experiences 0:29:15.720 --> 0:29:18.520 of weddings. This moment, Okay, we're gonna take one more 0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:24.800 quick quick break. We'll be right back, all right. Abby 0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:28.680 has a TV show or movie ever influenced you to 0:29:28.760 --> 0:29:29.479 travel somewhere. 0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:31.400 Oh my god, why do you always gotta bring up 0:29:31.440 --> 0:29:32.160 TV shows. 0:29:31.960 --> 0:29:35.080 And movies anything of all time? Is nothing new that 0:29:35.120 --> 0:29:37.400 you've had to see? Let me think, and I can 0:29:37.480 --> 0:29:39.320 let you think because the reason I'm bringing this up 0:29:39.360 --> 0:29:41.200 is because I've been watching Emily in Paris, which is 0:29:41.240 --> 0:29:44.760 like my favorite show, oh man, on Netflix. It's the 0:29:44.840 --> 0:29:46.960 cheesiest thing ever, and I eat it up. I love 0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:51.200 it. It's just the easiest watch and it's so good. And 0:29:51.240 --> 0:29:52.760 now I really want to go to Paris, Like I 0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:55.640 literally want to be like, I in this moment of 0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.440 my life need to go to Paris. It is Yeah, 0:29:58.640 --> 0:30:00.760 I haven't seen that show, but well I think you 0:30:00.760 --> 0:30:02.320 would like it. It's also quick episodes. 0:30:02.400 --> 0:30:02.920 Oh good. 0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:05.080 But it is very cheesy. It's like cheesy, man, you 0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:08.240 may not like it. Cheesy romance, like very funny. You 0:30:08.360 --> 0:30:10.280 just kind of root for. She's like fallen in and 0:30:10.280 --> 0:30:13.560 out of love. It's a fun like storyline and I 0:30:13.600 --> 0:30:16.800 don't know, I just like enjoy enjoy the watching of it. 0:30:17.000 --> 0:30:19.640 But she romanticizes Paris so much and she went over 0:30:19.720 --> 0:30:22.800 by herself to like take this job. And now I'm 0:30:22.840 --> 0:30:25.520 like I think I need my Paris moment. I need 0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:27.800 to go to Paris or maybe it's a place like 0:30:27.840 --> 0:30:30.480 London or Rome. I don't know. She's gone to a 0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:33.040 few of them in there, but one of the three 0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:35.240 on a little trip sometime soon. 0:30:35.760 --> 0:30:39.520 Movies definitely do make Paris like seem very romantic. It's like, 0:30:39.680 --> 0:30:40.920 isn't it the City of Romances? 0:30:40.960 --> 0:30:42.520 Yeah? I think that is what it's called. Well, and 0:30:42.560 --> 0:30:44.440 I think that's the irony in it too, of like 0:30:44.680 --> 0:30:46.720 me in this space of my life and I should 0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:49.040 just like go and manticize my own life, you know 0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:50.480 what I mean. And so like waiting to go to 0:30:50.520 --> 0:30:52.880 Paris with somebody or whatever, uh huh, Oh my gosh. 0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:55.320 So I went into Paris in high school, okay, with 0:30:55.400 --> 0:30:58.000 like a trip, and I remember the men over there 0:30:58.080 --> 0:31:01.480 are so attractive. You are pointing that out. They're so 0:31:01.640 --> 0:31:04.480 fit because they walk everywhere, they eat healthy, and we 0:31:04.480 --> 0:31:06.200 were and they dressed it was super nice, Like they 0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.480 were in like button downs, you know, with like not 0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:10.440 all the way buttoned up, and you're like the sleeve 0:31:10.480 --> 0:31:12.720 rolled up and you're just like, oh my gosh, what's happening. 0:31:12.800 --> 0:31:14.560 So this is why people go to Paris this is 0:31:14.560 --> 0:31:16.960 what you're saying. I think maybe my husband's over there. 0:31:17.080 --> 0:31:18.920 Maybe you never know, I could be in a crape 0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:22.640 or something. You look at the Apple Tower CP. Yeah, 0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:24.760 I hope he's a crape. But I do hope you're 0:31:24.800 --> 0:31:28.760 enjoying your your crape husband. You're gonna do that. 0:31:28.760 --> 0:31:30.920 You're gonna bond over crapes in the line of the 0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:32.800 crape truck or whatever. 0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:35.960 They have it is. I remember that and I was 0:31:36.000 --> 0:31:38.000 like just in high school. But you know, did you 0:31:38.120 --> 0:31:39.440 like it where you're like Paris is awesome? 0:31:39.520 --> 0:31:41.280 I did, but I think it is one it's very 0:31:41.360 --> 0:31:43.480 like romantic and I'm there with like all my friends 0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:45.680 and like a chaperone, so like it wasn't for me, 0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:46.640 so like I. 0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:49.560 Didn't go explore the city of Love, like really explore, right. 0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:52.320 But I yes, I definitely loved it, Like it's magical 0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:53.920 because like I went on the Eiffel Tower and the 0:31:53.960 --> 0:31:55.960 lights come on at night, Like that's the most magical 0:31:55.960 --> 0:31:57.720 thing I've ever seen. And then we did like a 0:31:57.800 --> 0:32:00.840 cruise on the Sign river like the sign Rivers. I 0:32:00.880 --> 0:32:04.160 don't know how you say it scene sign sign rob 0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:06.400 person ask the Olympics were just in Paris, and I 0:32:06.480 --> 0:32:08.440 already I forget they said it all the time, but 0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:11.760 it was it's so pretty, so yeah, I thought it 0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:12.360 was really. 0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:15.560 Okay, Okay, so you suggested it, so Emily and Paris 0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:18.560 has got me on it, and you suggest it, so Paris, 0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:20.920 maybe in my future, you know, it would be mine. 0:32:21.000 --> 0:32:23.400 I didn't even see all of it, but like Yellowstone, 0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:25.600 I watched a little bit of it, but just like 0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:29.040 going out into open with like horses and just like 0:32:29.040 --> 0:32:30.880 being out in the middle of nowhere with like no people, 0:32:31.280 --> 0:32:33.480 like looking up at the stars. Yeah, I feel like that, 0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:36.680 Like that's what I want in like mountains and just open. 0:32:36.840 --> 0:32:38.440 I don't know, it just looks so freeing. 0:32:39.040 --> 0:32:41.400 I think Yellowstone cause a lot of people to want 0:32:41.440 --> 0:32:44.360 to go to Montana. Yeah, and Wyoming. I mean, I 0:32:44.360 --> 0:32:47.360 guess they're both in similar veins. I'm not sure where 0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:51.480 Yellowstone was shot though, was it? I'll google it another google. 0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:53.640 So keep talking about what you'd want to do if 0:32:53.680 --> 0:32:55.600 you go on your Wyomich or. 0:32:55.600 --> 0:32:58.400 Like Wyoming, one of those you know, Montana, just because 0:32:58.520 --> 0:33:00.640 there's just I want to stay out like in a 0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:01.800 tent or glamp. 0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:05.800 Actually, I want to glamp and be a glamper. Unos stars. 0:33:06.040 --> 0:33:08.800 Interesting Yellstone was filmed in three states. You taught, Montana 0:33:08.840 --> 0:33:12.160 and Texas. Oh it wasn't he Okay, it wasn't no Wyoming, Wyoming. 0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:14.560 I really want to go to Wyoming. But that's what 0:33:14.680 --> 0:33:18.360 makes me just like the freedom of it. And because 0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:21.400 the others it's like hustle and bustle of cities, which 0:33:21.440 --> 0:33:25.160 I like, and how like Paris would be but that 0:33:25.200 --> 0:33:28.560 would just be like I don't know the complete Yeah, 0:33:28.880 --> 0:33:30.959 like all you see is stars. There's not much to do, 0:33:31.040 --> 0:33:32.520 but just like really be one with. 0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:33.440 Nature, you know. 0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:36.640 That's all I want to do is be. 0:33:36.600 --> 0:33:38.600 One with nature. I'm going to go meet my husband 0:33:38.600 --> 0:33:41.200 eating a crape, and you're going to go be one 0:33:41.200 --> 0:33:43.760 with nature. This is lovely for both of us. I 0:33:43.760 --> 0:33:47.040 guess I really like it. Great, Okay, Yellowstone, that's a 0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:49.720 good one. See you did have one. I did know 0:33:49.760 --> 0:33:50.760 you don't watch a lot of things. 0:33:51.000 --> 0:33:53.920 I know I hadn't seen like I've seen one episode, 0:33:54.000 --> 0:33:56.520 but oa. 0:33:55.680 --> 0:33:58.560 It so counts. You know. There is also something that 0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:03.480 I learned and I'm curious how you learned in school. 0:34:03.760 --> 0:34:06.760 Back when we were in school, when what is the 0:34:06.840 --> 0:34:11.200 thing that a butterfly comes out of cocoon. Okay, okay, 0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:13.680 I'm not the only one, so I thought maybe I, 0:34:13.840 --> 0:34:18.839 like whatever, I learned that butterflies come out of cocoons, right, huh. 0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:21.400 My sister was with my niece the other day and 0:34:21.440 --> 0:34:23.680 they were talking about butterflies. They went to some park 0:34:24.400 --> 0:34:27.080 and my sister goes, oh, look like a Butterfli's coming. 0:34:27.160 --> 0:34:30.960 There's like the butterfly cocoon. And my niece looked at 0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:32.799 her and was like, what what are you talking about? 0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:35.080 And she's like the cocoon like and they're pointing it, 0:34:35.120 --> 0:34:40.560 and she goes, no, it's chrysalis. That's a chrysalis. I know, 0:34:40.880 --> 0:34:41.879 uh huh huh. 0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:44.080 I mean I feel like that's like a scientific word 0:34:44.160 --> 0:34:44.560 for it. 0:34:44.560 --> 0:34:47.040 It is, so I looked it up. Cocoon is actually 0:34:47.080 --> 0:34:51.120 factually wrong. Cocoon is for moss, no butterflies, excuse me. 0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:55.560 And we got taught growing up that was a cocoon 0:34:56.680 --> 0:34:58.080 all of us. I don't know if it was a 0:34:58.160 --> 0:35:00.200 Kansas thing, because you and I are both Kansas. Maybe 0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:03.040 it was just Kansas. I'm so curious if anybody else 0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:06.239 ever learned that, like, it's actually chrysalis. She doesn't. My 0:35:06.320 --> 0:35:09.600 niece doesn't even know the word cocoon, Like, oh so 0:35:09.719 --> 0:35:11.880 they don't even Well, I shouldn't say she doesn't know it, 0:35:11.960 --> 0:35:13.799 but she didn't know it in that context, right of 0:35:13.880 --> 0:35:14.680 Like because. 0:35:14.400 --> 0:35:16.600 We say butterflies more than moths, we're not gonna be like, 0:35:16.600 --> 0:35:17.239 look at that moth. 0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:19.759 Well yeah, because you're not watching a like a moth 0:35:19.840 --> 0:35:22.840 come out. Butterflies like a pretty experience. So you're watching 0:35:22.880 --> 0:35:24.600 it come out of a cocoon. You learn about that 0:35:24.640 --> 0:35:27.000 when you're like a kid, you watch the butterflies come out. 0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:30.720 Oh my gosh, Casey. 0:35:29.440 --> 0:35:32.880 Musgrave, she says crystalis in that song you give me butterflies? 0:35:33.320 --> 0:35:35.759 You know, that's where I'm right. She's like, took me 0:35:35.800 --> 0:35:40.720 out of my crysalis, remember butterflies, Casey Musky a butterfly? 0:35:41.080 --> 0:35:43.400 Why were they teaching us cocoon? I don't know. 0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:46.240 Brought me out of my chrysalis? 0:35:46.520 --> 0:35:48.279 Because I always thought that was cool that she said it. 0:35:48.320 --> 0:35:50.319 They do like a cool effect on. 0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:54.719 It, I see. Oh yeah, kissful of color makes me 0:35:54.800 --> 0:35:57.319 wonder where you've always been. I was hiding in doubt 0:35:57.400 --> 0:35:59.440 till you brought me out of my crystalis, and I 0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:01.120 came to all because of you. 0:36:01.680 --> 0:36:04.760 Oh my gosh, I ignored that. I loved the line, 0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:09.160 but I he brought me out of my cocoon. 0:36:10.160 --> 0:36:13.640 Cocon doesn't hit the same really, glad they're eating him. 0:36:13.680 --> 0:36:17.520 Chrystal Is now not only is it factually correct, scientifically correct, 0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:19.040 it's also prettier than cocoon. 0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:21.919 Oh my gosh, Oh my god. I hope this comes 0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:24.200 up on an easy trivia now we'll get it right. 0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:27.480 Well, no, chrysalis, but you know what, no, because it's 0:36:27.480 --> 0:36:29.960 probably the answer is probably gonna bringing me cocoon. 0:36:32.440 --> 0:36:37.200 What is it called that a butterfly comes out my chrysalisk. 0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:40.239 Lee, Bobby, it's cocoon, but also it's chrysalis. Take your 0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:42.520 book fact check chrystalis. 0:36:43.040 --> 0:36:45.560 Oh my gosh, oh yeah, is that wild? That is 0:36:45.680 --> 0:36:46.320 that's crazy. 0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:48.680 Yeah. I just thought we, my sister and I were 0:36:48.800 --> 0:36:51.080 mind blown that the way we were taught it was 0:36:51.080 --> 0:36:53.680 a cocoon. And now she's like that does what what 0:36:53.719 --> 0:36:55.040 are you talking about? It's chrysalis. 0:36:55.360 --> 0:36:58.560 It was just so like chrystalis does sound prettier, though 0:36:58.600 --> 0:36:59.560 it sounds more magical. 0:37:00.280 --> 0:37:02.120 Does And also if you think of like a moth 0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:06.800 and a butterfly, one is cocoon and one is chrysalis, whatever. 0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:10.120 So I learned something new this week and I didn't too. 0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:13.040 I didn't know I got taught something wrong. I know, 0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:17.440 all these years, and then maybe since the time we 0:37:17.440 --> 0:37:23.000 were in kindergarten, scientifically they adjusted to that. I'm just 0:37:23.000 --> 0:37:25.279 gonna go with that belief. Yeah. I don't think that's 0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:27.120 actually true, but. 0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:29.000 That was probably just like the general term that they 0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:31.120 you know, like cocoon. It's just easy to say. 0:37:31.640 --> 0:37:33.879 Yeah, maybe it's kindergarten, because to say chrysalis it would 0:37:33.880 --> 0:37:38.920 be like still. I don't know. Maybe I just have 0:37:39.040 --> 0:37:41.120 so many questions. They keep They change the alphabet song, 0:37:41.239 --> 0:37:43.360 they changed cocoons. I'm not a fan of the new 0:37:43.400 --> 0:37:44.040 alphabet song. 0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:44.680 I like that. 0:37:45.800 --> 0:37:50.520 What is it? ELEMENTA wait, A B C empty h 0:37:50.640 --> 0:37:51.160 I JK. 0:37:52.640 --> 0:37:53.600 Yeah, that's so fun. 0:37:53.960 --> 0:37:56.480 Why would you take that apart? I don't know. I 0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:58.600 love it too, because that was would be like element. 0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:04.319 That's probably why kids aren't understanding it, because it is. 0:38:04.960 --> 0:38:06.480 It makes a lot worse sense. You know, if you 0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:09.560 can't change something, make it better, why wouldn't you? But crazy, 0:38:09.600 --> 0:38:11.319 I don't like change anything new you've learned. 0:38:13.600 --> 0:38:14.520 I'm trying to think. 0:38:15.200 --> 0:38:16.920 I mean, we did learn in the rejected segments that 0:38:16.920 --> 0:38:18.520 everybody was about to make fun of me, and then 0:38:19.440 --> 0:38:22.880 I stood corrected, Oh that's true. I wait, it was 0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:25.640 about the doorstoppers. Oh my gosh, I did see that too, 0:38:25.760 --> 0:38:27.560 but I've never tried it. I haven't tried it. Well, 0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:29.799 I don't think a lot of places. I don't think 0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:32.080 a lot of like homes and stuff are built now 0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:34.680 and businesses that have the little springer thing. I think 0:38:34.719 --> 0:38:36.879 that might have been a thing from ye like when 0:38:36.880 --> 0:38:38.239 we were growing up. Because I don't know about you, 0:38:38.239 --> 0:38:39.520 but when I was a kid, i'd go play with 0:38:39.680 --> 0:38:41.560 the doorstop all the time, like I just go. 0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:42.520 Don't it's like a hat. 0:38:44.160 --> 0:38:45.439 Yeah, well, I always wondered. 0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:47.919 I thought it was such a pointless spring, like yeah, yeah, 0:38:47.920 --> 0:38:48.800 a pointless spring. 0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:52.000 It doesn't like absorb shock, it's just there. Yeah, And 0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:53.719 I got it because it's like, okay, it stops the 0:38:53.760 --> 0:38:57.719 door from hitting the wall. But an actual doorstopper, which 0:38:57.760 --> 0:39:00.440 is like the same concept of being like doorstopper helps 0:39:00.520 --> 0:39:02.960 keep a door back and stop it. So that's why 0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:05.279 everybody's ready to make fun of me. And I was like, no, no, no, 0:39:06.120 --> 0:39:06.799 there's something do. 0:39:06.880 --> 0:39:09.759 This, Oh I do I've learned something that yellow jackets. 0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:12.160 They're wow, if they sting you, you can go to 0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:14.680 the hospital. I have an infestation and. 0:39:14.640 --> 0:39:16.359 My frothing happening. What's going on? 0:39:17.120 --> 0:39:19.479 They there's just like a nest. So we got back 0:39:19.560 --> 0:39:22.279 like from vacation, and I go through my garage door 0:39:22.360 --> 0:39:24.560 when I pull in, so I'm not really going like 0:39:25.400 --> 0:39:28.680 out front in my front porch. But my pest control 0:39:28.719 --> 0:39:31.560 guy came and he's like, you, like urgent, you have 0:39:31.680 --> 0:39:33.960 a problem of like stinging pests in your front yard. 0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:34.920 And I was like, what happened? 0:39:35.120 --> 0:39:37.040 Did it sting somebody? He's like no, but like there 0:39:37.200 --> 0:39:40.840 is a nest. So apparently they dig underground to like 0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:42.600 make a nest. And he said there could be hundreds 0:39:42.680 --> 0:39:43.080 under there. 0:39:43.280 --> 0:39:45.919 Seriously, yeah, And I like now when I look out, 0:39:46.600 --> 0:39:49.319 I see them flying everywhere, So they're gonna come like 0:39:49.320 --> 0:39:53.600 take care of it and dig it up. They yellow 0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:56.440 jackets are predatory wasp that are common in North America. 0:39:56.440 --> 0:39:58.920 They're known for their painful stings and can be a nuance. 0:39:59.360 --> 0:40:05.120 I picked it. Yeah, they're new, they're more. Yeah, that's 0:40:05.160 --> 0:40:08.080 a weird way of writing this. Google No, but I 0:40:08.120 --> 0:40:10.200 had so many people message me and they were like oh, 0:40:10.239 --> 0:40:12.759 my husband like mode over one or he stepped on one. 0:40:12.920 --> 0:40:15.319 He got stung thirty times. He was allergic. He had 0:40:15.320 --> 0:40:17.480 to go to the er. They're like, do not get 0:40:17.480 --> 0:40:20.600 stung because once somebody said that if it stings you, 0:40:20.680 --> 0:40:23.200 they release something that tells all of its others who 0:40:23.280 --> 0:40:26.319 come and sting. Also what yes, like they're like, hey, 0:40:26.320 --> 0:40:30.400 come join in. They're evil. I had no idea. I 0:40:30.440 --> 0:40:31.240 thought it was a bee. 0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:35.319 It looks like a normal bumblebee or like just a 0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:37.000 normal bee if you're not looking close. 0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:39.319 But once I look close, they do well. They look 0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:42.480 like if a bee and a wasp had baby. Yes, 0:40:42.840 --> 0:40:46.520 that's what they look like. And they're aggressive. So do 0:40:46.640 --> 0:40:48.800 they just like put like a little like smoke bomb 0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:50.200 in its nest or like. 0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:52.520 Well, people told me to pour like gasoline down. 0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:55.720 That's horrible, Like I don't. I don't like a pezi 0:40:56.120 --> 0:40:59.120 as next person. But that sounds inhumane and it was inhumane. 0:40:59.200 --> 0:41:01.319 But you know what they do you is inhumane when 0:41:01.320 --> 0:41:02.480 they send you to the hospital. 0:41:02.800 --> 0:41:04.640 Yeah, but it sounds like they only do it. It 0:41:04.719 --> 0:41:08.680 says they're they're slow to sting, but they are territorial, 0:41:08.760 --> 0:41:11.719 so if you do mess with their nests, they'll sting you. Yeah, 0:41:11.800 --> 0:41:14.400 so I walked by you. They're protective of their home. 0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:14.719 There. 0:41:14.880 --> 0:41:16.439 I can't believe I'm fighting for yellow dupe. 0:41:17.000 --> 0:41:22.719 They're in my home now, but they're just gonna dig 0:41:22.719 --> 0:41:25.319 it up. And then they put stuff around that they 0:41:25.440 --> 0:41:27.400 try to eat or something. 0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:30.360 And they die. I mean they are an invasive species. 0:41:30.400 --> 0:41:31.640 I say they are. You can go out in the 0:41:31.640 --> 0:41:33.480 middle of a field. You don't need to come by 0:41:33.520 --> 0:41:37.520 my bush. You can go anywhere else right here. Can't say, 0:41:37.680 --> 0:41:40.720 what is it? I can't stay here. You gotta go home, 0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:42.440 but you can't. You don't have to go home, but 0:41:42.480 --> 0:41:44.759 you can't stay here. Wow, that took me a long 0:41:44.760 --> 0:41:46.640 time to find them. Yeah, okay, you. 0:41:46.640 --> 0:41:47.399 Don't even go here. 0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:54.000 So yellow jackets they're danger out. Yeah, watch out. Like 0:41:56.640 --> 0:41:59.919 we learned a lot there, we did. I've never seen 0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:03.279 yellow jacket before, so you've only heard about the show 0:42:03.320 --> 0:42:05.200 about them, but I've never watched the show. I just 0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:07.680 heard their Showhow about him? Yeah, Bobby watches. I'm like 0:42:07.760 --> 0:42:10.440 zombie show. You're right, see, I tune out when you 0:42:10.400 --> 0:42:14.279 gotta talk about show TV shows. I'm out. Okay, Well 0:42:14.280 --> 0:42:16.239 is gonna mean out? We're out. We're gonna go uh 0:42:16.840 --> 0:42:18.879 chill for a little bit and we'll do some listener 0:42:19.000 --> 0:42:25.160 Q and A. I cannot today at all. I'm doing great. 0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:27.920 I'm yep, okay, awesome. Abby. Tell the people when they 0:42:27.920 --> 0:42:29.880 can find you, hear your music, all that good stuff. 0:42:30.120 --> 0:42:34.520 Let's see on Instagram, I'm Abby Lee Anderson and yeah, 0:42:34.560 --> 0:42:37.880 my song ex boyfriend material about all the red flags, 0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:40.640 those walking red flags basically every guy. Yes, I gotta 0:42:40.840 --> 0:42:42.240 start listen to that again. 0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:44.919 It might make you feel better. 0:42:44.920 --> 0:42:47.440 Actually no, it does make a very hype. 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