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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio What's up everybody? I've been and I'm

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Speaker 1: actually and we are back and ready and excited to

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Speaker 1: bring you another episode of the almost Famous podcast. I'm

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Speaker 1: telling you what Actually. Our email has been filled up

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Speaker 1: this week, um with one of the most surprising topics,

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Speaker 1: um that we've ever talked about. And I didn't think

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Speaker 1: it would be as popular as it is, but it's

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Speaker 1: the daddy topic. So bananas. How many opinions you guys

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Speaker 1: have on this? I mean, I knew when Vinnie said it,

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Speaker 1: I was a little confused. I had heard it a

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Speaker 1: couple of times. I just didn't realize that this is

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Speaker 1: actually a thing that is sweeping the world. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we have people from the Philippines emailing us saying, you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about this daddy thing, but I can

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Speaker 1: see why I would be attractive. And we also have

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Speaker 1: people all over the world saying, yeah, I don't get

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Speaker 1: it at all. I am. I've been thinking about it

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Speaker 1: a lot this week, and I'm kind of liking the

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Speaker 1: whole like, oh, he's a daddy, Like I like that

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Speaker 1: kind of you're a weirdo. But I would never ever

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Speaker 1: say tell my significant other like, I never call him daddy,

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Speaker 1: but he's a daddy. I kind of get that. Now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well we have Lexi. One of the we pulled out

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Speaker 1: a couple of emails, and I just want to scan

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Speaker 1: through a couple of them. We have Lexi email us. UM.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of calling their significant other daddy, Alexei says she

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Speaker 1: calls her significant other daddy. Um. It's it all comes

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Speaker 1: from humor, um, but it also uses a place to

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Speaker 1: bring him comfort. She says that he says it in

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Speaker 1: a fun, loving, kind of joking way. She goes, whenever

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend does something I find sexy. See this is

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Speaker 1: the part that I don't get sexy and and daddy

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Speaker 1: should not come together. But whenever I find that my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend does something sexy, I jokingly say, oh, daddy. And

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Speaker 1: while I stay in a joking done, he knows I

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Speaker 1: also mean business. You have to read this. I feel

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Speaker 1: like it comes from some women's desire to be dominated

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Speaker 1: in the bedroom, because most women see their fathers as

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Speaker 1: an authority figure. Oh you know, this is a whole

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Speaker 1: level of creepy. Let's move on to Jillian. Now, Okay, Lexie,

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Speaker 1: I get where you're coming from, but we should stop

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Speaker 1: it there. Um. Jillian emails us and says she just

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Speaker 1: thinks it's inappropriate. Um, there's no reason why any girl

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Speaker 1: should call their guy daddy. Um. But she says, maybe

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Speaker 1: she's trying to figure it out with us right here.

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Speaker 1: She goes, maybe it comes from a place of kind

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Speaker 1: of like a desire to have babies with the guy,

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Speaker 1: like she actually wants him to be the daddy of

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Speaker 1: her kids. Um. I mean, I guess I don't know

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Speaker 1: women that well, but I feel like we're really digging

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Speaker 1: deep for that. Wait, Ashley, I have a question because

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Speaker 1: somebody did mentioned this to me. What do you call

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Speaker 1: your father? Well? I call him dad or daddy today.

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Speaker 1: I said last week that it was disturbing because like

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Speaker 1: in my phone, it's under daddy And it depends, like

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Speaker 1: it depends on how I'm feeling. Obviously, like if I

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Speaker 1: want something, I'd be like daddy, you know, daddy. But

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Speaker 1: like if I'm just like if I have a question

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Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, dad, dad, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: So does he respond to both? Actually? I mean I

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Speaker 1: feel like as a father, if my daughter was in

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Speaker 1: the like in the bottom floor, and I was upstairs.

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Speaker 1: She's telling Daddy, daddy. I just wouldn't ignore. I can't

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Speaker 1: wait for that to happen one day certainly. Well, so

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Speaker 1: my uncle will still call my grandmother mommy, and I

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Speaker 1: think that is so aird he's fifty seven years old.

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Speaker 1: What do you call your mom? Ben? What do you

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Speaker 1: and mother? You call her mother? Yeah? Sometimes I go hey, mother,

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Speaker 1: it's like a yeah or mom. I mean, that's the

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Speaker 1: weird part of this whole thing is I mean, there

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Speaker 1: is this love and I thought about it last this

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Speaker 1: week as reading to these emails, there's this level of

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Speaker 1: like calling somebody daddy does have this connotation now where

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Speaker 1: It is lighthearted. Um, but I don't want to cross

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Speaker 1: I like, how strong do you feel? Like you actually

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Speaker 1: want to start a campaign like the anti daddy campaign

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Speaker 1: I do, and I think honestly, Um, there's one other

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Speaker 1: when it's getting intimate. That's just wrong in every possible way.

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Speaker 1: I cringe at the thought of it. Isabella, you and

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Speaker 1: I are on the same team here. I have to

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Speaker 1: mention this. I'm reading these emails along with Ben, and

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Speaker 1: he keeps taking out the compliments towards himself, Like Lexi says,

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Speaker 1: Ben is the hottest man in the history of the

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Speaker 1: known universe, and I have a small poster of him

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Speaker 1: in my room even though I'm in college, and he

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Speaker 1: call Ben a hottie if I saw him walking down

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Speaker 1: the street comment because he just can't read them himself.

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Speaker 1: But I thought everybody out there shouldn't know. Well. Speaking

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Speaker 1: of daddy is one of my personal favorites. Joe Jonas

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Speaker 1: got engaged this weekend and I heartest break my hearts

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Speaker 1: or like I heart but my heart or okay, well

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Speaker 1: for all of the people who out there know me. Um,

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Speaker 1: they introduced me on The Bachelor, um as somebody who's

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Speaker 1: gone to seven Jonas with a concerts. Like, in all seriousness,

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Speaker 1: I had a fan base before I was even appearing

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Speaker 1: was I've been to twenty seven Jonas brother concerts and

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Speaker 1: I got so many girls who were like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 1: an entire podcast about my love of the Jonas Brothers

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Speaker 1: he loved the love of his life. Alright, So obviously

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Speaker 1: Joe was the object of all of my affection from

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Speaker 1: the ages of nineteen to twenty two. And Joe he

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Speaker 1: you gotta get me back there? You remember that I did?

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Speaker 1: So then we're a jingle ball and I'm going to

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Speaker 1: go to the d n C after party. My best

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Speaker 1: friend is there with me. I'm losing Cake by the

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Speaker 1: Ocean Joe's band b n C. That doesn't stand for

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Speaker 1: Cake by the Ocean. No, you know the song Cake

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Speaker 1: by the Ocean. No no, no no, no no, no no, yeah no,

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Speaker 1: I know the song, but what is the like? What

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Speaker 1: does it mean? Oh? I don't know what d n

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Speaker 1: c E stands for? You know what what you're talking?

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Speaker 1: Email a true super fan and find that out. Okay, okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: ha ha ha. I've been I've been really under control

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Speaker 1: We used to call it John Bees Jonas zombies. Um

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Speaker 1: so okay. From the festival September, you guys for me, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well it's about to get worse. Okay. So that was

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Speaker 1: at the festival, the I Heart Festival in September when

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Speaker 1: and I was thinking that Joe Jonas was a viable

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Speaker 1: with Tanya from My Heart. If you guys may know Tanya,

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Speaker 1: she's also been on Becca's podcast lately. And uh so

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Speaker 1: at this party chatting with Nick Jonas, and I tell Nick,

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Speaker 1: I go, so, I'm gonna go talk to your brother

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Speaker 1: see if he'd say anything else. He didn't, so I

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Speaker 1: dating someone and he must really like her. And while

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Speaker 1: he liked her enough to propose, So there we go. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, did you didn't cause that break up? All right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: out there, I'm here, Thanks for having mere you. We're great.

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Speaker 1: How are you? How's Chris good? Good? If we're doing good?

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Speaker 1: Just just hanging out getting ready for fall. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Your baby Asher is turning one this week in two days.

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Speaker 1: you know, that opportunity. Um, but it feels so good

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Speaker 1: this is the Joe Jonah story. We were just talking

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Speaker 1: on it. Actually, I have a question for you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here's the deal, and I want you to be honest

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Speaker 1: with me because it's a topic that a lot of

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Speaker 1: people deal with and I hear you talk about it often.

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Speaker 1: So if you saw Joe Jonas, okay, first off, I

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Speaker 1: want to make a comment for him, just to look

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Speaker 1: at you and say, Hi, No matter if he's a

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Speaker 1: girlfriend or not, is just how you still are so

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Speaker 1: hyped up on this guy is impressive because I if

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Speaker 1: I ever did that to a woman, I guarantee you

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Speaker 1: they would walk away and never be as giggly and

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Speaker 1: excited to talk about me as you are with Joe Jonas. Well,

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Speaker 1: you're right, I mean it's very it's very interesting. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I obviously knew at that point it was

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Speaker 1: never going to happen between us, and you didn't know

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Speaker 1: that before. That was the moment that you're that, yes,

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Speaker 1: he really went up there thinking like this could be

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Speaker 1: the one no, no dead serious, thought like this could

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Speaker 1: be the time in our lives where we'd actually date.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know, Like one time I gave them

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Speaker 1: a gift, like when they were on tour, during their

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Speaker 1: little bit longer tour, Like I gave them each personalized gifts,

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Speaker 1: and you weren't the one. Probably they were playing softball,

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Speaker 1: so we got them really decorated softball bats. Um, don't

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Speaker 1: very weird. But then eight years later, I'm like, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: we're here at the same party. I was invited as

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Speaker 1: an I heeart guest. I walked the same red carpet

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Speaker 1: he did. I think that maybe he can look at

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Speaker 1: me a little bit more as an equal, a little

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Speaker 1: bit less as a creeper fan. And I'm like his

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Speaker 1: brother thinks I'm hysterical. We have great conversation he Nick,

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Speaker 1: Nick and me and Nick and then like Kevin thinks

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Speaker 1: I'm cool. Um, but just he has zero desire to

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Speaker 1: speak to me. So if you saw the Jonas brothers

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Speaker 1: separately walking down the street, okay, and they weren't famous,

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Speaker 1: they were just they're just themselves. They they're software salesman,

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Speaker 1: they're car salesman, and the one guy worked at Zarah. Okay,

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Speaker 1: a lot of software salesmen aren't just guys. I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying the Jonas brothers just we're just talking

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Speaker 1: about would you find them as attractive as they are today? Uh? Probably?

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Speaker 1: I think the only thing I would think of was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: they're kind of short, but their phrases are gorgeous. Okay.

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Speaker 1: That's like okay, So that's this is a topic that

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Speaker 1: I want our listeners to email and about. Okay, what

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Speaker 1: celebrities are found to be so attractive, both male and

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Speaker 1: female bos celebrities are found to be so attractive. But

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Speaker 1: if you saw them on the street and they weren't famous,

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Speaker 1: would you say, Okay, I don't see it. I mean,

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Speaker 1: because I think that's the thing, right, For some reason,

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Speaker 1: we're obsessed with celebrity. We're obsessed with the idea of

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Speaker 1: that person's famous, and as a result, they're more active,

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Speaker 1: But in reality is that really fair? And why is it?

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Speaker 1: Why do we feel that way? This is a great,

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Speaker 1: great question, and I have two answers for you. One,

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Speaker 1: Harry Styles. If I saw him walking on the street,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, holy fucking who is that person and

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Speaker 1: why aren't they famous? That face and that speaking voice.

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Speaker 1: If he just said hello, I don't I can't do it,

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Speaker 1: then I'd be like, what in the world there is

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Speaker 1: this for of it? But then um, because I think

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Speaker 1: that Harry Styles, even with his name, was just destined

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Speaker 1: be famous, Like you can't have that phase, that warmth,

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Speaker 1: that talent being yeah, without being famous, he was meant

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Speaker 1: to famous. My other celebrity crush who I don't think

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Speaker 1: I would have. Who I don't know if he would

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Speaker 1: have such an overcoming feeling for me if I just

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Speaker 1: saw him passing by, is Milo vent Amilia. I think

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Speaker 1: that this man is quite something. It may have to

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Speaker 1: do with his character on the show. But can I

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Speaker 1: just tell a story really quick? I know my stories

617
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Speaker 1: are long and boring, but they're exciting in their anti climatics. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: they they they are, and so is this one? So

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Speaker 1: love This is Us? Think his character Jack on This

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Speaker 1: is Us is just magical, Like he's a great dad.

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Speaker 1: He just exudes this warmth, right But like I didn't

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Speaker 1: think he was the hottest that. I never really thought

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Speaker 1: he was the hottest thing. But then I went to

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Speaker 1: this panel discussion in May with all that this is

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Speaker 1: us cast and he came on stage and something about

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Speaker 1: his in person presence overwhelmed me, and I just think

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Speaker 1: he it can do no wrong. Really, I mean that's great.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's but it's true. Right. So there's a

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Speaker 1: There's other people that don't. And I think all the

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Speaker 1: listeners please email in with any celebrity you think are

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Speaker 1: they weren't famous, would you find them less attractive. I'm

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Speaker 1: just interested my two answers, Milo and Harry. I think

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00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: they would have an even greater effect on me in

637
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: real life than they do as like a celebrity. Um,

638
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: but it you mean Julia Roberts like husband, Yeah, I

639
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: mean he landed Julia Roberts. So there's obviously something going

640
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 1: on there right here, obviously is yeah, all right? Who

641
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 1: has a great effective to you while watching them on screen.

642
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: Who's your celebrity crush? I mean my celebrity crush has

643
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: always been Jennifer Anderson. I mean she, Halle Berry and

644
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: Jennifer Anderson have had my youthful heart since the day.

645
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: That is like basic man, that's and that's completely fair.

646
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: I'm totally okay being a basic man. Actually, did you

647
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: ever see January Jones talking about you on Cordon? No?

648
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: It's no, what's that about? Somebody emailed us about it,

649
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 1: So I recently watched on YouTube. She basically was talking

650
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: about how she likes the Bachelor and she's got a

651
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: crush on Ben and then she talks about you for

652
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: maybe like a minute, and then she switches real quick

653
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: to Nick. You were in and out very quickly. But yeah,

654
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,720
Speaker 1: I mean what about you and January Jones? Yeah, because

655
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 1: she might be into it. I mean January Jones is

656
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe one of the most beautiful people in Hollywood. Um,

657
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: I haven't seen this yet. I'm a little bit I

658
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: don't know how to respond to this. Is there a

659
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: future of January and I? Um, you never know her.

660
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,840
Speaker 1: She would do it. Her publicists seems to be shooting

661
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: it down, she says, not in there. Yeah, she says,

662
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: because she wanted to maybe be the bachelorette, and then

663
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,879
Speaker 1: her publicists said, no, my publicist is shutting it down.

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Speaker 1: To yeah, they I was going to say, I was

665
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:45,919
Speaker 1: gonna say, we'll have Ben's publicists call her puls Oh man. Well,

666
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: that's nice to January to say. It's always nice to

667
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 1: hear somebody give you a compliment, especially when it's on

668
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: national television. So January, if you're listening to Almost Famous podcast,

669
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Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Thank you for making me feel a

670
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: little bit better about myself today than I did about

671
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 1: an hour ago. Um to have to watch that to

672
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 1: see erect she wanted to call you daddy, Um, we

673
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 1: would have to talk about that. I don't see that

674
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: being a great move by January if she wants to

675
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: make this a long term relationship. UM. Okay, I know

676
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: this is so random, but I love this conversation. I

677
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: know you do, because it's about Yes, actually this is

678
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: right down your avenue, like this is your questions like

679
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: I know you do. But the listeners don't want to

680
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 1: know about who I find fresh. I think you want

681
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: to know who your man crushes. Oh that's easy. Um,

682
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,760
Speaker 1: it would have to be either Harrison Ford or Kevin Costner.

683
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: Very basic, You're just classic. You're just classic, Ben. I

684
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: don't know why that's basic Kevin Costner is, Isn't it

685
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: like an alpha like he is, He's a mountain man,

686
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: he's an actor, he runs a ranch. Like that's that's

687
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,240
Speaker 1: a solid human being Like that is not basic, solid

688
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: reason to have a man crush on someone too. I

689
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 1: really appreciate how well thought out that is, minus Olivia

690
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:59,720
Speaker 1: Culbo and she also thinks that I'm a nut. Actually,

691
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: hold why every single celebrity that you love that you

692
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: stock like, we'll stop creeping them out? No, I just

693
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 1: happened to run into them. And I'm like, very fan

694
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: girl because well, with girl crushes, you're able to fan

695
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: girl because you're not going to try to marry them.

696
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: So at that very same night with my Joe Joas encounter,

697
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 1: I met Olivia for the first time. It was really cool.

698
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: I was calm and then like, I guess I've just

699
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: tweeted her one too many times. And then I saw

700
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:28,720
Speaker 1: her at a wedding that I went to with Jared

701
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: last month, and she was like, yeah, I know, we

702
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: like tweeted each other. Sometimes I'm like, I'm pretty sure

703
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: it's like one way, but you know, I love you

704
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: and it's fine because all I want to do is

705
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,319
Speaker 1: stare at your face and be you. You know who

706
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,359
Speaker 1: you know who's a very worthy and just you take

707
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,919
Speaker 1: the words right of it. I don't know what to say.

708
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: I have no fall up to this. It stop being

709
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: creepy embarrassed by myself. When it's a girl crush, you

710
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 1: can do anything with your girl crush, colorful bats. Actually like,

711
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 1: this isn't just a girl crush thing. Oh that was

712
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: I know. I know, and I've grown up so much

713
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: since I was twenty years old. I was a very

714
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 1: immature twenty year old. Um. So here's the I would

715
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: love to talk about girl crushes and boy crushes all

716
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: day long with you. So this would be a ton

717
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 1: of fun for me. I'm having a blast with it.

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Speaker 1: everything but creepy. I don't think he would stand boy

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Speaker 1: the coolest name on the street, Jack Stone. Who the

753
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 1: heck are you? Hey? Thanks for having me, guys. Um, yeah,

754
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: what do you want to What do you want to know?

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00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 1: You tell me? How do we know you? First off,

756
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: so I was on this last season of The bachel

757
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: right with Rachel, and I was also on the season

758
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: of Baslo in Paradise and you got the nickname serial killer.

759
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: Why you know? Um? I think, I mean, you guys

760
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: probably know just as well as I do. I mean,

761
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: certain things sometimes are portrayed not necessarily the way you

762
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: really are on TV. I had one date with Rachel

763
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: that came off kind of weird and awkward and kind

764
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: of creepy. And I think the producers thought, let's let's

765
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: kind of makes this into a sting. Um. I think

766
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: if if you were there and you were on that

767
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: date with me, you would have been like what I

768
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 1: mean when you actually saw how it actually uh looked

769
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: on TV. It's just what was nothing like it was

770
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: in real life, and the kind of shop stuff up

771
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: there and made it a little weird. And I think,

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00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 1: you know, I guess at some point someone was like, hey,

773
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: let's make this into a thing. So for the first

774
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: couple of episodes of Bachelor and Paradise, that was kind

775
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: of something that they tried to play in into the

776
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: narrative a little bit. Can I tell you about the

777
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 1: creepiest thing or the saddest thing I've ever seen you

778
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 1: do on TV, the sadst thing to ever happened to

779
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: anyone on TV? Okay, okay, okay, go okay. Um. Rachel

780
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 1: said like, oh no, don't kiss me. I don't want

781
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: to give you my cold, and like that made me

782
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 1: very squirmy, because yeah, because like I don't care. If

783
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: I really like someone, I'd be like, go ahead and

784
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: give me your call. Isn't that amazing? And I Accrea

785
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: said the same thing I remember off camera being like

786
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: guy because that's all. Also, I mean, you guys understand

787
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: how it works just as well as I do. I

788
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: mean there's a lot of sort of pressuring going on

789
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: behind the scenes. Um, I mean to be you know,

790
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: quite honest. I mean I wasn't into Rachel either, but

791
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,719
Speaker 1: I was trying to, you know, make the best out

792
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: of it, um and try and you know, see what happens.

793
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 1: So I'm having producers say, hey, make a move, do something,

794
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: and you wouldn't surprise me if producers were telling her

795
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: something else. Also, UM, I know it came off super awkward,

796
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: and I mean you gotta understand how being in that

797
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 1: position myself and watching that batch, I mean it's harder

798
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 1: for me to watch it than it as anyone else

799
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:54,919
Speaker 1: because I just like that. I would not want that, Yeah,

800
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: I'd not like that. So yeah, so it's just pretty

801
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 1: pretty crazy experience to go through. Um, do you guys

802
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: know I mean, actually, I know you're not crying every

803
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: single day in real life, right, No? Not almost? Okay, Well, good,

804
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: so you understand. I mean, it's just it's one of

805
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: those things that, Um, truthfully, I was just so shocked

806
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 1: the way it came out at the end of the day, so, um,

807
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: we get it. I came back from my first season

808
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor, and I told my entire family and

809
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: friends that I was going to be like this cool

810
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: chill girl. Yeah, I mean, I listen, not that different

811
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:37,320
Speaker 1: from my story. I was actually filming in Paradise when

812
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: that awkward scene was caring on the bat threat, and

813
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 1: I was actually having all the producers tell me, hey,

814
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: I saw it. You know it looked great, like you're

815
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,439
Speaker 1: gonna love it. Everything looks awesome, like people are gonna

816
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: love you. I am not joking, and and and I

817
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: I kind of had a way of finding out what

818
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: actually have then if someone kind of spilled the beans

819
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: with me and they're telling me, hey, dude, it really

820
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: didn't go well, like it doesn't even like it's not good.

821
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 1: So you can imagine how I feel. I'm already in paradise.

822
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, how the hell do I get out of

823
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: this in one piece? I can already tell like, you know,

824
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: they're going to try and keep this narrative going of

825
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 1: like Jackson awkward guy or creepy guy. And you know

826
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 1: it's hard because you know who you are and you

827
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: know who your friends and family think you are, and

828
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: you know that who you know, people that really matter

829
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 1: in your life think you are, and yet you're being

830
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: portrayed as something entirely different on national television. So I mean,

831
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: at that point, it was like, let's try and roll

832
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: with the punches here and make the best out of

833
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: it and see if I can come out in one piece.

834
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,280
Speaker 1: I actually got home and all my friends and family

835
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 1: were just like you can imagine, like I had buddies

836
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: coming up to me and calling me and be like

837
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 1: a dude, what happened? Like who are you? What was that?

838
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 1: And you know, I can always say the genius of

839
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: editing and and mixing things up and putting people in

840
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: scenarios that are not natural, and I mean, you know,

841
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, they can kind of

842
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 1: do you almost anything they want to do. Here's the deal,

843
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: So to get out of editing, okay, because the easy

844
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: outlet is always let's blame editing. Okay, but I gotta

845
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 1: ask you, so let's clear it up with all listeners.

846
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: Are you creepy or are you guys? Guys, Like, let's

847
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: take a step back. It's television. I mean, at the

848
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 1: end of the day. No, I don't know. I'm asking

849
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: you personally human check. I just admitted that I can

850
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,760
Speaker 1: be very creepy when I give it confidently said, actually,

851
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: very kindly said, I can be very creepy, and my

852
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: celebrity crushes are extremely creeped out by me. So Jack Stone,

853
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:53,879
Speaker 1: I will I will tell you I am the weak

854
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: creepy guy you'll ever meet. So you can imagine, come out. Man.

855
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 1: We can't say that that's like me. You can't say

856
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 1: you're the least creepy guy like I would say. I'm

857
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: like borderline creepy, like some people might think I'm creepy.

858
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: Other thing I'm not. I'm not. Yeah, like I'm not.

859
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not like hunting around here the higgy

860
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:24,879
Speaker 1: does look that blows up outside of a car dealership. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Jack,

861
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 1: I have very loose hips, um, very loose hips and

862
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 1: and a very flexible torso. And so my thought process

863
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: is why not use that to my advantage? Right? Um?

864
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 1: Then I say, what you got, Yeah, you can do that.

865
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: Let me ask this question again, because I think if

866
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: you say, it's like, we have this person right now

867
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: that we know all know very well that claims you

868
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 1: know I am the least humble person you would ever be.

869
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 1: Nobody that's humble ever says that they're humble. Okay, So

870
00:47:54,880 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 1: Jack Stone, are you creepy? No? Okay, my dad, we're

871
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: getting nowhere with this man. Are you a lawyer? It

872
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,439
Speaker 1: was It was the craziest thing for me to see

873
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,919
Speaker 1: the way that that played out. The craziest things. But

874
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 1: you know, it is what it is. It happened definitely

875
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: not me. I mean, if you were to talk to

876
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,359
Speaker 1: Rachel or any of my friends or family or any

877
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: of it, I actually know me in the show, that'd

878
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, that's that's definitely not Jack. Who's your

879
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 1: celebrity crush? Um? You know what? Um, I'm just like, no,

880
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go Jimmy Fallon, Okay say that. Yeah, you

881
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: could say whatever you like on this podcast I got.

882
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: I got contacted by one of the producers for the

883
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: Tonight show not too long ago, and um, and he

884
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,319
Speaker 1: actually tweeted out at me and I just kind of

885
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: started met to each other. Super cool guy and he

886
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 1: was like, hey, have you're ever in town, like, you know,

887
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: let me know, hook you up to some backstage pass

888
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: and you know, show you around and like, awesome. So

889
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: my dad lives in New York. I went up there,

890
00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: um and brought some family member and they got us

891
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: like you know these v I P passes and they

892
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 1: roped off some feats for us, and they're like, hey, Jack,

893
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 1: Jimmy really wants to meet you. At the end of

894
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 1: the show, he's like, I mean, I honestly, I mean,

895
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say this. I lost my show. I mean,

896
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 1: it was a cool experience I've ever had. I mean,

897
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: everything was worth it at that point. I mean it

898
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 1: was like pretty cool experience. Jimmy comes up after the

899
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: show and I think I hugged him like six times.

900
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:32,399
Speaker 1: You don't actually have a lot in common. He's such

901
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 1: a good dude. He's such a good guy, and he

902
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 1: honestly like, I'm not making this up, and he probably

903
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: does this to everybody because for sure this isn't true.

904
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: But he he gives me a hug and he goes,

905
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of yours. No, no, Jack, I

906
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,839
Speaker 1: actually had the coolest experience about a year ago. I

907
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: was at something and a fan came up to me

908
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: and she goes, okay, weird ran into Jimmy fallon on

909
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 1: the street yesterday, and we talked about you, and I'm like,

910
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 1: you're kidding, and she goes, yeah, Like I knew that

911
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: he loved Bachelor in Paradise, So we started talking about

912
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: it and then I go, Ashley I is my favorite.

913
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,799
Speaker 1: And then Jimmy Fallon and his Jimmy Fallon voice goes,

914
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 1: oh my god, I love Ashley I. And I was like,

915
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:17,879
Speaker 1: oh my god, my life. Yeah, I mean, who would

916
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: have guessed that Jimmy Fallon is watching. Jimmy Fallon's never

917
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 1: talked about me, and but I did here earlier that

918
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: January Jones, and and so I'm still kind of right

919
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 1: and high on that one. It's all worth it. I mean,

920
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: you know what, check that off the list. That's pretty cool.

921
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: It's pretty cool that you got to go backstage and

922
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: that like he's a fan. That's really cool. That is

923
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: such a cool thing, right, that you both get to meet.

924
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: Your celebrity crushes are the people that you admire the most. Um,

925
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 1: all from this crazy little show that we all did

926
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 1: and that we all have in common with. Um. So see,

927
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: if love doesn't happen, at least some really cool opportunities

928
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: exist and life just gets a little bit more interesting

929
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: post Bachelor world. I think that's right, you know, isn't

930
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 1: it not? That you know, you go on a show

931
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 1: like this and you know truthfully, And I'm the first

932
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,560
Speaker 1: person to say this, and you guys can feel free

933
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 1: to disagree with me. But I mean, no one that

934
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: goes on any of these shows has done anything particularly

935
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: like you know, amazing. No one saved a life or

936
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:13,919
Speaker 1: did anything crazy like that. Ben actually does probably say lives,

937
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: but outside of been on in my superhero costume and

938
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: and yet and people think it's such an amazing thing.

939
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: But I mean, no one's really done anything. I mean,

940
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: you know, people definitely whatever. For whatever reason, it resonates

941
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 1: with people. People really love meeting people from this franchise um,

942
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: and I mean it's definitely a out of this world

943
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: experience for sure. Well Jack, I'm glad we got to

944
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: meet you, and I'm glad that you came on this podcast.

945
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: We appreciate it, man, and uh, please come back anytime.

946
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: You no longer can be a part of the Who

947
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: the heck Are You podcast? Because we now know who

948
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 1: you are. Let's move on. You guys are awesome. Ben,

949
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 1: By the way, I think you were the first I

950
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: think It was the first episode of this franchise ever

951
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: Us with Your Seasons, so full circle here is decided

952
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: to do so I would say, hey, yeah, all right,

953
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 1: hey have a good man, all right, thank you guys.

954
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,279
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981
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,399
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982
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983
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,759
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984
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:49,560
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985
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986
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988
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997
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998
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 1: close of the podcast today, we have one more email

999
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: to talk about, UM, and this is from Deborah. I'm

1000
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: just gonna read this year. I haven't read this yet.

1001
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,919
Speaker 1: I just got it sent to me. I'm so gonna

1002
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 1: read it on air. Here it says from Deborah Hi

1003
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: Been and Ashley, both of you really struck a chord

1004
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:50,880
Speaker 1: with me in last week's podcast when answering questions, if

1005
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: a guy really likes you, then he will ask you out.

1006
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 1: I would really be interested on your thoughts on this.

1007
00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: Is it always really that black and white? Our guys

1008
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 1: really that bold? And if there is a hesitation on

1009
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 1: their part, what can women do to encourage the asking

1010
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: out or help let it be known that you're interested.

1011
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: My experience has really been the opposite of the statement.

1012
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: It caused me to do the asking to coffee, and

1013
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 1: I still feel like I get shunned for doing that.

1014
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: Am I doing something wrong? Thank you so much and

1015
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:22,360
Speaker 1: I love listening. Debrah. Here's the deal. Last week we

1016
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 1: talked a little bit if you don't listen about kind

1017
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: of the roles in a relationship and if the guy

1018
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 1: should has to girl out, or if the guy really

1019
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:30,439
Speaker 1: likes her she asked her out, or the girl asked

1020
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: the guy out. So Debora is asking is she doing

1021
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,399
Speaker 1: something wrong in pursuing the people she's interested in. My

1022
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: thoughts on this might be different than others, but I

1023
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: would say no, if you're interested in somebody, um, go

1024
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: for it. No matter what sex you are, go for it.

1025
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:48,839
Speaker 1: You know. It would be great if the guys could

1026
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: be bold, if you could find that man to really

1027
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:51,919
Speaker 1: come up to you and say, Okay, here's the deal.

1028
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:55,680
Speaker 1: I think you're beautiful, you're stunning. You've caught my attention,

1029
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 1: and I don't know if you have a boyfriend or not,

1030
00:55:57,880 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 1: but if you don't, I would love to take you

1031
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 1: out and just been a little bit of time with you.

1032
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 1: That would be a great thing. If guys had the

1033
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 1: confidence to do that, I'm telling you a lot of

1034
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 1: them don't and so sometimes it needs to be helped

1035
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: in both ways. That's my response to ever, keep doing you. Um,

1036
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: I don't think you're failing, and at some point you're

1037
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 1: gonna find the right guy. Ask you what your thoughts? Um? Well,

1038
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,239
Speaker 1: I think it was really a question that I would

1039
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 1: have liked to ask you too. But you're saying that

1040
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: not all guys really do ask you out, even if

1041
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: they want to. And I learned this firsthand, um, just

1042
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 1: by being friends with Dean. Dean told me that he

1043
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,800
Speaker 1: has never once asked a girl out. He has never

1044
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 1: he'll never ask them to hang out. He'll like, he

1045
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: will never assume that they are into him. He needs

1046
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:44,399
Speaker 1: to be like totally convinced by the woman that they

1047
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:48,760
Speaker 1: are into him first before he does anything that's interest.

1048
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if that should be the case. Like,

1049
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: there's obviously something there that Dean's a little fraid of.

1050
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: Right is the rejection if it's his own confidence, if

1051
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 1: it's not feeling I'm worthy to date that person or not. Um,

1052
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,360
Speaker 1: But I think I would just have to imagine that

1053
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 1: when you meet somebody and you know, hey, this person

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Speaker 1: seems special to me, that at that moment, something would

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Speaker 1: happen inside of you to say, I can't miss this moment.

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Speaker 1: I can't let this person walk away from me. I

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Speaker 1: have to say something. And I've had that happen to

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Speaker 1: me before, right, I mean, I remember even in college

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Speaker 1: and in high school, when you know, I was really

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Speaker 1: find that that person's a date. I remember going like

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Speaker 1: different places around town and seeing like the most beautiful

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Speaker 1: person walked past me and not say anything, and just

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Speaker 1: that kind of let down. Like, man, I wish I

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Speaker 1: was more confident. I wish I would have said something.

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Speaker 1: I've had moments like that in public too, or just

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Speaker 1: like giving me the number, given me your number, and

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Speaker 1: I just can't do it. No. Well, here's the deal, So, Debora, UM,

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Speaker 1: my advice is, I don't think you're doing anything wrong.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if there's a wrong and right way

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Speaker 1: to do this. I think the best way to do

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Speaker 1: it is to continue to be confident, to never um,

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Speaker 1: never settle, never get down on yourself, right. I mean,

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Speaker 1: people have rejected me many times, rejected actually many times.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure as you go through this dating life, rejection

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Speaker 1: happens to everybody. UM, so just keep staying strong and

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Speaker 1: one day I hope for you that a guy will

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Speaker 1: come up to you, grab your face at a coffee

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Speaker 1: let this pass. So with that, this is another episode

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Speaker 1: of the Almost Famous Podcast. Next week, here's a deal,

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Speaker 1: we have a special guest, Julia Kenney. Um, she just

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Speaker 1: didn't marriage boot Camp reality stars. She Uh, she might

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Speaker 1: have found love on that show. We don't know yet,

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Speaker 1: so let's ask her about it. Uh. And the Bachelor

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Speaker 1: News Already's first promo came out, it was released. I

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Speaker 1: With that, Hey, everybody, it's been a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: This is the off season and we know that they're

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Speaker 1: you know, during the season of The Bachelor and Bachelor

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Speaker 1: you all are very excited to kind of get the

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Speaker 1: recaps of the show. But actually and I are having

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Speaker 1: so much fun with this. We just don't want to stop.

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Speaker 1: So if you keep listening to us, we'd really appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: send it into our email. Actually, what's our email? It

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Speaker 1: is Ben and Ashley at I heart media dot com.

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Speaker 1: So write us an email, give us a review, uh,

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Speaker 1: send us a tweet. We appreciate you for all that

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