1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocates dot com. 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: Alissa is on the phone today for a first date 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Bryce. 5 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: see ifiel tell us why is ghosting her and maybe 7 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Alyssa, how long has 8 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Bryce? 9 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: Oh? My gosh, you guys, it's been I want to say, 10 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: two weeks, Okay, Like that's legitimate. I gave it a 11 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: week and I was like, Okay, maybe he's just like 12 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 1: super busy or got like late COVID, you know, I mean. 13 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 3: Sorry, Yeah, it's possible, Okay, So I. 14 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 1: Gave him a benefit of it doubt, but like now 15 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: it's been too long, you know, And. 16 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 4: I just I really really liked this. 17 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: Guy a lot, and I thought we had a really 18 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: you know, strong connection. But like then just to hear 19 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: absolutely nothing, I'm just kind of like, okay, like I 20 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: need to find out what happened, you. 21 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 5: Know, Yeah, did you try to reach out to him 22 00:00:58,400 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 5: to like instigate the conversation or. 23 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: Well, it's just like I don't think anything went wrong, 24 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 1: you know, I like maybe something on the d might 25 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: have scared him off, Like I just I'm not sure 26 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: because like he was so adamant about reaching out to 27 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: me and like you know, wanting to stay close and connected, 28 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 1: and then for him to just drop off a cliff 29 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: like that, I'm like, Okay, something's going on, you know, 30 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 1: like now I'm. 31 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 4: Playing detective, you know. 32 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: And we actually we first met and like clicked over 33 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: Instagram because we both have Frenchies. 34 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,559 Speaker 4: Very specific type of dog lover. 35 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 1: It's a lifestyle choice, you know, so we're part of 36 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: a small community of French ye. 37 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 4: Lovers and you know, we just like. 38 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: Bonded over our adorable dog children. And you know, after 39 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks like chatting back and forth, I 40 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: invited him to with me to an Italian cooking class. 41 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 3: Oh that's fun, that's really fun. 42 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 5: Yeah. 43 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 4: So it was like super romantic. 44 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to go as a friend who bailed, and 45 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, this is perfect, Like 46 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: it's not gonna be awkward. 47 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 4: We have an activity, you know, like we're not just 48 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 4: going to be like sitting across from each other. Like 49 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 4: what if you know, how like if. 50 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: You meet someone online or like you're just texting, it 51 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: could be weird when you finally meet in person, you know, 52 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: but right. 53 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 4: So you don't know. 54 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: But when I met him, I was like, oh my god, 55 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: I'm like totally floored. 56 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 4: Like he's so cute, he's so fun and like we. 57 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: Were flirting, like getting really like you know, touchy feely 58 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: and the pastas like we're it was a good excuse 59 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 1: to like accidentally touch each other. It was like major 60 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: wrong con vibes, Like I was living my best kid 61 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 1: husband life. You know, this is amazing, right, and he's 62 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: like so funny, so charming, and he impressed the whole class. 63 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: Like it was just anyway. Like I said, I really 64 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: liked him. That's why I'm now very confused. And you know, 65 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: it was just like a perfect date. So that's why 66 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: I just can't. I'm like going back in my mind 67 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: trying to think of anything that I said or that 68 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: he said that was like I don't know something I 69 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: missed you can think of. I mean I don't honestly, 70 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: like we were like making out by the end of the. 71 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 4: Class, like outside, you know, I just like got real. 72 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: Spicy, like super fun, and I honestly if anything. I mean, 73 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: it was like too perfect, So I don't know, like 74 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: can it be too perfect? And then that's the problem, 75 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: Like so I don't know, like maybe he's also or 76 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: there's just something he didn't tell me, you know, and 77 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: maybe he's afraid to tell me. So I just am 78 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: trying to figure out. And it's weird because like now 79 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: I'm checking his Instagram. I feel like that's like a 80 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: mini like low key stocker, which I'm totally not normally 81 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: at all, Like I don't even date that much. 82 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 4: So it's kind of weird. 83 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 5: You don't even have to explain yourself. Yeah, I would 84 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 5: do the same thing because I'm like, are you alive? 85 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 3: Two weeks? It's a perfect date? Did you die? 86 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 4: What if he's in the hospital, Like what if I 87 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 4: should be concerned? You know, right, like should you be worried? 88 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 2: At this point, we'll play us come back and then 89 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: call him and see if you'll tell us why he's 90 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 2: ghosting you. 91 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thank you? 92 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: All right, well, plus i'll come back get your first 93 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 2: day follow up next. Right in the middle of your 94 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: first date follow up and if you're just joining us, 95 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 2: Alyssa is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by 96 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 2: a dude named Bryce. So we're about to call him 97 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her 98 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Alyssa, 99 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on your situation real quick? 100 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 4: Okay? So perfect d met on Instagram. 101 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: Initially when we met in person, it was like over 102 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: the top, like chemistry, super nai thanks, making up by 103 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 1: the end of the day, and then just like nothing 104 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: for two weeks. So I'm like almost concerned at this 105 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 1: point because there was no institution of anything that went wrong, 106 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: you know, and it was almost too perfect. So I'm like, 107 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 1: what is going on? 108 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 3: Are you ready for us to call him? Yeah? Okay, 109 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 3: here we go, Hello him, I speak to Bryce please. 110 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, this is Bryce Bryce. 111 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 2: How you doing man? My name is Jubel and I'm 112 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called the Jewbill Show. 113 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:44,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, Bryce Whole Shows. 114 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 6: Here. 115 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 3: My name is Nina, hi, and I'm Victoria. How are 116 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 3: you okay? Have you ever listened to the show before? 117 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 6: I'm sorry, no, I haven't. 118 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, okay, to apologize for just trying to do 119 00:05:56,800 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 2: better in the future, Well we do it. Segment on 120 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 2: our show called the First Aid follow Up. What that 121 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: is is if you go out on a date with 122 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 2: someone and you end up ghosting them, that person can 123 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 2: email us to get you on the phone and ask 124 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 2: why you're ghosting. Oh okay, so you're ghosting somebody and 125 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 2: they emailed us. Do you have any idea who that 126 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 2: would be? 127 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 6: Yeah? I do. 128 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 3: Okay, what do you think it is? 129 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 6: I think it's probably Alissa. 130 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 3: You are probably correct. 131 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 2: Alyssa emailed us and told us about your date and 132 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 2: she's confused, So would you mind telling us? 133 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 3: Why are you a ghostinger? 134 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 6: Okay? 135 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 3: No, it was Listen, it was a great day. 136 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 6: I didn't expect it to be that great actually, and 137 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 6: she was kind of amazing. 138 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 3: And we we did. 139 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 6: We really hit it off. I knew we got along. 140 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 6: We connected on you know a lot of important things 141 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 6: like that are in a lot. I mean, obviously our dogs. 142 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 6: I'm sure she probably told you about that, being you know, 143 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 6: being a French to frenchship dog owner. You know, this 144 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 6: is kind of a whole thing. And no, it was great. 145 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 3: It was a lot. 146 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 6: It was kind of one of I just had this 147 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 6: moment afterwards of like thinking like, oh, this isn't going 148 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 6: to I don't know how casual this is really going 149 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 6: to be felt like this is just going to jump 150 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 6: a lot of steps, you know, and and I don't 151 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 6: I just I don't know if I'm I don't know 152 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 6: if I'm ready for that. I just moved here not 153 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 6: that long ago, and I started with a new company, 154 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 6: and so a lot of my time is focused on that. 155 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 6: You know. When we went out, I kind of was 156 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 6: one of my first three nights for a long time. 157 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 6: And I just I don't know if I really have the. 158 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 4: Space of my life right now for like a. 159 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 6: Serious relationship, which I think is probably where this is 160 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 6: going to go. And I don't want to, you know, 161 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 6: string it out longer and you know us get a 162 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 6: lot more emotions involved, and then you know just have 163 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 6: to you know, break it off or disappoint her, you know, 164 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 6: because then I'm like I'm not available, or you know, 165 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 6: all kinds of things. 166 00:07:57,640 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 5: But does it feel like you just skipped a lot 167 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 5: of steps, like thinking about the future before you even 168 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 5: go on. 169 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: A second date. 170 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 5: I mean I understood, like I guess I kind of 171 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 5: get fear, Like I think there's always fear involved when 172 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 5: you date somebody new. But how do you know that 173 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 5: you're going to disappoint her, you know what I mean, 174 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 5: unless you're planning on it. 175 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 4: Okay, No, I'm not. 176 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 6: I'm not planning on it, but I just she just 177 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 6: seems she's just really great, you know, and I that's 178 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 6: great all that, and I just I just I don't 179 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 6: I don't want to, you know, and I just came 180 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 6: into town. 181 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: I don't want to. 182 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 6: I guess I don't want to get a bad reputation already, 183 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 6: you know, and have an enemy, you know. 184 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 5: Well because you think you're to date other girls or 185 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 5: it's just like you don't have time for her. 186 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 3: I'm just worried. 187 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm worried that, you know. I'm just I'm going 188 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 6: to end up not actually having time for her, and 189 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 6: she just, you know, I'm going to make it seem 190 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 6: like we can get invested and then it's, you know, 191 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 6: it's not really you know, I don't really have that availability. 192 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I don't really know what to say. 193 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 3: I'm just worried that you're going to fall in love 194 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 3: too quickly. I mean, I think that it's pretty cool 195 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 3: when you meet somebody special. 196 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 4: I mean yeah, but. 197 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 3: It's like, you know, I just got here. And it's 198 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 3: like is this really happening? 199 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 6: Like it's it's scary and maybe I am overthaking. 200 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 4: You know. 201 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 3: I kind of almost want to ask, like, are you 202 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 3: sure you don't want to be single for a little bit? 203 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:12,239 Speaker 3: Like it's kind of sounds like. 204 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 5: You move to a new city you just want to 205 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 5: play the field, hang out. 206 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 6: I mean there's a bit of that, but I'm also 207 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 6: like at an age where it's like, you know, I 208 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 6: would like instability, I would like somebody to kind of 209 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 6: share my life with. But yeah, no, I did just 210 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 6: get here, so it's like am I already making that step, 211 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 6: you know, with somebody when I just got here? 212 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 3: So well, thank you for being honest with us. I 213 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 3: appreciate that. 214 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 2: And now I'll let you know that Alissa's actually been 215 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:38,439 Speaker 2: listening to this conversation. 216 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 3: She's on the phone and wants to talk to you. 217 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:46,680 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Hi Hi. Sorry, not trying to like 218 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 4: make it weird, maybe too late, but thanks for answering 219 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 4: that question. 220 00:09:55,040 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 1: Like I I'm definitely curious, you know happened. 221 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 4: Because I thought I was like, Okay, this is like 222 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:05,199 Speaker 4: too perfect. 223 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: You know, and it's definitely not me. Sorry, no offense, 224 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: Like I was just like okay, like just because we 225 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: had so much fun and there was so much chemistry 226 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: and like, you know, I had no idea that you 227 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: were going through so much on your own. 228 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 4: But we can't take things slow. 229 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be like you know, this runaway 230 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: train that like We'm not like rushing to the altar 231 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: like tomorrow. 232 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 4: I mean I would. 233 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 1: Vegas like I'm down, but I also, you know, don't 234 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: necessarily want to get married by Elvis. 235 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 4: So but we can like chill, you know, like I'm 236 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 4: totally down to hang out more and you know, like 237 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 4: just kind of get to. 238 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: Know each other better while you're still kind of learning 239 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 1: gropes of you know, like a new place. And it 240 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: can be a lot all at lunch. But it's more 241 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: fun if you're hanging out with someone that. 242 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 6: You like, right, I mean, if if you're if you 243 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 6: can understand and like want to take it slow, because 244 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 6: I mean that date was we got pretty fast, but. 245 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, we could just. 246 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 4: Take it slow. 247 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 2: I think for you, I can give a try, right, 248 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 2: will you go on another date with the LISTA? 249 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 3: We'll pay for it? Oh well yeah, absolutely, Wow, we're the. 250 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 4: Winners of the second date it's my dream of dream 251 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 4: for today. Jule's first date follow up