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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I

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Speaker 1: heart radio podcast. Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in. Scrub a

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Speaker 1: dub dub. It's the pod before, It's the pot It's

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Speaker 1: the pod before Christmas. Tis the pod before Christmas. You

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Speaker 1: know what's so funny. It's not funny, it's ironic. And

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Speaker 1: it's also giving me, like so many anxiety attacks in

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Speaker 1: the past two hours, right, Not funny, but kind of

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Speaker 1: funny because I pride myself and being so on top

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Speaker 1: of things, and like right after Halloween and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm all the Christmas decorations are going up, and I

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Speaker 1: am getting all my gifts done, and I am wrapping,

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Speaker 1: and I am, you know, doing it all. None of

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Speaker 1: that happened. And I realized last minute that I hadn't

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Speaker 1: wrapped anything. I hadn't even finished getting the stuff for

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Speaker 1: my niece and my nephews. And so the last twenty

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Speaker 1: four hours have been just like full panic mode on

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Speaker 1: the girl going to the mall, running around doing the things,

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Speaker 1: wrapping the gifts, running CBS's gon have enough paper. I

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Speaker 1: feel so scene right now. It seems like that's the

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Speaker 1: point of malls for the people who forgot to order

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Speaker 1: in time to get it delivered. And I don't like

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Speaker 1: being this person. This person is not me, and I

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Speaker 1: don't like this like this, this unneeded stress, you know,

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Speaker 1: like I could have been proactive and this could have

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Speaker 1: been totally done. You know. It's like, I know Christmas

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Speaker 1: is coming, I know what I'm getting there, I know

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I could have done

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Speaker 1: this a month ago. It's the same day every year, correct,

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Speaker 1: So I don't like this energy that I have, and

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Speaker 1: you are mildly frantic. Frantic, so I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: And things are going to change in twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 1: I say the same thing. Things are gonna change in

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Speaker 1: two because I too thought I was gonna be done

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Speaker 1: by now with my Christmas shopping. And I have two gifts,

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Speaker 1: only two so far. So I have a lot of

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Speaker 1: mall days coming up, but which is going to really

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Speaker 1: put me in the Christmas spirit with the large crowds,

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Speaker 1: although you know what I I do have a theory

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Speaker 1: that most people did shop online, so the malls aren't

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Speaker 1: as crowded as they want. I just have to go

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Speaker 1: to the right mall because like if I go to

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Speaker 1: the Grove or something, that's gonna be packed because like

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Speaker 1: people are just like outbrouted, you know, it's just chaotic.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not stressed. Plenty of time a full week, yeah,

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Speaker 1: just loads of time, loads of time. Um so yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm stressed mildly. But you know, my regret this year

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Speaker 1: is that I finally have my house and in my mind,

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Speaker 1: I was like going to decorate like the outside of

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Speaker 1: my house and my yard and I literally have pumpkins

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Speaker 1: still my stef. I keep looking at them because they're huge.

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Speaker 1: Like actually was wondering how you lifted those. Well, like

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Speaker 1: they're not so big that I can't lift them, but

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Speaker 1: like it's going to take effort to like get them

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Speaker 1: to the trash can. You know. It's like and do

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Speaker 1: you dispose of a pumpkin? And like the green trash

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Speaker 1: can with all my like yard stuff and like yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: you should take it to like a field and just

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Speaker 1: let it disintegrate. Well, but that feels right right right,

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Speaker 1: like like give it some give mother some natural foods,

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Speaker 1: like organic food. Listen to who you're saying this to.

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Speaker 1: The girl who has just snim burn stalls pumpkins on

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Speaker 1: her step. Are they're going to go to a field.

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Speaker 1: Where am I going to find a field to disposit that?

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Speaker 1: Yelled fields? I'm sure I can't pumpkin fields, pumpkin disposal

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Speaker 1: fields any any forest around here? Look around us? Do

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Speaker 1: you see a field where? Yes, we went on when

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Speaker 1: during quarantine? Whatever, same difference. I wish PDF meant pumplkin

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Speaker 1: disposal fields? Does it though? Do we know? Maybe it does?

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Speaker 1: Maybe we just took it on as what is it

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Speaker 1: the document? I know what was it, Sam for? It

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Speaker 1: stands for PDF. Easton's going to have it in five seconds.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell us about a PDF stands for UM. So

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Speaker 1: what what's happening for the holiday for you? Portable document format,

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Speaker 1: hordable disposal field? Better? Uh? Tanya? Yes, I have this

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Speaker 1: question with Meck as well, and I want to some

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Speaker 1: context on it because I was just listening to a

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Speaker 1: break you did with Ryan and Sincity in January and

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Speaker 1: last year of the most recent January we've had, okay,

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Speaker 1: but like a year ago essentially okay, right after the holidays,

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Speaker 1: and you were talking about how Christmas was tough because

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Speaker 1: your mom had COVID. So you looked at it through

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Speaker 1: do it up Christmas. We're gonna do a big deal.

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Speaker 1: And you were like, I don't want to think about that.

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Speaker 1: I want to focus on the now. And that's fine,

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Speaker 1: but now it's the now. So are you doing it

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Speaker 1: up with the Rads this Christmas? We are doing it

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Speaker 1: up with the Rads this Christmas, and you know it's funny.

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Speaker 1: So we have this kind of rule. We were like,

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Speaker 1: no gifts for adults. It's just about the kids. So

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Speaker 1: that's kind of what we decided on is as adults. Right, Well,

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Speaker 1: this is Red stars first Christmas with my family, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. And it's his first time actually

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Speaker 1: meeting my brother in law and like certain members of

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Speaker 1: my family. So he's like, I can't come empty handed.

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Speaker 1: So he went and he like got something for everybody.

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Speaker 1: And I was just like that against the rules. I

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Speaker 1: hate the rules around gift giving. But then I was like,

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Speaker 1: it's not like he didn't get anything crazy or extravagant.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's like I don't diamond bracelets for all, um.

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Speaker 1: It's just like thoughtful little things. So it's fine. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because it's a no lose situation because I became with nothing.

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Speaker 1: That'd be fine because that was the rule. But this

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Speaker 1: is a little bit extra. I think it's great. Yeah, so, um,

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Speaker 1: we are we are going to go We're going away

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Speaker 1: a few days, and that's gonna be really nice. I'm

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Speaker 1: just excited to kind of just like I'm gonna fully

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Speaker 1: unplug and then right wh we come back. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: go down to San Diego and do Christmas with my family.

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Speaker 1: He's never done, like he was, just like, so we're

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Speaker 1: I don't spoiler spoiler alert, uh um, because the whole

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Speaker 1: Santa thing. So he was like, do I the gifts

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Speaker 1: I'm giving to my niece and my nephew. Yeah, he goes,

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Speaker 1: do I put Santa on the thing? And I was like, no,

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Speaker 1: you can put Santa. That's great, right, It's just cute

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Speaker 1: he's never done it, like he knows what he doesn't know?

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Speaker 1: Are we acting like people who believe in Santa are

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Speaker 1: tuning into the podcast where Santa is revealed for everybody

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Speaker 1: that we're really I'm just trying to be respectful of

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Speaker 1: people listening. You're right, right, right right. We are a

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Speaker 1: PG podcast, so yeah, but we did say spoiler alert,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, after the fact. But um, I'll never forget

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Speaker 1: when Santa Claus was spoiled for me. Some would argue,

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Speaker 1: fifth grade. I was like eleven, okay, I was really

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Speaker 1: trying to the magic glass with I think I was

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Speaker 1: eleven two, And I'll tell you why. One night, And

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Speaker 1: I don't remember how old was when this happened, but

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Speaker 1: I had gone to bed in Christmas Eve, and some

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Speaker 1: of my parents with Santa and Mrs Claus. Therefore, I

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Speaker 1: had photographic evidence proving the existence of Santa Claus, and

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Speaker 1: I would not hear any argument to the contrary from

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Speaker 1: anyone I went to school with. Wow, So how did

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Speaker 1: it get broken? Like what happened? I do think that

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Speaker 1: whether it's spoiled for you or not, your brain mature

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Speaker 1: think that's what happened to me, but I fought it

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Speaker 1: I was totally membozzled. I was sitting in chapel because

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Speaker 1: So I get in the car after school and I

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Speaker 1: tell my mom and she's like mad. She's like, why

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Speaker 1: would he do That'd be mad? And she's like, well,

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Speaker 1: did you really think that, like one man could fly

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Speaker 1: It's not logical. It's not logical magic. It's magical exactly.

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Speaker 1: And I miss the magic of believing in Santa too.

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Speaker 1: And I know a lot of people say like, once

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Speaker 1: you have kids, you get to relive that magic celebrating.

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Speaker 1: for doing Yeah, they're cruel. Cruel cruel boy apologize. Well.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of gifts, so my family for the first year

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Speaker 1: everybody and you buy for that person. You set the

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Speaker 1: guess like, oh what do they want? Like you're getting

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Speaker 1: If that's what you guys decide as a family, that's

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Speaker 1: what you do. But unless Santa wanted to say, oh,

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Speaker 1: if Santa wanted to do it, yeah, you can't control Santa. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Santa can't be controlled anyways. I I'm trying to play

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Speaker 1: by the rules and be a team player. But I

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Speaker 1: also this is like my favorite time to just like

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Speaker 1: get to you know, when are you going home? I'm

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Speaker 1: going home. I'm trying to decide. I haven't booked my flight,

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Speaker 1: like I know, like I there are moments in my

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Speaker 1: life where I have some Becca tendencies. Like the last

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Speaker 1: twenty four hours, I felt very much like a Becca

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Speaker 1: and it was panicked. I don't panic. That's I can't

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Speaker 1: well play out on Monday. The flights and airbnb were

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Speaker 1: booked on January six. I'm not kidding of last year.

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Speaker 1: The most recent January six, January. I know what January

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Speaker 1: is in like two weeks. Yeah, but we're not there yet,

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Speaker 1: I know. But when you say January. I think forward.

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Speaker 1: I don't live in the past. Everybody flight for for

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Speaker 1: New Year's in the New Year, you can't. Okay, it

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Speaker 1: takes me a minute to get there. The capital was

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Speaker 1: under attack in your book in Hawaii flight Yeah quite that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not that quite that like uh proactive, like a

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Speaker 1: Oh god, alright, we're back. Tania is down to a brawler.

423
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: That's right. I don't love that the pit, the sweaty

424
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: pits are this close to me. But the crystal, you know,

425
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,359
Speaker 1: I realized aluminum is the thing that really takes the

426
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: perspiration down, and the crystal does not have that. So well,

427
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:40,119
Speaker 1: that's the whole whole argument. A smelly I don't smell.

428
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:44,919
Speaker 1: I can't smell anyway, so I need to shout out

429
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,640
Speaker 1: Jenna and Katie because they listen and they're very invested

430
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: in this Crystal armpit conversation. And they said, the Amazon

431
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: link for Crystal body deodorant, Is that what it is?

432
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: Because it looks like a rock? Okay, yeah, and that's working,

433
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,719
Speaker 1: but you're still sweating like crazy, but you're not smelling

434
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: badly exactly allegedly can't confirm I can confirm your six

435
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 1: inches from Rebecca? Who else could confirm? Because my my smell,

436
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: I realized, is my smell? Okay, anything citrusy smells like

437
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 1: throw up to me, it is the worst. Anything that

438
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: has a bad smell has this undertone that comes with everything,

439
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 1: which actually might be better than being able to smell

440
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: the real smell because it all just kind of smells

441
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 1: the same. And then this is breaking news, except just

442
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 1: not breaking because already posted on my Instagram, but it's

443
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: breaking podcast news. So coke and pepsi, like regular coke

444
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: and pepsi tastes like gasoline to me what I imagine

445
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: gasoline tasting like I've never tasted it, um, but like

446
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: it has this really pretty accurate, though poisonous taste to it.

447
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 1: So the other day I ordered um Coke zero from

448
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 1: door Dash, and they brought me a diet coke like

449
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: bottle diet coke. And I have always refused to drink

450
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 1: diet coke because I've never liked the taste. I'd rather

451
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: just not drink soda than drink a diet coke. I

452
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: was like, whatever, my taste is weird, I'm just going

453
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 1: to try it. It tastes like regular coat now. But

454
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,679
Speaker 1: I don't want to get into the habit of drinking

455
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,159
Speaker 1: diet coke because I know it's not great for you

456
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 1: and not great for you, she says, because it's not

457
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 1: for you. But Dr Pepper tastes good to me still,

458
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: So if there's Dr Pepper is good for you. Dr

459
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: Pepper is a healer. If I have any ailments or

460
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 1: like a headache or anything, and I drink an ice

461
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,199
Speaker 1: called Dr Pepper, I'm most of the time good to go.

462
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 1: I don't think they could put the word doctor in

463
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 1: the title if it wasn't some sort of a health right.

464
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: There was a lady who was like a hundred and

465
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: seven and they were like, what did you do to

466
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: live this a long? And She's like, I had to

467
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 1: dr peppers a day I always get sent that video.

468
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: So anyways, the post COVID scrambling of your smell and

469
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: taste buds is fascinating and scared the hell out of me. Yeah,

470
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 1: it's very interesting because like what wires are getting like,

471
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 1: I don't know, but some people. My sister couldn't. She

472
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 1: had it in January and until maybe like August or September.

473
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: She could only taste and smell metal and everything. She

474
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: was like she made her fry on the regular because

475
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: she was like miserable. She's like, I don't want to

476
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: eat anything. So I'm really grateful because my taste I

477
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: can taste like most things taste good and how they're

478
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 1: supposed to taste. The smell I can deal with. So

479
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: you can't even smell the nice pine tree candle that

480
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: I have lit. Oh no, I smell nothing, but if

481
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 1: I go that's a plus for Tanya. In this post

482
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 1: COVID world, everybody gets COVID and lose their sense of smell.

483
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: She doesn't have to wear the order it anymore. And

484
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: you know, I'm happy with my Crystal. My crystal is

485
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:01,120
Speaker 1: rocking on and she's just drenched. I'm just sweaty, Betty,

486
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: And you know what she's sweating through the sweatshirt. It

487
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:10,439
Speaker 1: all right, it's cross I have to bear. You know,

488
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 1: I'm last year I drove. I just realized that was

489
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: last year that we drove from California to Louisiana, me

490
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 1: and my sisters because December Chris we rented a minivan.

491
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 1: It was very important. I know, what is it? What

492
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: is she not getting? What's not what's not clicking in

493
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: that nogget? It's not clicking right now? Let me tell

494
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: you so, let me tell you do it. How much

495
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: time you guys got, because I could really go down

496
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:46,640
Speaker 1: the path. How much time you got? I have about

497
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: a lot of things, all right, a lot of things

498
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: not clicking. And actually we'll get into it in the

499
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: next podcast because I really had just like a revelation.

500
00:27:55,320 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: M yeah, thank you, great tease for the following podcast.

501
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 1: You wait, haven't even bigger thing coming? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

502
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about my goals in next week's podcast.

503
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: Why do you say it like that? Because that was

504
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 1: my tease. It was a smile on her face, like

505
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 1: she's so proud and she thought of something to change

506
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 1: in tight tight. Oh yeah. Honestly, normally I'm scrambling like

507
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 1: the night before the New Year, to be like, what's

508
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: my word? What is gonna ask you? What my word is?

509
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: Gotta make something up really quick? Oh yeah, okay, okay, okay, okay, Mark, Mark,

510
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 1: we have an email. Alright, Becka, thank you very much.

511
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: This is anonymous. She says, I have crippling anxiety when

512
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: spending time with my husband's family. My main issue was

513
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: with my husband's sister. To keep it short, she's extremely

514
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: blunt and harsh. I'm very sensitive and on the quiet side,

515
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: and I hate confrontation and pretty much the opposite of her.

516
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: I'm also not okay with the way she treats and

517
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 1: speaks to my husband or anyone. He says, that's just

518
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: the way she is, but to me, that is no

519
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 1: excuse to feat others poorly. However, she occasionally reaches out,

520
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: wondering if I want to do things activities with our babies,

521
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: a weekend, the family cabin with her, et cetera. I

522
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,239
Speaker 1: see that this is her reaching out and making an

523
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 1: effort with me. I do, but she will still be

524
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: there fully herself. The toxic and awkward energy will still

525
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: be there. I want to spend as little time with

526
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: her as possible. Do I just suck it up? How

527
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: do I show effort without having to spend time with

528
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: people I don't enjoy spending time with. I don't know

529
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:28,719
Speaker 1: how to participate in this family while also taking care

530
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: of my mental health. What would you all do? That

531
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: sounds so rough? You know, I don't think you're alone

532
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: in having a family member in law who is obnoxious

533
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: and makes things uncomfortable. I think like sometimes and I

534
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: think a lot of it comes down to when there's

535
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: a lot of people in a room, and sometimes whether

536
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: it's alcohol induced or whatever, people feel like a lack

537
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: of attention or control or something, and they're there for

538
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: I think they almost feel like them speaking up and

539
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 1: being obnoxious is a way of them either being funny

540
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: or I don't know how to explain it. Do you

541
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying? Like where you're there's a blank

542
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: stare at me, But I don't get it. I don't

543
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: get it. But like, I think sometimes it's not so

544
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: much like and it might just be that her personality

545
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 1: is that way. Like she's just loud, she's obnoxious. She

546
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: says things that are confrontational because she wants to be confrontational.

547
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: And you really can't change someone's personality. That's just like that.

548
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: But I do think if you make an effort and

549
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: maybe spend more one on one time with her where

550
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: you're a little more it's not so like family oriented,

551
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: it might maybe you can understand her a little bit more. Oh,

552
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: that's going the understanding route. I'm gonna I'm going to

553
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: different round. I'm going the boundary route. So that's a

554
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: good one though, So get me here. If you're having

555
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 1: this issue with your husband's wife, I'm going to go

556
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: out on a limb and just assume, even though you

557
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: didn't say in the email, that your husband probably feels

558
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: the same way about his sister. Yes, so that being said,

559
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 1: this is his sister. And yes, you will be at

560
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: family functions and you will see each other time to time,

561
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: and you have to just unfortunately, there are gonna be

562
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: moments where you just kind of have to suck it

563
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: up and and and be there and she's gonna say

564
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: those things and make you uncomfortable, and it is what

565
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: it is. However, you do not need to go out

566
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: of your way. You live a busy life. You have

567
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: a family, you have a job, you have responsibilities on

568
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: your free time. You do not need to say yes

569
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: to things and build relationships with people that you don't

570
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: want to just because they are part of his family.

571
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? So it's like set those boundaries.

572
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: I think for me, my issue I always have is

573
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: like I always say yeah, I say yes to everything

574
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: unless I have other plans, and I don't say yes

575
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: the things because I want to do them. And that's

576
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: something I've done for many, many, many years, and I'm

577
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: trying to do the work to like undo that now.

578
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: Because if I say no to a plan because I

579
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: want to stay home and I want to watch a

580
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: movie on my couch, that's still okay. But I always

581
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: felt that was not okay because I need to be

582
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: with people and say yes to things. I'm like, that's

583
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: just kind of always how I've been. So I think

584
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: it's okay that if she asks you to hang out,

585
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: like you don't have to always hang out. If if

586
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: she makes you anxious and you don't enjoy it, set

587
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 1: that boundary. I actually think that's really good advice. And

588
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: I think if you merged our advice, which is like

589
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: attempt to have one on one time with her and

590
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: if you feel like she's still she still makes you

591
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: feel the same way. Set that boundary and realized she's

592
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: not someone that you have to have a relationship with,

593
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,959
Speaker 1: like just because she's your in law. There's no and

594
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: it it does sound like her husband says she's that's

595
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: just the way she gets. He's just used to it.

596
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: And when you're used to someone and you grow up

597
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: with someone who has a personality that's uh, oh, I

598
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 1: have such a good word, polarizing, thank you everybody got

599
00:32:55,520 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: there quick, thanks um, then you are almost snumb to it.

600
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: And when someone suggests like this isn't okay, you're kind

601
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 1: of like, I've already put in the effort my whole

602
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: life to try to navigate this and there's no use

603
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,719
Speaker 1: in it. So he knows how she is. They've probably

604
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: had fights, they probably had so many arguments and conversations,

605
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: and it's just who she is. So if she's not

606
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: someone that you want in your life, yeah, don't make

607
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: that effort. But if you feel like, Okay, this is

608
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: gonna make it easier if I try to have like

609
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: some understanding from her, then I think it's worth it.

610
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: But if if she makes you feel that way on

611
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: the one on one time, then yeah, we the negative energy.

612
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: We don't need. No. The only thing I'll add is

613
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: that if you're always encountering her in big family environments,

614
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: there might be a connection to be made. One on one,

615
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: there might be something there that you can kind of

616
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: find a common ground on or appreciate her. Maybe one

617
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: on one she's not as loud because she has not

618
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: as obnoxious, doesn't feel like she needs to perform for

619
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: the family or whatever. You might get to know the

620
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: real her a little bit better if you spend some

621
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: more one on one time together, So that might be

622
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: worth a shot. Otherwise, I think your advice is great. Great.

623
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: It was like like finding a like finding a Okay,

624
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on. We're gonna move on from that.

625
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: And the snakes aren't pick mission Tanya crazier than the snakes,

626
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: aren't No, Yea, I'm gonna say it's like finding a

627
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: star in the sky. It was so funny about crazier

628
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 1: than the snakes? Aren't it is that y'all didn't even flinch?

629
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: And then I had to go back and be like,

630
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: isn't it crazy that snakes don't have armpits? Just to

631
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,439
Speaker 1: be acknowledged, did you know what because when you said

632
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 1: snakes aren't pit more, Tidela does look a little like scaly,

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Speaker 1: and so I thought, that's what you meant, But I

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Speaker 1: I didn't even put two and two together. They don't

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Speaker 1: have armpits because they might. The bar for idioms and

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Speaker 1: phrases on this show is right at the bottom. But like,

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Speaker 1: for example, Toya said, like finding a star in the sky,

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Speaker 1: there's literally millions of stars in the sky. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think so either. It's like finding

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Speaker 1: a red star in the sky. And Becca, when you

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Speaker 1: have that kind of southern lilt that you do to

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Speaker 1: your voice, that was phrases just so natural. It's like

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Speaker 1: something you grew up with. It's something everybody says in

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Speaker 1: your family. Somebody messaged me though it was like I was.

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Speaker 1: They were said that they were like crying laughing during

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Speaker 1: that podcast, because for once I stood back while you

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Speaker 1: were saying like ridiculous things and that's probably how you

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Speaker 1: feel on a regular basis, And I was like, that

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Speaker 1: is a very funny point. It was. That was a

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Speaker 1: really fun bit, and I think because Tanya was in

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Speaker 1: such a stress frantic jingle ball mode, it made it

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Speaker 1: so much funnier because she was like, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Like you're doing this weird today? Oh? Sorry? Yeah? I

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Speaker 1: was just like, what, um, can we play this this

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Speaker 1: mass Santa game? We ran out of time? I feel

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Speaker 1: like we have two minutes. I don't. I can run

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Speaker 1: these by a couple of real fast if you want

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Speaker 1: to guess them. Yeah, yeah, let's do five. It's a

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Speaker 1: quick who sang this song? Okay, here we go. I'll

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Speaker 1: start you with like, for example, I would say all

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Speaker 1: I want for Christmas as you and you would say

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Speaker 1: Mariah Carey and I guess that would be a tie.

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Speaker 1: All right, do they know it's Christmas? Do they know

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Speaker 1: it's Christmas? Feed the world? No one, No, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go with band aid. Band Aid is correct. And also

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Speaker 1: Tiny gets partial credit because George Michael does sing on

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Speaker 1: it because it's all of the great British musicians of

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Speaker 1: the that's so funny. Good job last Christmas wham, very good?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's right. Uh Santa? Tell me oh Yana Grannie? Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: are under Grande? Who's saying mistletoe? Oh? Justin Bieber? Okay? Good?

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Speaker 1: Are we tired? I feel like it's tie dish yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I'm a tiebreaker. I'm winning. All right. Now

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Speaker 1: to Lancy, I'm beck Attilly fifth grade saxophone. I gotta

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Speaker 1: get to justice for Garrett here coming up. I'll give

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Speaker 1: you a challenging one, but you have the list of options,

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Speaker 1: right of possibilities. Okay, it's the most wonderful time of

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Speaker 1: the year. Not King cole Bing Crosby even til I go,

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Speaker 1: Prince Sinatra, Michael Bubley. No, it was Andy Williams Felice not.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm just jose Feliciano. Go all right,

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Speaker 1: I think be congratulations. You know what I think she

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Speaker 1: cheated and saw the answer at the very bottom of

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Speaker 1: the rundown. Yeah, there's a note on the top of

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Speaker 1: the game that says answers at the bottom of the

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Speaker 1: rundown where I did not read that, And the fact

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Speaker 1: that I got band aid was like, yeah, that was

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Speaker 1: a shocker. It's time to go Merry, Merry Christmas, happy news. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: actually we'll talk to you before the New year. Merry Christmas,

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Speaker 1: Happy Honukah. We love you, We love you East and

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Speaker 1: have the best time watching Fiddler on the Roof and

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Speaker 1: going to Santa Cruz. Mark have the best time in Hawaii,

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Speaker 1: lots of shape, pineapple, fresh fruits, the best, all right,

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Speaker 1: We love you, Love you,