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Speaker 1: This is the EDS with Eddie Judge and Edwin Adoyavi.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Ed's podcast. My name is Eddie.

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Speaker 1: I have a special guest on our podcast today, my wonderful,

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Speaker 1: beautiful wife who had this brilliant idea to give me

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Speaker 1: a podcast. Well, her and her friend Eddy and her husband,

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Speaker 1: and you know what, it's been fun, fun, you're enjoying it.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the EDGs podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you well today. I am your co host.

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Speaker 1: You are my co host? Yes, So what are we

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Speaker 1: going to talk about?

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Speaker 2: I have a whole rundown. You know with New Year's

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Speaker 2: we got to talk about New Year's but you know,

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Speaker 2: everybody's New Year's resolution is to get fit. And every

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Speaker 2: year we go to the gym January second, it's packed.

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Speaker 1: I think that's changed. And we used to say that

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Speaker 1: a lot because we were in the fitness industry for

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Speaker 1: so long. It's funny because you get into your little

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Speaker 1: bubble and you don't think outside that. I was just

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Speaker 1: at the gym and there were three people at the gym,

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Speaker 1: and I went to the front desk and I said,

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Speaker 1: I'm not complaining, but where's everybody that comes in on

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Speaker 1: January first? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Really? I didn't get to go because I was doing

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Speaker 2: three other podcasts while you were working out, But I

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Speaker 2: will be going later. I was speaking of gym's. A

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Speaker 2: lot of people ask like, do we miss cut fitness.

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Speaker 1: I don't miss the business. I missed the people.

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Speaker 2: You don't miss the business side of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hard to run a business by yourself. Be

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Speaker 1: the trainer, be the business developer, be the sales, be

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Speaker 1: the be there everything. And the best part, in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: was the relationships I developed, the long term relationships I

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Speaker 1: developed with our client and members.

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Speaker 2: You know, ten years is a long time I miss

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Speaker 2: like having a place to work out that's mine, you know.

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Speaker 2: I always called it the most expensive gym membership I

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Speaker 2: ever had. Yeah, right, So it was nice to have

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Speaker 2: our own gym to go in when we wanted to.

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Speaker 2: But now we have a very great gym that we

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Speaker 2: work out, little Botique Gym, and we love it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it reminds us of our little gym.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the same colors.

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Speaker 1: It's strollers, it's it's really a cool place. And that's

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Speaker 1: mostly because I don't like big box gyms anymore.

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Speaker 2: I just I don't either. I don't like what is

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Speaker 2: the best fitness tip to give people like your listeners,

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Speaker 2: because there's a lot of people that have reached out

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Speaker 2: to me and said, like, why, you know, can you

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Speaker 2: start posting your workouts your meals? And like why don't we? Ever,

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Speaker 2: we don't really post our workouts.

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Speaker 1: You just want the tip? What you said you want

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Speaker 2: Okay, just this is a two parter. Why don't we

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Speaker 2: post our workouts? I don't understand what you're saying. You're

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Speaker 2: not funny.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm glad you're in a good mood.

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Speaker 2: I just did three podcasts, I know sweating, and I'm

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Speaker 1: So what's your question again? Harder?

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Speaker 2: Best fitness tips to get started? And I people ask

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Speaker 1: Well, best tip to get started is get started. You know,

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Speaker 1: don't don't go all out hardcore kick your butt like

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Speaker 1: Otherwise I don't feel like I got to work out.

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Speaker 1: Just ease into it, take your time. The key here

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Speaker 1: At least you create that habit of going and going

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Speaker 1: in the morning. But that's my biggest tip is just

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Speaker 2: Talkers and there's doers right, and we're just like, we're

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Speaker 2: One of the things that I've been in fact, I

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Speaker 1: Really you have to mention that I had to Well, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean we're in our fifties. Yeah, we're ten years ago.

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Speaker 2: You're more about I just want to be healthy, especially

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or that's my that's my second shin or yeah. No,

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Speaker 2: I get that. And you've always taught me, like, work

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Speaker 2: Now there's people that work out and they take steroids

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Speaker 1: real stuff. New year resolution I don't have them, so,

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Speaker 2: my next workout. Now, a lot of people do dry January.

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Speaker 1: I don't believe in drinking alcohol. I think it's a

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Speaker 2: So I thought, you know what, let's do something that's meaningful.

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00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be expensive. But the challenge was

438
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,520
Speaker 2: that you have to buy items that fit in a stocking,

439
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:43,119
Speaker 2: which means they're very small items and I told you

440
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 2: it doesn't have to be expensive, it doesn't have to

441
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 2: just just to know that you went and you was

442
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 2: thought thoughtful. You thought, oh, shell like that or shill

443
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 2: like that, and it's you know what I mean, like

444
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 2: you had to put some thought behind it.

445
00:21:56,200 --> 00:22:00,920
Speaker 1: I just I couldn't find anything that you would like

446
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: that would fit in a stalking I mean I did,

447
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,120
Speaker 1: but it wasn't cheap.

448
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 2: Well, the things you bought me were not cheap, so

449
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 2: you failed miserably.

450
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:15,680
Speaker 1: I failed at the stocking challenge, however, but I made

451
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 1: up for it.

452
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 2: He bought me some expensive stuff and you know you

453
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 2: want on that side. You got me a Tiffany bracelet.

454
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 2: You bought me a Lubaton purse, and I'm like, babe,

455
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,640
Speaker 2: they don't fit in the stocking like you. You would

456
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 2: like like an asshole. Because I got you like. The

457
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 2: most expensing thing I.

458
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 1: Got you was Meta the Callous Remover.

459
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 2: I got him callous remover for his feet.

460
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 1: Merry Christmas, Eddie, your feet are dry as hell and

461
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,680
Speaker 1: maybe you can use this to wipe your ASDs somebody.

462
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 2: I but I also got you the Meta glass.

463
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: The glasses they're pretty cool.

464
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: They you can pretty it's not prety.

465
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 1: Whatever told you the word is pretty pretty technical. I mean,

466
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. Do you understand what I'm saying, but

467
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 1: it's not correct. It doesn't matter. Prety.

468
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 2: You sound like it from another start.

469
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: I show okay, Oh my gosh.

470
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well the problem is is you wait last minute

471
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 2: to do everything. If we have to go out to dinner,

472
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 2: it's we have to leave at seven o'clock. He gets

473
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 2: in the shower at six point fifty.

474
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 1: It doesn't take me that long to get ready.

475
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 2: Somehow you always pull it off. But then it's like,

476
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,919
Speaker 2: oh shit, I got to go feed the dog. Now,

477
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 2: I got to take the dog out. Oh I got

478
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,880
Speaker 2: to do this, And I'm like just plan like, I'm

479
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 2: like ready, You're not ready.

480
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 1: It takes you like you got you start getting ready

481
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 1: on Tuesday for what we're gonna do on Thursday. Come on,

482
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 1: I don't need that much time.

483
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 2: We got a lot of questions about Big Bear.

484
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and we we love it.

485
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 2: We didn't know that we were going to love it

486
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:56,880
Speaker 2: as much as we did. It took me what two

487
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 2: years to talk you into buying a house in Big Bear?

488
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 2: Now is the pandemic? We all know what happened to

489
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 2: the prices during the pandemic, and we saw them going

490
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 2: up and you kept saying, no, no, no, I don't

491
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,239
Speaker 2: want to buy because the market's going to cry. Well

492
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 2: the market has not fucking crashed and it's been five

493
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 2: years later. So we ended up buying and we got

494
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: a house and I wanted to do it for investment

495
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,159
Speaker 2: reasons and then we could go and stay and we

496
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,640
Speaker 2: wanted but we would run it out. Well, that didn't happen.

497
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 2: So we bought the house in Big Bear and it

498
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 2: was reasonably priced. It wasn't like some gigantic house and

499
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 2: Big Bear.

500
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: And it was a little overpriced.

501
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 2: It was over yeah, for the market. It was overpriced,

502
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 2: but that's what we were seeing back then.

503
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: But we love it.

504
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been two years.

505
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: You did such an amazing job with it.

506
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,159
Speaker 2: I'm not done with it, sweetie. I'm not done. I

507
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:44,239
Speaker 2: got the bear bones in there.

508
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:44,399
Speaker 1: Now.

509
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 2: I got to start really doing like the woodwork and

510
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 2: the wallpaper. And after seeing John Legend and Chrissy Tagan's

511
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 2: house that they bought in Arrowhead, because we looked at

512
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 2: Arrowhead first, it's like a nineteen thirties, nineteen forties house.

513
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 2: It is decorated, just like I want our house to

514
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 2: be decorated.

515
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 1: So if their house costs six million, are only was

516
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: seven hundred thousand. Big difference.

517
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you see us buying a bigger house and bigger.

518
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: I did in the beginning. I loved it so much,

519
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 1: spending so much time up there that I want to

520
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 1: just get rid of everything we have an Orange County

521
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 1: and go up there. But now that I've gotten used

522
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: to going back and forth, I really enjoy the diversity.

523
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 1: I like going up there and having a good time.

524
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: I don't think we need a bigger house. I like

525
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 1: the coziness of it. I know you want higher ceilings,

526
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: more light and all that. That would be cool, Yeah,

527
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: but I don't want to. I don't want to sell it.

528
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 1: You know. One of the biggest lessons I've learned in

529
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 1: finance is build your assets. And I want to keep

530
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 1: it and rent it and you know, maybe give it

531
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 1: to the kids after we pass. But selling it is

532
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 1: not going to be an option because there's no reason

533
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: to sell it.

534
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,439
Speaker 2: Well, unless you want to buy something bigger.

535
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: We could do that. You know, there's there's a lot

536
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: of ways to you know, upscale to a bigger property.

537
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 1: And you know, deal with taxes and all that. But

538
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 1: the bottom line is I'd rather have multiple properties that

539
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: generate incomes so we don't have to work our ass

540
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: off for the rest of our life.

541
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 2: Speaking of multiple properties, do you think we're gonna move?

542
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. We tried to sure.

543
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 2: I sold our house in days and then you backed up.

544
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 1: I did because I financially it didn't make any sense

545
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 1: it we needed another year. We got the years, so

546
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: we have to make a decision. But if we move,

547
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to sell this house. There's so much

548
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: sentimental value here and we have such a great interest

549
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: rate on it. I mean, it's stupid if we sell

550
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 1: the house.

551
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean the whole rule in real estate like

552
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 2: if right now, especially with the interest rates solo, if

553
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 2: you have a two or three percent interest rate on

554
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 2: your house, to fucking sell it.

555
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

556
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well we bought the big Bear house with a

557
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 2: high interest rate and then we just ended up paying

558
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 2: the house off because it's not worth it for a

559
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 2: second house because you can't write that off.

560
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:07,120
Speaker 1: No, And it was seven percent investment return on your money.

561
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, it was an investment decision. So now we're

562
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: doing good. Yeah, I think maybe I would like to

563
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 1: look at more property in Temecula, And it's because they

564
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 1: have space. Also, what's that other area was talking about?

565
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 1: Wildemar is a nice area, I know.

566
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 2: I know, it's really out there, so it is Eddie

567
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 2: has been talking about Temecula. So I decided, because I

568
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 2: love looking at houses, got online, looked at Temecula. In

569
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 2: some of these houses that have these long driveways that

570
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,679
Speaker 2: you know, lined with cypress trees. You get up there,

571
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 2: there's vineyards, there are big houses. I mean you can

572
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 2: get a six thousand square foot house on two acres

573
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 2: for three million dollars. There five acres, five acres, ten acres,

574
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 2: whatever for like three million dollars. And you know, when

575
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 2: you really think about it, when Sophia leaves the house,

576
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:11,399
Speaker 2: which is going to be soon, what are our ties here?

577
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 2: The show being in Orange County?

578
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: That's it? Yeah, I mean we have friends here, but

579
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: it's not like we can't see him whenever we want,

580
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: you know, it's only an hour away. Yeah, to make so,

581
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, just a just an idea, just that thought.

582
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 1: I sent you that house in link Matthew's have a

583
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: friend that lives up there and He's got a huge

584
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: house at the beautiful Lawn and full disclosure. There's an

585
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: awesome trail that I can ride out there.

586
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 2: Everything revolves around riding a motorcycle.

587
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: This is reaching out. Yes, that's my life, babe.

588
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 2: My favorite things to doing Big Bear ride my motorcycle.

589
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 2: Oh your wife, I do well you that's a second

590
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 2: is second.

591
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: Favorite favorite thing about Big Bear is just being there

592
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: with you.

593
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just relaxing. It's so different than being an

594
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 2: Orange County And you know, we know some people on

595
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 2: our street. There's a couple that own a restaurant Pergola,

596
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 2: which is one of our favorite restaurants, and he also

597
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 2: owned Whiskey Daves, which we filmed there. We actually filmed

598
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 2: a La Pergola too. A lot of great restaurants. People

599
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 2: reach out to me all a lot of great people,

600
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 2: you know, a lot of nice.

601
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: People, really nice people. I was walking Rugby one day

602
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: and I was walking by that house that was all

603
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: done up like really like just around the corner from Yeah,

604
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: and the owner was out there, an older guy, probably

605
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 1: mid mid to early eighties, and we just started talking,

606
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: started having a conversation.

607
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 2: They're nice people. Now there is an area like Crackhead

608
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 2: City too. I guess, like any other.

609
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: Town like you find anywhere, but it's nowhere near us,

610
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: and it's it's way way way, you know, deep into

611
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: you know, following Lake or something like that.

612
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's talk about podcasting.

613
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. I actually enjoying it.

614
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 2: I am.

615
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: When we first started, I had no clue what we're

616
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 1: going to talk about. And it wasn't into the very

617
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: last minute that I it clicked and Edwin and I

618
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: just started chatting and having a conversation like friends, and

619
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 1: we hit it off. I mean we were friends before, yeah,

620
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: but we were able to just chat.

621
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 2: You had chemistry, is what you're saying.

622
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: Which my favorite part is interviewing the house husbands because

623
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: we have so much in common.

624
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 2: And who is your favorite?

625
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: I don't have a favorite. I've enjoyed talking and getting

626
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: to know all of them. If I was forced to

627
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 1: pick a favorite, obviously, Joe Gorga is my favorite because

628
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: he's just so funny and I mean, but it's hard.

629
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: I mean, Frank and Tania is equally as fun and

630
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 1: that's why they have their own stand up show. But

631
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: I think every single house husband so far that we've

632
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: talked to. I really have connected with and enjoyed talking

633
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: about the subject of, you know, being a house husband.

634
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 2: You interviewed Eddie on Potomac.

635
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, everything that's.

636
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 2: Gone down since your interview. What was your take on

637
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 2: him when you talked to him.

638
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: I enjoyed Eddie talking to him. I didn't know him

639
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: before and and I think Edwin would tell you the

640
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 1: same thing. It was an easy interview. He's easy to

641
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: talk to. He's such a nice guy, very inspiring. Both

642
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: him and his wife are very educated, and you know,

643
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: they seem like really genuine people. And to see these

644
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 1: stories going on and was shocked what's happening. I was shocked.

645
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 2: I think everybody was shocked. I mean, you're innocent until

646
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: proven guilty. You are, so we'll see what happens.

647
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: But which I hope. I hope that they get to

648
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: do it, because I can't imagine going through something like that.

649
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: You know, whether it's real or not, you know it's

650
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: it's you have to defend yourself. Very similar to the

651
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: stupidity of all these ugly posts that you know, I

652
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: think they're ai posts that idiots put up.

653
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 2: Oh about us, so so funny you should say that

654
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 2: because at the end, I have questions from fans, and

655
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 2: a lot of fans asked about that, Oh I didn't

656
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 2: know you were still together. Oh I thought you're getting divorced.

657
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 2: And so there's a lot of people that are really

658
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 2: struggling with these AI stories. I just ignore them now,

659
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 2: but I know, like Vicky's son in law, they just

660
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 2: posted one that he was going to prison. They put

661
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 2: a picture of him with ear rings in and he's

662
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 2: a military guy, he's you know, he's very straight laced.

663
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 2: So there's all these stories from I cheated, you cheated,

664
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 2: You're a gambler, we're breaking up, and you know, it's

665
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: funny because.

666
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: It's getting investigated by the FBI seeing.

667
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 2: That one, and it's like you would get upset about it,

668
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 2: and you've even contacted the attorney or whatever. And I

669
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: know that Vicky told me that they she contacted attorney,

670
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 2: and Branna and Ryan's we have and there's nothing they

671
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: can do. These are AI story. I broke Rugby's leg.

672
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 2: I had to borrow two million dollars from Alexis. Alexis like, wow,

673
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 2: I didn't know I had that kind of money hanging around.

674
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 2: Like so many crazy stories and the people on Facebook.

675
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 2: I think it's an older generation on Facebook, because my

676
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 2: mom will literally come to the house and go.

677
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: So.

678
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 2: You got fired. I'm like, what are you talking about.

679
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 2: Don't you think I would tell you? She goes, well,

680
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 2: I read it on Facebook. You know they said that

681
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 2: you know, Eddie's leaving you, he's sick of your shit,

682
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 2: that you got fired from the show. And I'm like, mom,

683
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 2: she goes, oh, no, it's a joking. Mom, I don't

684
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 2: want to hear it. I purposely ignore it. I don't

685
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 2: need my own family member to come over and say like, oh, so,

686
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 2: like I don't find it funny.

687
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: Well, that's how propaganda works, and it's it's not AI AI,

688
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: doesn't you know, pull this hat, this rabbit out of

689
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: their ass and go I'm gonna do this. It's some

690
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: piece of shit person that's behind generating this through AI.

691
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 2: Well, it's overseas, so they can't even get to the people,

692
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 2: according to some attorney that was trying to look into it.

693
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 2: But you know what, at what point is Mark Zuckerberg

694
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 2: or whatever his name is responsible for this.

695
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: Eventually they're going to be held responsible. I don't know when.

696
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 2: Can we can we do a lawsuit against Mark for

697
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 2: allowing him.

698
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: To do this. I think if we get enough people,

699
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: we can have a class action lawsuit. But it's not

700
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,240
Speaker 1: like he's not getting food every day for something or another,

701
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: you know.

702
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,240
Speaker 2: It's just I don't know. Would you like to interview

703
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 2: Andy Cohen?

704
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: I think that would be fun. That's a good idea.

705
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: I don't know that he'd come on our show, but

706
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: I think that would be fun.

707
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 2: Came on to tease. Would you like to do a

708
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 2: monthly podcast with your wife? Maybe we can do all

709
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 2: kinds of different topics from relationship too only for nice

710
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:47,280
Speaker 2: to me? Okay, I'll try to be nice to you. Okay,

711
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 2: let's move on to RHOC. So you are, what about

712
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 2: twelve years into reality TV? Gosh right, And I don't

713
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 2: know if a lot of people know this, but you

714
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: filmed two times with me and a mutual friend when

715
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 2: I was married to Simon before we got together, Yes,

716
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 2: before we got together. And I don't know why production

717
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 2: has never done a flashback of us filming together.

718
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 1: Where was it?

719
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 2: Okay? So the first one was I had a launch

720
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: party from my website and Marcos, our mutual friend who

721
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,800
Speaker 2: basically introduced us. Right, he was in our wedding he

722
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 2: brought you.

723
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember that, and I got ten. You got

724
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: naked then too, I got spray ten.

725
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, there were spray tanner there. Cameras were there.

726
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 1: Yes.

727
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 2: And then when I was short selling our house separating

728
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 2: from Simon, I came to your house because it was

729
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 2: kind of a stage situation, because you can't just go

730
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 2: into somebody's house and film as a potential place to live.

731
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 2: And here I am sixteen years later in this house.

732
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 1: Well that's when where I fell in love with you.

733
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 2: It was love at first sight.

734
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, when when I opened the door and it was

735
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: just got eyed eye and it was just love it

736
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: first sight. But you were married.

737
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 2: I was, well, I was. It was the end of

738
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 2: my marriage. We knew when we were splitting up. And

739
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 2: I remember when the door opened. It was like that

740
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 2: when people say, oh there was stars and fireworks blah

741
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: blah blah. It truly was like that.

742
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 1: They did film. They filmed the film was looking around

743
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 1: the house.

744
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 2: But they filmed you opening the door. Yes, yes, and

745
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 2: then you went and did your thing. And then me

746
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 2: and Marcos talked around the house and looked around.

747
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right.

748
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 2: I forgot about that you've come a long way since

749
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 2: the bathtub scene. Yes, you have.

750
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: That's the first thing I remember from filming there. Where

751
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: do you go from there? It's all downhill from there?

752
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 2: Yeah? Well now I don't know about that. But how

753
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,320
Speaker 2: do you manage staying out of all the drama on

754
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 2: the show.

755
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:50,240
Speaker 1: Not a housewife?

756
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, but some guys try to get involved.

757
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: I think we know little bitches. They want. They want

758
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 1: their fifteen minutes on a female housewife show. That's all. Yeah,

759
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: I'm not about that. This is your thing with your show,

760
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 1: and I am not about to upstate you or you know,

761
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 1: take yours.

762
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: Get involved with You were so mad last year when

763
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,399
Speaker 2: I brought up the FBI stuff and then you ended

764
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 2: up having to smooth things over and which you really

765
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 2: didn't want to do. But that's the type of guy

766
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 2: you are. You're like, are we good now? Are we

767
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 2: good now? And you hugged them and you walked out.

768
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, because it was just pointless. This is not

769
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:37,280
Speaker 1: a show about guys. We're kind of collateral damage.

770
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 2: But you're also not a drama person, like you'd rather

771
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 2: smooth things over than or walk away. Do you ever

772
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 2: get the urge to tell people off? Online.

773
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: I do. I've had I think I've told you this

774
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: already about three maybe four occasions in the entirety of

775
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: being on the show where I've typed it out like

776
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: ready to tell them off, and then I delete it.

777
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: I feel good. Yeah, but there's only been like three

778
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: or four instances where I'm like, you do know this

779
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: is a TV show? And then I go on if

780
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 1: you believe this, and YadA, YadA, YadA, and then I

781
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,800
Speaker 1: post it and then I hear you you got to

782
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 1: delete it, so about delete it. But now it doesn't

783
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: bother me because I know it's some troll behind a

784
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 1: computer in somebody's basement.

785
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 2: What if it's a cast member, because you've had that

786
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 2: happen where they were talking shit about you, And I mean,

787
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 2: could you imagine depends on the cast member, right, could

788
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 2: you imagine? I would kill you if you got online

789
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 2: and started talking about one of the girls on the show.

790
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm not a little bitch.

791
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 2: God, No, it's just yeah.

792
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:50,479
Speaker 1: So anyways, No, it's a housewife show. My only place

793
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 1: is to support you call it a supporting role. And

794
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: I'm not about to be a little bit on the show.

795
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 2: You got cut out a lot this year well, there's

796
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 2: not a lot of drum with me. Well, the one

797
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:03,959
Speaker 2: thing is is, now that Sophia is on the show,

798
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 2: I feel like she elaborates a little bit more than

799
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:09,479
Speaker 2: you do. So now when we do rundowns at home

800
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 2: and stuff like that, they're like, it is Sophia available. Yeah,

801
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 2: would you be disappointed if I was not asked back

802
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 2: to season twenty?

803
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 1: I would not know. I mean, at the end of

804
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 1: the day, this is your thing, babe, Yeah, and you

805
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: battle with it. You have your ups, you have your downs,

806
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: you have your good days, you have your bad days,

807
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 1: and I'm just here to support you and you know,

808
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: whatever decision you make, because at the end of the day,

809
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: there's one thing I've learned about you. Tarma's going to

810
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 1: do whatever the hell Tama wants to do. And I'm

811
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: not here to tell you what to do. I'm here

812
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:55,280
Speaker 1: to bounce off ideas, brainstorm, go through the feelings you're getting,

813
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,399
Speaker 1: and you know, support you with whatever decision you make.

814
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. It doesn't really affect

815
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: me because again, I'm not a little bitch on the show.

816
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,439
Speaker 1: This is about you and what you and you're great

817
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 1: on the show. I mean the few episodes that I watch,

818
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: and of course all the all the brass you get.

819
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 1: I mean, you're on Varieties or the most powerful women

820
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: on reality TV. That's a big deal. So I love you,

821
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:23,919
Speaker 1: I support you, and I'll be here, you know, doing

822
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 1: this as long as you want to do it.

823
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 2: What's the biggest misconception about me?

824
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: That you are mean and a drunk and you know,

825
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:39,280
Speaker 1: really hard to be friends with, Which is the irony,

826
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 1: you know, because the really you, you don't give a

827
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 1: damn about the stupidity of what people are doing out

828
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: there in the world. You know, you keep to yourself.

829
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 1: You're actually a bigger homebody than I am. But you're not.

830
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 1: I mean, there's there's a little bit of crossover that

831
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: I've noticed as time has come gone on, and I've

832
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: seen some of the things that you have said on

833
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: the show, you know, say to me, and I just

834
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,439
Speaker 1: have to remind you, I'm not one of the women,

835
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: So don't talk to me like that. Yeah yeah, And

836
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 1: there's no cameras around, so don't talk to me like that.

837
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, you're human and

838
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: it's going to be hard to separate, you know. What

839
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: I've learned in business is as an entrepreneur, you go,

840
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: you do your job, You do your work, you do

841
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 1: everything you need to do. When you come home, you

842
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: leave all the problems and issues outside the door and

843
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: you come in and you enjoy your family.

844
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 2: For you, it's it's sometimes it's hard.

845
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: It's very hard because this is your business, this is

846
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: what you do.

847
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: So yeah, but this this last year was probably emotionally

848
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,320
Speaker 2: the toughest year I've ever had to film.

849
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 1: Well that's because you got hit hard emotionally because of

850
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: what happened to Teddy. You know, if that didn't happen

851
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: to Teddy and Teddy was not going do all that,

852
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: I think you would have ran circles around these women

853
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: in the show and tell them where to put it right.

854
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I think back up the scenes that I shot,

855
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 2: and I was very sad. I was very emotional. I

856
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,359
Speaker 2: just I was crying out for someone to just hug

857
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 2: me on the show, Like just one of you fucking

858
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 2: hug me and tell me it's going to be okay.

859
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: Well, from what I understand, they did the exact opposite, the.

860
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 2: Exact opposite the entire cast. It wasn't a lot of love,

861
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 2: that's for sure. They were trying to and I think, like,

862
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 2: you know, I asked, like, why why is this happening? Well,

863
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 2: everybody thinks you're tough. Everybody knows that they poke you,

864
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 2: You're going to explode and it's going to be a

865
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 2: good scene.

866
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:43,320
Speaker 1: You know.

867
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,879
Speaker 2: And I'm like, sometimes I'm not that fucking tough.

868
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: But I think I think that justifies their actions because

869
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, they're trying to produce

870
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: a show here, right, yeah, And that justifies their actions

871
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 1: in that they're just doing their job. Now, what they

872
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: I don't consider is that the real life that's going

873
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: on in your personal life is affecting you so much

874
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 1: that you can't really It's like, call it a baseball team,

875
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 1: and you're in a team and you guys are all

876
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:16,879
Speaker 1: playing together, but something emotionally happens, Let's say your mom

877
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: dies or something like that. You're not going to be

878
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 1: one hundred percent when you go to bat or when

879
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: you go to pitch or whatever. Right, that's my point

880
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 1: is that you were not one hundred percent when this

881
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 1: happened to you. Well I was hapened to Teddy.

882
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, this happened to Teddy. But the thing is is,

883
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 2: like I was going through therapy, and anybody that's going

884
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 2: through therapy for the first time knows like they break

885
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 2: you down before you start feeling better. So I really

886
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 2: was in that era where I was really broken down

887
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:49,240
Speaker 2: and really looking forward to filming and you know, talking

888
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 2: to my friends about it and all that stuff, and

889
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 2: pretty quickly, within two weeks Teddy got sick and it

890
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 2: just put me in a telspend. Now, one thing that

891
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:03,760
Speaker 2: people don't know about me is I avoid difficult conversations

892
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 2: and emotions because I think mostly because of the way

893
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 2: I was raised. I don't process things.

894
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 1: Well.

895
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 2: I do not process bad things well. Yeah, And so

896
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 2: for somebody that might say, oh, well, you know what

897
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 2: happened to Tody didn't happen to you, I'll be like, okay, okay,

898
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 2: whatever you say. But when your best friend is so sick,

899
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 2: and your business partner and the doctor's you know, she's

900
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 2: in brain surgery and we don't know what the outcome

901
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 2: is and told in everything you read six to nine

902
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 2: months survival rate and all that stuff, it plays with

903
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:44,479
Speaker 2: your mind.

904
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it does, you know. And I don't think anybody

905
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 1: is giving you enough credit for you dealing with that

906
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 1: the way you dealt with it.

907
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 2: Nobody fucking cared and I'm not. And here's the thing.

908
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 2: I don't ask for sympathy. I don't ask for grace.

909
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 2: I don't ask for of that. But what I got

910
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: was it whole opposite, just mean, nasty. Let's try to pinner,

911
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 2: let's try to do something like it's it made. It

912
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,479
Speaker 2: really has changed my mind about a lot of people.

913
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 2: I don't care if it's a fucking show or not.

914
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing, here's my take on it. That's

915
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 1: probably the most vulnerable I've ever seen you. And the

916
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: fact that they brought back, you know, a few people

917
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: on the show that you know you've had trouble with

918
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: and maintain the people on the show that you have

919
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: trouble with, and they all ganged up on you, and

920
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: they still couldn't take you down. No matter how much

921
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 1: bullshit and lies and stories they created, they couldn't together

922
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: take you down. Their whole people.

923
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,759
Speaker 2: Are like, oh, well you deserve it. Yeah, I'm like

924
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 2: I deserve it? Why? Why please tell me? Why nobody does.

925
00:45:56,520 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 1: It's just it was a terrible cast, honestly, and it's

926
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: a water under the bridge, and.

927
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 2: So whatever happens happens. I don't know, but we have

928
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 2: some fan questions or wrap it up with some fan questions.

929
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 1: So I'm newly engaged.

930
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 2: I can't was this Jade and Dreid asked, I'm really engaged.

931
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 2: Any marriage advice? Love you guys together?

932
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: Uh, marriage advice? I think I've always said this. I

933
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 1: think I've said this to you before. You have to

934
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: learn how to deal with difficult situations. It's really easy

935
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 1: to enjoy each other's love and passion and chemistry and

936
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 1: all that and do the fun things. But when life

937
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: hits you hard with illness, a financial issue, or something right,

938
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 1: or maybe even a misunderstanding miscommunication, you have to learn,

939
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: for lack of better descriptions, you got to learn how

940
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: to fight.

941
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 2: And I and you and I well communicating not fighting, babe.

942
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: I know, but it's it's not easy because you know me,

943
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 1: whenever there's a situation, and there hasn't been any really,

944
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: We've gone through a lot of, you know, situations where

945
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 1: I just can't deal with it and I want to want.

946
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:10,840
Speaker 2: You're a runner.

947
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: I am a runner.

948
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 2: You're a runner.

949
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: But I also know that I need to calm down because,

950
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 1: as you know, I'll say stupid things that I don't mean,

951
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: and they will hurt you. They will hurt your feelings

952
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 1: and that's the whole purpose of it. But I don't

953
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: like doing that, so then don't do it. Well, then

954
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,359
Speaker 1: leave me alone so I calm down and I can

955
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: come back.

956
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 2: I used to get really bothered if we get to

957
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 2: a fight, and then I'd want to get to the

958
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 2: end of it. And you're not like that, So now

959
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, fuck off. Yeah, go sit in your office

960
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:36,240
Speaker 2: by yourself.

961
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: You know, when I was younger, I used to just

962
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: get get on my bike or ride, come back, clear

963
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: my head, and I'm ready to deal with anything.

964
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:46,320
Speaker 2: But I just say, like, marry your best friend and

965
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: somebody that you just want to be around all the time.

966
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 2: And you know it took me three times, so I mean,

967
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 2: I don't know that I wanted to give out marriage advice,

968
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 2: but I just know the third time around, you know,

969
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 2: we're in a different situation. We're not having children. We

970
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 2: did not we talked about having children. I came into

971
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 2: this relationship with children, so it was you know, and

972
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 2: you struggled with do I want kids?

973
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: Well, I told you I never wanted kids, so you

974
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: said it.

975
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 2: One time, you thought maybe. Then we got Robo cop

976
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 2: what's his name, Robo or Astro Astro Astro.

977
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 1: That was a one season. We had Astro and killed

978
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: him in the middle of the night. You still stuff

979
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: the pillows.

980
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 2: I'm too old for this ship. I can't do this.

981
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: That's when I said, no, we're not having kids.

982
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 2: So mahaalo Lilo asked, what's our guilty pleasure TV show?

983
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 2: We watched together? Okay, so Landman, we watched it last night. Yeah,

984
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 2: and we're up to date. We we look forward to

985
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:54,760
Speaker 2: it every Sunday. It's not as good as the first season.

986
00:48:56,520 --> 00:49:00,040
Speaker 1: It never really is, because, like anything.

987
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 2: I need more Sam Elliott and I don't like that

988
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: Sam Elliott is kind of frail and sickly. I don't

989
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 2: like seeing them like that. I know he's eighty one

990
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 2: years old, but I know he's not like that in

991
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 2: real life.

992
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 1: He's such a good ACA.

993
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 2: He's such a good actor. That's why I want to

994
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,399
Speaker 2: see more. I want to see less of the son

995
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 2: and the girlfriend.

996
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 1: I don't have anything.

997
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 2: They're making them and they're making them like a storyline constantly,

998
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 2: and I just i'd rather see Ali and the daughter.

999
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 2: They're so cute.

1000
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 1: Together, so cute, there's so much fun. Actually, I do

1001
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: appreciate that, and I love the dynamics of Ali and

1002
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 1: her relationship with everybody.

1003
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 2: She's funny. She reminds me a little bit of me,

1004
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 2: just kind of says.

1005
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: It like it is. She's a lot more sassy, She's a.

1006
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 2: Lot more yeat, that's for sure. Steal lady thirty ass.

1007
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 2: What other businesses are you interested in starting or looking

1008
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 2: at buying? I love Vena Vina. We've had Vena now

1009
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 2: for six years.

1010
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: Yes, it's a lot. It's a lot of work.

1011
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 2: I mean, people don't even realize it because we don't

1012
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 2: show it on the on you know, the show, and

1013
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:14,840
Speaker 2: I don't ask me why we film things, and it

1014
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 2: just never makes it. You know, we were in a

1015
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 2: building that didn't allow filming. Now we're in a building

1016
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 2: where I think they might allow us to film. So

1017
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 2: we'll see next season. But you know, there's a lot

1018
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 2: going on in the industry right now, so we're a

1019
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 2: little bit like this next what eleven months or so,

1020
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 2: it's going to be very telling.

1021
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: That's the trouble is that you have so many dumb

1022
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: people opposing cannabis just because of the propaganda that's out there.

1023
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's just stupid that people are and

1024
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 1: I understand it. Cannabis was vilified in the sixties and

1025
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: the seventies.

1026
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 2: And they will tell people what's going on.

1027
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:05,839
Speaker 1: Well, when they closed the government last year, I think

1028
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: it was October, in order to open it, they had

1029
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,360
Speaker 1: to you know, give and take and you know, agreed

1030
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,959
Speaker 1: to disagree or agreed to open up the government again.

1031
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: And in order to do that, the Trump administration had

1032
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: to sign something that said, Okay, we're gonna you know,

1033
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 1: make it illegal to do cannabis, or we're going to

1034
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: restructure it.

1035
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure they signed a bunch of stuff, but

1036
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 2: that was one of them.

1037
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 1: That was one of them. Yeah, and that's the only

1038
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 1: one that really affects our business because it was sort

1039
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: of a blanket thing. And now, I mean he did

1040
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: an executive order after that that he basically is accelerating

1041
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: taking cannabis from a Schedule one drug to a Schedule three,

1042
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: which makes it a little bit easier to do research,

1043
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: banking and all that stuff to make it a legitimate business.

1044
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:55,320
Speaker 1: But you know, big Pharma doesn't want that to happen.

1045
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 2: Well, at the end of the day. It's either going

1046
00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 2: to make us, really really make us, or it's going

1047
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 2: to break us.

1048
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,320
Speaker 1: I don't think it's going to break us. I hope not.

1049
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 2: Six years built this business, it's doing very well. Like

1050
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 2: that would be really sad, it's scary.

1051
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: It's I know, you like to jump in and think

1052
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 1: of the worst case scenario. That's just who you are.

1053
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 1: I'm more optimistic, and the bottom line is there's too

1054
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: many people in this industry that are making a difference.

1055
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: This plant is changing people's lives. You can you see

1056
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: those messages we get constantly. I haven't slept per years.

1057
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,840
Speaker 2: They got one yesterday I read to.

1058
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: You dummies have changed my life. I love your product.

1059
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: I think you guys are doing a great thing, and

1060
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: we're not the only ones in the.

1061
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 2: Industry right But there's also it's a wild wild West too,

1062
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 2: and there's a lot of cowboys in the industry, and

1063
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 2: I think that that's what they need to get rid of.

1064
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 2: And I think, like yesterday, I got a DM from

1065
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 2: a lady that said, I am off medication, medication, pharmaceuticals.

1066
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 2: I'm off pharmaceuticals because I am now taking NA. So

1067
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 2: you know, Mollie, I know it's Mollie. Mauls asked, have

1068
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: you ever thought about adopted in child?

1069
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got a dog instead.

1070
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. His name's Rugby. His name's Rugby Boy. Yeah. Now

1071
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,320
Speaker 2: that all the kids are grown, you got to remember

1072
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 2: I've been raising kids for forty years. Ryan just turned

1073
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 2: forty December twenty seventh, Happy birthday, Ryan. And you know,

1074
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 2: Sophia is my last one. There's twenty years between them,

1075
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 2: and I'm tired Rugby. And I didn't even want a dog.

1076
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,959
Speaker 2: I didn't want a dog, I know, and you talked

1077
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 2: me into I'm so nice to have stop it. It's

1078
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 2: just there's three of us in this relationship. I know.

1079
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 2: I mean, he lays his head on your crotch at

1080
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:50,760
Speaker 2: night and lay and falls asleep.

1081
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: He lays his head on my chest, he lays his

1082
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: head on my head. He just lays all over me.

1083
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: He does so.

1084
00:53:58,160 --> 00:53:59,799
Speaker 2: And now I'm like, oh, well maybe we should get

1085
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 2: to know. I'm like, what am I thinking? What am

1086
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 2: I thinking?

1087
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: I keep getting messages about that, like he needs a

1088
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 1: brother or sister or you know, a companion so that

1089
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 1: when when we're not home they can be together and

1090
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: have fun together.

1091
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 2: But well, he can be an only child, just like

1092
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 2: you were pretty much an only child. Yes, I'm happy

1093
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:19,399
Speaker 2: with that, but you know, sometimes I think, like, oh,

1094
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 2: you know, what we could have had, like maybe let's

1095
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 2: say a ten year old by now, and you know,

1096
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 2: life would have been so different for us, right, it

1097
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 2: would have been so different. I don't know. I just

1098
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 2: sometimes I think we missed that mark.

1099
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: But I don't regret it at all. I mean, like

1100
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,759
Speaker 1: I said, like you said, you've been raising kids for

1101
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 1: a long time. When the conversation started about having kids,

1102
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: I you know, said, I didn't want to, so we

1103
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: tried the robot, which was more for show purposes. But

1104
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I don't I didn't

1105
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 1: want any kids. Well, your kids were enough, I mean

1106
00:54:58,520 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: he went through Hell.

1107
00:54:59,160 --> 00:54:59,839
Speaker 2: You didn't want any kid?

1108
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 1: You got four?

1109
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 2: Actually three, I.

1110
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: Was already grown true because only two really.

1111
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 2: Well, Kidney was only around until she was fourteen, So

1112
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 2: I don't.

1113
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 1: I don't remember really spending much time with Cindy. I

1114
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: think it was a month when you guys moved in,

1115
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:19,440
Speaker 1: you know, to the house, that she's decided that she

1116
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:22,359
Speaker 1: wanted to be with her dad. So I didn't really

1117
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: develop a relationship with her.

1118
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what's your favorite perfume or colone.

1119
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: I don't have one. I don't really wear it a lot.

1120
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, Joe Malone, I think they have so many different

1121
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 2: suns and I love all of them. Somebody wants to

1122
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 2: know how you feel about Vicky being back, because you, guys,

1123
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 2: you know what you she had said some things about you.

1124
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 2: You got upset. You're the type of person that's like,

1125
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 2: I don't want anything to do with somebody that you know,

1126
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,879
Speaker 2: goes after me. But now I feel like we're all

1127
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 2: time has gone by and we're all in a much

1128
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 2: better place.

1129
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: I think that's a great question. And what I learned,

1130
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: particularly from my interview with Joe Gorga about you know,

1131
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:10,800
Speaker 1: him and his sister talking again, I realized that, you know,

1132
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,439
Speaker 1: we do live in the world where you just don't

1133
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 1: need enemies, right, and and what she did she did

1134
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: on the show, you know, and what she did to

1135
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 1: me really wasn't that big a deal. She just she

1136
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:29,919
Speaker 1: she she was included. And the stupidity of what those

1137
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: two idiots were doing trying to, you know, put out

1138
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: there that I'm gay. What I really was bothered with

1139
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:39,719
Speaker 1: is how she treated you. And again, it's a TV show.

1140
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 2: So you guys, yeah, but we do that to each other.

1141
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: But Vicky and I they're having fun. You have so

1142
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: much fun and you make good TV. But when you're fighting,

1143
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: you're fighting like sisters. So right at the end of

1144
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: the day, it does help that I like Mike my

1145
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 1: months the cool cat. I really really like Mike.

1146
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 2: I mean the show was different way back when, and

1147
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 2: me and Vicky were good friends and we did things together,

1148
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,280
Speaker 2: and she was peeing on my bed and we're running

1149
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 2: through Mexico. I mean, that's the fun that I want

1150
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 2: to get back. It was fun to film back.

1151
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:13,439
Speaker 1: Then, and you guys do do film fun things, so yes,

1152
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 1: we do, so hopefully that goes back, gets back to that.

1153
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: But you know, at the end of the day, you

1154
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: got to forgive, forget and move on. Yeah.

1155
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 2: Do you double date with other OC couples when not filming,

1156
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:35,080
Speaker 2: We asked that question Mattie Fusi. Yeah, so, well, we

1157
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:38,920
Speaker 2: went out to dinner before the holidays with Matt and

1158
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 2: Katy and with Vicky and Mike, Mike and Heather. We

1159
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 2: have with Terry, but they're in la and it's we

1160
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 2: don't go up there that often.

1161
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but when we do have dinner with them. It's

1162
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 1: a blastry. It's so much funny, and Heather is so

1163
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: funny and we have such by the way.

1164
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 2: It's uh, well, I don't know when this is going

1165
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 2: to air, but it's their's birthday today. Yeah. So and

1166
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 2: then with Shane and Emily, well we went to NAPA.

1167
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. I actually interviewed Shane that night.

1168
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 1: It was fun.

1169
00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: And then let's see, so this is the last question,

1170
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 2: Kristin how we asked how is Eddie's relationship with your kids?

1171
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 2: In Ava you took you have to tell the question.

1172
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 2: They have to tell the story about oh you took

1173
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 2: to school.

1174
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 1: I was last resort because you were working.

1175
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 2: I was working, Sarah had to go somewhere. Ryan was working.

1176
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 2: So I said, can you take.

1177
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:51,439
Speaker 1: The opportunity to take Ava to school? And she's so cute,

1178
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: She's such a different person. Now we're driving there, having

1179
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: a you know, kind of an adult conversation, and we

1180
00:58:57,280 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: get there and I'm like, okay, so now it's like,

1181
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 1: oh so now you got to walk me to the

1182
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 1: grassy area. So I get off the car. I walk

1183
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: her to the grassy area. Like now what She's like, Oh,

1184
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 1: we can just hang out here until the teachers call

1185
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: us in. So we're just hanging out and one of

1186
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 1: the teachers comes out. It's like, oh, hi, are you

1187
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: Ava's dad. I'm like, no, I'm actually Ava's grandpa. And

1188
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 1: her eyes went like grandpa and she pulls two of

1189
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: the other teachers and she's like, this.

1190
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 2: Is Ava's grandpa.

1191
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:30,919
Speaker 1: Grandpa. Everybody was laughing about it. It was so much fun,

1192
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: and even Ama was giggling about it.

1193
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 2: It's funny.

1194
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: It was funny. It was a lot of fun. But yeah,

1195
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 1: I love seeing Ava.

1196
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 2: Grow and and just she sent me eleven eleven next month.

1197
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:49,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's becoming a young lady. Yeah, I mean, it's

1198
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: it's it's been great.

1199
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 2: Uh.

1200
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 1: The relationship with the kids again primarily changes all the time,

1201
00:59:56,760 --> 01:00:00,080
Speaker 1: right and Spencer, they're the only ones that really you

1202
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: have a relationship with. And it's Spencer has been kind

1203
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 1: of rough, you know, because it's just he's you know,

1204
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: influenced by his dad when he was younger, so he

1205
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 1: has a little.

1206
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 2: Bit of he has a little bit of a guard

1207
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 2: or a shield or something like. He we have a

1208
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 2: really hard for him to get close to people, that's.

1209
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 1: What it is. But he you know, like but I

1210
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 1: know he loves me. Yeah, I know he thinks about

1211
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: me and I love him too, and I love our relationship.

1212
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 1: You have a relationship with Ryan and it's getting better. Yeah. Yeah,

1213
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 1: I mean I talked to him, but not often. I

1214
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 1: don't have a bad relationship with Ry.

1215
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I just I feel like for a

1216
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 2: while we were doing a lot of things together and

1217
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 2: going camping and motorcycle riding and all that stuff. And yeah,

1218
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 2: since we got the last well, he you know, he

1219
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 2: loves to go to Big Bear and he goes to

1220
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 2: Big Bear with us. But I mean other than that,

1221
01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 2: he works so much.

1222
01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 1: He works a lot.

1223
01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it works a lot.

1224
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 1: And then Sophia is just becoming a woman. Yeah, so

1225
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 1: much fun watching her, so much watching, so much fun

1226
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:05,919
Speaker 1: watching her grow.

1227
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 2: And she wants to hang out with us now. Before

1228
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:11,439
Speaker 2: she's like no, no, thank you. Yeah I'm good. Yeah,

1229
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 2: but now she wants to hang out.

1230
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 1: No, that's cool, it's really cool.

1231
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 2: Well this was fun.

1232
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it again.

1233
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 2: Let's do it again.

1234
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: All right, guys, thank you so much for joining the DS.

1235
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: This was our first podcast. It's the it's the ads.

1236
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 2: Well today it's the ED.

1237
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:36,560
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, my co host edwin could make it, and you

1238
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 1: filled in. Thank you, thank you for having me. Oh,

1239
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: you're blessed. Bye Bye