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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the ready to love officer.

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Speaker 1: That is the Riddlo and Junior. This is from Christina

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Speaker 1: and Hampton. Christina says I was dating two men until

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Speaker 1: one of them stepped up and won me over. We've

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Speaker 1: been dating for three months, but the other man is

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Speaker 1: waiting on the sidelines just in case. He said, he

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Speaker 1: really loves me. And is it cool to keep this

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Speaker 1: man on the side as a friend.

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Speaker 2: No, this is the perfect time sit induct him as

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Speaker 2: your side piece.

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Speaker 3: This is the perfect habitat, is what we have induction

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Speaker 3: And yeah, yes you.

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Speaker 2: Are inducting him as a site. And he's standing there

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Speaker 2: on the side. So guess what. He doesn't have a

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Speaker 2: problem being on the side, So what is the problem.

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Speaker 2: He is a great side piece for you. You got to

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Speaker 2: take these. When these opportunities come, you have to jump this. Yes,

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Speaker 2: this could close it any time. Take this. This is

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Speaker 2: a great side piece. Listen, there are some great side pieces,

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Speaker 2: and now you got one to stand in you in

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Speaker 2: the face, and you don't want to take the opportunity.

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Speaker 3: It's zing.

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Speaker 1: She just he's been for interrupting, but she just wants

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Speaker 1: him as a friend. Don't forget this is just a friend.

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Speaker 2: Everybody say that, What does Steve tell you? I ain't

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Speaker 2: nobody trying to be your friend?

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Speaker 4: This is stop stop what you got No, I'm with Tommy, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: this is he's not trying to be your friend. He's

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Speaker 4: on the sideline. Therefore, Tommy said it, he should be

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Speaker 4: a side piece. And you only been day the other

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Speaker 4: guy ninety days, that's all it's been. I can go

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Speaker 4: along on day ninety one, he.

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Speaker 3: Can go back of call it so sad?

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Speaker 1: Isn't it wrong for her to like kind of like

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Speaker 1: keep him in a holding pattern?

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Speaker 3: That's where the side pieces go, in a holding pattern.

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Speaker 1: That's his choice, though, that's his choice, which is.

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Speaker 4: Men of Good at Holding On LTD Tours all that

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Speaker 4: hold it on, don't you.

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Speaker 3: Men of good and holding on? Like a junior? I

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Speaker 3: like it all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Morrow's and Cincinnati, Marrit says, I cook

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Speaker 1: and clean and I do all of the laundry at home.

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Speaker 1: My queen works hard, so I feel like it's the

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Speaker 1: least I can do since I don't work. My friend

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Speaker 1: said she's got me whooped, and I agree. I'm a

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Speaker 1: sucker for my wife. Why is that such a bad thing?

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Speaker 2: First of all, What is your job at though, quick,

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Speaker 2: let's start with that. Well, your job. Why you're not working?

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Speaker 2: Why your lady the one not bringing the bread home?

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Speaker 3: Are you?

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Speaker 2: Is something wrong with you? You can't get no job?

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Speaker 2: What's going on with you? Let's start down. But I

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Speaker 2: ain't no problem, but I'm glad you are at least

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Speaker 2: keeping up the chores around the house, cooking and cleaning.

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Speaker 2: You're doing, Yeah, you're doing. You're doing what you're doing,

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Speaker 2: what you're supposed to do. But I hope you online

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Speaker 2: putting in some applications.

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Speaker 3: I really do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe this is just a temporary situation.

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Speaker 3: Junior.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what to say about this doing all

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Speaker 5: the laundry and all the cooking and the cleaning. I

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Speaker 5: know Junior's not doing all the laundry and all the

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Speaker 5: cookies out. I'll cook. But what I can't do is

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Speaker 5: operate that washing machine every day. But on that I

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Speaker 5: can't figure the buttons out of.

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Speaker 3: Every day.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 3: I can't delicate.

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Speaker 4: White colors warm normal. I don't know quick wash. I

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Speaker 4: don't know when to use none of this man apartments

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Speaker 4: in that dreg. I don't know what bleach going well.

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Speaker 4: I can't figure.

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Speaker 3: No for that you can read. I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'll be putting the soap in the bleach part. I

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Speaker 3: don't know what. I can't do all this, but.

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Speaker 1: You's the crazy part about this is that women usually

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Speaker 1: do most of this and hold down the job.

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Speaker 3: Yo.

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Speaker 1: Come on, come on, we do all of this, the

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Speaker 1: cook and the cleaning, the laundry, all of it.

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Speaker 2: And don't you ever stand there's talking about you do

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Speaker 2: the cooking.

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Speaker 3: Well, don't you do that? Okay, she said it was cleaning.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, but.

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Speaker 1: Most women do you this? You do know that, right?

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Speaker 1: And it hasn't And we've been able to do it

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Speaker 1: for years and that's about Yeah. We've seen our mothers

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Speaker 1: do it, our grandmother's.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just picturing him, picturing her coming home from

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Speaker 2: work and he in the living room folding her drawers

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Speaker 2: on the couch.

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Speaker 3: I'm just picturing that right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's sexty to you.

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Speaker 3: No, that is not sexy. What you bring it up? Yes,

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Speaker 3: Carla was so crazy.

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Speaker 1: And Junior, if your wife made one million dollars a year,

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Speaker 1: would you stay at home?

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Speaker 3: Bill, stay at home. We're gonna need some more money.

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Speaker 3: Two million got a million year? Million is washing machine.

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Speaker 1: I got you can washing machine clouds.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna I'm whooped. That's what I am.

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Speaker 1: You're the man that she's writing about you, Morris, I.

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Speaker 4: Call her job as high's going.

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Speaker 3: Down there by? Now, what kind is this the same song?

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say nothing. Well, we're gonna have some

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Speaker 4: nice dinners too, because I'm gonna.

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Speaker 1: Make them nice dinners, all right, Raffaella and Jacksonville Rights.

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Speaker 1: I love to drive in total peace and quiet when

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Speaker 1: I get off from from a long dead work. My

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Speaker 1: husband and son think that's a great time to hold

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Speaker 1: a conversation. If I ignore their calls, it's a problem.

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Speaker 1: How do I get my two men to respect my boundaries?

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's your that's your wine down. Time is to

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Speaker 2: ride home. I get it. So just tell them what's

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Speaker 2: what's what's? What's the problem with just telling them? What

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Speaker 2: do they Here's my biggest question?

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Speaker 3: What do they want? What is? What do you want? Hey?

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Speaker 2: You know I get off at five from five to six,

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Speaker 2: I want my time? What do you want when I

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Speaker 2: get home? I got to deal with both of y'all.

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Speaker 2: What do you want? I can't wait till six o five?

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Speaker 2: I need five to six to myself, So do we

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Speaker 2: need do we.

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Speaker 3: Need a family? Meaning? But what do y'all want? Every day?

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Speaker 3: Every she the call? Yeah, Junior, they had this thing

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Speaker 3: called a power button. Use it, turn the phone all

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Speaker 3: the way off. That's the same thing. That's the same thing.

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Speaker 2: Music.

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Speaker 3: He might plug into your car. You know you might

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Speaker 3: not want to hear the phone ring.

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Speaker 2: Turn it on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I ain't going away?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, moving on last one, guys.

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Speaker 1: This is from Teresa in Chicago. Teresa writes, my husband

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Speaker 1: allows his so called friend to treat him poorly in

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Speaker 1: front of front of others. My husband complains about it,

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Speaker 1: but the guy makes up excuses for his rudeness, or

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Speaker 1: he will say that he was just joking. Why won't

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Speaker 1: my husband do something about it?

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Speaker 3: What? Okay, I missed the front part.

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Speaker 1: He's My husband allows his so called friend to treat

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Speaker 1: him poorly in front of others. The husband complains about it,

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Speaker 1: but the guy makes up excuses for his rudeness, or

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Speaker 1: he said, oh man, I was just joking.

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Speaker 3: I was just joking. So basic.

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Speaker 2: Your husband is weak, all right, and your boys is

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Speaker 2: basically they parking it right, And he evidently they're doing

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Speaker 2: it in front of you, and it's making you feel

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Speaker 2: bast You got to gun and pull your hood to

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Speaker 2: the side and say you're gonna have to really pull

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Speaker 2: your pants up and be a brown end and check

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Speaker 2: your boy.

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Speaker 3: That's what you need to.

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Speaker 2: Slap your boy in public in front of everybody. Car Yes, Carlo,

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Speaker 2: we gotta get everybody attention on this slapping.

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Speaker 3: I was just joking. My bad. I'm just joking. So

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Speaker 3: when you joke, I'm a joke just like I.

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