1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know 7 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 2: H uh huh. I'm buckle lap and hold on tight. 9 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 2: We got it for it you here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject he got fired and put out 11 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: of the house. Do Stephen Shirley. I was married for 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: six years to a man that I didn't even want 13 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: to be with at first, but he pursued me heavily 14 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: and I gave in after he proposed to me. I 15 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: waited three years to marry him, and I guess it 16 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: was my intuition because I had second thoughts about getting 17 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: married up until my wedding day. Looking back on things, 18 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: the signs were there that he was a cheater, but 19 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: we had sex three or four times a week, and 20 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: I was naive enough to think that would satisfy him. 21 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: Whenever he was in the bathroom room, he locked the 22 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 1: door and he'd be in the shower a very long time. 23 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: His phone was always in his hand or in his pocket, 24 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: and he stopped wearing his ring and told me he 25 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: didn't want to damage it at work. But I found 26 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: out that he's a liar that lies about everything. Here's 27 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: what happened. He works as a logistics supervisor for a 28 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: delivery service, and he had a driver that didn't show up, 29 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: so he had to cover the delivery route himself. And 30 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: he was driving a company vehicle and he stopped by 31 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,119 Speaker 1: a woman's home and her husband came home and caught 32 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: them having sex. They got into a fight in the 33 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: front yard and a lady called the cops. My husband 34 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 1: had weed on him, so he got arrested. 35 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 2: I didn't even know he smoked weeds. 36 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: He got fired for having the marijuana in a company vehicle. 37 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 2: I went to the. 38 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: Jail to bail him out, but I heard what had happened, 39 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: so I left him there. He got out the next 40 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: day and all of his clothes in person belongings were 41 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: packed up in his car, and I put the car 42 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: on the street. I told him to leave and never 43 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: come back. When I saw him at a divorce mediation, 44 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: he got so mad that he admitted to having several 45 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: women on the side. How could he ruin my life 46 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: like this? Will I ever be able to trust a 47 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: man again? Please advise, listen, let me tell you something. 48 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: You should be thanking God right now that you got 49 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: out of this mess, and that God got you out 50 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 1: of this mess. This marriage was a disaster from beginning 51 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: to end. You said in the letter you didn't want 52 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: him in the first place. You knew up until your 53 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: wedding day that this was the wrong thing to do, 54 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: and you're right. Three to four times a week was 55 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:47,839 Speaker 1: putting in work. So please do not blame yourself. Don't 56 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: blame yourself. Let's face it, your husband was stupid. I 57 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: mean you didn't know it at the time it was happening, 58 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: but he did a lot of stupid stuff. I mean, 59 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: what gave him the idea that he could do all 60 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: this and never get caught and then get mad and 61 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: tell you about it at the divorce mediation to what 62 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: make you feel even worse? You know, Well, he did 63 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: finally get caught, and that was a good thing for you. 64 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: I will say that again. It was like he wanted 65 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: you to find out because he really got careless with 66 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: the marijuana in the company vehicle, with being over this 67 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 1: married woman's house. I mean, that was just crazy. It's 68 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 1: going to take a little time. You ask if you'll 69 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: ever be able to trust a man again. It will 70 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: take a little time. But I said, go on, get out, 71 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: you know, get back out there and date. If you 72 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: allow yourself to open up when it comes to the 73 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: right one, and when the right one comes along, you 74 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: can begin to trust again. But you need to trust 75 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: yourself first. You said you had second thoughts, and that 76 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: was an important sign that you missed. So please don't 77 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: take your bad marriage baggage into your new relationship by complaining, 78 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: you know, to all the men and comparing all the 79 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: men to your low husband. This time, you know, just 80 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: be better at believing and acting on those warning signs, 81 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: because they are there. 82 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 3: Steve, he got fired and put out the house. That 83 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 3: ain't even what this letter about. Just the worst subject 84 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 3: we've ever had, because this ain't got nothing to do 85 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 3: with him getting fired or put out the house. This 86 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 3: letter is about something totally different, I do, ma'am. He 87 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 3: was married for six years to a man that you 88 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 3: didn't even want to be with at first. Okay, but 89 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 3: he pursued you heavily, and you gave in. After he proposed, 90 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 3: you waited three years to marry him. I guess it 91 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 3: was my tuition, my intuition, because I had second thoughts 92 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 3: about getting married all the way up until my wedding day. 93 00:04:54,920 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 3: Oh my god. So your five alarm fire bells alone, 94 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 3: which is your intuition, has been going off from day one. 95 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 3: It went off the entire three years, and it continued 96 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 3: to ring, ring, ring. 97 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 2: Right up until your wedding day. 98 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 3: And you ignore it that I told women a long 99 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 3: time ago that intuition is real. See God gives women intuition. 100 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 3: And the reason he gives women intuition unlike he gives 101 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 3: it to men, is because it's women's device that He 102 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 3: awarded them to help protect them from the hunter, which 103 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 3: is us. So when we come with the hunting, with 104 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 3: the bait, the games, the traps, and sometimes the lies, 105 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 3: your bells and alarm clock that goes off is called 106 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 3: your intuition. 107 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 2: It goes off to alert you danger. Danger. 108 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 3: Now, if you ignore that, then we have this letter. 109 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 3: Look on back on things. The signs was that, and 110 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 3: he was achieved. It was all there. We had sex 111 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 3: three four times a week I was in there. I 112 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 3: have enough thank that is satisfying. But when it was 113 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 3: in the bathroom, he kill He locked the door. He'd 114 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 3: be in a shower a long time. His phone was 115 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 3: always in his hand, his pocket. He stopped wearing his 116 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 3: wedding ring. Told you he didn't want to damage it 117 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:20,559 Speaker 3: at worked. Wow, famous people don't have to wear wedding rings. 118 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 3: Everybody know we married regular people. You gotta put that 119 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 3: damn ring on. You can't go nowhere talking about you. 120 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 3: You ain't because you because you're gonna use that as 121 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 3: the lat when we come back, I'll continued this. This 122 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: is not an enjoyable letter, though. I want you to 123 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 3: know that this is not an enjoyable letter for you 124 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 3: to see. I'm having a great time though. 125 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 2: Read. 126 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 127 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject he got 128 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 1: fired and put out of the house. We'll get back 129 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: into it right after this. Join the Saint Jude family 130 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: and become a monthly donor. When you do, you'll get 131 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 1: a this shirt Saves Lives t shirt and edition Saint 132 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: Jude Scher text SHMS just seven eight five eight three 133 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 1: three Hell kids at Saint Jude fight cancer. That is 134 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: SHMS two seven eight five eight three three. All right, 135 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject 136 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 1: is he got fired and put out of the house. 137 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: A title subject you don't like. 138 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, because it has nothing to do with the letter. 139 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 3: This letter is about a woman who ignored her intuition. 140 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 3: She's with this guy for six years, but the whole 141 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 3: time he asked her to marriage, she thought second. She 142 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 3: thought about it over and over. She didn't like the idea. 143 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 3: He pursued heavily for three years. He didn't marry her 144 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 3: because she just had a feeling about it. Then asked 145 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 3: you to marriage. She had doubts about this marriage all 146 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 3: the way up to the wedding day. Because intuition works. 147 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 3: It's God's protective factor that he instilled in all women. 148 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 3: It's called women's intuition. You all have it much much 149 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 3: sharper and better than men, and it protects you from 150 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 3: the game that traps in sometimes the lies. You have 151 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 3: to not ignore the intuition. But she says she always 152 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 3: knew he was a Cheetishi's designs were there. They was 153 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 3: having sex street four times. We thought that was satisfying. 154 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 3: But he go in the bathroom, locked the door, be 155 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 3: in the shower, long time, phone in his hand, and 156 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 3: didn't wear his ring at work. Didn't want to damage you, then, 157 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,239 Speaker 3: she says, but I found out he lies about everything. 158 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 3: Here's what happened. He works as a logistics supervisor. This 159 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 3: is important because if you're a logistics supervisor, that means 160 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 3: you should be good at logistics. 161 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 2: That's what it symbolizes. 162 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 3: Let me show you why he ain't got the job 163 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 3: no more, because then the letter says he got fired 164 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 3: and put out the house. And let me tell you why, 165 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 3: because he don't know nothing about no damn logistics. And 166 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 3: so here's what happened. He works for a delivery service. 167 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 3: A driver didn't show up, so he had to cover 168 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 3: the delivery route himself. He was driving a company vehicle 169 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 3: and he stopped. Here we go by a woman's home 170 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 3: and her husband came home and caught them having sex. 171 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 2: Where is the logistics in that right? Right? Dude? 172 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 3: I don't understand you going by another man's house to 173 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 3: have sex with his wife. Man, where your room? Where 174 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 3: you got to get control of something? That logistics is off? 175 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 2: Right here? 176 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 3: Now, a husband come in and all hell break loose. 177 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 3: So guess what they got into a fight in the 178 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 3: front yard. 179 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 2: Bro. 180 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 3: First of all, you're not leaving that bed, bro. Secondly, 181 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 3: you're naked. It's hard to fight naked. I'm not giving 182 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 3: you time to dress. Ain't none of this hit right? 183 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 3: But they fighting so hard in the front yard. I mean, 184 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 3: y'ad they bug and so so hard this woman called 185 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 3: the police. Let me tell you something. Do you know 186 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 3: it take a police at least a few minutes. Even 187 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 3: in the best of neighborhoods, it's a three to five 188 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 3: minute response time. I don't know where they at, but 189 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 3: let's just say they in a great neighborhood response time 190 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 3: it's three to five minutes. 191 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,679 Speaker 2: Five minutes or ass. That's a long ass fight. Dog. 192 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 3: They fighting so hard that the police come and your 193 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 3: husband had weed on him, so he got arrested. I 194 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 3: didn't even know he smoked weed. What do you have COVID? 195 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 3: You can't smell? 196 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 2: Goodness? What did you come? Stop it? 197 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 3: You got to be having COVID? How the hell you 198 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 3: can't tell somebody been smoking weed. I don't smoke weed, 199 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 3: but I know what weed smell like. Yeah, he got 200 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,839 Speaker 3: fired for having the marijuana in a company vehicle. 201 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 2: What where's the logistics in this? 202 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 3: I went to the jail to bail him out, but 203 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,719 Speaker 3: I heard what had happened, so I left him there. 204 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 3: So you went to jail to bailly baby. I got 205 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 3: to get out. They found some weed in the car, 206 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 3: but you got out there. So you got to ask 207 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 3: the police as you offer a bail. What is he 208 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:25,319 Speaker 3: being charged with disorderly conduct, fighting, domestic violence? What is 209 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 3: the domestic violence? Well, he was at a woman's house 210 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 3: and her husband came home and they was fighting him. 211 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 3: Yet why was he fighting my husband? Well, because he 212 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 3: came home early and he was over there. My husband 213 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 3: is a logistics supervisor. Where's the logistics in this? Because 214 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 3: he ain't got. 215 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 2: No business, damn supervisor. 216 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 3: He got out the next day and all his clothes 217 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 3: and personal belongings were packed in his car, and I 218 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 3: put the car on the street. 219 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 2: I told him to leave and never come back. 220 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 3: When I saw him at the divorce mediation, he got 221 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 3: so mad that he admitted having several women on the side. 222 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 2: Where is the logistics in that? 223 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 3: You already in here losing dog, Now you're coming in 224 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 3: here to make sure you lose. How could he ruin 225 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 3: my life like this? Your life isn't ruined. Your life 226 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 3: has been saved. 227 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: Right. 228 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 2: The breakup is often the blessing. 229 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 3: Now you're no longer married to a Cheatah, Will I 230 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 3: ever be able to trust a man again? You won't 231 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 3: be able to trust him again, but you can trust 232 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 3: a man again. The man that walked in and his 233 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 3: wife was having second Will he be able to trust 234 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 3: a woman again? 235 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 2: I bet you he will so after he got arrested 236 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 2: in everything. 237 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 3: And all this here man, he got fired from his 238 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 3: job and all like that. 239 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: And just. 240 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 3: Please advise lady, the breakup is the blessing. You can't 241 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 3: trust him again, But you can't. But this dude consistently 242 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 3: makes stupid mistakes, and now you're away from him, and 243 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 3: you don't have to be. 244 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 2: A part of the stupid mistakes. It don't make no 245 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 2: sense what he did. 246 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 3: He's not a logical thinking person, so he's no longer 247 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 3: the logistics supervisor. And now you are free. Congratulations, Go 248 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,199 Speaker 3: do you all right? 249 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,719 Speaker 1: Hit us up on Instagram and Steve HARVEFM with your 250 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter, and check out the Strawberry 251 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. 252 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 2: You have no idea what it is. This is Carlos Miller. Hey, 253 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 2: this is David Allen, grig Snoop Dog. You already know 254 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 2: what timing is your boy DC Young Flag. This is 255 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 2: Kirk Franklin. 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