WEBVTT - Officially Newlyweds 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:03.920 Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds with Dean Aungler, Haylen Miller, 0:00:04.000 --> 0:00:06.880 Keys and Jared Haven An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:10.160 What is going on? Everybody? 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:13.240 Welcome to an all new episode of Help We Suck 0:00:13.440 --> 0:00:18.680 At Being Newlyweds? And for the first time in podcasting history, 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:22.760 is for the show. At least for the first time, 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:25.720 our name actually works. 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:26.920 We are newlyweds. 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:30.360 We're finally newlyweds, so big big ups to that. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:33.800 We were playing the long game the whole time, long game, 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:34.880 long game. 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:36.879 We got alistairs over here trying to get out to 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:38.200 the food. It was gonna be right. 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:39.160 Yeah. 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:42.200 So we had our wedding last weekend. It is now Tuesday. 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:46.520 We've had what three days to recover and process since 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:49.320 since then, Yeah. 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:50.919 And we have been staying here at the Little Nell, 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:55.760 just ordering room service, resting. My voice is still gone, 0:00:57.320 --> 0:00:59.800 it has been. Honestly, I think this is the best 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:01.640 way to do it. Otherwise we would have gone straight 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:04.520 from the wedding to Vegas. And now it can just 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:06.800 really relax because I feel like when we're in Vegas 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:07.440 we work on the house. 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:10.280 So we have nothing to do here, no agenda, no plans, 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:11.560 and it's been perfect. 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:13.080 So you having fun? 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:14.039 Yeah? Are you? 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:15.080 Best mini moon ever? 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:16.040 Best mini moon ever? 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:18.240 Actually blew my back out? 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:20.880 Yeah, that's probably probably from dancing. 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:23.040 I guess I just said I should be blowing your 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:25.600 back out, and he is my back blown out. 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:29.039 I don't know what's going on. I think it's the pillows. 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:32.000 I think if people have seen any videos from social media, 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:34.679 they know why you're back in. Neck have been blown 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:36.600 out because you were dancing your butt off. 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.399 I know your neck off, but I didn't. Yeah, I know. 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:41.280 It could definitely be that because you don't really work 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:42.880 on building those neck muscles and then all of a 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:45.199 sudden you're twitching and twerking them all around. 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:49.600 Yeah. Well, so we have a rundown here. I haven't 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:50.440 looked at it yet, but. 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:55.720 It's a wedding rapid fire. If we want to start 0:01:55.760 --> 0:01:57.000 with that, or do we want to start with the 0:01:57.000 --> 0:01:57.640 whole weekend? 0:01:58.040 --> 0:01:59.000 Tell us about the weekend? 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:03.520 Okay, So we have been planning this for I don't know, 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:07.960 eight months or so, and we toured this venue in Aspen. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:09.440 We were staying here, I think we were staying at 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:13.399 the Little Nell when we were touring maybe, and we 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:16.440 were at a hat store here in Aspen called Chemo Sabbi. 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:19.640 It's one of my favorite stores. And one of Dean's 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:21.160 friends works there and she was like, you have to 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:22.920 go visit Bayol because we were telling her we were 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:25.760 seeing venues and it was the second venue we saw, 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:27.760 and thank goodness to her because our wedding planners had 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:28.359 never heard of it. 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.240 Like it's very off the grid. 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:32.880 Very new venue that nobody really knows of unless you 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:33.720 live here in Aspen. 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:34.960 So we saw it. 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:39.080 I fell in love with it, and I just really 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:42.320 wanted a camp themed wedding, like I loved Camp growing up. 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:44.480 I feel like you're going into the backstory, but we 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:46.960 already know all the backstory if we listen to this podcast, 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:48.080 we know all this stuff already. 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:49.600 I don't even really know where to begin. 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:53.320 So everyone started on Thursday. 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:57.080 Arrived on Thursday, and I still felt a lot of stress. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.840 I was just really worried that people were going to 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:02.760 be upset by how much money they spent because it 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:06.720 was expensive. But as soon as everyone got in and 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:08.560 everyone was like, oh my gosh, this is so beautiful, 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:11.480 this is so unique, all of my stress just lifted 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:14.359 immediately and we just all hung out. 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:18.440 On Thursday. Friday, we had field Day. 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:21.040 And another thing that I loved was, you know, growing 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:23.360 up kindergarten, you would do field day and it was 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:26.720 like the best day ever or all throughout elementary school. 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:29.240 And so we played tug of war, we played three 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:31.760 legged race, all of these games, and I think people 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.400 weren't super into it when they were coming down, They're like, 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:35.360 what the heck are we doing? 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:38.040 But then people got really into it. Dean's team won. 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:38.840 My team. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:41.760 I just saw photos from the photographer. My team wasn't 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:44.960 even on the board because we scored zero points, and 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:48.440 that's the way. It makes most sense that way. But 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:51.400 it was super fun. I just wasn't super invested in. 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:53.200 I was like watching everyone have fun. 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:55.960 So you wanted everyone to be invested in something like 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:57.680 you weren't even well to invest in yourself. 0:03:57.680 --> 0:03:58.560 Okay, here's why. 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:01.400 We played Tug of war immediately and I was like, okay, 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:06.240 we're probably not gonna win, and yeah, so field day 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:09.600 was super, super fun. Everyone got into it. Dean's team one, 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:11.920 like I said, and then we had the welcome dinner. 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:15.280 We encourage everyone to dress mountain chic. Is the way 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:18.000 that our wedding players put it and encourage everyone to 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:21.880 wear hats and boots, and everyone came out like looking 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:25.359 best ever. I think the guys excelled in dressing mountain 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:29.120 chic esque better than the women. And they just crushed it, 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:33.080 you know, Chad, one of Dean's friends, Chad, Ben Higgins, Wells, 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:35.400 they all just really did. 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:35.800 A great job. 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:39.839 Mountain chic aka hipster is basically what it is, hipster, 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:41.719 mountain hipster, mountain. 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:43.760 Hipster, and Wells is a mountain hipster. Wells is a hipster, 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.760 but he's a beach hipster. So yeah, I think all 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:48.360 you got to do was put it on an overlayer 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:50.240 and then he instantly became a mountain hipster. 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:51.360 Yeah. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.719 Yeah, it was good. It was good, good stuff. 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:54.400 It was good. 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:57.160 We had us and we did have two speeches. We 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.080 had Dean's brother give a speech, and we how. 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:01.240 Are we in the events of the weekend right now? 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:05.120 Friday Friday dinner? Yeah, Oh, my back is just killing 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:08.080 me right now. I like I even like looking at 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:09.760 like moving my eyes from left to right. 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:10.720 My head hurts my back. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:13.720 Somehow we'll get to that. That's a Saturday thing. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:15.359 No, I don't even want to talk about that. At all. 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:17.560 I think I do think it's just from sleeping on 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.480 it weird. But yeah, the field day, I just want 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:21.680 to go back to that real quick. So there were 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:23.960 six teams. The way you're making it sound, it sounds 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:26.080 like there was two teams and I just beat your team, 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:30.080 but no, in reality, six teams. I beat five other teams, 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:31.680 not one hand not single handedly. 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:34.960 You know, I had some help for my team. Obviously. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:37.440 Came down to a tiebreaker at the very end, and 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.920 the tiebreaker was a rock paper scissors battle best two 0:05:39.920 --> 0:05:41.919 out of three and I got a rock paper scissors 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:44.280 battle one of my best friends from high school with 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:45.200 everyone cheering a song. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:47.039 It was pretty great. So it was a nice moment 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:47.279 for me. 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:50.680 Yeah, it was. It was very fun and just see 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:52.600 you win and see you so stoked to win was awesome. 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:55.680 I do kind of regret wearing the brown suit to 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:58.560 the reception dinner on Friday. Why well, because I had 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:00.640 that blue tux that I just never wore, right, and 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:04.040 it would look so good. Yeah that one was like fitted, 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:05.359 like tailored tour to me. 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:08.200 But yeah, I do a great would have looked great, 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:10.440 But the brown just fit the mountain cheek vibe. And 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:12.920 you like, the photos of us in the cabin just 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:14.599 looked like straight out of Yellowstone. 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:16.680 Yeah, but blue could have looked even better maybe, But 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:19.200 you're right, be right, Elas. I also have other regrets, 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:20.960 but I'll get to those later, I guess. 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:23.719 I only yeah, I don't know if I have regrets. 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:28.560 So Friday we had two speeches. Dean's rather was beautiful. 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:30.640 He did a great job, and then two my best 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:33.680 friends gave speeches as well together and they did a 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:36.400 great job too, And that's all we needed. 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:37.839 I think two speeches was perfect. 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:43.239 We really don't love attention on us, and to that point, 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.240 I think having everyone together, like everyone waking up having 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:49.200 brunched together each morning, just like being in cabins was 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:53.200 super helpful, helpful for us to alleviate that like pressure 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.159 of all of the attention being on us, you know, 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:58.680 like walking down the aisle, I didn't feel I don't know, 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:01.920 it just felt like super comforable, super intimate, and I 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:05.160 really loved that. Also, the food at the venue our 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:09.760 wedding was at Bay Owl, and the food was absolutely insane. 0:07:09.800 --> 0:07:12.240 It was so good every single meal. So we went 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:14.360 and did our food tasting and we were like the 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:16.560 food probably isn't going to be good, but the venue 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:18.640 is awesome, so that's all that really matters. And the 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:21.280 food is just so good and everyone kept raving about it, 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:22.400 so that made me really happy to. 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:26.360 Yeah, the food is good. Everyone loved it. Okay, so 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.160 let's move on to the next Saturday. Saturday. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:34.160 So Saturday, well Friday, we stayed up and played fish bowl. 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:36.480 There were two teams and two rooms playing fish bowl. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.240 I guess four teams, two different groups of people playing 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:42.720 fish ball, and we stayed up until like one midnight, 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:47.200 one am. Nothing too crazy, and there were extra beds 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:49.600 in the cabins, but I didn't remember where, and it 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:50.080 was so late. 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:50.920 We were so tired. 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.040 Diana and I wanted to sleep separately, but we ended 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:57.320 up just sleeping together, woke up together, had breakfast together, 0:07:58.000 --> 0:07:59.880 and then I started to get ready and so did 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:01.040 and Deane cut his hair. 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:01.480 Yeah. 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:04.400 I hate the whole It just reminds me of being 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:05.960 back on The Bachelor, where it's like, all right, we 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.040 need you to get ready at one o'clock and then 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:10.760 you're like okay, and this is before you like are 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:12.080 starting to realize these types of things are like. 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:12.800 Okay, cool, I'm ready. 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:15.120 I'll be ready at twelve forty five just because I'm 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.600 excited for whatever is next. And then one o'clock comes 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:19.000 and they're like, all right, we need you to go 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:22.080 down to this area and you're like, okay, okay, I'll 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:23.840 go down there. And then you're down in that area 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:25.840 and they're like, all right, we're ready to shoot in 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:27.400 three hours, and you're like. 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:30.200 Well three hours? What did I get ready three hours? 0:08:30.840 --> 0:08:32.760 That's exactly how the wedding day felt, where they're like, 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.120 we need you ready by one forty five and I 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:38.240 was like, okay, what time do you really need me 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:40.520 ready by? And they're like all right, we really need 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.400 you ready by two fifteen, And then like two fifteen 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:44.080 came and they're like, all right, just as long as 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:45.600 you're ready to go by three forty five, that's all 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:46.000 we need. 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:48.600 And it's like that's how I felt too, because they 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:52.600 originally wanted me to start getting ready at nine, and like, 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:54.880 typically you have your girlfriends get ready with you, you have 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:57.720 your guy friends get ready with you, brides maids and groomsmen, 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:01.000 even though we didn't have them, and my friends were like, so, 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:02.680 what time do you want to stay at like three 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:05.520 pm because everyone was having so much fun on the 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:08.040 campground and like there's paddleboard and canoeing all this stuff. 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:10.160 Nobody wanted to be stuck in a room, which I 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:12.360 took in sae. I was like, the latest I can 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:14.800 get ready is what I want. So I started getting 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:17.600 read ready. At eleven. They gave me an hour break. 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:22.640 I like sprinted away to write my vows and I 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:24.320 was with my girlfriends. They were kind of helping me 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:29.120 just piece together all my vows and then I was 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:32.920 getting ready for a couple hours. We shoot the photos. 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:34.560 It's like, hurry up, hurry up, we gotta go. We 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:36.920 gotta go, like put down the makeup brushes, we gotta 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:37.520 go right now. 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:39.960 We shoot the photos. And then they're like, all. 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:41.680 Right, you have an hour till the ceremony, and I 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:44.040 was like, what the heck. I was stressed writing my 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:46.720 vows as Emma's doing my makeup. So I definitely felt 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.800 that too. And it was just hard because once I 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:50.520 was ready, they were like, well, no one can really 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:52.320 see you're in your wedding dress. 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:53.680 You just kind of have to hide and sit for 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:56.160 an hour. But it all worked out. It's okay. 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:59.000 It just was such a cool venue that and one 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:02.480 of my favorite things has been since the wedding was 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:06.160 just seeing everyone's stories of what they did throughout the weekend, 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:10.199 Like people went on hikes, people were throwing axes, paddleboarding, 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:12.480 like I said, And it's just so cool to see 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.520 how everyone came together and just their little activities. And 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:18.520 it really seemed like everyone had the best time. Because 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:20.760 a lot of our friends, not a lot, but like 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:23.439 half of them, I know, I'm speaking a lot half 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:25.600 of them are quite bougie. So just to see them 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:29.280 embrace the mountain cabin camping theme. 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:29.840 Was really cool. 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:32.680 I mean, it was still it wasn't like it wasn't 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:33.920 anti bougie. 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:35.120 Though, yeah, it was still bougie. 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:37.080 Of course it wasn't. Yeah, it wasn't like they were 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:39.600 actually rough in it. But no, I agree with you. Yeah, 0:10:39.679 --> 0:10:41.840 like the you do have a little bit of trepidation 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:45.880 of those guys coming in and not necessarily loving the 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:48.280 venue maybe as much as you want them to or 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:49.960 as much as you do or anything like that. But 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:53.280 it seemed like everyone everyone really enjoyed it. But yeah, 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:58.000 so I was getting ready for the wedding ceremony. I 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:00.600 also hadn't written my vows, and so I needed like 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:03.280 twenty minutes raight my vows. I had thought about everything 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.000 I wanted to say already, so it was gonna be quick. 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:07.839 Typed them out of my computer in five minutes and 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.679 then maybe like fifteen minutes, and but I wanted to 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:12.120 read them out of this book that we had, and 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:14.920 so I like writing it from the computer to the 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:18.640 book took way longer than expected. That was a big 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:21.040 pain in the butt, just because like I didn't even 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:23.080 finish it, and they were like, you're up, you have 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:25.079 to walk out, and I was like still halfway through 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.240 the second paragraph. I was like, okay, well I need 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:28.640 to figure out how I can get these like from 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:30.440 here to here. And so we just like printed them 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:32.959 out and then taped them into the book. And when 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:34.440 I was up, there were sitting the vows. I had 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:36.800 never ridden it in that font and that size before, 0:11:37.720 --> 0:11:38.800 so it was just like that's why I was like 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:41.280 stuttering a lot, and I kept losing my spit my 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:44.560 place where I was reading from, so that was kind 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:46.959 of a bummer. I did get a haircut just before 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:50.080 the ceremony. Kalin came into the room very unannounced and 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:52.400 really really kind of messed up of you actually. 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:54.120 To just show up into the you had no idea. 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:56.240 Yeah, but you know, you just you aren't supposed to 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:59.719 leave your home base when those things are going on. 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:03.319 Yeah, I wasn't given instructions. It was messed up. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:05.840 It's messed up. My sister cut my hair. She did 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:08.800 a great job. I was like, really, I like was 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:10.679 so pressed for a time I couldn't even chower and 0:12:10.760 --> 0:12:12.880 wash my hair. And that's my biggest regret, is not 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:15.400 washing my hair because my hair looks so greasy in 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:17.440 those pictures and it was like I hadn't washed it 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:18.920 in like a week up to that point, up until 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:20.000 I washed it the next. 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:22.960 Day or whatever it is, you know. So that's my 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:23.680 biggest regret. 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:27.280 Well, that's your biggest regrette. It's not too bad. 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:28.760 No, Now, I'm gonna to look at those pictures for 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:30.320 the rest of my life thinking about how greasy my 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:30.760 hair was. 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:31.800 But it's on brand. 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:34.240 Yeah, that's kind of what I keep trying to tell 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:36.720 myself to twist it like edgy. 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:39.920 It's interesting, it's it doesn't make sense and that should 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:40.840 be good enough for you. 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:45.040 But yeah, it should have washed it I even. 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:46.360 I think I asked someone. I was like, should I 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:48.079 wash my hair? And they're like, no, no, it looks good, 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:49.760 looks good. And it's like, of course they're going to 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:51.160 say it looks good on my wedding day. Like they're 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:53.319 not gonna lie and tell me it looks bad, you 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:55.080 know what I mean? Yeah, like I should have been 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:57.000 asking other people for advice because of they were just 0:12:57.000 --> 0:12:58.600 gonna say whatever they think they needed to say. 0:12:58.600 --> 0:12:59.800 This sound good, that's fair. 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:15.760 So the ceremony happened, and I was standing on the side. 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:18.880 I could see Dean from our cabin. They'd like, hit 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:22.560 me in my cabin. Our cabin, and I hear this 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:25.240 music playing, and what song did Jackson walk down to 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:26.560 our officiant m. 0:13:28.080 --> 0:13:29.040 I don't remember. 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:31.280 Either, but I was like, that doesn't sound like Jackson's song. 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.960 And then suddenly everyone's cheering and clapping. I was like, oh, 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:35.640 they must be cheering for Dean. And then I see 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:38.160 Dean and I was like, no, that's Jackson, and I'm like, 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:42.040 they better cheer for Dean like that, And then Dean's 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:44.880 song comes down and Dean was supposed to walk down 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:47.920 the aisle too. Don't worry, be happy, and then suddenly 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:49.800 it's like this bass is going and I was like, 0:13:49.800 --> 0:13:52.720 what the heck? That is not the right song, and 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:55.160 there's like a quick moment of panic, and then I 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:58.560 hear it's Lose Yourself by Eminem and I hear everyone cheering. 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:01.160 So good. 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.400 I'm like, wait, this is actually amazing and this is 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:07.000 just so perfect for you. And seeing the video and 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:10.400 the photos of everyone just like you running down the running, 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:12.120 not even walking down the aisle, running down the aisle, 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:14.440 clapping everyone's hands, it was awesome. 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:16.640 Yeah, it was pretty nice. 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:18.320 We were driving up to the venue the day before 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:19.680 and Kiiten was like, I just need to get pumped 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:21.600 up real quick, and so she put on Lose Herself by. 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:22.840 Aminam and I was like, oh, I didn't even know 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:23.920 you knew what this song. 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:27.360 Existed, and I just figured it would be a good 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:29.080 thing to give you to smile. 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:31.320 I was like, make sure she hears my song when 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:32.280 I walked down the aisle. 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:35.600 And when I suggested it to the wedding planners and 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:38.600 the DJ the day before, they were both were like, 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:40.800 are you sure you want to do that? It sounds 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:44.080 like a pretty stupid thing to do. And I was 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:45.560 like yes, do it. You have to do it. And 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:47.560 they came to me that same day, the next day 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:50.200 of the ceremony, and they were like, are you sure 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:51.640 you want to do it? Still, like we got a 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:52.760 teed up, Are you sure you want to do it? 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:55.120 And I was like, do it. It's going to be hilarious. 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:55.920 And it was. 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:58.840 And I told Dean if he had asked me, like 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:01.520 we were doing our little hearsal that took two minutes 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:04.360 for the wedding, I was like, if you asked me 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.400 if you could walk down the aisle to that, I 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:09.320 would have been like, no, that's ridiculous. But the fact 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:11.400 that you did it, it was so perfect, and that 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:13.360 it was such a good surprise to you. I was 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:15.760 just laughing my butt off. On the side, it alleviated 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:18.440 a lot of stress and it was perfect. 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:19.760 Let that be a lesson, you know. 0:15:20.480 --> 0:15:22.440 I don't know if it like applies to every situation. 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:25.280 It doesn't apply to every situation, but it applies to 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:29.720 a grand grand amount of them. Yeah, just let them, 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:34.360 just let me take control, do my thing. It'll all 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:36.360 work out. You'll be happy, you'll be smiling as long 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:37.760 as that's all going on. By the end of it, 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:40.360 You're happy, and Calen walked down to what song again? 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:41.280 I walked down the. 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:45.160 Aisle to kissed Me by sixpence and just like I 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:47.320 love nineties rom coms, you know, yeah. 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:48.880 They're pretty good. That was a good song. And then 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:53.880 we walked off the stage. Two Wildflowers by Tom Petty. 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:55.680 Yeah, which is our song for Pappy. 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:57.040 It's a great song. 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.800 And Alistair also walked down the aisle. 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.480 Was so bad all weekend and I think he has 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:07.320 regressed and he's gotten worse. Not think, we know, he's 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:08.800 gotten so much worse. So he got kicked out of 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:13.280 a restaurant yesterday. But Dean's brother is the only one 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:15.520 that Alistair likes. So Deane's brother walked him down the 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:18.840 aisle and then Alistair was like barking and crying for 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:24.240 us while Jackson was reciting his portion of it, and 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:26.320 it was it was cute, It was cute. 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:28.000 He just wanted to be next to us. Yeah, I 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:29.320 want to be part of the wedding. And they got 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:30.040 stuck in the room. 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:33.760 Yeah yeah, So where else do we go from here? 0:16:34.600 --> 0:16:37.960