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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with I R Radio. We may have been away, but

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Speaker 1: we are not forgotten. The Almost Famous podcast is heating

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Speaker 1: up once again. We're just a few a few weeks

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Speaker 1: away from the start of the Bachelor app. Ashley and

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Speaker 1: I took a few weeks kind of off back and forth,

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Speaker 1: but we're back at it today and we have a

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Speaker 1: really special episode and episode that I think I will

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Speaker 1: be learning a lot from. It's gonna be about Coachella.

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Speaker 1: Coachella was this last weekend, and more and more recently

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Speaker 1: and marketing said, I know you're in studio. Coachell has

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Speaker 1: been a thing for a while, and more and more

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Speaker 1: recently it feels like it's becoming a joke amongst everybody

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Speaker 1: feel that way, Yeah, absolutely, it's becoming a joke. Well, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I was at an event last night. I

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Speaker 1: was at Caitlin Bristow's Life podcast last night, and on

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Speaker 1: three different occasions, somebody on stage made some joke about

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Speaker 1: how life is better not going to Coachella, or if

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Speaker 1: you went to Coachella, do you actually ever go to

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Speaker 1: And then I saw a video this morning when I

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Speaker 1: becoming a joke. Or I want to talk to Two's

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Speaker 1: really special guest Tracy and Bree, who are at Coachella,

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Speaker 1: uh this last week and find out from them what

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Speaker 1: it feel like I've never been? Is it not your scene?

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Speaker 1: Or could you see going it's someday. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it's either like I feel like I never was

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Speaker 1: the outside looking at it feels like a very fashionable, hip,

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Speaker 1: I'm always on the outside. This goes back to pre Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: This is like even high school and college. Ben, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just kind of forced himself into any party that was available.

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Speaker 1: But now like those events that you get invited to,

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Speaker 1: I mean Bachelor, people are going because they've been asked

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Speaker 1: you know who does Tracy shop Off from this last

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Speaker 1: season of the Bachelor. She was at Coachella, and we

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Speaker 1: have her on the Almost Famous podcast today to talk

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Speaker 1: about it. Tracy, welcome, Hi, how are you? I am?

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Speaker 1: I'm really good and I Tracy, I need your help today,

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Speaker 1: all right to help. Here's the thing. So you're a

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Speaker 1: thirty one year old wardrobe stylist from Los Angeles. You

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Speaker 1: hip scene. I am not. I'm gonna yes, I am. Well,

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Speaker 1: you're you're you're still as hip as ever. Because you're

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Speaker 1: at Coachella this last week. I've never been. I have

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Speaker 1: a theory though, and I want you then to explain it.

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Speaker 1: So I was just talking to the guys and I

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Speaker 1: and there's three different jokes about Coachella. Made. One was

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Speaker 1: each other. One was that people don't even go to

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Speaker 1: And what exactly Coachella is? Yeah, I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: there's a difference between Weekend one and weekend two. Weekend

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Speaker 1: parties that everyone definitely wants to go to. They're fun,

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Speaker 1: my voice is going from it. How many years have

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Speaker 1: like I think this time specifically was like the heaviest

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Speaker 1: I'm just you know, Jersey, I'm I'm years removed from

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor at this point, and if I went, would

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Speaker 1: don't think so. I think that the whole point of

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Speaker 1: there's a million people. They're not every single person. There's

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Speaker 1: an influence, like there are people that are there just

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Speaker 1: to enjoy the music. Tracy, I've never wanted to be there.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest. I never wanted to be there

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Speaker 1: It was really exciting. So I we got like the

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Speaker 1: Arianna like filled in the hole forgame. That's an amazing

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Speaker 1: theory for that. Um. Did you see Justin's You see

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Speaker 1: can you just do one little thing, a mini tour,

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Speaker 1: mine's justin Timberlake. You know what her response was, Oh No,

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Speaker 1: it's hurts well. I mean that kind of ties us

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Speaker 1: in Tracy to something else we've got to talk about.

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Speaker 1: You've wanted the topics during your time in the Bachelor

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Speaker 1: was that Demi had had hold you old and a

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Speaker 1: Kruger at one point? Do you feel I mean I

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Speaker 1: And I don't really care how old I am, like forty,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I have a question what makes you

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Speaker 1: feel old? Because we all feel old at a certain point,

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Speaker 1: and I'm older than all of you. But for me,

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Speaker 1: it's what I see um ear gauges, you know, those

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Speaker 1: with in Sync. I think it's listening to music on

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Speaker 1: like the two thousands channel. I love some early two

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Speaker 1: and anyboy out there listening, please give us your thoughts

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Speaker 1: on how you plan a successful wedding. I think people

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Speaker 1: resort to uh, alcohol and music because it's it's easy,

427
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Speaker 1: and then people enjoy that. But it sounds like you

428
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Speaker 1: all are going the extra mile and trying to plan

429
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 1: an experience which seems like a lot of work. It

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Speaker 1: is a lot of work. We actually have a number

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Speaker 1: of different musical guests performers, one of which is a

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00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:55,679
Speaker 1: celebrity performer. Um, so we have like one person performing

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Speaker 1: at the wedding, at the ceremony itself, we have one

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Speaker 1: band performing at the cocktail party. Then we have our

435
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: guest performer, and then we have a DJ. So we're

436
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: like separated out, so you have different vibes all night.

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Speaker 1: This is shocking, I mean, and we what we want,

438
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: what's so important to us is that when it comes

439
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: to the dance music, it's all curated by us. We

440
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: don't want a DJ playing like regular standard top forty

441
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: hits that don't mean anything to us. Everything is going

442
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 1: to be hand selected by Jared and I and like

443
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 1: have meeting to us this, I mean, this feels like

444
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: this is this will be on like any wedding event.

445
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 1: I mean, Tanner and Jade's wedding seems like very similar.

446
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 1: Had Cel come out and play and there was great

447
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: music and great food, but that was playing by you

448
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 1: know obviously ABC. What do you hope then, and what

449
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: are you Okay, Let's let's do this more in a

450
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: holistic way. What do you think people should walk away

451
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 1: from weddings feeling for the couple. I think like deep

452
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 1: love in romance, So you think of a celebration, being

453
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: like a party where you're like drinking and jumping and

454
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 1: all that stuff. And I like to put our love

455
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: on display. But it's also because Jared and I love

456
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 1: to like be extra and be dramatic and like pretend

457
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 1: like we're in a romance movie. So that's the theme

458
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: of our wedding. I guess I can tell you that

459
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: our theme of our wedding is a romance movie. Oh

460
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:23,360
Speaker 1: I forgot. There's also another musical guest, not not celebrity,

461
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:27,479
Speaker 1: but another type of performance during dinner that is going

462
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: to be different. There's going to be the celebrity performer,

463
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: the other performer during dinner, and then the party performer. Yeah,

464
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: it's like a whole bunch of different chapters. Oh my, hey,

465
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: this is a bachelor wedding unlike any other. I'm ash,

466
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Speaker 1: I'm excited to be there. I'm excited to keep talking

467
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 1: more about it. I'm learning more about weddings week by

468
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: week here. Uh and and as an officiant now, I

469
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: am going to be very critical but very excited to

470
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 1: experience this whole new wedding that isn't a part. It's

471
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: a romantic celebration. It doesn't mean that we won't have

472
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 1: a couple of drinks and really jam out. But just

473
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 1: know that you may not be jamming out to the

474
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Speaker 1: typical songs that you usually do at weddings. Hey, Ash,

475
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: this is your wedding, this is not mine. I'm just

476
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: pumped to be there. Thanks, thanks for coming, Ben, thanks

477
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: for being on top of the crew, the Bachelor Boy

478
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: crew as well. Because it's really important that you know

479
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: Dean is there. Because you know Dean, we always joke

480
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 1: it's like who's the wedding guest? That's like very important

481
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:38,439
Speaker 1: to be at your wedding, but but it's also the

482
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: most likely to like have something crazy come up and

483
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 1: he wasn't able to make it. It's like in that

484
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: episode of Full House when Uncle Jesse didn't make it

485
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Speaker 1: to his own wedding because he got stuck in the

486
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: tree because he had to jump out of a plane

487
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: before getting married. So I feel like that's gonna be Dean,

488
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: Like he's gonna get stuck in a tree that that week.

489
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 1: We've got to bring on later too. I need you

490
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: to ask him directly, is he going to show up

491
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: your wedding or not? But right now, as we have

492
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: a couple things going on in Bachelor Nation that we've

493
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: got to catch everybody up with or they're gonna be

494
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 1: super fiery. Um. Here here's the thing, Caleb Bruce. I

495
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: went to her live podcast last night and podcast in Boston.

496
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 1: She does a great job, and it was packed in

497
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 1: Denver at the Paramount Theater. There are some amazing people,

498
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: there's a great vibe and Caitlin had made a joke

499
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 1: on stage about how she was just recently uh in

500
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: a couple of articles because of a comment she made

501
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: about how Caitlin UH and Jason were hooking up once

502
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: and he picked her nose and uh they got hot

503
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: and heavy by doing a little like Uh, I just

504
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: feel weird saying I'm not gonna say because I just

505
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 1: feel odd even saying it. Anyways, they she said, they

506
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: were like, let's let's call this rubbing rubbing goodies together

507
00:27:56,440 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 1: outside the clothes and uh of the best I think

508
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: just say term would probably be less cringing. Uh. But

509
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 1: she mentioned says she was on her period, and periods

510
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: have been a very popular topic and Bachelor Nation right now,

511
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: you know, with Colton's recent comments uh on a podcast

512
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: about how you know women had had period panties and

513
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: it was like pooping their pants. It's good, not great.

514
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 1: Obviously a very popular topic. Caitlin is getting a lot

515
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: of backlash because of this, because it was too much

516
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: to share about her and Jason. Do you agree to disagree? Personally,

517
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 1: I wouldn't share that steamy of info, but I don't

518
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: not expect it from Caitlin. She's a totally different personality,

519
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: and I think it is in line with their personality.

520
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's a bad thing at all. Like

521
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,239
Speaker 1: I love Caitlin. I love her personally. I think it's

522
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: hilarious and I love how she get away with so

523
00:28:56,120 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: much raunch. So I think it's kind of like depends

524
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: on the mouth that it comes out of, on whether

525
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: it is or is not appropriate. Yeah, you know, Caitlin.

526
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 1: Caitlin has always been that, and that's what we love

527
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: about Caitlin, right. She's very, uh like, very open, very honest.

528
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: She she says things that most people want to say,

529
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: and I think that's why women and men both love her,

530
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: because she isn't filtered. And I don't want Caitlin to

531
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: change with that. And so I read these comments by her,

532
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 1: and maybe it's because I do know her like, of

533
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: course she said that. Here's the Here's this part that

534
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: surprising to me is Jason is not like that at all.

535
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: So do you think that they had a conversation after it. No.

536
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: I think Jason loves her and knows that her intentions

537
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 1: are good. So I don't think he was upset. I

538
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: just think that if we if from an outside looking

539
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: and I have no clue, I bet he just She's

540
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 1: just pushing him to be a little more open, and

541
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: Jason's pushing her to be a little bit more protective

542
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: of what happens in private. I mean, here's the thing

543
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: about Caitlin. We've known Caitlin for years now, Like, there's

544
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 1: no secrets to who Caitlin Bristow is. She's great, She's

545
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: great this. But she got some heat for that. And

546
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: let's then move into the Colton comments. Colon got a

547
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: lot of heat here recently for his comments on a

548
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: podcast about period panties. I didn't know women had period panties.

549
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: I had asked Jess Guy, I said, is this a thing? She?

550
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: Of course, it's a thing. I had no clue, So

551
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: I cannot blame Colton for being a little naive on

552
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: that topic. But there was a comment that made that

553
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: I think keyd up the public when he said he

554
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: compared it to pooping your pants and that women should

555
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: throw away their period panties once it's done. Ashley, You've

556
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: never lied to our audience about this kind of stuff,

557
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: even if it's been a little controversial. Do you get

558
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: where he's coming from. Do you agree or disagree, or

559
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: do you think he was just completely out of place.

560
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: I think he was a little bit out of place here.

561
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: Um it was like, seemed a little bit young and

562
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: naive to say. Um, it seemed like somebody who didn't

563
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: really have much experience with women and wasn't necessarily like comfortable,

564
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: would be like anatomy and all that goes on with us.

565
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: I would never think to throw out my underwear during

566
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 1: period underwear and not just wash it and unless it's

567
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: like super unless you you got your period and you

568
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: didn't have protection, and then it kind of was a

569
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: little bit more of an I don't want to, you know,

570
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: get really graphic here, but you know what I mean, Like, sure,

571
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: I've thrown out panties before because of period reasons, but

572
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: I would never like think a little spot, I wouldn't

573
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: just wash out but I think it does just show

574
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: he's just not super just comfortable with that biology yet,

575
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: which is totally I think, kind of normal for a

576
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 1: guy who hadn't had sex before. Yeah, that's the thing

577
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: is is Colton's coming from this from a completely different

578
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 1: place everybody else. And it's kind of one of the

579
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: things I love about this podcast that you and I

580
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: have ASH is that I'm learning a ton of from

581
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,040
Speaker 1: you and from our guests about you know, women and

582
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: about relationships that I never knew before. And I honestly

583
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: I had no clue that women had period panties. It

584
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: wasn't a thing in periods. And I like, they don't

585
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 1: gross me out. I get them, Like I don't get them.

586
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: I understand that you know, it is is a natural thing.

587
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: It doesn't make me like at all repulsed. But I

588
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: had no clue that there is period panties, and I do.

589
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: I think that Colton probably learned a lesson from this

590
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: comment because of the backlash that he got. I don't

591
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: have period panties. I just I don't have period panties

592
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: that are designated from my period. I think that you

593
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: usually look away, you're I don't know, I don't have them,

594
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 1: but I totally know what they are and I understand

595
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: their purpose. I want to know from a guy, would

596
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: you ever think to compare period blood to poop? No? No,

597
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: I wouldn't, But I mean, that's just that's kind of difference.

598
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:55,479
Speaker 1: Like I think because of my years, you know, living

599
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: um with my ex fiance and and Lauren, I guess

600
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: everybody here knows um. And then also just you know,

601
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: being thirty now, I'm aware of what's happening and more

602
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: and more, and so I would never compare it because

603
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: it is natural and it is uh something that should

604
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: not be frowned upon, and so I would never compare

605
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: the two. But here's here's also like the caveat to

606
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 1: all of this. We're all learning. And so my question

607
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: then would be to anybody out there, because we have

608
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of women listeners, how would

609
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: you like men to respond to situations like this that

610
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: they have no clue about? Right? So Colton obviously doesn't

611
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: know a ton about how a period works or how

612
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: women manage it and handle it, and so how would

613
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: you have rather him responded? Would it have been with

614
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: the honesty that he portrayed here, or should he have

615
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: just said I don't know how women do this, and

616
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: I can't speak about it. I think it probably would

617
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: have been okay if he had just been like, oh

618
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: my god, I had no idea their period panties, Like

619
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: I didn't know you guys even like leaked like that

620
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: was a thing. Um And then but I think it

621
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: was the comparing it to poop that was probably like

622
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 1: the distasteful part of it. Yeah, But then again, I

623
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,919
Speaker 1: have said so many stupid things before, but a lot

624
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: of it has been just pure naive teg And I

625
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: don't want anybody to like, I don't want to villainize

626
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: him for this at all. I mean, he just it's

627
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: just he was just naive to it. He thought it

628
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: was kind of gross, but like didn't realize that, you know.

629
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: He it's just something that he has to kind of

630
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 1: get comfortable with now, being especially a partner to a woman.

631
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: Would you guys to bring Barns into this conversation, Oh sure,

632
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: let's do it, Heybury, Hey guys, how's it going good?

633
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: How are you pretty good? Just recovering from Katla? You know,

634
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: jump it back into things and I know you keep

635
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: relaxing and keep hydrating. Um, so we didn't want to.

636
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,280
Speaker 1: We're bringing you into a little bit of an awkward

637
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: conversation here, do you know how? And Colton was on

638
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: the Lady Gang podcast a couple of weeks ago that

639
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: he compared period blood and panties pop. Oh no, I um,

640
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 1: I didn't know about that. Are they comparable? That is

641
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: the question we're asking ourselves right now, Bree, and I've

642
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 1: got to step in as the resident mail here and say, okay, breath, Yeah,

643
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:25,800
Speaker 1: I learned that period panties were a thing. I didn't

644
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: know that was a thing. If if who If you

645
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,439
Speaker 1: didn't know that Colton had just said this, what would

646
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: be your response to a man saying that women should

647
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: should throw away their panties and comparing it to poop?

648
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I guess to know, Like what

649
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: are we saying when we're comparing it too? Like I

650
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: just feel like this is such a weird topic for

651
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,720
Speaker 1: so many people, but it's like natural, and it makes

652
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,359
Speaker 1: women feel uncomfortable because we can't do anything about it,

653
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: you know, So it's a little bit weird for us.

654
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: It's natural and we don't think of it as a

655
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: gross thing. First period, it's a little bit startling, but

656
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, and I wish that more people would

657
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: be more comfortable talking about it so we don't have

658
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: to feel weird about it. But I mean I have

659
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: like my set paintings from that time of the month

660
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,919
Speaker 1: and everything, you know, like I don't, I don't throw

661
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 1: them away? What was that for all of this? What

662
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: was said through all this? Like? What? What is what

663
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: exactly is he saying? I think where Colton's coming from

664
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: is a place that he I mean, shock right, And

665
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: I just said earlier, I didn't know that that women

666
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: had a designated set on the side for for like

667
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: that time of the month. He But I think what

668
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 1: really like infuriated people was when he compared your period

669
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: to pooping your pants and then would you were underwear

670
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: that you just pooped your pants in? And I think

671
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: that's where women got fired up. So anyways, I think

672
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,280
Speaker 1: what we need to do here is ask our listeners. Listeners,

673
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: what was your thoughts on this? Is it something that

674
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: was offensive to you? Um? Do you understand Colton's being

675
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 1: a little naive to this situation and you know with

676
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 1: with just this topic in general, how would you prefer

677
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: men respond? Please email us at been An Ashley at

678
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: I heart Meatia dot com. Bree, we have to talk

679
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 1: about Coachella. I started out the podcast with Tracy, so

680
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: Tracy Ashley and I talked to Tracy and I was

681
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: saying that I feel like coach Ill. I was at

682
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 1: Caitlin Bristow's live podcast last night and Coachell has made

683
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: fun of three times, and it was made fun of,

684
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 1: you know, for for the reasons that everybody makes fun

685
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: of it. When you're there, does it feel like the

686
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,240
Speaker 1: place to be? Is it the cool place to be?

687
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 1: And if I'm never if I've never been invited, should

688
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 1: I take offense to that? No. Honestly, it's so funny

689
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 1: because me and my girlfriend went for work and um,

690
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 1: we kind of just like this big joke. But it's

691
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 1: kind of just like you're in this den with all

692
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: these influencers, and you know it just it feels like

693
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,280
Speaker 1: everyone's kind of trying to one up everyone, and everyone

694
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: wants to be there for the music that like, I

695
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 1: genuinely care about it, and I just think it's a

696
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: weird vibe. I'd rather be a stagecoach. Personally. I'm really

697
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 1: bad because I'm going in two weeks. But it's touchelogists.

698
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: It feels like a lot of like anxiousness, and especially

699
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,479
Speaker 1: when you're in v I P and and running into

700
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 1: everyone and all of that. It's not really just about

701
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 1: like having a good time at the festival. You know, Um,

702
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: I went for work. I don't go for fun. Um

703
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: I was working with a brand, but I did. I

704
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: made like the most of it. I really did, like

705
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 1: um a few of the people that were playing, but

706
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: like I didn't show up until you know, later in

707
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: the night. And you know, it's it's a lot like

708
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: you're walking around probably nine miles every single day and

709
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: trying to get ubers and all that. It's it's really

710
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 1: it's technic. So do the people out there who are

711
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: having fomo looking at pictures from Gotela and thinking that

712
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,720
Speaker 1: everybody is so beautiful and stylish and having the best time,

713
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 1: are you kind of debunking that and saying that's just

714
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: something that is portrayed on social media and you're not

715
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: really having the best time. I mean, yeah, I feel

716
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 1: like not everyone talks about like what's really going on

717
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: behind the scenes, and like getting me on Carnival and

718
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: getting out of me on Carnival and trying to get

719
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: drinks and getting that perfect shot and how many photos

720
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: it takes to get that perfect shot. You know all

721
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 1: that it's it's it really is hechnic. I think, um

722
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: not everyone says open about it gives me anxiety just

723
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: here too. Oh gosh, giving that perfect shot. Man. I

724
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: just posted a picture last night and it was the

725
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 1: first time in a long time I've looked at a

726
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: picture and said, yeah, then you get you can get it,

727
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,439
Speaker 1: Like that's good. But getting that perfect shot stresses me out.

728
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: It is so stressful and knowing that you have a

729
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: weekend where you have to get like a certain amount

730
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: of posts all weekend long, and just thinking like, wow,

731
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: will I even be able to enjoy this, like kind

732
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: of just what's going on your in your head the

733
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: whole time. You know that people like we understand the

734
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 1: stress that comes with getting the perfect shot and getting

735
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: a certain amount of pictures, and there there is really

736
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: stress involved. But you know that a lot of people

737
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast are going to be like, oh,

738
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: poor influencers, they have to get good pictures. So what

739
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: do you have to say to people who are gonna

740
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: give you that little brow Well, and I hate to

741
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: come off that way. It's just I don't like to

742
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: inconvenience people to ask them to like help me with stuff,

743
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: so it just gets a little hectic. Like I have

744
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 1: to have like certain people with me that I know,

745
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: like also comfortable asking to help. And it's like editing

746
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 1: and all that other stuff like that. It takes time

747
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: to do all of this, but also like I'm appreciative

748
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: that I get to do these sorts of things, you know,

749
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 1: like for work and um, getting to getting to go

750
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:51,439
Speaker 1: to a festival in general, Like it's a good time. Um.

751
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: I think like if you haven't experienced it, like it's

752
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: a once in a lifetime thing, you should do it once.

753
00:40:56,560 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: But it's definitely effected. You know. We uh we love

754
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: on this podcast Breathe. We want to break down the

755
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 1: barriers if if we if this podcast ends in twenty

756
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: years and we look back on our time doing the

757
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: almost famous podcast, I want to be able to say

758
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 1: that we broke down the barriers and that we took

759
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: down that fourth wall and we allowed everybody out there

760
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 1: to see the life of you know, of luxury that

761
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: Instagram leads to Breathe. Coachella seems great, and you did

762
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 1: go for work, well, for anybody out there that's envious

763
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:32,959
Speaker 1: or a little sad they weren't invited, or they can't

764
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: go to these kind of festivals, or maybe they can't

765
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: take the pictures. What would be your advice to them? Um,

766
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: my advice to them? I mean, I think if you

767
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 1: if you go, if you enjoy festivals, you know, go,

768
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 1: But it just I mean, like I said, it's it's

769
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: just it's something that you don't be really you know,

770
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:59,280
Speaker 1: you don't know what's going on behind the scenes, and um,

771
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: wheneveryone's up to I think maybe just go to go

772
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: to g a, have a good time, bring your girlfriends,

773
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: bring your guy friends, whoever you're with, um and make

774
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: the most of it. I don't think um going for work.

775
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: It's the best time, but it's fun. Well, leading in

776
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 1: now to a whole new conversation. We've been talking on

777
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: this podcast today, which has been great to catch up

778
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: with Ashley because I haven't got to hear about her

779
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 1: wedding planning. Ashley and Jared have a massive wedding coming

780
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: up and one of the group's men is Dean Ungler,

781
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: who is a very sought after man and Bachelor Nation.

782
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: He's one of my greatest friends, and I love him dearly.

783
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: Uh and and so does Ashley. Bring on on our

784
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: podcast a few months ago, you mentioned that Dean was

785
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: a man that you maybe would have your eye on

786
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,439
Speaker 1: in Paradise. So there's two questions I want to ask there.

787
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: One is, uh, will you be going to Paradise? And two,

788
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: if you do go to Paradise, what's the chances that

789
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: you're Dean's date to Ashley and Jared's wedding. Oh wow,

790
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a pretty far shot, because one

791
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: is this wedding it's in August August. I mean, if

792
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: I go on Paradise, I guess we'll have to see

793
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: what happens from there. That's a terrible answer. I'm not no,

794
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 1: I'm not taking that answer. Yeah, she really fluffed over

795
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: that question. Okay, free let me rephrase this. How excited?

796
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: What would be your feelings? I guess I should say

797
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: an excitement level if you were Dean's date to Ashley

798
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: and Jared's wedding, I think we would have a great time.

799
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 1: I hope it happened. There you go. That's way better.

800
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 1: That's so much. Hey, that's great for you. Thank you

801
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,439
Speaker 1: for thank you for doing that for us. Okay, have

802
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 1: you talked to him since we last interviewed you on

803
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 1: the Almost Face podcast. Yes, so I finally answered his DM. Um,

804
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 1: he was really upset about that. I stepped back and

805
00:43:54,480 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 1: remind them of the listeners you first c ms me. Yeah,

806
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 1: he asked me to go on his podcast, and at

807
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: the time I didn't know like if I could respond,

808
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 1: and um, there was it was just like hectic. I

809
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 1: was getting a lot of people reaching out, so I

810
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: didn't respond right away. And then after I left the show,

811
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: he DMed again, so he like deleted his original d

812
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: M so I wouldn't see it and asked again and

813
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: then um, and then I started talking about him in

814
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: podcast um with you guys, and UM went on his

815
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: podcast and then we started damming after that. So it's

816
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: been a little bit of talk, a little bit of

817
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: communications since. All Right, so you guys have talked, So

818
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: if he does show up in Paradise, we know that

819
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: there was a well actually we know there was a

820
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 1: prior communication. But can you talk about whether it's gone

821
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 1: beyond podcast chat and into more personal chat. Um. Yeah,

822
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 1: like we've dammed, we've exchanged numbers. I think it's just

823
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: a little hectic because he's quite the traveler. I'm always

824
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 1: working and um comducent, we haven't had the time to

825
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 1: you know, make that go anywhere. But I think that

826
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,320
Speaker 1: like we're both hoping that we get a chance to

827
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 1: go on Paradise and you know, maybe hit it off there.

828
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. We'll see, we'll see what happens. Okay,

829
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: all right, Well, you guys do live in the same city,

830
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: so it can't be that. I mean, I can understand

831
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 1: what hard, right you would think it would couldn't be.

832
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: It wouldn't be that hard. But Dean is a traveler.

833
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:34,399
Speaker 1: That man is always on the go, so he might

834
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 1: be the most challenging person to really get a hold

835
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: of and hang out with. Anyway, I would put you

836
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: guys in an awkward situation where I put you both

837
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 1: on the phone at the same time. But I'm gonna

838
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 1: let you have that public interaction for the first time

839
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: in Paradise if Dean and if you do decide to go,

840
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: so breee, I'm about to get on the phone with

841
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 1: your possible man. Thank you so much for calling in,

842
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: and we hope to talk to you during Paradise time.

843
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: I hope so too. It's talking with you guys. So

844
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 1: good talking to you. Thank you bye. So Jared and

845
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: I are going to redo our apartment during the summertime

846
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: because we're getting married and we wanted to seem more

847
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,720
Speaker 1: like our home and not so much my home because

848
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Speaker 1: a relationship that I cannot have with Dean. You understand

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Speaker 1: him better than I overwhel So I'm gonna let you

887
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Speaker 1: ask these tough questions to Dean. Well, thank you all right?

888
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:53,799
Speaker 1: Hello Dean Unglert. Hello, Hey, So Jared recently asked you

889
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Speaker 1: to become a groomsman and our barridal party. Thank you

890
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 1: for saying yes. What an honor it is to be

891
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 1: up there on the stage. What's it called up there

892
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: on the all through with you guys as you exchange

893
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Speaker 1: your rowse. I'm thrilled, Dean. How did you react? I

894
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Speaker 1: have a video of it. Maybe you'll post this on

895
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: the podcast comes out. It's so cute. Your reaction was

896
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 1: so adorable. Are you surprised Jared was scared to ask me?

897
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: It's like you. I think he was worried. I was

898
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: gonna say no, no. Jared and I have felt that

899
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Speaker 1: asking people to be our groomsman or bridesmaids has been

900
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,880
Speaker 1: the most awkward thing. It's like asking somebody to prom

901
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: It's like literally asking your friend out. You're like, so,

902
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: I have a question, will you be my bridesmaid. It's

903
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 1: just like so cringe e for us for some reason.

904
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 1: I can see why, but I guess my thought process

905
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: is if you're comfortable enough asking someone to be your

906
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 1: bridemaid or your groomsman, then you should know that they're

907
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: going to say yes anyways, Like there's not a million

908
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Speaker 1: year litter. So no, I'm flattered, but I'm so to

909
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 1: be up there. Um, I've never been in a group

910
00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 1: wetting before, so oh my gosh, it's a great honor. Dean,

911
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: that's so cute. I'm so glad to be your first.

912
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 1: Were that were your first? That's awesome. Du Well, you're

913
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: not going to have that many responsibilities. Were kind of

914
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: like covering it all for you guys. But there is

915
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Speaker 1: a groomsman quiz that I found online and I thought

916
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,319
Speaker 1: we should have you take it to see how good

917
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: of a groomsman you're gonna be or how much research

918
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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do on the topic before standing

919
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: up there. Okay, I mean I've already done. I'm already

920
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 1: started playing the bachelor party. I know it's not my responsibility,

921
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: but I'm taking it into my own hand. Really, because

922
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: what are you planning on doing for your bachelor party.

923
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: I don't want Jared to die before he marries me.

924
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Speaker 1: Just agree with me that I'm inviting okay, because you

925
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Speaker 1: guys have you know Dean out there. He is an

926
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Speaker 1: adventurer at heart, and I don't know how much I

927
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Speaker 1: how I'm if I'm okay with like Jared skydiving or

928
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 1: like climbing Mount ever before our wedding. We're going to

929
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Speaker 1: put the adventures side island, Rhode Island, I think, or

930
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 1: wherever we are. I don't really remember. To got it,

931
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: that would be awesome. Well, you booked your flight, so

932
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Speaker 1: i'd hope you know it was It's RHO Rhode Island.

933
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: I guess that was a lot to share it. Oh yeah,

934
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Speaker 1: you are so okay. We're gonna start the quiz now, Dan,

935
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 1: does there have to be the same amount of bride'smaids

936
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 1: as there are groomsmen? Oh? Great, that's that's correct. False

937
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: Is the right answer? True or false? The groomsmen and

938
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: the bride'smaids are usually the first to dance after the

939
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 1: newly weds and their parents. Apparently this is true, but

940
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: I also was not aware of this tradition. I thought

941
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Speaker 1: it was just it was just every man from South

942
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Speaker 1: after you kind of just blended on the dance floor.

943
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Speaker 1: So Jared and I are planning this grand entrance for

944
00:51:55,680 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 1: you guys into the ballroom, and we are we're very,

945
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 1: very excited about this. Do you know of any of

946
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:08,760
Speaker 1: my bridesmaids that you would like to be paired up with? Oh? Yeah, okay,

947
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:13,439
Speaker 1: we can make that work, I think. Okay, great, Okay.

948
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 1: Question number three? Sure or false? All groomsmen need to

949
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 1: give a speech on the wedding day. Come on, ask

950
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: you me some hard questions. All okay, good, because it's

951
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 1: typically the best man and for any of you guys,

952
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:31,879
Speaker 1: I love speeches. Do you like speeches at weddings? Um? Well,

953
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: like I said, I haven't really been the any weddings.

954
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: If I was the audience, I would hate it. But

955
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Speaker 1: because I mean this one, I want to give a speech,

956
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Speaker 1: even though I might not be allowed to. I want

957
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 1: to fill it up with so many speeches because I

958
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: love speeches. They're my favorite parts of weddings, even if

959
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm not super close to the bride and groom. So

960
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what we'll think about it. Um. For

961
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 1: the traditional wedding, the bride sits on the left while

962
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: the groom's family sits on the right of the ceremony space.

963
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 1: Do you think this is true? False? It's true? Okay, yeah,

964
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: it is true. A groomsman does not need to get

965
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 1: the couple a wedding gift. True or false. Everyone needs

966
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 1: to get the couple of wedding gifts. Very good. Go

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968
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Speaker 1: a we have a registry with Cranton Barrel. Okay, cool.

969
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 1: I didn't even take that yet, but I will. I

970
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: was gonna go off the registry or do I have

971
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: to go on? Do I have to We appreciate any

972
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: gifts and we don't even need anything. Okay? You have

973
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: to include your family, even your sister in law or

974
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 1: brother in law's in your brile party. Is this true

975
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: or false? It is false, but there's no formal etiquette

976
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 1: to this. But it's a nice gesture. Your sister wasn't

977
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 1: in your brittle party. I think you'd be a little upset.

978
00:53:56,520 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: That would be pretty crazy. Last of this round of questions.

979
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: The groom's men typically pays for their own suit or tailoring. Oh,

980
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 1: you guys are paying for it for me? Actually, we

981
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 1: are not, Um, we are getting you an amazing deal

982
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Speaker 1: on a tux, an amazing deal for a tailored custom

983
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Speaker 1: to U tux that you will have for the rest

984
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 1: of your life. Deanu Alert, Um, that's it. Oh yeah,

985
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: you get to keep it. What color is it? Black?

986
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:33,799
Speaker 1: It's not like a page or something. Huh. No, No,

987
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: do I going to personalize any part of my outfit? Um? No,

988
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:47,280
Speaker 1: that this is where I become a Bradzilla. So that's

989
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:50,320
Speaker 1: like a very common question I've been getting asked do

990
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,959
Speaker 1: you have any brad Zilla moments? And the only one,

991
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 1: funny enough, was Jared wanted to offer you guys a

992
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: choice between getting suits or touch is for the wedding,

993
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: and I said, no, just taxes. Sorry, also no blue option,

994
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 1: just black. Well, I agree with the taxes over suits,

995
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: but I was just thinking, like I mean, selfishly, I

996
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: was like, oh, well, I want to have a different

997
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 1: colored bow tie or pocket square than the rest of

998
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: the people that are gonna be up there. But I

999
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: understand from your perspective why you don't want that. Probably not.

1000
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: I like unity, but I also love your style. So

1001
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:33,439
Speaker 1: you know, come to the rehearsal dinner wearing anything you want.

1002
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm wearing some high waters and like a very tight

1003
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:41,560
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1004
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 1: your suit, Yeah, your talx. Okay, moving on, here's some

1005
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Speaker 1: fun questions specific to our wedding. Can you name all

1006
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Speaker 1: of Jared's groomsmen? I just know that Nick and I

1007
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 1: are are in there. Okay, Well I would get to

1008
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:00,760
Speaker 1: know these guys, Nick Tanner, Paul Eric, those are his cousins,

1009
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: Chad one of his best friends from home, Jim Jimmy

1010
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:07,359
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1011
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:10,439
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1012
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: His dad is the best man. How cute is that?

1013
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 1: I was about to ask you the best man? That's awesome,

1014
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: I mean cool. Well, we're gonna have a rip and

1015
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1016
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1051
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Speaker 1: is Jared's drink of choice? Oh? I should probably know that.

1052
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 1: Uh Um, I'm gonna say avocada red wine to start,

1053
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: and then he'll probably switch over to beer. I'll pay off. Yeah,

1054
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Speaker 1: I just remember I was thinking that around bock was

1055
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1056
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 1: was a fish. Oh really Yeah, you don't remember when

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00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 1: we were all Yeah, I guess he was, so I

1058
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: like cranberry vodka. That is what I can down the

1059
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: the easiest. All right, what hair will you be sporting

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00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: during our wedding? What hair cut? Hair? Yeah? Um, well

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00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: my hair is gonna be what We're still three months away?

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00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: Four months away, we're five months away. Uh yeah, we're

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00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: like four and a half. I mean, I don't really

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00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: have any plan on cutting my hair between now and then,

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00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: so it's gonna be long. I'm gonna then sweet. It's

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00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: gonna look good in the talks very Jack Dawson, Yeah,

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00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 1: very jacked. Often. Maybe I'll have like a head band

1068
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 1: on if you guys will allow it. I forgot that

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00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: I am going to have to blow so many of

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00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:55,480
Speaker 1: your fashion dreams for this. And the last question I

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00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 1: have for you, Deane is what is a song that

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00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 1: will be our first dance? Oh my god, it's gonna

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01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 1: be probably the song from Titanic. No, but I did

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01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:08,959
Speaker 1: realize that we have to incorporate it in the DJ

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01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 1: said for sure, it's going to be ever the same

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01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: by Rob Thomas. I never would have gotten that, but

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01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: Rob Thomas sounds like something you guys would have at

1078
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 1: your wedding. Definitely, definitely will be incorporated in our day. Well, Dean,

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01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 1: to be part of the day, even just getting a wedding,

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01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: but I we talked about but now I'm gonna be

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01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: part of it. It's amazing getting like you wouldn't be

1082
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:35,920
Speaker 1: into the wedding, You're so Sweetean. I love you, and

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01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 1: I'm so tend to be there with you. I love you,

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01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: and I'm so glad you're gonna be there. Okay, I

1085
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: like that. When I'm crying, I can look to you

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01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 1: and I just know that you're going to have the

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01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: most gigantic smile on your face, which will probably make

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01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: me laugh. I'll be I'll be smiling through and through.

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01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 1: I know, I know. Okay, um let we couldn't let

1090
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: you go here on the Almost Famous podcast without asking

1091
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,479
Speaker 1: you if you are thinking about going to Paradise, because

1092
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: there's so any rumors about it and so many girls

1093
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 1: that want you to be there. How do you don't know?

1094
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 1: I think that's uh, that's just one of those things

1095
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: that only time is going to tell. But time can

1096
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 1: only tell for too much longer because you have to

1097
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: make a decision soon. I haven't been approached about it,

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01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: so I don't know. Yeah, right, if they want me,

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01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 1: I would maybe have the conversation. See if at least anything,

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01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 1: But until that moment happens, I mean obviously not things

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01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:31,440
Speaker 1: really ever going to be setting up. Dean. If you

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01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 1: were to go to Paradise, would you want to go

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01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,320
Speaker 1: in with the original cast that first day, or would

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01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:37,959
Speaker 1: you want to be one of the guys that enters

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01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: in a couple of days later. I think it be

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01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:42,400
Speaker 1: good to be because the original cats first time, so

1107
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 1: it would be nice. Maybe try something different, come down

1108
01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:49,200
Speaker 1: with the date cards, you know, Okay? And how would

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01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 1: it be if you if Danielle or Christina, the people

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01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: that you were in a love triangle with during Bachelor

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01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: in Paradise Season four, how would that be? I personally

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01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:01,919
Speaker 1: and have any issue with it. I would support them,

1113
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 1: and if someone found them interesting, I would encourage them

1114
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 1: to explore it. I don't really bear any resentment or

1115
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 1: or harsh feelings or either of them, so, um, nothing

1116
01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: but supportive for my end. I'm sure they would probably

1117
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:18,919
Speaker 1: talk a little craps about me rightfully, so but um, yeah,

1118
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:20,440
Speaker 1: I'm sure. I don't know. I don't think it'd be

1119
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 1: that awkward. Well we don't. We don't have to worry

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01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 1: about Leslie being there because she has a boyfriend. Well

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01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 1: that's good. I don't really know what to say that one. Sorry.

1122
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 1: I love putting their guests in tough situations. That's the one.

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01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: You're a tough one, all right? Well, thanks for joining us. Dean,

1124
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 1: and I'm so glad that you're part of our wedding.

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01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 1: You're going to really light up the experience. I know

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01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to steal the States from Jared, but

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01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: I think I might not have a choice. What you

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01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 1: talked to Jared about those plans on your own podcasts

1129
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: help I suncud dating what if the aster asked if

1130
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 1: there are any objections? And I storm out and I

1131
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: yell and I said, I won't allow it to happen.

1132
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: Please don't do that. But what if you never know?

1133
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 1: I've always we did a podcast. We didn't. I don't

1134
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 1: get a podcast about a wedding being interrupted because everybody's

1135
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 1: like the biggest I don't know how to say this.

1136
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 1: Everybody always wonders if there's any point in saying, does

1137
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:32,480
Speaker 1: anybody have anything left to say? Forever? Now or now

1138
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 1: or forever? Hold your piece? Right? Yea? So we did

1139
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 1: a podcast on if there has been anybody out there

1140
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: that's experienced this, and we found like three people and

1141
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 1: it was dramatic. Yeah, don't you think by that point

1142
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 1: the objection started to be well known? Like why would

1143
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 1: you wait up until literally the last fossible moment to

1144
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 1: object one girl she knew that the groom was cheating

1145
01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 1: on the bride and interrupted and told that story. Okay,

1146
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 1: but why not before embarrassing? Oh, it's so embarrassing, it's horrendous.

1147
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:13,160
Speaker 1: I have no idea. Why wait to that moment? It

1148
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 1: seems very old fashioned to present that question, because I

1149
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 1: think that in this day and age, people are a

1150
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 1: little bit more like communicative. It seems like something that

1151
01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: would happen in the eighteen hundreds with a couple that

1152
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 1: didn't even know each other's mind bobbing. Wait, did you

1153
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: guys get to the point of knowing whether or not

1154
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: they went through the wedding? They didn't. They didn't go

1155
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: through at the wedding, They went to the reception and

1156
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 1: had a party or like enjoyed the food. That's well, yeah,

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01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 1: it's not all right. Thanks Dean, thank you, thank you,

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01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 1: thank you, and I'll see you soon, miss you bye.

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01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:53,880
Speaker 1: All right. Well, that was a good one. Always fun

1160
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:58,440
Speaker 1: talking to Dean and grilling him. Such um, such a

1161
01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 1: man who who can just charm the pants off of you,

1162
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: you know. Anyway, thanks to Dean for being on this

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01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 1: and Bree and Tracy. Great hearing about the Coachell The

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01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: weekend that we thankfully missed out on. Anyway, i've been, actually,

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01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 1: and i've been been by. Follow the Benn and Ashley

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01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 1: I Almost Famous podcast on IHUR Radio, or subscribe wherever

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Speaker 1: you listen to podcasts.