WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Drinks Are On Him

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<v Speaker 1>Second d date. A good general rule for first dates

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<v Speaker 1>is trying not to start drama with other people while

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<v Speaker 1>you're out. Yeah, like that time where I challenge some

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<v Speaker 1>guy to a street race in the middle of a

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<v Speaker 1>date and then he says, no, I can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just the valet, and so I called him a snowflake,

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<v Speaker 1>and long story short, I'm not allowed back at that

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<v Speaker 1>sizzler ever again the sizzle. If you go to I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up on the private streets of LA it wouldn't understand. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I do not. But one of our listeners is worried

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<v Speaker 1>that she may have stirred up a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>drama on her first date, not on purpose, but I

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to hear about it. Let's talk to her, Waila,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. Hey, guys, how are you old?

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<v Speaker 1>This like just in picturing you like calling for a

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<v Speaker 1>manager or something where we ad, oh my gosh, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>hoping you guys can help. I met this guy, Brad online,

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<v Speaker 1>and okay, yeah, he's adorable and like you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to meet people online. But we ended up having

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<v Speaker 1>a first date at this awesome dive bar like in

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<v Speaker 1>between the both of us and let Scott's Hearts and

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<v Speaker 1>skebawl and stuff like. So it was super fun and okay,

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<v Speaker 1>was it his plan or was it your plan to

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<v Speaker 1>meet at that bar? It was actually his plan. I

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<v Speaker 1>like a guy that takes charge. Okay, all right, so

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<v Speaker 1>you're excited going into this. Oh yeah, and I can

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<v Speaker 1>slay at ski ball. I mean, can you hit the hundreds?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the hundred top quarters every time. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>great aim. Okay. So we're just chilling and getting pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of Bear having great conversation and like really flirting. Like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even a touchy person, but I was full

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<v Speaker 1>on like touching his leg and shoulder and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like he ski ball master who loves drinking beer and

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<v Speaker 1>loves touching. Like, how are you not married yet? Wait? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. She's like, I don't want I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about just look at her a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff exactly. Okay, Yeah, so it was just this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>one kind of weird thing that happened in the night,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what I wanted to talk to you guys about.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the drama. I don't know if it's drama. Um, well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I went up to the bar to just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like refill our picture, okay, and how many drinks

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<v Speaker 1>in were you at this point? Were you drunk? No,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is definitely our third picture, But like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh wow, between the two of you, it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 1>some master brew. It was just you know, light beer

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. It wasn't like we were drunk. We were silly.

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<v Speaker 1>Light beer difference if you're drinking anything. Yeah. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really like that term though, Instead of like I was

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<v Speaker 1>drunk or buzz, I was silly. Okay, so you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>silly getting a refill at the bar? What happened my guy?

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so I just asked the bartender for fidger.

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<v Speaker 1>Was totally fine. And then I see this girl just

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<v Speaker 1>like a few chairs away from me, and she was

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<v Speaker 1>like ordering you know, straight up cocktails and putting it

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<v Speaker 1>on Brad's tab And I thought that's weird. Like he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say he knew anyone there and who I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was really weird. And the bartender didn't say anything,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't say anything. Are you sure it was

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<v Speaker 1>like the same Brad, Like Brad's a pretty common name,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe there was another Brad, No, she's full on

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<v Speaker 1>looked over, pointed, and he was just kind of looking

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<v Speaker 1>on his phone, so he didn't even notice she was

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<v Speaker 1>pointing over to him. Okay, can I just say, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be dumb explanation, but one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite movies of all time, this is a move that

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<v Speaker 1>they've done. You just you put your tab on someone

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<v Speaker 1>else's bill, you point and say it's on them, kind

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<v Speaker 1>of wave and even if they look a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>times I'll just talking about the dumb and dumber say

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like this is what she did. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're confident I could see this working. So what did

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<v Speaker 1>you do? Did you Did you call her out? Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I didn't want to say anything to her

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<v Speaker 1>because I definitely didn't want like some cat fight saying happening.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went back with the picture. I just said, hey, Brad,

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<v Speaker 1>like this whole situation happened at the bar, and he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't seem like super pissed, but he did like get

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<v Speaker 1>up and go and confront this girl. They have a

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<v Speaker 1>full conversation, but it wasn't It didn't look volatile or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>It just looked like, you know, what's up? So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what did he say to you? Did he say that

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<v Speaker 1>oh god? Or like, what was his reaction when you

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<v Speaker 1>told him? Was he shocked? Yah, didn't go over the top.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't like super angry. He was just like wow, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's rude. Okay, definitely taking it back though it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like ye, But it sounds like he handled it in

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<v Speaker 1>a like mature way that he wasn't screaming at this chick.

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<v Speaker 1>So did it turn out that he knew her? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Not at all. I mean, and then he confronted the

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<v Speaker 1>bartender again, like I wasn't overhearing this, but it looked like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he was is trying to be straight up? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So and I kind of like that about him too, right,

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<v Speaker 1>He's just like, look, I'm not here to get everyone silly.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah this is this is getting funny, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want this funny. Let's keep it still, keep

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<v Speaker 1>it silly. Okay. So, I mean it sounds like he

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<v Speaker 1>handled it pretty well. Did you guys rejoin the conversation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we went back to playing games and drinking.

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<v Speaker 1>But it did feel like the rest of the night

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<v Speaker 1>was just a little off, like he was off. I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to joke around with him and keep it silly,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just kind of never went back to that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it started to wind down a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>like people who leave in the bar's getting late. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>We both got to work and then like he got

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<v Speaker 1>me my uber. He even gave me sweet little peck.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good sign. Yeah, but lose that momentum

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<v Speaker 1>you've been building. Yeah, ill dealing with money on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. He's like, awkward, It's awkward. You guys stayed there.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like, now you have the bartender, if you've

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<v Speaker 1>like confronted, and you have this chick that's still there

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<v Speaker 1>that was trying to steal from you essentially, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>still hanging out there, Like it would be a weird

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<v Speaker 1>vibe to stay in. Yeah, it just kind of felt

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird and we just it just even after

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it's been like a week and we've

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<v Speaker 1>been texting, but there's been no light talk of plans.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't actually liked to talk talk to him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, just like kind of texting okay, but I

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<v Speaker 1>like it really does him And I was just hoping

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't causing anything. I thought like maybe I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have said anything, or should just let the girls get

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<v Speaker 1>away with getting Yeah, you dream said something, he would

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<v Speaker 1>have found out eventually you could be thinking like, oh great,

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<v Speaker 1>this girl's gonna start drama. Every time that we go

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<v Speaker 1>out somewhere. She's going to point out somewhere that's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to buy something, would out and obnoxious about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it sounds like girls you're trying. You were just

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<v Speaker 1>being silly. So let's play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Brad for you, and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you your second date update. Okay, okay, cool, thanks, right,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on second day, we're halfway through a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>And depending on who you are, you either just heard

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<v Speaker 1>an awkward situation or if you're a Lexus, you just

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<v Speaker 1>learned a sneaky new way to score yourself free drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a girl to girl like because at one

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<v Speaker 1>point at this bar Wayla noticed two girls trying to

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<v Speaker 1>charge cocktails onto her dates tab. So she went over

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<v Speaker 1>and told him about it, and that led to a

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<v Speaker 1>confrontation between him and the women, also him and the bartender. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know we kind of asked you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about the situation already. But we've done second dates

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<v Speaker 1>in the past where guys will do sneaky stuff and

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<v Speaker 1>they don't tell the ladies what's really going on, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll find out the truth later. Like do you

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<v Speaker 1>think there's any chance Brad secretly was interested in those

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<v Speaker 1>women and you accidentally busted him giving them drinks? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, like it's happened on this show before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I must be either for a naive or like really confident,

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<v Speaker 1>because I never would have thought that at all. Like

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<v Speaker 1>some guys are really sneaky about it. Though all he

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<v Speaker 1>has to do is go on them and say no, no no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of my good friends. I don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to think, like you know, that's like my work. Girls

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<v Speaker 1>always catch guys, so you have to be like pretty

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<v Speaker 1>good at this. Well, yeah, I'll pay for all your

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<v Speaker 1>drinks tonight. The girls. No, But like if he was

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<v Speaker 1>going to hit on him by buying them drinks, when

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<v Speaker 1>would he ever go and talk to them? Like there's

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<v Speaker 1>no follow up on that. Do you see what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 1>Like sometimes guys just plant the seed one night and

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<v Speaker 1>then they come back on another night, Like girls would

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<v Speaker 1>be just like cool, free drinks. Now, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to ever talk to this guy like, yeah, they're interested.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a great play on it, that's all I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you. I'm not saying he didn't do it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a great Yeah. We haven't spoken to Brad yet. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how smooth he is. But we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>to the bottom of this. We're gonna call him right

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<v Speaker 1>now and see what he has to say. Are you ready? Wela?

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<v Speaker 1>I am so ready. Here we go down you right now. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Brad? Yeah, that's sim Who's this? My name's

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff from a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning, a show that you're kind of on now. Welcome,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show, Brad. Okay, we're doing a segment

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<v Speaker 1>here called a second Date Update, and we're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help one of our listeners get a hold of you

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<v Speaker 1>after you went out on a date with them. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>you are the star today. Is this a joke? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on here? No? Seriously, there's a woman that

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<v Speaker 1>reached out hoping to get ahold of you. Her name's Wayla.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember her? Oh? Yeah, she said you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>been texting but just things have cooled off and to her,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe doesn't feel like you want to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, okay, is she reading that right? Oh? Well, god,

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<v Speaker 1>this sort of a weird situation. Um. Wait, so you

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<v Speaker 1>talked Touela. Yes, we did. We spoke to her a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about your date and she told us you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went to a dive bar and yeah, had a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice time. She did mention a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>awkwardness that happened in the middle though, there's some drama. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a man. This is a really sort of

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<v Speaker 1>complicated and weird situation. Jeffrey, did you call it? Brad?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you? Okay, we know that there were some other

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<v Speaker 1>girls that were trying to charge money onto your car.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know those girls? Oh? No, absolutely not. I

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<v Speaker 1>did not know them. Okay, but did you really know them? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>no, no no, no, I where to god? I did not

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<v Speaker 1>know them. Okay? Did you want did you want to

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<v Speaker 1>get to know them and that's why you let them

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<v Speaker 1>put the drinks on your tab while you were on

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<v Speaker 1>a date? No? No, no, no, no, it wasn't. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like that at all. Um, what was it like? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this has happened before at that bar. Wait, so you've

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<v Speaker 1>been because it was your suggestion to go that bar.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a place you hang out at, right right? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>my ex girlfriend is the bartend. What oh choosed to

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<v Speaker 1>go there? Wow? Hi Brad? Oh wow, I'm well I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that wayla? Yeah? He who was supposed to wait

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<v Speaker 1>until we call her in? But we have questions about

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<v Speaker 1>the ex girlfriend, like why would you why would you

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<v Speaker 1>bring a date to that bar? Well? I all right,

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<v Speaker 1>because the bar is a cool bar and I really

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy hanging out there and it was like convenient because

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<v Speaker 1>it was in the middle of for both of us

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't know. I don't know my ex's schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know when she's working and not working. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the thing. My ex works there, and she

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<v Speaker 1>she does this to screw with me, because you're still

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<v Speaker 1>why do you keep going back if she keeps screwing

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<v Speaker 1>you over? I thought because they have darts, they have

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<v Speaker 1>skee ball, they have a pool table, and they have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of cool things there. Do you know how

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<v Speaker 1>many dive bars exist that have those exact things without

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy ex girlfriend? I thought, for sure, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, no, my ex and I are cool

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<v Speaker 1>and we're all super confused by what's happening, So can

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<v Speaker 1>you explain what's going on? Okay, So what was going

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<v Speaker 1>on is my ex does this to me. So she'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell people at the bar if I'm in there and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on a date, She'll say, Hey, you see that

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<v Speaker 1>guy over there, he's buying everybody around the drink? Why

0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:43.040
<v Speaker 1>would you even grew with me there? Then, Like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so embarrassing for me. Yeah, and I'm I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't mean for that sort of situation to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I really apologize you. I know, when you walk into

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<v Speaker 1>the bar and you see that your ex is there,

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<v Speaker 1>you should just turn around and you go to a

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<v Speaker 1>different ball. Well, I felt that would have been even worse.

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<v Speaker 1>And if I would have explained to her the situation

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<v Speaker 1>at the time, like, that's just too much information for

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, Brad, when you saying that would be

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<v Speaker 1>even worse, You're just saying, then, how would I make

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<v Speaker 1>my ex jealous if I couldn't bring the date there? Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's going on a lot of other girls night though,

0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.920
<v Speaker 1>MVP for free drinks. I mean is neither of you

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<v Speaker 1>sound over it if she's still like trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>revenge on you by putting strangers drinks on your tab

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<v Speaker 1>and you're bringing dates to her bar, like the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing sounds messy, Brad, Wow, exactly, And you know what

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<v Speaker 1>you you don't even know me. Like what would have

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<v Speaker 1>been even funnier is if you said, let's go here

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<v Speaker 1>and we could have uske with her, like we could

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<v Speaker 1>have turned the tables on her, charge the drinks onto

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<v Speaker 1>her tab. She doesn't fraud, that's you're that you were

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<v Speaker 1>open to the idea, but they kind of like that

0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:08.199
<v Speaker 1>openly flirting in front of her or you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think. I mean, what's the situation now with you

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<v Speaker 1>and your ex? Brad? Like, did you talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>about this? Do you tell her like please like stop

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<v Speaker 1>doing this where it gets a little weird? And yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we we did talk a couple of days after the

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<v Speaker 1>date and oh god, I don't know how to say this. So, um,

0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:32.680
<v Speaker 1>she wants to get back together, but I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be. I don't want to be. I'm not in

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<v Speaker 1>the point right now where I want to be exclusive

0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:40.880
<v Speaker 1>with that. I'm not at that point. So I just

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<v Speaker 1>and again, I don't know how to say this to Wuela,

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<v Speaker 1>but now thanks a lot, I'm telling her right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're you're kind of halfway getting back together with

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<v Speaker 1>your ex seeing each other. No, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>get back together with my ex. And it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>I really like Wuela and I really would like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her again. But I feel like at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, I just kind of I don't know, Brett,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't really like a girl and then bring her

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<v Speaker 1>to your ex girlfriend's bar. It just you can't have

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<v Speaker 1>those two things. Yeah, you should not want to be

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<v Speaker 1>around your ex. Well, I brought other dates there when

0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:17.960
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't work there, and it's gone great. Because it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you were a lot of first dates, not

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of second too. I feel bad, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you've been on a lot of dates recently or

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<v Speaker 1>what I don't like why is that I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>why that's a bad thing. It's not, it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing. It just sounds like you you are just

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<v Speaker 1>a hot mess. Like the whole situation, I can't a compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>I think jealous. And then the dates you're clearly trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make your ex jealous. That's what you're doing if

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<v Speaker 1>you keep bringing girls there like very clear. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what would make her super jealous is if you went

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<v Speaker 1>on another date with Wayla I don't know, and we

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<v Speaker 1>would pay for that date, not everybody else's tab. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>put the drinks on our tap. I mean, if Wayla

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<v Speaker 1>wants to, I'd be up. What do you think do

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<v Speaker 1>you want? Do you want to help him get back

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<v Speaker 1>at his ex by going on another date with him?

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<v Speaker 1>Right in her face? I feel like Wayla's answer is

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<v Speaker 1>solely resting on how hot Brad is. Yeah, right now, Honestly,

0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:25.280
<v Speaker 1>I have so much more fun with my dog and

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<v Speaker 1>also put everything on my tab, So no saying oh well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's your loss. Actually, I think I think what we

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<v Speaker 1>should do is everyone on the show should go to

0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:41.360
<v Speaker 1>this bar. Let's do I mean just trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>free drinks? Thanks Brad. Well, you know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm going to be there or not broken Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Oh mean, I definitely did not see

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<v Speaker 1>that ending coming. No, no, no, But like my stepfather

0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:09.080
<v Speaker 1>Tea Pain once said, it's all about the bartender. You've

0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:14.359
<v Speaker 1>been waiting for that for a minute. Yeah, yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>cueing it back. I thought it was a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>weird when Brooke heard that the bartender was charging drinks

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<v Speaker 1>on the ex's card in Brookshead. Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>love her. It's kind of genius. If he's no, If

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<v Speaker 1>you are a bartender and your ex keeps coming in

0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:33.399
<v Speaker 1>with different dates, he deserves it. If it was a

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<v Speaker 1>guy charging money onto a girl's cart, you never would

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<v Speaker 1>have said the girl honest. You never would have said

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<v Speaker 1>yes exactly, thank you for being honest. If the girl

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<v Speaker 1>kept coming in showing off dates in front of her ex,

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<v Speaker 1>then she deserves it. Absolutely. It's just his favorite spot.

0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:53.960
<v Speaker 1>They have ski Ball. No, that's they have his ex.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's that was really funny though, because he look,

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<v Speaker 1>I have ski Ball in this and Alex has made

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<v Speaker 1>of the best comment, like every dive bar ever had

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<v Speaker 1>all those Well, I don't know, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>I feel about it. I guess I'm not that sad

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<v Speaker 1>that they didn't go out. You can't feel bad for him.

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel a little bad, oh, because he loves

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<v Speaker 1>the place. Oh, you are so naive. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to get a second date update, you

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<v Speaker 1>can email us we'll call the person who isn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back.