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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Hey, guys, how are you old?

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Speaker 1: This like just in picturing you like calling for a

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Speaker 1: was it his plan or was it your plan to

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Speaker 1: Jeff exactly. Okay, Yeah, so it was just this, you know,

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Speaker 1: This is the drama. I don't know if it's drama. Um, well, okay,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Brad. Okay, we're doing a segment

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Speaker 1: after you went out on a date with them. Really,

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Speaker 1: what's going on here? No? Seriously, there's a woman that

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Speaker 1: go there? Wow? Hi Brad? Oh wow, I'm well I'm sorry?

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Speaker 1: that's going on a lot of other girls night though,

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Speaker 1: thing sounds messy, Brad, Wow, exactly, And you know what

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Speaker 1: solely resting on how hot Brad is. Yeah, right now, Honestly,

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Speaker 1: They have ski Ball. No, that's they have his ex.

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