1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: This is from Janelle in Virginia Beach Steve. She says, 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: I was dating a guy that worked for my dad 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: and my dad told him to break up with me. 4 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: I went to my dad and politely asked him to 5 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: stay out of my affairs, and I reminded him that 6 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 1: I'm grown. My dad said that it is in my 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 1: best interest to stop dating my guy, but he wouldn't 8 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: tell me why my ex and I are so in love. 9 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: But he said he has to respect my dad. Why 10 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: is he allowing my dad to break up our relationship 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: because his. 12 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: Dad got his money. 13 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: Or her dad. 14 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, your daddy got his money for the dad. Your 15 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 2: daddy got his check the next one. If he cut 16 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: that off, If he don't do what did Daddy say, 17 00:00:52,600 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 2: he lose his job. Now, what you really need to 18 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,959 Speaker 2: do is ask your father why is he so insistent? 19 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 2: And I stop saying stay out your business because he 20 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: in it. He could be in it for a reason, 21 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 2: and your boyfriend or whoever, your ex or whatever you 22 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 2: call it him could know that your father knows some 23 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: stuff about him and it's best that you don't know. 24 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 2: If this is the brooch you should take. You used 25 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: to say, Dad, can I have a really really honest 26 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: conversation with me, with you, and he's gonna say, yeah, baby, 27 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 2: tell me exactly why I need to stop seeing him 28 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 2: and just tell me the truth, dad, so I can know. Well, 29 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 2: he got a whole nother family. The boy manly got 30 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 2: four kids over here. Because I have seen the pictures 31 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: that I and the child supposed to come out of 32 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 2: his chair, but he still live with the woman. Now 33 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 2: that's why I ain't want you to know that, baby girl. 34 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 2: But that's it, and that's what makes sense. 35 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: All right, Moving on, we do have time for another one. 36 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: This is from Lathan in Springfield. Lathan says, I brought 37 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: it to my wife's attention that we both have gained 38 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: weight and we need to start working out together. I 39 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: overheard her telling her girlfriend that I think she's getting 40 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: fat and she needs to work out. I told her 41 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: that's not what I said. I said we need to 42 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: work out. I said it because I love her, So 43 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 1: how could she be upset? Was I wrong? 44 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: Because she no? You just said we because you wanted 45 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 2: it to be huh all from brun bruh is no 46 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 2: way you can fix this. The moment you approached her 47 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: about her weight. This was going to be the reaction 48 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 2: as she went to her girl. But now here's a 49 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 2: good thing. When they take it to the girl, they 50 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: opened it and for discussion, she's considering it. Girl. He 51 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 2: told me I was fat and I need to lose weight. 52 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 2: Because that's the part she hurt. She didn't she didn't 53 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 2: hear the part where you said, look, baby, we gain weight. 54 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 2: We need to start going to the gym. Because you 55 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: know really that you just said the we so you 56 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 2: could soften the blow, and so it's nothing you could. 57 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: You can't get this back. 58 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, ay for a man to just even mention weight. 59 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 2: I don't even have a weight. I don't even have 60 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 2: a suggestion, no way to bring it up. I just 61 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 2: leave it alone. 62 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: You can't say, have I gained a couple of pounds? 63 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: You think I've gained put on a couple of pounds. 64 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 2: I don't see that. 65 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: The smart man. 66 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 2: Talking to yourself, and you been talking to yourself. You 67 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:57,839 Speaker 2: know you didn't gain three How you ain't gained no weight. 68 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 2: You can't wear nothing you used to last week. 69 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: Come on. 70 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 2: Last week, Come on. 71 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: There inside thoughts that shall all these sad thoughts. 72 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 2: I tell you what you can't do, like for Valentine's 73 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 2: that you can't get it Valentine's Day, you cannot get here. 74 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 2: No track shoes. Don't do that. I've done it. I've 75 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: done that before. Oh yeah, I bought a girl some 76 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: track shoes for 77 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 1: Valentine's you're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.