Speaker 1: Second date update. We're going to do a fun little
Speaker 1: experiment here that's exciting. Before you got together with your husband, mikeel,
Speaker 1: think about the last couple guys before him that you dated.
Speaker 1: I need you to rate them based on their attractiveness.
Speaker 1: Just simply one to ten.
Speaker 2: The last two, Oh, they're both well, no, okay, one
Speaker 2: of us.
Speaker 1: They're changing in your head.
Speaker 2: I'd give one of them an eight, and then i'd
Speaker 2: give one of the other ones when he showered five.
Speaker 1: Unshowered, I.
Speaker 3: Had really greasy hair.
Speaker 1: Now, a recent study says if you average out the
Speaker 1: numbers of your exes, that is what society deems your
Speaker 1: number is, so Brooke, you would be a solid five.
Speaker 2: Wow. I don't actually argue that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I didn't think you would. It's like you
Speaker 1: are what you eat, you are who you've dated. And
Speaker 1: one of our listeners may be dealing with a numbers
Speaker 1: crisis in his dating life. His name and I apologize
Speaker 1: if I pronounced this wrong. Is it Thom t h
Speaker 1: O M.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's an h.
Speaker 1: Hey guys, So, according to your email, it says that
Speaker 1: before the date, you considered yourself to be a six,
Speaker 1: but afterwards you consider yourself a four. Now, why why
Speaker 1: do you feel that way? Did you fall face down
Speaker 1: on an escalator? What's going on?
Speaker 4: No? No, I mean when I went out with her,
Speaker 4: I thought she was a six easily, but she's like
Speaker 4: not calling me back, So now I'm thinking I'm a four.
Speaker 1: You know you you can't lock down a six? Then?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What is that?
Speaker 2: We just like put it out there that no woman,
Speaker 2: no matter where you actually think they stand, should ever
Speaker 2: be called anything but a seven or eight.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, yeah, at least not to their face. But
Speaker 1: she's not on the phone right now, so we're what
Speaker 1: do you think you failed?
Speaker 4: I have absolutely no idea. I mean, look, I didn't
Speaker 4: put in like a ton of effort.
Speaker 2: Maybe that was It's one big clue there.
Speaker 1: I don't know what her name is? Yeah, do you
Speaker 1: know what her name is? Do we put that much
Speaker 1: effort in?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Tory to is it Torri or is it Tory with an?
Speaker 1: It's just yeah, okay, where did you meet Tory?
Speaker 4: Dating app? Which I normally it was. It was weird,
Speaker 4: Like I normally I kind of aim higher, I'm going
Speaker 4: after seven to eight? Hear, No, you gotta wait listen.
Speaker 4: I mean that was the thing I've been like kind
Speaker 4: of going after these sort of I guess aesthetically more
Speaker 4: beautiful women, but it wasn't really working. So I was
Speaker 4: kind of like, well, you know, I'll go out with
Speaker 4: this girl. It's probably six.
Speaker 2: I feel you do you always think of people on
Speaker 2: this rating scale?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, all men think that way. Surprise flash.
Speaker 1: We think beautiful women are beautiful.
Speaker 2: Different. That's different than rating every single person. You mean, okay,
Speaker 2: so here's my question.
Speaker 1: Women do this. I know women rate guys.
Speaker 2: I don't rate people in my head, like, yes, I
Speaker 2: find them attractive or not attractive, for sure, but I
Speaker 2: don't play.
Speaker 1: Was one of your boyfriends was the only one? You
Speaker 1: don't rate people? Okay? I guess you.
Speaker 2: Can.
Speaker 1: I just ask them a question, go ahead.
Speaker 2: I'm curious because it doesn't sound like you are attracted
Speaker 2: to this woman, and it doesn't sound like you're interested.
Speaker 2: Why are you calling us to getting in.
Speaker 1: Touch with her?
Speaker 4: I mean it's not as if I wasn't unattracted to her.
Speaker 4: I mean we were definitely getting along.
Speaker 2: I guess people you keep a he's being rejected and
Speaker 2: he hates.
Speaker 1: It, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like, it's what you can't have things.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, look, we just went to
Speaker 4: like a dive bar. It wasn't like we did some
Speaker 4: big fancy dinner. I wasn't exactly willing to spend a
Speaker 4: lot of money on it. But I don't know.
Speaker 1: If she was a seven or eight, then you would
Speaker 1: have gone the extra mile and like paid it.
Speaker 4: I probably would have.
Speaker 1: Okay, I think that's for you.
Speaker 2: Were you nice to her when you were on the.
Speaker 1: Day, I'm being serious.
Speaker 3: Did you compliment her a little bit?
Speaker 4: I mean, if we hung out and we laughed every
Speaker 4: once in a while, it was kind of cool. The
Speaker 4: one thing that was kind.
Speaker 1: Of strange, I guess after.
Speaker 4: We had been drinking a little bit, like went to
Speaker 4: the bathroom and I came back and I was going
Speaker 4: to give her like a surprise hug, but she was
Speaker 4: she was sitting down on a bar stool, and I
Speaker 4: kind of like gave her a hug from behind, and
Speaker 4: it was almost like I got her in like a
Speaker 4: little headlog.
Speaker 1: You're standing up and she's sitting, So, yeah, isn't right
Speaker 1: really put her in a hand?
Speaker 2: No, my husband's height. It's like whenever he hugs me
Speaker 2: from behind, it is literally like a chokehold.
Speaker 1: And I hate it. I hate it so much. Did
Speaker 1: you let go? After thirty seconds? Consciousness? Literally false sleep?
Speaker 4: I gave her like a little nuggie, you know, kind
Speaker 4: of thing.
Speaker 2: Like are you joking? No, that's a joke.
Speaker 4: No, it was just like stupid quick thing.
Speaker 1: That's a little friend. Okay.
Speaker 2: I would never call a man. I don't care if
Speaker 2: he was a twenty on what other scale you're working on.
Speaker 1: And gave me a noogie. Okay, but you're a brook,
Speaker 1: You're a five. You don't get to choose like that.
Speaker 1: We're talking about it.
Speaker 2: I went what was her response to the new gie?
Speaker 4: Yeah, look, she seems startled at first, but we had
Speaker 4: been drinking, so it kind of she just brushed it
Speaker 4: off and we just got back to talking.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: I'm sure when she realized it was you, everything.
Speaker 2: Was okay, and her mood didn't change, like shouldn't become
Speaker 2: more icy or cold towards you?
Speaker 4: And now, to be honest, I didn't really notice because
Speaker 4: I was sort of like not as interested anymore. I
Speaker 4: suld have lost the desire to taken any further.
Speaker 2: I was like, eh, whatever, am trying to be a
Speaker 2: jerk right now.
Speaker 4: No, Look, I mean I'm being honest with you. That's
Speaker 4: totally how it was. On the date, I was just
Speaker 4: like not into it. But then when I got home,
Speaker 4: it was like I realized, out of all the dates
Speaker 4: I've been on and all the dates that I don't like,
Speaker 4: I kind of liked her the most was that she.
Speaker 2: Was the best of the worst, right right, Okay, Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm really concerned with myself that I followed that.
Speaker 1: Position that some of us have been in many many times. So, okay,
Speaker 1: how long has it been since your date with Toy?
Speaker 4: Then it's been a week, Okay.
Speaker 2: Have you tried to put any effort in since it
Speaker 2: doesn't sound like you put any in it initially?
Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean, look, I waited about four days. Then
Speaker 4: I called once. I didn't leave a message or anything.
Speaker 4: I just hung up, and then I texted her after that.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, And they say dead Well, some people might
Speaker 1: think they're coming on a little bit strong. Let it
Speaker 1: ring once, broing. But we'll see how Tory feels because
Speaker 1: we're going to come back. We'll call her directly.
Speaker 2: I'm actually really excited to hear her opinion of this
Speaker 2: situation and maybe.
Speaker 1: We'll maybe we'll have her rate you see if you.
Speaker 2: Guys strongbody, and then we'll rate everybody in this room.
Speaker 1: We're gonna come back and not healthy. It's a rape
Speaker 1: fast when we come back for your second date update.
Speaker 5: Right after this second date update, we've got an interesting
Speaker 5: situation on our hands here with one of our listeners
Speaker 5: Thumb spelled like Tom but with an h in there,
Speaker 5: and to a few of us on the show, it
Speaker 5: sounds like he only wants another date with this woman
Speaker 5: Tory because he's kind of bored or.
Speaker 2: He's being rejected and hates that. I can't decide which
Speaker 2: He doesn't.
Speaker 1: Seem that into her, at least according to some people
Speaker 1: in this.
Speaker 2: Room, according to him.
Speaker 1: To me, he said that, well, I don't know how
Speaker 1: he feels personally. It sounds like he is passionately in
Speaker 1: love that's trying to play at koils.
Speaker 2: He told us that he was being honest like eight times, so.
Speaker 1: I don't know that's what a koy person would say.
Speaker 1: That tricked me to true because there really weren't a
Speaker 1: lot of highlights to cover from their dive bar hangout,
Speaker 1: except for when he tried to hug her from behind
Speaker 1: and accidentally put her into a mini headlock. That's a
Speaker 1: huge highlight. I mean I'm more a low light for her.
Speaker 1: It's kind of playful flirtiness there. It's not well to
Speaker 1: some it could be almost like the I do kiss.
Speaker 1: It's very cute and romantic potential for it. Anyway, we're
Speaker 1: hoping to help cure Thomb of his you know, eternal
Speaker 1: bordness and get him another date with here Brooke. Is
Speaker 1: there anything disparaging you'd like to say to Thumb before
Speaker 1: we begin here?
Speaker 3: I feel like I covered it all.
Speaker 1: Anything left?
Speaker 2: Yeah? What I want to ask Skim is if he
Speaker 2: is going to be embarrassed if he gets rejected on
Speaker 2: the radio.
Speaker 4: No, honestly, not really. Okay, no pressure.
Speaker 1: I mean she's already basically rejecting you as it is.
Speaker 1: Sure can't be rejected.
Speaker 4: I don't know how you know how much else I
Speaker 4: can worry about that if it happens.
Speaker 2: Okay, well usual, So you just don't care about that either, Okay,
Speaker 2: we're just full apathetic.
Speaker 1: I can sense the passion in Tom's voice, Racer, Sorry,
Speaker 1: tom My bad? What if I'm just killing time with
Speaker 1: us right now?
Speaker 2: He's like, Man, I'm kind of bored.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna call this maybe. Well, let's get it done.
Speaker 1: We'll see what she asked to say. I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: her number right now.
Speaker 4: You ready, you guys, are you asking me that?
Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah, okay, never mind, let me just focus on
Speaker 1: Tori here.
Speaker 2: Okay, so many emails and this is the one we
Speaker 2: chose to do.
Speaker 1: I mean, Brook, we're not going to turn down the
Speaker 1: chance to interview a hard four on his dating life. Admit,
Speaker 1: So here we go. This is for Tho.
Speaker 4: Let's call her.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Tory.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is her.
Speaker 2: No, it is a dumb joke.
Speaker 1: Tory, what's up? You're on the radio with Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Hey, Torri, Hi, it's weird.
Speaker 2: You know it's gonna get a lot weirder a second.
Speaker 1: We don't know that for sure. We do want to
Speaker 1: try into your personal life, just the tiniest bit and
Speaker 1: ask you about a date that you went on the
Speaker 1: other day with a guy named thomb.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: You probably met a lot of thombs, so this one, uh,
Speaker 1: he was the one that took you to a dive bar.
Speaker 3: Yeah thomb Okay, I remember him?
Speaker 2: Okay, weird he's weird or it's weird that we're calling.
Speaker 3: No, it's weird that you're it's weird that you're calling me.
Speaker 1: Well, we're just trying to ask in general, how you
Speaker 1: felt about the date and how you felt about thomb himself.
Speaker 3: I don't know, he's okay, Okay, fine, Okay.
Speaker 2: You're going to ask you alexis on a scale.
Speaker 1: Let's not let's not go to that's just weird.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that it's weird.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I see.
Speaker 1: What you want to ask, Like, we want to get
Speaker 1: a sense of how you really feel about Thom. Is
Speaker 1: there like a chance that there might be another meetup? Maybe?
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess he did like text me. I
Speaker 3: just I never texted him back. Like it was a
Speaker 3: fine day. I mean, I didn't really seem like he
Speaker 3: wanted to be there, but like I didn't really want
Speaker 3: to be there either, So.
Speaker 2: Okay, why didn't you want.
Speaker 3: To be there? I mean, it wasn't like a bad date,
Speaker 3: It just wasn't a great day. I don't know. I
Speaker 3: guess I've been like going back and forth on how
Speaker 3: I feel about him. Okay, Like part of me is
Speaker 3: like I can probably do better. Then there's another part
Speaker 3: of me that's like, is it even worth trying to
Speaker 3: find somebody else? You know, like, don't settle.
Speaker 1: Don't settle for bro is our listener. He's asked us
Speaker 1: for help. I don't want him to settle either. He also,
Speaker 1: I just you didn't say that to him? Okay, to
Speaker 1: her Tory.
Speaker 2: Is there any highlights or low lights, any moments from
Speaker 2: the date that really stand out to you?
Speaker 3: I mean not not really, like I haven't even really
Speaker 3: thought about him.
Speaker 1: What do you mean you haven't thought about him?
Speaker 3: I don't know, just like you know, you have an experience,
Speaker 3: it's like eh, and then you just kind of like
Speaker 3: go about your life and don't give it much attention.
Speaker 1: Maybe no highlights is a highlight? Like that's actually in
Speaker 1: itself that's interesting.
Speaker 4: I mean, wait, are you guys asking me.
Speaker 1: That the similarities are actually pretty striking? I know that's
Speaker 1: confusing me.
Speaker 4: I seem like.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see the fireworks that explode out
Speaker 1: of a comp when we tell you, toy that thumb
Speaker 1: is actually on the other line right now listening to
Speaker 1: this conversation. Oh yeah, and he wants he wants to
Speaker 1: jump in and talk to you.
Speaker 4: Huh hey, yeah, that stuff.
Speaker 1: So we're just going to back away and let you
Speaker 1: two love birds talk this out.
Speaker 3: Go ahead, Madic Sorry, I mean, I I don't want
Speaker 3: to like hurt your feelings. I'm just being honest, Like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, I just didn't feel like it was
Speaker 3: that special. Really, no offense to you, like you're a
Speaker 3: nice guy.
Speaker 4: I mean, look, no offense taken. I agree, it was.
Speaker 4: It was fine. It's not like we we didn't hate
Speaker 4: each other, you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I don't know. I mean I guess, like
Speaker 3: I said, I'm like going back and forth. Part of
Speaker 3: me is like, yeah, why not? It was like fine,
Speaker 3: And then the other part of me is just like
Speaker 3: he's not even on my mind at all that we
Speaker 3: even went out, you know.
Speaker 2: Is this where dating's at?
Speaker 1: Is this what's happening here?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean, look, I appreciate the honesty, and I'll
Speaker 4: be honest with you. I mean I kind of only
Speaker 4: thought about you when this radio show came on. They
Speaker 4: sort of asked me if I wanted to do the
Speaker 4: second date call.
Speaker 3: So I mean that's fair, that's totally fair. Like I
Speaker 3: think back on their days, there's nothing like special about
Speaker 3: our date, you know, like I get it weird, Like
Speaker 3: that's what I kind of liked about it, Like the
Speaker 3: lack of interest, like there was no drama and like
Speaker 3: that's kind of not bad.
Speaker 2: That was actually the most positive thing that I've heard
Speaker 2: any of them.
Speaker 1: Say, the most romantic things I've spoken on the show.
Speaker 3: Are you guys attracted to each other?
Speaker 1: I thought, very long, thought, I think you guys are
Speaker 1: actually perfect for each other. You're madly in love and
Speaker 1: you just don't care enough yet the bar is set
Speaker 1: so so low for both of you, not even that
Speaker 1: this might actually work.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there is a bar. I think the
Speaker 2: bar is left.
Speaker 1: Well, let's find out for sure, because Toy, we love
Speaker 1: to offer you another date with Thom, and we would
Speaker 1: pay for that date if you're willing to see him
Speaker 1: one more time.
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess, like the dating apps are just
Speaker 3: so bad right now, Like I don't know if you
Speaker 3: guys are on there, but there's just like herves and
Speaker 3: weirdos and like I had like a group of three
Speaker 3: things they wanted to add a fourth one time. It's
Speaker 3: just like rocks out there. So I guess, yeah, like
Speaker 3: why not it doesn't like her to do another one.
Speaker 1: All right, well, Tom, well, hold on, Brooke, he may
Speaker 1: have changed his mind. Let's ask him, Tom, are you
Speaker 1: still up for this?
Speaker 4: I mean, I think it's great. I mean I'll take
Speaker 4: a pre date, all right.
Speaker 1: I'll take And why not? How much worse can it gets?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 4: What the heck?
Speaker 1: Well, congratulate I don't even want to congratulate you. It
Speaker 1: doesn't feel like it deserves a congratulations. It's like I have.
Speaker 2: Never been so depressed at the end of a second date.
Speaker 1: Now it's officially my favorite second date we've ever done.
Speaker 1: Now that book's depressed, good works, You're going out one
Speaker 1: more time?
Speaker 4: Good luck?
Speaker 3: Are we done.
Speaker 1: Woking Jeffrey in the morning? Why do I feel like
Speaker 1: this is gonna be one of our highest rated second
Speaker 1: date calls of all time? Tory and Thomb.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with that. I don't agree with you.
Speaker 1: Are you in twenty years? Yeah? I feel like we're
Speaker 1: all going to look back in this moment and say, Wow,
Speaker 1: Tory and Thomb were couple's goals. I mean, forget Zendaya
Speaker 1: and Tom Holland and Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively given
Speaker 1: me Thomb and Tory for the relationship. They clicked so
Speaker 1: hard that you realize yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, sure.
Speaker 2: If that's what you want to believe in, is this
Speaker 2: type of love, then.
Speaker 1: I don't be jealous because you'll never feel the type
Speaker 1: of love that was exploding between them. You know what
Speaker 1: they say. Sometimes fireworks are silent.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't wait until there's a marriage proposal.
Speaker 2: It's like, so, I don't know. I was thinking, like,
Speaker 2: if you wanted to, yeah, sure, that's fine, and she's like.
Speaker 1: Who are you again? Remember if you ever want to
Speaker 1: get a second date up, they can always email the show.
Speaker 1: We'll call that person who isn't calling you back, even if.
Speaker 2: You don't really want one, yes, kind of maybe one.
Speaker 1: Just bor will help you out. It's broken Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning.