WEBVTT - Second Date Update: You, Me & Apathy

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. We're going to do a fun little

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<v Speaker 1>experiment here that's exciting. Before you got together with your husband, mikeel,

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<v Speaker 1>think about the last couple guys before him that you dated.

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<v Speaker 1>I need you to rate them based on their attractiveness.

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<v Speaker 1>Just simply one to ten.

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<v Speaker 2>The last two, Oh, they're both well, no, okay, one

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<v Speaker 2>of us.

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<v Speaker 1>They're changing in your head.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd give one of them an eight, and then i'd

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<v Speaker 2>give one of the other ones when he showered five.

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<v Speaker 1>Unshowered, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Had really greasy hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, a recent study says if you average out the

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<v Speaker 1>numbers of your exes, that is what society deems your

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<v Speaker 1>number is, so Brooke, you would be a solid five.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. I don't actually argue that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I didn't think you would. It's like you

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<v Speaker 1>are what you eat, you are who you've dated. And

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners may be dealing with a numbers

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<v Speaker 1>crisis in his dating life. His name and I apologize

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<v Speaker 1>if I pronounced this wrong. Is it Thom t h

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<v Speaker 1>O M.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there's an h.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, So, according to your email, it says that

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<v Speaker 1>before the date, you considered yourself to be a six,

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<v Speaker 1>but afterwards you consider yourself a four. Now, why why

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel that way? Did you fall face down

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<v Speaker 1>on an escalator? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>No? No, I mean when I went out with her,

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<v Speaker 4>I thought she was a six easily, but she's like

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<v Speaker 4>not calling me back, So now I'm thinking I'm a four.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you you can't lock down a six? Then?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that?

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<v Speaker 2>We just like put it out there that no woman,

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<v Speaker 2>no matter where you actually think they stand, should ever

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<v Speaker 2>be called anything but a seven or eight.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, yeah, at least not to their face. But

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<v Speaker 1>she's not on the phone right now, so we're what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think you failed?

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<v Speaker 4>I have absolutely no idea. I mean, look, I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>put in like a ton of effort.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that was It's one big clue there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what her name is? Yeah, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what her name is? Do we put that much

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<v Speaker 1>effort in?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Tory to is it Torri or is it Tory with an?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just yeah, okay, where did you meet Tory?

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<v Speaker 4>Dating app? Which I normally it was. It was weird,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I normally I kind of aim higher, I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>after seven to eight? Hear, No, you gotta wait listen.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that was the thing I've been like kind

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<v Speaker 4>of going after these sort of I guess aesthetically more

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful women, but it wasn't really working. So I was

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<v Speaker 4>kind of like, well, you know, I'll go out with

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<v Speaker 4>this girl. It's probably six.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel you do you always think of people on

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<v Speaker 2>this rating scale?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, all men think that way. Surprise flash.

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<v Speaker 1>We think beautiful women are beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Different. That's different than rating every single person. You mean, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so here's my question.

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<v Speaker 1>Women do this. I know women rate guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't rate people in my head, like, yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>find them attractive or not attractive, for sure, but I

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<v Speaker 2>don't play.

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<v Speaker 1>Was one of your boyfriends was the only one? You

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<v Speaker 1>don't rate people? Okay? I guess you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can.

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<v Speaker 1>I just ask them a question, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious because it doesn't sound like you are attracted

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<v Speaker 2>to this woman, and it doesn't sound like you're interested.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you calling us to getting in.

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<v Speaker 1>Touch with her?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's not as if I wasn't unattracted to her.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we were definitely getting along.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess people you keep a he's being rejected and

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<v Speaker 2>he hates.

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<v Speaker 1>It, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, it's what you can't have things.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I mean, look, we just went to

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<v Speaker 4>like a dive bar. It wasn't like we did some

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<v Speaker 4>big fancy dinner. I wasn't exactly willing to spend a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of money on it. But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>If she was a seven or eight, then you would

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<v Speaker 1>have gone the extra mile and like paid it.

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<v Speaker 4>I probably would have.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I think that's for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you nice to her when you were on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Day, I'm being serious.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you compliment her a little bit?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if we hung out and we laughed every

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<v Speaker 4>once in a while, it was kind of cool. The

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<v Speaker 4>one thing that was kind.

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<v Speaker 1>Of strange, I guess after.

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<v Speaker 4>We had been drinking a little bit, like went to

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<v Speaker 4>the bathroom and I came back and I was going

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<v Speaker 4>to give her like a surprise hug, but she was

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<v Speaker 4>she was sitting down on a bar stool, and I

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<v Speaker 4>kind of like gave her a hug from behind, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was almost like I got her in like a

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<v Speaker 4>little headlog.

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<v Speaker 1>You're standing up and she's sitting, So, yeah, isn't right

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<v Speaker 1>really put her in a hand?

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<v Speaker 2>No, my husband's height. It's like whenever he hugs me

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<v Speaker 2>from behind, it is literally like a chokehold.

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<v Speaker 1>And I hate it. I hate it so much. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you let go? After thirty seconds? Consciousness? Literally false sleep?

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<v Speaker 4>I gave her like a little nuggie, you know, kind

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<v Speaker 4>of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like are you joking? No, that's a joke.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it was just like stupid quick thing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a little friend. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I would never call a man. I don't care if

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<v Speaker 2>he was a twenty on what other scale you're working on.

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<v Speaker 1>And gave me a noogie. Okay, but you're a brook,

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<v Speaker 1>You're a five. You don't get to choose like that.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I went what was her response to the new gie?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, look, she seems startled at first, but we had

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<v Speaker 4>been drinking, so it kind of she just brushed it

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<v Speaker 4>off and we just got back to talking.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure when she realized it was you, everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Was okay, and her mood didn't change, like shouldn't become

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<v Speaker 2>more icy or cold towards you?

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<v Speaker 4>And now, to be honest, I didn't really notice because

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<v Speaker 4>I was sort of like not as interested anymore. I

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<v Speaker 4>suld have lost the desire to taken any further.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, eh, whatever, am trying to be a

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<v Speaker 2>jerk right now.

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<v Speaker 4>No, Look, I mean I'm being honest with you. That's

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<v Speaker 4>totally how it was. On the date, I was just

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<v Speaker 4>like not into it. But then when I got home,

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<v Speaker 4>it was like I realized, out of all the dates

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<v Speaker 4>I've been on and all the dates that I don't like,

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of liked her the most was that she.

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<v Speaker 2>Was the best of the worst, right right, Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really concerned with myself that I followed that.

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<v Speaker 1>Position that some of us have been in many many times. So, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how long has it been since your date with Toy?

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<v Speaker 4>Then it's been a week, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you tried to put any effort in since it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't sound like you put any in it initially?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I mean, look, I waited about four days. Then

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<v Speaker 4>I called once. I didn't leave a message or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>I just hung up, and then I texted her after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, okay, And they say dead Well, some people might

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<v Speaker 1>think they're coming on a little bit strong. Let it

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<v Speaker 1>ring once, broing. But we'll see how Tory feels because

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to come back. We'll call her directly.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm actually really excited to hear her opinion of this

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<v Speaker 2>situation and maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll maybe we'll have her rate you see if you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys strongbody, and then we'll rate everybody in this room.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna come back and not healthy. It's a rape

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<v Speaker 1>fast when we come back for your second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Right after this second date update, we've got an interesting

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<v Speaker 5>situation on our hands here with one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 5>Thumb spelled like Tom but with an h in there,

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<v Speaker 5>and to a few of us on the show, it

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<v Speaker 5>sounds like he only wants another date with this woman

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<v Speaker 5>Tory because he's kind of bored or.

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<v Speaker 2>He's being rejected and hates that. I can't decide which

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Seem that into her, at least according to some people

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<v Speaker 1>in this.

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<v Speaker 2>Room, according to him.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, he said that, well, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>he feels personally. It sounds like he is passionately in

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<v Speaker 1>love that's trying to play at koils.

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<v Speaker 2>He told us that he was being honest like eight times, so.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that's what a koy person would say.

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<v Speaker 1>That tricked me to true because there really weren't a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of highlights to cover from their dive bar hangout,

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<v Speaker 1>except for when he tried to hug her from behind

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<v Speaker 1>and accidentally put her into a mini headlock. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>huge highlight. I mean I'm more a low light for her.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of playful flirtiness there. It's not well to

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<v Speaker 1>some it could be almost like the I do kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very cute and romantic potential for it. Anyway, we're

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to help cure Thomb of his you know, eternal

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<v Speaker 1>bordness and get him another date with here Brooke. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there anything disparaging you'd like to say to Thumb before

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<v Speaker 1>we begin here?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I covered it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything left?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? What I want to ask Skim is if he

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<v Speaker 2>is going to be embarrassed if he gets rejected on

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<v Speaker 2>the radio.

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<v Speaker 4>No, honestly, not really. Okay, no pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's already basically rejecting you as it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure can't be rejected.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how you know how much else I

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<v Speaker 4>can worry about that if it happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well usual, So you just don't care about that either, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we're just full apathetic.

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<v Speaker 1>I can sense the passion in Tom's voice, Racer, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>tom My bad? What if I'm just killing time with

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<v Speaker 1>us right now?

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, Man, I'm kind of bored.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna call this maybe. Well, let's get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see what she asked to say. I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>her number right now.

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<v Speaker 4>You ready, you guys, are you asking me that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Yeah, okay, never mind, let me just focus on

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<v Speaker 1>Tori here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so many emails and this is the one we

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<v Speaker 2>chose to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Brook, we're not going to turn down the

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<v Speaker 1>chance to interview a hard four on his dating life. Admit,

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<v Speaker 1>So here we go. This is for Tho.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's call her.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Tory.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is her.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it is a dumb joke.

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<v Speaker 1>Tory, what's up? You're on the radio with Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Torri, Hi, it's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>You know it's gonna get a lot weirder a second.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know that for sure. We do want to

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<v Speaker 1>try into your personal life, just the tiniest bit and

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<v Speaker 1>ask you about a date that you went on the

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<v Speaker 1>other day with a guy named thomb.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>You probably met a lot of thombs, so this one, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he was the one that took you to a dive bar.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah thomb Okay, I remember him?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, weird he's weird or it's weird that we're calling.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's weird that you're it's weird that you're calling me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're just trying to ask in general, how you

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<v Speaker 1>felt about the date and how you felt about thomb himself.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, he's okay, Okay, fine, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to ask you alexis on a scale.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not let's not go to that's just weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to hear that it's weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I see.

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<v Speaker 1>What you want to ask, Like, we want to get

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<v Speaker 1>a sense of how you really feel about Thom. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there like a chance that there might be another meetup? Maybe?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I guess he did like text me. I

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<v Speaker 3>just I never texted him back. Like it was a

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<v Speaker 3>fine day. I mean, I didn't really seem like he

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to be there, but like I didn't really want

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<v Speaker 3>to be there either, So.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, why didn't you want.

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<v Speaker 3>To be there? I mean, it wasn't like a bad date,

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<v Speaker 3>It just wasn't a great day. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess I've been like going back and forth on how

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<v Speaker 3>I feel about him. Okay, Like part of me is

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<v Speaker 3>like I can probably do better. Then there's another part

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<v Speaker 3>of me that's like, is it even worth trying to

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<v Speaker 3>find somebody else? You know, like, don't settle.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't settle for bro is our listener. He's asked us

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<v Speaker 1>for help. I don't want him to settle either. He also,

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<v Speaker 1>I just you didn't say that to him? Okay, to

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<v Speaker 1>her Tory.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any highlights or low lights, any moments from

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<v Speaker 2>the date that really stand out to you?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean not not really, like I haven't even really

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<v Speaker 3>thought about him.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean you haven't thought about him?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, just like you know, you have an experience,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like eh, and then you just kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>go about your life and don't give it much attention.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe no highlights is a highlight? Like that's actually in

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<v Speaker 1>itself that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, wait, are you guys asking me.

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<v Speaker 1>That the similarities are actually pretty striking? I know that's

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<v Speaker 1>confusing me.

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<v Speaker 4>I seem like.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to see the fireworks that explode out

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<v Speaker 1>of a comp when we tell you, toy that thumb

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<v Speaker 1>is actually on the other line right now listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation. Oh yeah, and he wants he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>jump in and talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh hey, yeah, that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're just going to back away and let you

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<v Speaker 1>two love birds talk this out.

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<v Speaker 3>Go ahead, Madic Sorry, I mean, I I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to like hurt your feelings. I'm just being honest, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I just didn't feel like it was

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<v Speaker 3>that special. Really, no offense to you, like you're a

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<v Speaker 3>nice guy.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, look, no offense taken. I agree, it was.

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<v Speaker 4>It was fine. It's not like we we didn't hate

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<v Speaker 4>each other, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I don't know. I mean I guess, like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I'm like going back and forth. Part of

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<v Speaker 3>me is like, yeah, why not? It was like fine,

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<v Speaker 3>And then the other part of me is just like

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<v Speaker 3>he's not even on my mind at all that we

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<v Speaker 3>even went out, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this where dating's at?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this what's happening here?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I mean, look, I appreciate the honesty, and I'll

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<v Speaker 4>be honest with you. I mean I kind of only

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<v Speaker 4>thought about you when this radio show came on. They

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<v Speaker 4>sort of asked me if I wanted to do the

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<v Speaker 4>second date call.

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<v Speaker 3>So I mean that's fair, that's totally fair. Like I

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<v Speaker 3>think back on their days, there's nothing like special about

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<v Speaker 3>our date, you know, like I get it weird, Like

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<v Speaker 3>that's what I kind of liked about it, Like the

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<v Speaker 3>lack of interest, like there was no drama and like

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<v Speaker 3>that's kind of not bad.

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<v Speaker 2>That was actually the most positive thing that I've heard

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<v Speaker 2>any of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Say, the most romantic things I've spoken on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you guys attracted to each other?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, very long, thought, I think you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>actually perfect for each other. You're madly in love and

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<v Speaker 1>you just don't care enough yet the bar is set

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<v Speaker 1>so so low for both of you, not even that

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<v Speaker 1>this might actually work.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think there is a bar. I think the

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<v Speaker 2>bar is left.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's find out for sure, because Toy, we love

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<v Speaker 1>to offer you another date with Thom, and we would

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<v Speaker 1>pay for that date if you're willing to see him

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<v Speaker 1>one more time.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I guess, like the dating apps are just

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<v Speaker 3>so bad right now, Like I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 3>guys are on there, but there's just like herves and

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<v Speaker 3>weirdos and like I had like a group of three

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<v Speaker 3>things they wanted to add a fourth one time. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just like rocks out there. So I guess, yeah, like

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<v Speaker 3>why not it doesn't like her to do another one.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, Tom, well, hold on, Brooke, he may

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<v Speaker 1>have changed his mind. Let's ask him, Tom, are you

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<v Speaker 1>still up for this?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I think it's great. I mean I'll take

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<v Speaker 4>a pre date, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take And why not? How much worse can it gets?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 4>What the heck?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, congratulate I don't even want to congratulate you. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel like it deserves a congratulations. It's like I have.

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<v Speaker 2>Never been so depressed at the end of a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's officially my favorite second date we've ever done.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that book's depressed, good works, You're going out one

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<v Speaker 1>more time?

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<v Speaker 4>Good luck?

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<v Speaker 3>Are we done.

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<v Speaker 1>Woking Jeffrey in the morning? Why do I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be one of our highest rated second

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<v Speaker 1>date calls of all time? Tory and Thomb.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go with that. I don't agree with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you in twenty years? Yeah? I feel like we're

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<v Speaker 1>all going to look back in this moment and say, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>Tory and Thomb were couple's goals. I mean, forget Zendaya

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<v Speaker 1>and Tom Holland and Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively given

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<v Speaker 1>me Thomb and Tory for the relationship. They clicked so

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<v Speaker 1>hard that you realize yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, sure.

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<v Speaker 2>If that's what you want to believe in, is this

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<v Speaker 2>type of love, then.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't be jealous because you'll never feel the type

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<v Speaker 1>of love that was exploding between them. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>they say. Sometimes fireworks are silent.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I can't wait until there's a marriage proposal.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, so, I don't know. I was thinking, like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you wanted to, yeah, sure, that's fine, and she's like.

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you again? Remember if you ever want to

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<v Speaker 1>get a second date up, they can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call that person who isn't calling you back, even if.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't really want one, yes, kind of maybe one.

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<v Speaker 1>Just bor will help you out. It's broken Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning.