WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Drop Them Keys Girl

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<v Speaker 1>second d Update. You know, dating is a lot like driving,

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<v Speaker 1>especially if you're a dude, because you have to learn

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<v Speaker 1>to pay attention to the signals. Right I got the

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<v Speaker 1>end of a date. Think of it like you're at

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<v Speaker 1>an intersection. Okay, if the girl gives you a red light,

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<v Speaker 1>you know stop. But oftentimes they'll give you the green

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<v Speaker 1>light signal to go in for a kiss or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. And a lot of dudes are texting and

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<v Speaker 1>not paying attention and they don't pick up on the

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<v Speaker 1>green light, and there's people honking at them like just

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<v Speaker 1>go for it, go for it, And then before they

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<v Speaker 1>know it, the light turns to red and they've missed

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<v Speaker 1>their opportunity to get through the intersection. That happens to

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people. Hannah, who was on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>today for a second date update, thinks that the guy

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<v Speaker 1>she went out with didn't know how to read her

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<v Speaker 1>signals correctly and didn't go for a kiss at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>Of the night, Cannah, how are you okay? Little nervous?

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<v Speaker 1>Little nervous? Don't so tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>the guy you want to call today. I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>in your email you said that you think he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>very good at picking up on your signals. But let's

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<v Speaker 1>first find out about your date. How'd you meet him?

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Eric. I met him at my church's young

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<v Speaker 1>adult singles group. I've never been to a singles group

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<v Speaker 1>for a church. Like, do you all get in a

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<v Speaker 1>room and you pair up? Do you do speed dating?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened? I don't know. At our church, they just

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<v Speaker 1>have some music playing and like they're snacks and orders,

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<v Speaker 1>and usually everyone sort of hangs out at first with

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<v Speaker 1>the people they know, and then casually you sort of

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<v Speaker 1>start talking to people. And by the way, church singles

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<v Speaker 1>mixers where you meet the biggest freaks. Yeah, dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up in church camps my whole life. I never

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<v Speaker 1>got more action than at church camps. It's a great

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<v Speaker 1>place to meet people who are down to measure in. So,

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<v Speaker 1>how did how did you meet Eric? Then? When you're

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<v Speaker 1>at the singles mixer, Well, he's friends with one of

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<v Speaker 1>my best friends. So he came over and started talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and you know, I thought he was huge.

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<v Speaker 1>He's kind of like goofy looking, but I like that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he was sort of funny. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>important to me too, So we just started talking. Did

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<v Speaker 1>he seem nervous when you guys first met um, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that night he seemed sort of comfortable. And me because

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<v Speaker 1>my friend was there, you know that he knows really well.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you called him goofy looking. Let me ask you

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<v Speaker 1>a question about myself. If you were to say between

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<v Speaker 1>you two, would you say that you're hotter than him? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely the hollo. I'm just wondering because normally girls

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<v Speaker 1>who say that they tend to be hot girls who

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<v Speaker 1>kind of date down because they like a guy's personality.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just wondering if that's you. Well, I think

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<v Speaker 1>he's cute, and that's what's really imported exactly. You know

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<v Speaker 1>how many times I get that, like, no, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand, like I think he's cute. For me, he's cute. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I do think he's good, But I would say that

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<v Speaker 1>most people would say, you know, he's not traditionally handsome. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys obviously went out on a date after

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<v Speaker 1>this thing, right or are you just calling him out? Yeah? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>would you guys do We went to go see this

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<v Speaker 1>Christian church band and you know it was fun. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't as sort of outgoing as he was when

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<v Speaker 1>I first met him. He was I don't know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I would say almost a little bit borning, but a

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<v Speaker 1>really good listener. Was there any like drinking involved at all?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how. No. I mean I didn't drink anything,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe he did before, but since I didn't, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess he didn't. You know, I don't know. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess what kind of Christian are you are? Alcohol is

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<v Speaker 1>an absolute? Or do you have a couple of drinks? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I can have a couple of drinks. I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>that night. I didn't know if you guys were loosening

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<v Speaker 1>up or anything. Maybe we should have. Yeah, was there

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<v Speaker 1>a special moment that you guys shared or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>something that really stuck out about that evening? No, he

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<v Speaker 1>was just a really good listener and it was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it was nice. So why do you Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you doesn't sound like a rave review about your date

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<v Speaker 1>so far? Why do you want to call him for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update? Because I think that there's potential there.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like maybe he's just kind of shy, and

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe this was like the date where he's super

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<v Speaker 1>shy and then he can kind of go back to

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that I thought was a little more fun

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<v Speaker 1>than I met with my friend. You know, I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out with that guy again, right, So you

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<v Speaker 1>want to hang out with the guy before. But in

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<v Speaker 1>your email you said that he was not picking up

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<v Speaker 1>on your signals that you were giving him at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the date. What do you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened was at the end of the night, he

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<v Speaker 1>walked me to my door and sort of waited and

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<v Speaker 1>nothing happened. So the night pretended you're got my keys?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Classic? Is that your go to move to

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<v Speaker 1>let a guy know that you're kind of killing time

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<v Speaker 1>so we can kiss you. I don't know, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had to weight. But so he got him.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess he didn't get the clue because he

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<v Speaker 1>just sort of was holding out my keys and then

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, you know, maybe we should hang out again,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like sure, and then he left, So

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<v Speaker 1>did he give you a a hug or anything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he hied me, and then last week I sent him attacked.

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<v Speaker 1>You sent him a text. Yeah. A couple of days later,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, how's your week going, and then he replied

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. That's all he sent you. Yeah, did you

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<v Speaker 1>say anything else after that? It's okay? Text like you

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<v Speaker 1>try to hit him back. Yeah, it's the last thing

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<v Speaker 1>I heard from him. Because then I thought like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, I'm working too hard here, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to see him, but it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>to me like he maybe just like really unexperienced dating.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys were to go out again, would you

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<v Speaker 1>be okay being the person who made the first move? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you may have to do with this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in that situation before, where it's been at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of a date and I know deep down

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<v Speaker 1>that I should kiss somebody and then I don't, and

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<v Speaker 1>then after that I'm like, I don't even know if

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go out with her again, because now

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<v Speaker 1>I just, yeah, I believe my chance. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's feeling like that. I hope it wasn't. Think

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<v Speaker 1>facts I do like him, Okay, So when I get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone the second date update. You want

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<v Speaker 1>that to be the first thing that I say to him, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>man up and make out with Hannah. All right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song. Come back call him, get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone, and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, yeah, okay, looking jubil in the morning dates.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just joining us for the second part of

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update. Hannah is on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to call a guy named Eric. They met

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<v Speaker 1>at church and a young adults mixer, went out to

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<v Speaker 1>a concert, and then after the concert there was an

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<v Speaker 1>awkward moment where he dropped her off, walked her to

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<v Speaker 1>her door, and she was putting out the signals that

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to kiss. Her signal was she dropped her

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<v Speaker 1>keys in order to kill time in hopes that he

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<v Speaker 1>would pick him up and then maybe kiss her instead,

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<v Speaker 1>he picked him up and gave him to her and said,

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<v Speaker 1>here's your keys. Have a good night. And she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>heard from him since, so we're about to get him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Hannah. I think the problem was that

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<v Speaker 1>your signal to him was a little weak. I think

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<v Speaker 1>next time, instead of dropping the keys, he just dropped

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<v Speaker 1>the pants, no question, but there's no question. No, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try that out? Oh my god. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>wish women would be a little more blunt like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I would be like, oh, okay, cool, she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to kiss. All right, I'm about to die the

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<v Speaker 1>phone number and get him on the phone and see

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<v Speaker 1>what the reason is that he's not calling you back. Okay, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Eric please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Eric. Hey Eric, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Really okay, all right, how are you doing? I'm fine? Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason that I'm calling you though, is we do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if somebody goes out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and then they feel like they're getting blown off

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<v Speaker 1>after the date day, email us to call that person

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<v Speaker 1>and ask them why you recently went out with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Hannah who lives as our show. Oh, and

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah is wondering why you haven't called her or texted

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<v Speaker 1>her and asked her to go out again. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you like Hannah? Yeah? Hannah was fine. Okay, do

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<v Speaker 1>you have a few minutes to tell us why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not texting her back. Well, we haven't out for about

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<v Speaker 1>three hours at a concert, and I guess I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really know what to say. Um, like you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to say, like it was awkward for you

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the date or you just for me.

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<v Speaker 1>She was hard to have a conversational. Was she like

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<v Speaker 1>intimidating or something, because she was real pretty No. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she just said a few things where I said to myself,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't think I could see myself

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<v Speaker 1>having a relationship with this person. What type of things

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<v Speaker 1>are we talking? She just had a lot of her

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<v Speaker 1>facts wrong, her facts about what just like pretty basic stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you give me? Can you give me an example?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she for one thing, at one point she

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<v Speaker 1>said she thought Islam was a country. Okay, all right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>yep um. We also were talking about like crazy things

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<v Speaker 1>that we've eaten at restaurants, and I said like, well

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<v Speaker 1>this is pretty common, but I've had duck. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, m duck, Now would you consider that

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<v Speaker 1>a meat or a fish? Really? She said, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>get I kind of get what you're saying. Then, so

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<v Speaker 1>you you don't necessarily feel like she's not as smart

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<v Speaker 1>as you, but you feel like she might be kind

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<v Speaker 1>of in airhead a little bit. Well, it's just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, there are different types of intelligence,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I just feel like she lacks a

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<v Speaker 1>sort of basic Is there any way that she could

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<v Speaker 1>have just been playing it up and doing the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because some girls do the bimbo thing because they think

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<v Speaker 1>guys think it's cute. Yeah, you could tell it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like she was planning these things. Like at

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<v Speaker 1>one point we were talking about something and she goes,

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<v Speaker 1>I think comedy is so funny. Yeah, yeah, it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what comedy's job. I like that. You know, Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>you and I are a lot different, because then I

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<v Speaker 1>got out whether I've been like perfect, you're right on

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<v Speaker 1>my level, but you think, yeah, comedy is comedy is

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<v Speaker 1>a funny thing sometimes, so you just feel like she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't on your level. Then. Basically most of the date,

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<v Speaker 1>I just was sitting there going like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be this guy who just spends the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time correcting her because it just makes me seem

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<v Speaker 1>like an arrogant kind of know it all, and if

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<v Speaker 1>I had spent my time correcting her, then we our

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<v Speaker 1>conversation would have gone almost nowhere because I would have

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<v Speaker 1>had to do it like every minute more to So

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think we ever really need to talk again. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a shame, because she's actually on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes, I am, so.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really confused. I mean, it sounds like you know

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<v Speaker 1>that because I wasn't perfect or didn't know all of

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<v Speaker 1>the same things that you do quite as well, like

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<v Speaker 1>you are saying that I'm you did. Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>I heard? I did not want to say that you

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<v Speaker 1>are stupid. Yeah, you didn't actually say those words, but

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm not stupid, it certainly was sounded like you

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<v Speaker 1>were like, I don't think that you're stupid. Think No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't think you're stupid. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>for the kinds of things that I usually like talk

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<v Speaker 1>about and the issues that I you know, the things

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<v Speaker 1>that I was kind of putting out there to see

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<v Speaker 1>what you would say, it wasn't really working out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I may not be as smart. You know, in certain

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<v Speaker 1>areas that I'm pretty I have street smarts, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm pretty bright. I mean, Okay, for example, I

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<v Speaker 1>was right, comedy is funny and tragedies are sad. She

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<v Speaker 1>has a point, Eric, she was right, you're ruddy. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not wrong about that. But I think, you know, I like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't get why that's kind of a weird

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<v Speaker 1>thing to say, then I think that is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the issue right here. It's true, you know it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's true. But also, like, you know, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk about how water is wet, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe we do. Then she like, if you think that,

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<v Speaker 1>then that's fine, but I am so not interested in

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<v Speaker 1>talking about that. Wow, I think you're being kind of picky, Eric.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, she gets some facts wrong, and she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't really you know, maybe be books part, but she

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like a delightful person. Can I just point out

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<v Speaker 1>something I thought, like if you had fun with someone

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<v Speaker 1>or you enjoy them, and like if the person was

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<v Speaker 1>extremely attractive, that that was kind of you know, important too,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was willing to make sort of I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna just sort of ignore that part. See that, Look, Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that you can ignore her not being

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<v Speaker 1>on your level intelligence? Wise. If Hannah ignores the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not on her level hot wise is what

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<v Speaker 1>she's saying. I think, yeah, I picked up on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. I guess that us me to my

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<v Speaker 1>next point. Then, would you guys like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date? Eric? Would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Hannah again? I will pay for it. She'll

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<v Speaker 1>ignore the fact that you're not as good looking as

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<v Speaker 1>she is. No, come on opposite, So you don't even

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with me again? I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of was being really nice to you, so, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like everything you're saying about me, and sort of

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<v Speaker 1>shocked that you don't want to try to make it

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<v Speaker 1>up to me. You know, you weren't very nice. Well

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm sorry, but okay, still like way a waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I see you, you know, one of the church events,

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<v Speaker 1>and I see you and I go, oh, I'm like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a guyet that thinks I'm an idiot. Yeah, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'll be like, hey, there's a girl who

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<v Speaker 1>thinks I'm ugly. It actually is a perfect second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>It worked out for both of you, guys. Now we're

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<v Speaker 1>all on the same page. That is amazing how that

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<v Speaker 1>actually worked out for them like that. Texting at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eighty five nine two says, I'll day she's right on

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<v Speaker 1>my level. At least people know where they are right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true. I mean, I guess you can't blame him

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<v Speaker 1>too much if you just didn't feel like they connected

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<v Speaker 1>on the intelligence level, you know. I mean, if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out with somebody you feel like they're not as

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<v Speaker 1>smart as you, maybe you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with them again. Personally, I think it's a great thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing I look for. It's tired for jose

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<v Speaker 1>to find though. True. Remember if you want a second

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<v Speaker 1>date up, they don't have to do his email the

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<v Speaker 1>show Brook and Jewel at moving nine two five dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>We will call the person who didn't call you back.