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Speaker 1: second d Update. You know, dating is a lot like driving,

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Speaker 1: His name's Eric. I met him at my church's young

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Speaker 1: This is Eric. Hey Eric, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: I just don't think we ever really need to talk again. Really,

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Speaker 1: that's a shame, because she's actually on the phone and

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Speaker 1: I'm really confused. I mean, it sounds like you know

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Speaker 1: you are saying that I'm you did. Is that what

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Speaker 1: I heard? I did not want to say that you

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think you're stupid. I think that

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Speaker 1: I may not be as smart. You know, in certain

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Speaker 1: has a point, Eric, she was right, you're ruddy. You're

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Speaker 1: if you don't get why that's kind of a weird

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Speaker 1: It's it's true. But also, like, you know, we don't

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Speaker 1: like maybe we do. Then she like, if you think that,

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Speaker 1: And I was willing to make sort of I was

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Speaker 1: gonna just sort of ignore that part. See that, Look, Eric,

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Speaker 1: do you think that you can ignore her not being

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Speaker 1: next point. Then, would you guys like to go out

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm sorry, but okay, still like way a waiting.

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Speaker 1: Now I see you, you know, one of the church events,

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Speaker 1: It worked out for both of you, guys. Now we're

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Speaker 1: It's true. I mean, I guess you can't blame him

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Speaker 1: the first thing I look for. It's tired for jose

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