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Speaker 1: This will make you feel good. It's a jewil show.

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Speaker 1: In life. Sometimes you have to take our motivation from

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Speaker 1: weird places. So whatever you're going through today, give me

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Speaker 1: five minutes and listen to these stories that are going

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Speaker 1: feel better knowing you're not one of these guys. If

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Speaker 1: you think you're not crushing it at life, then think again,

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Speaker 1: because you could be a drug dealer in Pennsylvania. Wait,

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Speaker 1: kind of really all you need to say, But this

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Speaker 1: particular guy is named Alan Feln. Yeah, I think if

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Speaker 1: you have a name like that, you kind of have

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Speaker 1: no choice but to be involved in crime. To police

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Speaker 1: say that Alan Feln called him to his apartment the

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Speaker 1: other day saying that somebody had broke into his place

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Speaker 1: by smashing a window. When cops got there, they couldn't

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Speaker 2: What not even a smash window?

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Speaker 1: Not even a smashed window, question Victoria. They asked him

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Speaker 1: inside and look around. The problem was Alan's drugs and

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Speaker 1: paraphernalia were sitting all around in plain sight. They found fitnel, meth, marijuana,

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Speaker 1: he also found baggies and class files.

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna invite the cops into your house, like

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Speaker 3: at least he's smart enough to stash your stuff, exactly, Victoria.

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Speaker 1: That's why if you know that you would be smart

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Speaker 1: enough to stash your stuff, you're already killing it. Today.

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Speaker 1: I told you feel better. And if that didn't make

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Speaker 1: A fifty one year old guy named John McKee got

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Speaker 1: But the story is what he was driving under the influence.

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Speaker 1: Cops pulled him over around nine pm and they saw

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Speaker 1: him driving down the street on a power wheel. Looks

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Speaker 1: the power wheel You know those kids they're motorized, Yes,

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Speaker 1: like that, just like that. Apparently I just found out.

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Speaker 1: He's facing charges for operating a vehicle while intoxicated, and

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Speaker 1: the punishment could be stiffer than usual because he's been

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my friend used to have one of those in

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Speaker 1: Man you dodged a bullet. Well, if you're not feeling

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Speaker 1: At least you have a porch. I say that because

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Speaker 1: another story that's going viral, a man in Georgia was

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Speaker 1: arrested for stealing his neighbor's porch. The house had been

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Speaker 1: they moved out my porch. Now. It was about eight

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Speaker 1: to the proper. Are you serious? Well, think about it.

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Speaker 4: In the neighborhoods where you can just move a house

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Speaker 1: So if they take the house out property, don't want

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Speaker 1: the day that they learned about porch pirates in his

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Speaker 1: tree lasted. Literally, I always wanted to be a porch pirate. Hey,

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Speaker 1: you want to feel happier today, you will show. I'm

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Speaker 1: talking to you, grumpy pants, who's in there in traffic

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Speaker 1: But scientists from the university University of British Columbia just

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Speaker 1: They asked participants to enter a busy coffee shop and

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Speaker 1: So all you have to do is talk to a

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Speaker 3: Bro interesting, I did not have that time at Starbucks

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Speaker 2: Much time for that. Sometimes I'm just like, I don't

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Speaker 5: What I mean, like, I need to protect my piece

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Speaker 1: They actually did that. They went on to do a

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Speaker 1: It feels like the same way. It's exciting. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 2: The interaction part makes sense, but does it talk about

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Speaker 2: like what type of conversation? Because if we're sitting there

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Speaker 5: Like, oh the weather today, guys, you know, I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: what type of conversation are we having that's supposed to

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Speaker 1: Or it doesn't matter. It doesn't really matter. They say,

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Speaker 5: I really love, like my favorite moments with that, or

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Speaker 5: having those types of interactions because there's so many questions

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Speaker 1: Right, But I used to hate small talk, right I

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's interesting.

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Speaker 1: So it'd be like, yeah, yeah, hey, where's the best weather,

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Speaker 2: Actually, did no one else ever learn stranger danger?

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Speaker 2: Stay away from a stranger and they want you want

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Speaker 1: Well, I think if the words stranger, if they're actually

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Speaker 1: but they do say interesting things. Yeah, you too. You

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Speaker 1: When's the last time you talked to a stranger, Nina?

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Speaker 5: Probably when we were at the airport. Oh yeah, when

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Speaker 5: it's just like that really awkward interaction. Right, But when

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Speaker 5: asking Jubil, because I'm sure you already made best friends.

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Speaker 2: Do you take strangers food? That's the that's the next

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Speaker 1: No, No, Actually, I would take a stranger's food. You

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Speaker 1: don't know very well you guys. I would take food

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Speaker 1: it. But if there's a pot luck, I don't even engage

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Speaker 3: The street at the same time, it's like you're coworker,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, but now I'm going to be thinking about dying.

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Speaker 1: the way I operate, especially in the corporate environment, they

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Speaker 1: trying to kill me.

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Speaker 2: There's some cookies in the kitchen for you too.

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Speaker 1: I'm not touching those things. Victoria. Do you take food

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, if someone offers me food that's free,

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Speaker 3: why not?

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Speaker 1: Oh, you just did it on a plane.

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Speaker 2: Recently gave somebody food on a plane, didn't you. I

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Speaker 3: Why I was making friends the guy next to me.

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Speaker 3: I had a bag of popcorn and he smelled it

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Speaker 3: I know, like great popcorn.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. And he's like oh. I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: do you want some? Like you can ask him if

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Speaker 3: He goes, no, okay, like you couldn't have the rest

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Speaker 2: She's like are you sure? And I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: go for it. And then he pulled out like three

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Speaker 1: I was like, you look, that sounds fun. I'm happy

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Speaker 1: hearing about that interaction. Actually, the last time I gave

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Speaker 1: and this dude goes, are those chicken wings? And I

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you want one? And he was like

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Speaker 1: yeah man, and then he was like you want to

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Speaker 1: shout on my Hennessy and had a Henessy bottle in

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Speaker 1: this end and I was like, yes, uh you what?

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Speaker 1: Why why are all your friends and family here? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's because when you talk about something. So take a seat.

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Speaker 1: Here we go again. You know, we all love and

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Speaker 1: support you at the Jubil Show. If you listen to

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Speaker 1: the show, your family. So we're all here because we

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Speaker 1: It's an official intervention with you right now. It's a

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Speaker 1: jewel show. And why do I say that? Because Canada

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Speaker 1: released some shocking information about drinking. The Canadian CenTra They

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Speaker 1: sell it C and t r E CenTra center center. No,

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Speaker 1: that's not how center is spelled anyway. The Canadian Center

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Speaker 1: for Substance Abuse and Addiction just changed its guidance on

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Speaker 1: alcohol consumption from two drinks per day to two drinks

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Speaker 1: per week. Yes, so if you have two drinks per week,

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Speaker 1: that's officially your limit. If you have more than two

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Speaker 3: That's who.

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Speaker 1: The Canadian Century per Substance Abuse and Addiction Victoria, where

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Speaker 1: are you paying attention? Did I lose you at CenTra? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: They say if you have two drinks per week, that's it.

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Speaker 1: If you have more than that, then you definitely have

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Speaker 5: Well, where's the closest hell, That's what I'm saying. You

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Speaker 5: usually feel really great about just two drinks a week.

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Speaker 1: I know, if I have two drinks a week, I

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Speaker 1: feel like I've accomplished a big feet. I'm like, yeah, wow,

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Speaker 1: because we're American, I guess yeah. I thought Canadians love

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Speaker 1: to drink. Though. Every time I've medic Canadian they've been

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Speaker 1: they're apologizing all the time, sorry about being drunk in

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Speaker 1: this place. But that's fine, dude. No, the Canut game

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Speaker 1: is not on watch Baseball. Sorry you boot that. Here's

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Speaker 1: a Mullson sit down and be happy. But they do

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Speaker 1: drink a lot, though, But apparently if you have two

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Speaker 1: drinks per week in Canada, now that's it.

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Speaker 2: Well, how much is it a drink?

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Speaker 3: Like? How how much liquid can be in one drink?

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Speaker 1: That's a good question, Victoria, and a nice way to

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Speaker 1: skirt around it, except they did define it? They say

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Speaker 1: sixteen ounces. I won.

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Speaker 5: This is like one of those moments where you know

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Speaker 5: how you tell your late friend all the time to

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Speaker 5: be there like an hour early. So you're just trying

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Speaker 5: to help discourage people from drinking too much by just

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Speaker 5: saying that the two is a lot. So if you

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Speaker 1: Of a deal. I like the logic on what is

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Speaker 1: of I'm trying to think what the Canadian whiskey is again,

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Speaker 1: I can't remember. I know whatever it is Canadian whiskey.

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Speaker 1: I chug a whole bottle in one gold. That's one drink, right,

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Speaker 1: so you know two of those per week. But I

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Speaker 1: don't think that would have I don't think that would

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Speaker 2: No, you know, what are like, what is the definition here?

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Speaker 1: To a day? I think is the definition here? It's

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Speaker 1: too much a day any more than to a day?

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Speaker 1: And you're you're an alchi really yeah?

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Speaker 2: But one for lunch, one for.

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Speaker 1: Dinner, well then you're good. I'm not I think just

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Speaker 1: the one for lunch, they might say you're alcoholic. Victoria,

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Speaker 1: are different. Hold on speaking of that, you know, how

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Speaker 1: much do you tolerate from your friend when they get drun?

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Speaker 1: How much can you tolerate from a drunk friend?

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Speaker 2: Quite a bit?

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Speaker 5: Actually quite a bit, just because I would expect the

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Speaker 5: teach each other these things and we help each other out.

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Speaker 1: I would say a lot, Victoria, how much do you

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm a pretty patient person. But if

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Speaker 2: Not going to go chase you.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a runner in your friend group? I

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? Like they just turn around and

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Speaker 2: start sprinting. Yeah, it's like your friends.

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Speaker 1: That just all of a sudden, they're like fine, and

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Speaker 2: They have so much energy.

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Speaker 3: They just start sprinting like around the block, and I'm like, uh, huh,

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Speaker 3: you'll come back.

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Speaker 2: Enough to come back.

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Speaker 1: We got a runner, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, see, we have runners in my group.

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Speaker 5: Too, but totally different, because that's like they're just skidaddling

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Speaker 1: That's not me. That's been me. I've been the skid daddler.

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Speaker 1: I think, not necessarily we got I don't party like

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Speaker 1: I used to, but I used to get hammered all

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: See, that's the cool thing is I changed my relationship

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Speaker 1: I don't need it anymore. I'm just perma drunk. It's cool.

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Speaker 1: Log on your bank account and look at it. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And go wait a second, I didn't know I ate

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Speaker 1: Those types of moments, Why do I feel like crap? Oh,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't the alcohol, it was the taco bell. Produce

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Speaker 1: Not much.

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Speaker 4: I'm usually either sober or more sober than almost everyone

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Speaker 2: There's a couple of except one week and I loved it.

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Speaker 1: The exception is Karaoke's karaoke around you in general.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I'll just start slamming. I'm gonna get get ready

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Speaker 4: to rock. But I just, honestly, I just started distancing

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Speaker 4: some distancing myself. Someone's annoying me. I'm just like, I'm

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Speaker 4: just not conversing with that person. They can do their thing.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna be like the friend that's like you

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Speaker 4: sit down and you but I'm not gonna do the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if I'm sober and I have a drunk friend

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Speaker 1: who's doing that, then I'm sober scedaddling and I'll just

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Speaker 2: To say, that's part of that friendly.

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Speaker 1: They've left me. You know how many times I've been

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Speaker 1: left because I'm drunk the same thing