1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: I ripped my wife's divorce papers. I am leaving. No, hope, No, 2 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm leaving. 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 2: No, I hope you're You mean like you're leaving to 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 2: move into your dad's place together. 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 3: You're leaving the county currently live in. 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: I think this will be my last post for a while. 7 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: Things are going well, reasonably so. Still having issues in 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: the bedroom, but I'm working on them to try to 9 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: be a good husband, at least on that aspect. Last 10 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: week I received a work assignment in the capital of 11 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: our country. It's a two month long assignment and I'll 12 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: be provided in state housing. She's excited about this and 13 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: already wants to pack her bags. By the way, you 14 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: should pack your bags and join us live every weekday 15 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: at three pm BSD right here on YouTube and Facebook. 16 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: Just tab a profile, tab it there's another relevant update. 17 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: Okay, so that it doesn't seem like he is actually leaving, 18 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: we'll see. 19 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: I have my doubts about her coming along for her 20 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: own sake. She has friends and only here me not 21 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: so much, cut them all off and not interested in reconnecting. 22 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's healthy, Opie. Her support system 23 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: as a whole is there. She has reasons and loved 24 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: ones to stay here. Unlike me, she won't budge. Since 25 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: we are married, it's her full right to come along, 26 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: and since she has her own e commerce business, she 27 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: can manage it remotely. Plus she wants us to get 28 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: back home every weekend. I know better than dying on 29 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: this hill, so I'll always be leaving with her. So 30 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: that's it. Naturally, I am always cautiously and within reason 31 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: hopeful about our future together. 32 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 2: Leaving together. 33 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: Let's go, and there is one more final. 34 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: Ups This might be a happy Reddit story. 35 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: We see it seems like it was like really up 36 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: in the air. Opie was not sure if he could 37 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 2: do it. 38 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: To two more. We might We actually have two more updates. 39 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 2: Two more updates? 40 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: Oh man, So four weeks later, just just drop by 41 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: to say this will really be my last post. It's not. 42 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: We got one more. I couldn't take it anymore, and 43 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: I did not understand why I kept having negative thoughts 44 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: about my wife and me despite things going well, and 45 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: some of you got into my head there could be 46 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: something wrong in my head. We were literally talking about 47 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 1: this earlier. Yes, So we got in touch with the professional, 48 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: got tests done and found out my blood values were 49 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: very screwed up. So this led the doctors to speculate 50 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: a chemical imbalance in my brain and prescribe me antidepressants. 51 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: Not exactly antidepressants, they are mood regulators. 52 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 3: They told me that this is what helped my mom. 53 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 2: This is this, like this must be I mean, I've 54 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 2: talked to people who have been in the situations like 55 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: this with different mental you know, mental health things, but 56 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 2: like it must be so kind of relieving to realize 57 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 2: it's not your fault. You literally have like chemical imbalances. 58 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 2: You're in your head like you didn't do anything wrong. 59 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 2: You didn't you weren't failing or anything. You literally just 60 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 2: like that's just your brain. It was just brain. 61 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 4: My mom did that, and she found out she had 62 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 4: like a lack of B twelve and so she gets 63 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 4: like a B twelve shot every like three months. And 64 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 4: then my brother would always sleep man sleep, sad sleep, 65 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 4: tired sleep. So she took him to get his blood 66 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 4: work done to see if she could also fix him. Oh, 67 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 4: he's fine. 68 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: A second boy. Both my wife and I were hesitant 69 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: about this, but I gave it a try, and lo 70 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: and behold, my negative thoughts disappeared overnight. I finally feel 71 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: and control my emotions. I feel that I love my wife, 72 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: and I feel that things can and will get better. 73 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 2: You just needed medicine. 74 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: I was putting on a front before, but now I 75 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: really enjoy spending time with her and make her smile. 76 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: We started making sweet love again and no blue pill 77 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: was needed, and we got back from the Capitol every weekend. 78 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: We were turning my father's old Vella into our private 79 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: retreat and love nest. I did apologize for my unreliable 80 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: behavior in the past months after she had extended me 81 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: and all a branch. She said she doesn't blame because 82 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: of what we know now, but I still think it's 83 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: not a valid excuse. I should have sought medical help sooner. 84 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: Now I can say and mean it that I'm happy 85 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: and grateful. My wife practically gave me a third chance, 86 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: and I don't want to waste it. I want to 87 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 1: make her smile every day and enjoy everything to the fullest. 88 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: I guess this is it, and you won't be hearing 89 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 1: from me ever again. Not true, we will. I just 90 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: want to thank you guys for your inputs, opinions, advice 91 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: and criticism. Per Aspera, ad Astra and Taiwan Bannon says, congrats, Op. 92 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 1: Many have been following your story and happy you gave 93 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 1: us a positive story to read. Continue to take care 94 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: of yourself and your wife. An OPI response, thank you, 95 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: my friend. I will. It feels like I've been on 96 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 1: a very long hangover and it cleared up just now. 97 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: And Veronica nineteen one and six says I followed your 98 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: story and I was one of those thinking there was 99 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: something wrong in your head. No offense, I mean a 100 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: chemical imbalance. I'm glad to see medication has improved you 101 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 1: and your wife's quality of life. I think she's especially 102 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: happy because after all this time, she finally got back 103 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: the love of her life. Oh Pe response thank you. 104 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: I admit I am a bit afraid I could end 105 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: up hooked on medication for the rest of my life, 106 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: but doctors reassured me it won't be the case, and anyhow, 107 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: the priority is our wellness. Hobby subs only also says 108 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: it's wonderful to see that you are finally getting medicated 109 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: for the issue that you self medicated with alcohol. I 110 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 1: wish you the best, and OHP says you are right, 111 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: I stopped drinking. I never properly prioritize taking care of 112 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: my wife and myself. This has changed now and we 113 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: have another updates six weeks later, but I really want 114 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: to just quickly say, like, I think this is the 115 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: beauty of buying some of this medication because you can 116 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: understand what it feels like to feel good m hm. 117 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 2: And I also think it's just like again shows that 118 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 2: if you go, like, if you are feeling these things 119 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 2: and you know you're feeling like something is wrong, get 120 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 2: tested because either it can be you know, maybe it's 121 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: just I need to switch of how I'm living my life. 122 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 2: It's like that is the solution, or it might be 123 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: literally something is wrong with your brain and you need 124 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 2: actual medication and you don't know what your is until 125 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 2: you check. 126 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's both, you know, sometimes it's like you're you 127 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: can't have the right habits and structure of your life 128 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: if you don't know what happiness feels like, because like often, 129 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: like in a healthy brain, you have negative emotions that 130 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: point you towards doing positive things right, But in like 131 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: an unbalanced brain, you point your life towards what should 132 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 1: be positive things and then nothing in your brain changes, 133 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: and so it's like you've kind of lost your your 134 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: north star, your compass. And I think what getting on 135 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: like the right medication looks like is you have a 136 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: compass that works again and you can point yourself towards 137 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 1: the right. 138 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, the right, And if you have a good doctor, 139 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: they will make sure that you're you know, you're getting 140 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 2: the right amount of medication. And that's not gonna yeah. 141 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 2: As just FEMINAE. Oldberg Qui says, most mood stabilizers are 142 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 2: non addictive, so it's making sure you're on the right 143 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 2: medication and you're good. 144 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: You're good, You're good. But we got one final update. 145 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: You ready for this? 146 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 2: Take it home. 147 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: I know I said I wouldn't post anymore, but I 148 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: just wanted to let you guys know that things are 149 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: going better and better. Let's go. My mental state is 150 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: always good, and my wife is always smiling. She's letting 151 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: her creativity flourish in my father's villa garden. He has 152 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: lots of projects and has already planted a lot of 153 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: different flowers and plants. When we are there, she just 154 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: loves relaxing in the garden after a long day and 155 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: sometimes even falls asleep there. For now, we stay there occasionally, 156 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: but we are thinking about moving there permanently do it, 157 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: and for my wife to rent her place. And it 158 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: was a lot of fun to discover all the rooms 159 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: in the house, explore the attic and the rest of 160 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: the property. Wife says, this is our slice of paradise, 161 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: and who knows, if things are going well, it would 162 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:56,679 Speaker 1: be the best place to raise a family. We travel 163 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: a lot between the capitol and our town for my work, 164 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: and all the traveling makes us bond even more. We 165 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: make little stops on the way and discover new places. 166 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: Our love life as also fired up. They bang it 167 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: and we have done and experimented much more in the 168 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: last months than all the years that we have been married. 169 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: They got the stocks, They got the stocks and tomatoes 170 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: and the paddleships wonders of the relationship. Yeah, we haven't 171 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: told you about my my, my kinky thing where I 172 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: put Riley in stocks in my room. You know, there's 173 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: the the medieval stocks and throw tomatoes at them. Reference 174 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: to another episode, all those. 175 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 3: Times you go rock climbing, Yeah, that's what we're doing. 176 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: That's what we're doing, And I'm climbing on Riley. 177 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 2: No, I thought you guys were making soup. 178 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: That's what you do, and she's very happy that I 179 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 1: initiate a much more than I did in the past. Overall, 180 00:08:54,559 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: I would say we are more than okay, band, it 181 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: says such a nice update. I followed your story from 182 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: the beginning and it is so refreshing to read a 183 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: happy update. Take care of you and your lovely wife, 184 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: start that family and fill that villa up with children's voices, 185 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: laughter and love. Thanks for the updates, so lovely, and 186 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 1: that is where our story. 187 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 3: Ends, Dank. 188 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,599 Speaker 2: Really, you know it took time we got there. I know, 189 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 2: OPI and his wife are just sitting outside in the flowers. 190 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 1: In the sun and the rain lovely. But I think 191 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,599 Speaker 1: we got one more story in this episode. 192 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. I cut off my friends because they shoved 193 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 2: a sock in my mouth. All of this happened less 194 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 2: than a year ago in India. I am an Indian 195 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 2: born in India, but I lived in Malaysia for five 196 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 2: to six years. When I was almost seven, we moved 197 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 2: back to India. I excel in many subjects including math, science, English, 198 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 2: et cetera. But the thing was I was very socially 199 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 2: awkward and emotionally sensitive by the time parents and I 200 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 2: moved back to India. By the way, this comes from 201 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:08,439 Speaker 2: recognition ill two three three seven on the Okay storytime subreddit. 202 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 4: I bet they also excelled in fashion because of the socks. Yep, 203 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 4: let's talk about my friends. We'll call them A, B, C, D, 204 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 4: E n F. 205 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 3: Give them names. 206 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 2: Aaron, Billy, Carl, Derek, It, Edgar, and Frank. 207 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 3: My dad, are we gonna remember that? 208 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 2: Aaron, Billy, Carl, Derek, Edgar, and Frank. Okay, you no, 209 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 2: Why would I have a pen on me? 210 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:42,599 Speaker 1: I don't know. 211 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 3: I'm trying to be She just said, why would I 212 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 3: have a pen on me? Oh my gosh, do you 213 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 3: hate me? 214 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 2: Aron, Billy, Carl, Derek, Edgar, and Fred. Let's get into it. 215 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 2: One day, less than a month after moving in, we 216 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 2: went shopping in a big supermarket in my small city. 217 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 2: But we forgot a bag of groceries. My mother went 218 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: and saw a boy who is Aaron five years before 219 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: the incident. What incident? Dominous the incident? 220 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:14,079 Speaker 3: The incident? 221 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 2: My mother told him about me, a boy without friends. 222 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 2: Aaron told her that he also had no friends, which 223 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 2: was not true. Wait, I'm sorry, She's just like in 224 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 2: the grocery store and she sees this little like young boy, 225 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 2: and she's like, hello, my son has no friends. 226 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 3: Come be my son's friends. 227 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 2: I have no friends. But he was a liar. So 228 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 2: we had a little temporary tent in my apartment, and 229 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 2: so we played for as long as possible, using my 230 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 2: father's tab, for hours at a time on holidays. He 231 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 2: was a great friend back then. 232 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: Aaron. 233 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 2: Oh no, a few months A few months later, he 234 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: introduced me to Billy and Carl, other fellow kids of 235 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,839 Speaker 2: my apartment. Oh, Billy was a little girl, but Billy 236 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 2: can be a girl's name. 237 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 3: So Billy, Yep, she's still Billy. 238 00:11:58,160 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 2: She's Billy Claire. 239 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 3: Billy, her name is Billy Claire. Remember. 240 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 2: And Carl was kind of an autistic person who was 241 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 2: older than me by two years, but very fun to 242 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 2: be around. They were good people. Oh. I also failed 243 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 2: to mention Aaron is a year younger than me. I 244 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 2: was and still am usually a kind and polite person, 245 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 2: so I didn't call them names such as Ray or raw, 246 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 2: which meant you in a very friendly or disrespectful manner. 247 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 2: But even though Aaron was younger than me, he called 248 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,199 Speaker 2: me those names. But I seriously didn't care, so it 249 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 2: seems like in their language they have words that are 250 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 2: used to denote familiarity, so like in Spanish you have 251 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: like you know the ustad and the. 252 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 3: Two, So that's what I'm thinking, and felaw. 253 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 2: I just like, what are you talking about? Around the pandemic. 254 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 2: I didn't join them because of the virus, but my 255 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 2: parents didn't want me to go, but they didn't care 256 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,719 Speaker 2: if I went, which I didn't. Okay, my parents are 257 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 2: one of the best parents. My mother taught me many 258 00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 2: important things which started my hunger for learning. My mother 259 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: was also preparing for a notoriously hard government exam for 260 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 2: a government job. Since I was four to five, this 261 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 2: would be important later. Oh wow, a year and a 262 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 2: half has passed since me and Aaron met each other, 263 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 2: so I think he probably is still on the younger side. 264 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 2: Billy had to move away to a big city while 265 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 2: we stayed behind. That same year another boy older than 266 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 2: me by two years. At the start, he was also 267 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 2: a great person to me. But slowly everything changed. I 268 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 2: think Opie meant they met another boy. Now two years 269 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 2: have passed, I start slowly getting less polite to people, 270 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 2: but still could not insult them to their faces or 271 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:43,679 Speaker 2: call them previously mentioned names. Wait, what what's going on? 272 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:45,439 Speaker 3: Are we changing their names? 273 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: Now? 274 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: What do you mean if he's like after two years 275 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 2: passed and I started freaking hating all my friends. Oh man, 276 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 2: is that what you mean? And also my school since 277 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 2: the start was a great school with teachers actually caring 278 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 2: for children, but their school was in infamous for its 279 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: high stress rates, and both Aaron and Derek were part 280 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 2: of the school. Carl was also in that school, but 281 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 2: still he was very nice to everyone. The difference of 282 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 2: schools in my parents' freedoms might have started jealousy in Derek, 283 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 2: and since Aaron and Derek were very close, some of 284 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 2: Derek's ideas might have spread to Aaron. This is a 285 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 2: weird story. 286 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 3: Politics are getting crazy. 287 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 2: To call me to play, Aaron will come and ring 288 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 2: the doorbell and I will answer and most of the 289 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 2: time play with them, But sometimes I don't want to play. 290 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 2: How old are these people? So he starts lying to me. 291 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 2: He says stuff such as I'm going to moon by tomorrow, 292 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: but he never goes, or in the summer holidays he 293 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 2: would say that he's going to his native place tomorrow 294 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: for the whole of the holidays and guess who's there 295 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: the very next day, or things such as he's going 296 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 2: to a hostel, to a hostel and we'll never see 297 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: him again. Okay, I think these are children. I think 298 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 2: I honestly think they're middle schoolers. 299 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 3: Really a middle schooler on Reddit, think on. 300 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 2: Reddit, and I think he's like, my friends are being 301 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: mean to me, and I'm older than all of them, 302 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: and one of my friends, I'm trying to hang out 303 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 2: with them, but he keeps lying to me, and that's 304 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 2: really mean. I think that's what's going on here. I 305 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 2: also have a small laptop that my father gifted me 306 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 2: just before twenty twenty. It was not for gaming or anything, 307 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 2: but my father bought me some games such as Minecraft. 308 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 2: This is a middle schooler tabs, spaceflight simulator, et cetera. 309 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: Aaron and Derek would sometimes ask for me to play 310 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 2: on my laptop, which my father would decline, but when 311 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 2: they do play on it, we play on it. We 312 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 2: take turns. Aaron and Derek would take more time or 313 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 2: lives in the game, making me and the others wait 314 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 2: for their turn. Almost every time we play. We play 315 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 2: a game which we created called Gatupolum or Land and Field, 316 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 2: but now four years have passed and Edgar and Fred, 317 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: very nice people to on their own move into this apartment. Okay, no, 318 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 2: they are there are adults or old I'm what this 319 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 2: sounds like a child's Ope, you sound like a child. Yeah, 320 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 2: what's going on in this story? 321 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 3: Played? I'm think of video games. 322 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 2: It sounds like they would let us play on the computer, 323 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 2: and that's the plot of this story. This was at 324 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 2: a time when I didn't want to play with them 325 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 2: for over three to six months, which was a kind 326 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 2: of site a cyclical process. But ever since Edgar came 327 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: to this apartment, we would play nothing but cricket. And 328 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 2: a controversial opinion that I have is that cricket's not fun. 329 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 2: So even though I didn't want to play, I didn't 330 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: have any other option. Now it's late twenty twenty three 331 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 2: and my mother wrote the exam and got the job 332 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 2: in August, and she had to go to training and 333 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 2: her name was on the news. She also did an 334 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 2: interview about it and mentioned me as one of the 335 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 2: people who helped her prepare for it. She had to 336 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 2: go to training in my hometown luckily for another year 337 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 2: until November of twenty twenty four, which is tomorrow or 338 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 2: day after tomorrow for people of other times zones, and 339 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:04,880 Speaker 2: this created more tension between us. My resentment for them 340 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 2: increased as my self respect increased too. Honestly, I feel 341 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: like we haven't really gone over why your friends suck 342 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 2: like they. 343 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 4: We're getting there. We're getting there. This is all context. 344 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 4: We're getting there. Remember the sock, the sock. Don't forget 345 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 4: about the sock. 346 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 2: And it all boiled down to a single day, a 347 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 2: week before the incident. I went that day in the 348 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 2: summer holidays of twenty twenty four and played as usual 349 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 2: cricket Opie hates cricket. That day, they asked me to 350 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 2: call Fred to play, but I told them that I 351 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 2: won't go since I go call him every single day. 352 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 2: But they send me no matter what I said. 353 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 3: I think Opi is the front of the group. 354 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think they're like, oh, go go get. 355 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:50,640 Speaker 3: Fred, Go get bread. 356 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 2: And he's like, I always get Fred. Why can't somebody 357 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 2: else get Fred. 358 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 3: We're gonna play video games and you're gonna be the 359 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 3: last one to do it. He's like, but this is 360 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 3: my computer. And they're like, your friends are just using you? 361 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, no one, your friends, your friends suck friends, suck man. 362 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:10,239 Speaker 2: They went on as usual, me absolutely hating them. I 363 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 2: go home and say that I don't want to play 364 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 2: with them for a week. My plan was to see 365 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: if they will be at least a friend to me 366 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 2: after that week the test and then this goes into 367 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 2: the incidents. I still wasn't as mentally strong as I 368 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 2: am now, so my parents would go tell them that 369 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 2: I wouldn't come. I go that day. The same thing 370 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 2: happens in the morning. They called me in the afternoon 371 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 2: to Aaron's house and told me to bring my chessboard. 372 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 2: I was much better at it than both of them combined. 373 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 2: At chess, as usual, they lose. Opie does is not 374 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 2: lacking confidence, for sure, He's got the ego. But this 375 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 2: time Derek tells Aaron to take one of his school 376 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:57,640 Speaker 2: socks and shove it into my mouth. This was disrespectful. 377 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 2: In India for footwear shall not touch any other part 378 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 2: of human, let alone the mouth. Is shockingly it's also 379 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 2: disrespectful I think in most places. 380 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, let us know if it's disrespectful where you guys. 381 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 2: I don't think it's respectful to put up your sock 382 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 2: in someone's mouth anywhere. 383 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:16,160 Speaker 3: Anywhere. 384 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest. I immediately took my chessboard and 385 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 2: went home, after saying, in a very angry but still 386 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 2: polite voice, you're not my friends any Oh, sorry, polite, 387 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 2: you're not my friends anymore. You never would be ever again, 388 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 2: and I presumably had to spit out the sock. I 389 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 2: reached my point. I went to home and I told 390 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 2: my parents everything they did. They immediately told them about 391 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 2: this in a polite way, even though they did such 392 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 2: a horrendous thing to their own friend. And guess what 393 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 2: they said, I put the shock on their shoulders, so 394 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 2: they put it in my mouth. Oh so before as 395 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 2: Op's walking home, their friends, Opie's friends call up Opie's 396 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 2: parents and are like, just in case you're it's you 397 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 2: might hear about a story of us putting a sock 398 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 2: in your son's mouth, But we actually did that because 399 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 2: he put the sock on our shoulders, lying liars. There 400 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 2: are two things outright wrong about that. One that's false, 401 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 2: and two is that a reasonable thing to do. It's 402 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 2: like saying they destroyed my car using their car, so 403 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 2: I destroyed their car using a nuke. 404 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:31,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I feel like they had the okay, get it, 405 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 4: and we cut ties. 406 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 2: They were desperate for me to come back and play 407 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 2: with them, but I didn't. Ope. He's not gonna Ope. 408 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 2: He's not gonna crickets. Yeah, he's never gonna play Creek 409 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:47,199 Speaker 2: again ever. He's gonna play Minecraft on his computer that 410 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 2: you guys all wanted. 411 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 3: And he's gonna play chess by himself. 412 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 2: By himself, because he's not good. You guys suck at chess. 413 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:57,919 Speaker 2: You couldn't play it by yourself. The aftermath, there was 414 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 2: a birthday party of my neighbor one to two weeks 415 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 2: after the fallout. Aaron and Derek don't talk to me. 416 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 2: I was a completely changed boy who could now talk 417 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 2: and fight back. They looked at me with shame and 418 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 2: made others not talk to me. They were watching a 419 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 2: cricket match on their front. Uh not cricket mess at 420 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 2: the birthday party itself. Oh my god. They were at 421 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 2: someone's birthday party and they were just watching cricket. Unbelievable. 422 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 2: But you know what else I can't believe. What's that 423 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 2: that anyone would not join us live every weekday at 424 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 2: three pmpst on YouTube and Facebook. All you have to 425 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 2: do is to her profile it's that easy. Rachel Guyer says, 426 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,679 Speaker 2: this story makes me feel old. This story makes me 427 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 2: feel old. 428 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 4: I feel like these are these are children, little children, 429 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 4: little rough children. 430 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: But there is a little bit laughed, Opie. If you 431 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 2: are a literal child, my advice is find new friends. 432 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 3: Dump every on this list, dump them all. 433 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 2: Maybe not Carl Carl seems like okay, Carl Karl laughed. 434 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, Carl already knew what was up. 435 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but your your friends don't like you. They're trying 436 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 2: to take advantage of you, and you don't have to 437 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,400 Speaker 2: put up with it. Don't let anyone put a sock 438 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 2: in your mouth, all, don't let them silence you. Yeah. 439 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 2: Nurse Aaron says, this story is a has Diary of 440 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 2: a wimpy kid vibes. 441 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 442 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:17,360 Speaker 3: Fun fact. 443 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 4: So when I was young, I thought Diary of Kid 444 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 4: was Diarrhea of a wimpy kid. And I asked my 445 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 4: dad if I could take it to church, and he 446 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 4: said no, because diarrhea makes people think of bad things 447 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 4: and so, yeah, so you. 448 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 2: Couldn't take it to church because you misread it. 449 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, he never saw the book. He's like, I was like, 450 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 4: can I take Diary of a wimpy kit to church. 451 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 4: He said, no, yeah, I didn't know it was about that, 452 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 4: And yet they never told me I had dyslexia. I 453 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,960 Speaker 4: just thought that was normal. I just thought people couldn't 454 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:47,719 Speaker 4: really read that. 455 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: Well. 456 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, but there is more to this story that we 457 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 2: will read well. A few months later, a few months later, 458 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 2: there are two gatherings at the parking lot under the 459 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 2: apartment itself. Oh my goodness, they're about to have a 460 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 2: West Side story rumble. I went to both of them. 461 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 2: They were organized by Edgar and Fred respectively. Aaron and 462 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 2: Derek were now at least courteous with me and tried 463 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 2: to reconcile, which I decline. Oh, he's holding their own 464 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:23,119 Speaker 2: and the story's over for now. Oh my, this is 465 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 2: a really great pick, right. 466 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 3: You know what, Someone put that there and I put 467 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 3: it in here, so. 468 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 2: Honey, hill apiar, He says, I'm gonna die if it's 469 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,639 Speaker 2: revealed that they're twenty somethings. I really would love to 470 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 2: know how old they are, because it seems like there, 471 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 2: I want to say they're in there, you know they're 472 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 2: middle schoolers. That's my take on this. We don't really 473 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:49,879 Speaker 2: have any other information, yeah about it I'm like trying 474 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 2: to see anymore. I lived in Malaysia. They move in 475 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:57,719 Speaker 2: there seven Uh, yeah, we don't know. I'm gonna assume 476 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 2: they're twelve, because this is a twelve year olds thing 477 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 2: to do. But that is the end of that story. 478 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives Time 479 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 1: for Okop Rewlas Okop entitled parent does it like the 480 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 1: taste of her own medicine? Gross medicine? You thought Roba 481 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 1: Tussin was nasty? Yeah, Roba busting. Yeah, We're busting that 482 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 1: booty out of this town because get that out of here, 483 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 1: all right. 484 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 2: Uh. 485 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 1: When my kids were preschoolers, we spent every summer morning 486 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: at the pool. Sounds relaxing, beautiful. I had a bag 487 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 1: full of toys, not sex toys that I took with 488 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 1: us so that they could keep for themselves. Abused. That 489 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 1: sounds worse. No that I they It wasn't sex toys, 490 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Yikes. In about July, a mom 491 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,400 Speaker 1: and her preschooler started coming to the pool. My kids 492 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:59,679 Speaker 1: were cool sharing their toys. I just can't, we cannot, 493 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,719 Speaker 1: Oh god, what have we done? What have we done? Children? 494 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 1: Think of the children, but not that way. You creep. Uh. 495 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,879 Speaker 1: My kids were cool of sharing their toys since this 496 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 1: kid had none with him, until after about two weeks 497 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: he started demanding my kids. He started demanding my kids 498 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: special toysm just the story. Wow, my special toys that 499 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,879 Speaker 1: they were playing with so bad. It makes it so 500 00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 1: much better. It makes it so much better and so 501 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 1: much worse. The entitled mom looks up from her book 502 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: and starts braiding my children for being me and not sharing. 503 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,960 Speaker 1: Sharing is caring? I guess it is, Yeah, but not 504 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:54,439 Speaker 1: I fear you're getting gunk all over your toys because 505 00:25:54,480 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 1: boogers you know, yeah, buggers that liquid. Yeah. She tells 506 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: me to give the toys to her son right now. 507 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: I reached over and took her a book. When she 508 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 1: asked me, what on earth are you doing and told 509 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: me to give it back to her, I responded with 510 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,919 Speaker 1: her own words, why was she being so mean? She 511 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: should share? Oh, get that medicine, take it down. That 512 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: was actual pretty good. She lost her freaking mind. I 513 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,360 Speaker 1: just kept on responding that what is good for adults 514 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 1: should also be good for kids. Damn, that's so. That's 515 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 1: a bar. Kanye said that, So if she believes my 516 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,959 Speaker 1: kids are not entitled to the private use of their 517 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 1: own property and our man to share with others. Then 518 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 1: she believes the same goes for her. Take that book 519 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: to the bank. She couldn't have it both ways. I 520 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: asked her to choose a way she wanted to live. 521 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 1: Which way your life blowsome. She packed up in a 522 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: huff and we never saw her again. Mike drop boom 523 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: boom baby, see you soon, see it soon. 524 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 3: Bo