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Speaker 2: Follow up to waiting by the phone that you guys

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Speaker 2: all wanted. If you remember a couple of weeks ago,

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Speaker 2: he was the guy who laughed when reaching the conclusion

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Speaker 2: of an activity that takes place when a man loves

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Speaker 2: and she decided to give the guy another chance after

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Speaker 2: we're gonna find out what happened. You wanted to follow up,

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Speaker 2: You're gonna get a follow up in about five minutes.

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Speaker 2: The entertainment reports coming up, will do blogs as well.

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Speaker 2: Jason Brown is Jason Brown. Jason Brown. Oh boy, a

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Speaker 2: week five in the NFL. Oh No, I'm not good,

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Speaker 2: not good, not good. Four and nine, four and nine.

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Speaker 2: It was almost like you guessed.

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Speaker 3: It was almost like I didn't resource this at all.

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Speaker 2: It was almost like you just decided to pull it

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Speaker 2: out of your bootyole.

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Speaker 1: Disappointing.

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Speaker 4: Someone Texan said, why I see calling a game that

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Speaker 4: already happened because on Friday?

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Speaker 5: I guess there's football on too many days, Like it's

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Speaker 5: too confusing.

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Speaker 1: Well, he got that one right, at least you did

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Speaker 1: get that.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 2: I threw that one in just to see if you

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Speaker 2: pick the same team again and to see if you

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Speaker 2: check the score, which you clearly did not. But so

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Speaker 2: you had the Falcons on Thursday and that was that

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Speaker 2: was a win. You had the Vikings over the Jets,

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Speaker 2: that was a win. You had the Panthers over the Bears.

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Speaker 2: I know that was on purpose because when you picked

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Speaker 2: the other team, the Bears win. So it's kind of

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Speaker 2: a wine. Panthers are absolutely terrible, and the Panthers aren't terrible.

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Speaker 2: They are They are the worst football they are and

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Speaker 2: their owner is even worse. Yeah, that's why they have absolute.

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Speaker 1: Worst owner, right p Jerry Richardson legend. I just can't.

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Speaker 2: I just can't. I can't. It's terrible. It was so boring.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, this is just call it, like, let's

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Speaker 2: just go home. They win, great, cool whatever. You had

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Speaker 2: the Colts over the Jaguars. No, oh, you had the

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Speaker 5: No, you had Dolphins too bad and he actually won. Yeah, right,

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Speaker 5: you stake me out, Rufio. You had the Bengals over

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Speaker 5: the Ravens. No, almost, but no, you had the Browns

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Speaker 1: Not so much. You had the Broncos over the Raiders. Yes,

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Speaker 2: You had the four nine Ers over the Cardinals, which

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Speaker 2: I would have taken too. But no, you had the

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Speaker 2: Seahawks over the Giants. No, I would have taken that

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Speaker 2: one too. Actually, you had the Rams over the Packers.

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Speaker 2: Also would have picked that. No, Packers won, and you

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Speaker 2: had the Cowboys over the Steelers. That was a yes tonight.

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Speaker 2: So you can go to four and nine, five and nine,

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Speaker 2: five and nine rather sorry, thank you, because you are

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Speaker 2: four and nine. You could go to five and nine.

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Speaker 2: You have the Chiefs over the Saints. That's tonight.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that'll happen.

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Speaker 7: forty nine ers two oh.

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Speaker 3: Oh, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: As for the Parsley, it's not a total loss yet

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Speaker 2: because well we don't know yet about tonight. But Joe

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Speaker 2: Burrow will not get the sack. He did get the sack.

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Speaker 2: Cairo Santos won't be yes, he did, miss oh my,

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Speaker 2: and Travis Kelsey we'll get a touchdown and a tailor

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Speaker 3: It never ends.

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Speaker 2: But Jason, I mean I thought the eleven and five

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this was an off week. Yeah, no, it certainly was.

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Speaker 2: Ax and T Mobile. They were given the green light

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Speaker 1: In North Carolina.

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Speaker 2: The American dream, guys, what do you consider the American dream?

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Speaker 2: A house, a couple kids, Yeah, maybe a car, a dog,

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Speaker 2: don't know, a nice wedding. Whatever they're saying. The American

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Speaker 2: One point six million for retirement. What they say, you're

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Speaker 2: gonna need one point six million, I'm way off. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's gonna held on nine hundred and thirty thousand for

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Speaker 2: home ownership. This is over the course of a lifetime

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Speaker 2: eight hundred and thirty two grand to raise two kids,

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Speaker 2: Eight for two kids eighteen years each, all the food,

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Speaker 2: like nine thirties high for homeownership, but eight thirty two

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Speaker 2: Owning new cars over the course of your lifetime eight

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Speaker 2: the wedding forty four grand, pets thirty seven grand, and

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Speaker 2: your funeral eight thousand dollars. Wow, that's what it would

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Speaker 2: cost to do all that stuff. So I don't know

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Speaker 2: but maybe, I don't know, maybe a few few how

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Speaker 2: little too late for that, friend.

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Speaker 3: Why dyeing the cheapest part, Yeah, sounds about right, Well,

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Speaker 1: Do you care?

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Speaker 2: But I'm sure is that is all of that, even

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Speaker 2: YouTube personality and kickstreamer Jack Doherty.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard about this?

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Speaker 2: He totally his two hundred thousand dollars McLaren's supercar by

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Speaker 2: as he drives along a slippery Miami Highway on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: The video on the streaming platform then goes white. This

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Speaker 2: Both of them went to the hospital. The cameraman got

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think it's like it's like you just stream. I

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Speaker 2: So next time we're driving your two hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 2: car as part of that American dream, then don't text

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Speaker 8: I'm listening.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, em and M's have de thrown Reese's Peanut Butter

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Speaker 2: Cups as the top Halloween candy for the first time ever,

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Speaker 2: you guys, breaking news. Sour Patch Kids climbed to number

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Speaker 2: guess in South Carolina and Oklahoma Butterfinger star Pad Kids.

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Speaker 2: Eminem's though over Reese's Peanut Butter Comes Peanut are Plate,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't say now that might not be fair because

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Speaker 2: they cost them. From food trucks to Michelin Star restaurants,

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Speaker 2: every city has its own culinary gems. To discover, wallet

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Speaker 7: Sodas Orlando or food Spottle on There's planet.

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Speaker 2: We're not talking about fast food though, we're talking about

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Speaker 2: places that are not fast food that you can eat well.

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Speaker 2: Is the thing just a door dash of what what

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Speaker 2: was it? No, not necessarily, it's let me see you.

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Speaker 2: They looked at a whole bunch of categories affordability, diversity, accessibility,

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Speaker 2: quality sounds like fast food.

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Speaker 1: To me, encompassing everything with a number of eateries.

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Speaker 2: Food, food trucks are included too, all the way from

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Speaker 2: food trucks to like five star stuff. I think Orlando

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Speaker 2: probably because of Disney. You got a bunch of world

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Speaker 2: do would think Vegas would be higher. Like you can

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Speaker 2: go to Carbone, you can go to you know, you

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Speaker 2: can get the best sushi and can get the best

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Speaker 10: Oh, I thought that'd be a lot lower for Vegas

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Speaker 10: because I've told you before Jason my wedding, I was like,

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Speaker 10: this is like manufactured fun. Like Vegas isn't like a

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Speaker 10: real place, you know what I mean. It's all like manufactured.

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Speaker 10: So like we ate a long time ago. I one

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Speaker 10: of the festivals we went to, the iHeart Festival, we

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Speaker 8: Like, I don't think of food in Vegas because.

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Speaker 8: But it's not good like. It's not like like.

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Speaker 7: Food like well like to friend's point, there's a lot

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Speaker 8: Not for the bubble gum. How is Chicago not up

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Speaker 1: Orlean not not in there?

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Speaker 2: It's National Child Health Day, National Chocolate covered Pretzel Day

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Speaker 2: raising awareness and supporting. Well, I guess this is for

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Speaker 2: human trafficking. I just celebrate interviewing. Well, I do support

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Speaker 1: Why are you laughing?

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Speaker 8: I could tell that you didn't know what was next.

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Speaker 2: Of course I knew what was not beautiful on the inside.

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Speaker 2: I was I'm only reflecting on being beautiful. Like Jeams

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Speaker 2: Flunt would say, yeah, thanks, maybe put that in front

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Speaker 1: The follow up in the entertainment of fort nights on

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Speaker 9: Show, the Order of the Fresh Show, It's Kiki's court,

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Speaker 9: all right, the.

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Speaker 1: Honor Bale Kiki Leak is here. H alright, take it away.

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Speaker 8: Okay, let's get into that.

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Speaker 1: Do a little dance over here at Judge Kiki.

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Speaker 8: This one says, Hey, Kiki, my name is Anthony.

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Speaker 11: I just turned twenty one, and I recently decided to

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Speaker 11: My mom divorced my stepdad a few months ago, and

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Speaker 11: we just ran into our first issue because after being

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Speaker 11: This should not be my responsibility.

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Speaker 8: What should I do?

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Speaker 1: This is her son.

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Speaker 2: This is her son that's apparently supposed to be keeping

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Speaker 8: Well, he's living in her house. He moved home from college, living.

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Speaker 1: In her house, paying for school too?

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Speaker 12: Well?

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Speaker 8: Did he was supposed to start a trade school, But

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Speaker 1: Just like supposed to pay for that though, do we know?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 12: Huh?

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Speaker 1: I mean, but he has every right to go start

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Speaker 11: That's what I say, I think, Anthony, in my opinion,

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Speaker 11: you are right, this is not your responsibility. You're being

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Speaker 11: But I just I feel like parents who should always

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Speaker 11: you have to find other options. It's not his burden

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Speaker 11: to take care of his sisters. Yeah, she's got to

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Speaker 11: hold the stepdad. Yeah, you gotta hold somebody accountable because

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Speaker 11: it's not Anthony's responsibility. And I know how that may

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Speaker 11: you want to help your parents in every way that

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Speaker 11: you can't you can, but their children are not your responsibility.

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Speaker 11: I had people in high school, friends in high school

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Speaker 11: if you're the whole sibling, if you're the oldest in

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Speaker 11: of ten. They don't know what they were doing. You know,

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Speaker 11: that's the responsibility of your siblings. Like my sister raised me,

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Speaker 11: but literally that was because my mom was like dead,

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Speaker 8: But at the end of the day.

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Speaker 11: I was not her responsibility that I was really my

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Speaker 11: by all means help your parents, but you can't. You

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Speaker 8: That's not right.

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Speaker 2: But it sounds like he's been helping out a lot

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Speaker 2: as it is. Yeah, so it's not like he hasn't

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Speaker 2: tried to step up, right, But he has every right

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Speaker 2: what's he supposed to do? Be their caregiver forever and

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 10: It's hard because I feel like in a lot of

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Speaker 10: the rest of the kids, Who's going to take care

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Speaker 10: I think that it's a really tough spot that she's in,

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Speaker 10: like you said, Kiki, but you know, he's got a

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Speaker 10: what does it flap?

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Speaker 8: His wings? Spread his wings at that house, Like Nelly said,

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Speaker 8: drop down, get you. He has to do what he's

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Speaker 1: But to friend's point, who was paying for school and

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Speaker 8: But guess what did I have you?

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Speaker 1: Or did you have me?

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Speaker 7: I had you.

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Speaker 11: I'm the parent. It's my responsibility to pay for your schooling.

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Speaker 11: You're not doing me a favor by supporting me through school.

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Speaker 11: That's that's what your job as a parent. You're not

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Speaker 11: doing me any favors. I'm sorry I look at it

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Speaker 11: that way, like it's a you know, every parent is

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Speaker 11: not able to do it, but you are my parent,

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Speaker 11: and so if anybody's gonna get me through school, it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there does come a point I think where you

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Speaker 2: maybe they're too old to care for them so or

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Speaker 2: at least at least watch over them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: But like we are so far away from that, and

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Speaker 2: I hate when the parents try and and my mom

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Speaker 2: and dad didn't do this, My mom and my adopted

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Speaker 2: like equal obligation. It's like, no, I have an obligation

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Speaker 2: I can for myself based on the way that you've

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Speaker 1: That's another thing.

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Speaker 2: Who's to say he doesn't go out get this, you know,

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Speaker 2: like again, you know, he's going out trying to make

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Speaker 8: And that's not fair.

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Speaker 1: And he didn't make those kids.

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Speaker 8: He did not.

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Speaker 2: And so if you're gonna get on anybody, it should

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Speaker 2: has been trying all this time. It is now like, hey,

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty one, let's go out and do something. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 2: eight five five five three five. You guys at the jury,

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Speaker 2: all Kicky's court along with us.

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Speaker 8: It's so sad. I feel bad. I really do feel

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Speaker 11: But like, I just hate when parents put their burdens

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Speaker 8: Or when they try to tell you, like all I've

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Speaker 8: do you think he supposed to do? I was gonna

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Speaker 8: wait my own butt. I didn't ask to be here,

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Speaker 8: thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, there's definitely I think.

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Speaker 2: You want to be grateful, you know, you want to

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Speaker 2: a time when you go out into the world and

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Speaker 2: and not with the kids that you didn't make in

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Speaker 2: the relationship that's defunct. That she probably needs to go

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Speaker 2: find that guy and say where's the money for the babysitters?

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Speaker 1: Or why aren't you involved?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 2: Because yeah, I agree, that's a whole other court case.

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Speaker 2: Come on there, yeah, child, daddy, kid, you can contact

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Speaker 2: with two having a twelve and thirteen year old age gap.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't want kids now because he had to take

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Speaker 2: start his career. It's not fair, and yeah, it's not

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Speaker 2: fair for the mom to guilt him. School is irrelevant.

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Speaker 2: Mom is responsible for kids, not the siblings.

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Speaker 1: Mom is wrong.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, school is irrelevant. To pay for your

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Speaker 2: parents do not need to pay for college. Last born

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Speaker 2: does more than you will ever know or think. Firstborn

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Speaker 8: Oh, they're saying, the baby of the family always gets

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Speaker 8: stuck with the parents.

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Speaker 1: Maybe, I mean maybe, yeah, Yeah.

443
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Speaker 8: My younger brother's definitely taking on all the duty.

444
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Does my sister expect me to do this because

445
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Speaker 1: she has kids? Probably?

446
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Speaker 2: I don't know.

447
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Speaker 1: I heye, Caitlin h Hi, Hey, good boys, you heard

448
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Speaker 1: Kikey's court. What do you think it is?

449
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Speaker 13: This is such a generational thought. It is not the

450
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Speaker 13: child's responsibility to raise their children. They are still a child,

451
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Speaker 13: they are still their parents' child. So at the end

452
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Speaker 13: of the day, regardless of you know, if you have

453
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Speaker 13: your younger siblings, of course, you know you you're going

454
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Speaker 13: to want to help out, You're going to want to

455
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Speaker 13: hopefully want to be there for your siblings. But it's

456
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Speaker 13: not that kid's responsibility to raise them. They have their

457
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Speaker 13: own lives to make. We want better for our children.

458
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Speaker 13: We want our children to have better than we had.

459
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Speaker 13: And if we keep putting this generational well, I brought

460
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Speaker 13: you into this world, and how are you going to

461
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Speaker 13: help me? Our children are never going to do better

462
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Speaker 13: than us. It's just a constant generational cycle that's going

463
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Speaker 13: to keep repeating.

464
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Speaker 8: So true.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure it's hard because she doesn't have a lot

466
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Speaker 2: of options, and she trusts her son and all the

467
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Speaker 2: rest of it. But like, he has every right to

468
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Speaker 2: go out. I've said it one hundred times in this

469
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Speaker 2: secon he has every right to go out and create

470
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Speaker 2: for himself. And who knows, maybe someday he's able and

471
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Speaker 2: maybe he's able to help out a little bit, and

472
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Speaker 2: maybe someday, you know, it comes full circle once he

473
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Speaker 2: creates a life for himself. But like, again, he's got

474
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Speaker 2: to be able to do that. Yep, yeah, thank you,

475
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Speaker 2: have a great job.

476
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Speaker 9: I love you.

477
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Speaker 1: He's got to take the job, Tony, Tony, He's got

478
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Speaker 1: to take the job, right.

479
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Speaker 14: Yes, take the job.

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Speaker 15: It's hards to find good jobs down here, and it's

481
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Speaker 15: not his desponsibility to raise the kids. He can help

482
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Speaker 15: the mom with the girls, but he has to take

483
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Speaker 15: that job.

484
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I think so too. And I don't know

485
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Speaker 2: what mom's gonna do. But again, where's the deadbeat dad?

486
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Speaker 8: He don't jack?

487
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Speaker 14: Yeah, they got to figure that out. But don't turn

488
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Speaker 14: down the job to babysit.

489
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be an awkward household.

490
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Speaker 12: Yeah.

491
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Speaker 11: And then like yeah, because now like holidays are coming

492
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Speaker 11: up and the mom is acting weird.

493
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Speaker 8: She's been very short with him and ruin ever since

494
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Speaker 8: he broke the news.

495
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Speaker 15: That is not right.

496
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Speaker 8: That's your kids.

497
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Speaker 1: The mom is grown up, the kid is the kids. Yes, yeah,

498
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Speaker 1: thank you to be excited. Your son got a job.

499
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Speaker 1: You're right, Economy. Hey, Tony, have a great day. Thank

500
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Speaker 1: you for listening.

501
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Speaker 14: Thanks, have a go on my bye.

502
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Speaker 1: Thanks for being part of the thirteen.

503
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Speaker 15: We love you.

504
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Speaker 1: Hey, Margot, good morning.

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Speaker 14: Good morning missus Margot from Humble Park. Okay, I'm a

506
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Speaker 14: single mom of four kids who are now twenty three,

507
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Speaker 14: twenty two, and I have twins that are nineteenth. And

508
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Speaker 14: I did it all on my own.

509
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Speaker 15: You know, there's many programs for the mom to get

510
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Speaker 15: here before she starts work, during work, so she shouldn't

511
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Speaker 15: put the burden on her son to give up a

512
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Speaker 15: good job to become a babysitter. It doesn't work that way.

513
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Speaker 2: And you live this life and you managed to make

514
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Speaker 2: it work. And I'm sure you want your kids out

515
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Speaker 2: there now that they're growing up. I'm sure you want

516
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Speaker 2: them out there creating lives of their own and finding

517
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Speaker 2: success of their own.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, and I'm still paying for my daughter's school. She

519
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Speaker 12: took music engineering and she graduated already in the payment

520
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Speaker 12: is more than a cardinal. Well here I am still

521
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Speaker 12: chipping away in you're doing amazing.

522
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Speaker 2: Well, good for you, Yes, and thank you for coming

523
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Speaker 2: for Sharon. Have a great day, Margo. Thanks for listening

524
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 2: to so you don't have to pay for this entertainment.

525
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 2: This is free, so you know, I mean, and you

526
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Speaker 2: can tell that it's free when you listen to it, exactly. So, Cassie,

527
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Speaker 2: do you want the text a minute ago?

528
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Speaker 1: Yes, you texted me.

529
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Speaker 2: So it's your boyfriend then, who basically you feel like

530
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Speaker 2: he doesn't even want a family now because he puts

531
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Speaker 2: so much energy into raising his younger siblings.

532
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Speaker 11: Yeah.

533
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Speaker 4: So, I mean he you know, his mom was around

534
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Speaker 4: and everything like that, and she she was like a

535
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Speaker 4: nanny and stuff, and he had a stepdad and everything.

536
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Speaker 4: And he actually has two step brothers too, so he's

537
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Speaker 4: the oldest of six technically. But yeah, so his two

538
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,359
Speaker 4: youngest siblings are twelve and thirteen years younger. And so

539
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Speaker 4: I mean he was a thirteen year old boy changing

540
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Speaker 4: diapers at you know, midnight and helping out and doing

541
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Speaker 4: all of these things, and financially as well. I mean,

542
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Speaker 4: he had to move back after college and you know,

543
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Speaker 4: helped out and with the house bills and the driving

544
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Speaker 4: around and this and that and everything and so and

545
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Speaker 4: still to this day, he is the one that everyone

546
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Speaker 4: goes to, like she is always the one. So now

547
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Speaker 4: he's kind of at that point where he's like, I

548
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Speaker 4: don't want kids, I want my freedom.

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Speaker 8: I didn't hit it. He feels like he's already raised kids.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like he already did this and now yeah,

551
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Speaker 2: and it's almost like reversed, right because as a teenager

552
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Speaker 2: he was doing this and now that he's a grown up,

553
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Speaker 2: he doesn't want to do it anymore. But I'm sure

554
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 2: you wanted to do it because you probably want to

555
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Speaker 2: get married and have a family.

556
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Speaker 4: Right, I mean, yeah, it's definitely going to topic because

557
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Speaker 4: we're actually ten years apart, so I mean he's in

558
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Speaker 4: his late thirties now and I'm you know, in my

559
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:24,159
Speaker 4: late twenties, and so it's definitely been a topic of like, okay,

560
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Speaker 4: so you know, is this a make it or break

561
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Speaker 4: it kind of deal because I haven't reached that point

562
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Speaker 4: yet where I've made that decision. But he's like a

563
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Speaker 4: hard like absolutely not not happening, and you know, so

564
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Speaker 4: it definitely.

565
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't see, you can have your own damn

566
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Speaker 2: segment around the same time tomorrow. That's got to be hard,

567
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Speaker 2: that's going to be So when do you then, when

568
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Speaker 2: do you, Cassie make the decision? Like, like, I mean,

569
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Speaker 2: ultimatums never work, really, I mean, when do you decide

570
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Speaker 2: if this relationship is for you if you have those

571
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Speaker 2: goals and he maybe doesn't.

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Speaker 4: I mean to be honest, like, I absolutely love him,

573
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Speaker 4: and that's really to me.

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Speaker 8: It could.

575
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Speaker 4: It could be either way for me, Like if.

576
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Speaker 15: It happened, great, If not, that's okay.

577
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Speaker 4: I'm personally not like a huge kids person, but I

578
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Speaker 4: also know that that's different when you have your own,

579
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Speaker 4: So like, I think that's a whole that's a whole

580
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Speaker 4: different thing. But I love him more than that's really

581
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Speaker 4: important to me, so I think that ultimately I'd rather

582
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Speaker 4: just do with him than anything.

583
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Speaker 2: So well, well, thank you for sharing. I'm sure that's hard,

584
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Speaker 2: but we appreciate it and have a great day.

585
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Speaker 15: Thank you you too.

586
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see I'm stairgo here pretty soon.

587
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Speaker 11: Yeah, that's a shout out to her forgiving him grace,

588
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Speaker 11: Like she understands that he's been through the trauma of

589
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Speaker 11: raising kids and now he doesn't want any.

590
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just and I'm sure you know they'll figure

591
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Speaker 2: it out. But I hope that she never comes later

592
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Speaker 2: to resent him, I know, because she sort of.

593
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Speaker 1: I mean, my kids.

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Speaker 2: We all make sacrifices, right, like, you know, if we

595
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Speaker 2: love somebody enough, then we give up things. They give

596
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 2: up things and whatever. But that one is the one

597
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Speaker 2: that seems to sort of linger because I know people

598
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Speaker 2: who have met and said, okay, find no kids and

599
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 2: agree on that because one's really hardcore in one corner,

600
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 2: one's in the other, and it tends to resurface. It

601
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 2: tends to resurface years later once the relationship is intact,

602
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 2: and it can cause resembment on both sides because it's like,

603
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Speaker 2: wait a minute, we agreed on this. I told you

604
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Speaker 2: it was okay if you needed to go, but we

605
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 2: agreed on this, and then now here we are again. Yeah,

606
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Speaker 2: and people change their minds, but like, I don't know,

607
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 2: but he needs to take that job, right.

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Speaker 11: Anthony, take the joboo and yep, we're gonna your mamma

609
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Speaker 11: to get it together.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad you got right too. Is we've been

612
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Speaker 2: making this man wait a month for this decision.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, Anthony, hopefully you took the job.

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Speaker 9: Yes, go to school, Showerry. You've ever been left waiting

615
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Speaker 9: by the phone. It's the Frend Show. Hey Pat, good morning,

616
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Speaker 9: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 11: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Good morning guys. What's going on with this woman?

620
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Speaker 2: Mary? We got to kind of know everything. How did

621
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Speaker 2: you guys meet? Tell us about any dates that you've

622
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Speaker 2: been on, and then what's happening right now?

623
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Speaker 1: So we've got mutual friends.

624
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Speaker 6: That's how we came to know each other. And we

625
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 6: were at a bar watching some college football, like a

626
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 6: few weeks ago, and we just started talking, talking all day,

627
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 6: flirting a ton. And the following week I was gonna

628
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Speaker 6: have some people over to watch some more college football,

629
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Speaker 6: so you know, I extended an invite to her and

630
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Speaker 6: she was excited, she said yes. And I'm kind of

631
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 6: wondering where things went wrong because after that, like, I

632
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 6: haven't really heard from.

633
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Speaker 1: Her, okay.

634
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Speaker 2: And you said you met through mutual friends. Have you

635
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Speaker 2: asked any of the friends you know, if everything's okay

636
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 2: or are you kind of trying to keep them out

637
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Speaker 2: of this because that can be weird?

638
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Speaker 6: I know when when Yeah, I've asked a couple of

639
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 6: them actually, and they say, I don't know what's going on,

640
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 6: So I'm hoping that, you know, you guys can be

641
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 6: my last shot here, Okay, getting a hold of it.

642
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well that's what we're doing here. So we're

643
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 2: gonna call Mary. You'll be on the phone. We're gonna

644
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 2: ask some questions on your behalf and the hope here

645
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 2: is always a week and straighten things out and figure

646
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 2: out what's up and hopefully set you guys up on another.

647
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: Date that we pay for. Okay, that would be great. Yeah,

648
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: let's find out what's going on.

649
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Speaker 2: Part two of Waiting metaphone after Teddy Swims back in

650
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Speaker 2: two minutes on The Fred Show. Teddy Swims, Good morning,

651
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey, pat, Hey, all right, man,

652
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,719
Speaker 2: let's call this woman Mary. You met through some friends.

653
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: You said that you wound up going on a date.

654
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 2: It was kind of more of like a group thing though.

655
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Speaker 2: You all went out watch football something like that. Yeah, okay,

656
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 2: all right, and you liked her and you thought everything

657
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 2: went well, and you've reached out to try and set

658
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 2: up another date and you haven't heard from her.

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Speaker 1: She's not responding. You want to know why. I would

660
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: love to know why. Yes, Okay, let's call her now.

661
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Speaker 1: Good luck?

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Speaker 2: Pat?

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Speaker 1: All right? Thanks?

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Speaker 2: Ella?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Mary?

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Speaker 12: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Mary?

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Speaker 2: Hi, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from

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Speaker 2: the Fred's Show. It's the morning radio show, and I

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Speaker 2: have to tell you that we are on the radio

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Speaker 2: and I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: He said, okay, if we'ch have for just to set Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did I like, did I sign up for something?

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Speaker 12: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, did you win anything? No, because

676
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: that's a common question. You didn't.

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe we'll see how this turns out, but thank

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Speaker 2: you for your permission. We're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 2: guy named Pat. I guess you met through some friends.

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Speaker 2: And he says, you guys went on a date recently,

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Speaker 2: kind of more of a group thing, but you went

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Speaker 2: on a date. Do you remember him?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 12: I do?

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Speaker 15: Actually?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Well what happened with this guy?

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00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 2: Because he called us and wanted to know, you know,

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Speaker 2: if we could get ahold of you and ask because

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Speaker 2: I guess he's been trying to get ahold of you

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Speaker 2: to ask you out again. And he says you're not responding.

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Speaker 2: You feel like he's being ghosted. So what's the deal.

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Speaker 16: I mean, honestly, that's kind of shocking, because like I

693
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 16: didn't even think that Pat liked me. We had thought

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Speaker 16: at the bar, that's true, like when we first met,

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Speaker 16: but it was so it was completely different when I

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Speaker 16: went to his place to did he tell you that?

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Speaker 16: Like I went to his place to watch a game.

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Speaker 2: The following weekend, he said that, Well, he said that

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Speaker 2: he saw you again and that you and some friends

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Speaker 2: I guess, and a bunch of people watch football.

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Speaker 1: Is that so what happened? He didn't give us much more.

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Speaker 16: Well, he barely talked to me, Like he didn't even

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Speaker 16: he didn't get up to hug me when I got there,

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Speaker 16: Like his friends were really nice, Like I mean, he

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Speaker 16: just thought like, hey, thanks for coming. That was it,

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Speaker 16: And like I talked to a lot of other people.

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Speaker 1: That day, and.

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Speaker 16: Like he acted like I honestly, he acted like I

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Speaker 16: wasn't even there, Like he didn't offer me a drink

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Speaker 16: when I got there, nothing, no food, and on top

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Speaker 16: of that and I and honestly, this was like the

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Speaker 16: final straw when I was ready to leave, and.

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Speaker 1: I didn't stay long because.

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Speaker 16: It was awkward. He didn't even like get up to

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Speaker 16: say bye or anything. He just like said goodbye from

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Speaker 16: the couch.

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Speaker 1: He was like, peace bye, I have a good one.

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Speaker 16: Go by myself to get my uber carry.

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Speaker 2: If this guy has interest in you and you go

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Speaker 2: to something where he is and you know that he's

721
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Speaker 2: pursuing you, then you expect him to make you feel special. Right,

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Speaker 2: get up, say hi, get you a drink, hang out

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Speaker 2: with you, or how about even better, not invite you

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Speaker 2: to something with a bunch of other people, right, Like, I.

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Speaker 16: Feel like this goes back to the like it reminded

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Speaker 16: me of like being nervous in college after like you

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Speaker 16: kiss a guy at a party or something, like the

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Speaker 16: next time you see them, like they just don't acknowledge.

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Speaker 1: You, and like we're adults.

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Speaker 6: It's weird.

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Speaker 2: So this guy didn't put his best foot forward, like

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Speaker 2: as far as you're concerned, you guys were friendly or something,

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Speaker 2: because he didn't treat you like somebody that he wanted

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Speaker 2: to date.

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Speaker 16: I mean he just also there was no like cutesy

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Speaker 16: flirred like, there was nothing. He didn't even talk to me,

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Speaker 16: He didn't acknowledge me. It was as if he didn't even.

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Speaker 6: Want me there.

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Speaker 1: So I just felt weird. Let me bring I forgot

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Speaker 1: to mention that Pat is here, a very fearful Pat.

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Speaker 2: What what's the deal? Why would you invite her to

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Speaker 2: something and not make her feel special? And then why

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Speaker 2: you asked us why she's not calling you? I mean,

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Speaker 2: she doesn't. You didn't even try.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I didn't think of it that bigure to do.

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Speaker 6: To be honest with you, I mean, to be honest,

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Speaker 6: I was kind of nervous when she came over. The

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Speaker 6: first time we met, we were at the bar. I

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Speaker 6: was drunk, so naturally I'm going to be more like

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Speaker 6: outgoing and talk at it. But when she came to

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Speaker 6: my house, I was sober, and you know, I had

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Speaker 6: already kind of found out that I liked her, and

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Speaker 6: it just was kind of nerve wrecking, to be honest

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Speaker 6: with you, So maybe I didn't handle that as good

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Speaker 6: as I could have.

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Speaker 1: He was nervous, Mary, he was nervous. Are we buying that?

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Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean I definitely I was nervous too, And like,

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Speaker 16: I respect the honesty, I think that's great, but I

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Speaker 16: just I don't know, I think I need I wish

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Speaker 16: you nothing but the best, but like I just wow,

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Speaker 16: I felt really uncomfortable and like I just don't I

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Speaker 16: want the person that I'm dating or even interested in

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Speaker 16: to acknowledge my existence.

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Speaker 1: And I just didn't feel like you did that at all.

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Speaker 1: He's he's a nice guy.

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Speaker 16: You're a nice guy, Pat, But I just I don't

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Speaker 16: think that we're compatible. I need someone that can, like

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Speaker 16: not make me feel really uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you should have invited her either as

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Speaker 2: a friend like set friend vibes and been like, hey,

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Speaker 2: come to my party. We're watching games as a friend,

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Speaker 2: or you should have said hey, let's go on a

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Speaker 2: date and then taken her on a date individually.

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Speaker 1: And I realized that asked her out that night if

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Speaker 1: I huge spoken to her.

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Speaker 7: Like the football game was on it you don't want

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Speaker 7: to be bothered like because your team's playing.

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Speaker 10: No.

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Speaker 1: I was just nervous, and I don't know, maybe I

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Speaker 1: blew it. I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel bad because I understand that nerves

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Speaker 2: can you know, sometimes people get anxiety and they freeze

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Speaker 2: up and and whatever. But if you're going to invite

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Speaker 2: somebody over and you want to be with them, then

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Speaker 2: you got to pay attention to them when they show up. Look,

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Speaker 2: is there any way Mary that you would give this

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Speaker 2: guy another chance and go on a date an individual,

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Speaker 2: a one on one date. We'll pay for it, and

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Speaker 2: maybe now that it's all out on the table, the

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Speaker 2: anxiety is less.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 16: I mean, look, I appreciate it, but I it's just

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Speaker 16: not in it for me.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 16: I just really feel uncomfortable and I think I need

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Speaker 16: a little bit.

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Speaker 1: More of a gentleman.

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Speaker 16: And you're a great guy, Pat, but I it just

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Speaker 16: it was really weird and I don't want to feel

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Speaker 16: uncomfortable again, and I just want to that would be my.

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Speaker 1: This makes me sad, but that's fine.

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Speaker 16: That's fine that you don't think it's that bad, but

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Speaker 16: you should, and that's what worries me. So I respectfully,

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Speaker 16: I don't want to date you. Happy to be your friend.

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Speaker 2: It gives a little immature a little bit because you're

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Speaker 2: just kind of like, oh, I mean, if you like somebody,

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00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:51,919
Speaker 2: you've got to you've got to make them feel certain

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Speaker 2: that of way.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you got to put some effort in. And she's

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Speaker 8: standing on business and I think that's great.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thank you, I'm sorry, Pat, sa could Mary

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Speaker 2: thank you for your time? Best of luck to both

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Speaker 2: of you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, whatever I guess.

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