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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Second date update. You know, sometimes
Speaker 1: we do second date updates that are more than just
Speaker 1: one date. Like the guy who's on the phone right
Speaker 1: now to do a second date update. He actually hung
Speaker 1: out with the woman that he wants to call the
Speaker 1: entire weekend, and now he's not getting a call back.
Speaker 1: I think it's probably because he was a weekend love.
Speaker 1: That's what happens. Sometimes people take weekend love us and
Speaker 1: maybe Sam, maybe you were a weekend love you everything
Speaker 1: about that? I don't think so. I never did much
Speaker 1: like actual lovin. But maybe don Mama just wanted a
Speaker 1: tasty morsel of meat for the weekend and that meat
Speaker 1: was named Sam. Who I just wanted some iron candy
Speaker 1: for her son's baseball game or something. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I don't think that's what was happening. Your weekend
Speaker 1: lover experience involved her son. Yeah. Yeah, she's a single mom,
Speaker 1: but she's really really pretty and she's super fun. She's
Speaker 1: got great personality too. I was really pleasantly surprised. How
Speaker 1: did you meet this single mommy? We met online weekend
Speaker 1: lovers dot com, kind of the way you have to
Speaker 1: say it all right for a weekend and then don't
Speaker 1: call me back, ghost me dot com. So the first
Speaker 1: time you guys hung out, you met her son, and
Speaker 1: that didn't alarm you at all. Oh no, no, no,
Speaker 1: we didn't. It wasn't the first time we hung out.
Speaker 1: The first time we did it actually kind of like
Speaker 1: the classic way. We went for drinks and we had
Speaker 1: a lot of fun. But she had to leave early
Speaker 1: because he said, you know, she had to go take
Speaker 1: care of her kid, and I was, yeah, it made
Speaker 1: total sense. But we had a lot of fun. So
Speaker 1: because we hadn't really spent a huge amount of time
Speaker 1: together that first night, I said, well, hey, why don't
Speaker 1: we go out to dinner tomorrow night, which was Saturday. Okay,
Speaker 1: So she said okay, sure, And things weren't even better.
Speaker 1: The second time. You know, it was great. We were laughing,
Speaker 1: we were telling each other jokes, getting to know each
Speaker 1: other better, and they stay she says, well, hey, my
Speaker 1: son has a little league baseball game. So I was like, cool,
Speaker 1: and she said why don't you come? And I said,
Speaker 1: I'd love to, so boring. I only watched professional sports.
Speaker 1: Kids don't know how to play very well. Little league
Speaker 1: baseball is more interesting than real baseball because you know,
Speaker 1: they whiffed the ball and they don't know what they're doing.
Speaker 1: That's funny, you know. Real baseball is just like they
Speaker 1: spit and they scratch themselves. I don't I can't stand it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love it. So you actually went along to watch
Speaker 1: your son's baseball game. That's it feel like a big
Speaker 1: commitment to me. Well, I mean yeah, but I was
Speaker 1: feeling it, so I said, you know what, cast your
Speaker 1: fate to the win. Let's see what happens. You know,
Speaker 1: it could be fun. And what was that like? Was
Speaker 1: it what you expected it to be? Well pretty much, yeah,
Speaker 1: nobody really. You know, it's a little league baseball game.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'll spend some time talking to the other parents.
Speaker 1: We watched the game a little bit, but after the game,
Speaker 1: I was trying to score some brownie points with their kids,
Speaker 1: so I took them aside and I bought them a
Speaker 1: hot dog and an ice cream. Colle and I said, well,
Speaker 1: don't don't tell your mom because you know, she's probably
Speaker 1: gonna get mad that you had the sweets, etcetera. Wait,
Speaker 1: hold up, you went in ahead and bought her son
Speaker 1: something that you told him to keep as a secret.
Speaker 1: Like that's kind of creepy. Yeah, it's not creepy. It's
Speaker 1: it's it's man time, you know, like, like man mad.
Speaker 1: Sounds creepier that I've heard that before. Trust mean, nothing
Speaker 1: good game of that so well. I mean, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying that's my first red flag is that you're buying
Speaker 1: her son ice cream without asking her. Well, he wanted it,
Speaker 1: and I was. Again, you're just making yourself sounds terrible,
Speaker 1: sound not doing myself any favors right now, You're not anyway,
Speaker 1: you got the kids some ice cream and did his
Speaker 1: did his mom like give explicit details not to give
Speaker 1: him any ice cream? No? I mean she hadn't said
Speaker 1: not too, but she hadn't said it was okay either.
Speaker 1: I didn't even ask. Okay, you're just trying to be
Speaker 1: that cool guy, like, hey, dude, here's some ice cream down,
Speaker 1: tell your mind. I mean, I'm the man, by the way,
Speaker 1: own a leather jacket and a car. Want your mommy
Speaker 1: to like me? Hi? Five? Is that what you were doing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but stretched that out over like ten minutes. And that's
Speaker 1: that's basically all right? How did the t ball game end?
Speaker 1: And then it fine? She just talked a little bit.
Speaker 1: Then she said she had to get him home and
Speaker 1: I said okay, and you know, then she took off,
Speaker 1: and then I took off. But then I tried to
Speaker 1: call her that evening, you know, tell her I had
Speaker 1: fun and see if we could make plans to hang
Speaker 1: out again. And she didn't pick up. So I left
Speaker 1: her a voicemail and she didn't answer. And then a
Speaker 1: day or two went by and I texted her and
Speaker 1: she still hadn't answer. She's just like, as soon as
Speaker 1: she left the game, that's the last I've heard of her.
Speaker 1: And I've been pouring over my head and I'm thinking,
Speaker 1: and I'll bet you any amount of money that that
Speaker 1: little probably told on me and ratted me out totally. Okaycas,
Speaker 1: I bought Hi my ice cream and she probably flipped
Speaker 1: out and got mad that I'd got and it was
Speaker 1: just there's a stupid there's some one scoop ice cream.
Speaker 1: It's the going behind her back thing because you don't
Speaker 1: know her parenting style. You don't know what rules she
Speaker 1: has set up. I mean, there's eight thousand different reasons
Speaker 1: why that's not a good idea. None of them are
Speaker 1: good though. It's just an ice cream cone. If you're
Speaker 1: that kind of like, you know, hyper parent, it's like,
Speaker 1: come on, loosen up a little bit. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: Well we'll play a song come back Caller and see
Speaker 1: if that bastard ratted you out, and your second date
Speaker 1: update right after this. Okay, sounds good? All right, Brook
Speaker 1: and Jubil in the morning, and welcome back to Brook
Speaker 1: and jebil Field and your second date update up to
Speaker 1: bat right now is Sam? And Sam's in quite the pickle.
Speaker 1: He went out with Brenda and spent the entire weekend
Speaker 1: hanging out with her, some dinner and some drinks, and
Speaker 1: then concluded his weekend with a wonderful day at the
Speaker 1: ballpark why watching her son play in a little league game.
Speaker 1: But now Sam isn't getting a call back. Will he
Speaker 1: be oh for one? In career second date updates? We'll
Speaker 1: find out in just a moment. But first let's talk
Speaker 1: to Sam and see if he's ready to make the call. Sam,
Speaker 1: are you ready? Yeah, I'm ready. Actually, I'm asleep listening
Speaker 1: to your baseball announcer voice. But like most people are
Speaker 1: when they watch baseball, Sam, we're gonna give her a
Speaker 1: call and find out why she's not calling you back
Speaker 1: after what you thought was a wonderful weekend. Any other
Speaker 1: thoughts before we get started. I'm just confused as to
Speaker 1: why she wouldn't call me back, because you know, we
Speaker 1: spent three straight days together. So well, I'll doll thear
Speaker 1: phone number right now then and see if we can
Speaker 1: figure out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: may I speak to Brenda? Please? Hey, Brenda, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm fine. Who is this again, Jewbil from Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh okay, okay,
Speaker 1: obviously long time listener, appreciate that, Brenda. You're welcome. Any
Speaker 1: idea why a radio show would be calling you. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Did I win something? No, you didn't. You
Speaker 1: actually went out on a date with one of our
Speaker 1: listeners and now you're not calling him back, and he's
Speaker 1: wondering what happened. His name is Sam, right right, and
Speaker 1: Sam told us that you guys spent like a whole
Speaker 1: weekend together, but now you won't call him back. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't think I would call it a whole weekend.
Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't like we were together every waking moment.
Speaker 1: He said, you did dinner, you did drinks. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like it was a fun time for you. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean it started off all right. But it started
Speaker 1: off started off all right. That's usually how people like
Speaker 1: dates recapped. Did you just not enjoy hanging out with him?
Speaker 1: You know? I mean I was kind of into him
Speaker 1: the first night. He was nice. I mean, I'm nice
Speaker 1: enough for me to try again for dinner. You're just
Speaker 1: showering this dude with compliments. I thought for sure you
Speaker 1: would have been like head over heels for this guy
Speaker 1: since you invited him to your son's teaball game, because
Speaker 1: that's a big leap. Yeah, how do you know he
Speaker 1: went to my kids game? He told us all about it,
Speaker 1: Oh he did, He told you everything. Yeah, he said
Speaker 1: that you guys went out on a Friday night, had
Speaker 1: some drinks and dinner on Saturday, and then your son's
Speaker 1: baseball game on Sunday. Yeah, and he's confused because he
Speaker 1: thought you had a wonderful time each of those days.
Speaker 1: Well something changed Sunday at the baseball games. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean we're at the little league game, having a nice time,
Speaker 1: and suddenly he kind of starts like talking trash about
Speaker 1: these little kids split skills. He's ripping on the kids.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's understandable, little League A play is terrible.
Speaker 1: They're children, yeah, I know, and little kids. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean they're five years old and it's time to step
Speaker 1: it up and play like an eight year old. That's
Speaker 1: what I say. But so he was ripping on the
Speaker 1: kids the whole time. Yeah, I mean he's like cracking
Speaker 1: jokes about I'm kind of loudly, and like other parents
Speaker 1: are starting to kind of give weird glances. And then
Speaker 1: at one point he like turns to me and says,
Speaker 1: in all seriousness, and he says, it looks like your
Speaker 1: son could use some throwing lessons. What don't worry, don't
Speaker 1: worry about it. I'll teach him how to not throw
Speaker 1: like a girl. There was so much wrong with that statement.
Speaker 1: Was he serious about that or was it a really
Speaker 1: bad joke. He seemed totally serious about it to me,
Speaker 1: Like I mean, he made a point about it two
Speaker 1: or three times, two or three times. What was your response?
Speaker 1: I mean, did you say anything back to him? I
Speaker 1: mean my mom would have been like, yeah, you're right,
Speaker 1: the kids sucks. But did you say, don't talk about
Speaker 1: my kid that way? No? I didn't say a thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna honor that with a response.
Speaker 1: But I was fuming. Okay, understandable. So well, yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I don't want some jerks like that around me
Speaker 1: or my kids totally. Well, unfortunately he's kind of around
Speaker 1: you right now, because he's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening to this phone call and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: What yep, Sam, are you there? Brand Uh? Hello? Um?
Speaker 1: I guess we should probably have a little chat then,
Speaker 1: shouldn't we. Um? Yeah, First of all, I don't know
Speaker 1: just what there is to say right now, Sam, except
Speaker 1: you know, maybe you'd like to apologize. What's just how
Speaker 1: you go? So let me finish. I just said, for
Speaker 1: the record, I was trying to help, all right. I
Speaker 1: didn't mean anything malicious. I wasn't trying to be nasty.
Speaker 1: I'm just calling it like it was. I like sports.
Speaker 1: I can kind of get into sports. I wasn't being
Speaker 1: vicious or nasty. I mean, I didn't, like, you know,
Speaker 1: get drunk or throw my beer. You make it sound
Speaker 1: like I was, So I'm sort of yetty out there
Speaker 1: in the stand. You know, I wasn't. Not to my
Speaker 1: estimation anyway. And yeah, you know, look, I was trying
Speaker 1: to find a way to honestly kind of bond with
Speaker 1: your kid, and I thought maybe if we could play
Speaker 1: some baseball. I mean, because I know you've got your son,
Speaker 1: and your son's your top priorities. Show if I want
Speaker 1: to be with you, I have to get along with
Speaker 1: your son as well. That's that's a part of who
Speaker 1: you are. So I'm trying. I was trying to help.
Speaker 1: I was honestly. I wasn't gonna lie to you or
Speaker 1: sugarcoat anything. I'm just saying it like it was. You're
Speaker 1: not gonna bond with a five year old kid by
Speaker 1: killing his mother that he sucks. I'm sorry, I know
Speaker 1: it's just gonna sound weird, but I didn't mean that
Speaker 1: in a bad way. You didn't mean it in a
Speaker 1: bad way. You were actually critiquing a five year old
Speaker 1: performance like you should just be happy if they make
Speaker 1: it to first base. Instead of third base. Look, if
Speaker 1: you start now, you might actually have like a cal
Speaker 1: ripkin on your hands. You know, if you could have
Speaker 1: started early, you totally be one of those dads when
Speaker 1: you have kids, won't you. Yeah? Maybe? I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't see any problem with wanting your kids to be
Speaker 1: the best that they can be. And Brenda, honestly, that's
Speaker 1: all I want for your son is just I don't
Speaker 1: want him to suck as bad as you did that day.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, And I mean that with all do
Speaker 1: what do you respect? That is so rude. If you're
Speaker 1: gonna take it rude, it's gonna be rude. You could just,
Speaker 1: you know, laugh at all. You have no idea about
Speaker 1: what you're saying, do you. I have every idea what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I was offering to help him be better.
Speaker 1: If you didn't want me to help, you just said thanks,
Speaker 1: but no thanks. You didn't have to ghost me on
Speaker 1: the phone like this. Oh. I don't even know what
Speaker 1: to say to that. There's nothing wrong with my son's
Speaker 1: athletic ability. There's something mentally wrong with you cizing five
Speaker 1: year old kids. Look again, for the record, it's not
Speaker 1: that there's anything wrong quote unquote with your kids athletic ability.
Speaker 1: I just said he could be better. Well in that case, Brenda,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with Sam?
Speaker 1: I know he'd like to see you again. We'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. Oh yeah, I'd love to go on a
Speaker 1: second date with some guy. He's gonna criticize my son's
Speaker 1: spelling kiss well, you know if he's if he's not
Speaker 1: a good speller. I was a great speller growing up
Speaker 1: at Brenda, Sam could coach your kid in all the
Speaker 1: ways of being a man. Yeah, he's the worst super dad.
Speaker 1: Are you sure you don't want to go out with him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm positive on this very y. That's extremely disappointing. I
Speaker 1: guess we did find out that Sam is oh for
Speaker 1: one in the date department. Just shows Sam that every
Speaker 1: time he criticizes a five year old throwing skills, he
Speaker 1: definitely doesn't get a date. Maybe next time he'll try
Speaker 1: to not do that. What do you think, Sam, Well,
Speaker 1: at least he didn't wrap me out about the ice cream,
Speaker 1: So that's night. Yeah, don't worry about it, Brenda, thanks
Speaker 1: for your time in the morning. Text in at seven
Speaker 1: eight five nine two says I bet Sam throws like
Speaker 1: a girl broken jewel in the morning talking about today's
Speaker 1: second date update. If you missed it, this dude, Sam
Speaker 1: spent an entire weekend hanging out with Brenda. They went
Speaker 1: to dinner and drinks, and they went to watch her
Speaker 1: son play a little league baseball game, and Sam was
Speaker 1: confused why she wouldn't call him back, especially since they
Speaker 1: spent so much time together. What we called Brenda and
Speaker 1: she told us that she was upset because at little league.
Speaker 1: Sam started making jokes about her kids sports skills. Even
Speaker 1: told Brenda that her son could use some throwing lessons
Speaker 1: and offered to teach him to quote, not throw like
Speaker 1: a girl. Okay, can we just establish a throwing like
Speaker 1: a girl? It should not be an insult. Okay, I
Speaker 1: am a female. I obviously throw like a female. That's fine.
Speaker 1: Sam said that he wasn't trying to be mean. He's
Speaker 1: just being honest and only trying to help, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope you're a little kid not throw like a
Speaker 1: girl out there. Yeah, He's just like, hey, I can
Speaker 1: help if you ever need it. Yeah, that's one thing.
Speaker 1: Don't eckle the kid. Yeah, yeah, being like you know what,
Speaker 1: like I used to play baseball or whatever. Maybe I
Speaker 1: could help him a little bit, but don't just shade
Speaker 1: the kid. Anyway, Brenda didn't like the criticism, and so
Speaker 1: she decided not to go out with Sam ever again.
Speaker 1: And can you imagine if that's what he gives on
Speaker 1: a first date. Well, it's like six months into her relationship, Like,
Speaker 1: you're actually a failure at life and your mom never
Speaker 1: wanted to when they're just dating, I'm practically your step down,
Speaker 1: all right, you gotta respect. Yeah, anyway, they didn't go
Speaker 1: out again. Remember, if you want to do a second
Speaker 1: date update, all you have to do is email us
Speaker 1: and we will call the person who didn't call you back.
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