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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Second date update. You know, sometimes

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Speaker 1: we do second date updates that are more than just

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Speaker 1: now to do a second date update. He actually hung

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Speaker 1: out with the woman that he wants to call the

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Speaker 1: entire weekend, and now he's not getting a call back.

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Speaker 1: I think it's probably because he was a weekend love.

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Speaker 1: That's what happens. Sometimes people take weekend love us and

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Speaker 1: maybe Sam, maybe you were a weekend love you everything

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Speaker 1: about that? I don't think so. I never did much

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Speaker 1: like actual lovin. But maybe don Mama just wanted a

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Speaker 1: for her son's baseball game or something. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I don't think that's what was happening. Your weekend

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Speaker 1: Kids don't know how to play very well. Little league

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Speaker 1: it could be fun. And what was that like? Was

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I'll spend some time talking to the other parents.

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Speaker 1: We watched the game a little bit, but after the game,

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Speaker 1: and Jubil in the morning, and welcome back to Brook

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Speaker 1: and jebil Field and your second date update up to

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Speaker 1: bat right now is Sam? And Sam's in quite the pickle.

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Speaker 1: He went out with Brenda and spent the entire weekend

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Speaker 1: But now Sam isn't getting a call back. Will he

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Speaker 1: to Sam and see if he's ready to make the call. Sam,

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Speaker 1: figure out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: may I speak to Brenda? Please? Hey, Brenda, how are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm fine. Who is this again, Jewbil from Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: obviously long time listener, appreciate that, Brenda. You're welcome. Any

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Speaker 1: don't know. Did I win something? No, you didn't. You

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Speaker 1: Sam told us that you guys spent like a whole

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Speaker 1: I don't think I would call it a whole weekend.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't like we were together every waking moment.

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Speaker 1: like a girl. There was so much wrong with that statement.

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Speaker 1: What yep, Sam, are you there? Brand Uh? Hello? Um?

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