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Speaker 1: He's another Jubila on the twenty. Tell me I'm moving. Hello.

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Speaker 1: This is Judy. Hey Judy, my name is Scott Brand.

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Speaker 1: I think Max told you that I was going to

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Speaker 1: give you a call, Chase. Yes, he did. Great. So

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Speaker 1: you know what I do, right, I'm a confidence coach? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he told me perfect. Um. Well, first off, I guess

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Speaker 1: I should say, do you believe you need a confidence coach? Um?

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Speaker 1: You know, I mean, I think I'm pretty good at

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Speaker 1: my job, but you know, you know, it wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: a bad idea. We do a lot of group presentations,

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Speaker 1: and I guess a little bit more wouldn't hurt. Well,

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Speaker 1: that's great that you're open to it. Most people think

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Speaker 1: they can just look up a list on the internet

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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden be mister or missus confident.

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Speaker 1: But it's actually a lot more than that. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: can imagine the mean maybe expert. Yeah, So, I guess

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Speaker 1: here's what we're gonna do. If you have a few

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Speaker 1: minutes right now, we can start off with a simple

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Speaker 1: exercise before we meet in person. Okay, sure, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: So because the workplace could be kind of ferocious and

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Speaker 1: we can all use a little thicker skin. I want

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Speaker 1: you to insult me, like I don't know, like what,

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Speaker 1: I know it sounds a little crazy. I know it.

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Speaker 1: I know it sounds a little crazy. I want you

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Speaker 1: to insult me, and then I'm going to insult you back,

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Speaker 1: and then afterwards you tell me how it felt, and

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Speaker 1: hopefully you'll feel a little more confident after it. Okay, Um, okay,

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Speaker 1: I guess I can try. Oh, I'm like not a

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Speaker 1: mean person. Okay. Part of the whole process is feeling

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable and learning to be confident in that. So that's

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Speaker 1: kind of why we do this, all right. Um, so

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Speaker 1: I just like start now, Yeah, just throw me an insult. Um.

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Speaker 1: You know you really should. Um. You know you don't

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Speaker 1: listen really well. Okay, okay, good, So I think you're

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Speaker 1: a dirty little oh oh oh my god. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: we're okay. How did that feel? Um? I mean that

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Speaker 1: was I didn't know we were going to go there.

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Speaker 1: That was a little bit much. Um. Well, it's it's

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Speaker 1: kind of like the workplace. You know, sometimes people say

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Speaker 1: things and they make you feel bad. I mean yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I mean I don't think they'd go as far

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Speaker 1: as calling someone else. Well, um, you never know, and

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Speaker 1: you just have to let that stuff kind of roll

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Speaker 1: off your back. Why don't we try it again? Go

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Speaker 1: a little meaner with me, Okay, really, let me have it.

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Speaker 1: See how that feels. Okay, Well, you know I think

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Speaker 1: you're a whole Okay, all right, well I think you're

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Speaker 1: a and so is your mom because I slept with

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Speaker 1: her along with about one hundred other guys. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: on a tuesday. Okay, Like that's that's like really like

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Speaker 1: out there, like you're I mean, is this how is

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Speaker 1: it professional? I don't understand. Wonderful, Yes, let's talk about it.

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Speaker 1: How did that make you feel? I'm guessing it was.

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Speaker 1: I'm awful. I mean you you literally just called my mom.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know my mom? Yes, yes I did.

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Speaker 1: It was just an exercise in building confidence. No, you

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Speaker 1: know what, that crossed the line. You don't talk about

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Speaker 1: my mom or anyone's mom like that. I mean, come on,

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Speaker 1: I can tell you're having a little bit of trouble

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Speaker 1: letting that slide off your back. Why don't we try

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Speaker 1: it again? Why don't we try it again? And you

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Speaker 1: crossed the line with me, cross the line? Let me

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Speaker 1: have it? Just say whatever's on your mind. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: not giving into this exercise anymore. You crossed the line

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Speaker 1: and I'm not going to stoop down to your level

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Speaker 1: and start calling you and okay, well you know this

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Speaker 1: is part of the exercise. No, let me have it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not somebody's a little scale. They don't have the

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Speaker 1: big girl on the panton can't talk. You're fine. Your

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Speaker 1: mom who sies off at the local burger joint for

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Speaker 1: free French fries because he's a sad oh um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's a crack Okay you said it again? Are you crying? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That was hurt full. You can't be serious. You told

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Speaker 1: me to do it. I mean, this is the exercise,

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Speaker 1: isn't it. Well I didn't know you'd go that for

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Like this is really the thing is

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Speaker 1: here's the thing, Like, when you're throwing insults out, they're

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Speaker 1: not supposed to be true facts. How do you even

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Speaker 1: know that? No? I mean, come on, your your mom

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Speaker 1: doesn't really do that. I was just saying, yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: not fully. I mean it's onion rings and not French

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Speaker 1: fries that she likes, but yeah, that's how she gets them.

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Speaker 1: Come on, you can't be serious, you I mean please

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Speaker 1: tell me this is a joke. Okay, fine, it is.

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Speaker 1: It's a big joke, it is. Yeah, this is actually

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning doing a

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Speaker 1: phone tap on you. Your boss Max set you up.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what you thought it would be funny

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Speaker 1: to set you up with a fake confidence coach and

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Speaker 1: see what happens? Oh my gosh, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Good news is you're pretty confident now, so Barren, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I'm so fine. Where did the local burger

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Speaker 1: joint thing come from? Very nice touch? Oh no, I

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Speaker 1: don't know where that came from. The week of every

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