1 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: Everybody. It's Bill Courtney with an army of normal folks. 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: And we continue now a part two of our conversation 3 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: with Sam Fleterjohn right after these brief messages from our 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 1: general sponsors. 5 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 2: So we watched the video and he watched it with me, 6 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 2: and then I watched it again. 7 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: What does the video do? 8 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 2: The video it just explains to you the risk, what 9 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 2: it means, why a living donor is better than a 10 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 2: cadaver donor. It just explains what it will look like 11 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 2: for you as a donor, more so than what the recipient. 12 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I want to know that. I'm sorry this 13 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: is I'm going to keep this chronological, but this is 14 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: where the questions come in. You're watching a video that's 15 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna cut your body open. 16 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:06,559 Speaker 2: Well, their cartoon characters, what's that happening? Their cartoon characters matter. 17 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: It's still your body and you're gonna be down for 18 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: two weeks. You're going to have to be away from work, 19 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: and somebody's gonna have to take care of you, and 20 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to go through all of this for 21 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: someone that you have never met, don't know, don't love, 22 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 1: or don't care about. 23 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 2: Right now, Okay, But yet you're down for three weeks. 24 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: You're down. Somebody gets their life back. 25 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're giving up so much of your life. 26 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 2: But they're getting their life back. How is that? How 27 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 2: is that comparable? How is that comparable? I just somebody's child? 28 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: What getting your kidney taken out? 29 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: Worth it? I do it? If I had, if I 30 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 2: had five more, I do all of them. He gets 31 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: his life back. How is I don't undert I just 32 00:01:55,840 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 2: it's a hard concept for me to understand how it 33 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,559 Speaker 2: was disruptive to our life. 34 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: Metaphorically. It feels like you're still hiding people under the sheets. 35 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: It's just doesn't it's beautiful. 36 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 2: I have a hard time wrapping my brain around not. 37 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 2: I guess that's the most difficult thing for me is 38 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 2: that people wouldn't understand that I am in a position 39 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: that I can't physically. My children are born right, I'm 40 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: still young enough to do it. I'm Why would I not? 41 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 2: Why would I not not? Why would he not? Why 42 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: would I not? When I feel the need, I feel 43 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 2: the desire, why would I not? 44 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: An army and normal folks is all about just normal people. 45 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: We've never heard of seeing an area of need and 46 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: filling it and I guess the question is why would 47 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: we not? So you watch a video, and. 48 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 2: So you watch the video, they don't. They don't follow up. 49 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 2: You have to follow up that well, there's no pressure. 50 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 2: They do a great job. And I followed up about 51 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 2: three days later and said I'm in let's let's do 52 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: the testing. And then they ask you do you have 53 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 2: somebody that you're interested I said no, particularly, I just are. 54 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: They looking at you kind of crazy, going, really, you 55 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: don't have anybody you're interested in them, and you're just 56 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: willing to do this. 57 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 2: Boy, they did a good job hiding it. I think 58 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: they were just I could see some excitement and but 59 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 2: they didn't. I don't. I didn't know. I was really 60 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: that crazy and I'm sitting here. So then they said, okay, 61 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: so they Columbus is pretty far away from where I'm at. 62 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 2: It's about you know, hour and forty five, and it's 63 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 2: not terrible, but to do all that, it's a lot 64 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 2: of testing. I'm walking in and out of work with 65 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 2: my you know, twenty four hour you'ur in cup and 66 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: that I have to keep cold, and luckily it was 67 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: still hold that time. I could keep in my car 68 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 2: and no one how to know. They send you for 69 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: all the testing that they do the first thing, and 70 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 2: if that works, they do the next thing and the 71 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 2: blood work, and then you just keep going and do 72 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 2: this and do the testing. And as I did it. 73 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 2: Nobody knows at this time besides my husband, my parents don't. 74 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 2: Nobody knows because I didn't want to hear. At that time. 75 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,359 Speaker 2: I knew so securely that this was something I was 76 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 2: supposed to do. I didn't want to hear the. 77 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: The don't do it, why are you? 78 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you doing? This is not healthy? And 79 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: I was right. My mom really struggled with it at first. Really, 80 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 2: I'm a daughter, I get it, you know. She really struggled. 81 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 2: So we went to the testing and when finally, once 82 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 2: you go through enough, then you go to Ohio State 83 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,039 Speaker 2: and I met with the doctor, the surgeon who did 84 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 2: all of our surgeries. He again reiterated the risks to me, 85 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 2: to my body to minimal for where I am healthwise. 86 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 2: For me, you know, my blood pressure, Your blood pressure 87 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: goes up, so my blood pressure will be up for 88 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 2: the rest of my life. But my my pussure are 89 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: WHI Y're low, So it may have been a good thing. 90 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 1: So that's it. 91 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, well I have to drink two leaders 92 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 2: of water a day, which I struggle. 93 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: With them for the rest of your life for the Yeah. 94 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, but okay, you know I was so. 95 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: This is life changing for you. 96 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, but not but life changing but not two leaders 97 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 2: of water. So so that this gentleman who I didn't 98 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 2: know but now that I do know, gets to go 99 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 2: have a regular life with this beautiful wife in his family, 100 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 2: and I have drunk water. Okay, come on, now. 101 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: What about what about any other lifestyle changes for you? 102 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: I can still I mean, I work out. I've started 103 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 2: going back to the gym. My plan is to run 104 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 2: my next marathon in about two years, a year and 105 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 2: a half. I can still do all of those things, 106 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 2: you know, do I still get a little tired now, 107 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 2: even because this kidney that's left will it's growing, right, 108 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 2: so it grows to make up for the capait for 109 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 2: the work the other kinney was doing. It will grow 110 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 2: and I will be at eighty percent of where I 111 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: was before as far as processing the urine and getting 112 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 2: those impurities out of our bodies. 113 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about what a kidney does. 114 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 2: So it basically takes the junk in it. That's what 115 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 2: our urine is, right, the junk, and it processes it 116 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 2: and gets it all out of our body. When they 117 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 2: have a filter, it's a filter, that's all it is, 118 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 2: and it filters the impurities out of our body so 119 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: that we don't have poisons and toxins in our body. 120 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: And if it's not working, those poisons and toxins can't 121 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: filter out of your body. And that's what dialysis does artificially. 122 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: But you can only do that so long as a 123 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: person with a veiled. 124 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 2: Kidneys right, and then you're right, the kidney can't tolerate 125 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 2: it anymore. What was exciting for me? And I didn't 126 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 2: think I'm jumping around here, But when doctor Drop came in, 127 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 2: he said, first of all, out of all ten kidneys, 128 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 2: I had the best kidney. So I always tell Scott that. 129 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: You had the best kidding kidneys. 130 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 2: There you go, old star kid kind of gold star. 131 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 2: Before they could un they put my kidney on top 132 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 2: of his bag kidney because they don't take the kidney 133 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: out of the recipient, so they put my kidney on 134 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 2: top of this kidney. And they only take because there's 135 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 2: so many arteries and veins that run around our kidney, 136 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 2: so that blood flow was all there. They only take 137 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 2: the tube that I forget the name of it, forgive 138 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 2: me that does the filtering through the kidney, just that one. 139 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: So they put that right on top of the kidney 140 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 2: that's in there, and before they could they connected it, 141 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 2: before they could unclamp it, it was producing urine in 142 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 2: his body. 143 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 1: Well they could even so immediately, all right, we did 144 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: jump ahead. 145 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 2: Sorry, So that excites me more than anything because there's. 146 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: So much more to the story that is crazy because 147 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: the sidney one person thing right Ultimately, so they they 148 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: get so they say, Okay, you got a good kidney. 149 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: You're crazy, but we love it. And you don't have 150 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: anybody in mind. You're just willing to do the side 151 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: of the kindness your heart. We'll give you a call. 152 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 2: Yep, yep. 153 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: So you went on right then, yep. 154 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 2: I had just asked, you have to have a caregiver 155 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 2: that's available to you for at least the first two weeks, 156 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: they said, And I say, the only thing I would 157 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 2: ask I don't care who it is, because they asked 158 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 2: you all these things. Do you care, what religion, what race? 159 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 2: Do you care? You know what any of that I 160 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,679 Speaker 2: don't care. I don't care. This is humanity, right. 161 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: And what if it was somebody on in prison for murder? 162 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: Okay, we talked about that actually, so I didn't well, okay, 163 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 2: I'll be real honest, I said, the only thing if 164 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 2: you if I wouldn't say no. But that would cause 165 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 2: me pause if it was an abusive man a man, 166 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 2: And how would they know, right that, I say, But 167 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 2: there's a social worker. So you sit with the social worker. 168 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 2: They do a whole psych analysis to make sure that 169 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 2: you are going to be okay, right, they do. They 170 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 2: do due diligence. They they put you through it to 171 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 2: make sure it's it's realistic. But they do have the 172 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:56,199 Speaker 2: social side of it, social work side of it too. 173 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 2: And I said, if you said one thing I'd said, 174 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 2: I struggle with an abuse of me and even re rehabilitated, 175 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 2: that would be a struggle for me. 176 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: Now you know why it's so interesting about your background? 177 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: That was your one pause pause, Yeah, completely understandable. 178 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And but then you feel guilty saying that 179 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 2: at the same time, you know, because it's that just 180 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 2: it's obviously a me thing. And she said to me, 181 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 2: the people who get this far they've also been through this, 182 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: and we don't allow somebody who is been on drugs 183 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 2: within this much time, or been in jail and this 184 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 2: much time, or and this much you know. So I 185 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 2: went into it not knowing it could have been some 186 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 2: man who did this. But that was also healing for 187 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 2: me because I have to make peace with that at 188 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 2: the same time. But they, you know, she did assure 189 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 2: me at the time. I don't know that Scott wasn't 190 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,559 Speaker 2: even in their mind because this change that we're getting 191 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: to hadn't been put together. And she but she did 192 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 2: say that they have a you know, they have to 193 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 2: go through the proper steps too, so that would be 194 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 2: very unlike. But she couldn't promise it. 195 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: Okay, so you go home, Oh and something about my 196 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: husband's a farmer. Can't we can't be down when we're harvesting, right. 197 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 2: I can make it work if I have to, but 198 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 2: for my family that the one thing I would ask, 199 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 2: can it not be you know, beginning of October to 200 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 2: mid November for me? And and she was like, we will, yeah, 201 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:23,719 Speaker 2: we will do that. 202 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: What's your husband form? 203 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 2: Oh? So he they are a eighty year old farm 204 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 2: and he is a green so we just stopped milking 205 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 2: two years ago after eighty three years, and so there's 206 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 2: no more dairy yay. And so he's a green we 207 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 2: have steer and he's a grain farmer, so corn soybeans. 208 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: Got it, okay? So I can't do it during harvest. 209 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: Now you've watched the video. Your husband realized when he 210 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: married you you were nuts. So this wasn't that shocking 211 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: to him. You really hadn't told anybody yet outside of 212 00:10:56,040 --> 00:11:00,079 Speaker 1: Ohio state people. And you kind of go home and 213 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: you're on the list of people who are willing to 214 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 1: give your kidney, which is still I just can't even 215 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: I get you say, why not? But that's a lot 216 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: to me? Okay? So what happens? 217 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 2: So I get a call I want to say, the 218 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 2: beginning of November, and they say, hey, Sam, are you 219 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 2: still in because you know time had passed? Are you 220 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 2: still in on for the for the donation? And I said, absolutely, 221 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 2: But what were you thinking? What time? Online? Are you thinking? 222 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 2: Because I'm trying to plan ahead for work because my 223 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 2: job is we have a lot of sports I love. 224 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 2: I know I'm gonna be out, so I'm trying to 225 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 2: what are you thinking? And he said, well, we're working 226 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 2: on something very special and I can't give you the 227 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,719 Speaker 2: details ship because it's still preliminary. We just need to 228 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 2: know if you're still in because it's you're a major 229 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 2: part of that, and it's sure. Yeah, just keep me 230 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: as soon as you know something, let me know. And 231 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 2: he said absolutely, good news, great news. You can just 232 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 2: see the excitement his ways and he hangs up and 233 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: I don't hear from him for two weeks. So now 234 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 2: I'm kind of like, is this they're going to tell 235 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 2: me like two days before. I don't know when I'm 236 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 2: when this is happening. So I have an anxiety mostly 237 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 2: about making sure that my commitments to other people are 238 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 2: taken care of, not about giving got it? No second 239 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 2: guess is in my head? Absolutely dog, And there never 240 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 2: was from day one, Like I knew. I knew this 241 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 2: the second I felt it in my spirit. I knew 242 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 2: that this I had to do it. 243 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,119 Speaker 1: We'll be right back. 244 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 3: Then. 245 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,839 Speaker 2: I called them and I said hey, and he's like oh, 246 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 2: He's like, well, your ears must be burned, and he said, 247 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 2: we were just talking about you. We were going to 248 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 2: call you this afternoon. I said, okay, great, let's talk 249 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 2: about it, and he goes on to explain to me 250 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 2: that we've put together a chain. This is new to me. 251 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 2: This is, you know, not jargon that I know. 252 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and until Mike told me about this quote chain, 253 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 1: I didn't even know this existed. This is phenomenal. So 254 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: really explain it for our listeners. 255 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 2: That would cool. I would do the best I can 256 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 2: because I didn't understand the miracle that it really was 257 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: until I went to the follow up and we got 258 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 2: to meet all I did. I didn't, but they explained 259 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 2: to me at the time. They said, we have a recipient. 260 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 2: We just need you to take a DNA test to 261 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 2: make sure that your DNA's will tolerate each other. Right, 262 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 2: And so I'm just excited. I'm like, oh my gosh, 263 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 2: somebody's life is going to change. I'm so excited. I'm 264 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 2: like just praying this DNA test matches. And he said, well, 265 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 2: and then it's it's actually going to be a chain donation, 266 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 2: a donation chain. He's like, well, be the biggest one 267 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 2: Ohio State's ever done. He's like, can we believe the 268 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 2: biggest one in the nation as far as confirmed in 269 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 2: the short it hasn't been the shortest amount. 270 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: The chain donation ever in the United States. It started 271 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: with you yea, yeah, is it? 272 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 2: Mike did, it's the biggest one in the shortest amount 273 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 2: of time they had one that like where they went 274 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 2: all over the like like one last year. 275 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: I could be lying. Mike said that he was told 276 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: that by the people to state. 277 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 4: Maybe it's the way they're publicizing. It's definitely the Ohio 278 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 4: state's biggest. It might be the biggest in the state. 279 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 4: That's kind of where they left it in. 280 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 2: The biggest in one facility. 281 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: And biggest one Wen has. Nonetheless, it's a big chain, 282 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: but people listen are like, Okay, what's the change, So 283 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: we've got to tell. 284 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 2: So they at the time they explained to me that, 285 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 2: so your recipient has somebody who would donate to him, 286 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,439 Speaker 2: but he's not a match, and that person is going 287 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 2: to donate to somebody else. And they sell it to 288 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 2: me like that's them. That really cool because you did this, 289 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: now this person can get get one to I'm like, oh, 290 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 2: that is amazing, that is amazing, and we're working on 291 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 2: we're working on some details, but we think it'll be 292 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 2: the largest ever. And I was like, oh, that's really cool. 293 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 2: Still don't quite understand it, and I'm like, oh cool, 294 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 2: how fun. So you know, just to be the hospital, 295 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 2: to be a part of that, that's pretty neat. So 296 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 2: I didn't until we went to our preop appointment the 297 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 2: Thursday before, which would have been early December, and when 298 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 2: they sat down and explained to me that the amount 299 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 2: of people and the amount of surgeries and the coordinating 300 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 2: and the how that was all going to work, I 301 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 2: didn't even at that time grasp it. So I get 302 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 2: my kidney's person who was donating on his behalf was 303 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 2: doing to somebody else who also had a person to 304 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 2: know down their behalf, but wasn't a match, so they 305 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 2: donated to somebody actually that only lives like two towns over. 306 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 2: He needed a kidney, and then his sister donated on 307 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 2: his behalf to somebody else. 308 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, so mine correct me. This is my rudimentary understanding. Okay, 309 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: Alex sitting over there needs a kidney. I love Alex 310 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: and I want them to have a kidney. Yes, so 311 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 1: I go in and get tested. Unfortunately, my kidney doesn't 312 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: match Alex, so they can't use me. And then Cassius 313 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: needs a kidney, and mine is good for Cassius. But 314 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: not Alex. But I don't know Cassius. I don't know 315 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: anythink about Cassius. I ain't interested in saving Cassius. I'm 316 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,040 Speaker 1: interested in I'm willing to have my body violated and 317 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 1: cut open and deal with two gallons of water or whatever. 318 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: He said for my best friend Alex or my brother Alex. Yeah, sure, 319 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: but not for somebody else. So somewhere along the line 320 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: needs to come somebody who says, I'm willing to give 321 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: mine to whoever because I just want to help, And 322 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 1: that starts the chain that one goes to this person. 323 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: But now, because mine doesn't go to Alex, well, if 324 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: Alex is getting a kidney from that person, yes, you 325 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 1: can take my kidney for another person that matches, and 326 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: so on down the line, And then it creates this 327 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: chain of donors that can't donate their kidney to the 328 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 1: people that they care about, but they'll trade their kidney 329 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: to go to somebody else that they do match with 330 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: that they don't know, because the person they care about 331 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 1: is going to also get a kidney from someone they 332 00:16:56,440 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: don't know. But it only starts when Sam says. 333 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 2: Yes, right, but that's just right as a group, isn't 334 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 2: that humanity at its best, like that is, that's beautiful. 335 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 1: How many people got kidney soon? Ten? 336 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 2: Ten? The lady at the very end, she didn't have 337 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 2: somebody to ride to donate on her behalf, but she 338 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 2: had been dialysis for several years and was not doing well, 339 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 2: and last I heard she was doing amazing. So ten 340 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 2: people within two days of surgery received their. 341 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 1: Kidneys, meaning twenty surgeries. 342 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:35,399 Speaker 2: Twenty surgeries with ten donors recipients. 343 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 1: Nobody got a kidney from the person who originally was 344 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 1: going to donate their kidney to them because they weren't matched. 345 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:46,199 Speaker 1: But everybody got a kidney. It was a result of 346 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: the chain and ten lives or so ten lives. 347 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, ten people got their lives back. 348 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 349 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: When did this go on? 350 00:17:56,960 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 2: December thirteenth, It was a month ago. Yeah. Yeah. 351 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 1: Were you scared going in to surgery? Most people avoid 352 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:09,400 Speaker 1: that like. 353 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 2: The play and I would, right, Yeah, I'm not. I'm 354 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 2: not going into a surgery for myself voluntarily. No, No, 355 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 2: that it was piece beyond understanding. He wouldn't tell. 356 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 1: Me that, mm hmm, I mean it would freak me 357 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: out of My wife is no. 358 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 2: He he is very good at knowing how to love me. Yeah, 359 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 2: he's mastered. 360 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: That good for him. He'll listen to this. So what's 361 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:44,199 Speaker 1: his first time? Mike gets the gold star? Yeah, so 362 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: this two days happens a month ago. And tell me 363 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 1: about your experience after the day surgery. 364 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 2: Well, I didn't so my nerve blockers didn't work, so 365 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 2: I had I had a little bit of pain. 366 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: Your nerve blockers. 367 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,959 Speaker 2: The nerve blockers up. So there's three different incisions. You 368 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 2: have the big one where he takes two hands and 369 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 2: goes up and gets it, and then you have the 370 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:14,919 Speaker 2: two up here up top where they put in the 371 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 2: instruments and this and the cutters and stuff. 372 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 1: You volunteered for three incisions, one of which two hands 373 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:21,479 Speaker 1: goes inside. 374 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 3: Right. 375 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you are very small, Sam, you are nuts. 376 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: That's incredible. 377 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 2: I don't even know that. See, I feel like the 378 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 2: volunteer isn't the right word. Because I obeyed you what 379 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 2: I obeyed. I obeyed that call. That's all I did, 380 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 2: Like I I Okay, So you woke. 381 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:46,359 Speaker 1: Up and your nerve blocks didn't work, so yeah, you know, 382 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: no kindness goes unpunished. You get to sit there in 383 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,199 Speaker 1: pain for how long? 384 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 2: About seven hours? It was? It was that was, but 385 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 2: that only happened to me. That is not normal. I 386 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:02,239 Speaker 2: don't discourage anybody that is not normal. It was. It 387 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 2: was the most probably the most selfish. I went through 388 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:07,120 Speaker 2: that whole thing where I was really just what did 389 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 2: I do? I am in a lot of pain, so 390 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 2: I've not shared that with anybody besides my fan. 391 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 1: Well, now you just said them thousands of Yeah. So 392 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: then an opportunity happened I think a day and a 393 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,880 Speaker 1: half later or two days before we left. 394 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. So we were getting ready to leave and 395 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 2: on that with that surgery was Friday. We were getting 396 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 2: ready to leave Sunday afternoon as the donors we can leave, 397 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 2: and the nurse came in and she said, your recipient 398 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 2: would like to meet you. No pressure, You absolutely do 399 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 2: not have to do this. And I'm like, oh, for sure, 400 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 2: let's you know. My biggest thing when they said no pressure, 401 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to meet your you know you don't 402 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 2: have to meet them. My thing was, I was no 403 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 2: pressure for you. This was a gift. You don't know me, 404 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 2: you don't need to meet me. You don't this is 405 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 2: a gift. I need to know nothing. And but he 406 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,400 Speaker 2: was willing then for sure, and we don't know what's 407 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 2: a man. At that time, I said absolutely, And the 408 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 2: nurse did say to me, I just want to give 409 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,880 Speaker 2: you a little bit of warning or just so you're 410 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 2: not taken aback that your recipient is deaf. 411 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: Now stop, okay, go back and tell us why that's incredible. 412 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 2: So when I went to college the first year, I 413 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 2: went as a deaf studies major and signed for a 414 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 2: couple of years and then used to sign in church 415 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 2: a little bit. But I haven't signed in fifteen years six. 416 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 1: But the point is, I know early in life, yes, 417 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:33,639 Speaker 1: you actually had some heart for hearing good paired, and 418 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: you've learned to sign in college and then you walk 419 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: in and your recipient it's deaf. It's what a weird 420 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: life connection. 421 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:46,199 Speaker 2: So when she says it to us, she said, he speaks, 422 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 2: he's lost it in childhood, so he speaks well. And 423 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 2: as soon as he says, I just my husband's standing 424 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 2: behind me, and I just turned around look at him, 425 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 2: and he just goes, you've got to be kidding me, like, 426 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 2: just too many things are, you know, lining up here? 427 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 2: And then the nurse took it the wrong way. She's like, oh, 428 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 2: my goodness, is that okay, and I'm like, no, that's 429 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 2: that's more than okay. That's that's pretty beautiful. That is 430 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 2: So for me, it was a full circle moment already, 431 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 2: because you know, I knew I was supposed to do something, 432 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 2: and then it was just reaffirmed that this is this 433 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 2: This guy was supposed to be my guy. This was 434 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 2: super was supposed to happen. 435 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 1: So it was your first conversations with your recipient signing, so. 436 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 2: I wasn't aware. I obviously didn't know Scott at all. 437 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,719 Speaker 2: So I walked in and introduced myself and sign and 438 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 2: asked how he was feeling, and sign, you know, told 439 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 2: her my name and sign and then of course, of 440 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 2: course God's very verbal, so he can speak very clearly 441 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 2: and very well well spoken gentlemen. So yeah, that's how 442 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 2: we met. And the nurses as we left, the nurses 443 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 2: that we do this all the time. We haven't cried 444 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 2: in a long time. She's like that one was too much. 445 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 2: That one they were allsolving, everybody's crying. So yeah, yeah, 446 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 2: so yeah, we get I just of course, thank you, 447 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 2: thank you. He was up and I don't know how 448 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 2: I was feeling, but he pulled it off, you know, 449 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 2: he and his wife. I remember she's saying he had 450 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 2: his of course his his he still had his his 451 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,959 Speaker 2: bag on, and yeah, his catheter was still in. And 452 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 2: she said she's like, most people wouldn't want to see that. 453 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,119 Speaker 2: She's like, that bag makes me so excited because it 454 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:18,120 Speaker 2: was just producing. 455 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 1: So well, he is feeling he's producing urine. The great Yeah, 456 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 1: I don't know if producing urine is usually something to 457 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 1: be really excited about. By getting this case this moment, absolutely, 458 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: we'll be right back. How are you? A month later? 459 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: I am a little surprised by so many people being 460 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 2: aware of this. When I went into it, it was 461 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 2: never going to be something, but how so thankful. I 462 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 2: am so thankful to be a part of something so special. 463 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 2: Never dreamed it would turn into something this big. And 464 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:05,919 Speaker 2: my number one answers, I'm so thankful. So physically, how 465 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,120 Speaker 2: am I? 466 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:07,640 Speaker 1: Okay? 467 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,400 Speaker 2: I just I can't get my pants close quite yet. 468 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 2: But you know, I'm not twenty four, so it's still swollen. Yeah, 469 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 2: it's still above it above the so I don't usually 470 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,719 Speaker 2: carry much weight in my waist, and I do. 471 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what then. 472 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 2: I also they said that they said he said it 473 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 2: would at the appointment. I had some trouble eating afterwards, 474 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 2: but when we went went to our follow up, that 475 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 2: was normal. And eating money. I mean I was in 476 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 2: Memphis last night. We did just fine eating so and just. 477 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,640 Speaker 1: Twenty minutes ago you said, on balance, if I had 478 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 1: five kidneys, I'd give away four more. 479 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 2: One hundred person no questions asked, ten times. Absolutely. I 480 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,479 Speaker 2: mean I get to and I know I don't like 481 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 2: I said, I will never reach out to that family 482 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 2: and say how is he doing? It's it's his gift, 483 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 2: is his life to live, it's his. But I also 484 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 2: get to know that he has a chance. How lucky 485 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: am I? I am so thankful, so so thankful. 486 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 1: Has it have you leveled with yourself? And has it 487 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 1: dawned on you? Without you? This chain of ten people 488 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 1: doesn't happen. And there are ten people's lives, not one 489 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: that are at the very least monumentally changed and the 490 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: worst saved as a result of your selflessness and gift. 491 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 1: I mean, are you allowed are you willing to allow 492 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 1: yourself that? Because that's the truth, Sam, I. 493 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,719 Speaker 2: Mean, I appreciate that that's a fact, and it's just 494 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 2: not I don't know that I'm specifically humble about that, 495 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 2: because I just it's amazing. It's amazing for them. It's 496 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 2: amazing that this happened. It's amazing that the doctors work 497 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,160 Speaker 2: this out. I don't look in the mirror and go wow, 498 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 2: I people get their lives back. That's amazing. That's what's 499 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 2: amazing at this chain worked. 500 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: Albert Pike was a eighteenth century freemason, and he said 501 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: the following, what we do for ourselves in this life 502 00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: does with us. What we do for another last forever 503 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 1: and remains immortal. And he said that on speaking about 504 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 1: the value of a legacy, you protected your mom at fifteen, 505 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 1: that's a legacy. You have enriched the lives of people 506 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 1: all over your county who are the most disadvantaged among 507 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: us by taking a small organization that did bowling and 508 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 1: blowing it up to bowling and flag football and a 509 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: questioning events. And children who can now put down their 510 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 1: stuffed animals because they can touch a horse, and parents' 511 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: lives enriched by being able to see their special needs 512 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:51,359 Speaker 1: children smile. And that's a legacy. And now thus legacy, 513 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 1: and I mean this innocuous unknown farmer's wife with a 514 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: weird last name hanging out and rule. Ohio, My god, 515 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,400 Speaker 1: you've changed laws. 516 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 2: Okay, as how blessed pretty lucky. 517 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 1: Well, still got a lie of life left, and I 518 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 1: guess the legacy is going to keep getting building. Well, 519 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 1: while we were talking, we were rudely interrupted by this 520 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 1: canuck that just popped down next to you. Mike Cubes, 521 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 1: my brother, How are you? 522 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 5: I'm great? How are you coaching? 523 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: I'm great? He just walked in in the middle of 524 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 1: the interview, and uh, it was perfect timing. 525 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:51,880 Speaker 6: And you know, I have a face for radio camera time, 526 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 6: so everybody does on a busy street out so everybody's surprise, surprise. 527 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 1: I introduced you to Mike is my buddy at the 528 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 1: top of the show, and he just plopped down next 529 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 1: to us. Where you've been, You've been a meeting or 530 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: something out saving the world? What are you doing? 531 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 5: Uh? 532 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 6: I do a lot of work for the city of Memphis, 533 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 6: one of my clients, and the parks director was leaving, 534 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 6: so I just gave him a download. He's leaving to 535 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:22,199 Speaker 6: go to on parks for Mecklenburg County and Charlotte got it. 536 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 6: So I just gave him a download of the one 537 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,880 Speaker 6: point four billion dollars of business or so we've done 538 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 6: in the last nine years in Memphis. 539 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've I bragged on you early. Oh, and Sam said, 540 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: I know any of that. 541 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 5: You must have been a short conversation. 542 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 3: No. 543 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 1: I talked about the Tennis Center. I talked about the 544 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: multi use sports complex over by the Liberty Bowl. I 545 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: talked about the naming rights of the Libertyowl, the naming 546 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 1: rights for Insult Center, and how you left us for 547 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 1: Phoenix and then chose to come back to Memphis actually 548 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: without any of that stuff in mind, and have now 549 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: had such a lasting impact on our city. And you 550 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: know how dear a friend you've been to me, and 551 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 1: that I was introduced to your son's story just over 552 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 1: lunches as leukemia came and understanding how he lost his 553 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: hearing and all of it. And then I remember you 554 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 1: telling me that he was in renal failure and if 555 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 1: he didn't get a kidney transplant, it was not going 556 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,920 Speaker 1: to be good. And then not long ago you telling 557 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 1: me my son's doing great, he's got a kidney and 558 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 1: it's an amazing story about this chain and everything else. 559 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 1: And how unbelievable that we're sitting here together and you're 560 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: sitting next to Sam. 561 00:29:47,760 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 5: You know it's it's life changing. I have to him. Second, 562 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 5: it was. 563 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 6: I was reading Scotty's birth announcement this morning that was 564 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 6: written a month after he was born, and how. 565 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 5: To see where he is today. It's what you've done, 566 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 5: is uh. 567 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 6: I told people when I came back and this was 568 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 6: free Christmas. I said, after Christmas, how was your Christmas? 569 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 6: I said, it was another day. I had my Christmas 570 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 6: on December. 571 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 5: Thirteenth and Scotty got his kidney. 572 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 1: When you okay, so everybody is cheering up at this table. 573 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: When you, uh man, Mike, when you when you realize 574 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: that that December thirteenth Christmas for your son Scottie doesn't 575 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 1: happen without the insane level of selflessness from the woman 576 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: set next to you. You know what do you? 577 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 3: I mean? 578 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 1: I think she's crazy. I think she's absolutely nuts to 579 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 1: allow two hands to go in her body RiPP or 580 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: open and go through all the pain and everything for 581 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 1: someone she doesn't even know. Can can you even fathom 582 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: that level of generosity? 583 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 5: Selflessness? 584 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 6: Generosity now just deep down, good to your bones. 585 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 5: It was. 586 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 6: Really moving that people I told the story to afterwards, 587 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 6: and even you said this, And Alex said this said, 588 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 6: light of everything going on, this gives me hope. This 589 00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 6: is an example of there's hope in the world. There's 590 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 6: good people doing great things. And to me, that's what 591 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 6: has been left with me and I'll stay with me forever. 592 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 6: And then as I did more homework, I got to 593 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 6: know the medical team doctor rajab who oversees this amazing 594 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 6: transplant center at the Wexner Medical Center at Iowa State, 595 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 6: and then following it afterwards through different channels to understand 596 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 6: all the connections that these people had that none of 597 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 6: them would have known a month prior. 598 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 5: Just a month only think you got to call November tenth. 599 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: Okay, and you were giving your kidney the super thirteenth. 600 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:57,239 Speaker 6: Yes, So we had been dealing with So Scotty had 601 00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 6: a kidney transplant. 602 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 5: In twenty thirteen. His mom gave. 603 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 6: Him three years into that. There's there are some repercussions 604 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 6: on living donors, whatever it might be, or pancreas, your liver, 605 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 6: your your kidney. If you have mono, it has the 606 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 6: ability to manifest itself in the form of kemia foma. 607 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 6: That happened to him. So he has a kidney transplant. 608 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 6: He's hearing impaired, he gets cancer. You know, he was 609 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 6: a college hockey player. One month after his cancer diagnosis, 610 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 6: he was trying out for the US deef national team 611 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 6: playing the World Championships. Two years later, playing the Death 612 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 6: Olympics in Italy. Never told his coaches. 613 00:33:58,520 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 2: That. 614 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 1: He never told his coaches he had cancer. 615 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 5: They would. 616 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,840 Speaker 6: You know, I knew the coaches pretty well, and I 617 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 6: have some ties to the NHL and these guys that 618 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,400 Speaker 6: were coaching them, and they said, what's up with Scott? 619 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:18,440 Speaker 1: He had like his. 620 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 5: Energy level isn't there. 621 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 6: It'll come, but he just wouldn't tell them. 622 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:35,240 Speaker 1: Tough kid. And then renal failure. 623 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, so twenty six months ago, you know, there was 624 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 6: there was a lot of work going on behind the scenes. 625 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 6: So you had transplant, you get cancer, it ends the age, 626 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 6: renal failure, and it declines, declines, declines to the point 627 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:57,240 Speaker 6: where nine months before is transplant he had he won Dallasis. 628 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 6: We were hoping he would get a transplant before he 629 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 6: had to go on dialysis, because it's a very unpleasant experience, 630 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,840 Speaker 6: let alone going through a kidney transplant and surgery. Dialysis 631 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,759 Speaker 6: in and of itself is three days a week, six 632 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:20,239 Speaker 6: seven hours. What it does to your body. I mean, 633 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 6: it's therapeutic, it's not a cure. It allows you to function, 634 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 6: and this is but. 635 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:34,319 Speaker 1: It's efficiency wanes over time. It's not a When you're 636 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 1: on dialysis, you may not be dying and you can 637 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,720 Speaker 1: live for a while, but you are daily by daily 638 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:44,239 Speaker 1: detegrating the rest of your body. It's not a long term, 639 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: forever fix. 640 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 6: If if in the cards you knew my life span 641 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 6: was another seventy eight years if you had to stay 642 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:59,480 Speaker 6: on dialysis, that would be cut by six right. So 643 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,680 Speaker 6: that's why it's so important for anyone on dialysis to 644 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,280 Speaker 6: get a kidney and a healthy kidney. 645 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 5: And this is sort of funny. I remember. 646 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 6: Saturday morning, doctor Job and the nurses were like so 647 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 6: excited about how many gallons of urine he was producing. 648 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 6: And it was like watching the clock and we would 649 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:36,880 Speaker 6: watch his bag fill up and how many leaders and 650 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:40,759 Speaker 6: how quick it was happening. And Doctor Job came in 651 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 6: Sunday morning, he said, I am amazed. You process five 652 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 6: gallons of urine in forty eight hours. He said, your. 653 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 5: Kidney is doing dynamite. 654 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:58,280 Speaker 6: You got the best kidney of all of them, he said. 655 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 1: Earlier we called it the gold start. 656 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 6: He said, And I don't tell all the patients that, 657 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 6: but I'm telling you you get the best kidney. It 658 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:21,520 Speaker 6: was a perfect fit. We'll be right back. Maybe you've 659 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 6: already talked about this too. But I tested, but they 660 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,840 Speaker 6: didn't tell me why. I just know I'm old and fat. 661 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:33,439 Speaker 1: And I just don't learned that on Facebook here because 662 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 1: I recently learned I'm fat on Facebook. 663 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:40,840 Speaker 6: No, I learned that every day for radio. 664 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. The thing is, Scotty had everybody his life test. 665 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,279 Speaker 1: Nobody matched, so. 666 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:50,200 Speaker 6: His wife's brother got to the one yard line and 667 00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 6: his testing. The doctors were concerned about some level of antibody, said, 668 00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:58,879 Speaker 6: you thought you were. 669 00:37:58,760 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 5: Going to work. You didn't. 670 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:04,280 Speaker 6: That would have been a one to one surgery, right, 671 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 6: And Sean, who's also a selfless guy, Scotty's brother in law, said, 672 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:16,319 Speaker 6: I don't care. I'm staying in so long as me 673 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:18,360 Speaker 6: giving a kidney is going to help Scott. 674 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:22,840 Speaker 1: He get a kidney, and down the line for ten people. 675 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 6: So then you get a call in November tenth, Sam, 676 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 6: Sam does, and then the whole thing's coming together. And 677 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 6: none of us really comprehended how all of this work 678 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:42,279 Speaker 6: had been done for months and months and months, well 679 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:46,720 Speaker 6: over a year, of trying to bring this twenty person 680 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 6: exchange together. I don't think they started out and said 681 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 6: let's build a roadmap for a twenty person exchange. 682 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:54,240 Speaker 1: It just connected. 683 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,200 Speaker 5: It just all worked out. 684 00:38:57,160 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 6: Sean tested matched this person, that person's whoever their relative was, 685 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 6: said Okay, you're not a match for I'll just call 686 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 6: them your uncle, your father, your brother, your cousin, but 687 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 6: you're a match for this other person who's on our list. 688 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,520 Speaker 6: They just kept doing that and the pieces came together, 689 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,520 Speaker 6: with Sam being the final piece of that twenty person puzzle. 690 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,920 Speaker 1: Which if Sam, who has no relationship to anybody in 691 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:32,800 Speaker 1: the chain, doesn't say I'm in the chain breaks. 692 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,719 Speaker 6: If Sam said on that call on November tenth, you 693 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 6: know what, I changed my mind and we've got a plan. 694 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 6: We're going to Europe for Christmas. The dates don't work. 695 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,920 Speaker 6: Some of the people would have gotten a kidney, but 696 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 6: I know Scotty wouldn't have and I don't think it 697 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,719 Speaker 6: would have been anywhere near the twenty person exchange. 698 00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 2: But let's just take me out of it. What if 699 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 2: Sean had been a man at that had been that 700 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 2: would have been great for Scott right because Scott would 701 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,359 Speaker 2: have got his kidney, but all those other people went, 702 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,960 Speaker 2: so it all worked out that Sewn didn't match directly. 703 00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, it was actually a 704 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 1: blessing for the entire group. So Sewan didn't match. So 705 00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 1: what looked like, oh no, we don't have a kidney 706 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,160 Speaker 1: ended up being a blessing for far more people than 707 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 1: just Scott. 708 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 6: Well, yeah, we got that call in October and we 709 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,080 Speaker 6: were thinking he was gonna he was doing so well 710 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,520 Speaker 6: in the testing, he was going to get to the 711 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 6: finish line. Finally this is going to happen. Scott is 712 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 6: gonna get off dialysis. And then I was like, just. 713 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 1: Not a fit. 714 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 6: But behind the scenes, that medical team were just amazing. 715 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:50,320 Speaker 6: We're doing all of this work and I still don't 716 00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 6: understand how they eventually found you. 717 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:54,960 Speaker 1: Sham volunteered, dude. 718 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:55,759 Speaker 2: He didn't feel that. 719 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,880 Speaker 6: I know that, but I don't know how, because you 720 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,120 Speaker 6: did that a long time before November. 721 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 2: I did, but I asked four years ago. No no, no, no, 722 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,919 Speaker 2: no no. I was done with my testing just in May. 723 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:10,400 Speaker 5: In May, can you believe. 724 00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 2: I felt, Yeah, I felt, it's. 725 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 1: Very cool that we're sitting here. This is so fresh. 726 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:21,600 Speaker 1: It only happened a month ago, and your call to 727 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,799 Speaker 1: do this that rang up in your crazy head was 728 00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: only in May, right, I mean we're talking six months here, 729 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 1: and it all came together and ten people's lives changed. 730 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,719 Speaker 6: Which has never happened to have a twenty person exchange 731 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,560 Speaker 6: they believe in the country, But the biggest one they 732 00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,320 Speaker 6: have done at Ohio State was five. 733 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, you told me, Alex and I kind of we 734 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:54,000 Speaker 1: always want to be accurate, but they think this may 735 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,320 Speaker 1: be the largest chain ever conducted in the United States. 736 00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,560 Speaker 1: And that's what the people to how State told you October. 737 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 1: Jobs said that, yeah, And whether it's the biggest or 738 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: one of the biggest is still phenomenal. 739 00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:10,839 Speaker 6: Whether it was twenty eighteen or four. You know, if 740 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 6: it helped four people or ten people, it's still all remarkable. 741 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,520 Speaker 6: But you know, we're sitting here today with Sam because 742 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 6: of an altruistic donor. Of the twenty called the ten, 743 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 6: we had one altruistic donor who made it happen. All 744 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:42,560 Speaker 6: other nine people add some kind of connection to the recipients. 745 00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 1: And the one who didn't is on your left. 746 00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:44,880 Speaker 5: Right. 747 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:57,400 Speaker 1: When you consider the depth of that selflessness and that gift, 748 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure you've said it to or before for but 749 00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 1: what were your words to her? 750 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 6: So, Sam, Yeah, I didn't really speak that day because 751 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 6: I thought that was her in Scottis moment. 752 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,960 Speaker 5: Mmmm, all I said. 753 00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,959 Speaker 6: And Ali, my daughter was there too, and I think 754 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 6: it was just the three of us. Oh, and Scotty's 755 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:26,640 Speaker 6: wife Lizzie was there. All I said was thank you. 756 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:34,399 Speaker 6: You've saved Scotty's life. You've benefited so many people, done 757 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 6: this selflessly. This was meant to happen. But you know, 758 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,839 Speaker 6: I didn't look at that time when we met, as 759 00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:48,920 Speaker 6: I stayed in the background and said, this is Scotty's 760 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:54,880 Speaker 6: moment to make that connection. Yeah, And what was remarkable 761 00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,359 Speaker 6: was how you walked in the room and immediately use 762 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,320 Speaker 6: sign language and all of us were just blown away. 763 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:09,000 Speaker 6: And you know, your sign language is very good. And 764 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:13,760 Speaker 6: Scotty was blown away. He's like talking to you and 765 00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,720 Speaker 6: he said afterwards, he said, I had no idea. 766 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 1: Well neither did Sale. 767 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's feels as if this entire thing has a 768 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,000 Speaker 3: little bit of divinity to it. 769 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:32,799 Speaker 5: I believe that. 770 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 1: I believe that, what. 771 00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:39,640 Speaker 2: About you, girl, And just like I said before the connection, 772 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,880 Speaker 2: I felt to just them as a couple, and your 773 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 2: daughter is just she's a precious young lady, and just 774 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 2: she came from I don't know, Mike, but you could 775 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,919 Speaker 2: just just the energy of that family. 776 00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 6: You know, and Apple's fall My tree, our apple tree 777 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:55,760 Speaker 6: was on the top of the hills. 778 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:57,880 Speaker 5: So it do. 779 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:04,200 Speaker 2: The kind of people that you just sit back and say, 780 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 2: I'm just so happy for them and that they get 781 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 2: to do this. They're kind of people you want to 782 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,840 Speaker 2: see succeed. You know. I left there and I again, 783 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 2: I don't know how to explain it, almost your selfish 784 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 2: to say it, but that you can this young couple, 785 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 2: you know, married two years, shy have two years at the. 786 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 5: Time, their anniversary was New Year's Eve. 787 00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that they get this chance, and that I 788 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 2: got to be a small little part of the joys 789 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:33,520 Speaker 2: that lay ahead for them. 790 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 6: For eleven months into their marriage when he had his 791 00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 6: and stage renal failure. 792 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:55,640 Speaker 1: I don't I can't help. But your DNA, a piece 793 00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 1: of you is walking around on another person's human body 794 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:09,439 Speaker 1: allowing them to breathe. That's just phenomenal. I mean, yeah, 795 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 1: that's true. 796 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 5: Breathing is also essential. 797 00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,719 Speaker 1: So I mean you bring a whole new light to 798 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:23,440 Speaker 1: the saying you need to give of yourself. You literally 799 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,360 Speaker 1: gave of yourself. 800 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,240 Speaker 2: Well, that DNA they scientifically it says that the DNA 801 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,200 Speaker 2: can't affect him fromup to two years. So if he 802 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,360 Speaker 2: all of a sudden becomes like a big history baffer, 803 00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:38,799 Speaker 2: eat a bunch of weird stuff. Sorry about that. 804 00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:47,279 Speaker 7: So he becomes a farmer, Yeah, he starts starts in 805 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:52,760 Speaker 7: donating gold, folks, homes, peaches, pickle, pickle beets or something. 806 00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:59,080 Speaker 1: Cookbooks. You know, Sam, as I was thinking about what 807 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:04,600 Speaker 1: you did. I couldn't help, but wonder what if there 808 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:09,440 Speaker 1: were one hundred SAMs? And is there a need for 809 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 1: one hundred SAMs? This is really that big a deal 810 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:18,120 Speaker 1: or is this one off? Alex, being his steadfast producer self, 811 00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 1: came up with some information according to the Organ Procurement 812 00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:29,240 Speaker 1: and Transplant Network. Who knew, but there is one. There 813 00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:35,680 Speaker 1: are today one hundred and four thousand, eight hundred and 814 00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:42,480 Speaker 1: forty people on the Transpoint transplant weight list, and ninety thousand, 815 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:47,799 Speaker 1: five hundred and six people today need a kidney. The 816 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 1: average person needed a kidney transplant weights five years, meaning they're, 817 00:47:52,320 --> 00:48:00,959 Speaker 1: in Mike's words, they're undergoing five years of unpleasantness. There's 818 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 1: only around twenty five thousand kidney transplants a year against 819 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 1: the ninety thousand who need one, so a quarter maybe 820 00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:15,640 Speaker 1: twenty eight percent, which means seventy two percent of the 821 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:25,080 Speaker 1: people who need a kidney are struggling. It leads to 822 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:32,439 Speaker 1: an estimated twelve people die every day because they didn't 823 00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,799 Speaker 1: get the opportunity to get a kidney, twelve people a 824 00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 1: day out of this ninety thousand needing one. Alex says 825 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 1: it would be an awesome thing to build an army 826 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:51,240 Speaker 1: of transplant doms. And Alex even says he's thinking about 827 00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 1: it now. He said, you just need two extra cover 828 00:48:56,360 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 1: or so. Sam. Not only does your story honestly save 829 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:09,680 Speaker 1: without your chain save ten people's lives, maybe you could 830 00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:14,320 Speaker 1: save more because if your selflessness and your story inspires 831 00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:19,400 Speaker 1: people like Alex and others when they realize there's one 832 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:23,000 Speaker 1: hundred thousand people right now, twelve a day of which 833 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:30,160 Speaker 1: are dying without a kidney. If you put together a 834 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:33,720 Speaker 1: thousand people willing to give a kidney with ten thousand 835 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:41,280 Speaker 1: with ten person chains, guess what. Everybody gets kidney. 836 00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 2: Less than a month of your less than a month 837 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 2: of your life, and I'm basically back to normal, and 838 00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,560 Speaker 2: his life is back to normal. What hadn't been? 839 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, text me last week, got my stables removed. I 840 00:49:54,680 --> 00:50:01,760 Speaker 6: can drive again. A big moment, and this doesn't really matter. 841 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:03,759 Speaker 6: I was saying to Alex, we need to toughen him 842 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:05,640 Speaker 6: up because he broke his finger hitting a bug. 843 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,319 Speaker 1: But yeah, Alex broke his finger. What do you do 844 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,080 Speaker 1: hit a bug? Hit a bug? Yeah? 845 00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:11,719 Speaker 5: And I said, your kids. 846 00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:15,800 Speaker 1: Got Your kid's got cancer, kidney death, everything else, playing hockey, 847 00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,000 Speaker 1: not telling his people, going to Italy to play a 848 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,160 Speaker 1: national championship. Alex is over here splintered up because he 849 00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 1: tried to kill a bug. Yeah, brief. 850 00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:28,840 Speaker 6: So I have I've had back surgery since I just 851 00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:33,000 Speaker 6: had a spinal surgery lovely when, and I've had eight 852 00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:36,280 Speaker 6: years of nerve blocks. I only tell you that because 853 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,560 Speaker 6: when the doctors at Campbell Clinic said, okay, we're going 854 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:44,160 Speaker 6: to schedule for December twelfth, said I can't do it. 855 00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,879 Speaker 6: I didn't say why. I said, when's the next day? 856 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:53,680 Speaker 6: So it was January the third, and my surgery was 857 00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:58,760 Speaker 6: they call MINIMALI invasive, but that's like a banker saying 858 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:07,319 Speaker 6: we have low introductory Yeah. So all of that, Like 859 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 6: it just made me feel like, Okay, what I'm going 860 00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:12,360 Speaker 6: to go through is easy. 861 00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 1: Well, it's also interesting to think about you had to 862 00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:20,720 Speaker 1: go through that to fix yourself. Can you imagine saying, 863 00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to fill out an application 864 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,560 Speaker 1: and do this. I'm just gonna do it because I 865 00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,120 Speaker 1: mean what Sam did. Yeah, I'm going to go through 866 00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,279 Speaker 1: all this crowd and it doesn't benefit a thing for me. 867 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 1: In fact, it takes a little bit from me. I mean, 868 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 1: just the selflessness. It's unbelievable that the thing is these 869 00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:45,040 Speaker 1: stats tell us that, you know, Sam, maybe your story 870 00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 1: inspires other people and there'll be other lives saves as 871 00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:49,960 Speaker 1: a result of your selflessness. It's very possible. 872 00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:51,719 Speaker 2: That would be beautiful. 873 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:53,960 Speaker 4: She does get a lot out of it, though, Bill, 874 00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,319 Speaker 4: as you say, you get a thousand times more out 875 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 4: of it than you ever put into it. 876 00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 1: You do, and Sam said this, So here's the deal, Sam, 877 00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,800 Speaker 1: We're an army of normal folks. We celebrate normal people 878 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:09,440 Speaker 1: you've never heard of that do extraordinary things. I have 879 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:14,200 Speaker 1: been doing this now, what Alex twars almost two years 880 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:20,880 Speaker 1: and I've interviewed people that have started organizations that are 881 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 1: now countrywide that affect thousands and thousands alive and interviewed, 882 00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:30,480 Speaker 1: just all walks and manner of life. And it's not 883 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:35,040 Speaker 1: a competition, and we all celebrate each other. Yes, and 884 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 1: that's the whole power behind this army and normal folks. 885 00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 1: If we continue to celebrate each other, we don't care 886 00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 1: if you're white, black, Asian, Latino, Hispanic, gay, straight, Republican, progressive. 887 00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 1: I'm trying to come up with all of the categories 888 00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:53,200 Speaker 1: that we seem to divide ourselves into, but we don't 889 00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,840 Speaker 1: matter any of those categories because if you do something 890 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:59,080 Speaker 1: extraordinary for another person that's not advantaged as you, I 891 00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:02,839 Speaker 1: can celebrate you regardless of how I vote, who I love, 892 00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:06,120 Speaker 1: or what I look like. And likewise, if I'm doing 893 00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:08,840 Speaker 1: the same, you can celebrate me. And then from that foundation, 894 00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:12,359 Speaker 1: maybe we can start having civil, non threatened conversations about 895 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:15,320 Speaker 1: the stuff that matters, because that defines us as human 896 00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:20,279 Speaker 1: beings first, not sexuality or faith or politics. 897 00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:20,600 Speaker 5: Right. 898 00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 1: So, after this almost two years we've been doing this, 899 00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say to you, Sam, I have not teared 900 00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:40,000 Speaker 1: up at this table before today. Your selflessness and the 901 00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 1: profound effect you've had by just being a human being 902 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:52,319 Speaker 1: that saw an area need and filled. It is inspiring 903 00:53:52,400 --> 00:54:00,279 Speaker 1: to me. I feel so little next to you. You 904 00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:07,959 Speaker 1: make me want to be better. So I'm gonna wrap 905 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 1: this way. Thanks for coming to Memphis. I hope you 906 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,719 Speaker 1: had some more barbecue. I hope the swelling around your 907 00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,919 Speaker 1: belly goes down and you enjoy the marathon. I hope 908 00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:18,879 Speaker 1: you enjoy your two leads of water for the rest 909 00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,360 Speaker 1: of your life. I know you're going to do continue 910 00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:26,360 Speaker 1: to do amazing things in your community with the handicapped 911 00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,759 Speaker 1: and the special needs, but I'm going to let it 912 00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:34,600 Speaker 1: in this way. Mike, close this out with whichever you 913 00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:35,240 Speaker 1: want to say. 914 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:36,960 Speaker 5: To Sam Well. 915 00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:44,880 Speaker 6: I yeah, in a very, very tiny, small way. Started 916 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,399 Speaker 6: a conversation with Bill and Alex two and a half 917 00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:51,680 Speaker 6: years ago just about this concept. So I have really 918 00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:54,520 Speaker 6: nothing to do with it. But I am an avid 919 00:54:54,600 --> 00:55:00,439 Speaker 6: consumer and every time I drive to Ohio, a nine 920 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:05,040 Speaker 6: hour drive one turned into twelve with traffic. The only 921 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,600 Speaker 6: thing I listened to is an army of normal folks, 922 00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:12,600 Speaker 6: and every one of them inspires me. But none of 923 00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:19,000 Speaker 6: them touched me personally. This one has, and I I 924 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:25,799 Speaker 6: know in December thirteenth, I felt differently about world and 925 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:31,640 Speaker 6: people and how much more we can do together, and 926 00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:35,799 Speaker 6: that I have to stop just checking the boxes and 927 00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:37,360 Speaker 6: setting alarms and. 928 00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 5: Doing the same thing. 929 00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:44,400 Speaker 6: I want to do something different because you inspire me 930 00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 6: and you saved my son's life. 931 00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:51,799 Speaker 1: Can in any better than that? Sam, thanks for being here, 932 00:55:52,000 --> 00:56:00,680 Speaker 1: Thank you, and thank you for joining us this week. 933 00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:05,319 Speaker 1: If Sam Flettererjohn has inspired you in general, or better yet, 934 00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:10,080 Speaker 1: to take action by donating a kidney, by. 935 00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,239 Speaker 4: Come on, Bill, there's a need. Don't say that tentatively. 936 00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,560 Speaker 4: We already talked about this in the podcast. I mean 937 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:16,240 Speaker 4: of kidneys need to be donated. 938 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:21,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I get it, but my gosh, I mean, that's 939 00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:26,640 Speaker 1: that's an extreme gift. It's unbelievable. Well, if she has 940 00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:30,640 Speaker 1: inspired you to donate a kidney or getting involved with 941 00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:35,279 Speaker 1: special Olympics or something else entirely, please let me know. 942 00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,040 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear about it. You can write me 943 00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,840 Speaker 1: anytime at Bill at normal folks dot us, and I 944 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:45,319 Speaker 1: swear to you I will respond. If you enjoyed this episode, 945 00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:49,239 Speaker 1: share it with friends and on social subscribe to the podcast, 946 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:53,120 Speaker 1: rate and review it. Join the Army at normal folks 947 00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:57,120 Speaker 1: dot us, consider becoming a Premium member there any and 948 00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:00,640 Speaker 1: all of these things that will help us grow an 949 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:05,640 Speaker 1: army of normal folks. Remember, guys, the more listeners, the 950 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:09,480 Speaker 1: more impact. Thanks to our producer, Iron Light Labs, I'm 951 00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,600 Speaker 1: Bill Courtney. Until next time, do it you can