WEBVTT - Medical Billing Nightmares and How to Solve Them

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we're back. We're back. We're back, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back from vacation slash many not really honeymoon because

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<v Speaker 1>I went on it with two couples. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>been in a couples trip, manny.

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<v Speaker 2>A couple's trip? Have I? Technically every summer we go

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<v Speaker 2>on a camping trip with our friends and we've now

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<v Speaker 2>become a couple's trip because everyone's booed up and married

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. Ok So yeah, yeah, yeah, I have. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>not to Jamaica though.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it was honestly, it was gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like just a girl's trip. Me and my bestie. We

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<v Speaker 1>typically go away at least once a year with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we were like, oh, you know, we should

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<v Speaker 1>bring the guys because we felt it was close to

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<v Speaker 1>father well Father's Day path not too long, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was just like okay, And then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up randomly getting married, so I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>this can be like like a test run for a honeymoon.

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<v Speaker 1>And then another friend of mine when we've had on

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<v Speaker 1>the show, Lovey, said oh, I'll come too, and so

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<v Speaker 1>it just became like six of us. Honestly, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was actually really good. I was nervous because I

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<v Speaker 1>knew the girls because we all knew each other, so

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<v Speaker 1>I knew we'd all get along. But it's like bringing

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<v Speaker 1>your like you know, I don't I hate to call

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<v Speaker 1>many kids, but you know, you're like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>are our kids gonna play well together? And they did.

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<v Speaker 1>One of them was like this was like they were like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like adult summer camp. The guys hang with

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<v Speaker 1>the guys, the girls hang with the girls, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we hang out together. So that happened all throughout, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like, yeah, it was honestly.

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<v Speaker 2>We had exactly how our trips end up to the

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<v Speaker 2>girls go do their thing and the guys go find something.

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<v Speaker 1>To break right or like in Jamaica, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was a little different.

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<v Speaker 2>It was they really don't grow up they at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like wow, and it was just it was

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<v Speaker 1>just I realized, I don't I've never seen Superman like

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<v Speaker 1>interact with like I mean, I'm used to seeing him

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<v Speaker 1>with like his friends, but it was interesting to see

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<v Speaker 1>him with like kind of friends. You know, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because with his friends, you know, he's I guess he's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like the quiet one. But I was like

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<v Speaker 1>he's really like the connector. He's like pretty social because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really like, you know, I'm the talkative one, so

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<v Speaker 1>typically he's like, you know, okay, Tiffany got it. And

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<v Speaker 1>he has a twin brother who is also very like

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<v Speaker 1>outgoing and social, so he's I see now that he's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like the deflector, like, so if you're social,

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<v Speaker 1>you got it. But the other two guys that were

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<v Speaker 1>on the trip, they weren't super talkative. So all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, I'm like, is that him over there facility

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<v Speaker 1>facilitating all the fun? It was so weird to like

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<v Speaker 1>see them across the beach and he's like the animated one.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, since when? So that part was really like

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<v Speaker 1>interesting thing to see. I'm like, you're a storyteller's story,

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<v Speaker 1>so that was actually like a lot of fun. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what they put in the Jamaican rum

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<v Speaker 1>I don't drink, so me and the other girl love

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<v Speaker 1>you here with that she does we don't drink so

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<v Speaker 1>but surprisingly no one was even though you know, they

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<v Speaker 1>were Jamaican running it up. I guess they put like

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<v Speaker 1>next to no alcohol, but everybody was like super good.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you know, those all inclusive resorts. They watered that

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<v Speaker 2>stuff down. Yeah, I was not impressed with the Dominican

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<v Speaker 2>resort Pina Coladas.

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<v Speaker 1>I must say, you're like another one. Actually put three

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<v Speaker 1>in one of these.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, I'm not trying to feel sloppy, but

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<v Speaker 2>I want to feel a little nice on my vacation. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>did were you guys at an all inclusive resort?

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, girl Bob. It was like everything, and I

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<v Speaker 1>liked it because there was like a little like beach

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like restaurant where you can get stuff grilled

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<v Speaker 1>and then they're also the resort itself had two like restaurants,

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<v Speaker 1>and then of course it had like kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>the open like buffet cafeteria type thing. So it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was small, which I liked. It wasn't one of

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<v Speaker 1>these mega resorts where it's like three or four hundred units.

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<v Speaker 1>It was only like eighty. And they were like these

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<v Speaker 1>treetop villas, so you didn't we didn't have hotels. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>had their own individual like tiki like villa. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really cute. Honestly, I liked it a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>They're nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't know this, but like I guess, certain

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<v Speaker 1>islands you can like pay for vip conci your service

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<v Speaker 1>where they'll like walk you through customs and everything. And so,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just bought my thing. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>we were being fancy. I got it on Expedia. It

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<v Speaker 1>was it was a you know, a great deal and

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<v Speaker 1>it came with it. And I was like, why, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I could ever go back to a normal airport.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we walked through every line and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>customs lines are so long, especially if you're not a

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<v Speaker 1>citizen of that country. I mean we walked to the

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<v Speaker 1>front of every line and then we waited like in

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<v Speaker 1>a they called it Mobei Cafe, which is cute, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we waited for like our transportation to take us

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<v Speaker 1>to the hotel, this cute little cafe where it's more

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<v Speaker 1>rum punch and food and it was really really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we got upgraded to first class first row.

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<v Speaker 1>On the way back home, I said, it can't get

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<v Speaker 1>any better than this.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know that because you've oh, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, it is because well, I mean I figured

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<v Speaker 1>it because I was like, how did we get upgraded?

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<v Speaker 1>So I asked, and she's like, oh, you booked it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, who's Tiffany because I'm a freaking flyer, and

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<v Speaker 1>so she was like, you know, like they just happened

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<v Speaker 1>to have the empty seats, and you know, She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>we always looked to see obviously to like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>reward our frequent flyers because I frequently fly with United,

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<v Speaker 1>no judgment United tubs in Newark where I lived, and

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<v Speaker 1>so they were like, you know, we upgraded you, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, we saw you had a party with

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<v Speaker 1>you and I was like, look it. God, so we

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<v Speaker 1>were the first four seats in the front. Ya. You

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't tell us nothing. I didn't even know. People got

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<v Speaker 1>like it was only like a three hour flight. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you get a whole meal. I was like, I'll take

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<v Speaker 1>the salmon and the chicken. You know. Superman was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, babe, like cause we had like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>VIP service here, you know, upgrades there. He was like, Babe, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>your life is nothing but amazing since I married you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's been a.

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<v Speaker 2>Month, but don't discourage that, don't they I.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, right, I'll thank you. He was like, oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>vacation was awesome. Everything was just so awesome. And I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, married life has been really good.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I prefer I don't not prefer it's different.

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<v Speaker 2>I love traveling with friends. I just feel like you're

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<v Speaker 2>less likely to get bored. And I mean, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like other couples can maybe relate to this,

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<v Speaker 2>But there's this like pressure to go on trips together

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<v Speaker 2>and like really just like have the most amazing time

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<v Speaker 2>and to be obsessed with each other. I'd be more

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<v Speaker 2>every moment of every day. But yeah, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like regular life, like you need breaks, yeah, and one

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<v Speaker 2>of you wants to do one thing, the other one

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to do that thing. And like when you

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<v Speaker 2>have friends, you can just like break off into groups

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<v Speaker 2>and then you have like your separate activities and you

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<v Speaker 2>come back at the end of the day. I like

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<v Speaker 2>the variety.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I honestly I did. I thought because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you think yourself. Oh, I mean, it's nice to be

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<v Speaker 1>booed up, because it was you know, we had definitely

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<v Speaker 1>we all had our boot time, but it was also

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, switch it up, like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hanging with the girls, and then we hang out

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<v Speaker 1>the group and then me and Superman by ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like I love to go to resorts too,

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<v Speaker 2>but my husband hates the water. He's like he and

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<v Speaker 2>his brother are like the two Dominicans who do not

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<v Speaker 2>like the ocean. It is the meanest trick in history. Really, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they just hate they don't like the water. And I

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<v Speaker 2>love the water, and so does my brother in law, sister,

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<v Speaker 2>his sister, my brother in law's girlfriend. And I'm like, great,

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<v Speaker 2>so we can go do beach vacations. You and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>be budied up. We can go do the water sports

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<v Speaker 2>and excursions and they can just go do their thing

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone's happy and there's no like arguing and like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you don't want to come to the swim

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<v Speaker 2>with the toothless sharks with me, like you know in

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<v Speaker 2>our last vacation, which is a real fight you have

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<v Speaker 2>when you travel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I mean I was, because at first it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, everybody was like I don't want to do

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<v Speaker 1>any excursion. I don't want to do anything. And then

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<v Speaker 1>after two days we were like, we should do an

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<v Speaker 1>excursion because we're bored. So we did a fun one.

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<v Speaker 1>It was at and then it was like some like

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<v Speaker 1>natural springs at the end which were freezing but fun.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was a nice little break and then it

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<v Speaker 1>was beach again. But you know because after a while,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm not like every single day go to

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<v Speaker 1>the beach from sun up to sundown. Although I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>the beach, I'm like, so is there any other activity?

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<v Speaker 1>So your ATVing was definitely like a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I love act I'm too afraid of the sun. I

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<v Speaker 2>get made fun of. I have an obsession with SPF.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not because I'm worried about having darker skin. That

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<v Speaker 2>is not kind. I just say that it is not

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<v Speaker 2>the reason. I'm not one of those people, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>really worried about skin damage and I'm trying to be

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<v Speaker 2>on my j LO game when I'm fifty. And I thought,

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<v Speaker 2>she jala when I read this, or I can't even

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<v Speaker 2>tell you what when I read this, but she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>my secret is spray tanning. Not that I spray tann

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<v Speaker 2>but spray tanning and no sun and she's super golden

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. And I was like, I must learn

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<v Speaker 2>her ways and I must not have terrible skin. But also, Loki,

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<v Speaker 2>my mother has had several melanoma removed from from my body,

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<v Speaker 2>and so be on that you know what I found out.

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<v Speaker 2>You can purchase sunscreen with your FSA account. This is major, really, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>when I discovered that, I was like, I need a

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<v Speaker 2>bigger bag.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell people what's FSA?

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<v Speaker 2>People like this is my favorite? My absolutely, I think

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<v Speaker 2>I did a brown boost for this before, which is

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<v Speaker 2>it's my favorite thing in the planet. If you have

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<v Speaker 2>a healthcare plan where you can get a flex savings account. Basically,

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<v Speaker 2>a flexible savings account is something that accompanies your health

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<v Speaker 2>plan and you put in money that you earn before

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<v Speaker 2>taxes are taken out into a little fund, and then

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<v Speaker 2>they give you a debit card and you can use

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<v Speaker 2>your FSA card anytime you pick up prescriptions, you pay

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<v Speaker 2>for your copays, you pick up approved over the counter medicines,

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<v Speaker 2>and even stuff like I mentioned sunscreen Contact solution is included.

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<v Speaker 2>Your prescription glasses are included. So I always get my

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<v Speaker 2>glasses from Warby Parker, which is which is online, right,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's not like, uh, it's not like I go

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<v Speaker 2>to a doctor and I can swipe my FSA card

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<v Speaker 2>and I for some reason when I tried using my

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes FSA cards can be annoying. They don't always work.

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<v Speaker 2>On when you try and shop with them online, I

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<v Speaker 2>think because what they're not really getting the right code

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever is if they would if you were just

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<v Speaker 2>shopping at a Dwayne Read or write Aid or something.

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<v Speaker 2>So but it's also easy. I just keep my receipt

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<v Speaker 2>and then I submit a claim and I always get

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<v Speaker 2>refunded and it's no big deal. So that is, as

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<v Speaker 2>I say, alert for the day.

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<v Speaker 1>It smarty, hoty, that's good. I never thought about it that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I feel so special now because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>now that I'm married, I'm like, oh, I g it

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<v Speaker 1>is shirt. I was like, let me see. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>all keep my insurance card. It's because it's that good

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<v Speaker 1>insurance too. I'm like, oh I take that. Oh you

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<v Speaker 1>can run that test. No worries here, Yeah no. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I learned today, Like, well not today,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had to go for like blood work or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>like before my insurance car came in and I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even sure if I was fully insured yet. And the

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<v Speaker 1>woman who was taking my blood work she was telling

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<v Speaker 1>me because she was like, I asked her how much

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<v Speaker 1>is the how much is the lab test? And she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. You know, they'll send you a bill.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh. She was like, why are you

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<v Speaker 1>not insured? I was like, honestly, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>just yet. You know, I applied, but you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's kicked in yet. And she was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you tell them you don't have insurance, they can

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<v Speaker 1>lower your bill up to seventy percent. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>wait what so I don't know if that's like lab

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<v Speaker 1>tests across the board, but for sure. She was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let them know and then negotiate down seventy

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<v Speaker 1>percent then, you know, and she's she said, they're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to share that with you, but you can you

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<v Speaker 1>can say that, and I was just like okay. She

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<v Speaker 1>actually gave me a paper where I guess they you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like they coached their clients and how to do so,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, wow, this is great. So I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm pretty sure but by the time I

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<v Speaker 1>get the bill, I'll have my insurance card, so I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be able to, like, you know, just be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I do have insurance. But I just thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was such a great tip to pass along about

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<v Speaker 1>negotiating down because I've definitely negotiated down other hospital bills

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<v Speaker 1>before when I really did not have insurance altogether significantly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think over fifty percent. I owed at one point

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<v Speaker 1>maybe had fifteen hundred dollars because I tried to die

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<v Speaker 1>my own hair and not knowing I was allergic to

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<v Speaker 1>a black hair dye and so my face swelled up

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<v Speaker 1>like a balloon. And I went to the emergency room,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, after them giving me a bend a

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<v Speaker 1>drill basically, and that was it, a ben a drill

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<v Speaker 1>and sit down. It was twelve it was twelve hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>I nearly wept, like well, she wrote me a prescription.

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<v Speaker 1>I just knew it was like some special elixir from

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<v Speaker 1>the gods. And when I went to the pharmacy and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I have a prescription for my for

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<v Speaker 1>my death, to my my near death experience, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, go to AL seven. I'm like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I have was prescription. She's like, yeah, it's ben droll,

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<v Speaker 1>Go to All seven. I said, ben drill. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>was levid. I'm like that lady could have told me.

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<v Speaker 1>She could have just said go home against some bended

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<v Speaker 1>dr I didn't know that's what they gave me the

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<v Speaker 1>hospital and that's the Oh my god. And so when

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<v Speaker 1>I got my twelve hundred dollars bill, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>talked them down to like six or seven hundred. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>around six hundred. So I was able to talk them down.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, even if you have insurance, Like it's what you're

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<v Speaker 2>saying that your insurance wouldn't cover the lab test. So

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<v Speaker 2>even though you have it and you have to pay

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<v Speaker 2>out of pocket.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I have the thing is I So when we

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<v Speaker 1>got married. As soon as we got married, he went

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<v Speaker 1>to his HR. I was like, hey, I have a wife.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to put her on my insurance. And so

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<v Speaker 1>that was the twenty third of June, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>got my insurance card in mail, but it was like

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<v Speaker 1>I realized it was my dental insurance card. But still

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<v Speaker 1>his insurance is altogether. So there was just a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of confusion today when I was calling, like am I insured?

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go to the doctor today to go

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I have to get my lab tests. And

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<v Speaker 1>so they were just like, h we don't see you

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<v Speaker 1>in the system. So basically I know by the time

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<v Speaker 1>I get because they backdated it to when you first

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<v Speaker 1>first submitted your paperwork. So I'm pretty sure by the

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<v Speaker 1>time I get my bill, I should be fine. But

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that she just gave me that little tidbit

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<v Speaker 1>of like, hey, you can talk them down seventy percent

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<v Speaker 1>if it turns out your insurance hasn't kicked in yet.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just I did in my back pocket of oh,

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<v Speaker 1>something to share with the BA listeners.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think labs, like anything that's really that's like

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<v Speaker 2>a standard thing, like a lab result, like an MRI,

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<v Speaker 2>a PAP smear, a mammogram. They always say that X rays.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are the kinds of procedures that you can really negotiate,

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<v Speaker 2>not just negotiate like after it's been done, but shop around.

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<v Speaker 2>People don't really do this, but you can shop around

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<v Speaker 2>in your area and and call places or there's there's

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<v Speaker 2>this one website that I met a woman named Jennifer

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<v Speaker 2>I believe was her name, and she started a website

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<v Speaker 2>called clearhealthcost dot com and I'm gonna make I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>check out the name of that. But she actually was

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<v Speaker 2>a she was a journalist covering healthcare, and then she

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<v Speaker 2>did a fellowship I think that the New York Times,

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<v Speaker 2>and part of her fellowship was creating this website because

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<v Speaker 2>she wanted to bring more clarity for people looking to

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<v Speaker 2>shop around for their healthcare because a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>don't realize that if they just go to a different

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<v Speaker 2>zip code or just go two blocks down the road,

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<v Speaker 2>they could save. And like the range of prices are

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<v Speaker 2>like insane, like this place will charge you know, one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred bucks from MRI. That place will charge two thousand

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<v Speaker 2>dollars from MRI. It's all over the map and there's

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<v Speaker 2>no rhyme or reason to it, Like that's what's frustrating

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<v Speaker 2>about it. But you absolutely can and should shop around

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<v Speaker 2>if you know you have time. Obviously, if it's non

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<v Speaker 2>emergent and you don't have you have time to shop around,

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<v Speaker 2>you should have that. Actually, I'm excited because my excited

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<v Speaker 2>is like exaggerated word, but you know, I'm looking forward

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<v Speaker 2>to trying out my new healthcare because it comes with

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<v Speaker 2>it comes with a service called Compass. Okay, and Compass

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<v Speaker 2>is like it's a company where whenever I need to

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<v Speaker 2>go to the doctor, I call them and they help

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<v Speaker 2>me find the most affordable place to go, Like they

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<v Speaker 2>do the work for me and my My main healthcare

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<v Speaker 2>is United Healthcare, but it's part of this new effort

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<v Speaker 2>I think among healthcare companies to make people consumers care

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<v Speaker 2>more about where they get their health care because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know about you, but for most of my life,

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<v Speaker 2>I've had employer provided or parent parental provided health care,

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<v Speaker 2>and all I think about is, I'm you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be a thirty five dollars copay, that's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be ten dollars and I don't really care. I

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<v Speaker 2>just go wherever is open, but not really not really

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<v Speaker 2>thinking that the actual healthcare provider is charging the insurance

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<v Speaker 2>company a bajillion dollars for whatever I've gotten. So by

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<v Speaker 2>encouraging people to shop around to get the most affordable care,

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<v Speaker 2>insurance companies are saving money and we're saving money too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, insurance is like, this is so crazy. You could

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<v Speaker 1>tell how old you are by your conversations. Now I'm like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>excited about get insurance.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about abduct the bulls. Oh so I need

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<v Speaker 2>to do one last health tip. Sorry, okay, because I

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<v Speaker 2>was I was going to do this as a boost,

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<v Speaker 2>but anyway, we're talking about it. So now someone had

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<v Speaker 2>told me that, you know how if you go the doctor,

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<v Speaker 2>you get like a bill in the mail. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>it says this is not a bill, But then sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>it's just a bill, and you're like, what is this?

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<v Speaker 2>My insurance could have kicked in. I've been in that

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<v Speaker 2>position before, where I've gone and for like a routine checkup,

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<v Speaker 2>and I come home and I even sometimes when after

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<v Speaker 2>I paid my copay and I'll get an additional bill

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll just pay without thinking about it, like I'll

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<v Speaker 2>just call them and pay it off. Someone told me

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<v Speaker 2>that sometimes billing offices just send a bill to the

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<v Speaker 2>patient and the insurance company and just wait to see

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<v Speaker 2>who pays them first.

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<v Speaker 3>Ooh.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, say, what is this illegal? Like what?

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<v Speaker 2>So that just raised a little red flag in my

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<v Speaker 2>head because I think even if those bills say, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>this is not a bill, explanation of benefits or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>it still feels like a bill. And I wonder how

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<v Speaker 2>many people are just paying it because they think they

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<v Speaker 2>owe it.

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<v Speaker 1>You may surprise only these places make a lot of mistakes.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't offer social stakes.

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<v Speaker 1>When Superman had his aneurism surgery, they send him, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to say, like eighteen thousand dollars and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>why did I get an eighteen thousand dollars check, if

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<v Speaker 1>not more than that, it was something ridiculous like and

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<v Speaker 1>so he called the insurance company. He called the hospital

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, oh, it's likely obviously for us, for

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<v Speaker 1>your like, well, his total surgery was nearly one hundred thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if that was like their last

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<v Speaker 1>payment the insurance company, but they send it to him,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, and I was like, you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like what do I do. I'm like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money. Someone's gotta come for you. But

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out and I kind of feel blad because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you have to return it. That man

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<v Speaker 1>saved your life, but it turns out the vast majority

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<v Speaker 1>of your patients don't and they don't go after them

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<v Speaker 1>because when he when he you know, when he uh

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<v Speaker 1>because the check was in his name, so he had

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<v Speaker 1>to deposit in his account and then write a check

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<v Speaker 1>to them. And she was like wow, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, most people don't give us the money

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<v Speaker 1>and that's just it's just a loss. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what why she told that earlier out of my house,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, it's all good karma, but I couldn't believe,

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<v Speaker 1>can you imagine She's liked, some people get sixty dollars

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<v Speaker 1>fifty thousand and they just keep it and we won't

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<v Speaker 1>even know. She's like, you just happen to call. We

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<v Speaker 1>won't even know that insurance company send them a check.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what shenanigans can.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine people who can do that and live, like sleep

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<v Speaker 2>at night. I know that's just a loud conscience.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I told him. I was like, honestly, like

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<v Speaker 1>literally just meant like the It wasn't about when you're

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<v Speaker 1>if you're annyuryism was going to burst. It was about

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<v Speaker 1>when and within andurism, you have about a fifteen percent

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<v Speaker 1>chance of making it, and then even after that, you

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<v Speaker 1>have a fifteen percent chance of having no damage, no

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<v Speaker 1>brain damage, and the fact that you are alive and kicking.

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<v Speaker 1>And because he was so young, a doctor was like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you were eighty, we'd leave it. But you're thirty four,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to burst and it's likely going to kill you.

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<v Speaker 2>Helle, if you're eighty, it's like, whatever you lived your life,

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<v Speaker 2>you had a shot. We're a line. When does it

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<v Speaker 2>become your worth saving.

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<v Speaker 1>Versus yeahn't be able to save, Like if we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to open up your head. At eighty you were likely

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to be able to wake you back up.

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<v Speaker 1>But like at thirty something, they were like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so dude, we want to save you. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the fact is you're living, so we're not.

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<v Speaker 2>Broke, so you're able bodied exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm glad he even turned the money. But still

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<v Speaker 1>it just made me think, like, how many people got

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<v Speaker 1>these huge checks and kept it.

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<v Speaker 2>I lied about having only one last thing to say, though,

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<v Speaker 2>because I meant to say this last time when you

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<v Speaker 2>brought up healthcare and getting on Superman's health care plan.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm the cautionary tale because we just twiddled our

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<v Speaker 2>little thumbs. After we got married. I was supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>go on to his health care plan because it had

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<v Speaker 2>better benefits than what I was getting, and we just

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<v Speaker 2>like went on the honeymoon and came back and all

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<v Speaker 2>this work stuff started happening, and three months later we

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<v Speaker 2>were like, oh, yeah, let's do that. There's a thirty

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<v Speaker 2>day period when you in which you can add your

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<v Speaker 2>spouse to your insurance policy, and if you miss it

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<v Speaker 2>sucks for you. Wait like forever, not forever, just until

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<v Speaker 2>the next enrollment period. So they let you. They give

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<v Speaker 2>you a free pass if you have like a qualifying

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<v Speaker 2>life event like you have a kid, or you get

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<v Speaker 2>married or whatever. But they don't. They only give you

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<v Speaker 2>a certain window of time to actually make it happen. Okayamp,

0:20:55.680 --> 0:20:57.359
<v Speaker 2>I mean luckily I was in a position where I

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<v Speaker 2>have back up the chan. Yeah, I get my own

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<v Speaker 2>insurance anyway, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, the next day we were like, I do Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's why I was so relaxed about it, you know,

0:21:07.240 --> 0:21:10.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm good, Hello, Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Like literally, he's like, I only have the temporary license,

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<v Speaker 1>but can I fox that over? So I'm gonna, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta keep your last name?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, did my mother send you?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm just our LORI are you there? I've been

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<v Speaker 1>really like, honestly, like, it's so weird how Superman does

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<v Speaker 1>not care at all. I'm like, I'm still Tiffany Leech

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Tiffany Smith. That's weird. Yeah, a racial profile.

0:21:38.160 --> 0:21:40.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And honestly, I don't want to go Tiffany Smith

0:21:40.840 --> 0:21:42.960
<v Speaker 1>if I might do a Lee Chase Smith. But honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so weird how laid back he is. He's like, yeah,

0:21:45.000 --> 0:21:46.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't you know whatever.

0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:48.920
<v Speaker 2>Say doesn't really care.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I'm thinking of Chase Smith. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That definitely sounds good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I was saying. I kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>because they're both kind of shortish names, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of feel like, if you have a kid, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of don't want to be like the only one

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<v Speaker 1>left out, Like, oh, well, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Elicha Smith sounds like you're a scholar or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Why Alie Chase Smith? So I might do that, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what all that entails. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>what does that entail?

0:22:12.200 --> 0:22:13.520
<v Speaker 2>Probably a big pain in your neck.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably. That's one of the reasons why I've been like, e, I'll.

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<v Speaker 2>Get to it when I get you have health insurance.

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<v Speaker 2>You can get that checked.

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<v Speaker 1>Out exactly like you're always making in front of my husband,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's how he says it exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh is that who inspired that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? He's very, very very Nigerian and so he says that.

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<v Speaker 1>So sidebar, are you gonna go see girl? Have you

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<v Speaker 1>seen you haven't seen girl? Trip?

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<v Speaker 2>I tried the damn Jersey ins would not let me go.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we have this, we have a theater really

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<v Speaker 2>close to us. But it has that reserve seating thing

0:22:56.240 --> 0:22:59.720
<v Speaker 2>where you have you buy your tickets. That just means

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<v Speaker 2>it's easier for everyone to snap up all the seats

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<v Speaker 2>right away.

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<v Speaker 1>And is it the eating one, like the one where

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<v Speaker 1>you can eat there that one.

0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:07.919
<v Speaker 2>No, it's not like the one where they serve you.

0:23:07.960 --> 0:23:11.200
<v Speaker 2>It's just like a it is like the nice recliners though. Okay,

0:23:11.359 --> 0:23:13.560
<v Speaker 2>but it's just a normal theater. But it's so annoying

0:23:13.560 --> 0:23:15.439
<v Speaker 2>because it's always we have to usually wait two three

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<v Speaker 2>weeks before a new movie comes out if it's like

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<v Speaker 2>really popular to go see it. So it was not

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<v Speaker 2>able to see it, but I saw it did It

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<v Speaker 2>was a number two movie in the country. Brown Girls, Yes,

0:23:25.760 --> 0:23:28.680
<v Speaker 2>and and it beat you know they had that. People

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<v Speaker 2>were calling at the chocolate and Vanilla you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>they there was like a Vanilla girls trip. It was

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<v Speaker 2>with it came out a couple of weeks ago, had

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<v Speaker 2>Scarlett Johansson and like yeah, Kate McKinnon and night, rough Night,

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<v Speaker 2>the rough naight, Yeah, rough night, And they were saying like,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like people were like waiting to see

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<v Speaker 2>which one would do better. I'm pretty sure that one bombed.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, yeah, it did. It did not well

0:23:49.160 --> 0:23:53.399
<v Speaker 1>at all. In comparison, this one has done tremendously well.

0:23:53.440 --> 0:23:55.160
<v Speaker 2>As soon as I saw Queen Latifa, I was like, yep,

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<v Speaker 2>going I do, I will see anything. Queen Latifa was

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<v Speaker 2>in even all the barbershops, even though they were the.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of like a new girl in there. Her name

0:24:02.320 --> 0:24:04.800
<v Speaker 1>is Tiffany hersh or Tiffany went the h But I've

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<v Speaker 1>been like reading like interviews from her, and she did

0:24:06.960 --> 0:24:11.960
<v Speaker 1>Jimmy Kimmel. They're They're like, she's the still one. Yes,

0:24:12.040 --> 0:24:15.960
<v Speaker 1>They're like she she yes, I'm already. I'm here for

0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:18.080
<v Speaker 1>her already. And because she told this really funny story

0:24:18.080 --> 0:24:21.520
<v Speaker 1>about her Jada Pikett Smith and Will Smith and how

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<v Speaker 1>they went she because I guess they were taking New

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<v Speaker 1>Orleans obviously because they the Girl's Trip takes place at

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<v Speaker 1>Essence Fest, and like she was saying how Jada was

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<v Speaker 1>asking what are you doing tomorrow? She's like, Oh, I'm

0:24:33.280 --> 0:24:35.560
<v Speaker 1>going on a on a swamp tour, you know, I

0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:37.639
<v Speaker 1>got a group on. And Jada's like, oh, what I

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:40.480
<v Speaker 1>want to go? And she was like wait, she was

0:24:40.520 --> 0:24:43.359
<v Speaker 1>still starstruck, like you want to go on a group on?

0:24:43.800 --> 0:24:45.920
<v Speaker 1>Why is she said me and Will. So she said,

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<v Speaker 1>they get there, all these people are there and they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell is this? And she was like, well,

0:24:51.040 --> 0:24:52.560
<v Speaker 1>like you know, like it's a trip. She said, why

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:54.480
<v Speaker 1>are all these people here? And she was like girls

0:24:54.480 --> 0:24:54.879
<v Speaker 1>a group on?

0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:56.440
<v Speaker 2>She was like, you have a group?

0:24:56.920 --> 0:25:00.639
<v Speaker 1>She said, Jaya thought group. I meant that like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that, like you you purchased the boat or

0:25:02.760 --> 0:25:04.680
<v Speaker 1>something like that, or you read the boat for the Yo.

0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:07.960
<v Speaker 1>I was wrongly. She was like, Jada and Will were.

0:25:07.840 --> 0:25:09.320
<v Speaker 3>Like all these people, what the hell?

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:11.200
<v Speaker 1>And she was like, Jada, I picked you up in

0:25:11.240 --> 0:25:12.840
<v Speaker 1>a twenty dollars rental car. What the hell do you

0:25:12.840 --> 0:25:16.800
<v Speaker 1>think I was And she was like, oh my god,

0:25:16.600 --> 0:25:18.240
<v Speaker 1>the windows are not tinted. I don't know if I

0:25:18.240 --> 0:25:20.359
<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable, she said, Jada, you forgot you from Baltimore.

0:25:22.280 --> 0:25:24.120
<v Speaker 1>She said. But they ended up having such a good

0:25:24.119 --> 0:25:25.680
<v Speaker 1>time and she said. Will was like, Yo, this was

0:25:25.720 --> 0:25:27.280
<v Speaker 1>so much fun. I think I'm gonna buy one of these.

0:25:27.320 --> 0:25:28.560
<v Speaker 1>And she was like, oh a boat. He said, no,

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<v Speaker 1>a swamp.

0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:34.120
<v Speaker 2>And she was like, wow, why would you even think

0:25:34.119 --> 0:25:35.600
<v Speaker 2>that they knew what a group on is. I would

0:25:35.640 --> 0:25:38.399
<v Speaker 2>have been like, and here's the urban Dictionary. Here's you know,

0:25:38.480 --> 0:25:42.320
<v Speaker 2>Webster's definition of a group on I know, use my login.

0:25:43.000 --> 0:25:45.359
<v Speaker 1>If you get a chance. Everybody should like like like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I guess go to YouTube and just type

0:25:47.040 --> 0:25:53.360
<v Speaker 1>in like, uh, Jimmy Kimmel, Tiffany Chef Haydish. Because it's

0:25:53.400 --> 0:25:55.200
<v Speaker 1>such a funny story because first of all, she starts

0:25:55.200 --> 0:25:59.560
<v Speaker 1>off with the the epicenter of all things brown girl,

0:25:59.640 --> 0:26:02.440
<v Speaker 1>like how you start every story? What happened was? I said, no,

0:26:02.600 --> 0:26:06.200
<v Speaker 1>she did, Jimmy Kimble. She said, what happened was? And

0:26:06.240 --> 0:26:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I was rolling. I said, I love you already.

0:26:09.560 --> 0:26:12.200
<v Speaker 2>I love them tools in it, Jada Pink and Queen Latifa.

0:26:12.320 --> 0:26:15.680
<v Speaker 1>There's a fourth a Regita kinga king.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I need to see it. I have got to

0:26:17.960 --> 0:26:18.360
<v Speaker 2>see it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm gonna figure out, like I'm like, do I

0:26:20.560 --> 0:26:22.120
<v Speaker 1>need to see it? At ten am on a Wednesday.

0:26:22.480 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm actually going on a girls trip next weekend to Montreal.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you been before?

0:26:28.560 --> 0:26:28.679
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>No, yes, I have been. I don't speak French, but

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<v Speaker 2>I have been to Montreal. I went for like a

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<v Speaker 2>I went for a weekend like five years ago for

0:26:35.560 --> 0:26:39.439
<v Speaker 2>a music festival. But this is a girls trip. Okay,

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:40.679
<v Speaker 2>I'm excited.

0:26:41.400 --> 0:26:44.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a big fan of I'm not gonna lie,

0:26:44.400 --> 0:26:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a big fan of Montreal.

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 2>What what effort did Montreal do to you?

0:26:49.359 --> 0:26:50.639
<v Speaker 1>I mean like it was alright, you know how you

0:26:50.680 --> 0:26:53.720
<v Speaker 1>go places, you're like, you know the m e h.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I thought about it.

0:26:55.800 --> 0:26:58.000
<v Speaker 2>I remember having a great time. I remember the weather

0:26:58.040 --> 0:27:01.480
<v Speaker 2>being spectacular. I rented a bike and I biked all

0:27:01.520 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 2>over that damn city. I even stole a bike because

0:27:04.520 --> 0:27:06.440
<v Speaker 2>it was before City Bike came to New York City.

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:08.600
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know how it worked. And what happened was

0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:11.159
<v Speaker 2>I thought that you could take it to your hotel

0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:14.760
<v Speaker 2>overnight and just leave it there. I was like, surely

0:27:15.080 --> 0:27:17.560
<v Speaker 2>there's not a station near me, so that dispussed. Mean

0:27:17.560 --> 0:27:19.159
<v Speaker 2>that I could just park it here at my hotel.

0:27:19.160 --> 0:27:21.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, And like five years later it sounds

0:27:21.280 --> 0:27:24.720
<v Speaker 2>so stupid, but sure enough, I couldn't find a doc

0:27:24.840 --> 0:27:26.280
<v Speaker 2>to leave my bike, so I just brought it to

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:28.359
<v Speaker 2>the hotel, left it over night, and return it the

0:27:28.359 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 2>next day. But it had been like ten hours and

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:33.879
<v Speaker 2>I was charged at seven hundred dollars for stealing a bike.

0:27:34.480 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 2>But uh, what's funny is I call I got back

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:39.000
<v Speaker 2>to New York and I called my credit card company,

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 2>and at the time I still didn't know what I

0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:43.879
<v Speaker 2>had done wrong, so I was so outraged. I'm like,

0:27:44.560 --> 0:27:47.280
<v Speaker 2>this is thievery. They tricked me. There must have been

0:27:47.280 --> 0:27:50.280
<v Speaker 2>a skimmer on the on the bike share, you know,

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:53.920
<v Speaker 2>compared the bike share thing like where you rent the bike.

0:27:54.240 --> 0:27:55.720
<v Speaker 2>And I called my I think at the time it

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:58.080
<v Speaker 2>was Bank of America, and bless their hearts, they were like, oh,

0:27:58.160 --> 0:28:00.439
<v Speaker 2>right away, missus must be fraudulent because no knew what

0:28:00.840 --> 0:28:03.760
<v Speaker 2>a bike share was and it was also a foreign transaction,

0:28:03.960 --> 0:28:07.280
<v Speaker 2>so their fraud department was just like, eh, that's gone.

0:28:07.359 --> 0:28:10.399
<v Speaker 2>So technically, I like I was the fraud.

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:12.959
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're like, yas my bad.

0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:15.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean I returned it. No, I had a great time.

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:18.240
<v Speaker 2>I remember the food being good. But anyway, this was

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:23.359
<v Speaker 2>it's really all for my my well, I'm trying not

0:28:23.400 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 2>to tell the full there's a full story. While we're

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:27.520
<v Speaker 2>going to Montreal. It's kind of honest, it's kind of sad,

0:28:27.560 --> 0:28:29.600
<v Speaker 2>but we're just turning the sad trip. We're turning the

0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:34.200
<v Speaker 2>sadness into a girl's trip, so hopefully it'll be hopefully

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:37.480
<v Speaker 2>it'll be more fun than your trip was, Yeah, I.

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:39.080
<v Speaker 1>Just want to thank like to be a listeners just

0:28:39.120 --> 0:28:41.240
<v Speaker 1>like sad Bird, Like you know, our last podcast we

0:28:41.280 --> 0:28:44.360
<v Speaker 1>talked about my fibroids and like I'm just beginning the journey.

0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:46.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, you guys are so awesome reaching out,

0:28:46.240 --> 0:28:49.760
<v Speaker 1>giving your phone numbers, naming your doctors. And I said, Okay,

0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:52.800
<v Speaker 1>So honestly, I'm really like, I joined this group on

0:28:52.840 --> 0:28:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Facebook called Vegan for Beginners. I know I'm not gonna

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 1>be one of those vegans, I promise, but I don't

0:28:58.040 --> 0:28:58.600
<v Speaker 1>even know if I'm.

0:28:58.480 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 2>Gonna becaz is a vegan thinking about it.

0:29:01.200 --> 0:29:03.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, and so I don't know that I'm gonna

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:05.160
<v Speaker 1>but I definitely have heard obviously meat has a lot

0:29:05.200 --> 0:29:09.480
<v Speaker 1>of hormones, and the higher your hormones, like like fibroids,

0:29:09.480 --> 0:29:12.160
<v Speaker 1>apparently you know, thrive off like higher hormone levels, and

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:16.560
<v Speaker 1>so I'm definitely just open to I've been a bit

0:29:16.600 --> 0:29:18.840
<v Speaker 1>to changing my diet anyway. So I'm just like, Okay,

0:29:19.480 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know that I'll be like completely vegan, but

0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:25.960
<v Speaker 1>I definitely want to adopt a diet that's going to

0:29:26.240 --> 0:29:30.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, help with this and also stress. I heard

0:29:30.400 --> 0:29:34.880
<v Speaker 1>it's like, you know, a big, like like really kind

0:29:34.920 --> 0:29:39.600
<v Speaker 1>of exacerbates your your fibroid situation. Something called live cultures,

0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:41.480
<v Speaker 1>which are like probiotics, which are like I'm like, really

0:29:41.480 --> 0:29:44.800
<v Speaker 1>because I freaking love Greek yogurt, I love like olives

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>all these things that they're like, oh yeah, girl, no,

0:29:46.400 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm like really wait those apparently well this is what

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:52.320
<v Speaker 1>someone wrote me. I don't know for sure, you know,

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:55.080
<v Speaker 1>you have, everyone always has something that they did share.

0:29:55.200 --> 0:29:56.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm already tired, I.

0:29:56.600 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 1>Know, so I just said, you know what, but I

0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 1>read this really great article and they basically were like, like,

0:30:02.040 --> 0:30:05.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, go speak with your doctor, find a doctor,

0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:07.640
<v Speaker 1>and maybe even if it's a cluster of doctors that

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:09.880
<v Speaker 1>you trust, and then work from there. But I mean,

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:12.160
<v Speaker 1>in general, it's never a bad thing to eat, right,

0:30:12.400 --> 0:30:14.440
<v Speaker 1>So that's something that I want to do in general.

0:30:14.720 --> 0:30:16.480
<v Speaker 1>But at the end of the day, I'm going to

0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:19.000
<v Speaker 1>like really sit down and find some doctors that I

0:30:19.040 --> 0:30:22.920
<v Speaker 1>really trust and that understand and really that their focus

0:30:23.080 --> 0:30:26.960
<v Speaker 1>is this, you know, like women and their like reproductive systems,

0:30:26.960 --> 0:30:29.160
<v Speaker 1>and then just really like see like what can be done.

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Recap though for people who don't know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>The fibroid situation.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I found out like I was like, oh,

0:30:38.840 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 1>I should got to like you know Obgyn. I mean

0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 1>like I'm grown, so like I was like, never I

0:30:43.440 --> 0:30:45.400
<v Speaker 1>was going to my regular doctor. But I wasn't going

0:30:45.640 --> 0:30:47.720
<v Speaker 1>and I never had like any issues. It wasn't like,

0:30:47.760 --> 0:30:50.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'll always get my regular like you know,

0:30:50.840 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 1>checkups like I said, but I went and I always

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:56.360
<v Speaker 1>had like this little pouch. Well not always, I would

0:30:56.400 --> 0:30:58.040
<v Speaker 1>say the last maybe like five or six years, I

0:30:58.040 --> 0:30:59.840
<v Speaker 1>had this little pouch on my belly and I couldn't

0:30:59.840 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 1>figre y wide because I'm like, hmm, you know, like

0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:03.800
<v Speaker 1>my stomach is fairly flat. And I would always complain

0:31:03.840 --> 0:31:05.880
<v Speaker 1>to Superman and he'd be like, I don't see a belly.

0:31:05.920 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I have one. I can't do anything about it, damnit.

0:31:08.520 --> 0:31:09.760
<v Speaker 2>He's like, yeah, it was a trap.

0:31:10.120 --> 0:31:13.720
<v Speaker 1>Yes, And I was always wearing like if you've seen me,

0:31:13.920 --> 0:31:17.560
<v Speaker 1>like typically most of my speaking outfits are pretty fitted,

0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:19.240
<v Speaker 1>so you probably like tip, I never see the belly,

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:22.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, uh SPANX and like you know, so I

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 1>always always always wore. My sisters would tease me because

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>even when I was like like, I'm like, I would

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:29.400
<v Speaker 1>say medium size now, but even when I was small,

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I would still wear like some sort of control top

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 1>and they're like, what the hell tip me, and you're

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 1>like a size four, and I would always be like no,

0:31:36.760 --> 0:31:38.680
<v Speaker 1>like you know, I just have this little belly I

0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:40.320
<v Speaker 1>can't get rid of. So I guess it turns out

0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:42.440
<v Speaker 1>it was fiveboids. I don't know how I never figured

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:45.880
<v Speaker 1>that out before, but apparently now. I don't know how

0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 1>large they were now, but they're fairly large. She never

0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 1>told me, like, she never gave me a comparison, like

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:55.080
<v Speaker 1>to what but three large fiveboids, and I was like, yikes,

0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:59.360
<v Speaker 1>And they're so fiveboids are non cancerous tumors, and you're like,

0:31:59.840 --> 0:32:02.840
<v Speaker 1>you're uterus walls, so your uterine walls, I guess stay home.

0:32:03.120 --> 0:32:05.760
<v Speaker 1>And so basically they can you know, it can prevent

0:32:05.800 --> 0:32:08.160
<v Speaker 1>you from having kids, or if you do get pregnant,

0:32:08.440 --> 0:32:11.840
<v Speaker 1>you're you're more of risk for like miscarriages. And it

0:32:11.840 --> 0:32:13.760
<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean that, like lots of women have kids with

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:16.360
<v Speaker 1>five birds, but it's just you want to be mindful

0:32:16.400 --> 0:32:19.040
<v Speaker 1>of these things, especially if you're wanting to have kids,

0:32:19.040 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 1>and you know, so five boys, it's still a kind

0:32:22.960 --> 0:32:26.280
<v Speaker 1>of a mystery as to why they grow, what makes

0:32:26.280 --> 0:32:29.800
<v Speaker 1>them grow, what makes them shrink. So, you know, I'm

0:32:29.880 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 1>just kind of like exploring that. You know that it's

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:34.840
<v Speaker 1>It's been a part of my family history, and so

0:32:34.880 --> 0:32:37.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm just kind of like figuring out, like, you know,

0:32:37.520 --> 0:32:41.000
<v Speaker 1>what do what direction do I going? So the doctor, well,

0:32:41.040 --> 0:32:42.480
<v Speaker 1>the second doctor I went to, it was like oh,

0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:43.960
<v Speaker 1>he was a man. He was like, oh, right away,

0:32:43.960 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 1>we all take care of these. We got to schedule

0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:49.120
<v Speaker 1>some surgery. And I was like, oh, like that's pretty

0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 1>you know that's because you can you can have surgery

0:32:52.680 --> 0:32:54.840
<v Speaker 1>and then end up messing up your uterus and not

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:57.040
<v Speaker 1>being able to have kids. And I'm like, uh, before

0:32:57.080 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 1>we explore that option. I'm not fifty out one of

0:33:00.440 --> 0:33:03.240
<v Speaker 1>those things exactly. So I'm just like, hold up, wait

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:06.400
<v Speaker 1>a minute, kidney exactly. So I'm just like, you know,

0:33:06.520 --> 0:33:09.680
<v Speaker 1>so I'm really just trying to explore what are my options.

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:13.240
<v Speaker 1>You know, Like, I'm not opposed to surgery, but I

0:33:13.320 --> 0:33:15.719
<v Speaker 1>don't want to put myself in a position to not

0:33:16.360 --> 0:33:18.480
<v Speaker 1>at least try. I'm not gonna lie. I'm still on

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 1>the fence about kids. I'm not like, yes, I have

0:33:20.560 --> 0:33:22.600
<v Speaker 1>to be a mom. I'm kind of like, I want

0:33:22.600 --> 0:33:24.960
<v Speaker 1>to try and if I have kids, great, But I'm

0:33:24.960 --> 0:33:26.600
<v Speaker 1>not someone who's like, if I don't have kids, I'm

0:33:26.600 --> 0:33:28.240
<v Speaker 1>definitely adopted because I want to be a mom no

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:30.320
<v Speaker 1>matter what. I don't feel that way. I'm just kind

0:33:30.320 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 1>of like, I want to try and if I have kids, great,

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 1>and if I don't, will I be disappointed? Yes, but

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:38.920
<v Speaker 1>it's not my first it's not you know what I mean.

0:33:39.040 --> 0:33:41.080
<v Speaker 1>Like I always thought that something was gonna click in

0:33:41.120 --> 0:33:42.240
<v Speaker 1>me and I'd be like, oh, I want to be

0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:44.719
<v Speaker 1>a mom no matter what. And that has not clicked. Oh,

0:33:44.840 --> 0:33:47.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm thirty seven, so it's not like, oh, because people

0:33:47.200 --> 0:33:49.920
<v Speaker 1>told me, wait till your mid thirties, it'll click. It hasn't.

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:54.640
<v Speaker 2>Really people. I'm surprised because people that are older, people

0:33:54.680 --> 0:33:56.800
<v Speaker 2>I know who waited to have kids when they were older,

0:33:57.720 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 2>universally have told me I wish I had done this, really,

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:02.840
<v Speaker 2>and I should actually have been taking a poll as

0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:04.280
<v Speaker 2>to why they wish. I don't know if it was

0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:08.960
<v Speaker 2>because their bodies or their workload or what, but that

0:34:09.239 --> 0:34:13.480
<v Speaker 2>And I just saw Mandy Kaling not to Mindy Kaling's pregnant. Yeah,

0:34:13.600 --> 0:34:15.520
<v Speaker 2>And I read an interview she gave and She's like, yeah,

0:34:15.680 --> 0:34:17.200
<v Speaker 2>so everyone told me to have a kid, just do

0:34:17.239 --> 0:34:19.239
<v Speaker 2>it sooner than later, and so she just kind of

0:34:19.239 --> 0:34:21.120
<v Speaker 2>just like had one. And now I'm thinking, should I

0:34:21.200 --> 0:34:21.800
<v Speaker 2>just have one?

0:34:22.200 --> 0:34:25.560
<v Speaker 1>Just yeah, I don't I know. Honestly, it's I'll say

0:34:25.600 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>this like my my my best friend has a old

0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:30.480
<v Speaker 1>two year old. My sister has a one and a half

0:34:30.560 --> 0:34:33.200
<v Speaker 1>year old and also a four month old. It is

0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:36.840
<v Speaker 1>disruptive to say that.

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:39.960
<v Speaker 2>It seems terrible. No shame to all you moms out there.

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:42.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure it's very fulfilling, but you guys need to

0:34:42.120 --> 0:34:42.680
<v Speaker 2>look awful.

0:34:43.040 --> 0:34:45.120
<v Speaker 1>But I mean, honestly, like I'll say this like, oh

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:48.759
<v Speaker 1>my god, my nephew, my godson, my niece. I'm not

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:50.319
<v Speaker 1>gonna lie when I have a bad if I'm having

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:51.920
<v Speaker 1>like like if today was like say a like super

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:53.840
<v Speaker 1>bad day, I would be like all right, after we

0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:55.480
<v Speaker 1>get off the podcast, I'm actually just gonna go to

0:34:55.560 --> 0:34:58.440
<v Speaker 1>my sister's house and literally just soaking the love and

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:01.760
<v Speaker 1>the pure spirits like that they are, because that's how

0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:06.040
<v Speaker 1>awesome it is to be around them. And then poop time,

0:35:06.080 --> 0:35:08.640
<v Speaker 1>dipe changed it, time to go to sleep. I'm mad

0:35:08.640 --> 0:35:12.160
<v Speaker 1>at everybody. I won't eat so you're like, oh, aside

0:35:12.200 --> 0:35:15.440
<v Speaker 1>from Auntie lovetime, there's this other part where my sister

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:17.360
<v Speaker 1>literally what I call her all I hear her say is.

0:35:17.400 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 4>Roman, Roman, Roman, Roman, Roman. Don't hear your sister Roman,

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:24.000
<v Speaker 4>don't bit her toes? Roman, don't eat that. And I'm like,

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:27.520
<v Speaker 4>what's that mean? While Roman's only wanted to alf and

0:35:27.600 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, he's a terror. A cute terror, but a terror.

0:35:31.440 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 1>It's very disruptive because I remember before telling her, like

0:35:34.600 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 1>I had asked her to do me a favor and

0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, why did you do it? She's like,

0:35:39.520 --> 0:35:42.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm on with a one year old and a four

0:35:42.040 --> 0:35:44.400
<v Speaker 1>month old and I was like, it can't be that hard.

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:46.360
<v Speaker 1>And then I baby said, and I was like, please

0:35:46.400 --> 0:35:50.440
<v Speaker 1>save me. I was so exhausted and I couldn't. You

0:35:50.440 --> 0:35:51.960
<v Speaker 1>can't sleep, cause what are you gonna do? Sleep and

0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:54.840
<v Speaker 1>let the kids be up while they destroy themselves? Like

0:35:55.120 --> 0:35:57.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know how she does it, Like sometimes

0:35:57.480 --> 0:35:59.879
<v Speaker 1>the baby she only get two nights three hours worth

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:02.080
<v Speaker 1>of sleep and now she's back at work.

0:36:02.480 --> 0:36:04.160
<v Speaker 2>That's why God made them cute.

0:36:04.680 --> 0:36:09.240
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I really believe that that God made kids really cute,

0:36:09.680 --> 0:36:12.560
<v Speaker 1>because if not, I don't even know I people would

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:15.560
<v Speaker 1>keep them because it's a lot. So I'll say this

0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:16.839
<v Speaker 1>that you know, I know people say, oh I wish

0:36:16.840 --> 0:36:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I would have had them earlier or whatever. But have

0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:21.319
<v Speaker 1>them when you're ready, because know that your life is

0:36:21.360 --> 0:36:24.759
<v Speaker 1>not gonna be the same ever again in a good

0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:26.680
<v Speaker 1>way and also in a disruptive way.

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:30.080
<v Speaker 2>Quite honestly, It's kind of like how I feel how

0:36:30.080 --> 0:36:32.439
<v Speaker 2>I felt when I went hang gliding in Brazil. Stay

0:36:32.440 --> 0:36:36.080
<v Speaker 2>with me on this analogy thing. It was the hardest

0:36:36.080 --> 0:36:37.920
<v Speaker 2>thing I've ever done, and I've jumped out of planes

0:36:37.920 --> 0:36:40.040
<v Speaker 2>and all kinds of stuff, because you literally have to

0:36:40.160 --> 0:36:44.280
<v Speaker 2>work against all of your human instincts by like propelling

0:36:44.400 --> 0:36:47.040
<v Speaker 2>like running, getting a running start, and then continuing to

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:49.400
<v Speaker 2>run and keep running and then jump off a cliff,

0:36:49.880 --> 0:36:51.880
<v Speaker 2>and the whole time you're like, this is terrible, this

0:36:52.000 --> 0:36:53.440
<v Speaker 2>is stupid. Why am I doing this? And you have

0:36:53.440 --> 0:36:55.000
<v Speaker 2>to like get it. That's what I feel like having

0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:57.240
<v Speaker 2>a kid is like when you have to like decide

0:36:57.239 --> 0:37:00.600
<v Speaker 2>to do it. You know, it's like you're going again,

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:02.600
<v Speaker 2>So you have all these reasons why not in front

0:37:02.600 --> 0:37:04.160
<v Speaker 2>of you, and you have to keep just like barreling

0:37:04.160 --> 0:37:05.680
<v Speaker 2>through it and just trimp off the Cliff and then

0:37:05.680 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 2>it's fun or you die.

0:37:08.760 --> 0:37:11.319
<v Speaker 1>Like I said, it's both super awesome and super I

0:37:11.360 --> 0:37:14.279
<v Speaker 1>think I'm going to kill myself, so I try. I

0:37:14.320 --> 0:37:16.880
<v Speaker 1>try my best to like go over, like it'll be crazy.

0:37:16.920 --> 0:37:18.200
<v Speaker 1>She'd be like, oh, I got I got your mail

0:37:18.239 --> 0:37:20.000
<v Speaker 1>from mommy and Daddy's house. And I'm like, okay, I'll

0:37:20.000 --> 0:37:23.640
<v Speaker 1>come get it without fail. I'll come get it, and

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:26.000
<v Speaker 1>I'll be giving like roaming a hug and Amelia kids,

0:37:26.480 --> 0:37:29.040
<v Speaker 1>and she's either asleep or in the shower.

0:37:30.640 --> 0:37:31.560
<v Speaker 2>She's like trappers.

0:37:32.000 --> 0:37:33.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:35.279
<v Speaker 1>So now I just know, like she wanted to be asked,

0:37:35.280 --> 0:37:36.960
<v Speaker 1>do you have anything to do after this? No? Last

0:37:36.960 --> 0:37:39.120
<v Speaker 1>time I turned around, she literally just got into her bed,

0:37:39.160 --> 0:37:43.120
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, so I guess it's just

0:37:43.200 --> 0:37:46.239
<v Speaker 1>me and you kids. And so it just made me realize, like, wow,

0:37:46.280 --> 0:37:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I need to come over more often just to relieve her.

0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:49.759
<v Speaker 1>Even I it's just for an hour and nap. If

0:37:49.800 --> 0:37:53.359
<v Speaker 1>you know new moms or even if they have two

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:55.959
<v Speaker 1>other kids and let those kids have a baby city age,

0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:56.759
<v Speaker 1>go relieve them.

0:37:57.280 --> 0:38:01.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just an hour or something. Yes, if you're good

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 2>with kids. Otherwise people like me stay home.

0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Just send money, send money or give them like your

0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:10.680
<v Speaker 1>next gift, give them like the gift of a babysitter.

0:38:11.360 --> 0:38:13.080
<v Speaker 2>I did. I sent my girlfriend a gift them a

0:38:13.080 --> 0:38:15.440
<v Speaker 2>massage and like a gift to a hair salon, like

0:38:15.480 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 2>a salon where she can get like a massage or

0:38:17.120 --> 0:38:19.680
<v Speaker 2>hair for her baby shower. Gift was that petty? I

0:38:19.719 --> 0:38:21.680
<v Speaker 2>was like, babies don't choose need more baby clothes?

0:38:22.480 --> 0:38:26.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I think a massage or a break. Honestly,

0:38:26.920 --> 0:38:28.440
<v Speaker 1>I swear that one of the things I'm looking for

0:38:28.520 --> 0:38:31.160
<v Speaker 1>is like a really good babysitter, Like so that way

0:38:31.280 --> 0:38:33.160
<v Speaker 1>I can like gift my sister like in the area

0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:35.840
<v Speaker 1>where we live in and just to gift her like, Okay,

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:38.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm gifting you married for the afternoon so

0:38:38.120 --> 0:38:42.759
<v Speaker 1>you can like, you know, lay down that sweet Yeah,

0:38:42.760 --> 0:38:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna look. So I'm like, any abb out anybody

0:38:44.960 --> 0:38:47.240
<v Speaker 1>know a good babysitter Newark? You know who's not crazy

0:38:47.400 --> 0:38:50.520
<v Speaker 1>or like doesn't eat kids. Let me know that is

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 1>a high bar. You don't eat kids. You're not a murderer,

0:38:56.040 --> 0:39:11.840
<v Speaker 1>You're not crazy. Let me know. It's time for do

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<v Speaker 1>we have a name to segment? What do we call this?

0:39:14.280 --> 0:39:21.480
<v Speaker 2>Questions? Okay, you don't even know her email yet you

0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:25.520
<v Speaker 2>can't possibly remember the segment a segment name, no way

0:39:26.040 --> 0:39:27.480
<v Speaker 2>for questions.

0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 1>So, yes, do we have any questions? I know we do.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yes, today our question is and remember you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to do a special student loan episode in August.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've gotten a lot of questions from you guys

0:39:40.320 --> 0:39:42.960
<v Speaker 2>on student loan debt. If you have student loan det questions,

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<v Speaker 2>you can email us at Brown Ambition Podcast at gmail

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<v Speaker 2>dot com or go to Brownambition Podcast dot com and

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<v Speaker 2>select the ask us anything tab. So the question for

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<v Speaker 2>today's show is from listener LaToya, and my heart is

0:39:57.920 --> 0:40:00.520
<v Speaker 2>like breaking for her. Here's her question, and I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have to shorten it a little bit, but I'll get

0:40:03.400 --> 0:40:06.560
<v Speaker 2>the gist of it. LaToya says, I'm typing through my

0:40:06.600 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 2>tears right now. I am beyond frustrated. But in the

0:40:09.719 --> 0:40:12.880
<v Speaker 2>midst of gathering myself and I thought of the two

0:40:12.960 --> 0:40:15.640
<v Speaker 2>of you. The most precious day of my life is

0:40:15.680 --> 0:40:18.440
<v Speaker 2>haunted by bad debt. I gave birth to my daughter,

0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:21.120
<v Speaker 2>Taylor in twenty fifteen. At the time, I was a

0:40:21.160 --> 0:40:23.480
<v Speaker 2>single mom, and I signed up for every new parent

0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:26.200
<v Speaker 2>class I could find. I'm thirty three years old and

0:40:26.280 --> 0:40:28.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm fortunate enough to earn a good salary and have

0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:31.520
<v Speaker 2>decent health care. But after I gave birth to my daughter,

0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:34.520
<v Speaker 2>even with that healthcare, I've been hit with almost eight

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:38.080
<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars in medical bills. They don't offer any sort

0:40:38.080 --> 0:40:41.040
<v Speaker 2>of centralized billing department, so I've been I've spent the

0:40:41.120 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 2>last two years getting all separate bills notifications from every

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:48.680
<v Speaker 2>person in practice that played a role in my delivery.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you can relate to that probably, Yeah, hospital visit

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:55.480
<v Speaker 2>and you get so many different bills. So here she

0:40:55.600 --> 0:40:57.919
<v Speaker 2>is with eight thousand dollars in medical bills from all

0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:03.520
<v Speaker 2>different facets of her her delivery process. So it's twenty sixteen.

0:41:03.560 --> 0:41:05.440
<v Speaker 2>This is a year after the birth, and I finally

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:07.440
<v Speaker 2>got a hold of someone in their billing department that

0:41:07.520 --> 0:41:10.680
<v Speaker 2>outlined all the outstanding bills that she could see. From

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:14.240
<v Speaker 2>my understanding, I settled all the debt associated with my delivery.

0:41:14.800 --> 0:41:18.280
<v Speaker 2>Since then. Cut to now, I've since moved to Texas

0:41:18.280 --> 0:41:21.080
<v Speaker 2>and I'm in the process of building homes. But nine

0:41:21.120 --> 0:41:23.799
<v Speaker 2>months into building the house, I'm a few weeks away

0:41:23.800 --> 0:41:28.279
<v Speaker 2>from closing. Today, I received several alerts on my Fico account.

0:41:28.520 --> 0:41:31.600
<v Speaker 2>It turns out four medical bills were reported and have

0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:34.960
<v Speaker 2>dropped my score an average of fifty six points. I'm

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:38.280
<v Speaker 2>furious and I don't understand how this happened, no warning,

0:41:38.320 --> 0:41:43.440
<v Speaker 2>no communication. What are my options? And here's sort of

0:41:43.480 --> 0:41:46.719
<v Speaker 2>an epilogue. She says, I verified the creditor had my

0:41:46.760 --> 0:41:49.760
<v Speaker 2>North Carolina address, so she's from a North Carolina originally

0:41:49.800 --> 0:41:52.560
<v Speaker 2>and now she's in Texas and my old phone number.

0:41:52.760 --> 0:41:55.359
<v Speaker 2>But they said it was my responsibility to update them.

0:41:55.640 --> 0:41:57.560
<v Speaker 2>But how did I note? How could I have known

0:41:57.600 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 2>to update them if I didn't know these bills existed?

0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:01.439
<v Speaker 2>What should I do?

0:42:03.000 --> 0:42:04.560
<v Speaker 1>And how old is this debt?

0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:07.320
<v Speaker 2>This is only from twenty fifteen, so it's a couple.

0:42:07.160 --> 0:42:09.319
<v Speaker 1>Of Oh, okay, so it's not like it's not like

0:42:09.360 --> 0:42:10.480
<v Speaker 1>this debt has expired.

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:13.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So she's saying that. She says that she had

0:42:13.760 --> 0:42:16.080
<v Speaker 2>this eight thousand dollars debt. It was from she was

0:42:16.080 --> 0:42:18.239
<v Speaker 2>getting separate bills for all these little things that added

0:42:18.320 --> 0:42:20.200
<v Speaker 2>up to eight thousand dollars. And so she called the

0:42:20.200 --> 0:42:22.960
<v Speaker 2>hospital building office to say, can you just tell me

0:42:23.040 --> 0:42:25.719
<v Speaker 2>everything I owe and I'll go ahead and pay everything now.

0:42:25.960 --> 0:42:28.800
<v Speaker 2>And she said she thought everything was settled, but apparently

0:42:28.800 --> 0:42:31.600
<v Speaker 2>there were these four outstanding bills that were not settled,

0:42:31.960 --> 0:42:34.840
<v Speaker 2>and that's what So basically she moved and wasn't getting

0:42:34.960 --> 0:42:38.840
<v Speaker 2>her bills anymore. I don't know. Yeah, the hospital or

0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:41.680
<v Speaker 2>the debt collector didn't have her new address and stuff.

0:42:43.120 --> 0:42:47.600
<v Speaker 1>So honestly, only thing I would think that you can

0:42:47.640 --> 0:42:51.799
<v Speaker 1>do now is to try to negotiate with the debt

0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:54.879
<v Speaker 1>collectors that you owe to get them to remove these

0:42:54.920 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 1>things if you pay them.

0:42:57.040 --> 0:42:59.839
<v Speaker 2>I wonder if it's the hospital that's pursuing the debt

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:01.880
<v Speaker 2>or if they've already sold the debt, because it hasn't

0:43:01.920 --> 0:43:04.800
<v Speaker 2>quite been I mean, this deet happened in twenty fifteen,

0:43:04.840 --> 0:43:07.719
<v Speaker 2>but she settled it in twenty sixteen, so it may

0:43:07.760 --> 0:43:12.040
<v Speaker 2>be even less than a year since since she settled

0:43:12.080 --> 0:43:14.359
<v Speaker 2>those debts. So I don't know. It depends on who

0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:16.680
<v Speaker 2>owns it. But maybe she could call the hospital and

0:43:16.719 --> 0:43:20.239
<v Speaker 2>if it's still the hospital, then they could then she

0:43:20.280 --> 0:43:23.640
<v Speaker 2>could settle and maybe get them removed from her credit report.

0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Does that change if it was a debt collector.

0:43:26.239 --> 0:43:28.920
<v Speaker 1>Well, either one like oftentimes you can negotiate for that.

0:43:28.960 --> 0:43:31.319
<v Speaker 1>So sometimes I'll tell people that I'm like, okay, like

0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:33.960
<v Speaker 1>you oldest debt. It especially like let's just say you

0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:35.880
<v Speaker 1>owe two thousand, and if you're trying to settle for

0:43:35.920 --> 0:43:38.440
<v Speaker 1>five hundred, like good luck, you might be able to

0:43:38.440 --> 0:43:40.480
<v Speaker 1>settle for five hundred, but they're not going to remove it.

0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 1>But if you owe two thousand and you're actually going

0:43:42.760 --> 0:43:45.879
<v Speaker 1>to pay two thousand or fifteen hundred or higher, then

0:43:45.920 --> 0:43:49.600
<v Speaker 1>sometimes you can negotiate can this be removed because you're

0:43:49.600 --> 0:43:51.480
<v Speaker 1>paying basically most of it or all of it, And

0:43:51.520 --> 0:43:55.400
<v Speaker 1>so sometimes that cause ultimately debt collectors or people that

0:43:55.440 --> 0:43:57.919
<v Speaker 1>you owe, they don't care about your credit report. They

0:43:57.920 --> 0:44:00.160
<v Speaker 1>want their money. So if you're able to give them

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:02.960
<v Speaker 1>their money and dangle the carrot of like, hey, this

0:44:03.000 --> 0:44:05.520
<v Speaker 1>is why I want to exchange, and before you pay,

0:44:05.560 --> 0:44:07.200
<v Speaker 1>get that in writing that they're going to remove it,

0:44:07.480 --> 0:44:09.920
<v Speaker 1>then that's what I would try to do. But just

0:44:10.080 --> 0:44:12.200
<v Speaker 1>know that, you know, you have to be able to

0:44:12.200 --> 0:44:14.759
<v Speaker 1>either pay most or all of that debt in order

0:44:14.760 --> 0:44:19.000
<v Speaker 1>for that to to go through. You know, like because

0:44:19.000 --> 0:44:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I've seen like you know, I'm like I've seen people

0:44:22.920 --> 0:44:26.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, get you know stuff. It's called a good

0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:30.279
<v Speaker 1>faith letter basically, get people get things removed from your

0:44:30.880 --> 0:44:34.560
<v Speaker 1>from your credit report, and so you can try that,

0:44:35.280 --> 0:44:37.480
<v Speaker 1>or a good will letter. It's called a good No,

0:44:37.520 --> 0:44:39.719
<v Speaker 1>it's called a good will letter. So you can just

0:44:39.760 --> 0:44:40.920
<v Speaker 1>google go ahead the.

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:43.080
<v Speaker 2>Good will letters. Just you send those to the credit

0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:45.600
<v Speaker 2>bureaus or to your lender or the debt collector.

0:44:46.120 --> 0:44:47.719
<v Speaker 1>So you would send that to the debt collector, so

0:44:47.719 --> 0:44:51.040
<v Speaker 1>whoever is borrowing that you're borrowing from, because actually, like

0:44:51.160 --> 0:44:55.239
<v Speaker 1>clear Point is like this, like free I remember, I

0:44:55.760 --> 0:44:58.680
<v Speaker 1>think I met them at fin Con. Clear Point is

0:44:58.719 --> 0:45:02.200
<v Speaker 1>like this free debt or credit counseling agency. They're nonprofit

0:45:02.520 --> 0:45:05.879
<v Speaker 1>and they actually have a d YI how to write

0:45:05.880 --> 0:45:08.960
<v Speaker 1>a good how to write a good will letter for

0:45:09.040 --> 0:45:12.560
<v Speaker 1>credit repair, and so you know, it's it's possible. It's

0:45:12.800 --> 0:45:16.440
<v Speaker 1>it's different from a dispute. Basically, you're just saying, I

0:45:16.560 --> 0:45:20.400
<v Speaker 1>know this happened, and you know, and I'm not asking.

0:45:20.440 --> 0:45:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that this didn't happen. I'm just saying, hey,

0:45:24.680 --> 0:45:26.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, can you, if I pay you or whatever,

0:45:26.960 --> 0:45:29.680
<v Speaker 1>can you basically do me a solid and take this off?

0:45:29.719 --> 0:45:29.880
<v Speaker 1>You know?

0:45:31.040 --> 0:45:33.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. One of my questions that I that I had

0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:36.080
<v Speaker 2>for LaToya, and I actually emailed her. I'll see if

0:45:36.080 --> 0:45:38.440
<v Speaker 2>she responded, but I wanted to know if when she

0:45:38.480 --> 0:45:40.359
<v Speaker 2>settled those debts, if she had gotten a letter from

0:45:40.360 --> 0:45:43.520
<v Speaker 2>the hospital saying they had been settled and the closed.

0:45:44.000 --> 0:45:46.680
<v Speaker 2>Because I've actually had to settle I was going back

0:45:46.680 --> 0:45:48.880
<v Speaker 2>and forth and back and forth with someone some lab

0:45:48.960 --> 0:45:51.040
<v Speaker 2>that I had gotten. I don't know some you know

0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 2>how you go to the doctor to get a physical,

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:55.120
<v Speaker 2>and they put the blood work, they put it, they

0:45:55.120 --> 0:45:57.560
<v Speaker 2>send the blood work to like a third party lab,

0:45:58.120 --> 0:46:00.480
<v Speaker 2>and I kept getting billed from them and builds from them,

0:46:00.600 --> 0:46:03.080
<v Speaker 2>and I finally was like, let me just settle this

0:46:03.160 --> 0:46:05.279
<v Speaker 2>and I'll pay your eighty dollars or whatever. And they

0:46:05.320 --> 0:46:08.240
<v Speaker 2>even went They sent me a verification saying the account

0:46:08.239 --> 0:46:09.759
<v Speaker 2>had been closed and it was paid in full, and

0:46:09.800 --> 0:46:12.520
<v Speaker 2>I kept that for my records. I don't think that

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:15.040
<v Speaker 2>she had like a record of this settlement, and I

0:46:15.040 --> 0:46:17.279
<v Speaker 2>would have, and I would say, if anyone's in this

0:46:17.360 --> 0:46:19.880
<v Speaker 2>situation and you're you're moving forward and you're trying to

0:46:19.880 --> 0:46:21.759
<v Speaker 2>settle a debt, whether it's with a hospital or your

0:46:21.760 --> 0:46:24.560
<v Speaker 2>credit card or whoever, to make sure that you're getting

0:46:24.840 --> 0:46:27.640
<v Speaker 2>some sort of record where you can show them. Because

0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:30.200
<v Speaker 2>people make mistakes, especially we were just talking about medical

0:46:30.200 --> 0:46:34.560
<v Speaker 2>billing offices make mistakes all the time, and you can

0:46:34.880 --> 0:46:37.839
<v Speaker 2>you can dispute them and I mean argue against them.

0:46:37.840 --> 0:46:40.319
<v Speaker 2>But if you have a paper trail, it makes your

0:46:40.360 --> 0:46:41.440
<v Speaker 2>case all that stronger.

0:46:42.239 --> 0:46:45.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And like I said, try that, try that goodwill letter.

0:46:45.200 --> 0:46:46.919
<v Speaker 1>Like I said, the purpose of a good will letter

0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:50.359
<v Speaker 1>is to appeal to the goodwill of the person that

0:46:50.400 --> 0:46:52.680
<v Speaker 1>you owe. You're not saying that you don't owe. You're

0:46:52.719 --> 0:46:56.120
<v Speaker 1>acknowledging that this is a debt that's mine. But you know,

0:46:56.200 --> 0:46:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm asking that you You know that you were sending

0:46:59.640 --> 0:47:02.040
<v Speaker 1>this base for my credit report, you know, and you

0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:03.759
<v Speaker 1>know one of the ways you could do that. Let's

0:47:03.760 --> 0:47:06.200
<v Speaker 1>just say if it's if it's one late payment that

0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:08.520
<v Speaker 1>you made. You know, people send in goodwill letters or

0:47:08.840 --> 0:47:11.200
<v Speaker 1>in this in this instance saying this is what happened.

0:47:11.239 --> 0:47:12.960
<v Speaker 1>I thought, I did everything. What can I do to

0:47:13.000 --> 0:47:16.040
<v Speaker 1>fix it? And and can you if I pay, you know,

0:47:16.160 --> 0:47:18.520
<v Speaker 1>can you take this off? You'd be surprised because, like

0:47:18.520 --> 0:47:20.400
<v Speaker 1>I said, ultimately, they don't care about your credit report.

0:47:20.719 --> 0:47:22.560
<v Speaker 1>Credit reports are the way they try to get you

0:47:22.880 --> 0:47:25.279
<v Speaker 1>to pay them. Like, well, if I punish you here,

0:47:25.360 --> 0:47:28.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll get my money. Ultimately, everybody just wants their money.

0:47:29.280 --> 0:47:31.759
<v Speaker 2>But what if she doesn't actually owe it, because I mean,

0:47:31.800 --> 0:47:34.640
<v Speaker 2>in that case, she needs to. I don't think she

0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:37.759
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't acknowledge that the debt's hers if she's not invented.

0:47:38.160 --> 0:47:39.799
<v Speaker 2>So one of the things I would tell her to

0:47:39.880 --> 0:47:42.640
<v Speaker 2>do or anyone is people don't you should send a

0:47:42.680 --> 0:47:45.759
<v Speaker 2>debt or she should try sending a debt verification form

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:48.640
<v Speaker 2>to this is true and this is all Oh go

0:47:48.640 --> 0:47:49.719
<v Speaker 2>ahead now, so I.

0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:51.560
<v Speaker 1>Say, you're right, verified it, like, make sure this debt

0:47:51.600 --> 0:47:52.279
<v Speaker 1>is yours.

0:47:52.280 --> 0:47:53.839
<v Speaker 2>Because if you send it, when you send a debt

0:47:53.920 --> 0:47:57.800
<v Speaker 2>verification letter and I'll post a link in the show notes.

0:47:57.840 --> 0:48:00.720
<v Speaker 2>But this Consumer of Financial Protection Bureau has a form.

0:48:00.800 --> 0:48:03.480
<v Speaker 2>It's like a sample letter. All it is is you're asking,

0:48:04.440 --> 0:48:06.960
<v Speaker 2>how do you know this debt is mine? What's the amount,

0:48:07.120 --> 0:48:08.920
<v Speaker 2>what are the dates? And it was dude, show me

0:48:09.040 --> 0:48:11.800
<v Speaker 2>that you show me that I owe this debt, basically,

0:48:11.840 --> 0:48:13.920
<v Speaker 2>and if they can't do that, then you should move

0:48:13.960 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 2>forward and dispute that it's even yours in the first place.

0:48:17.040 --> 0:48:20.560
<v Speaker 2>And it sounds like that she has a case. Hold

0:48:20.600 --> 0:48:23.880
<v Speaker 2>on a second, Oh, this is so awesome. Wait a second,

0:48:24.040 --> 0:48:28.320
<v Speaker 2>this is like a live question update LaToya. She emailed

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:29.439
<v Speaker 2>me back two hours ago.

0:48:29.840 --> 0:48:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Wow, Hey, LaToya, you just knew we were gonna call LaToya.

0:48:33.320 --> 0:48:35.799
<v Speaker 2>Wait and it's good news. Wait a second. Okay, so

0:48:35.840 --> 0:48:39.359
<v Speaker 2>we didn't even help her. We helped hopefully someone else

0:48:39.480 --> 0:48:42.000
<v Speaker 2>enjoyed our advice. No, okay, this is okay, hold on,

0:48:42.600 --> 0:48:44.480
<v Speaker 2>this is breaking news. We need a breaking news away.

0:48:50.600 --> 0:48:54.360
<v Speaker 2>Thank you. So here's Yah's update. She says, thank you

0:48:54.400 --> 0:48:57.719
<v Speaker 2>so much for responding. I used Okay, this is so cool.

0:48:57.760 --> 0:49:00.800
<v Speaker 2>I used a group legal prepaid benefit through my employer

0:49:00.840 --> 0:49:04.960
<v Speaker 2>to find an attorney, so her employer had a benefit

0:49:05.000 --> 0:49:07.719
<v Speaker 2>program where she could find like low cost legal aid.

0:49:08.120 --> 0:49:11.759
<v Speaker 2>They fought the debt, and all three bureaus deleted those

0:49:11.800 --> 0:49:15.520
<v Speaker 2>four accounts from my reports. My credit score has recouped

0:49:16.040 --> 0:49:19.120
<v Speaker 2>most of the impacted points to my credit score, and

0:49:19.160 --> 0:49:21.240
<v Speaker 2>I close on my home on August fourth.

0:49:24.080 --> 0:49:27.440
<v Speaker 1>That's another right. We didn't think about that legal services.

0:49:27.600 --> 0:49:30.759
<v Speaker 1>See LaToya, you taught be a listener something that we

0:49:30.760 --> 0:49:33.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't even suggest. That's awesome. I'm glad you fought it.

0:49:33.400 --> 0:49:35.240
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know. Well, she didn't say in her original

0:49:35.320 --> 0:49:38.279
<v Speaker 2>question that it was like a lawsuit, you know, or

0:49:38.280 --> 0:49:40.160
<v Speaker 2>she was sued or whatever. But that's definitely something that's

0:49:40.160 --> 0:49:42.520
<v Speaker 2>like the next step like, once these debts have been

0:49:42.600 --> 0:49:44.839
<v Speaker 2>unpaid for so long, they ding you on your credit report,

0:49:44.880 --> 0:49:47.200
<v Speaker 2>and then if enough time goes by, they may even

0:49:47.480 --> 0:49:50.600
<v Speaker 2>pursue a lawsuit against you in court. And that's when

0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 2>things get difficult. But she did exactly the right thing

0:49:52.600 --> 0:49:55.480
<v Speaker 2>by trying to find low cost legal service.

0:49:55.560 --> 0:50:00.880
<v Speaker 1>So huzza, yes, take them. That's to the man.

0:50:01.520 --> 0:50:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Hospital, suck man. Yeah, that is the moral of this story.

0:50:05.080 --> 0:50:07.280
<v Speaker 2>I should have done a Brown break for medical building offices.

0:50:08.640 --> 0:50:10.560
<v Speaker 2>All the stress, you know, and she had. The thing

0:50:10.600 --> 0:50:13.600
<v Speaker 2>that kills me is she had insurance and she still

0:50:13.600 --> 0:50:14.680
<v Speaker 2>wind up in this situation.

0:50:15.239 --> 0:50:15.920
<v Speaker 1>That's crazy.

0:50:16.280 --> 0:50:18.760
<v Speaker 2>Even if you have insurance, you're not safe from this BS.

0:50:19.200 --> 0:50:23.200
<v Speaker 2>But happy ending. That was so funny. Yeah, okay, good,

0:50:23.280 --> 0:50:27.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm glad because she sounded so stressed in that email. Okay, guys,

0:50:27.760 --> 0:50:30.440
<v Speaker 2>you too can have a happy ending if you if

0:50:30.480 --> 0:50:33.120
<v Speaker 2>you email your questions to Brown Ambition Podcast at gmail

0:50:33.160 --> 0:50:34.320
<v Speaker 2>dot com.

0:50:34.000 --> 0:50:44.920
<v Speaker 3>Dot com or.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, alhead, no, no, how.

0:50:49.680 --> 0:50:51.239
<v Speaker 2>About you say it? What's their website?

0:50:53.000 --> 0:50:57.560
<v Speaker 1>The uh podcast dot com?

0:50:57.880 --> 0:51:04.160
<v Speaker 2>You got it. We're coming up on our two year anniversary.

0:51:04.600 --> 0:51:05.799
<v Speaker 1>I know what are we gonna do?

0:51:06.400 --> 0:51:08.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Last year we did a dinner.

0:51:09.080 --> 0:51:11.000
<v Speaker 1>So start asking us, like when are we gonna have

0:51:11.000 --> 0:51:13.280
<v Speaker 1>When are we gonna get pregnant? When we're gonna get married?

0:51:13.680 --> 0:51:15.799
<v Speaker 1>With you and me now, because you know we were

0:51:15.800 --> 0:51:18.160
<v Speaker 1>like you've been together for two years. Now, when are

0:51:18.200 --> 0:51:20.920
<v Speaker 1>you a man? He gonna have a baby? Leave us alone?

0:51:21.080 --> 0:51:24.440
<v Speaker 2>She's seeing other people, super boos and supergirls.

0:51:26.800 --> 0:51:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I know we should do something. Maybe you guys can

0:51:28.960 --> 0:51:32.440
<v Speaker 1>giveus some suggestions. Tweet us, yeah, if you have some

0:51:32.480 --> 0:51:35.520
<v Speaker 1>suggestions about you know what, like what should we do

0:51:35.520 --> 0:51:38.200
<v Speaker 1>to celebrate? Last year we had a dinner with some

0:51:38.320 --> 0:51:40.960
<v Speaker 1>listeners which was really fun and the food was it

0:51:41.040 --> 0:51:44.000
<v Speaker 1>wasn't the food was so good. So what should we

0:51:44.000 --> 0:51:46.080
<v Speaker 1>do this time? We'd like to do something a little different.

0:51:46.840 --> 0:51:47.960
<v Speaker 2>It's got six flags.

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I hate Oh that's right.

0:51:51.920 --> 0:51:53.640
<v Speaker 2>I meant to tell you Supergirl has some words to

0:51:53.680 --> 0:51:55.880
<v Speaker 2>say to me at your wedding about that trip to

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<v Speaker 2>Disney World. What is she.

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<v Speaker 1>Yo? Supergirl? Is something it up? What does she say?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Never mind, I don't want to get her in trouble.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a rat.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, she's I because she's like, oh that's manny,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got some things to share. Does she not have

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<v Speaker 1>a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she had a great time. She loves you. You're

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<v Speaker 2>the best. She said, You're so beautiful and pretty and

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<v Speaker 2>smart and talented. It's exactly what she said.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, Supergirl's like, I'm not really feeling you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>She calls me the daddy hogger. Oh oh, I know

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<v Speaker 1>we vented into that stage now. I'm like, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, just wait till she's fourteen. You can have him.

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<v Speaker 1>So are we gonna do some wins? I can have

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<v Speaker 1>a quick win. Sure, So Tiffany, I can't say her

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<v Speaker 1>last name hash hash hattish hattish. So apparently I just

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<v Speaker 1>saw on essence dot com that she got a stand

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<v Speaker 1>up a deal discount deal or deal whatever with Showtime.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's pretty awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh to do a stand up show, Yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 2>that's pretty big.

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<v Speaker 1>You know all the greats have done that. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to say knows to you. From one Tippany

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<v Speaker 1>to another. What about you? Any any wins?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I'll give a win to gold Bond rapid itch relief.

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<v Speaker 2>It is the best rapid itch relief cream on the market.

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<v Speaker 2>Find it in your local CBS. You can buy it

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<v Speaker 2>with your FSA card.

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<v Speaker 1>What okay, I guess you know.

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<v Speaker 2>For real, if you're itching from your trip, don't use

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<v Speaker 2>that cortizone cream. Just use like gold bond or a

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<v Speaker 2>V No. Those are my two favorite from one type

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<v Speaker 2>oh to another? Is that what we had along? Swell,

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<v Speaker 2>we're both typos?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, are you? Are you the are you the

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<v Speaker 1>donor or the givern?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, Tiffany, we're typos?

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<v Speaker 1>Now that wasn't funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I just took some penatrol.

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<v Speaker 1>But are you the universal donor? Are you the universe

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<v Speaker 1>of receipt?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm positive so I think I can give, I can take,

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<v Speaker 2>but I can't know. I'm oh positive, I forget. I

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm the universal.

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<v Speaker 1>Receiver receiver and I'm the universal donor, but I can't

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<v Speaker 1>give from anybody except for O's.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sucks for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically, I don't know why that's so funny anyway. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so Brad a bitch, listeners again, we have hopefully transformed

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<v Speaker 1>your life and made it better.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy for LaToya. Genuinely, that was so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is, honestly, and Latoya's got to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>this and be like, oh my god. Hopefully.

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<v Speaker 2>So she got her she got her legal team, she

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<v Speaker 2>fought back she got through it. She's a single mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, people don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, people want that, they don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she won. Like if you just if you just

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<v Speaker 2>take the time to fight back, it doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 2>be hopeless.