WEBVTT - Mon Part 2: Hurricane Helene Help + Decisions That Changed Our Life 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:03.920 Wake Up, Wake Up in the mall and. 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:13.039 It's a radio and the doctors on time already, lunchbox, 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:16.119 more game too, Steve bred I trying to put you 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:20.279 through fog. He's running this week's next bit. The Bobby's 0:00:20.320 --> 0:00:27.400 on the box, so you know what this is, the 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:31.400 Bobby Ball. So the question is, what's the one single 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:34.320 decision that was possibly non impactful in your life, but 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:36.479 you made it and it changed the entire trajectory of 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:39.400 your life. Okay, that's the question I wrote my now 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:41.280 and I'll get to mind Amy. You can go first. 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:44.480 What one single decision which you didn't expect to change 0:00:44.479 --> 0:00:45.880 the trajectory of your life changed it? 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:48.519 Yeah? Well, I think my husband and I at the 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:52.280 time were in the adoption process for a domestic baby, 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:55.640 and I think me going to Haiti to work with 0:00:55.720 --> 0:01:00.319 women uh introduced me to older children at a at 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:04.080 orphanages that need homes, they need to be adopted, and 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:06.880 it shifted everything we were doing. We went from a 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:11.240 domestic newborn adoption to adopting two older children from Haiti. 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:14.760 And had you not made the decision to go to 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:17.240 work with the women there, you would have never found out. 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:18.320 Correct. 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:20.800 So it was making that decision to go yeah. 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:23.479 I mean and now I sometimes I even I look 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:25.560 at my daughter and my son and I'm like, I 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:27.560 can't believe that I get to be their mom. Because 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:29.360 there were times we were close to getting a newborn 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.720 domestic baby and it fell through or just different things 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:36.080 would change and that would have been a totally different trajectory. 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:38.800 I mean, then this was that changed everything big time 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:39.160 for us. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:45.479 Mine is professional that turns personal. So years ago, probably 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:48.840 six or seven years ago, TV producer said, hey, do 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:50.840 you want to be a judge on the Mass Singer 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:54.960 And at the same time USA Network was offering me 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:56.160 like a they this show with like it was like 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:59.680 Shanaia and Travis Tritt and they were like this. And 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:03.760 then but Idle American Idol was offering me a position. 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:06.200 It was like third string though, because Ryan C. Christ 0:02:06.280 --> 0:02:08.160 was the host and Luke Brian and Katy Perry and 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:10.560 Lionel Richie were the judges. But they were like, you'll 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:12.840 be the mentor in every episode for this is a 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:15.079 year deal. I do. It was something for four years, 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:17.600 so the role wasn't as big, but I felt like 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.200 the show and the network were bigger. So I weighed 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:21.160 that out. I was like, do I want to go 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:22.720 be a judge on a show that no one's ever 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:26.000 heard of, which at the time was mass singer, or 0:02:26.080 --> 0:02:29.520 be the host on this USA show, smaller network, or 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:32.280 be the least on the biggest. So I chose the 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:36.280 least on the biggest, which was Idle on ABC. It 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:39.200 is great four years So because I did Idle, they said, hey, 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:41.160 why don't you go do Dancing with the Stars to 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:44.440 promote American idol. I was like, I don't dance well, 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:46.799 not back down from a challenge. That sounds fun. Let's go. 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:50.440 So I go on Dancing with the Stars. Controversial, but 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.040 I win this show, which is great. Hey look at me, 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:55.560 I got a trophy. I go back to Dancing with 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:58.040 the Stars and my entire time I'm Dancing with the Stars. 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:00.160 I had a PR person who was from Oklahoma. Her 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:01.960 and I got along because she was from Oklahoma now 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:03.960 from Arkansas, and it was weird because we were both 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:05.200 kind of fish out of water, but she had lived 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:07.160 there a little longer. But it was kind of how 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:09.440 we I had somebody that was kind of like me, 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:13.160 and so we were good friends. And I go back 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:16.720 after I won that season and she's there because we've 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:17.960 been friends the whole time. She's like, oh, I have 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.320 a friend with me. I needed to be a seat filler, 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:22.480 so I called her last minute and it was Caitlin, 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:27.520 my wife, and so that's how I met My wife. 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:33.240 Was the pr person from Oklahoma from a dancing show 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:36.400 that I would never have done had I not been 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:38.480 on American Idol and they asked me to do it, 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:41.400 had I not made the decision to go be the 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:44.280 third string on that show instead of first or second 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:47.640 string on a different show. So me choosing Idol over 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.640 the mass singer is what introduced me to my wife. 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:53.280 That's pretty crazy. So I had to walk that string, yeah, 0:03:53.360 --> 0:03:54.760 and write it out so I didn't mess it up. 0:03:55.560 --> 0:03:58.600 But that decision was basically just what I wanted to 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.280 do on TV. I was getting a few first. I 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.400 was pretty cool, but I think I made the right one. 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:06.080 I was like, got a cult trophim, yes, but yeah, 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:09.120 that to me, choosing that job is what introduced me 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:12.200 to my wife, And I'm pretty grateful that I made 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:14.760 that decision. Lunchbyk's it coming to you an Eddie next 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:16.720 hang out? Well to play this, We'll come back and 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:19.720 get their single decisions that changed the trajectory of your 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:21.320 life that maybe you didn't think what was big at 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:24.560 the time. All right, single decision that you did not 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:26.360 at the time think it was massive, but it ended 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:28.840 up changing the entire trajectory of your life. 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:30.239 Lunchbox, It's easy. 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:32.480 I was going into my senior year at the University 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:36.760 of Texas at San Antonio, and I applied to Kansas 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:39.040 University University of Kansas because if I always wanted to 0:04:39.080 --> 0:04:41.320 go there, I was always wanted to be a Jayhawk, 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:44.800 and I got in, but my transfer credits would have 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:47.160 made me a sophomore again. And I was like, man, 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:48.600 do I really want to go there and have to 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:51.320 do more school? Like this is my last year. I'm 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.880 not going to go change my life because I would 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:56.000 have never made you. I'd have never made this show. 0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:57.920 The show would have never been as big. I mean, 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:02.760 so we're lucky. Yeah, we get writing your coattails. We 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:04.880 would never have been as successful, that's right. 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:07.680 So thank god. So your sacrifice changed our life with 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:08.600 that decision. 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:10.599 Right, And so that's crazy. I would have moved to Kansas. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:11.800 You got to make it like that. He could have 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.120 just done the thing and been I made this decision. 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:16.240 It was great, but then he always has to make 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:16.600 it about that. 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:18.120 But isn't it crazy how that is? 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:20.040 Like I always wanted to go there and go to 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:21.760 school there, and then I get in it's like, oh, 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:23.680 you'll be a sophomore again. No, I think I'll just 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.720 stay here and write it out at UTSA and your 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:27.880 life is completely different. 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:31.240 But the craziest part is you didn't even graduate at UTSA. Well, yeah, 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:34.560 but because you stayed because you wanted to graduate. But 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:37.279 then you didn't even graduate, right, you left one class 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.000 short and you could have gone back and finished people 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:39.560 well in the fall. 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:40.400 I could have gone back. 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:42.600 I walked the stage, but it was only offered in 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:45.520 the fall. And then I got this job and there 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:47.440 was no time to go back to school. If I 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:50.440 would have been up in Kansas and Lawrence going to school, 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:51.800 I would have never got this job. 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:52.599 I wouldn't this show. 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:54.720 You wouldn't be here because you are what makes this show. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:57.400 That's right, Yeah, yeah, it's a wild thank you for 0:05:57.440 --> 0:05:58.680 being you man, Eddie. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.120 See mine's along the same lines, like it's crazy that 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:04.360 I got this job that like we moved to Nashville, together. 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:06.040 You actually asked me to be part of the show. 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:08.640 That's crazy. But what's even crazier is that when we 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:11.320 got to Nashville, we've been living here for a few years. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:14.120 I got to adopt two kids, and I think that 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:16.400 if I wouldn't would have never met you, would have 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:19.480 never gotten this job, moved to Nashville. I would have 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.000 never had my two kids, who were both born here 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:25.159 in Nashville. Like that we've adopted, and that's pretty amazing 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:26.920 to me. But you would have never had Lunchbox not 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:30.400 made me successful about him not going to Kansas has 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:31.640 got you your kids? 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:34.440 Yelievable. This is unbelievable full circle. 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:37.640 I mean really, like we have UTSA and the University 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:40.560 of Kansas to think because if they were said, hey, 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:42.200 you'll be a junior, you'll be a senior. 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:43.320 Eddie wouldn't have his kids. 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:51.400 You wouldn't have your wife either. Oh my god, your 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:52.040 kids either. 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:53.240 Isn't that crazy? 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:53.440 Though? 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:57.400 Maybe we're just living out Lunchbox's life. Maybe, like that's 0:06:57.480 --> 0:06:58.880 crazy part of his plan. 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:00.760 So much. 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:03.920 I mean, my little decision changed the directory of this 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:04.479 whole show. 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:07.039 I struggle with trajectory as well. For the record, I don't. 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:11.320 Really know how he impacted my life, but he said, 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:12.320 I have my kids. 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:13.040 You wouldn't. 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:14.880 How do you know, Well, she was already in that 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:17.480 process though before we came here, she would have never 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:24.800 been on this show. I was looking at a TikTok 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:27.960 video of the flooding in Ashville after the hurricane. TikTok 0:07:28.000 --> 0:07:31.520 get any flood any of the hurricanes lot crazy, right, 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:35.640 And it had rained so much the ground was so saturated. 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:39.480 So with them, when the hurricane hits and the massive 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:42.680 amountain rainfall comes with that, it just floods, even in 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:46.920 the mountains. And so there are many different ways to help. 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:50.920 I would encourage you do a little, give a little 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:53.520 due diligence before you you start sending your money, unless 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:56.360 it's like the Red Cross or the Salvation Army, because 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.680 this is also where scammers will try to come up 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:02.400 with some things and try to get you. And there 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:05.000 are a lot of people in places that need the help. 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:06.720 And so I also encourage you to go go and look. 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:09.560 And for us, animals are a big thing. So we 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:11.360 donate to a shelter that was housing a lot of 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:15.440 animals that have been displaced. But if you go to 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:19.000 Redcross dot org. You can also find different areas and 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:22.760 they're legit because they get there quick with food, shelter supplies, etc. 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:26.560 But they do need help. The Salvation Army, a lot 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:30.280 of people are now trying to figure out ways to help, 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:34.040 and so from like the private sector, it's hard to 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:37.040 just jump in and start helping when there's still water there. 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:38.839 You kind of have to wait for it all to 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:41.880 go away unless they're super trained like the Red Cross 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:45.720 or Salvation Army. But yeah, it's wild, like it doesn't 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:47.880 even feel like real. It looks like a movie almost 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:51.240 because it's there's so much water so quickly. 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:54.520 Yeah, my brother's in Saint Pete and we have a 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:56.920 family text and we just were making sure that he 0:08:57.080 --> 0:09:00.880 was okay and his place was fine. He's so many 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:02.680 people around him and so many people that he knows, 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:05.079 like six food of water and they're house Like. It's 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.280 it's thinking about it, overwhelming. 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:10.079 Fat of water, even a foot of water, Like I've 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:12.320 never been in a flood like that, where a foot 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:15.880 of water just because you can't really stop water. Uh. 0:09:16.240 --> 0:09:19.920 North Carolina, Florida, Eastern Tennessee. A lot of data, a 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:22.319 lot of really really I'm gonna read the numbers of 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:25.280 some of the stuff that's happened here, but people still missing. 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:27.680 So I would encourage if you're listening to my voice 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:30.480 right now and you have five, ten extra bucks, if 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:32.600 you can help a lots of those fives and tens 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:35.559 and extra bucks, that all helps once it's all combined together. 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.920 So you can go to Redcross dot org, or you 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:41.120 can go and search for different ways people are helping 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:44.640 and help them. Just be very careful because when someone 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:46.920 a tragedy happens, also, that's when the scammers come out, 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:48.559 and we hate for you to be taken advantage of. 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:50.400 So we'll put some links up on our website of 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:52.280 bobbybones dot com if you guys want to check that out. 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:56.559 A woman filed for divorce from her husband after only 0:09:56.640 --> 0:10:00.520 forty days, not because cheated, but because he he bathed 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:03.000 once or twice per month. Apparently she didn't know that 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:06.719 was his bathing habit. What The unnamed woman approached the 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.320 local family counseling center to complain about her husband's poor 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:12.960 personal hygiene, claiming that he rarely ever bathed, war dirty clothes, 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:16.280 suffered from bad breath, she could barely stand close to him, 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:18.880 let alone be intimate with him. Isn't this something you 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:20.280 learn whenever you're dating. 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:22.120 Maybe they didn't do things. 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:24.600 They didn't do things like standing next to each other 0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:25.480 in the car. 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:28.559 Had they met, I don't know. 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:31.800 As a result, after only forty days of marriage, a 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:33.480 woman asked for a divorce. Oh maybe she thought she 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:34.120 could change him. 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:34.440 Yeah. 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:38.960 Right. When questioned by the counseling center, the husband admitted 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:42.720 to bathing again at most twice a month, and cleansing 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:48.160 by sprinkling his body with water. The scorned wife said 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:51.520 that he had bathed six times in the last forty days, 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:53.240 a bit more than he usually did, because she was like, 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:54.959 you have to bathe more, so he did, but it 0:10:55.040 --> 0:11:00.360 was six into forty he tried, that's six times. It's 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:04.800 thirty six, right, Yeah, so you're looking at over six 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.199 weeks once. 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:10.439 A Yeah, it's not going to work. That would be 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:11.040 a big problem. 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:13.360 Twenty I don't know. The woman's family said she was 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:15.640 unable to reconcile it with him. I guess I don't 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:18.240 think of that as being like divorcible, But if he's 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.440 not going to change, that's hard to live with. It's 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:21.719 always stinky, is it? 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:22.760 Annulminable. 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:26.160 I don't know. An elements are different different states. Sometimes 0:11:26.200 --> 0:11:28.920 you can't get an annulment. What is the difference, What 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:32.360 do you mean? What's the marriage is kind of canceled out? 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:33.439 Okay? 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:35.800 And sometimes you can do them later than others with. 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:38.079 A certain amount of time. I guess, like Bobby's saying, 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.000 the window might be a different state to state or 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:41.280 through the church and whatnot. 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:45.440 Are North Carolina listeners if you listen to the show 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:47.720 on your North Carolina and we were talking about Asheville 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.520 where I was seeing the flooding here. Uh, we're doing 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:54.920 a big supply gather on October second, so today said 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:56.719 for the thirtieth how many days this month? 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:59.800 Tomorrow is the first first Wenesday? 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:03.640 Okay, so Wednesday, So if you're in our listening area 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:08.920 at the Walmart on Killed their Farm Road and carry 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:11.160 from ten am to six pm, we're looking for water, 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:13.280 canned food, whatever you can donate to help, so you 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:17.439 can help us there in Carrie, North Carolina. So just 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:19.440 a heads up to our listeners they're they're in that area, 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:21.280 they can help us. We slowly start to patch things 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:25.560 together to try to get people back on their feet 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:28.240 as quick as possible. An annulment is legal procedure that 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:30.080 declares the marriage no Olan boyd from the beginning, as 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:32.839 if it never happened. Okay, but different rules for different 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:33.520 states for sure. 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:35.640 Okay, So it's only through the government. It has nothing 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:37.959 to do with the church. No, okay, Well, I just 0:12:38.120 --> 0:12:40.320 I guess of the church. They probably recognize it because 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:42.960 that's a lot of you know, the reason why people 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:46.840 wouldn't want to get a divorce is because of their religion. 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:49.160 But if it's an annulment, then it's okay. 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:51.679 I don't know what you're saying, but yeah, an is 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:54.640 a legal thing. I don't really what's really following? There 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:59.000 are no no, no, sorry, Okay, let's go. Time for 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:04.080 the news Bobby's stories. We were talking about the hurricane 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:05.800 earlier and I found a site you can go to. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:11.560 It's envad dot org. And I feel pretty good about 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:13.760 this site having legitimate places that you can go and 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:20.720 either donate or volunteer. But it's envoad dot org. Helen 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:24.360 leaves extreme devastation in North Carolina, Florida, and eastern Tennessee. 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:27.160 At least one hundred and fifteen people are confirmed to 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:30.120 be dead from Hurricane Helen, thousands still missing and the 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:33.200 numbers expected to rise. And for me, I think one 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:35.560 of the great things about TikTok has been the ability 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:39.520 to quickly show exactly what's happening so you can humanize it. 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:43.080 Because in the past, you read a news story hopefully 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:48.599 like a local affiliate cable news, somebody has something and 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.199 you can actually make a human response to it instead 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:53.360 of just reading it on paper. But with TikTok being 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:55.880 so quick, you're just like, oh my god, like as 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:59.480 it was happening, You're watching places get flooded. I was 0:13:59.520 --> 0:14:02.800 talking about seeing Ashville earlier and people in boats going 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:05.559 by houses and the water is up like the middle 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:08.760 of the door, if not higher in the mountains. So 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:11.920 I would encourage you if you can, you have five 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:16.000 ten bucks. Red Cross, and why the Red Cross is 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:21.600 important is because while things are still like bad, they 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:23.680 can actually get in and help or it's hard for 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:25.760 like Luke Combs for example, was like, hey, we're gonna 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:27.920 do something once, but you can't do anything until all 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:30.000 the water goes down, until it's safe for people to 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:32.240 go in, the great thing about the Red Cross and 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.000 these sites like n voad dot org is that they 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:38.160 actually have ways to help while it's still bad. So 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:40.800 I would encourage you to check that out, do what 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:43.320 you can do. Hopefully somebody would do something for you 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:45.720 if you were going through the same thing. But yeah, 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:48.040 is real bad. This website you gave out too is 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:50.440 good because you can volunteer or donate. Yeah, you can 0:14:50.480 --> 0:14:53.120 do I believe I said that. Whenever I said the 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:57.080 name of it, I was looking double check. 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:58.200 I think it's like right when you go to the 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.840 website too though, so obviously volun tiers or something that 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:01.560 are needed. 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:05.920 So yeah, check that out. It's envoad dot org. Chris 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:10.880 Christofferson died at eighty eight years old. When they do 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:13.200 like a biopic of his life, oh my god, people 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:15.960 are finally fully gonna grasp like he was a Rhodes scholar, 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:21.400 so he was wildly smart. He was a veteran. He 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.680 was an actor. He won a Golden Globe for a 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:27.200 star is born. He was one of the greatest songwriters 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:31.480 of the history of what we would consider contemporary songwriting. 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.480 He was one of the highwaymen. Yeah, I mean, it's 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:41.720 just you know, wild as to how great he was 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:44.400 not just good, but how great he was in many, 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:49.880 many different areas. It's crazy that like who we kind 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:54.360 of assigned to be our represent our representation. Like in 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:58.120 country music, it's like Johnny Cash, it's like will He's 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:01.800 still alive, but we pick and Chris Chosofson obviously one 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:04.960 of the great grades. But it easily could have been him, 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:07.360 because it kind of isn't if you know, you know, 0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:08.960 but he's not one of the names of artists come 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:10.000 through and they're like, you know, I'm just a big 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:12.560 Chris Christophers've ban But it very easily could have been. 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:16.640 But I think partially too, it's because he diversified his 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:20.280 talents and acted and did all. I mean, really one 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:24.120 of the most talented, hardest working people in country music history. 0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:25.840 So yeah, he died. He was in the Country Music 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:28.080 Hall of Fame induction class of two thousand and four 0:16:28.560 --> 0:16:31.080 and he was with Waylon and Willie and Johnny. Have 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:33.000 a big picture of the Highwaymen in the house. It's 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:35.160 all four of those guys framed. So cool. Yeah, it's 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:39.200 pretty cool. He wrote me and Bobby McGhee, Me and 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:44.880 Bobby McGhee, which who later recorded it, Janis Joplin, I go. 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:47.160 It didn't become a hit for her until after she died, 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:51.360 but he was alive. But yeah, so yeah, Rest in 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:56.520 peace to Chris Christofferson died eighty eight years old. A 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:58.960 Harvard medical student ate seven hundred and twenty eggs in 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:04.080 a month, mostly to test cholesterol. Yeah, because they say eggs, 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:08.240 eat a bunch of them, raise your cholesterol. Yeah, So 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.119 he ate seven hundred and twenty. By the end of 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:12.400 the month, he found that his cholesterol levels had dipped 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:15.879 twenty percent had done down. How does that work? I 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:18.800 think the point was it's not just about the eggs. 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:24.240 It's about other factors, not just the eggs, like making 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:27.800 life axile. What you're putting with the eggs, eggs make 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:30.600 it right right right right? Yeah, that's from Fox and 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:34.920 See all that eggs in California becomes the second state 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:38.960 to require parents to save earnings for child influencers. So 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:41.960 they're putting in financial protections for teens and children who 0:17:41.960 --> 0:17:46.200 are featured on social media that gets monetized. Governor Gavin 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:49.280 Newsom signed legislation Thursday. The mandate's parents and guardians set 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:51.919 aside and trust accounts a percentage of earnings earned by 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:56.879 minors quote featured and monetized online content. Basically, if your 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:58.480 kids making money and they're not old enough, you have 0:17:58.560 --> 0:17:59.960 to save a bit of it till they get old. 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:02.080 Or what if you're an influencer that makes money off 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:04.280 of your kids type things, like your kids are part 0:18:04.320 --> 0:18:07.320 of your content or like you link their stuff, that's. 0:18:07.200 --> 0:18:08.639 Going to be part of it too, right, Yeah, I 0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:11.919 think there's a there's a different part of it too 0:18:12.160 --> 0:18:16.240 that includes minors and content. But if they're getting paid, 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:19.040 if they're if they are getting paid, part of that 0:18:19.160 --> 0:18:21.480 money has to go and be saved for them right now. 0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:22.960 If they're in your stuff that you're getting paid, that 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:25.080 is not the case. Okay, So just by putting your 0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:26.639 kid in the background of a video, they're not going 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:28.320 to make any money if you are. But if it's 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:30.879 like Ryan's toys, but if it's a kid who's actually 0:18:30.920 --> 0:18:33.720 having the check made to them or made to the 0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:36.680 trust that's that then yes, so that has to be 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:37.120 put back. 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:38.840 Okay, I guess yeah. I just when I saw that, 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:41.320 I got curious about, like, you know, you want there's 0:18:41.600 --> 0:18:45.800 little all their little outfits, you know, like moms link 0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:47.440 like their kids outfits. 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:49.679