1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: Wake Up, Wake Up in the mall and. 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 2: It's a radio and the doctors on time already, lunchbox, 3 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:16,119 Speaker 2: more game too, Steve bred I trying to put you 4 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 2: through fog. He's running this week's next bit. The Bobby's 5 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 2: on the box, so you know what this is, the 6 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 2: Bobby Ball. So the question is, what's the one single 7 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 2: decision that was possibly non impactful in your life, but 8 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 2: you made it and it changed the entire trajectory of 9 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: your life. Okay, that's the question I wrote my now 10 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 2: and I'll get to mind Amy. You can go first. 11 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,480 Speaker 2: What one single decision which you didn't expect to change 12 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 2: the trajectory of your life changed it? 13 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, I think my husband and I at the 14 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: time were in the adoption process for a domestic baby, 15 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: and I think me going to Haiti to work with 16 00:00:55,720 --> 00:01:00,319 Speaker 1: women uh introduced me to older children at a at 17 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: orphanages that need homes, they need to be adopted, and 18 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: it shifted everything we were doing. We went from a 19 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: domestic newborn adoption to adopting two older children from Haiti. 20 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 2: And had you not made the decision to go to 21 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: work with the women there, you would have never found out. 22 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: Correct. 23 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 2: So it was making that decision to go yeah. 24 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,479 Speaker 1: I mean and now I sometimes I even I look 25 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: at my daughter and my son and I'm like, I 26 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 1: can't believe that I get to be their mom. Because 27 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: there were times we were close to getting a newborn 28 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: domestic baby and it fell through or just different things 29 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: would change and that would have been a totally different trajectory. 30 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: I mean, then this was that changed everything big time 31 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: for us. 32 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 2: Mine is professional that turns personal. So years ago, probably 33 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: six or seven years ago, TV producer said, hey, do 34 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: you want to be a judge on the Mass Singer 35 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 2: And at the same time USA Network was offering me 36 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 2: like a they this show with like it was like 37 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: Shanaia and Travis Tritt and they were like this. And 38 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: then but Idle American Idol was offering me a position. 39 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 2: It was like third string though, because Ryan C. Christ 40 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 2: was the host and Luke Brian and Katy Perry and 41 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 2: Lionel Richie were the judges. But they were like, you'll 42 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 2: be the mentor in every episode for this is a 43 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 2: year deal. I do. It was something for four years, 44 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 2: so the role wasn't as big, but I felt like 45 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 2: the show and the network were bigger. So I weighed 46 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 2: that out. I was like, do I want to go 47 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 2: be a judge on a show that no one's ever 48 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 2: heard of, which at the time was mass singer, or 49 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 2: be the host on this USA show, smaller network, or 50 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 2: be the least on the biggest. So I chose the 51 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 2: least on the biggest, which was Idle on ABC. It 52 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 2: is great four years So because I did Idle, they said, hey, 53 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: why don't you go do Dancing with the Stars to 54 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 2: promote American idol. I was like, I don't dance well, 55 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 2: not back down from a challenge. That sounds fun. Let's go. 56 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: So I go on Dancing with the Stars. Controversial, but 57 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: I win this show, which is great. Hey look at me, 58 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: I got a trophy. I go back to Dancing with 59 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 2: the Stars and my entire time I'm Dancing with the Stars. 60 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 2: I had a PR person who was from Oklahoma. Her 61 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 2: and I got along because she was from Oklahoma now 62 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 2: from Arkansas, and it was weird because we were both 63 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 2: kind of fish out of water, but she had lived 64 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 2: there a little longer. But it was kind of how 65 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 2: we I had somebody that was kind of like me, 66 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 2: and so we were good friends. And I go back 67 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 2: after I won that season and she's there because we've 68 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 2: been friends the whole time. She's like, oh, I have 69 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 2: a friend with me. I needed to be a seat filler, 70 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 2: so I called her last minute and it was Caitlin, 71 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 2: my wife, and so that's how I met My wife. 72 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 2: Was the pr person from Oklahoma from a dancing show 73 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 2: that I would never have done had I not been 74 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 2: on American Idol and they asked me to do it, 75 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 2: had I not made the decision to go be the 76 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: third string on that show instead of first or second 77 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 2: string on a different show. So me choosing Idol over 78 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 2: the mass singer is what introduced me to my wife. 79 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 2: That's pretty crazy. So I had to walk that string, yeah, 80 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 2: and write it out so I didn't mess it up. 81 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 2: But that decision was basically just what I wanted to 82 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 2: do on TV. I was getting a few first. I 83 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: was pretty cool, but I think I made the right one. 84 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 2: I was like, got a cult trophim, yes, but yeah, 85 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 2: that to me, choosing that job is what introduced me 86 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 2: to my wife, And I'm pretty grateful that I made 87 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 2: that decision. Lunchbyk's it coming to you an Eddie next 88 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: hang out? Well to play this, We'll come back and 89 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 2: get their single decisions that changed the trajectory of your 90 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: life that maybe you didn't think what was big at 91 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 2: the time. All right, single decision that you did not 92 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 2: at the time think it was massive, but it ended 93 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: up changing the entire trajectory of your life. 94 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,239 Speaker 3: Lunchbox, It's easy. 95 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 4: I was going into my senior year at the University 96 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 4: of Texas at San Antonio, and I applied to Kansas 97 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 4: University University of Kansas because if I always wanted to 98 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 4: go there, I was always wanted to be a Jayhawk, 99 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 4: and I got in, but my transfer credits would have 100 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 4: made me a sophomore again. And I was like, man, 101 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 4: do I really want to go there and have to 102 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 4: do more school? Like this is my last year. I'm 103 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 4: not going to go change my life because I would 104 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 4: have never made you. I'd have never made this show. 105 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 4: The show would have never been as big. I mean, 106 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 4: so we're lucky. Yeah, we get writing your coattails. We 107 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 4: would never have been as successful, that's right. 108 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 2: So thank god. So your sacrifice changed our life with 109 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 2: that decision. 110 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 3: Right, And so that's crazy. I would have moved to Kansas. 111 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 2: You got to make it like that. He could have 112 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 2: just done the thing and been I made this decision. 113 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 2: It was great, but then he always has to make 114 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 2: it about that. 115 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 3: But isn't it crazy how that is? 116 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 4: Like I always wanted to go there and go to 117 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 4: school there, and then I get in it's like, oh, 118 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 4: you'll be a sophomore again. No, I think I'll just 119 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 4: stay here and write it out at UTSA and your 120 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 4: life is completely different. 121 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 2: But the craziest part is you didn't even graduate at UTSA. Well, yeah, 122 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 2: but because you stayed because you wanted to graduate. But 123 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 2: then you didn't even graduate, right, you left one class 124 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 2: short and you could have gone back and finished people 125 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: well in the fall. 126 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 3: I could have gone back. 127 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 4: I walked the stage, but it was only offered in 128 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 4: the fall. And then I got this job and there 129 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 4: was no time to go back to school. If I 130 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 4: would have been up in Kansas and Lawrence going to school, 131 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 4: I would have never got this job. 132 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 3: I wouldn't this show. 133 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 2: You wouldn't be here because you are what makes this show. 134 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 2: That's right, Yeah, yeah, it's a wild thank you for 135 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: being you man, Eddie. 136 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 5: See mine's along the same lines, like it's crazy that 137 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 5: I got this job that like we moved to Nashville, together. 138 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 5: You actually asked me to be part of the show. 139 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 5: That's crazy. But what's even crazier is that when we 140 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 5: got to Nashville, we've been living here for a few years. 141 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 5: I got to adopt two kids, and I think that 142 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 5: if I wouldn't would have never met you, would have 143 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 5: never gotten this job, moved to Nashville. I would have 144 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 5: never had my two kids, who were both born here 145 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 5: in Nashville. Like that we've adopted, and that's pretty amazing 146 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 5: to me. But you would have never had Lunchbox not 147 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 5: made me successful about him not going to Kansas has 148 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 5: got you your kids? 149 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 2: Yelievable. This is unbelievable full circle. 150 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 4: I mean really, like we have UTSA and the University 151 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 4: of Kansas to think because if they were said, hey, 152 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 4: you'll be a junior, you'll be a senior. 153 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 2: Eddie wouldn't have his kids. 154 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: You wouldn't have your wife either. Oh my god, your 155 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 1: kids either. 156 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy? 157 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 4: Though? 158 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 2: Maybe we're just living out Lunchbox's life. Maybe, like that's 159 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 2: crazy part of his plan. 160 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 3: So much. 161 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 4: I mean, my little decision changed the directory of this 162 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 4: whole show. 163 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 2: I struggle with trajectory as well. For the record, I don't. 164 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: Really know how he impacted my life, but he said, 165 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: I have my kids. 166 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 3: You wouldn't. 167 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 2: How do you know, Well, she was already in that 168 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 2: process though before we came here, she would have never 169 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: been on this show. I was looking at a TikTok 170 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 2: video of the flooding in Ashville after the hurricane. TikTok 171 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 2: get any flood any of the hurricanes lot crazy, right, 172 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 2: And it had rained so much the ground was so saturated. 173 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 2: So with them, when the hurricane hits and the massive 174 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 2: amountain rainfall comes with that, it just floods, even in 175 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 2: the mountains. And so there are many different ways to help. 176 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: I would encourage you do a little, give a little 177 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 2: due diligence before you you start sending your money, unless 178 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 2: it's like the Red Cross or the Salvation Army, because 179 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 2: this is also where scammers will try to come up 180 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 2: with some things and try to get you. And there 181 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: are a lot of people in places that need the help. 182 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: And so I also encourage you to go go and look. 183 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 2: And for us, animals are a big thing. So we 184 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: donate to a shelter that was housing a lot of 185 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 2: animals that have been displaced. But if you go to 186 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 2: Redcross dot org. You can also find different areas and 187 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 2: they're legit because they get there quick with food, shelter supplies, etc. 188 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 2: But they do need help. The Salvation Army, a lot 189 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 2: of people are now trying to figure out ways to help, 190 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 2: and so from like the private sector, it's hard to 191 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 2: just jump in and start helping when there's still water there. 192 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:38,839 Speaker 2: You kind of have to wait for it all to 193 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: go away unless they're super trained like the Red Cross 194 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 2: or Salvation Army. But yeah, it's wild, like it doesn't 195 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 2: even feel like real. It looks like a movie almost 196 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 2: because it's there's so much water so quickly. 197 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, my brother's in Saint Pete and we have a 198 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: family text and we just were making sure that he 199 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 1: was okay and his place was fine. He's so many 200 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 1: people around him and so many people that he knows, 201 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 1: like six food of water and they're house Like. It's 202 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: it's thinking about it, overwhelming. 203 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 2: Fat of water, even a foot of water, Like I've 204 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 2: never been in a flood like that, where a foot 205 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 2: of water just because you can't really stop water. Uh. 206 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: North Carolina, Florida, Eastern Tennessee. A lot of data, a 207 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 2: lot of really really I'm gonna read the numbers of 208 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 2: some of the stuff that's happened here, but people still missing. 209 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 2: So I would encourage if you're listening to my voice 210 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 2: right now and you have five, ten extra bucks, if 211 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 2: you can help a lots of those fives and tens 212 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,559 Speaker 2: and extra bucks, that all helps once it's all combined together. 213 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 2: So you can go to Redcross dot org, or you 214 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 2: can go and search for different ways people are helping 215 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 2: and help them. Just be very careful because when someone 216 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 2: a tragedy happens, also, that's when the scammers come out, 217 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 2: and we hate for you to be taken advantage of. 218 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 2: So we'll put some links up on our website of 219 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 2: bobbybones dot com if you guys want to check that out. 220 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 2: A woman filed for divorce from her husband after only 221 00:09:56,640 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 2: forty days, not because cheated, but because he he bathed 222 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 2: once or twice per month. Apparently she didn't know that 223 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,719 Speaker 2: was his bathing habit. What The unnamed woman approached the 224 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 2: local family counseling center to complain about her husband's poor 225 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 2: personal hygiene, claiming that he rarely ever bathed, war dirty clothes, 226 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: suffered from bad breath, she could barely stand close to him, 227 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 2: let alone be intimate with him. Isn't this something you 228 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 2: learn whenever you're dating. 229 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: Maybe they didn't do things. 230 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 2: They didn't do things like standing next to each other 231 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: in the car. 232 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 1: Had they met, I don't know. 233 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 2: As a result, after only forty days of marriage, a 234 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 2: woman asked for a divorce. Oh maybe she thought she 235 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 2: could change him. 236 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 237 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 2: Right. When questioned by the counseling center, the husband admitted 238 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 2: to bathing again at most twice a month, and cleansing 239 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 2: by sprinkling his body with water. The scorned wife said 240 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 2: that he had bathed six times in the last forty days, 241 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 2: a bit more than he usually did, because she was like, 242 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 2: you have to bathe more, so he did, but it 243 00:10:55,040 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 2: was six into forty he tried, that's six times. It's 244 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 2: thirty six, right, Yeah, so you're looking at over six 245 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 2: weeks once. 246 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 1: A Yeah, it's not going to work. That would be 247 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: a big problem. 248 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: Twenty I don't know. The woman's family said she was 249 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 2: unable to reconcile it with him. I guess I don't 250 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 2: think of that as being like divorcible, But if he's 251 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 2: not going to change, that's hard to live with. It's 252 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:21,719 Speaker 2: always stinky, is it? 253 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: Annulminable. 254 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 2: I don't know. An elements are different different states. Sometimes 255 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: you can't get an annulment. What is the difference, What 256 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 2: do you mean? What's the marriage is kind of canceled out? 257 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 3: Okay? 258 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: And sometimes you can do them later than others with. 259 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,079 Speaker 1: A certain amount of time. I guess, like Bobby's saying, 260 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: the window might be a different state to state or 261 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: through the church and whatnot. 262 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 2: Are North Carolina listeners if you listen to the show 263 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 2: on your North Carolina and we were talking about Asheville 264 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 2: where I was seeing the flooding here. Uh, we're doing 265 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 2: a big supply gather on October second, so today said 266 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,719 Speaker 2: for the thirtieth how many days this month? 267 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: Tomorrow is the first first Wenesday? 268 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 2: Okay, so Wednesday, So if you're in our listening area 269 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 2: at the Walmart on Killed their Farm Road and carry 270 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 2: from ten am to six pm, we're looking for water, 271 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 2: canned food, whatever you can donate to help, so you 272 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 2: can help us there in Carrie, North Carolina. So just 273 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 2: a heads up to our listeners they're they're in that area, 274 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 2: they can help us. We slowly start to patch things 275 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 2: together to try to get people back on their feet 276 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 2: as quick as possible. An annulment is legal procedure that 277 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 2: declares the marriage no Olan boyd from the beginning, as 278 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,839 Speaker 2: if it never happened. Okay, but different rules for different 279 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 2: states for sure. 280 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: Okay, So it's only through the government. It has nothing 281 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,959 Speaker 1: to do with the church. No, okay, Well, I just 282 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 1: I guess of the church. They probably recognize it because 283 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 1: that's a lot of you know, the reason why people 284 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: wouldn't want to get a divorce is because of their religion. 285 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: But if it's an annulment, then it's okay. 286 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 2: I don't know what you're saying, but yeah, an is 287 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 2: a legal thing. I don't really what's really following? There 288 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 2: are no no, no, sorry, Okay, let's go. Time for 289 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 2: the news Bobby's stories. We were talking about the hurricane 290 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 2: earlier and I found a site you can go to. 291 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 2: It's envad dot org. And I feel pretty good about 292 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 2: this site having legitimate places that you can go and 293 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 2: either donate or volunteer. But it's envoad dot org. Helen 294 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 2: leaves extreme devastation in North Carolina, Florida, and eastern Tennessee. 295 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 2: At least one hundred and fifteen people are confirmed to 296 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 2: be dead from Hurricane Helen, thousands still missing and the 297 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:33,200 Speaker 2: numbers expected to rise. And for me, I think one 298 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 2: of the great things about TikTok has been the ability 299 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 2: to quickly show exactly what's happening so you can humanize it. 300 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 2: Because in the past, you read a news story hopefully 301 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:48,599 Speaker 2: like a local affiliate cable news, somebody has something and 302 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,199 Speaker 2: you can actually make a human response to it instead 303 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 2: of just reading it on paper. But with TikTok being 304 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: so quick, you're just like, oh my god, like as 305 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 2: it was happening, You're watching places get flooded. I was 306 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 2: talking about seeing Ashville earlier and people in boats going 307 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 2: by houses and the water is up like the middle 308 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 2: of the door, if not higher in the mountains. So 309 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: I would encourage you if you can, you have five 310 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: ten bucks. Red Cross, and why the Red Cross is 311 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 2: important is because while things are still like bad, they 312 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 2: can actually get in and help or it's hard for 313 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 2: like Luke Combs for example, was like, hey, we're gonna 314 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 2: do something once, but you can't do anything until all 315 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 2: the water goes down, until it's safe for people to 316 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 2: go in, the great thing about the Red Cross and 317 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 2: these sites like n voad dot org is that they 318 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 2: actually have ways to help while it's still bad. So 319 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 2: I would encourage you to check that out, do what 320 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 2: you can do. Hopefully somebody would do something for you 321 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 2: if you were going through the same thing. But yeah, 322 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 2: is real bad. This website you gave out too is 323 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 2: good because you can volunteer or donate. Yeah, you can 324 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 2: do I believe I said that. Whenever I said the 325 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 2: name of it, I was looking double check. 326 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: I think it's like right when you go to the 327 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: website too though, so obviously volun tiers or something that 328 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: are needed. 329 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 2: So yeah, check that out. It's envoad dot org. Chris 330 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 2: Christofferson died at eighty eight years old. When they do 331 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 2: like a biopic of his life, oh my god, people 332 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: are finally fully gonna grasp like he was a Rhodes scholar, 333 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 2: so he was wildly smart. He was a veteran. He 334 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: was an actor. He won a Golden Globe for a 335 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 2: star is born. He was one of the greatest songwriters 336 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 2: of the history of what we would consider contemporary songwriting. 337 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 2: He was one of the highwaymen. Yeah, I mean, it's 338 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 2: just you know, wild as to how great he was 339 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 2: not just good, but how great he was in many, 340 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 2: many different areas. It's crazy that like who we kind 341 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 2: of assigned to be our represent our representation. Like in 342 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: country music, it's like Johnny Cash, it's like will He's 343 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 2: still alive, but we pick and Chris Chosofson obviously one 344 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 2: of the great grades. But it easily could have been him, 345 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 2: because it kind of isn't if you know, you know, 346 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 2: but he's not one of the names of artists come 347 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 2: through and they're like, you know, I'm just a big 348 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 2: Chris Christophers've ban But it very easily could have been. 349 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 2: But I think partially too, it's because he diversified his 350 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 2: talents and acted and did all. I mean, really one 351 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 2: of the most talented, hardest working people in country music history. 352 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 2: So yeah, he died. He was in the Country Music 353 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 2: Hall of Fame induction class of two thousand and four 354 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 2: and he was with Waylon and Willie and Johnny. Have 355 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 2: a big picture of the Highwaymen in the house. It's 356 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 2: all four of those guys framed. So cool. Yeah, it's 357 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 2: pretty cool. He wrote me and Bobby McGhee, Me and 358 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 2: Bobby McGhee, which who later recorded it, Janis Joplin, I go. 359 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 2: It didn't become a hit for her until after she died, 360 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 2: but he was alive. But yeah, so yeah, Rest in 361 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 2: peace to Chris Christofferson died eighty eight years old. A 362 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: Harvard medical student ate seven hundred and twenty eggs in 363 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 2: a month, mostly to test cholesterol. Yeah, because they say eggs, 364 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 2: eat a bunch of them, raise your cholesterol. Yeah, So 365 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 2: he ate seven hundred and twenty. By the end of 366 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 2: the month, he found that his cholesterol levels had dipped 367 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 2: twenty percent had done down. How does that work? I 368 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 2: think the point was it's not just about the eggs. 369 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 2: It's about other factors, not just the eggs, like making 370 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 2: life axile. What you're putting with the eggs, eggs make 371 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 2: it right right right right? Yeah, that's from Fox and 372 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 2: See all that eggs in California becomes the second state 373 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 2: to require parents to save earnings for child influencers. So 374 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: they're putting in financial protections for teens and children who 375 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 2: are featured on social media that gets monetized. Governor Gavin 376 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 2: Newsom signed legislation Thursday. The mandate's parents and guardians set 377 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 2: aside and trust accounts a percentage of earnings earned by 378 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 2: minors quote featured and monetized online content. Basically, if your 379 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 2: kids making money and they're not old enough, you have 380 00:17:58,560 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 2: to save a bit of it till they get old. 381 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: Or what if you're an influencer that makes money off 382 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: of your kids type things, like your kids are part 383 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: of your content or like you link their stuff, that's. 384 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 2: Going to be part of it too, right, Yeah, I 385 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:11,919 Speaker 2: think there's a there's a different part of it too 386 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 2: that includes minors and content. But if they're getting paid, 387 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 2: if they're if they are getting paid, part of that 388 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 2: money has to go and be saved for them right now. 389 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 2: If they're in your stuff that you're getting paid, that 390 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 2: is not the case. Okay, So just by putting your 391 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 2: kid in the background of a video, they're not going 392 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 2: to make any money if you are. But if it's 393 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 2: like Ryan's toys, but if it's a kid who's actually 394 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 2: having the check made to them or made to the 395 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 2: trust that's that then yes, so that has to be 396 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 2: put back. 397 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 1: Okay, I guess yeah. I just when I saw that, 398 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 1: I got curious about, like, you know, you want there's 399 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 1: little all their little outfits, you know, like moms link 400 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 1: like their kids outfits. 401 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,679 Speaker 2: And if the check isn't to the kid. Okay, then 402 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 2: otherwise man extra was in a sidewalk in your video, Bro, 403 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 2: I didn't even be paid. Experts trying to figure out 404 00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 2: how to figure out how this toad ended up in 405 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 2: a bag of salad. There's a live toad. This is 406 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 2: like the greatest commercial for the salad. Here we go. 407 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 2: If I were a salad company, I would be like, 408 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 2: we're so fresh, even toads are living in it. Yeah yeah, 409 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 2: but we don't want that. We don't want that in 410 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 2: our bags. 411 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 3: No, we don't want it. 412 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 2: Like I see what you're saying. You should it's natural. 413 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:17,640 Speaker 2: You don't eat the toad. 414 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 1: No, we don't want a prewashed bag. 415 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 2: You don't wanted that natural? Why not? I thought you 416 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 2: wanted the most natural things possible. Yeah yeah, wait, we 417 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 2: just want insect free or reptile. Say you do, but 418 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 2: you don't. Experts trying to establish the origin of a 419 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 2: toad found in a supermarket bag of salad. See, this 420 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 2: would be my commercial. We're so fresh, even the toads 421 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 2: are still alive, he said. Since collecting on Monday, he 422 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: had been keeping the toad in isolation because it was 423 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 2: not clear where the toad had come from, right this 424 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 2: poor toad is looking around. I'm like, well, I mind isolation. 425 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 2: He said, he's in a little nice box. He's got 426 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 2: some soil and some leaves. That's from BBC. The toad 427 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 2: was alive. That's great, Great for the salad. If you 428 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 2: want to know if a member of the opposite sex 429 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 2: is then do you listen carefully to their voice. According 430 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,880 Speaker 2: to research, both men's and women's voices lower when they're 431 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 2: talking to someone they're attracted to. For guys, that means 432 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 2: if she sounded husky, she's likely into you. Women should 433 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 2: listen for the same. A man deepening his voice sounds 434 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 2: more passionate and intense. That is from Gentlemen's Journal. 435 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 1: Okay, okay. This is tricky though, because they say guys 436 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 1: are gonna like you better if you talk with a 437 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 1: higher pitch voice. 438 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 2: Gentleman's Journal says the opposite. I'm a big Gentleman's Journal guy. 439 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 2: All right, there you go. That's a news Bobby's story. 440 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 2: It's easy to get emotional if you're driving and someone 441 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 2: cuts you off and you're like middle finger, or you're 442 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 2: like honk a horn, or try to get up and 443 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 2: cut them off like all those Although that may feel 444 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:46,679 Speaker 2: good for a second. Probably not the best idea. Macro 445 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 2: micro feels great, Macro. What are you gonna get from it? 446 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 2: Not much? And there's a possibility that something like this 447 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 2: could happen. Capone Dixon, thirty eight years old, was booked 448 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,360 Speaker 2: into at Lake County Jail for investigation of aggravated assault 449 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 2: with a road rage penalty enhancement about eight am. This 450 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 2: is the morning the police responded to a road rage 451 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: incident in which the mill suspect shot through the victim's 452 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 2: windshield after they had stopped on the side of fifty 453 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 2: seven to forty South Canal Road to argue about the 454 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,919 Speaker 2: victim driving too slowly in front of Capone. 455 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 3: That's not good. 456 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: This is just somebody driving. This person's mad for some reason. 457 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 2: They pull over because the dude like chased him to Walmart. 458 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 2: I think like follow him in, and somebody follows me in. 459 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 2: I messed up and follows me. I'm not pulling over. 460 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 2: I'm keeping going, and I'm also not going to follow 461 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 2: somebody you never know who's got a gun in their car. 462 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 2: The victim told police that he was outside of his 463 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 2: car about to get back in after they had talked, 464 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 2: and he fired a bullet through the windshield. That's not good, 465 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 2: you said, eight am, right, Yeah, that's the high stress 466 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 2: traffic trying. 467 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 3: To get Yeah, but man has to go bad that 468 00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:58,400 Speaker 3: early in the morning. 469 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 2: When somebody cuts you off, just remember possibly they didn't 470 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 2: do it on purpose. And also, who knows how many 471 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 2: times that you have cut someone off not knowing you 472 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 2: did a or b you knew you did, but it 473 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,920 Speaker 2: was kind of an accident, or see you did, and 474 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 2: you're just thankful that nobody shot you. But wouldn't you 475 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 2: like to know if you were gonna cut someone off 476 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 2: and you were like you were cutting someone off and 477 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 2: you're gonna hit him, like you gotta let them know 478 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 2: by hitting the horn. Hey, what are you doing? That's 479 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 2: that's all good in your world until somebody pulls a gun. 480 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 2: Right then I'm going because people know you're not gone 481 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 2: because you cannot run a bullet. I besides you, and 482 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,920 Speaker 2: I do say he because this is only dudes for 483 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 2: the most part. Only dudes for the most part are 484 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 2: pulling guns in a road rage incident. 485 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's only people dudes getting out of the side 486 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,400 Speaker 4: of the road and fighting and getting it's always disrespect. 487 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 4: This guy's name is capone, it can't be good. 488 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 2: For something similar to that. Mark zuckerbird Berg is now 489 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 2: made two hundred billion dollars two hundred billion. Bloomberg's Billionaire 490 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: Index shows Zuckerberg has grown his personal fortune to over 491 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 2: two hundred billion. I was thinking about this this morning 492 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 2: before I came in. When you have two hundred billion dollars, 493 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 2: it has to be like hot water to us explain, 494 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 2: meaning we only have a limited amount of hot water, 495 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 2: but we have as much as we want because we 496 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 2: live in a part of the world that has hot water. 497 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 2: Like we're very lucky. But we can just turn our 498 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 2: hot water on and have so much hot water, not 499 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 2: think about it. It's there. 500 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 4: Now. 501 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 2: Do we have to pay for it? 502 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 3: Is the bill? 503 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's that you know, is you're building to 504 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 2: be five hundred bucks instead of like one hundred and eight. 505 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 2: So that's like him with money. It's basically our hot water. 506 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. Sometimes our hot water goes out. 507 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 2: His is never going to go away, yeah, but ours 508 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 2: always comes back right, like we have hot water again. 509 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 2: Anytime it's ever gone out, we have it again, Sue. 510 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 2: So he is able to spend money like we're able 511 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 2: to use hot water. You think he's fruit little like 512 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 2: at all, Like is he asking for a deal somewhere? Probably, 513 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 2: Usually people that are very rich are very rich, especially 514 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 2: if they weren't given money. It's different if money's passed 515 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 2: down to you like your parents, because you're always rich, 516 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 2: you don't understand. But usually people that have a lot 517 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 2: of money that made a lot of money, made a 518 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 2: lot of money by making certain decisions with their money, 519 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 2: and that really doesn't change. It's like somebody who's a 520 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 2: great ballplayer and they win two super Bowls and they 521 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 2: don't go, I'm all good now with two super Bowls. No, 522 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 2: they continue to go and try to get three, four, five, 523 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 2: six seven. They go Pat Mahomes, Tom Brady, like they 524 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 2: got the two by being absolutely dedicated and driven, so 525 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,160 Speaker 2: they're going to continue to try to get four, five, six, 526 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 2: seven eight super Bowls. Same thing with people like this. 527 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,719 Speaker 2: I assume man I thought he doesn't look at price tag. 528 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 2: Mark Zuckerberg is known for being frugal despite his wealth. Really, yeah, 529 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 2: there's a difference price tags. But I'm also he's not 530 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,880 Speaker 2: going into a store where they But I would say, 531 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 2: like he's not going to be taking advantage of on 532 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 2: like property or anything true. I talked to coach Elco 533 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 2: from Texas A and M on Friday, and you know, 534 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 2: they had the big George Straight show there. Yeah, and 535 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 2: so Eddie and I were talking to him and we 536 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,959 Speaker 2: asked him if he went to that show. I did, 537 00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 2: My wife and I went. We got We got a 538 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 2: It was my daughter was with us. 539 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 5: So my daughter was there for Parker McCollum because she's 540 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 5: a huge Parker McCollum fan, so that was an added plus. 541 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 3: And then we got to see George that night and what. 542 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 1: A scene that was in Kyle. 543 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 2: So they went, he's the head football coach. They beat 544 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,120 Speaker 2: us this week. It is terrible. I like him. It's 545 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 2: I hate liking somebody that beats me. Although I didn't play, 546 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 2: I have to keep running myself by you didn't play. 547 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 2: We blew another second half lead. It's like our things 548 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,200 Speaker 2: so a thing. Hey, guess what you're leading in the 549 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 2: second half. What are you going to do? We will 550 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 2: show you will blow it. I was in a pretty 551 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 2: good mood though, because it's an expectation. 552 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 4: Now. 553 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:34,440 Speaker 2: My wife's like, are you mad? I was like no, 554 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 2: It's like, why not. I let we blow every every 555 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 2: lead in the second half. It's just normal. Now, it's normal. 556 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 2: I've just come to accept Arkansas football. If we have 557 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 2: a lead, we're going to blow it. I don't even 558 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 2: want the lead till the very end. Okay, well, when 559 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 2: you think that way, No, no, it's not me thinking 560 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 2: that way. They made it happen. It's it happening that 561 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 2: made me think that way. So yeah, you can listen 562 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 2: to that interview on twenty five Whistles. But he's great. 563 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,400 Speaker 2: Text A and M guy, are we good this year? 564 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,959 Speaker 2: Who's text A and M? You guys are pretty good 565 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 2: this year? Yeah? Four and one. You have to tell her. 566 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: I didn't even know that we beat Arkansas week. 567 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:15,439 Speaker 2: It wasn't pretty at all. According to Taste of Country, 568 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 2: Carrie Underwood's making half of what Katie Perry did on 569 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 2: American Idol, Which it's just weird that we know how 570 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 2: much money people make. That is weird. It's weird, like 571 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 2: I can look up anybody that I know that was 572 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 2: an athlete and go, wow, this is how much money 573 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 2: they made. Like think about it. Nobody has any idea 574 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 2: how much money we make. And for the most part, 575 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 2: you don't know how much money and your neighbors make 576 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,200 Speaker 2: you could probably kind of ballpark it, but then you 577 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 2: still don't know. 578 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: So should it be that either we know what everybody 579 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 1: makes everywhere or we know nothing. 580 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 2: I think if we knew what everybody made, life would 581 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 2: be a little more fair because I think people get 582 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,159 Speaker 2: taken advantage of a lot of jealousy too, though I 583 00:26:54,359 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 2: think if everything was extremely open and on it, I 584 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 2: don't think there would be as much jealousy. Actually, okay, 585 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,440 Speaker 2: you've thought about this, I can tell well, I'm just 586 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,399 Speaker 2: glad our money's not put out there. But it's weird, like, 587 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 2: for example, the story here Life of Style reports that 588 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 2: Carrie's making about thirteen million a year or Katy Perry's 589 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 2: making twenty five. But Katy Perry made that over years. 590 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 2: I think she started like ten million in the first 591 00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 2: couple of seasons. But imagine if like all of our 592 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 2: salaries were put out there. That would be crazy. It'll 593 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 2: be crazy. Well, I had a guy, I'm a podcast 594 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 2: a sports show, and I know how much you made. 595 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 2: I looked at all up. I can see every contract 596 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 2: that he's signed because he's an athlete and some entertainment, 597 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 2: like you know how much people making movies, but we 598 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 2: don't know everything they make, right, because that's just like 599 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 2: their main thing. Yeah, you don't know what they're doing 600 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 2: with their money, like what they're investing in, right, so 601 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:45,959 Speaker 2: we don't know how much money, Like we can't get 602 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 2: into the IRS. Although someone to try to hack me once. 603 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,679 Speaker 1: I remember that they worked for the IRS. 604 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, they actually worked for the IRS and logged. 605 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 1: In that great, but they weren't supposed to do They 606 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 1: weren't in that whatever department they were logging into the. 607 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,239 Speaker 2: It's gonna happened, lady, they got flagged. You're going at 608 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 2: the IRS. You have the password, but you try to 609 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 2: go into like my stuff when you're not supposed to 610 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 2: be in there. 611 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: Bizarre and all of us because we're friends with you, 612 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 1: so thinks, oh. 613 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,640 Speaker 2: You're welcome, everybuddy. Yeah, So I just thought it would 614 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 2: be weird if all of our if everybody's money was 615 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,720 Speaker 2: out there, and I'm thankful ours isn't. What if our 616 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 2: company decide it one day, you know what, we're gonna 617 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,360 Speaker 2: be have full transparency. You know why they don't why 618 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 2: competition so they can negotiate people's salaries higher and lower. 619 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:24,159 Speaker 3: Oh that's smart. 620 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you don't know how much somebody else is 621 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 2: making You don't know what you're worth in comparison to them. 622 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: Shouldn't they just want to pay you what you're worth. 623 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 3: No, well, they want to keep the money for themselves. 624 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 2: Ifs and butts we're candies and nuts, man, the world 625 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 2: will be much much better. You know, there's a scam out. 626 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 2: It has to do a TikTok so a scam alert scammeler. 627 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 2: So you'll get this. Hello, I'm from the HR department 628 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 2: at TikTok. Your resume is very suitable for our positions. Also, 629 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 2: whenever I'm gonna say this, whenever it's not perfect English, 630 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 2: because if it comes in like a DM or a 631 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 2: text and it's like somebody, it sounds a bit Swedish 632 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 2: and they're forgetting certain. I'm like, that's for sure. Escape 633 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: So for business development, TikTok needs thre hundred part timers, 634 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 2: no experience required. But this is not real. So don't 635 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 2: believe if you get a message from TikTok, either in 636 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 2: your DMS or a text message, is they have phone numbers, 637 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 2: don't believe it. That's not real. They're not offering daily 638 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 2: salaries up to six hundred dollars for part time jobs. Also, 639 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 2: I'm not paying people to be on this podcast or 640 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 2: this show. Somebody's faking as me. They're booking people that 641 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 2: I know what and saying we'll give you like three 642 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 2: that we've never in the history of the world paid 643 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 2: a single guest to come on the show. And it's 644 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 2: sending that to people as you as my manager. And 645 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,719 Speaker 2: it's always like, this is Dwight, Bobby's manager. Who is Dwight? 646 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 2: That's funny. And then they say we're looking to book 647 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 2: so and so we're willing to pay up to three 648 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 2: thousand dollars. We don't pay guests. Nobody reputable pays guests. 649 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 3: Wow. 650 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I get them from like people I know, going, hey, 651 00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 2: did you try to book my friend? It happened to 652 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 2: other day with Fox Sports. Somebody of Fox Sports message me. 653 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 2: Was that one of you guys. It was like, Hey, 654 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 2: this person's asking if you book them, Morgan, do you 655 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 2: get those in the DM's a lot? Yeah. 656 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,479 Speaker 5: Well I got sent one from like somebody who has 657 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 5: a big following on TikTok and she's like and then 658 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 5: she posted a video and then everybody was tagging us, and. 659 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: I was like, well, this isn't nice. We didn't do it. 660 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 2: It, don't fall for that, So scam alert. Nobody's trying 661 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 2: to pay you to be on TikTok, and I'm not 662 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 2: trying to book you for the podcast, So heads up there. 663 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,840 Speaker 2: TikTok's ficial website warn't choosers to be aware of scammers 664 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 2: trying to portray themselves as company employees. So there you go. Thanks. 665 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 2: Dozens of exceptionally well preserved Viking skeletons unearthed in Denmark, 666 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 2: that's all. That would be so legit to find like 667 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 2: a good one that was because it was like kept 668 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 2: from weather, was able to be held, so you had 669 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 2: more of an idea of how big the humans actually 670 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 2: were to what they were eating. Who knows, that would 671 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 2: be crazy. Fifty exceptionally well preserved Viking skeletons, which also 672 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 2: too if they put them on a little floated thing 673 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 2: and floated a mountain and shot the arrow of fire 674 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 2: that was the funeral Hiking funeral have been unearthed in 675 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: Denmark by archaeologists. Five Graves quote, it is truly unusual 676 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 2: we'll find so many well preserved skeletons at once, like 677 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 2: those discovered in Asum. That would be so cool if 678 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 2: that was your thing, like to find the relics. Like 679 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 2: you've been studying history, you have ideas and so well preserved. 680 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,520 Speaker 2: That would be awesome. You mean like Indiana Jones. I 681 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 2: never saw Indiana Jones. That's what he does, like Ross Keller, uh, dinosaurs. Yeah, 682 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 2: but I think he's in the museum, Indian Jones in 683 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 2: the field. But wait what I thought he Dana Jones 684 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 2: like save people and stuff. Well he did once he'd 685 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 2: go out to look for like the Lost Arc. Then 686 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 2: people would start fighting. Oh that's him stuff, Indiana Jones. 687 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 2: Hold on, let me think it of this. Indiana Jones 688 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 2: and Noah's Ark, No, what's it called? And the Raiders 689 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 2: of the Lost Arc. Oh, it's not called Noah's Art. 690 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,720 Speaker 2: And then he's looking for the the cup, you know, 691 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 2: the cup that Jesus drank the wine from. And then 692 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 2: he finds looking for that, oh yeah, in one of them. Yeah, 693 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 2: hold on, Indiana Jones. The Temple of Doom. Yeah, I 694 00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 2: don't know what he's looking for there. I think he's 695 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 2: looking for these stones that like what about that? There 696 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,959 Speaker 2: is a last one too. I never saw any of them. 697 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,960 Speaker 2: Are they all really good? They're really good? Yeah, I 698 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 2: mean but I saw them as kids, so like, as 699 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 2: a kid, it was really really cool. What about when 700 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 2: Indiana Jones has that declaration of independence or whatever. That's uh, 701 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 2: that's the other one, that's Nicholas Cage. Is that the 702 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 2: Lost Treasure, National Treasure, National Treasure, Temple of Dooms. Very different, 703 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 2: not the same thing. No, there's something called lighthouse parenting. 704 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 2: Lighthouse parents provide a stable source of guidance for their children. 705 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,719 Speaker 2: It's perfect, like a lighthouse there when you need them 706 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 2: for some direction. But these aren't helicopter parents. Doesn't apply 707 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 2: to the difference in a lighthouse helicopter parent. Lighthouse parents 708 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 2: pride themselves. I'm giving their kids the freedom to go 709 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 2: out on their own and just be free and learn themselves. 710 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 2: But it sounds expensive. Wait what that sounds expensive letting 711 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 2: someone go out and make your own mistakes and crash 712 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 2: the car, Like, no, we're not gonna let's. 713 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: Skip the crust light, here's the keys. 714 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 2: Well, when you let the kids go out and just 715 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 2: live car, I never say thing about a car. Well, 716 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 2: I'm just thinking of parenting. 717 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 1: I think it's they have their own autonomy, had to 718 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 1: make their own decision, and then they can come to 719 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 1: you for guidance, but not hovering. 720 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 2: You let them go. They're on the roof, they're like, hey, 721 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 2: I do to jump? They break an arm. That's now 722 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 2: they're doing jackass. It's costs money for that. Now they 723 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 2: do do that kind of stuff if But isn't that 724 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 2: part of learning life exactly? Like there's a fine line, 725 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 2: but it's expensive. I'd rather go out and be like, 726 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 2: before you jump, don't do that. Get down. But they're 727 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 2: going to learn that lesson eventually anyway, right at some point, 728 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 2: just like when a boat is out to sea and 729 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 2: away from the lighthouse. They want their kids to grow 730 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 2: and learn through the rough seas, but always have a 731 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,959 Speaker 2: lighthouse to see to come back to. Lighthouse. Parents are 732 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 2: dependable but not controlling like a helicopter parent would be. 733 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 2: That's from the Atlantic, So I think Eddy is a 734 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:52,280 Speaker 2: helicopter parent for sure. You could probably be both. You 735 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 2: can have a helicopter and a lighthouse. Dang, you called 736 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 2: in all the troops parents is hard man. You'd probably 737 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 2: lean more helicopters, though I don't know. We're telling you 738 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 2: that the lane. We're telling you that helicopter. If I 739 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 2: had to pick a lane, I'd probably i'd lean more helicopter. Yes, 740 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 2: yes it's a hard lane, but yes, fair enough. That's 741 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 2: because I love my kids. 742 00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 1: Though, well, what are you saying that you. 743 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,280 Speaker 2: Do love your kids? No one's doubting that. But you're 744 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,320 Speaker 2: saying that parents that are more like free range or 745 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 2: lighthouse or whatever don't love their Yeah, the ones in 746 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 2: the couch like yeah, yeah, yeah, you guys. 747 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: Go do whatever, And that's passive. That's different. 748 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,040 Speaker 2: Not me, man, I'm in the helicopter. I'm like, where 749 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:25,359 Speaker 2: are you going? 750 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 1: I'll go with you, because I'm definitely a passive parent. 751 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,760 Speaker 2: Like I was full pat. I didn't have a lighthouse. 752 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,439 Speaker 2: I definitely had didn't have a helicopter. I was able 753 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 2: to My point is I was able to go out 754 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 2: and screw up a lot and learn from those screw 755 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 2: ups very young. But I had all that knowledge young, 756 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 2: and I was able to build off of that young. 757 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,399 Speaker 2: So therefore I was ahead. You're one of the lucky ones. 758 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 1: No, I was. 759 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 2: No, I would not say that was lucky. Like I 760 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 2: didn't have any I didn't have any. 761 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: But I think given that you had, like there was 762 00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 1: an absent part of that. 763 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. My point is not everybody who just is allowed 764 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:06,359 Speaker 2: to run free, runs into a wall, right, Edie's acting 765 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,840 Speaker 2: like some of them do though some okay, some do, 766 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,359 Speaker 2: but some don't. And also some do and then end 767 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 2: up coming back and building their own wall. 768 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 3: That's true. 769 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think what we've learned as parenting has is 770 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 2: a lot of different a lot of nuance involvement. That's right. Ay, 771 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:21,919 Speaker 2: where would you put yourself with? Are you I don't 772 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:22,840 Speaker 2: think you're a helicopter. 773 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:24,720 Speaker 1: No, I don't think I'm a helicopter. 774 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,520 Speaker 2: Are you a lighthouse? I? 775 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 1: I man, that's a goal. I think that there are 776 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 1: times that I do a little too much and I 777 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 1: need to back off helicopter to let no, I think 778 00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 1: I just do things and I'm like, shoot, they could 779 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: I need to back off and let them figure this 780 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 1: out because it'll serve them better. And then sometimes I 781 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 1: do get passive because I don't want the confrontation and 782 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to have to deal with it. And 783 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 1: then I'm by myself like this is taking the easy 784 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 1: way out because now they're not gonna learn from this. 785 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 1: And I don't want to be passive just so that 786 00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:59,480 Speaker 1: they love me, because I think it's an adoptive mom 787 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 1: especially adopting older kids, you don't have that attachment that 788 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,400 Speaker 1: other relationships build. And so sometimes I'm like, oh, I 789 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 1: really don't want to have to deal with this. I'd 790 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 1: rather just ignore it because they're gonna hate me. But 791 00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 1: you got to go in because I don't want to 792 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:14,440 Speaker 1: be passive. 793 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 2: Sounds like a lighthouse to me. From all that, I 794 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 2: give her a lighthouse Eddie Lane's fleet of Choppers. Oh yeah, 795 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 2: swat team, all right, Bobby Bone show. 796 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 4: Today. This story comes those from Summit County, Colorado. A 797 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 4: woman was driving on I seventy when all of a sudden, 798 00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,920 Speaker 4: she looks in a rear view mirror and sees eight 799 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 4: cars just following her, tailgating her. So she calls nine 800 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 4: one one, what's your emergency? Yeah, there's eight cars. They're 801 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 4: chasing me. They're following me all over the city. Can 802 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:49,560 Speaker 4: you please send help, send the police. 803 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 2: I call it. I called the cars eight people were 804 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 2: chasing me. 805 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, police show up. She's only car on the road. 806 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 3: What were those other eight? They pull her over. 807 00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 4: They're like, ma'am, there are no cars. She's like, are 808 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 4: you sure there's not eight cars behind me? And they're like, yeah, man, 809 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 4: what is that white stuff on your note. 810 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 2: She's eating powdered donuts. That'll make us eight cars. Yeah 811 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 2: it was. 812 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 3: Not powdered donuts. Yeah, okay, I'm lunchbox. That's your bonehead 813 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 3: story of the day. 814 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 2: I mean I saw an instagram your daughter at homecoming. 815 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 1: She did go. Yeah, it went okay. Her date sort 816 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,279 Speaker 1: of stood her up. So that was a little wait. 817 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,480 Speaker 2: As a date, well, you. 818 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 1: Know, he did the whole thing. He asked her poster 819 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 1: board and all, and so that was the thing. And 820 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 1: we met at this one person's house for pictures and 821 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,960 Speaker 1: then they were all going to eat and everybody was 822 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,400 Speaker 1: at this house. Everyone showed up and then she was like, oh, 823 00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 1: he said, he's not coming for pictures or dinner, and 824 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,359 Speaker 1: then he'll be at the dance. So she just texted 825 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: him and said it's okay, you don't need to beat 826 00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:48,959 Speaker 1: my date at the dance. 827 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 2: What happened, I don't know. 828 00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:52,439 Speaker 1: He said. 829 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 2: He said he show up to the dance. 830 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 1: Yeah he was there, but they she just said, hi, 831 00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 1: I don't He said that it's boys. 832 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:00,959 Speaker 2: Get the truck. 833 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: He said, it's called I mean, they weren't they were 834 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 1: just going as friends. Anyways, It wasn't. 835 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 2: That's even worse. 836 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't really know. She handled it well though, 837 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 1: I was proud of her, being like, oh, okay, well 838 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 1: if you can't you know, this has been planned for 839 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 1: a while, so if you're not going to show up 840 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: with our friend group for pictures and dinner and she's 841 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,480 Speaker 1: the one that made the reservations, and I don't know. 842 00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:27,480 Speaker 1: It just was one of those things where I was like, 843 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 1: this is weird. She's like, she goes, I should have 844 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: never said yes. I knew I should have never said. 845 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 2: Yes because he asked her right, yeah. 846 00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 1: Like she has a whole picture of him with this poster. 847 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 2: War side, and then he didn't show up. 848 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,320 Speaker 1: He didn't show up. Yeah, to the pictures of the dinner, 849 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 1: and she looked so beautiful. 850 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,759 Speaker 2: I saw the picture and I feels so bad. 851 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 1: Well, I think she was okay with it because she 852 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,240 Speaker 1: doesn't like him like that, but I think it still 853 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,680 Speaker 1: was what do you do you? I know she doesn't 854 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: like him like that. I know she doesn't. I think 855 00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 1: she just the idea of. 856 00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:01,799 Speaker 2: I don't like you like that. So then he got 857 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 2: his feelings hurt and didn't know. 858 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:05,879 Speaker 1: Because I think it was evident that it was part 859 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 1: of their friend group thing and they have I don't honestly, 860 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,960 Speaker 1: he told her, I think it's complicated, and she was like, okay, 861 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 1: so she just she said the dance, you. 862 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 2: Did not have a good time, and homecoming sucks anyway, 863 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 2: that's what I. 864 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I said it's I don't even remember home 865 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,719 Speaker 1: coming from my high school days. I said, So this 866 00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 1: seems maybe like a big deal right now, but it's 867 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 1: trust me, it's not going to be. 868 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:30,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. 869 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what was up with this kid. I'm 870 00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,360 Speaker 1: just thankful that it wasn't the crush that this is 871 00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: going to devastate her more. 872 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 2: I don't want to beat up like a sixteen year 873 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 2: old right now, right but I feel like we should. 874 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 2: I know. Oh you feel that way too. Oh yeah, okay, Yeah. 875 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,960 Speaker 2: She's like great, thanks, we're done, have a great day. 876 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 2: We'll see you tomorrow. By everybody. Bobby Bone. The Bobby 877 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:58,600 Speaker 2: Bone Show theme song, written, produced and sang by read Yarberry. 878 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,640 Speaker 2: You can find his instagram. I'm at reed Yarberry, Scuba 879 00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:07,280 Speaker 2: Steve executive producer, Raymondo, head of Production. I'm Bobby Bones. 880 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 2: My instagram is mister Bobby Bones. Thank you for listening 881 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:11,240 Speaker 2: to the podcast