1 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: Juble's a dirty little secret. 2 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 2: Hey, what's up? 3 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:11,959 Speaker 1: You have a dirty little secret? 4 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: I do. Let's hear it. 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 3: Okay, I've replaced my birth control pills with sugar pills, 6 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 3: and I am trying to get pregnant. 7 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: Boyfriend, Oh, he doesn't know. 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 2: Yes, no, he doesn't know. It's not as bad as it. 9 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: I have to explain. He definitely wants to have kids. 10 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 2: We've been together seven years now and I'm in my 11 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 2: early thirties. Like, we need to get going. He definitely 12 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 2: wants a family. But he he's wonderful, but he just is. 13 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 2: Really it's always something right, like, well, we should really 14 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: do this first, we should get married first, we should 15 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 2: get up home first. It's like we don't need to 16 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 2: get home, we can rent. It's always something And it's 17 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: not like he doesn't want to have a family, doesn't 18 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: want it. He's just in life. Has he gets decision overload. 19 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 4: You know, it's sure, I'll make the decision for you, 20 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 4: so he'll he'll think, miraculously, you guys got pregnant, and 21 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 4: that it's a sign that he needs to be ready. 22 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 2: Now. Well, he has no choice. He wants to be 23 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 2: a father. He's going to be an amazing father. But 24 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: I feel like I have to think about my body. 25 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: I mean, as I get older, what if it's impossible 26 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 2: to get pregnant or what if I have you know, 27 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 2: medical issues. I'm healthy now, let's let's just do it. 28 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 2: And I felt so guilty for so long. It's nice 29 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 2: to stay it out loud. I haven't told anybody, but 30 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 2: I yeah, yeah, and I'm a week late. It's still 31 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 2: too early. I'm just I'm hoping. I don't want to 32 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: get too excited, so but I am five days late, 33 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 2: almost a week, so we'll see. 34 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: I'm not sure what to say either. At least you've 35 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: talked about the fact that he wants it's if he 36 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: didn't want kids, I would feel a little differently about it. 37 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 38 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: I still don't really know how to feel about the 39 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: whole thing. But it is your dirty little secret, and 40 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: I'm glad you got it off your chest. 41 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 2: Right. Thank you? 42 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 4: Yep, good luck on everything. 43 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much, guys. 44 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 3: Thank you? 45 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 4: OK, bye bye bye bye. 46 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 3: What's your dirty little secret? 47 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: Text cubol to four one O six one