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Speaker 1: This one is from val In, Oklahoma City Steve. She says,

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Speaker 1: I dated a guy that I work with. He got

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Speaker 1: married while we were still in a relationship. I found

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Speaker 1: out the week of his wedding, and he told me

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Speaker 1: that I was special and the sex was amazing. But

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Speaker 1: he's always been in love with his wife, he said,

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Speaker 1: He said it like it was nothing. I don't see

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Speaker 1: how he could possibly love another woman besides me, based

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Speaker 1: on the things we did together and how compatible we are.

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Speaker 1: I have to see him every day at work, and

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Speaker 1: he speaks and keeps going. I feel like I lost

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Speaker 1: my best friend. How could he move on without a conscience?

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Speaker 2: Oh you self? What do you mean? How can he

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Speaker 2: move on like he don't have a conscience?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what she wants. He speaks, that's something.

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Speaker 2: What's that he speaks?

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Speaker 3: That means that he's consciously aware that you are there,

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Speaker 3: that's all. But he told you you were special and

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Speaker 3: your sex was amazing. That's that's it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, that's it. It ain't no more you amazing.

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Speaker 2: But I love her. Yeah, that's cold. That's hard to hear.

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Speaker 3: See, y'all got to quit thinking because you got some

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Speaker 3: good cookie. It's a whole lot of good cookies. He

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Speaker 3: can't send these loring the dudes. Yeah, keep it, keep

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Speaker 3: it keeper, make a slew of good cookies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, She says, she feels like she lost her best friend.

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Speaker 2: You're just she'd getting a job, look at him every day.

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Speaker 2: She just went too far with it.

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Speaker 3: She got that love thing wrapped up in and now

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Speaker 3: now now she'd have messed it off.

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Speaker 2: It was going it was going fine, It really was.

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Speaker 1: It was really for him, for him, it was going

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Speaker 1: time for him. Uh, he had the best of both worlds, sir.

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Speaker 2: She knew them, both worlds existed. She knew that.

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Speaker 3: She Yeah, no, the week according to the letter she

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Speaker 3: found the week of.

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Speaker 2: The wig of his wedding. Yeah, well, at least you

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Speaker 2: found out him. At least found out.

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Speaker 1: We have time for another one, because this when I

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Speaker 1: see it coming, all right, moving on, Steve, we have

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Speaker 1: time for another one. This is from Shondolin in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 1: Chonlan says, I've been divorced for twelve years and one

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Speaker 1: of my friends told me that she slept with my

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Speaker 1: husband while we were separated, right before the divorce. My

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Speaker 1: ex husband said it's true. He said he had sex

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Speaker 1: with another friend of mine, just to be spiteful. He

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Speaker 1: wouldn't tell me who it was, so I pulled away

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Speaker 1: from my four closest friends. It makes me think I'm

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Speaker 1: the problem. Why would two of my friends betray me?

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, you got to ask yourself this question,

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Speaker 3: why would your husband tell you that?

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Speaker 2: How did she find out about the first one her?

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Speaker 1: One of one of the friends told one of her

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Speaker 1: friends told her. She slept and then the husband confirmed it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I did it.

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Speaker 1: He's spiteful.

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Speaker 2: He said, you need some new girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: She pulled away from them.

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Speaker 2: Well, well you need a new husband too. They're divorced.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh well yeah, yeah, yeah, you need some new friends, lady.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well she did.

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Speaker 3: She pulled it.

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Speaker 1: She said, she's pulled away from her friends. She just

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Speaker 1: wants to know why would her friends betray her like that?

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Speaker 2: Because they're sorry? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know that. That's what adversity does. It

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Speaker 3: points out things to you that you need to know.

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Speaker 3: That you need to know so you can go on

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Speaker 3: and grow. Sometimes, man, you got to have things happen

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Speaker 3: in your life that exposes people, and betrayal is a

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Speaker 3: good thing to find out.

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Speaker 2: So now, moving forward, when you.

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Speaker 3: Get more, and God gets you closer to where you

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Speaker 3: want to be and what you are, what he has

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Speaker 3: for you. He removes betraying people from your life, and

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Speaker 3: it's a good time to get rid of him. I

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Speaker 3: ain't glued to nobody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes you're whooped somebody.

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