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Speaker 1: do me true good it, Steve harm to move to

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Speaker 1: other STU, Please, I don't join joint. Be you doing me?

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Speaker 1: You gotta use that turn you are You gotta turn

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Speaker 1: uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody, y'all listening

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Speaker 1: to the voice. Come on dig me now. One and

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Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey man old man, got a radio show. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do. God so big to me, man, I just

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Speaker 1: It's rather obvious to me how big, how good God is.

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Speaker 1: He's absolutely tremendous. He's off the chain. He owned one,

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Speaker 1: he'd be clowning, he'd be just showing out. Man. I'm

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Speaker 1: just over here, just on receiving it. You know, if

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Speaker 1: you're out there, start your mission today, Start your mission today?

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Speaker 1: What are you waiting for? Why do we as people

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Speaker 1: We want our hopes, our dreams, our desires. Why won't

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Speaker 1: you start your mission today? Why don't we all decide

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Speaker 1: together that just individually. Look, you're listening. You got something

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Speaker 1: that you've been dreaming about. You got an ambition of

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Speaker 1: Stop the procrastination now. The procrastination is only hurting you yourself.

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Speaker 1: And if you and if you allow practical excuse men,

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Speaker 1: because an idle mind is the devil's playground. So if

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Speaker 1: to do. The thing about God is he's so forgiving

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Speaker 1: that if you get out of line, he'll hold your place.

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Speaker 1: God holds your place. But if you ain't got no dreams, aspiration,

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Speaker 1: if you ain't got no place, what he holding for you? See,

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Speaker 1: Faith is the belief in things that you cannot see,

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it just keep hope alive. Sometimes, you heard Jesse

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Speaker 1: But through his grace and mercy, he kept me through

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Speaker 1: all of my mistakes, all my bad decisions, all my miscalculations,

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Speaker 1: for you that it's going to be far and above.

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Speaker 1: It will supersede everything you've ever dreamed of. That's what

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Speaker 1: And then God started working and here I am today

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Speaker 1: You know, It's like I was talking to this young

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Speaker 1: He said, Man, what is this I feel every night

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Speaker 1: He said, man, but you do so well. I said,

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Speaker 1: that's because the parachute opens. I say, but I want

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Speaker 1: The crowd cheers. The night is over with, I said,

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Speaker 1: But the cool thing about a relationship with God is

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Speaker 1: God has been like a parachute from me. Ask me

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Speaker 1: why where that came from. I can't tell you. But

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Speaker 1: my life that I can't explain, it's usually him. You're listening,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, here it is Steve Robbing Morning show

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Speaker 1: in your mouth? Do it? Steve? Aw you doing looking

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Speaker 1: that Christmas tree up? Ye? Oh? Where the Christmas tree? Pitch?

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Speaker 1: Why are you so young? So I would? I would?

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Speaker 1: I've been warming my ears out. It ain't nothing to do.

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Speaker 1: that's it, Yeah, zach Saint tree. This one a little

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Speaker 1: the little tree over right now, you say, kid, you not? Man?

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Speaker 1: It stems from my whole childhood. Man, it was I

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Speaker 1: Well you got it now yourself when you do it? Man,

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Speaker 1: done it? He hadn't done it. I love Christmas too, though,

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Speaker 1: I really did. What was the ultimate gift you got

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Speaker 1: as a kid that you just back? Oh my god

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Speaker 1: in Oregon? Man, a life size doll? A gold card?

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Speaker 1: Oh you got a gold cart junior wo Man, Wow,

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Speaker 1: Tandy Streets. Anyone from police A long way? Man that

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Speaker 1: it couldn't cut the yard? I was gone, What about you? Steve?

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Speaker 1: Come on a red fly wagon with the side ls

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Speaker 1: and we aren't playing this. That was your first I

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Speaker 1: your nephew big Will you know that the little handle

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Speaker 1: on that when you can hook slide with it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What plastic? Weird? Yes, the plas I wore them out.

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Speaker 1: Gus Gus goody Google, I said, a Murphy classic right

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Speaker 1: that that that what's what's what's the best? Forty eight

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Speaker 1: to America, coming to the funniest comedy movie I've ever seen? Yeah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was great. It was clear green. All right? Coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour and Entertainment News, Steve,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love this, Kevin Hart me. Are you listening,

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Speaker 1: Steve Seal? Are you listening? Sexual alright? Two thousan nineteen

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Speaker 1: the one and only, Kevin Harts. Yeah. We'll talk about

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Speaker 1: to all right, Steve. It has been confirmed on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: Kevin Hart says he's hosting the two thousand nineteen Academy Awards.

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Speaker 1: In February, Kevin shared a photo of the iconic goal

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Speaker 1: For years, I've been asked if I would ever host

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Speaker 1: the Oscars, and my answer was always the same. I

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Speaker 1: Kevin also says, I am so happy to say that

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Speaker 1: the day has finally come from me to host the Oscars.

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Speaker 1: I am blown away simply because this has been a

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Speaker 1: Yeah awesome. The Oscars, of course, will air on February

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Speaker 1: twenty fourth on ABC Great News, Right, Steve, That's beyond huge,

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Speaker 1: it is it really? That is so that's so major.

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Speaker 1: That's like the ultimately in their world, this bigger than

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Speaker 1: they see it's about the Moscars. Yeah, and they really

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Speaker 1: see it's about who hosts. Oh yeah, And that's a

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Speaker 1: real honor to be asked to host that. Yeah, yeah, baby, man,

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Speaker 1: that ain't on my bucket list. I ain't got to

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Speaker 1: I mean he has time to prepare. Thank god. This

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Speaker 1: He can do it though, he can pull it off.

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Speaker 1: He can do it. He definitely an amazing team. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Chris Rock's friends legends, Chris Rock will be Goldberg Ellen,

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Speaker 1: how about Steve Harvey? Right, but you hosted big live events. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll just try. I can tell you what how to

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Speaker 1: not get put off TV? You got you want to

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Speaker 1: call here that I can get you. It's not super

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Speaker 1: but Whoopy hosted it several times? Uh, Billy Crystal of course. Um,

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Speaker 1: Chris Rock Ellen, yeah, oh yeah, all of them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Jimmy Kimmel, yeah yeah, all of them who hosted it

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Speaker 1: really good. So congratulations Kevin Hart. Uh that that's that's

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Speaker 1: just awesome stuff. It really is. Yeah, I know how

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Speaker 1: bad i'd be in the damn Moscars. I wouldn't know nobody.

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Speaker 1: Huh you know how bad i'd be at the Oscars.

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Speaker 1: I don't know nobody. Oh yeah, you don't know, Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: somebody being yo yo dog. You'd be straight lady and gentleman. MARYN. Street.

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Speaker 1: Oh from the no, I said Jane Fond. I thought,

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Speaker 1: said Ron you got Rhoda out of Randell? It wrong? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: no again. Kevin Hart will be hosting the Oscars. Be

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Speaker 1: some black people. You Henry Winkle sitting over there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about happy day. Yeah, I'm calling a man

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Speaker 1: happy day. All right, Steve, come on, it's time for

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Speaker 1: a headline news ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne trip. Thank

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Speaker 1: you very much everybody, and good morning. This is a

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Speaker 1: trip with the news. Well, today's today. President Trump, all

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Speaker 1: his living White House predecessors, as well as dignitaries from

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Speaker 1: wall over the world, all scheduled to attend today's state

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Speaker 1: funeral in Washington, DC for number forty one George Herbert

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Speaker 1: Walker Bush at Washington's National Cathedral. Trump has declared today

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Speaker 1: a national day of mourning. George W. Bush is to

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Speaker 1: eutlogize his father and foreign presidents Bill Clinton and Barack

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Speaker 1: Obama and Jimmy Carter are also expected to deliver remarks. However,

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Speaker 1: according to reports, President Trump, who made a lot of

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Speaker 1: not so nice comments about the Bushes during his White

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Speaker 1: House campaign, has not been asked to speak. Tomorrow. Memorial

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Speaker 1: service to take place in College Station, Texas at President

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Speaker 1: Bush's Presidential Library, where he's also to be laid to

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Speaker 1: rest alongside his late wife, Barbara and a daughter. The

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Speaker 1: Attorney General of Maryland and the District Columbia is suing

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Speaker 1: to gain access to documents pertaining to the Trump Hotel,

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Speaker 1: which is in the old Post Office building near the

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Speaker 1: White House. It's apparently become the place to stay for

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Speaker 1: not only the President's allies, but for some foreign diplomats

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Speaker 1: as well, and the lawsuit says the situation could very

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Speaker 1: well involve a violation of the Constitution's Emalian's clause that

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Speaker 1: prohibits the chief executive from taking gifts from foreign and

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Speaker 1: state governments. Subpoenas have gone out to the Trump companies

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Speaker 1: that own and operate the place, to the Trump Organizations

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Speaker 1: Ralla Company, to the trust that Trump allegedly set up

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Speaker 1: to insulate himself from these exact kinds of legal action,

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Speaker 1: so we'll see what happens there. Secretary State Mike Pompeo

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Speaker 1: says he put Russia unnoticed as an violation of Cold

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Speaker 1: War era arms deal. Pompeo, speaking at a NATO meeting

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Speaker 1: in Brussels yesterday, said, if Moscow won't live up to

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Speaker 1: the immedi Intermediate Range Nuclear Forces Treaty, neither will we.

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Speaker 1: The United States today declares it has found Russia in

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Speaker 1: material breach of the treaty and will suspend our obligations

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Speaker 1: as a remedy, effective in sixty days unless Russia returns

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Speaker 1: to full and verifiable compliance. The Secretary State says that

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Speaker 1: our allies and Europe wanted more time for this so

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Speaker 1: before the Trump administation actually begins the process of pulling

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Speaker 1: out of the nineteen eighty seven agreement. But Pompeo told

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Speaker 1: a news conference yesterday that Russia keeps changing its story

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Speaker 1: about what he says as a missile program that is

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Speaker 1: in violation of the arms treaty, and they wanted stopped,

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Speaker 1: and they wanted in compliance. Sad news. Canadian boxer Donna

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Speaker 1: Stevenson is a portly in critical condition after being knocked

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Speaker 1: out in the eleventh round. His tense light heavyweight title defense.

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Speaker 1: At the time, Stevenson, who's forty one, was ahead in

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Speaker 1: points against his Ukrainian challenger, who was by the way,

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Speaker 1: ten years younger on two of the judges' cars, then

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Speaker 1: tied with the other. Stevenson was taken from the ring

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Speaker 1: on a stretcher. His challenger, who was ten years younger,

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Speaker 1: as I said, took the title at and t has

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Speaker 1: launched a TV alternative to Netflix. The former First Ladies

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Speaker 1: book Becoming is a tops on the New York Times

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Speaker 1: bestseller list right now and today finally, International Ninja Day.

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Speaker 1: This has been a trip with the news. Now back

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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to Stevey Show?

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Speaker 1: All right? The view co host Joy Behar and Megan

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Speaker 1: McCain argued unaired during the show's tribute to late President

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Speaker 1: George HW. Bush. Megan McCain didn't like the Joy Behar

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Speaker 1: through shade at Donald Trump during the segment, saying the

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Speaker 1: focus should be kept on the late former president. Take

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Speaker 1: a listen here. It is this president we have now

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Speaker 1: is trying to unravel everything that he did and Obama did.

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Speaker 1: And if I haven't become a one issue voter, it

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Speaker 1: will be about pollution and the greenhouse effect, and we

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Speaker 1: focus on the president. Please, I don't want to talk

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Speaker 1: about trouble this moment school. We're honoring a great president. Please,

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about honoring. But I'm not interested

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Speaker 1: in your one issue. I'm I don't care what by

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Speaker 1: WHOA building? I know when something been building. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: got all my money on Joe, Yeah, I got my money.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you. Okay. So Megan, she was joy Behart

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Speaker 1: was talking. Megan interrupted her right to get back on

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Speaker 1: track to talk about George H. W. Bush. But she

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Speaker 1: still shouldn't have interrupted her. She could have said something

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Speaker 1: after joy Behart finished, what to talk on a panel show? Right, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: Steve and like like Junior said, this's been built, this,

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Speaker 1: this's been built. Yeah wow. Theybody fight over the place.

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Speaker 1: She was on there the long time she left and

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Speaker 1: then she came back. Yeah yeah okay, so okay. So,

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Speaker 1: according to some reports, the fight reportedly continue. It got

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Speaker 1: even more heated once will be cut to commercial. As

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Speaker 1: we heard, well, their mics were cut off, so the

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Speaker 1: audience couldn't hear. Joy Behar apparently continue to rent two producers,

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Speaker 1: threatening to quit if they didn't quote get this beat

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Speaker 1: under control. WHOA, that's right? All right? Joy say it.

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Speaker 1: Take a little image out of you. Okay, I would

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Speaker 1: have been sitting right there with popcorn. Wow. Well the

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Speaker 1: audience got it that day. Huh. Well their mics were off.

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Speaker 1: You can you can read them lips? Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: could see you could feel the heat if it's really

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Speaker 1: you know? Okay, what Steve? What catch myself? What I forgot?

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Speaker 1: We was on the air house and to make a

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Speaker 1: real off air come Ye show talking in a certain

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Speaker 1: tone commercial crazy. I'm so glad you realized we're still alive. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't say something crazy? Really was about to go there?

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Speaker 1: Tell us on the commercial coming up next at thirty

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Speaker 1: four after the hour some political news, uh, Former Vice

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Speaker 1: President Joe Biden says he is the most qualified person

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Speaker 1: to be president. Who so is he running? Running? Is

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Speaker 1: he running? And Special counsel Robert Muller said he is

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Speaker 1: putting his puzzle together. We'll be back right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, Steve Harping Morning Show. During a stop for

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Speaker 1: his book tour in Montana, former Vice President Joe Biden

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Speaker 1: discussed his twenty twenty prospects, saying he believes that he

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Speaker 1: is the most qualified person to be president, noting a

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Speaker 1: decision is coming in the next two months. Guys, what

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Speaker 1: do you think former Vice president President Joe Biden. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: bring it. He is the most qualified. He has the

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Speaker 1: most experience. I mean, he's been a yeah, he's been

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Speaker 1: a senator all that. Yeah. Yeah, man, And he looked good.

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Speaker 1: I saw him when he made that statement. He looked

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Speaker 1: very good, very healthy, very fit, smiling, confident, all the

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Speaker 1: things you need and a presidential candidate. Yeah. And he's

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Speaker 1: gonna talk with his family. Man. Yeah, he's seventy six.

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Speaker 1: We need to just run him. Damn this voting in

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Speaker 1: all this hit just him. We don't need nobody else. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: get behind him. Want nobody running it. Ain't got no

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Speaker 1: damn money. Yeah, come on, Democrats, stick together this one.

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Speaker 1: You ain't got no money to run for president. I'm

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Speaker 1: turning my foul one. And you know. Kamala Harris, Senator

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Speaker 1: Kamala Harris says she's going to make a decision from California. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's going to make a decision over the holidays whether

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Speaker 1: or not she's going to run. Yeah, she's a Democrat

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Speaker 1: as well. Yes, So she said she's going to make

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Speaker 1: a decision. Yeah, yes, I don't know. Really, who won't

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Speaker 1: a job? Not a president one. It's too hard. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a tough one. You see how they look when

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Speaker 1: they go in and when they come out. They go

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Speaker 1: in with black hair, they come out with white hair. Stress. Yeah, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're the leader of the free world. And it started

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Speaker 1: with George Washington. He was the first one with white

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Speaker 1: Whatever problems they was having back then, it was they

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Speaker 1: still got him. Now they didn't have these kinds of

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Speaker 1: problems bains and ponies and wooden teeth and the real

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Speaker 1: the real curls, Yeah, all the way down the freeze curls. Well.

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Speaker 1: So we'll see, um, you know, whether or not. But

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Speaker 1: that's quite a statement to make if you're not thinking

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Speaker 1: about running, that's for sure that he's the most qualified

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Speaker 1: person to be president. If you're not thinking about running

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Speaker 1: for president, why would you say that. Yeah. Also on

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Speaker 1: other political news, special Counsel Robert Muller's office says that

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Speaker 1: President Trump's former national security advisor, Michael Flynn's cooperation was

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Speaker 1: substantial and Mueller is recommending to the judge no prison

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Speaker 1: time for for Flynn and in regards to the ongoing

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Speaker 1: investigation into Russia meddling in the twenty sixteen elect nobody.

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Speaker 1: So if you recall, yeah, yeah, Michael Flynn Pete pleaded

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Speaker 1: guilty for lying to the FBI. You remember that back. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so he hamped out so much they didn't want him

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Speaker 1: to go to jail. Yeah, that's what that means. So

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Speaker 1: everybody else need to get their story straight. Yeah. Time.

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Speaker 1: Oh he told the truth. Yeah a lot. Sounds like

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Speaker 1: they really had a lot on him too, so he

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Speaker 1: had to tell the truth straight day. Uh huh, I

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Speaker 1: got I got some well, you know, you gotta, you gotta,

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Speaker 1: you know, pay attention to who picked him, right, So

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Speaker 1: if he got a lot to tell, Yeah, I tell

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Speaker 1: you about one. Yeah, he was the one that started

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Speaker 1: the whole lock her up chant, Michael Flynn. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: don't say that, no moment, let her go talking about

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Speaker 1: hill really. Yeah, there's more to come. Yeah, and they're

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Speaker 1: getting close. It seems like they're getting close, um, you know,

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Speaker 1: to to a resident. Yeah, Muller and his whole investigative

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Speaker 1: team getting close to a resolution and all this because

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Speaker 1: it's been almost two years now, so um putting it together. Yeah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: He's got a lot of stuff to go on, for sure.

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Speaker 1: We want to know if that Prisidon knew about the meeting,

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Speaker 1: would up there in the town. That a serious problem.

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Speaker 1: Somebody need to know that. Jared Kushner Okay, yeah, well

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Speaker 1: you know they go he gonna pardon all them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's not. His kids are not going to the jail. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh you're a pardon them so fast. Yeah. I think

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Speaker 1: we all would do that. I think we all would

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Speaker 1: do that. I don't need to get in mad. You

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Speaker 1: ain't taking my kid away that I give him a pardon.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm next. The nephew is here with today's

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Speaker 1: praying phone call. Right after this, you're listening, coming up

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, guys, right about four

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Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, the subject

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Speaker 1: one big happy family or nothing at all. But right

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Speaker 1: now the nephews in the building with today's praying phone call.

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Speaker 1: What you got now? Bring my breast back? Hey? What

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Speaker 1: look at me when I'm talking to bring my breath back?

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Speaker 1: Talking about man? Any time a chicken, if we if

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Speaker 1: I didn't, if I didn't bought you some bread and

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Speaker 1: we break up them. Still my breast, bring my breast

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Speaker 1: back running. Hello, I'm trying to reach Oliver. Yeah, that's him. Hey,

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Speaker 1: you married you you engaged in Madison? Right, Yes I am.

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Speaker 1: There's a problem with it the summer. What's up? No? No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: My name is Ricky. Man. Have you heard about the

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00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 1: last person that she was engaged too? Well, she kind

630
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Speaker 1: of spoke briefly about you. You know what. Man. First

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Speaker 1: of all, let me just say this congratulations. Okay, let

632
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 1: me let me be the first say that. Congratulations for

633
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: y'all getting engaged. And I hope it worked with y'all. Okay, Okay,

634
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: here here's who I call. Uh. We got we got

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00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: a situation at hand that we kind of need to

636
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: clear up between you and I. So what is it?

637
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: And me and you? Got a little conversation we need

638
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: to have about property. Well we're talking about property? What property?

639
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,439
Speaker 1: And the proberly we lived in? What are you talking about?

640
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,959
Speaker 1: This is my property? Okay, Now I'm not talking about

641
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: your house or nothing like that. Oh I got some

642
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: property over there that belonged to me, and I'm trying

643
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 1: to figure out how we can rectify the problem. Well,

644
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: I'm quite as sure if it's something not to back

645
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: up or whatever. You can come and get it. I

646
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 1: don't know proper. What do you have over here in

647
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: my house that's yours? Okay? The ash the ashbo breast

648
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: that she had belonged to me, the breast. I bought

649
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 1: her some breast in plants. Man, I ain't know nothing

650
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: about no breast in plants. Okay, you might not know

651
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: nothing about it, but the bottom line is I spend

652
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,919
Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars on some breasting plants, and I want

653
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: my property back, buddy. Man, jeez, no, man, you're not

654
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: getting back. What are you talking about? Pressing plan? I

655
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: ain't nonning about that. Man. Hey, man, I understand you

656
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: now knowing about it, but I don't calling you like

657
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: a man explaining it to you. I'm trying to let

658
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: you know. You know, I bought her some breasts and plans.

659
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 1: Now that's my property now, just like just like when

660
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: it don't work out with with U, an engagement don't

661
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,919
Speaker 1: work out, you want your ring back? Well, I want

662
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 1: my breath back. Oh no, man, if you had gave

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00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: a ring, you can get that back. But this just man,

664
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: what do you I mean? Come on, man, he ain't

665
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: get back. Hey, man, I'm getting them back. Oh I'm

666
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: gonna be over there every other week being happy with

667
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: without involve No, no, that ain't. That ain't what's gonna happen. No, no, no, brother,

668
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: that ain't gonna happen there. I don't know what you're

669
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: calling for about ten dollars dollars the breast and plays

670
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: you ain't getting. You come over here if you want to.

671
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: When you're with somebody, when you lose them, you lose

672
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,439
Speaker 1: every damn thing you paid for. So if you brought

673
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: us and you're them, you should have bought when you

674
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 1: got married. You know what I'm saying. You should have

675
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 1: waited then bought the damn tell them mine. I'm gonna

676
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 1: be over here. That's what I'm gonna do with your

677
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,800
Speaker 1: breast and plans. So your money was well spent. You

678
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,440
Speaker 1: ain't get back. Move on in your life. Hey man,

679
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: you don't tell me when and when when I'm supposed

680
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: to buy, I buy someone I feel like it. But

681
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: the bottom line here is them breast belong to me. Now. No,

682
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna we're gonna somebody gonna pay me ten thousand

683
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: dollars one way or the up. Oh no, no, you

684
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: ain't getting nothing back here, man, you got to move

685
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,839
Speaker 1: on with your life. Man, when y'all broke up, y'all

686
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: running together. No motive left with us. She walked away

687
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: with a man. That's it. That's over. I'm sorry. Let

688
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: me say something to you, man. I'm coming over there.

689
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm coming over there and have a conversation with Madison

690
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 1: about this, because that's who ever dently. I need to

691
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 1: talk to you. No, you're not talking to nobody over here.

692
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: You're talking to me like you say, man to man.

693
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: I'm letting you know. Man, your loss, your loss. Man,

694
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: you don't get nothing. I can't even get money. Number

695
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: you get money. Let me get your number so I

696
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:54,919
Speaker 1: can call you back when she on the way home.

697
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 1: My number on the breath, number on the breast, ten

698
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: thousand dollars. That's your number. Yeah. Hey, well I'm gonna

699
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: check it. I'm gonna show check it, and I'm gonna

700
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: look at it every day because you ain't getting nothing

701
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 1: back brother than mine. You're lost, man, it's over. Let

702
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 1: me ask you this, man, have you even bought the

703
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 1: ring from now to see it? Yeah, I've bought the ring.

704
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,799
Speaker 1: That's what you do when you get engaged. I paid.

705
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: The ring is vault, brother, the way you were. I

706
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 1: must ring calls about eight nine thousand dollars. That's nice

707
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: ring feet the breast calls more than the damning. You're

708
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: a cheaper man, man, you man, I mean, I don't

709
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 1: about the ring you tell about Look, dude, she going then?

710
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 1: Breasts ain't yours no more? Man, you don't get back here.

711
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 1: If it was a ring, a pair of shoes or something,

712
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: I key that back. So what na what nah? Hey? Man?

713
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 1: All I'm gonna say is this here. I'm gonna come

714
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 1: over there and have a conversation with Madison about my

715
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: breath because the breath bloss to me. You're not coming

716
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 1: over here and getting nothing. She ain't even here. But

717
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 1: you can bring your over here. You come over here

718
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 1: with your chest pushed out, I'm gonna push it back

719
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: in for your brother. Don't I got two breaths over there?

720
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 1: You tell them the five thousand dollars I won't both

721
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: for man. Look, you ain't getting gus. You you call

722
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: every stra bring you break up with one back. I

723
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: call the ones that I'm han bought breast of. Thank you.

724
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 1: That's a good damn wedding. Gifts. I guess he don't. Hey, man,

725
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 1: don't don't. Don't let me tell you something. Don't you

726
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: touch my damn breast? You hear me? Man? Yeah, Man,

727
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: I don't know who the hell? Man? Hey, you can

728
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 1: get on my line. Man, who is this? I'm the

729
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: person that on the breast. Do you know who this is? Here?

730
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,719
Speaker 1: You don't own nothing over here. Man. You didn't took

731
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: the loss on their brothers. You didn't took a straight

732
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: loss on their man. You got partner? Who is this? Man?

733
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 1: He lost it calling my phone. I'm gonna tell you

734
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: right now who this is his partner? Yeah, I'm who

735
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: is this? This is nephew Thomas Steve Harby Morning Show.

736
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: Your girl Madison got me the plankball called you. Oh man, boy,

737
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 1: you ain't it's code where you cold? Ma ain't somebody,

738
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: but damn it, this is it them? They real aret

739
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: it out of here. I know who you're sposed to

740
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 1: know what you marry. I don't know if they. Why

741
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: are you asking me if I'm still what you told? Much?

742
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 1: You bust him? Man? You still gott me? Must real

743
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:13,439
Speaker 1: all fake? You sound like well, y'all go man, y'all,

744
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: y'all need to stop that. Man. But I listened to

745
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: you last people. You gotta laugh stuff I never thought

746
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 1: i'd get got Yeah, Well, what's the baddest radio show man,

747
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: Steve Harming Mony show. That's the truth. He got me,

748
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: good Man, You got me good man. So I'm the

749
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 1: only one been in the breast situation? Is that what

750
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: we're saying? Yeah, classics, you want him back? You're not

751
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:45,439
Speaker 1: how much breasion? But you're much. I'm good, I'm good,

752
00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: I'm lovely, I'm good. Okay, I'm just trying to tell you.

753
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: Do you know how much they cost him? Yeah? You spensive,

754
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: but she's not gonna give him back to you. So

755
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 1: forget all that. I'm just saying I want him back.

756
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: You want where you can want? All? You one? All right,

757
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm backing the food. It's Saturday night, y'all. I'm in Detroit,

758
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: Michigan at the Fox Theater. I'm at the Fox Theater. Uh,

759
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: and Junior, would you help me out? Laville Crawford would

760
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 1: be there, yeah, yeah, And y'a also got Dominique on

761
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 1: the show, Earthquakers on the show, Quite a Ride Man

762
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 1: on the show, and John Pops Witherspoon Bank Bank Bank

763
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:27,360
Speaker 1: you have to coordinate. That's an all star comedy festival

764
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: this Saturday night at the Fox Theater. Tickets on sale

765
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:33,240
Speaker 1: right now and all ticket Master outlets. Get your tickets

766
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: and come watch the All star Comedy Festival hosted by Yo.

767
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: What's true now, Junior? Will you have the rest of

768
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: us out and do Tommy please? Huh? What? Come on?

769
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 1: I'm on the way there having breath situation. Huh. I

770
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 1: wasn't what boy? You get him? Boy, I couldn't believe it.

771
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: I can't hear you. You years master what it is,

772
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,879
Speaker 1: master for what you do out here? Y'all? Hey, hey,

773
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 1: you were good? Oh you were good? Because stupid to

774
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:19,399
Speaker 1: come around once a year, girl life tell me better

775
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 1: than about to you ask you a question? Get ready

776
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: for them? Yeah, I'm not the one. I ain't no

777
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: one your hands start with that. You gotta go with

778
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 1: Come on one anything when everything? What can't you prace?

779
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 1: Ain't know what I do? Know what I do? I

780
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: can't pray. How y'all don't see this? Hi? How y'all

781
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 1: don't how y'all don't know all this greatness? Yeah, this

782
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: this all this greatness? All right? Thank you, thank you, Junior,

783
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: you're as nephew coming up. As we mentioned the Strawberry Letters,

784
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:08,919
Speaker 1: subject one big happy family or nothing at all. We'll

785
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to show.

786
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If

787
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,640
Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work, on sex,

788
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry letter and we

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Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air and

791
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: helping you out, just like we're gonna do for this

792
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: person right here. Buggle up, hold on tight. We gotta

793
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 1: call you Strawberry at all, all right, subject one big

794
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 1: happy family or nothing at all. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've

795
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: been dating a man for three years and we get

796
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: a loan. Great. We've talked about getting married, but we

797
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,719
Speaker 1: have to work out a few kinks first. Both of

798
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: us have teenage kids from previous relationships, and I spend

799
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,320
Speaker 1: a lot of time with his kids every other weekend.

800
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: He is always around my kids because I have sold

801
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: custody of them. We always joke about his kids like

802
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,919
Speaker 1: out excuse me. We always joke about how his kids

803
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 1: like hanging out with me more than him. If I

804
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: am doing something for my kids, I include his kids.

805
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: I buy them gifts for birthdays, Christmas, or just because

806
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 1: I buy them gifts, and there's no separation to me.

807
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 1: But over the weekend I have the strangest conversation with

808
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: my boyfriend about the kids. He told me that this

809
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: Christmas he plans to focus more on his kids and

810
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 1: spend quality time with them alone during the holidays. I

811
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 1: was shocked to hear this. Over the years, he's been

812
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 1: good to my kids, but I do see a difference

813
00:55:56,880 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 1: in how he treats them and how he treats his

814
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: own kids. My kids love him, so I never make

815
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: a big deal out of it. The fact that he

816
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: is trying to make a big distinction between the kids

817
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 1: really hurts my feelings. Blended families are tricky and we've

818
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 1: been trying to make it work, but this was a

819
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 1: harsh reality check. My kids come first, but I'm able

820
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: to love his kids as my own. Now I have

821
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: doubts about marriage. Am I overthinking this? Stephen Shirley, what

822
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: do you think? No, you are not overthinking anything. I

823
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 1: say go with what you see and what you know,

824
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 1: because when people show you and in this case, tell

825
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 1: you who they are. Please believe them. I mean, okay,

826
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 1: let's look at the facts. This man that you've been

827
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: with for three years told you that this Christmas he

828
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 1: just wants to spend quality time with his kids alone

829
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: during the holidays. What else do you need to hear?

830
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: It's the holidays. That's the time when you and your

831
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: man and kids. You know, you guys are supposed to

832
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 1: spend family time together, not apart. So again, what else

833
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 1: is it that you need to hear? I mean, he

834
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 1: doesn't want to be with you, and he doesn't want

835
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 1: to be with you and your kids for Christmas. Okay.

836
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: In this relationship, you're all in. You are just everything.

837
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: In this relationship, you have accepted as teenage kids. You

838
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: spend a lot of time with them, You remember their

839
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 1: birthdays and other special occasions. You buy them gifts and stuff. He,

840
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 1: on the other hand, makes a difference between his kids

841
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: and your kids, and you're right. In order for a

842
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: blended family to work, you have to show love to everyone,

843
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: even if in your heart you love your own kids more.

844
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 1: And I think that's pretty normal to feel that way.

845
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: You have a special bond with your kids. You carried

846
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: them and all of that. But you know, you're fair

847
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 1: and loving on the outside, but your man is not

848
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 1: doing that, and he's not trying to hide it. Even

849
00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: though you say your kids love him and you haven't

850
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: made a big deal out of it, it is a

851
00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: big deal because he's as like he has checked out

852
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 1: of this relationship and on his way out of this relationship.

853
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: Someone who's thinking of marriage, of marrying you, would not

854
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 1: want to be without you on this Christmas Okay, sounds

855
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: like he's gonna be with someone else. Steve, Well, Shirley,

856
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: I have to agree with you now. So here we go.

857
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 1: This lady been dating this man for three years, everything

858
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: going great, talked about getting married, but they need to

859
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:32,439
Speaker 1: work out some kinks. You know, both of them got kids.

860
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: He spends a lot of time and he's always around

861
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: the kids because she got soul custody of them. And

862
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: we joke about how his kids like hanging out with

863
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: me more than him, you know, And then you know,

864
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 1: if I'm doing something for my kids, I include his

865
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: kids about him. Gifts from Birthday's christ was everything, no

866
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: separation to me. But over the weekend he had a

867
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 1: little conversation with my boyfriend about the kids. He told

868
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: me he say this Christmas, he playing it on focusing

869
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 1: more his kids, spend quality time with them alone during

870
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 1: the holidays. I was shocked to hear this. Over the years,

871
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: he's been good to my kids, but I do sit

872
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 1: a difference in how he treats them and how he

873
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: treats his own kids. My kids love him, so I

874
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 1: never made a big deal out of the fact that

875
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 1: he's trying to make a big distinction between the kids.

876
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: Really hurt my feelings, But then the families are tricky.

877
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: Yes they are, and I've been trying to make it work,

878
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: but this is a harsh reality check. My kids come first,

879
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 1: but I'm able to love his kids as my own.

880
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: Now I have doubts about marriage. I'm overthinking this. I

881
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:41,840
Speaker 1: think you all got to sit down and have a conversation.

882
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: Something is happening where he's feeling like he's obviously not

883
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 1: paying close enough attention to his own kids. So he

884
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: decided this year he goes spend times with his kids alone.

885
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 1: Somebody that says something to him. He didn't come to

886
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 1: this conclusion on his own. Somebody said something to him.

887
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: Somebody said, you know what the kids feel like? You

888
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:10,520
Speaker 1: just treat everybody better than know. They come and they

889
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: feel like your step child. Somebody fed this information to him.

890
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: All one of the kids said something to him. That's

891
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 1: the only reason for he to suddenly go like this.

892
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 1: So he's trying to prove that that's not true. So

893
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: he gonna be spending a lot of time with just

894
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 1: his kids alone on Christmas and he's been with her

895
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: for three years. Yeah, I don't know how he thinks

896
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 1: that's gonna Yeah, he'd been not later, he'd been not

897
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:42,840
Speaker 1: say that. Nobody didn't lay down He's gonna mess them

898
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: kids and didn't lay down. He can't go to sleep

899
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 1: in that house. I can't make that statement. And didn't

900
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: go get into bed and start snooging. No, that's been

901
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: to being a temp on your life. You probably need

902
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 1: to wake up. But that was kind of cold though.

903
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, he plans to focus more on his

904
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:06,160
Speaker 1: kids and spend quality time with them alone during the holiday,

905
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 1: And you said this. I laughed, all right, Steve, Well,

906
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 1: hang on, Part two of your answer is coming up. Um,

907
01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: we'll take a short break here and come back at

908
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 1: twenty three after the hours subject one big happy family

909
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 1: or nothing at all right after this, you're listening, all right,

910
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 1: Steve U. This letter is crazy. Let's recap subject one

911
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 1: big happy family or nothing at all. Well, it look

912
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 1: like nothing at all because he want to spend this

913
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: holiday with his kids, spend more time with his kids alone,

914
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 1: that time of making your kids have happy Christmases and

915
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 1: my kids over here they lift stuck out. Now we're

916
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: not gonna do that this year. Michelle. I want you

917
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: to be the wife asking me why we can't have

918
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 1: this Christmas together, and you're gonna be repeatedly keep asking

919
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 1: me about this Christmas, and I'm gonna keep giving you

920
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 1: different beach. Okay, Well, honey, um, I'm so happy the

921
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:10,919
Speaker 1: holidays are here. I can't wait to spend Christmas with you. Well,

922
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:15,439
Speaker 1: you know, I wish I could say the same. Well,

923
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: what do you mean we are spending it together, aren't we? Well,

924
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: you know, we're gonna spend it together, but it's gonna

925
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:24,439
Speaker 1: be separate. But separate is not together. Honey, We're gonna

926
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 1: spend Christmas together, right, you, me and the kids. Hey, look,

927
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 1: you need to keep saying the word together. I'm just

928
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:35,400
Speaker 1: telling you we're gonna spend it together. We're gonna be together,

929
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: but it's gonna be separate. I want to spend it together,

930
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 1: you know, you, me, the kids, us. Hold on, hold on,

931
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: hold on? What what kids you talking about? I'm talking

932
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 1: about our kids, my kids and your kids. Now what No, No,

933
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 1: See your kids are your kids, my kid Me and

934
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: my kids gonna spend this holiday together and alone. But honey,

935
01:02:56,360 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: we're together. You know, we're we've been dating for three

936
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: years now. See all this, all this important to you. Yes,

937
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 1: and I thought it was important to you that we

938
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 1: be together. But not like this though, You talking about

939
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 1: all the time I'm talking about during the holidays. Yes, honey,

940
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 1: I've planned stuff, I've cooked, I've invited people. Over all

941
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: of that, you know, one big happy family. Well, I

942
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: don't you know, baby, damn you know. You don't ask

943
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 1: me nothing. Well, we've we've been together for three years.

944
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 1: It's kind of a given that we spend the holidays together. Yeah,

945
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 1: but you ain't. You ain't like, did nothing special for

946
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 1: the holidays. I've been out here lyning people up. So

947
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: we make our move, make our move. I thought we

948
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 1: were gonna just be together. We put the Christmas tree

949
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 1: up and did the decorations and everything. Who all he'll

950
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:54,919
Speaker 1: put your Christmas tree? Did you? Well? The kids, yeah,

951
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: ain't nobody help but the talk kids. You don't know

952
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:02,480
Speaker 1: what they name. Color got to be by something call

953
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 1: the little lad kid. Couldn't help out. So where ain't

954
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 1: nobody help but to talk? Excuse me aside? There's an aside, honey.

955
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 1: What did you say? Nephews away about hike them even

956
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 1: in the litter, but go home? They just did. But

957
01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: the shop kids is what is they doing? I don't

958
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: know what the shop kids. They put all ornaments on

959
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 1: the bottom of the tree, and they put your skirt

960
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 1: round and the water shot kids, water. We got plenty

961
01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 1: for show people to do round. Somebody got to plug

962
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 1: it off every night. Yeah, that way you ain't got

963
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: to being over you. It ain't nothing shot work, ain't

964
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: nothing for you. Well, honey, And the tree looks so beautiful.

965
01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful, and I just wanted to spend it together,

966
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 1: you know, you mean us together. And they hang these

967
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: balls on the bottom of that tree too. I like

968
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 1: I like tree balls at the bottom of the tree. Okay, ornaments, yes,

969
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: yeah them ornament but the balls though, I don't like

970
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 1: Christmas ornament as others. You know, acorn Christmas tree? Can

971
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: I just like ball? Like all that angel? Don't look

972
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 1: like angel? What about the lights that makes the tree

973
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: look so pretty? Yeah? Yeah, you gotta hear. Lights that

974
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 1: ornament you made in school and brought home. But it

975
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: doesn't matter what's on the tree. It just as long

976
01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 1: as we're together, honey, and I want to be together

977
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: for this Christmas? Well, baby, that ain't that? Ain't what

978
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 1: we fit to do? No more? Well why not? I mean,

979
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 1: what's the problem now? See? You know you just trying

980
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:47,320
Speaker 1: to make this something Mills. I'm trying to make this

981
01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: something else. I haven't told you we got from that.

982
01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 1: Don't holler, don't That's why we need right here. You

983
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 1: don't need to yell at me. You can't hear, I

984
01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 1: can't hear. Just fine, I can here, Just fine where

985
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:03,480
Speaker 1: you can be by yourself. But we're gonna be there.

986
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 1: How about that that's alone, and then we're gonna be

987
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 1: they just come up here. It's my house too, yes,

988
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 1: clip back? What are you talking about? I don't pay

989
01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: the mortgage and never will, but it's my house. I

990
01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 1: don't know who told you that. I told myself that

991
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 1: when we when we first started living together. Oh, well,

992
01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to get a restraining order on you.

993
01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 1: Oh that works both ways. I can get one on

994
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 1: you too, you know. But we're gonna be together. Saint California,

995
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 1: this califod Oh you try and do me. Oh, we're

996
01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 1: gonna be together. Well, you want to be the cliff?

997
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 1: What a he? What you do? You? And I'm gonna

998
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:57,120
Speaker 1: do you? Never probably had the best priciple we ever had. No,

999
01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:00,440
Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey. It's not gonna go like that.

1000
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 1: We've been together for three years. We've always spent Christmas together.

1001
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 1: We're gonna be together this Christmas, whether you like it

1002
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 1: or not. We were you cooking by whoever you want.

1003
01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 1: We ain't gonna make it to vault. We ain't gonna

1004
01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: make it too well. Do you have someone else? Do

1005
01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 1: I have someone? You've hired me? Because why wouldn't you

1006
01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: want to spend it with me? You've been spending Christmas

1007
01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:29,479
Speaker 1: with me all of a sudden, Oh so you want

1008
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 1: Christmas is in the road. Here we go. We'll be together.

1009
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:50,440
Speaker 1: We're gonna be together, all right. Today's strawberry letter. We

1010
01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:53,560
Speaker 1: gotta get out of her seats. That's right. If you

1011
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:56,760
Speaker 1: need advice on relationships and work and sex and all that,

1012
01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 1: just go to Steve Harvey f M. And coming up

1013
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 1: in ten minutes Dating a Workaholic. Also, we're going to

1014
01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:09,080
Speaker 1: have our Steve Harvey's Health and Wellness segment. No, I

1015
01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 1: do not. I have a Health and Wellness Problems segment.

1016
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:19,559
Speaker 1: Problem Health and Wellness segment, that's what I have featuring

1017
01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 1: holistic and wellness health educator doctor Ronnie. You're listening to show.

1018
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour is Steve

1019
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 1: Harvey's Health and Wellness segment. It features holistic and wellness

1020
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 1: health educator doctor Ronnie. All right, we love her, but

1021
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 1: right now dating a workaholic. There's a theory that dating

1022
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 1: someone who's addicted to their job just as bad as

1023
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:49,639
Speaker 1: dating someone who is addicted to addicted to a substance. Steve,

1024
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:52,080
Speaker 1: So I gotta ask you, Can you be in a

1025
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: healthy relationship with someone who is addicted to their job?

1026
01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:58,720
Speaker 1: Or can two people who are each addicted to their

1027
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:02,080
Speaker 1: own job have a health the relationship with each other?

1028
01:09:02,560 --> 01:09:08,240
Speaker 1: That issue. Addicted is a tough word. Yeah, if you

1029
01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 1: are addicted to your job, any addiction, it's a problem.

1030
01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 1: It means you're doing something in excess and you can't

1031
01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 1: seem to control it. Right, you keep going back so

1032
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:23,280
Speaker 1: you could control it, but if you think you trapped

1033
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 1: in it. So it's a lot of ways around this thing.

1034
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:33,280
Speaker 1: I don't what would you do, Junior, I just throw it.

1035
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm sitting here looking at you. You just staying at

1036
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: me talking? Well, why do you see it in this? Junior?

1037
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:44,040
Speaker 1: I see it? I can't. It can work, It can work.

1038
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: You know, two people are addicted to their job. You know,

1039
01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 1: if you love doing what you do. You know, I

1040
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 1: mean I love my job. But isn't it a time issue? Though?

1041
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're addicted to your job, do you

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01:09:53,479 --> 01:09:58,640
Speaker 1: have time to with each other? Yeah? Well both of

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01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 1: you is addicted. Huh. Has to be a mutual time

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01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 1: you know that you agree upon and it probably ain't

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01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 1: gonna be long. Yeah, you're I don't. I don't see

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01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 1: this working because your job comes first. You won't. You

1047
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,920
Speaker 1: don't put the other person first. Can you be in there?

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01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 1: Here's my question, ladies, could you be in a relationship

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01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:31,679
Speaker 1: with a man who was addicted to you? Oh? Why not? Yeah?

1050
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:37,720
Speaker 1: Be addicted to me? Yeah, y'all? Yes? Oh? Man, yes, yes,

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01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:40,640
Speaker 1: what's your get on your nerves? Like every time they

1052
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:44,479
Speaker 1: do something right, mothering you turn around? Yeah, smothered. Well,

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01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:48,599
Speaker 1: I'm using the word addiction in the harshest way because,

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01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: like I said, addiction is a tough word. It is.

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01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 1: So the question is how would you would you like

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01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with a man that was

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01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:59,439
Speaker 1: addicted to you? Now this might sound good, be all

1058
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:03,320
Speaker 1: over me, but I mean everywhere, but Steve, he has

1059
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:05,920
Speaker 1: to have time. I mean, I mean, why are you

1060
01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:10,640
Speaker 1: in the bathroom? Yea yeah, he right there at the water. Now.

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01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:15,960
Speaker 1: Everyone needs me time. Everyone needs a lone time and

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01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: me time every even if you're in a relationship and

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01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:21,680
Speaker 1: you're very close and all of that, you still need

1064
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: your me time. Yeah, you want to hit it every day? Yeah?

1065
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 1: She and the toilet, baby, it's paper. Ain't you want

1066
01:11:34,320 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 1: me give you some water? Why you using? That? Would

1067
01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 1: kill on my that would get on what you hear

1068
01:11:40,439 --> 01:11:44,479
Speaker 1: from lunch today? You want some water? Oh, you're in

1069
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 1: the kitchen cooking and he's sitting on the countertop talking

1070
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:49,639
Speaker 1: to you while you trying to kill that's garlic side

1071
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:58,360
Speaker 1: of garlic powder. Yeah, that's it. There is a thing

1072
01:11:58,479 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 1: called too much. Yeah. Yeah, what you're saying, I'm going

1073
01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:03,599
Speaker 1: to the stop. Well let me get him on others.

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01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, hold up, you need some time to yourself.

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01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 1: Everyone needs you. Want me to flows your baby when

1076
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:16,200
Speaker 1: you get lost. I'm good. I'm not worried about that

1077
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 1: I've lost my face. I don't need to know what

1078
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 1: you go to work? Yeah, we'll see. That's the thing though,

1079
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:26,640
Speaker 1: So the workaholic, because I know that I have a

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01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 1: girlfriend that she says she complains because her man works

1081
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 1: all the time. And I'm like, got to be a

1082
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 1: healthy balance. If you can't make it to the salon,

1083
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:38,599
Speaker 1: I shall know my family. They did what they thought

1084
01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: was an intervention on me to talk to me about

1085
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:44,760
Speaker 1: the hours I work and I need to slow down. Yeah,

1086
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 1: and I agree with them, and so do we yea.

1087
01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:51,560
Speaker 1: But I asked him all the time though, Oh, what

1088
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:58,920
Speaker 1: what's y'all's payment playing for all this hit? Yeah? Yeah,

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01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:01,799
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, y'all over here just steady opening

1090
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:04,439
Speaker 1: up bottles of water and putting your knie. I didn't

1091
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 1: put a magic marker in the water drawer so everybody

1092
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:11,479
Speaker 1: can label a water when they come over. Because I

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01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: can't stand at the end of the night. I look

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01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:17,719
Speaker 1: at that and it's fourteen bottles of half half EG

1095
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 1: and I'm setting a pin that going okay, yeah, you

1096
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:25,840
Speaker 1: know this was your house. You wouldn't land no fourteen

1097
01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:31,799
Speaker 1: half open bottle. Put your name on your damn bottle

1098
01:13:31,840 --> 01:13:35,000
Speaker 1: with that magic mark I put in it. But but

1099
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 1: there comes a point when are you working because you

1100
01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:41,519
Speaker 1: have to work? Or are you working because you just

1101
01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:47,640
Speaker 1: love what you do too? It's a combination. Somebody, my

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01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 1: son says something that was really moving to me, and

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01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 1: it kind of really made me feel really good because

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01:13:56,960 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 1: it let me know he was thinking about it. Dad.

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01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:04,560
Speaker 1: So I was talking to this wealthy guy. He was

1106
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:07,120
Speaker 1: from Kirshny or somewhere like that. I don't know what.

1107
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:13,599
Speaker 1: I don't either, a really nice guy. Remember you're talking,

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01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 1: He said, Steve, what are you going to do now?

1109
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 1: I said, Man, I want to be a billion now?

1110
01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:23,680
Speaker 1: He said for what? What? What do you need it for?

1111
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 1: He said, names something that you can do with a

1112
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 1: billion dollars that you can't do right now? You live

1113
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:37,080
Speaker 1: in nice homes, you fly private your own cars, you want,

1114
01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: you dress how you want. What can you do anymore

1115
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 1: with the billion that you can't do now. My son

1116
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 1: went and looked at him and said nothing. My dad

1117
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:51,720
Speaker 1: just wants to do nothing. He said, my dad just

1118
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 1: wants to do nothing. And with a billion dollars, he

1119
01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:58,560
Speaker 1: can go do nothing. And I'd love to see my

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01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 1: dad smile like he did when he ain't doing nothing.

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01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 1: That's great and that was the coolest thing for men

1122
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:08,800
Speaker 1: that he gets in. You know what I'm trying to do.

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01:15:09,560 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 1: I don't need to Billia not to do nothing, though,

1124
01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 1: trust me, I gotta do nothing as number all right,

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01:15:20,840 --> 01:15:23,639
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Steve's Health

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01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 1: and Wellness segment with wellness and holistic health educator doctor Ronnie.

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01:15:29,800 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening, l right, everybody here we go.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the show. It's time for my brand

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01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:44,879
Speaker 1: new health and Wellness segment. Well, I'm gonna be featuring

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01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:49,480
Speaker 1: several people to help us get it together health and Wellness.

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01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 1: She's a friend of mine and has been my holistic

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01:15:54,240 --> 01:16:01,440
Speaker 1: practitioner or a doctor for years now. She's privately counseled individuals, celebrities,

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01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 1: business elite. She's the founder of Martha Vineyard's Holistic Retreat,

1134
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 1: and she was the author of New York Times best

1135
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,680
Speaker 1: selling book twenty one pounds in twenty one days, the

1136
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 1: Martha Vineyard Diet Detox, which has brought mainstream America to

1137
01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:20,960
Speaker 1: start detoxing for health conditions. Please welcome to the show, everybody,

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01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 1: Doctor Ronnie welcome, Welcome, Well, doctor, let me introduce you

1139
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:32,439
Speaker 1: to everybody. Tell everybody a little bit about yourself. Okay,

1140
01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:34,639
Speaker 1: you know I've been doing this for all of thirty years.

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01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:36,559
Speaker 1: I don't need to tell you how old I am.

1142
01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 1: But I am excited to do this because basically all

1143
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:43,880
Speaker 1: my life, I've been helping individuals around the country to

1144
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 1: get healthy. Whether it's weight loss, whether it's cancer care,

1145
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 1: whether it's lupez Arthur writ is, it doesn't matter. My

1146
01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:55,479
Speaker 1: background is chronic illness. But what's exciting about my background

1147
01:16:55,800 --> 01:16:59,439
Speaker 1: getting people healthy is my lifestyle. I've always been doing

1148
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 1: that from the time I'm that. I started as a

1149
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 1: nurse over forty years ago. My basic background who I

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01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:08,120
Speaker 1: am as a person is helping people all around the

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01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:10,960
Speaker 1: country to get healthy. And people think that's a hard job,

1152
01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 1: but it's not a hard job for me because it's

1153
01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 1: my passion. I wake up and think health. I wake

1154
01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:18,719
Speaker 1: up and think about who am I going to help today.

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01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:20,720
Speaker 1: If I don't help somebody in the day, then that

1156
01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 1: means I'm sick y'all. But a call nine one one,

1157
01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 1: so you know, yeah, see that's that's the type of

1158
01:17:30,040 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 1: thing people need to And she's helped me immensely all

1159
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 1: types of we've we've done herbs. It's always a holistic approach.

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01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:45,560
Speaker 1: She doesn't give me anything that's you know, not holistic,

1161
01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:48,160
Speaker 1: not her, she doesn't do it and just been a

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01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 1: tremendous health to me. Let's get to it today. You

1163
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:55,879
Speaker 1: want to talk about holiday eating now, holiday eating lies

1164
01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 1: that we tell ourselves. When you say we tell us

1165
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:03,160
Speaker 1: sales holiday eating lies, doctor Runnie, what are you talking about?

1166
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 1: Oh you have no idea. And I get approached every

1167
01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:10,160
Speaker 1: single year with the same lies, and I'm like, come on,

1168
01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:12,560
Speaker 1: this is like thirty years you're telling me this. You

1169
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:15,680
Speaker 1: know some of the most I mean amazing lies. Like

1170
01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:19,040
Speaker 1: for an example, this is a favorite one. I only

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01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:22,400
Speaker 1: eat a thousand calories. If I do that, then I'm

1172
01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 1: not gonna gain weight. Oh here's another one. Do you

1173
01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:28,840
Speaker 1: know that people think that if they just drink water

1174
01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 1: and all day long and not eat, that they're not

1175
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:34,760
Speaker 1: gonna gain weight. Every single year I get one, I'm

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01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:36,800
Speaker 1: gonna just drink water. I'm not gonna eat all that

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01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:41,320
Speaker 1: fattening food and it's just a rebound effect. Another one is,

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01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:43,760
Speaker 1: this is a favorite one. This year, I will just

1179
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,120
Speaker 1: only eat meat and I'm gonna do the Keto diet

1180
01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:49,200
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna I'm gonna I'm not gonna gain

1181
01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:52,720
Speaker 1: any weight for the holidays. And my other favorite is,

1182
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 1: oh my goodness, this one is unbelievable. I'm gonna take

1183
01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:58,760
Speaker 1: a laxative every day, doctor Ronnie, And if I take

1184
01:18:58,880 --> 01:19:02,599
Speaker 1: this laxative tea, I won't gain any weight. And I'm

1185
01:19:02,640 --> 01:19:05,080
Speaker 1: not getting It's like unbelievable. And I said, oh my

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01:19:05,479 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 1: please don't tell me that. You told me that last year.

1187
01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:10,120
Speaker 1: Every single year you gain more weight, and it's just

1188
01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:13,880
Speaker 1: becomes so amazing to me. And the other one is, um,

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01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:16,599
Speaker 1: you know what, if I just eat a little bit

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01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:20,400
Speaker 1: of every single thing, I won't gain any weight this year.

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01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:24,600
Speaker 1: And my other one is I'm just overweight because of

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01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 1: my jeans, my entire families overweight. You know, there's nothing

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01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:31,320
Speaker 1: I can do. That's just who I am as a person.

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01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna lose weight. So my friend told me

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01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:37,479
Speaker 1: not too long ago. She's gonna wear a girdle. So

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01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:39,559
Speaker 1: she wears a girdle. But they don't call it girdles.

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01:19:39,600 --> 01:19:42,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. They call it waste trainers. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

1198
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:45,000
Speaker 1: waist trainer. I'm gonna put on the waist trainer. But

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01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:47,280
Speaker 1: she actually said girdle. And she said, I'm gonna tighten

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01:19:47,360 --> 01:19:50,360
Speaker 1: my stomach a really tight and I won't gain any

1201
01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:53,360
Speaker 1: weight this year, and she really believes that's gonna work.

1202
01:19:53,760 --> 01:19:58,360
Speaker 1: So it's some shocking. I mean, you're going over and

1203
01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:01,120
Speaker 1: you're so right, because how many times we've all heard

1204
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:05,519
Speaker 1: these right here. But let's talk about what you've always

1205
01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:10,880
Speaker 1: talked to me about. Let's talk about sugar. It's it's

1206
01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:16,400
Speaker 1: a lifestyle, you know, Okay. The American Heart Association says

1207
01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 1: that we should eat twenty five grams of sugar a day,

1208
01:20:20,160 --> 01:20:23,400
Speaker 1: no more than that. But the average American eats one

1209
01:20:23,479 --> 01:20:26,320
Speaker 1: hundred grams of sugar a day. And what that does

1210
01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:29,519
Speaker 1: to your liver and your pancreas. It overwhelms your pancreas

1211
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:32,000
Speaker 1: so that it doesn't work, you know, because the pancreas

1212
01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 1: is responsible for producing insulin, and the insulin is supposed

1213
01:20:36,400 --> 01:20:39,080
Speaker 1: to go in there and use the sugar for energy. Well,

1214
01:20:39,120 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 1: it's just too much sugar. So therefore sugar spills over

1215
01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 1: in your blood stream. And you know what happens when

1216
01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:47,960
Speaker 1: you have too much sugar. You feel horrible, You don't

1217
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:50,719
Speaker 1: even you can't even finish your entire day of work.

1218
01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 1: You feel depressed, you have you feel hungry, your brain fog,

1219
01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:58,519
Speaker 1: all of these symptoms that you have because you're eating

1220
01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:00,479
Speaker 1: too much sugar. And that's why, right when you go

1221
01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 1: into detox and your detox from sugar, all of a sudden,

1222
01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:05,360
Speaker 1: you get all this energy, but you don't put two

1223
01:21:05,400 --> 01:21:07,640
Speaker 1: and two together because then again next month you do

1224
01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:10,639
Speaker 1: the exact same thing. It's like a vicious cycle because

1225
01:21:10,840 --> 01:21:15,439
Speaker 1: sugar actually makes you crave sugar. So if you try it,

1226
01:21:15,600 --> 01:21:17,720
Speaker 1: just get off a sugar for a while. Just go

1227
01:21:17,880 --> 01:21:20,640
Speaker 1: onto some you know, moderate proteins, some vegetables, but you

1228
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 1: gotta stay with you know, complex carbs don't don't start.

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01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:27,560
Speaker 1: You know, people say, well, I do carbs, but I

1230
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:29,599
Speaker 1: eat healthy carbs, and they don't even know what healthy

1231
01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 1: carbs are anymore, because healthy carbs are basically complex or

1232
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 1: greens and most vegetables. We're not talking about fruit, bread,

1233
01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: and what do you call those biscuits and all of

1234
01:21:42,160 --> 01:21:44,719
Speaker 1: that stuff. You got to really stay with complex carbs.

1235
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:47,320
Speaker 1: So a lot of people feel better when they detox

1236
01:21:47,439 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 1: off of sugar, but then they have this rebound effect

1237
01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 1: where they absolutely crash, and that's because they're not doing

1238
01:21:55,479 --> 01:21:59,640
Speaker 1: it right. It's a lifestyle, it's not a diet. You know,

1239
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:02,240
Speaker 1: there's hundreds of diets out there, and you already know

1240
01:22:02,720 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 1: that with all these diets, people are still overweight. Why

1241
01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:08,439
Speaker 1: because the body wants one thing for you and the

1242
01:22:08,520 --> 01:22:10,640
Speaker 1: body don't even want food anymore because we don't We

1243
01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: don't really know what food is, and all the time

1244
01:22:13,120 --> 01:22:16,360
Speaker 1: might tell people, you know, this is the craziest thing. Okay,

1245
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:20,280
Speaker 1: your immune system wants Q on coenzy and Q ten,

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Speaker 1: Your cells want iron and magnesium, Your heart wants B vitamins,

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01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:28,640
Speaker 1: Your prostate wants selenium. You see what I'm getting at.

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01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:32,080
Speaker 1: Your healthy blood vessels want vitamin E. If I go

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01:22:32,320 --> 01:22:35,280
Speaker 1: on and on and on, I'll have like a list

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Speaker 1: of thirty to forty things that our body needs in

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01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:42,840
Speaker 1: not getting it. Because what we think is if we

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01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:46,519
Speaker 1: just have one thing that we're gonna get healthy. When

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01:22:46,600 --> 01:22:50,200
Speaker 1: our body wants a complex of nutrients. There's over a

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Speaker 1: hundred nutrients that our body requires. Why we keep thinking

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01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:57,240
Speaker 1: that one thing's gonna do it, like vitamin D. Everybody

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01:22:57,320 --> 01:23:00,560
Speaker 1: tells me, Oh, but I'm taking vitamin D. Hold on

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Speaker 1: right there, doctor Ronnie, stay right there. We'll be right

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01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 1: back because we want to hear that. I want to

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Speaker 1: ask the one question that everybody's wondering about, what promote

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Speaker 1: fat burning? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, So hang on, we'll

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Speaker 1: be right back with that. Get ready, of y'all, it

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna be nothing. You're listening. I got back with

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Speaker 1: doctor Ronnie, and Doctor Ronnie has been going over a

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Speaker 1: bunch of the myths and lies that we tell ourselves

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Speaker 1: over the holiday eating. When we left, I was asking

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Speaker 1: her what foods promote fat burning. So, Doctor Ronnie, if

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Speaker 1: you would say to me, Steve, these are the foods

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Speaker 1: you could eat that would promote fat burning, what would

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Speaker 1: you say to that? Well, first of all, I love

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Speaker 1: almonds and almond milk, I love salmon beans, and you know,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of great spices that you could put

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Speaker 1: in your food if you don't want to. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you're your people saying, well, I'm just sticking vegetables all

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Speaker 1: the time. But it's not only vegetables, you know, protein

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Speaker 1: and vegetables. And then there's also of course we know

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01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:09,479
Speaker 1: about the fat burning great fruit, but also do you

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01:24:09,600 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 1: know that berries is another fat burner, and also all

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01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:17,080
Speaker 1: the citrus fruits are a fat burner. But mostly if

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Speaker 1: you give your body protein quality protein with greens, it

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01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:25,639
Speaker 1: helps you burn fat. Here's the spices that I love.

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01:24:26,160 --> 01:24:29,880
Speaker 1: Cinnamon is a great, great fat burner, chermick is another one,

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01:24:30,439 --> 01:24:35,559
Speaker 1: ginger's another one, Cayenne pepper and gensing and being extract.

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01:24:35,640 --> 01:24:38,000
Speaker 1: Now a lot of people are probably thinking, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: pour a whole lot of spices in my food and

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01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:42,920
Speaker 1: that should burn fat. You know, I know, I know,

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01:24:43,040 --> 01:24:45,280
Speaker 1: I know somebody did it. They put a whole bunch

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01:24:45,320 --> 01:24:48,360
Speaker 1: of cayenne pepper thinking that that was gonna burn fat

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01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:50,519
Speaker 1: and all they were doing with burning there intestines of

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01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:55,479
Speaker 1: So you gotta be you know, literally, you gotta be careful.

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01:24:55,640 --> 01:24:58,519
Speaker 1: You know, you just can't take one food and expect

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01:24:58,880 --> 01:25:03,160
Speaker 1: to a mar because basically everything has to make sense

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01:25:03,479 --> 01:25:05,639
Speaker 1: like a right before break, I was going on all

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01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:09,400
Speaker 1: these nutrients that you need to make a body healthy.

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Speaker 1: It's not just one thing. It's a complex, over one

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Speaker 1: hundred nutrients. You need, fourteen vitamins that are essential, fourteen

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Speaker 1: minerals that are central, twenty amino acids. All of these

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Speaker 1: things create health in the repair of the body. These

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Speaker 1: things that you're saying our body needs. You were telling

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Speaker 1: me you have a product that has all these nutrients

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01:25:33,439 --> 01:25:37,719
Speaker 1: in it. Today they have some the most innovative treatments

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01:25:37,760 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 1: and products out there. Knowledge is power all day long.

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01:25:41,840 --> 01:25:44,760
Speaker 1: So today they have this food. You can like do

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01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:48,479
Speaker 1: a protein shake with over one hundred nutrients in it.

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01:25:48,880 --> 01:25:52,560
Speaker 1: You can actually it's called blends. It's amazing and I

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01:25:52,680 --> 01:25:54,760
Speaker 1: do it all the time. I looked at myself in

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01:25:54,800 --> 01:25:57,679
Speaker 1: the mirror one day and almost scare me. I mean literally,

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01:25:57,880 --> 01:25:59,639
Speaker 1: it is changing the way I look and the other

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01:25:59,680 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 1: thing is doing. I don't have like that add feeling anymore.

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01:26:03,560 --> 01:26:05,760
Speaker 1: I feel completely calm because it so. I could be

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Speaker 1: at my desk and I could be doing five or

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Speaker 1: six different things, and I forgot what the first thing

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01:26:10,520 --> 01:26:12,760
Speaker 1: was that I was working on. Now I can sit

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Speaker 1: at my desk and I can attend to one task

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Speaker 1: and finish it and complete it. And I know for

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Speaker 1: a fact it's because of the food blends. And you

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01:26:21,200 --> 01:26:24,519
Speaker 1: know what I call it. I call it nutrients. Your

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01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:28,040
Speaker 1: body wants nutrients for you. It's almost as if I

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01:26:28,240 --> 01:26:31,840
Speaker 1: opened up a package of like vitamins and minerals, but

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01:26:31,920 --> 01:26:34,360
Speaker 1: it's like gravy and I mix some water with it

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01:26:34,720 --> 01:26:36,920
Speaker 1: and I'll pour it on my food. Or I could

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01:26:36,960 --> 01:26:40,120
Speaker 1: open up another package and I put it in my soup.

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Speaker 1: But what I really like or the protein drinks, because

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01:26:43,120 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 1: it has everything in it have almost twenty something different

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01:26:47,120 --> 01:26:50,120
Speaker 1: essential fatty acids. And so what I call it is

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01:26:50,320 --> 01:26:53,519
Speaker 1: a food bar. I'll grab a food nutrient dense bar

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01:26:53,880 --> 01:26:55,720
Speaker 1: and put it in my purse and keep on going.

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01:26:56,040 --> 01:26:58,920
Speaker 1: And I'm never hungry because, like I said earlier, the

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01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:01,920
Speaker 1: body's not looking for food, it's looking for nutrients. Okay,

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01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:06,920
Speaker 1: gotta retrain our brain what food is? Okay? So doctor Ronnie,

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01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:10,800
Speaker 1: now you're gonna be on Facebook Live. What day are

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01:27:10,880 --> 01:27:19,320
Speaker 1: you on Facebook Live? I'm on Facebook Live every Wednesday? Everyone,

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01:27:19,400 --> 01:27:24,840
Speaker 1: all right, I'm be on it today. So at nine fifteen,

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01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:28,040
Speaker 1: starting next week, when they look you up on Facebook

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01:27:28,120 --> 01:27:31,280
Speaker 1: Hot today find you, you go to Steve Harvey Health

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Speaker 1: and Wellness dot Com. Okay. From your Facebook app, you

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01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:39,439
Speaker 1: go to Steve Harvey Health and Wellness and you look

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01:27:39,479 --> 01:27:42,240
Speaker 1: for the group. All right, well, doctor Ronnie, we want

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01:27:42,280 --> 01:27:46,040
Speaker 1: to thank you so much with just imparting all this

1339
01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:50,320
Speaker 1: interesting and wonderful health and wellness information to us. We

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01:27:50,400 --> 01:27:54,840
Speaker 1: appreciate you stay healthy, have a good holidays. But we

1341
01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:58,320
Speaker 1: want to thank you. Water and take aarensigns. All right,

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01:27:58,520 --> 01:28:00,920
Speaker 1: thank you, doctor Ronnie. We areprey. She ate you so much.

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Speaker 1: Cute coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

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01:28:04,920 --> 01:28:10,040
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve.

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01:28:10,200 --> 01:28:14,760
Speaker 1: It has been confirmed on Instagram, Kevin Hart says he's

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01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:19,360
Speaker 1: hosting the twenty nineteen Academy Awards. In February, Kevin shared

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01:28:19,400 --> 01:28:22,280
Speaker 1: a photo of the iconic goal statue with a special

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01:28:22,360 --> 01:28:26,320
Speaker 1: message to his fans on the IG. For years, I've

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Speaker 1: been asked if I would ever host the Oscars, and

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01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:32,040
Speaker 1: my answer was always the same. I said that it

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01:28:32,080 --> 01:28:35,160
Speaker 1: would be the opportunity of a lifetime for me as

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01:28:35,240 --> 01:28:38,640
Speaker 1: a comedian and that it will happen when it's supposed to.

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01:28:39,120 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 1: That's what Kevin wrote in the caption. Kevin also says,

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01:28:42,080 --> 01:28:44,760
Speaker 1: I am so happy to say that the day has

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01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:48,800
Speaker 1: finally come from me to host the Oscars. I am

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01:28:48,880 --> 01:28:52,040
Speaker 1: blown away simply because this has been a goal on

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01:28:52,240 --> 01:28:55,840
Speaker 1: my list for a long time. Kevin went on to say,

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01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:59,639
Speaker 1: I appreciate the Academy for the opportunity. Now it's time

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01:28:59,720 --> 01:29:07,759
Speaker 1: to rise to the occasion. Hashtag Oscars. Yeah, that's beyond huge.

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01:29:08,200 --> 01:29:12,439
Speaker 1: It is. That is so that's so major. You don't

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01:29:12,520 --> 01:29:17,439
Speaker 1: understand the Oscars is what this is all about. In

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01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:21,760
Speaker 1: their world. This is bigger than the super Bowl. Yeah,

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01:29:21,920 --> 01:29:25,080
Speaker 1: they see it's about the Oscars. Yeah, and they really see.

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01:29:25,120 --> 01:29:27,640
Speaker 1: It's about who hosts. And that's a real honor to

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01:29:27,720 --> 01:29:31,000
Speaker 1: be asked to host that. That ain't my bucket list.

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01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:36,240
Speaker 1: I ain't got to be disappointed. So it's a long show,

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01:29:36,479 --> 01:29:39,000
Speaker 1: and you know, I mean he has time to prepare.

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Speaker 1: Thank god. This is December, well not a whole lot,

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01:29:41,640 --> 01:29:44,519
Speaker 1: but December, January, February. But he can do it though,

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01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:46,760
Speaker 1: he can pull it off. He can do it. He

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01:29:47,000 --> 01:29:50,920
Speaker 1: definitely an amazing team. Yeah, Yeah, he's gonna be funny,

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Speaker 1: It'll be great. I remember when Chris Rock's friends legends,

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Speaker 1: Chris Rock will be Goldberg Ellen Pale baby, that's what

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Speaker 1: you call. Yeah, Steve even Yeah, how about Steve Harvey? Right,

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01:30:05,240 --> 01:30:09,439
Speaker 1: But you hosted big live events. Yeah, okay, I'll just try.

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01:30:09,520 --> 01:30:11,479
Speaker 1: I can tell you what how to not get put

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Speaker 1: off TV? All you got you want to call here

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01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:22,200
Speaker 1: that I can get you not. But whoopy hosted it

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01:30:22,320 --> 01:30:27,800
Speaker 1: several times? H Billy Crystal of course, Um, Chris rock

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Speaker 1: Ellen Yeah, oh yeah, all of them. Yeah, Jimmy Kimmel,

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01:30:32,640 --> 01:30:35,120
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, all of them who hosted it? Really good?

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01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:39,960
Speaker 1: So congratulations Kevin Hart. Uh that that's that's just awesome,

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01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:44,360
Speaker 1: it really is. Yeah. I know how bad I'd be

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01:30:44,439 --> 01:30:48,080
Speaker 1: at the damn Moscars. I wouldn't know nobody. Huh. You

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01:30:48,160 --> 01:30:49,840
Speaker 1: know how bad i'd be at the Oscars. I don't

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01:30:49,840 --> 01:30:55,160
Speaker 1: know nobody. Oh yeah, you don't know. Yeah, yeah, somebody

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01:30:55,240 --> 01:30:58,280
Speaker 1: being yo yo tho dog, you'd be straight walk me through,

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01:30:59,360 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 1: lady and General Meryl Street. Oh from the no I said,

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01:31:10,280 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 1: Jane fun you got Rota out of Randa and maybe

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01:31:17,240 --> 01:31:23,599
Speaker 1: spelled it wrong. Yeah yeah, all right, Coming up, it's

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey and his closing remarks. You don't want to

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01:31:26,360 --> 01:31:29,360
Speaker 1: miss it. At forty nine after the hour, you're listening,

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01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:34,719
Speaker 1: all right, here we are Steve, last break of the day.

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Speaker 1: It's been a great day. What a day when a day. Yeah,

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01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:44,080
Speaker 1: it's been a crazy day today. So Steve, now it's

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Speaker 1: time for you to take us home with your closing remarks.

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Speaker 1: My closing remarks today, um are gonna be based around

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Speaker 1: the value of yourself. I think this is important. Tommy

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01:31:57,240 --> 01:32:00,800
Speaker 1: sent this to me, you know, a bill board, and

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01:32:00,920 --> 01:32:02,960
Speaker 1: it really triggered me to thinking, I'm gonna share that

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01:32:03,080 --> 01:32:07,000
Speaker 1: with you. But it all pertains to the value of yourself.

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01:32:08,280 --> 01:32:13,360
Speaker 1: This can pertain to you in terms of reaching your goals,

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01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:21,200
Speaker 1: your dreams, all in business, and this is for you

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01:32:21,400 --> 01:32:26,719
Speaker 1: to consider in the relationship of love. It is amazing

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01:32:26,760 --> 01:32:29,599
Speaker 1: to me why I talk to people and people talk

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01:32:29,640 --> 01:32:33,479
Speaker 1: about how they're being treated and handled and represented and

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01:32:33,640 --> 01:32:36,760
Speaker 1: dealt with, and how they can't seem to get no

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01:32:36,880 --> 01:32:40,240
Speaker 1: old body to see their value and their worth. And

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01:32:40,360 --> 01:32:42,599
Speaker 1: I'm sending a bit going, wait a minute, wait a minute.

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01:32:44,360 --> 01:32:48,280
Speaker 1: You can't try to get someone to see something in

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01:32:48,439 --> 01:32:53,280
Speaker 1: you that you don't see in yourself. It starts with you.

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01:32:55,120 --> 01:32:58,680
Speaker 1: You know, you've all heard the saying beauty is on

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01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:04,000
Speaker 1: the inside is not just skin deep. That's true. Confidence

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01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:08,080
Speaker 1: is not an outward emotion. It's something that starts from within.

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01:33:09,600 --> 01:33:14,519
Speaker 1: Everything starts from within, and it exudes and and and

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01:33:14,760 --> 01:33:19,920
Speaker 1: and manifest itself in the outward shape or form. So

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Speaker 1: if you want people to value you, you must first

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01:33:26,000 --> 01:33:30,880
Speaker 1: value yourself. I tell my daughters all the time, you

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Speaker 1: can train a man how to treat you well, Daddy,

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01:33:34,280 --> 01:33:37,040
Speaker 1: how do you train a man? You just don't accept

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01:33:37,280 --> 01:33:41,799
Speaker 1: bad treatment from him. If you don't accept bad treatment

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01:33:41,960 --> 01:33:45,439
Speaker 1: from him, little girl of mine, then guess what? He

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01:33:45,560 --> 01:33:48,760
Speaker 1: can't keep giving it to you. A person can only

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01:33:48,800 --> 01:33:51,439
Speaker 1: treat you the way you allow them to do it.

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01:33:52,240 --> 01:33:54,400
Speaker 1: If you don't accept a man coming to pick you

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01:33:54,520 --> 01:33:56,800
Speaker 1: up late all the time, but you stop going with

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01:33:56,920 --> 01:33:59,120
Speaker 1: him every time he late, the next time he want

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01:33:59,120 --> 01:34:01,000
Speaker 1: to go out with you, he got to be on time. Now.

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01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:02,960
Speaker 1: If he don't want to be on time, then guess what.

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01:34:03,040 --> 01:34:06,439
Speaker 1: You don't go out. You've trained him how to treat you,

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01:34:06,680 --> 01:34:08,360
Speaker 1: and if he don't line up with what you walk,

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01:34:08,479 --> 01:34:12,360
Speaker 1: then guess what he not for you. At least you

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01:34:12,439 --> 01:34:14,439
Speaker 1: don't have to be mistreated the way he want to

1434
01:34:14,520 --> 01:34:18,880
Speaker 1: treat you by simply not allowing him to treat you

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01:34:18,960 --> 01:34:24,559
Speaker 1: any way he wants to. You cannot have high value

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01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:28,040
Speaker 1: for yourself and expect someone else to have a high

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01:34:28,160 --> 01:34:31,439
Speaker 1: value of you. That goes into the same thing. With business.

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01:34:31,800 --> 01:34:33,680
Speaker 1: You can't go in and ask for a raise if

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01:34:33,720 --> 01:34:35,960
Speaker 1: you don't think you deserved one. What would cause you

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01:34:36,040 --> 01:34:37,880
Speaker 1: to walk in there and ask for a raise if

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01:34:37,960 --> 01:34:40,880
Speaker 1: you don't think you deserve one, If you don't have

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01:34:41,040 --> 01:34:43,599
Speaker 1: the facts to back up a raise. You can't want

1443
01:34:43,680 --> 01:34:45,720
Speaker 1: more money just because you don't spend all the money

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01:34:45,800 --> 01:34:48,000
Speaker 1: you had. You got to go in there and ask

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01:34:48,080 --> 01:34:51,240
Speaker 1: for a raise because you can show value to the company.

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01:34:51,560 --> 01:34:54,280
Speaker 1: You're worth this much more to the company. The company

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01:34:54,320 --> 01:34:56,679
Speaker 1: has become this because of you. Then you can show

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01:34:56,720 --> 01:34:58,639
Speaker 1: your value. Then you can go in there with a raise,

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01:34:58,800 --> 01:35:00,439
Speaker 1: and you can go in there with some This with

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01:35:00,560 --> 01:35:05,200
Speaker 1: the rays. It happens with goals and dreams. If you

1451
01:35:05,320 --> 01:35:08,680
Speaker 1: aim too low, your problem is you might hit it.

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01:35:09,360 --> 01:35:12,840
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna say that for tomorrow. So it's what

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Speaker 1: you think of yourself, how you value yourself, that matters most.

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Speaker 1: Now let me tell you what was said to me.

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Speaker 1: I listen to this real careful, because this is going

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Speaker 1: to register with a lot of people. Listen to me.

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Speaker 1: If you aren't being treated with love and respect, check

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Speaker 1: your price tag. Maybe you've marked yourself down. It's you

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Speaker 1: who tells people what you're worth. Get off the clearest

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Speaker 1: rack and get behind the glass where they keep the valuables.

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Speaker 1: It's you who tells people what you're worth. Get off

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Speaker 1: the clearest rack and get behind the glass where they

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Speaker 1: keep the valuable Stop acting like you a sidewalk salep.

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Speaker 1: Acting like you can be picked up at the swap meet.

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Speaker 1: Stop acting like you belong in the junkyard. You're a

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Speaker 1: new car. Don't act like an old car. I don't

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Speaker 1: care how old you are to somebody. You got to

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Speaker 1: be a new car. Stop putting yourself on the sales

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Speaker 1: rack when clearly you deserve full price. If you lure

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Speaker 1: the value for yourself, that's what we'll pay for you,

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Speaker 1: and that's how we'll treat you. And that's how we respect.

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Speaker 1: If you don't respect yourself, if I see you constantly

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Speaker 1: disrespecting yourself, then you're gonna turn to me and demand respect.

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Speaker 1: How does that work? That be a coat where they

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Speaker 1: got the lock on it. See you can't take me

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Speaker 1: off the rat and just try me on. No, that

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Speaker 1: ain't how this work. See. But now you go over

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Speaker 1: that to that valuable section in the store. You everybody

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Speaker 1: been to mass You got that stuff where you got

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Speaker 1: to go get a salesperson to come and unlock it

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Speaker 1: for you to even try it on. That's cause data

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Speaker 1: put a value on that. Or you going over there

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Speaker 1: and just put the little shirt on. T shirts ain't

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Speaker 1: locked up. Anybody can get one if you're steal his

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Speaker 1: T shirt. It ain't that bigger loss name before dollars,

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Speaker 1: pack of three. Come over here, body's swede, Come over here,

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Speaker 1: body's first stuff. We got locks on this stuff right

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Speaker 1: here because it has value. We know it has value,

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Speaker 1: So we can't just let you try to stop letting

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Speaker 1: people just try you on. You got it, put a

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Speaker 1: value to yourself, maintain it, you determine your value. Don't

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01:37:32,680 --> 01:37:35,559
Speaker 1: let other people do it. You do it all right?

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing your ball, drop the mic, drop

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Speaker 1: the mic baby, thank you, Tommy, appreciate you. Pemp needed that,

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Speaker 1: but that I just need thought starters, Hey man, Can

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Speaker 1: I tell y'allself announcement, have a great weekend for all.

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