WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Did You Throw Away My Vows? 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:01.360 From Hollywood. 0:00:01.560 --> 0:00:03.320 See you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.400 --> 0:00:06.000 Ryan Air on. 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:07.680 Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:12.880 All right, So Sophia, now let's get into this because 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:16.240 I think we all have been guilty of making soft plans. 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:18.360 So do you every friend of yours seems to be 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.640 mad at you, including your boyfriend. This is not a boyfriend. 0:00:20.920 --> 0:00:22.160 What's this friend mad at you for? 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:22.639 Now? 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:24.840 Like, what's going on with your life? In terms? 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:26.360 Sofia, yeah, do we need to go down there and 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:30.160 throw down? Okay, I don't think this one's my fault. 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:33.200 But earlier in the week she told me she was like, hey, 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:35.479 like it's gonna be sunny, let's go to Laguna. And 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:37.440 I was like, oh my gosh, let's do it, Like yeah, 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:40.159 for sure. That was the only conversation that we had 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:40.839 about Laguna. 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:41.400 Okay. 0:00:42.080 --> 0:00:45.479 And so the weekend goes on and I get no text, 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:49.560 no follow up, nothing about Laguna. So I'm like, okay, 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:52.239 so I just go about my day, just see if 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:55.120 she's gonna text me, because those were soft plans, like 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:59.760 nothing was decided, no time, no nothing. And I've been 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.880 idding the cold shoulder from her, and I know that 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:05.240 she's upset because I didn't text her. 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:08.680 Okay, so you didn't firm up the soft plans. 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:10.000 No, because she was the one who came to me 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:12.480 and was like, let's go to Laguna and I was like, okay, 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:16.440 like sure, but then nothing nothing, all right? 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:19.760 This is very clear to me, Like any time you've 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:21.479 made and Sisney does this a lot, Like you say 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:23.039 you're gonna do something, Sisney don't and you're like, yeah, 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:26.320 let's get together. You are never really going to follow 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:29.000 through on it. All soft plans must be confirmed, matter 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.480 of fact, All plans must be confirmed. People are flaky. 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:34.720 People are generally just a lot of people are flaky, 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:38.959 and so I am the kind of person that needs 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:42.960 to know about the plan very specifically and deliberately and 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:46.679 to know that it's confirmed. So I'm always I'm always like, 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:49.680 are we still on for tomorrow? Are we still on 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:53.400 for the next week? Are we still on? You kind 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:57.120 of got to do that or you can't blame anybody. 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:58.760 Yeah, like did you guys pick a date or anything? 0:01:58.920 --> 0:01:59.160 No? 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:00.920 No day. See if it's not on the calendar, it's 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:01.480 not happening. 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:02.000 See. 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.080 If I'm being completely honest, I hope she's not listening. 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:07.240 But I didn't really care if we went to Laguna 0:02:07.320 --> 0:02:09.400 or not, because I didn't really want to go, but 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:12.000 I would have gone if she like actually followed through 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:14.160 and was like, let's plan it, I would have gone. 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:16.519 So I think maybe that's why I didn't text. 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:19.400 Her ad news for you, because you're like an intern 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.040 here and you go to college. I think your friends 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:27.720 all listen right now, I'm sorry, Yeah, you got it 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.679 for U soft plans. And then I also think, don't 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:33.240 you think that people just are generally uh, they're flaky. 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:36.600 People are flaky. They've gotten flake here, don't you think, Tanya. 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:37.240 One hundred percent? 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:39.720 I've had like standing plans with a friend to go 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:40.919 on a walk for like three weeks. 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:42.280 We just like can't get it together. 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:43.760 But have you picked a date? And is it in 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:44.240 the calendar? 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:45.960 We'll pick a date and then something will come up, 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:47.480 so then we'll move it to the next week and 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.079 it just kind of keeps happening. 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:53.080 Mm hmmm. Well, if you want to plan anything with me, 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.560 you just let me know because we will hard confirm. Yeah, 0:02:55.600 --> 0:03:01.639 me too, it's case FM. So, Tanya, you're anniversaries coming up? 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:02.720 How many years? 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:05.600 One? Just one? It'll be our first year. 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:06.800 One year since we did all that. 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:08.280 I know, it's wild. 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:11.040 It was like a long time ago, feels like. 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:11.840 It was yesterday. 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:12.720 I feel the same. 0:03:13.639 --> 0:03:18.640 I don't. So you're going to renew your vows? Is 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:19.840 that common to do already? 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:22.400 Renewing our vows? 0:03:22.480 --> 0:03:23.240 That's what she said. 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:24.280 No, we are. 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:26.880 We wanted to do something every year on our wedding anniversary. 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:29.480 That's simple that we could do every single year, you 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:32.200 know what I mean, like no matter what state our 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:34.600 lives are in. And we decided that we wanted to 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:36.960 read our vowels to each other every year. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:40.880 A whole I need to be there. 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:44.600 No, no, no, but what I but what I realized. 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:46.440 So we're going to plan like a nice dinner and 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:48.120 we're going to do our vowels and so. 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.960 In front of the restaurant, just to each other. 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.920 And we were talking about it and Robbie was like, 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:59.280 I I think Ryan has my vows like I don't 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:00.600 have them. And I'm like you, I didn't type them 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:02.840 on a computer first and then handwrite them out like 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.920 I did, like I have mine saved on my computer. 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:05.880 Yeah. 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:08.400 No, he just wrote them out on a piece of paper. 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:11.480 Such a dude and just handed those those are what Ryan. 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:12.560 The hotel stationary. 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:16.800 I did them on but they're in your pocket or 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:17.680 you have that? 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:21.120 Oh yeah, because like you guys were getting married and 0:04:21.160 --> 0:04:23.320 you don't want anything in your hands after I guess 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:26.600 because the ring thing right right the other. So I 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:28.880 offered to grab his notes and or his vows and 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:30.760 I put him in my pocket, which ended up in 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:33.840 my briefcase, which I think carried around for like months. 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:36.320 And inside my briefcase like notes for things and my 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:37.920 calendars in there, and all of a sudden, I kept 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:42.080 pulling out two pages is loose leaf pages of Robbie's vowels. 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:45.120 I thought, I told you about that, And I thought, well, 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.120 that's odd. You didn't like ask for them back. He 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:49.360 didn't ask for them back. Yeah, so I tossed them. 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:52.840 Oh my gosh, you threw the Had I known that. 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:55.600 He didn't save them, I would have absolutely gotten them. 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:58.080 That's what I thought. I mean, dude, it's your wedding. 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:02.640 Save your vowels book, hey, thinking he's gonna call back 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:04.880 and say, hey, I need to borrow my vows. It's 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:06.440 it's your wedding. 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:07.080 I know. 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:10.000 I'm like, I have he goes, I don't know where 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:12.320 that paper is. I think they're still in Ryan's pocket. 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:15.200 I was like, here's what's easy. I got a solution. 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:16.040 It's all on tape. 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:18.120 Did you guys video transcribe the video? 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:20.280 Yeah, you want me to send me the video, I'll 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:21.880 transcribe this and I'll split it up here. 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:24.600 Yeah. I was like, he can. He can do that task. 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:27.800 But I'm not supposed to carry around his vows for 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:28.160 a year. 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:30.599 That's what I should have got them back from you. 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:32.839 I had no idea. I have like several copies of 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:33.520 our vowels. 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:37.840 Well, your vows, my vows, yes, getting married? 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:39.560 Back those up, type. 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:40.839 Them up, save him on word. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:42.919 Hey, happy anniversary. 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:45.719 It's so exciting. 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:50.279 Seacrest here, Sistiney, Tanya the intern, Sofia is here, and 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:55.080 Jessica on the line in van eyes. Jessica, how are you? Hey? 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:59.040 I you're on the air with us right now, and 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:02.880 you're calling about your roommate. So you don't get along 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:05.719 with your roommate and you want to kick her out? 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:06.320 Is that right? 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:12.880 Yeah? Yeah? Why so, like we get along fine, we've 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:18.359 been roommates for years. But my boyfriend and I have 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:22.039 been together for a year and a half and we're serious, 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:26.960 like he basically lives here already, and I just I 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:30.640 want him to move in, like officially, And I mean 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:34.640 technically I can ask her to leave. It's my lease, 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:38.960 but I don't know. I just I feel kind of 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:42.240 guilty about it, Like she has a job. 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.200 How much longer is the commitment to the lease? 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:51.839 I've want a year lease, but like I have no 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:55.320 Like I don't think the landlord's going to kick us 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:58.600 out anytime soon, Like I've been renewing it every year. 0:06:59.440 --> 0:07:03.560 Just fine, So I mean, you tell me sisiny, But 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:05.640 I think because you made the commitment to the roommate 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:08.720 and the lease, you've got to fulfill that. And the 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:12.120 fact that you have a boyfriend. That's great, but you 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:16.480 can't ruin sort of like her vibe. Because you met someone, 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:19.760 you can move out and you can get your own 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:23.640 place if you've framed someone to fill your spot, to 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:24.560 pay the rent. 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.600 Okay, but like we've already lived together for three years. 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:33.280 It's not like she just moved in and I'm kicking 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:33.680 her out. 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:35.040 Is she like a friend? 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:35.600 Like? 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:37.120 Is she fun? Do you like her? 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:40.080 I mean I would say we're friends, Like we're not 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:44.280 best friends, but we're solid. I do like her, but 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:47.000 like I don't want to move. I mean I found it, 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:51.600 like I invested in the apartment, but they do. I 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:52.400 do feel bad. 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:57.440 Okay, Well, get over the bad and figure out a 0:07:57.520 --> 0:08:02.760 fair practical solution and you know, have your guy. Can't 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:04.320 your guy give you some guidance on this or help 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:06.320 out or pitch in or do something to put a 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:07.280 band aid on it for now? 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:10.480 Yeah, I mean I think she would be fine pitching 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:14.680 in or whatever. But it's more so that, like we 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:16.200 don't want a third wheel. 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:17.640 Three's a crowd. 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:21.160 Yeah, you gotta get through the lease and then you 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:24.280 can figure it out. You made a commitment. I mean 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:27.840 that's where I am on this. Jessica, good luck. I 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:29.920 think you don't like any of our guidance, but we 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:30.800 really appreciate you. 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:33.400 Call back any time. 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:40.880 And take care. Okay, all right, we tried. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:44.640 She's stressing. 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:47.040 Now, if you're going out on a date this weekend, 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.400 there are three things I was just thinking about, and 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:52.160 I read this too to back it up. Three behaviors 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:55.040 that turn people off on dates. Either don't do it, 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:57.880 or look for these things things that dudes do men 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:01.559 guys inappropriate comments. Don't do it. Don't don't stare at 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:05.280 somebody else, don't watch another person walk by, like, focus 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:05.920 on who you're with. 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:06.400 One. 0:09:06.480 --> 0:09:10.160 Two brag, don't talk about yourself so much. Stop talking 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:17.280 about you. Ask questions. Three actually only two. Those are 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:20.160 the two. I kind of had lived at the third, 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:22.800 so that that's it now. Things that they say women do. 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:24.600 I don't know about this, but this is what I read, 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:29.000 and I went into Gronk. It's Grok. Gronk is a 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:36.240 football player. Grok that Gronkowski. No, it's Grock. He's right. 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:37.880 Gronkowski's the top of mind the all the time. 0:09:37.960 --> 0:09:39.880 Rob, are you talking about Gronkowski? 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:42.720 I'm talking about Grock. What's Grock? It's Ai. 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:47.400 It's like, oh my god, discovered that one. I've only 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:48.000 done Gemini. 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:52.120 Oh okay, Well, anyway, Grok said that this is what 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:56.440 women do that turn guys off. One drink too much 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.200 negative self talk, like when you talk a bad about yourself. 0:09:59.240 --> 0:09:59.480 Don't know. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:01.360 And they say that guys don't like it when you 0:10:01.400 --> 0:10:04.440 don't laugh at their jokes. Well, if you're not funny, 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:04.800 they're not. 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:06.400 Gonna get then that's true. 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:11.920 I don't know. Crockett cronkitt Today's quote your work you 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:15.760 avoid is usually the work the changes. So if you're 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:18.840 in the gym, don't do ten to twelve, so do 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:22.240 two more, two more reps, right, not ten twelve, not 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:25.640 twelve fourteen kiss f M. Good morning. Now, as you're 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:28.600 getting into work every day and you're commuting, do you 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:32.360 have to go through some of LA's worst intersections? So 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:35.680 before you started here Sisney n Tania on the morning show, 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:39.280 Ellen and I would do the show at the worst 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:41.520 intersection in LA. Based on this new list we'll get 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:43.040 into in a second. So here are the worst ones. 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:51.400 Will sure ends the Pulvita in Westwood. Yeah, I can intersections. 0:10:50.679 --> 0:10:53.360 Great for meeting people though, Yeah. 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:56.040 But I don't know what's going on the construction the 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:59.800 lanes is a is really different. And just getting on 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:02.960 the bridge, like if you guys go under and overpass 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:04.839 to get back over forget about it's like a mile. 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:07.560 But you can't get under and back under a freeway. 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:09.679 You're all over. There is right by UCLA. You got 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:10.720 the four or five traffic. 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:14.800 It's too much. Another of the worst intersections in la 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:17.920 Vermont and twenty eight. This is in West Adams, right 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:21.520 by usc SO on what once UCLA one's usc. Yeah, 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:25.280 it's that ten to one ten interchange. It is just 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:28.440 when you think your cruising along, it stops and you 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:32.920 are stuck. Another one of the worst intersections here and 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:38.120 Sunset in the Palisades. Another one MLK and Crenshaw in 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:41.040 Baldwin Hills. It's by the Baldwin Hills Crenshew Shopping Center. 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:45.200 Three hundred and forty eight collisions have been there, wow, 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:49.320 and the last like sixteen fifteen years. But the worst 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:53.400 one of all time is Sunset and Highland is the 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:57.439 worst intersection in the city. Sunset Boulevard and Highland in Hollywood, 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:00.319 highest volume of any intersection in La Or for three 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:04.680 hundred collisions since twenty ten, so a lot. But that's 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:06.640 where this dude. We used to do the Kiss Morning 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:09.520 Show from that very place because I was doing a 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:14.320 talk show that lasted one day on TV very fast. 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:17.480 No it's like two years, but it got canceled pretty fast, 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:19.520 and Ellen and I would have to go to that intersecting. 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:23.280 But it was a rough intersection Sunset and Highland. And 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:26.280 I think that the great thing about our traffic is 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:28.760 that we really always have a twenty two minute grace 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:30.920 period of an excuse when we're runninglate. 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:33.360 You have to double the time everywhere. 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:35.960 But now you also can say, hey, I just hit 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:41.880 a you know, traffic twenty two minutes right Mark? How 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:43.480 long did that talk shop running? You're trying to point 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:45.240 that out. I went from January of two thousand and 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:48.640 four until September of two thousand and four. Oh so 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:49.280 not even a year. 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:51.080 Kept two years? 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.240 Well, it was two years in my head. Hey, look, 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:55.640 can't win them all, isn't he? 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:56.200 I love it? 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:57.720 You know if you get up early and you have 0:12:57.800 --> 0:13:00.280 us on at the house or in the car, and 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:03.200 you gotta go take us with you on the iHeartRadio app. 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:06.600 We are streaming everything there and extra stuff to win 0:13:06.720 --> 0:13:10.400 too on the free iHeart Radio app inside a kiss page. 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.520 So shall we do a second date update? Rodney says 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:18.960 he met her on Hinge. Okay, Hinge has a success rate. 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:22.880 Here Rodney and palms, good morning. You met on Hinge 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:25.920 and your first date went great? Okay? What was the 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:27.000 first date that went great? 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:28.280 Oh? 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:31.480 Well, I took her to Laurel Grill in Culver City 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:35.960 and everything was just phenomenal. Talking to her. She's stunning, 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:39.360 she's funny, she has this amazing energy just jumps out 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:44.720 of her photos. So everything just worked really well, you 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:54.360 know at first, and then what happened, Well, it's really simple. Actually, 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:57.440 I felt my phone ringing and I checked it. It 0:13:57.480 --> 0:14:00.280 was my mom, it says mom on the screen. Even 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.079 so I sent it to voicemail. I put my phone 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:05.839 down and that was it. That That is all I did. 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:11.839 But everything after that got real weird. The conversation just 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:14.960 kind of stopped. I couldn't make her laugh anymore. It's 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:20.680 like that everything just went dead, and you know, she says, thanks, 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:23.520 that was nice and leaves. 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:28.840 Rodney. I mean, to me, this is like a red 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:30.760 flag on her part. But let's call her and see 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:34.240 what we can find out. I don't you should have 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:36.160 been clear. Oh my gosh, that's my mom. Like if 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:38.920 I if I ever put my mom sent into voicemail, 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:41.560 I guarantee you if I was at lunch with Tany 0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:43.080 and siss Andy, they'd say, oh no, no take it. 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:45.480 Yeah, you got to take it to anybody for that matter. 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:52.560 Well no, not any no anybody. Okay, So Rodney, hang 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:56.480 on one second. This seems like it's bad on her. 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:59.200 Right, yes, absolutely, Why should it be so dramatic. 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:05.800 I am looking for no drama, no confrontation, no arguments. 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:07.720 That is unrealistic. 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:11.200 Well Tom, that's fine, I'll wait it out, all right. 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:14.280 Coming up next KISSFM, we will try and get Marlene. 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:16.800 Is her name on the line. Every week we do 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:20.520 a second date update, and this one is pretty clear 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:23.920 to me. Anyway, Rodney reached out to us and he said, hey, 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:26.600 I met this girl on Hinge. Our first date was great. 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:29.720 A call comes in from his mom and he sent 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:34.240 it to voicemail and then she, Marlene in this case, 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:38.600 started acting differently. Rodney, are you ready? It's a second 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:41.160 date update. We're making the call. We got Marlene. We're 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:43.720 going to find out why she changed her mood and 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:47.160 blew you off after you sent your mother's call on 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:52.320 the date into voicemail. Okay, you ready, Let's go for it. Okay, 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:56.960 please don't say anything running. Let us get through this. Marlene. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.480 Thank you so much for coming on. You're on Kiss FM. 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:04.440 I secrets telling you. Everybody is are you I'm good? 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:06.320 Thank you good. 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:09.880 So we're calling about Hinge. Wow, what a great place 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:12.080 to meet people. And I think you met a guy. 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:15.560 Right, Yes? I did? 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.200 Did he did? 0:16:19.240 --> 0:16:21.080 He ask you to find out why I shut him down? 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:26.600 Yeah? Yeah, basically, So why did you go out with Rodney? First? 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:27.240 How is the date? 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:34.240 I mean, Rodney is nice. Uh, he's very handsome and 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:36.640 we actually had a good back and forth. I'm hinge 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:41.480 uh and the date was nice until I just, I 0:16:41.640 --> 0:16:43.280 just you know, I had to leave. 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:46.560 Why what happened? Why did you leave in the middle 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:47.240 of the date. 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:51.920 It was it was his lock scream? 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:56.400 What my lock screen? 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:02.640 Yeah? Yeah, yeah, your lock screen? 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:04.679 What was his? 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:05.720 Sorry? 0:17:05.760 --> 0:17:11.119 What it was? 0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:12.639 The photo on your lock screen? 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:13.200 What is it? 0:17:15.200 --> 0:17:17.800 All right? But like, I know it's got my son 0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:18.000 on it. 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:19.280 But I told you I have a son. 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:22.760 I said it very clearly, Yeah you did. But the 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:24.360 photo is of your son and. 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:29.600 Your ex, right, come on, your son's mom. 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:33.000 Yeah, it's me and my ex, my son's mom and me. 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:33.800 So what? 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:39.080 But I honestly I felt like it was like I 0:17:39.160 --> 0:17:41.879 wish we were still together kind of photo, you know, 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:44.520 like I would have expected a picture of your son, 0:17:44.560 --> 0:17:46.439 but never like you and your ex. 0:17:47.200 --> 0:17:50.000 And I just don't think like you're ready for something new. 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:55.040 Oh yeah I haven't. I haven't gotten around it changing 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:55.800 it yet. 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:57.520 Maybe it's. 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:06.160 Okay, I have some thoughts here. First off, Marlene, one 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:09.720 thing I've learned in life, you cannot jump to conclusions. 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:12.000 You really don't know the context of why that is 0:18:12.040 --> 0:18:15.120 still on his phone. It is the mother of his son. 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:17.560 I don't know when they broke up, but it is 0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:23.199 almost respectful that he appreciates this woman that he had 0:18:23.200 --> 0:18:26.520 a relationship with that brought this beautiful boy into the world. 0:18:27.040 --> 0:18:29.119 So maybe that's how he looks at it. 0:18:31.160 --> 0:18:35.560 I don't know. I had to sell my amount this one. 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:39.480 It just felt like it was like it's too fresh, Like. 0:18:39.680 --> 0:18:42.120 You're so ready to be out there. 0:18:43.640 --> 0:18:46.760 I don't know, You're so wrong. 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:50.480 He can have respect and all of those things, but 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:52.840 he doesn't need to have it on his cell phone 0:18:52.920 --> 0:18:54.600 when he's dating other people. 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:55.760 It's so weird. 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:57.800 And they just met on hands at first date. 0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:02.080 The first date, but he's looking at multiple times. 0:19:01.760 --> 0:19:04.080 Hundreds of times throughout the day. 0:19:04.280 --> 0:19:07.560 But Marlene getting up and just like leaving it probably 0:19:07.640 --> 0:19:08.919 wasn't the best way to handle it. 0:19:11.000 --> 0:19:13.320 Yeah, I mean, I totally understand. I just have to 0:19:13.320 --> 0:19:15.399 follow my instinct. And I felt like it was just 0:19:15.760 --> 0:19:18.320 he was just he's just not ready to date, and 0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:20.639 I shouldn't have been there, it's a waste of my time. 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:32.400 And I disagree. Well, I mean, look, if okay, Marlene 0:19:32.520 --> 0:19:36.160 is out, Rodney, I don't think that this is Look 0:19:36.880 --> 0:19:41.760 take this experience. Yeah all right, no thanks, this is 0:19:41.800 --> 0:19:43.600 not going to work out. But I don't think Rodney, 0:19:43.640 --> 0:19:45.800 you're in the wrong. Marlene. I wish he was like 0:19:46.160 --> 0:19:54.080