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I'm looking at this. 12 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 2: You said that your friend Hillary Hot Hillary Yeah, is 13 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 2: using chat GPT to communicate with men. 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 3: Yes, she's literally letting AI answer men from the dating 15 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 3: apps for her, like what. 16 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: Are we doing? 17 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 4: I love this. 18 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 1: I would love to try this. 19 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: I just don't know, so like, okay, because I have 20 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: my Chat GPT pulled up and I was trying to 21 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 2: simulate what this would look like. 22 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: So so a guy will be like, hello, Hey, how 23 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: you doing, and. 24 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: Then she has to type that in chat GPT to 25 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 2: see how to respond like I'm doing okay. 26 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 3: Honestly probably, but no, what if you said to Chad 27 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,199 Speaker 3: because she's actually in Arizona right now, in your hood, Fred, 28 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 3: So she is still sleeping, so I can't ask her. 29 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,960 Speaker 3: But why don't you say to Chad, Hey, a girl 30 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 3: said this to me, What should I say back? I mean, 31 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 3: I think she's got the high covered. But moving on 32 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 3: from there. 33 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,199 Speaker 1: I think, I hope, so I hope. 34 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 2: So let me let me see the last time that 35 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 2: I talked to someone on a dating app, and if 36 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 2: there's any kind of prompt that I could type in 37 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 2: here that would okay, Well, someone said good morning, someone said, hey, 38 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: there a couple high theirs. I mean, there's like nothing, 39 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 2: there's nothing here to work with. I don't know what 40 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 2: I'm typing in. How do I talk to a woman 41 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: on the dating apps? Okay, how do we do that? 42 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: All right? Chad's thinking about him? Good question. 43 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 2: This is the part of the CHATSBT that annoys me 44 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 2: is all of like the pleasantries, that's excellent, and then 45 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 2: a bunch of stuff. 46 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: Just tell me how to do it? Good question. 47 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 2: This is one of the most common and most fixable 48 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 2: challenges in dating apps. Here's a breakdown of how to 49 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: talk to women on dating apps in a way that 50 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 2: actually sparks interesting connection. 51 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: This is great. 52 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: Start with her not you don't open with hey or 53 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 2: what's up? Everybody does that show genuine interest. Look at 54 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 2: something specific from her profile, a hobby, something like that 55 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:36,679 Speaker 2: you hike? Really that's elite? What's your favorite trail? Ooh okay, 56 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 2: all right? I keep it light and playful as opposed 57 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 2: to what like you talking about Israel and Guyza in 58 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: the first message, you know. 59 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: Like, hey, what do you think about trump Man? 60 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 2: Like? Probably not avoid deep or heavy topics and they 61 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 2: give examples to them. You seem like you'd either dominate 62 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 2: at trivia night or get distracted by the snacks. 63 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: Which is it? 64 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 3: Like I did a train Chad like Paulina said, you 65 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 3: need to train him. 66 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 5: You need to make a little boy on the side 67 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 5: because you get to make all these diferent persona side by. Yeah, 68 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 5: so you have to create the bot that's going to be. 69 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 4: Doing certain tasks. So that's all hollering at girls. 70 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,119 Speaker 5: You need to make like you know, like like Fred's 71 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 5: I don't know women or something, and like put it 72 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 5: on the side and then feed that one only so 73 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 5: it gets stronger. 74 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 4: Does that make sense? 75 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: What does that even mean? 76 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: You? 77 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: Like, what are you saying? I don't I don't know 78 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: what you're saying a bunch of words. I don't understand. 79 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 5: AI, and I'm teaching you all about it. So basically 80 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 5: what you do is you're going to create a persona, 81 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 5: and in this persona, you're going to feed it more 82 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 5: and more every day so that it grows so scared. 83 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 4: So what do you feed it? Like you wake up 84 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 4: and be like, feed it is crazy? 85 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 3: Right? 86 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 4: How do you feed it? 87 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 5: Your examples apply to this woman for me, or apply 88 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 5: to this person for me, like feed it and sound 89 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 5: like me. 90 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 4: I'm Fred, so it has to get to know you. 91 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 3: How are you talking like sound a player persona for 92 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 3: Fred for sure? 93 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 5: And make sure to let them Like Ted, i'd be like, hey, 94 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 5: I'm kind of cool with it, Like don't be corny, 95 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 5: like you have to tell it though I know you 96 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 5: have to tell it. 97 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 2: Don't be corny, don't be that's what you tell it 98 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 2: for all your dating app masquerading, but you do. 99 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 5: No, just like my emails, because like Jack can be 100 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 5: very corny, Like I would never say that. 101 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. 102 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: Well, I'm noticing that he's being corny here or she 103 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 2: here being corny right now? Match her energy? Avoid job 104 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: interview vibes. I get that, build a flirty rhythm, move 105 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 2: off the app naturally. After some back and forth with 106 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 2: good Vibes, suggests moving to text or a quick coffee drink. 107 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 2: You're fun to talk to. You want to grab a 108 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: drink and see if I real life banter holds up, dude, 109 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: I'm dry, like I'm so drum bone dry right now, 110 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 2: Like this is unbelievable. 111 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 4: Feed it, make sure it talks. 112 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 2: Like, okay, hold on now, it says, if you want, 113 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 2: I can write a few example openers for different types 114 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 2: of women. 115 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: Oh indeed, I would like that. I would like that. 116 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 2: I would very much like that. I mean, it's ridiculous perfect. 117 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 2: This is where things get fun. Here are some custom 118 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 2: opener examples that you could actually use this. I'm supposed 119 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 2: to be you, I'm supposed to be I don't know. 120 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 2: This might be better than my own game. I don't know, 121 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 2: so uh for the funnier, playful woman, if you if 122 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: I hold them, I feel like you'd roast me in 123 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 2: a group chat and I'd secretly enjoy it. 124 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: Accurate. 125 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 3: That's kind of cute, except for like the secretly enjoy right, 126 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 3: Like something about roasting you in the group chat some 127 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 3: a massacres. 128 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 2: I like to be dominated. That's what that really means, 129 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 2: which isn't true? You like you look like the kind 130 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 2: of person who laughs at your own jokes, which I respect. 131 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's it. I mean that might make. 132 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 2: First of all, how do I know if you're the funny, 133 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 2: playful one if I've never met you or spoken to you. 134 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 2: Second of all, if someone said to me in an 135 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 2: opening line, you look like someone who laughs at your 136 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 2: own jokes, first all, I'd say, yes, you're right, But 137 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 2: then I would I don't know that I would necessarily 138 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 2: think you were you were being nice to me, you know, 139 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 2: because I mean, I might think that's not necessarily a 140 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: good thing, if you laugh at your own jokes. But 141 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 2: the adventurous or outdoorsy type. Serious question, if we went 142 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 2: was it with hiking in this thing? 143 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 1: Serious question? 144 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 2: If we went hiking, would you judge me for bringing 145 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: snacks labeled emergency chips? 146 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 4: I don't ever see that? 147 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 1: Literally? 148 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 2: Never what the bookish, thoughtful, creative one. 149 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: This is for the different types of women. 150 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 2: Your profile gives off main character in a Sophia Coppola 151 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: movie Energy Coppola, Sophia Coppola movie Energy. Okay, you listed 152 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 2: three artists. I like, are you trying to emotionally damage 153 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 2: me or test my taste? Tell these are bad? You 154 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 2: need to tell your friend Hillary. Hillary's better off coming 155 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 2: up with this stuff on our own. 156 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 4: She's really not well. 157 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. 158 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 4: I feel Hillary on that. 159 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's shy, Like she's just a little shy, and 160 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 3: that's me. 161 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 6: I have no game, Like if I was trying to 162 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 6: hollow or make a new friend, I really have no game. 163 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 4: So I need chat GPT to tell me what to say. 164 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: But none of this would work on you. 165 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. I would try it, like probably. 166 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: It, man. But if I'm hitting on you, Kiki and 167 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 2: I said any of this stuff, you'd be like you're 168 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 2: you're cheesy man, Like you're totally goofy for this. 169 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 4: I would pace your response into my chat GPT. Just 170 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 4: let our machines talk to each other. 171 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, people do that with emails all day. 172 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 6: Oh, Chad, going back and forth. You yep, you'll chat 173 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 6: the ambitious or career driven type. You strike me as 174 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 6: someone who sets alarms even on weekends. True or false? 175 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 4: Jason? Yeah, so that would work on yeah. 176 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,239 Speaker 2: Right? Oh yeah, the animal lover or soft hearted type. 177 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 2: If your dog likes me, does that mean I automatically 178 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 2: get a second date? That's not bad, that's not bad. 179 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 2: But wait a minute, why do I mean your dog 180 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 2: on a first date? That's presumptuous. 181 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would be like the fact that you think 182 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 3: you would even come around. 183 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 2: Her, right, that's what I mean. Like, so you think 184 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 2: you're coming to the house on the first day? Yes, yes, sploute, I. 185 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 4: Was gonna let you figure that one out. 186 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was working on them. Would you like me 187 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: to write this is chat, Chipetina? Would you like me 188 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: to write follow up messages too? Like what to say? 189 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 2: After she replies yeah, yes, I would, Actually yes I would. 190 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: But be cool? 191 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, but but be cool, man, I'm gonna put that. 192 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 2: But be cool. Okay, here we go. You look like okay, 193 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 2: so here we go. 194 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: You. 195 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 2: Oh, we had a little role play here. You look 196 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 2: like the kind of person who laughs at your own jokes. 197 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 2: Obviously someone has to laugh at them. Okay, now that's 198 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 2: not good at comeback, that's not good. That's not a 199 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 2: good comeback. If we went hiking, would you judge me 200 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 2: for bringing snacks labeled emergency chips? 201 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: Only if you don't share the chips. 202 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 4: You keep trying to take me hiking. I'm thinking that 203 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 4: you're trying to kill me. 204 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 2: I've seen a lot of daylines where they pushed the 205 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 2: person off the cliff. I don't know they slipped they 206 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 2: and then you know, Now I'm at home with your 207 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 2: dog who doesn't like me. 208 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 1: It's weird. Like it's weird. I don't, I'm not, I'm not. No. 209 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 2: I think your friend needs to come up with it, 210 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 2: maybe like a higher a dating coach or something, because 211 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 212 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:13,719 Speaker 3: Well, I'm all she can afford. So I try to 213 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 3: write her messages for her too with Chad. But yeah, 214 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 3: she said, she literally puts the message in and just 215 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 3: sen to whatever Chad. So she must have a sidebot, 216 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 3: like Paulina said, I didn't know we had means and sides. 217 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,599 Speaker 4: I had no idea exactly how to create. Well, you 218 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 4: want you want people you know to talk to you 219 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 4: for the chat? Yeah, okay. 220 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 2: See this is the fifteen dollar version of chat GPT. 221 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 2: By the way, I mean I paid fifteen bucks a 222 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 2: month for this. I wonder if the two hundred dollars 223 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 2: version like actually goes over there and like negotiates. 224 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 4: For you or something like it better for two hundred. 225 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 2: For two hundred bucks a month, I need to ask 226 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 2: my rich friend because he's the guy, the only guy 227 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 2: I know. 228 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 1: I didn't even know there was a. 229 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 2: Two hundred dollars a month chat GPT, but there is, 230 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: and if you go into subscriptions, it's there. I'm not 231 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 2: doing it, but I also would love to know, like, 232 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 2: what exactly is that thing doing for two hundred dollars 233 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 2: a month that this I don't mean, what is that 234 00:09:58,160 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 2: Google can't do? 235 00:09:59,400 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 3: Like? 236 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: I need to understand