Speaker 1: Second. You know, sometimes in order to find the right person,
Speaker 1: you have to kiss a few frogs first. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: explains why I'm banned from the amphibian exhibit at the aquarium.
Speaker 1: But literally you have heard the phrase though, sometimes you
Speaker 1: gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your prince
Speaker 1: or your mister wright. Well, one of our listeners says
Speaker 1: that happened to her recently. Now she needs our help.
Speaker 1: So let's welcome to the show, Carolyn. What's up? You've
Speaker 1: been second faiths with some reptiles, Carolyn, Amphibians that's what
Speaker 1: they are. Huh. Yeah, the reptile is a different sorry,
Speaker 1: brushs kissing reptiles? Yeah, any small, slimy animal. Come on over. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what happened? Why? Why did you say that you were
Speaker 1: kissing frogs? So? I had a friend fixed me up
Speaker 1: and she said she had a great guy for me.
Speaker 1: She thought we'd been along great. Did that work out
Speaker 1: for you? Um? No, no, yeah, I don't think it ever? Does?
Speaker 1: I show up at the date first of all, looks
Speaker 1: from not everything, but wow, I walked over and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is who my friends six nipped with. Maybe he's
Speaker 1: got this amazing person's really funny, amazing personality. Okay, so
Speaker 1: you weren't initially attracted to him on first I was not,
Speaker 1: but I'm trying to keep an open mind because my
Speaker 1: friends sike me up for a reason. And then we
Speaker 1: start to date and I could not He did not
Speaker 1: say a word. Silent Yeah, like I would ask questions,
Speaker 1: it would be like one word answers. He was quiet
Speaker 1: and he listened to you. God, what a joke. He
Speaker 1: was not listening opposite talk at all. He didn't talk
Speaker 1: at all. It didn't ask me anything about myself. I'm
Speaker 1: like asking about him. He's giving me these one word answers.
Speaker 1: So uncomfortable. I've never eaten so fast in my life.
Speaker 1: Were you like texting your friend under the table like,
Speaker 1: what the hell's rude? Because I was too busy shoving
Speaker 1: food in my face because I wanted to get out
Speaker 1: of their true If I ever see a girl finish
Speaker 1: your food fast, now, I'm gonna be very selfish. She
Speaker 1: immediately asked for it to go. Okay, wait, why are
Speaker 1: you on for a second date update with a guy
Speaker 1: you didn't like? So here's the thing. So I had
Speaker 1: that horrible date with my friends that my friends kicked
Speaker 1: me up with it, and so I thought, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna let my friends or anyone else kicking me up.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try this on my own because nothing can
Speaker 1: be worse than that date. Okay, you've taken dating into
Speaker 1: your own hands now. Yeah. So then I went to
Speaker 1: online dating because at least then I can go by
Speaker 1: I find this person attractive at least in their Yeah.
Speaker 1: So there was this guy that we'd been texting and
Speaker 1: he seems really cool. Game was Scott, and we were Scott. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're being like a fun s banter with the tech. Okay, yeah, hot, Scott.
Speaker 1: I like it, Josey, would you guys end up doing
Speaker 1: on a date? So we grabbed a by tea and
Speaker 1: it was, honestly like the universe was like, we know
Speaker 1: you had that crappy date, and now we are giving
Speaker 1: you Scot like it magical. Like the conversation was blowing.
Speaker 1: He was asking any questions. I was asking him questions
Speaker 1: like I kept ordering for food because I didn't want
Speaker 1: the day to end. Yeah, opposite, because that turned him off.
Speaker 1: Or maybe it was because your last day before set
Speaker 1: the bar so low for you. Oh yeah, that just
Speaker 1: an average to below average guy was good. Now, that's
Speaker 1: all dating in general. Yeah, asked one question and you're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, what a charmer. That's sweet, though, I mean,
Speaker 1: how did the date end for you guys? You know,
Speaker 1: he walked me to my car, We had a sweet kiss. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I was really hopeful. And now it's been over
Speaker 1: a week and I haven't heard anything that seems weird
Speaker 1: if it went as well as you said. I mean,
Speaker 1: looking back on the night, was there anything that was
Speaker 1: awkward or any any moment that could have stood out
Speaker 1: as something that could have been a red flag? Um?
Speaker 1: Okay maybe, but to me, it's like a little red flag. Okay,
Speaker 1: what I had ordered the chicken letuce wraps as an appetiser.
Speaker 1: We remember they're talking for so long, and then I
Speaker 1: ordered them again later forgetting that I had ordered them before.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know, so he might. I don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the only thing I can think of.
Speaker 1: It feel like you said anything, and I tried to
Speaker 1: play it off like he didn't make fun of you
Speaker 1: in that moment. I would have probably made fun of you, like, man,
Speaker 1: you love these lettuce raps. He was kind of like,
Speaker 1: you know, you just had those and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my, oh my gosh, I totally did, but having
Speaker 1: so much fun when you you forgot that, Like, how
Speaker 1: many things did you order in between them? Well? Not
Speaker 1: a lot, but I think the better question is how
Speaker 1: many drinks did you have between them? We'll just say
Speaker 1: a lot of time in the past. So to me,
Speaker 1: it wasn't weird because it it's weird, but it's not
Speaker 1: a reason not to call somebody back, right right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe the lettuce wraps would like be
Speaker 1: a no go for you, You're like too healthy for me.
Speaker 1: It could be like a diet yea a dessert or something.
Speaker 1: You know. Honestly, it was probably adrenaline of like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, this guy's not a total dell lead. Maybe
Speaker 1: I was a little over anxious, yeah, or maybe you're
Speaker 1: over eager and that could be a turn ye but
Speaker 1: you might not think that. So Well, he's not calling
Speaker 1: her back, so he's thinking something. Yeah, let's find out
Speaker 1: what he is thinking. I wish that we had the
Speaker 1: power to just tap into his mind, but we have
Speaker 1: to call him first. SOD be a cool segment. I
Speaker 1: know we're working on that technology till then they'll just
Speaker 1: do it the old fashioned way with a second date update.
Speaker 1: Get it done right after this, Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: hold on second d We're in the middle of your
Speaker 1: second date update with Carolyn, who, after being set up
Speaker 1: on a horrible date by her good friend, was relieved
Speaker 1: to match online with a great guy named Scott. Hot.
Speaker 1: Scott was good looking, he knew how to actually talk
Speaker 1: and ask questions, phenomenal kisser. And now we're in the
Speaker 1: middle of your second date update with Carolyn, who, after
Speaker 1: being set up on a terrible date by her good friend,
Speaker 1: was relieved to match online again. Oh did I say
Speaker 1: the exact same thing twice in the same segment, the
Speaker 1: same appetizer twice without realizing it? And thought maybe her
Speaker 1: memory could have come into question, or maybe Scott would
Speaker 1: have thought that was weird, or maybe her passion for
Speaker 1: lettuce Raps is just that strong. That's what he should
Speaker 1: have said to him, Carolyn, Right, Yeah, that's so funny.
Speaker 1: I can't believe he hasn't called you back at all. No,
Speaker 1: I would just do you feel like maybe it was
Speaker 1: too good to be true? No, I'm being optimistic. Okay,
Speaker 1: I like that you're holding on to hold I can't
Speaker 1: tell you how many people have come on the show
Speaker 1: and been like the date was too good. Yeah, there's
Speaker 1: got to be a reason for this. Let's find out.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call them right now. Okay, okay, great, Hello,
Speaker 1: Hey is it Scott? It is who? Let's call it
Speaker 1: good questions, Scott. I heard that you were good at
Speaker 1: listening and asking questions. We're proud of you, man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you tell them who we are. Yeah, all right, we're
Speaker 1: brooken Jeffrey in the morning. Not as good as listening.
Speaker 1: We're a radio show. Okay, all right, I'm sorry. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm a little confused. We want to make you the
Speaker 1: star of this segment called second Date Update. Congratulations, Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. Yeah no, And honestly, I don't really have time. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: well we'll make we'll make it really fast. We'll make
Speaker 1: it really fast. Okay. So you went you went out
Speaker 1: recently with one of our listeners named Carolyn. She told
Speaker 1: us she had a great time at dinner with you.
Speaker 1: And then okay, yeah, yeah, okay, cutting me off there
Speaker 1: that that's a little bit rude. But you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt because
Speaker 1: of the time thing, just sorry. This is just kind
Speaker 1: of super weird st I mean, she just really liked
Speaker 1: you and you weren't calling her back, so she just
Speaker 1: wanted to know if she did something wrong. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and she did tell us a little bit about your guys'
Speaker 1: night together, going to dinner and ordering a bunch of
Speaker 1: food and having a lot in common. Yeah, pretty vague,
Speaker 1: I know, but that's kind of what we knew. We
Speaker 1: had a good time. You know, we do have a
Speaker 1: lot of common. Okay. That was her review of the
Speaker 1: night too, was a kiss at the end of the night. Lovely. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we made out a little bit. It felt really nice
Speaker 1: and things are going great. Well, it sounds good. I
Speaker 1: mean usually when we do these, though, there is something
Speaker 1: that was a little bit off, something wrong. Yep, there
Speaker 1: was to answer on all of this. Mean, like during
Speaker 1: the date there was something off. No, it's just kind
Speaker 1: of embarrassing. It turned out that we had a little
Speaker 1: more in common than I would have liked to know.
Speaker 1: Um I, so we had a great time. We did
Speaker 1: have a great time. Okay, she's she's a wonderful girl.
Speaker 1: She was kind of naturally hilarious. She ordered the same
Speaker 1: rap twice without realizing it. Yea, she told us that, yeah,
Speaker 1: you let me have a bite. It was delicious, So
Speaker 1: I mean I totally get it, okay, but well, what's
Speaker 1: the part that weirded you out? So I got home
Speaker 1: and I was talking to my roommate about the date
Speaker 1: and how it went great, and he's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: show me this girl. So I bring a profile and
Speaker 1: I showed him, and I mean it's like his eyes
Speaker 1: just went wide, his saucers and I was like, wow her,
Speaker 1: And I was like, dude, he knew her. No, you know,
Speaker 1: he didn't know her. It was kind of word I
Speaker 1: wish he had known her. But he was like, dude,
Speaker 1: do you not see it? Like she's your doppel banger
Speaker 1: and dope banger? Is that a doppelganger that you bang? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was like, what what is a doubel banger? And
Speaker 1: he's like, bro, she looks exactly like you, like you'd
Speaker 1: be banging yourself if I know couples like that look like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're telling me you're not attracted to yourself. That's kind
Speaker 1: of what weird to be out at first was that
Speaker 1: I put me in this self reflective mode, which was
Speaker 1: a little scary, but he was like, no, seriously, like
Speaker 1: put your your picture right next to hers, and I
Speaker 1: put him side by side in like a big stitchap
Speaker 1: and it was like a Twilight Zone episode and I
Speaker 1: was so freaked out. But she's so nice. I didn't
Speaker 1: know how to be, like, hey, so you're my long
Speaker 1: lost twin, so I can't date you. But I've heard
Speaker 1: that it's just like evolution, Like people want to be
Speaker 1: attracted to people who look like them simply because I
Speaker 1: want their babies to look like them, you know, like
Speaker 1: it's yeah, that's family's attracted. My husband does not look
Speaker 1: like me, but bro, if you think about it. She's
Speaker 1: also very big headed because she told us she thought
Speaker 1: you were hot. Oh she's beautiful. Oh so you would
Speaker 1: make a lovely woman then, Scott. I mean, I've been
Speaker 1: told that I have nice lashes. I think you can
Speaker 1: still make this work if you can get over the top.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's one of those things. At first
Speaker 1: I would be like, no, you're wrong, it's fine, we're
Speaker 1: gonna keep dating. But after seeing us side by side,
Speaker 1: I cannot unsee it. It's like a psychological trip. Man.
Speaker 1: I'd sure you guys look alike. That's one obstacle. I'm
Speaker 1: curious if you guys sound alike and we can compare
Speaker 1: voices right now because she's on the other line wanting
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Hid me, you're talking, Scott some
Speaker 1: type of jokes like it's this is a joke. I
Speaker 1: don't I don't get it. It's not. I'm sorry. Look
Speaker 1: if you don't believe me, like, are you seriously take
Speaker 1: our pictures and right next to each other by I'm sorry, Huh.
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I have friends that have that look
Speaker 1: alike and you've put in a picture and they look like, well,
Speaker 1: when you're actually in life, they don't look alike because
Speaker 1: there are personalities, they're animation. The way they talk, it's
Speaker 1: so different. And so I don't understand. I know, I
Speaker 1: know that once, like, maybe give it another chance to
Speaker 1: see and then maybe if we can't get past it.
Speaker 1: But I think when we're with each other in person,
Speaker 1: you'll see that the way that we act it's different.
Speaker 1: I mean, well, you have good chemistry. What are you
Speaker 1: really worried about, Scott? Like, what's the worst thing that
Speaker 1: could possibly happen if you go out with Carolyn? People
Speaker 1: are gonna think that I'm making out my sister, like,
Speaker 1: we'll be in the park now. That might be a
Speaker 1: treat for some people, though I don't think of only
Speaker 1: the people that aren't gonna like. I think of people
Speaker 1: that will like It depends on what area of the
Speaker 1: country you're in. Scott All you have to do, listen,
Speaker 1: all you have to do is change your hair color. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean honestly, like people always think my husband looks
Speaker 1: like Jeffrey, and they don't look anything alike when they're
Speaker 1: in person. Sometimes their pictures look similar, but if one
Speaker 1: of them were to dye their hair blood, nobody would
Speaker 1: know it's any different. I think this is the first
Speaker 1: time we've ever asked a listener to change their hair
Speaker 1: color on a date, just so that they could get
Speaker 1: another chance. Why stop there, Let's do cosmetic surgery too.
Speaker 1: How about a chin lift. We've paid a lot more people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true, we have a plastic surgery. Sorry, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe then. I just think it's shames the way
Speaker 1: that's good chemistry, because you just don't meet people you
Speaker 1: connect with like that, and if you're willing to just
Speaker 1: let that go because of a perceived doppuld bangers and
Speaker 1: maybe you're not the person I thought you were. Hold on,
Speaker 1: that's a challenge. I hear a challenge right there. I
Speaker 1: am happy to continue our relationship, but like on a
Speaker 1: family level. Oh you've never heard that before on the show.
Speaker 1: What does that mean? It's like, I would love to
Speaker 1: continue our relationship. I like its friends, so that I
Speaker 1: could just bring you home to meet my parents because
Speaker 1: it will blow their minds. Wow, he wants you to
Speaker 1: meet the parents on day two. That's gonna be a
Speaker 1: hard pass. So I'm just gonna say, I guess adopt
Speaker 1: a bullet and you're not the person I thought you were. Like, Scott,
Speaker 1: did you make a life decision and not tell it?
Speaker 1: Sounds like a sibling rivalry is happy. You are making
Speaker 1: it worse. Clearly, I'm not gonna come out on top
Speaker 1: on this, So I'm just gonna just scow out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Carolyn, that sucks. Yeah, thank you. Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: next time, don't call the radio stations and figure things out.
Speaker 1: Oh but don't let your roommates dictates who you were
Speaker 1: out with based on a picture. Oh, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1: Is it too late to ask if you guys want
Speaker 1: to go out on a second day? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: Is that too late? Yeah, rookie Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know, people always tell me this show is an
Speaker 1: educational People say, you don't learn anything. We learn. Well,
Speaker 1: we just learned a new word today, doppel bank. I
Speaker 1: could already apply it to a couple of couples that
Speaker 1: I know. It's a thing that actually happens where people
Speaker 1: hook up with someone because they look like the other
Speaker 1: gendered version of yourself, the same gendered version of yourself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wonder where female Jose looks like and how much
Speaker 1: they talk. I don't. I don't need two of you.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's kind of funny that he didn't
Speaker 1: realize it until his buddy hold him. He didn't He
Speaker 1: would never have noticed until somebody else pointed it out.
Speaker 1: Once you do, you can't get it out of your head. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And if you think about it, it actually is kind
Speaker 1: of good that his friend told him, because it's better
Speaker 1: to find out that now than later on down the road.
Speaker 1: Like as she's walking down the aisle and you're up
Speaker 1: on the all time, you're thinking, wait a second, if
Speaker 1: I walking towards myself in a dress and I look good,
Speaker 1: I could still be a magical moment. Yeah, he missed out. Well,
Speaker 1: bottom line, it didn't work out, but it doesn't mean
Speaker 1: it can't work out for you. You can always email
Speaker 1: the show. We'll call that person who hasn't calling you back.
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