WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dopple-B

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<v Speaker 1>Second. You know, sometimes in order to find the right person,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to kiss a few frogs first. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>explains why I'm banned from the amphibian exhibit at the aquarium.

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<v Speaker 1>But literally you have heard the phrase though, sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your prince

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<v Speaker 1>or your mister wright. Well, one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 1>that happened to her recently. Now she needs our help.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's welcome to the show, Carolyn. What's up? You've

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<v Speaker 1>been second faiths with some reptiles, Carolyn, Amphibians that's what

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<v Speaker 1>they are. Huh. Yeah, the reptile is a different sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>brushs kissing reptiles? Yeah, any small, slimy animal. Come on over. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Why? Why did you say that you were

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<v Speaker 1>kissing frogs? So? I had a friend fixed me up

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<v Speaker 1>and she said she had a great guy for me.

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<v Speaker 1>She thought we'd been along great. Did that work out

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Um? No, no, yeah, I don't think it ever? Does?

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<v Speaker 1>I show up at the date first of all, looks

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<v Speaker 1>from not everything, but wow, I walked over and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is who my friends six nipped with. Maybe he's

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<v Speaker 1>got this amazing person's really funny, amazing personality. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't initially attracted to him on first I was not,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm trying to keep an open mind because my

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<v Speaker 1>friends sike me up for a reason. And then we

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<v Speaker 1>start to date and I could not He did not

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<v Speaker 1>say a word. Silent Yeah, like I would ask questions,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be like one word answers. He was quiet

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<v Speaker 1>and he listened to you. God, what a joke. He

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<v Speaker 1>was not listening opposite talk at all. He didn't talk

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<v Speaker 1>at all. It didn't ask me anything about myself. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like asking about him. He's giving me these one word answers.

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<v Speaker 1>So uncomfortable. I've never eaten so fast in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you like texting your friend under the table like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell's rude? Because I was too busy shoving

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<v Speaker 1>food in my face because I wanted to get out

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<v Speaker 1>of their true If I ever see a girl finish

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<v Speaker 1>your food fast, now, I'm gonna be very selfish. She

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<v Speaker 1>immediately asked for it to go. Okay, wait, why are

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<v Speaker 1>you on for a second date update with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't like? So here's the thing. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>that horrible date with my friends that my friends kicked

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<v Speaker 1>me up with it, and so I thought, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna let my friends or anyone else kicking me up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna try this on my own because nothing can

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<v Speaker 1>be worse than that date. Okay, you've taken dating into

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<v Speaker 1>your own hands now. Yeah. So then I went to

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<v Speaker 1>online dating because at least then I can go by

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<v Speaker 1>I find this person attractive at least in their Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So there was this guy that we'd been texting and

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<v Speaker 1>he seems really cool. Game was Scott, and we were Scott. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're being like a fun s banter with the tech. Okay, yeah, hot, Scott.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it, Josey, would you guys end up doing

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<v Speaker 1>on a date? So we grabbed a by tea and

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<v Speaker 1>it was, honestly like the universe was like, we know

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<v Speaker 1>you had that crappy date, and now we are giving

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<v Speaker 1>you Scot like it magical. Like the conversation was blowing.

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<v Speaker 1>He was asking any questions. I was asking him questions

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<v Speaker 1>like I kept ordering for food because I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>the day to end. Yeah, opposite, because that turned him off.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe it was because your last day before set

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<v Speaker 1>the bar so low for you. Oh yeah, that just

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<v Speaker 1>an average to below average guy was good. Now, that's

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<v Speaker 1>all dating in general. Yeah, asked one question and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, what a charmer. That's sweet, though, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how did the date end for you guys? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he walked me to my car, We had a sweet kiss. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was really hopeful. And now it's been over

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<v Speaker 1>a week and I haven't heard anything that seems weird

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<v Speaker 1>if it went as well as you said. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>looking back on the night, was there anything that was

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<v Speaker 1>awkward or any any moment that could have stood out

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<v Speaker 1>as something that could have been a red flag? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay maybe, but to me, it's like a little red flag. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what I had ordered the chicken letuce wraps as an appetiser.

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<v Speaker 1>We remember they're talking for so long, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>ordered them again later forgetting that I had ordered them before.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I know, so he might. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's the only thing I can think of.

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<v Speaker 1>It feel like you said anything, and I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>play it off like he didn't make fun of you

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<v Speaker 1>in that moment. I would have probably made fun of you, like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you love these lettuce raps. He was kind of like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you just had those and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my, oh my gosh, I totally did, but having

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<v Speaker 1>so much fun when you you forgot that, Like, how

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<v Speaker 1>many things did you order in between them? Well? Not

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, but I think the better question is how

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<v Speaker 1>many drinks did you have between them? We'll just say

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time in the past. So to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't weird because it it's weird, but it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a reason not to call somebody back, right right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe the lettuce wraps would like be

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<v Speaker 1>a no go for you, You're like too healthy for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be like a diet yea a dessert or something.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Honestly, it was probably adrenaline of like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, this guy's not a total dell lead. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I was a little over anxious, yeah, or maybe you're

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<v Speaker 1>over eager and that could be a turn ye but

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<v Speaker 1>you might not think that. So Well, he's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back, so he's thinking something. Yeah, let's find out

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<v Speaker 1>what he is thinking. I wish that we had the

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<v Speaker 1>power to just tap into his mind, but we have

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<v Speaker 1>to call him first. SOD be a cool segment. I

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<v Speaker 1>know we're working on that technology till then they'll just

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<v Speaker 1>do it the old fashioned way with a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it done right after this, Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on second d We're in the middle of your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update with Carolyn, who, after being set up

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<v Speaker 1>on a horrible date by her good friend, was relieved

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<v Speaker 1>to match online with a great guy named Scott. Hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Scott was good looking, he knew how to actually talk

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<v Speaker 1>and ask questions, phenomenal kisser. And now we're in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of your second date update with Carolyn, who, after

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<v Speaker 1>being set up on a terrible date by her good friend,

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<v Speaker 1>was relieved to match online again. Oh did I say

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<v Speaker 1>the exact same thing twice in the same segment, the

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<v Speaker 1>same appetizer twice without realizing it? And thought maybe her

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<v Speaker 1>memory could have come into question, or maybe Scott would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought that was weird, or maybe her passion for

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<v Speaker 1>lettuce Raps is just that strong. That's what he should

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<v Speaker 1>have said to him, Carolyn, Right, Yeah, that's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe he hasn't called you back at all. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I would just do you feel like maybe it was

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<v Speaker 1>too good to be true? No, I'm being optimistic. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that you're holding on to hold I can't

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<v Speaker 1>tell you how many people have come on the show

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<v Speaker 1>and been like the date was too good. Yeah, there's

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<v Speaker 1>got to be a reason for this. Let's find out.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call them right now. Okay, okay, great, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is it Scott? It is who? Let's call it

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<v Speaker 1>good questions, Scott. I heard that you were good at

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<v Speaker 1>listening and asking questions. We're proud of you, man. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you tell them who we are. Yeah, all right, we're

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<v Speaker 1>brooken Jeffrey in the morning. Not as good as listening.

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<v Speaker 1>We're a radio show. Okay, all right, I'm sorry. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little confused. We want to make you the

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<v Speaker 1>star of this segment called second Date Update. Congratulations, Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. Yeah no, And honestly, I don't really have time. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll make we'll make it really fast. We'll make

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<v Speaker 1>it really fast. Okay. So you went you went out

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<v Speaker 1>recently with one of our listeners named Carolyn. She told

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<v Speaker 1>us she had a great time at dinner with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And then okay, yeah, yeah, okay, cutting me off there

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<v Speaker 1>that that's a little bit rude. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt because

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<v Speaker 1>of the time thing, just sorry. This is just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of super weird st I mean, she just really liked

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<v Speaker 1>you and you weren't calling her back, so she just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know if she did something wrong. Okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she did tell us a little bit about your guys'

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<v Speaker 1>night together, going to dinner and ordering a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>food and having a lot in common. Yeah, pretty vague,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but that's kind of what we knew. We

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<v Speaker 1>had a good time. You know, we do have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of common. Okay. That was her review of the

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<v Speaker 1>night too, was a kiss at the end of the night. Lovely. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we made out a little bit. It felt really nice

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<v Speaker 1>and things are going great. Well, it sounds good. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean usually when we do these, though, there is something

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<v Speaker 1>that was a little bit off, something wrong. Yep, there

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<v Speaker 1>was to answer on all of this. Mean, like during

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<v Speaker 1>the date there was something off. No, it's just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of embarrassing. It turned out that we had a little

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<v Speaker 1>more in common than I would have liked to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Um I, so we had a great time. We did

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<v Speaker 1>have a great time. Okay, she's she's a wonderful girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She was kind of naturally hilarious. She ordered the same

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<v Speaker 1>rap twice without realizing it. Yea, she told us that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you let me have a bite. It was delicious, So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I totally get it, okay, but well, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the part that weirded you out? So I got home

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<v Speaker 1>and I was talking to my roommate about the date

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<v Speaker 1>and how it went great, and he's like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>show me this girl. So I bring a profile and

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<v Speaker 1>I showed him, and I mean it's like his eyes

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<v Speaker 1>just went wide, his saucers and I was like, wow her,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, dude, he knew her. No, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't know her. It was kind of word I

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<v Speaker 1>wish he had known her. But he was like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>do you not see it? Like she's your doppel banger

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<v Speaker 1>and dope banger? Is that a doppelganger that you bang? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what what is a doubel banger? And

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, bro, she looks exactly like you, like you'd

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<v Speaker 1>be banging yourself if I know couples like that look like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling me you're not attracted to yourself. That's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what weird to be out at first was that

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<v Speaker 1>I put me in this self reflective mode, which was

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<v Speaker 1>a little scary, but he was like, no, seriously, like

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<v Speaker 1>put your your picture right next to hers, and I

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<v Speaker 1>put him side by side in like a big stitchap

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like a Twilight Zone episode and I

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<v Speaker 1>was so freaked out. But she's so nice. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to be, like, hey, so you're my long

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<v Speaker 1>lost twin, so I can't date you. But I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>that it's just like evolution, Like people want to be

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to people who look like them simply because I

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<v Speaker 1>want their babies to look like them, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's yeah, that's family's attracted. My husband does not look

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<v Speaker 1>like me, but bro, if you think about it. She's

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<v Speaker 1>also very big headed because she told us she thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were hot. Oh she's beautiful. Oh so you would

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<v Speaker 1>make a lovely woman then, Scott. I mean, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>told that I have nice lashes. I think you can

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<v Speaker 1>still make this work if you can get over the top.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's one of those things. At first

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<v Speaker 1>I would be like, no, you're wrong, it's fine, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep dating. But after seeing us side by side,

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot unsee it. It's like a psychological trip. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd sure you guys look alike. That's one obstacle. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>curious if you guys sound alike and we can compare

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<v Speaker 1>voices right now because she's on the other line wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Hid me, you're talking, Scott some

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<v Speaker 1>type of jokes like it's this is a joke. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I don't get it. It's not. I'm sorry. Look

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't believe me, like, are you seriously take

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<v Speaker 1>our pictures and right next to each other by I'm sorry, Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing. I have friends that have that look

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<v Speaker 1>alike and you've put in a picture and they look like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're actually in life, they don't look alike because

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<v Speaker 1>there are personalities, they're animation. The way they talk, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so different. And so I don't understand. I know, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that once, like, maybe give it another chance to

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<v Speaker 1>see and then maybe if we can't get past it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think when we're with each other in person,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll see that the way that we act it's different.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, you have good chemistry. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>really worried about, Scott? Like, what's the worst thing that

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<v Speaker 1>could possibly happen if you go out with Carolyn? People

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna think that I'm making out my sister, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll be in the park now. That might be a

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<v Speaker 1>treat for some people, though I don't think of only

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<v Speaker 1>the people that aren't gonna like. I think of people

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<v Speaker 1>that will like It depends on what area of the

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<v Speaker 1>country you're in. Scott All you have to do, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>all you have to do is change your hair color. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean honestly, like people always think my husband looks

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<v Speaker 1>like Jeffrey, and they don't look anything alike when they're

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<v Speaker 1>in person. Sometimes their pictures look similar, but if one

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<v Speaker 1>of them were to dye their hair blood, nobody would

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<v Speaker 1>know it's any different. I think this is the first

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<v Speaker 1>time we've ever asked a listener to change their hair

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<v Speaker 1>color on a date, just so that they could get

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<v Speaker 1>another chance. Why stop there, Let's do cosmetic surgery too.

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<v Speaker 1>How about a chin lift. We've paid a lot more people. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true, we have a plastic surgery. Sorry, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe maybe then. I just think it's shames the way

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<v Speaker 1>that's good chemistry, because you just don't meet people you

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<v Speaker 1>connect with like that, and if you're willing to just

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<v Speaker 1>let that go because of a perceived doppuld bangers and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you're not the person I thought you were. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a challenge. I hear a challenge right there. I

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<v Speaker 1>am happy to continue our relationship, but like on a

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<v Speaker 1>family level. Oh you've never heard that before on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? It's like, I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>continue our relationship. I like its friends, so that I

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<v Speaker 1>could just bring you home to meet my parents because

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<v Speaker 1>it will blow their minds. Wow, he wants you to

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<v Speaker 1>meet the parents on day two. That's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>hard pass. So I'm just gonna say, I guess adopt

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<v Speaker 1>a bullet and you're not the person I thought you were. Like, Scott,

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<v Speaker 1>did you make a life decision and not tell it?

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a sibling rivalry is happy. You are making

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<v Speaker 1>it worse. Clearly, I'm not gonna come out on top

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<v Speaker 1>on this, So I'm just gonna just scow out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Carolyn, that sucks. Yeah, thank you. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>next time, don't call the radio stations and figure things out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but don't let your roommates dictates who you were

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<v Speaker 1>out with based on a picture. Oh, thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it too late to ask if you guys want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a second day? We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that too late? Yeah, rookie Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people always tell me this show is an

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<v Speaker 1>educational People say, you don't learn anything. We learn. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we just learned a new word today, doppel bank. I

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<v Speaker 1>could already apply it to a couple of couples that

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<v Speaker 1>I know. It's a thing that actually happens where people

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<v Speaker 1>hook up with someone because they look like the other

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<v Speaker 1>gendered version of yourself, the same gendered version of yourself. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder where female Jose looks like and how much

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<v Speaker 1>they talk. I don't. I don't need two of you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, it's kind of funny that he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize it until his buddy hold him. He didn't He

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<v Speaker 1>would never have noticed until somebody else pointed it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Once you do, you can't get it out of your head. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And if you think about it, it actually is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of good that his friend told him, because it's better

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<v Speaker 1>to find out that now than later on down the road.

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<v Speaker 1>Like as she's walking down the aisle and you're up

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<v Speaker 1>on the all time, you're thinking, wait a second, if

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<v Speaker 1>I walking towards myself in a dress and I look good,

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<v Speaker 1>I could still be a magical moment. Yeah, he missed out. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>bottom line, it didn't work out, but it doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>it can't work out for you. You can always email

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<v Speaker 1>the show. We'll call that person who hasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>You can hear all of our second eight podcasts too,

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<v Speaker 1>up online wherever you get your podcasts. Broke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning