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Speaker 3: How deep into the lap and she's sitting there right here.

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Speaker 1: N it's still between his knee. Is that gonna be okay?

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Speaker 3: It depends on how far it went. If the penis

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Speaker 2: If that dick came out on your watch, I'm out.

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Speaker 4: Hello, beautiful people, Welcome to another episode of The Truth

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Speaker 4: After Dark. I'm your host, Azar faaraday pp in the house,

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Speaker 4: and today we have a very very special guest that

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Speaker 4: we're both very super excited about. From everyday moments to

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Speaker 2: Made you feel good a little. I'd be embarrassed tho

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Speaker 4: I love your comedy, so does Paul, Like we're really

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Speaker 4: in the comedy and you just you always crack me up.

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Speaker 1: And recently I saw that you.

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Speaker 4: Reposted a clip of our show and Paul talking about

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Speaker 4: how her first body over face or not prefer But

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Speaker 4: I asked him if we had to choose one, he.

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Speaker 3: Like for me, body is don't don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 3: You gotta have the face. And then bodies change over time.

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Speaker 2: Change over time. They blow, they deflat they inflate, change face.

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Speaker 3: Saying and there is inevitable yeah, until you start looking

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Speaker 2: The face is key for me though, because you gotta

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Speaker 2: for me, look at it. Connect like beauty is in

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Speaker 3: Your personality can change the whole steady, But you gotta

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Speaker 2: I know you then met a girl like that and

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Speaker 3: How ugly were talking because the original setup she was like,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to lean on the makeup though. Man,

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Speaker 2: I guess, like I was like, whoa. And the the

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Speaker 1: No, that's horrible.

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Speaker 2: I was going. We was was. I was meeting some

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was like, you know what I'm saying. And

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Speaker 4: It was it was just I know she was so

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Speaker 3: And so you know, some women get frustrated with that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he proposed to us. That's what. No, not

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Speaker 3: Because uh, I just that's one that's one tradition. I

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: These dudes be aggressive and they uncomfortable and like nobody's

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Speaker 3: So so I say that from a safety perspective, like,

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Speaker 2: You gotta be careful out here though. Man, don't really

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Speaker 3: Then I'm like, damn, Like so she can't give you

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Speaker 2: Like like like I think you gotta be passive aggressive

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think that's aggressive because we're the only

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Speaker 2: reason she's gonna propose is because we've been together, we're

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Speaker 2: So once you come in with that mindset of I'm

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Speaker 2: further down the line. Yeah, but it's never fifty fifty no, no,

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Speaker 2: But the men. You want the man to be like

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Speaker 2: And when you look at old medieval time movies, the

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Speaker 3: You got to think about what women do on the

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Speaker 3: You know, we might be you know, it might it

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Speaker 2: Even though you're steal the head yeah, she's right there,

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Speaker 3: And then then when you falter, you you know, you

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Speaker 2: You're talking about aliens and dinosaurs.

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Speaker 1: I don't believe it.

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Speaker 2: And then we can open up.

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Speaker 3: Man. When you open up to a woman, man, we

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Speaker 2: That's if you've got a good one. You know what

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Speaker 1: Some do, some not all. You speak to all women,

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Speaker 4: Some women will hold that and actually take it into

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Speaker 4: Like it's an honor for a man to be able

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Speaker 1: Too often, So you can't speak to all women.

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Speaker 3: And men do the face throwing too, though they be

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Speaker 3: We're not innocent, you know in this, And so anytime

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Speaker 3: And I feel like people on both sides can feel that. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's like, you know, there's a lot of

449
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 3: people out here that will throw it in your face.

450
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 3: You'd be like, this is why I ain't telling you

451
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 3: single right now. I'm loving on somebody right now. Okay, Okay,

452
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 3: I love that.

453
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Speaker 4: So you met someone that is out of your solo

454
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Speaker 4: because you were like, I would like to be.

455
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Speaker 2: Alone solo McGee. I was in the cave.

456
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,920
Speaker 1: So yeah, and she was able to take you out

457
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Speaker 1: of that space.

458
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, because I'd be like, I'm good on being sife.

459
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Speaker 3: Even when we first started talking, I was like, I'm

460
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Speaker 3: in the streets all right, mind, because I'm very vulnerable.

461
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Speaker 3: I mean transparent, That's what I mean to say. I'm

462
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Speaker 3: very transparent. And so I tell anybody, I'm like, I'm

463
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Speaker 3: out here. Yeah, not like out here like that, but

464
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Speaker 3: I'm talking, I'm flirting, I'm hanging out. What's the age

465
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Speaker 3: I really be in the house though, huh? What's the

466
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Speaker 3: age gap on this?

467
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 2: For four years? Okay, I'm four years older.

468
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's part of the appeal.

469
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's part of the appeal.

470
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Speaker 3: Like you know, you know, we can relate to certain

471
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Speaker 3: things together, and like, you know, even though I still

472
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 3: tease her, I'll be like, yo, when you was man,

473
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Speaker 3: what you know about this? Right when this came out,

474
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Speaker 3: I was, you know what I'm saying right there? What

475
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Speaker 3: you know about this? I was a grown man with

476
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Speaker 3: a briefcase when you was born. I'm always doing that.

477
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Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, did they hit you out of nowhere?

478
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Speaker 3: It was very surprising it was just like it called

479
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Speaker 3: me by surprise. Just the communication, the flow. It was consistent,

480
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Speaker 3: it was easy going, and she she doesn't have an

481
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Speaker 3: ounce of pressure on me, because sometimes you know, people

482
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Speaker 3: leave with pressure. They'd be like, Yo, what we doing.

483
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Speaker 3: I don't do this, I don't do that. You on this,

484
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 3: that and the third and just like hey, I'm just

485
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to you know what I'm saying. So

486
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:11,239
Speaker 3: the men and I start to feel pressured, I usually flee, like,

487
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,719
Speaker 3: you know, I'm a tourist.

488
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Speaker 4: You're a tourist. Yeah, I can see that. You like

489
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Speaker 4: to be home all the time.

490
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Speaker 2: I'd be in the house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I originally thought you were a tourist.

492
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Speaker 1: I really, I swear to God, I know you don't

493
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Speaker 1: believe me, but I knew. I was like, yeah, yeah,

494
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Speaker 1: I can see that.

495
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Speaker 3: I'm skintish though, Like if I feel like, you know,

496
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Speaker 3: you're trying to boss me around, there was too much pressure.

497
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Speaker 2: I usually fall. I'm out.

498
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 4: Like men feel that under pressure, They're like, I'm cool.

499
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Speaker 4: If it's pressure, I'm out.

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Speaker 3: I remember when I first broke up with my uh

501
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:53,360
Speaker 3: with my ex girlfriend, I dipped my toes into.

502
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Speaker 2: Like you know, flirting again and maybe you know something.

503
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Speaker 3: And then the girl was just putting too much pressure

504
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: up already, and I just like, hey, I don't know,

505
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 3: you should know, you should.

506
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Speaker 2: Know I'm black man.

507
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Speaker 1: And how long was it.

508
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 2: At this time? It was like a few months after

509
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Speaker 2: my breakup.

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Speaker 4: No, but how long were you and her talking before

511
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Speaker 4: she started applying pressure?

512
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Speaker 2: The pressure was pretty quick.

513
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 3: It was right away, even even for the link up,

514
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Speaker 3: even for the first initial meetup.

515
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Speaker 2: It was pressure.

516
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Speaker 1: Oh so she was applying that pressure from the k Yeah.

517
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 2: I was just like, oh, yeah, you know what I'm saying.

518
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:28,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.

519
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 2: They gave me pause though. I was just like, oh, yeah,

520
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Speaker 2: you know.

521
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Speaker 4: So you've been married before, right, Okay, I've been married before.

522
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, I've been married. I never knew that about you.

523
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 2: It's a lot of things in.

524
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Speaker 1: The service, like I don't see that for you know,

525
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Speaker 1: I was.

526
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Speaker 2: Like fourteen years in.

527
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Speaker 1: You got kids?

528
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have four kids okay, yeah, so I have

529
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Speaker 2: a seventeen, fourteen, twelve, and a four year old. Okay, wow,

530
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 2: all right, Yeah, I ain't know that about you. Yeah, yeah,

531
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Speaker 2: I was married.

532
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you and your ex wife were together since college.

533
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, for a long time.

534
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 2: How long?

535
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:05,439
Speaker 1: How many years were you guys together?

536
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 2: So we met ninety eight.

537
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 3: We got together like the beginning of ninety nine, and

538
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 3: we were together. We had we had my first son

539
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 3: and he was born January two thousand and then we

540
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 3: had another son, he was born in two thousand and one.

541
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 2: Then we got married in two thousand.

542
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 3: And three because we had a couple of breakups in

543
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 3: that time, and then we got married. And so we

544
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Speaker 3: were married from two thousand and three to twenty twelve.

545
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Speaker 2: We got divorce. Yeah, so even now we're still cool. Yeah,

546
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: she remarried.

547
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Speaker 3: His name, his name is Tony as well, crazy ball

548
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Speaker 3: headed Tony.

549
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 2: We got the same middle name.

550
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 3: She got it tight man first and middle name is

551
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Speaker 3: the same. Here, you look like Jason kidd Waite. So

552
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 3: we was all like, you're not mixed. Even she was

553
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 3: fool she thought he was mixed.

554
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 1: So, y'all are all cool. You're cool with her.

555
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 4: I love when that can happen, when it's like we're

556
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 4: all cool. Yeah, that's a good feeling.

557
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 1: I'm sure. Do you ever think you will remarry?

558
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: Yeah?

559
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what do you think?

560
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 2: So?

561
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,679
Speaker 4: Paul has a viral clip that says that marriage is

562
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Speaker 4: for old people and poor people.

563
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 2: Wow yeah, wow, wow, you know what I'm saying, Man,

564
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 2: how old? What's the old man star?

565
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: Like seventy seventy sixty?

566
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: Dangn all right, all right, so all right, so let

567
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 2: me break it down. So the reason I even said this,

568
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 2: because I'm seeing the people like that's not in that category,

569
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 2: is just it's divorce all the time, like because as men,

570
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 2: like if you were men, as a man, when you're successful,

571
00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 2: it's it's so hard to just be like married without

572
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 2: the pressures and then you're gone and then traveling and

573
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 2: doing all this to keep a steady marriage, and it's

574
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Speaker 2: just like damn all the successful marriages. It's like, you know,

575
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 2: people who need each other financially, like y'all. Actually, that's

576
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 2: how Like my grandma and grandpa they needed each other

577
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 2: finances to come together. And that's why back in the

578
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 2: day it was people having more kids. Yeah, like I

579
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 2: come from, I have like five uncles and four aunties.

580
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Because they needed each other

581
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: and they you know, they had their roles and they

582
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: understood their gender roles then and now as we move

583
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 2: into the new generation, it's not like that no more.

584
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 2: You know, women are more independent, and you know they're

585
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 2: they're more masculine to where it's just like and now

586
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: the divorce rate is out of it's it don't even

587
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 2: make it especially, all right, So I'll tell you this.

588
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 2: So NBA players eighty to ninety percent divorce rate. Yeah,

589
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 2: that's crazy. That the official official. That's an official statistic.

590
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 3: I would bet you too, Like even actors and actresses

591
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 3: in the same percentage, probably.

592
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 2: A little bit lower after your career is over.

593
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 3: I think because when you're financially independent or stable, whatever,

594
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 3: you have the opportunity to be like, you know what,

595
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 3: this ain't working, I'm gonna give me an apartment downtown.

596
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 3: You could, you could just dip off, you know what

597
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 3: I'm saying. And so a lot of people stay together

598
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 3: because of the financial situation, so it is harder. That's

599
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 3: why you see so many rich people splitting up, because

600
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 3: they'd be like, you know what, it's over, I already

601
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 3: got a spot on the other side, and.

602
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 2: I already put the down payment down.

603
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 3: So when you got people that are financially dependent on it,

604
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 3: dependent on each other, they're gonna hang in there.

605
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 2: They're gonna hang in there. And to me, that it

606
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 2: doesn't make the people that stayed together better because it

607
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,959
Speaker 2: still be even though they've been together. That's why I'm

608
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Speaker 2: gonna give you automatic.

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00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 3: I don't give you an all lematic metal is because

610
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 3: you've been together for thirty forty years.

611
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 2: That could be a trash exactly.

612
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 3: For the last ten years, exactly, they can't move. Yeah,

613
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: because a lot of people look down on single people.

614
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 4: I say this exactly what you know about exactly being

615
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Speaker 4: single is weaponized, especially as a woman.

616
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Speaker 1: It's like, why you're single with you you're bad for,

617
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Speaker 1: like something is wrong.

618
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Speaker 4: When in reality it's like, well maybe i'm single because

619
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Speaker 4: I actually make good choices and I'm not deciding to

620
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Speaker 4: be somewhere I'm happy, you know, because I know marriages

621
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Speaker 4: that are fifty years in.

622
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Speaker 1: And you're miserable.

623
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Speaker 4: But people will put that on a pedestal and they'll

624
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Speaker 4: still talk down to the single person and think they

625
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Speaker 4: made a better decision. So you made a decision to

626
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Speaker 4: waste your years miserable with somebody. When you get older,

627
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Speaker 4: that's really tough because I've seen it firsthand when people

628
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 4: are like almost eighty and they're still married and they're

629
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 4: like not getting along, like that's hard because you don't

630
00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 4: have many options at that point. So, you know, like

631
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 4: I feel like being single can actually be it doesn't

632
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Speaker 4: have to be weaponized, Like I can actually be making

633
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,719
Speaker 4: the right decision, you know. And we talk about like

634
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 4: people saying like Paul was saying, like if you're over

635
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Speaker 4: forty or if you're over thirty five and you don't

636
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Speaker 4: have any kids or you've never been married, like you're

637
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 4: you're desperate or there's something wrong with your automatically, Yeah,

638
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 4: and so you know, I'm thirty four and I don't

639
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 4: have any children, but you know, that's a choice that

640
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 4: I've made, and I don't I don't feel like anyone's

641
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 4: better than me because they do have children, you know,

642
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 4: Like I can come to a relationship without any baggage,

643
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 4: you know, and not have to deal with a baby

644
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 4: daddy or whatever the situation is, because obviously I'm you know,

645
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 4: I wasn't with any of those people, so I wouldn't

646
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 4: have been in a good situation. I mean, not to

647
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 4: say a kid is a blessing, but sure, you know,

648
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. Like, so I feel like

649
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 4: we can't weaponize those people.

650
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, automatically, Like, man, you can't find nobody. You wouldn't

651
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: do it enough.

652
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 3: And I was like, no, I got out of a

653
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 3: bad relationship. Yeah, man, so my barriers were up with

654
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 3: everybody else. I can see the signs clear work for me,

655
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 3: so I ain't even go further with that person. And

656
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 3: a lot of people just overlook that and be like, man,

657
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 3: you can't get nobody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's real.

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Speaker 4: a girl right after this divorce happened, right, And do

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Speaker 4: you feel like men use women as a coping mechanism

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Speaker 4: more than women do? Because I feel like I'm less

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Speaker 4: broke up with someone, because that's just going to make

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Speaker 2: Damn. That's a great question. I think men do use

674
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Speaker 2: that the code because it's like when you get up,

675
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: when you go through a breakup, especially a long time love,

676
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 2: and like men won't show their sadness or being a phone.

677
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Speaker 2: They'll just be like using other women to cope, and

678
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 2: they'll like be just probably gassing them and making them

679
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Speaker 2: feel like you're gonna be the one next and all this.

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Speaker 2: But really this is really like a band aid to

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Speaker 2: try to help heal your wounds.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it's more likely for men to do that?

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Speaker 2: It's more likely for men than women. Yeah, for sure.

684
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 2: You know, women start going toward the boy toy thing.

685
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 2: You know, they're not looking for nothing serious. After a

686
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Speaker 2: long relationship, they start getting they started, especially if it's

687
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Speaker 2: a older woman, she start getting with younger dudes and

688
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 2: you know, start feeling trying to get their confidence back

689
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Speaker 2: and all this ride at a lot of it. But uh,

690
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Speaker 2: and they just they just boy toys. That's what I've seen,

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Speaker 2: you know, from just different relationships. How you start seeing

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Speaker 2: how somebody I know, ex teammates who divorced or my

693
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Speaker 2: friends who divorced, and see the girl out with a

694
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Speaker 2: younger dude, and you're like, oh, Okay, damn okay. And

695
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 2: you know women think women use men to cope too,

696
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Speaker 2: though you know they can.

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Speaker 4: But I think it's more, say, emotional attachment, like they'll

698
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Speaker 4: use a man to vent I think we're more likely

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Speaker 4: to have an emotional affair and emotional attachment than we

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Speaker 4: are physical.

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Speaker 2: You know, before you say that, I just thought about this.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, Hold that. Though when a women break up,

703
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Speaker 2: we talked about this, they already got a dude in

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Speaker 2: their back pocket.

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Speaker 1: I think that that's not always.

706
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Speaker 2: True because a breakup don't happen overnight. The breakup may

707
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: take two years. Y'all just ain't been fucking with each

708
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Speaker 2: other for a minute. You don't just divorce overnight. It

709
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 2: ain't like cheat it divorce, No, dude, you work on it.

710
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 2: You might see therapists, you get back into the groove,

711
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Speaker 2: and then you just figure out this ain't gonna work.

712
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Speaker 2: It might take another year after that. You know what

713
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Speaker 2: I'm saying. It ain't just like, oh.

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Speaker 4: Well, women are more likely to check out way before

715
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Speaker 4: the relationship is over, Like we're already way checked out

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Speaker 4: of the relationship months before.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't mean we have someone else.

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Speaker 4: It just means like I'm checked out, and I'm mentally

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Speaker 4: preparing myself to exit this relationship. I'm talking to my

720
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Speaker 4: friends on how I'm gonna exit, how I'm so dumb,

721
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 4: but I'm hurt and it's hard. But I always say

722
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Speaker 4: that women hurt first, men hurt worse.

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Speaker 1: Women. We be crying right away.

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Speaker 4: Men be on the internet with different broads, kissing and

725
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Speaker 4: making out even though there are hurting, but it's a woman.

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Speaker 1: We look like, oh, you're good.

727
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Speaker 4: And then by the time a man circles the block

728
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Speaker 4: because he realizes, damn, I've really missed out on something

729
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Speaker 4: we already done. They missed that window. There's a three

730
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Speaker 4: week window where men be so like doing whatever they doing,

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Speaker 4: even a month, a month, three weeks, a month, two

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Speaker 4: months that window, man be on their own time doing whatever.

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Speaker 4: Woman is crying, but guess what she's doing, talking to

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Speaker 4: her homegirls, crying, healing, getting better, getting back into her routine.

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Speaker 4: Then by two months she's ready today and by then

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Speaker 4: he's trying to knock back on her door. And then yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: for me, that's been my story. And guess what I

738
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Speaker 4: would never forget. I was so heartbroken and so hurt,

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Speaker 4: and I remember everyone was telling me like I saw

740
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Speaker 4: your ex out he was with this that person, this person,

741
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Speaker 4: he's hitting it.

742
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Speaker 1: And I'm over here to press, crying, sitting.

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Speaker 4: In the house, and I healed, and I remember the

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Speaker 4: night that my new dude told me he loved me.

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Speaker 1: My ex started blowing me every day, wanted me back. Baby. Man,

746
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Speaker 1: I'm like, baby, you'd have missed the window. You might

747
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Speaker 1: have had a chance.

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Speaker 2: It was.

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Speaker 4: I was crying and I was sad and lonely, but

750
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Speaker 4: you done missed that window. You done hit it, got

751
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Speaker 4: all your shit out, like, may be missing that window

752
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Speaker 4: for real. And then as soon as they realized and appreciate,

753
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Speaker 4: we're gone, We're gone.

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Speaker 2: I ain't never circled the block.

755
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Speaker 4: Yeah, well you're different then, but a lot of men

756
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Speaker 4: do that. I'd never been with a man who didn't

757
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Speaker 4: circle the block.

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Speaker 2: Once all broke, it was over. I understood the overness.

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Speaker 2: I just maybe I didn't have the patience to get

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Speaker 2: at at the peak of the love, and you saw

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Speaker 2: the long road ahead, and I was just like, you

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Speaker 2: know what, maybe it was meant to be. Yeah, maybe

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Speaker 2: it was a lesson learned.

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Speaker 1: I think it's always a lesson learned.

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Speaker 4: And I think that no experience is a waste of

767
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Speaker 4: time because it gets you closer to where you want

768
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Speaker 4: to be period. So I think that more women and

769
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Speaker 4: men should take the time out after relationships to hell

770
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Speaker 4: to dig into themselves to figure out what is going

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Speaker 4: on and where you you know, might have went wrong,

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Speaker 4: because it's easy to vilify the other person and make

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Speaker 4: them the bad guy.

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Speaker 2: I just want men to know this before you decided

775
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Speaker 2: to circle back. Just know in America there are way

776
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Speaker 2: more women than men, and that's a fact. So if

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Speaker 2: that one didn't work out, you got the odds are

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Speaker 2: your favor to get something new and be happy.

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Speaker 1: Trifling. They don't have to be happy.

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Speaker 4: I never circled the block, and I'm always get me

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Speaker 4: something new. But you always go get you something if

782
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Speaker 4: it's over. Yeah, if I'm done with some one. I

783
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Speaker 4: told you I've been in like three very serious relationships.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean? Veryous? Old? The other ones wasn't serious?

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, I haven't been in any of the

786
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Speaker 4: relationships like I've been in three long relationships.

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Speaker 1: How the years five years one, five years another and

788
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Speaker 1: three years the other one?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like so?

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Speaker 4: Paul, he has this thing where he says women over

796
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Speaker 4: thirty are cooked.

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, thirty.

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Speaker 1: And I'm I'm thirty four.

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Speaker 3: Yeah man, right.

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Speaker 4: He says, I'm cooked all the time. Right, So what

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Speaker 4: is your what are your what?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 4: So he likes to clean it up sometimes because he

804
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Speaker 4: said that, and then he also said that women are

805
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Speaker 4: desperate because they don't have more options, so they just

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Speaker 4: be desperate.

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Speaker 1: Because Plies one time was like.

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Speaker 4: If you're over, you know, thirty five or forty and

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Speaker 4: you got a job and you like, hit me up,

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Speaker 4: I'm looking for that. And he was like, Plies, I

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Speaker 4: know what you're doing, and you're looking for them desperate

812
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Speaker 4: women because they're desperate they.

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Speaker 1: Don't have no What are your thoughts on that? I

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Speaker 1: wonder hear what you have to say.

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Speaker 2: I'll after clean up. What do you think cook is though?

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Speaker 2: Like done? Finished? Cook?

817
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 3: Cook means you have you no longer have value, You're done.

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Speaker 2: You brown on both sides.

819
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Speaker 3: You got the crispy edges, you sat on the counter

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Speaker 3: for too long a night, You just giving me hits.

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Speaker 3: Somebody didn't wrap it up in the luminum foil and

822
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Speaker 3: put it in the fridge. It sat out overnight, so

823
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Speaker 3: now it's done.

824
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Speaker 2: It's done.

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Speaker 3: You know, the cat licked it. You know, seven flies

826
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Speaker 3: landed on it. That's that's like cook. That's but I

827
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Speaker 3: definitely don't feel like, you know, thirty year old women

828
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Speaker 3: are cooked just because you know they single or whatever.

829
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Speaker 3: I just think, like, you know everything, there is no

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Speaker 3: blanket for everybody, of course, but it's just like, you know,

831
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Speaker 3: you got to know their story. What are they doing,

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Speaker 3: what's their career, what have they been you know what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying, trying to attain like you know, a lot

834
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Speaker 3: of professional women when they professionals, you know, with them

835
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Speaker 3: real jobs, work can take up a lot of times,

836
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Speaker 3: so they might not have the time to be.

837
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Speaker 2: Out here looking for the right man. And then a

838
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Speaker 2: lot of women, you know what I'm saying, a lot

839
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Speaker 2: of women be out on the trash dude.

840
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Speaker 3: So they just be like, well it didn't work out

841
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Speaker 3: with us, Let me focus on me, focus on work.

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Speaker 3: You know, and then time goes by and then he's like,

843
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Speaker 3: all right, let me try dating.

844
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Speaker 2: They do that and.

845
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Speaker 3: They ain't nobody out there, and they go back in

846
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Speaker 3: they shell. Next thing, you know, they're thirty four, still valid,

847
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Speaker 3: still value, you know, got a lot to offer. But

848
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Speaker 3: you know, maybe they just didn't find that person. Because

849
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Speaker 3: I look at relationships. What's under the hood, every every relation,

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Speaker 3: every couple. I see what's under the hood. Yeah that's

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Speaker 3: a nice.

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Speaker 2: Caub, but what's going on with the cover? But though

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Speaker 2: you think that, don't you think that's like a red

854
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,280
Speaker 2: flag because women like that are usually kind of self centered.

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Speaker 2: Like I mean, I know you're goal orientated, and your

856
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Speaker 2: job took you away from like really trying to settle down,

857
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Speaker 2: get married, have kids. It's women like that for sure,

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Speaker 2: And I just think like the qualities that they bring

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Speaker 2: now to a relationship because this is what I say

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Speaker 2: about me, Like, as a professional athlete, I was driven,

861
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Speaker 2: I was I was self centered, I was determined, I

862
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Speaker 2: was I sacrificed so much, and the traits that I

863
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Speaker 2: shared in my sport don't really relate to a relationship

864
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Speaker 2: because I'm selfish, I'm self centered, I'm driven, I'm like

865
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Speaker 2: I'm focused on this goal. But though yeah, a team player,

866
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Speaker 2: but like some of those like qualities don't make for

867
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Speaker 2: like relationship, what you need in relationship. Yeah, I understand teamwork,

868
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Speaker 2: but I also understood selfishness. I understood like like blocking

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Speaker 2: out everything and blocking in tunnel vision and not caring

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Speaker 2: what people say. You know what I'm saying. But like

871
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 2: in relationship, you got to care what your partners say.

872
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 2: You gotta. It's like things that you was like, I

873
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 2: don't care about this, and it made me who I was.

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00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 2: And so now when you bring that relationship, you gotta

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Speaker 2: you gotta learn how to switch. Though you have to

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Speaker 2: unlearn it, you know, you have to, like and do

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Speaker 2: you feel like you have Yeah, over time, yes, over time.

878
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, when you have so many people telling you

879
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 2: the same thing, it's like, dude, you're fucking right. You

880
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 2: know you have to look in the mirror. You know

881
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. You got to take that look like

882
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 2: I'm no, it's not like your selfish and you're like

883
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 2: you don't believe them. But then it just like when

884
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 2: so many people say things about you, you're like, damn,

885
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 2: when you.

886
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 3: First got married, how old was you when you got married.

887
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 3: I got married at uh let's see, I was like

888
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 3: thirty three, maybe thirty four, and you you were still

889
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 3: in the NBA at that time.

890
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:22,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

891
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 3: So at that time of like you know, the marriage,

892
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 3: the engagement or whatever, what was your mindset in terms

893
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 3: of relationships at that time to be able to think,

894
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 3: all right, I'm ready, I'm ready for this.

895
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 2: Well, I was with the girl. We were living together

896
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 2: for like three or four, we had a kid, and

897
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 2: it was just like might as well. It was like yeah, yeah, yeah, No,

898
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 2: it wasn't. I loved her. I mean we lived together,

899
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 2: we had a kid, but I didn't want to have

900
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 2: more kids and not be married to. And then I

901
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 2: go to her sister's wedding. Yeah, and I'm kind of

902
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 2: looking at her, her sister kind of looking at her

903
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 2: like you know, she got the ring. Now you can

904
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 2: see the yeah, kind of like the and I was like,

905
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: hold on, I'm not even you know, I'm with her,

906
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 2: we live together, we got a kid.

907
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 3: So you did it for her more so than you

908
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 3: actually wanting to be married. He's like, man, let me,

909
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 3: let me, let me make it.

910
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 2: When I look back at it, probably so because I

911
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 2: remember when I was with her, I said, I'm never

912
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 2: getting married. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Maybe so

913
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,280
Speaker 2: when I think about it.

914
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I think I think a lot of a

915
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 3: lot of men do that where it's just like we

916
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 3: got the kids, but we live a married life, yeah,

917
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 3: live together to It's but it's not true. It's not

918
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 3: true marriage intention though from from a man's perspective, it's

919
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 3: just like, let me do this for her, well, let

920
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 3: me we already doing this, we might as well. It's

921
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 3: like the jacket is song, been't getting no younger, we

922
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,799
Speaker 3: might as well do this. That's a wild ass song.

923
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 3: But like, but it's it's not like I want to

924
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 3: marry this woman right here, as opposed to I mean

925
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 3: we already you know what I mean.

926
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 2: It's a different intention on it. Think about this too.

927
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 2: This is the thing I thought about so like I

928
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 2: thought it was important to marry her actually because what

929
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 2: if something happened to me? Yeah, you know what I'm saying,

930
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,439
Speaker 2: Like I thought about all of that. Way, she's taking

931
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 2: care of the kids right right, So I thought, like,

932
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 2: like marriage doesn't have to just be like about it's

933
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 2: the business of marriage too. It's a business for sure,

934
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, So I thought about the

935
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 2: business of it too, Like if something happens to me

936
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 2: and she's living in my house, we got a kid,

937
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 2: something like, she's gonna be fucked yeah, And I'm like,

938
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,919
Speaker 2: you know what, we'll get married. Something happens you're taking

939
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 2: care of. So it's like there's layers too. It's more

940
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 2: than just I'm doing it for you. It's like I'm

941
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 2: doing it for you, but I'm doing it for the family.

942
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm doing it for you know, the things of something

943
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 2: you know it does. It was a business. It was

944
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 2: a business for sure, and you sometimes you have to

945
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 2: make a business decision.

946
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 4: This segment is brought to you by Row Sparks. So

947
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 4: what do you feel like? Is a sexual fantasy that

948
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 4: you haven't done that you want fulfilled?

949
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 2: A sexual fantasy that I haven't done, yea that I

950
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 2: want fulfilled?

951
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 1: Like what would you want like from from from yeah

952
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 1: or whoever?

953
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 2: Probably for her to hold accountability that has nothing to

954
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: do with got to turn me on.

955
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 4: I'm talking about like bondage, chokeout, damn handcuffed, blindfolded, or

956
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 4: like threeesomes, like something I.

957
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 2: Wouldn't mind, like a scripted.

958
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: Role play Okay, So what would be the role play?

959
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 2: Oh, maybe like like she's just coming in a suit.

960
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 2: She's like an FBI agent banging on my ship and

961
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm my damn, uh yeah, you've been under the rest.

962
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 2: Boom boom boom, I'm dead past. Serge me company that

963
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 2: pulled the strap out on me? Get down, Get down?

964
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: You want her to pull the.

965
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 2: Get down the floor? She just started. Just take them off,

966
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 2: Like what what are you talking about? Officer? Take them off?

967
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 2: Oh damn. Then you just boom boom. Then next thing

968
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 2: you know, I'm stripped.

969
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:38,800
Speaker 1: You're cracking.

970
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:43,720
Speaker 2: Next thing you know, we're in the bedroom. That would

971
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 2: be so crazy.

972
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: I'm crying.

973
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 2: Damn.

974
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: You know what I would do? I know what my

975
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 1: movie I just thought about it.

976
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 4: I would be my role play would be like I'm

977
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 4: in a shower and I have like someone coming to

978
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 4: work on the house, and so he comes in.

979
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: But then he's like, man, I'm trying to get me.

980
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 4: And then he sees me in the shower and then

981
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 4: he's like, oh ship, And then I see him a

982
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 4: shoun and he knows that I seen him, and we're

983
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 4: looking at each other and because he's in there to

984
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 4: fix the.

985
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: Toilets, you know what I'm saying, or the sink.

986
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 4: So you're in there, you're going into the bathroom, but

987
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 4: I'm in the shower and I didn't know you were

988
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 4: coming there.

989
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: Just don't get about it. Why do you have to

990
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 1: get to.

991
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:28,919
Speaker 4: No, I didn't even open the door of the door

992
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 4: was open. It was unlocked. I live in a white neighborhood.

993
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: Okay, it was unlocked. He came in.

994
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 4: He saw me in the shower, then I saw him,

995
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 4: So then I'm like giving a little show and then

996
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 4: boom we get cracking and then he comes in there

997
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:46,399
Speaker 4: and he's like, I can't help it.

998
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: It's just so sexy. I need you right now.

999
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 4: I'm crying or like or maybe like I'm a teacher

1000
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 4: and I'm like, you're gonna have But then that's kind

1001
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 4: of weird because I don't want it to be like

1002
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 4: how old are you in the class?

1003
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? That gets weird a little bit.

1004
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 1: But also too, I feel like.

1005
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 4: Maybe like a blindfold situation and a tie up situation

1006
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 4: is something that I would try, you know what I mean,

1007
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 4: and like because that makes you really not in control,

1008
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 4: so you have to completely let go and trust your

1009
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 4: partner to like take care of you in that way,

1010
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,280
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So that's like a whole

1011
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 4: different vibe you anything else.

1012
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 2: Whole play is definitely like it turns you on because

1013
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 2: it's like and you can set up different scenarios.

1014
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: What's another scenario?

1015
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 2: So I guess you know, for me, another scenario be crazy.

1016
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:48,240
Speaker 2: What maybe like maybe like on a like red eye flight,

1017
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 2: everybody knocked out.

1018
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 1: That's oh like that's a fantasy.

1019
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, because it's kind of edgy, and yeah, you.

1020
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 3: Don't want to get caught the first class and you

1021
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 3: looking around you here and you don't you know.

1022
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:06,919
Speaker 1: And then what is going on though?

1023
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 2: Is it a little she's going down.

1024
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 1: On going down?

1025
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, that would be crazy, That would be intense.

1026
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 1: That would be interesting. So you like if like.

1027
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:20,280
Speaker 2: The fourth f you're just like, damn, if I sleep

1028
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 2: and you got the lights off first class.

1029
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,800
Speaker 1: That's interesting that I'm not mad at.

1030
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 2: That I got your blanket on. You got your blanket

1031
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 2: you yah, that would be that'll be lit. Okay, you sleep,

1032
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:39,439
Speaker 2: but then she wake you up to that, oh lit,

1033
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 2: gotta gotta go.

1034
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:42,840
Speaker 1: I'm crying.

1035
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 2: Oh it was crazy London or something.

1036
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 1: But then like, yeah, what if they catch you and

1037
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: they're like, excuse me, you guys.

1038
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 2: I ain't turning around. We're going to London.

1039
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like what are you gonna do? You

1040
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 1: can't take this.

1041
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 2: Ain't turning this around?

1042
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 3: Okay?

1043
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 1: Do you have any other ones?

1044
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 2: Not off the top though, you know, a lot of

1045
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 2: this is kind of like maybe on some spontaneous.

1046
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 4: But do you think that if you were role playing

1047
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 4: you'd be able to keep the like a serious face,

1048
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,919
Speaker 4: like would you be able to really follow through your role?

1049
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, for sure. Or to be a situation at

1050
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 2: the office and I'm in my suit.

1051
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: That's a good one.

1052
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 4: Knock on my door, like it's an assistant, your assistant,

1053
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 4: or you're like boss, like my boss like, hey.

1054
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I have to fire you, but before you go,

1055
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 2: i'mna sit you off right. That would be crazy.

1056
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: That would be super intense.

1057
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 2: Man. I don't have to put that. Might have to

1058
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 2: script that. Put a suit on, you know what I'm saying,

1059
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 2: like I'm emptying out my stuff the next do you know?

1060
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 2: Boom got me?

1061
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:54,879
Speaker 1: Damn. That's a good one.

1062
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 4: I like that. I like that a lot. I feel

1063
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,399
Speaker 4: like I would definitely rock with that one. I feel

1064
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:03,240
Speaker 4: like back in the day when you would watch freaky movies,

1065
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 4: they used to have like lead up, they used to

1066
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 4: have like a whole like scripting, Like.

1067
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 1: Now they just get straight to it.

1068
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 4: But back in the day, it was like I'm knocking

1069
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 4: on the door, Oh my god, I caught you and

1070
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 4: caught me and the thing like it used to be

1071
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:18,799
Speaker 4: a whole situation like a movie. Now it's just like

1072
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 4: straight to it, which I guess whatever to each its own.

1073
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:25,240
Speaker 2: Which ones what you mean, like, which ones you watching

1074
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: straight to it?

1075
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 4: I'm not watching that, but I just know I've seen it.

1076
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 4: But I don't watch I don't really watch porn at all.

1077
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 4: I don't like I used to like watch it here

1078
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 4: and there, but now I just feel like it's just

1079
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:40,799
Speaker 4: not doing it for me, you know. But people say

1080
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 4: that the best is on Twitter or x really because

1081
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 4: it's like amateur and it's like real people making videos,

1082
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 4: and people.

1083
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: Say that it's like and I've seen some of them.

1084
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, And I've seen some of them and they're

1085
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 4: cracking on there, Like I'm not.

1086
00:52:57,040 --> 00:53:00,200
Speaker 1: Gonna lie people who don't know they're cracking.

1087
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1088
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 4: Oh X is where oh yeah, they have rape that's

1089
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:06,800
Speaker 4: the biggest thing.

1090
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 2: On X Like what yes, algorithm.

1091
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 1: No, that's good.

1092
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm glad I ain't watching that. Kids can

1093
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 2: watch this.

1094
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why you have to put them controls on them.

1095
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Speaker 2: Kids.

1096
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,439
Speaker 4: You gotta be careful because kids have access to everything. Now,

1097
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 4: Like when I was young, I would go in the

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00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:28,280
Speaker 4: dictionary to look.

1099
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 2: At the naked people the dictionary.

1100
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, because they would have it in the encyclopedia. They'll

1101
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 4: tell you, like different body parts. Oh, they'll be naked,

1102
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 4: and I would like learn body parts like that. Now

1103
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 4: you could just see anything up, pull it up, pull

1104
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 4: it up.

1105
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 2: It's crazy. Okay.

1106
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Speaker 2: Know what I mean. And so people don't think about that.

1112
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 4: Well when women say that, because we have the girls

1113
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 4: from Poor Minds. I don't know if you know that

1114
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 4: they were on our show and she said marriage is

1115
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 4: a business decision and you were like, see, that's why

1116
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:19,440
Speaker 4: women just want to marry man for a business decision.

1117
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:21,439
Speaker 1: Now you're saying the same exact thing.

1118
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 4: So I'm confused because it's like, yeah, because you went

1119
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 4: off on like, oh they're you know, women don't want

1120
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 4: to marry man for this.

1121
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: But it's like, it is a business.

1122
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:35,439
Speaker 4: I think marriage is getting the government involved in your relationship,

1123
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 4: So it is a business decision.

1124
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: It's the commitment, of course.

1125
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 4: Yes, I think a lot of women like the idea

1126
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:44,439
Speaker 4: of like, you're willing to commit to me, and that's

1127
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 4: the security and safety of knowing like I'm investing this time,

1128
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 4: this energy with you, and I know that, you know,

1129
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 4: like we're here, we're locked in. It's not just like

1130
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 4: we're breaking up by you know. It's more technical than that.

1131
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 4: And I think women want to feel like they have

1132
00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 4: that security and safety in that commitment.

1133
00:54:59,239 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 2: You know.

1134
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,840
Speaker 4: For us too, it's like that it's a business decision

1135
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 4: in that aspect, you know. But it's also like I

1136
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 4: feel like the commitment and the love should come before

1137
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 4: it should already be there, you know what I mean,

1138
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 4: Like we're not going to all our friends and family

1139
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 4: and now we're suddenly committed the commitment should already exist

1140
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 4: and we're doing this because we've decided this is good

1141
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 4: for our relationship moving forward.

1142
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 2: You know.

1143
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 4: But people look to the marriage to be like this

1144
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 4: is going to solve something, This is going.

1145
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: To make us better something.

1146
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 4: Every time, exactly, just like people think a baby's gonna

1147
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 4: bring us closer. Babies, it's hard for people who are

1148
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,839
Speaker 4: actually in love. If you have issues and you bring

1149
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 4: a baby to it's going to make it even worse, exactly, Like, no,

1150
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 4: nothing is gonna save your marriage, but actually doing the work.

1151
00:55:56,160 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 3: Relationship, Yeah, compromising all that good stuff you believe in,

1152
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:01,920
Speaker 3: like going to therapy and stuff.

1153
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 1: Yeah okay, yeah I haven't.

1154
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 2: I haven't been a big therapy goer, but I believe

1155
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 2: in it for sure. Okay, yeah, I'm not sure that

1156
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 2: ever I've done it. Okay, it was a disaster for me.

1157
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 2: Why was it a disaster because I feel like, like,

1158
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 2: think about therapy. I feel like I went to a

1159
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:27,280
Speaker 2: couple's therapy with my ex wife, like how many times?

1160
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 2: Roughly too, Oh, this is my thing. The s listen though,

1161
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 2: listen though, If you guys are going through it, it's

1162
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 2: like it's not good. The relationships not good and they're like,

1163
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 2: let's go to therapy. Yeah, right, what is that saying?

1164
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 2: You're trying to work on it right? Right? But when

1165
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 2: you go to therapy, I didn't realize the therapy I

1166
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 2: was going to was to help break it. Oh they

1167
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 2: were trying to break it? Huh.

1168
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 4: It was a therapy to uncouple, because that's the thing

1169
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 4: where they do therapy to like uncouple.

1170
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 2: Well, this is it. Yeah, So when I go there,

1171
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 2: it's like, you know, how do you guys see each other?

1172
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 2: Do you love her? You can see yourself working it out?

1173
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, hell yeah. Then he asked her. She was

1174
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 2: like I don't think so, And so I'm like, what

1175
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 2: am I here for? I mean, like, what am I

1176
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 2: here for? Right? And I literally from that when I

1177
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 2: heard that, I got up and walked out. Do you

1178
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 2: you just negated the whole purpose of therapy?

1179
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 3: But why are we here to fix? She wanted to

1180
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 3: go because it was her idea for the thing, right.

1181
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 3: She wanted to go to see if she could fix

1182
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 3: her mindset of where y'all were at, Like, even though

1183
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 3: she said, I can't see it right now, that's where

1184
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 3: she was at in the moment.

1185
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 2: But she was like, well.

1186
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 3: Maybe therapy can open things up to maybe I can't

1187
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 3: change my view of him, and so therapy can help

1188
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 3: guide people into.

1189
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 2: Why do I feel this way? Why do I feel

1190
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 2: like I want to crap out? You know what I'm saying?

1191
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 3: And so she was just being honest in that moment,

1192
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 3: but she might not necessarily meant like it's over, it's done.

1193
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 3: But the way I feel now, I don't know if

1194
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 3: I see a future, and then that therapy can be like,

1195
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 3: oh I never thought of it that way, or I

1196
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 3: didn't know you.

1197
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 2: Felt that way? Why do you feel that way?

1198
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 3: Because a lot of times when people say I feel

1199
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 3: like this, they'd be like, will shoot what you want

1200
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 3: me to do? Instead of being like, Okay, what's the

1201
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 3: origin story on why you feel the way you feel

1202
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 3: right there? And then that's when you start to unpack

1203
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 3: all the stuff that led up to I'm not feeling this.

1204
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 2: A lot of people won't even get that far.

1205
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 4: They get to feel I've been in that position, and

1206
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 4: I was in couple's therapy and I felt the way

1207
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 4: of like I can't see you in a certain light anymore,

1208
00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 4: but it's like I want to be with you, so

1209
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 4: I want to figure out how I can not be

1210
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 4: so guarded with you now because I don't trust you

1211
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 4: and I feel like you're a different person in my

1212
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 4: eyes now. And I say all that to say, not

1213
00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 4: for someone to walk out, but to be like, okay, so,

1214
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 4: like you said, where can we get.

1215
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: To the root of that and fix that issue? You

1216
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: know what I mean?

1217
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 4: And sometimes it could be fixed. Sometimes I don't know

1218
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 4: if it can, you know what I mean. It's just

1219
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 4: it just depends. So Paul had said another thing.

1220
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 2: Nothing had said, honestly, more than.

1221
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 1: What is something that I said? What did I say.

1222
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 2: Say? Stuff? I don't know, like on top of my

1223
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 2: hand right now?

1224
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 4: Okay, Well if I had said that, he said, he said,

1225
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 4: she on your girl if you want to know if

1226
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 4: she loves you or not.

1227
00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 2: I remember this. That was another Yeah, that was a

1228
00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: wild cheat on your girl.

1229
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: And then he's like, well, maybe you don't cheat on her.

1230
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 4: Maybe you just lie to her and tell her who

1231
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 4: did cheat, to see what her reaction is.

1232
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 3: This is wild, though, I know somebody here this mental warfare.

1233
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 2: That's toxic.

1234
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 3: It is that's toxic. Avenger is toxics A that's crazy? Yeah, no, man, no,

1235
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 3: I'm not saying so.

1236
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 2: No, I don't agree with it either, like because I

1237
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 2: don't think you get in a relationship and like, let

1238
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 2: me see what's called let me see how real it is.

1239
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let her catch me. Put my phone right here,

1240
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 2: let me smash these other broads and yellow about it.

1241
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 2: Let me see if you can take me you can

1242
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 2: take me back. Man, I don't think you're really feeling me. Man,

1243
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:54,439
Speaker 2: let me see, let me smash you, like, like, all right,

1244
01:00:55,840 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 2: I don't care in order, like, especially a man in

1245
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 2: your position, how do you know if the girl like you?

1246
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 2: She she goes see a show and then you connect, y'all, David, Right,

1247
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:10,920
Speaker 2: she loved like the show and all of that. But

1248
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 2: how you know she likes you for you? You gotta

1249
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 2: go through something? What is that that's gotta happen to

1250
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 2: show you that she really loved you?

1251
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 3: Definitely not cheating though, no, But I'm just like, you

1252
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 3: have to go through something. You gotta go through something

1253
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 3: this just to see if it's real. Yeah, what is

1254
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 3: that for me? Cause I feel like if I cheated,

1255
01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 3: don't take me back.

1256
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 1: Damn that's real because that's self respects.

1257
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 2: Man. Just you don't want none of this. That's the

1258
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 2: mindset I have.

1259
01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 3: You don't want none of this, man, You're better off

1260
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 3: and like and plus I'll be like, you're.

1261
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 2: Gonna get revenge. You gonna get revenge. In the back

1262
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 2: of my mind, you revenge. You get the revenge, didn't you.

1263
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 2: I know, you get the revenge.

1264
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1265
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 2: And so for me, like I guess it.

1266
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 3: I guess like the litmus tests would just be like

1267
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 3: just regular trials and tribulations, like, you know, how do

1268
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 3: we resolve conflict? You know what I mean in terms

1269
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 3: of like if we're not getting along, how do we battle?

1270
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 2: You know?

1271
01:02:12,800 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 3: Does it get disrespectful? Does it get ugly? You know

1272
01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

1273
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 2: And like, I feel like in those moments you can.

1274
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 3: Really see you can really see people's metal in that term,

1275
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 3: because you'd be like, oh, that's how you act when

1276
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 3: you mad, or you be saying some wow shit when

1277
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 3: you mad, it's like damn, you know what I'm saying.

1278
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 3: And so once you see people when they're angry, you

1279
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 3: can get a clear snapshot who that person is. It

1280
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 3: was like, man, you was really mad at me, but

1281
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:46,280
Speaker 3: you really conveyed it in a way that was like yeah,

1282
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 3: like wow, so you can follow suit or you know,

1283
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:54,880
Speaker 3: you're the one that's like I talked shit about you,

1284
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 3: you was you know what I'm saying, I wish the

1285
01:02:56,640 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 3: worst on you and damn and so I feel like

1286
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 3: those moments are a real good litmus test on you know,

1287
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 3: somebody really feeling you how you work through those moments.

1288
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 3: Because the cheating is the is the cream of the

1289
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 3: crop on a non negotiable. Really everything else is negotior, right.

1290
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:15,919
Speaker 1: So listen, you feel like cheating is not.

1291
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 2: Cheatings. Let's let's not say cheating is having sex with

1292
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 2: another girl? Oh yeah, yeah there Yeah, Like say you

1293
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 2: out with your boys, she walk in, you got a

1294
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 2: girl in your lap? Is that cheating? That's cheating?

1295
01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 3: That's that's a little that's a little light tier, a

1296
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 3: low tier. You know what I'm saying. You you violated.

1297
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 3: You disrespect it?

1298
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 2: Right?

1299
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:39,040
Speaker 3: You got me out here looking like a food that

1300
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 3: on your lap. There's levels to that's different.

1301
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 4: Than yeah, but being disrespected, especially publicly, just shows like

1302
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 4: what are you else are you willing to do? Because

1303
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:51,439
Speaker 4: if I didn't walk in and you have a woman,

1304
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 4: if I was on a man's laugh, that's over for him.

1305
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 4: You never it's the relationship is over. And I'm sitting

1306
01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 4: on as lap. The relationship is done.

1307
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 1: Don done.

1308
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 2: Your stuff is on the curve of the venue I

1309
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 2: walk in on.

1310
01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: Period.

1311
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 4: Now, why would a man think that a woman wouldn't

1312
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 4: feel the same way.

1313
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: That's crazy, like that double standard. That's not going to work.

1314
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 4: If I see a woman on your lap, I'm cool

1315
01:04:20,200 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 4: because that means you're willing to disrespect me publicly embarrassing you.

1316
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 2: I wasn't like that you watch come in, come in,

1317
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 2: she just did that. I was being nice. I don't

1318
01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 2: want to push her off. I'm cool.

1319
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 1: You too nice? You too friendly for me.

1320
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 4: I don't like your friendly asked man anyways, But you

1321
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 4: got all that going on.

1322
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:41,760
Speaker 2: I'm cool.

1323
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 4: A woman sitting on your lap is just like disrespectful,

1324
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 4: Like what don't you see that you don't have respect

1325
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:47,960
Speaker 4: for me?

1326
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 1: That's period point.

1327
01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:53,120
Speaker 4: I think disrespect is a high thing for me on

1328
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 4: my list because I think if there's not respecting a relationship,

1329
01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 4: it's really really hard to follow suit on a lot

1330
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 4: of other things. If I don't respect you, then what

1331
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 4: makes you think that I'm not gonna cheat on you,

1332
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 4: flirt with someone else, mess with your homeboy, talk to

1333
01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 4: you whoever? Like what makes you think that, because yeah,

1334
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,560
Speaker 4: it's a snowball. If you don't have zero respect for

1335
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 4: me and you could be out willy nilly with a

1336
01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 4: woman on your lap, that's crazy. That's just as crazy.

1337
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 2: How deep into the lap is she sitting there? Right here,

1338
01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 2: right levels to it? Is she is? She is on

1339
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 2: the knee, is on the knee?

1340
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 1: Am I on the knee of a man? Is that

1341
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 1: gonna be okay?

1342
01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 3: It's better than you being so if I'm sitting on

1343
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 3: a man's knee between his knee, is that gonna be okay?

1344
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:47,439
Speaker 1: Is that gonna be okay? Exactly? That's all.

1345
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:51,240
Speaker 4: It's not gonna be okay no matter what.

1346
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 2: But what if you walk in and she not on

1347
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 2: the lap? She just twirking in front of me, Like

1348
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, I'm into it though, but you

1349
01:05:58,760 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 2: into it?

1350
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, but she's not on the least, not

1351
01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 3: on the dances. She just wanted to be right there,

1352
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 3: and I was just like, okay.

1353
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:13,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like that's not as much.

1354
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 1: It's not as bad. That's just that's just like you said,

1355
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:20,000
Speaker 1: it's what that's just the party, right, It's not as bad.

1356
01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 1: But if I'm working on a man and you walk

1357
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: in is that? What is that the problem?

1358
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 2: That is a problem where he's sitting there. There's no

1359
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 2: such thing as double standing in a relationship. I'm sorry,

1360
01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:34,120
Speaker 2: so you can't do that. And I'm not saying I

1361
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 2: can do it or it's cool for me to do it.

1362
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 2: It's like this, I will tell you there's no double

1363
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 2: standard because I'll call you if I'll call if I

1364
01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 2: get mad and we arguing, and I'll call you a bitch, right,

1365
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 2: But if you call me one, that's disrespectful, more disrespect

1366
01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:52,640
Speaker 2: for a woman to call a man than a man

1367
01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 2: to call a woman one. Because now if you call

1368
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 2: your man one, think about that. If your girl call

1369
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 2: you that on if y'all mad at each other, or

1370
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 2: you call her that when y'all mad each other, it's

1371
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 2: different if it comes out of girl off to a man.

1372
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:09,400
Speaker 3: I will say right that if a woman calls you

1373
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 3: a bit, that's crazy, that's man like, she doesn't.

1374
01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 2: Respect you at all. All.

1375
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 3: A man could call a woman a bitch and still

1376
01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 3: love that girl exactly.

1377
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:21,880
Speaker 2: He's just mad, he just not.

1378
01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:24,680
Speaker 3: If a woman calls a man a bitch, that's disrespectful,

1379
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 3: that's that's that's been in the crack past for while.

1380
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, she don't even see you as

1381
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:31,320
Speaker 2: a man.

1382
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 4: I've never been good. I've never been called a bitch

1383
01:07:33,840 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 4: by like a relationship. I'm honest, like, I never had that,

1384
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 4: so I think it would probably take me aback if

1385
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,959
Speaker 4: someone now did that, I'll be like, wow, I never

1386
01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 4: knew it's.

1387
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:44,520
Speaker 2: New for me.

1388
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 1: I'll be like, WHOA.

1389
01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 4: But never called a man a bitch to his face,

1390
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 4: like to my homegirls.

1391
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 2: Respect. Yeah, I would not say it to him.

1392
01:07:58,360 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: I would never call a man.

1393
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 2: And there's not double standards. I'm with you on that.

1394
01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, saying that there are.

1395
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:06,760
Speaker 2: There's not double standards on men and women.

1396
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:10,680
Speaker 1: Like said are double sing like It's like it goes back.

1397
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 3: To the twerking in front saying that there are there are.

1398
01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:19,080
Speaker 2: Double yes, yes, yes, yeah, the double standards, Like it's

1399
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 2: not equal. Yeah, like like the girl towking in front

1400
01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:24,120
Speaker 2: of me and you talking front the man is different.

1401
01:08:24,120 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 4: It's just like you calling their homegirl and a man

1402
01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 4: kissing his homeboy different different.

1403
01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 1: That's a double standing.

1404
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:34,560
Speaker 3: If a girl, if a girl kissing another girl, like okay, yeah,

1405
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:37,679
Speaker 3: but let you gain on me sopping the dude?

1406
01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 2: Damn, what's the baby this Steve? Like you know, like

1407
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:51,559
Speaker 2: what I was teaching, Steve, that's what we're doing. That's correct,

1408
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:52,519
Speaker 2: that's what we're doing.

1409
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:55,560
Speaker 1: I was just showing up. We just got a little dry.

1410
01:08:57,400 --> 01:08:59,800
Speaker 2: I was just experiment in college.

1411
01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean, I will say that there

1412
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 4: are double standards when it comes to men and women.

1413
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 4: But I also believe like men expect women to take

1414
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 4: them back when they cheat a lot of time.

1415
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 1: But a man will not get over a woman cheating.

1416
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 4: No, hell no, it's very hard for man. Some will,

1417
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 4: but it's very hard for men to get over there. Yeah,

1418
01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 4: like most men will be like you cheat, It's.

1419
01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could. I could never unsee the cheat.

1420
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, even even if we smash them, Like this is

1421
01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 3: how this nigga was doing you when you was cheating

1422
01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 3: on me?

1423
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:36,840
Speaker 1: Is this how he was doing?

1424
01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:42,799
Speaker 2: No, man, you gotta know yourself.

1425
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:44,719
Speaker 3: You be like, I can't, I can't, I can't survive.

1426
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,680
Speaker 3: But there's there's levels to the cheat. It depends on

1427
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 3: how far it went.

1428
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:51,599
Speaker 1: So what are the levels to the cheat?

1429
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:54,480
Speaker 2: There's flirting, Okay.

1430
01:09:54,280 --> 01:09:58,519
Speaker 3: There's a little extra communication going on a little in

1431
01:09:58,520 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 3: person flirting.

1432
01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 2: Are those texts.

1433
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 1: Those I want to know? Are those ones that.

1434
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 3: You will You can get past if they if they

1435
01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:07,679
Speaker 3: talking and flirting, I could get past.

1436
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:10,000
Speaker 1: Okay, you can get past talking and flirting.

1437
01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:11,639
Speaker 2: Once you get physical, though, you can't.

1438
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:14,080
Speaker 1: Get past the physical. What if it was just a kiss.

1439
01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:19,160
Speaker 3: If we was together, Yeah, French French.

1440
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: Like, I just kissed him.

1441
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:25,200
Speaker 2: It was just.

1442
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 1: What's sad? He was comforting me at work.

1443
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 3: Let's let's say, let's say it got to that level

1444
01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:37,560
Speaker 3: and we we was having hard times, we were on

1445
01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 3: the outs.

1446
01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 2: We was kind of in the crazy space. Yeah. And

1447
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:44,519
Speaker 2: I also did some dirt on my end. Yeah. I

1448
01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:48,519
Speaker 2: could probably get past the French anything more.

1449
01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:51,519
Speaker 3: If the penis showed up at any point in time,

1450
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:55,639
Speaker 3: then it's done. If that dick came out on your watch,

1451
01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:00,520
Speaker 3: I'm out.

1452
01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:02,759
Speaker 2: You pulled it out. If you handled it.

1453
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:04,839
Speaker 1: Then it's over. It's over.

1454
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 2: All. Let me ask you, this is this cheating. Say

1455
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:11,240
Speaker 2: you go to your girl crab and y'all in the

1456
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:13,599
Speaker 2: bed and you just go on her drawers real quick,

1457
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:16,280
Speaker 2: like something happened. I don't know. I still I'm drinking

1458
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:18,439
Speaker 2: the wash. It was the talent here. You open up

1459
01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:20,719
Speaker 2: the drawer that she got one of these deal dogs,

1460
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 2: Like this is that cheap I'm talking about like I'm

1461
01:11:24,520 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 2: talking about that, I don't see.

1462
01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 1: No one wants that. First of all, most women don't

1463
01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 1: want that is way too big.

1464
01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:35,680
Speaker 2: This what you want? If I got to hand it

1465
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 2: to it like this, Yeah, you gotta hand it to you.

1466
01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:41,320
Speaker 2: That's not cheating. I can't compete. Is that cheating?

1467
01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:42,519
Speaker 1: No, it's not.

1468
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:46,800
Speaker 2: It's a little deceptive. Like what you're gonna Let's gonna

1469
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 2: go through your head.

1470
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 1: Why is it deceptive?

1471
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 2: Like when when did she get it? Like you, when

1472
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:52,639
Speaker 2: did you get this?

1473
01:11:52,840 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 3: Like you know what I'm saying, she already had that,

1474
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:56,240
Speaker 3: then she don't owe that to me like before.

1475
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 2: But like if we were in she while we were.

1476
01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:02,600
Speaker 3: Inship hurts your ego because it's like, yo, let me

1477
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 3: let me see if I can measure up you know

1478
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

1479
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 4: But what if you just can't, like physically, you know

1480
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:12,599
Speaker 4: the measuring is not measured. This is me mind you.

1481
01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 4: I will say this, most women don't want this. This

1482
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:19,760
Speaker 4: this we like a regular like that hurts, But I

1483
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 4: will say so, let me give you this scenario.

1484
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 1: What if we've said this before.

1485
01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:28,040
Speaker 4: What if you're a woman subscribe to a man only

1486
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 4: fans and you walk in on her on the only

1487
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:34,040
Speaker 4: fans of a popular guy, Like let's say it's like

1488
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:37,280
Speaker 4: Safari because I think he has only fans or something,

1489
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 4: some one of these men that have only fans. She's

1490
01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 4: watching Safari other thing and she's using the thing like

1491
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:46,759
Speaker 4: something her.

1492
01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 1: She's using her thing.

1493
01:12:49,160 --> 01:12:51,640
Speaker 2: It's that cheaty cheating.

1494
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 1: But that's awkward to me.

1495
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 4: Like if I'm walking in on my man doing the

1496
01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:58,880
Speaker 4: only fans of a woman that's like on Instagram that

1497
01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:00,240
Speaker 4: you could see.

1498
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:05,520
Speaker 3: Like you could watching the porn would better, regular.

1499
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 4: Regular porn actresses better because it's like, let's say you're

1500
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 4: watching someone who's just like an Instagram model, Like who's

1501
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 4: to say, you can't really like so you're fantasizing about

1502
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:17,800
Speaker 4: this one. Like porn is a bunch of random different

1503
01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:22,200
Speaker 4: like who knows. Now you're subscribing to this one girl

1504
01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 4: and you're watching all of her stuff.

1505
01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:29,120
Speaker 3: I don't like that a little different because it's like, yeah, man,

1506
01:13:29,240 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 3: she got she got the only fans, thirty thirty a month.

1507
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:34,599
Speaker 1: Yeah you're all there.

1508
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 2: Free porn hub McGee man free.

1509
01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:39,360
Speaker 1: You know about the porn on Twitter on.

1510
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 2: X I'll be seeing it sometimes, but I'm know how

1511
01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:45,680
Speaker 2: to get to it.

1512
01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:48,360
Speaker 4: Though, Yeah, because it's like a whole situation. Was talking

1513
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:52,000
Speaker 4: about it, like supposedly X is like where all the.

1514
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 1: Videos, the good videos?

1515
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:57,160
Speaker 4: They how to get your videos? I don't have to

1516
01:13:57,200 --> 01:13:59,880
Speaker 4: like send them to you and then your algorithm will get.

1517
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:04,639
Speaker 2: Flow what you gotta put in there? How you get

1518
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:07,880
Speaker 2: to it? I always end up stumbling upon it.

1519
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, I can never remember clips there.

1520
01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:18,960
Speaker 4: I've seen a few of those because I've seen a few,

1521
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 4: but I need the world. I'm not deep in the

1522
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,920
Speaker 4: world though, I don't be on Twitter at all, but

1523
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:28,760
Speaker 4: I've seen a few of them.

1524
01:14:28,800 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 2: There was some good ones on there.

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01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:32,960
Speaker 1: Though back then they're heading on you.

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01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 2: Gotta put in I don't know how to find that.

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01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:39,400
Speaker 3: I gotta somebody has to post it in like a

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01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:42,280
Speaker 3: reply to another thing, and then you go down.

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01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 2: That rabbit hole. I'd be like, this album was good.

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01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 3: And then they'd be like and then next thing you know,

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01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 3: you're in the world.

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01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:52,719
Speaker 1: I am Ryan.

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01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 4: Well, we really really appreciate you coming on the show, Tony.

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01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 4: We love you, We love your content. Yeah, really rock

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01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:04,920
Speaker 4: with everything that you're doing. So come to one of

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01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:06,880
Speaker 4: your shows too. I would love to come.

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01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 3: I'm back on my monthly Uh so what you got

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01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:12,480
Speaker 3: Tony Bacon friends at Flappers and Burbank.

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01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:13,759
Speaker 2: I do it once a month.

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01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:16,680
Speaker 3: It'll be it's normally the last Monday every month, but

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01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 3: this month it'll be Tuesday. It'll be like, so, yeah,

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01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 3: it's a good time, man, We'll be vibing in there.

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01:15:25,680 --> 01:15:28,519
Speaker 3: I host it, so I'm up there all night and it's.

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01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 2: Fun and really.

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01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:33,839
Speaker 1: I love comedy.

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01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:35,760
Speaker 2: Like we go once a week to coming.

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01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, is so fun.

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01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:40,880
Speaker 2: We'll go to tomorrow. So we just went to Chris

1549
01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:45,840
Speaker 2: Spincer last week. Okay, I went Spank did something the

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01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:48,680
Speaker 2: other day him and so we always.

1551
01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 1: Go to and what was the guy that you like?

1552
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 1: What's his name?

1553
01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:58,720
Speaker 2: Take Ken with me in the valley? Yeah? I heard

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01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:04,920
Speaker 2: hen for sure, Kevin. I love.

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01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 4: Yeah you guys, if you're in LA, make sure you

1556
01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:11,240
Speaker 4: guys check out Tony's show. We have all will put

1557
01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 4: all his information below so you can follow him. He

1558
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:15,519
Speaker 4: has funny skits and all that stuff.

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01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 1: Hilarious. We really appreciate you coming on the show.

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01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 2: Anything else.

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01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:23,160
Speaker 3: Also to the Ball brother show. We'll be doing that

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01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 3: once a month too. That's me and Kevin on stage.

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01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 3: We do a show together when we're on stage simultaneously

1564
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 3: and this real audience interactive.

1565
01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 2: We asked audience.

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01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,559
Speaker 3: Questions and if we'd like to answer, we'll be like,

1567
01:16:34,560 --> 01:16:36,720
Speaker 3: do you want to come on stage? And then so

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01:16:36,760 --> 01:16:39,440
Speaker 3: we're doing that once a month too also at Flappers.

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01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 1: So yeah, where can we find all that information?

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01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 3: Like, it'll be like, if you go to my Instagram,

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01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:49,160
Speaker 3: you can click on the link or Tonycomedy dot com.

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01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:50,080
Speaker 2: We'll have all the shows.

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01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 4: Okay, perfect, and I'm coming. Yeah, we're gonna come check

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01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:57,120
Speaker 4: that out one hundred percent for one hundred percent.

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01:16:57,479 --> 01:17:00,880
Speaker 2: Have me back many yeah, yeah, ay, just not when

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01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:01,400
Speaker 2: the lag is.

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01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 4: A plan, because that's what's crazy. We're so sorry. We

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01:17:04,320 --> 01:17:06,639
Speaker 4: had a rough drive. I know you had a rough drive.

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01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:10,200
Speaker 4: I know you had that's good tonight.

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01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:12,919
Speaker 2: This is the heart of the city, right but everybody's

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01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 2: in the arena now, so you're good.

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01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 4: Okay, Thank you guys, guy subscribe, follow share all that

1583
01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:24,840
Speaker 4: good stuff. We appreciate you for tuning into the truth

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01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:28,760
Speaker 4: that for dark Tony. You've been amazing information below his shows.

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01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 1: Et cetera.

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01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:50,320
Speaker 2: Good night night. This is the taking over the game.

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01:17:56,520 --> 01:18:00,400
Speaker 2: All right, everybody, welcome to truth after dog.

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01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:05,639
Speaker 1: Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

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Speaker 3: H