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Speaker 2: I'm trying to find out.

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Speaker 3: It was just the cheese.

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Speaker 2: No, I liked him. I wasn't with him for cheese.

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Speaker 2: I liked him.

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Speaker 3: He's not ugly.

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Speaker 2: He wasn't ugly, but he was shorter than me. Soever, Like.

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Speaker 4: My thing is to really figure out who a girl

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Speaker 2: What is a little edgy?

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Speaker 1: J Lo said that women multiply whatever you give them,

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Speaker 2: She's basically saying like, women are false.

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Speaker 3: If I give her a hundred dollars, you're gonna multiply up.

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Speaker 1: I see that you got your toes in. Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: In the comments like I'll suckers. I was like, let

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Speaker 2: Period? Okay, I love that? How are you feeling this?

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Speaker 1: I see that you got your toes in.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: Many people was in the comments like I'll suck on nose.

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Speaker 4: I was like, let me put your mind, let.

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Speaker 2: They was, but they would suck on this.

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Speaker 1: Kevin Gates he actually has a girl or like a wife,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. He calls her wife and he uh

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Speaker 2: He said, like the he said, actual booty booty?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he said, run down the lineup. He says, you

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know how long they know?

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Speaker 1: I think as a female, you're gonna do what sucking

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Speaker 3: The booty. Yeah that's my girl. Yeah, I gotta go

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Speaker 1: This is a WLD. He said that if he's not

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Speaker 1: He said, his post GM mail, his post Jim mal

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Speaker 2: He's talking about.

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Speaker 3: Kevin GATESE. I ain't mad at you, man.

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Speaker 4: You know, you know if that's but if they like

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Speaker 2: And he said this too. I'm the thing.

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Speaker 3: He said, Yeah, that's what's gonna make your girl happy.

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Speaker 1: He also said that if his queen cheats on him,

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Speaker 4: I don't agree with that if she cheat on me,

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Speaker 4: that's not my fault because we're gonna have some discussions.

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Speaker 4: And if you come back to me and say I cheat,

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Speaker 4: like what So, if I'm gone for two weeks and

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Speaker 3: Because I have to go make this work, I have

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Speaker 4: So that's my fault that I went and got the

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Speaker 3: So how is up my fault?

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Speaker 2: I don't even think he meant it like that. I

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Speaker 4: But if I'm not agree on that. People cheat because

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Speaker 4: That's just an excuse. People cheat because they want to cheat.

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Speaker 4: It's like, damn, I'm curious, Damn, let me see what's

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Speaker 4: we got more temptations today than ever. Women and people

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Speaker 3: So that's on you. It ain't.

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Speaker 4: You can't blame that on I'm not putting that on me.

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Speaker 4: If my significant other cheats, that's not my fault. We

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Speaker 4: should have already broke up. If you feel that way,

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Speaker 3: Uh, you know, it's a dark.

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Speaker 4: Cloud in the air amongst us, you know, like the

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Speaker 4: rain and the storm. You like, you gotta stand relationships.

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Speaker 4: You gotta go through rain and storm. You can't first

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Speaker 4: sign of fall. You can't be all creeping. No, I

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Speaker 4: ain't going with that one. Cav Come on. I know

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Speaker 4: you you got your philosophy though, and you got your

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Speaker 4: But I'm not rolling with that one because it's dark

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Speaker 4: times in every relationship. If you ask all the OG's

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Speaker 3: All of that. But it ain't it ain't. It ain't.

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Speaker 3: I'm never putting that on me. You know. That's all action.

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Speaker 3: That's a choice.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So Carlos Miller, he recently said that.

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Speaker 4: Is our boy, Carlos. We gotta get Carlos back up right.

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Speaker 2: I love Carlos. He's cracking for shore. He said that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm saying, like he's cool that, Like, ask.

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Speaker 3: What I'm just saying.

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Speaker 2: No, Carlos.

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Speaker 1: No, like that's just like he was great on the

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Speaker 2: Your woman is a reflection of you.

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Speaker 4: All right, Carlos, that is not true. You get more respect, no.

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Speaker 1: More job opportunities. More like you're saying, like when your

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Speaker 2: Like got the job.

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Speaker 3: No, that's not not.

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Speaker 2: Even just you got the job.

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Speaker 1: He's saying, like, you just get more respected period.

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Speaker 4: Like let me see you get more respected if you're

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 4: You know what, when I think about it to a

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Speaker 4: at him like that don't I don't that don't match up?

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Sometimes you see some of

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Speaker 4: He And then they be like that's just the cheese.

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Speaker 1: They think it's the money, you know, they think it's

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Speaker 1: like but that's the thing that is equated with respect

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Speaker 1: because they think it's something you have clearly to get

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Speaker 3: On, let me think about that. That's a good one, Carlo.

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Speaker 3: Let me see.

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Speaker 4: Do you get respect based on your woman's look? Man,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm rocking with that, because beauty

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Speaker 3: That could be a man you don't know.

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Speaker 4: She might be the CEO at Bank of Inglewood or

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Speaker 4: I can't go off, yo, look because a man, it's

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Speaker 2: He may make more money than you, but she's a boss.

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Speaker 2: No, she's not saying that they have the money.

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Speaker 1: I like Natalie None. I think she's she's a boss,

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Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is a lot of people are saying,

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Speaker 2: But I get it. I feel what you're saying. I

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Speaker 1: woman is really with him for better or worse, like

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00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 1: he is going to test you or whatever the case is.

444
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 2: Similar.

445
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 1: He didn't really say cheat on your girl to test her,

446
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,360
Speaker 1: but he's like, now, like I need to really know

447
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 1: are you with me for better or for worse? Like

448
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 1: because you know me at when I'm good, so you

449
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,120
Speaker 1: know it could be cracking and we could be doing this,

450
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 1: but are we going to be good when it's not good?

451
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:51,400
Speaker 3: Yeah?

452
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 4: You know, everything is always fun in games when it's

453
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 4: bliss and it's new and you don't go through anything,

454
00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 4: but like, you gotta really go through something to figure

455
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 4: out who that person is and what this relationship is. Yeah,

456
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 4: that's anything you go through in life, business relationships.

457
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 3: You gotta really go through something.

458
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 4: And you know a lot of people may didn't understand me,

459
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 4: and I didn't really it was taken out of contents

460
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 4: when I said you gotta cheat on your girl or

461
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 4: really know if sheeta wan Nah, you ain't gotta do that.

462
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 4: But there's certain things that has to happen that you

463
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 4: have to go through that's not comfortable in a relationship

464
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 4: to understand it's.

465
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 3: This built on sand or seement, you know what I'm saying.

466
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 4: So we gotta figure that out and I don't want

467
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:51,719
Speaker 4: to intentionally do it, right, but so how do we

468
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 4: get to that part.

469
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 3: How do we get to that?

470
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 4: And it's your celebrity as a guy like Cam who's

471
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 4: made a lot of money, who's the famous who's still

472
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 4: doing this thing? It's always that being caught in a

473
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 4: matrix to like, Damn, am I in love? Am I infatuated?

474
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 3: Am I? Is this? Is this a thing? Is it real?

475
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 4: There's so many questions that has to be answered when

476
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 4: guys are in that position, and girls too. So my

477
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 4: thing is to really figure out who a girl really is.

478
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 4: You gotta be a little edgy sometime. With a little edgy,

479
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 4: you gotta I don't know, I don't know what that is.

480
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 4: I don't know what that is entails. Maybe you gotta

481
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 4: lie to her about something like maybe you gotta come

482
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 4: home and be like, Babe, I slept with another girl.

483
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 2: And trama on somebody for no reason so you feel.

484
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 3: Listen, yeahrama builds character, trauma builds.

485
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's not your job. We're not going back now.

486
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 1: No.

487
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 4: Listen though, When I break a bone in my arm,

488
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 4: I've broken bones.

489
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 3: You know what happens. It grows back stronger. You know that?

490
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 3: Did you know that breaking?

491
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 4: If you get the X ray before when you have

492
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 4: X rays and then you break a bone. I broke

493
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 4: in this finger, so they'll show the bone healing and

494
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,719
Speaker 4: coming back, and it grew an extra layer of bone.

495
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 2: Messed up to me, but it.

496
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 4: Grows back stronger, Like seriously, like when you get a cut,

497
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 4: the skin comes back and it's a stronger layer of skin.

498
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 4: It may not look as good, you know, it might

499
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 4: be darker black and a blemish, but the skin is

500
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 4: tougher and that's.

501
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 3: Because it went.

502
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,199
Speaker 1: I think that pain is weakness leaving the body, and

503
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: I do believe that you go through things that make

504
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,199
Speaker 1: you stronger. But I don't believe that there any person

505
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 1: on this earth that should decide to inflict pain or

506
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 1: harm onto anybody purposely. But that is no I'm not

507
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: talking about physical I'm talking about emotional trauma can be

508
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: worse than physical trauma because I can literally get like

509
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: a cut and it can hurt, but someone putting something

510
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: into my mind can last for a very long time

511
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 1: cause of anxiety, lose sleep, lose trust, like at the

512
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 1: end of the day, that hurts.

513
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 2: And I feel like there's.

514
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 1: So many ways including let's see what happens when you

515
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 1: actually get sick.

516
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 2: Let's see what happens when you go through a storm

517
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 2: in your life.

518
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 4: As a boyfriend, I'm supposed to be by your when

519
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 4: we get sick.

520
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 3: That's easy.

521
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 2: No, No, but there's a lot of people. Let me

522
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 2: tell you something.

523
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: My grandmother died and my nephew's girlfriend went to Puerto

524
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: Rico on a girl's trip and she was the matriarch

525
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: of our family. Like he was taking care of her,

526
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 1: full blown, spending bread on her doing this. There is

527
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 1: ways you can tell if a woman is rocking with

528
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:57,439
Speaker 1: you or not.

529
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 4: No, because people handle trauma differently. Some people cry, some

530
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 4: people smile so you don't see them cry. Some people

531
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 4: do different things when you go through trauma that they

532
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 4: don't want to show it because somebody goes through something.

533
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 4: That don't mean I'm supposed to suck and cry. People

534
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 4: handle it different, So don't use that. I mean reflection

535
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 4: of hurt because maybe because like when my mom passed,

536
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 4: I flew to Australia to like it Like no with

537
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 4: that and I could have set in my house and mourned.

538
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 2: But you're hearing me wrong.

539
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 1: The girlfriend who he wanted by his side went to

540
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: Puerto Rico on a girls trip.

541
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 2: Oh the girlfriend, Yes, not him. That's someone he was

542
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 2: take care of and putting.

543
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 1: Up in the house and buying this and buying that,

544
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: and was there for twenty four seven. She was getting

545
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 1: roses because she was on her period and she was

546
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: gone and he left her. So there's gonna be things

547
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: like that that happened that are going to help you

548
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: decide what's going on. Like if I'm with somebody and

549
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: something happens to my parents, like, that's gonna help me. Know?

550
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 1: Do you really rock with me when you go through

551
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: dark periods of time, someone passes away close to you,

552
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: something happens with your kids, like not, everything's gonna beautiful

553
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: and pretty. Trust me, you we know that I can't

554
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: name a year ride and go through something. So you're

555
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 1: gonna go through something, and when you do, you're going

556
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 1: to see if that woman is really there.

557
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: For you or not.

558
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 1: So stop trying to figure it out on your own.

559
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: God gonna show you always every single time.

560
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:28,679
Speaker 2: Move forward, Move forward. J Lo said that women.

561
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: Multiply whatever you give them, so like gross, She's basically saying,

562
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: like women.

563
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,360
Speaker 3: Are foss false. If I give her a hundred dollars,

564
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 3: you're gonna multiply up. No, but she said. She said,

565
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 3: multiply everything.

566
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: Groceries become meals, a house becomes a home, a baby,

567
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: you give her a little, she gets a baby. And

568
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: if you give a woman grief, then you get a

569
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 1: thousand headaches. She said that men do a lot, but

570
00:27:59,160 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: women do more.

571
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 4: No, no, and no. Women do not multiply things. They

572
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 4: subtract things.

573
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, wow, they.

574
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 4: Take our heart, they take our feelings. They and then

575
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 4: we marry them. Divorces they take half. So how is

576
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 4: that multiplying something?

577
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 2: Sounds like you've been with the wrong woman.

578
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 3: No, that ain't got nothing to do with me. This

579
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 3: is facts, This is data.

580
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 1: Not I feel like a lot of people have been

581
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: in the wrong relationships. I feel like if you're in

582
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: the right relationships, you guys multiply and help each other grow.

583
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 1: Not always, not every day, not every hundred dollars, but

584
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: in the long run, when you assess it.

585
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 3: When Jeff Beso's divorced.

586
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: What happened, we're talking about people choose the wrong They

587
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: have their pickers off.

588
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 4: And I think that's the thing we have to understand

589
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 4: about life. There's all like marriage is never forever. For

590
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 4: the most part, nobody gets married and that's the happening

591
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 4: ever end, and that's it. You go to the grave

592
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 4: with that person. Most likely if you get married once,

593
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 4: you're going to divorce. Well, statistic the statistics on that right.

594
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 4: So at the end of the day, there's gonna be

595
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 4: some giving, but there's gonna be a lot of more

596
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 4: taken than giving.

597
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 2: Okay, okay.

598
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: So, in Ghana, the police issued a warning that deliberately

599
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: withholding sex could be considered emotional abuse under the Domestic

600
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: Violence Act and could carry penalties if proven in court.

601
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 1: The Ghana Police put out a statement said that persistent

602
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: refusal of sex within marriage could legally fall under emotional

603
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 1: abuse if it causes it proven in that in court,

604
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: it will be considered a part of a domestic abuse

605
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: case and potentially carry penalties including jail.

606
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 4: Tie.

607
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 3: I'm wrong.

608
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 4: I'm encouraging all you black men in America. It's time

609
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 4: for us to move back to the hot motherland. It's

610
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 4: time for us to go to Ghana because the law

611
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 4: are made for us, whereas the laws in America don't

612
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 4: really accommodate us.

613
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 3: But it's time. It's time.

614
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'll say to this, I think this

615
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: is wild, but I will say that. I feel like,

616
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 1: what's frustrating? And I'm not a man, so I don't know.

617
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: But men spend all day doing things that they don't

618
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: want to do, including going to the gym, lifting weights, working.

619
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 3: No men want to do that. Okay, well, some things

620
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 3: that men don't want to do.

621
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 1: I feel like there's a lot of things that men

622
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: have to sacrifice that they don't.

623
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 3: Want to do.

624
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: So I feel like if a woman is like I

625
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 1: don't want to feel like having sex, a man becomes

626
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 1: frustrated because like, girl, I didn't want to build this house,

627
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: provided family, go to work every day and be tired,

628
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: come home, take care of your ass, and now you

629
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: just don't want to have sex.

630
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 2: That is blowing me, you know what I mean.

631
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: So it's like I feel like that's how I kind

632
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: of look at it, Like a man is sacrificing so

633
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: much and doing so many things just to get rejected

634
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: because like we're not in the mood at that moment,

635
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And it's like men do

636
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: a lot of things they're not In the movie.

637
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 4: All the time man is laying there and the girl,

638
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 4: you know, try to get it cracking and he reject her.

639
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 4: That might be that a mess of woman up way

640
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 4: more than.

641
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, ill, because it's not normal for a man to

642
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 1: do that, though it's normal for a woman to do that.

643
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 4: Unfortunately, I animalize us, denying the women. Let's normalize us

644
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 4: when they lean over. Just be like, no, I'm good

645
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 4: right now watching this show. Let's normalize that man.

646
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: Place make care because once she starts doing some things,

647
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: they're like, when.

648
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 4: We start doing some things, why you can't be like, oh, like, damn,

649
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 4: come on.

650
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 3: It should go both ways.

651
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: I agree, I personally I get it cracking, but at

652
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it is what it is.

653
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 2: So I think, Ghana, that's crazy.

654
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: Movie if I go to jail because I decided I

655
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: wasn't the move for sex.

656
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 3: No, that ain't crazy, it's real.

657
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 2: Oh that's crazy.

658
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,880
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662
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664
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Speaker 1: gonna tell me what you would rather deal with. Okay,

665
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: So there's gonna be two options, and you pick one

666
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: and tell us why.

667
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so you gotta pick one.

668
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So number one a partner who is more honest

669
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 1: but blunt and sometimes hurt your feelings. Or a partner

670
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: who is less honest but more loving and avoids conflicts.

671
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna go with the person who is

672
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 3: more loving than honest, because I feel like.

673
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 4: You gonna lie to me at some point about something.

674
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 4: It ain't even gonna be a big deal. You just

675
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 4: don't want to have an argument over something, Okay. Like

676
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 4: it might be a friend that I don't like, but

677
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 4: you hung out with her and then you say it's

678
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 4: a different friend.

679
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 3: You know. It's just like little stuff like that.

680
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: Like those lies start to add up. Though I don't

681
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: like those lies.

682
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 3: I like the love though I need that love.

683
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: So you don't think you could have love with an

684
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: honest partner that's blunt?

685
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 3: All right? Say it again. The options.

686
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: So a partner who's more honest or blunt so like

687
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: maybe I don't like that and sometimes.

688
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 2: Hurts your feelings.

689
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: Or a partner who is less honest but more loving,

690
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: and avoids conflict.

691
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 4: More loving and more conflict. I don't like conflict. You

692
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 4: could be blunt. My feelings don't never hardly get hurt.

693
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 4: It's hard to hurt my feelings.

694
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: Then what then what he doesn't make sense? Then so

695
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: that means you could deal with that. Huh, Then you

696
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: could deal with someone be honest.

697
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 2: It's it's not saying this is what.

698
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: This is the example that I would think, like, I

699
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: could tell you, like, baby, I like when you do this,

700
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't like how this feels when you're doing that,

701
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 1: I don't love it. Or I could just be like,

702
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say anything because I feel bad. I'm

703
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 1: just gonna deal with it and I'm just gonna be

704
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: more loving and pretend that.

705
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 3: It just sounds more irritating. Give me the second one.

706
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 1: So you rather someone not tell you how they feel

707
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 1: about certain things to avoid hurting your feelings, but then

708
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: you never get to a place in relationship where you

709
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:31,359
Speaker 1: can grow.

710
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: I think.

711
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,879
Speaker 1: I think that my approach is I'm less honest but

712
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: more loving, Like I'm not lying about anything, but I

713
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: do like, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. So

714
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,399
Speaker 1: if I didn't like something, I probably wouldn't say it,

715
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 1: but I feel like I want to work on being

716
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: more like I like it this way or I like

717
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: this and that I feel like that gets you to

718
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 1: a better place in a relationship because I want someone

719
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: to tell me. I want someone to tell me, like,

720
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 1: be honest, what's up. You don't like this, let me

721
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: do it the way you like, and then it nips

722
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: it in but tonight, like you know, Okay, So the

723
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: next one is a partner who makes more money but

724
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: has less time for you, or a partner that makes

725
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 1: less money but has more time and it's more emotionally

726
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: available to travel and do the things that you want

727
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 1: to do.

728
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:17,280
Speaker 3: That's easy.

729
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 4: Number two, more time, it's more available to travel. I

730
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 4: mean like for me as a man, I'm not even

731
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 4: like focused on a female's money like that, you know,

732
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 4: regardless if I played in the NBA, if I was

733
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 4: just some working man. I feel like it's a man's

734
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 4: duty to take care of his woman. So you know,

735
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 4: if she had money and all that, but I need

736
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 4: I need that care package in the second in the

737
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 4: second package because you're gonna uplift me, but just because

738
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 4: your attitude and more loving and more and.

739
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 2: More what you say just like emotional.

740
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 4: It's more emotional, like you're gonna cut my gas up

741
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:56,919
Speaker 4: when my gas is low.

742
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, I need that. That's gonna uplift, So I'm gonna

743
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 3: roll with that. Okay, what.

744
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say. I like to have quality time. But obviously,

745
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 1: like it's hard because I'm a woman, So.

746
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 3: I don't know with more money for shure, I.

747
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: Mean it's but then I wouldn't want a man that

748
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: has less time for you.

749
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 3: So that's why I got to pick one or the other.

750
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 2: I don't know. I can't pick this. I'm moving on.

751
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 3: Time.

752
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: I want his time and lie because then then but

753
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: like it's hard because then we just go have a

754
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 1: whole bunch of time and we just broke, like confused,

755
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: what are we doing struggling to make the bills?

756
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 2: But that's crazy though too, So I don't know.

757
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: It's hard being a woman because as a woman, you're like, well,

758
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 1: like they're sacrifices you make. That's why the ladies say, like,

759
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: now you have to get you an older man that's

760
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: already did what he needed.

761
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 2: To do and y'all could hit it.

762
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: Just told me this yesterday, So I guess that's what

763
00:36:58,640 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: they're doing now.

764
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 4: But anyways, so she said just the other day that

765
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,240
Speaker 4: older girls is going after the young they are.

766
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 2: But this is not an older person that told me this.

767
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 3: This is this.

768
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: She's not younger, but she's just like, I'm not talking

769
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 1: about forty plus, she's under forty.

770
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 2: And she was saying this, you know what I mean. Yeah,

771
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 2: she's cooked. I guess. Anyways, you run. The next one is.

772
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: A partner who is more dominant and decisive, but less

773
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: emotionally expressive, so like knows what you want, knows how

774
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 1: to make decisions very clear. Or a partner who's way

775
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: more emotional but less like structured and assertive.

776
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

777
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: A person who's more like decisive and what they want dominant,

778
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: but they are less expressive, emotional.

779
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 3: Little masculine versus.

780
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: Versus a partner who's way more emotional and all like babe,

781
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: you love me, but less structured and assertive, but like

782
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: not dominant, like you know, just wants you to make

783
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: all the decisions.

784
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 3: Give you more femininity.

785
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 4: I'm taking number two because the sounds the first one

786
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 4: is a little more masculine than I like, that's too assertive.

787
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 4: You're gonna say something in front of the homies one day,

788
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 4: and we're gonna argue, it's gonna be crazy. Got you

789
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,720
Speaker 4: women always I have just seen them type of women

790
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 4: be all in front of you, your girls and you

791
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 4: and your homies, and then she shoots something to him

792
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 4: in front of all of them that's foul.

793
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 2: Like what I'm curious to know what that would be.

794
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 3: Like, like like, man, I haven't seen it.

795
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 2: What would they say? What was that?

796
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:46,399
Speaker 1: Man?

797
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 3: Like a dude?

798
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,720
Speaker 4: Since say you here, you a cat with your homies

799
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 4: and it's your girl and and she just chilling and

800
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 4: it's your homies, say it's just her. She might be

801
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 4: like say she walk in likenigga while you want to

802
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 4: asker my calls, I'm right here, or something like you

803
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 4: didn't ask my text other day. I have to go

804
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 4: upside your head like in front of in front of

805
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 4: the like all that, and you could tell that he

806
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 4: wasn't you know, he wasn't a man in a relationship,

807
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 4: you know.

808
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 3: See, you guys gotta understand.

809
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 4: See you can always tell in a relationship because not

810
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 4: always all the guys where the boxers. Some guys wear

811
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 4: the lingerie. The lingerie, Yeah, I call it lingerie and

812
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 4: some of the girls wear the boxers and it's noticeable,

813
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 4: and you know it's okay, some guys need that.

814
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, not me, but I don't like that.

815
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: I personally would go for a partner who's more dominating

816
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: the siceve, because I'm going to be the one that's like.

817
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:49,839
Speaker 2: I don't know, what do you want?

818
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: Like, I don't want to do that, So okay, so

819
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 1: just two more and then we're gonna move.

820
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 2: We're going to finish this segment.

821
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: But a partner who challenges you and pushes you to grow,

822
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: but obviously that causes more friction because they're challenging you

823
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: and they're pushing you to your limits. Or a partner

824
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: who just supports you emotionally but doesn't push you to grow, that's.

825
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 3: A good one.

826
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 2: Uh.

827
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 3: A partner who pushes you to grow. I like that.

828
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 4: A partner who pushes you to grow because that can

829
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 4: mean in so many different things, spiritually, emotionally, financially. You know,

830
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 4: you can grow in so many different.

831
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 3: Areas in your life.

832
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 4: And you know, when you got a partner that's down

833
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 4: for that, I think that's pretty cool. You know, like,

834
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 4: if you got somebody that's very encouraging to just deal

835
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 4: with bad habits or you know, do more of this

836
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:40,839
Speaker 4: and then notices it.

837
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 1: I'm with that, Okay, I think the same. I would

838
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: like to have somebody that pushes me to grow, for sure.

839
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,240
Speaker 1: I'm very like I need to learn a lot of things,

840
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,479
Speaker 1: and I like to grow from just learning from someone

841
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 1: who can teach me.

842
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 3: Yeah.

843
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 4: I don't always think I'm the smartest dude in the room,

844
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 4: just like when even like when you say words I

845
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 4: don't know, I don't be afraid to say what that means.

846
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like I ain't. I don't

847
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,919
Speaker 4: want to come across like I know everything. I ain't

848
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 4: like that for sure.

849
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: Okay.

850
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 1: Last one a partner who has more boundaries and independence,

851
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 1: but they're less emotionally.

852
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 3: Attached to you, get them out of here.

853
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: Or on a partner who's emotionally attached, like very attached

854
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: to you, but has less independence.

855
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like the second one.

856
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 4: Because I can teach you for everything that but I

857
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 4: can teach you independence.

858
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, You got more room

859
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 3: to grow.

860
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 2: Okay, you can rock with that. Okay, this is the

861
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 2: last one.

862
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: I thought we had to more of this last one.

863
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: A partner who communicates everything immediately even if it causes

864
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: like friction, or a partner who just processed things quietly

865
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 1: and avoids the confrontation to keep the peace.

866
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 2: Well, you already said earlier you don't like conflicts, so

867
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 2: you want someone.

868
00:41:56,000 --> 00:42:00,479
Speaker 4: To conversation like, like like, because I think of things

869
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,359
Speaker 4: like you go through it, say, like like we talked

870
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 4: about this on the episode, like a lot of times

871
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 4: you overreact when you tell something immediately, when something happens.

872
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 3: Immediately, process so like you need to take time to

873
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:14,240
Speaker 3: really process.

874
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,280
Speaker 4: And I've learned that over my years to like really

875
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 4: process it, soak it in, evaluate it, and then then

876
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 4: make a decision on how I go about it. Because

877
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 4: like I said, I could just go into like a

878
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 4: restaurant and I could see the homie with a girl

879
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 4: and I'll be like hold on, or or the homegirl

880
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 4: with with a dude, and I could be like right,

881
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:39,439
Speaker 4: but over here, she over here, like hey dog, get

882
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 4: over here.

883
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 3: But I don't know what's going on, so like, let me.

884
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 4: Process it, let me assess it, and then I'm gonna

885
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 4: just be like, man, maybe that's his cousin Auntie.

886
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 1: Cut But if you're in a relationship and you're going

887
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:53,240
Speaker 1: through something and something happens, and this is what happens sometimes,

888
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: like and I've had this where you're trying to process.

889
00:42:56,000 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 2: But you your partner is so in tune with you energetically.

890
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 3: And so I'm gonna leave it alone.

891
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 1: So no, usually they're like, what's wrong, what's wrong? I

892
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: could feel something's wrong. I know you, I know something's wrong,

893
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 1: and you're trying to process it and you're like, nothing's wrong,

894
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 1: nothing's wrong, but they're so in tune with you. So

895
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: that can happen a lot in relationships to where it's

896
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,399
Speaker 1: like you have to just say it at that point.

897
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: People try to process. But if you're with somebody and

898
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: you guys are in tune with each other.

899
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 4: Assessing it is different ways to process too, because when

900
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,799
Speaker 4: you process it, you can't let it like affect you.

901
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:32,479
Speaker 4: Processing mode is like I'm still processing, I'm going about

902
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 4: it like you don't even know what's going on. But

903
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 4: when I'm really I do that alone, when I'm just

904
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 4: kind of sitting there, I need to do that alone,

905
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 4: because when your partner know you, you show it, and

906
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 4: so like you know, you got to kind of like

907
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 4: assess it differently or come off like you know it

908
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 4: ain't nothing going on right now. Let me act normal

909
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 4: than when I get in my space. I can process

910
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 4: it better.

911
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: Just fake it though, and just act normal when it's

912
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 1: like for me, you could tell my energy on my face,

913
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:01,800
Speaker 1: like I could say nothing and just be like I

914
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,320
Speaker 1: could see something that bothers me and then I'm saying nothing.

915
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 2: But I just have that energy where it's.

916
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 3: Just like people because it affects them too much.

917
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 4: Right like me, I'm not gonna show what's bothered me

918
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 4: off the rip, you know I might.

919
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 3: You know my process it a little different. You knows

920
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 3: is a little different.

921
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 2: Fair aboudy? Okay? Well, anyways, thank you guys.

922
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,839
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925
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 2: There's a viral.

926
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 1: List that women put out about all the places that

927
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: they will not go on a date too.

928
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 2: They absolutely refuse to go on a date.

929
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 4: Don't tell me, Okay, I want to say this. If

930
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:53,879
Speaker 4: I take her to the California Piece of Kitchen, She's

931
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 4: not going.

932
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 2: That's not actually not on the list, dum. But the

933
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 2: first thing on the list is cheesecake factory.

934
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 3: Cheesecake is lower to California.

935
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: They probably just didn't forget to put Applebee's, Chili's, Olive Gardens.

936
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 3: Franchises. That's not even out there no more.

937
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 2: All those franchises are out.

938
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 4: There, not out there like they used to be. Like

939
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 4: where do your where's the Chilis at?

940
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 1: There's one out here. It's in Encino, in the same

941
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 1: shopping get that, like, there's Chilis And also there's a

942
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,320
Speaker 1: Chilies that.

943
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 3: That's too far to go to. Some of these places cheesecake.

944
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 3: I hearve you.

945
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 2: These are average people. You have to stop thinking about you.

946
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 3: The Chilies is by me, I know exactly where.

947
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm saying there's cheesecake factory everywhere.

948
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 3: There's cheesecakes everywhere.

949
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 2: So there's all of everywhere.

950
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 3: We should test this theory out.

951
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 4: We should I should take five girls out to five

952
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 4: different places on that list and see if they rejected.

953
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 1: So another place is the movies, your house, any fast chain,

954
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: red lobster, the gym, the church women I don't know.

955
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 4: The gender church, I mean not the gender. Yeah, what

956
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 4: is the gender of these women.

957
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:14,720
Speaker 2: Anyways, can I finish the listener?

958
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 1: No, the gym, church, Starbucks, coffee dates, ice cream dates,

959
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 1: family functions.

960
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 3: Race. Are these women.

961
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: Somewhere that requires a long drive, bowling, a hookah bar, nightclubs.

962
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,280
Speaker 2: Bart So this is the house.

963
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 3: This couldn't have been a black people. It is people.

964
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 4: This is all where all the black people want to go.

965
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 4: They just can't be This can't be black people. This

966
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 4: can't be a list for black people because all the

967
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 4: black girls want to go to all these places, So

968
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 4: this can't be that.

969
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 3: Don't tell me this list. Where is this list from?

970
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 2: I think it's black people.

971
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 3: No, this is probably like it was.

972
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 2: Asians don't make lists of places they're not going on

973
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 2: the first day.

974
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,439
Speaker 1: Like, the only race that's doing that is us. The

975
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: only people that are talking about this is us.

976
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 2: The only people that.

977
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: Are really still on the internet arguing about relationships, it's us, Like,

978
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 1: let's just keep it a buck. You think that Asians

979
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: are like, let me put together lips of all the

980
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 1: places I will Asians.

981
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 2: Are married to other Asians with families and living their.

982
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: Best life and going to go on tourist trips. They're

983
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: not worried about what the hell of a first.

984
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 2: Date is going on? Okay, is this consistent?

985
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 3: This is all women or men? It is all women.

986
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 2: This is women who men is talking about.

987
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 4: All this ain't going to be black women talking about this.

988
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 4: It is because I'll take you. We go to Red

989
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 4: Lobster Sizzler. You ain't going to Sizzler, I'm not.

990
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 2: I don't eat Sizzler on my own though.

991
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 3: I'm not eating Razzler.

992
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 2: I won't be blowed. I'm not eating sizzler though. It's

993
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,839
Speaker 2: not even about that. I'm not eating no sizzler. Though,

994
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 2: don't eat that.

995
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 3: I don't want to be in eat nothing.

996
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: Maybe like a salad, like maybe salad, but I wouldn't

997
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 1: want to I'll be very very like only because I

998
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 1: don't eat that.

999
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 2: I didn't even I don't eat that.

1000
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:12,479
Speaker 3: I didn't.

1001
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: I don't eat that like. Yeah, but I would go

1002
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 1: to a hookah bar. I would go to a bar

1003
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 1: for drinks. I would go to Uh. The only reason

1004
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: why I wouldn't go to the movies is because I

1005
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: want to be able to talk to you on the

1006
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 1: first day. I'm not going Yeah, I'm not going to

1007
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: your house first date. No, I'm never going to never

1008
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,280
Speaker 1: done that to someone's house.

1009
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 2: No, I'm not going to someone's house. You could kill

1010
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 2: me like a murder first. No, I'm never going to

1011
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 2: your hotel.

1012
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going into a room, private room with

1013
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: a man I just met right now, Like, that's crazy,

1014
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:48,280
Speaker 1: that's scary.

1015
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 2: I'm cool. I would go on a call.

1016
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 3: Day four seasons? Is that there the Ritz? That's first

1017
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 3: date the first day?

1018
00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 4: They probably would they go the Fritz going to that

1019
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 4: rooms every twenty four hours.

1020
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 2: So anyways, that's crazy.

1021
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:13,799
Speaker 1: So speaking of but I'll go to the Ritz, right,

1022
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 1: I'm not going to nowhere that includes us being in

1023
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: a room together when I don't even know you, Like,

1024
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 1: that's crazy to me. I have to at least know

1025
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: you a little bit, like first date, just getting to

1026
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:26,879
Speaker 1: know you.

1027
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 3: That's all cap that listens, cap cap, so we know that.

1028
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 2: Come on now, Okay.

1029
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: So basically Claudia Jordan said.

1030
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 3: That ce j I know Claudia Jordan.

1031
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she said that dating in your forties.

1032
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 3: Is harsh, man, Claudia.

1033
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: Women think that they finally ready to settle down, there

1034
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 1: will be a lot of supply on the shelf, and

1035
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 1: there isn't.

1036
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 3: Is Claudia married. No, I don't think I don't.

1037
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 2: I think she's not.

1038
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: That's why she's saying this, that she's in her forties,

1039
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: and she's saying that when.

1040
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 2: You are young, you're hitting it, you're cracket.

1041
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: And now she's like, you know, it's not as many

1042
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: people on the shelf as you would want.

1043
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true for the older ladies. Yeah, I'm trying

1044
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 4: to see if she married.

1045
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 3: I'm looking up on her.

1046
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 2: She's not married. I'm telling you she's not married.

1047
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 4: So yeah, I think that's true. She must. She going

1048
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,879
Speaker 4: through it right now. She and her little forties right

1049
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 4: now in the dating pools probably like it slims up

1050
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 4: because most guys is easy.

1051
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 1: She said, all the good guys are married or they're

1052
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:43,800
Speaker 1: in a relationship basically.

1053
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, that's just what it is. She's true,

1054
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:48,760
Speaker 3: She's true.

1055
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 4: She know, you know when you started, like when you

1056
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 4: start going through your forties and then mid life, because

1057
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 4: mid life crisis kicks in more for females.

1058
00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 3: Earlier than men.

1059
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 4: Damn, I don't know what age group to deal with,

1060
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 4: because now you got all these when you're in your forties,

1061
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 4: you start like, damn, do I mess with this young dude,

1062
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 4: because now I got a crop of young dudes on me.

1063
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 4: But then now I got these old dudes, but he

1064
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 4: got too much issues. Then this dude, I don't know,

1065
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 4: he my age, but he you know, he toxic.

1066
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 1: It's just like, damn, do you think that it's a

1067
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: red flag for a man like to be Like a

1068
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: lot of women will say, like if a man's like older,

1069
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: like forties up their fifties and he's single and you

1070
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: meet him, that he's a red flag.

1071
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 4: No, because most men in that space are at peace.

1072
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:39,720
Speaker 4: Most men in that space then did everything already. Most

1073
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 4: men at that age get married and if they single,

1074
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 4: they've been divorced maybe one or two times, and.

1075
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 3: They like, you know, they get at peace with theyself.

1076
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 2: They like what about? What about?

1077
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 1: Because I remember stating someone and he was like maybe

1078
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: like forty four or.

1079
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 2: Something, I don't remember, but he didn't have any kids.

1080
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: And I remember, like, I like, someone told me, like, oh,

1081
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: he's a red flag because he's in his forties and

1082
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: he doesn't.

1083
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 4: Have to Well, you can't judge that because you can

1084
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 4: say the thing same thing about girls who in the

1085
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 4: thirties who don't got no kids. Yeah, you know, are

1086
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 4: they a red flag? You know we talked about that. Yeah,

1087
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 4: but then you know you can't like look at it

1088
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 4: like that. You know, some guys just probably worked their

1089
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:30,799
Speaker 4: whole life and was like, man, I can't I can't

1090
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 4: afford kids, or I can't afford to be married.

1091
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 3: You know, it's a lot of people like that.

1092
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 4: Like sometimes financially stable and you ain't really been out

1093
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 4: there like that. You don't want to just put a

1094
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 4: kid in the world who you can't take care of.

1095
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: But what if he's not because the situation I was in,

1096
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: he was actually rich and he just didn't have kids.

1097
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 1: But his situation was like I never wanted, Like, yeah,

1098
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: you had.

1099
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,840
Speaker 4: A gang of different situations, like he was six, you

1100
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:55,959
Speaker 4: have the six eight rich.

1101
00:52:57,680 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 2: It wasn't these are some of the same people. You

1102
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 2: realize that, no.

1103
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 3: It ain't none of the same. It is you just

1104
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 3: said the other some of them saying.

1105
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 4: That was this. Then you had the shorter man. Then

1106
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 4: you have the man you're hiding the shorter man.

1107
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:12,919
Speaker 1: He is the same person because I meant to say

1108
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 1: he was a little taller than me.

1109
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,359
Speaker 4: He had all that situations. You'd have been through all

1110
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:18,240
Speaker 4: the situations.

1111
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 2: See then you about to start. No, I haven't no

1112
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 2: my situation.

1113
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:25,879
Speaker 3: What tell us about the rich guy?

1114
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 2: He was someone I dated, that was it. And he

1115
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 2: was in his forties. How old was I? Like, I

1116
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,879
Speaker 2: don't know? You do know, I really don't.

1117
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,360
Speaker 3: He was in as forty as you was.

1118
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 2: What I was like twenty something?

1119
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 3: How much did you weigh? You know what I'm saying.

1120
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 3: It wasn't during that time.

1121
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 2: No, it wasn't.

1122
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 4: Well then, how you don't know? You remember so much,

1123
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 4: but you were getting the main thing.

1124
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 1: I don't remember the ages of a lot of stuff though,

1125
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 1: but I know I was like twenty five, So it

1126
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:01,439
Speaker 1: was a nights in your gap.

1127
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 4: You're capping one percent, You're Cathy. There's no chance of that,

1128
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 4: I know for.

1129
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 3: Lie.

1130
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 2: I'm not lie though. He was like this is the thing.

1131
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:16,360
Speaker 2: It was no one that I ever took serious.

1132
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,840
Speaker 1: It was a dating like and and then I just

1133
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: remember one time I dated him once we went out

1134
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: on date.

1135
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 3: And I remember once remember him so much.

1136
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: I remember him because I remember that people were like,

1137
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: he's a red flag. That's what made me be like

1138
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,399
Speaker 1: do I like? I was young, so I was impressionable,

1139
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,399
Speaker 1: and I remember like always having that on my mind now,

1140
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:34,839
Speaker 1: like is.

1141
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 2: That a red flag? But is it also a red

1142
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 2: flag for a man to have seven kids? Like you

1143
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:40,240
Speaker 2: know what?

1144
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:40,479
Speaker 3: What?

1145
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:42,760
Speaker 1: Like would you rather deal with a man with zero kids,

1146
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 1: no baggage, no baby mama's or would you rather deal

1147
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 1: with a man like it was impressionable to me because

1148
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: I always remember that, like do I rather deal with a.

1149
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: Man with these kids?

1150
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:52,959
Speaker 1: Or do I rather deal with a man who doesn't

1151
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 1: have kids and doesn't have all that extra baggage?

1152
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,880
Speaker 2: Like that was an impressionable moment. Sometimes you have moments

1153
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,399
Speaker 2: in your life that are impressionable on you.

1154
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 3: So are you a red flag? I don't know. I

1155
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:09,879
Speaker 3: hope not. I think that in a middle aged lady.

1156
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: In age is crazy, okay, middle age lady, Yeah, thirty four.

1157
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 2: I don't have any kids.

1158
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 3: Is that a red flag? Maybe?

1159
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 2: It depends on who you are.

1160
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 3: I don't want to put that on that.

1161
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 2: It depends on who you're asking me.

1162
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 3: I wouldn't put that on you. I wouldn't call that

1163
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:26,720
Speaker 3: a red flag.

1164
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 2: Thank you. I appreciate that you said otherwise multiple times.

1165
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 4: But I might have said you cooked and some other things,

1166
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 4: but you talked about it like a dog.

1167
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 3: No, I didn't you do. I just we always talk about.

1168
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:39,800
Speaker 4: Your journey or when it was two hundred and ninety

1169
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 4: five pounds I was.

1170
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,320
Speaker 2: I wasn't two hundred ninety five pounds.

1171
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 3: Man, This picture right here looks crazy.

1172
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,359
Speaker 2: Don't bring up pictures right now. Put it down. Put

1173
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 2: it down.

1174
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 3: Now, this at least three something.

1175
00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 1: No, I've never been three hundred pounds in my life.

1176
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 1: I've never been three hundred pounds in my life.

1177
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 2: I haven't. I've never been.

1178
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 4: Three hundred pounds hunted the way. That's that was crazy.

1179
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,240
Speaker 4: I looked at because it came up on my feed today.

1180
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:19,800
Speaker 4: I was like, damn, it came up with my feed today.

1181
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 4: I was like, damn, that looked like more than to.

1182
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 2: Eighty anything else you would like to say.

1183
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:29,959
Speaker 4: No, I was just it came up on my feed.

1184
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:31,879
Speaker 4: It never came up on my feet in a minute.

1185
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 4: And it came up today. You had the all black

1186
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:38,400
Speaker 4: on and you and then you showed them the bam

1187
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 4: look now though, that's what's up? The look now though?

1188
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 1: Okay, breath because you I run you, you run me.

1189
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 3: I run you low?

1190
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you run me low.

1191
00:56:56,719 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: So anyways, when we're asked, would they rather deal with

1192
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: the married man that never tells you no.

1193
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 3: Or deal with the man married man that never tells

1194
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 3: you no. Yeah.

1195
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 2: This is a so so so.

1196
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 1: This man went on the street and asked, like a

1197
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:15,439
Speaker 1: bunch of women, like hundreds of women, would you rather

1198
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: deal with the married man that tells you.

1199
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 3: No or tells you no yeah, never tells you.

1200
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: That never tells you no, I'm sorry, yeah, or deal

1201
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:25,920
Speaker 1: with your with your man who tells you no. Forty

1202
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 1: five percent of the time, about ninety nine percent women

1203
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: said they'll do it with the married man they never.

1204
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 4: First of all, this is stupid because a married man

1205
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 4: is gonna say no, there's no.

1206
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 3: When you're married, you have to say no. You're married.

1207
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 3: You next to your wife and come hang out with me.

1208
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 4: No right now, Chilli, you're out with her at at dinner.

1209
00:57:55,480 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 4: Pull up, No, I can't do that right now, Like

1210
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 4: that's a lie. When you married, you gotta say no

1211
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 4: more so that ain't real. That ain't real. Okay, married

1212
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 4: men have to say money.

1213
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: But the point but it's not about it if it's real,

1214
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 1: it's the fact that women rather deal with a man that's.

1215
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 3: Not there when it comes to money.

1216
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 4: A married man like I need ten thousand okay that nigga.

1217
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 4: You ask your You ask your man, I need ten thousand,

1218
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 4: he's gonna be like, hell no. But the married man,

1219
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 4: like when it comes to stuff like that, if you're

1220
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 4: talking about just like items, the married man gonna say

1221
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:33,919
Speaker 4: more Yes. When you talk about time, he's gonna say

1222
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 4: more nor.

1223
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 2: That wasn't the point of it, but I was the.

1224
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 4: Point of it. I've seen it. I've been around I see.

1225
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 4: You know, I'm a little older, so I haven't seen

1226
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 4: all the.

1227
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, all of that. Okay.

1228
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 1: So there's this viral conversation where a woman so a

1229
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: man says, if I if we were on the street and

1230
00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,440
Speaker 1: a bunch of group of men came up to disrespecting you,

1231
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 1: what do you expect me to do? And the woman

1232
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: was like, I expect you to beat them all up?

1233
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: And the man is yeah, and the man.

1234
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 4: What's the most like, what's the disrespect? Like grabber?

1235
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1236
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: They didn't say, they just said the disrespect call her

1237
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: if can I finish what the whole thing first?

1238
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 2: Like then you've been going to be off hall. I

1239
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 2: can't finish the whole topic one time? This is crazy, Like,

1240
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 2: oh my god.

1241
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 1: So she said that she wants him to beat up

1242
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 1: and the man, the men that were on that podcast

1243
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 1: were all like, how were we expected to pay everything,

1244
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 1: protect you and potentially die?

1245
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 2: We're not allowed to be scared.

1246
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: We're not allowed to have nothing going on, Like why

1247
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 1: I gotta beat ten men up?

1248
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:53,919
Speaker 2: Like, oh, let's run.

1249
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: Like I'm not to be and from my life at

1250
00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 1: risk because he disrespected? Like these are ten men against

1251
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 1: me and you want me to beat them all up

1252
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 1: one by one. It was blowing that mom listening. So

1253
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what do you feel about that?

1254
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 4: So ten dudes come up on with my chick and

1255
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 4: they just come over here. I'm like, y'all got her?

1256
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 4: Let me get up up out of here, Let me

1257
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 4: get up out of here. This is drama, crazy, This

1258
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 4: is drama right now. You gotta be able to keep up.

1259
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 4: You gotta be able to keep up with me on

1260
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 4: the run, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, what's the disrespect?

1261
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 4: Like all right, all right here on some real ship.

1262
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 4: Ten dudes come out of out of here. I'm gonna

1263
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,919
Speaker 4: see that from afar. I'm like, they need to walk

1264
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 4: faster to the car, like I'm gonna see that. Ain't

1265
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,479
Speaker 4: no ten dudes coming up on me. I'm not gonna

1266
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 4: even put myself in that type of situation. And then

1267
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 4: if I did and they disrespecting, like touching, calling you

1268
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 4: out your name, ain't no touching, then I'm gonna have

1269
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 4: to get beat up. Yea. If touch then I'm gonna

1270
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,680
Speaker 4: have to get beat up without your name. Let's keep

1271
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 4: it more like words. Ain't nothing but like disrespectful overcrossing

1272
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 4: the line is touching for me. Yeah, but like words,

1273
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 4: it's like, you know what, we can deal with words.

1274
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 4: I'm grown, you know what, they can call you a

1275
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 4: bea with you know whatever. Let's get out of here.

1276
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 1: You know what.

1277
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 3: We in on that.

1278
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 4: But like if the touching is then then at that's

1279
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:21,680
Speaker 4: next level. I gotta be like, na, that's not going down.

1280
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 4: Don't have to get jumped period.

1281
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's interesting.

1282
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 1: I personally don't want to see my man get jumped,

1283
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: so I would probably just be like.

1284
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 4: You can't touch my girl, my wife, my significant other.

1285
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 4: You can't touch her at all at all.

1286
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 3: Don't even think you can do that. We're gonna have

1287
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 3: to get down.

1288
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 4: I don't care because now if they do that and

1289
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 4: we walk away, I gotta hear from you, and I'll

1290
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 4: see you more than them. So I'd rather get my

1291
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 4: ass whooped and live with that to where you're gonna

1292
01:01:58,040 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 4: be loving me more.

1293
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, love it more, but I will be

1294
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: riddled with so much guilt.

1295
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 2: I would feel so bad.

1296
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: I would be sucked up and then I feel like

1297
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 1: I owe you all this shit and.

1298
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to live like that. Yeah, I don't

1299
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:11,920
Speaker 2: want to live like that. I'd rather let's just hit it.

1300
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:13,120
Speaker 2: Let's hit it like.

1301
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 1: Because then I'm gonna feel so guilty every day, Like

1302
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to live like that. So no, but

1303
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: I get it. But now, okay, So we're gonna be

1304
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: doing a little like hotline. So if you guys have

1305
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: any questions or you want to say anything, please make

1306
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 1: sure you guys dm us send them in all of that.

1307
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,360
Speaker 1: So we're gonna answer just a quick fan questions and

1308
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 1: then we're gonna wrap up. So this at Luna, Oh, well,

1309
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: I don't know who they want us to say their

1310
01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 1: Instagram names, so let's not so okay. I need real

1311
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 1: advice because this has been sitting on my chest. I've

1312
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 1: been dealing with my boyfriend almost two years now, and

1313
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: before him. I hooked up one time with someone he knows.

1314
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 1: It's not his friend friend, but they do run into

1315
01:02:56,720 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 1: each other sometimes and they have a few mutual friends.

1316
01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: It literally was nothing and met nothing, and it was

1317
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 1: way before him. Part of me feels like I should

1318
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: tell him because I don't feel like keeping stuff from him,

1319
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Speaker 1: But part of me feels like it's just gonna create

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01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 1: unnecessary drama and jealousy for no reason. I'm also low

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01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: key scared he'll judge me or even leave me, even

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01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 1: though it was way before him. Will he respect me

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01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,240
Speaker 1: more if I tell him? Am I supposed to say something?

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01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 1: Or just leave it alone?

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Speaker 3: Shut the fuck up, girl, move on. If you don't know,

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01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 3: don't worry about it.

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01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 2: What if the man tells him he a lie, he's lying,

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01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 2: do you say that he's lying.

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Speaker 3: Show some receipts.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:40,640
Speaker 4: Don't deal with the drama, girl, Just like if it's already,

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01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:42,919
Speaker 4: if it's good, leave it alone. It was before him, right,

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01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:44,800
Speaker 4: You ain't got to bring up nothing before him, and

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01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 4: you don't really mess with him.

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Speaker 3: And they ain't really like that. That's nothing.

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01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 1: But they run into each other, she's saying, and they

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01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,040
Speaker 1: see each other and they have mutual friends.

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01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 3: It's cool whatever, leave it alone.

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01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 4: It's not that serious, okay, don't you ain't gotta say nothing,

1340
01:03:59,080 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 4: keep it moving.

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01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: And then so what if the man says something and

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01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 1: then the man her dude gets mad, like, why you

1343
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:08,919
Speaker 1: didn't tell me? You know, I run into this guy.

1344
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: You know i'd be seeing him sometimes and we have

1345
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 1: mutual runs. You never told me, So now I look

1346
01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:13,880
Speaker 1: stupid because he said something.

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01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,400
Speaker 4: Leave it alone ago, we're talking about it later. That's

1348
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 4: what she didn't tell, Like because I didn't want to

1349
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 4: know drama, but it was before you.

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01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 3: So what you telling me about all the girls you

1351
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 3: before me? Right?

1352
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 2: I feel that?

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01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:32,360
Speaker 1: Okay, I feel that. Next thing, My girl goes through

1354
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 1: my phone a lot. She says it's not because she

1355
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 1: thinks I'm cheating. It just makes her feel better because

1356
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 1: of the stuff that happened in her past. I don't

1357
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 1: have anything to hide, but it honestly makes me uncomfortable,

1358
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 1: and I feel like I don't really have privacy.

1359
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 2: I love her and I.

1360
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 1: Don't want to make her feel more insecure, but I'm

1361
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:49,640
Speaker 1: starting to feel kind of controlled.

1362
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 2: Am I tripping? Or is this something I should actually

1363
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 2: be worried about?

1364
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 3: Red flag. You need to leave her.

1365
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 2: You can't just be telling people leave people.

1366
01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 4: You too insecure. He's probably a depressed person. I can't

1367
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 4: be with nobody like that. You handle your issues and

1368
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 4: you bring in your past into ours now, into our future.

1369
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 4: Because you said I dealt with this before, right, So

1370
01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:14,439
Speaker 4: you're taking your past and you put it into our relationship, right,

1371
01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 4: so you know what I'm not dealing with that. You

1372
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,959
Speaker 4: need to get over that first and then move into

1373
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 4: a new relationship because clearly it's affecting ours.

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01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I get that. So I've been dating this guy

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01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 1: for like a year and a half. He treats me

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01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: really good. We talk about the future and all of that,

1377
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 1: but he still hasn't introduced me to his family, and

1378
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,880
Speaker 1: he doesn't really post me. He says he's just private

1379
01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 1: and doesn't feel like people in his business. But sometimes

1380
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 1: I feel hidden and it messes with my head. Everything

1381
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: else is good, So I don't know if I'm overthinking

1382
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 1: or if this is a real red flag.

1383
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 4: You're overthinking it. The time is right, it'll be right.

1384
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 4: You know, he probably dealt with some stuff before. Listen,

1385
01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:57,680
Speaker 4: as long as it's good between y'all. Two the parents like,

1386
01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 4: damn if he go on date a girl, meet, introduce

1387
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 4: every girl to his parents that he date. No, come on,

1388
01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 4: dot's gotta be real. When y'all start living together and

1389
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 4: y'all start really really talking, I'm engaged.

1390
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 3: That makes more sense. I get it.

1391
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 4: Leave it alone, keep moving. It's good now, don't overthink it.

1392
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 1: Okay, my boyfriend paid this last one. My boyfriend pays

1393
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: most of the bills and stuff, and I'm grateful for that.

1394
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 1: But lately I feel like I'm doing way more in

1395
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 1: other ways. I'm cooking, I'm cleaning, I'm supporting him emotionally,

1396
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:29,240
Speaker 1: hyping him up and all of that. Sometimes it feels

1397
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: like he really all he really brings is money, And

1398
01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 1: I know that sounds bad, but that's how it feels.

1399
01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to make it transactional or start a fight,

1400
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: but I don't want to always feel like I'm being unappreciated.

1401
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 1: How could I even bring that up to him?

1402
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 4: All right, this is what you need to do, and

1403
01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 4: you need to think about it like this. How about

1404
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:53,280
Speaker 4: if y'all the roles were reversed and he did your

1405
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 4: job and you did his job. How would you feel

1406
01:06:56,720 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 4: Because most girls were like I ain't paying for him.

1407
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 4: So if you still like that, if you can reverse

1408
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 4: the roles and be cool with it. Cool, But if

1409
01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 4: you feel a certain way, then everything is good. Just

1410
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 4: embrace and be a star in your role in the

1411
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:18,479
Speaker 4: relationship and he'll do the same. And that's how things work.

1412
01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 4: Stop trying to change it up.

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01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:25,160
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