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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: And only on the New Hits one oh six point one.

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Speaker 1: Gordon is on the phone today for to Catch a

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Speaker 1: Cheater and he thinks that his girlfriend of almost eight

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Speaker 1: years named Kim might be cheating on him. Wow, Gordon,

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Speaker 1: why after eight years all of a sudden, do you

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Speaker 1: think she's cheating?

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Speaker 3: Uh? It's kind of a longish story, but I'll try

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Speaker 3: to keep that short. So yeah, I mean we've been

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Speaker 3: together for eight years total. Probably about a year or

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Speaker 3: so ago things kind of took a turn, like do

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Speaker 3: we just started feeling distant things like that. We actually

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Speaker 3: we tried to make the adult decision like, hey, let's

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Speaker 3: just take a break before we start to hate each other.

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Speaker 3: I guess, kind of look inward, you know, like take

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Speaker 3: some time apart, let's focus on ourselves and if it

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Speaker 3: was meant to be, well, you know, if you love

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Speaker 3: it stead of for you know, I don't know the

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Speaker 3: whole if it comes.

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Speaker 2: I tell myself that all the time.

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Speaker 4: It's a Mariah Carey lyric, you know, butterfly, Yeah, it's

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Speaker 4: what you're meant to be.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, That's what we did.

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Speaker 3: That was you know that was the whole move. Let's

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Speaker 3: just spend some time alone and you know, let's you know,

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Speaker 3: maybe the issue is us and individual as individuals, and

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Speaker 3: you know, if it's meant to be, we'll come back

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Speaker 3: stronger than ever. And about a month later we did.

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Speaker 3: We reconnected and and it was amazing, like it felt

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Speaker 3: like a genuine fresh start. And then it it, Uh

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Speaker 3: I don't know this last month or so, it's it's

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Speaker 3: just taken another turn, and it's weirder than the first one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what is specifically weird about this time?

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Speaker 3: Uh? I think because it felt so new again, you know,

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Speaker 3: like I was, I couldn't believe. Honestly, I didn't know

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Speaker 3: how it was going to go after the break, but

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Speaker 3: I reached out first, like that was I kind of

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Speaker 3: instigated it. But she was super on board and I

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Speaker 3: missed you too, and you know, if we can do

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Speaker 3: it right, let's do it again. And I think I

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Speaker 3: was just so optimistic. And then about a month later

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Speaker 3: she just got I don't know, man, it's like a

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Speaker 3: new distance, if that makes sense. Like she's quiet again.

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Speaker 3: She it seems like she finds reasons to not be home.

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Speaker 3: How lay with my friends, But it feels like her

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Speaker 3: friends aren't out. It's frequently as she is. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: it just feels it feels strange. Sometimes I'll catch her

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Speaker 3: like looking at her phone and she's kind of smiling,

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Speaker 3: and I'll be like, hey, what's up, and She's like,

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Speaker 3: I just saw something on oh yeah, Instagram. But it

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Speaker 3: feels like she's talking to someone. But I don't press

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Speaker 3: it because I don't want to ruin it.

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Speaker 1: I know that feeling where you look over and it's

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Speaker 1: like I recognize that smile. You have a smile at

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Speaker 1: me like that a long time, you know, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I saw that a lot of my last relationship, and

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Speaker 1: I was just like, but I never asked same thing.

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Speaker 1: I was like, maybe not. I don't want to be that,

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Speaker 1: but maybe I should have. I have no idea, Right,

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Speaker 1: did you ask Gordon? You didn't say anything when she

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Speaker 1: was doing that.

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Speaker 3: I didn't. I just have benefit of the doubt, because

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Speaker 3: the thing that I did, you know, during our break

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Speaker 3: too I tried to analyze myself and it was like

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Speaker 3: I should Maybe my fault was not giving her the

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Speaker 3: benefit of it out frequently enough so I just I

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Speaker 3: just let it go. I just trust her, you know, like, okay,

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Speaker 3: something funny on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it could have been, but also you know,

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Speaker 4: guts her loud m m exactly.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well man, well you already told us a

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Speaker 1: grocery store she's a rewards card member at, So we'll

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Speaker 1: play a song come Back, and then pretend to be

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Speaker 1: from there and call her and say that. Every single month,

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Speaker 1: we choose one rewards card member at Randon who gets

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Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our floral department as our way

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Speaker 1: of saying thank you, and we'll see if she believes that,

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Speaker 1: and if she does, if she sends the flowers to

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Speaker 1: you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, sounds good.

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Speaker 1: All right man, We'll play a song come Back and

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Speaker 1: get your to Catch a Teater next, it's.

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Speaker 2: Time to Catch a Cheater only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Right in the middle of To Catch a Cheater and

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Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Gordon is on the phone,

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Speaker 1: and Gordon has been with his girlfriend for almost eight years,

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Speaker 1: but now he thinks that she might be messing around.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna see if we can catch her before

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Speaker 2: we call her.

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Speaker 1: Though, Gordon why don't you refresh everybody's memory about why

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Speaker 1: you think that your girlfriend camus cheating?

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Speaker 3: Sure? So, yeah, like you said, we've been together, I

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Speaker 3: mean in total, yeah, going on eight years. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: about a year so ago. We took a break because

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Speaker 3: things got really rough. Prior to that, we've been talking

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Speaker 3: about marriage and the whole nine. But then things got

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Speaker 3: really rough. But after the break, I mean, we've been

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Speaker 3: back together now for I don't know, I mean probably

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Speaker 3: coming up on a new six months, and things are great.

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Speaker 3: But this last month has been a new kind of

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Speaker 3: rough and I'm suspicious. I've not mentioned it to her,

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Speaker 3: but I'm definitely suspicious.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we're gonna do what we usually do, call

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Speaker 1: her from the grocery store where she's a rewards card member,

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Speaker 1: and thank her for her business, and say that every

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Speaker 1: single month we choose one rewards card member totally random.

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Speaker 1: It gets three flowers delivered from our flooral department, and

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Speaker 1: we'll see if she sends them to Gordon or to

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Speaker 1: somebody else. All right, Gordon, are you ready?

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Speaker 3: I think so?

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Speaker 1: All right, man, I'm gonna call her right out here

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, this is shortle Calling is this

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Speaker 1: our rewards card.

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Speaker 2: Member, Kim. It is Kim.

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Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling to let you know. Congratulations. Here this month's

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Speaker 1: big winner. Thank you for shopping with us.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so what does that mean you?

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Speaker 2: Oh, maybe you didn't know. That's fine.

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Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member at

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Speaker 1: random who gets free flowers delivered from a brand new

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Speaker 1: from our brand new and improved floral department. We're doing

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Speaker 1: delivery now. You just won thirty six long stim red roses,

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Speaker 1: a card and box of chocolates to be delivered anywhere

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Speaker 1: within the United States absolutely free.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations, and thank you very much for shopping with us.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. I'm excited.

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Speaker 3: Exciting.

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Speaker 1: So here's what you expect and how this can work

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Speaker 1: is if you know where you want them sent right now,

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Speaker 1: It's really easy for me to take the information over

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Speaker 1: the phone in just a matter of minutes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I have an idea.

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Speaker 6: Who send it here?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So what is the name first and last of the

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Speaker 1: person you'd like to receive the flower?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 5: His name is Tim.

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Speaker 1: You said Tim, like t I M m hm okay,

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Speaker 1: And would you like to put anything on a card

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Speaker 1: to Tim.

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Speaker 6: Sure, uh right, every week without you as an eternity thinking.

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Speaker 1: Of you, and I'm not even gonna need the address. Actually, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it turns out that I won't need that because this

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Speaker 1: is not a grocery store at all. This is actually Jubile.

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Speaker 1: I was the radio show called The Jubile Show. Nina,

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Speaker 1: I'm also the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 2: I'm Victoria from the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 1: Also, we do a semon where try to catch shooters

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Speaker 1: and Gordon, your boyfriend is actually on the phone, has

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Speaker 1: been listening.

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 2: Hi wow?

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Speaker 6: Uh yeah, you know what. I don't even care anymore. Nope,

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Speaker 6: I'm not going to deny it. You know, Gordon, when

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Speaker 6: we were on our break, I met someone.

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Speaker 5: I was out with friends and technically we were not together.

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Speaker 5: So Tim and I hooked up. That's not cheating because

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Speaker 5: basically we were not together. And then, you know, while

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Speaker 6: Like Tim and I started getting closer, and I don't know,

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Speaker 6: that's when you reached out to me. So we started

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Speaker 5: I mean, we have history, so I went with it,

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Speaker 5: and I had feelings for you.

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Speaker 3: It's just I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I was starting to fall to Tim. It's just been

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Speaker 3: That's not what our break was supposed to be for,

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Speaker 3: was meeting other. But I was supposed to be looking inwards,

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Speaker 3: supposed to be focusing on ourselves. So we weren't supposed

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Speaker 3: to be updating. I mean we were.

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Speaker 5: I did.

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Speaker 7: I focused on myself and I meant we've been together

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Speaker 3: Come on, why wouldn't you just break up with him then? Right? Why?

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Speaker 3: Why so when I reach out? Why not say hey

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Speaker 3: I met someone? Why even? Like why do why be

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Speaker 3: dishonest from the start, Like that's how you're going to

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Speaker 5: Is this on?

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Speaker 3: Just tell me then we just like more months together,

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Speaker 3: just prolonging this.

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Speaker 6: You know, I'm sorry that it had to be this way.

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Speaker 6: It's like that was just the reality of the situation.

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to hurt you.

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Speaker 3: So we're gonna miss with that. This is it's awful.

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Speaker 3: I mean, just tell me up front, like this is whatever?

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Speaker 4: Man, wait, are you with this Tim guy? Or is

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Speaker 4: this something that you're just exploring?

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Speaker 7: I don't know, I don't know we're still talking, so

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Speaker 7: I guess we're exploring and like, poor, I'm sorry, I

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Speaker 7: just I didn't know how to tell you. I just

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Speaker 7: didn't know how to tell you seemed so hopeful, so optimistic,

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Speaker 7: and I really I wanted that for you.

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Speaker 6: I didn't mean to hurt you, and I just I

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Speaker 6: can't do that.

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Speaker 3: Goodbye.

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Speaker 2: Well, damn, I wasn't done yet. I was just lording.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: It's all right, man, I mean, I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: was probably like sixty for I don't know, I was

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Speaker 3: like sixty percent sure, but it was rough to hear.

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Speaker 3: You know, you don't want to hear it.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like your goat was right, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate it. I appreciate it. I appreciate you know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, not trapping, but kind of helping me

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Speaker 3: reveal it because I did. I honestly did not even

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Speaker 3: come at her about it, you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And if you didn't know, then you probably wouldn't

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Speaker 4: have let it go and then just spiraled out of control,

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Speaker 4: which I at least you know that your butterfly is supposed.

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Speaker 2: To be free, yeah, or with Tim, and I.

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Speaker 4: Bet you this tim is temporary anyway, so don't worry

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Speaker 4: about it.

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Speaker 3: It's nice, I mean, honestly, yeah, it's just at the start.

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Speaker 3: It's nice to know, like you said, but I'd rather

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Speaker 3: know than not for another what six months?

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Speaker 2: This goes on my back, so he's temporary.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Sorry, that was a terrible joke. But every time

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Speaker 4: you get upset, you just say that to yourself.

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Speaker 1: Temporary, all right, man, Well, thank you for being up,

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Speaker 1: thank you for doing this, and good luck, good luck

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Speaker 1: with everything.

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Speaker 3: Thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 5: Take care the Jewel shows to catch a cheater