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Speaker 2: The Saluto on my life skined brothers out there, it's

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Speaker 2: just hilarious. That's what the world I ask. Just don't

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Speaker 2: do no why man, Charlemagne to God, talk to everybody.

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Speaker 2: Come to the breakfast club. I call this the hot seat.

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Speaker 3: La backfast Stubb.

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Speaker 2: It's like being on Americans from Port.

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Speaker 4: Don't feel like my thiss Sugers.

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Speaker 5: I never thought to me for every time I go

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Speaker 2: Get this is your time to get it off your chest,

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Speaker 2: whether you're man or blessed. I hate the way that

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Speaker 4: The way that you talk, I hate the way that

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Speaker 2: Everything when me is best call up next eight hundred

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Speaker 6: This is a this is Henry from all man. I

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Speaker 6: just want to say, I love y'all, blessed, good morning,

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Speaker 6: just so beautiful. Last and wait for that baby to drop.

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Speaker 7: Your name Henry for her Henry.

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Speaker 6: I just wanted to give a birthday shout out to

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Speaker 6: They share the same birthday. But I love your boys,

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Speaker 6: manous and Yo, Charlie.

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Speaker 2: Man, I need a hat. Yo.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if we got any, but I can

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Speaker 5: send you a copy of my new book, Getting on

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Speaker 5: Us to Die Line.

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Speaker 4: If you hey, let's find it please.

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Speaker 2: I got you on email a book today. Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 8: It's name?

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Speaker 2: Get it off your chest? Your name.

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Speaker 8: I really feel like this Kendrick and Drake beef was

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Speaker 8: about to be the most historic moments in hip hop

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Speaker 8: that we witnessed, and the sam social media really ruin this.

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Speaker 2: Beef real fast, talk to me, talk to me more,

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Speaker 2: let me hear expound on that.

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Speaker 8: It really made these artists get out of pocket and

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Speaker 8: start asking like they normally don't ask. Kendrick getting real emotional,

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Speaker 8: kind of I really, Drake really not moving like he

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Speaker 8: should like it. Just really, it really made the beef

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Speaker 8: really nasty because their quarter of public opinion cannot look

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Speaker 8: at these sounds objectively.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm gonna tell you something, I don't give a

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 5: I think it was the greatest rap feud of all time.

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Speaker 5: I think that Drake and Kendrick both delivered with the music.

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Speaker 5: I don't see the problem.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 1: I love the fact that they gave us the music.

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Speaker 1: I love the fact that they came back so fast.

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Speaker 1: I love the fact that it just gave people something

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Speaker 1: to talk about.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you could decide who you thought it was winner.

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Speaker 1: Some people thought it was Kendrick, some people thought it

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Speaker 1: was Drake. But I think hip hop really won. I

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Speaker 1: mean that the amount of music we got. I just

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Speaker 1: hope those brothers didn't take it too far away they

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Speaker 1: want to. They did where they would have hurt each other.

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Speaker 2: They did.

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Speaker 5: You call me a pedophile, You say I'm a woman

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Speaker 5: beat that, You say my wife is pregnant, had a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you took it too far.

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Speaker 5: He ain't gonna never see them on stage in the

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Speaker 5: Nas and Jay came out and they did the whole

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Speaker 5: I declared, peace.

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Speaker 2: Thing that's not happening. No, no, he don know. I

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Speaker 2: I never thought it was totally. I never thought I

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Speaker 5: I never thought I would see GZ and you might.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah with you, you're right with the GZ

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Speaker 2: Are they cool? That's no. I wouldn't say when they're cool,

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Speaker 2: But I think they can get the money and do

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Speaker 2: the verses.

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Speaker 1: They they can be on the same tre still throwing

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Speaker 5: By the way, it took twenty that was twenty plus

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Speaker 5: You got about nineteen more years before you see us

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Speaker 5: something like that. But I thoroughly enjoyed this battle. But

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Speaker 5: stands are gonna be stands too. I think the problem

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Speaker 5: with hip hop is that it's not like sports, so

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Speaker 5: you can't you can't say who won. Everybody just wants

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Speaker 5: to go with their who their preferences, whether it's Draco Kendrick.

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Speaker 2: When it's a sport, it's a score. Yeah, you know, Hello,

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Speaker 2: who's this? This is Keith?

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Speaker 9: Keith?

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Speaker 2: What's up? Get it off your chest? Keith?

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Speaker 10: Hey man?

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Speaker 7: I just wanted to y'all my mouth the beauty had.

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Speaker 2: On B twelve, Okay, mount Rushmore of Breakfast Club interviews.

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Speaker 1: All right, go William okay, amand Field okay, d l

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Speaker 4: My favorite Dad.

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Speaker 5: Those are your favorites fourteen years them your favorite? Now listen.

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Speaker 5: I might the Damon Dashman, Mike can go up there.

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Speaker 2: I liked.

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Speaker 5: I liked those other ones. But Mount Rushmore, I respectfully disagree.

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Speaker 5: I love those interviews, but Mount Rushmore. Nah, not Mount

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Speaker 5: Rushmore Breakfast Club interviews.

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Speaker 2: I don't take still easy. That was you know, I

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Speaker 2: know y'all have that's your opinion. You're right, that's your opinion. Well,

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Speaker 2: thank you, Keith. Hello, who's this morning?

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Speaker 11: How everybody's doing today?

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Speaker 10: Hi?

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Speaker 11: Hey Jack, miss beautiful beautiful?

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Speaker 5: Thank you?

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Speaker 11: All right, I will get this off my chest. I

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Speaker 11: have a book club and I read Charlemagne book and

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Speaker 11: and one day. It is phenomenal. Thank you, I mean Charlemagne.

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Speaker 11: We have thought about your book one and your book two,

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Speaker 11: but book three we're reading it in the month of

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Speaker 11: July at my book club. It is phenomenal. You have

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much. What's the name of your book club?

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Speaker 11: Sisters and family?

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Speaker 2: Thank you, sisters and family.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate you'all for reading my new book, Get on

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Speaker 5: us a dieline, watch small talk sucks.

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Speaker 2: I really appreciate that. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 11: Chapter chapter six should be a curriculum for all eighth

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Speaker 11: graders going forward.

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Speaker 3: I mean we were.

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Speaker 11: Discussing just chapter six.

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Speaker 2: You talking about the curriculum.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, not that one though. Not the de I

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Speaker 5: that people are thinking about. Not the DEI that people

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Speaker 5: are thinking about. Not diversity, echuity, inclusion. I'm talking about delusion, entitlement,

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Speaker 5: and idiocracy.

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Speaker 11: That chapter chapter six.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much, everybody.

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Speaker 11: I'm telling everybody, go hob A Tree. I love your book.

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Speaker 4: I love that you have involved.

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Speaker 11: Thank you for your book.

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Speaker 5: Thank you very much. I really appreciate that. Make sure

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Speaker 5: you go out there and get a copy and get

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Speaker 5: on us and die line. Watch small talk sucks. If

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Speaker 5: you haven't already available everywhere you buy books.

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Speaker 1: Now, all right, get it off your chest eight hundred

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Speaker 1: five eight five one five one. If you need event,

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Speaker 1: let's discuss this breakfast slogan morning the breakfast club.

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Speaker 7: Right right, ray yo, Charla man, Daffy, what up.

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Speaker 4: Are we lying?

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Speaker 2: This is your time to get it off your chest?

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Speaker 2: I got an indoor pool, outdoor pool. We want to

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Speaker 2: hear from you on the breakfast club.

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Speaker 4: Get on the phone right now here to tell you

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Speaker 4: what it is.

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Speaker 2: We lie. Hello, who's this? Hey?

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Speaker 7: This is trade out here in South Carolina.

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Speaker 2: What's going on? What's up? Trade? Whatever? What part of

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Speaker 2: are you calling from?

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Speaker 12: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Murder beat? Hey, okay, get it off your chest tray.

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Speaker 4: Hey, man, So this traffic out here, it's crazy every

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Speaker 4: curse man, Man, I'm sorry, man stain.

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Speaker 7: I know what I think about the traffic out here.

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Speaker 2: Man. We're not there. We're not in Myrtle Beach. Come again,

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Speaker 2: we're not in Myrtle Beach. Howld we know what the

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Speaker 2: traffic is?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 2: Well, what do y'all think about?

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Speaker 4: I got a baby, man.

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Speaker 8: I'll tell you what I'm paying forty five dollars for

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Speaker 2: Dipers is man.

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Speaker 5: I'll be looking at menus in places and I'd be like, damn,

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Speaker 5: I was in the hotel yesterday and I was like,

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Speaker 2: Hotel. It's a salmon, the hotel being.

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Speaker 2: Good morning? Get it off your chest?

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Speaker 11: Okay, So I'm trying to make you act like you.

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Speaker 7: Don't like like he do, I act like I was

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Speaker 11: Come on and go, let's tail at the wagon. They

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Speaker 11: can't do lamarsta.

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Speaker 13: Come on.

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Speaker 2: People, you don't like us.

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Speaker 11: And and I'm chalkling, so I mean, yeah, bege people.

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Speaker 2: You don't you don't like it.

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Speaker 5: I do love everybody, but ain't nothing wrong with us

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Speaker 11: My god, they grow easily.

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Speaker 2: You can't do that like banana. You're not helping, not

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Speaker 4: Everybody of the day.

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Speaker 2: You didn't help the situation. Hello, who's this? What's what's

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Speaker 2: your name? Brother? Man?

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Speaker 8: What up?

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Speaker 2: Man? Get it off your chest?

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Speaker 12: Hey?

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Speaker 7: Why you're always hit on the cowboys?

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Speaker 2: Because I'm pe king. How you doing? Brother?

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Speaker 12: Yes?

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Speaker 7: How you doing? Beautiful?

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Speaker 2: I'm good me good morning?

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Speaker 7: If I still love you doing, man, even though you're

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Speaker 7: a cowboy hater.

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Speaker 1: But you remember that you said you already know and

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Speaker 1: since you from North Carolina. How come we not a

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Speaker 1: Panthers fan?

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Speaker 4: Mann, Man, how.

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Speaker 2: Old are you? My brother? Okay, I was born in

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Speaker 2: nineteen hundred and seventy eighth on forty five.

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Speaker 5: People don't understand growing up in the Carolinas, South Carolina

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Speaker 5: and North Carolina, we didn't have no football teams, and

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Speaker 5: so most people that we knew were either My daddy

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Speaker 5: Three, established three thirty years ago, I'm already I'm already

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Speaker 4: The man my daddy told me when they were playing

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Speaker 2: That's right. Yeah, I've been abused your whole I have

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Speaker 5: First of all, we were not abused our whole lives.

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Speaker 5: in the nineties we dominated, sir, Yes, but you gotta

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Speaker 2: Get it off.

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Speaker 1: Yes, eight don't drink five eight five one o five one.

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Speaker 1: If you need to vin hit us up now. It's

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, Jess Hilary

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Speaker 1: Charlamage the God. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

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Speaker 1: some special guests in the building from Bold and Bougie,

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Speaker 1: Crystaline and Tamika Foster.

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Speaker 2: Welcome ladies. Hey y'all, good morning. What a title bolden Boot.

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Speaker 13: I mean you know, yeah, I mean yeah, like, did

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Speaker 13: y'all Did all of y'all know each other before?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Because it's it's Crystal, it's Tamika, it's Malaysia.

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Speaker 14: And Princess Lot and I always messed it up. Sorry, Princess,

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Speaker 3: Know I love you.

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Speaker 2: Did y'all know each other like we all friends?

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Speaker 3: Or I knew of Malaysia.

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Speaker 14: We've been to like some birthday parties together, but it

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Speaker 13: Yeah, Well, Princess and I were cool. She tried to

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Speaker 13: I thought it was gonna be messy, but I guess

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Speaker 2: So what is Bowling Boogie about if we haven't seen it?

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Speaker 13: I mean, I think all reality shows have the same premise.

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Speaker 13: Like she owns a restaurant, I have a clothing business,

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Speaker 2: Come together and argue about it. We don't know that

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Speaker 2: we're arguing about the Yeah, why did you say? Why

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Speaker 13: Because I'd be like, because my name ain't on the cake,

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Speaker 13: it's not my birthday, Like, it's that kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: So why dy'll decide to do it? Because if ya

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Speaker 1: knew it was gonna beefing and and you know what,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna put it on TV. They ain't gonnaut nice stuff.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna put your restaurant packed, they ain't gonna put

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Speaker 3: They did, they did a.

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Speaker 14: Good job of showcasing our business and stuff like that.

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Speaker 14: But for myself, I did it because like I'm getting

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Speaker 13: Bag period, and that's it. That's all My only focus period.

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Speaker 13: So why didn't you You know how some wives they

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Speaker 13: choose to keep the last name of the husband. Why

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Speaker 13: didn't you keep last names?

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Speaker 14: Well, he's not known as Neil Smith and those are

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Speaker 3: It was an easy decision.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 13: Well, I mean people didn't know his name though he's

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Speaker 2: But people do know his last name. Why you didn't

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Speaker 2: keep Ram? I still use Raymond. It's easier. It's easier

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Speaker 13: But on social media, I dropped it because they would

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Speaker 13: be on my page like he got rid of you,

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Speaker 13: he signed them papers, you got to them.

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Speaker 2: But my kids have the same name, my passport.

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Speaker 13: It's just so much to change that stuff, your credit cards,

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Speaker 13: your bank accounts, your passport, your social security got that

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Speaker 13: kind of time. I trying to be in linen where

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Speaker 13: like social media want me to change my name. Only

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Speaker 2: Think about it. We'd be mad.

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Speaker 13: That's because they're fans of the artists, so they think

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Speaker 13: that we took their husbands, and it's just well, congratulations

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Speaker 13: on your restaurant business.

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Speaker 7: Girl.

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Speaker 14: For the first episode of Bolden Bougie. You doing music,

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Speaker 14: that's something I do for for you know, you've heard

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Speaker 14: some about Yeah, they played with that scene, they played

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Speaker 3: It was nasty.

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Speaker 2: You're not taking it serious.

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Speaker 3: No, It's just something I do for fun to let out.

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Speaker 10: Okay, and but you but you.

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Speaker 2: Got a name and everything. VVS what's up?

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Speaker 3: Well gave me that name, so I mean, why not

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Speaker 2: Got Jesus, I thought she was about to really really

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Speaker 13: I got like Hella songs like yeah and you So

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Speaker 13: you're that's something that you're never going to do.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't think.

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Speaker 14: I mean, I'm thirty seven. I mean, you know, so

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Speaker 14: I don't want to be like.

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Speaker 2: A pediatric repper. I got there too.

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Speaker 14: I have so many things that are on my plate

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Speaker 14: right now. That music is just like you know, it's

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Speaker 14: I need I need the bag to come quicker than that, because.

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Speaker 2: Reality you be helping her like the overall brand of everything.

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Speaker 13: So the reason why I even agreed to do it

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Speaker 13: I just think that they didn't get the like they want,

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Speaker 13: the generator, I mean, the lights went down for a second.

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Speaker 2: They highlighted that five seconds of the lights going down,

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Speaker 13: I'm like, come on, it was at an art gallery

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Speaker 13: and bucket it was. It was fine and it was nice,

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Speaker 13: they didn't focus on any It was a really nice show.

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Speaker 2: It was a great show. And the clothes were banging,

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Speaker 13: It was like, damn, we put all that money into

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Speaker 2: Could y'all ever like have meetings? Art is it like

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Speaker 2: complain to somewhere that.

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Speaker 3: You know the group chair. Let me tell you this one.

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Speaker 14: With the group chat we get, we get a message

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Speaker 14: every day and long.

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Speaker 3: I don't read none of that.

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Speaker 2: Love you.

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Speaker 3: I do not reside to the group chat. Take me

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Speaker 3: out of it.

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Speaker 4: I go off.

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Speaker 2: I'd be giving whole dissertations life to me. Get a

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Speaker 13: She will write, you see, she likes to write. She

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Speaker 13: will write chapters. But I think that it's realize, check

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Speaker 2: I was like, my brand is not that you know

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Speaker 14: Answer into something like that, you know what you're signing

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Speaker 14: Like for me, I feel like it was a benefit

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Speaker 3: So it worked out for me actually very well.

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Speaker 1: All these celebrities again, since you like your life is

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Speaker 14: I think I want to man that sit behind the desk.

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Speaker 14: I think I think I'm over it, just over it,

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Speaker 14: the whole lifestyle. I'll take the forefront in the bed.

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Speaker 2: Would date a bus driver?

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know, just a.

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Speaker 14: Decent three kids. I'm a single mother and my bills.

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Speaker 14: The salary does not cover my bills, and I just

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Speaker 14: it's not for me.

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Speaker 13: Then say why his salary got to cover your bills.

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Speaker 13: You should be able to cover your bills. I already

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Speaker 13: know what thet but it's.

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Speaker 4: Not just.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you about your book.

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Speaker 5: Here I stand interesting title because someone could say it's

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Speaker 5: just a cliche term all one could say, sure, also

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Speaker 5: named to the album Here I stand, right, So why

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Speaker 2: Well, Here I stand.

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Speaker 13: You Remember that was a time where people were really

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Speaker 13: So here I stand because I you know, I've been

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Speaker 13: beautiful state despite it all.

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Speaker 2: Like life happens, Life is gonna come at you.

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Speaker 13: Things are gonna have You're gonna lose people, You're gonna

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Speaker 13: lose love, You're gonna have heartbreak.

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Speaker 2: But you have to remain in a beautiful state. So

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Speaker 2: things will happen. You have to come back to being

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Speaker 1: We got more with Crystal Smith and Tamika Raymond when

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Speaker 1: we come back there on The Bold and the Bougie,

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Speaker 1: a show on we TV.

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Speaker 2: We'll talk tomorrow when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: Good Morning, the Breakfast Club Calling.

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Speaker 1: Everybody's DJ, Envy, Jesse, Larry Charlamagne, the guy. We are

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast cause I was still kicking it with Crystal

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Speaker 1: Smith and Tamika Raymond.

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Speaker 2: They're on the cast of Bold and Bougie.

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Speaker 1: Now, I got a question, Christ did you ever key

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Speaker 1: Neo's calls, because it seems like you still got a

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Speaker 1: little hurt, like you did something.

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Speaker 2: No, nothing, not hit his hats in the world I

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Speaker 2: got you now, just run.

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Speaker 9: No.

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Speaker 13: No.

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Speaker 14: I I walked away peacefully because when you when you

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Speaker 14: And although I mean, one of the hardest things to

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Speaker 14: to try to work it out and stay. You know

453
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Speaker 14: what I'm saying. And I always have love for him,

454
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Speaker 14: but it's it's different now, you know.

455
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Speaker 3: So the kids are good. The kids are good, you.

456
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Speaker 14: Know, they go and spend time with Daddy. They love

457
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Speaker 14: their their their father, and they're good. I let him

458
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Speaker 14: be a father and and and I be a key

459
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Speaker 14: communication at a minimum, just because I'm focused on rebuilding

460
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Speaker 14: my life and what that means for me. So I

461
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Speaker 14: don't want to surround myself with what the past was

462
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Speaker 14: that could potentially put me in a place where I'm

463
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Speaker 14: emotional and all those things.

464
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Speaker 3: So I choose to just keep it separate.

465
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so there was no drunk less like hey, big head, nothing,

466
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Speaker 2: But then he tried, Okay, what is that he tried?

467
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Speaker 3: Listen.

468
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Speaker 14: I think at this point he knows that there's there's

469
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Speaker 14: no coming back. So we're trying to figure out what

470
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Speaker 14: Cole parents and looks like for us because I just

471
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Speaker 14: don't want to be around the situation. And you know,

472
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Speaker 14: I all the respect, all love to him and no shade,

473
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Speaker 14: but I just when somebody hurts you to a certain extent,

474
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Speaker 14: I don't want to be in that environment.

475
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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

476
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Speaker 2: Did you try therapy? Did you try to make it? Men?

477
00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:44,720
Speaker 2: So it was done. It was like, there's no therapy.

478
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Speaker 3: I fought the next day.

479
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Speaker 13: And Crystal filed the next day after hearing that breakfast club.

480
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Speaker 2: Really it wasn't.

481
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Speaker 14: It wasn't really that is that is what prompted me

482
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Speaker 14: to look around.

483
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're getting his phone.

484
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Speaker 3: It was the same pass all.

485
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Speaker 2: He wasn't trying to hide anything.

486
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Speaker 13: Some of them smart, that's what you get out of her. Yeah, Yeah,

487
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:11,040
Speaker 13: she's been around.

488
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Speaker 2: I'd be like, hold on, where that other phone is?

489
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Speaker 2: Another he was sleeping and he just pick up the

490
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Speaker 2: phone and just.

491
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Speaker 3: No, he was here. He was doing another interview. Yes,

492
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Speaker 3: he was at the radio station. I was at the hotel.

493
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Speaker 3: He was like in New York.

494
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Speaker 2: You was scrolling down. So when he came back I

495
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 2: was so by the time he got back to the

496
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Speaker 2: hotel from the interview, you was on his head.

497
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Speaker 3: I was gone.

498
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Speaker 2: I know, I didn't say anything, or you left the

499
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Speaker 2: phone and you didn't tell nothing. You ain't tell nothing.

500
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Speaker 14: You just know, I mean, he he he knew that

501
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Speaker 14: his phone was was missing, and so he realized and

502
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Speaker 14: and you know, oh.

503
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Speaker 2: My god, you took the phone and left. They took

504
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Speaker 2: the phone.

505
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Speaker 3: I am a black woman, I am not done.

506
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Speaker 2: Everything. I would put it all back like nothing happened. Yeah,

507
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Speaker 2: you didn't try to apologize and nothing like you don't.

508
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Speaker 14: I mean, of course he apologized, and you know, he

509
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Speaker 14: didn't want me to get a divorce or whatever.

510
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Speaker 2: But he knows.

511
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Speaker 14: He knows how I value myself and he knows when

512
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Speaker 14: I'm not playing, And in that situation, I think he

513
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Speaker 14: just he knew they was no coming back, you.

514
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Speaker 2: Know, so is what it is. Would love to know

515
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Speaker 2: what he learned he had.

516
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Speaker 4: We had a.

517
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Speaker 14: Beautiful relationship, a beautiful marriage, a beautiful friendship. And I

518
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Speaker 14: don't regret it. I don't take it back, and I'm

519
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Speaker 14: appreciative to the love that we did have because a

520
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Speaker 14: lot of people don't experience the love like that that

521
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Speaker 14: I had, you know, but that season it's gone.

522
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Speaker 3: That that that chapter is closed.

523
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Speaker 2: And how long were you all together?

524
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Speaker 3: Almost ten years?

525
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Speaker 10: Damn?

526
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Speaker 5: I want to me because you said earlier here I

527
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Speaker 5: Stand flopped and we were talking about chance to rapp him.

528
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Speaker 5: And you know what happens when an artist makes an

529
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Speaker 5: album dedicated to his wife, my dear, Yeah, and the

530
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Speaker 5: album this album is whack.

531
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Speaker 2: The album was good, you understand, was a banging album.

532
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Speaker 6: It was.

533
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Speaker 2: And let me tell you this. I'm gonna say this.

534
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Speaker 2: This is in defense of him really quick, and I

535
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Speaker 2: don't want to talk about it. I'm okay.

536
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Speaker 10: It was enough.

537
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Speaker 2: But here I Stand was so.

538
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Speaker 13: Solid because he was ahead of his time. He got

539
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 13: married before anybody before. This was before J and B.

540
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Speaker 13: This is before justin Timberlake. This is before he was

541
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Speaker 13: an outlier in like trying to be mature and wear suits.

542
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 13: That suit and tie that was we did that already. Sorry,

543
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 13: no offense, JG, but you know what I mean, Like

544
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,120
Speaker 13: we were trying to make him go to the next level.

545
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:24,640
Speaker 13: The fans weren't ready for him to evolve and get

546
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Speaker 13: to that level. And then now it's cool, everybody's married,

547
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 13: and see we just were ahead of our time, but

548
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Speaker 13: we did it too soon. So they were like, he

549
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 13: married this old ass lady and she's whack and that's

550
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 13: that and we hate him and so here I Stand

551
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 13: wasn't received the way it should have been, but it

552
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Speaker 13: was solid songs on that album made flop fly, but

553
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Speaker 13: it didn't do a million a million copies in the

554
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Speaker 13: first week like you know all the other albums.

555
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Speaker 5: Is the goal for both of y'all because y'all have

556
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 5: so much going on. As the goal for both of

557
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 5: y'all to get to a place where nobody asked you

558
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,640
Speaker 5: about them, That is what I say.

559
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Speaker 14: I want the world to know Crystal, but it's impossible,

560
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 14: you know what I'm saying.

561
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Speaker 13: And that's what people always say. You don't want people

562
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 13: to ask you about him, but you still have his

563
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 13: last name. But I'm still I'm.

564
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Speaker 2: Still my own person, you know what I mean. Diane

565
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 2: von Furstenberg is Dyane von Furstenberg.

566
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Speaker 13: She was married to Count von Furstenberg, but she's still

567
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Speaker 13: an amazing designer.

568
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Speaker 2: Like I just again, it's our community. Do you still

569
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Speaker 2: do styling like that or not too much?

570
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Speaker 13: I have a clothing line called Eli Kish I will

571
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Speaker 13: style certain artists, if they have certain people, if they

572
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Speaker 13: have a budget. It's not even artist, it's just if

573
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Speaker 13: you have a budget and you can afford to pay me.

574
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Speaker 1: A stylist a lost art now, like you don't really

575
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Speaker 1: see them as like growing up in the two thousands,

576
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Speaker 1: you would see stylists.

577
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Speaker 13: You see, Yes, styling is a lost art because it's

578
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Speaker 13: so it's oversaturated with people who have taken the title.

579
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Speaker 2: You can work a gap for three days and all

580
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Speaker 2: you got to do rolling a trench code. You'd be like,

581
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Speaker 2: I'm a stylist to the stars. You walk out and

582
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 2: say you're the top stylist. I'm looking like happens in

583
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 2: every league.

584
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 13: Listen, people can get what two viral videos now? The comedian,

585
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 13: yeah yeah you can. You know, you can get a

586
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 13: PCAs now you're radio person now, yeah yeah you can.

587
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 2: You know. So I think it's the oversaturation in every lane.

588
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Speaker 13: Every lane, and that probably is because you know why,

589
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Speaker 13: I'm not just not too much on our people, but

590
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Speaker 13: it's low hanging fruit. They people don't You don't see

591
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 13: too many people fighting to be scientists or doctors or lawyers.

592
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. That requires a lot of work.

593
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Speaker 13: That requires work in reading, like actual reading, like read hello,

594
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Speaker 13: read if you would read?

595
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Speaker 2: No, they want to do what's you know, the easiest

596
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Speaker 2: thing like I'm a stylist. I love clothes.

597
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Speaker 13: That's not how it works. Wos here put them on?

598
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Speaker 13: Yeah yeah girl, that's right. All right, thank you ladies

599
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Speaker 13: for joining us. Man make sure comment screenboled and boogie

600
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Speaker 13: on all black. Right now, go get to Amika Tamika

601
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Speaker 13: Raymond's book.

602
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Speaker 2: Here, I stand here, I stand in a beautiful state.

603
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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right, it's krystalpher and to me Foster,

604
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Speaker 1: that's the breakfast Luve Goo morning, Thank you, vas Mary

605
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Speaker 1: is Charlamae the day we are the breakfast club Nowhew

606
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Speaker 1: just joining us.

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Speaker 2: Charlamage. His book is out today, Get Honest or Die

608
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Speaker 2: Aligned Why small Talk Sucks.

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Speaker 5: Yes, my third book is out today, and this book

610
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 5: is all about people who want to start being honest

611
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 5: with themselves, because if you're honest with yourself, you'll stop

612
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 5: volunteering lives to other people.

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Speaker 2: And it's just about how I hate small talk.

614
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Speaker 5: That's right, not just not just the literal form of

615
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 5: like chit chatter, but literally when people have nothing to

616
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Speaker 5: really talk about.

617
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Speaker 2: So they just make things up.

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Speaker 5: But also how we turn a bunch of micros into

619
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Speaker 5: macros nowadays, So we make these small things big issues,

620
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Speaker 5: and then when the big issues come across our desk,

621
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Speaker 5: we don't deal with them at all, don't even know

622
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Speaker 5: how to talk about them.

623
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Speaker 2: Right, Well, that is the question eight hundred and five

624
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Speaker 2: eighty five one O five one. Let's talk what you ess?

625
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 2: Small talk? How do you avoid it? How do you

626
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: get out of it? I just walk away, just walk away.

627
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Speaker 13: But I have a very like expressive face, so people

628
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 13: will know, like they be knowing sometimes like okay, she

629
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Speaker 13: don't want to talk, like even at my party there's

630
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Speaker 13: a lot of you know, of course white people, you

631
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Speaker 13: know who work for her or probably not. And then

632
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Speaker 13: they were asking like yeah, so like oh my god,

633
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Speaker 13: you know, like just just talking and I just was

634
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Speaker 13: like yeah. They was like, yeah, you probably don't care,

635
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 13: you know, because it's all in your facial disposition, how

636
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Speaker 13: you express yourself.

637
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Speaker 2: And then like some people I do just walk away

638
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Speaker 2: from just walk away.

639
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Speaker 5: Just is very good at avoiding small talk because not

640
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 5: just her facial expressions, she'll just straight up tell you

641
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 5: you're doing too much and there's nothing wrong with that.

642
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 5: I think that that is the type of boundary you

643
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Speaker 5: should set when you don't want to have any meaningless conversation.

644
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with just I walk away, I just walk

645
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Speaker 2: I walk away. I'm that guy. I just look. I can't.

646
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 2: But there's times where you can't walk away, right, like

647
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 2: when you're on a plane and you're sitting next to.

648
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Speaker 5: Somebody, that's when you tell them. But that's you know

649
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 5: what I usually do in that situation, I call I

650
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 5: just thot calling.

651
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Speaker 1: And usually they don't want to talk to a that

652
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Speaker 1: point because they usually think you COVID or something like that,

653
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: so they just they don't want to talk to you.

654
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: Or I act like I'm falling to sleep and they're talking.

655
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: I closed my eyes, like I start nodding off, yeah,

656
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: like oh you're tired, Yes I am. And that usually

657
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: that is crazy.

658
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Speaker 2: I would never call. But what's wrong with your mouth? Though?

659
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 2: It's meaning? Like why can't you just tell the person?

660
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 2: Hey man, I'm a little tired right now.

661
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:19,680
Speaker 5: I want to get some sleep, because sometimes that doesn't

662
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 5: work because they just keep talking.

663
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Speaker 13: And we don't like hurting people feelings too, Like you

664
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 13: don't like that you can tell like he don't really

665
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 13: like hurting people feelings, literally, but I feel like being

666
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Speaker 13: just like but I do, It's not it won't be

667
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Speaker 13: hurting nobody feels I'm being honest with you, Like, yo,

668
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Speaker 13: I don't even want to talk right now.

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Speaker 4: You know.

670
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Speaker 2: That's why I got this first class seat so I

671
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 2: can kick back, chill. I got a lot of things

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Speaker 2: to do that what is the title of the book,

673
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Speaker 2: get honest lying? Why are you lying to people? That's

674
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Speaker 2: works now they think you got COVID? Yeah, like can

675
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 2: I'm on my seat because so what do you do? Charlamagne?

676
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,479
Speaker 5: Literally all the things that just said, I will tell

677
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 5: somebody straight up, like, look, we don't have to do

678
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 5: this right now. And this is honestly what the book

679
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 5: is given you permission to do. It's giving you permission

680
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 5: to say, Hey, we don't have to do this right now.

681
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 5: We don't have to make meaningless conversation. And if you

682
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 5: do want to have a conversation, I have topics in

683
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 5: this book that you can discuss if you choose to.

684
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 5: This book is literally like a card game almost like

685
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 5: you just draw, you know, different topics from it to

686
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 5: talk about. Because I'm not an expert than anything, I

687
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 5: just get my thoughts on things, and then you know,

688
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,719
Speaker 5: we open up the floor for conversation, just like we're

689
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 5: about to do it.

690
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 2: Right now with the phone.

691
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: So when Shagi was all in your ear talking about

692
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 1: sexy reds calf muscle, I don't even know how that came.

693
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so how did you get out of it? I said,

694
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: nigga what? Then he laughed, and you know, we were

695
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 2: just taking a picture. And then that was that, and

696
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 2: then the song came on. He was trying. He started dancing.

697
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: I started dancing. Chield a baby, the baby, all the

698
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 2: big girls being the club doing this for no reason.

699
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 2: It's the funniest thing, and all of this just the top.

700
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, let's let's go to the form Jesus Christy.

701
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 4: Hello, who's this hello Tony?

702
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: So we'll say it again, Envy, Yes, sir, good morning man,

703
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 1: good morning, good morning.

704
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: We'll talk about small talk. How do you avoid small talk? Tony?

705
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 6: No?

706
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,959
Speaker 2: No, that's another good one. But people will still talk

707
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 2: to me niggas, don't. I mean, people don't care, yo,

708
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 2: They will just how you doing?

709
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 4: And by that's it?

710
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 2: Okay, why do we have to do all that?

711
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 5: Like, why can't you just tell somebody I don't want

712
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 5: to have this conversation right now. I'm not in the mood.

713
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 5: I'm busy, Like I'd rather be on my phone. I'd

714
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 5: rather be sitting here in silence. If we're going to

715
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 5: talk about something, let's talk about this, like why why

716
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 5: do y'all got to do all that?

717
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 2: Hello? Who's this?

718
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 4: Hey? This is your mind calling from How you doing eachelling?

719
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 4: God is hilarious?

720
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 2: Talk to us? How you get out of small brother? Listen?

721
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 7: So this is what I do.

722
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 4: So you know, since I'm a I'm a journalist and

723
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 4: a radio personality, and I have to talk to people

724
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 4: that I don't know, I just like, okay, have a

725
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 4: good day and just move away from the situation where

726
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 4: I are. I'll act like I have a phone call,

727
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 4: so you just make excuses. Yeah, basically, but listen before

728
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 4: you before you hang up, because I know it endy,

729
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 4: you like to hang up on people. I'm going to

730
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 4: be in New York on on the first week of Julie.

731
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 4: I would love to meet you guys, or get a

732
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 4: tour of the studio that if that's possible.

733
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 2: I got a phone call, I got a phone call.

734
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Speaker 2: I would just love to come to in New York.

735
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Speaker 5: I respect, I respect to ask you know. I just

736
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 5: it's it's a hell of a vetting process, though, Like

737
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 5: what is the reason.

738
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 2: Like why he's a person?

739
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: I think your mind's a gentleman that goes to college

740
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: and you do radio for your college, right, yes, yeah,

741
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: And I really.

742
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 4: Look up to you guys. You guys are like my

743
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 4: inspiration every time I do radio. So I would just

744
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 4: love to, you know, get some information and stuff. I'm

745
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 4: veterans in the in the game.

746
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 2: Hold on, Shaman, We'll put you on.

747
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 5: Hold on, We'll let Eddie, our producer, give you a

748
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 5: thorough vetting. Okay, Okay, yes, not promising anything, but it's

749
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 5: just hold on.

750
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Speaker 2: That's dope.

751
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 4: All right, it's the breakfast other morning.

752
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: All right, I'm just gonna close out for us.

753
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 2: Hello, who's this Storio?

754
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 7: Every what's happening?

755
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 2: Torio? What's uphere? You calling from?

756
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 7: I'm calling from Jacksonville, and I ain't got nothing to

757
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 7: do with the baseball team.

758
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 2: Got nothing to do with the baseball team. Okay, I'm

759
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 2: glad you cleared that up, sir.

760
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: Okay, now we're talking about small talk. How do you

761
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: get rid of small talk?

762
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 2: Brother? How do you get out of it?

763
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 7: And I can start small talk first, and I'm want

764
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 7: to do that with just how you doing?

765
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 2: I'm good, bab How are you.

766
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 4: Okay?

767
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 7: Hey, listen, I want to tell you beautiful and I

768
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 7: want to give you two congratulations on come to member.

769
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Speaker 4: Of the Brookles Club.

770
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I appreciate you. King.

771
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 7: Okay, that's sound great, But listen, this is how I

772
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 7: get with a small talk. Why I don't talk. We

773
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 7: ain't talking about money. We don't have nothing to talk about.

774
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 7: We ain't talking about.

775
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:11,239
Speaker 4: How to come up.

776
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 7: It ain't nothing to talk about, though, So what we're

777
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 7: talking about.

778
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 2: Those are good macro conversations. I'm not mad at that.

779
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 5: Like I said, it's a lot of times we make

780
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 5: a lot of micros macros. I'm not mad at either

781
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 5: one of those conversations.

782
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, but Chlae, Yes, sir sent me some books

783
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 7: no time ago. Let me get this new one man

784
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 7: and autographic for this man.

785
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 2: If you ain't talking about money, ain't nothing to talk about.

786
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. How do you say you're

787
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,479
Speaker 2: talking about money? I sent him a book? You are crazy, bro,

788
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 2: if you're not talking about money. Joke but he was

789
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 2: with the model for the books. So you gotta get

790
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 2: a book. The hell is wrong with you? Man, Well

791
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: go back if you can, Bro, I'll get you a

792
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: copy of the book. Man, I'm bad. I thought you

793
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 2: said it ain't about money. Hang up, joke, I didn't,

794
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 2: My God, more of the stories.

795
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 5: My new book, Getting on at the Die Line, Why

796
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 5: Small Talk Sucks, is available everywhere you buy books right now. Okay,

797
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 5: And if you're in New York, in New Jersey tomorrow,

798
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 5: I'll be at Barnge and Noble on Fifth Avenue at

799
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Speaker 5: one pm. And I'll be in the Barnge and Noble

800
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Speaker 5: and Paramus at five pm tomorrow.

801
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 2: Alright, great promo. The real moral of the story is,

802
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: do not engage in small talk. If you don't have to.

803
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 13: You can be okay, be okay with not engaging in it,

804
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 13: you know, and just telling people the truth, like you

805
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 13: don't have to sit there and talk.

806
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 2: To them like you know, you really don't. That's right.

807
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 5: And if you want more on what Justice just said,

808
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 5: my new books, Get on the Line, Watch Small Talk

809
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Speaker 5: Sucks is available everywhere you buy books right now. Everything

810
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 5: Justin said is absolutely positively true, and it's in this book.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Latario my bad bro by Brad. I thought decent.

812
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: Hang up, I was going with the I'm sorry I

813
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 1: got too excited.

814
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 2: All right. We got Jesse with the Mets coming up.

815
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 2: What we're talking about, Oh my go ahead? Ever Rose

816
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 2: double down on why she supports Trump.

817
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 1: Okay, and we'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast

818
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Speaker 1: slogan Morning the Breakfast Club, pulling everybody at j n V,

819
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Speaker 1: Jess Larian Chollam and the God we are the Breakfast Club.

820
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: We got a special guest in the building, the legend

821
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 1: Bruce Bruce. Let's cracking baby, Welcome.

822
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 2: How you feeling. Everything's good?

823
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 4: Now?

824
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: Everything is good? Yeah, but this is the first time

825
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: Bruce Bruce has been on the shelf.

826
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Speaker 1: And I want to you know when I when sometimes

827
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 1: when when somebody comes to the first time, I want

828
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: to start from the beginning, right, Okay, Now, I know

829
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 1: your story because I've been studying you, I've been following you.

830
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 1: But for people that don't know, how did Bruce Bruce

831
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: get into comedy? And I want you to explain your

832
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 1: job before comedy? Well, you know, I used to be

833
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 1: a chef. I can cook like a mug and you know,

834
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: everywhere I go, I used to always be funny. So

835
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: I hired this guy one time. I was running a

836
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 1: barbecue restaurant, old guy, and he said he used to

837
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: watch me in the kitchen when I first start, when

838
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:56,399
Speaker 1: he first started, and he's watching.

839
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 2: He said, you need to go.

840
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 10: You need on stage, and I ain't paying to to

841
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 10: He's not gonna bring you something tomorrow. He brought me

842
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 10: this album, you know, back in the day at album.

843
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 10: He was a comedian, but he was ex Navy. He

844
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 10: was an alcoholic. He said, I waste your time on

845
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 10: this job, and you need to go on stage.

846
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 2: Know what I did? I quick because I had a family.

847
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 10: I was young, man had three kids, and Man, I

848
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 10: went and started working for Freedo a potato chips, selling

849
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 10: potato chips. And the whole time I'm selling potato chips

850
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 10: and on the doc, I'm just funny, acting crazy. So

851
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,320
Speaker 10: good old white dude. So you know you need to

852
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:27,399
Speaker 10: go study. That's a year every morning, you know, study,

853
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 10: you frounny I look comedians at frauds there or nothing

854
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 10: you know, and you're gonna stay. And when I took

855
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 10: that step, man, I knew that's why I should have

856
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 10: been my whole entirelight and what made me take that step.

857
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 10: I was going through a divorce and my x Yfe said, you'd.

858
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 2: Never make it. Why did you tell you that?

859
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 10: So I just looked at it and say, I see

860
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 10: you on TV. You know what I'm saying, And it's

861
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 10: been gone there. I've been doing it now thirty five

862
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 10: years now.

863
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 1: You also mentioned that you were an only child. Only child,

864
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 1: your father left at the age of five.

865
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:55,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was four or five.

866
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 10: He was an air force and he was a Madeican

867
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Speaker 10: Air Force and he was he flew choppers and airplanes

868
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 10: and when he when he got out, he was an

869
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Speaker 10: antety geologist.

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Speaker 2: That was it important to mend that relationship before he passed?

871
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:08,879
Speaker 2: Or yeah, I did. I did.

872
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 10: My mother said, I just wanted to know I remember him.

873
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 10: My mama said, what you looking for him for? You know,

874
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 10: because they be mad. But my mother really ran him off,

875
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 10: you know what I mean. She was just she ran

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Speaker 10: him off and she was off monster man. You know

877
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 10: what I'm saying.

878
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:27,359
Speaker 2: Oh no, I just like, man, this dude is cool.

879
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 10: He was really cool, you know, But she like, I

880
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 10: don't want to know everything he tried to do. She

881
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 10: just knocked it down, like but she was listening to

882
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 10: a girlfriends. That's why I tried to tell all these

883
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 10: young girls, don't listen to no woman that ain't got

884
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 10: no man. You don't say what I'm saying. If you

885
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 10: got a woman, if you got a girlfriend, you got

886
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Speaker 10: a husband. She not true a husband, but a woman

887
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 10: that don't have a man, she can't tell you nothing.

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00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 10: But he he just he left and he never ever

889
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 10: called us ever. And my mother didn't even know she

890
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 10: was divorced. He did a non contested divorce because my

891
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 10: mother just worked, come home, never went anywhere. So when

892
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 10: she said, I think I'm going to get a divorce,

893
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 10: and when she would do it, said you already divorced.

894
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 10: And Uncle Tessa, you put it in the newspaper for

895
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 10: thirty days. You don't answer the ad. Bam you divorced.

896
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 10: He was already gone. He was gone, he was gone.

897
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 10: They done got married three more times. I found it

898
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 10: when I was like forty years old.

899
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 2: So he knew who you were. He knew exactly what

900
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 2: I was, he knew exactly what I looked like.

901
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 10: No, my son looked like him, though, my baby boy

902
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 10: looks just like him. But It's funny how I dip over,

903
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 10: you know what I'm saying. But I met with him

904
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 10: and we talked, and we stayed in touch, and he

905
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 10: ended up passing away about seventeen years ago.

906
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 2: My mother passed away fourteen years You and your mom

907
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 2: ever have to talk? Did you ever have to stay here?

908
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 13: My mom?

909
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 2: It was you.

910
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 10: Yeah, she said, you know I was wrong, She said

911
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 10: I didn't care about I had an other boyfriend. You

912
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 10: know my mama food around. See, parents don't tell you.

913
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 10: They tried to tell you the right thing, but they

914
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 10: do the wrong thing in front of you. You know

915
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 10: what I'm saying. Those old dudes used to go with

916
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 10: named DG. You know, had platform shoes with taps on.

917
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 10: You remember platform He had taps on platform shoes. He

918
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 10: come up the steps, clock your mama doing and then

919
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 10: he'll tell me, hey, come in, let me give you

920
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 10: a few doug on down and get your coat, you

921
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 10: know something like that. I know what you're finna do.

922
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 10: Finna get his some tail, you know what I'm saying.

923
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 10: So he gets you, gets some potato tails. I run

924
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 10: right out of the house. You know, I know what

925
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 10: he's finna do.

926
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 2: I want no food. You know what I'm saying. But

927
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 2: he was cool. He was cool to me. He treated

928
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 2: me very nice. But she had this one boyfriend. She's

929
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 2: just crazy.

930
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 10: But I don't know what's up with women with this

931
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 10: one dude that they like. And he ain't nothing. I mean, man,

932
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 10: he wasn't nothing.

933
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:24,479
Speaker 2: Man. He dogged my mama.

934
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 10: Man he was he was married. She didn't even know

935
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 10: he's married. She's older, he's old. There every day, every

936
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 10: day eating.

937
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

938
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, God is a good guard. You know how to joke. Yeah,

939
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: God is a good guy. And woman.

940
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 10: Tell you what happened. When I was in high school,

941
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 10: four of us used to hang together and we saw

942
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 10: him in his truck. And my buddy say, man, they

943
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 10: call you. You're ma my boyfriend with your mom. I

944
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 10: said no, I said, that's my mom boyfriend. That's not

945
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 10: my mom. It was another lady. So I got out

946
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 10: the car, looked at him and say, hey, you know

947
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 10: I see you right? He said, oh, hey, how you

948
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 10: doing play it?

949
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 2: Come on to my mom house. I told my mother.

950
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 10: So I seen him with another woman. He looked me

951
00:38:57,880 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 10: dead in a mine. He said, that was not he

952
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 10: did not see me. My mother believed it, but the

953
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 10: reason she believed it because I didn't like him, so

954
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 10: she just kind of figured I made up a story

955
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 10: about him, and she let it go. But it took

956
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 10: her girlfriend or hers to see him, say saw that

957
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 10: dude with another woman? You know what I'm saying. They

958
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:19,240
Speaker 10: took her to tell me she dated him like sixteen

959
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 10: years man, And I how to tell you, my mother,

960
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 10: I don't want to get married. I don't want to

961
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 10: get Okay, you don't want to get married, but this

962
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 10: dude's already married, so you can't marry this dude.

963
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 2: When she found out, she was like she was toe up.

964
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you said, your uncle Paul inspired you as

965
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 5: far as comedy because he was the funny.

966
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:34,760
Speaker 2: Oh man, he was funny.

967
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:36,800
Speaker 10: Okay, he tell a lot. Everybody got help me with

968
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 10: this lot? Everybody he tell did I tell him? Yeah,

969
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 10: he told you, everybody help me.

970
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 2: With this lot. But he was one of the best

971
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 2: bakers in the world.

972
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 10: He he practically raised Gladys Knight back in the day,

973
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 10: and they used to call him the sweetbread Man, and

974
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 10: Gladys Knight knew him. His name was Paul Henson Junior,

975
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 10: and he went by the sweetbread Man because he was

976
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 10: the baker of in Atlanta. George, he was the man,

977
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 10: and he talked about Gladys all the time. But Gladys

978
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 10: and I was really raised on the same street. The

979
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 10: street was Chestnut Street. They changed to James Preet Broadley.

980
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 10: I was on four point fifteen. She was on like

981
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 10: seven eighty five something like that, just right up the street,

982
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 10: like two blocks. You know, No, no, I I was

983
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 10: a little kid. But she lived at when he first husband.

984
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying. But Gladys is a girl.

985
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 5: Man, Wow, were you able to translate your funny to

986
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 5: actually make a career of it?

987
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 2: But somebody like Uncle Paul, who was funny, couldn't. I

988
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 2: don't know.

989
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 10: My uncle Paul was just scared to go and say

990
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 10: he was scared. See see black people back in it,

991
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 10: they had the skill to do everything, but they were

992
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 10: scared to do it. They had so much fear. So

993
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 10: like young kids, not the dude. They was, I don't care,

994
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 10: I'll do it. So I just took it and ran

995
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 10: with him. Uncle one of the best bakers in the world.

996
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 10: He went against bakers from France and Italy, you know,

997
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 10: from England, and he beat him all out, you know

998
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 10: what I mean. Then he went to He had a

999
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 10: cheesecake that he made. It was one of the best

1000
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 10: cheesecakes in the world. And they tricked him out of

1001
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 10: it and didn't have sense enough to get a lawyer.

1002
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 10: And everything gave him like ten thousand dollar they clapping.

1003
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 10: He was all happy with as yeah, when he could

1004
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 10: have got one hundred million.

1005
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1006
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 10: But just didn't have a sense and the knowledge to

1007
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 10: do that at the time.

1008
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 2: Oh, you know, I wanted to know as a child,

1009
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 2: was Bruce Bruce big as a child? No, man, I

1010
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 2: was a little bit. He called me little Bruce. Man.

1011
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 2: I didn't I didn't get fat till I got may

1012
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 2: I don't know why I got married. Oh my god.

1013
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 2: I wouldn't eat it.

1014
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 12: Man.

1015
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 10: I was just a little bit of dude, just run around,

1016
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 10: just messing with everybody. I was a little bit of

1017
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,479
Speaker 10: kid man. But when I got married, I got fat.

1018
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 10: You know, That's what happened to us as black man.

1019
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 10: We get complacent that we get complacent with jobs. We

1020
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 10: get a job, and let's just say, Jeral Motives were

1021
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 10: making a little money. Oh man, that's a good job.

1022
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,839
Speaker 10: I don't care nothing about a good job. It's about

1023
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 10: getting out there getting it, because it's more than that

1024
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:43,879
Speaker 10: and getting a good job.

1025
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 2: I ain't like that question, by the way, what man,

1026
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 2: I ain't like the question? Do you ask you what

1027
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: was Bruce Bruce little as a child was a big child.

1028
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 2: I was a fat kid. What he wanted to.

1029
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 10: He thought I was just couldn't clap my hands, laid

1030
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 10: could clap hand, y'all clap my hand. But no, man,

1031
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 10: I was a little kid. Look cute, joker man, And

1032
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 10: I'm messing with everybody. And you know we we seen

1033
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 10: to lose focus and that's what happened. You lose focus,

1034
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 10: you start eating crazy. But now I'm back at it. Man,

1035
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 10: I'm sixty two years old. Man, Wow, we got.

1036
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 2: More with Bruce Bruce. When we come back, don't move.

1037
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 2: It's to breakfast Club.

1038
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: Come morning, j and d Yes, I lost my voice,

1039
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 1: Jess Hilaria Charlamage the God we are the breakfast Club.

1040
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 2: We're still kicking it with Bruce Bruce. Now.

1041
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,760
Speaker 1: I got a question, what's the most difficult city? Because

1042
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: you're on the road, what five days a week, four

1043
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: days a week, shoes you know, every week, what's the

1044
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 1: toughest city for you?

1045
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 10: I'm gonna be honest. I never had a tough city, man.

1046
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 10: I've had some tough crowds. When the comedy clubs hold

1047
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 10: these people hostages, you know, like let's just say, first

1048
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 10: show is at seven, second show is supposed to start

1049
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 10: at ten, all right, they let the first show run over.

1050
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 10: These people are come to the show at ten o'clock

1051
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 10: outside waiting, So that's the piss they pissed, you know,

1052
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 10: So you got to really go to work to make

1053
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 10: them laugh, you know, or go and or say something

1054
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 10: like this, say y'all have been at working. They want

1055
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 10: to be there, Like yeah, that's why I feel now,

1056
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 10: you know what I'm saying. So when you break the

1057
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 10: ice with them, you got them. Once you get them,

1058
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,760
Speaker 10: you got them. But you got to run the clubs

1059
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 10: on time. And it's hard dealing with us. It's black people.

1060
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 10: It's hard to deal with a lot of black people, man.

1061
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 10: But the white clubs they be on it, damn because

1062
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 10: they realize the money they can make in the short

1063
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 10: length of time.

1064
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 5: You know, you maybe think about when it comes to

1065
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 5: doing business with black people and white people. Because I

1066
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 5: love doing business with with with with my people, right,

1067
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 5: but I don't think we often look at it as business.

1068
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 2: We don't like it should be a personal transaction, right.

1069
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 2: It's always.

1070
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 10: It's a part because people people call my manager and

1071
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 10: be like, man, Boo's go back fifteen.

1072
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 2: I don't even know this brother. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

1073
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 2: I met him at the gas station. End up, you

1074
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:46,799
Speaker 2: don't know me. Bro.

1075
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 10: Maybe I come across like you do know me, but

1076
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 10: you don't know me. They'll call and be like, we

1077
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 10: discussed the deal and he said he would do it

1078
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 10: for this. That's not true because I don't discuss money

1079
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 10: at all with anybody. But they always think it's like

1080
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 10: a partner thing when it's just be busy.

1081
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: Do you remember your best show and you remember your

1082
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 2: worst show? Yeah?

1083
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 10: Man, I can remember a lot of them, but the

1084
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 10: people don't know it.

1085
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: I knew it. I can remember my first I mean,

1086
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 2: I come off Saint Tap a guy.

1087
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 1: I didn't like that show. Well, people thought it was great,

1088
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:14,320
Speaker 1: but I'd be like, I didn't like that show. What

1089
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: was your what was your worst show? Because they said

1090
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: you don't write things down, it's just all I.

1091
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 2: Come out a couple.

1092
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 10: One time I was in Houston, Texas, and uh, I

1093
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 10: was doing this show, and I was joning everybody out

1094
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 10: and this dude came up and joeed me and he

1095
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 10: was funny, but you know, go damn Jonah. He said,

1096
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 10: I did like a pickle jaw, you know. And I saw, like, damn,

1097
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,320
Speaker 10: that's funny. Bro I said, I'm gonna keep that, you know,

1098
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 10: stepent me like a pickle jaw. I was like, oh

1099
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:41,760
Speaker 10: my god, that's funny. But the crowd loved it because

1100
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 10: I took it so well. I didn't go off, you

1101
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 10: know exactly. It was really funny when he said it.

1102
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 10: And the best show I ever did, it was years

1103
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 10: and years and years ago is when Bernie Mack was

1104
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 10: red hot. Bernie Mack was super hot. And it's a

1105
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 10: it's a part of Georgia called Makeham, Georgia, and it's

1106
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 10: about an hour from Atlanta, and Bernie was performing, had

1107
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 10: a five thousand seater and the feature didn't show up.

1108
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 10: And the guy said, hey, man, my feature in't show.

1109
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 10: Can you come down opening up for Bernie Mac? I said, yes,

1110
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:08,439
Speaker 10: you know, I had been in the game now about

1111
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 10: five years. Yes, And I drove down a quick as

1112
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 10: I could, and I was on stage and I can

1113
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 10: remember Bernie Mack had his arm folded looking at me.

1114
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 10: He said, who's that dude right there? He said his

1115
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 10: Bruce was He said, he is funny. But Bernie went

1116
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,720
Speaker 10: up and ripped it. And I worked with Bernie twice

1117
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 10: in my whole entire life. May couldn't. And then I

1118
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 10: worked in Columbia, South Carolina on the top.

1119
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 2: That's it.

1120
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 10: But Bernie was a bad dude. Man, And people don't

1121
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 10: realize when he did, I'm not scared of you on

1122
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,320
Speaker 10: death jail. He made that up right then because everybody

1123
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 10: was coming up. They was having a car a hard

1124
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 10: time here in New York. Damn jail. They was getting

1125
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 10: it to him, you know, New York. You know you

1126
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 10: don't hold no punches, you know. And Bernie said, man,

1127
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 10: I ain't skettering them, mom, And he went up and did.

1128
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 10: Him and Capri went together on it and he ripped it. Man,

1129
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:52,760
Speaker 10: Bernie was a bad.

1130
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 2: D Was that the funniest comedian you have worked with? No, man?

1131
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 10: I know some funny comedians now, like Tony Robertson is

1132
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 10: stupid funny. Tony makes me laugh. You know who ton

1133
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 10: Robinson was? Oh my god, Tonor Robbins told me he

1134
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 10: used to day. The girl her breath was so.

1135
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 2: Bad it smelled like a horse's hiccups. So who think

1136
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: of that? Who think of a horse's hiccup? You know

1137
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1138
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 10: He makes me laugh. Mike Capps. Mike Capps is one

1139
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 10: of the dude I trained back in the day. Mike

1140
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 10: used to be on the road me. Mike moved from

1141
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 10: Indiana to Atlanta. I used to take him on the

1142
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 10: road with me, and then he moved to New York

1143
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 10: and he called me when they said, man, they want

1144
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 10: me to audition for Fridays.

1145
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 2: I said, what you waiting on? I said, looking for

1146
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 2: somebody like you? And he called me a week later.

1147
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 2: I got the part. I said, you're on your wait day.

1148
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 2: They that's my man. Now we've seen Kat Williams pulled

1149
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 2: out his chop a couple of months ago. He was

1150
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 2: fired at everybody. What was your thoughts? Because you know

1151
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 2: a lot of that stuff was was inside that became outside.

1152
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 10: Cat just told how he felt, man, and what's been

1153
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 10: going on in his life for real, and he just

1154
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 10: got fed up with it. You know when people when

1155
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 10: people dog you out, Let's just say this. I used

1156
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 10: to tell people I had a club in Atlanta. It's

1157
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 10: called Club five five nine. And I used to tell

1158
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 10: my securities. I said, listen, when you have an altercation

1159
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 10: with a guy, be careful because they don't forget you.

1160
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 10: You don't be forgot about them. So if you throw

1161
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 10: them at the club, throw them on their head and

1162
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 10: they'd be like, I'm not gonna forget that.

1163
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 2: They won't forget you. But you forgot who that was.

1164
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 10: And you had to go store with your woman shopping,

1165
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 10: you roun up all you you remember me?

1166
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:19,720
Speaker 2: You're like, no, you have to be careful.

1167
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 10: So Kat just went through some things, stuff that he

1168
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 10: never forgot that was done to him, and he's coming

1169
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 10: back retaliating, and he just told.

1170
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 2: It like it was.

1171
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 5: I mean, there's a lot of different things you could

1172
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 5: take from that conversation. But the thing I took from

1173
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 5: it that I appreciate it. It felt like it put

1174
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 5: black comedy in a in a new light. Yeah, like

1175
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 5: people started paying attention to the old geez like you

1176
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 5: Tony Robbers, like they.

1177
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just felt like it just shine

1178
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 2: earthquake and shine.

1179
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 10: The light on the on the people who've been doing it,

1180
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 10: and people got to understand something about Kat Williams. Cat

1181
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:49,760
Speaker 10: Williams is not a dummy.

1182
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 2: He is very smart. He's very smart.

1183
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 10: I don't know if y'all remember when he had altercation

1184
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 10: in Atlanta with one of the smith if if you

1185
00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 10: ever noticed it, he never lost his composure.

1186
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 2: He stood there and drunk his coffee and he was

1187
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 2: killing her the whole time. And he's just cool like that.

1188
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 2: He's very smart. He's a smart guy. How did you

1189
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 2: feel about all these artists mentioned you and their songs?

1190
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 2: I love it. Well, you have a surprise that you

1191
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 2: hear before when you heard let Bruce Bruce hit it?

1192
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 4: That?

1193
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 10: God, I just hate when dude said it. You know

1194
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 10: what I'm saying, like, we let Bruce bro. You should

1195
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 10: be saying that. Then your girls should say it, but

1196
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,399
Speaker 10: not not me, not you Bro. That on the text

1197
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 10: this morning?

1198
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 5: Did he because our producer was like, man, Bruce Bruce

1199
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 5: is already his we were on the way. Yeah, and

1200
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 5: so he goes, well, entertain them, then let Bruce Bruce

1201
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 5: hit it.

1202
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 2: I was joking. I forgive you, that's what he said.

1203
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 2: I forgive you. That's inside stuff. Man. I just I

1204
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 2: just thought it was stupid, you know he did? Yeah,

1205
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 2: I felt he felt we cool. So he just told

1206
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 2: me and our producer told him that was he was

1207
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 2: going to h it's gonna be that breathing. Why did

1208
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 2: you do that? Why did you?

1209
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, Biggie, Biggie mentioned you and hypnotize, Yeah, time you

1210
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 1: heard what happened.

1211
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 10: I was in Jacksonville, Florid. I never forget this and

1212
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 10: I wanted to meet him so bad because I was

1213
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:01,800
Speaker 10: a fan of Biggie, you know.

1214
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 2: Man.

1215
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,320
Speaker 10: He came in and I was on stage clowning. I

1216
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 10: was joning people. I mean, I asked to do it.

1217
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 2: I said that shirt sill because it's I say, is

1218
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 2: it's silky behind it too much? You know something like that.

1219
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 2: He walked in, he said, just dude.

1220
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 10: Was funny because if you ever really pay attention to Biggie,

1221
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 10: he didn't really smile that much, you know what I'm saying.

1222
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 10: He just always had that look, this nuns look. He

1223
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 10: smiled on the video when he was on the boat.

1224
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:26,760
Speaker 10: When he was on the boat and he started smiling,

1225
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 10: he said, wanna put you down for it?

1226
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 2: And when I heard him, like what what was like

1227
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 2: was a people were debating whether he yeah, did he

1228
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 2: say that? Yeah?

1229
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 10: It was like Bruce Bruce, who do something to us?

1230
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 10: Talk goes through us, girls do us, one of the

1231
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 10: screws who meet Poppy and Puff.

1232
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 2: It was just love.

1233
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 10: He showed me he was a cool guy man and

1234
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 10: I actually saw him smile and lad because I never

1235
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 10: saw him smile. He just always had this like heart look,

1236
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 10: like you know, he read to fight, but he was

1237
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 10: really funny. It was fun to be around. So he

1238
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 10: told you he was going to put you. Yeah, okay, okay,

1239
00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 10: that's how you know it was Yeah. I listened to

1240
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 10: it over. I just kept coming back. I just I

1241
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 10: just kept repeating it, listen to it old on and

1242
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:04,439
Speaker 10: that was love.

1243
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 2: That was real love. All right.

1244
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: We got more with Bruce Bruce when we come back.

1245
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning.

1246
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. Comedian Bruce Bruce is still here.

1247
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 5: Charlam now Out of Depth, Comedy Jam, Showtime at the Apollo,

1248
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 5: and Comic View.

1249
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 10: Which one had the most impact on you? Comic View

1250
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 10: Depth Jam first, Depth Jam was the start and come

1251
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 10: on that we got to give it to Russell Simmons,

1252
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 10: I mean, big up for him. Depth Jam was good.

1253
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 10: But when I did Comic View, see Comic View started

1254
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 10: out as Coast to Coast. I don't know if y'all

1255
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 10: remember that they used to come out to your city

1256
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 10: and come to a club and film you and then

1257
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 10: take it back.

1258
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 2: And DL was the host, and he's.

1259
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 10: Like, look, went all the way down to Atlanta at

1260
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 10: a club called the Comedy at Theater, and we've seen

1261
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 10: this guy, Bruce Bruce and then showed me and I

1262
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 10: did the Coast to code when they first started. But

1263
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,800
Speaker 10: I never forget the year that I host. It was

1264
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 10: probably the best year for me that I have ever

1265
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 10: experienced in my life. They went from ten ten million

1266
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 10: viewers to twenty million viewers when the host, and.

1267
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 2: It was great for me. It was good.

1268
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 10: I made some money. They gave me money for wardrobe.

1269
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 10: That's why I dressed in all them suits because I

1270
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 10: thought I was a pimp.

1271
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I thought I was a

1272
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 2: straight up pimp.

1273
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: Why do you help so many comedians? Comedians talk about

1274
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 1: that You helped someone so many comedians in their career

1275
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 1: and their life. What gives you the energy Because a

1276
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: lot of people be like, I ain't helping him because

1277
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 1: he might get bigger than me.

1278
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 10: But you you talked about so many communities. Oh my god, yeah,

1279
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 10: but so many helped me. I never forget when I

1280
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 10: first when I was in the comedy actre in Atlanta

1281
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 10: and John Wierspoon came to Atlanta and he looked at

1282
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 10: me and he say, you got it. He said, you

1283
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 10: really got it. He say, I like you. So he

1284
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 10: started telling me what to do and what not to do,

1285
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 10: and he helped me, took me up on this way.

1286
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 10: Ronald Alray did the same thing. He helped me on

1287
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 10: BT when he was my calls. People don't realize that

1288
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 10: Ronald Ray was a college professor before he started doing comedy.

1289
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 10: He was extremely smart and he would tell me sometimes

1290
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 10: he said, turn your body to the right a little bit.

1291
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 10: When you tell that joke, it'll work better. And I'm like,

1292
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 10: how's that gonna work better? And it worked better. And

1293
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 10: then last are the Mohicans who really told me, say

1294
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 10: you won't have to find her, and they will find you.

1295
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 2: His name was Paul Mooney. Wow, the legend Paul Mooney.

1296
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 10: He told me that Ridney Winterfield, y'all remember righting the

1297
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 10: Winfield that my man took me And he said a

1298
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 10: lot of these juggles don't like you. Just because you're funny,

1299
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 10: He says, keep being funny, you're gonna be alright. Used

1300
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 10: to call me do shows with him, you know, you

1301
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 10: know back in the day, man, somebody say, Man, we

1302
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 10: got to show paying three hundred dollars. I'm like, let's go.

1303
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 10: You know these new kids now, he say, Man, I

1304
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 10: got a show for you. How much you're paying?

1305
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 2: Hold it? Hold it.

1306
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 10: You ain't been seen walking by TV much less on TV.

1307
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 10: So what is you talking about how much they're paying?

1308
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 10: If I tell you about the show, I'm gonna make

1309
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:39,959
Speaker 10: sure you get paid.

1310
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 2: Just that something you think social media helped the hurt comedy?

1311
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,320
Speaker 10: Oh, he helped it, mane I wish I had social

1312
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 10: media thirty five years ago. The only thing we had

1313
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 10: was go in this city early through radio, try to

1314
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 10: do TV to get people in there. Social media is

1315
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 10: a platform that really helped a lot of young for

1316
00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:03,359
Speaker 10: me is now now veterri comedians like myself. They get

1317
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:07,720
Speaker 10: pissed because all the new young comedians are coming up faster.

1318
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 10: Have been doing comedy for twenty five years, thirty years,

1319
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 10: and he ain't been doing coming with three months. I

1320
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 10: tell them like this, you can't beat them. Joe want

1321
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:17,879
Speaker 10: to and they're winning, so you might as well fall

1322
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 10: in the footstep. They are winning. But that's why them

1323
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 10: young comedians feel like. That's why they're asking how much? Right,

1324
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 10: because they following them. But then the only thing about it, Charlamine,

1325
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 10: is when they do get booked, only thing they got

1326
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 10: to say is what they did on social media. You

1327
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 10: got to bring out more than that, right, you know

1328
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 10: you got that's seven minutes, you got, oh it's five,

1329
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 10: But what about this other twenty minutes they need you

1330
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 10: to do. You can tell when a person is bombing

1331
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 10: because they start talking real positive. You know, we need

1332
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:45,399
Speaker 10: to take care of these kids, man. You know, hey man,

1333
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,720
Speaker 10: support these women. Man, hey man, these women need to support.

1334
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 10: They need to respect. They're bombing like hell, they're trying

1335
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 10: to get positive.

1336
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 2: That's a favorite part of.

1337
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 5: A comedy show, you know what it is. I like

1338
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 5: to see somebody trying to dig themselves.

1339
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 2: Out of a hole.

1340
00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,919
Speaker 5: Oh my god, If you see me laughing really hard,

1341
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 5: it's probably because you up there stinking.

1342
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 10: Because I remember seeing you, because I watch you guys

1343
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 10: all the time. I remember seeing you on Ridiculousness. Right,

1344
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 10: Chanelle West Coast, she made her so mad. You see

1345
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:12,720
Speaker 10: you was coming and say, I never seen you on anything.

1346
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 10: I never seen you wrap with I rapped stoop, she

1347
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 10: got they went to commercial. I think it happened twice

1348
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 10: right now. I was just one she but do she rap?

1349
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:25,399
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think she did.

1350
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,839
Speaker 10: Okay, okay, but I didn't know it. But I looked

1351
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 10: at you and I'm like, oh my god, she's pissed.

1352
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 10: She got pitched. She moved that hair back the commercial commercial,

1353
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 10: and she came back. She was gonna come. Yeah, we're

1354
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,879
Speaker 10: back here, trying to pissed her. I never seen your nothing.

1355
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 10: I never seen you snoop, I never seen too short.

1356
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 2: I never seen you. She was pissed. I laughed so

1357
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: hard at that. That was so good. How big of

1358
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 2: a deal is it now for a comedian to have

1359
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: a special? Does it even matter? Well?

1360
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 10: Let me you know, it's funny you said that. Man,

1361
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,919
Speaker 10: specials are good. I just got signed for Netflix specially okay.

1362
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 10: And the reason, the reason I just took it, I

1363
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 10: won't gonna do. I was gonna do it my myself,

1364
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,479
Speaker 10: like fmit, make them buy you know what I'm saying.

1365
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 10: But they offered it to me. We're gonna do it.

1366
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 10: We're gonna do it. I think around August, So get

1367
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 10: you in Atlanta. No, no, no, no, no, We're gonna

1368
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 10: go somewhere else. I want to go somewhere somebody to

1369
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 10: think I'm a superstar, you know what I'm saying. In Atlanta,

1370
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 10: I'm just average. That's up brus Man, you know, and

1371
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 10: see me and the gro But I go somewhere like

1372
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 10: Chicago or Texas. Oh my god, that's why I want

1373
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:25,760
Speaker 10: to go in Atlanta.

1374
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 2: It's my city. I love it.

1375
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 10: I still live there. And uh, I had a place

1376
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 10: in La for like thirty years. LA's just La. You pay,

1377
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 10: they make you pay for the weather, you know what

1378
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 10: I mean. Everything is just so high. It's just ridiculous,

1379
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 10: it is. I've got a couple more questions.

1380
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 5: You know, there's a stigma about black comedians wearing dresses

1381
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 5: to be funny, having to wear addressed to get to

1382
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 5: that next level.

1383
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 2: What's your thoughts on that. Well, you know, I'm gonna

1384
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 2: be honest with you, man. I did it. I did it.

1385
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 10: It's funny you said that I did a TV show

1386
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 10: that I take one time never came out. It's called

1387
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 10: Bruce Bruce Bounty Hunters. I was a bounty hunter. I

1388
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 10: played a bounty hunter. I played a preacher called Reverend

1389
00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 10: Get Money. It's Reverend Get Money. And I played them

1390
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 10: mother named Mother Marshall, which was crazy, but Mother Marshall

1391
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 10: was a real lady in my church that I mimic.

1392
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 10: I cop it off for and I also played I

1393
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 10: did it in Indianapolis, and I did not feel comfortable

1394
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 10: in that dress, you know what I'm saying at all.

1395
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 10: And some people could do it, some people if it

1396
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 10: worked for you. Flip Wilson did it when he did Jeraldine.

1397
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 10: You know, because Flip Willson Show was a variety show,

1398
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 10: which I love because it wasn't a black show. It

1399
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:28,279
Speaker 10: was a show for everybody, and that's what people got

1400
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 10: to understand. But if they want to dress up in

1401
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 10: a dress, do you think you know? But that's not

1402
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 10: my thing. Tyler Perry made it big. He's one of

1403
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 10: the best. But to me, I love Tyler Perry. But

1404
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 10: Joe is funny than Tyler Perry. Then, my dear, when

1405
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 10: he plays Joe, Joe, it's funny. Joe had an oxygen take.

1406
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 10: We're smoking with coughing, and I say, thank you Jesus.

1407
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying so when he plays Joe,

1408
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:56,919
Speaker 10: Joe is the funniest dude.

1409
00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 2: That's just me. Yeah, I love deal, but oh my god, Joe,

1410
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 2: it's funny.

1411
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 5: And see back then we used to see people in

1412
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 5: the dresses or even see like when they used to

1413
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 5: do men on film on a living color.

1414
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 2: It was just funny. Thought nothing of it.

1415
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 10: Men on film was the thing when they talked about

1416
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 10: Moby Dick, Moby Dick that gets two snaps and the

1417
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 10: kids and around about twist, yeah.

1418
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 2: The twist.

1419
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 10: Yeah, why do you have to say your name twice?

1420
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 10: I got my mamma just called me twice. My mama said,

1421
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 10: if I call you the third time, I'm gonna kid you.

1422
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 10: So my mother said, if I call you three times,

1423
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 10: you're gonna die today. And my mother was a little

1424
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 10: one about one forty. I mean, she was just but

1425
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 10: loving and knew how to make a way out of

1426
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 10: no way. Most mothers do. That's why it's always good

1427
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 10: when you do get successful and you start making money,

1428
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 10: make sure you take care of mom. And one thing

1429
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 10: you got to realize it don't take much like you

1430
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 10: think it does. People think like your mama don't want

1431
00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 10: that much. She just want to make sure she's okay.

1432
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 10: She's called comfortable, and she got a little money. My

1433
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 10: mother last twenty years of her life. I made sure

1434
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 10: she was straight, didn't pay no bills, nothing. But it

1435
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 10: didn't take Muney. But then when your family members found

1436
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 10: out about it, they started trying to use you too.

1437
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 10: You know my mom going through something. Well, that's your mother,

1438
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 10: this one is mine.

1439
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 2: That's true. Lead you have it's Bruce, Bruce. We've been

1440
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 2: trying to.

1441
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:22,919
Speaker 5: Get Bruce Bruce up here for a minute, man, because

1442
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 5: you know I've always just respected you as a comedy legend.

1443
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 2: Man, you an icon, So salute you, Bruce, coming, let

1444
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 2: me respect. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Charlotte Lange

1445
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 2: saying it's true.

1446
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, Dongy today goes to a woman named Erica du

1447
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 5: suit No, let me see this over. Erica Dosuza Viatri

1448
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 5: new Nets. Okay, she is forty two years old and

1449
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 5: was arrested Tuesday. Now mind you, she is in Brazil.

1450
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 5: But the heat hall is global, and this heat hall

1451
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:52,600
Speaker 5: is warranted because about a month ago I gave two

1452
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 5: Ohio women donkey today for doing something similar, and by

1453
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 5: something similar, I mean using a dead body a corpse

1454
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 5: to get some money out the bank. Because Erica was

1455
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 5: arrested after taking her dead uncle to a bank to

1456
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 5: take out a loan. She must have done this in

1457
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:09,439
Speaker 5: the afternoon because she clearly is not a morning person.

1458
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 5: Let's go to Fox twenty sixth Houston for the report.

1459
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:14,439
Speaker 12: Police, please say, a forty two year old woman named

1460
00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 12: Erica de Susa walked into a bank pushing the body

1461
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 12: of a dead man. It was in a wheelchair. Susa

1462
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 12: could be seen using the lifeless body like a puppet.

1463
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 12: She attempted to nod the guy's head and make it

1464
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 12: appear as if he were signing approval for a thirty

1465
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 12: two hundred dollars bank withdrawal.

1466
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:35,959
Speaker 2: The man is dead.

1467
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 12: Employees didn't fall for the antics. They got suspicions when

1468
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 12: the man wasn't breathing and he happens to be pale.

1469
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 12: Susa was arrested and now she's added to our batch

1470
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 12: of crazy ass criminals.

1471
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 5: Fox twenty six Houston includes Mama Fox Crazy asking me, okay,

1472
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 5: you telling it like it is. There as so many

1473
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 5: reasons this is insane. Number one, you don't take a

1474
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 5: dead person to a bank. Everyone knows that a corpse's

1475
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 5: favorite currency is crypto. Okay, all right, she took her

1476
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 5: sixty hyar old dead uncle to a bank to get

1477
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 5: a load of three thousand, two hundred and fifty dollars.

1478
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 5: Do you see the types of chances people are taking

1479
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 5: for what some folks would call small amounts of money. Okay,

1480
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 5: folks do not understand how bad a lot of people

1481
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 5: are out here doing. Three thousand, two hundred and fifty

1482
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:26,439
Speaker 5: may be nothing to you, but three thousand, two hundred

1483
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 5: and fifty is a lot of other people's life savings. Now,

1484
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 5: the police chief said that the man was probably dead

1485
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:35,480
Speaker 5: for a couple hours. Can you imagine someone dying, your uncle,

1486
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 5: your family member, and the first thing you think about

1487
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 5: is how to get some money for yourself, no regard

1488
01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 5: for the life this.

1489
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 2: Man just lived. There is no way this man becomes

1490
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 2: her spirit guide.

1491
01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 5: I refuse to be one of your ancestors you call

1492
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 5: on when you need spiritual backing if this is how

1493
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 5: you treat my corpse after I'm gone. Furthermore, this has

1494
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 5: to be some sort of necrophilia. You all know what

1495
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 5: Necrophela is right. This is a sexual attraction the corpses

1496
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 5: and I didn't know that. I wasn't looking at up Yeah,

1497
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 5: aka to urge the crack a cold one open. And

1498
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 5: whenever I hear stories of people doing anything with the

1499
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 5: corpse except for taking it to a funeral home to

1500
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 5: be laid the rest, then I think they're aware though.

1501
01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

1502
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 5: Erica, during an interview with police, told officers she routinely

1503
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 5: cared for her uncle, who was also debilitated. If that's

1504
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 5: the case, if you was doing what you was supposed

1505
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 5: to be doing, if you was treating this man right,

1506
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:26,440
Speaker 5: taking care of him, then you should be in his

1507
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 5: will somewhere.

1508
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 2: Okay. Wills are a way for corpses to speak.

1509
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 5: That's what you create your will for to be able

1510
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 5: to speak from the grave so the still living can

1511
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 5: know what you want.

1512
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 2: That's why we call will's dead giveaways.

1513
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 5: Furthermore, whenever I see cases like this, I believe they

1514
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 5: should investigate the call to death, because every single one

1515
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 5: of these cases is like finding a cartoonist dead in

1516
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:51,959
Speaker 5: their home. It's very sketchy, Okay, Because if you willing

1517
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 5: my corps to the bank to take money out, how

1518
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 5: do I know this person bringing the corps to the

1519
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 5: bank didn't none alive me to make me a cost.

1520
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 5: Now this woman, Erica is being charged with fraud and

1521
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 5: the beautiful corpse, and she should be because playing with

1522
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 5: corpses is not funny. Okay, corpses aren't funny. They are

1523
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 5: dead serious, and it's a damn shame people don't respect

1524
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 5: the dead. But you know why people don't respect corpses

1525
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 5: because we don't respect the living. To me, these stories

1526
01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 5: the prime examples of how we as humans don't truly

1527
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 5: respect each other.

1528
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:18,919
Speaker 2: Alive are dead.

1529
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 5: The bones of the falling should be treated with respect

1530
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 5: and accorded the dignity that was their proper due. If

1531
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 5: only the living were also granted such grace, what a

1532
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 5: wonder our world would become. I got that from an

1533
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 5: inspirational reel, you know those reels that have like the

1534
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 5: videos of the waterfalls and beautiful greenery with the flutes playing.

1535
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 2: Got my attention and I feel like it totally fit here.

1536
01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 5: But the moral of the story is, if you want

1537
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 5: to play with corpses, become a mortician or a funeral director.

1538
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 2: Jess Hilarius used to be one.

1539
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 13: I went to school to be a corner last Montestion,

1540
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:52,960
Speaker 13: and what happened I didn't make it through.

1541
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 2: How many jobs did you have? You talked about you

1542
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 2: this morning at McDonald's now a court. I had a

1543
01:02:58,000 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 2: lot of jobs.

1544
01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 5: Inv okay, well, funeral directors and morticians. We need more

1545
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 5: of those because they are dying professions.

1546
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 2: Please, yeah, very much.

1547
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 5: Please give me a clown, Please give Eric noon the

1548
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 5: sweet sounds of the hamiltones.

1549
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 2: You all the oh the day, oh the day.

1550
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 5: Would you like to know why if funeral director started

1551
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 5: the podcast he wanted to talk about bodies of work.

1552
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 2: Very much, clown, I can't even believe.

1553
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,120
Speaker 15: Yeah, I can't even believe that you would even be

1554
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 15: really laughing at it anymore, not dying like what a

1555
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 15: dying profession be with every day.

1556
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 13: So actually that's the reason why I wanted to be

1557
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 13: a mortician. I was like, you know what, he's been

1558
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 13: gonna have to stop, you know, don.

1559
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 2: So what made you do that?

1560
01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 4: Like?

1561
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 2: What made you say I want to be a mortician

1562
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 2: because every job that.

1563
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 13: I kept getting fired from, like from people who are alive.

1564
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 2: So you figure the day, Yeah no, no, but to

1565
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 2: day will make you scharedule And I watched too many

1566
01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 2: movies and it's just like ghost and stuff like that. Yeah,

1567
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 2: I believe in a bunch of stuff. And I was like,

1568
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 2: you know, I can't have babies. Wow, because they got Halloweenie's.

1569
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 2: You know what? All right? Alright, the Breakfast Club, Good morning,

1570
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club.

1571
01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 1: Only everybody is DJ MV, Jess, Larry Scharlamade and the guy.

1572
01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club.

1573
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 5: We got a special guest in the bellot because today

1574
01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 5: is National co Parenting Day. Yes, so we had to

1575
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 5: bring in a man who I feel like him and

1576
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 5: Jess have one of the best co parenting relationships I've

1577
01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 5: ever seen.

1578
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 2: Rome is here, Rome is here, I got a wow.

1579
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:05,320
Speaker 2: Well just saying I want to know who gave Room

1580
01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 2: some liquor this morning, and I was like, I.

1581
01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 1: Ain't give it to her. I just told them where

1582
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 1: the ball was. Help yourself, Help yourself, and you said

1583
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:13,400
Speaker 1: it was.

1584
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 2: You said it was apple juice, And so I was

1585
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 2: about to take a step and I was like, it

1586
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 2: was not. You already knew what an apple juice. I

1587
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 2: just ain't thank you.

1588
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:21,920
Speaker 5: Was gonna pick the cup up you and just have

1589
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 5: the best co parents in situation I've ever wouldness, how

1590
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 5: did y'all get to this point?

1591
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 2: And she thinks she's my mother first and foremost. But

1592
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:29,840
Speaker 2: it took time.

1593
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: I felt like when you take the feelings out of

1594
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 1: it and you realize that the child is the most

1595
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 1: important part of the relationship, because it's still a relationship,

1596
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: whether you're intimate or not, you can do magical things,

1597
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: magical things. And I think that me being a dad

1598
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 1: that I was and that I am still today, I

1599
01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 1: wanted that. I felt like we wasn't gonna be together.

1600
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 1: It was no need for us to beef. We've created

1601
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:58,160
Speaker 1: over time. Whereas now she's my best friend, She's she's

1602
01:05:58,200 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: my safe space. I feel like, you know, I can

1603
01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 1: to her because sometimes all the time I need it.

1604
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 1: But I feel like when I was pouring into these

1605
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 1: other women, they would use it against me.

1606
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Whereas though now now that she's pregnant, I

1607
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:13,480
Speaker 2: don't really call her and.

1608
01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: Say certain things because I know she's going through certain

1609
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:18,680
Speaker 1: things initially now so Jess is always in my safe space. Though,

1610
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:20,760
Speaker 1: so it's like she's always been a person that I

1611
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 1: go to a call, give me advice, some advice.

1612
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,440
Speaker 2: I don't take it, but just to hear, but just

1613
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 2: to hear her give it to you, just to know

1614
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 2: that she cared because like, I don't really have nobody.

1615
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:32,040
Speaker 2: How did y'all, how did y'all meet How did you

1616
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 2: meet Jesson? How did y'all start dating? Back then? Where

1617
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 2: did you see it?

1618
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 1: When it was like, oh, this is this is somebody

1619
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 1: I want to It's crazy because we grew up on

1620
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:39,919
Speaker 1: the smile. He's starting to smile.

1621
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:43,800
Speaker 2: He goes back, No, because my mom, my mom was alive.

1622
01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 2: My mom down when I was ten. My mom was alive.

1623
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 2: We went to the same church. My mom died.

1624
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 1: My father like really took me away from everybody. So

1625
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 1: now it was like fast forward, like seventeen. Its Facebook,

1626
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 1: and she came across my timeline and I was like, okay,

1627
01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 1: so I did a dot dot dot and I put

1628
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: a basketball emotion.

1629
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 2: You guy was a way, just shut up, you play

1630
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:12,920
Speaker 2: with you. She bid on it too, okay. I think

1631
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm just coming to get my ball,

1632
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 2: coming to get with mine something I said, And you

1633
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 2: want a basketball room. I need to know. I've seen

1634
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 2: it somewhere. Basketball. No, I seen somebody do that.

1635
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:26,760
Speaker 5: Like, I don't know what I seen basketball. This is

1636
01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:31,080
Speaker 5: eleven years twelve years ago, so I'm like, I don't know.

1637
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 5: I did it because I thought it was it was corny,

1638
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 5: but I thought it was you know, but it worked.

1639
01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 5: It got attention. What do you think just when you

1640
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:37,480
Speaker 5: saw the basketball?

1641
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 2: I just said, what is this? Okay? I just typed

1642
01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:42,919
Speaker 2: that back and like he said, it was my ball.

1643
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 13: It's my ball and I'm coming to get I'm coming

1644
01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:47,560
Speaker 13: to get it or something like I'm coming to.

1645
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 2: Get with mine. And I was like, okay, what's up.

1646
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:52,640
Speaker 2: I knew what I was giving, what it was about it,

1647
01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 2: but it worked. It worked.

1648
01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:57,000
Speaker 1: So you'll started talking, where was your first date? What

1649
01:07:57,160 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 1: was your first when you started first talking?

1650
01:07:58,760 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 2: What was your honest?

1651
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 10: Man, Jasica did a lot.

1652
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say this, before a lot of these young

1653
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:08,120
Speaker 5: guys became Jody, I was Jody.

1654
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:15,800
Speaker 2: And our first date, big date. I'm gonna say it

1655
01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 2: was six flags, Okay, okay, all right, big.

1656
01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: But before that we did a lot of other things.

1657
01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: But after that it was we did a lot. Like

1658
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:25,760
Speaker 1: she introduced me to a lot.

1659
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 5: Actually we both was the same age, but she helped

1660
01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 5: make me become god me you're becoming a man coming

1661
01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 5: to man and then yeah, then boom.

1662
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:38,520
Speaker 1: Now just always says that you are you were overprotective,

1663
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 1: make sure she was good. But she always said, you

1664
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:41,120
Speaker 1: can't fight.

1665
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god, No, she never seen me fight. I

1666
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 2: never had. We thought I got that from.

1667
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:51,320
Speaker 5: Of course I'm not going to fight her. Bro Oh,

1668
01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 5: it's crazy because I just got a picture from the window.

1669
01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:56,160
Speaker 5: You bust the minds.

1670
01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 2: One window? What I fish? What happened? Or you can't

1671
01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 2: be her? Then if she could break up window from

1672
01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:04,559
Speaker 2: a fish out, you're trying to fight that. What happened?

1673
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:12,280
Speaker 2: To take a sip thinking about that? What happened? All right?

1674
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 1: My step like, Jessica, pull up? Mind you ate together?

1675
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 1: Jasica pulls up. I had a girl in the house.

1676
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:20,760
Speaker 1: So my brother like he comes to the top of

1677
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:23,040
Speaker 1: the steps, like just at the door. I'm like, all

1678
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 1: right here I come it. Don't even wait for me

1679
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 1: to come.

1680
01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 2: He let her in.

1681
01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 7: He let her in.

1682
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 2: Oh boy, I walked right past him and his friends

1683
01:09:30,520 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 2: with the girl. Jessica, get in the steps. But what

1684
01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 2: did I see when I walked down the steps? Drone?

1685
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:40,519
Speaker 5: You didn't see and the She tries to fassage this story, Ashton,

1686
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 5: I had a portable rocking bashing that where I could

1687
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 5: put it in the trump send it to her.

1688
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 2: Bring it back. Ashton was in a portable rocking joint.

1689
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 2: Me and the girl was on on the bed.

1690
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:53,160
Speaker 1: I had on basketball short, she had on her uniform.

1691
01:09:53,240 --> 01:10:01,000
Speaker 1: Pass she gonna say, she's been saying in the military,

1692
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:02,719
Speaker 1: she's a correctional officer.

1693
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 5: So like she's sitting, she's facing me, but her legs

1694
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 5: is like you know how that goes just to come

1695
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:10,080
Speaker 5: down and says, she's gonna say, oh, we was naked.

1696
01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 2: We was not naked. Was it been happening? I don't

1697
01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 2: get naked.

1698
01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 5: And when she topped it up, Oh my gosh, she's

1699
01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:20,639
Speaker 5: never gonna tell anyway, she banged the girl.

1700
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:21,680
Speaker 2: You beat up the girl.

1701
01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 5: She didn't beat up bang popped us And I picked

1702
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,360
Speaker 5: up and walked up stairs and throw outside.

1703
01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:29,800
Speaker 2: You could never lift me. You never see what I'm saying.

1704
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:32,519
Speaker 2: She never wants to. She never wants to admit the truth.

1705
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 2: Field couldn't fight. No, I ain't fight or not. But

1706
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 2: she the one time.

1707
01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,360
Speaker 13: And then she got up and she put on her

1708
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 13: uniform and went and left, went up stairs. I promised you,

1709
01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 13: I wish it was our phones and fighting that that. No,

1710
01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:51,560
Speaker 13: my son was not in no portable nothing. He was

1711
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 13: on the floor on a blanket and the cat was

1712
01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:54,679
Speaker 13: looking at him.

1713
01:10:54,760 --> 01:11:01,080
Speaker 2: Like he wanted to eat him. See me under the carpet.

1714
01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 5: So I will never lay my I wouldn't even lay

1715
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 5: on the floor arguing about this was eleven because she

1716
01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 5: never wanted to tell you she.

1717
01:11:07,439 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 2: Was drunk out of her mind. And I'm trying to

1718
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 2: figure out was just getting off for work? God, damn

1719
01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 2: you didn't.

1720
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:15,640
Speaker 13: Damn you did not just get off where he was

1721
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 13: fired at that time. So I got fired right after that.

1722
01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:21,479
Speaker 13: I was working at McDonald's. That's when I was still like.

1723
01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 4: This.

1724
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:26,560
Speaker 13: And if I was drinking, okay, I was drinking on

1725
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 13: the joe, but I was at work. So and then

1726
01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:31,040
Speaker 13: I came to get my son, and yeah, it did

1727
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 13: not come.

1728
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:33,680
Speaker 1: Get your son because it was my weekend. So what

1729
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:35,840
Speaker 1: I was gett until Monday from day kid, why would

1730
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 1: you coming? No, he was coming to be nosy.

1731
01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:38,360
Speaker 2: I didn't have to come to me.

1732
01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:43,360
Speaker 9: You was looking for a passinger water if you she

1733
01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:49,880
Speaker 9: because she go home eleven years years old.

1734
01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:52,599
Speaker 2: Man, that's my god. How did you break the woman

1735
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:55,479
Speaker 2: her hand and you walked out see this car? No,

1736
01:11:56,280 --> 01:12:00,479
Speaker 2: I threw ass out. Not that was not that strong.

1737
01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:03,439
Speaker 13: You did not yeah, I mean I had and it

1738
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 13: was steps that there could never ever eaten right now,

1739
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 13: could not do that the window. I was just really

1740
01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:13,960
Speaker 13: really because he wouldn't give me my son.

1741
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:17,719
Speaker 2: Give me my son. You called the police, The police

1742
01:12:17,760 --> 01:12:19,439
Speaker 2: called the police. She never called the police.

1743
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, night, listen, everybody, Well, I'm from the jailer is

1744
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:30,679
Speaker 1: right there, right around the corner.

1745
01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 2: You can walk. It's the women. They walked to us.

1746
01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 2: I don't know how they came.

1747
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 13: He called the police on me and then going and

1748
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:40,120
Speaker 13: then when the police came, I was I just sat

1749
01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 13: in my car.

1750
01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 2: I was mad.

1751
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:42,240
Speaker 13: I was like, no, I can't move here to get

1752
01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 13: my son. And Nicole did tell me your come on

1753
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:45,640
Speaker 13: to pull off. He's not giving you the baby. He

1754
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 13: not giving you the baby. I was like, all right, cool,

1755
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 13: but I was mad, so I didn't pull off. Police

1756
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:53,519
Speaker 13: paddy wagon pulled up and got out, and you was like,

1757
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:54,439
Speaker 13: she right there.

1758
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:00,720
Speaker 2: They try to get you.

1759
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 5: How did I try to get you locked up when

1760
01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 5: I'm the same one call try to bail you out

1761
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 5: with no money.

1762
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:07,479
Speaker 2: I don't know why you ever thought you could build

1763
01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:11,920
Speaker 2: somebody out with mine. I ain't sleep that night out.

1764
01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 10: You have a been you ever went through a woman phone.

1765
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:17,639
Speaker 2: Of course, could you eat after that? Yes? You could?

1766
01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 2: Well I couldn't.

1767
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 5: I'm comparing that to when she went to jail. I

1768
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 5: couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, you.

1769
01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 2: Know, and I was sick. I didn't I didn't want jail.

1770
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:27,960
Speaker 2: I call the police.

1771
01:13:28,200 --> 01:13:30,720
Speaker 1: All right, we got more with Rome. If you don't

1772
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: know who Rome is, of course, that's just hilarious. Is

1773
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 1: baby daddy. And today is National co Parenting Day, and

1774
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 1: we're having a conversation with Rome. So don't go anywhere.

1775
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 2: It's to Breakfast Club.

1776
01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:44,200
Speaker 1: Good morning morning everybody. It's the j n Vy Jess hilarious. Charlamagne,

1777
01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club is still kicking

1778
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:49,280
Speaker 1: it with Rome. That is Jess's baby daddy. Today is

1779
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 1: National co Parenting Day, and they are excellent co parents

1780
01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 1: and we're having a great conversation Charlamagne.

1781
01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:57,519
Speaker 5: So now when you hear this story, nice and you

1782
01:13:57,600 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 5: say to yourself, why they there on Nash no co

1783
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:02,559
Speaker 5: parent because they are like the best of friends.

1784
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 2: Now they call each other. Jeff calls you her brother.

1785
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:07,880
Speaker 2: How do you feel about that? How did y'all get there?

1786
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 2: Do you look at her like your sister? You said, Mama,

1787
01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 2: I was.

1788
01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:13,639
Speaker 5: Gonna say what she said created that like my mother,

1789
01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:16,200
Speaker 5: Like when we are of town and my mother, I

1790
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:17,439
Speaker 5: ain't gonna disclose too much.

1791
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:19,200
Speaker 2: But she thinks she my mother.

1792
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:22,320
Speaker 1: No, I just know she likes to control, like she

1793
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:24,640
Speaker 1: know how I am. Though like me and Alner, I

1794
01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:27,679
Speaker 1: think part of that controlling part is like she cares.

1795
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:32,759
Speaker 1: And sometimes, especially when I'm under the influence, I've done dumbash.

1796
01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:37,640
Speaker 2: So did did you know that? I don't know, just

1797
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 2: assist in the back.

1798
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:42,639
Speaker 5: Everybody like you know, everybody knows, but I hold myself

1799
01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:44,639
Speaker 5: accountable to that mind you Now, I ain't gonna say

1800
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:46,000
Speaker 5: you I learned from Oneman sick because I did a

1801
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 5: dumbash over and over again.

1802
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 1: But I think in that aspect, that's when the mother,

1803
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 1: the mother with the v coming but the brother called

1804
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:57,240
Speaker 1: me brother and sister were like, honestly without the child.

1805
01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 2: Like it is there. It seemed like Amazon cameras off,

1806
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 2: like you can't fake this or make this up.

1807
01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 13: Oh yeah, Rome started that room started calling me sis first,

1808
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:09,320
Speaker 13: and then I started calling him bro. I you know,

1809
01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 13: I'm like, yeah, we do have like a sibling dynamic

1810
01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:15,639
Speaker 13: in some way. You know, he's still confides in my mom.

1811
01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:19,439
Speaker 13: He like, my mom is our mother, Like it's not

1812
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:22,600
Speaker 13: it ain't nothing crazy, it's nothing intimate. Like seriously, I

1813
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 13: always say this. People be like, yeah, right, I can

1814
01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 13: literally walk past and I.

1815
01:15:27,760 --> 01:15:28,200
Speaker 2: Don't do this.

1816
01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 13: But what I'm saying, I can walk past this man

1817
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 13: naked and he does They be like, girl, what like.

1818
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:35,600
Speaker 2: Pick that out? I'm talking about seriously, like how not

1819
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 2: each other's spouses or each other's boyfriend and girlfriend? Like

1820
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:39,840
Speaker 2: how do you deal with his girl? And how do

1821
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:44,160
Speaker 2: you deal with with she told you five?

1822
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:48,760
Speaker 5: Okay, I never told you. He had always try to time.

1823
01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:52,800
Speaker 5: It's cool though, it's cool five, But this is this

1824
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 5: and now this was the friction part and we got

1825
01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:55,479
Speaker 5: over that.

1826
01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:57,000
Speaker 2: But this the fri The friction part was my mom.

1827
01:15:57,040 --> 01:15:57,960
Speaker 2: I beness, I'm getting her.

1828
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:02,360
Speaker 5: But the friction part was her getting into minds. But

1829
01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:04,240
Speaker 5: she's still a woman. I'm still a man.

1830
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:06,519
Speaker 1: So women tend to do that. And this is not

1831
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:09,559
Speaker 1: no shame of women. I don't mean no disrespect by

1832
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:11,600
Speaker 1: saying it, but I think women tend to do that,

1833
01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:14,839
Speaker 1: especially a woman that care about you. She said, sometimes

1834
01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:17,400
Speaker 1: you make bad decisions and she's there as your sister

1835
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:21,760
Speaker 1: to make sure you're good, regardless if it's life relationship

1836
01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:25,640
Speaker 1: or whatever. Correct with me personally. I never really like

1837
01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:27,479
Speaker 1: I talk to about certain things. But I never really

1838
01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:31,240
Speaker 1: like my family to get into no intimate situation. Yeah,

1839
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:34,080
Speaker 1: because guess what, y'all can feel a way about this person,

1840
01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:36,720
Speaker 1: however I want, whether it's negative of good. If I'm

1841
01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 1: gonna deal with this person, I'm gonna deal with them

1842
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:41,360
Speaker 1: like the female can smash it out me yesterday.

1843
01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:44,240
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. I might get over in front of them all.

1844
01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:47,960
Speaker 1: But it's like that's why I always That's how I

1845
01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 1: was always able to distinguish the two. Like when Jessica

1846
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:53,040
Speaker 1: will have men when she come to you me like

1847
01:16:53,040 --> 01:16:55,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I ain't never pillow talking or

1848
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:57,560
Speaker 1: sneak dis or nothing like I don't really care for

1849
01:16:57,720 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 1: like it ain't nothing else to have that I don't

1850
01:17:00,320 --> 01:17:01,240
Speaker 1: if you put it in that sense.

1851
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:02,600
Speaker 2: But when she comes to me with a man, I

1852
01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 2: tell her ain't right. But both of y'all got to

1853
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:07,000
Speaker 2: care because you're gonna want to know who around your

1854
01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:09,880
Speaker 2: son she going. I never did, Yeah, I never so

1855
01:17:10,360 --> 01:17:12,560
Speaker 2: in the beginning stage. Yeah, don't have my summer, but

1856
01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:13,760
Speaker 2: I grew out of that.

1857
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 1: So now it's I trust my child mom enough to

1858
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:19,439
Speaker 1: she won't bring no fast around my child, so I

1859
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:20,519
Speaker 1: don't say, oh, don't have this.

1860
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 2: That's never been a problem. It has been a problem.

1861
01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:25,479
Speaker 2: Was it was envy me.

1862
01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:31,200
Speaker 1: Except for my last dog. Yeah, my dogs who dog?

1863
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 1: My dog, Chris, Chris, Chris my dog, my dog. I

1864
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 1: ain't gonna hold he. I think he's the I think

1865
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 1: like honestly, me and jess Man like, I think it's

1866
01:17:39,360 --> 01:17:42,919
Speaker 1: been times where a woman didn't like me and her situation.

1867
01:17:43,600 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 13: But guess what, bye, yeah more so on and yeah

1868
01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:49,280
Speaker 13: it'll be more so on his end because it's much

1869
01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 13: more of them. But the thing is, the thing is,

1870
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 13: like I don't like when because I even tell him

1871
01:17:57,800 --> 01:18:00,479
Speaker 13: what he's doing wrong to like, Yo, don't you her

1872
01:18:00,560 --> 01:18:00,720
Speaker 13: like that?

1873
01:18:00,880 --> 01:18:03,479
Speaker 2: This is how how how you going to introduce me

1874
01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 2: to it? Now?

1875
01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:06,400
Speaker 13: Now I done got to know where you know, and

1876
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:08,439
Speaker 13: whether she had a kid or not. Most of the

1877
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:10,720
Speaker 13: time it's the ones that have the kids. But it's like, yo,

1878
01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:14,680
Speaker 13: you gotta be do right or just be single, Like,

1879
01:18:14,880 --> 01:18:18,840
Speaker 13: don't keep hurting women in the process of trying to

1880
01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:20,439
Speaker 13: find what you're looking for. I mean, I know that's

1881
01:18:20,479 --> 01:18:22,639
Speaker 13: all a part of dating, but when you have kids,

1882
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:25,800
Speaker 13: it's different, you know. And then he be like, oh,

1883
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:27,600
Speaker 13: that's why I don't like you to be getting into it,

1884
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:30,599
Speaker 13: you know, And then I don't like he He attracts

1885
01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:33,559
Speaker 13: a lot of talksic women to like abusive relationships where

1886
01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 13: women will put their hands on them.

1887
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:37,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, what, all right? You know, but he don't.

1888
01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:41,080
Speaker 13: He's like, no, but I might be with of them

1889
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:44,120
Speaker 13: all what she just black? Trye, what are you talking about?

1890
01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:46,040
Speaker 13: You know what I'm saying, like, no, we're not doing it,

1891
01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 13: but that black guy, Okay, well she busts your nose

1892
01:18:50,040 --> 01:18:52,720
Speaker 13: whatever women have put their hands on.

1893
01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 5: And that's why, and that's why she's my dog, Like

1894
01:18:56,960 --> 01:18:59,479
Speaker 5: I think she's the only one really honestly, the want

1895
01:18:59,520 --> 01:19:02,559
Speaker 5: to get the under my skin like it's a certain

1896
01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:04,760
Speaker 5: wordplace she used and I don't care what tone she

1897
01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:08,680
Speaker 5: used it in, but to say that, it's like I

1898
01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 5: was really never taught how to love.

1899
01:19:10,880 --> 01:19:12,840
Speaker 1: When I moved my dad, my dad moved my dad

1900
01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 1: and my step mom, which is my mom. Now, me

1901
01:19:14,960 --> 01:19:16,760
Speaker 1: and my mom have a great relationship. That's my step

1902
01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:18,839
Speaker 1: mom and my dad.

1903
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:23,880
Speaker 5: Was married, but my dad was cheating, like saying, like

1904
01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:28,760
Speaker 5: my dad, my dad showing me that I'm thinking cool.

1905
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:32,559
Speaker 5: So like when even when I started dealing with women

1906
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:34,080
Speaker 5: and stuff like that, multiple women.

1907
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:36,600
Speaker 1: And all that, my dad was like, yeah, so absolutely,

1908
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking it's cool because that's that's that's what

1909
01:19:41,320 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm being taught like and every man in

1910
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 1: my life that I looked at as a role model

1911
01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:50,639
Speaker 1: me was the same way. So it's like what you expect.

1912
01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:53,280
Speaker 1: But the good thing is now it's like I'm old

1913
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:56,080
Speaker 1: enough now in mind, I ain't perfect. Now I'm seeing it.

1914
01:19:56,560 --> 01:19:59,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying to, you know, change it. But I've never

1915
01:19:59,760 --> 01:20:02,280
Speaker 1: was to love properly, so and I never my trust

1916
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:05,760
Speaker 1: issues stuck from my dad because I'm seeing what he's doing.

1917
01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:09,360
Speaker 1: But I'm saying when it's done to him, his reactions like, damn,

1918
01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 1: you were just doing this.

1919
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 2: How you gonna get mad? Right?

1920
01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:16,600
Speaker 1: So it's like every relationship I've went into, I had

1921
01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:19,160
Speaker 1: an exploration date me, I put an X ray on myself.

1922
01:20:19,200 --> 01:20:20,640
Speaker 1: I said, she gonna get, she gonna get get what

1923
01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm getting.

1924
01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:21,320
Speaker 2: I'm gone.

1925
01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:27,040
Speaker 5: So I never really gave a woman the commitment, not

1926
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 5: even commitment, but I've never give a woman a chance to.

1927
01:20:29,200 --> 01:20:31,200
Speaker 2: Really love me. But even with the kids, like even

1928
01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:32,800
Speaker 2: having kids, No, I haven't.

1929
01:20:33,120 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 1: And this is like I said, no distract to my children, moms.

1930
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:38,520
Speaker 1: A lot of my my children came out of vulnerability.

1931
01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:41,640
Speaker 2: Explain found on that, and I'm explaining that.

1932
01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:44,559
Speaker 1: So I will meet a woman who I may feel

1933
01:20:44,640 --> 01:20:47,559
Speaker 1: like she's what I need, another safe place or whatever

1934
01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:49,160
Speaker 1: the case may be. But I'm already vulnerable from a

1935
01:20:49,200 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 1: previous relationship. I have a child, knowing I don't want

1936
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:54,559
Speaker 1: to be with this woman, but I feel like I'm

1937
01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:57,960
Speaker 1: forced to be with it because it's a child, and

1938
01:20:58,880 --> 01:20:59,519
Speaker 1: I've done that.

1939
01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:04,200
Speaker 2: You know multiple times you needed a therapist, not another baby, Mama.

1940
01:21:04,280 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 2: I need correct at the time of me at the

1941
01:21:07,560 --> 01:21:08,640
Speaker 2: time in vulnerability.

1942
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:11,680
Speaker 5: You know women, You know women, women can they be

1943
01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 5: masked up. But like I never really knew how to

1944
01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:17,880
Speaker 5: be alone. Like I feel like I gotta have somebody

1945
01:21:18,000 --> 01:21:20,439
Speaker 5: laying next to me because even before my mom died,

1946
01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:23,080
Speaker 5: my mom is sleep naked. This is a back then thing.

1947
01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:25,360
Speaker 5: How old were you with I was ten, but I

1948
01:21:25,400 --> 01:21:27,519
Speaker 5: was a mommy's boy. Did you ever did you ever

1949
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:30,360
Speaker 5: really properly so grieving?

1950
01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:33,560
Speaker 2: No, I never really grieved. All I did was.

1951
01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:34,920
Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna help me by going to

1952
01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:37,960
Speaker 1: school for social work, because that's what she was. But

1953
01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:40,759
Speaker 1: I never really probably grieve, and that's a that's a process.

1954
01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 12: Now.

1955
01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 2: I do want to get, you know, back in the gym.

1956
01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 1: I do want to get a therapist, but I don't

1957
01:21:44,479 --> 01:21:46,960
Speaker 1: want everything else around me to be intact so that

1958
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:49,799
Speaker 1: I could fully commit, because if I ain't fully committed,

1959
01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 1: it ain't gonna work.

1960
01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:52,519
Speaker 2: We got more with Rome.

1961
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:55,000
Speaker 1: If you don't know who Rome is, of course, that's

1962
01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 1: just Hilarious' baby daddy. And today is National co Parenting Day,

1963
01:21:59,840 --> 01:22:02,000
Speaker 1: and we're having a conversation with Rome. So don't go anywhere.

1964
01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:02,720
Speaker 1: It's to Breakfast Club.

1965
01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:05,040
Speaker 2: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

1966
01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:11,280
Speaker 1: Go to everybody as Steve j Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne,

1967
01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:13,320
Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club is still kicking

1968
01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:13,880
Speaker 1: in with Rome.

1969
01:22:14,280 --> 01:22:15,960
Speaker 2: That is Justic's baby daddy.

1970
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:19,679
Speaker 1: Today is National co Parenting Day, and they are excellent

1971
01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 1: co parents and we're having a great conversation.

1972
01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 2: Charlamagne.

1973
01:22:22,400 --> 01:22:25,400
Speaker 5: How did y'all that's the most thing, the most I

1974
01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:27,040
Speaker 5: won't say most important, one of the most important things.

1975
01:22:27,080 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 5: How did y'all realize we don't have feelings for each other.

1976
01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 5: No more like how did that just go away? Like

1977
01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:34,679
Speaker 5: y'all have y'all love each other, but not in that way.

1978
01:22:34,760 --> 01:22:36,920
Speaker 5: I got my answer, you want to go first, you

1979
01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:39,160
Speaker 5: can go first, because I'm still thinking when I stopped

1980
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:42,400
Speaker 5: caring about who she dealt with, when I wouldn't even

1981
01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 5: like I wouldn't even care, Like how long did that take?

1982
01:22:47,439 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 2: Three years? So like when Ashton was like three.

1983
01:22:50,280 --> 01:22:53,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was still really yeah, it was like three years,

1984
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:55,800
Speaker 5: but at that but honestly that three years, like I

1985
01:22:55,880 --> 01:22:59,280
Speaker 5: had called her a big check, so it's like, you know,

1986
01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 5: I was almost half a million dollars, So it was

1987
01:23:02,200 --> 01:23:04,120
Speaker 5: like the pain that I had.

1988
01:23:04,200 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 2: Whatever the case I would I would pay. I would

1989
01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:08,880
Speaker 2: like just bout block it out. But other than that,

1990
01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:11,280
Speaker 2: like you ain't trying to stunt on her a little bit? No, No,

1991
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 2: I never, no, I never, no, I never. I'm waiting

1992
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:17,840
Speaker 2: for that. I never intentionally stunned on her. I never

1993
01:23:17,920 --> 01:23:21,880
Speaker 2: did that. Never. I did everything she possibly could ask

1994
01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:23,800
Speaker 2: me to do. And she said on.

1995
01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:27,640
Speaker 1: One of these souls something about a B G. E.

1996
01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:32,639
Speaker 1: Bill And I'm addressed that I never wanted. I'm addressed

1997
01:23:32,640 --> 01:23:36,800
Speaker 1: that now with the BI so so i'ma explaining her

1998
01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:37,720
Speaker 1: lights got cut off.

1999
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:40,599
Speaker 2: I got a five hundred thousand dollars checking Listen.

2000
01:23:40,720 --> 01:23:43,280
Speaker 5: No, it wasn't right then and there, but it's over time,

2001
01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:46,720
Speaker 5: mind you, because you like mind A lot of my

2002
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:47,360
Speaker 5: places helped me.

2003
01:23:47,439 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 2: She helped me get a lot on the back end,

2004
01:23:49,520 --> 01:23:52,160
Speaker 2: but in a time like I helped her. Whatever the case.

2005
01:23:52,280 --> 01:23:53,960
Speaker 2: I didn't know she was moving with a man. I

2006
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 2: didn't move with the man. Well, she moved man in

2007
01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:58,920
Speaker 2: with her. Yeah, okay, after he had you and the

2008
01:23:59,000 --> 01:24:03,800
Speaker 2: dog too in my business. So I don't know that

2009
01:24:03,880 --> 01:24:06,680
Speaker 2: he's not there. So boom, here's his So here's here's

2010
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:07,479
Speaker 2: here's my logic.

2011
01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:09,920
Speaker 1: And i'm a say what I'm gonna say to her

2012
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:13,479
Speaker 1: after I explained it, my logic was all right, man

2013
01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 1: is in the house.

2014
01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 2: Boom, eagy cut off. So she like was wrong. I'm like, well,

2015
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 2: I take my son with me. But that wasn't me talking.

2016
01:24:21,400 --> 01:24:23,639
Speaker 2: That was the girlfriend I had talking. Oh.

2017
01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:26,519
Speaker 1: I never told you that because as a woman, you

2018
01:24:26,520 --> 01:24:28,040
Speaker 1: ain't trying to hear that, and I as well as

2019
01:24:28,080 --> 01:24:30,559
Speaker 1: as a man, and you be and me, I don't

2020
01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:31,000
Speaker 1: want to hear that.

2021
01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 2: So I didn't want to tell you that because I

2022
01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:38,240
Speaker 2: have felt less of a man, So yeah, but understand

2023
01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:41,519
Speaker 2: if somebody else is smacking the cheeks. So the girlfriend

2024
01:24:41,600 --> 01:24:44,719
Speaker 2: was living, so the girlfriend was like, don't talk about

2025
01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:50,439
Speaker 2: no house ahead. So the girlfriend was like, I took

2026
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:51,920
Speaker 2: a certain amount of money out the bank. I did.

2027
01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:55,320
Speaker 5: She was with me, She like, why are you giving

2028
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:59,240
Speaker 5: it to Jessica. I'm like, cause she needed and she like,

2029
01:24:59,360 --> 01:25:02,080
Speaker 5: I never said them here because I never said the reason.

2030
01:25:02,400 --> 01:25:05,559
Speaker 5: I never said the reason. Yeah, yeah, I never said

2031
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:08,320
Speaker 5: the reason though. She was like, what exactly do she needs?

2032
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:10,080
Speaker 5: Because I know you ain't giving her. No, she don't

2033
01:25:10,080 --> 01:25:11,880
Speaker 5: need a bag or nothing like that. I'm like, no,

2034
01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:14,800
Speaker 5: it's something else. She's like, well, don't she got a.

2035
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:18,160
Speaker 2: Living with her? In mind, I'm drinking at the time,

2036
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 2: you're thinking the same thing. I'm like, you wasn't even

2037
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:22,760
Speaker 2: thinking that till she said it. I wasn't thinking that.

2038
01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:25,479
Speaker 2: But I'm drinking, and I'm like, you know what, You're right,

2039
01:25:25,840 --> 01:25:29,440
Speaker 2: Why you ain't that? Just though crazy people say because.

2040
01:25:29,160 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 5: I was a young emotional boy boy just ran into

2041
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:36,920
Speaker 5: a bunch of money, and with that, I'm hurt her

2042
01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:39,080
Speaker 5: young man got a lot of money. Everybody me over,

2043
01:25:39,240 --> 01:25:42,720
Speaker 5: I got some money I'm doing make myself happy, and

2044
01:25:42,800 --> 01:25:44,040
Speaker 5: that's how I broke.

2045
01:25:45,200 --> 01:25:51,320
Speaker 2: Everybody except me, I was like and granted.

2046
01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:55,000
Speaker 1: Right now on today, I'm gonna say I truly, sincerely

2047
01:25:55,520 --> 01:25:59,400
Speaker 1: apologized for not taking care of you the way I

2048
01:25:59,520 --> 01:26:03,960
Speaker 1: should have. And I'm gonna take my glasses because for

2049
01:26:04,080 --> 01:26:09,000
Speaker 1: a long time that hurt me. And it's like I

2050
01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:12,360
Speaker 1: never ever, ever, especially I never ever ever ever meant

2051
01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:14,680
Speaker 1: to do that to you. And it's like, now that's

2052
01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:18,080
Speaker 1: why I even I worked so hard today and just

2053
01:26:18,240 --> 01:26:22,559
Speaker 1: try to even just give you something. But in due

2054
01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:24,599
Speaker 1: time that you come back, I ain't you know. I'd

2055
01:26:24,640 --> 01:26:26,559
Speaker 1: have made that back when broke again, made it back

2056
01:26:26,560 --> 01:26:29,320
Speaker 1: when broke again. But my biggest downfall the comments denominade,

2057
01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:33,160
Speaker 1: it was alcohol and women. Them two problems never allowed

2058
01:26:33,200 --> 01:26:36,320
Speaker 1: me to really reach my full potential, even when I

2059
01:26:36,360 --> 01:26:38,479
Speaker 1: seen a couple of years ago. You've seen it twenty

2060
01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:40,880
Speaker 1: nineteen when I was single, When I went moved back

2061
01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:43,559
Speaker 1: by myself, I ran flourished.

2062
01:26:44,040 --> 01:26:46,200
Speaker 10: But if women holding me back.

2063
01:26:46,320 --> 01:26:49,800
Speaker 2: Man, I'm sorry that I didn't do what I was

2064
01:26:49,840 --> 01:26:50,439
Speaker 2: supposed to do.

2065
01:26:50,560 --> 01:26:52,200
Speaker 10: And a lot of the mo I wasn't the job.

2066
01:26:52,280 --> 01:26:53,920
Speaker 1: The when you done, I felt that was my duty

2067
01:26:54,320 --> 01:26:56,200
Speaker 1: but because I had certain people in my in my

2068
01:26:56,360 --> 01:26:58,920
Speaker 1: ear that I thought had their best interest in me.

2069
01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:02,639
Speaker 2: But when the background out, they left. Yeah, I'm sorry.

2070
01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:03,920
Speaker 2: I'm not a sorry person.

2071
01:27:04,000 --> 01:27:08,920
Speaker 13: I apologize, Okay, I appreciate that, And but listen, I

2072
01:27:09,160 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 13: was not. I was talking to you, and he moved

2073
01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:14,360
Speaker 13: in months after. You think he was gonna move into

2074
01:27:14,360 --> 01:27:16,360
Speaker 13: a dark house. You think you think I wanted to

2075
01:27:16,640 --> 01:27:19,200
Speaker 13: see how I was living. No, And when you said,

2076
01:27:19,439 --> 01:27:21,280
Speaker 13: I asked you, like, yo, can you just get my

2077
01:27:21,960 --> 01:27:24,120
Speaker 13: my lights on? I'll pay you back. That's when I

2078
01:27:24,200 --> 01:27:26,320
Speaker 13: was scamming and doing all that shit. That got slow too,

2079
01:27:26,720 --> 01:27:28,320
Speaker 13: So I'm like, all right, you was like, no I

2080
01:27:28,439 --> 01:27:31,680
Speaker 13: take my son. Nobody taking my kid, not even as father. Like,

2081
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:33,920
Speaker 13: as long as Ash was instead of the dark, we

2082
01:27:34,120 --> 01:27:35,800
Speaker 13: was good, you know what I'm saying. Like I still

2083
01:27:35,840 --> 01:27:38,120
Speaker 13: had candles, we was playing, We was doing all that.

2084
01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:42,120
Speaker 13: We would stay outside until it went until it got dark,

2085
01:27:42,160 --> 01:27:43,960
Speaker 13: and then we were going to the house. And him

2086
01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:46,080
Speaker 13: he ain't never asked me why the lights ain't coming on.

2087
01:27:46,479 --> 01:27:47,040
Speaker 2: It don't matter.

2088
01:27:47,120 --> 01:27:48,519
Speaker 13: So as long as he was good, I was good.

2089
01:27:48,520 --> 01:27:51,360
Speaker 13: I just wanted to be able, you know what I'm saying,

2090
01:27:51,439 --> 01:27:54,040
Speaker 13: and just be like, yo, get my life and you

2091
01:27:54,080 --> 01:27:56,759
Speaker 13: should have. Well guess what that made you a demon?

2092
01:27:57,120 --> 01:27:58,439
Speaker 13: And when I say demon, I said it in the

2093
01:27:58,479 --> 01:27:58,840
Speaker 13: best way.

2094
01:27:58,920 --> 01:27:59,600
Speaker 10: That turned you up.

2095
01:28:00,160 --> 01:28:02,880
Speaker 1: And I got to teach my kid, especially my oldest boy,

2096
01:28:02,960 --> 01:28:04,519
Speaker 1: my eleven year old bro, like I don't want you

2097
01:28:04,640 --> 01:28:07,000
Speaker 1: to go through something bad to learn a lesson. I

2098
01:28:07,040 --> 01:28:08,519
Speaker 1: don't think everybody should have to go through something bad

2099
01:28:08,560 --> 01:28:13,720
Speaker 1: and learn a lesson. But in your case, I feel like, yeah,

2100
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:16,720
Speaker 1: I put that battery in your back. You know, when

2101
01:28:16,760 --> 01:28:19,200
Speaker 1: that battery came in your back, you ain't it ain't

2102
01:28:19,240 --> 01:28:21,760
Speaker 1: treat me no way. It took still a minute for

2103
01:28:21,920 --> 01:28:23,600
Speaker 1: us to create that bond.

2104
01:28:24,920 --> 01:28:25,720
Speaker 2: But y'all have it now.

2105
01:28:25,720 --> 01:28:27,040
Speaker 5: And I think y'all both should give each other some

2106
01:28:27,120 --> 01:28:28,840
Speaker 5: grades because y'allah.

2107
01:28:28,880 --> 01:28:32,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I always was a hurt young man, so right,

2108
01:28:32,240 --> 01:28:35,040
Speaker 1: But I love this story as it shows the foundation

2109
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:37,400
Speaker 1: and now and how y'all treat each other.

2110
01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:37,599
Speaker 7: Now.

2111
01:28:37,840 --> 01:28:39,040
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know you, but the way she

2112
01:28:39,200 --> 01:28:41,519
Speaker 1: talks about you on the radio, and and like you said,

2113
01:28:41,640 --> 01:28:44,160
Speaker 1: she is a mother, she protects you, she holds you down.

2114
01:28:44,479 --> 01:28:45,280
Speaker 2: I just love to see it.

2115
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:45,720
Speaker 9: Yeah.

2116
01:28:46,120 --> 01:28:48,040
Speaker 2: No, sometimes I'll be telling us stuff talking about room

2117
01:28:48,120 --> 01:28:50,479
Speaker 2: like that. He always did, like, why you be talking

2118
01:28:50,479 --> 01:28:53,559
Speaker 2: about room? But I get it. She don't mean no harm,

2119
01:28:53,640 --> 01:28:55,760
Speaker 2: but she don't like I said, man, like I wish

2120
01:28:55,840 --> 01:28:59,320
Speaker 2: a lot of other people would take from us. And

2121
01:28:59,439 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 2: that's why this.

2122
01:29:00,080 --> 01:29:00,920
Speaker 10: Gotta be on TV.

2123
01:29:01,040 --> 01:29:05,040
Speaker 2: That's why y'rell writing a book, book coming, everything, Book, Coming,

2124
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:06,559
Speaker 2: Everything Coming.

2125
01:29:07,040 --> 01:29:09,040
Speaker 5: I think the most important thing because I want you

2126
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:10,400
Speaker 5: all to save a lot of this. But what's the

2127
01:29:10,479 --> 01:29:12,519
Speaker 5: most important thing. It takes the cole parent. If y'all

2128
01:29:12,680 --> 01:29:15,679
Speaker 5: you're just leaving on that, because the national co parent.

2129
01:29:15,520 --> 01:29:19,320
Speaker 13: The day yo, I started off communication, Like a lot

2130
01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:22,760
Speaker 13: of people be scared to hurt each other feelings, and

2131
01:29:22,800 --> 01:29:26,040
Speaker 13: a lot of people be afraid to have uncomfortable conversations,

2132
01:29:26,080 --> 01:29:32,360
Speaker 13: whether it's about kids, unhashed differences whatever. Like one day

2133
01:29:32,479 --> 01:29:34,560
Speaker 13: me and Rome just literally met up and just we

2134
01:29:34,720 --> 01:29:37,479
Speaker 13: just talked about everything that you know, he felt like

2135
01:29:37,520 --> 01:29:39,680
Speaker 13: I did him wrong in certain situations, and then he

2136
01:29:39,720 --> 01:29:42,360
Speaker 13: felt like like I will always try because he says,

2137
01:29:42,400 --> 01:29:45,080
Speaker 13: I'm controlling a lot, and I do take that.

2138
01:29:45,240 --> 01:29:47,240
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, I own that. I do.

2139
01:29:48,000 --> 01:29:50,599
Speaker 13: Like I was trying to control how he parents sometimes,

2140
01:29:50,720 --> 01:29:53,120
Speaker 13: like how how he would raise ash and all of

2141
01:29:53,160 --> 01:29:55,600
Speaker 13: that type of stuff. We just put everything on the

2142
01:29:55,680 --> 01:29:58,000
Speaker 13: table and just just was like, all right, you're moving

2143
01:29:58,040 --> 01:30:02,120
Speaker 13: forward because it's really about ash and that's really like

2144
01:30:02,280 --> 01:30:05,200
Speaker 13: where we after that, it was like no looking back,

2145
01:30:05,240 --> 01:30:06,000
Speaker 13: It's like all right, whatever.

2146
01:30:06,439 --> 01:30:06,719
Speaker 2: Cool.

2147
01:30:07,560 --> 01:30:09,560
Speaker 5: I'm sure it's a discussion that will continue on, not

2148
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:11,360
Speaker 5: even just a monkst you know, just in Rome. But

2149
01:30:11,439 --> 01:30:13,280
Speaker 5: it's a month anybody out there that you're dealing with

2150
01:30:13,360 --> 01:30:15,360
Speaker 5: corpor ansing issue. But I think Rome, you know, Rome

2151
01:30:15,479 --> 01:30:17,280
Speaker 5: is talking to a lot of different issues that a

2152
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:17,840
Speaker 5: lot of us.

2153
01:30:17,840 --> 01:30:19,840
Speaker 2: Men go through, you know what I mean. So I'm

2154
01:30:19,840 --> 01:30:21,800
Speaker 2: happy that you was vulnerable this morning.

2155
01:30:21,880 --> 01:30:22,960
Speaker 10: Right, that's right, you know what I mean.

2156
01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:25,880
Speaker 2: And their book is coming soon via a black privilege

2157
01:30:25,920 --> 01:30:30,000
Speaker 2: polish Simon and shoes. All right, well it's wrong. Yes,

2158
01:30:30,160 --> 01:30:33,720
Speaker 2: it's the Breakfast Club in the morning. Everybody is the

2159
01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:37,160
Speaker 2: dj ND. Just hilarious. Charlamage the guy. We are the

2160
01:30:37,200 --> 01:30:39,759
Speaker 2: breakfast Club. It's time to get U out of here, Charlamon.

2161
01:30:39,800 --> 01:30:41,639
Speaker 2: You got a positive note? I do in The positive

2162
01:30:41,720 --> 01:30:42,360
Speaker 2: note is simple.

2163
01:30:42,760 --> 01:30:46,559
Speaker 5: Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change

2164
01:30:46,600 --> 01:30:48,799
Speaker 5: their minds cannot change anything.

2165
01:30:49,000 --> 01:30:51,559
Speaker 2: Breakfast Club, you don't finished for y'all done