WEBVTT - Dressed and Stressed w/ Eva Evans

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<v Speaker 1>Who were listening to math.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, be ready friends, Yes, totally, we're here. Hi, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on? We got a mess, We got a

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<v Speaker 2>good episode for you today.

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<v Speaker 1>You do. Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 2>The voice that you're hearing in the background is a

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<v Speaker 2>very funny comedian who performs all over the I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>say world, not the fact, because you really you passport.

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<v Speaker 1>Is getting stamped. Stamp. That's a fat love that for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. It's very funny. Eva Evan. Hey, y'all, they

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<v Speaker 1>can see me, of course. Girl. We're live. Yeah, we're live.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hey.

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<v Speaker 3>The Instagram is out, are out, We're all live here

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<v Speaker 3>on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, hey y'all, I'm here. Yeah, I'm so excited. This

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<v Speaker 2>is cute. So we're just gonna talk about what our

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<v Speaker 2>mess was for the week, and then we jump.

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<v Speaker 1>For the week. Girl, let me see what's today.

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<v Speaker 2>I say you, Susande, No, you have your mess for

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<v Speaker 2>the don't talk about our mess for the week.

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<v Speaker 1>Ok okay, okay, gotcha good. I love it. Sydney. How

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling today? Pretty good? I'm chilling. I like your hat.

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<v Speaker 1>I fire. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Our friend's birthday party was last week and there was

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<v Speaker 3>a cano shop like right by her house. And so

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<v Speaker 3>I went in and they had like thirty percent off

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<v Speaker 3>and it still was expensive. It still was expensive, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so I don't I don't even really think I got

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<v Speaker 3>a deal. But yeah, I love the color. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I want color bad.

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<v Speaker 2>It's giving Zendea and challengers for the press run. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it looks like a tennis ball.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I see that.

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<v Speaker 3>I see that. I did watch the movie. But I

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<v Speaker 3>did look like.

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<v Speaker 1>She wore a hat.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm about the for the red carpet. She's wearing

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<v Speaker 2>like tennis adjacent fitts. She would like the heels with

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<v Speaker 2>the tennis ball. And oh, okay, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Low roach, it is giving.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you paid for the lawn, roach, And how

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<v Speaker 3>are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? I'm okay? Sis. I woke up this

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<v Speaker 1>morning and I didn't have any hot water.

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<v Speaker 2>No ten degrees outside felt like six, no hot water

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<v Speaker 2>into it. Yeah yeah, I was like, I'm not And

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<v Speaker 2>the water pressure was real low, so it wasn't even

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<v Speaker 2>like I could pretend to take a shower in the cold.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just no, you can't see no shower. I'd

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<v Speaker 2>rather go out funky And yeah, I got a baby white.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing baby bath.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, well, maybe if I go to the gym,

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<v Speaker 2>if the gym has a shower, I'll use that. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I can't tell if this pilate studio

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<v Speaker 2>lets people bathe there. I was like, I called them.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody picked up. I said, I guess it wasn't meant

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<v Speaker 2>to be. I'm just gonna be funky for a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of hours. Yeah, my gym got a shower and us

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<v Speaker 2>on a girl. Oh damn, where's this gym you got?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>From that conversation and you just started going to the

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going two weeks and I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I love it. This is beautiful. Yes, love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's I want to get into my mess for the

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<v Speaker 2>week because it's a continuation of something that we talked about.

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<v Speaker 1>A few episodes ago. An episode ago.

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<v Speaker 2>So last time we had Caleb here, I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>about how I had two dudes that I had unblocked

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<v Speaker 2>and we were having a good time. One of the

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<v Speaker 2>guys has friends that listen to the podcast, and they

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<v Speaker 2>thought I was talking about one of these people, and

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<v Speaker 2>so they sent him the episode. A bunch of people

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<v Speaker 2>sent him the episode and Tom stamps Tom CODs and

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<v Speaker 2>they were like, have you heard this?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you listening to this episode? I think that's messy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's I think it's messy to hear me

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<v Speaker 1>on this podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Doing my job and then going to a person that

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<v Speaker 2>you assume I'm talking about and being like, have you

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<v Speaker 2>heard her talking about you? I think that's mess and

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<v Speaker 2>not being messy. No, I'm being honest and funny. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and messy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's your story to tell as long as you

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<v Speaker 1>was a name dropping.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I wouldn't say a single name the person. What

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<v Speaker 3>the message is? What you're telling your friends to make

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<v Speaker 3>them think that you need to be in the know?

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<v Speaker 3>Why would I? If I'm on a public platform, we

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<v Speaker 3>have an understanding. Your friends don't. So what is the misunderstanding?

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<v Speaker 3>You're not letting them know what we got going on?

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<v Speaker 3>The transparents.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't like his friends. Yeah. No, he was

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<v Speaker 1>like you I have, like you got like ten people

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<v Speaker 1>that I know?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, your friends, this corning you could time stamp business

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<v Speaker 2>send us to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Absolutely, Hey friends, it's none of your damn business. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>only he having a good time or not?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're messing up you're messing up the vobes and

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<v Speaker 3>you're not really contributing.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh to mess in a positive manner.

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<v Speaker 2>It's negative mess it is now when they run back

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<v Speaker 2>to the guy, that doesn't stop the guy from talking

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<v Speaker 2>to us, Like, well, he came straight to me to

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<v Speaker 2>be right, yeah, exactly ahead her mind.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I listened. I didn't love it.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, oh, okay, new development development listened.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, wow, I can't believe you listened to me

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<v Speaker 2>at work with people invasion of prophecy. But I guess

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna talk about him no more so that

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<v Speaker 2>these people that are, you know, spying, don't have anything

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<v Speaker 2>to report back.

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<v Speaker 3>But I mean, but it's I mean, it's mainly like

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<v Speaker 3>if you're not a single gal, because if you're a

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<v Speaker 3>single gal, it's like single gals should chatting if they want.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been single this whole time. Clock that this.

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<v Speaker 1>With the team to do single the middle thing t

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<v Speaker 1>or I don't, I don't know. I'm putting all the fingers.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been with my whole hand.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, I think that that's messy. You know, we listen,

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<v Speaker 2>but we don't judge. No, no, they're judging. We listened,

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<v Speaker 2>and we judge, but we can found. Yeah, found share,

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<v Speaker 2>he listen, we judge, we don't share.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you know it's messy sharing the pod to him

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<v Speaker 3>but not sharing it to everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone needs to be listening to you. H Are you

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<v Speaker 1>doing the work?

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<v Speaker 3>And the work is passing on the mess? Mess is

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<v Speaker 3>a contribution to the community.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing? Have you shared it with your mother,

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<v Speaker 1>with her, with your congregation at the church, the church?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you sent it to your libel congressman? Tag them right,

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<v Speaker 3>let them know this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy anyway, you know, I do what I can

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<v Speaker 1>for the community, and the community the community stabbed me

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<v Speaker 1>in the back, and so sad we are.

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<v Speaker 3>That's that's what happens when men are involved. I think,

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<v Speaker 3>oh yeah, I had a situation like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So when I didn't name drop anybody, I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>about somebody and he came and he hit me up like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to come and speak my piece next episode.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no one knows who you are, No one

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<v Speaker 2>cares exactly because he's like you know, celebrity comedians like

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<v Speaker 2>it went.

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<v Speaker 1>It got like a lot of freaking views.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, like celebrities were commenting on us that he wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to get in on it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm like, you're your shadows so corny. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean I I when I was with a girlfriend, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>people would tell her, hey, what's going on with y'all?

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<v Speaker 3>Because Sydney's talking on the said, this is not about y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>This is about and in some podcasts, right and then

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes like for material, we'll talk about something that happened

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<v Speaker 2>like h before this person, or I'm saying like our

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<v Speaker 2>life is our work.

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<v Speaker 3>I was fully being like, yeah, you know this happened

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<v Speaker 3>the other night, going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Currently left four pm.

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<v Speaker 3>I was giving timestamp that funny Okay, okay, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>yeah that's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like I'm a comedian, like sometimes obviously I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna exaggerate some things, add some things for the laughs,

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<v Speaker 2>but like, you can't take everything that I say to.

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<v Speaker 3>The large is the mic on. You can't take everything seriously, y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>What is going on all the time?

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<v Speaker 2>Me with your local politician, Baby, I'm not George Stops.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's because they be putting more pressure on us

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<v Speaker 3>then they president. Okay, let's talk about it, but it

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<v Speaker 3>also messes up the you know, it messes up my

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<v Speaker 3>creativity when you put your input on like what I

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<v Speaker 3>can and can't say because because because of conversations I've

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<v Speaker 3>had with past relationships, I'm like, you know what, y'all

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<v Speaker 3>not y'all not getting no stage time, no mo I'm

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<v Speaker 3>happy to talk about something else or past people because

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<v Speaker 3>I can talk about something else because you know, sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like people get in get involved or do

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<v Speaker 3>things in front of you because they're like, I want

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<v Speaker 3>you to put me in a bit, I want you

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<v Speaker 3>to I want to be I want to be involved,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like I got this, and they will purposely

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<v Speaker 3>do something or or they'll be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like before you even really start getting into it with them,

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<v Speaker 2>they'll be like, don't put me.

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<v Speaker 1>In your skill and it's like my skin, don't put

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<v Speaker 1>me in there?

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<v Speaker 3>Like can we just can we just say when you

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<v Speaker 3>say skits to a comedian, that feels like a slur

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<v Speaker 3>because a lot of times we're not doing ever doing

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<v Speaker 3>a skit.

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<v Speaker 1>It's never we're not no, we're this is not vine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm also like not an Instagram comic. Yeah, like a

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<v Speaker 2>stage stage this is crazy please stop talking to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know the words. Don't talk about me on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't. Also, don't give me nothing to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>on stage. There it is, don't be weird, don't be goosey,

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<v Speaker 1>don't be funny. It's mess, Sydney. What is what's your

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<v Speaker 1>mess for the week?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean last week was was uh interesting because I

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<v Speaker 3>did a podcast with Marie. We did Our Friends podcast

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<v Speaker 3>Decisions Decisions, and I thought that I could get on

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<v Speaker 3>a flight right after and that was that was my mess.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>That I could book a podcast that was at noon

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<v Speaker 3>and then make it to a two fifty four at JFK.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that at the beginning, didn't you changed

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<v Speaker 2>the flight from an earlier flight to a later flight.

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<v Speaker 3>It was seven am, and then I moved it to

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<v Speaker 3>and then I moved it to two fifty four.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, essentially I could have made it.

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<v Speaker 3>If we're going back and forth, I'm telling them, I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I got to get to the airport, which people there

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<v Speaker 3>was a discussion in the group chat, but Amandy was like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh no, you could take a car, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>We yeah, yeah, I would take a car.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, at at one pm in midtown, that's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of crazy. That was what was first said. And then

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not in a car. And then I got in

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<v Speaker 3>a car, and then I was stuck in the car.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was like, oh, I can't take this car.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm never gonna make it. And then I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>take the train. Take the train because we're buying station. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>When I say take a train, I met the Long

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<v Speaker 1>Island Railroad.

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<v Speaker 3>But I have never when somebody say long Iron roller,

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<v Speaker 3>they say long Iron road, they don't see a train.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, train, you penstation, the train is there.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought the train instead of Long Island Road.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm on the E and when I tell you

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<v Speaker 3>every I think they added stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>On other line that had nothing to do.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm sitting there and I'm sweating and I see

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<v Speaker 3>another girl with her suitcase. I was like, are you

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<v Speaker 3>late too, She's like, oh no, my flight's not until five.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, oh, I can't bet. And so when I

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<v Speaker 3>was on the air train, I was literally like crying.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like I need to I need to get

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<v Speaker 3>to this spot, like this is very important.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a reservation I'm like trying to be thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is that?

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<v Speaker 3>And then when I was running, When I was running,

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<v Speaker 3>I said, hey, this is not your fight. You're not

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<v Speaker 3>You're not an athletic thoroughly. You don't have the breath,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't have the shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>I had on heels, like, oh my god. Run.

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<v Speaker 3>You ever see that one girl that's like dressed at

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<v Speaker 3>the airport and you're like, oh, what's what's she going?

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<v Speaker 3>I was at girl dressed in the airport, running for

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<v Speaker 3>my life, rest and stress.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I looked at the time.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, the door has closed, needy leaks, the door

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<v Speaker 3>has closed. And then and then one of those guys

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<v Speaker 3>in a BPP you need a ride, sir, I'm crying.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gone, it's done. Did you take the ride?

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<v Speaker 1>No, because it was it was over with. I missed.

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<v Speaker 1>The flight is gone. What time did you get to

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<v Speaker 1>the gate? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even make it to the gate, baby, How

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<v Speaker 3>was I was halfway? My gate was so fucking far.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, Oh, the devil said let's play. And so

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<v Speaker 3>as soon as I got off the air train, I said,

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<v Speaker 3>oh I have enough time. No, no, no, no, it

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<v Speaker 3>was gonna take me at least ten fifteen minutes to

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<v Speaker 3>get It was like B seventy two.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and we were in we were in B thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to yeah, yeah. I don't know why JFK.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why JFK does that.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like anytime I fly it tafle, it's always

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<v Speaker 2>the last and you gotta go down some stairs and

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<v Speaker 2>up some stairs. Then it's the last game at the terminal.

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<v Speaker 2>Why what's why can I be B twelve will be four?

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<v Speaker 3>And you know the next mess is I booked another flight,

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<v Speaker 3>right book I booked another flight. I didn't even go

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<v Speaker 3>to the gate. I booked another flight. I said, well,

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<v Speaker 3>let me just get because the next flight is then

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<v Speaker 3>at Laguardy. I said, let me hurry up.

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<v Speaker 1>Do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know if you miss your flight, they cancel

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<v Speaker 3>your returning flight. They cancel it. Oh yeah, they cancel it. Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>hey airlines, how does that?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 3>That's insane. I'm still gonna get there. But they're like,

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<v Speaker 3>you should have called and like rebooked, but I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have time. So then when I called, huffing, puffing, crying,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, eyelashes falling off, they were like Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you didn't make the fight. I said, Kelly, Kelly, is

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<v Speaker 3>it Kelly so I can report your ass?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Sorry? Did you get your money back? No? Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>See that would have made me cry. Oh I was prying.

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<v Speaker 3>I was upset, I said, traveling, We're done, We're done.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it Delta? Yes, thank you? Oh Delta? That no scam?

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<v Speaker 2>Scam it hey, Sam?

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<v Speaker 1>Likely that was me for New Years. I missed my

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<v Speaker 1>flight to Jamaica. I was stressed. Oh that's right, because

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went to Jamaica, Yaman.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but ya, but I went to.

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<v Speaker 1>The gate and oh, yeah, I should have done that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned my lesson. Yeah, it let them work. It

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<v Speaker 1>don't work.

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<v Speaker 2>So you not making it to the gate. You didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get to the gate, so you just turned around and

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<v Speaker 2>went You booked another flight.

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was on on the fro Google flights and how

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<v Speaker 2>how long was the wait for the next flight?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I had about an hour and a half to get

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<v Speaker 3>to LaGuardia. Yeah, you had time, and then but there

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<v Speaker 3>was traffic. So I was in traffic for about thirty

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<v Speaker 3>thirty minutes to get to LaGuardia.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I got they had to start again, all

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<v Speaker 1>over again. I'm not I'm not wearing heels to the airport. That. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to look like a bum every time.

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<v Speaker 2>Like crocs, but like you know, all little sweat crocs

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<v Speaker 2>like comfortable for when I used to get fluid out,

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<v Speaker 2>I used to wear heels. Okay, when you get fluid out,

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta wear heels cause you can't come to the airport.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, you just bring the heels in the carry on.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to wear them at the airport.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to wait them to like to the airport. Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what.

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<v Speaker 3>I was always like the plus one of somebody's flute out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah I'm wearing I'm wearing the sneakers. Do you think

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<v Speaker 3>a fluid out with a friend, Yes, yeah, I'm the

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<v Speaker 3>friend to make sure that no, no fucking is happening.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm here to cock block.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, see I ain't never invited no friends. You

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<v Speaker 1>got what you know, it ain't no fun if the

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<v Speaker 1>homies can't have that. Well, Sydney, you cock blocking. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>was right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well no, the man or not having but my friends

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<v Speaker 3>friends were happy. Yeah, I'm getting I'm stepping off the

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<v Speaker 3>flight we got nineteen forty two I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Taking the shot. I'm dropping it low. I mean, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>it was a.

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<v Speaker 2>Win, yes, But also he was like, when you're getting

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<v Speaker 2>flood out, you have like two days worth of clothes

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<v Speaker 2>or sometimes not even no carry on because you know

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna take your shopping. So it's like just here

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<v Speaker 2>thinking at me shopping. I need to carry on to

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<v Speaker 2>bring the clothes back, we wind a suit case.

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<v Speaker 3>G on.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh this is my thing about the buying suitcase on

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<v Speaker 2>the trip. I have too much luggage in my house.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, see yeah I don't need not one more away,

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<v Speaker 1>take it away, take.

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<v Speaker 2>The away away I needed. I needed to carry one stime.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't getting flood out since I've turned thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>That was expiration date. Well no, this is all my

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<v Speaker 1>age getting flowed out. But I'm just like I'm tired.

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh you now you you can't.

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<v Speaker 3>You're coming on the pod for a mess with jobs,

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<v Speaker 3>but due doubt might be yours. Maybe I was old eva,

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<v Speaker 3>I was shaking either chicken, what title is chicken?

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<v Speaker 2>I loved the fight I used to get the five

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<v Speaker 2>getting fluid. I was fight flights and flewt out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good time. My twenties, my twenties is a

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<v Speaker 1>good time. Yeah, but but you're delivered now not.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean delivered like I'm still doing nassage to

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<v Speaker 2>one person.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. I was always like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was always like my whole face was always like

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<v Speaker 2>one guy at a time, but like as soon as

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<v Speaker 2>he was going a.

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<v Speaker 1>New guy, like you know, two weeks later, like you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was I was never like doing all three

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<v Speaker 2>somes or like having fucking maddenings at the time, like

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<v Speaker 2>never like never nothing like that, No trains, no noans ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Nah, I never had no three some.

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<v Speaker 2>That's interesting, have you chicken head if you've never had

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you're giving yourself this title. And it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>to me, like a burbage like arguing.

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<v Speaker 2>It is like, you know, like doing dumb she like

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<v Speaker 2>popping up at his job to fight him because he

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<v Speaker 2>like that, I I guess behaved.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like bird bag like bird yeah, like I'm bird yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm a parkee.

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<v Speaker 2>One time I pull up to a guy he was

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<v Speaker 2>at dinner with his No, it was brunch, Father's Day

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<v Speaker 2>brunch in the restaurant Father's Day brunch.

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<v Speaker 1>A man in front of the dad.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if you're a bird bage, but it

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<v Speaker 3>gives baddie. You should be on Baddie's East West. No,

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<v Speaker 3>but still behaving up to this day, girl, so please

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<v Speaker 3>walk through this. Yeah, you get to the brunch for what.

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<v Speaker 1>I still gotta scar my knuckle too from that. Why

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<v Speaker 1>why did you show up at the brunch to fight him?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you can see this right here.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you can right there? Did you win?

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney said, that's why he came me back. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hit you in front of his girl A girl, No,

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<v Speaker 1>he isn't. He's not that. He's like a whore, but

0:18:53.680 --> 0:18:57.360
<v Speaker 1>not a woman beat a horror, but a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Morals morals, horror, horror.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because he had a girl called my phone, girl

0:19:05.400 --> 0:19:06.720
<v Speaker 2>called my phone, and my thing is like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like when it comes to like, I don't fight the girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's to me is like dumb bitch like you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I never fought no girl. I've had girls try to

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<v Speaker 2>fight me. I'm like, sorry, I'm not fighting you over him.

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<v Speaker 3>Can we make that a rule here on mess we

0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:23.520
<v Speaker 3>support all types of messiness. But yeah, fighting a woman

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<v Speaker 3>over a man, it's not even mess anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>The math never masked for me unless I was like

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<v Speaker 2>my best friend or like my sis, like somebody who

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<v Speaker 2>I fuck with. You know that'e my man, y'all was

0:19:33.080 --> 0:19:35.520
<v Speaker 2>doing some affair behind my back, like like I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>beat you on the front, like he was my girl,

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<v Speaker 2>like my sist.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, like something like that. But

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<v Speaker 1>we do not condone fighting.

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<v Speaker 3>Not if you're gonna fight, fight your best friend because

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<v Speaker 3>she fucking your man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like that, I.

0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:48.000
<v Speaker 2>Would fight a girl over because it's like I'm fighting

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<v Speaker 2>you because you betrayed me, bitch like, but like for

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<v Speaker 2>a girl who is fucking like, come on, you want

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<v Speaker 2>to He's a problem because if I ever play, if

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<v Speaker 2>I fight, you want have to fight the next girl,

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<v Speaker 2>the next girl. It's never ending because he's the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>The man.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a one who said that he loved me. He's

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<v Speaker 2>the one who you know what I'm saying, I'm fighting him.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So she got through on my phone on Father's Day

0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:10.160
<v Speaker 2>or this is Furday weekend, okay, and I was just like, okay,

0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:12.200
<v Speaker 2>kind of I'm like not Father's Day, No, not.

0:20:12.880 --> 0:20:15.000
<v Speaker 1>Him on Father's Day. Oh okay, so this you took

0:20:15.040 --> 0:20:17.560
<v Speaker 1>the whole week a the whole weekend to really digest. Really,

0:20:18.119 --> 0:20:21.000
<v Speaker 1>she caught your phone. You got talked to the girl. Yeah, yeah,

0:20:21.840 --> 0:20:22.640
<v Speaker 1>we kissed me off.

0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:25.080
<v Speaker 2>His screenshots She was showing me screenshots of me and

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<v Speaker 2>his conversation. Oh she was like, oh yeah, he said

0:20:27.640 --> 0:20:30.879
<v Speaker 2>you was crazy. It was showing me screenshots of us arguing.

0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:32.800
<v Speaker 2>But he never he was like the leat shit that

0:20:32.880 --> 0:20:35.480
<v Speaker 2>he said. So it's just me going off like yeah,

0:20:35.520 --> 0:20:37.200
<v Speaker 2>niggas took my thing, and he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like he was.

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<v Speaker 2>He looked like you know the Sunday school teachert in

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<v Speaker 2>the conversation right, And I'm just a wild bitch, just

0:20:42.640 --> 0:20:44.919
<v Speaker 2>wildin I'm like, when did this happen?

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<v Speaker 1>We're here?

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<v Speaker 2>Was this? This is my twenties. This is like when

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<v Speaker 2>I went off for him, I stopped fighting, Like twenty

0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:52.800
<v Speaker 2>twenty three was like when I started fighting.

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've been waiting. Hold on twenty twenty three is.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, when I was twenty three, I was like, twenty

0:20:58.960 --> 0:21:00.480
<v Speaker 3>three was like so recent.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was twenty three. I started I've been chilling

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<v Speaker 2>since then, so that since that time. Now I'm thirty three,

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<v Speaker 2>so like ten years ago, it's a minute, but okay,

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<v Speaker 2>throw back Thursday. Yes, so you get the text, you

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<v Speaker 2>see the screenshots, you speak to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm like, oh, what you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, all I wants to come back to I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go come back to Jerseys to my father.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, all right, where I lived in Jersey.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he was like he had went away and

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<v Speaker 2>then he was coming back to Jersey to take his

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<v Speaker 2>father out on that Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, I'm like, when you.

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<v Speaker 2>Cooking, okays, my son were all going, oh, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that's not Oh you're gonna like that. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that's nice, that's nice. If he didn't realize what was

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<v Speaker 1>about to happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Just hearing you speak, I'm like, oh, she's going to

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<v Speaker 3>Michigan because like.

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<v Speaker 1>What time is the reservation? Yeah. I'm like, she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell him that we was talking. I don't know, I

0:21:51.480 --> 0:21:52.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know. She ain't tell him aout what.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was also like, oh, if you if you're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to see hm, I'm like, surey, I don't want

0:21:55.680 --> 0:21:57.959
<v Speaker 2>to see nothing about you. Yeah, I've seen enough. I've

0:21:57.960 --> 0:21:59.760
<v Speaker 2>seen his screenshots. That's what that's all I need to see.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to see you.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that was and that sent me off. But

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, that was the last time. And then you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and I told you in Jamaica, I showed you a

0:22:07.960 --> 0:22:09.360
<v Speaker 2>couple of bitches in Jamaica, but I was it.

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<v Speaker 3>There's there's coordinates in Jamaica, my hometown, whole park.

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<v Speaker 1>I was over, you know, like this tour is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait are you from Jamaica? Yes, girl? The story she

0:22:30.080 --> 0:22:33.520
<v Speaker 1>make it was like in a way Jamaican.

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<v Speaker 2>So my mother took me out there and I was

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<v Speaker 2>just a few months old. And then I came back

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<v Speaker 2>like when I was four, to the New States. But

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<v Speaker 2>I was always back and forth, always back and forth.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to do a citizenship, have a Jamaican license.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go. You gonna need Jamaican bank account. You don't

0:22:49.880 --> 0:22:52.919
<v Speaker 1>need that. What's going on here right now? So we

0:22:52.960 --> 0:22:57.439
<v Speaker 1>can go to Yeah, life is rock. I can come

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Yes, okay, girl, time, fantastic time. We had

0:23:01.480 --> 0:23:03.640
<v Speaker 1>a time. But that's always tell people.

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<v Speaker 2>You go to someone's country, go with someone, that's how

0:23:06.240 --> 0:23:08.200
<v Speaker 2>you really get to Yeah. Well that's the best way

0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:10.120
<v Speaker 2>I think to travel is to either go with somebody

0:23:10.160 --> 0:23:14.040
<v Speaker 2>who's from there or you hang out with people who

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<v Speaker 2>live there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:23:14.960 --> 0:23:16.439
<v Speaker 2>When you get there, you meet people who are that

0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:17.919
<v Speaker 2>you feel like you trust, and you can leave the

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<v Speaker 2>resort because because I mean, I been to Jamaica three times,

0:23:20.240 --> 0:23:21.359
<v Speaker 2>and she told me she I felt like, this was

0:23:21.359 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 2>my first time in Jamaica and she went to this

0:23:23.400 --> 0:23:25.680
<v Speaker 2>was her fourth time. But she can't go by the

0:23:25.760 --> 0:23:28.520
<v Speaker 2>trip advisor. No, you can't go about where the white

0:23:28.520 --> 0:23:29.320
<v Speaker 2>people tell you to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I took them to the hood Nigga Beach and they

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<v Speaker 1>loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, they were telling us because we were at

0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:37.120
<v Speaker 3>a all inclusive they were like, don't actually don't leave,

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<v Speaker 3>Uh the premises.

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<v Speaker 1>What were you in?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my Tigo Bay? Oh using Mantico Bay. Oh okay,

0:23:43.760 --> 0:23:44.920
<v Speaker 2>see I don't. I don't know my bed.

0:23:45.440 --> 0:23:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't like that city. Really, wait, please

0:23:48.080 --> 0:23:49.520
<v Speaker 1>explain to me. It's like this.

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<v Speaker 3>It's overly expensive. It's really americanized. It's just like it was.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I didn't put my card out, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, yeah it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I said, charge, you have a lot of rich

0:24:00.400 --> 0:24:02.760
<v Speaker 2>niggas over there. So but I like to go to Kingston.

0:24:02.760 --> 0:24:04.879
<v Speaker 2>I like the rich niggas and Kingston. Kingston was a

0:24:04.960 --> 0:24:06.480
<v Speaker 2>nice Kingston was a vibe. We had a good time

0:24:06.480 --> 0:24:07.160
<v Speaker 2>against Kings.

0:24:07.800 --> 0:24:10.840
<v Speaker 3>But Eva, you know all your fighting mess and your

0:24:10.840 --> 0:24:11.600
<v Speaker 3>father's day mess.

0:24:11.640 --> 0:24:14.520
<v Speaker 1>But did you finish the story? So yeah, you get

0:24:14.520 --> 0:24:17.879
<v Speaker 1>to the brunch, you say, I'm with the Richardson party,

0:24:18.160 --> 0:24:21.119
<v Speaker 1>and then you see him in his good navy blue

0:24:21.320 --> 0:24:23.440
<v Speaker 1>easter suit and you go up to the.

0:24:23.400 --> 0:24:26.480
<v Speaker 2>Ta him and I smacked him up and then he

0:24:26.520 --> 0:24:28.159
<v Speaker 2>took me outside, and then that's when I punched him

0:24:28.160 --> 0:24:29.560
<v Speaker 2>in his jaw, and that's why I got the scar rat.

0:24:29.880 --> 0:24:33.040
<v Speaker 2>And and then then the manager, the father was like,

0:24:33.040 --> 0:24:33.520
<v Speaker 2>what the hell?

0:24:34.840 --> 0:24:36.600
<v Speaker 1>What the hell the manager was?

0:24:36.640 --> 0:24:38.440
<v Speaker 2>I was calling I'm calling the police, and I left

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 2>and I went to my homegirl house and she cleaned

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<v Speaker 2>my hands.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't order any food though, because.

0:24:42.800 --> 0:24:46.680
<v Speaker 3>It's like, after you you know, work up a sweat,

0:24:46.720 --> 0:24:48.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, fighting and whatnot, you're gonna need.

0:24:48.800 --> 0:24:50.440
<v Speaker 1>You know, some eggs, some eggs.

0:24:50.480 --> 0:24:53.760
<v Speaker 2>I could have gotten some. I should have gotten some food.

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<v Speaker 2>That was mess, junior. But what's the professional mess?

0:25:14.400 --> 0:25:16.520
<v Speaker 1>Now? What do you First of all, I was late

0:25:16.520 --> 0:25:17.000
<v Speaker 1>to this ship.

0:25:17.119 --> 0:25:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna late to this shay because of work

0:25:19.200 --> 0:25:21.399
<v Speaker 2>working foster care and I had an emergency with a

0:25:21.480 --> 0:25:22.640
<v Speaker 2>nine month old baby boy.

0:25:23.119 --> 0:25:26.600
<v Speaker 1>But what what is the question that you're answering today? Blank?

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<v Speaker 2>Is mess what's mess working? Working while you're changing a

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<v Speaker 2>dream working period?

0:25:32.680 --> 0:25:32.760
<v Speaker 3>Is?

0:25:33.119 --> 0:25:34.240
<v Speaker 1>Working is messy?

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<v Speaker 2>But like when you're trying to juggle like a career,

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:39.520
<v Speaker 2>like this is my job like a job, and then

0:25:39.520 --> 0:25:40.200
<v Speaker 2>a career.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the difference is for me, my job is just

0:25:43.480 --> 0:25:45.359
<v Speaker 2>paying my bills on to my career takes off. So

0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:47.840
<v Speaker 2>like I'm I'm working for the care but I'm not.

0:25:48.200 --> 0:25:51.359
<v Speaker 2>It's not my passion. I care about it, you know.

0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:53.159
<v Speaker 2>I do like my job, make sure it's done correctly

0:25:53.200 --> 0:25:54.680
<v Speaker 2>so the children have some type of chance.

0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:57.880
<v Speaker 1>But five o'clock, five o'clock, I don't give a fucking more.

0:25:58.280 --> 0:25:59.240
<v Speaker 1>You said fucking kids.

0:25:59.280 --> 0:26:01.240
<v Speaker 2>I I clocked out, and I don't want to hear

0:26:01.240 --> 0:26:04.200
<v Speaker 2>about nobody kids. I don't care for these jokes. But

0:26:04.400 --> 0:26:05.880
<v Speaker 2>after this point, but you know.

0:26:05.960 --> 0:26:08.520
<v Speaker 3>The and I understand you there, But that's what I

0:26:08.520 --> 0:26:11.560
<v Speaker 3>feel like the overall energy everywhere I go, where people

0:26:11.600 --> 0:26:16.360
<v Speaker 3>are working, they don't care or they're just there to collect,

0:26:16.600 --> 0:26:19.920
<v Speaker 3>and it's like, baby, we need somebody who gives the

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 3>damn damn.

0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:23.119
<v Speaker 2>But it's like I don't, I don't care to the

0:26:23.119 --> 0:26:24.880
<v Speaker 2>pointere I'm going to do overtime like they have over time,

0:26:25.000 --> 0:26:26.439
<v Speaker 2>saying no versus comedy.

0:26:26.480 --> 0:26:28.119
<v Speaker 1>I kept on comedy twenty four to seven.

0:26:28.480 --> 0:26:31.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I might work writing Joe's I wrote a joke

0:26:31.200 --> 0:26:33.320
<v Speaker 2>today that was I need to work out, Like, oh,

0:26:33.320 --> 0:26:35.280
<v Speaker 2>if AI was to take over foster care, how would

0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:35.640
<v Speaker 2>that look?

0:26:37.080 --> 0:26:39.720
<v Speaker 3>Where'd you Where'd you land on that?

0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:39.800
<v Speaker 1>That?

0:26:40.160 --> 0:26:42.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just like the I'm like robot for some one

0:26:42.280 --> 0:26:43.480
<v Speaker 2>that I'm like, I don't know what if I'm just

0:26:43.520 --> 0:26:45.280
<v Speaker 2>like brainstorming some ideas. I'm gonna have to smoke a

0:26:45.320 --> 0:26:47.760
<v Speaker 2>spliff and really get into that. But yeah, I love

0:26:47.800 --> 0:26:50.000
<v Speaker 2>the creative for us. But yeah, but like I'll work,

0:26:50.119 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 2>I'll work on comedy during foster care hours, but I'm

0:26:52.720 --> 0:26:55.760
<v Speaker 2>not doing foster care hours ship during commedy. I'm not

0:26:55.800 --> 0:26:57.920
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying, So like, yeah, that's a difference.

0:26:58.119 --> 0:27:02.320
<v Speaker 2>And also, you have like a job, job, job, you have.

0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:02.760
<v Speaker 1>To show up.

0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 2>Like clearly in any field you can kind of half asked,

0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 2>but there's certain jobs that you can't do that, Like

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 2>can you half asked as a pilot.

0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 1>No pilot.

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.280
<v Speaker 3>Police officers, even though they didn't do it, they have

0:27:15.640 --> 0:27:16.640
<v Speaker 3>they had all the time.

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:19.359
<v Speaker 1>They really shouldn't. It's in the it's in the you

0:27:19.359 --> 0:27:21.119
<v Speaker 1>have the right to remain silent. I'm about to go

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:23.600
<v Speaker 1>on break anything you say can it will be used

0:27:23.600 --> 0:27:25.840
<v Speaker 1>against you. Were about to get some donuts, like yeah,

0:27:25.960 --> 0:27:27.320
<v Speaker 1>they yes.

0:27:27.280 --> 0:27:29.199
<v Speaker 3>I mean the woman who was set on fire, the

0:27:29.240 --> 0:27:32.639
<v Speaker 3>police was already in the Really, yes they were, they

0:27:32.680 --> 0:27:34.320
<v Speaker 3>were walking by, they were walking they knew.

0:27:35.280 --> 0:27:38.840
<v Speaker 1>They didn't a video. I didn't need to watch. I didn't.

0:27:38.920 --> 0:27:41.120
<v Speaker 2>There certain things that I can't see. I just can't

0:27:41.119 --> 0:27:41.680
<v Speaker 2>see that one.

0:27:41.920 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think as a surgeon, you shouldn't half asked.

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:46.880
<v Speaker 1>But I don't know. I've seen enough, like doctors.

0:27:46.600 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 2>It's not enough bbls that they was half as that ass.

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:56.159
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but somebody they have as they have half that ass. Honey.

0:27:56.240 --> 0:27:58.639
<v Speaker 3>Well you know, sometimes only people had enough money for

0:27:58.680 --> 0:27:59.440
<v Speaker 3>half the ass.

0:27:59.600 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 2>Some people TV's full price. So add DBLs in like

0:28:03.119 --> 0:28:08.359
<v Speaker 2>a motel holiday. Hey baby, your body is not a

0:28:08.400 --> 0:28:10.920
<v Speaker 2>T shirt. It shouldn't be on sale, Like you gotta

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:11.680
<v Speaker 2>pay for a price.

0:28:11.760 --> 0:28:14.600
<v Speaker 1>You have to research. I noticed because I got.

0:28:14.359 --> 0:28:17.240
<v Speaker 3>Like I got a hook up with my boobs and

0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:20.560
<v Speaker 3>like they're you know, they're they're they're cool.

0:28:20.359 --> 0:28:23.720
<v Speaker 1>But like I couldn't like they fine.

0:28:23.640 --> 0:28:26.399
<v Speaker 3>You know, there's nothing to be like I'm raving about,

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:28.359
<v Speaker 3>but like at the time, they did what they needed

0:28:28.359 --> 0:28:31.160
<v Speaker 3>to do because I was waitressing. But yeah, I didn't

0:28:31.160 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 3>pay all the way. I mean I paid yeah no, no, no, no,

0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:38.240
<v Speaker 3>don't do that. I did not klarna my dicks. I

0:28:38.400 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 3>you know, I paid you know, a little bit of

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 3>payment there, and then I had to back back, come back,

0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:46.640
<v Speaker 3>drop some more off and then uh, and then I

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:49.960
<v Speaker 3>didn't like that job. So then I came back the

0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:51.600
<v Speaker 3>next year and I said, you know what, I'm gonna

0:28:51.600 --> 0:28:53.720
<v Speaker 3>pay it all upfront, so maybe y'all do a better job.

0:28:53.760 --> 0:28:54.800
<v Speaker 1>And they did.

0:28:54.920 --> 0:28:56.880
<v Speaker 2>So rank your boobs the first time you got them

0:28:56.880 --> 0:28:57.880
<v Speaker 2>done from one to ten.

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:02.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm seven, Okay, yeah, Sven is good.

0:29:03.080 --> 0:29:06.200
<v Speaker 3>No, Well, because the thing is, it's like you spend

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 3>all this money, but then like I'm still doing the

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:11.640
<v Speaker 3>ship that I was doing when I had like double

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:12.800
<v Speaker 3>a titties.

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:14.280
<v Speaker 1>Like no, no, no, if we don't.

0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 3>Do it like it needs to, it needs to be

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:20.240
<v Speaker 3>kind of life changing changing. I need life changing. Tatas

0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:20.720
<v Speaker 3>just a.

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Bit was a cop, and then she got pregnant twice

0:29:23.840 --> 0:29:26.800
<v Speaker 2>and them titties came them cities a titty and now really, yeah.

0:29:26.960 --> 0:29:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Hey that's a lot. I'm not yeah kid, Yeah she breastfeed, Yeah,

0:29:33.680 --> 0:29:36.800
<v Speaker 1>both of them. Yeah, not worth it. It's for kids.

0:29:36.880 --> 0:29:40.920
<v Speaker 3>Not worth it.

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So and then rank them after you got them done.

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:51.080
<v Speaker 1>The second I'm gonna say eight and a half. Okay,

0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:51.480
<v Speaker 1>hal nine.

0:29:52.160 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 3>But the thing is, it's just like with plastic surgery,

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:57.600
<v Speaker 3>you're never gonna be satisfied. You're gonna be having them

0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:00.400
<v Speaker 3>a little bit, and then you're gonna really start picking,

0:30:00.800 --> 0:30:01.640
<v Speaker 3>and then you're gonna.

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Be like, but wait, it's not symmetrical.

0:30:03.640 --> 0:30:05.840
<v Speaker 3>And then you look in and you're like, well, did

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:08.760
<v Speaker 3>he have something good to work with? Because sometimes it's

0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:11.000
<v Speaker 3>just a mirror of what your what your chest was

0:30:11.040 --> 0:30:11.640
<v Speaker 3>already given.

0:30:11.800 --> 0:30:14.840
<v Speaker 1>So if it was lopsided, he not really.

0:30:15.240 --> 0:30:18.080
<v Speaker 3>If your nipples is weird, you had weird nipples to

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 3>be so now you're mad you just got larger, weirder nipples.

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:24.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but when when you get your boobs done, do

0:30:24.960 --> 0:30:26.000
<v Speaker 1>they take the nipples off?

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:30.520
<v Speaker 3>No, they some they do a little incision, and so

0:30:30.560 --> 0:30:32.880
<v Speaker 3>it looked like a little door, like it's black and

0:30:32.880 --> 0:30:35.880
<v Speaker 3>then it's eleven, and then they push it in because

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 3>it's you know.

0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.360
<v Speaker 2>So my mother for cancer patients, they had to take

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:41.320
<v Speaker 2>my mother had to get her nipples removed because cancer

0:30:41.680 --> 0:30:43.200
<v Speaker 2>bring it down.

0:30:44.760 --> 0:30:50.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm not talking about friend, we are talking about talking

0:30:50.160 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 3>about We talked about fluid out and there you bringing around.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's there. That was Ye.

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<v Speaker 2>You're right, you're right, you're right, you're right. No, but

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<v Speaker 2>I went until after my kids to get my tites done.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to get them done and then they

0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 2>suck them dry. I gotta get them done again.

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<v Speaker 1>Why not do the king? My kid's gonna be greedy?

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<v Speaker 3>How you you greedy? The milk will have curry.

0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm guess, I'm I'm I love to eat.

0:31:23.680 --> 0:31:27.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I know the kids gonna be greedy. People have

0:31:27.920 --> 0:31:29.800
<v Speaker 2>some dense babies, some heavy baby.

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<v Speaker 1>But I already know what I know.

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<v Speaker 3>The listeners are like, what what's it working with right now?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean like, hey, not that kind of pop.

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<v Speaker 1>But also also I got all.

0:31:40.000 --> 0:31:42.560
<v Speaker 2>Of my T shirts. I mean not girl was rushing

0:31:42.600 --> 0:31:44.560
<v Speaker 2>when I was coming here was rushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so even how long have you been working? Like

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<v Speaker 1>how many? How long have like the no no in general.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I got my first job Dunkle Donut when I was

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<v Speaker 2>fourteen fourteen, Yes, I don't even know that year old

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<v Speaker 2>working papers with six.

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<v Speaker 1>No is it six? Yeah? Well in New York state? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it was sixteen nine. Now I had a job.

0:32:04.160 --> 0:32:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I had a job at fourteen.

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<v Speaker 2>All my stepfather he had a paving company, a driveway company,

0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 2>and I used to do like little clerical like his

0:32:13.040 --> 0:32:15.400
<v Speaker 2>appointment book and like, oh, you have a two o'clock estimate.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was doing at fourteen.

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<v Speaker 2>And then sixteen I went to Duncans Donuts that was

0:32:20.160 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 2>short lived, and I went to the Walgreens. Wow, okay,

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:29.200
<v Speaker 2>so Duncans to Walgreens to then what and after Walgreens?

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<v Speaker 1>Girl has so many jobs because I went to the

0:32:32.560 --> 0:32:35.920
<v Speaker 1>Walgreens and Hollis Queens. That was a nightmare. Damn sis

0:32:36.720 --> 0:32:39.880
<v Speaker 1>any like Walgreens tea like girl.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, the al right, so this is the

0:32:42.040 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 2>hollst in Hollist, I mean the Walgreens of Hollist And

0:32:45.440 --> 0:32:48.520
<v Speaker 2>the manager at the time was like really into me

0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:50.520
<v Speaker 2>and I was not into him, and he like at

0:32:50.560 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 2>sixteen yes, mm hmm, nasty, nasty Walgreens.

0:32:55.880 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 3>You stand beside that, I'm springs in the photo section. Well,

0:33:02.520 --> 0:33:05.520
<v Speaker 3>this episode is sponsored by Walgreens right now.

0:33:05.400 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Because wing wasn't sixteen because walkmans, I have no it

0:33:08.080 --> 0:33:10.320
<v Speaker 2>was dunkin Donuts, So maybe I was like seventeen eighteen

0:33:10.480 --> 0:33:10.880
<v Speaker 2>at that time.

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<v Speaker 1>I see you chang.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm kind of thing because girl, I don't remember

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 2>the timelines really fourteen first it was my stepfather's you

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<v Speaker 2>own some Walgreens stock?

0:33:20.280 --> 0:33:22.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you shifteen, Sydney.

0:33:22.960 --> 0:33:24.600
<v Speaker 2>What was your first job because let me see sixteen,

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 2>when is the working papers?

0:33:25.680 --> 0:33:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Girls?

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<v Speaker 2>People remember the whole their whole life, like back to back,

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 2>like I have to really like, look, the first job

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:32.760
<v Speaker 2>I ever had, I worked as a camp counselor at

0:33:32.760 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 2>the y m c. A. Oh that's the job the

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<v Speaker 2>summertime with the three and four year olds.

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<v Speaker 1>I almost drowned at that job. Oh my God, slapped

0:33:40.840 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 1>at me the whole time. We're so glad you're here

0:33:43.120 --> 0:33:46.400
<v Speaker 1>with us. That's crazy. Yeah, my next camp counselor job,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all remember like every age, like, what the hell was

0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:50.040
<v Speaker 1>going on? I'm like, I don't.

0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:52.920
<v Speaker 2>I could like ballpark, I know that's first, and then

0:33:52.920 --> 0:33:56.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't you know get My first job was babysitting. Okay,

0:33:56.720 --> 0:34:01.240
<v Speaker 2>I babysat my neighbor's son, and my neighbor worked for

0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:06.200
<v Speaker 2>Rock Nation and so ye.

0:34:07.000 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 1>House free styling. I would see Dame Dash.

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 3>I was you know, I saw a meal a couple

0:34:12.160 --> 0:34:16.680
<v Speaker 3>of times, and uh, you know, because allegedly they were

0:34:16.760 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 3>they were dating, but he was mad cool because he

0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:21.719
<v Speaker 3>would like leave the cash. He's like, I'm gonna order

0:34:21.719 --> 0:34:24.200
<v Speaker 3>Papa John's for you. You were you were watching Dame

0:34:24.280 --> 0:34:25.000
<v Speaker 3>Dash's kids.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, no, no, no no.

0:34:26.239 --> 0:34:31.319
<v Speaker 3>The guy my neighbor worked for Rock Rockefeller and uh

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 3>was friends with Dame Dash.

0:34:33.560 --> 0:34:36.000
<v Speaker 1>So I would work for I would like watch him

0:34:36.040 --> 0:34:36.480
<v Speaker 1>and it.

0:34:36.480 --> 0:34:39.120
<v Speaker 3>Was so easy because you know we after we eat

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:40.920
<v Speaker 3>Papa John, he ready to go to sleep, and I'm like,

0:34:42.280 --> 0:34:43.960
<v Speaker 3>and you know, I'm sleepy too, so I was like,

0:34:44.120 --> 0:34:46.200
<v Speaker 3>can I go to sleep? So I don't know if

0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 3>I was really watched. I think I got paid to

0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:50.360
<v Speaker 3>just make sure he was breathing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And then the next.

0:34:51.800 --> 0:34:56.000
<v Speaker 3>Job I worked at like some after school.

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<v Speaker 1>Stunt where it was for like kids in the neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so like like head Start something like that, something

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:04.399
<v Speaker 3>like that.

0:35:04.520 --> 0:35:06.439
<v Speaker 1>Boys and girls something like that.

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:10.320
<v Speaker 3>But you know the thing about working at a young age,

0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:14.920
<v Speaker 3>I think you learn discipline, but then you get tired

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:18.840
<v Speaker 3>quickly because you're like, I've been working for ever, so

0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:21.759
<v Speaker 3>sixteen years old dealing with you know, people be like

0:35:21.760 --> 0:35:24.000
<v Speaker 3>you gotta be on time, you gotta care blah blah.

0:35:24.000 --> 0:35:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Why am I not rich yet? Yes?

0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:30.840
<v Speaker 2>Starting at and why every time they talk about social

0:35:30.840 --> 0:35:33.320
<v Speaker 2>security going away, I'll be like, whoa, I've been putting

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 2>in since this forever son, so I don't know.

0:35:37.520 --> 0:35:39.759
<v Speaker 1>At least run me my coins. That's it. I'll take

0:35:39.800 --> 0:35:40.719
<v Speaker 1>it all at one time.

0:35:41.120 --> 0:35:43.480
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so I was definitely like seventeen or eighteen

0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:47.080
<v Speaker 2>around the time you still think about this age. I'm

0:35:47.080 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 2>trying to get the timeline right. I'ments like my life

0:35:49.080 --> 0:35:50.440
<v Speaker 2>is like a blur. You need to be learning some

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:51.360
<v Speaker 2>like it's just like.

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:54.120
<v Speaker 3>What was the what was the like pivotal job that

0:35:54.200 --> 0:35:56.800
<v Speaker 3>you were like, this is too messy, I have to

0:35:56.840 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 3>get out. When I worked at you know those homes

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:04.760
<v Speaker 3>for like adult like adults with this like we don't

0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 3>know those homes? No, No, it was the epilepsy foundation

0:36:09.719 --> 0:36:10.440
<v Speaker 3>of Long Island.

0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:14.680
<v Speaker 1>Girl. What I'm trying to figure out what.

0:36:16.719 --> 0:36:22.600
<v Speaker 3>I had jobs foster care, homeless shelter, Like, why do

0:36:22.719 --> 0:36:24.960
<v Speaker 3>you work in these serious jobs because you have to

0:36:24.960 --> 0:36:29.080
<v Speaker 3>be unseerious and I'm very unserious, but I usually know

0:36:29.120 --> 0:36:31.640
<v Speaker 3>somebody who worked there. Oh okay, okay, So like my

0:36:31.680 --> 0:36:33.719
<v Speaker 3>cousin worked at the Flepsy Foundation of Long Island. I'm like, oh,

0:36:33.760 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 3>give me a job. You get me a job, take anything.

0:36:36.680 --> 0:36:39.160
<v Speaker 3>Epilepsy Foundation. You guys can't turn the lights.

0:36:38.840 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 1>On or off.

0:36:39.680 --> 0:36:42.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it's like, oh the whole we're not laughing

0:36:42.160 --> 0:36:45.319
<v Speaker 3>at it now, we're not. It's just you laughing with

0:36:45.480 --> 0:36:48.279
<v Speaker 3>you friends. I'm confused, like what hu.

0:36:48.880 --> 0:36:51.560
<v Speaker 2>So it's not like these families they can't like they

0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:53.600
<v Speaker 2>need twenty four hour care for their kids and they

0:36:53.600 --> 0:36:56.080
<v Speaker 2>can't manage it. So it's like a home, because a

0:36:56.160 --> 0:36:59.280
<v Speaker 2>nurse a home for like the adults who have it.

0:36:59.440 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 2>So they're like grown ass people, but with the mind

0:37:02.040 --> 0:37:06.239
<v Speaker 2>of like they're like severely laid. They have epilepsy, so

0:37:06.280 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 2>they have seizures and stuff like that. I was at

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:10.160
<v Speaker 2>that house, So what did you do there? I was

0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:12.400
<v Speaker 2>like a day I take them out to Like you

0:37:12.480 --> 0:37:13.960
<v Speaker 2>ever look into a restaurant you see like a group

0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:15.239
<v Speaker 2>of remember back in the day used to se like

0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:18.280
<v Speaker 2>a group of special needs adults, like out and about

0:37:18.360 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 2>like the mall occasionally see it. Yeah, so that I

0:37:21.200 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 2>was one of those people. Took them out you yes, grow.

0:37:23.960 --> 0:37:26.840
<v Speaker 1>You with the bodies.

0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 3>When you were like the table with all the niggas

0:37:35.160 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 3>and helmets.

0:37:35.600 --> 0:37:41.919
<v Speaker 1>So how you missing up? I used to have people

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:44.400
<v Speaker 1>show up that don't have epilepsy and they would eat

0:37:44.440 --> 0:37:46.840
<v Speaker 1>red lobster with y'all. Yes, miss.

0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:52.160
<v Speaker 3>Biscus, that's very much worth it, worth it. But I mean,

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 3>and what was you wearing? Because I just feel like

0:37:54.680 --> 0:37:56.919
<v Speaker 3>that you don't go with job?

0:37:57.719 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 1>Did you tone it down?

0:37:59.560 --> 0:38:01.279
<v Speaker 2>Not really? I thought homo shelters, I turned down. We

0:38:01.280 --> 0:38:03.240
<v Speaker 2>have to have a uniform if you were.

0:38:03.160 --> 0:38:07.960
<v Speaker 3>Fashion over with the cutouts with the last day came

0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 3>in and Gucci.

0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 2>I still Caucci. You have to like you're poor yesterday,

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:18.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm but you gota come to You've been.

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:22.359
<v Speaker 1>Working since she was fourteen. I should have Gucci by now.

0:38:23.080 --> 0:38:25.279
<v Speaker 1>It's okay. We don't have to get what's the what's

0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:26.960
<v Speaker 1>the worst thing about having a job? Can we talk

0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:28.120
<v Speaker 1>about this? What's the worst?

0:38:28.320 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 2>The worst thing about having a job is that when

0:38:29.760 --> 0:38:31.640
<v Speaker 2>I have ship going on and it's like I gotta

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:35.279
<v Speaker 2>work and vacation days. I hate vacation. It's like I

0:38:35.320 --> 0:38:37.560
<v Speaker 2>don't want to have to like. How many vacation days

0:38:37.560 --> 0:38:39.120
<v Speaker 2>I have left? Okay, I could use five them to

0:38:39.120 --> 0:38:40.719
<v Speaker 2>go here if I don't want. I don't like that.

0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:43.200
<v Speaker 1>How many vacation days does a job have?

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:47.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, my foster care job, we accumulate, so I have three,

0:38:47.239 --> 0:38:48.880
<v Speaker 2>and I used one for Jamaica, so now I have

0:38:48.880 --> 0:38:51.440
<v Speaker 2>two left. You have three vacation days for.

0:38:51.400 --> 0:38:54.759
<v Speaker 1>The whole sorry weeks? Oh? I use one one week.

0:38:55.400 --> 0:38:57.840
<v Speaker 1>It's a whole year, just three weeks.

0:38:57.960 --> 0:39:01.399
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy. My whole year is occasion, you feel me.

0:39:02.440 --> 0:39:07.080
<v Speaker 2>That's why I missed those days. You what about teachers?

0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:09.399
<v Speaker 2>Teachers get the sellers off. I mean they don't get

0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:10.160
<v Speaker 2>paid for some of them.

0:39:10.239 --> 0:39:13.120
<v Speaker 1>They don't get paid really for the year. Yeah, exactly,

0:39:13.200 --> 0:39:14.440
<v Speaker 1>Were you a teacher? No? Hell?

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:14.600
<v Speaker 3>Now?

0:39:14.680 --> 0:39:19.919
<v Speaker 1>Okay? How you saying hell? Everything? His son?

0:39:20.080 --> 0:39:22.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I used to be a babysit the tool care

0:39:22.080 --> 0:39:25.040
<v Speaker 2>dot com. You know, I was word of mouth, but

0:39:26.800 --> 0:39:27.880
<v Speaker 2>went up to care dot com.

0:39:28.320 --> 0:39:30.040
<v Speaker 1>Is mouth dot com?

0:39:31.080 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 4>Okay, wait now that sounds like time raising my mouth

0:39:34.880 --> 0:39:35.520
<v Speaker 4>mouth dot com.

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:41.000
<v Speaker 3>Did you ever have a father trying to whoa Okay, no,

0:39:41.160 --> 0:39:44.239
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't that type of girly that like you. Yeah, No,

0:39:44.400 --> 0:39:48.640
<v Speaker 3>I like I I'm cute now. But when I'm like

0:39:48.800 --> 0:39:51.799
<v Speaker 3>coming up, do you, people were looking at me and

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:55.520
<v Speaker 3>they were like, oh yeah, like they like my I

0:39:55.640 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 3>was called nice a lot, which is griggering right now

0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:01.960
<v Speaker 3>because I'm like, I don't want to hear nice.

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:05.200
<v Speaker 1>She's so nice, she's nice, sweet, she's nice.

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:07.680
<v Speaker 3>They're walking all around like they don't want to look

0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:11.000
<v Speaker 3>you directly in the eyes, like, yeah, she's nice.

0:40:11.640 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Ice, Yeah, nicest. Nicest can be an insult. I don't

0:40:17.000 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 1>want to hear it, especially say oh you're a nice guy.

0:40:19.400 --> 0:40:23.839
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, you ever ask your friends to see

0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:26.000
<v Speaker 2>a picture of somebody that they're talking to. Oh my god,

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:27.799
<v Speaker 2>I could describe them and they be like, well, I

0:40:27.840 --> 0:40:30.080
<v Speaker 2>mean he's nice.

0:40:30.200 --> 0:40:32.319
<v Speaker 3>I don't want it because it's like, get some more

0:40:32.640 --> 0:40:35.479
<v Speaker 3>descriptive word. Yeah, I think you can do it. Yeah,

0:40:35.680 --> 0:40:37.239
<v Speaker 3>get the source if you need to.

0:40:37.520 --> 0:40:40.080
<v Speaker 1>He's right, he's sweet, he's friendly.

0:40:40.280 --> 0:40:42.040
<v Speaker 2>How would the guy I'm talking to now I would say,

0:40:42.040 --> 0:40:45.759
<v Speaker 2>like he he feels like like a I don't want

0:40:45.760 --> 0:40:46.239
<v Speaker 2>to say, well.

0:40:46.320 --> 0:40:47.799
<v Speaker 1>It's given poetry. What you about him.

0:40:48.040 --> 0:40:50.160
<v Speaker 2>I want to feel like like he feels safe, and

0:40:50.160 --> 0:40:51.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't mean not in a bad word, but like

0:40:51.719 --> 0:40:54.239
<v Speaker 2>because safe to me, like like no, I feel like

0:40:54.920 --> 0:40:57.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't have to pretend with him, Like I feel

0:40:57.760 --> 0:41:00.719
<v Speaker 2>like very confident around him, like a safe.

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:03.280
<v Speaker 1>Space type ship. It feels like it feels like a nice,

0:41:03.400 --> 0:41:06.439
<v Speaker 1>warm home type ship when you found home.

0:41:06.719 --> 0:41:08.680
<v Speaker 3>I feel like you feel that he feels this is

0:41:08.760 --> 0:41:11.400
<v Speaker 3>a less exclusive right now. He feels a little homes

0:41:11.760 --> 0:41:15.160
<v Speaker 3>in a situation that feels like home. Oh and you've

0:41:15.160 --> 0:41:16.920
<v Speaker 3>worked in a homeless shelter before, you see how the

0:41:17.040 --> 0:41:19.120
<v Speaker 3>stuf goes.

0:41:21.040 --> 0:41:24.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, man, it feels nice and cozy. Okay, I like this.

0:41:24.640 --> 0:41:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Don't say nothing. His friends might repeat it.

0:41:27.040 --> 0:41:30.400
<v Speaker 3>Listen, she gave me a lot of on the forehead,

0:41:30.480 --> 0:41:35.120
<v Speaker 3>and we appreciate that because he gave you four head kisses, like.

0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:41.320
<v Speaker 1>We're happy for you. I'm happy to girl. Okay, I'm sorry.

0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:44.080
<v Speaker 2>I was just gonna say I think that every job

0:41:44.120 --> 0:41:46.920
<v Speaker 2>I've ever had, with the exception of like recent ones, now,

0:41:46.960 --> 0:41:49.640
<v Speaker 2>every job I've ever had, I've been fired from girl

0:41:49.680 --> 0:41:51.719
<v Speaker 2>well bartend and I was fired from a lot I

0:41:51.800 --> 0:41:52.359
<v Speaker 2>was I.

0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:55.239
<v Speaker 1>Was fired from bartending to Zod because I tried.

0:41:55.560 --> 0:41:59.600
<v Speaker 2>Customer was like yelling at me and I tried to jump.

0:41:59.400 --> 0:42:00.759
<v Speaker 1>Across the bar to get him.

0:42:01.080 --> 0:42:04.200
<v Speaker 2>Well you should, because it's like, I'm not coming in.

0:42:04.239 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 2>I have a show tonight.

0:42:05.880 --> 0:42:08.799
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, hat when you put you first, yeah, they're like, oh,

0:42:08.840 --> 0:42:09.960
<v Speaker 3>well you need to cover your shift.

0:42:10.160 --> 0:42:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I can't do that.

0:42:12.320 --> 0:42:13.799
<v Speaker 2>But it came a blast minute, like I don't know

0:42:13.800 --> 0:42:15.359
<v Speaker 2>what you want me to tell you.

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:17.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh, Sydney. Remember when I had that job bartending in

0:42:17.600 --> 0:42:21.240
<v Speaker 1>Crown Heights and I kept taking weekends off to do stuff.

0:42:22.320 --> 0:42:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Was it Dean Street?

0:42:23.320 --> 0:42:26.000
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, no, no, it was oh damn. I

0:42:26.040 --> 0:42:27.520
<v Speaker 2>don't remember the name of the place now, but it

0:42:27.600 --> 0:42:29.600
<v Speaker 2>was I got fired. Well, I got fired from that

0:42:29.600 --> 0:42:31.080
<v Speaker 2>too because I left with all the money in the register.

0:42:31.239 --> 0:42:34.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

0:42:35.320 --> 0:42:36.759
<v Speaker 1>I back and I was like, oh my god, I

0:42:36.840 --> 0:42:38.720
<v Speaker 1>made so much money today and they were like where

0:42:38.960 --> 0:42:40.080
<v Speaker 1>is the money?

0:42:40.200 --> 0:42:43.279
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, oh snap, gotta come back. So

0:42:43.320 --> 0:42:46.040
<v Speaker 2>I did get fired from that job by and now

0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:48.560
<v Speaker 2>I live up the street from that, around the corner

0:42:48.560 --> 0:42:51.240
<v Speaker 2>from that, and every time I passed it, I'm like, that's.

0:42:51.080 --> 0:42:56.480
<v Speaker 3>Why shut down D's favorite over here?

0:42:56.960 --> 0:42:59.040
<v Speaker 2>But uh no, it was that we went to the

0:42:59.080 --> 0:43:01.479
<v Speaker 2>empty We went to the v A maze. I took

0:43:01.480 --> 0:43:04.359
<v Speaker 2>off of that. I had a birthday party. I took

0:43:04.400 --> 0:43:06.640
<v Speaker 2>off of that. And then the next time I showed up,

0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:08.960
<v Speaker 2>there was another bartender behind the bar and I was like.

0:43:10.120 --> 0:43:11.040
<v Speaker 1>What's happening here?

0:43:13.600 --> 0:43:15.839
<v Speaker 2>Training today? And they said, no, you don't work here.

0:43:16.120 --> 0:43:17.440
<v Speaker 2>That's how I breakup with it. I don't even tell

0:43:17.480 --> 0:43:19.080
<v Speaker 2>them they we work on the shows, my husand.

0:43:20.640 --> 0:43:25.600
<v Speaker 1>What's happening here? Wait? Hold on, wait, there's no crossover.

0:43:25.280 --> 0:43:28.200
<v Speaker 2>You said, yeah, there's no. I'm not fucking with you

0:43:28.239 --> 0:43:29.839
<v Speaker 2>no more. Okay, you just moved on.

0:43:30.200 --> 0:43:32.879
<v Speaker 3>But I think that's mess about jobs that they'll make

0:43:32.920 --> 0:43:35.160
<v Speaker 3>you train somebody that's take their place.

0:43:35.600 --> 0:43:41.640
<v Speaker 1>It's it's so manipulated. But I like that, Yeah I should,

0:43:41.680 --> 0:43:44.560
<v Speaker 1>like I should, we should train them, okay, but but

0:43:44.719 --> 0:43:46.960
<v Speaker 1>I do feel like it's like.

0:43:47.000 --> 0:43:48.759
<v Speaker 3>I know I'm about to get fired, and now you

0:43:48.800 --> 0:43:49.759
<v Speaker 3>got me training this girl.

0:43:49.880 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 1>You know I'm gonna train her bad, right, Like I'm gonna.

0:43:51.719 --> 0:43:54.160
<v Speaker 3>Tell her, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, just skim a little

0:43:54.200 --> 0:43:55.040
<v Speaker 3>bit off the hope.

0:43:55.239 --> 0:44:00.520
<v Speaker 1>You don't need you don't need to just rinse the glass.

0:44:01.000 --> 0:44:02.440
<v Speaker 1>The liquor will kill the Germans.

0:44:02.680 --> 0:44:05.120
<v Speaker 3>Tell the customers this is not really grey grooves. Just

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:07.040
<v Speaker 3>let them know, just be honest. They like that when

0:44:07.040 --> 0:44:10.520
<v Speaker 3>you're transparent. But that would that would happen. That would

0:44:10.520 --> 0:44:13.279
<v Speaker 3>happen a lot, like working at bars. They'll just make

0:44:13.320 --> 0:44:16.359
<v Speaker 3>sure you'll see somebody who you're like that person kind

0:44:16.360 --> 0:44:16.920
<v Speaker 3>of looked like me.

0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:19.839
<v Speaker 1>If I was white, what's up? Like, what's going on?

0:44:20.000 --> 0:44:22.719
<v Speaker 1>She got mad? She's wearing the same Steve Man's shoes.

0:44:22.800 --> 0:44:23.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't trust it.

0:44:23.560 --> 0:44:25.720
<v Speaker 3>And they'll be like, no, no, no, Like if I

0:44:25.880 --> 0:44:29.560
<v Speaker 3>was white, white, white Sydney, Washington, I know you, I

0:44:29.600 --> 0:44:30.239
<v Speaker 3>see you out there.

0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:32.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what white Marie would look like.

0:44:33.280 --> 0:44:38.480
<v Speaker 2>White even sounds crazy, hight even sounds weaver sounds we

0:44:39.760 --> 0:44:41.200
<v Speaker 2>sounds wild.

0:44:41.200 --> 0:44:43.359
<v Speaker 1>Weav sounds wild.

0:44:44.320 --> 0:44:51.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'd Russian even making Russian ev Russian weaver. It

0:44:51.160 --> 0:44:58.880
<v Speaker 2>sounds is a terrorist is as terrorized communities? I'm screaming from.

0:44:57.719 --> 0:45:00.480
<v Speaker 3>Was there any job that like you had, Like it's

0:45:00.640 --> 0:45:02.799
<v Speaker 3>like some good times you have with coworkers and then

0:45:02.880 --> 0:45:05.400
<v Speaker 3>bad times you have with coworker, because I feel like

0:45:05.440 --> 0:45:10.239
<v Speaker 3>that's mess like meshing, like becoming friends with coworker like

0:45:10.400 --> 0:45:11.120
<v Speaker 3>real friends.

0:45:11.160 --> 0:45:12.279
<v Speaker 1>So in my first job out of.

0:45:12.200 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 2>College, I was at showtime for three years I mean

0:45:14.560 --> 0:45:18.200
<v Speaker 2>some good friends the chat. Yeah, I was advertising coordinator

0:45:18.239 --> 0:45:19.320
<v Speaker 2>for three years out of college.

0:45:20.239 --> 0:45:20.800
<v Speaker 1>That was that.

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:23.640
<v Speaker 2>I made some good friends that yeah, I was invited

0:45:23.680 --> 0:45:24.799
<v Speaker 2>today weddings and shit like that.

0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh and I was good. Now, when you go to

0:45:27.920 --> 0:45:32.200
<v Speaker 1>a coworker's wedding, are we getting drunk? Yeah? Yeah, well yeah,

0:45:32.200 --> 0:45:33.160
<v Speaker 1>we definitely of the class.

0:45:33.480 --> 0:45:36.200
<v Speaker 2>Now with the boss is there, it depends like are

0:45:36.239 --> 0:45:38.279
<v Speaker 2>there supervisors and stuff there or is it just our level.

0:45:38.320 --> 0:45:40.480
<v Speaker 1>If it's just our level'm getting lit. It's your level.

0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:43.520
<v Speaker 1>And then one above I'm uncomfortable with to one above

0:45:43.680 --> 0:45:44.399
<v Speaker 1>seeing me like that.

0:45:45.160 --> 0:45:47.640
<v Speaker 3>No but wait, no, no, no, see this is where that

0:45:47.719 --> 0:45:49.839
<v Speaker 3>line is because if we're at a wedding, this don't

0:45:49.840 --> 0:45:51.200
<v Speaker 3>have none to do with the job.

0:45:51.760 --> 0:45:53.200
<v Speaker 1>It's just people who I work with.

0:45:53.480 --> 0:45:56.360
<v Speaker 3>Just so if I happened to get lit, bust my

0:45:56.480 --> 0:45:57.600
<v Speaker 3>ass and act the fool.

0:45:58.040 --> 0:46:01.680
<v Speaker 1>This was not on grounds with the job. But if

0:46:01.719 --> 0:46:05.320
<v Speaker 1>we're at if we had a holiday party that I

0:46:05.400 --> 0:46:05.839
<v Speaker 1>have one.

0:46:07.680 --> 0:46:13.400
<v Speaker 2>Two max max, okay, three three three three three is

0:46:13.400 --> 0:46:15.520
<v Speaker 2>the old z. I'm gonna start feeling lusty if I

0:46:15.520 --> 0:46:16.759
<v Speaker 2>hear that asked.

0:46:16.800 --> 0:46:20.279
<v Speaker 1>Wait, what you drinking at a holiday party? Tequila? No,

0:46:20.480 --> 0:46:21.319
<v Speaker 1>you don't want your job.

0:46:22.160 --> 0:46:26.560
<v Speaker 3>You want to drink white wine? You keep it, you

0:46:27.400 --> 0:46:30.880
<v Speaker 3>weave you you have to have a son there and

0:46:31.000 --> 0:46:31.480
<v Speaker 3>sit down.

0:46:32.560 --> 0:46:34.520
<v Speaker 1>No, I need it. I mean yeah, I would drink

0:46:34.800 --> 0:46:37.360
<v Speaker 1>it's like a margarita or something. But yeah, or whatever,

0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:40.560
<v Speaker 1>the like holiday cocktail is at the bar. I'll do that.

0:46:40.960 --> 0:46:45.640
<v Speaker 3>The coworker, that's like, let's take shots. They actually want

0:46:45.680 --> 0:46:46.760
<v Speaker 3>something crazy to happen.

0:46:46.760 --> 0:46:48.239
<v Speaker 1>That's them. They are.

0:46:49.080 --> 0:46:51.799
<v Speaker 3>Once they hand you that dark liquor. They don't really

0:46:51.960 --> 0:46:53.319
<v Speaker 3>they don't really like penny of that. I don't do

0:46:53.360 --> 0:46:55.799
<v Speaker 3>any I don't think you should be drinking shots at

0:46:55.800 --> 0:46:56.640
<v Speaker 3>a work function.

0:46:56.719 --> 0:46:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a little crazy. I have to do it.

0:46:58.640 --> 0:47:01.239
<v Speaker 1>They do it. You can a carcail. You said it.

0:47:02.440 --> 0:47:03.440
<v Speaker 1>You hear that on mess.

0:47:03.840 --> 0:47:07.120
<v Speaker 3>I see you doing shots at the bar with your supervisor. Now,

0:47:07.160 --> 0:47:08.840
<v Speaker 3>you must not want your job that bad. At the

0:47:08.840 --> 0:47:18.320
<v Speaker 3>bar with your boss.

0:47:12.000 --> 0:47:16.520
<v Speaker 1>You Oh, no, other than the sounds kind of lit.

0:47:17.040 --> 0:47:20.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, but if your boss is making you drink,

0:47:20.600 --> 0:47:24.040
<v Speaker 3>you take the shot, spill it out, don't drink your shoulder.

0:47:24.160 --> 0:47:26.319
<v Speaker 3>You put it, you put it, you put it in

0:47:26.360 --> 0:47:28.719
<v Speaker 3>another cup, you pass it to someone, don't do it.

0:47:28.880 --> 0:47:30.359
<v Speaker 1>Take a sip. You asked one ice c We put

0:47:30.400 --> 0:47:31.640
<v Speaker 1>it in a big cup. I remember.

0:47:31.880 --> 0:47:35.520
<v Speaker 3>I remember we had like a we would do like

0:47:35.680 --> 0:47:39.960
<v Speaker 3>monthly or like every quarter, like a like meeting with

0:47:40.080 --> 0:47:42.160
<v Speaker 3>everybody at the job, and then we go to a

0:47:42.200 --> 0:47:45.879
<v Speaker 3>bar and we'll have drinks. I got so messed up

0:47:45.960 --> 0:47:50.480
<v Speaker 3>with my manager. I mean we we was doing pickleback shot.

0:47:51.080 --> 0:47:52.239
<v Speaker 1>Imagine it was definitely white.

0:47:52.440 --> 0:47:57.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so asked or whatever, but we we.

0:48:01.840 --> 0:48:02.080
<v Speaker 1>White.

0:48:02.120 --> 0:48:06.680
<v Speaker 3>Mother right, we can get hold up at the James

0:48:06.680 --> 0:48:10.000
<v Speaker 3>Hotel and me and him we stumble out or whatever,

0:48:10.040 --> 0:48:13.280
<v Speaker 3>and people knew that we was like back, we stumble out.

0:48:13.520 --> 0:48:19.360
<v Speaker 3>We go to McDonald's, order like sixty dollars work McDonalds.

0:48:18.760 --> 0:48:22.440
<v Speaker 2>Sydney, Please tell us what is sixty dollars With.

0:48:21.800 --> 0:48:26.200
<v Speaker 3>McDonald We get in quarter pounders with cheese, We getting nuggets.

0:48:26.600 --> 0:48:29.160
<v Speaker 3>We're gonna we get in oh, you know, I filet fish.

0:48:29.400 --> 0:48:31.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm always gonna do it. What you order fish, filet,

0:48:31.600 --> 0:48:32.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm getting that.

0:48:33.640 --> 0:48:36.960
<v Speaker 2>But how do we hit the sixty dollars fries?

0:48:37.160 --> 0:48:39.759
<v Speaker 1>All of that? My time square McDonald's cause I feel

0:48:39.760 --> 0:48:40.920
<v Speaker 1>like they know this.

0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:44.239
<v Speaker 2>Was in This was on Canal Street. This is on

0:48:44.280 --> 0:48:46.839
<v Speaker 2>Conow Street and McDonald's is still there. This is where

0:48:46.840 --> 0:48:49.600
<v Speaker 2>it got messy. When it was time to close out,

0:48:49.920 --> 0:48:51.040
<v Speaker 2>like in pay, I'm like.

0:48:52.560 --> 0:48:57.600
<v Speaker 3>You the man, absolutely, he said, but we we we.

0:48:57.000 --> 0:48:59.400
<v Speaker 1>This is we're not at work. So what does that

0:48:59.400 --> 0:49:02.080
<v Speaker 1>mean that she left that work? He left the penis.

0:49:04.040 --> 0:49:07.040
<v Speaker 3>Understand that we're not at work. You left the venis

0:49:07.160 --> 0:49:08.520
<v Speaker 3>at the Yeah.

0:49:08.640 --> 0:49:09.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't like.

0:49:09.400 --> 0:49:11.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't understand men who like because even my gay friends,

0:49:11.920 --> 0:49:14.440
<v Speaker 2>like gay male friends, I never reached my wallet with

0:49:14.440 --> 0:49:15.520
<v Speaker 2>them and they're not trying to fuck me. So I

0:49:15.520 --> 0:49:17.880
<v Speaker 2>don't understand a man who is like if a straight

0:49:17.960 --> 0:49:20.319
<v Speaker 2>man just like we were splitting, like are you kidding me?

0:49:20.800 --> 0:49:22.840
<v Speaker 1>But also like what are we talking about? Are we splitting?

0:49:22.960 --> 0:49:24.680
<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he didn't want to pay at all.

0:49:25.000 --> 0:49:27.759
<v Speaker 3>Word he was looking around like because we were drunk

0:49:27.760 --> 0:49:29.000
<v Speaker 3>and I was so he wanted to be on you.

0:49:29.160 --> 0:49:31.120
<v Speaker 1>He's I was like, wait no, no, we both walked

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:37.240
<v Speaker 1>to the right. Boss. Yeah, this is a white pickleback boss.

0:49:37.360 --> 0:49:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I think I think what it was this is he's like,

0:49:39.480 --> 0:49:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I know you.

0:49:39.960 --> 0:49:44.600
<v Speaker 3>Not you not bringing in everything? You taking some stuff

0:49:44.640 --> 0:49:47.279
<v Speaker 3>off the top, like use that money for good. Yeah,

0:49:47.920 --> 0:49:50.560
<v Speaker 3>if all of our McDonald if you're not paying for anything,

0:49:50.960 --> 0:49:53.920
<v Speaker 3>that means he trained somebody to also not pay for everything,

0:49:53.920 --> 0:49:57.200
<v Speaker 3>like okay, so that means he's not raising right his

0:49:57.280 --> 0:50:02.480
<v Speaker 3>extra coin? Right. You guys were asked so many good questions.

0:50:02.080 --> 0:50:05.360
<v Speaker 3>I wish I were there when it was happening, so

0:50:05.400 --> 0:50:12.319
<v Speaker 3>I definitely swiped my car. I would have stopped, or

0:50:12.360 --> 0:50:14.200
<v Speaker 3>I would have been like, let's just pay for our

0:50:14.280 --> 0:50:18.040
<v Speaker 3>own food. Even even the even the girl at the

0:50:18.160 --> 0:50:22.000
<v Speaker 3>register was looking like she shook her head. I can't

0:50:22.000 --> 0:50:24.160
<v Speaker 3>believe this went down. It was almost like I did

0:50:24.360 --> 0:50:26.879
<v Speaker 3>an invisible rock, paper scissors and loss. Yeah, that's why

0:50:28.080 --> 0:50:29.520
<v Speaker 3>you was playing with yourself.

0:50:31.719 --> 0:50:36.480
<v Speaker 1>Often. Yeah. Ended, And will.

0:50:38.560 --> 0:50:42.960
<v Speaker 3>Do you ever like, uh like have issues with Have

0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:45.360
<v Speaker 3>you ever had an issue with a coworker outside of

0:50:45.400 --> 0:50:46.719
<v Speaker 3>work and then brought it to work.

0:50:47.239 --> 0:50:51.160
<v Speaker 2>That's a good question. Well, my foster care job, it

0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:52.759
<v Speaker 2>was a girl who was working with me. I just

0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:54.279
<v Speaker 2>didn't I didn't think this was going to go to

0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:56.799
<v Speaker 2>this job. Yeah, okay, it was one girl. She was

0:50:56.800 --> 0:51:00.480
<v Speaker 2>on the Queen's side, but she was always in Brooklyn's business. Yeah,

0:51:00.640 --> 0:51:02.759
<v Speaker 2>like this is not like this is my side of

0:51:02.960 --> 0:51:04.360
<v Speaker 2>Atlantic Avenue, my side of London.

0:51:04.400 --> 0:51:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Minds your business? Yeah, Like she would just pop up

0:51:07.480 --> 0:51:09.000
<v Speaker 1>in zoom meetings that I'm like, how did you get

0:51:09.000 --> 0:51:12.560
<v Speaker 1>the link? Like weird old the hand.

0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:14.160
<v Speaker 2>We're on the same level, Like you're not a supervisor

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:15.960
<v Speaker 2>to come watch me? Like what are you doing? So

0:51:16.440 --> 0:51:18.080
<v Speaker 2>in real life I really didn't want to smack the

0:51:18.080 --> 0:51:19.759
<v Speaker 2>ship out of it. I'm like, you know what, but

0:51:20.280 --> 0:51:21.280
<v Speaker 2>real life problem?

0:51:21.520 --> 0:51:22.680
<v Speaker 1>What job? Sorry?

0:51:22.680 --> 0:51:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Why are you trying to think of this? What job

0:51:24.680 --> 0:51:26.799
<v Speaker 2>were you working during the pandemic? Because I know there

0:51:26.920 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 2>was some.

0:51:27.200 --> 0:51:33.960
<v Speaker 1>Zoom ship shipped what shipped the food delivery for Target? Oh?

0:51:34.320 --> 0:51:38.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh shipped? Yeah, I don't know. I'm saying it, but

0:51:38.040 --> 0:51:39.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it is. Yeah, no, no idea.

0:51:39.840 --> 0:51:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know what delivery for target.

0:51:41.719 --> 0:51:44.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, girl, I shu was bumping during the pandemic. No

0:51:44.360 --> 0:51:45.360
<v Speaker 2>one wanted to leave the house.

0:51:45.880 --> 0:51:48.120
<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, so you were, so you were stacking con

0:51:48.160 --> 0:51:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I was stacking corn. I bought a nice little a Nissan.

0:51:52.000 --> 0:51:55.839
<v Speaker 2>You bought a car with shipped it shipped still available, Yeah,

0:51:57.760 --> 0:52:01.279
<v Speaker 2>it's not in the same as a man's if people

0:52:01.280 --> 0:52:06.080
<v Speaker 2>go to themselves. Now for sure people still do it,

0:52:06.120 --> 0:52:07.719
<v Speaker 2>But I was. I bought a nice little in the

0:52:07.719 --> 0:52:08.560
<v Speaker 2>car for nine grand.

0:52:09.719 --> 0:52:10.919
<v Speaker 1>You made from much money?

0:52:11.000 --> 0:52:13.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because it was at the peak when no one

0:52:13.160 --> 0:52:16.200
<v Speaker 2>was leaving their house. Everyone's scared. I'm like, I'll get

0:52:16.239 --> 0:52:16.600
<v Speaker 2>your eggs.

0:52:16.600 --> 0:52:18.479
<v Speaker 1>What up? Like, well, let's bring it back.

0:52:18.560 --> 0:52:22.440
<v Speaker 2>Let's like close your eyes and envision, you know, lockdown.

0:52:22.880 --> 0:52:26.960
<v Speaker 2>They were letting people in a few customers at a time.

0:52:27.160 --> 0:52:31.360
<v Speaker 1>To wait online outside or six feet away from somebody.

0:52:32.040 --> 0:52:35.000
<v Speaker 1>Remember that, And that's when I was making Queen. Yeah,

0:52:35.440 --> 0:52:37.480
<v Speaker 1>I do miss a little.

0:52:39.160 --> 0:52:40.840
<v Speaker 2>When I used to drop off the grocery like to

0:52:40.920 --> 0:52:42.120
<v Speaker 2>like and still more fing.

0:52:42.080 --> 0:52:43.080
<v Speaker 1>Like all it's crazy in there.

0:52:44.000 --> 0:52:46.560
<v Speaker 2>You used to get like germs all over this, all

0:52:46.560 --> 0:52:49.240
<v Speaker 2>over the stay white people.

0:52:49.880 --> 0:52:52.719
<v Speaker 1>Did you have a mask on their gloves and stuff? Okay?

0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:54.600
<v Speaker 1>All that? Yeah, I remember I used to get groceries

0:52:54.600 --> 0:52:58.239
<v Speaker 1>and I I would wipe my stuff down with and

0:52:58.280 --> 0:53:00.440
<v Speaker 1>now I just how the ship in the lick the

0:53:00.480 --> 0:53:01.680
<v Speaker 1>milk before I put it in.

0:53:03.040 --> 0:53:05.280
<v Speaker 3>It's good that you were showing up as like, because

0:53:05.280 --> 0:53:09.040
<v Speaker 3>when women do things, you just feel like they don't

0:53:09.360 --> 0:53:10.400
<v Speaker 3>They're they're.

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:12.680
<v Speaker 1>Getting the right items, they're they're reading.

0:53:13.360 --> 0:53:16.279
<v Speaker 3>It's like anytime there's a guy getting like insta cart,

0:53:16.400 --> 0:53:19.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, we have to cancel, cancel this. Yeah, Oh,

0:53:20.040 --> 0:53:23.120
<v Speaker 3>Edward is looking for No, he's not, He's not looking

0:53:23.160 --> 0:53:24.399
<v Speaker 3>for he's never looking bro.

0:53:24.560 --> 0:53:27.799
<v Speaker 1>They'd be like, he's never grabbing. They'd be like, you

0:53:27.840 --> 0:53:30.399
<v Speaker 1>asked for lettuce, I didn't find any lettuce. You didn't

0:53:30.400 --> 0:53:34.640
<v Speaker 1>find you no lettuce here, No, no, there's no I.

0:53:34.560 --> 0:53:39.440
<v Speaker 3>Gave you Parsley instead. The substitute is wild. This is

0:53:39.480 --> 0:53:41.879
<v Speaker 3>really wild. And I always I used to call before

0:53:41.920 --> 0:53:45.120
<v Speaker 3>I picked them the substitute. You call ola instead.

0:53:46.960 --> 0:53:50.560
<v Speaker 1>I never don't call it. And it is I read them.

0:53:50.680 --> 0:53:53.640
<v Speaker 2>I read like the Reddit or the Twitter threads of

0:53:53.680 --> 0:53:56.520
<v Speaker 2>people complaining because anytime they get a male instacart person,

0:53:56.640 --> 0:54:00.360
<v Speaker 2>the women be upset, upset because it be like I

0:54:00.360 --> 0:54:02.680
<v Speaker 2>asked for Maxi pads, he bought me Pampers.

0:54:02.840 --> 0:54:05.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, and then he and then people in the

0:54:05.960 --> 0:54:08.160
<v Speaker 4>comments like, well he was he that far off?

0:54:08.320 --> 0:54:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, yeah yeah he was. He's not Huggies.

0:54:11.520 --> 0:54:13.239
<v Speaker 2>I cannot fee the Huggies. I haven't been able to

0:54:13.239 --> 0:54:14.480
<v Speaker 2>fee Huggs like you want all the baby.

0:54:14.480 --> 0:54:15.400
<v Speaker 1>I was a fat baby.

0:54:15.480 --> 0:54:17.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh you had a big bud as a baby. No,

0:54:17.719 --> 0:54:20.960
<v Speaker 2>I was just a chunky little monkeys monkey, I was.

0:54:21.160 --> 0:54:25.400
<v Speaker 2>I was a hefty baby too, actually, pad, yes, but

0:54:25.480 --> 0:54:27.839
<v Speaker 2>I was born like nine pounds or something like that,

0:54:28.000 --> 0:54:31.920
<v Speaker 2>like oh wow, I was my mother, my mother's biggest baby.

0:54:31.920 --> 0:54:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Were you the last one? I was? I'm the middle. Oh, girl,

0:54:35.120 --> 0:54:35.799
<v Speaker 1>you would have scarred me.

0:54:35.840 --> 0:54:37.319
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how your last something got here because

0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:38.520
<v Speaker 2>I would have been done after you.

0:54:38.960 --> 0:54:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Girl, Look at me. I still weigh on pads. Yeah,

0:54:41.000 --> 0:54:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm to push out though I'm trying to remember. I

0:54:45.239 --> 0:54:47.160
<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't think I'm trying to remember. No,

0:54:49.560 --> 0:54:52.560
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember what job I had A fourteen? How

0:54:52.600 --> 0:54:53.800
<v Speaker 1>much you weighed? You know?

0:54:54.440 --> 0:54:59.440
<v Speaker 3>What happened was I was my mom went into labor early, early,

0:55:00.440 --> 0:55:02.319
<v Speaker 3>and I was sick. When I came out, they had

0:55:02.360 --> 0:55:04.280
<v Speaker 3>to give me like they had to do a surgery

0:55:04.400 --> 0:55:07.600
<v Speaker 3>because I was eating the placenta.

0:55:07.960 --> 0:55:10.280
<v Speaker 1>No, that's what I should have known. I was a lesbian.

0:55:10.320 --> 0:55:21.080
<v Speaker 3>Then okay, my mother out, yes, and the womb I

0:55:21.120 --> 0:55:25.239
<v Speaker 3>loved it, like, oh god, no that was bad. But yeah,

0:55:25.480 --> 0:55:28.360
<v Speaker 3>and so then they had to do a crazy surgery,

0:55:28.640 --> 0:55:31.640
<v Speaker 3>shave all my hair off. They had like I don't

0:55:31.680 --> 0:55:35.719
<v Speaker 3>know what babies head. Oh I came out with some yeah, right,

0:55:36.280 --> 0:55:39.839
<v Speaker 3>probably than I have now. Theake off so funny. And

0:55:39.880 --> 0:55:43.960
<v Speaker 3>then uh, and then my sister would make crazy jokes.

0:55:43.960 --> 0:55:46.880
<v Speaker 3>She was like if a lizard and Gress Jones had

0:55:46.920 --> 0:55:47.360
<v Speaker 3>a baby.

0:55:47.400 --> 0:55:49.960
<v Speaker 1>That's what you looked like. It was bad if a

0:55:50.040 --> 0:55:55.040
<v Speaker 1>lizard and Grace is baby wol Okay, so dark skin,

0:55:55.160 --> 0:55:59.600
<v Speaker 1>scary baby. Yeah, that's so crazy. Can you believe it?

0:56:00.080 --> 0:56:03.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you see it? Pounds and some change? Okay, every

0:56:03.960 --> 0:56:15.440
<v Speaker 1>time you will, okay, old zimpics google funny. Yeah. I

0:56:15.480 --> 0:56:17.560
<v Speaker 1>feel like maybe that's the hardest job, being.

0:56:17.400 --> 0:56:21.360
<v Speaker 3>A mother, Like, oh my god, never not be be

0:56:21.440 --> 0:56:21.799
<v Speaker 3>a mom.

0:56:22.640 --> 0:56:23.960
<v Speaker 1>You can't be like I'm going to the store to

0:56:23.960 --> 0:56:25.359
<v Speaker 1>get cigarettes and not come.

0:56:25.560 --> 0:56:25.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:56:25.800 --> 0:56:27.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, well some of them. That's why have a job. Now,

0:56:28.920 --> 0:56:30.640
<v Speaker 1>some of them do. That's why I was busy today.

0:56:30.760 --> 0:56:36.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think that, like what and the thing is

0:56:36.640 --> 0:56:40.640
<v Speaker 3>is that mothers they can't get any like they can't

0:56:40.680 --> 0:56:45.399
<v Speaker 3>like clock out or like taxes for just motherhood. Like

0:56:45.719 --> 0:56:48.360
<v Speaker 3>and what they're literally doing is they're taking care of

0:56:48.400 --> 0:56:52.160
<v Speaker 3>a human being twenty four seven And even when they

0:56:52.440 --> 0:56:55.080
<v Speaker 3>when the kids leave the home, you're still thinking and carrying,

0:56:55.160 --> 0:56:57.399
<v Speaker 3>oh my mother and making sure they're all right twenty

0:56:57.440 --> 0:56:57.919
<v Speaker 3>times the day.

0:56:57.800 --> 0:56:59.960
<v Speaker 1>To check up on me. Yeah, you're close with your

0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:05.000
<v Speaker 1>mom like that. My girl, that's Sydney. I mean she's dead, but.

0:57:07.640 --> 0:57:09.279
<v Speaker 2>You had a good relationship before that or oh no,

0:57:09.800 --> 0:57:11.520
<v Speaker 2>so she was like my father, my father, Ye, he's

0:57:11.560 --> 0:57:13.560
<v Speaker 2>doing and it did not phase me at all.

0:57:13.800 --> 0:57:16.120
<v Speaker 1>You said, may he rest in peace. I didn't even

0:57:16.120 --> 0:57:17.400
<v Speaker 1>say that. You were like, I don't know if I

0:57:17.400 --> 0:57:20.440
<v Speaker 1>really want that piece they call your father. I'm like, oh,

0:57:20.480 --> 0:57:25.640
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. That's wow. You know someone's not paying attention

0:57:25.720 --> 0:57:29.200
<v Speaker 1>when they say that's crazy anyway in New York.

0:57:29.200 --> 0:57:32.880
<v Speaker 3>That's that's old. Asked wow, I'm not listening. To stop

0:57:32.920 --> 0:57:37.160
<v Speaker 3>listening already. Wait, so you said being a mom is

0:57:37.160 --> 0:57:43.720
<v Speaker 3>the hardest job. Do you want kids? No, girl, I

0:57:43.760 --> 0:57:45.640
<v Speaker 3>want to push out to you.

0:57:45.640 --> 0:57:48.919
<v Speaker 1>You want to push them out. So no drugs, no cut,

0:57:49.400 --> 0:57:52.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna have some drugs. Okay, so push

0:57:52.320 --> 0:57:55.840
<v Speaker 1>your but no sea section no, no, no, no no.

0:57:55.880 --> 0:57:57.440
<v Speaker 1>We're not a see sexual family and we don't do that.

0:57:57.920 --> 0:58:00.720
<v Speaker 1>We're not a sea section family. I don't heard that one.

0:58:00.800 --> 0:58:04.360
<v Speaker 2>How are you sea section family? Because vaginal birthby like

0:58:04.440 --> 0:58:06.840
<v Speaker 2>that ship? Should that be like hereditary a lot?

0:58:07.360 --> 0:58:10.360
<v Speaker 1>Excuse me? What? Let me look at it? Is that?

0:58:10.400 --> 0:58:11.920
<v Speaker 1>What is that what we're putting out here right there?

0:58:11.960 --> 0:58:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Let me look at it. How you have a sea

0:58:13.200 --> 0:58:16.480
<v Speaker 1>section baby? Then what's what happened? Baby? Also have especially,

0:58:17.000 --> 0:58:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's like ah likelihood, I mean not

0:58:18.880 --> 0:58:20.960
<v Speaker 1>you google in this. I don't know. I don't know.

0:58:21.040 --> 0:58:24.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna I'm when when I say that, what

0:58:24.840 --> 0:58:25.880
<v Speaker 2>if I do it in the bathtub?

0:58:25.960 --> 0:58:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Am I also?

0:58:26.520 --> 0:58:30.600
<v Speaker 3>Now? A bathtub? A water birth baby? It's hereditary. You

0:58:30.640 --> 0:58:32.400
<v Speaker 3>gotta be in the water. You a water baby.

0:58:32.400 --> 0:58:35.440
<v Speaker 2>My mother had me wet, Okay, so it's not her mereditary,

0:58:35.480 --> 0:58:38.080
<v Speaker 2>but says there's a forty five percent increased risk of

0:58:38.120 --> 0:58:42.240
<v Speaker 2>having a Suceyrian section. Twenty five is not even really,

0:58:43.000 --> 0:58:48.920
<v Speaker 2>that's not almost. Yeah, I e I may have I'm crazy, but.

0:58:48.920 --> 0:58:53.000
<v Speaker 1>Wait, what's wrong? What a little sea section? What's wrong

0:58:53.000 --> 0:58:53.640
<v Speaker 1>with it? I don't know.

0:58:53.800 --> 0:58:55.400
<v Speaker 2>I just I feel like the well, I don't want

0:58:55.400 --> 0:58:57.200
<v Speaker 2>to say natural because what it is natural?

0:58:57.320 --> 0:59:00.360
<v Speaker 3>Natural vaginal birth is just huh, I preferred. What's wrong

0:59:00.400 --> 0:59:01.000
<v Speaker 3>with sea section?

0:59:02.160 --> 0:59:04.720
<v Speaker 1>Well, it's like a whole See, I'm trying to get

0:59:04.760 --> 0:59:06.480
<v Speaker 1>the mess.

0:59:06.520 --> 0:59:10.000
<v Speaker 2>Major surgery first off, So any surgery is risky.

0:59:10.160 --> 0:59:12.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you can have vaginal birth and rip your

0:59:12.760 --> 0:59:18.880
<v Speaker 1>coach open, then you're also and you're right, they sewed up.

0:59:19.000 --> 0:59:21.439
<v Speaker 1>That's not surgery. So he said, they might the baby

0:59:21.480 --> 0:59:22.439
<v Speaker 1>might rip you to the butt.

0:59:22.600 --> 0:59:26.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, but they well I've seen I've seen some

0:59:26.440 --> 0:59:28.320
<v Speaker 3>of the stitch work on people's clothes.

0:59:28.560 --> 0:59:31.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they're doing it right.

0:59:32.200 --> 0:59:35.120
<v Speaker 2>Also, like the stomach is harder to get down when

0:59:35.160 --> 0:59:35.880
<v Speaker 2>it's a sea section.

0:59:36.680 --> 0:59:39.080
<v Speaker 1>It stays up. What do that mean, Oh, you mean

0:59:39.160 --> 0:59:39.920
<v Speaker 1>like to get flat?

0:59:40.000 --> 0:59:42.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, likenat back is a little harder with the sea

0:59:42.080 --> 0:59:42.920
<v Speaker 2>section versus.

0:59:44.600 --> 0:59:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Damn. I don't know if I was a C section

0:59:46.800 --> 0:59:49.520
<v Speaker 1>or vaginal birth. Let me call my mom. Yeah, I'm

0:59:49.560 --> 0:59:54.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna ask her. Were you natural out? Yeah? Yeah, you're

0:59:54.960 --> 0:59:56.200
<v Speaker 1>a vaginal birth family over here.

0:59:56.920 --> 0:59:57.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:59:57.680 --> 1:00:02.120
<v Speaker 1>I came out vaginally. Yeah, vaginally. But then, like I

1:00:02.160 --> 1:00:03.400
<v Speaker 1>was really sick because of.

1:00:03.880 --> 1:00:08.840
<v Speaker 3>You know, the vagina, Yeah, and putting the placenta and

1:00:08.960 --> 1:00:15.640
<v Speaker 3>the vagina. No wed you cut it cut it out,

1:00:15.680 --> 1:00:16.800
<v Speaker 3>the cut it out.

1:00:16.960 --> 1:00:19.160
<v Speaker 1>You you could give it in.

1:00:19.200 --> 1:00:42.280
<v Speaker 2>But also, what do you think is the best job

1:00:42.320 --> 1:00:44.200
<v Speaker 2>in the world. I love being a comic. I'm not

1:00:44.200 --> 1:00:44.720
<v Speaker 2>gonna hold you.

1:00:44.840 --> 1:00:48.280
<v Speaker 1>I love this job. I love this ship that comes

1:00:48.320 --> 1:00:49.640
<v Speaker 1>with a lot of bulls, espuchly as woman.

1:00:49.960 --> 1:00:55.040
<v Speaker 3>But it seems like you're very passionate about passion having Yeah, damn.

1:00:55.120 --> 1:00:56.880
<v Speaker 1>This is how I stud feel about comedy.

1:00:56.600 --> 1:01:01.080
<v Speaker 3>Said me, No, no, no, I feel like you the overall

1:01:01.760 --> 1:01:04.360
<v Speaker 3>existence of it. You're you do feel that way. I

1:01:04.360 --> 1:01:06.160
<v Speaker 3>don't think I'm obsessed with anything.

1:01:06.560 --> 1:01:08.520
<v Speaker 1>No now obsessed?

1:01:09.160 --> 1:01:11.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, girl, if I like, if I go a week

1:01:11.360 --> 1:01:13.200
<v Speaker 2>when I get on stage, like I do, feel like

1:01:13.920 --> 1:01:17.880
<v Speaker 2>increased anxiety. I need sure, I need the stage. I

1:01:17.920 --> 1:01:20.240
<v Speaker 2>don't know, I just I need it, bro I need it.

1:01:20.360 --> 1:01:23.000
<v Speaker 1>People. I'm taking a month off. I'm like, well, who's

1:01:23.000 --> 1:01:25.800
<v Speaker 1>saying that. I've heard people say that. What we heard

1:01:25.840 --> 1:01:26.920
<v Speaker 1>people say that we have?

1:01:27.960 --> 1:01:31.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I took a month or two off. I'm like, well,

1:01:31.400 --> 1:01:33.920
<v Speaker 2>I would have during the pandemic. Never, no pandemic.

1:01:34.000 --> 1:01:36.680
<v Speaker 1>Last week I saw Jonas and I took a month off.

1:01:36.680 --> 1:01:39.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, during the pandemic, I was like, I don't

1:01:39.040 --> 1:01:40.320
<v Speaker 1>even think I do comedy no more.

1:01:40.360 --> 1:01:42.160
<v Speaker 2>No, in the pandemic, I was on the outside ships

1:01:43.160 --> 1:01:45.120
<v Speaker 2>when he was doing those zoom comedy shows.

1:01:46.040 --> 1:01:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you the mess that.

1:01:47.400 --> 1:01:49.520
<v Speaker 3>First of all, why am I momming in front of

1:01:49.560 --> 1:01:52.640
<v Speaker 3>my cats and the plant? I don't like this. I'm

1:01:52.640 --> 1:01:54.920
<v Speaker 3>gonna be at home. I'm turning my laptop now.

1:01:54.960 --> 1:01:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't live here anymore. I have to.

1:01:56.280 --> 1:02:01.120
<v Speaker 3>Actually move out because the chakras, the vibes is off,

1:02:01.200 --> 1:02:01.960
<v Speaker 3>I can't off.

1:02:02.200 --> 1:02:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, nothing, I'm down to zoom ships. I was

1:02:04.560 --> 1:02:06.760
<v Speaker 1>in the parks. I'm glad that you learned.

1:02:06.760 --> 1:02:11.040
<v Speaker 2>The Linda wood Dinah had the park. I was there

1:02:11.480 --> 1:02:12.160
<v Speaker 2>parks with them.

1:02:12.240 --> 1:02:13.480
<v Speaker 1>Zoom Ship. I did one. I was like, yeah, I'm

1:02:13.480 --> 1:02:13.840
<v Speaker 1>good on this.

1:02:13.880 --> 1:02:16.959
<v Speaker 2>I think I did like two and and the first.

1:02:17.000 --> 1:02:18.480
<v Speaker 2>After the first one, I was like, oh, I'm not

1:02:18.480 --> 1:02:20.200
<v Speaker 2>going to do stand up. Y'all gonna see me trying

1:02:20.240 --> 1:02:22.840
<v Speaker 2>on some weeks because I was bald.

1:02:22.640 --> 1:02:24.840
<v Speaker 1>During the pandemic. Word, yeah, that's smart.

1:02:25.440 --> 1:02:28.600
<v Speaker 3>I think we did like somebody had reached out and

1:02:28.640 --> 1:02:30.520
<v Speaker 3>we did like a zoom gig and it was just

1:02:30.560 --> 1:02:31.080
<v Speaker 3>like good.

1:02:30.920 --> 1:02:33.760
<v Speaker 1>Money and we didn't do stand up. We were like

1:02:33.800 --> 1:02:35.800
<v Speaker 1>had a conversation, we did a podcast.

1:02:37.160 --> 1:02:39.280
<v Speaker 3>Like we were telling jokes, but I guess, you know,

1:02:39.360 --> 1:02:41.440
<v Speaker 3>were on serious So it was like we probably were

1:02:41.440 --> 1:02:43.000
<v Speaker 3>supposed to do stand up, but we were.

1:02:43.760 --> 1:02:47.760
<v Speaker 1>We did sports work, We did Miss Volume one.

1:02:48.320 --> 1:02:50.840
<v Speaker 3>So you're obsessed with your obsessed with comedy and so

1:02:50.920 --> 1:02:52.160
<v Speaker 3>this is not even a job for you.

1:02:52.320 --> 1:02:53.800
<v Speaker 2>This is just like you'll do it for free. I

1:02:53.800 --> 1:02:56.160
<v Speaker 2>would do it for free. I don't do it for free.

1:02:56.600 --> 1:02:57.840
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not doing it for free.

1:02:57.960 --> 1:03:01.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I will. Yeah, you're so good at it?

1:03:01.560 --> 1:03:04.040
<v Speaker 3>Why I think that's I think that's a mess. When

1:03:04.080 --> 1:03:06.200
<v Speaker 3>people want you to show up and do things and

1:03:06.200 --> 1:03:08.720
<v Speaker 3>not get paid for them. Why why if I'm if

1:03:08.760 --> 1:03:11.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm good at it, you obviously want me, right, So

1:03:11.200 --> 1:03:12.880
<v Speaker 3>why wouldn't you want to pay me? All?

1:03:13.040 --> 1:03:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I got this?

1:03:13.880 --> 1:03:17.439
<v Speaker 2>Okay, then you only got that comic over there because

1:03:17.440 --> 1:03:17.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

1:03:17.800 --> 1:03:19.080
<v Speaker 1>Well, if you're good, if I'm good enough for you

1:03:19.160 --> 1:03:20.640
<v Speaker 1>to ask me, I'm also good enough for you to

1:03:20.640 --> 1:03:22.280
<v Speaker 1>pay me. Absolutely.

1:03:22.360 --> 1:03:25.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not exactly, But I think that's that's with

1:03:25.840 --> 1:03:28.880
<v Speaker 3>anything you think. If you're reaching out and you want

1:03:28.960 --> 1:03:31.280
<v Speaker 3>to work with somebody, you got to have some kind

1:03:31.280 --> 1:03:31.720
<v Speaker 3>of budget.

1:03:31.760 --> 1:03:35.480
<v Speaker 1>What is this like, you know, exposure. I never negotia.

1:03:36.760 --> 1:03:39.480
<v Speaker 2>My mother always tries like to, like, you know, haggle prices.

1:03:39.520 --> 1:03:41.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I don't do that.

1:03:41.280 --> 1:03:43.280
<v Speaker 1>You don't negotiate your rates?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, yeah, like yeah that that but it's

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<v Speaker 2>like my mom my mom w was like like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>how much to like, you know, shovel the snow and

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<v Speaker 2>the like All of a sudden, fish like, oh, you

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<v Speaker 2>do it for sixty's like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>My mother always has to My mom is queen of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do that, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't like you when people do it to me,

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<v Speaker 2>even in Chipotle, I'm like, let me get some more chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like this, I'll for the double. I'm not like you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing I'm not doing them. Let me get

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying doing that the Caribbean way. Yeah, my mother

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<v Speaker 2>will listen, Mama. I remember my mom was trying to

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<v Speaker 2>buy a car. She's trying to get a new van,

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<v Speaker 2>a brand new minivan. And she was like, like, my

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<v Speaker 2>mom doesn't like she don't really believe in credit cards.

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<v Speaker 2>So she showed up with a like an envelope full

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<v Speaker 2>of cash, not even an envelope, it was like a

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<v Speaker 2>printing paper folded in thirds load of money. And they

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<v Speaker 2>were like, my mom was like, how much for that car?

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<v Speaker 2>And they were like, it costs this much? And she

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<v Speaker 2>was like, well what if I pay cash? And they

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<v Speaker 2>were like, we could take a little bit off. Me

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<v Speaker 2>be like, but gosh like.

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<v Speaker 1>And they were like, I mean we could take a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit off and she and then she now she

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<v Speaker 1>got to unroll it for them to see she got

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<v Speaker 1>all in this cash on her And yeah, my mom

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<v Speaker 1>will haggle for anything groceries and I might if it's

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<v Speaker 1>four dollars, Mom, like how about tree fifty? Yeah, just done.

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<v Speaker 1>It stresses me out.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom is cutting it in half and her way

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit up. Yeah, so your mother starting a

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<v Speaker 2>three shiitty is crazy. My mom is like two dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, people would do that at the club all

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<v Speaker 3>the time. They're like yeah, yeah, people would be like bottle, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>because they're like because they already hit they men, like right,

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<v Speaker 3>they already have like a two thousand, you know, men

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<v Speaker 3>or whatever. And then they're like, yo, I got I

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<v Speaker 3>got like four hundred dollars in cash. What if I

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<v Speaker 3>give you that and you just get me like a bottle,

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<v Speaker 3>Like you don't even have to be the expensive bottle.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I just need more liquor on the table,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm not paying seven hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what can you get at the curb for four

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<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars?

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<v Speaker 3>Not the boom, not even not even boom.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't even get boom boom for the club again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>something yeah broke.

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<v Speaker 3>But I mean the thing is is that it's like

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<v Speaker 3>when you get people nice, you friendly, you chatting them up,

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, we all cool. You know, they might have

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<v Speaker 3>given you some cocaine. It's like, hey, get out of this,

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<v Speaker 3>because I think that that's also mess. Is like when

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<v Speaker 3>people are using their relationships to get what they want,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, and like, hey, if I want more liquor,

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<v Speaker 3>we cool And I got this cash and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 3>you want it.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to paint it, nobody else you, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just just show. But is that mess? I believe the

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<v Speaker 1>Whites call that networking?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh is that what it's called networking?

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<v Speaker 1>Networking? Networking is mess?

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<v Speaker 3>Ah, Yes, yes, I'm gonna say networking is mess It

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<v Speaker 3>can't be because it's under the guise of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>this is this.

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<v Speaker 1>Is how you do it, This is how you get

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<v Speaker 1>to the next level.

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<v Speaker 3>When it's like, actually, I could just be doing what

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing and I was gonna get that way anywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you never can be messy because like people,

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<v Speaker 2>who are you? You know what I'm saying, It's like,

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<v Speaker 2>are you even worth me?

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking? Especially in La? Are you worth me? Acknowledging your existence?

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<v Speaker 1>People in La?

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<v Speaker 2>I went to a party once when I was out

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<v Speaker 2>there and everyone that you talked to head was on

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<v Speaker 2>a swifolcause they're looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody more important than you. Yeah, and it's like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the most important person in here. They're like, who are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you again? Yeah? What do you do? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you work?

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<v Speaker 3>Me?

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<v Speaker 2>Now, if I'm at a place and I'm like we

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<v Speaker 2>have a genuine conversation, I don't I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't be asking like what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? They love it? What do you do? In La?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Is actually quite hateful now in this climate because it's

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<v Speaker 3>like we're all trying to figure out what we're doing

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<v Speaker 3>right now and it will be and they'll ask you

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<v Speaker 3>what do you what do you do? While you're there

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<v Speaker 3>at doing what you do? It's like I'm just on

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<v Speaker 3>stage killing.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean? What do I do? Or the

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<v Speaker 1>the other question, what are you working on? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>That working on I'm working on myself, Yeah, hitting you

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<v Speaker 5>right now that I'm working on living Okay, if you

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<v Speaker 5>get in the living ram, you're getting me Instagram all

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<v Speaker 5>of a sudd and they're like more friendly now to

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<v Speaker 5>see that, Oh you all.

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<v Speaker 1>You kind of all your.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, now now your friendly is like you was being

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<v Speaker 2>cold this whole two minutes I was talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl. That's why you got to treat everybody the same.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's even even like so you gotta be cold

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<v Speaker 3>to everybody and even when you see the Instagram and

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<v Speaker 3>all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh you got a million follow whatever. No, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you do. Yeah, you know it's all you do. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't come outside at all, your influencer. Interesting, you

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<v Speaker 1>missed you missed TikTok or not right TikTok. When I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about taking it on, I'm like, I don't care. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of wanted TikTok to stay gone.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I've learned so much on TikTok, but

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<v Speaker 3>I also waste mad time.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't be on Yeah, I mean on Instagram. When

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<v Speaker 1>I fall down a TikTok rabbit hole, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's some stuff on there, it's everything, like people, More

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<v Speaker 1>people use TikTok like to look stuff up than Google,

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<v Speaker 1>whoa or like YouTube.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know you cold look stuff up on

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<v Speaker 2>tickso oh absolutely you put it in a search bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you'd be like, what where should I eat in Japan,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's like, how do I get a stain

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<v Speaker 1>out of my clip? Like people use TikTok for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why informative?

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<v Speaker 3>It is informative, but it also is like did she

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<v Speaker 3>really just tell all her family secrets in ten parts?

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<v Speaker 5>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Who? Did I marry? Who?

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<v Speaker 3>The And we need it and we need it and

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<v Speaker 3>we love it and it's entertainment, but also TikTok is

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<v Speaker 3>like taking me away from TV sometimes because it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I can watch all these little clips instead of like

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<v Speaker 3>have a sitting and then be like, hmm, that's not

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<v Speaker 3>really doing it for me. Yeah, I needed this in

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<v Speaker 3>like ninety seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sucking up your attention span. It is. It is

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<v Speaker 1>yeah for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'll be watching a good movie and I'll scroll

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<v Speaker 2>through Instagram'm like, oh, let me enjoy the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a nice film. Let me pay attention. When

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<v Speaker 1>you're watching a movie and you want to enjoy it,

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<v Speaker 1>you scroll through Instagram. Lol.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I'll catch myself going through Instagram like, let me

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<v Speaker 2>put this down and pay attention.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a good ass movie. Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I was at a comedy show the other day and

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<v Speaker 2>this girl in the audience in the front row with strolling,

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<v Speaker 2>scrolling through TikTok with the volume one, because that's happened

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<v Speaker 2>to me. No, I don't stop, I've having to do

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<v Speaker 2>that with.

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<v Speaker 1>The volume on full blast. Stop. I'm like you're I'm like, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>mine in the front, Yeah, in the front. Put your

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<v Speaker 1>AirPod in like it's a bluetooth, and listen quietly. My

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, why did you come out tonight? I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be with my friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to show people on Instagram you went to a

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<v Speaker 2>comedy show you didn't really enjoy. You wasn't even there. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's a lot of what social media

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<v Speaker 2>is is people. You want people to see that you're

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<v Speaker 2>out and you're doing stuff, but you are having a

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<v Speaker 2>miserable time.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I appreciated about our time in Jamaica.

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<v Speaker 1>We actually had fun. It wasn't just for the grand

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm not actively posting in my stories, just know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy having time. I'm posting the stories from the cab,

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<v Speaker 1>from the uber on the way home.

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<v Speaker 2>I post from my bed in the morning, or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the other day we went out, I got eight a m. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I woke up at four thirty in the afternoon.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and it was a good night. It was that's

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<v Speaker 3>a great that was a really good that Saturday for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Saturday Saturday was lit as fun for me. I think

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<v Speaker 3>we got to go through some messages now DM.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that the.

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<v Speaker 3>US. Oh y'all yeah, yeah, die you have you have

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<v Speaker 3>messing your DMS. Girl, you want to read some mess

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<v Speaker 3>you want to, We'll take it absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you saw one of the messy has somebody was

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<v Speaker 2>talking about cities when I was laying on my back.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we remember, you tell the people because the

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<v Speaker 1>people didn't see it. So I took a picture of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Jamaica, Like you know, you laid down

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<v Speaker 1>and then like like this, yeah, you know which I hate.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate laying down because then if your booths are

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<v Speaker 3>not close together and they kind of look like, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>like pancakes, like yeah, the city they go and then

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<v Speaker 3>they look like you know, bowling balls on the underneath

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<v Speaker 3>your uh well that maybe maybe just.

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<v Speaker 4>Me f y Yeah right, your booths look like bowling

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<v Speaker 4>balls underneath like because it it's spread, it goes under

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<v Speaker 4>hat titties is not like ridiculous, it's this he'll weight

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<v Speaker 4>on this.

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<v Speaker 3>They still got some weight. No, but they look like

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<v Speaker 3>they fit your body. Oh, thank you, yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a there's some cities. I'm like, girl, bye, there's

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<v Speaker 1>some cities out of here. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I was laying down and the person was like, oh, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>cities shrank from the other from the other picture with something.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like yeah, because the other picture I was sitting.

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<v Speaker 2>I was standing up, so the titties was standing up too.

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<v Speaker 1>Was this in your hidden messages?

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<v Speaker 3>No, girl, I had screenshot and posted that ship. This

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<v Speaker 3>is somebody that actually you're cool with.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was cool with this person. You gotta block

1:12:36.360 --> 1:12:38.960
<v Speaker 1>them old. Yeah, they're done. That's done. They're done done.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't come into my d MS talking.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh right, the punch that got the I want to

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<v Speaker 2>just correct myself. When I fought the guy in Father's

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<v Speaker 2>Day that was I was twenty twenty one into twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty two. Now comment Citty, I'm like, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty one twenty two is when I fought him, so

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<v Speaker 2>not twenty three, maybe twenty two, twenty two, twenty one, Eva,

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. I'll be trying to get my shirt

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<v Speaker 2>back because you know, when you got famous, people pull

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<v Speaker 2>it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you will stand twenty three. But at twenty three,

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<v Speaker 1>you will fucking with anybody ever says that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like age it to me like a year or

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<v Speaker 2>two off, fucking relaxed. But you know people they love

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<v Speaker 2>digging up ship and I'm gonna be famous. Bits know

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<v Speaker 2>they're gonna be there, gonna be digging up on.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, absolutely manifest like you when you was with related today.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me stay six feet awa from this ingga home.

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<v Speaker 1>That's running away from Home.

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<v Speaker 2>That is the title of run Away from So running

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<v Speaker 2>away from Home. Okay, let me read this letter and

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<v Speaker 2>then we'll discuss whether we think it's mess or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even believe I'm sending this. That's the title

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<v Speaker 2>Sydney and Marie. So happy to have the new pod

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<v Speaker 2>back in my feed. For the last few years, I've

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<v Speaker 2>been re listening to old episodes of the Unofficial Experts.

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<v Speaker 1>So I hope you still get that ad rev. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we do. I actually don't know, we don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like I have not received.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, Okay, anyway, here's my most embarrassing mess story.

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<v Speaker 1>Please don't use my real name.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking at the letter. I don't see the name

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<v Speaker 2>on here, so okay. At my first oh boom, this

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<v Speaker 2>works out. At my first real office job out of college,

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<v Speaker 2>I developed a crush on a really ugly but somewhat

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<v Speaker 2>funny coworker.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, really ugly. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>There were rumors that he was hooking up with another

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<v Speaker 2>girl at the office, but he always denied it. Eventually,

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<v Speaker 2>he and I started secretly hanging out, but I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>stop wondering if the rumors were true. The other girl

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<v Speaker 2>and I ended up sharing a room for a work

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<v Speaker 2>trip together, and when she went to shower, I looked

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<v Speaker 2>through her text Oh wow, I couldn't find a single

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<v Speaker 2>thing until I searched for his phone number. She had

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<v Speaker 2>him saved as Britney and they were sexting all day

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<v Speaker 2>every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Had man.

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<v Speaker 2>I kept this info to myself, and within a few

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<v Speaker 2>weeks she had a new random boyfriend. In hindsight, she

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<v Speaker 2>most likely was still sexting Brittany while she was dating

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<v Speaker 2>the new guy. I kept going out with the old

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<v Speaker 2>guy for a whole year until he ended up cheating

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<v Speaker 2>on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Good. I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't even feel that bad because I felt like

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<v Speaker 2>I got my karma. I am five to nine and

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<v Speaker 2>he was so short that when we would do it

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<v Speaker 2>from behind, he would be on his tiptoes.

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<v Speaker 1>Love you both, well, he was ugly and short. Anna, cheater, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the problem. You're a man.

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<v Speaker 3>No matter what's wrong with them, they always have multiple bitches, sir,

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<v Speaker 3>how is your ugly short ass fucking with bitches like that?

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<v Speaker 1>But but it's all on the women who are dating them.

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<v Speaker 3>They're giving them in their back and the height in

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<v Speaker 3>their shoes to make them feel like they're yeh, the police.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the women. These women are literally the wind beneath

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<v Speaker 1>their wings. Yes, she said, I developed on a crush

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<v Speaker 1>on someone. She said, really ugly, but somewhat funny. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's not really funny, it's not hysterical, somewhat ugly, really funny,

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<v Speaker 1>really ugly, somewhat funny. Girl, this is your fault. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not good for you. Actually are the problem, okay, electric chair,

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<v Speaker 1>Because the thing is it's so easy to be like

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<v Speaker 1>he's a bomb. Did you see his underwear dirty? But

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<v Speaker 1>you were fucking him? Yeah? But this is her first

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<v Speaker 1>job out of college.

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<v Speaker 3>So she was twenty one, twenty Do you know what

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<v Speaker 3>actually anything that happened between nineteen and twenty three, didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Have between yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>Between nineteen and yesterday, it's delete, it deletes. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>if you do something in international waters. They don't same

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<v Speaker 2>with this. Yep, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Chart Read another one? Or should I save it? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys think? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, Okay. X keeps

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<v Speaker 1>calling from an unknown number. Hasten him.

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<v Speaker 2>Longtime fan of the pod. My sister and I have

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<v Speaker 2>been listening since twenty nineteen. Shout out to y'all, but

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<v Speaker 2>we love you. This past August, I broke up with

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<v Speaker 2>my ex, who I had been dating for a year.

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<v Speaker 2>Throughout the course of our relationship, there were a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of issues.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's talk about the issue. He was super close

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<v Speaker 1>with his ex.

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<v Speaker 2>He kept explicit videos and pictures of his ex slash

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<v Speaker 2>past took ups, and he would complain about having to

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<v Speaker 2>pay two ninety to come visit me. After I finally

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<v Speaker 2>ended things, everything was fine. I felt like a weight

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<v Speaker 2>had been lifted off my shoulders and I was myself again.

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<v Speaker 2>But around September, so they broke up in August.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he's back.

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<v Speaker 2>In September, he reached out in an attempt for closure.

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<v Speaker 2>He sent me paragraphs telling me about how he felt,

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<v Speaker 2>and even sent a Google doc where he had been

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<v Speaker 2>writing all his thoughts since.

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<v Speaker 1>The breakup, not a Google doc.

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<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately, I answered his text and this opened a whole

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<v Speaker 2>can of worms. From then on, he would try and

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<v Speaker 2>reach out via text, trying to get closure.

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<v Speaker 1>Around November, I finally blocked him good.

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<v Speaker 2>Then around Christmas he sent me an email and then

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<v Speaker 2>a message on WhatsApp girl, an.

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<v Speaker 1>Email, wait, is this a business proper? Why are you emailing? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like I blocked you everywhere, so now you

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<v Speaker 2>emailing me bro? And then a message on WhatsApp. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't answer, and I blocked him on everything possible to

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<v Speaker 2>get him to stop. Now he's been trying to reach

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<v Speaker 2>me by calling from an unknown number and the secondary

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<v Speaker 2>email address.

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<v Speaker 1>Call you got a stock you have to report him.

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<v Speaker 2>He even left the voicemail saying how I'm bullying him

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<v Speaker 2>and that it's weird that I'm avoiding him. I've been

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<v Speaker 2>thriving for the past six months without him, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>even interested in another guy. Right now, Ladies, how do

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<v Speaker 2>I finally get this man to leave me alone? I

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<v Speaker 2>saw a psychic a few weeks ago, and she said

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<v Speaker 2>that i'd see him face to face again at some point,

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<v Speaker 2>but he needs to be gone by yesterday. Hope to

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<v Speaker 2>hear from y'all. Thanks for the laughs. Anonymous man of

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<v Speaker 2>the pod or mistake as Marie, Yes, mistakes. I'm gonna say,

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<v Speaker 2>do you have a brother? Do you have do you

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<v Speaker 2>have a man in your life who can contact him?

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<v Speaker 2>Contact him because sometimes men.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't hear you unless another man is talking. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>they can hear the non basics.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Yeah, I need you to get a man to

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<v Speaker 3>pretend to be your man and be like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 3>need you to meet me here. I need you to

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<v Speaker 3>meet me at this place and we need to talk

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<v Speaker 3>because you keep bothering my girl scare him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's a really good yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And then and then he's like, I need you to

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<v Speaker 3>really meet up and then have him meet to and

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<v Speaker 3>then just be there. Nobody ever meets up with him.

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<v Speaker 3>He's just sitting in front of looking dumb as you deserved. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>been wasting your time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I'm like, I don't know about the meeting

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<v Speaker 2>face to face, I say, or but you got me

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<v Speaker 2>in the end you said nobody shows up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Hey I work herebez. Yeah, I have the ones.

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<v Speaker 2>That's talking on Instagram and they show to a show.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a stalker or a fan? A fan like

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<v Speaker 1>a fan? Yeah, I have fans, but fans can be dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>They can shout out to Selena. No, you never know,

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<v Speaker 1>You just never You just never know. You never know.

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<v Speaker 3>And the terrible thing is that when somebody has your information,

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<v Speaker 3>you might have to move.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, that's why I used to have a website

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<v Speaker 2>and I put all my dates for the month on

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<v Speaker 2>the website. And I had a stalker and I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need people to know where I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>be before I'm going to be there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because that's scary. I don't have a bodyguard. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a NDA, you know. Anyway, I had a

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<v Speaker 1>good time with y'all today. This was me. I follow

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<v Speaker 1>U I P Yeah, well let's wrap this up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let the people know where they can.

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<v Speaker 2>Find you with following a Graham at Eva Evans Comedy

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<v Speaker 2>e v A E v A n S Comedy and

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<v Speaker 2>watch my special. I have a forty five minute special

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<v Speaker 2>in my bio. Watched that sh run that shit up

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<v Speaker 2>shared at and what else?

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<v Speaker 1>Run that ship up? Shared at? What else? I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok and Twitter. Well, I'm on there to the same

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<v Speaker 2>handle at Eva Evans Comedy. But I'm very active on.

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram, so on Instagram. Yeah, in terms of we're gonna yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. Okay, Well did we learn anything today? Friend, Sidney,

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<v Speaker 1>did you gave great advice? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I try to give I can't remember milestones in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't the ages. I'm like, was I twenty two

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<v Speaker 2>or or solil? Sidney was giving that advice and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, get a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>Myself. Yeah, especially who's in office, get a gun. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>need it. No, what was I gonna say? Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a show. We have a mess live at.

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<v Speaker 3>Union Hall February the twenty twenty seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn Yeah. I ain't gonna be in La damn no.

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<v Speaker 1>But they need you out there. Yes, please get tickets

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<v Speaker 1>to that. That's the link. Should be in the bio

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<v Speaker 1>by now. And keep giving us reviews. I love them.

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<v Speaker 1>They're so good.

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<v Speaker 3>The reviews are so funny on Spotify and Apple, So

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<v Speaker 3>keep doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and also before we go on to say, Lee,

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<v Speaker 2>send us the voicemail right, yeah, stories, it's the email

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<v Speaker 2>is messthepodcast at gmail dot com or call in at

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<v Speaker 2>seven six three two eight zero sixty five eight eight.

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<v Speaker 1>See you next week for a moment. Yeah, Welcome Back.

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<v Speaker 4>We Didn't Mess With Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is

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<v Speaker 4>a production by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 4>podcast created and hosted by Sidney Washington and Marie Foston.

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<v Speaker 2>Executive produced by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced

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