1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: Who were listening to math. 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: Wow, be ready friends, Yes, totally, we're here. Hi, guys, 3 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 2: what's going on? We got a mess, We got a 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 2: good episode for you today. 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: You do. Yeah, I'm here. 6 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 2: The voice that you're hearing in the background is a 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: very funny comedian who performs all over the I'm gonna 8 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: say world, not the fact, because you really you passport. 9 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: Is getting stamped. Stamp. That's a fat love that for you. 10 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: Thank you. It's very funny. Eva Evan. Hey, y'all, they 11 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: can see me, of course. Girl. We're live. Yeah, we're live. 12 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: It's hey. 13 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 3: The Instagram is out, are out, We're all live here 14 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 3: on Netflix. 15 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 2: Yes, hey y'all, I'm here. Yeah, I'm so excited. This 16 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: is cute. So we're just gonna talk about what our 17 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 2: mess was for the week, and then we jump. 18 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: For the week. Girl, let me see what's today. 19 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 2: I say you, Susande, No, you have your mess for 20 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 2: the don't talk about our mess for the week. 21 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 1: Ok okay, okay, gotcha good. I love it. Sydney. How 22 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: you feeling today? Pretty good? I'm chilling. I like your hat. 23 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 1: I fire. Yeah. 24 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 3: Our friend's birthday party was last week and there was 25 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 3: a cano shop like right by her house. And so 26 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 3: I went in and they had like thirty percent off 27 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 3: and it still was expensive. It still was expensive, right, Yeah, 28 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 3: so I don't I don't even really think I got 29 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 3: a deal. But yeah, I love the color. I was like, 30 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 3: I want color bad. 31 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 2: It's giving Zendea and challengers for the press run. Okay, 32 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: it looks like a tennis ball. 33 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: Yes, I see that. 34 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 3: I see that. I did watch the movie. But I 35 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 3: did look like. 36 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: She wore a hat. 37 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 2: No, I'm about the for the red carpet. She's wearing 38 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: like tennis adjacent fitts. She would like the heels with 39 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: the tennis ball. And oh, okay, you know. 40 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: Low roach, it is giving. 41 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 3: That's what you paid for the lawn, roach, And how 42 00:01:58,880 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 3: are you doing? 43 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: What's going on? I'm okay? Sis. I woke up this 44 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: morning and I didn't have any hot water. 45 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 2: No ten degrees outside felt like six, no hot water 46 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 2: into it. Yeah yeah, I was like, I'm not And 47 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 2: the water pressure was real low, so it wasn't even 48 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 2: like I could pretend to take a shower in the cold. 49 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: It was just no, you can't see no shower. I'd 50 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 2: rather go out funky And yeah, I got a baby white. 51 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 2: I'm doing baby bath. 52 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: I tried to. 53 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 2: I was like, well, maybe if I go to the gym, 54 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 2: if the gym has a shower, I'll use that. And 55 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: I was like, I can't tell if this pilate studio 56 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 2: lets people bathe there. I was like, I called them. 57 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 2: Nobody picked up. I said, I guess it wasn't meant 58 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 2: to be. I'm just gonna be funky for a couple 59 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 2: of hours. Yeah, my gym got a shower and us 60 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 2: on a girl. Oh damn, where's this gym you got? 61 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: Oh? Okay, okay. 62 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 2: From that conversation and you just started going to the 63 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 2: I'm going two weeks and I love it. 64 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: Oh, I love it. This is beautiful. Yes, love it. 65 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 2: Let's I want to get into my mess for the 66 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: week because it's a continuation of something that we talked about. 67 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: A few episodes ago. An episode ago. 68 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 2: So last time we had Caleb here, I was talking 69 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 2: about how I had two dudes that I had unblocked 70 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 2: and we were having a good time. One of the 71 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: guys has friends that listen to the podcast, and they 72 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 2: thought I was talking about one of these people, and 73 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 2: so they sent him the episode. A bunch of people 74 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 2: sent him the episode and Tom stamps Tom CODs and 75 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 2: they were like, have you heard this? 76 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: Are you listening to this episode? I think that's messy. 77 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's messy to hear me 78 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: on this podcast. 79 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 2: Doing my job and then going to a person that 80 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 2: you assume I'm talking about and being like, have you 81 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: heard her talking about you? I think that's mess and 82 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: not being messy. No, I'm being honest and funny. Yeah, 83 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 2: and messy. 84 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: No, it's your story to tell as long as you 85 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: was a name dropping. 86 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't say a single name the person. What 87 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 3: the message is? What you're telling your friends to make 88 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: them think that you need to be in the know? 89 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 3: Why would I? If I'm on a public platform, we 90 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 3: have an understanding. Your friends don't. So what is the misunderstanding? 91 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 3: You're not letting them know what we got going on? 92 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 3: The transparents. 93 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like his friends. Yeah. No, he was 94 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: like you I have, like you got like ten people 95 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: that I know? 96 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, your friends, this corning you could time stamp business 97 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 2: send us to him. 98 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, Hey friends, it's none of your damn business. Yeah, 99 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 1: only he having a good time or not? 100 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're messing up you're messing up the vobes and 101 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 3: you're not really contributing. 102 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: Uh to mess in a positive manner. 103 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 2: It's negative mess it is now when they run back 104 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: to the guy, that doesn't stop the guy from talking 105 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: to us, Like, well, he came straight to me to 106 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 2: be right, yeah, exactly ahead her mind. 107 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: He said, I listened. I didn't love it. 108 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 3: I said, oh, okay, new development development listened. 109 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: I didn't love it. 110 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,919 Speaker 2: I said, wow, I can't believe you listened to me 111 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: at work with people invasion of prophecy. But I guess 112 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna talk about him no more so that 113 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 2: these people that are, you know, spying, don't have anything 114 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: to report back. 115 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 3: But I mean, but it's I mean, it's mainly like 116 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 3: if you're not a single gal, because if you're a 117 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 3: single gal, it's like single gals should chatting if they want. 118 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: That's what we're doing. 119 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 2: I've been single this whole time. Clock that this. 120 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 1: With the team to do single the middle thing t 121 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: or I don't, I don't know. I'm putting all the fingers. 122 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: It's been with my whole hand. 123 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 2: Anyway, I think that that's messy. You know, we listen, 124 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 2: but we don't judge. No, no, they're judging. We listened, 125 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 2: and we judge, but we can found. Yeah, found share, 126 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 2: he listen, we judge, we don't share. 127 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 3: Oh you know it's messy sharing the pod to him 128 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 3: but not sharing it to everyone. 129 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: Everyone needs to be listening to you. H Are you 130 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: doing the work? 131 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 3: And the work is passing on the mess? Mess is 132 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 3: a contribution to the community. 133 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: What are you doing? Have you shared it with your mother, 134 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,359 Speaker 1: with her, with your congregation at the church, the church? 135 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 3: Have you sent it to your libel congressman? Tag them right, 136 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 3: let them know this episode. 137 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 1: It's crazy anyway, you know, I do what I can 138 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 1: for the community, and the community the community stabbed me 139 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: in the back, and so sad we are. 140 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 3: That's that's what happens when men are involved. I think, 141 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 3: oh yeah, I had a situation like that. 142 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: So when I didn't name drop anybody, I was talking 143 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 2: about somebody and he came and he hit me up like, oh, 144 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 2: I want to come and speak my piece next episode. 145 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, no one knows who you are, No one 146 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 2: cares exactly because he's like you know, celebrity comedians like 147 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 2: it went. 148 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: It got like a lot of freaking views. 149 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 2: Okay, like celebrities were commenting on us that he wanted 150 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 2: to get in on it. 151 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 3: No, I'm like, you're your shadows so corny. Yeah, I 152 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 3: mean I I when I was with a girlfriend, I mean, 153 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 3: people would tell her, hey, what's going on with y'all? 154 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 3: Because Sydney's talking on the said, this is not about y'all. 155 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 2: This is about and in some podcasts, right and then 156 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 2: sometimes like for material, we'll talk about something that happened 157 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 2: like h before this person, or I'm saying like our 158 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 2: life is our work. 159 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 3: I was fully being like, yeah, you know this happened 160 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 3: the other night, going on. 161 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: Currently left four pm. 162 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 3: I was giving timestamp that funny Okay, okay, okay, yeah, 163 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 3: yeah that's funny. 164 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 2: But it's like I'm a comedian, like sometimes obviously I'm 165 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 2: gonna exaggerate some things, add some things for the laughs, 166 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 2: but like, you can't take everything that I say to. 167 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 3: The large is the mic on. You can't take everything seriously, y'all? 168 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: What is going on all the time? 169 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 2: Me with your local politician, Baby, I'm not George Stops. 170 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with you. 171 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's because they be putting more pressure on us 172 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 3: then they president. Okay, let's talk about it, but it 173 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 3: also messes up the you know, it messes up my 174 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 3: creativity when you put your input on like what I 175 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 3: can and can't say because because because of conversations I've 176 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 3: had with past relationships, I'm like, you know what, y'all 177 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 3: not y'all not getting no stage time, no mo I'm 178 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 3: happy to talk about something else or past people because 179 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 3: I can talk about something else because you know, sometimes 180 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 3: I feel like people get in get involved or do 181 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 3: things in front of you because they're like, I want 182 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 3: you to put me in a bit, I want you 183 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 3: to I want to be I want to be involved, 184 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 3: and it's like I got this, and they will purposely 185 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 3: do something or or they'll be. 186 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: Like before you even really start getting into it with them, 187 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 2: they'll be like, don't put me. 188 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 1: In your skill and it's like my skin, don't put 189 00:08:59,679 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 1: me in there? 190 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 3: Like can we just can we just say when you 191 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 3: say skits to a comedian, that feels like a slur 192 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 3: because a lot of times we're not doing ever doing 193 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 3: a skit. 194 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: It's never we're not no, we're this is not vine. 195 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 1: I'm not. 196 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: I'm also like not an Instagram comic. Yeah, like a 197 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: stage stage this is crazy please stop talking to me. 198 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 1: Don't know the words. Don't talk about me on stage. 199 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 1: I won't. Also, don't give me nothing to talk about 200 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: on stage. There it is, don't be weird, don't be goosey, 201 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: don't be funny. It's mess, Sydney. What is what's your 202 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: mess for the week? 203 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 3: I mean last week was was uh interesting because I 204 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 3: did a podcast with Marie. We did Our Friends podcast 205 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 3: Decisions Decisions, and I thought that I could get on 206 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 3: a flight right after and that was that was my mess. 207 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought. 208 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 3: That I could book a podcast that was at noon 209 00:09:56,440 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 3: and then make it to a two fifty four at JFK. 210 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: I don't know why I didn't. 211 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 2: I don't know that at the beginning, didn't you changed 212 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 2: the flight from an earlier flight to a later flight. 213 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 3: It was seven am, and then I moved it to 214 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 3: and then I moved it to two fifty four. 215 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 1: I mean, essentially I could have made it. 216 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 3: If we're going back and forth, I'm telling them, I'm like, oh, 217 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 3: I got to get to the airport, which people there 218 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 3: was a discussion in the group chat, but Amandy was like, 219 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 3: oh no, you could take a car, and then. 220 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 1: We yeah, yeah, I would take a car. 221 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 3: I'm like, at at one pm in midtown, that's kind 222 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 3: of crazy. That was what was first said. And then 223 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 3: I'm not in a car. And then I got in 224 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 3: a car, and then I was stuck in the car. 225 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 3: And then I was like, oh, I can't take this car. 226 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 3: I'm never gonna make it. And then I was like, 227 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 3: take the train. Take the train because we're buying station. Yeah. 228 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: When I say take a train, I met the Long 229 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: Island Railroad. 230 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 3: But I have never when somebody say long Iron roller, 231 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 3: they say long Iron road, they don't see a train. 232 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 3: I was like, train, you penstation, the train is there. 233 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: I thought the train instead of Long Island Road. 234 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 3: So I'm on the E and when I tell you 235 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: every I think they added stopped. 236 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 1: On other line that had nothing to do. 237 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 3: And I'm sitting there and I'm sweating and I see 238 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 3: another girl with her suitcase. I was like, are you 239 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 3: late too, She's like, oh no, my flight's not until five. 240 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 3: I said, oh, I can't bet. And so when I 241 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 3: was on the air train, I was literally like crying. 242 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:32,839 Speaker 3: I was like I need to I need to get 243 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 3: to this spot, like this is very important. 244 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: I have a reservation I'm like trying to be thoughtful. 245 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: I was like, this is that? 246 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 3: And then when I was running, When I was running, 247 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 3: I said, hey, this is not your fight. You're not 248 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 3: You're not an athletic thoroughly. You don't have the breath, 249 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 3: you don't have the shoes. 250 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 1: I had on heels, like, oh my god. Run. 251 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 3: You ever see that one girl that's like dressed at 252 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 3: the airport and you're like, oh, what's what's she going? 253 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 3: I was at girl dressed in the airport, running for 254 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 3: my life, rest and stress. 255 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 1: And then I looked at the time. 256 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 3: I said, the door has closed, needy leaks, the door 257 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 3: has closed. And then and then one of those guys 258 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 3: in a BPP you need a ride, sir, I'm crying. 259 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 3: It's gone, it's done. Did you take the ride? 260 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: No, because it was it was over with. I missed. 261 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: The flight is gone. What time did you get to 262 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:24,679 Speaker 1: the gate? Oh? 263 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 3: I didn't even make it to the gate, baby, How 264 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 3: was I was halfway? My gate was so fucking far. 265 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 3: I said, Oh, the devil said let's play. And so 266 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,079 Speaker 3: as soon as I got off the air train, I said, 267 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 3: oh I have enough time. No, no, no, no, it 268 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 3: was gonna take me at least ten fifteen minutes to 269 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 3: get It was like B seventy two. 270 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, and we were in we were in B thirty. 271 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 2: Oh wow, thirty. 272 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 1: You have to yeah, yeah. I don't know why JFK. 273 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: I don't know why JFK does that. 274 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 2: I feel like anytime I fly it tafle, it's always 275 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 2: the last and you gotta go down some stairs and 276 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: up some stairs. Then it's the last game at the terminal. 277 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 2: Why what's why can I be B twelve will be four? 278 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 3: And you know the next mess is I booked another flight, 279 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 3: right book I booked another flight. I didn't even go 280 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 3: to the gate. I booked another flight. I said, well, 281 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 3: let me just get because the next flight is then 282 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 3: at Laguardy. I said, let me hurry up. 283 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: Do that. 284 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 3: Do you know if you miss your flight, they cancel 285 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 3: your returning flight. They cancel it. Oh yeah, they cancel it. Hey, 286 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 3: hey airlines, how does that? 287 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:30,439 Speaker 1: Wow? 288 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 3: That's insane. I'm still gonna get there. But they're like, 289 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 3: you should have called and like rebooked, but I was like, 290 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 3: I don't have time. So then when I called, huffing, puffing, crying, 291 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 3: you know, eyelashes falling off, they were like Oh, yeah, 292 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 3: you didn't make the fight. I said, Kelly, Kelly, is 293 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 3: it Kelly so I can report your ass? 294 00:13:54,920 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? Sorry? Did you get your money back? No? Oh no, 295 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: See that would have made me cry. Oh I was prying. 296 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 3: I was upset, I said, traveling, We're done, We're done. 297 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: Was it Delta? Yes, thank you? Oh Delta? That no scam? 298 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 2: Scam it hey, Sam? 299 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: Likely that was me for New Years. I missed my 300 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 1: flight to Jamaica. I was stressed. Oh that's right, because 301 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: you guys went to Jamaica, Yaman. 302 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 2: Yes, but ya, but I went to. 303 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: The gate and oh, yeah, I should have done that. 304 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: I've learned my lesson. Yeah, it let them work. It 305 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: don't work. 306 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 2: So you not making it to the gate. You didn't 307 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 2: get to the gate, so you just turned around and 308 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 2: went You booked another flight. 309 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: I was. 310 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 2: I was on on the fro Google flights and how 311 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 2: how long was the wait for the next flight? 312 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: Oh? 313 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 3: I had about an hour and a half to get 314 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 3: to LaGuardia. Yeah, you had time, and then but there 315 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 3: was traffic. So I was in traffic for about thirty 316 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 3: thirty minutes to get to LaGuardia. 317 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: And then I got they had to start again, all 318 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: over again. I'm not I'm not wearing heels to the airport. That. Yeah, 319 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to look like a bum every time. 320 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 2: Like crocs, but like you know, all little sweat crocs 321 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 2: like comfortable for when I used to get fluid out, 322 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 2: I used to wear heels. Okay, when you get fluid out, 323 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 2: you gotta wear heels cause you can't come to the airport. 324 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: Look, you just bring the heels in the carry on. 325 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: You have to wear them at the airport. 326 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 3: Now. 327 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: I used to wait them to like to the airport. Damn. 328 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: You know what. 329 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 3: I was always like the plus one of somebody's flute out. 330 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 3: Yeah I'm wearing I'm wearing the sneakers. Do you think 331 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 3: a fluid out with a friend, Yes, yeah, I'm the 332 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 3: friend to make sure that no, no fucking is happening. 333 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 3: I'm here to cock block. 334 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, see I ain't never invited no friends. You 335 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: got what you know, it ain't no fun if the 336 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: homies can't have that. Well, Sydney, you cock blocking. Nobody 337 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 1: was right. 338 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 3: Well no, the man or not having but my friends 339 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 3: friends were happy. Yeah, I'm getting I'm stepping off the 340 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 3: flight we got nineteen forty two I'm. 341 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: Taking the shot. I'm dropping it low. I mean, yeah 342 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: it was a. 343 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 2: Win, yes, But also he was like, when you're getting 344 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 2: flood out, you have like two days worth of clothes 345 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 2: or sometimes not even no carry on because you know 346 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 2: you're gonna take your shopping. So it's like just here 347 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 2: thinking at me shopping. I need to carry on to 348 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: bring the clothes back, we wind a suit case. 349 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 3: G on. 350 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 2: Oh this is my thing about the buying suitcase on 351 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 2: the trip. I have too much luggage in my house. 352 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 1: Okay, see yeah I don't need not one more away, 353 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 1: take it away, take. 354 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 2: The away away I needed. I needed to carry one stime. 355 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 2: I haven't getting flood out since I've turned thirty. 356 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: That was expiration date. Well no, this is all my 357 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: age getting flowed out. But I'm just like I'm tired. 358 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: Ooh you now you you can't. 359 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 3: You're coming on the pod for a mess with jobs, 360 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 3: but due doubt might be yours. Maybe I was old eva, 361 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 3: I was shaking either chicken, what title is chicken? 362 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 2: I loved the fight I used to get the five 363 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 2: getting fluid. I was fight flights and flewt out. 364 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: That's a good time. My twenties, my twenties is a 365 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: good time. Yeah, but but you're delivered now not. 366 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 2: Well, I mean delivered like I'm still doing nassage to 367 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:25,159 Speaker 2: one person. 368 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 1: Well. I was always like that. 369 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 2: I was always like my whole face was always like 370 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 2: one guy at a time, but like as soon as 371 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 2: he was going a. 372 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 1: New guy, like you know, two weeks later, like you 373 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. 374 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 2: So it was I was never like doing all three 375 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 2: somes or like having fucking maddenings at the time, like 376 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 2: never like never nothing like that, No trains, no noans ever. 377 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: Nah, I never had no three some. 378 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:49,199 Speaker 2: That's interesting, have you chicken head if you've never had 379 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:50,120 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 380 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 3: I feel like you're giving yourself this title. And it's like, 381 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 3: to me, like a burbage like arguing. 382 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 2: It is like, you know, like doing dumb she like 383 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 2: popping up at his job to fight him because he 384 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 2: like that, I I guess behaved. 385 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 3: You're like bird bag like bird yeah, like I'm bird yeah, 386 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 3: like I'm a parkee. 387 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 2: One time I pull up to a guy he was 388 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 2: at dinner with his No, it was brunch, Father's Day 389 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 2: brunch in the restaurant Father's Day brunch. 390 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 1: A man in front of the dad. 391 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 3: I don't know if you're a bird bage, but it 392 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 3: gives baddie. You should be on Baddie's East West. No, 393 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 3: but still behaving up to this day, girl, so please 394 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 3: walk through this. Yeah, you get to the brunch for what. 395 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 1: I still gotta scar my knuckle too from that. Why 396 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: why did you show up at the brunch to fight him? 397 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 1: I don't know if you can see this right here. 398 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if you can right there? Did you win? 399 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: Sydney said, that's why he came me back. He's not 400 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 1: gonna hit you in front of his girl A girl, No, 401 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 1: he isn't. He's not that. He's like a whore, but 402 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 1: not a woman beat a horror, but a nice guy. 403 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:02,159 Speaker 1: Morals morals, horror, horror. 404 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 2: No, because he had a girl called my phone, girl 405 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 2: called my phone, and my thing is like I don't 406 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 2: like when it comes to like, I don't fight the girl. 407 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 2: Like that's to me is like dumb bitch like you. Yeah, 408 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:14,919 Speaker 2: I never fought no girl. I've had girls try to 409 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:17,400 Speaker 2: fight me. I'm like, sorry, I'm not fighting you over him. 410 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 3: Can we make that a rule here on mess we 411 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 3: support all types of messiness. But yeah, fighting a woman 412 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 3: over a man, it's not even mess anymore. 413 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 2: The math never masked for me unless I was like 414 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: my best friend or like my sis, like somebody who 415 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 2: I fuck with. You know that'e my man, y'all was 416 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 2: doing some affair behind my back, like like I'm gonna 417 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 2: beat you on the front, like he was my girl, 418 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:38,160 Speaker 2: like my sist. 419 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like something like that. But 420 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: we do not condone fighting. 421 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 3: Not if you're gonna fight, fight your best friend because 422 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 3: she fucking your man. 423 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, like that, I. 424 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 2: Would fight a girl over because it's like I'm fighting 425 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 2: you because you betrayed me, bitch like, but like for 426 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 2: a girl who is fucking like, come on, you want 427 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 2: to He's a problem because if I ever play, if 428 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 2: I fight, you want have to fight the next girl, 429 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 2: the next girl. It's never ending because he's the problem. 430 00:19:58,800 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 1: The man. 431 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 2: He's a one who said that he loved me. He's 432 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 2: the one who you know what I'm saying, I'm fighting him. 433 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: Okay. 434 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 2: So she got through on my phone on Father's Day 435 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 2: or this is Furday weekend, okay, and I was just like, okay, 436 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 2: kind of I'm like not Father's Day, No, not. 437 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 1: Him on Father's Day. Oh okay, so this you took 438 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: the whole week a the whole weekend to really digest. Really, 439 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: she caught your phone. You got talked to the girl. Yeah, yeah, 440 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 1: we kissed me off. 441 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 2: His screenshots She was showing me screenshots of me and 442 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 2: his conversation. Oh she was like, oh yeah, he said 443 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 2: you was crazy. It was showing me screenshots of us arguing. 444 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 2: But he never he was like the leat shit that 445 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 2: he said. So it's just me going off like yeah, 446 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 2: niggas took my thing, and he's. 447 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 1: Just like he was. 448 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 2: He looked like you know the Sunday school teachert in 449 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 2: the conversation right, And I'm just a wild bitch, just 450 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 2: wildin I'm like, when did this happen? 451 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 1: We're here? 452 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 2: Was this? This is my twenties. This is like when 453 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 2: I went off for him, I stopped fighting, Like twenty 454 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 2: twenty three was like when I started fighting. 455 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: I've I've been waiting. Hold on twenty twenty three is. 456 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 3: Well, when I was twenty three, I was like, twenty 457 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 3: three was like so recent. 458 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was twenty three. I started I've been chilling 459 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 2: since then, so that since that time. Now I'm thirty three, 460 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 2: so like ten years ago, it's a minute, but okay, 461 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 2: throw back Thursday. Yes, so you get the text, you 462 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 2: see the screenshots, you speak to him. 463 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, oh, what you doing. 464 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 2: He's like, all I wants to come back to I'm 465 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 2: gonna go come back to Jerseys to my father. 466 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, where I lived in Jersey. 467 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he was like he had went away and 468 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 2: then he was coming back to Jersey to take his 469 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 2: father out on that Sunday. 470 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm like, when you. 471 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 2: Cooking, okays, my son were all going, oh, that's a 472 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:33,680 Speaker 2: nice restaurant. 473 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's not Oh you're gonna like that. Oh 474 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 1: that's nice, that's nice. If he didn't realize what was 475 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:42,639 Speaker 1: about to happen. 476 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 3: Just hearing you speak, I'm like, oh, she's going to 477 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 3: Michigan because like. 478 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:50,120 Speaker 1: What time is the reservation? Yeah. I'm like, she didn't 479 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 1: tell him that we was talking. I don't know, I 480 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: don't know. She ain't tell him aout what. 481 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 2: But she was also like, oh, if you if you're 482 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:55,679 Speaker 2: trying to see hm, I'm like, surey, I don't want 483 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:57,959 Speaker 2: to see nothing about you. Yeah, I've seen enough. I've 484 00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 2: seen his screenshots. That's what that's all I need to see. 485 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:00,679 Speaker 2: I need to see you. 486 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 1: I've seen it. 487 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that was and that sent me off. But 488 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 2: but yeah, that was the last time. And then you know, 489 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 2: and I told you in Jamaica, I showed you a 490 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 2: couple of bitches in Jamaica, but I was it. 491 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 3: There's there's coordinates in Jamaica, my hometown, whole park. 492 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: I was over, you know, like this tour is crazy. 493 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 1: Wait are you from Jamaica? Yes, girl? The story she 494 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: make it was like in a way Jamaican. 495 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 2: So my mother took me out there and I was 496 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 2: just a few months old. And then I came back 497 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 2: like when I was four, to the New States. But 498 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 2: I was always back and forth, always back and forth. 499 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 2: I have to do a citizenship, have a Jamaican license. 500 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 1: Let's go. You gonna need Jamaican bank account. You don't 501 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,919 Speaker 1: need that. What's going on here right now? So we 502 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 1: can go to Yeah, life is rock. I can come 503 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 1: with you. Yes, okay, girl, time, fantastic time. We had 504 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,640 Speaker 1: a time. But that's always tell people. 505 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,199 Speaker 2: You go to someone's country, go with someone, that's how 506 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,200 Speaker 2: you really get to Yeah. Well that's the best way 507 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,120 Speaker 2: I think to travel is to either go with somebody 508 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 2: who's from there or you hang out with people who 509 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:14,439 Speaker 2: live there. 510 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 511 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:16,439 Speaker 2: When you get there, you meet people who are that 512 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:17,919 Speaker 2: you feel like you trust, and you can leave the 513 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 2: resort because because I mean, I been to Jamaica three times, 514 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 2: and she told me she I felt like, this was 515 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 2: my first time in Jamaica and she went to this 516 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,680 Speaker 2: was her fourth time. But she can't go by the 517 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 2: trip advisor. No, you can't go about where the white 518 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 2: people tell you to go. 519 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:30,959 Speaker 1: I took them to the hood Nigga Beach and they 520 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 1: loved it. 521 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they were telling us because we were at 522 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 3: a all inclusive they were like, don't actually don't leave, 523 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 3: Uh the premises. 524 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:39,479 Speaker 1: What were you in? 525 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 2: Oh my Tigo Bay? Oh using Mantico Bay. Oh okay, 526 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 2: see I don't. I don't know my bed. 527 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like that city. Really, wait, please 528 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: explain to me. It's like this. 529 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 3: It's overly expensive. It's really americanized. It's just like it was. 530 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,199 Speaker 3: I mean, I didn't put my card out, but. 531 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: Yea, yeah it was. 532 00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I said, charge, you have a lot of rich 533 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 2: niggas over there. So but I like to go to Kingston. 534 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,879 Speaker 2: I like the rich niggas and Kingston. Kingston was a 535 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 2: nice Kingston was a vibe. We had a good time 536 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 2: against Kings. 537 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 3: But Eva, you know all your fighting mess and your 538 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 3: father's day mess. 539 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: But did you finish the story? So yeah, you get 540 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 1: to the brunch, you say, I'm with the Richardson party, 541 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 1: and then you see him in his good navy blue 542 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 1: easter suit and you go up to the. 543 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 2: Ta him and I smacked him up and then he 544 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,159 Speaker 2: took me outside, and then that's when I punched him 545 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 2: in his jaw, and that's why I got the scar rat. 546 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 2: And and then then the manager, the father was like, 547 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 2: what the hell? 548 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: What the hell the manager was? 549 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 2: I was calling I'm calling the police, and I left 550 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 2: and I went to my homegirl house and she cleaned 551 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 2: my hands. 552 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: So you didn't order any food though, because. 553 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:46,680 Speaker 3: It's like, after you you know, work up a sweat, 554 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 3: you know, fighting and whatnot, you're gonna need. 555 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: You know, some eggs, some eggs. 556 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 2: I could have gotten some. I should have gotten some food. 557 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 2: That was mess, junior. But what's the professional mess? 558 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: Now? What do you First of all, I was late 559 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 1: to this ship. 560 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 2: I was gonna late to this shay because of work 561 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 2: working foster care and I had an emergency with a 562 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:22,640 Speaker 2: nine month old baby boy. 563 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: But what what is the question that you're answering today? Blank? 564 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 2: Is mess what's mess working? Working while you're changing a 565 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 2: dream working period? 566 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 3: Is? 567 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: Working is messy? 568 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 2: But like when you're trying to juggle like a career, 569 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 2: like this is my job like a job, and then 570 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 2: a career. 571 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 1: Is a lot. 572 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,440 Speaker 2: What's the difference is for me, my job is just 573 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 2: paying my bills on to my career takes off. So 574 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 2: like I'm I'm working for the care but I'm not. 575 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 2: It's not my passion. I care about it, you know. 576 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,159 Speaker 2: I do like my job, make sure it's done correctly 577 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 2: so the children have some type of chance. 578 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,880 Speaker 1: But five o'clock, five o'clock, I don't give a fucking more. 579 00:25:58,280 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: You said fucking kids. 580 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 2: I I clocked out, and I don't want to hear 581 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,200 Speaker 2: about nobody kids. I don't care for these jokes. But 582 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:05,880 Speaker 2: after this point, but you know. 583 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 3: The and I understand you there, But that's what I 584 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 3: feel like the overall energy everywhere I go, where people 585 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:16,360 Speaker 3: are working, they don't care or they're just there to collect, 586 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 3: and it's like, baby, we need somebody who gives the 587 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 3: damn damn. 588 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 2: But it's like I don't, I don't care to the 589 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,880 Speaker 2: pointere I'm going to do overtime like they have over time, 590 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 2: saying no versus comedy. 591 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,119 Speaker 1: I kept on comedy twenty four to seven. 592 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I might work writing Joe's I wrote a joke 593 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 2: today that was I need to work out, Like, oh, 594 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 2: if AI was to take over foster care, how would 595 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 2: that look? 596 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 3: Where'd you Where'd you land on that? 597 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: That? 598 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like the I'm like robot for some one 599 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 2: that I'm like, I don't know what if I'm just 600 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 2: like brainstorming some ideas. I'm gonna have to smoke a 601 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 2: spliff and really get into that. But yeah, I love 602 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 2: the creative for us. But yeah, but like I'll work, 603 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 2: I'll work on comedy during foster care hours, but I'm 604 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 2: not doing foster care hours ship during commedy. I'm not 605 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,920 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, So like, yeah, that's a difference. 606 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 2: And also, you have like a job, job, job, you have. 607 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 1: To show up. 608 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 2: Like clearly in any field you can kind of half asked, 609 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 2: but there's certain jobs that you can't do that, Like 610 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 2: can you half asked as a pilot. 611 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: No pilot. 612 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 3: Police officers, even though they didn't do it, they have 613 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:16,640 Speaker 3: they had all the time. 614 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,359 Speaker 1: They really shouldn't. It's in the it's in the you 615 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: have the right to remain silent. I'm about to go 616 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: on break anything you say can it will be used 617 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: against you. Were about to get some donuts, like yeah, 618 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 1: they yes. 619 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 3: I mean the woman who was set on fire, the 620 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,639 Speaker 3: police was already in the Really, yes they were, they 621 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 3: were walking by, they were walking they knew. 622 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: They didn't a video. I didn't need to watch. I didn't. 623 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,120 Speaker 2: There certain things that I can't see. I just can't 624 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 2: see that one. 625 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I think as a surgeon, you shouldn't half asked. 626 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 1: But I don't know. I've seen enough, like doctors. 627 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 2: It's not enough bbls that they was half as that ass. 628 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, but somebody they have as they have half that ass. Honey. 629 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 3: Well you know, sometimes only people had enough money for 630 00:27:58,680 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 3: half the ass. 631 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 2: Some people TV's full price. So add DBLs in like 632 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 2: a motel holiday. Hey baby, your body is not a 633 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,920 Speaker 2: T shirt. It shouldn't be on sale, Like you gotta 634 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 2: pay for a price. 635 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: You have to research. I noticed because I got. 636 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 3: Like I got a hook up with my boobs and 637 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 3: like they're you know, they're they're they're cool. 638 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 1: But like I couldn't like they fine. 639 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 3: You know, there's nothing to be like I'm raving about, 640 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 3: but like at the time, they did what they needed 641 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,160 Speaker 3: to do because I was waitressing. But yeah, I didn't 642 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 3: pay all the way. I mean I paid yeah no, no, no, no, 643 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 3: don't do that. I did not klarna my dicks. I 644 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 3: you know, I paid you know, a little bit of 645 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 3: payment there, and then I had to back back, come back, 646 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 3: drop some more off and then uh, and then I 647 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 3: didn't like that job. So then I came back the 648 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 3: next year and I said, you know what, I'm gonna 649 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 3: pay it all upfront, so maybe y'all do a better job. 650 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 1: And they did. 651 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 2: So rank your boobs the first time you got them 652 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 2: done from one to ten. 653 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 1: I'm seven, Okay, yeah, Sven is good. 654 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 3: No, Well, because the thing is, it's like you spend 655 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 3: all this money, but then like I'm still doing the 656 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 3: ship that I was doing when I had like double 657 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 3: a titties. 658 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 1: Like no, no, no, if we don't. 659 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 3: Do it like it needs to, it needs to be 660 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 3: kind of life changing changing. I need life changing. Tatas 661 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 3: just a. 662 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 2: Bit was a cop, and then she got pregnant twice 663 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 2: and them titties came them cities a titty and now really, yeah. 664 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 1: Hey that's a lot. I'm not yeah kid, Yeah she breastfeed, Yeah, 665 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 1: both of them. Yeah, not worth it. It's for kids. 666 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 3: Not worth it. 667 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. So and then rank them after you got them done. 668 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: The second I'm gonna say eight and a half. Okay, 669 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: hal nine. 670 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 3: But the thing is, it's just like with plastic surgery, 671 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 3: you're never gonna be satisfied. You're gonna be having them 672 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 3: a little bit, and then you're gonna really start picking, 673 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 3: and then you're gonna. 674 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 1: Be like, but wait, it's not symmetrical. 675 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 3: And then you look in and you're like, well, did 676 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,760 Speaker 3: he have something good to work with? Because sometimes it's 677 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 3: just a mirror of what your what your chest was 678 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 3: already given. 679 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: So if it was lopsided, he not really. 680 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 3: If your nipples is weird, you had weird nipples to 681 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 3: be so now you're mad you just got larger, weirder nipples. 682 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, but when when you get your boobs done, do 683 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 1: they take the nipples off? 684 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 3: No, they some they do a little incision, and so 685 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 3: it looked like a little door, like it's black and 686 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 3: then it's eleven, and then they push it in because 687 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 3: it's you know. 688 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 2: So my mother for cancer patients, they had to take 689 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 2: my mother had to get her nipples removed because cancer 690 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 2: bring it down. 691 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 3: I'm not talking about friend, we are talking about talking 692 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 3: about We talked about fluid out and there you bringing around. 693 00:30:56,240 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's there. That was Ye. 694 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 2: You're right, you're right, you're right, you're right. No, but 695 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 2: I went until after my kids to get my tites done. 696 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 2: I don't want to get them done and then they 697 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 2: suck them dry. I gotta get them done again. 698 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: Why not do the king? My kid's gonna be greedy? 699 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 3: How you you greedy? The milk will have curry. 700 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: I'm guess, I'm I'm I love to eat. 701 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 2: Oh, I know the kids gonna be greedy. People have 702 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 2: some dense babies, some heavy baby. 703 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: But I already know what I know. 704 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 3: The listeners are like, what what's it working with right now? 705 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 3: I mean like, hey, not that kind of pop. 706 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: But also also I got all. 707 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 2: Of my T shirts. I mean not girl was rushing 708 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 2: when I was coming here was rushing. 709 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 1: Wait, so even how long have you been working? Like 710 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 1: how many? How long have like the no no in general. 711 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 712 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 2: I got my first job Dunkle Donut when I was 713 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 2: fourteen fourteen, Yes, I don't even know that year old 714 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 2: working papers with six. 715 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 1: No is it six? Yeah? Well in New York state? Yeah, 716 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 1: maybe it was sixteen nine. Now I had a job. 717 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 1: I had a job at fourteen. 718 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 2: All my stepfather he had a paving company, a driveway company, 719 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 2: and I used to do like little clerical like his 720 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 2: appointment book and like, oh, you have a two o'clock estimate. 721 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 1: That's what I was doing at fourteen. 722 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 2: And then sixteen I went to Duncans Donuts that was 723 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 2: short lived, and I went to the Walgreens. Wow, okay, 724 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 2: so Duncans to Walgreens to then what and after Walgreens? 725 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 1: Girl has so many jobs because I went to the 726 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 1: Walgreens and Hollis Queens. That was a nightmare. Damn sis 727 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: any like Walgreens tea like girl. 728 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 2: First of all, the al right, so this is the 729 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 2: hollst in Hollist, I mean the Walgreens of Hollist And 730 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 2: the manager at the time was like really into me 731 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 2: and I was not into him, and he like at 732 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 2: sixteen yes, mm hmm, nasty, nasty Walgreens. 733 00:32:55,880 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 3: You stand beside that, I'm springs in the photo section. Well, 734 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 3: this episode is sponsored by Walgreens right now. 735 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 2: Because wing wasn't sixteen because walkmans, I have no it 736 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 2: was dunkin Donuts, So maybe I was like seventeen eighteen 737 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 2: at that time. 738 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 1: I see you chang. 739 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm kind of thing because girl, I don't remember 740 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 2: the timelines really fourteen first it was my stepfather's you 741 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 2: own some Walgreens stock? 742 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you shifteen, Sydney. 743 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 2: What was your first job because let me see sixteen, 744 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 2: when is the working papers? 745 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: Girls? 746 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 2: People remember the whole their whole life, like back to back, 747 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 2: like I have to really like, look, the first job 748 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 2: I ever had, I worked as a camp counselor at 749 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 2: the y m c. A. Oh that's the job the 750 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 2: summertime with the three and four year olds. 751 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 1: I almost drowned at that job. Oh my God, slapped 752 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 1: at me the whole time. We're so glad you're here 753 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: with us. That's crazy. Yeah, my next camp counselor job, 754 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,520 Speaker 1: y'all remember like every age, like, what the hell was 755 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: going on? I'm like, I don't. 756 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 2: I could like ballpark, I know that's first, and then 757 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 2: I don't you know get My first job was babysitting. Okay, 758 00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 2: I babysat my neighbor's son, and my neighbor worked for 759 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 2: Rock Nation and so ye. 760 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 1: House free styling. I would see Dame Dash. 761 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 3: I was you know, I saw a meal a couple 762 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 3: of times, and uh, you know, because allegedly they were 763 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,520 Speaker 3: they were dating, but he was mad cool because he 764 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 3: would like leave the cash. He's like, I'm gonna order 765 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 3: Papa John's for you. You were you were watching Dame 766 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 3: Dash's kids. 767 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no no. 768 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 3: The guy my neighbor worked for Rock Rockefeller and uh 769 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 3: was friends with Dame Dash. 770 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 1: So I would work for I would like watch him 771 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: and it. 772 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,120 Speaker 3: Was so easy because you know we after we eat 773 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,920 Speaker 3: Papa John, he ready to go to sleep, and I'm like, 774 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 3: and you know, I'm sleepy too, so I was like, 775 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 3: can I go to sleep? So I don't know if 776 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 3: I was really watched. I think I got paid to 777 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,360 Speaker 3: just make sure he was breathing. 778 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then the next. 779 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 3: Job I worked at like some after school. 780 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: Stunt where it was for like kids in the neighborhood. 781 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, so like like head Start something like that, something 782 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:04,399 Speaker 3: like that. 783 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,439 Speaker 1: Boys and girls something like that. 784 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 3: But you know the thing about working at a young age, 785 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 3: I think you learn discipline, but then you get tired 786 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 3: quickly because you're like, I've been working for ever, so 787 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 3: sixteen years old dealing with you know, people be like 788 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 3: you gotta be on time, you gotta care blah blah. 789 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 1: Why am I not rich yet? Yes? 790 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 2: Starting at and why every time they talk about social 791 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,320 Speaker 2: security going away, I'll be like, whoa, I've been putting 792 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 2: in since this forever son, so I don't know. 793 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 1: At least run me my coins. That's it. I'll take 794 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:40,719 Speaker 1: it all at one time. 795 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 2: But yeah, so I was definitely like seventeen or eighteen 796 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 2: around the time you still think about this age. I'm 797 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 2: trying to get the timeline right. I'ments like my life 798 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 2: is like a blur. You need to be learning some 799 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:51,360 Speaker 2: like it's just like. 800 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 3: What was the what was the like pivotal job that 801 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,800 Speaker 3: you were like, this is too messy, I have to 802 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,600 Speaker 3: get out. When I worked at you know those homes 803 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:04,760 Speaker 3: for like adult like adults with this like we don't 804 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 3: know those homes? No, No, it was the epilepsy foundation 805 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:10,440 Speaker 3: of Long Island. 806 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,680 Speaker 1: Girl. What I'm trying to figure out what. 807 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 3: I had jobs foster care, homeless shelter, Like, why do 808 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 3: you work in these serious jobs because you have to 809 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 3: be unseerious and I'm very unserious, but I usually know 810 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 3: somebody who worked there. Oh okay, okay, So like my 811 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,719 Speaker 3: cousin worked at the Flepsy Foundation of Long Island. I'm like, oh, 812 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 3: give me a job. You get me a job, take anything. 813 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 3: Epilepsy Foundation. You guys can't turn the lights. 814 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 1: On or off. 815 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like, oh the whole we're not laughing 816 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 3: at it now, we're not. It's just you laughing with 817 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,279 Speaker 3: you friends. I'm confused, like what hu. 818 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 2: So it's not like these families they can't like they 819 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 2: need twenty four hour care for their kids and they 820 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 2: can't manage it. So it's like a home, because a 821 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,280 Speaker 2: nurse a home for like the adults who have it. 822 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 2: So they're like grown ass people, but with the mind 823 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 2: of like they're like severely laid. They have epilepsy, so 824 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:07,920 Speaker 2: they have seizures and stuff like that. I was at 825 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 2: that house, So what did you do there? I was 826 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,400 Speaker 2: like a day I take them out to Like you 827 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 2: ever look into a restaurant you see like a group 828 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 2: of remember back in the day used to se like 829 00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,280 Speaker 2: a group of special needs adults, like out and about 830 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 2: like the mall occasionally see it. Yeah, so that I 831 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,960 Speaker 2: was one of those people. Took them out you yes, grow. 832 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,840 Speaker 1: You with the bodies. 833 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 3: When you were like the table with all the niggas 834 00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 3: and helmets. 835 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:41,919 Speaker 1: So how you missing up? I used to have people 836 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,400 Speaker 1: show up that don't have epilepsy and they would eat 837 00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,840 Speaker 1: red lobster with y'all. Yes, miss. 838 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 3: Biscus, that's very much worth it, worth it. But I mean, 839 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 3: and what was you wearing? Because I just feel like 840 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:56,919 Speaker 3: that you don't go with job? 841 00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 1: Did you tone it down? 842 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,279 Speaker 2: Not really? I thought homo shelters, I turned down. We 843 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,240 Speaker 2: have to have a uniform if you were. 844 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:07,960 Speaker 3: Fashion over with the cutouts with the last day came 845 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 3: in and Gucci. 846 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 2: I still Caucci. You have to like you're poor yesterday, 847 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,799 Speaker 2: I'm but you gota come to You've been. 848 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:22,359 Speaker 1: Working since she was fourteen. I should have Gucci by now. 849 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,279 Speaker 1: It's okay. We don't have to get what's the what's 850 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 1: the worst thing about having a job? Can we talk 851 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 1: about this? What's the worst? 852 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:29,759 Speaker 2: The worst thing about having a job is that when 853 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 2: I have ship going on and it's like I gotta 854 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:35,279 Speaker 2: work and vacation days. I hate vacation. It's like I 855 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 2: don't want to have to like. How many vacation days 856 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 2: I have left? Okay, I could use five them to 857 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:40,719 Speaker 2: go here if I don't want. I don't like that. 858 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: How many vacation days does a job have? 859 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 2: Well, my foster care job, we accumulate, so I have three, 860 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 2: and I used one for Jamaica, so now I have 861 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 2: two left. You have three vacation days for. 862 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 1: The whole sorry weeks? Oh? I use one one week. 863 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 1: It's a whole year, just three weeks. 864 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,399 Speaker 2: That's crazy. My whole year is occasion, you feel me. 865 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 2: That's why I missed those days. You what about teachers? 866 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,399 Speaker 2: Teachers get the sellers off. I mean they don't get 867 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 2: paid for some of them. 868 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,120 Speaker 1: They don't get paid really for the year. Yeah, exactly, 869 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 1: Were you a teacher? No? Hell? 870 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 3: Now? 871 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:19,919 Speaker 1: Okay? How you saying hell? Everything? His son? 872 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 2: Oh, I used to be a babysit the tool care 873 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 2: dot com. You know, I was word of mouth, but 874 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:27,880 Speaker 2: went up to care dot com. 875 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,040 Speaker 1: Is mouth dot com? 876 00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 4: Okay, wait now that sounds like time raising my mouth 877 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:35,520 Speaker 4: mouth dot com. 878 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 3: Did you ever have a father trying to whoa Okay, no, 879 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,239 Speaker 3: I wasn't that type of girly that like you. Yeah, No, 880 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 3: I like I I'm cute now. But when I'm like 881 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 3: coming up, do you, people were looking at me and 882 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 3: they were like, oh yeah, like they like my I 883 00:39:55,640 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 3: was called nice a lot, which is griggering right now 884 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:01,960 Speaker 3: because I'm like, I don't want to hear nice. 885 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 1: She's so nice, she's nice, sweet, she's nice. 886 00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 3: They're walking all around like they don't want to look 887 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 3: you directly in the eyes, like, yeah, she's nice. 888 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 1: Ice, Yeah, nicest. Nicest can be an insult. I don't 889 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,120 Speaker 1: want to hear it, especially say oh you're a nice guy. 890 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:23,839 Speaker 2: No, no, no, you ever ask your friends to see 891 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 2: a picture of somebody that they're talking to. Oh my god, 892 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,799 Speaker 2: I could describe them and they be like, well, I 893 00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 2: mean he's nice. 894 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,319 Speaker 3: I don't want it because it's like, get some more 895 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,479 Speaker 3: descriptive word. Yeah, I think you can do it. Yeah, 896 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 3: get the source if you need to. 897 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: He's right, he's sweet, he's friendly. 898 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,040 Speaker 2: How would the guy I'm talking to now I would say, 899 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,759 Speaker 2: like he he feels like like a I don't want 900 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 2: to say, well. 901 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:47,799 Speaker 1: It's given poetry. What you about him. 902 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 2: I want to feel like like he feels safe, and 903 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:51,400 Speaker 2: I don't mean not in a bad word, but like 904 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,239 Speaker 2: because safe to me, like like no, I feel like 905 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,720 Speaker 2: I don't have to pretend with him, Like I feel 906 00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,719 Speaker 2: like very confident around him, like a safe. 907 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,280 Speaker 1: Space type ship. It feels like it feels like a nice, 908 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,439 Speaker 1: warm home type ship when you found home. 909 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 3: I feel like you feel that he feels this is 910 00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 3: a less exclusive right now. He feels a little homes 911 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 3: in a situation that feels like home. Oh and you've 912 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 3: worked in a homeless shelter before, you see how the 913 00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:19,120 Speaker 3: stuf goes. 914 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, man, it feels nice and cozy. Okay, I like this. 915 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 1: Don't say nothing. His friends might repeat it. 916 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,400 Speaker 3: Listen, she gave me a lot of on the forehead, 917 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 3: and we appreciate that because he gave you four head kisses, like. 918 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:41,320 Speaker 1: We're happy for you. I'm happy to girl. Okay, I'm sorry. 919 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 2: I was just gonna say I think that every job 920 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,920 Speaker 2: I've ever had, with the exception of like recent ones, now, 921 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 2: every job I've ever had, I've been fired from girl 922 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,719 Speaker 2: well bartend and I was fired from a lot I 923 00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:52,359 Speaker 2: was I. 924 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 1: Was fired from bartending to Zod because I tried. 925 00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 2: Customer was like yelling at me and I tried to jump. 926 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:00,759 Speaker 1: Across the bar to get him. 927 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,200 Speaker 2: Well you should, because it's like, I'm not coming in. 928 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 2: I have a show tonight. 929 00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,799 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, hat when you put you first, yeah, they're like, oh, 930 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 3: well you need to cover your shift. 931 00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 1: I can't do that. 932 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:13,799 Speaker 2: But it came a blast minute, like I don't know 933 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,359 Speaker 2: what you want me to tell you. 934 00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 1: Oh, Sydney. Remember when I had that job bartending in 935 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:21,240 Speaker 1: Crown Heights and I kept taking weekends off to do stuff. 936 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 1: Was it Dean Street? 937 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, it was oh damn. I 938 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:27,520 Speaker 2: don't remember the name of the place now, but it 939 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 2: was I got fired. Well, I got fired from that 940 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 2: too because I left with all the money in the register. 941 00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 942 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: I back and I was like, oh my god, I 943 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,720 Speaker 1: made so much money today and they were like where 944 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:40,080 Speaker 1: is the money? 945 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh snap, gotta come back. So 946 00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 2: I did get fired from that job by and now 947 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 2: I live up the street from that, around the corner 948 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,240 Speaker 2: from that, and every time I passed it, I'm like, that's. 949 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 3: Why shut down D's favorite over here? 950 00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,040 Speaker 2: But uh no, it was that we went to the 951 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,479 Speaker 2: empty We went to the v A maze. I took 952 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,359 Speaker 2: off of that. I had a birthday party. I took 953 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 2: off of that. And then the next time I showed up, 954 00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 2: there was another bartender behind the bar and I was like. 955 00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:11,040 Speaker 1: What's happening here? 956 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,839 Speaker 2: Training today? And they said, no, you don't work here. 957 00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,440 Speaker 2: That's how I breakup with it. I don't even tell 958 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,080 Speaker 2: them they we work on the shows, my husand. 959 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 1: What's happening here? Wait? Hold on, wait, there's no crossover. 960 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 2: You said, yeah, there's no. I'm not fucking with you 961 00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:29,839 Speaker 2: no more. Okay, you just moved on. 962 00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,879 Speaker 3: But I think that's mess about jobs that they'll make 963 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 3: you train somebody that's take their place. 964 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 1: It's it's so manipulated. But I like that, Yeah I should, 965 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,560 Speaker 1: like I should, we should train them, okay, but but 966 00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:46,960 Speaker 1: I do feel like it's like. 967 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:48,759 Speaker 3: I know I'm about to get fired, and now you 968 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:49,759 Speaker 3: got me training this girl. 969 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 1: You know I'm gonna train her bad, right, Like I'm gonna. 970 00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 3: Tell her, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, just skim a little 971 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:55,040 Speaker 3: bit off the hope. 972 00:43:55,239 --> 00:44:00,520 Speaker 1: You don't need you don't need to just rinse the glass. 973 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:02,440 Speaker 1: The liquor will kill the Germans. 974 00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 3: Tell the customers this is not really grey grooves. Just 975 00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 3: let them know, just be honest. They like that when 976 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 3: you're transparent. But that would that would happen. That would 977 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 3: happen a lot, like working at bars. They'll just make 978 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 3: sure you'll see somebody who you're like that person kind 979 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:16,920 Speaker 3: of looked like me. 980 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:19,839 Speaker 1: If I was white, what's up? Like, what's going on? 981 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,719 Speaker 1: She got mad? She's wearing the same Steve Man's shoes. 982 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:23,520 Speaker 1: I don't trust it. 983 00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:25,720 Speaker 3: And they'll be like, no, no, no, Like if I 984 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 3: was white, white, white Sydney, Washington, I know you, I 985 00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:30,239 Speaker 3: see you out there. 986 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,399 Speaker 1: I don't know what white Marie would look like. 987 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 2: White even sounds crazy, hight even sounds weaver sounds we 988 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 2: sounds wild. 989 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,359 Speaker 1: Weav sounds wild. 990 00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:51,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd Russian even making Russian ev Russian weaver. It 991 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 2: sounds is a terrorist is as terrorized communities? I'm screaming from. 992 00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 3: Was there any job that like you had, Like it's 993 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 3: like some good times you have with coworkers and then 994 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,400 Speaker 3: bad times you have with coworker, because I feel like 995 00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:10,239 Speaker 3: that's mess like meshing, like becoming friends with coworker like 996 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:11,120 Speaker 3: real friends. 997 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:12,279 Speaker 1: So in my first job out of. 998 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 2: College, I was at showtime for three years I mean 999 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 2: some good friends the chat. Yeah, I was advertising coordinator 1000 00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:19,320 Speaker 2: for three years out of college. 1001 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:20,800 Speaker 1: That was that. 1002 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 2: I made some good friends that yeah, I was invited 1003 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 2: today weddings and shit like that. 1004 00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,840 Speaker 1: Oh and I was good. Now, when you go to 1005 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 1: a coworker's wedding, are we getting drunk? Yeah? Yeah, well yeah, 1006 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 1: we definitely of the class. 1007 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,200 Speaker 2: Now with the boss is there, it depends like are 1008 00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 2: there supervisors and stuff there or is it just our level. 1009 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,480 Speaker 1: If it's just our level'm getting lit. It's your level. 1010 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 1: And then one above I'm uncomfortable with to one above 1011 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:44,399 Speaker 1: seeing me like that. 1012 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 3: No but wait, no, no, no, see this is where that 1013 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,839 Speaker 3: line is because if we're at a wedding, this don't 1014 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,200 Speaker 3: have none to do with the job. 1015 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 1: It's just people who I work with. 1016 00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,360 Speaker 3: Just so if I happened to get lit, bust my 1017 00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:57,600 Speaker 3: ass and act the fool. 1018 00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 1: This was not on grounds with the job. But if 1019 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:05,320 Speaker 1: we're at if we had a holiday party that I 1020 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:05,839 Speaker 1: have one. 1021 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:13,400 Speaker 2: Two max max, okay, three three three three three is 1022 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,520 Speaker 2: the old z. I'm gonna start feeling lusty if I 1023 00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:16,759 Speaker 2: hear that asked. 1024 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:20,279 Speaker 1: Wait, what you drinking at a holiday party? Tequila? No, 1025 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:21,319 Speaker 1: you don't want your job. 1026 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:26,560 Speaker 3: You want to drink white wine? You keep it, you 1027 00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,880 Speaker 3: weave you you have to have a son there and 1028 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 3: sit down. 1029 00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 1: No, I need it. I mean yeah, I would drink 1030 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,360 Speaker 1: it's like a margarita or something. But yeah, or whatever, 1031 00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 1: the like holiday cocktail is at the bar. I'll do that. 1032 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 3: The coworker, that's like, let's take shots. They actually want 1033 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:46,760 Speaker 3: something crazy to happen. 1034 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:48,239 Speaker 1: That's them. They are. 1035 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,799 Speaker 3: Once they hand you that dark liquor. They don't really 1036 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,319 Speaker 3: they don't really like penny of that. I don't do 1037 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,799 Speaker 3: any I don't think you should be drinking shots at 1038 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:56,640 Speaker 3: a work function. 1039 00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little crazy. I have to do it. 1040 00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 1: They do it. You can a carcail. You said it. 1041 00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:03,440 Speaker 1: You hear that on mess. 1042 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,120 Speaker 3: I see you doing shots at the bar with your supervisor. Now, 1043 00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:08,840 Speaker 3: you must not want your job that bad. At the 1044 00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:18,320 Speaker 3: bar with your boss. 1045 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 1: You Oh, no, other than the sounds kind of lit. 1046 00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:20,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, but if your boss is making you drink, 1047 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:24,040 Speaker 3: you take the shot, spill it out, don't drink your shoulder. 1048 00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,319 Speaker 3: You put it, you put it, you put it in 1049 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 3: another cup, you pass it to someone, don't do it. 1050 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,359 Speaker 1: Take a sip. You asked one ice c We put 1051 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 1: it in a big cup. I remember. 1052 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:35,520 Speaker 3: I remember we had like a we would do like 1053 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,960 Speaker 3: monthly or like every quarter, like a like meeting with 1054 00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,160 Speaker 3: everybody at the job, and then we go to a 1055 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,879 Speaker 3: bar and we'll have drinks. I got so messed up 1056 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 3: with my manager. I mean we we was doing pickleback shot. 1057 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:52,239 Speaker 1: Imagine it was definitely white. 1058 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:57,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, so asked or whatever, but we we. 1059 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 1: White. 1060 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:06,680 Speaker 3: Mother right, we can get hold up at the James 1061 00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 3: Hotel and me and him we stumble out or whatever, 1062 00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:13,280 Speaker 3: and people knew that we was like back, we stumble out. 1063 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:19,360 Speaker 3: We go to McDonald's, order like sixty dollars work McDonalds. 1064 00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 2: Sydney, Please tell us what is sixty dollars With. 1065 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 3: McDonald We get in quarter pounders with cheese, We getting nuggets. 1066 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,160 Speaker 3: We're gonna we get in oh, you know, I filet fish. 1067 00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,520 Speaker 3: I'm always gonna do it. What you order fish, filet, 1068 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 3: I'm getting that. 1069 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 2: But how do we hit the sixty dollars fries? 1070 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 1: All of that? My time square McDonald's cause I feel 1071 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:40,920 Speaker 1: like they know this. 1072 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,239 Speaker 2: Was in This was on Canal Street. This is on 1073 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,839 Speaker 2: Conow Street and McDonald's is still there. This is where 1074 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 2: it got messy. When it was time to close out, 1075 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 2: like in pay, I'm like. 1076 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 3: You the man, absolutely, he said, but we we we. 1077 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,400 Speaker 1: This is we're not at work. So what does that 1078 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 1: mean that she left that work? He left the penis. 1079 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 3: Understand that we're not at work. You left the venis 1080 00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 3: at the Yeah. 1081 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:09,360 Speaker 1: I don't like. 1082 00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 2: I don't understand men who like because even my gay friends, 1083 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 2: like gay male friends, I never reached my wallet with 1084 00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:15,520 Speaker 2: them and they're not trying to fuck me. So I 1085 00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:17,880 Speaker 2: don't understand a man who is like if a straight 1086 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,319 Speaker 2: man just like we were splitting, like are you kidding me? 1087 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,840 Speaker 1: But also like what are we talking about? Are we splitting? 1088 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 1: It sounds like he didn't want to pay at all. 1089 00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,759 Speaker 3: Word he was looking around like because we were drunk 1090 00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,000 Speaker 3: and I was so he wanted to be on you. 1091 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,120 Speaker 1: He's I was like, wait no, no, we both walked 1092 00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:37,240 Speaker 1: to the right. Boss. Yeah, this is a white pickleback boss. 1093 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,359 Speaker 1: I think I think what it was this is he's like, 1094 00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:39,880 Speaker 1: I know you. 1095 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:44,600 Speaker 3: Not you not bringing in everything? You taking some stuff 1096 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,279 Speaker 3: off the top, like use that money for good. Yeah, 1097 00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,560 Speaker 3: if all of our McDonald if you're not paying for anything, 1098 00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,920 Speaker 3: that means he trained somebody to also not pay for everything, 1099 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,200 Speaker 3: like okay, so that means he's not raising right his 1100 00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:02,480 Speaker 3: extra coin? Right. You guys were asked so many good questions. 1101 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:05,360 Speaker 3: I wish I were there when it was happening, so 1102 00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:12,319 Speaker 3: I definitely swiped my car. I would have stopped, or 1103 00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,200 Speaker 3: I would have been like, let's just pay for our 1104 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:18,040 Speaker 3: own food. Even even the even the girl at the 1105 00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 3: register was looking like she shook her head. I can't 1106 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,160 Speaker 3: believe this went down. It was almost like I did 1107 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,879 Speaker 3: an invisible rock, paper scissors and loss. Yeah, that's why 1108 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:29,520 Speaker 3: you was playing with yourself. 1109 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 1: Often. Yeah. Ended, And will. 1110 00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:42,960 Speaker 3: Do you ever like, uh like have issues with Have 1111 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,360 Speaker 3: you ever had an issue with a coworker outside of 1112 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:46,719 Speaker 3: work and then brought it to work. 1113 00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:51,160 Speaker 2: That's a good question. Well, my foster care job, it 1114 00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:52,759 Speaker 2: was a girl who was working with me. I just 1115 00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:54,279 Speaker 2: didn't I didn't think this was going to go to 1116 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,799 Speaker 2: this job. Yeah, okay, it was one girl. She was 1117 00:50:56,800 --> 00:51:00,480 Speaker 2: on the Queen's side, but she was always in Brooklyn's business. Yeah, 1118 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,759 Speaker 2: like this is not like this is my side of 1119 00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:04,360 Speaker 2: Atlantic Avenue, my side of London. 1120 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,480 Speaker 1: Minds your business? Yeah, Like she would just pop up 1121 00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,000 Speaker 1: in zoom meetings that I'm like, how did you get 1122 00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 1: the link? Like weird old the hand. 1123 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,160 Speaker 2: We're on the same level, Like you're not a supervisor 1124 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:15,960 Speaker 2: to come watch me? Like what are you doing? So 1125 00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 2: in real life I really didn't want to smack the 1126 00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:19,759 Speaker 2: ship out of it. I'm like, you know what, but 1127 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:21,280 Speaker 2: real life problem? 1128 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 1: What job? Sorry? 1129 00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:24,640 Speaker 2: Why are you trying to think of this? What job 1130 00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:26,799 Speaker 2: were you working during the pandemic? Because I know there 1131 00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 2: was some. 1132 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:33,960 Speaker 1: Zoom ship shipped what shipped the food delivery for Target? Oh? 1133 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:38,000 Speaker 1: Oh shipped? Yeah, I don't know. I'm saying it, but 1134 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:39,799 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. Yeah, no, no idea. 1135 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,560 Speaker 1: I didn't even know what delivery for target. 1136 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:44,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, I shu was bumping during the pandemic. No 1137 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:45,360 Speaker 2: one wanted to leave the house. 1138 00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,120 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, so you were, so you were stacking con 1139 00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:51,520 Speaker 1: I was stacking corn. I bought a nice little a Nissan. 1140 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:55,839 Speaker 2: You bought a car with shipped it shipped still available, Yeah, 1141 00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 2: it's not in the same as a man's if people 1142 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:06,080 Speaker 2: go to themselves. Now for sure people still do it, 1143 00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:07,719 Speaker 2: But I was. I bought a nice little in the 1144 00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:08,560 Speaker 2: car for nine grand. 1145 00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:10,919 Speaker 1: You made from much money? 1146 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it was at the peak when no one 1147 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,200 Speaker 2: was leaving their house. Everyone's scared. I'm like, I'll get 1148 00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:16,600 Speaker 2: your eggs. 1149 00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,479 Speaker 1: What up? Like, well, let's bring it back. 1150 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 2: Let's like close your eyes and envision, you know, lockdown. 1151 00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 2: They were letting people in a few customers at a time. 1152 00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:31,360 Speaker 1: To wait online outside or six feet away from somebody. 1153 00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:35,000 Speaker 1: Remember that, And that's when I was making Queen. Yeah, 1154 00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:37,480 Speaker 1: I do miss a little. 1155 00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:40,840 Speaker 2: When I used to drop off the grocery like to 1156 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:42,120 Speaker 2: like and still more fing. 1157 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 1: Like all it's crazy in there. 1158 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,560 Speaker 2: You used to get like germs all over this, all 1159 00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:49,240 Speaker 2: over the stay white people. 1160 00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:52,719 Speaker 1: Did you have a mask on their gloves and stuff? Okay? 1161 00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 1: All that? Yeah, I remember I used to get groceries 1162 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:58,239 Speaker 1: and I I would wipe my stuff down with and 1163 00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,440 Speaker 1: now I just how the ship in the lick the 1164 00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:01,680 Speaker 1: milk before I put it in. 1165 00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,280 Speaker 3: It's good that you were showing up as like, because 1166 00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:09,040 Speaker 3: when women do things, you just feel like they don't 1167 00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:10,400 Speaker 3: They're they're. 1168 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 1: Getting the right items, they're they're reading. 1169 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:16,279 Speaker 3: It's like anytime there's a guy getting like insta cart, 1170 00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,120 Speaker 3: I'm like, we have to cancel, cancel this. Yeah, Oh, 1171 00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:23,120 Speaker 3: Edward is looking for No, he's not, He's not looking 1172 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:24,399 Speaker 3: for he's never looking bro. 1173 00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,799 Speaker 1: They'd be like, he's never grabbing. They'd be like, you 1174 00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,399 Speaker 1: asked for lettuce, I didn't find any lettuce. You didn't 1175 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: find you no lettuce here, No, no, there's no I. 1176 00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:39,440 Speaker 3: Gave you Parsley instead. The substitute is wild. This is 1177 00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:41,879 Speaker 3: really wild. And I always I used to call before 1178 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,120 Speaker 3: I picked them the substitute. You call ola instead. 1179 00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:50,560 Speaker 1: I never don't call it. And it is I read them. 1180 00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,640 Speaker 2: I read like the Reddit or the Twitter threads of 1181 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,520 Speaker 2: people complaining because anytime they get a male instacart person, 1182 00:53:56,640 --> 00:54:00,360 Speaker 2: the women be upset, upset because it be like I 1183 00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 2: asked for Maxi pads, he bought me Pampers. 1184 00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:05,920 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and then he and then people in the 1185 00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,160 Speaker 4: comments like, well he was he that far off? 1186 00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,440 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah yeah he was. He's not Huggies. 1187 00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 2: I cannot fee the Huggies. I haven't been able to 1188 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:14,480 Speaker 2: fee Huggs like you want all the baby. 1189 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:15,400 Speaker 1: I was a fat baby. 1190 00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,680 Speaker 2: Oh you had a big bud as a baby. No, 1191 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,960 Speaker 2: I was just a chunky little monkeys monkey, I was. 1192 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:25,400 Speaker 2: I was a hefty baby too, actually, pad, yes, but 1193 00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:27,839 Speaker 2: I was born like nine pounds or something like that, 1194 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:31,920 Speaker 2: like oh wow, I was my mother, my mother's biggest baby. 1195 00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:35,120 Speaker 1: Were you the last one? I was? I'm the middle. Oh, girl, 1196 00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:35,799 Speaker 1: you would have scarred me. 1197 00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,319 Speaker 2: I don't know how your last something got here because 1198 00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 2: I would have been done after you. 1199 00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:40,680 Speaker 1: Girl, Look at me. I still weigh on pads. Yeah, 1200 00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:45,160 Speaker 1: I'm to push out though I'm trying to remember. I 1201 00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:47,160 Speaker 1: was like, I don't think I'm trying to remember. No, 1202 00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,560 Speaker 1: I can't remember what job I had A fourteen? How 1203 00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:53,800 Speaker 1: much you weighed? You know? 1204 00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:59,440 Speaker 3: What happened was I was my mom went into labor early, early, 1205 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:02,319 Speaker 3: and I was sick. When I came out, they had 1206 00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:04,280 Speaker 3: to give me like they had to do a surgery 1207 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,600 Speaker 3: because I was eating the placenta. 1208 00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,280 Speaker 1: No, that's what I should have known. I was a lesbian. 1209 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:21,080 Speaker 3: Then okay, my mother out, yes, and the womb I 1210 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:25,239 Speaker 3: loved it, like, oh god, no that was bad. But yeah, 1211 00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:28,360 Speaker 3: and so then they had to do a crazy surgery, 1212 00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:31,640 Speaker 3: shave all my hair off. They had like I don't 1213 00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:35,719 Speaker 3: know what babies head. Oh I came out with some yeah, right, 1214 00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:39,839 Speaker 3: probably than I have now. Theake off so funny. And 1215 00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:43,960 Speaker 3: then uh, and then my sister would make crazy jokes. 1216 00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,880 Speaker 3: She was like if a lizard and Gress Jones had 1217 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:47,360 Speaker 3: a baby. 1218 00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:49,960 Speaker 1: That's what you looked like. It was bad if a 1219 00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:55,040 Speaker 1: lizard and Grace is baby wol Okay, so dark skin, 1220 00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:59,600 Speaker 1: scary baby. Yeah, that's so crazy. Can you believe it? 1221 00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,960 Speaker 1: Do you see it? Pounds and some change? Okay, every 1222 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:15,440 Speaker 1: time you will, okay, old zimpics google funny. Yeah. I 1223 00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:17,560 Speaker 1: feel like maybe that's the hardest job, being. 1224 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:21,360 Speaker 3: A mother, Like, oh my god, never not be be 1225 00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:21,799 Speaker 3: a mom. 1226 00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:23,960 Speaker 1: You can't be like I'm going to the store to 1227 00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:25,359 Speaker 1: get cigarettes and not come. 1228 00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:25,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1229 00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:27,600 Speaker 1: I mean, well some of them. That's why have a job. Now, 1230 00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:30,640 Speaker 1: some of them do. That's why I was busy today. 1231 00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that, like what and the thing is 1232 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:40,640 Speaker 3: is that mothers they can't get any like they can't 1233 00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:45,399 Speaker 3: like clock out or like taxes for just motherhood. Like 1234 00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:48,360 Speaker 3: and what they're literally doing is they're taking care of 1235 00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:52,160 Speaker 3: a human being twenty four seven And even when they 1236 00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:55,080 Speaker 3: when the kids leave the home, you're still thinking and carrying, 1237 00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:57,399 Speaker 3: oh my mother and making sure they're all right twenty 1238 00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:57,919 Speaker 3: times the day. 1239 00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,960 Speaker 1: To check up on me. Yeah, you're close with your 1240 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:05,000 Speaker 1: mom like that. My girl, that's Sydney. I mean she's dead, but. 1241 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,279 Speaker 2: You had a good relationship before that or oh no, 1242 00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,520 Speaker 2: so she was like my father, my father, Ye, he's 1243 00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:13,560 Speaker 2: doing and it did not phase me at all. 1244 00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:16,120 Speaker 1: You said, may he rest in peace. I didn't even 1245 00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:17,400 Speaker 1: say that. You were like, I don't know if I 1246 00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:20,440 Speaker 1: really want that piece they call your father. I'm like, oh, 1247 00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:25,640 Speaker 1: that's crazy. That's wow. You know someone's not paying attention 1248 00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:29,200 Speaker 1: when they say that's crazy anyway in New York. 1249 00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,880 Speaker 3: That's that's old. Asked wow, I'm not listening. To stop 1250 00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:37,160 Speaker 3: listening already. Wait, so you said being a mom is 1251 00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:43,720 Speaker 3: the hardest job. Do you want kids? No, girl, I 1252 00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:45,640 Speaker 3: want to push out to you. 1253 00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,919 Speaker 1: You want to push them out. So no drugs, no cut, 1254 00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna have some drugs. Okay, so push 1255 00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:55,840 Speaker 1: your but no sea section no, no, no, no no. 1256 00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:57,440 Speaker 1: We're not a see sexual family and we don't do that. 1257 00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:00,720 Speaker 1: We're not a sea section family. I don't heard that one. 1258 00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 2: How are you sea section family? Because vaginal birthby like 1259 00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:06,840 Speaker 2: that ship? Should that be like hereditary a lot? 1260 00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: Excuse me? What? Let me look at it? Is that? 1261 00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:11,920 Speaker 1: What is that what we're putting out here right there? 1262 00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:13,200 Speaker 1: Let me look at it. How you have a sea 1263 00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:16,480 Speaker 1: section baby? Then what's what happened? Baby? Also have especially, 1264 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:18,760 Speaker 1: I feel like it's like ah likelihood, I mean not 1265 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,960 Speaker 1: you google in this. I don't know. I don't know. 1266 00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:24,840 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna I'm when when I say that, what 1267 00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 2: if I do it in the bathtub? 1268 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:26,480 Speaker 1: Am I also? 1269 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:30,600 Speaker 3: Now? A bathtub? A water birth baby? It's hereditary. You 1270 00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:32,400 Speaker 3: gotta be in the water. You a water baby. 1271 00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:35,440 Speaker 2: My mother had me wet, Okay, so it's not her mereditary, 1272 00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:38,080 Speaker 2: but says there's a forty five percent increased risk of 1273 00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:42,240 Speaker 2: having a Suceyrian section. Twenty five is not even really, 1274 00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:48,920 Speaker 2: that's not almost. Yeah, I e I may have I'm crazy, but. 1275 00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:53,000 Speaker 1: Wait, what's wrong? What a little sea section? What's wrong 1276 00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:53,640 Speaker 1: with it? I don't know. 1277 00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:55,400 Speaker 2: I just I feel like the well, I don't want 1278 00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,200 Speaker 2: to say natural because what it is natural? 1279 00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:00,360 Speaker 3: Natural vaginal birth is just huh, I preferred. What's wrong 1280 00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 3: with sea section? 1281 00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:04,720 Speaker 1: Well, it's like a whole See, I'm trying to get 1282 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,480 Speaker 1: the mess. 1283 00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:10,000 Speaker 2: Major surgery first off, So any surgery is risky. 1284 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can have vaginal birth and rip your 1285 00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:18,880 Speaker 1: coach open, then you're also and you're right, they sewed up. 1286 00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,439 Speaker 1: That's not surgery. So he said, they might the baby 1287 00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:22,439 Speaker 1: might rip you to the butt. 1288 00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:26,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but they well I've seen I've seen some 1289 00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:28,320 Speaker 3: of the stitch work on people's clothes. 1290 00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:31,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if they're doing it right. 1291 00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:35,120 Speaker 2: Also, like the stomach is harder to get down when 1292 00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:35,880 Speaker 2: it's a sea section. 1293 00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:39,080 Speaker 1: It stays up. What do that mean, Oh, you mean 1294 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:39,920 Speaker 1: like to get flat? 1295 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, likenat back is a little harder with the sea 1296 00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:42,920 Speaker 2: section versus. 1297 00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:46,520 Speaker 1: Damn. I don't know if I was a C section 1298 00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,520 Speaker 1: or vaginal birth. Let me call my mom. Yeah, I'm 1299 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:54,960 Speaker 1: gonna ask her. Were you natural out? Yeah? Yeah, you're 1300 00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:56,200 Speaker 1: a vaginal birth family over here. 1301 00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:57,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1302 00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:02,120 Speaker 1: I came out vaginally. Yeah, vaginally. But then, like I 1303 01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:03,400 Speaker 1: was really sick because of. 1304 01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:08,840 Speaker 3: You know, the vagina, Yeah, and putting the placenta and 1305 01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:15,640 Speaker 3: the vagina. No wed you cut it cut it out, 1306 01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 3: the cut it out. 1307 01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,160 Speaker 1: You you could give it in. 1308 01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:42,280 Speaker 2: But also, what do you think is the best job 1309 01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:44,200 Speaker 2: in the world. I love being a comic. I'm not 1310 01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:44,720 Speaker 2: gonna hold you. 1311 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:48,280 Speaker 1: I love this job. I love this ship that comes 1312 01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:49,640 Speaker 1: with a lot of bulls, espuchly as woman. 1313 01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:55,040 Speaker 3: But it seems like you're very passionate about passion having Yeah, damn. 1314 01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:56,880 Speaker 1: This is how I stud feel about comedy. 1315 01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:01,080 Speaker 3: Said me, No, no, no, I feel like you the overall 1316 01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,360 Speaker 3: existence of it. You're you do feel that way. I 1317 01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:06,160 Speaker 3: don't think I'm obsessed with anything. 1318 01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:08,520 Speaker 1: No now obsessed? 1319 01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, if I like, if I go a week 1320 01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,200 Speaker 2: when I get on stage, like I do, feel like 1321 01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:17,880 Speaker 2: increased anxiety. I need sure, I need the stage. I 1322 01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:20,240 Speaker 2: don't know, I just I need it, bro I need it. 1323 01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:23,000 Speaker 1: People. I'm taking a month off. I'm like, well, who's 1324 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,800 Speaker 1: saying that. I've heard people say that. What we heard 1325 01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:26,920 Speaker 1: people say that we have? 1326 01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:31,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I took a month or two off. I'm like, well, 1327 01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:33,920 Speaker 2: I would have during the pandemic. Never, no pandemic. 1328 01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,680 Speaker 1: Last week I saw Jonas and I took a month off. 1329 01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, during the pandemic, I was like, I don't 1330 01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:40,320 Speaker 1: even think I do comedy no more. 1331 01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:42,160 Speaker 2: No, in the pandemic, I was on the outside ships 1332 01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:45,120 Speaker 2: when he was doing those zoom comedy shows. 1333 01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:47,160 Speaker 1: Let me tell you the mess that. 1334 01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:49,520 Speaker 3: First of all, why am I momming in front of 1335 01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:52,640 Speaker 3: my cats and the plant? I don't like this. I'm 1336 01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:54,920 Speaker 3: gonna be at home. I'm turning my laptop now. 1337 01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:56,360 Speaker 1: I don't live here anymore. I have to. 1338 01:01:56,280 --> 01:02:01,120 Speaker 3: Actually move out because the chakras, the vibes is off, 1339 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:01,960 Speaker 3: I can't off. 1340 01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, nothing, I'm down to zoom ships. I was 1341 01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:06,760 Speaker 1: in the parks. I'm glad that you learned. 1342 01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:11,040 Speaker 2: The Linda wood Dinah had the park. I was there 1343 01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:12,160 Speaker 2: parks with them. 1344 01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:13,480 Speaker 1: Zoom Ship. I did one. I was like, yeah, I'm 1345 01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:13,840 Speaker 1: good on this. 1346 01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:16,959 Speaker 2: I think I did like two and and the first. 1347 01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:18,480 Speaker 2: After the first one, I was like, oh, I'm not 1348 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:20,200 Speaker 2: going to do stand up. Y'all gonna see me trying 1349 01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:22,840 Speaker 2: on some weeks because I was bald. 1350 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,840 Speaker 1: During the pandemic. Word, yeah, that's smart. 1351 01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,600 Speaker 3: I think we did like somebody had reached out and 1352 01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:30,520 Speaker 3: we did like a zoom gig and it was just 1353 01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:31,080 Speaker 3: like good. 1354 01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:33,760 Speaker 1: Money and we didn't do stand up. We were like 1355 01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:35,800 Speaker 1: had a conversation, we did a podcast. 1356 01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,280 Speaker 3: Like we were telling jokes, but I guess, you know, 1357 01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,440 Speaker 3: were on serious So it was like we probably were 1358 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:43,000 Speaker 3: supposed to do stand up, but we were. 1359 01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:47,760 Speaker 1: We did sports work, We did Miss Volume one. 1360 01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,840 Speaker 3: So you're obsessed with your obsessed with comedy and so 1361 01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:52,160 Speaker 3: this is not even a job for you. 1362 01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:53,800 Speaker 2: This is just like you'll do it for free. I 1363 01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,160 Speaker 2: would do it for free. I don't do it for free. 1364 01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:57,840 Speaker 2: But I'm not doing it for free. 1365 01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:01,480 Speaker 1: Yeah I will. Yeah, you're so good at it? 1366 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,040 Speaker 3: Why I think that's I think that's a mess. When 1367 01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:06,200 Speaker 3: people want you to show up and do things and 1368 01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,720 Speaker 3: not get paid for them. Why why if I'm if 1369 01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:11,160 Speaker 3: I'm good at it, you obviously want me, right, So 1370 01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:12,880 Speaker 3: why wouldn't you want to pay me? All? 1371 01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:13,480 Speaker 1: I got this? 1372 01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:17,439 Speaker 2: Okay, then you only got that comic over there because 1373 01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:17,840 Speaker 2: I'm not. 1374 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:19,080 Speaker 1: Well, if you're good, if I'm good enough for you 1375 01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:20,640 Speaker 1: to ask me, I'm also good enough for you to 1376 01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:22,280 Speaker 1: pay me. Absolutely. 1377 01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:25,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not exactly, But I think that's that's with 1378 01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 3: anything you think. If you're reaching out and you want 1379 01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:31,280 Speaker 3: to work with somebody, you got to have some kind 1380 01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:31,720 Speaker 3: of budget. 1381 01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:35,480 Speaker 1: What is this like, you know, exposure. I never negotia. 1382 01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:39,480 Speaker 2: My mother always tries like to, like, you know, haggle prices. 1383 01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:41,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't do that. 1384 01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,280 Speaker 1: You don't negotiate your rates? 1385 01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:45,720 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, yeah, like yeah that that but it's 1386 01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:47,440 Speaker 2: like my mom my mom w was like like, oh 1387 01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,520 Speaker 2: how much to like, you know, shovel the snow and 1388 01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:50,720 Speaker 2: the like All of a sudden, fish like, oh, you 1389 01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:52,680 Speaker 2: do it for sixty's like, I don't. 1390 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:55,960 Speaker 1: My mother always has to My mom is queen of that. 1391 01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:57,040 Speaker 1: I don't do that, but. 1392 01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:58,440 Speaker 2: Because I don't like you when people do it to me, 1393 01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,400 Speaker 2: even in Chipotle, I'm like, let me get some more chicken. 1394 01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:03,720 Speaker 1: I'm like this, I'll for the double. I'm not like you. 1395 01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 1: I'm not doing I'm not doing them. Let me get 1396 01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:06,320 Speaker 1: I don't do it. 1397 01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:10,200 Speaker 2: I'm trying doing that the Caribbean way. Yeah, my mother 1398 01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:12,680 Speaker 2: will listen, Mama. I remember my mom was trying to 1399 01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:15,200 Speaker 2: buy a car. She's trying to get a new van, 1400 01:04:15,360 --> 01:04:19,920 Speaker 2: a brand new minivan. And she was like, like, my 1401 01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:22,800 Speaker 2: mom doesn't like she don't really believe in credit cards. 1402 01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 2: So she showed up with a like an envelope full 1403 01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:28,880 Speaker 2: of cash, not even an envelope, it was like a 1404 01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:33,960 Speaker 2: printing paper folded in thirds load of money. And they 1405 01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:35,400 Speaker 2: were like, my mom was like, how much for that car? 1406 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:36,960 Speaker 2: And they were like, it costs this much? And she 1407 01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:38,880 Speaker 2: was like, well what if I pay cash? And they 1408 01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:41,240 Speaker 2: were like, we could take a little bit off. Me 1409 01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,400 Speaker 2: be like, but gosh like. 1410 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:46,920 Speaker 1: And they were like, I mean we could take a 1411 01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:48,760 Speaker 1: little bit off and she and then she now she 1412 01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:51,600 Speaker 1: got to unroll it for them to see she got 1413 01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:54,320 Speaker 1: all in this cash on her And yeah, my mom 1414 01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,400 Speaker 1: will haggle for anything groceries and I might if it's 1415 01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:01,560 Speaker 1: four dollars, Mom, like how about tree fifty? Yeah, just done. 1416 01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:03,040 Speaker 1: It stresses me out. 1417 01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,120 Speaker 2: My mom is cutting it in half and her way 1418 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:06,960 Speaker 2: a little bit up. Yeah, so your mother starting a 1419 01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:09,440 Speaker 2: three shiitty is crazy. My mom is like two dollars. 1420 01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:12,320 Speaker 3: I mean, people would do that at the club all 1421 01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:16,240 Speaker 3: the time. They're like yeah, yeah, people would be like bottle, yes, yes, 1422 01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:19,520 Speaker 3: because they're like because they already hit they men, like right, 1423 01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:22,000 Speaker 3: they already have like a two thousand, you know, men 1424 01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:25,240 Speaker 3: or whatever. And then they're like, yo, I got I 1425 01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:28,000 Speaker 3: got like four hundred dollars in cash. What if I 1426 01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:30,800 Speaker 3: give you that and you just get me like a bottle, 1427 01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:33,520 Speaker 3: Like you don't even have to be the expensive bottle. 1428 01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:35,800 Speaker 3: I just I just need more liquor on the table, 1429 01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,960 Speaker 3: and I'm not paying seven hundred dollars. 1430 01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:42,360 Speaker 1: Well, what can you get at the curb for four 1431 01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:43,000 Speaker 1: hundred dollars? 1432 01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:47,000 Speaker 3: Not the boom, not even not even boom. 1433 01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:56,440 Speaker 1: You can't even get boom boom for the club again. Yeah, 1434 01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:58,600 Speaker 1: something yeah broke. 1435 01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,600 Speaker 3: But I mean the thing is is that it's like 1436 01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:06,480 Speaker 3: when you get people nice, you friendly, you chatting them up, 1437 01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:08,600 Speaker 3: You're like, we all cool. You know, they might have 1438 01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:12,120 Speaker 3: given you some cocaine. It's like, hey, get out of this, 1439 01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:15,360 Speaker 3: because I think that that's also mess. Is like when 1440 01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:19,400 Speaker 3: people are using their relationships to get what they want, 1441 01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:22,680 Speaker 3: you know, and like, hey, if I want more liquor, 1442 01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,600 Speaker 3: we cool And I got this cash and I'm sure 1443 01:06:25,640 --> 01:06:26,080 Speaker 3: you want it. 1444 01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:28,920 Speaker 1: You don't have to paint it, nobody else you, you know, 1445 01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,480 Speaker 1: just just show. But is that mess? I believe the 1446 01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:33,120 Speaker 1: Whites call that networking? 1447 01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:36,960 Speaker 3: Oh is that what it's called networking? 1448 01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:39,960 Speaker 1: Networking? Networking is mess? 1449 01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:46,160 Speaker 3: Ah, Yes, yes, I'm gonna say networking is mess It 1450 01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:49,400 Speaker 3: can't be because it's under the guise of like, oh, 1451 01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:50,760 Speaker 3: this is this. 1452 01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:52,800 Speaker 1: Is how you do it, This is how you get 1453 01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:53,640 Speaker 1: to the next level. 1454 01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:55,800 Speaker 3: When it's like, actually, I could just be doing what 1455 01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:58,040 Speaker 3: I was doing and I was gonna get that way anywhere. 1456 01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,360 Speaker 2: I think you never can be messy because like people, 1457 01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:03,120 Speaker 2: who are you? You know what I'm saying, It's like, 1458 01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:03,760 Speaker 2: are you even worth me? 1459 01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:08,160 Speaker 1: Speaking? Especially in La? Are you worth me? Acknowledging your existence? 1460 01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:09,080 Speaker 1: People in La? 1461 01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:12,800 Speaker 2: I went to a party once when I was out 1462 01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,000 Speaker 2: there and everyone that you talked to head was on 1463 01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:16,280 Speaker 2: a swifolcause they're looking for. 1464 01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:19,560 Speaker 1: Somebody more important than you. Yeah, and it's like I'm 1465 01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:21,240 Speaker 1: the most important person in here. They're like, who are you? 1466 01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,760 Speaker 1: Who are you again? Yeah? What do you do? What 1467 01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:24,160 Speaker 1: do you work? 1468 01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:24,320 Speaker 3: Me? 1469 01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:26,000 Speaker 2: Now, if I'm at a place and I'm like we 1470 01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:28,200 Speaker 2: have a genuine conversation, I don't I don't know. I 1471 01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:29,880 Speaker 2: don't be asking like what do you do? 1472 01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:31,960 Speaker 1: Oh? They love it? What do you do? In La? 1473 01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:33,000 Speaker 1: What do you do? 1474 01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:36,439 Speaker 3: Is actually quite hateful now in this climate because it's 1475 01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:38,120 Speaker 3: like we're all trying to figure out what we're doing 1476 01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:40,120 Speaker 3: right now and it will be and they'll ask you 1477 01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,040 Speaker 3: what do you what do you do? While you're there 1478 01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,960 Speaker 3: at doing what you do? It's like I'm just on 1479 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:45,880 Speaker 3: stage killing. 1480 01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:47,760 Speaker 1: What do you mean? What do I do? Or the 1481 01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:51,400 Speaker 1: the other question, what are you working on? Yeah? 1482 01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:55,160 Speaker 5: That working on I'm working on myself, Yeah, hitting you 1483 01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:57,760 Speaker 5: right now that I'm working on living Okay, if you 1484 01:07:57,840 --> 01:07:59,680 Speaker 5: get in the living ram, you're getting me Instagram all 1485 01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:01,120 Speaker 5: of a sudd and they're like more friendly now to 1486 01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:02,240 Speaker 5: see that, Oh you all. 1487 01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:04,760 Speaker 1: You kind of all your. 1488 01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:06,880 Speaker 2: Yes, now now your friendly is like you was being 1489 01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:08,600 Speaker 2: cold this whole two minutes I was talking to you. 1490 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:11,600 Speaker 1: Girl. That's why you got to treat everybody the same. 1491 01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:13,800 Speaker 3: Like that's even even like so you gotta be cold 1492 01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:15,760 Speaker 3: to everybody and even when you see the Instagram and 1493 01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:16,000 Speaker 3: all that. 1494 01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:20,760 Speaker 1: Oh oh you got a million follow whatever. No, oh, 1495 01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:24,920 Speaker 1: that's what you do. Yeah, you know it's all you do. Okay, Yeah, 1496 01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:30,720 Speaker 1: you don't come outside at all, your influencer. Interesting, you 1497 01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:34,280 Speaker 1: missed you missed TikTok or not right TikTok. When I 1498 01:08:34,280 --> 01:08:36,240 Speaker 1: was talking about taking it on, I'm like, I don't care. Oh, 1499 01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:38,760 Speaker 1: I kind of wanted TikTok to stay gone. 1500 01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:42,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I've learned so much on TikTok, but 1501 01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:44,960 Speaker 3: I also waste mad time. 1502 01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:48,599 Speaker 1: I don't be on Yeah, I mean on Instagram. When 1503 01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:52,000 Speaker 1: I fall down a TikTok rabbit hole, you know, it's 1504 01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:56,439 Speaker 1: it's some stuff on there, it's everything, like people, More 1505 01:08:56,479 --> 01:09:00,000 Speaker 1: people use TikTok like to look stuff up than Google, 1506 01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:02,559 Speaker 1: whoa or like YouTube. 1507 01:09:02,560 --> 01:09:03,760 Speaker 2: I didn't even know you cold look stuff up on 1508 01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:05,720 Speaker 2: tickso oh absolutely you put it in a search bar. 1509 01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:08,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd be like, what where should I eat in Japan, 1510 01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,639 Speaker 1: and then it's like, how do I get a stain 1511 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:14,439 Speaker 1: out of my clip? Like people use TikTok for that. 1512 01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:16,240 Speaker 1: Why informative? 1513 01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:19,439 Speaker 3: It is informative, but it also is like did she 1514 01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:23,720 Speaker 3: really just tell all her family secrets in ten parts? 1515 01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:24,560 Speaker 5: Why? 1516 01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:26,960 Speaker 1: Who? Did I marry? Who? 1517 01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:28,640 Speaker 3: The And we need it and we need it and 1518 01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,559 Speaker 3: we love it and it's entertainment, but also TikTok is 1519 01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:35,160 Speaker 3: like taking me away from TV sometimes because it's like, oh, 1520 01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:38,519 Speaker 3: I can watch all these little clips instead of like 1521 01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:42,200 Speaker 3: have a sitting and then be like, hmm, that's not 1522 01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:44,360 Speaker 3: really doing it for me. Yeah, I needed this in 1523 01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:46,080 Speaker 3: like ninety seconds. 1524 01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:48,400 Speaker 1: It's sucking up your attention span. It is. It is 1525 01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:49,840 Speaker 1: yeah for me. 1526 01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:51,639 Speaker 2: Like I'll be watching a good movie and I'll scroll 1527 01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:53,559 Speaker 2: through Instagram'm like, oh, let me enjoy the movie. 1528 01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:56,040 Speaker 1: This is a nice film. Let me pay attention. When 1529 01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:57,519 Speaker 1: you're watching a movie and you want to enjoy it, 1530 01:09:57,560 --> 01:09:59,680 Speaker 1: you scroll through Instagram. Lol. 1531 01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:03,040 Speaker 2: Sometimes I'll catch myself going through Instagram like, let me 1532 01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:03,800 Speaker 2: put this down and pay attention. 1533 01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:05,080 Speaker 1: This is a good ass movie. Oh. 1534 01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:07,960 Speaker 2: I was at a comedy show the other day and 1535 01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:10,400 Speaker 2: this girl in the audience in the front row with strolling, 1536 01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:13,120 Speaker 2: scrolling through TikTok with the volume one, because that's happened 1537 01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:15,760 Speaker 2: to me. No, I don't stop, I've having to do 1538 01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:16,040 Speaker 2: that with. 1539 01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:19,879 Speaker 1: The volume on full blast. Stop. I'm like you're I'm like, seriously, 1540 01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,080 Speaker 1: mine in the front, Yeah, in the front. Put your 1541 01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:25,360 Speaker 1: AirPod in like it's a bluetooth, and listen quietly. My 1542 01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:28,600 Speaker 1: thing is, why did you come out tonight? I just 1543 01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,080 Speaker 1: wanted to be with my friends. 1544 01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:33,200 Speaker 2: Want to show people on Instagram you went to a 1545 01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:35,439 Speaker 2: comedy show you didn't really enjoy. You wasn't even there. Well, 1546 01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:37,280 Speaker 2: I feel like that's a lot of what social media 1547 01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:39,519 Speaker 2: is is people. You want people to see that you're 1548 01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 2: out and you're doing stuff, but you are having a 1549 01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:41,960 Speaker 2: miserable time. 1550 01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:44,479 Speaker 1: And that's what I appreciated about our time in Jamaica. 1551 01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:47,160 Speaker 1: We actually had fun. It wasn't just for the grand 1552 01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:49,840 Speaker 1: If I'm not actively posting in my stories, just know 1553 01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:52,599 Speaker 1: I'm happy having time. I'm posting the stories from the cab, 1554 01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:54,280 Speaker 1: from the uber on the way home. 1555 01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:57,120 Speaker 2: I post from my bed in the morning, or you know, 1556 01:10:57,960 --> 01:11:01,040 Speaker 2: the other day we went out, I got eight a m. Yeah, 1557 01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:03,320 Speaker 2: I woke up at four thirty in the afternoon. 1558 01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:05,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was a good night. It was that's 1559 01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,280 Speaker 3: a great that was a really good that Saturday for me. 1560 01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,519 Speaker 3: Saturday Saturday was lit as fun for me. I think 1561 01:11:11,520 --> 01:11:13,760 Speaker 3: we got to go through some messages now DM. 1562 01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:15,040 Speaker 1: Yeah that the. 1563 01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:20,320 Speaker 3: US. Oh y'all yeah, yeah, die you have you have 1564 01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:24,120 Speaker 3: messing your DMS. Girl, you want to read some mess 1565 01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:26,479 Speaker 3: you want to, We'll take it absolutely. 1566 01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:28,320 Speaker 2: Oh you saw one of the messy has somebody was 1567 01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:29,840 Speaker 2: talking about cities when I was laying on my back. 1568 01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:33,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we remember, you tell the people because the 1569 01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:36,080 Speaker 1: people didn't see it. So I took a picture of it. 1570 01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:37,720 Speaker 1: I was in Jamaica, Like you know, you laid down 1571 01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:41,360 Speaker 1: and then like like this, yeah, you know which I hate. 1572 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:43,559 Speaker 3: I hate laying down because then if your booths are 1573 01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:45,960 Speaker 3: not close together and they kind of look like, you know, yeah, 1574 01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:49,960 Speaker 3: like pancakes, like yeah, the city they go and then 1575 01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:52,479 Speaker 3: they look like you know, bowling balls on the underneath 1576 01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:54,800 Speaker 3: your uh well that maybe maybe just. 1577 01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:58,719 Speaker 4: Me f y Yeah right, your booths look like bowling 1578 01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:02,120 Speaker 4: balls underneath like because it it's spread, it goes under 1579 01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:06,920 Speaker 4: hat titties is not like ridiculous, it's this he'll weight 1580 01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:07,200 Speaker 4: on this. 1581 01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:09,439 Speaker 3: They still got some weight. No, but they look like 1582 01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:13,040 Speaker 3: they fit your body. Oh, thank you, yeah, thank you. 1583 01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:15,760 Speaker 1: There's a there's some cities. I'm like, girl, bye, there's 1584 01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:17,360 Speaker 1: some cities out of here. Oh my god. 1585 01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:19,439 Speaker 2: I was laying down and the person was like, oh, yes, 1586 01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:21,920 Speaker 2: cities shrank from the other from the other picture with something. 1587 01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:24,240 Speaker 2: I'm like yeah, because the other picture I was sitting. 1588 01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:26,519 Speaker 2: I was standing up, so the titties was standing up too. 1589 01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:28,559 Speaker 1: Was this in your hidden messages? 1590 01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:31,560 Speaker 3: No, girl, I had screenshot and posted that ship. This 1591 01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:33,800 Speaker 3: is somebody that actually you're cool with. 1592 01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:36,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was cool with this person. You gotta block 1593 01:12:36,360 --> 01:12:38,960 Speaker 1: them old. Yeah, they're done. That's done. They're done done. 1594 01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:40,719 Speaker 1: Don't come into my d MS talking. 1595 01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:43,200 Speaker 2: Oh right, the punch that got the I want to 1596 01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 2: just correct myself. When I fought the guy in Father's 1597 01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:51,000 Speaker 2: Day that was I was twenty twenty one into twenty 1598 01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:53,000 Speaker 2: twenty two. Now comment Citty, I'm like, what is going on? 1599 01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:55,000 Speaker 2: Twenty one twenty two is when I fought him, so 1600 01:12:55,200 --> 01:13:01,880 Speaker 2: not twenty three, maybe twenty two, twenty two, twenty one, Eva, 1601 01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:04,320 Speaker 2: I love it. I'll be trying to get my shirt 1602 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:06,240 Speaker 2: back because you know, when you got famous, people pull 1603 01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:06,439 Speaker 2: it up. 1604 01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:08,280 Speaker 1: Oh you will stand twenty three. But at twenty three, 1605 01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:11,080 Speaker 1: you will fucking with anybody ever says that. 1606 01:13:11,160 --> 01:13:14,519 Speaker 2: I'm like age it to me like a year or 1607 01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:16,840 Speaker 2: two off, fucking relaxed. But you know people they love 1608 01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,640 Speaker 2: digging up ship and I'm gonna be famous. Bits know 1609 01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:21,960 Speaker 2: they're gonna be there, gonna be digging up on. 1610 01:13:21,960 --> 01:13:26,960 Speaker 1: Me, absolutely manifest like you when you was with related today. 1611 01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:29,559 Speaker 1: Let me stay six feet awa from this ingga home. 1612 01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:33,120 Speaker 1: That's running away from Home. 1613 01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:39,200 Speaker 2: That is the title of run Away from So running 1614 01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:45,160 Speaker 2: away from Home. Okay, let me read this letter and 1615 01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:47,479 Speaker 2: then we'll discuss whether we think it's mess or not. 1616 01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:48,160 Speaker 1: Right. 1617 01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:51,639 Speaker 2: I can't even believe I'm sending this. That's the title 1618 01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:54,439 Speaker 2: Sydney and Marie. So happy to have the new pod 1619 01:13:54,760 --> 01:13:57,160 Speaker 2: back in my feed. For the last few years, I've 1620 01:13:57,200 --> 01:13:59,839 Speaker 2: been re listening to old episodes of the Unofficial Experts. 1621 01:13:59,840 --> 01:14:02,920 Speaker 1: So I hope you still get that ad rev. Yeah. 1622 01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:05,880 Speaker 1: I think we do. I actually don't know, we don't. 1623 01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:09,040 Speaker 1: I'm like I have not received. 1624 01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:16,439 Speaker 2: Oh wow, Okay, anyway, here's my most embarrassing mess story. 1625 01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:18,519 Speaker 1: Please don't use my real name. 1626 01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:20,280 Speaker 2: I'm looking at the letter. I don't see the name 1627 01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:23,400 Speaker 2: on here, so okay. At my first oh boom, this 1628 01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:26,920 Speaker 2: works out. At my first real office job out of college, 1629 01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:29,960 Speaker 2: I developed a crush on a really ugly but somewhat 1630 01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:31,000 Speaker 2: funny coworker. 1631 01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:34,880 Speaker 1: Wow, really ugly. Yeah. 1632 01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:37,960 Speaker 2: There were rumors that he was hooking up with another 1633 01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:40,639 Speaker 2: girl at the office, but he always denied it. Eventually, 1634 01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:42,960 Speaker 2: he and I started secretly hanging out, but I couldn't 1635 01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:45,400 Speaker 2: stop wondering if the rumors were true. The other girl 1636 01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:47,040 Speaker 2: and I ended up sharing a room for a work 1637 01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:50,120 Speaker 2: trip together, and when she went to shower, I looked 1638 01:14:50,160 --> 01:14:53,360 Speaker 2: through her text Oh wow, I couldn't find a single 1639 01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:55,439 Speaker 2: thing until I searched for his phone number. She had 1640 01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:58,920 Speaker 2: him saved as Britney and they were sexting all day 1641 01:14:59,160 --> 01:14:59,559 Speaker 2: every day. 1642 01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:00,320 Speaker 1: Had man. 1643 01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:03,840 Speaker 2: I kept this info to myself, and within a few 1644 01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:06,880 Speaker 2: weeks she had a new random boyfriend. In hindsight, she 1645 01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,719 Speaker 2: most likely was still sexting Brittany while she was dating 1646 01:15:09,760 --> 01:15:11,639 Speaker 2: the new guy. I kept going out with the old 1647 01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:15,160 Speaker 2: guy for a whole year until he ended up cheating 1648 01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:15,439 Speaker 2: on me. 1649 01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:16,599 Speaker 1: Good. I couldn't. 1650 01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:22,560 Speaker 2: I couldn't even feel that bad because I felt like 1651 01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:24,800 Speaker 2: I got my karma. I am five to nine and 1652 01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:26,880 Speaker 2: he was so short that when we would do it 1653 01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:29,280 Speaker 2: from behind, he would be on his tiptoes. 1654 01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:34,040 Speaker 1: Love you both, well, he was ugly and short. Anna, cheater, girl, 1655 01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:36,040 Speaker 1: you're the problem. You're a man. 1656 01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:39,360 Speaker 3: No matter what's wrong with them, they always have multiple bitches, sir, 1657 01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:41,720 Speaker 3: how is your ugly short ass fucking with bitches like that? 1658 01:15:41,960 --> 01:15:45,160 Speaker 1: But but it's all on the women who are dating them. 1659 01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:49,040 Speaker 3: They're giving them in their back and the height in 1660 01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:53,559 Speaker 3: their shoes to make them feel like they're yeh, the police. 1661 01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:56,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, the women. These women are literally the wind beneath 1662 01:15:56,320 --> 01:15:59,439 Speaker 1: their wings. Yes, she said, I developed on a crush 1663 01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:03,760 Speaker 1: on someone. She said, really ugly, but somewhat funny. So 1664 01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:07,920 Speaker 1: it's not really funny, it's not hysterical, somewhat ugly, really funny, 1665 01:16:08,439 --> 01:16:12,000 Speaker 1: really ugly, somewhat funny. Girl, this is your fault. That's 1666 01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:17,000 Speaker 1: not good for you. Actually are the problem, okay, electric chair, 1667 01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:21,760 Speaker 1: Because the thing is it's so easy to be like 1668 01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:25,040 Speaker 1: he's a bomb. Did you see his underwear dirty? But 1669 01:16:25,160 --> 01:16:28,639 Speaker 1: you were fucking him? Yeah? But this is her first 1670 01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:29,839 Speaker 1: job out of college. 1671 01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:31,960 Speaker 3: So she was twenty one, twenty Do you know what 1672 01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:37,360 Speaker 3: actually anything that happened between nineteen and twenty three, didn't. 1673 01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:38,719 Speaker 1: Have between yesterday. 1674 01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:44,280 Speaker 2: Between nineteen and yesterday, it's delete, it deletes. It's like 1675 01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:47,360 Speaker 2: if you do something in international waters. They don't same 1676 01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:49,800 Speaker 2: with this. Yep, that's crazy. 1677 01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:52,160 Speaker 1: Chart Read another one? Or should I save it? What 1678 01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:56,280 Speaker 1: do you guys think? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, Okay. X keeps 1679 01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:59,920 Speaker 1: calling from an unknown number. Hasten him. 1680 01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:02,760 Speaker 2: Longtime fan of the pod. My sister and I have 1681 01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:05,680 Speaker 2: been listening since twenty nineteen. Shout out to y'all, but 1682 01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:08,720 Speaker 2: we love you. This past August, I broke up with 1683 01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:10,599 Speaker 2: my ex, who I had been dating for a year. 1684 01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:13,320 Speaker 2: Throughout the course of our relationship, there were a bunch 1685 01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:13,880 Speaker 2: of issues. 1686 01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,400 Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about the issue. He was super close 1687 01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:16,960 Speaker 1: with his ex. 1688 01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:20,439 Speaker 2: He kept explicit videos and pictures of his ex slash 1689 01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:23,080 Speaker 2: past took ups, and he would complain about having to 1690 01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:27,000 Speaker 2: pay two ninety to come visit me. After I finally 1691 01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:29,240 Speaker 2: ended things, everything was fine. I felt like a weight 1692 01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:32,160 Speaker 2: had been lifted off my shoulders and I was myself again. 1693 01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:35,080 Speaker 2: But around September, so they broke up in August. 1694 01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:35,519 Speaker 1: Now he's back. 1695 01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:38,440 Speaker 2: In September, he reached out in an attempt for closure. 1696 01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:41,360 Speaker 2: He sent me paragraphs telling me about how he felt, 1697 01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:43,040 Speaker 2: and even sent a Google doc where he had been 1698 01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:44,839 Speaker 2: writing all his thoughts since. 1699 01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:46,439 Speaker 1: The breakup, not a Google doc. 1700 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:50,320 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, I answered his text and this opened a whole 1701 01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:52,760 Speaker 2: can of worms. From then on, he would try and 1702 01:17:52,840 --> 01:17:54,960 Speaker 2: reach out via text, trying to get closure. 1703 01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:58,280 Speaker 1: Around November, I finally blocked him good. 1704 01:17:58,520 --> 01:18:01,000 Speaker 2: Then around Christmas he sent me an email and then 1705 01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:03,080 Speaker 2: a message on WhatsApp girl, an. 1706 01:18:03,040 --> 01:18:06,920 Speaker 1: Email, wait, is this a business proper? Why are you emailing? Yeah? 1707 01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:08,880 Speaker 2: But it's like I blocked you everywhere, so now you 1708 01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:13,880 Speaker 2: emailing me bro? And then a message on WhatsApp. I 1709 01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:15,960 Speaker 2: didn't answer, and I blocked him on everything possible to 1710 01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:18,040 Speaker 2: get him to stop. Now he's been trying to reach 1711 01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:21,520 Speaker 2: me by calling from an unknown number and the secondary 1712 01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:22,600 Speaker 2: email address. 1713 01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:25,519 Speaker 1: Call you got a stock you have to report him. 1714 01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:28,280 Speaker 2: He even left the voicemail saying how I'm bullying him 1715 01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:31,200 Speaker 2: and that it's weird that I'm avoiding him. I've been 1716 01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,320 Speaker 2: thriving for the past six months without him, and I'm 1717 01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:36,640 Speaker 2: even interested in another guy. Right now, Ladies, how do 1718 01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:40,000 Speaker 2: I finally get this man to leave me alone? I 1719 01:18:40,080 --> 01:18:42,000 Speaker 2: saw a psychic a few weeks ago, and she said 1720 01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:45,080 Speaker 2: that i'd see him face to face again at some point, 1721 01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:47,960 Speaker 2: but he needs to be gone by yesterday. Hope to 1722 01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:51,200 Speaker 2: hear from y'all. Thanks for the laughs. Anonymous man of 1723 01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:57,080 Speaker 2: the pod or mistake as Marie, Yes, mistakes. I'm gonna say, 1724 01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:59,880 Speaker 2: do you have a brother? Do you have do you 1725 01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:03,240 Speaker 2: have a man in your life who can contact him? 1726 01:19:03,680 --> 01:19:05,519 Speaker 2: Contact him because sometimes men. 1727 01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:08,680 Speaker 1: Can't hear you unless another man is talking. Yeah, so 1728 01:19:09,240 --> 01:19:10,719 Speaker 1: they can hear the non basics. 1729 01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,640 Speaker 3: Yes, Yeah, I need you to get a man to 1730 01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:16,400 Speaker 3: pretend to be your man and be like, hey, I 1731 01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:18,920 Speaker 3: need you to meet me here. I need you to 1732 01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:21,040 Speaker 3: meet me at this place and we need to talk 1733 01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:24,080 Speaker 3: because you keep bothering my girl scare him. 1734 01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:26,040 Speaker 1: That's that's a really good yeah. 1735 01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:28,120 Speaker 3: And then and then he's like, I need you to 1736 01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:29,960 Speaker 3: really meet up and then have him meet to and 1737 01:19:30,040 --> 01:19:33,080 Speaker 3: then just be there. Nobody ever meets up with him. 1738 01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:37,240 Speaker 3: He's just sitting in front of looking dumb as you deserved. Yes, 1739 01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:38,360 Speaker 3: been wasting your time. 1740 01:19:38,920 --> 01:19:40,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm like, I don't know about the meeting 1741 01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:45,600 Speaker 2: face to face, I say, or but you got me 1742 01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:47,320 Speaker 2: in the end you said nobody shows up. 1743 01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:55,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Hey I work herebez. Yeah, I have the ones. 1744 01:19:55,880 --> 01:19:57,800 Speaker 2: That's talking on Instagram and they show to a show. 1745 01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:02,519 Speaker 1: Is that a stalker or a fan? A fan like 1746 01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:05,759 Speaker 1: a fan? Yeah, I have fans, but fans can be dangerous. 1747 01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:09,600 Speaker 1: They can shout out to Selena. No, you never know, 1748 01:20:09,880 --> 01:20:12,720 Speaker 1: You just never You just never know. You never know. 1749 01:20:12,840 --> 01:20:16,000 Speaker 3: And the terrible thing is that when somebody has your information, 1750 01:20:17,160 --> 01:20:17,920 Speaker 3: you might have to move. 1751 01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:20,000 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that's why I used to have a website 1752 01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:21,680 Speaker 2: and I put all my dates for the month on 1753 01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:24,640 Speaker 2: the website. And I had a stalker and I was like, well, 1754 01:20:24,680 --> 01:20:25,960 Speaker 2: I don't need people to know where I'm going to 1755 01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:27,040 Speaker 2: be before I'm going to be there. 1756 01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:31,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's scary. I don't have a bodyguard. I 1757 01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:38,120 Speaker 1: don't have a NDA, you know. Anyway, I had a 1758 01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:40,479 Speaker 1: good time with y'all today. This was me. I follow 1759 01:20:41,120 --> 01:20:44,200 Speaker 1: U I P Yeah, well let's wrap this up. Yeah, 1760 01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:45,479 Speaker 1: let the people know where they can. 1761 01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:48,320 Speaker 2: Find you with following a Graham at Eva Evans Comedy 1762 01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:51,560 Speaker 2: e v A E v A n S Comedy and 1763 01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:53,320 Speaker 2: watch my special. I have a forty five minute special 1764 01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:55,240 Speaker 2: in my bio. Watched that sh run that shit up 1765 01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:56,240 Speaker 2: shared at and what else? 1766 01:20:56,280 --> 01:20:58,320 Speaker 1: Run that ship up? Shared at? What else? I mean? 1767 01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:01,080 Speaker 2: TikTok and Twitter. Well, I'm on there to the same 1768 01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:03,559 Speaker 2: handle at Eva Evans Comedy. But I'm very active on. 1769 01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:07,880 Speaker 1: Instagram, so on Instagram. Yeah, in terms of we're gonna yeah, yeah, 1770 01:21:08,120 --> 01:21:11,280 Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, Well did we learn anything today? Friend, Sidney, 1771 01:21:11,439 --> 01:21:12,960 Speaker 1: did you gave great advice? Yeah? 1772 01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:16,599 Speaker 2: I try to give I can't remember milestones in my life. 1773 01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:19,720 Speaker 2: I don't the ages. I'm like, was I twenty two 1774 01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:23,200 Speaker 2: or or solil? Sidney was giving that advice and I 1775 01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:24,439 Speaker 2: was like, get a gun. 1776 01:21:26,080 --> 01:21:30,720 Speaker 1: Myself. Yeah, especially who's in office, get a gun. Don't 1777 01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:34,120 Speaker 1: need it. No, what was I gonna say? Oh, yeah, 1778 01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:37,679 Speaker 1: we have a show. We have a mess live at. 1779 01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:41,360 Speaker 3: Union Hall February the twenty twenty seconds. 1780 01:21:41,800 --> 01:21:45,560 Speaker 1: Damn Yeah. I ain't gonna be in La damn no. 1781 01:21:45,920 --> 01:21:48,880 Speaker 1: But they need you out there. Yes, please get tickets 1782 01:21:48,920 --> 01:21:51,840 Speaker 1: to that. That's the link. Should be in the bio 1783 01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:55,840 Speaker 1: by now. And keep giving us reviews. I love them. 1784 01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:56,639 Speaker 1: They're so good. 1785 01:21:57,240 --> 01:22:01,519 Speaker 3: The reviews are so funny on Spotify and Apple, So 1786 01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:02,200 Speaker 3: keep doing that. 1787 01:22:02,520 --> 01:22:04,840 Speaker 2: Yes, and also before we go on to say, Lee, 1788 01:22:05,000 --> 01:22:09,479 Speaker 2: send us the voicemail right, yeah, stories, it's the email 1789 01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:12,880 Speaker 2: is messthepodcast at gmail dot com or call in at 1790 01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:16,599 Speaker 2: seven six three two eight zero sixty five eight eight. 1791 01:22:17,200 --> 01:22:20,120 Speaker 1: See you next week for a moment. Yeah, Welcome Back. 1792 01:22:21,320 --> 01:22:24,439 Speaker 4: We Didn't Mess With Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is 1793 01:22:24,479 --> 01:22:27,600 Speaker 4: a production by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio 1794 01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:31,439 Speaker 4: podcast created and hosted by Sidney Washington and Marie Foston. 1795 01:22:31,640 --> 01:22:35,759 Speaker 2: Executive produced by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced 1796 01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:38,799 Speaker 2: by Becca Ramos, edited a mixed by Brian Jeffries. 1797 01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:41,719 Speaker 1: If you would like your messages read on air, please 1798 01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:44,360 Speaker 1: email us at mess Thepodcast at gmail dot com or 1799 01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:47,519 Speaker 1: call for your messages to be played at seven sixty 1800 01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:49,599 Speaker 1: three two eight zero six five eight eight