Speaker 1: We're taking you inside the mind of a man. List
Speaker 1: is how mentic and I heard radio podcast. Hi everyone,
Speaker 1: I'm woman bone and human know me from selling Sunset
Speaker 1: and I'm made to marry Figeral. I'm also a project
Speaker 1: manager with the White Blood Estates and I'm happy to
Speaker 1: be the guests on Hope Men's Things, Um, and I'm
Speaker 1: going to answer all your questions so to try to
Speaker 1: help you to understand how Men's Things. So, but first
Speaker 1: this is the living question we remained, So let's get
Speaker 1: into it. What are you known for? Tell us about yourself.
Speaker 1: So I'm sure everyone knows me from selling Sunset especially
Speaker 1: it's um um um the literality TV show on Netflix
Speaker 1: about release states where I'm a project manager and my
Speaker 1: wife is a brace figeent and and that's it. So
Speaker 1: that's my life. So a project manager constantly or we
Speaker 1: work a lot with your plan group and then um,
Speaker 1: and that's about who are you in your personal life? So, uh,
Speaker 1: my personal life. So I moved like now about like
Speaker 1: six years ago um in de l A as a
Speaker 1: chef and as a model and litly on like actually
Speaker 1: like a couple of months after I actually stopped working
Speaker 1: as a chef because that's like some issues with my
Speaker 1: previous busses. And then that's when I start my journey
Speaker 1: into that really states slash construction. Um. At first I
Speaker 1: have no idea, and then I started to enjoy it
Speaker 1: after a couple of months and then end up by
Speaker 1: um becoming a project manager and taking over the project.
Speaker 1: And then um, the more I was doing it and
Speaker 1: the more like that, so UM in that I became
Speaker 1: my main focus right now and then hopefully uh, let alone,
Speaker 1: we want to start flipping us is we've married, and
Speaker 1: if possible, even have like a spinoff and own shoe.
Speaker 1: So that's a project UM for the true show. So
Speaker 1: shows that I've been watching. Um, I have no idea.
Speaker 1: Huh oh yeah, nachos. We did watch Selling Sunset and
Speaker 1: what UM I like, Uh, it's not a shoe, but
Speaker 1: it's a movie actually and that came on not long ago.
Speaker 1: It's a Dean former and also the one we've um
Speaker 1: Jamie Foxx so I can't remember the name, but it's
Speaker 1: a good one. UM. What is your favorite food? So,
Speaker 1: my favorite food is Italian food, So I'm a big
Speaker 1: fan of pasta, pizza and meat also but yes, that's uh,
Speaker 1: that's my favorite food. Definitely tell us about your career
Speaker 1: so by Mica. Yeah, like I said previously, UM, I
Speaker 1: was a chef almost um ten years and helped me
Speaker 1: to travel all around the world. UM. And then um
Speaker 1: clearly on UM, I was starting to get into modeling
Speaker 1: when I was living in Australia and before I came here,
Speaker 1: and then um, that's when um, I actually stop working
Speaker 1: as a chef to become a project manager and then
Speaker 1: get more into a construction and real estate and and
Speaker 1: you also as a as working on tvrself. So uh,
Speaker 1: that's about it. What is your biggest fear in life?
Speaker 1: So my biggest fear in life, I wouldn't say that
Speaker 1: it's feling because feeling, it's learning and that's what I
Speaker 1: think would become better. And you know, I learn, um
Speaker 1: how to do things better. But I just keep trying
Speaker 1: to get better at what we do as uh not
Speaker 1: as fast as possible because this is a process. But
Speaker 1: I'm always I'm always worry uh that I don't make
Speaker 1: it in time, and uh, you know, always I think
Speaker 1: I'm trying to push myself so much because I know
Speaker 1: that how much I am capable of doing. And that's
Speaker 1: what I think makes me uh worriobut like not being
Speaker 1: able to to get to where I want to be
Speaker 1: in uh in the time that I'm setting. Basically, what
Speaker 1: is your biggest pective? Um? Seriously don't really know. I've
Speaker 1: been asking that question not to don't go actually and
Speaker 1: I couldn't say it. So I still need to figure out.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I have one. I just need
Speaker 1: to figure to think about it. What makes you the
Speaker 1: most happy? Uh? I would say my wife, happy wife,
Speaker 1: happy life. Now that's too mean. Uh happy? Um, independent
Speaker 1: many ways that I get happy. But I'm happy at
Speaker 1: work when I you know, when I finished something and
Speaker 1: I'm proud of it. So um, But what makes me
Speaker 1: most happy? It's like, you know, enjoying your my life
Speaker 1: with my wife and you know, spending time to give
Speaker 1: you most likely what is your ideal surturday morning? Uh?
Speaker 1: I would say my ideas Saturday the morning. It's actually
Speaker 1: like to go to the gym on the morning, early morning.
Speaker 1: And then I would say after go and get breakfast
Speaker 1: with my wife and then um and then maybe uh yeah,
Speaker 1: go run through my wife of something. Are you more
Speaker 1: of an autlet of hamp chairs? Quarterback? I will say
Speaker 1: more of an athlete. I just love sports and fitness
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, so definitely more of an athlete.
Speaker 1: So what kids you put motive? Um, I would say
Speaker 1: it's my goals, um I Um, I'm lucky. I also
Speaker 1: have to say that I have like so many like
Speaker 1: successful people around me that keeps me, you know, um
Speaker 1: motivated and and you know, my goals keeps me motivated.
Speaker 1: But to see that those people around me helps me
Speaker 1: and gives me even more the ambitious and and and
Speaker 1: the will that you know I can't get it and
Speaker 1: I will and it just like keeps me going, you know,
Speaker 1: to get there. So that's the leven question with me, Romaine,
Speaker 1: and um, we're gonna take a quick break and come back.
Speaker 1: So welcome back to home and things, and um let's
Speaker 1: get into with some life calls. Hi Ashley's Romaine, how
Speaker 1: are you? Hi? I'm good, How are you good? Thank you?
Speaker 1: So what's your question? All right? So I've recently moved
Speaker 1: in with my boyfriend of a year and there are
Speaker 1: some things that I'm like having a hard time getting
Speaker 1: used to. So like he says comments to me just
Speaker 1: here and there, and like I know he doesn't intend
Speaker 1: them to be disrespectful, but they are. I think it's
Speaker 1: because like we aren't just like used to living to
Speaker 1: being around with each other like seven you know, but
Speaker 1: like I don't know, sometimes those comments make me worry
Speaker 1: that I've made a huge mistake moving in with him,
Speaker 1: and like I don't know, I question that is love
Speaker 1: enough type of thing? You know? Yeah, well I would say,
Speaker 1: I mean if I was you personally, I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess the best um my advice would be too, like
Speaker 1: almost have a sit down with him, like you know,
Speaker 1: explain to to him or you feel because sometimes the
Speaker 1: only things is like I think in a couple, um
Speaker 1: people don't understand or don't realize how much certain things
Speaker 1: affect each other. Which maybe for him it doesn't doesn't
Speaker 1: take it seriously or doesn't see like who you know,
Speaker 1: disrespectful it is you know for you and don't think
Speaker 1: he hurts you or anything like that and a and
Speaker 1: just maybe the first step will be like to actually
Speaker 1: sit down with him, have a talk and and make
Speaker 1: him realize that actually it does bother you and that
Speaker 1: you you would like him to stop doing those comments
Speaker 1: or like you know this type of things and then
Speaker 1: you know, um, see if like things change, you know,
Speaker 1: because at that point you know that you know it
Speaker 1: would be aware of it, and that you know, if
Speaker 1: he's still doing it, then obviously there won be a
Speaker 1: different issues. Okay, so just like lay it all out
Speaker 1: there and then see if those are his true colors
Speaker 1: or just like mussations. I think almost like for me,
Speaker 1: like the in relationship, you need to be able to
Speaker 1: talk like you know anything you have, like when something
Speaker 1: when you know it's like when you love something, you
Speaker 1: not let the person know, right. I feel like it
Speaker 1: should be the same for everything. So if something bother
Speaker 1: you or if you don't like something, just be open
Speaker 1: and like just say the way it is. That way
Speaker 1: people knows about it, like you know, there's not like
Speaker 1: surprised like oh but you didn't tell me or anything
Speaker 1: like that. So if that person is still doing it
Speaker 1: even though you told him that you know, it does
Speaker 1: actually bother you and it hurts you when you don't
Speaker 1: you don't like it, then obviously then that's an other issues.
Speaker 1: But you know, at least people you know knows they
Speaker 1: know right away. Okay, thank you, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: I think that's a Yeah, that's great advice. I try
Speaker 1: and I guess I guess we're sticking to it or
Speaker 1: I'll be looking for a new place to with. I
Speaker 1: hope it's just gonna be like, you know, babbing him.
Speaker 1: That didn't realize it, but that way, I mean, it's
Speaker 1: the best way to you know, when you're open with
Speaker 1: someone there, you need to be able to talk like
Speaker 1: freely and and let the people know like all you
Speaker 1: feeling and good or bad. You know, it's not always
Speaker 1: in a good way, but he's you know, everyone knows. Awesome.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I appreciate it. You're welcome. Hey,
Speaker 1: call to men. How are you hi? I'm okay, How
Speaker 1: are you good? What's your question? I'm gonna try to
Speaker 1: help you. Thank you. Um. So, I'm currently single, um,
Speaker 1: but I have a friends with benefits man in my
Speaker 1: life right now. Um. Well, recently he's told me that
Speaker 1: he loved me. But I'm so confused if he loves
Speaker 1: me as a friend or as a girlfriend. It's literally
Speaker 1: I mean, I've heard a lot of the story, and
Speaker 1: you know, obviously we all have a past, but I
Speaker 1: think that's that's what happened most of the time. Uh,
Speaker 1: Like friend foods benefits only war for so long it's
Speaker 1: really right when I actually people can keep it that
Speaker 1: way because I feel like eventually someone starts feeling, start
Speaker 1: having feeling for each other. So my guests will be
Speaker 1: that he actually likes you more than just a friendly
Speaker 1: benefits and that he actually I hope that, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe something more could happen with you. Yeah, I'm just
Speaker 1: not sure how I feel now because I'm not sure
Speaker 1: if I have feelings for him, and I just don't
Speaker 1: know how to bring it up to him. The only
Speaker 1: thing is like this is, um, it's gonna be you
Speaker 1: that's gonna have to figure it out, because I mean,
Speaker 1: you can obviously have a conversation with him and everything.
Speaker 1: But the problem is like usually it's often that in
Speaker 1: those situations only one of the person start to a
Speaker 1: feeling and then I mean it does happen sometimes that
Speaker 1: you know, people get into of ship and everything. But um,
Speaker 1: the problem is, like you gonna need to figure this
Speaker 1: out because then you know that at that point it's
Speaker 1: almost for him. Every single time you're gonna see him,
Speaker 1: it's not going to be used a friend with benefits.
Speaker 1: It's gonna want more and more and more, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Yeah, that makes sense. Thank you, Thank
Speaker 1: You're welcome. Hi, it's domain. How are you good? How
Speaker 1: are you doing good? I'm good? Thank you. What's your question? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I just started dating a guy and I really
Speaker 1: like him, but I see who he is friends with
Speaker 1: on Instagram and there are a lot of Instagram model
Speaker 1: girls who he hangs out with. And it's mostly because
Speaker 1: his sisters are very pretty as well and hang out
Speaker 1: with that kind of crowd. And I hate to admit it,
Speaker 1: but it makes me feel insecure because I am not
Speaker 1: that type and I don't portray myself that way on
Speaker 1: social media. Is this is the thought that I should
Speaker 1: just like get out of my head because he was
Speaker 1: choosing to date me rather than them or I don't know,
Speaker 1: really strike me. Obviously there's some truth in it. Yes,
Speaker 1: I think you should like also like be confident in
Speaker 1: yourself because obviously he's setting you, not them, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. You know, if he didn't want to
Speaker 1: date you, then obviously would I've got Jackie. So but
Speaker 1: also what's important it's for him to make sure that
Speaker 1: you respect you. So yes, you can hang up with
Speaker 1: like anyone he wants or models or Instagram with it
Speaker 1: or whatever. It is, but as long as he show
Speaker 1: you respect and and you know it's important for him
Speaker 1: to you know, show you that you don't need to
Speaker 1: worry about it. Yes, you know he's getting you, but
Speaker 1: you know he needs to also you know, makes you
Speaker 1: feel comfortable, and that that would be my best advice
Speaker 1: from him to do to you. Okay, thank you very much,
Speaker 1: of course I n in it. Men, who are you?
Speaker 1: Hire you? I'm good? Thank you? How can I help you? Yeah? So, um,
Speaker 1: I'm a newly wed a couple of months actually, thank you. Um.
Speaker 1: But honestly, lately, I feel like my husband and I
Speaker 1: that's what weird to say. But it's great, but very
Speaker 1: had any time together. So he just started a new job,
Speaker 1: um as an engineer as well. Um, but it's taking
Speaker 1: up a lot of his time, and um, you know
Speaker 1: he's putting an extra hours. We both are actually because
Speaker 1: we're trying to save to buy a house together. Um.
Speaker 1: And so I know he's putting in the overtime for
Speaker 1: us and for that. UM, but I just feel like
Speaker 1: he's spending too much time away from me, and so
Speaker 1: I'm just like trying to figure out how I can
Speaker 1: bring that up to him and how I can bring
Speaker 1: up that we need you know, more us time and
Speaker 1: this new bag. I completely actually understand your situation because
Speaker 1: but we we live in this situation. We've me and
Speaker 1: my wife actually you know constantly, so we just walk
Speaker 1: so much constantly, both of us that we don't see
Speaker 1: it was that we barely see it to all like
Speaker 1: every day like just literally like an hour or two,
Speaker 1: not even because I do baterly because we have super early,
Speaker 1: are come home late and she's there because she has
Speaker 1: clients overseas. So um, what I would bring it to
Speaker 1: him is that you know, you're super grateful that you
Speaker 1: know obviously is doing this for you guys, because it's
Speaker 1: amazing that he's trying to save you know, and work more.
Speaker 1: But what alsoy it needs to be careful is that
Speaker 1: you don't want to to do more something to take
Speaker 1: away from you know, your couple. So do more, like
Speaker 1: you know, work more to do something you know as
Speaker 1: a buying house, but take away or so from you
Speaker 1: as you as a couple. So what personally we do
Speaker 1: as we don't see each other that often, we're trying
Speaker 1: to take like every like every two or three weeks,
Speaker 1: like try to just take like the weekend like two
Speaker 1: days or like even sometimes we live on the Saturday
Speaker 1: morning and come back on Sunday night. Just like go
Speaker 1: and spend two day even sometimes you can just be
Speaker 1: like an hour away or like an hour and like
Speaker 1: super close from where you guys live around aware, but
Speaker 1: you know, and just go spend the day like a
Speaker 1: day and a half two days with him, and then
Speaker 1: as he works the best, like it resets everything and
Speaker 1: we just enjoyed and you enjoy so much more the
Speaker 1: time even though it's short with that person, because it's
Speaker 1: not that often that it happens, so you enjoy so
Speaker 1: much more. And then that way, it keeps you go,
Speaker 1: guys going, because you know that you know you still
Speaker 1: have those you still can make that little you know,
Speaker 1: um that effort like to spend time with your partner
Speaker 1: because it's important to keep that in a relation ship,
Speaker 1: you know, right, and to like to continue to date
Speaker 1: your husband exactly like yeah, and then if possible, Like
Speaker 1: I don't know how hard it is. It's we're always
Speaker 1: trying to do we we do it sometimes, but it
Speaker 1: has but like maybe you know, try to do at
Speaker 1: least like try to try to say, like let's do
Speaker 1: like one day pay a week or you know, at
Speaker 1: least we're going to date for one one day a
Speaker 1: week and then every three weeks, let's do like a weekend,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe do that type, like try to do
Speaker 1: something like you know that one day a week, you know.
Speaker 1: I think everyone can try to figure out like one
Speaker 1: day a week to do just a date like for
Speaker 1: a couple of hours, and then once ever we like
Speaker 1: oh once a month, like you know what you do
Speaker 1: like a weekend somewhere for like two days. That way,
Speaker 1: I think everyone can make this work, you know. And
Speaker 1: and uh any died you know, since we're doing is
Speaker 1: my wife did help us a lot, so I'm sure
Speaker 1: we'd help you guys a lot. Yeah, okay, thank you,
Speaker 1: just carving out some time. Yeah, great, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: You're welcome. I hope it's gonna it's gonna work. He
Speaker 1: works for us, so yeah, I hope finger cous but yeah,
Speaker 1: it's Romain. Who are you? I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good? Thank you? Okay, So my question is a
Speaker 1: little backstory. Um So, I've been with my boyfriend for
Speaker 1: about five months and we just had our first fight
Speaker 1: and it just kind of seems like our communicationous. Our
Speaker 1: communication style is kind of different when it comes to
Speaker 1: having tough conversations about our feelings, and it just seems
Speaker 1: like we don't match up. And I'm struggling because any
Speaker 1: time I do bring up my feelings, I feel I
Speaker 1: just kind of feel dismissed. And we get along great otherwise,
Speaker 1: but in those moments, it just I just feel really
Speaker 1: discouraged and bumps me out, And I don't know what
Speaker 1: to do because I feel like I'm for him, but
Speaker 1: just wish we can change are I don't know fighting style.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's a chance for change working exactly? What? Exactly? Uh,
Speaker 1: it's like the way when you bring up your feeling
Speaker 1: that he is writing bad to like back to it,
Speaker 1: he just he like, like, so my our fight was
Speaker 1: kind of seemed like he was flirting with a girl
Speaker 1: at a bar, and like I totally owned that I
Speaker 1: was cheated out of my last relationships, so I know
Speaker 1: that like I have that that I have that resentment
Speaker 1: or of that fearum, but he just kind of brushed
Speaker 1: it up like it was nothing. I was just being
Speaker 1: friendly and like anytime I kind of bring up my feelings,
Speaker 1: it's just he kind of it seems like he kind
Speaker 1: of shuts down a little bit and doesn't really know
Speaker 1: how to deal with it, so he just kind of
Speaker 1: dismisses it. Yeah, well, after yes, it's good to talk
Speaker 1: about the past, but also you know, it's not because
Speaker 1: you've been honest about your past that he has to
Speaker 1: you know, put a stickare on you and seeing like, oh,
Speaker 1: but you did that or whatever. So but what's important
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, whenever it's like you maybe explained
Speaker 1: to him in a way that you know, you you're
Speaker 1: trying to let him know, but you're feeling before you know,
Speaker 1: it gets to a point that you get hurt. And
Speaker 1: then you know because obviously if that was this case
Speaker 1: and he was actually coming to you and then you know,
Speaker 1: trying to bring his feeling that you know, he actually
Speaker 1: didn't like the way you where with someone or whatever,
Speaker 1: you know, uh, and actually didn't care and you know
Speaker 1: tell him like basically that nothing was happening. Uh, maybe
Speaker 1: maybe trying to find a way to make him like
Speaker 1: take be in your position and to h to have
Speaker 1: men understand that you know you would most likely would
Speaker 1: like you to you know, listen to him. And then
Speaker 1: if there's something that actually did bothn't him that you
Speaker 1: were doing that. I'm sure he would love you to
Speaker 1: be here to listen and to hopefully, you know, be
Speaker 1: able to change that. So it goes both when or
Speaker 1: essentially it's not only one way. I feel like the
Speaker 1: importent for a person that to be here and to listen,
Speaker 1: because otherwise if it only goes one way, then there's
Speaker 1: no point. It's not gonna go anywhere obviously, right, So
Speaker 1: maybe like the next time that there's something like this,
Speaker 1: maybe approach it like maybe first could you imagine yourself
Speaker 1: in my position and like go that way with it? Yes,
Speaker 1: but if I was you actually don't wait for the
Speaker 1: next time, because usually that's the poem. It's like I'm
Speaker 1: not saying, don't talk to about it like right now,
Speaker 1: right now because it might be a little fresh, but
Speaker 1: don't wait for it to happen like maybe you start
Speaker 1: to bring it up a little bit before. So it's
Speaker 1: one that about it because you know if you wait
Speaker 1: for like the moment, it's gonna either beyond the differensive
Speaker 1: and then it's not gonna try to listen. I was
Speaker 1: gonna say that you just think that because of this happened.
Speaker 1: But if we actually when nothing happened, and you said,
Speaker 1: like you know what I was thinking, like, you know,
Speaker 1: just I would like to be able to express more
Speaker 1: my feeling and stuff like that, then you know, most
Speaker 1: likely it will be like more willing to listen at
Speaker 1: that point because he knows nothing is happening, so it's
Speaker 1: not like you know, anything bad, and maybe it will
Speaker 1: be more you know, you know, willing to listen and
Speaker 1: then understand even better. Okay, yeah that makes sense. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so do it more like in a neutral time, not
Speaker 1: necessarily when yeah, yeah, exactly, and people maybe you know,
Speaker 1: if you feel like and then yeah, I try to
Speaker 1: bring those feeling actually at that point you know, like
Speaker 1: you know, you know it those was on me if
Speaker 1: you know you do this or you do that, you know,
Speaker 1: and let me know and ask him also if these
Speaker 1: things that was on him. That way you can understand us.
Speaker 1: So at your point and you know, to understand you
Speaker 1: maybe a little bit better on you know, on the poll,
Speaker 1: on what you like, what you're gonna like, and then
Speaker 1: you know both ways. Okay, that makes sense. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I will take your advice. He's gonna help, all right.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, thank you. All right, So that's
Speaker 1: it for our colors. We're gonna take a quick break
Speaker 1: and come back. Okay, So welcome back to home and Springs.
Speaker 1: Um and here is some qu and a with me.
Speaker 1: So the first one, Romane, A lot of people knew
Speaker 1: you as a husband of Mary figure as fund sellings
Speaker 1: and said, how did you meet? So we made so
Speaker 1: when I came to work in the U s she um,
Speaker 1: she was when we're a friend of m the person
Speaker 1: I was coming to work for. So we're talking for
Speaker 1: about like six months mores. And then when I moved
Speaker 1: to the US, then obviously she was starting to show
Speaker 1: me right, So obviously I got I was super attracted
Speaker 1: to her directly. Um. So actually that's the second question,
Speaker 1: what attracted you to her? So there's many things like
Speaker 1: she's um an accomplition, but she's like, um uh such
Speaker 1: a hard worker, she's a smart um and super sweet
Speaker 1: or so she's just such a big hug and I
Speaker 1: love the fact that you know she has those two
Speaker 1: mud like you know, she can be like super funny
Speaker 1: and and uh, you know, a friend and everything. And
Speaker 1: then on the other side, like when she has to work,
Speaker 1: like she's the most like focus and you know, determinated.
Speaker 1: So third question, who made the first move? Did you?
Speaker 1: Did you ask her out? So yes, actually did so
Speaker 1: after a couple days actually working. I mean when I
Speaker 1: met her, I did actually ask her out, so I
Speaker 1: think it was like four days afterwards. And uh, and
Speaker 1: I didn't made the first move. I was grabbing your legs,
Speaker 1: I think, and grab her hand and then let on
Speaker 1: when we are we went out, actually kissed her for
Speaker 1: the first time and the rest is history. Uh. The
Speaker 1: fourth one, what's the best part of being made into
Speaker 1: a strong and accomplished woman? Um, the best part of it.
Speaker 1: I mean what I love is that I know that
Speaker 1: I can always scane on her. Um. We both like
Speaker 1: you know as um we both the color of each
Speaker 1: other like, and we love that you know, we're such
Speaker 1: a hard worker, both of us, so uh we uh
Speaker 1: we are admire this from from each other that you know,
Speaker 1: uh like working so much and being having so many
Speaker 1: goals and stuff like that. So that's what I love
Speaker 1: the most about her, Like she's like such a care Okay.
Speaker 1: The fifth one may as a life in l A
Speaker 1: for many years before you moved where it had to
Speaker 1: fit into our life at first, so um, well, obviously
Speaker 1: when I moved with it, I didn't have any one,
Speaker 1: so she was super nice and actually made me meet
Speaker 1: her friends and luckily for me, we got like we
Speaker 1: clicked with every one of her friends actually, and Jason
Speaker 1: bread like became like two of my brother and then
Speaker 1: where the where we start training, we're like one of
Speaker 1: the things. So I got lucky. But like, yeah, we
Speaker 1: I love for a friend and so um fortunately for me,
Speaker 1: now it wasn't that hard. After it's a lifestyle that
Speaker 1: you have to, you know, go for it. But you know,
Speaker 1: when I moved here, um, I knew that's what I wanted.
Speaker 1: So no, actually for me, it didn't it wasn't that hard.
Speaker 1: What is the one thing you and may love to
Speaker 1: do together? What we love to do together the most?
Speaker 1: It's traveling, especially in Italy. That's a favorite country, I
Speaker 1: mean the favorite places. We of love Italian food and
Speaker 1: we just love Italian so the people or the food
Speaker 1: and everything, so but not only Italy, we just love traveling.
Speaker 1: That's alf A waid. Things like discovered the world together
Speaker 1: in different countries and people's and that's off things um
Speaker 1: into some ding relations questions. Okay, so who is dealing
Speaker 1: different in friends than in the US. Um, that's a
Speaker 1: good question. I don't know. I mean I feel like
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's that different. I mean dating
Speaker 1: is dating after each Yeah maybe the different culture it's
Speaker 1: a little bit different, you know, France and the US.
Speaker 1: But after OTN and that it's like we're talking about
Speaker 1: the man and a woman no matter where it is
Speaker 1: you know in the world that it's like you have
Speaker 1: to adapt yourself to each other and then you know,
Speaker 1: make some sacrifice and then, uh, you know, if you
Speaker 1: love the person and you want to make it walk.
Speaker 1: I feel like, no matter where you are in the world,
Speaker 1: you have to do it. So I don't know if
Speaker 1: it's that much difference between friends and us. But yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so as someone who is younger than your spouse, those
Speaker 1: age really matter in the restaurantship for us, not at all. Actually, UM,
Speaker 1: I mean I don't think so personally, and I don't
Speaker 1: think my wife hither. Um. I think she keeps like
Speaker 1: she always said, I'm I'm an old soul. And uh,
Speaker 1: I just think that you know, if you love the person,
Speaker 1: you treat the person right and everything. Um. As the idea,
Speaker 1: it doesn't really matter, like you know, it's more, but
Speaker 1: like what you treat teach us her and the respect
Speaker 1: and then you know how much you care and you
Speaker 1: know the attention that you give tweature, that's what's matter
Speaker 1: for me. So no, it doesn't matter from me. So
Speaker 1: what's your best advice for an happy and healthy marriage?
Speaker 1: My best advice is too um. For us, what was
Speaker 1: is spend time together, open and be able to talk
Speaker 1: and um. Yeah, spending time together and then try to
Speaker 1: do activity together like us for example, what we love
Speaker 1: the most and we always reconnect so much more, it's
Speaker 1: when we travel and spend time together. So I think
Speaker 1: it's spending time together and m And obviously you know
Speaker 1: when you love each other and do you know, keep
Speaker 1: showing that person that you love her or love him,
Speaker 1: you know. And the last one, do you think it's
Speaker 1: important that a couple has separate interests or those everything together? Uh? No,
Speaker 1: I think it's good to have like separate interests. Um.
Speaker 1: I mean it's just because no matter how much you
Speaker 1: love the person, it's good to have like your little
Speaker 1: time and you know with your friends stuff like that,
Speaker 1: Like you know, I love to go to the gym.
Speaker 1: She does like different like kind of exercise. But I
Speaker 1: love to have my time with my boys and then
Speaker 1: just go and you know, it's my it's my time.
Speaker 1: And I think I think it's good for in its
Speaker 1: relstionship to have your whole little time you know sometimes
Speaker 1: and then uh and then not everything you know, not
Speaker 1: everyone can love. It's everything like all the same things. Sorry,
Speaker 1: so yeah, I know, I think you know. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you can obviously do a lot of things together,
Speaker 1: but it's good or so to have like some different player,
Speaker 1: you know baself. All right, So thanks everybody. You can
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