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Speaker 1: Fine four three.

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Speaker 2: What's up y'all? It's your girl list any Sugarl Dre

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Speaker 2: and the Call.

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Speaker 3: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 2: Where a drunk mind speaks a sober thoughts. We got

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Speaker 2: a motherfucking guest today. Excited. I'm excited to do We

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Speaker 2: never have people.

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Speaker 1: We literally never have guests.

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Speaker 3: I mean, because first of all, I think people need

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Speaker 3: to understand this is not a guest based part.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to talk to nobody, but I don't

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Speaker 2: want to talk nobody. We do have guests with them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So when we have guests, so it's like, okay,

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Speaker 4: we with you, you know.

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Speaker 2: What I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So for the people who don't know Jesse Will, tell

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Speaker 3: us who Jesse Will is, because I know who you is.

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Speaker 4: I'm Jesse not I'm saying a Haitian bitch, you know

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Speaker 4: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Who trying to make.

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Speaker 5: It that special?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 1: Just let me just be out here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so much y'all. Did y'all have a good

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Speaker 2: past week?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: My week was good.

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Speaker 1: My week was good.

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Speaker 2: I've been chilling, you know, working.

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Speaker 4: I see you double seed up today and stopped playing

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Speaker 4: with the hole.

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Speaker 2: I stopped playing with the whole double seed up all them.

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Speaker 2: You are talking Camilla. We ain't talking about Camilla. Conversation

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Speaker 2: about the crime. The motherfucker I mad all over again.

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Speaker 3: But let's that goes to our conversation that we had

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Speaker 3: the other week.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes side chicks do get promoted. I mean, that's true.

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Speaker 4: But if you want to be technical, she was his

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Speaker 4: beach kind of are in the picture before she was

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Speaker 4: still though, because she was married. She sis was married,

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Speaker 4: but she wasn't married when they started. But then she

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Speaker 4: got married, she did. He was away in the navy

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Speaker 4: doing his things. She got married, she did, he moved.

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Speaker 1: On, he had kids. Then she came back in the picture.

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Speaker 3: That's true if you love the lad and and if

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Speaker 3: it comes back, then somehow you know.

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Speaker 2: But Charles was sick though he was sick, he was.

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Speaker 2: She got married, he was, he.

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Speaker 4: Was, and that's why Camilla had to do what she

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Speaker 4: did to unseek him.

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Speaker 1: We all know she killed that lady.

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Speaker 2: She had to unseek him.

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Speaker 1: She had to unsee him by killing that lady.

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Speaker 2: Bitches, ain't she.

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Speaker 4: We all know Camilla did. And now she's about to

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Speaker 4: be queen. But she's gonna be.

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Speaker 2: Able to queen.

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Speaker 4: You will never be Diana Beach, never be Diana Hearing,

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Speaker 4: because she was the people princess is the people's prostitute.

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Speaker 1: People.

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Speaker 2: Poor.

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Speaker 4: I ain't never going to see it for you, Camilla.

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Speaker 2: We bring you down, bitch, We come palace and we're

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Speaker 2: gonna ransack that mother fuck playing with you calla all

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Speaker 1: She even she even down at Buckingham. I don't even

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Speaker 2: Ham bro You ain't from buckingham bro period.

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Speaker 1: Diana was up in that bitch Dog. She was up

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Speaker 4: But you ain't never You ain't never finn to be

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Speaker 4: the real queen. Camilla, man, Poor Camilla.

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Speaker 1: That's why Elizabeth is still alive.

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Speaker 4: Elizabeth dead ass, She dead ass waiting for us somebody else.

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Speaker 4: They're always immortal. You ain't not gonna be queen. They

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Speaker 4: queen Elizabeth died. Just no, just no Camilla dying to remember.

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Speaker 2: I said, sad, because you ain't.

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Speaker 1: You ain't never gonna be the queen of this show.

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Speaker 2: You ain't. Okay, Okay, enough about the crown tea. We

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Speaker 3: We always talk about the bead bes that be in

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Speaker 2: What's up with that.

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Speaker 3: You need to prove to me that you want to

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Speaker 3: talk to me. Nigga, you slid in my DMS.

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Speaker 2: I don't never need to prove to you that I

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Speaker 3: So I want to talk about dating rappers and athletes

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Speaker 3: are bdb's and them knowing that.

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Speaker 2: You still have to court me.

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Speaker 3: I don't care who you are because a lot of

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Speaker 2: A lot of you women, a lot of you girls.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna get on y'all ass too, because y'all do

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Speaker 4: See now, you're making it hard for a bitch. Like

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Speaker 4: Drane to get her thing. What you gotta understand about

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Speaker 4: them type of niggas is they have a superiority complex.

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Speaker 2: A lot of them that you I love when you

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Speaker 2: use big words.

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Speaker 1: That's a big word. How many letters that either, that's

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Speaker 1: a lot of work. It got more, it got ten.

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Speaker 4: Definitely got more than ten for y'all. But yeah, they

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Speaker 4: be having a superiority complex. They be feeling like, since

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Speaker 4: and shit, they be getting drafted when they're like eighteen

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Speaker 4: nineteen years old. You are all of these fucking fans

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Speaker 4: you got grown ass me and walking around with your

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Why would you not feel

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Speaker 2: like you're like a god?

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Speaker 4: I mean, at the same time, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: But not only that, that's why these niggas be thirty

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Speaker 2: Twitter like I can't find nobody real bruh trying to

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Speaker 4: But that's because you're fucking with bitches that are excited

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Speaker 1: And that's what I was gonna get to.

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Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of holds out there, y'all

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Speaker 4: you know, you know he got money, okay, but is

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Speaker 4: he putting the money in your purse?

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Speaker 1: Has the money hit your man If.

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Speaker 4: It has not hit your account yet, your drawer should

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Speaker 4: not be on the floor seats, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: So it's a lot of y'all be fucking with these

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Speaker 2: Firem. But he hasn't done nothing yet.

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Speaker 7: But you already putting your drawers on the floor sets.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna need you to pick them draws up and

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Speaker 7: pick your stanzas up to and make sure that these niggas.

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Speaker 4: Is coming through with concrete evidence they can do for you, amend.

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Speaker 2: And that's real say that all.

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Speaker 4: Want to say, I'm this nigga, I'm with that nigga

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Speaker 4: like o't since but you still living on your.

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Speaker 2: Best friend count.

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Speaker 4: And what we always say, it don't matter how much

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Speaker 4: It doesn't matter how much money he got. You could

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Speaker 4: be working fucking with a nigga that's worth fifty million dollars.

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Speaker 4: But if he's not doing ship for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you're getting it.

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Speaker 4: But if you spend any and most of these niggas

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Speaker 4: ain't they not tell you.

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Speaker 1: I have one grud that I knew back in Miami.

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Speaker 4: Okay, she was sucking with this football player who love

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Speaker 4: cash apping brandom people.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he's with you.

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Speaker 2: Do everybody know who it is?

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Speaker 5: But me, wait a minute, you don't have a conversation. Okay,

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Speaker 5: you're talking about so suss she was drawing is.

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Speaker 2: Oh I shun?

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Speaker 1: This is so nice? This is so sad? What's fucking him? Right?

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Speaker 4: But she was awesome, so fucking a football player who

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Speaker 4: hadn't even seen half of the career.

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Speaker 1: That mister cash At had.

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Speaker 4: So she was fucking mister cash like she would drive

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Speaker 1: Driving out west or up north, like it's a drive.

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Speaker 4: This would drive all the way up there and would

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Speaker 4: not ask him for nothing, Like never ask him for anything.

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Speaker 1: Right, I'm like, sus you dropping the draws.

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Speaker 4: You this man is cash apping people on Twitter like

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Speaker 4: you're not You're not gonna ask, Like the Bible say

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Speaker 4: I will say this, if I was a nigga like

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Speaker 4: that and you ain't asking, I ain't giving me.

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Speaker 2: But always say that if you have.

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Speaker 1: Here, go to t tea.

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Speaker 4: I thought that was her car breaks down one day

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Speaker 4: on the way to get to the d She ain't

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Speaker 4: even asked, mister cash up.

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Speaker 1: She gonna ask you.

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Speaker 4: She gonna ask the nigga who ain't even seen the money.

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Speaker 1: That is as fraction of what well, it sounds like.

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Speaker 2: To me that she's a little slow. You got to

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Speaker 1: Definitely think that she's slow.

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Speaker 4: But I have had conversations like this with girls before,

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Speaker 4: and for whatever reason, some bee cheese.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy as the town.

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Speaker 4: The more money that a nigga got, they be scared

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Speaker 4: to ask because they be thinking they gonna lose the nigga,

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Speaker 4: which is wild as fuck to me, because trust me,

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Speaker 4: this nigga has money to spare.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: But I talked about this on the past episode that

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Speaker 3: used to be me, I really did.

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Speaker 7: I used to be just scared avenue why why.

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Speaker 3: Why talked about this on the past episode because I

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Speaker 3: I said this a lot of times. But now, nigga,

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Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. I'm about to ask you

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Speaker 3: for it.

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Speaker 1: And I really do think that that's what it is.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I think girls gonna be wanting to look to

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Speaker 4: niggas like they don't have they ship together. But if

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Speaker 1: And I think if.

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Speaker 2: gave it to me. That's not his fault.

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Speaker 4: That's would have bought her new car, right, Like, that's

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Speaker 4: would have bought her a new fucking car.

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Speaker 2: And here's my thing on your list.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why women be thinking that way, but men,

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Speaker 4: when they.

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Speaker 1: Got it, they're not ashamed to ask you your car?

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Speaker 2: Can I get twenty dollars?

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 1: They don't have that same mentality?

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Speaker 4: So why do women have that mentality where you're trying

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Speaker 4: to prove yourself improve your bitch.

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Speaker 1: I ain't independent at all?

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Speaker 4: Right, drop it in my account here, you I ain't independent?

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Speaker 3: No, Yeah, So going back to but going back to

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Speaker 3: like that, you know what I'm saying, instead of being

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Speaker 3: real about her situation. If this is somebody that you

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Speaker 4: That's like they know whether or not you need to

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Speaker 4: keep sucking with that nigga, And it's about letting him

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, but I was crazy about that.

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Speaker 3: That same nigga is gonna find another bitch that demands

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Speaker 4: He's gonna and guess what that ho I ain't gonna

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Speaker 4: everything because she adds.

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Speaker 2: Right, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So I feel like, if you an athlete, a rapper,

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Speaker 2: You gotta spend that set.

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Speaker 4: But I'm not even saying that spin because I say this,

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Speaker 4: I'm not my rent.

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Speaker 2: I'm not looking for that.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for that.

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Speaker 2: But no, I feel like whyp in mind when I can.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like it's supposed to be something, something

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Speaker 3: extra like we always say, like I think that we're

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Speaker 3: the mall d tomorrow, nigga, lets fucking go.

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Speaker 2: If I want to go shopping, or if I want

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Speaker 4: But you can also pay my rent to because I

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Speaker 4: got the rent money, I just don't want to spend the.

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Speaker 3: Right I'm just saying, like I feel like a lot

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Speaker 3: of these times these men slide in our DMS.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sliding, y'all.

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Speaker 3: D right, You're coming at me, and they're gonna try

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Speaker 3: to switch the narrative like, oh, you need to prove

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Speaker 2: I don't need to prove to you. Nah.

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Speaker 4: That ship do kill me though, cause niggas do be

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Speaker 4: rights some of y'all niggas. Shevalry completely dead. That's my

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Speaker 4: bank tellers, because they're gonna withdraw without no. You know,

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Speaker 4: they're gonna make that regular I do.

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Speaker 2: But they don't like me back. They be thinking that they.

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Speaker 4: Gotta do all this extra stuff, and it's like, no,

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Speaker 4: you really don't like just please come over and spend time.

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Speaker 3: Let's go out something like you said something about dating

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Speaker 3: rich men.

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Speaker 2: It's not what people think. It's really not.

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Speaker 4: It ain't always like I don't been in some situations

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Speaker 4: with these rich niggas, like they be expecting a lot

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Speaker 4: like up front, and I've been in some like almost

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Speaker 4: scary situations where it's like niggas be expecting to like

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Speaker 4: they're trying to force themselves because they're so used to command,

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Speaker 4: Like they're not used to somebody saying, hold on, wait.

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Speaker 1: Day, can we do this? Can we do that?

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Speaker 4: So for me, it's just been a very it's somewhat

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Speaker 4: them they just don't feel like we're just saying. They

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Speaker 4: don't feel like they have to court you. They don't

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Speaker 4: they have to get to know you, don't feel like

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Speaker 4: they have to talk to you. They feel like you

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Speaker 4: should just want to see them command like that's it,

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Speaker 4: Like you're supposed to be on their dick. And I've

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Speaker 4: never been that type of girl.

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Speaker 2: I want to say this.

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Speaker 3: I told y'all all the time. I like dating me

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Speaker 3: a regular nigga that has money.

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Speaker 2: That's where it's at for me personally.

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Speaker 4: I feel like the regular niggas they be like, oh baby,

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Speaker 4: let me, I got let pay in the car. Nigga,

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Speaker 4: I got let pay in a whip nigga.

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Speaker 2: With their friends.

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Speaker 4: They be on FaceTime nigga, look and I'll be like,

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Speaker 4: that's the issue for me.

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Speaker 2: What the wround with you? I love it. You haven't

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Speaker 2: been around the store before. I don't like this, but

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Speaker 2: I'm a legal so I like all attention.

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Speaker 3: Like when I be with my little whatever he is,

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Speaker 3: he don't even have a nickname on the show, but

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Speaker 3: just be so excited, like he just love it and.

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Speaker 2: Just to be with me.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like, let niggas be excited too, something

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Speaker 4: stay exciting, exactly excited in the beginning, they do my problem,

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Speaker 4: my ego. It's one stora in this relationship.

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Speaker 2: And it's me. Okay, it's one I feel that it's

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Speaker 2: one superstar here and it's me. Period.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. It ain't enough. I'm not

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Speaker 3: about to share this spot like with you. It's all

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Speaker 3: about me.

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Speaker 2: It's all about me, me, me, me, me, Look at

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Speaker 2: about you.

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Speaker 4: You you you you come.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna do it, do it today. I'm excited,

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Speaker 2: love it. Okay.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So let's get on to the next topic. So

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Speaker 3: I'll let you introduce this one. Talking to your man

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Speaker 3: about your past.

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Speaker 4: Yes, so I wanted to talk about talking to your

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Speaker 4: new nigga about your past relationships.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I personally.

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Speaker 2: Feel like that it is a terrible idea. You should

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Speaker 2: never do it. How do y'all offerel?

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Speaker 3: I feel like it really depends depends on what because

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Speaker 3: I feel like I can talk about my past to

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Speaker 3: let you know what this nigga did that I don't

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Speaker 3: want you to do. Things that bother me are things

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Speaker 3: that I'm trying to work on as a person. Like

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Speaker 3: I can honestly say like, oh, I did this in

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Speaker 3: my past relationship, and this is why we broke up.

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Speaker 2: So this is something I struggle with. So this is

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Speaker 2: what I'm working on. So if you notice me doing this,

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Speaker 2: please let me know. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I feel like if you're trying to talk about progression

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Speaker 3: in y'all's relationships, sometimes the past does need to be

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Speaker 3: brought up. But if you just wonder how many niggas

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Speaker 3: I fuck, y'all feelings about to get hurt?

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Speaker 1: My body kind I'm a virgin.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's three. It's always three. Now the girl

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Speaker 4: we already said that's our universal number.

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Speaker 2: It's three.

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Speaker 4: But now I think that it's always a bad idea

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Speaker 4: because I feel like if you tell your new nigga

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Speaker 4: she that you let your last nigga get away with

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Speaker 4: her shit that you went through with your last nigga.

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Speaker 4: It's not gonna make him be like, Okay, I'm not

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Speaker 4: gonna do this the hood. It's gonna make him be like, Okay,

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Speaker 4: I can probably get away with it. She gonna let

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Speaker 4: his slide, so I'm gonna do the shit too. That's

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Speaker 4: why I think it's a bad idea.

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Speaker 2: Well, it depends if this man cares about you. I

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Speaker 2: feel like even if he cared about you, still no man.

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Speaker 3: If a nigga care about you, he should want to

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Speaker 3: be like the complete opposite of you.

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Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Do you feel like you've had niggas care about you

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Speaker 4: when they still d how she?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my past had nothing. I'm not saying that it.

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Speaker 4: Always has to do with your past, but I feel

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Speaker 4: like they can contribute to a nigga feeling like he

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. I don't think a nigga gonna

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Speaker 2: be like, oh did this so I'm gonna do it too.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you're niggas are crazy, They're dumb. Absolutely had somebody

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Speaker 4: do that to me recently. Yeah, I told him something

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Speaker 4: that x A mind did to me.

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Speaker 1: We were chilling. We were, you know, just chilling, chilling hard.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, you.

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Speaker 2: Looked the tip. Okay, okay, I just know what y'all

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Speaker 2: was on. I had to make sure.

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Speaker 1: Because you on such.

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Speaker 2: About this.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I told him not to do like he's yes.

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Speaker 2: I really feel like that's a real thing.

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Speaker 4: Like niggas would be like, Okay, so her X cheated

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Speaker 4: on her, she still stay with that nigga.

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Speaker 2: So if I cheat on the bea, she's gonna stay

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Speaker 2: with me too. I was like, as I.

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Speaker 4: Come back and probably give us some gifts to do whatever,

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Speaker 4: She's gonna be cool. Weitty, you gotta tread like but.

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Speaker 1: Ain't.

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Speaker 2: I ain't. I gotta get an I'm dead.

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Speaker 4: But no, you definitely got to tread lightly with telling

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Speaker 4: niggas about your past.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're trying to start a new situation,

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Speaker 2: why is.

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Speaker 1: Any of it that shit? Really mean?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm just saying that's fucked up for somebody to

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Speaker 2: Niggas are manipula till and you do it too.

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Speaker 4: We do do it, you know, I feel like everybody does.

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Speaker 4: Everybody has used some information that a person told them

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Speaker 4: about their past to like get over on them before Wow.

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Speaker 2: I definitely feel like everybody has done it at least

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Speaker 2: once in the life.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying everybody does it all the time, but yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's human nature. It's human nature because it makes you

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Speaker 4: feel like, okay, yeah, but I'm not gonna lie. I

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Speaker 4: feel like when a man tells me about his past,

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Speaker 4: I really try my heartest.

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Speaker 2: To be like the complete opposite of that.

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Speaker 4: And that's another thing. I don't want you to be

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Speaker 4: trying to be something else. I want you to be yourself.

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Speaker 3: Like if somebody said, oh, id this girl she loud

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Speaker 3: all the time, but.

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Speaker 4: Here niggas love coming into this present relationship and like,

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Speaker 4: oh you.

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Speaker 2: Know she did then she did that, she lied on me.

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Speaker 1: She I'm.

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Speaker 2: The same FA.

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Speaker 4: Did that straight now, y'all, y'all gotta be a little

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Speaker 4: more sneaky than you let me know.

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Speaker 3: I'm really trying to work on my lion. I gotta

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Speaker 3: stop lying, bro.

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Speaker 4: Why I don't know why that's what you're gonna call

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Speaker 4: this episode?

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Speaker 8: Why why.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking?

447
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,119
Speaker 1: She's gonna stop, you know what.

448
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 2: The thing is no issue here and we'll be different.

449
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:38,720
Speaker 2: If I was a good liar, you are a bad

450
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'll be like, oh girl, I just got

451
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,200
Speaker 2: my hair downe yesterday. You'll be like, no, you did.

452
00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:48,359
Speaker 4: Not like okay, you give him on the last you

453
00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 4: got give thankful to the line.

454
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 2: I can't. He'd be like, where was you at last night?

455
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 2: I was like, oh it was with Drew. No, you wasn't, okay,

456
00:20:55,760 --> 00:21:01,360
Speaker 2: I was. I was sucking that good. I was think

457
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:04,040
Speaker 2: about me. I never tell on myself. I'm going to

458
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 2: the grave.

459
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:12,119
Speaker 4: That's the all we hate your word, I know you.

460
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's why I said I have to stop

461
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 2: mine because I'm really not fucking good at it. You

462
00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:23,920
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

463
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you could take a sound class. We're in the

464
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 4: Panelmam made sometimes useful let's speak come home girl, because

465
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,439
Speaker 4: literally class for everything. On the other side of this,

466
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 4: it's gonna have to be a whole lot of line

467
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,119
Speaker 4: to do, so we need you to be prepared.

468
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 2: But you know what, I.

469
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 3: Will say this, honestly, deep down, I like to think

470
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 3: that I have a good heart. I feel like I'm

471
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 3: a good person, so I do try to give people

472
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:46,640
Speaker 3: the benefit of the doubt.

473
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,960
Speaker 2: So honestly, and I'm being one were to soft on

474
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 2: these niggasus niggas, but just friends in general. Like if

475
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,199
Speaker 2: something like you, are you telling me something that like

476
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:56,400
Speaker 2: somebody did in y'alls past.

477
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,640
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna use that against y'all. I can honestly say,

478
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 3: I don't feel like I've ever done that but you.

479
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 2: But it's okay, you're not.

480
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 1: Now.

481
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 4: Everybody has manipulative qualities. I've seen you be manipulated with

482
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 4: niggas before I have.

483
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 2: It's okay, though to do that.

484
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 3: I know bad about it, but I'm just but I'm

485
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 3: talking about like somebody I care about you, Yeah, get amazing, listen.

486
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:26,440
Speaker 2: Manipulating you. Yeah.

487
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 1: Love is a dirty game, girl.

488
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:28,399
Speaker 2: It is.

489
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,880
Speaker 1: You don't play clean, you win, right.

490
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: That's why, honestly, that's I'm always doing whatever he own.

491
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 2: That's true. I'm not gonna lie. In November, I took

492
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 2: some L's bro.

493
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:44,880
Speaker 3: I took some in December.

494
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,919
Speaker 2: Now tomorrow the first Well, by the time this ship is,

495
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 2: I was trying to be professional.

496
00:22:50,119 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 8: That I just got don't finished crime.

497
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 2: I'm trying to im all the ship. Bitch. Listen Jesse saying.

498
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 3: I don't remember fuck my phone. I hate you us

499
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 3: what the we're even talking about. That's all I got

500
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:32,919
Speaker 3: to say about that, Okay, So, uh, let me just

501
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Speaker 3: tell y'all real quick about something that me Andrea used

502
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503
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504
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506
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507
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509
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510
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511
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512
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513
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514
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515
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516
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517
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523
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527
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529
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531
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532
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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, okayee, okay. So the next topic, I

533
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,360
Speaker 4: wanted to talk about need and good with your man

534
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 4: family because I don't give a fuck. Okay, if you

535
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 4: don't like me, you don't know. I don't know because

536
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I don't need that.

537
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 2: I need No, I don't need.

538
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: You.

539
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 2: I need her on my side. I need Margaret need that.

540
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 2: But don't you feel like she's the key I feel like.

541
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 4: Don't get me wrong, if I started adding a nigga,

542
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 4: I'm going to try to do my heart.

543
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 2: She got the key to key to key. I don't

544
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 2: try my hardest to get along with his mom. But

545
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 2: I feel like some nigga's mamas just be bitches. They

546
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 2: they do. They be mean as fuz yes, for no.

547
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 4: Reason, Like you come into the situation, they automatically decide

548
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 4: that they don't want to like you, you know what

549
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 4: I mean. Or it might be a beach that I

550
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 4: used to fuck with who the mama really really liked

551
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 4: and he not will her no more, and she want

552
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 4: him to get back with that beach, so she just

553
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,439
Speaker 4: gonna be mean to you off the rib, you know

554
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 4: what I mean. It'd be different little situation. So I

555
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 4: feel like I'm gonna be respectful and I'm gonna try

556
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 4: to get along with his mom. But at the same time,

557
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 4: they're gonna start giving you the energy you're giving me

558
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 4: because I know I'm not giving you no reason to these.

559
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 2: Like me, right, see it be that.

560
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 4: And then sometimes like if his mama African or Haitian,

561
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 4: she wants you to be his slave, like I a

562
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 4: Haitian nigga. And one day, like I walked into her

563
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,479
Speaker 4: kitchen and it was pots like everywhere, like dirty ass pots,

564
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 4: just pots pots, pots.

565
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 6: Pots, pots park and then she got my I got

566
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 6: my p and then like and then like some of

567
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 6: the pots had roaches and the like.

568
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: The thing is like in the pie house, it was

569
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: her house.

570
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 2: It was her.

571
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 4: And mamall she got huhume her pussy probably was trash roach.

572
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 4: Let me tell your pussy was trashed because sis cooked

573
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 4: two meals every single day and oh yeah, backed up

574
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 4: on washing my mid So she looked at me and

575
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 4: she was like, you know, if you're going to do

576
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 4: that my son, you have to cook every day.

577
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: And my son don't get left bad.

578
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 10: She's gonna get your left bad.

579
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 2: Well he could come over here then, and I was like, yo, left,

580
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 2: there's no bad.

581
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: That's my donal.

582
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 2: That's yes, there's God and bo and correct. I cannot believe.

583
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 4: So something like she was, yeah, really, mind you her

584
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 4: son had three testicles?

585
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 2: What the fuck?

586
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: I looked like you had.

587
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: To suck three balls. I could barely suck too bits.

588
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 2: You don't adding? I was like, wait three?

589
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, y'all got three testicles? Why? He

590
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 1: had a birth the leg He had a Michaelue clue.

591
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 1: That's what we called that.

592
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: Michael clue, my clue glue.

593
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: We call that and create that when they got like

594
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: a next an extra testicle.

595
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 2: I was like, girl, I never think.

596
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm working extra hard already, so she.

597
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:27,479
Speaker 2: Probably got some super sonic for her A minute blanks

598
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 2: three testicle. I'm surprised you ain't breaking it. I ain't

599
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 2: going to Haiti, bro.

600
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 4: I don't know what the water, what's in the water?

601
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:45,719
Speaker 2: Test suck nig like two three, three.

602
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: But let me tell you something that he was born

603
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: in America, so it wasn't it wasn't like a.

604
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 4: Handy thing, the vitamins and stuff like it be stuff

605
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 4: and the meat here because like you know what I'm saying,

606
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 4: it be stuff in the meat.

607
00:28:58,080 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: That's why we die sooner.

608
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 2: Here we have three. Look, I've been eating part since

609
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: I was one. Nigga, my pussy is very normal. What

610
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 2: if you want? My pussy is a Larry normal. Don't

611
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: blame that ship on our meeting.

612
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 11: Now, right, bait, But I cannot.

613
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 2: I'm really trying to picture that ship in my head.

614
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: The third one wasn't a full one. It's just like.

615
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 2: We're having that extra little finger. Why we have that

616
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 2: little nub? Right? He was like, don't forget the thorough one, baby,

617
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: don't forget the thorough one. Baby mom too.

618
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: That's my point. I was already working hard. Come at me,

619
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 1: talking about I gotta cook.

620
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 3: But I do feel like mom's, especially niggas that are

621
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 3: my mamma's boys, their moms kind of want you to

622
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 3: be like, Okay, you're replacing me.

623
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 2: I'm not your mother, and I'm not replacing you, and

624
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 2: I'm not replacing you.

625
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 3: A lot of times that's what happens I have when

626
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 3: I okay, y'all, I was dating this guy, right, I

627
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 3: found out the nigga was cheating on me.

628
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: This is another thing that moms do.

629
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 3: I found out the nigga was cheating on I pulled

630
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 3: up to this nigga crib and I'm like, I pull

631
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 3: up and his mom was like waiting at the doors,

632
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 3: like she was like looking out the door, and I

633
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 3: was like, hey, it's such and such here.

634
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 2: I need to talk to you. She was like, oh,

635
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 2: not bad, but he's not here. Bit y'all.

636
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 4: Look at him picking the window and they she ain't

637
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 4: even know you could see that nigga.

638
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 2: I'm looking at him. I'm literally looking at him, and

639
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, as woman and a woman, you should

640
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 2: be holding your sad. You should.

641
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 4: But I'm saying, that's why some of these men are

642
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 4: trash because their mom don't hold up the ship that

643
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 4: they do.

644
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: I was just telling my mom this. My mom came

645
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving. I was just telling her. I was like, Mom,

646
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: you have.

647
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 4: Been meaning on my brothers versus your daughters. Like your daughters,

648
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 4: like you raised us to be so independent uphold all

649
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 4: these morals. Then I look at my brothers and they

650
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 4: out here doing God. And when my brother is going

651
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 4: through it with whoever he dating at the time, or

652
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 4: his wife or whatever he feels, he would just come

653
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 4: back to my mama house.

654
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: That's not how it's.

655
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 2: Do that.

656
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 4: Mama's definitely be coddling their sons.

657
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: It's like, people, that's my.

658
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 10: Son like that too.

659
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 4: So it's some niggas out there who will complain to

660
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 4: you because you don't do ship like they mama and

661
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 4: all that type that she too. And it's like, cool,

662
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 4: what's your mama can put this pussy on you?

663
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 2: Exactly? Can your mama suck your dick? Does your mama.

664
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: Suck your and then shut the funk up there? Bring

665
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: up your mom to hear that.

666
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 3: But you know what, like I said, though I do,

667
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 3: I have had a good relationship with a guy.

668
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 2: I dated his mom. I did.

669
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: I said, like I do.

670
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 3: I do enjoy that getting along with them. If it

671
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 3: was up to me, of course, I want to get along.

672
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 2: With my nigga's parents. I'm like his mom and his dad.

673
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

674
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 3: Like the dad is always like me. Oh the girl had.

675
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 4: Niggas mamas because I dated this nigga one time. He's

676
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 4: my mother was a quirky.

677
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: You wasn't bringing that.

678
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 4: You wasn't bringing you, wasn't bringing no cracks, so she

679
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 4: ain't like you.

680
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: I'm not laughing at.

681
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 4: I'm talking about it.

682
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 2: You don't he do.

683
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: You're watching the Lord watching he ain't about there.

684
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 4: Like listen, I'm gonna tell you how you get in

685
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 4: good with somebody.

686
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: Mama, give me. You gotta come in acting like.

687
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 4: You love the Lord even if yeah, true, naturally I

688
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 4: love the Lord, but when I come in, I love

689
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 4: the Lord extra.

690
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 10: Yeah, like man.

691
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 2: Can go.

692
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: I just want to.

693
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 2: Y'all. Look, you gotta come in.

694
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: When you come in like that, I'm gonna love you.

695
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 4: Now that scripture talking about Jesus and everything he's done

696
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 4: for you.

697
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 1: Pray for her.

698
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 4: Tell her you're praying for her son. All you doing,

699
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 4: you know, you back there sucking, that's all you're doing.

700
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 2: But tell that's so good? Yeah, idea, use.

701
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: The Lord Black Mamas love Jesus. Always use the Lord.

702
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: That's okay, Okay, that.

703
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 2: Will work though, but you gotta keep up with it.

704
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 2: And you're not a good liar. So what you're gonna do?

705
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 2: Oh ship the Lord? Can you help me? I gotta

706
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 2: remember the can you hear me off? Today? We know

707
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 2: that you are listening. Get the spirit? Okay.

708
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 3: So now y'all know how to let us know how

709
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:35,839
Speaker 3: y'all getting good with y'all men's family, because I want

710
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 3: to know what right I would like to know to.

711
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 3: So now we're gonna get into the big a.

712
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: The big.

713
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 3: Now, before we get into the bed, tell us about

714
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 3: the pills you've been taking this who okay, y'all, So

715
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 3: I definitely wanted to talk to y'all about these pills

716
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:59,240
Speaker 3: that are called Taste Vita. These pills, y'all, they change

717
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 3: your vaginals accretiontion me and can also take them to

718
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 3: It's an all natural supplement, so it has nothing but

719
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 3: the finest juices and berries. So like work with your pa,

720
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,320
Speaker 3: work with your pH and sheet you now and it

721
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 3: changes the way that your retina tastes.

722
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:17,479
Speaker 1: And it worked too.

723
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 4: Vanilla strawberry Sein. I mean, you know, whatever you feel,

724
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 4: whatever you want your flavor today to be, period all.

725
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 4: So y'all got to make sure that y'all copy y'all

726
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 4: some use poor minds at check out and get you

727
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 4: all of these count and don't say I ain't never

728
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 4: gave y'all.

729
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 2: It really works.

730
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 3: We're gonna put the link in the bio for y'all,

731
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 3: So make sure y'all go.

732
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 4: Get y'all taste to be the pills. Okay, come taste

733
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 4: this beat.

734
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 2: So I wanted to.

735
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 3: Talk about since we're on the topic of parents, we've

736
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 3: been on the topic of parents today. I wanted to

737
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 3: talk about for the sex topic today, that sex talk

738
00:35:58,200 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 3: that you had with your parents.

739
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:00,760
Speaker 2: You want to ever have kids?

740
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 3: Yes, I do so, whenever versus your parents talking to you.

741
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:07,720
Speaker 3: How would you change that versus whenever you have kids?

742
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 3: How did your sex talk with your parents go?

743
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: It was told me I was going to hell, are

744
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: you serious? Girl? My mama is a whole evangelist.

745
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 4: She was like, if you don't with mysh you have

746
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 4: sex you're going.

747
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: To You're God does nothing like that?

748
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 2: The gosh, how does she think you're still a verging?

749
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: No, I did break it to her.

750
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:44,359
Speaker 4: Oh you did, okay, you forty three.

751
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 2: I just told her this year.

752
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: I told her last year.

753
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:54,240
Speaker 2: Well how did she react?

754
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 4: No, No, I did. I did tell my I did

755
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:03,280
Speaker 4: tell my mom. Like two years after I lost my Virginia.

756
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: I had had like I had gone to depression after

757
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: because it was that bad.

758
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, my first time was horrible, and then I had

759
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 4: already thought to myself like Okay, I'm not married, so

760
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 4: I'm going to hell.

761
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,399
Speaker 2: So it was like it was all this stuff going

762
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 2: to God's going through you, dick. It so trashed to

763
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 2: the lonely bend.

764
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 4: White jacket everything. So I came to my mama crying.

765
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 4: I was like, Mom, got something to tell you, Like

766
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 4: I lost my Virginia.

767
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

768
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 2: This She cried.

769
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: She was crying. She was like, we gotta pray, like

770
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: we gotta, we gotta go to church.

771
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 4: So I went and this this live. That's this is

772
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 4: literally a part of my stand up, Like I tell

773
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 4: this story and people used to cry out, oh. Literally,

774
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 4: we went to Revival. We went to Leon which is

775
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 4: that's what we call it revival lat what he said, girl, y'all.

776
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 4: So we're gonna lay and it was a visiting pastor

777
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,720
Speaker 4: and like they were doing an auto call my mama.

778
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 2: You Oh, I used to be an altar girl. Times

779
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:31,720
Speaker 2: have changed.

780
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 4: That thing used to every Sunday, every Sunday with my

781
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 4: white rod.

782
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 2: Don't play with me, okay, anyways, listen.

783
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 4: So I go down to the altar and the pastor

784
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 4: was like, I feel like God.

785
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 2: He's dolling me something for you. And I was like,

786
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: what is good? Who is God trying to tell me?

787
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 2: He was like the Bible to say, the men meant

788
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 2: for down seven thighs. Oh Lord, the spirit.

789
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: And men met for the seven thimes.

790
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 4: But he would get up it times and I was like, ship,

791
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 4: I only fail one time?

792
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 2: Mine as well, I got six more. Okay, that means.

793
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 1: I got all that ship I got. I gotta do over.

794
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: So I did a do over.

795
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: Then that's what you got from him? You So that

796
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: means like a fuck again? Passed up six more times?

797
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 2: I got six more cheeses gass as.

798
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was all right cool and that night I

799
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 4: was delivered. Oh so it was better that night you

800
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. That night, I feel like I

801
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 4: was delivered at the okay, but then like when I

802
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 4: did do it over yeah, like, oh my god, he

803
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 4: did it so nice.

804
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 1: So this boyfriend, oh okay, okay, I was cutting up.

805
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: He was cutting up. Girl.

806
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 4: He got he had got us a little hotel for

807
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 4: forty five dollars for three hours, had a little the

808
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 4: red roofine me too, with a little mirror.

809
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 2: At the time, mamma broke he got money. I am dad.

810
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 2: So just still sexually acting.

811
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, she don't like that, like that, how did your

812
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: I'm not well.

813
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 3: I feel like your mom and you are really really open,

814
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 3: which is crazy. Your mom is older, but I feel

815
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 3: like your mama know that she knows her daughter.

816
00:40:55,920 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 4: Get now, Well, mama is older, but more importan, my

817
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 4: mom is a nurse. So I feel like, yeah, so

818
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 4: I feel like she just will always have those conversations

819
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 4: with me, more so because she wanted me to be safe,

820
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, and be smart. Yeah, she

821
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 4: didn't want me having sick, but at the same time,

822
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 4: she felt like, if I was gonna do it, she

823
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 4: wanted me to be smart about it, you know what

824
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 4: I mean. So I got on birth control when I

825
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 4: was like fourteen. Yeah, I wouldn't even fucking yet. But

826
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 4: I got on birth control when I was fourteen.

827
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:26,240
Speaker 2: Would you start fucking?

828
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 1: I feel like when I was fourteen but not yet. Okay,

829
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 1: no damn, but but I fuck.

830
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 4: In my defense, though I only fucked one time when

831
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 4: I was fourteen, did not even fuck again until I was.

832
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, schedule, because I remember my first that shit was.

833
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: I was like, this is not the movies. Yeah, not

834
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: what I mean saying my.

835
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 3: Birth sound was so romantic and I wasn't it was

836
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 3: I was. I was dating the same but you know

837
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 3: I was dating a white guy that I used.

838
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 2: I went to all white school. Like it was like

839
00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 2: we made the girl. She was the love of the

840
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 2: white dudes. Dad, I was sucking all on them pink balls.

841
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 2: And how was she used to love?

842
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 6: Like?

843
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:10,760
Speaker 4: We were not Connor, It's not Connor's name was Stephen

844
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:18,720
Speaker 4: and I loved him, baby.

845
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 2: That was my man. If I honestly, if I had.

846
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 3: To date a white boy again, I would date him

847
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 3: right now, yes, because we had we were so cool,

848
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 3: like that was my friend.

849
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: We know you like the thieves, all right, that's.

850
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 4: The girls, y'all don't know who I'm talking about, mister Harvey.

851
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: Like, how was it?

852
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't remember because I've had so much Dick sister,

853
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 3: and it was all black Dick.

854
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: So erased the pink.

855
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 3: I don't remember I was. I was fifteen, so I

856
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 3: really don't remember. I mean, I had sex with like

857
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 3: two white guys I think a white guy when I

858
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 3: was in high school and.

859
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:58,439
Speaker 1: Then being good.

860
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 2: I remember making for we love. That's all I remember.

861
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 3: I know I was at that moment, I was in love.

862
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: I don't have no bad memories of us being together.

863
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

864
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 4: That's the only reason why I do want to like

865
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 4: try Caucasian meat just once, just once.

866
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: I want to have like that rare, that raw meat because.

867
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 2: I don't like the color.

868
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just the color for me.

869
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 2: I don't really don't because he was kind of well,

870
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,959
Speaker 2: he wasn't. It looked uncooked. It wasn't pink. I don't

871
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 2: remember it being pink. It tastes different, all dictates like

872
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 2: Dick like.

873
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,320
Speaker 3: But I feel like I said this on the past episode,

874
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,479
Speaker 3: I don't feel like I started having good good sex.

875
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 3: Law was like twenty five, twenty six, I was just

876
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 3: fucking just because I was just fucking, you know what.

877
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 4: I like, Yeah, I ain't not like you know what

878
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 4: I'm saying, so, but yeah, I feel like when my mom.

879
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 3: This is literally how me and my mom had the

880
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 3: sex talk. She was downstairs, I was upstairs. So we

881
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 3: had intercoms in our house because our house was so big,

882
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 3: so like you know, the intercoms, they'll go into each room.

883
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,760
Speaker 2: So she got over the intercom. She was like Tierra.

884
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 3: So I got out there com I was like, yes, Mom.

885
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 3: She was like, do you need to be on birth control?

886
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 2: I was like no. She was like all right, and

887
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,800
Speaker 2: I was like sex talk, I'll see.

888
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 3: I think she did that just to like let me know, like,

889
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 3: hey girl, I know you fucking, so if you if

890
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 3: you need to tell me something, come talk to me.

891
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 3: Cause my mom, she's a tourist. Y'all have the same birthday.

892
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 3: So she's like, I'm gonna let you do your thing.

893
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 3: Whenever you're ready to talk to me, come talk to me.

894
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 3: But I'm opening the door just to let you know.

895
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 4: See my mama, I wasn't fucking, and she didn't even

896
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:26,919
Speaker 4: think that I was fucking, But I think she knew

897
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:28,879
Speaker 4: I was going to high school. So she was like, Okay,

898
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 4: she going to high school, she probably gonna start heaving seek,

899
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 4: so she was like, let me just put her own

900
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 4: birth control. But it, really, to be honest, was because

901
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 4: I had really bad crimps but you know, and I

902
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 4: didn't want to take them big ass iron peels. So

903
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,879
Speaker 4: but yeah, I don't know, but my mom, I thought

904
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 4: that she didn't know I was fucking when I was

905
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 4: in high school.

906
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 2: So when I turned like twenty one, I told her.

907
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, you know I used to be

908
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 4: fucking high school because used to let me spend the

909
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 4: night at my boyfriend house.

910
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 2: Well let me she ain't let me.

911
00:44:58,000 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 4: But let me go over there and then I will

912
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 4: proteate like I was going to spend the night in

913
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 4: my cousins house an stay.

914
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I was like, yeah, we used to

915
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,399
Speaker 2: let me go over there. We used to be having sex.

916
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 4: And she was like, well, at some point I knew

917
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 4: you was having sex with him because you used to

918
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 4: be over there too much.

919
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 2: What let me ask you?

920
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,800
Speaker 4: Because see, I didn't start fucking til I got to college,

921
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 4: So what was fucking like in high school?

922
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 2: Ru tresh.

923
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it had to be Tressa.

924
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 2: It was.

925
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 4: I just talked about these on the last the last episode.

926
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,359
Speaker 4: I was saying how I used to suck big under the.

927
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 2: Cover, Yeah, because she was here, because.

928
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 4: I like to be like if you if you pulled

929
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 4: a couple back on, I'm not gonna do it no more.

930
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

931
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: So like see, it's just trade how we learned.

932
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 3: Like yeah, see, I don't even know why I was

933
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 3: having sex. Yeah no, I mean the boys weren't, but yeah,

934
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 3: the boys were.

935
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 1: And it was quick. Just learn how to bust and ut.

936
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 2: Seriously, that's what I said. I mean in the past

937
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 2: few years.

938
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm only thirty one, Like I said, just said,

939
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 3: I have. I felt like sex got good to me

940
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 3: when I was like twenty five.

941
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 2: Me too, So it's like just learning. So all this time, I.

942
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 10: Ain't not.

943
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 4: Girl.

944
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 2: I ain't even know y'all. I'm telling you, how y'all,

945
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 2: how are y'all gonna talk sex with y'all kids whenever

946
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 2: y'all have kids?

947
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: My kids not.

948
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 4: Fucking I think I'm gonna talk to my son and

949
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 4: my daughter different, but it's gonna be the same message.

950
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 2: Why you talk to them differently?

951
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 4: Because I feel like with my son a caller. No,

952
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,359
Speaker 4: absolutely nice, But I was like, I feel like I'm

953
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 4: gonna let my daughter.

954
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, sons, I.

955
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 4: Think you need to be talked to, Yes, And you

956
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:41,240
Speaker 4: have to talk to them differently because with the daughter,

957
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 4: it's like, if you get pregnant, you the one they

958
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 4: gotta be with the baby all the time. You you're

959
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 4: the ones that are is gonna be solely responsible for

960
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 4: these child's life. So you really need to be out

961
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 4: here being safe and being careful. And nigga need to

962
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 4: be safe and careful too though, you know what I mean.

963
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 4: But I just I think that with a woman, it's

964
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 4: just gonna have to be a more intricate and detailed conversation.

965
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 4: But no, it needs to be in like detail with

966
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 4: the son because a lot of times these niggas are

967
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 4: carrying around diseases and don't even know it. Well, that's.

968
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: Just this detailed and deep it needs to be with

969
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 2: your daughter.

970
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 3: It needs to be with these niggas because these boys

971
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 3: do not know, Like you fucking going around giving people

972
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 3: heart beats, then you don't have.

973
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 2: It, you know what I'm saying.

974
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 4: I want to have the conversation like with both my

975
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,439
Speaker 4: sons and my daughter. I don't know what God gonna

976
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 4: give me, but especially my son. I want to talk

977
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 4: to my son about how to please a woman because

978
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 4: feel like a lot of men are so selfish and

979
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 4: beg yeah, definitely so long to even know how to

980
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 4: not because like you know, I already had a complex

981
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 4: with myself to not try to figure out what to

982
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 4: do right.

983
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 1: So I want like my son to know this is

984
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:50,720
Speaker 1: how you please a woman.

985
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 4: Take your time, just because yeah, and I want my

986
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 4: daddy to teach like son this, this is how you

987
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 4: please a woman, This is how pussy like. I really

988
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,320
Speaker 4: want to I don't.

989
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 2: Know if I can talk to my son about to know.

990
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 4: I don't want to send my son out there biting coochies.

991
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 2: I want my ain't know how to eat.

992
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: A pussy correctly, because you're.

993
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 4: Not gonna be right about to say my son got

994
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 4: trashed deep period exactly exactly period my own no, And

995
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 4: that's what's my problem. I was, I was biting, I

996
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,280
Speaker 4: was biting dick. And then when I because I already

997
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 4: got a smart mouth, so here I am, I you know,

998
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:35,799
Speaker 4: I'm clinching to the deck.

999
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 3: Then I was like, all right, you know what niggas

1000
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 3: is complaining let me just look a little bit.

1001
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 2: I ain't had nobody in my life. I ain't had

1002
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:49,839
Speaker 2: no daddy around I was growing up. That's why why

1003
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 2: I can't suck a wild? Why are you don't suck this?

1004
00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: Cause I can't.

1005
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 2: She just said her mouth, you got him break this.

1006
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 4: But I mean, I'm getting better because I did, like

1007
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 4: two and a half years. Why I ain't fucking uphing?

1008
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so PIDs coming in the bull.

1009
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: During the panoramic, I did start sucking again, and I had.

1010
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 4: Great reviews like he loved the way I sucked dick,

1011
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:20,439
Speaker 4: and he ain't like.

1012
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:21,919
Speaker 1: He got a he got a you know what I'm saying.

1013
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 4: He got a country for dick, got a fine.

1014
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, so he was very satisfied.

1015
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:35,760
Speaker 4: So I'm i'm I'm I'm more confident my Dick's day, Okay.

1016
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 3: Because goes a long way because I know how to

1017
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 3: suck some dicks. So whenever I be, I'd be like,

1018
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 3: watch this nigga that.

1019
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 4: I love sucking dick. It'd be like a movie. I

1020
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 4: mean so excitingly. Yes, I remember I suck deeck well

1021
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 4: not real deep the legs one time and she was shocked.

1022
00:49:55,480 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 2: Wait which tim which some about when you was saying

1023
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 2: about which many times.

1024
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 4: I didn't suck a real You know, I had a

1025
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,439
Speaker 4: friend of mine who her best friend was a guy,

1026
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 4: and and her best friend how.

1027
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: To suck it. Oh yeah, come back on me. Yes,

1028
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: And she became like she became known for super he Yeah,

1029
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 1: like she was crazy.

1030
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:26,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would never see any of my guys.

1031
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,720
Speaker 4: I would never think one of my friends I wouldn't

1032
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 4: do from before a real one.

1033
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: Yeah she did.

1034
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 2: She was just laying right there watching the bed.

1035
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: She was like, okay, okay, I can take that home.

1036
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 2: I can take last long. But it was fun. It

1037
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:45,240
Speaker 2: was fun.

1038
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 4: And that nigga start rubbing on my thigh.

1039
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 2: I oh wait, you think I just wanted to watch?

1040
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we're not gonna talk about good time,

1041
00:50:58,440 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 3: good time?

1042
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:05,400
Speaker 2: We have a while? Have we changed? Have we ground? Okay?

1043
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 4: So now look y'all got I'm trying to stay on time, bitches.

1044
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 2: Okay.

1045
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 4: So now we're gonna get into dubip a.

1046
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm gonna go first. I only have one

1047
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 2: bop this week. Okay.

1048
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 3: So y'all know I've always said my favorite rapper, well,

1049
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 3: my favorite app used to be Travis Scott he's like

1050
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 3: number two. Now.

1051
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 2: Don Tolliver is like my favorite fucking rapper.

1052
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 3: Don Tolliver is from Houston and.

1053
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 4: He's just super super super fier. But this is not

1054
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 4: his Bob of the week. Travis Scott is my second

1055
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 4: favorite rapper.

1056
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 2: Y'all know, I love me a Houston rapper.

1057
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 3: Anyway, So my bop of the week is a Franchise

1058
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:49,399
Speaker 3: remixed by Travis Scott and it also has Future on there,

1059
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 3: which is one of my favorite rappers, and Young Thug

1060
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 3: on there, which is one of my favorite rappers. And

1061
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 3: he brought back in my A, y'all remember, But she

1062
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 3: only has like she don't say she don't have like

1063
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 3: a verse on there is like in the background. Yeah,

1064
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 3: it's called franchise, so it's kind of like an old

1065
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 3: to them franchise boys.

1066
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:08,800
Speaker 2: My white tea, it go yep, my white it goes

1067
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 2: so hard. The remix you gotta listen to the remike.

1068
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 2: It goes so fucking hard.

1069
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 3: And what's crazy is I was like, damn, I know,

1070
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 3: m i A got paid for this and she only

1071
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 3: says like two words in it.

1072
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:22,359
Speaker 2: But she was so good outside of.

1073
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,840
Speaker 3: Paper Planes, her album was actually really really fired, So

1074
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:27,839
Speaker 3: I'm really hoping like maybe he's trying to like work

1075
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 3: with her.

1076
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 2: And bring her back out. She was really fucking dope.

1077
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: She was.

1078
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 3: She was super fucking dope she did. But I feel

1079
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 3: like people only really listen to paper Planes by her,

1080
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 3: but she has like her music is really really fucking

1081
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,400
Speaker 3: But yeah, that's my bop of the week. Travis Scott

1082
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 3: Franchise remix. Young Thug is supposed to be dropping a

1083
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 3: project soon, so I'm excited about that. Y'all know I

1084
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 3: love me Thug as well.

1085
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 2: So I feel like all my favorite rappers linked up

1086
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 2: and make the soon. So yeah, that's my bip of

1087
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 2: the week. Style.

1088
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:00,839
Speaker 4: I have two bops this week. Even Change just came

1089
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 4: out with his album Not There Long Ago. He has

1090
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 4: a song called hold On y'all sorry fell Away. It's

1091
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 4: two chains Kanye West and Brent Faz okay, and I

1092
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:13,439
Speaker 4: really like Brent Face.

1093
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 2: I love brind Yeah, I love he is such a

1094
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 2: definitely a mood.

1095
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:21,919
Speaker 4: And then also he has another song called Quarantine thick

1096
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 4: with Mulatto and y'all Big.

1097
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 2: Lotto with a wigs stealing ass. I love, but you

1098
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 2: gotta watch your wigs.

1099
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:36,280
Speaker 4: Around them wig tweets that's that's wild.

1100
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 2: That ship is wild, big lotto.

1101
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 10: Line.

1102
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 2: You know you lie, but hey, I'm not gonna lie.

1103
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 3: I feel her because Julia, Yes, because sh be hard

1104
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 3: because at that time she probably didn't have a lot.

1105
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 2: So you would have sold people.

1106
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:58,800
Speaker 4: Leg Yeah that is not about not stealing from small

1107
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 4: black But I got and a half years later though, Yeah,

1108
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 4: I got money now, so I don't mind paying for

1109
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 4: my hair.

1110
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 2: Like two years ago you would. Hell.

1111
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, here's the thing, like when you broken.

1112
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 2: You see any I was still anything.

1113
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 3: I was at wall I was at the grocery, like

1114
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 3: at the corner store with an orange like that has.

1115
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,760
Speaker 1: It should be like you said, we got food stamps

1116
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: like wigs stamps for real.

1117
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 2: That's a good idea.

1118
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 1: Like yeah, cause, like come on, we gotta get our

1119
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:32,839
Speaker 1: wig done.

1120
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 2: We need to write a letter to Biden.

1121
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: Yep, serious, we can actually call us.

1122
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 2: You know she's gonna have the budget for them wigs

1123
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 2: and budget yeah out a big lot of So those

1124
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:50,919
Speaker 2: what you've been listening to lately, Jesse.

1125
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: Honestly, I listened a lot to a lot of burna Boy.

1126
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I like burna Boy and he has a song Paul.

1127
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: He has a song with whiz Kyd whiz Kid's new

1128
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 1: album called Jinga Inspired.

1129
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 2: I haven't been listening to my Naga people. Likely they

1130
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 2: need to get back.

1131
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 4: And I love afro beats. I'm a love of afro beats.

1132
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 4: I think I'm African, which I mean, I mean I'm.

1133
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 3: Haitian and we come from so yeah, well you know,

1134
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,239
Speaker 3: I got drug on Twitter because I kept saying I

1135
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 3: was Nigerian.

1136
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,840
Speaker 2: That was like, you really not Nagen. I was like

1137
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:29,839
Speaker 2: I sucked enough Nigerian Dad, Harry, I am from.

1138
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 4: I was like, if you at least three nigends passed down,

1139
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:37,720
Speaker 4: I could be the president.

1140
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:40,720
Speaker 2: I'm not qualified. That's it. Threat and Nigerian.

1141
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 1: It's a lot to suck. So not the one.

1142
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 2: What I'm just having a flash bix. Their thing Wasnavi.

1143
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 1: It wasn't you know.

1144
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:55,240
Speaker 3: I don't think I've ever heard was real little Nigerian

1145
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 3: man and he was a quick clumper.

1146
00:55:57,120 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, Nigga Nigeria. Niggas they got that sweet dick to you.

1147
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 4: It's like, it's it's something about the dick. It's we

1148
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 4: thought we did just say to you text Nigerian, but

1149
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 4: we're about to fuck the phone back ben hold On

1150
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 4: by Man.

1151
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,439
Speaker 3: Okay, so now we're gonna get into the questions portion

1152
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 3: of the show. If you want your question answer on

1153
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 3: the show, make sure you email us at ask poor

1154
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 3: Minds at gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member

1155
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 3: on the top tier of the Bottle pop in Teer,

1156
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,240
Speaker 3: you can skip the line and get your question answered.

1157
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 2: So the first question of the day is.

1158
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 3: From a Patreon member, so it says, hey, y'all, please

1159
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 3: keep me anonymous.

1160
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try to keep this short. I want to

1161
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 2: know if I ain't ship a cheater. Lol.

1162
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 3: So my baby daddy and I moved out of my

1163
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 3: home state to his and we had to move into

1164
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 3: his mom's house because you need pay stubbs and all

1165
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 3: that before you can lease an apartment. I want to

1166
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:57,479
Speaker 3: mention our relationship was already rocky. We had some DV

1167
00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 3: instances on both parts. He also became very withdrawn, distant, negative,

1168
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:05,720
Speaker 3: and short tempered after we had our baby. But anyway,

1169
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 3: we moved. Still it's dumb, I know, but I'll be

1170
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 3: dumb sometimes. So his behavior got worse after moving and

1171
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 3: we ended up in a big fight. So I told

1172
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 3: him I was done with his ass. I always say this.

1173
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 3: So I also sent him a message while at work,

1174
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 3: letting him know that I'm serious this time and I'm

1175
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 3: no longer in love with him and I don't see

1176
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 3: myself marrying him.

1177
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 2: He said, we talk about it at home, but never did.

1178
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 3: I'm still in the same house as him because I

1179
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 3: was working on getting my own aparpt.

1180
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 2: So fast forward a few days. I met this guy

1181
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 2: at work.

1182
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 3: He's cute, into all the things I'm into, and we

1183
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 3: ended up sneak leaking and having sex, you know, post

1184
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 3: break up hop phase. I was not sexually pleased at

1185
00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 3: all in the relationship because he was a minute man

1186
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 3: and didn't know how to eat her finger pussy, but

1187
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 3: his dick was fired for the first two minutes. It

1188
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 3: lasted lmao. When I tried to introduce toys, he was

1189
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 3: very stand offish and defensive, but I caught him in

1190
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 3: a weak moment and we bought a vibrator.

1191
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 4: He he he.

1192
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 3: However, he did not know what he was doing with

1193
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 3: that shit, so he founds out I slept with another

1194
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 3: guy or whatever, and he tells his family with his

1195
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 3: old snitching ass, and his whole family sits me and

1196
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 3: my family down to have dinner and basically come at me,

1197
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 3: calling me a cheater and a hoe. I know I

1198
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:21,919
Speaker 3: was wrong for doing this while still living with his mom,

1199
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 3: But am I a fucking cheater? Because these people areking me?

1200
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 3: By the way, I no longer live with him, and

1201
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 3: I never cheated while in the relationship.

1202
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 4: So if y'all weren't together, then you're not a cheater.

1203
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 4: I mean, it was kind of weird because you were

1204
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:38,440
Speaker 4: still living with his mother, so I think easy.

1205
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, if you living with somebody, I mean,

1206
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 3: I feel like there's certain lines you shouldn't cross.

1207
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 2: Let's be respectful until we're like completely done. Did she

1208
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 2: fucking me in the house?

1209
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 10: No, I'm bad.

1210
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: I don't see what.

1211
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I know outside of the home, he's not yours.

1212
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 2: I feel like, obviously you feel this way. You told

1213
00:58:58,560 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 2: him you don't want to be with him, you don't

1214
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 2: want to marry, Just leave that situation alone.

1215
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeahs.

1216
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 2: You know, like if you was really wanting to work

1217
00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 2: on y'all situation, then you wouldn't have done that with

1218
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 2: Oh boy, I agree, since you ain't do nothing wrong. Yeah,

1219
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 2: you really didn't do nothing wrong.

1220
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 3: If anything, maybe I would have waited till I was

1221
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 3: out of the house, because if the family felt comfortable

1222
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 3: enough to be like, oh, let's all have a sit

1223
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 3: down dinner.

1224
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 2: We're over.

1225
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 3: Why are we having to sit down dinner? Why are

1226
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 3: we talking about this? I agree, yeah, so since move

1227
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 3: on place and yes, but she said, I don't no more.

1228
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 2: Okay, so go to the next comrads. Okay, Hey, y'all.

1229
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 4: So I am the only child and have grown up

1230
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 4: with a very few friends. One cousin of mine seemed

1231
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 4: to be like a sister to me when we were kids.

1232
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 4: Ever since we have been grown and we hang out

1233
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 4: when we are both back in our hometown. I notice

1234
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 4: she does weird. She like every time I try to

1235
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 4: bring her around someone that I'm close to, she shows

1236
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 4: her ass. It was this one weekend at c I

1237
00:59:58,720 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 4: double A.

1238
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: We went, y'all North Carolina.

1239
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, in North Carolina. We went to the club, but

1240
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 4: afterwards she wanted to go back to the house and

1241
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 4: go to sleep. But I told her, my little boo

1242
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 4: at the time will be picking me up and I

1243
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 4: would and I would link back up with her in

1244
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 4: the morning. Y'all, this girl started cussing him out for

1245
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 4: no reason, crying and flipping out. Yes, she was drunk,

1246
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 4: but beach. And the second instance, she did the same

1247
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:23,080
Speaker 4: thing with the college friend of mine when we all

1248
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 4: went to the club. Please let me know what y'all

1249
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 4: think this means. It's so fucking weird, and now I

1250
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:31,200
Speaker 4: just hate hanging with her altogether. She only seems normal

1251
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 4: when it's just me and her, thanks friends.

1252
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: She's jealous.

1253
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, weird though she but she likes attention. So it

1254
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 3: seems like you're the person that always gets the attention. Yeah,

1255
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 3: so whenever other people are around, she has to do

1256
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 3: something to get backed out to So tell her, baby,

1257
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 3: you doing too much, straight up, like you gotta be

1258
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 3: real with people sometimes litt know, Hey, you doing too

1259
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 3: much and I don't like this. So that's why I'm

1260
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 3: not hanging out with you with other people. Because when

1261
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 3: it's me and you, you cool. Like everything that you

1262
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 3: said in this letter, you need to tell to her

1263
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 3: like I don't hold nothing bad because one thing about me.

1264
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 3: I feel like friendships can only grow and prosper if

1265
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 3: you're honest. Like anytime Dreda does something that bothers me,

1266
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,920
Speaker 3: I tell her immediately and we talk it out and

1267
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 3: it'd be squashed and we move on. You know what

1268
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Like, when you care about somebody, y'all want

1269
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 3: to be friends, you can't just be like, oh what.

1270
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: Do I do?

1271
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 2: Bitch? Tell them how you feel.

1272
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 4: And also, when people are friends with you, they should

1273
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 4: care about how they move and make you look in

1274
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 4: front of other people.

1275
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 1: I feel like, did she.

1276
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 2: Say it was a good I don't know's I just

1277
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 2: be reading girl?

1278
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 4: But no, So I think you you have to be

1279
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 4: mindful of how you move and how you make your

1280
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 4: friends look. And I think that if you don't care

1281
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 4: how you making me look, because that's selfish as fucked

1282
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 4: for you to be acting out and maybe you thinking

1283
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 4: only it only it only has something to do with

1284
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 4: you you making me look crazy exactly because why are

1285
01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:52,640
Speaker 4: you doing it?

1286
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 1: That's jealousy. I'm sorry. Anytime somebody just want to make.

1287
01:01:57,320 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 2: You look bad all the time, right, is jealousy.

1288
01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1289
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all know how I feel about Jelly's homegirls.

1290
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could just kick cuss or the current.

1291
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 3: Alright, I'm dead in my business. Don't do that, Okay, Ladies,

1292
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 3: y'all so funny. I'd be like in real life they

1293
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 3: my friends. Lol, Okay, anyways, here's my thing.

1294
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 2: So I was dealing with this dude for about a year.

1295
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 2: Right now. I didn't do no digging or his past

1296
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 2: or anything.

1297
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 3: I wanted to start off fresh with good intentions because

1298
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 3: you know, searching up a past, you're gonna find something

1299
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 3: you don't like.

1300
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 2: So I didn't do that, but my best friend did. Well,

1301
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 2: lord lo and behold, she came across some information she

1302
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,919
Speaker 2: held onto for six months. Well that's not your friend.

1303
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 2: But anyways, when.

1304
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 3: She first told me the information, it caused me to

1305
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 3: get into an argument with her and made me stop

1306
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 3: dealing with her as a close friend the way she

1307
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:48,919
Speaker 3: was because she didn't tell me right away.

1308
01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:51,600
Speaker 2: And secondly, it did not stop me from dealing with

1309
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 2: my dude.

1310
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 3: Now, yeah, she was a close friend, but she was

1311
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 3: always jealous of mine and his relationship. She said he

1312
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 3: was taking me away from her, so I didn't think

1313
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 3: she had good intentions telling me about the ship she

1314
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 3: found out six months prior, which was passion and I

1315
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 3: already knew about, but she dressed it up and make

1316
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 3: it seem like it was some recent shit. So I

1317
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 3: know she was being messy because me and my dude

1318
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 3: had already talked about it and it was off the table.

1319
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 3: So now she big mad telling our other friends I

1320
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 3: chose a nigga over her.

1321
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:21,120
Speaker 2: Now was I wrong?

1322
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 3: Because in my thought I was like, she being too messy,

1323
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 3: trying to break her friend and her nigga up.

1324
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 2: What's your thoughts, love y'all?

1325
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 1: But what is the information?

1326
01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 11: I know?

1327
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:32,439
Speaker 2: Bitch, you ain't even spelled me nothing to go out.

1328
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 4: It depends what it was, because sometimes some shit, even

1329
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 4: though it was six months ago, it's still a fucking

1330
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 4: big dal. Now.

1331
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 2: I do agree she should have told you as soon

1332
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 2: as she found out. I think that's weird, But I

1333
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 2: can't give you a proper assessment because you didn't spell

1334
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 2: the tea in them.

1335
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 4: Yes, you gotta give us more info. Write us again,

1336
01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 4: because it depends. We probably won't get back.

1337
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 2: To you till two months from now. We'll see you

1338
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty one, but we gonna let you know now.

1339
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,920
Speaker 4: But like I said, it depends if he was fucking

1340
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 4: another nigga that means obviously he's right, or if it

1341
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 4: was just like oh he got a baby or something

1342
01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 4: that's different, So it just depends what.

1343
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: It depends on what.

1344
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 2: To write us again, or maybe if you write us,

1345
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 2: we could like squeeze you in because I really want

1346
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 2: to know the tea.

1347
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, y'all.

1348
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 4: Next question short, sweet and juicy Hey hey ladies, and

1349
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 4: juicy hey ladies. I'm gonna follow directions, y'all, so y'all

1350
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 4: will answer my email. L O L. I'm twenty five,

1351
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 4: My BDB is thirty seven, and he Jamaican. His name

1352
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 4: is Jordan. He has a house in LA in Miami

1353
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 4: as well, which is where I live, but his nine

1354
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 4: year old son and baby mom are both back in Jamaica.

1355
01:04:57,680 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 2: Yes, it sounds like paradise.

1356
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 4: He flew me to Jamaica for our first day, but

1357
01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 4: he wanted me to come a day later than him

1358
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:07,439
Speaker 4: so he could get his son situated at his mom's house.

1359
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 4: He had just flown his son back to Jamaica from

1360
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 4: spending time with him in LA. That sounded iffy to me,

1361
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 4: but I let it go because he showed me a

1362
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 4: wonderful time. He told me that he and she don't

1363
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,440
Speaker 4: deal with each other unless it's about the child. However,

1364
01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 4: I did some Facebook stocking and discovered that his family

1365
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 4: in Jamaica is very close to his baby mom's family.

1366
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 4: They converse like their friends. I know it's childish, but

1367
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 4: I message his baby mom's sister on Facebook to ask

1368
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 4: what was up with Jordan and his baby mom and

1369
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:39,960
Speaker 4: she said, Jordan is like family to me. My sister

1370
01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:41,880
Speaker 4: has a child for him and they are not together.

1371
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:44,919
Speaker 4: It brought relief, but I still feel like something was off.

1372
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 4: I just don't want this nigga making me fall for

1373
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 4: him then end up leaving me to be back with

1374
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 4: his child's mom. We spent a lot of time together now,

1375
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 4: but this is my first ever BDB, so I don't

1376
01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 4: know how.

1377
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 1: To go about it. Please help, bitch.

1378
01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 2: Clearly you don't know how to go about it, because

1379
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 2: what the fuck did you miss that? Let me take

1380
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 2: something like this first, beatie bee.

1381
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 3: Y'all don't understand you to lose that bed, to lose

1382
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 3: your bad b like, it's supposed to be fun.

1383
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 2: It's joy, big big big ball of a big dick

1384
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 2: baller enjoying your bad B He just making so I

1385
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:22,480
Speaker 2: know he got that dick with the curve like a

1386
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 2: little bit of curve.

1387
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 3: BDB is supposed to have fun, Get your money, go

1388
01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:29,240
Speaker 3: on your trips, go shopping.

1389
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 2: You doing I mean, why are you falling for him? Sometimes?

1390
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 3: I mean sometimes feelings get involved, that's cool, but you

1391
01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:37,280
Speaker 3: gotta check yourself and mind your business.

1392
01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 2: This is a thirty seven year old man. He probably

1393
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:41,600
Speaker 2: got all his ducts and or he know what he's

1394
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 2: doing it.

1395
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 4: Just be honest, baby mama, ain't your busneys. It's his

1396
01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 4: baby mama, not cho business. Until they become your man,

1397
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 4: then it's kind of your business what they got going on.

1398
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 4: But right now, beach, I would just be getting my

1399
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 4: things and enjoying myself and you doing too me and

1400
01:06:57,360 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 4: then let me break it another thing down to you.

1401
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:04,880
Speaker 4: He is Jamaican now Caribbean men, African man. Just know

1402
01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 4: you are a concubine. He is that baby mama gonna

1403
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 4: be there for the.

1404
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:13,360
Speaker 1: They're gonna be fucking for the.

1405
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 6: You are.

1406
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 2: She said, you're got how fuck up?

1407
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 1: Okay?

1408
01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:26,040
Speaker 4: Really my phone not both of y'all being able to say,

1409
01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 4: I'm singing to bitch.

1410
01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 3: Get y'all in, says just mam, Joe buses because you

1411
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 3: don't wanna lose your bad beer.

1412
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 4: Yes, you moving completely wrong with this situation. Like like

1413
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 4: I said, well he got going on with his baby mama.

1414
01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 2: They don't have nothing to do with you, nothing at all. Okay,

1415
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 2: So last question, hn, it says good question.

1416
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 3: You got a man who's into everything you talking about,

1417
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 3: but he's not your partner. He just likes your personality.

1418
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 3: How far does that go in the summer of love

1419
01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 3: and time that you put into him? I mean, I

1420
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:04,080
Speaker 3: think that one will say that spending time with yourself,

1421
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 3: But I say, isn't that a jewel of opportunity?

1422
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 1: Shakespeare?

1423
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 2: What just happened? I'm very obsessed. I'm confusing, got.

1424
01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 1: Studio.

1425
01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:30,360
Speaker 4: It's a love child. What do you do when you

1426
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 4: find out her boyfriend? What do you do when you

1427
01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 4: find out her boyfriend may have another child in the world?

1428
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:37,360
Speaker 1: How do you handle the situation?

1429
01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:38,320
Speaker 4: What?

1430
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:43,240
Speaker 2: What fuck wrong with all today? Next question? I'm sick

1431
01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 2: of y'all. What are y'all doing embarrassing? We got company?

1432
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 2: Damn we got company, y'all.

1433
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 3: That's literally right every week when we got company, y'all

1434
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:56,439
Speaker 3: want to act up?

1435
01:08:56,479 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 2: Dudeyo, gomber small city type shit. Hey, lex Andrea.

1436
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:06,639
Speaker 4: First off, I wanted to say I love I love

1437
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 4: y'all see y'all on the eighty five South Show. I

1438
01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 4: love how you guys are unapologetically yourselves. It's so me

1439
01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 4: and a old what Okay? So me and a old

1440
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 4: friend fell out but still cordial, and I wanted to

1441
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:20,640
Speaker 4: see if I was wrong. Long story short, I was

1442
01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 4: being too friendly with this girl that was fucking the

1443
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 4: same nigga my friend was fucking. Every time I was

1444
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 4: around the girl, it was just a good time. Now,

1445
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 4: my friend peeped I was hanging with her and felt

1446
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:32,600
Speaker 4: some type of way. She told me and wanted me

1447
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 4: to cut her off. I said cool with no hesitation,

1448
01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 4: but then I thought about it. They never had any beef.

1449
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:39,840
Speaker 4: She just didn't like the girl because they was fucking

1450
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:42,720
Speaker 4: the same nigga. Mind you, this nigga ain't never This

1451
01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 4: nigga ain't never even her nigga.

1452
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 2: He for everybody.

1453
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:47,800
Speaker 4: Literally, I continue to talk to the girl, and my

1454
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:50,120
Speaker 4: friend told me she's gonna desceance herself from me.

1455
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:52,080
Speaker 2: But it ain't no bad blood.

1456
01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 4: I knew I was wrong for saying I'm gonna cut

1457
01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 4: her off and didn't, But was I wrong for even

1458
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 4: being cool with the girl in the first place? Love you,

1459
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:02,560
Speaker 4: guys From a poor girl from Harrisburg, Pennsylvania.

1460
01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 2: I'm dead. What kind of question is this? I'm trying

1461
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 2: to figure it out to her, you know you did

1462
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:09,400
Speaker 2: ask wrong, you.

1463
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 4: Dad, And here they are in competition for the same dick,

1464
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:15,320
Speaker 4: and here you go be friending.

1465
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 2: But when they did?

1466
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:21,559
Speaker 3: She say they were friends. Her and the girl were

1467
01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 3: friends before they started sucking the same nigga? Were they

1468
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,640
Speaker 3: friends after she got hold with the girl after they

1469
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 3: start Yeah, that's a little weird, like if it's after now.

1470
01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:33,520
Speaker 3: Don't get me wrong, Sometimes niggas really be fucking everybody,

1471
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:35,719
Speaker 3: So it's like, damn, can I be friends with anybody?

1472
01:10:35,720 --> 01:10:37,439
Speaker 2: Because you fucking everybody? You know what I'm saying.

1473
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:39,720
Speaker 3: But the fact that you became cool with this girl

1474
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 3: after you found out that they was in cahoots, that's

1475
01:10:44,439 --> 01:10:45,040
Speaker 3: a little weird.

1476
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's strange.

1477
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 1: I definitely.

1478
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:48,600
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1479
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:50,840
Speaker 4: I don't be liking shit like that, Like, don't be

1480
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:53,679
Speaker 4: being cool with that's fucking a nigga that I'm fucking.

1481
01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 2: I don't like that. She what is y'all talking about?

1482
01:10:57,240 --> 01:11:00,400
Speaker 2: What's what's you'all talking about? When y'all to get y'all

1483
01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 2: talking about me? I just feel like y'all talking about.

1484
01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 4: I Just like she could get messy and of course

1485
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:06,840
Speaker 4: your friend gonna try to make it seem like she

1486
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 4: don't be talking about you, but.

1487
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 1: You just never know.

1488
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 2: So I just feel like you just need to keep

1489
01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 2: them lines uncross.

1490
01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 3: I think I've been in that situation before. But it's

1491
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:16,519
Speaker 3: not like me and the chick was cool.

1492
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:18,280
Speaker 2: We just had like a mutual friends so and like

1493
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 2: the friend would be out, I would be out, and

1494
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 2: we would be like.

1495
01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 3: But it's not like we don't have each other's number

1496
01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 3: type you're good. Yeah, it wasn't like we talked.

1497
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:26,920
Speaker 2: You know, But I don't know.

1498
01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:27,719
Speaker 1: I'm a cancler.

1499
01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:30,360
Speaker 4: I'm very like if you know, yeah, I'm the same

1500
01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:33,320
Speaker 4: way over here this we ain't fucking with each other

1501
01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:37,200
Speaker 4: like that, and here you go if you pass the

1502
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 4: piece to her like when you pass the pee like

1503
01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 4: you used to do, and you gonna see a boy

1504
01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 4: each other, yeah you.

1505
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 2: Know, yeah, things getting messy. Like I said, things can

1506
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:48,160
Speaker 2: get messy very easy. But I do think it's weird

1507
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 2: that you became friends with the girl after you knew

1508
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:51,600
Speaker 2: like that.

1509
01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 4: This is my philosophy. And when it comes to friendships

1510
01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 4: and she don't do no shit that you don't want

1511
01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:01,559
Speaker 4: me to do period ex show stuff, Why the fuck

1512
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 4: you doing it to me.

1513
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. That's it.

1514
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 3: So if y'all want y'all question answered on the show,

1515
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 3: make sure y'all email us at ask Poor Minds at

1516
01:12:11,040 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 3: gmail dot com.

1517
01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 2: Anything that y'all want to ask when you're dropping some music.

1518
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:18,680
Speaker 4: Girl, I'm actually gonna be in the studio in two

1519
01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 4: weeks top of the year.

1520
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 2: What's the song that I like? Vacation careful?

1521
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:29,960
Speaker 4: No, but I got way better joint and I actually

1522
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:35,680
Speaker 4: got contacted by Marley the other day. Wow, I'm like

1523
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 4: dang like Jamaican.

1524
01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 2: He you know you need a vocal I know where

1525
01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 2: to come. Thank you for today, y'all not gonna sing

1526
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:52,280
Speaker 2: a song, y'all. Episode take us an hour and a half.

1527
01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 2: Now you gotta do what do we? I'm dead anyways,

1528
01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:57,200
Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much for tuning.

1529
01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:58,920
Speaker 1: In, and thank you Jesse for coming.

1530
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:01,439
Speaker 2: We don't all your information.

1531
01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 3: How they can find you?

1532
01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:03,679
Speaker 2: Tell them how they can find you anyway.

1533
01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:06,799
Speaker 1: The Jesse WU on all on all platforms.

1534
01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 2: So's t H E J E S S I E

1535
01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:12,360
Speaker 2: W O O on every platform. Alrighty, thank y'all so much.

1536
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Speaker 2: We'll see y'all next week.

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Speaker 3: Bye.