WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Turn the Heat Up Naturally

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're getting ghosted by a girl, guys are kind

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<v Speaker 2>of in a tough spot because you want to be

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<v Speaker 2>respectful to them but also show some initiative to let

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<v Speaker 2>them know that you're interested.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, And it's a fine line for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>At least till they filed the restraining her.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, how nice is she going to know that

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<v Speaker 4>is a line in her It's an obvious line.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't restrain you.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our.

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<v Speaker 2>Listeners, John, wasn't getting a text back after his date,

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<v Speaker 2>so he got creative with how to get her response,

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<v Speaker 2>and he's on the phone with us right now. So John,

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<v Speaker 2>why don't you just give us the text that you

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<v Speaker 2>sent to this girl? I want to hear only the text.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, this is the text you got ghosted from.

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<v Speaker 2>No, the last text that you sent to get creative

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<v Speaker 2>to get a response back.

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<v Speaker 1>What what did you send her?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, you're set up. Made me think that he

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<v Speaker 4>was going to be outside in a bush somewhere, hiding

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<v Speaker 4>outside of her house. Yeah, okay, Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>What was your last text?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I said, I've noticed you're not respect Do you want

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<v Speaker 6>to see your family again? You will text me back?

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<v Speaker 2>You're joking yeah, telling me you had been joking back

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<v Speaker 2>and forth the whole.

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<v Speaker 3>Time, as you already joked about a missing fair.

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<v Speaker 2>I personally hope he's serious with it. That would show

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<v Speaker 2>how interested he truly was.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, my grocery bills have gone up since her family

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<v Speaker 6>has been in my apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>But but real kidnapper would not do saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Was it already an inside joke between you two?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh, not exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you not at a police stations?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, maybe it was wrong for us to start at

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<v Speaker 2>the very end of the story. Let's go back to

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning, and maybe it makes.

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<v Speaker 3>Sense when the family still where they're supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's start with how you met this girl? What's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, Okay, how'd you meet?

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<v Speaker 6>We were on a dating app? Not too unique.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you told her nothing too special about you. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we should go out.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you sounds funny like, how did you strike

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<v Speaker 4>up a conversation with her on Tinder?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what?

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<v Speaker 6>She had a picture of her skydiving, so I had

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<v Speaker 6>done that in the past.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so relatable anytime I've ever met some of that

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<v Speaker 2>sky dives.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they meet somebody else. I'm like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was your jump. It was your jump. How many

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<v Speaker 1>hours have you clocked? Really romantically?

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<v Speaker 2>And I just I would never do that, Jose You

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<v Speaker 2>do skydive all the time in your Fortnite video game

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<v Speaker 2>out of the plane to dive in, and this is.

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<v Speaker 1>Different when you jump from the bus. But I close my.

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<v Speaker 3>Eyes still Fortnee.

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<v Speaker 2>We all have our interests. You bonded with CC over that.

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<v Speaker 2>What'd you guys do for your date?

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<v Speaker 6>We just went off for drinks. I really wanted to

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<v Speaker 6>get to know her, so I went to a quiet

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<v Speaker 6>spot where I could talk to her a.

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<v Speaker 2>Little bit and find out about her family and where

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<v Speaker 2>what their schedule is take.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how did drinks go?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it went well. Eventually she needs to go

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<v Speaker 6>get a phone charger for the phone is about to die.

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<v Speaker 6>So I took her to get the charger, bought one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Well yeah totally.

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<v Speaker 4>And what's nice about that is you extend the date,

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<v Speaker 4>right plus you're a hero.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah, And so of what happens She went to

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<v Speaker 6>go to the drug start and was like sort of

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<v Speaker 6>close to my place, So I was like, while we're here,

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<v Speaker 6>do you just want to check out my spot and

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<v Speaker 6>she agreed.

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<v Speaker 3>So she agreed.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yeah, I was driving, so I drove to the

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<v Speaker 6>closest one by my house.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I know exactly where to get a charger.

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<v Speaker 1>It's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I have outlets in my home. Strange coincidence. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>she went back with you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah she did.

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<v Speaker 3>What was that like?

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<v Speaker 6>So she came over my place and I made a

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<v Speaker 6>couple of cocktails, you know, try to impress it with that,

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<v Speaker 6>and then I can buy them in I.

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<v Speaker 1>Can make them, dude.

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<v Speaker 4>I am always impressed when people can make like a

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<v Speaker 4>cocktail at home.

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<v Speaker 3>A yeah, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, And then we talked about a bucket list stuff,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, just the deeper conversations or like what would

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<v Speaker 6>you do.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want the lottery?

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<v Speaker 5>Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Like those are fun coming well, and you guys have

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<v Speaker 4>already skydives, so that's offul end.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, try to discuss which family member do you

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<v Speaker 2>like the least, which family member is worth the most

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<v Speaker 2>money in your humble opinion if one went missing?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that sounds like fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I mean did you yeah? Did she stay the night?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? She did, so it went well and go okay,

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<v Speaker 6>you know she just left her charger here. So that's

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<v Speaker 6>what I was trying to use to end back into

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<v Speaker 6>talking to her, to.

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<v Speaker 4>Come back from well, maybe she's not texting back because

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<v Speaker 4>the phone's dead.

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<v Speaker 3>She doesn't have the charger, do you see?

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<v Speaker 6>You know what, I shouldn't have committed kidnapping.

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<v Speaker 2>So lead us to the point of like, how did

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<v Speaker 2>you send that joke text about her family?

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<v Speaker 1>How'd you get there? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, So I sent her text about the charger and

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<v Speaker 6>then he didn't respond, And then I just sent her

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<v Speaker 6>another text about like, hey, what's up and no response.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh Yeah, I wouldn't respond to that one either.

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<v Speaker 3>That sounds funny.

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<v Speaker 6>And so then I sent her the joke one that

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<v Speaker 6>you guys know whether.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and then an hour later I send another text

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<v Speaker 6>to saying I'm joking, and then there was no response

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<v Speaker 6>to that either.

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<v Speaker 1>Clarify.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think she probably knew you were joking.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, why do you even want to go

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<v Speaker 2>out with this girl? She doesn't get your sense of humor.

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<v Speaker 6>We just had so much in common, We had a

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<v Speaker 6>great time. So I'm like, why did you come over

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<v Speaker 6>to my place if you didn't like me? I don't

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<v Speaker 6>understand why there's so many mixed signals right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, use you just for the electricity in your outlets,

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<v Speaker 2>like that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty important. But she left the charger. Yeah, obviously wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>that important to her.

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<v Speaker 1>It's almost like she was planning on coming back if anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe, I mean we're gonna find out when we

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<v Speaker 2>come back. We'll call CC four you make sure her

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<v Speaker 2>family's okay, and then try and get you a second

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<v Speaker 2>date update right after.

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<v Speaker 3>This would be important to confirm.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're just gonna check hold on second date update

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 2>Our listener, John is confused because he went to drinks

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<v Speaker 2>with a woman named Ceci. They picked up a charger

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<v Speaker 2>for her dying phone, and after that spent the entire

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<v Speaker 2>evening over at his place till she left the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>But now CEC's not responding and we don't know why.

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<v Speaker 2>And John, in no way do I want you to

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<v Speaker 2>think that this has anything to do with your romantic

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<v Speaker 2>skills in the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, even though Brooke wrote.

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<v Speaker 2>It down on a piece of paper and passed it

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<v Speaker 2>to me while giggling uncontrollably.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you to think that.

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<v Speaker 2>Even though Jose and Alexis both went online and tweeted

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<v Speaker 2>that they think it's that. I just don't want you.

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<v Speaker 1>To think it.

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<v Speaker 6>I think she enjoyed herself thoroughly, and I think those

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<v Speaker 6>are all misconceptions.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the spirit, John, don't let reality ever set in

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<v Speaker 2>on your life. We're just kidding, by the way, just

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<v Speaker 2>like the way you were kidding about the family abduction

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<v Speaker 2>text that she sent her trying to get her to

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<v Speaker 2>respond to you.

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<v Speaker 3>She never even gave you a haha on that line.

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<v Speaker 1>A risky jokes is what we're saying.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, I feel like you guys are telling

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<v Speaker 6>him be more truthful than I was what your thoughts were.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, someone's confessing a little bit too much, Okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean these are always weird ones because I honestly

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<v Speaker 4>don't know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know what she's going to say. It could

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<v Speaker 3>be anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they would really defeat the purpose of the call

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<v Speaker 2>if we knew what she was going to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes you can tell, like what someone did wrong, like this.

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<v Speaker 3>Could be maybe a text is a start.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, she was already not texting him back by the

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<v Speaker 4>time he sent that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that the nail in the coffin has already

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<v Speaker 3>been laid.

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<v Speaker 1>More anti climactic.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's just like, yeah, I had a fun night

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<v Speaker 2>and that's all I wanted. But in our mind, you've

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<v Speaker 2>done absolutely nothing wrong. Okay, John's zero zero working against

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<v Speaker 2>you right now. You're the perfect man, and I believe

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<v Speaker 2>that firmly.

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<v Speaker 3>While we dial her, not do I need to pass

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<v Speaker 3>you another note?

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<v Speaker 2>Keep your notes over there. Let's wait till we get

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<v Speaker 2>her on the phone. Here we go, Hello, Hey, we're

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<v Speaker 2>looking for CC.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is her.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you don't have to sound too excited. CC.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a good day for you because you're on

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<v Speaker 2>the radio right now with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Hi, oh my god, I kind of like her already.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you in a bad mood because something's going on

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<v Speaker 2>with your family?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I'm radioations a little weirdine.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're doing something maybe the clear things up here

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<v Speaker 2>for you. We're doing something called a second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're trying to help one of our listeners out

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<v Speaker 2>to get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a guy that you went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with recently named John Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>John, who still has your cell phone charger?

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<v Speaker 5>John Okay, it's where he's telling you stuff that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, that's kind of something that we do here.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason why I brought up the family thing

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<v Speaker 2>earlier is because he told us about the text message

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<v Speaker 2>that he sent you, the joke about you know, if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't respond, you'll never see your family again, or

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<v Speaker 2>something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>What did you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody? Brook laughed the hardest in this entire room.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a bold move. We'll say that. What did

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<v Speaker 3>you think when you read that, Cec?

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<v Speaker 5>I honestly I thought it was hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well that's true. Then why didn't you respond?

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<v Speaker 5>I honestly just don't want to leave him on. He's

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<v Speaker 5>a funny guy. Just texting back, you know, even that

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<v Speaker 5>kind of just another opening. You know, well, and that's.

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<v Speaker 1>A funny guy.

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<v Speaker 2>You're doing the right thing, because the second ul O

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<v Speaker 2>l back, we're gonna.

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<v Speaker 6>Just keep going. It is.

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<v Speaker 3>It is exhausting.

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<v Speaker 4>Someone else was actually complimented as being funny in Jose

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<v Speaker 4>even use that as an opening.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, don't you think that leading him on would ensue?

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<v Speaker 2>Like going back to his place and spending the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that kind of leading him on?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe you liked him at that point.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I mean, honestly, we had a great time. It

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<v Speaker 5>was it was super fun. I had a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>fun with him.

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<v Speaker 6>I just.

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<v Speaker 3>What is it? You just want a one night thing?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly. The tough part is I had such a good

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<v Speaker 5>time with him. I honestly, I was waking up in

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<v Speaker 5>the morning and I saw that's going on some more dates.

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<v Speaker 5>It could honestly be something like, oh my gosh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>leading this guy. I really liked him.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you just like he's also good? I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you nervous because it was too good and you

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<v Speaker 2>think you'll never be able to match that level of

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<v Speaker 2>greatness on a date ever?

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<v Speaker 1>Again?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I hear that about me all the time

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<v Speaker 2>about other guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>I honestly wish that it was something like self involved?

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<v Speaker 5>Is that I guess? But it's honestly so it sounds

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<v Speaker 5>like he told you that I went to his house,

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<v Speaker 5>thought I slept over. Yeah, yeah, And in the morning

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<v Speaker 5>I went to the bathroom and he had like one

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<v Speaker 5>of those like fancy heated toilets.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, those are so nice in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Why is that important that we need to know that.

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<v Speaker 5>So go back to the bedroom and like he's already up.

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<v Speaker 5>We're about to probably make breakfast or get on oose

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<v Speaker 5>our days. I'm getting dressed and I goes like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>like dude, I was like, that toilet is a leap.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, that is so awesome having a heated toilet, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>And he said that he doesn't have a heated toilet.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh, what do you mean he doesn't. He was just

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<v Speaker 3>on it.

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<v Speaker 5>So I suppose maybe it was hot from the person

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<v Speaker 5>who had used it before me, But it was like

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was technology making it that hot.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, like he had been sitting there for a while

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<v Speaker 4>before you went into the bathroom somebody else.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't. I can't imagine how hot somebody would have

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<v Speaker 5>to be to have this seat be that hot when

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<v Speaker 5>I got to it, I don't know, y'all. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 5>honestly awful, but it's like it's an ick. I literally

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<v Speaker 5>can't get over it, and I feel so guilty. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>I just it's not worth like hurting him and being weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm just spending that long in there. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>that's an I feel like a girl in your bedroom.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but like he didn't. He wasn't even in there long.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not when you have a long He was.

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<v Speaker 5>Next to me in bed when I got up to

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<v Speaker 5>go to the bathroom, and I hadn't seen him go

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<v Speaker 5>to the bathroom. So it's like how long ago for

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<v Speaker 5>just will be scolding hot?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it was next to him, be a hot sleeper,

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<v Speaker 3>like we have a lot of coul.

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<v Speaker 2>Rad I don't know how your ears feel if they're

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<v Speaker 2>feeling a little bit warm right now, because John is

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<v Speaker 2>actually on the line too, so maybe you're feeling.

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<v Speaker 3>That he's about a button.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, John, horri fine, can I ask you a question?

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<v Speaker 6>Yourck is a guy using the bathroom before you? That's

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<v Speaker 6>your eck?

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<v Speaker 5>Like that's not my sick at all. No, it's how

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<v Speaker 5>hot the seat was just so weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you a sweaty guy? You run hot there?

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<v Speaker 5>John?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I do, but like that's my butt with

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<v Speaker 6>the assist you have like a nice, warm party.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not saying that's just unsane. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 5>hurt your feelings like you're awesome. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 5>make you feel weird about it. I'm like, I'm the

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<v Speaker 5>one who feels I don't know what it is it.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like in my head, I can't like ingrained, like

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<v Speaker 5>how hot it was? Like I thought you had had

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<v Speaker 5>technology making your seat hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, it really is a problem for you, John.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you ever notice that your underwear is like melting

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<v Speaker 2>down through your pant legs.

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<v Speaker 6>He's like, I don't need seat warmers now you teat

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<v Speaker 6>me like on the human torch, like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>just like a normal person using the bathroom here, Like

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<v Speaker 6>it's not I know, I just.

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<v Speaker 5>Feel this is what I didn't want to do. I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't want to have to make you even like question

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<v Speaker 5>how hot your butt was?

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<v Speaker 4>Like see see there's no way you can work through this,

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<v Speaker 4>Like yeah, sure, maybe in that moment it was anck,

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<v Speaker 4>but like what about from now on you always get

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<v Speaker 4>to use the restroom first, you know, not like.

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<v Speaker 2>A good yeah, something that all relationships have to do,

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<v Speaker 2>like schedule who goes to the bathroom when, or.

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<v Speaker 3>Just you know, eventually down the road you just get

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<v Speaker 3>someplace with two toils. I don't know you already have

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<v Speaker 3>to schedule it if you live with a man. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>be honest, Like you guys spend so much time in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it does seem like, Cec, this is a

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<v Speaker 2>lot to leave a guy who he had such a

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<v Speaker 2>great time with, had a huge connection with. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>give all of that up because the toilet seat was

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<v Speaker 2>a little warm.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, now am I the weird now that I had

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<v Speaker 5>an ick about the hot seat? Like?

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're overthinking this, thinking way too hard about

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<v Speaker 3>the ick? Yeah, Like what about the good parts? What's

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<v Speaker 3>the opposite of ick?

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<v Speaker 2>Like Brooks trying to solve the issue for you over here,

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<v Speaker 2>of John, do you have any ideas, any solutions in

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<v Speaker 2>your mind?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'll just buy a toil and you'll never know

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<v Speaker 6>when I use.

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<v Speaker 2>It, honestly, and now you know, regardless if that's a

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<v Speaker 2>real solution. That's funny, Cec. He's a funny guy. He's

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<v Speaker 2>a good time Yeah, and he has solutions too to

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<v Speaker 2>the problems. I think personally, you should see him for

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<v Speaker 2>another date, a date that we would pay for, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're willing to go out with him one more time.

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<v Speaker 5>I would very much be willing to go out on

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<v Speaker 5>another date. Now that you guys bridge all of this,

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't have to hide my shame.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations, John. You can release her mother now out of

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<v Speaker 1>your customer.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll do it, but I'm keeping her sister.

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<v Speaker 1>We took a little too farther bud.

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<v Speaker 3>Looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like ladies have a lot more random x

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to dating than guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Nowadays we're just in more of a power position where

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<v Speaker 3>I think we can.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, the powers gone to your It can

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<v Speaker 2>always happen, but girls have a word for it now.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if that happened to me with a warm

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<v Speaker 2>toilet seat, personally, I wouldn't be grossed out by that.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis said she.

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<v Speaker 2>Could understand the ick and that he's probably been on

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<v Speaker 2>it for a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Alexis likes to imagine that no one actually goes to

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<v Speaker 3>the back. This is my topic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I'm just asking all the women out there

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<v Speaker 2>to lower your ick tolerance. Please be a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>more understanding of all the things that guys go through,

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<v Speaker 2>things that we put up with you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Saying that giving you theck a little bit, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>turning me off. Yeah, it's kind of. It feels like.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are just perfect, aren't you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what they're going to call this second

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<v Speaker 2>update if they're going to call this hot Bottom Boys

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever it is. But you go check it out

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<v Speaker 2>on our podcast wherever you get yours, unless you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to get the ick. Check it out at Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey to

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<v Speaker 3>Wait Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.