Speaker 1: Second date, up date.
Speaker 2: If you're getting ghosted by a girl, guys are kind
Speaker 2: of in a tough spot because you want to be
Speaker 2: respectful to them but also show some initiative to let
Speaker 2: them know that you're interested.
Speaker 3: Right, And it's a fine line for sure.
Speaker 1: At least till they filed the restraining her.
Speaker 4: I mean, how nice is she going to know that
Speaker 4: is a line in her It's an obvious line.
Speaker 3: I can't restrain you.
Speaker 1: One of our.
Speaker 2: Listeners, John, wasn't getting a text back after his date,
Speaker 2: so he got creative with how to get her response,
Speaker 2: and he's on the phone with us right now. So John,
Speaker 2: why don't you just give us the text that you
Speaker 2: sent to this girl? I want to hear only the text.
Speaker 3: Wait, this is the text you got ghosted from.
Speaker 2: No, the last text that you sent to get creative
Speaker 2: to get a response back.
Speaker 1: What what did you send her?
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, you're set up. Made me think that he
Speaker 4: was going to be outside in a bush somewhere, hiding
Speaker 4: outside of her house. Yeah, okay, Sorry?
Speaker 1: What was your last text?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I said, I've noticed you're not respect Do you want
Speaker 6: to see your family again? You will text me back?
Speaker 2: You're joking yeah, telling me you had been joking back
Speaker 2: and forth the whole.
Speaker 3: Time, as you already joked about a missing fair.
Speaker 2: I personally hope he's serious with it. That would show
Speaker 2: how interested he truly was.
Speaker 6: Well, my grocery bills have gone up since her family
Speaker 6: has been in my apartment.
Speaker 2: But but real kidnapper would not do saying.
Speaker 3: Was it already an inside joke between you two?
Speaker 1: That's a good question.
Speaker 6: Uh, not exactly.
Speaker 3: How are you not at a police stations?
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe it was wrong for us to start at
Speaker 2: the very end of the story. Let's go back to
Speaker 2: the beginning, and maybe it makes.
Speaker 3: Sense when the family still where they're supposed to be.
Speaker 1: Let's start with how you met this girl? What's her name?
Speaker 3: By the way, Okay, how'd you meet?
Speaker 6: We were on a dating app? Not too unique.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you told her nothing too special about you. I
Speaker 1: guess we should go out.
Speaker 4: I mean you sounds funny like, how did you strike
Speaker 4: up a conversation with her on Tinder?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 1: You know what?
Speaker 6: She had a picture of her skydiving, so I had
Speaker 6: done that in the past.
Speaker 2: That's so relatable anytime I've ever met some of that
Speaker 2: sky dives.
Speaker 1: And then they meet somebody else. I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was your jump. It was your jump. How many
Speaker 1: hours have you clocked? Really romantically?
Speaker 2: And I just I would never do that, Jose You
Speaker 2: do skydive all the time in your Fortnite video game
Speaker 2: out of the plane to dive in, and this is.
Speaker 1: Different when you jump from the bus. But I close my.
Speaker 3: Eyes still Fortnee.
Speaker 2: We all have our interests. You bonded with CC over that.
Speaker 2: What'd you guys do for your date?
Speaker 6: We just went off for drinks. I really wanted to
Speaker 6: get to know her, so I went to a quiet
Speaker 6: spot where I could talk to her a.
Speaker 2: Little bit and find out about her family and where
Speaker 2: what their schedule is take.
Speaker 1: Okay, how did drinks go?
Speaker 6: I mean it went well. Eventually she needs to go
Speaker 6: get a phone charger for the phone is about to die.
Speaker 6: So I took her to get the charger, bought one.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well yeah totally.
Speaker 4: And what's nice about that is you extend the date,
Speaker 4: right plus you're a hero.
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, And so of what happens She went to
Speaker 6: go to the drug start and was like sort of
Speaker 6: close to my place, So I was like, while we're here,
Speaker 6: do you just want to check out my spot and
Speaker 6: she agreed.
Speaker 3: So she agreed.
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I was driving, so I drove to the
Speaker 6: closest one by my house.
Speaker 3: You know, I know exactly where to get a charger.
Speaker 1: It's weird.
Speaker 2: I have outlets in my home. Strange coincidence. Okay, so
Speaker 2: she went back with you.
Speaker 6: Yeah she did.
Speaker 3: What was that like?
Speaker 6: So she came over my place and I made a
Speaker 6: couple of cocktails, you know, try to impress it with that,
Speaker 6: and then I can buy them in I.
Speaker 1: Can make them, dude.
Speaker 4: I am always impressed when people can make like a
Speaker 4: cocktail at home.
Speaker 3: A yeah, that's awesome.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And then we talked about a bucket list stuff,
Speaker 6: you know, just the deeper conversations or like what would
Speaker 6: you do.
Speaker 1: If you want the lottery?
Speaker 5: Right? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Like those are fun coming well, and you guys have
Speaker 4: already skydives, so that's offul end.
Speaker 2: You know, try to discuss which family member do you
Speaker 2: like the least, which family member is worth the most
Speaker 2: money in your humble opinion if one went missing?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that sounds like fun.
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean did you yeah? Did she stay the night?
Speaker 6: Yeah? She did, so it went well and go okay,
Speaker 6: you know she just left her charger here. So that's
Speaker 6: what I was trying to use to end back into
Speaker 6: talking to her, to.
Speaker 4: Come back from well, maybe she's not texting back because
Speaker 4: the phone's dead.
Speaker 3: She doesn't have the charger, do you see?
Speaker 6: You know what, I shouldn't have committed kidnapping.
Speaker 2: So lead us to the point of like, how did
Speaker 2: you send that joke text about her family?
Speaker 1: How'd you get there? Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, So I sent her text about the charger and
Speaker 6: then he didn't respond, And then I just sent her
Speaker 6: another text about like, hey, what's up and no response.
Speaker 1: Huh Yeah, I wouldn't respond to that one either.
Speaker 3: That sounds funny.
Speaker 6: And so then I sent her the joke one that
Speaker 6: you guys know whether.
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 6: Yeah, and then an hour later I send another text
Speaker 6: to saying I'm joking, and then there was no response
Speaker 6: to that either.
Speaker 1: Clarify.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think she probably knew you were joking.
Speaker 2: But you know, why do you even want to go
Speaker 2: out with this girl? She doesn't get your sense of humor.
Speaker 6: We just had so much in common, We had a
Speaker 6: great time. So I'm like, why did you come over
Speaker 6: to my place if you didn't like me? I don't
Speaker 6: understand why there's so many mixed signals right now?
Speaker 2: Yeah, use you just for the electricity in your outlets,
Speaker 2: like that's.
Speaker 3: Pretty important. But she left the charger. Yeah, obviously wasn't
Speaker 3: that important to her.
Speaker 1: It's almost like she was planning on coming back if anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe, I mean we're gonna find out when we
Speaker 2: come back. We'll call CC four you make sure her
Speaker 2: family's okay, and then try and get you a second
Speaker 2: date update right after.
Speaker 3: This would be important to confirm.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're just gonna check hold on second date update
Speaker 1: if you're just joining us.
Speaker 2: Our listener, John is confused because he went to drinks
Speaker 2: with a woman named Ceci. They picked up a charger
Speaker 2: for her dying phone, and after that spent the entire
Speaker 2: evening over at his place till she left the next day.
Speaker 2: But now CEC's not responding and we don't know why.
Speaker 2: And John, in no way do I want you to
Speaker 2: think that this has anything to do with your romantic
Speaker 2: skills in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: Okay, even though Brooke wrote.
Speaker 2: It down on a piece of paper and passed it
Speaker 2: to me while giggling uncontrollably.
Speaker 1: I don't want you to think that.
Speaker 2: Even though Jose and Alexis both went online and tweeted
Speaker 2: that they think it's that. I just don't want you.
Speaker 1: To think it.
Speaker 6: I think she enjoyed herself thoroughly, and I think those
Speaker 6: are all misconceptions.
Speaker 2: That's the spirit, John, don't let reality ever set in
Speaker 2: on your life. We're just kidding, by the way, just
Speaker 2: like the way you were kidding about the family abduction
Speaker 2: text that she sent her trying to get her to
Speaker 2: respond to you.
Speaker 3: She never even gave you a haha on that line.
Speaker 1: A risky jokes is what we're saying.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I feel like you guys are telling
Speaker 6: him be more truthful than I was what your thoughts were.
Speaker 2: Okay, someone's confessing a little bit too much, Okay, Okay.
Speaker 4: I mean these are always weird ones because I honestly
Speaker 4: don't know what I mean.
Speaker 3: We don't know what she's going to say. It could
Speaker 3: be anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they would really defeat the purpose of the call
Speaker 2: if we knew what she was going to say.
Speaker 4: Sometimes you can tell, like what someone did wrong, like this.
Speaker 3: Could be maybe a text is a start.
Speaker 4: Well, she was already not texting him back by the
Speaker 4: time he sent that.
Speaker 3: I think that the nail in the coffin has already
Speaker 3: been laid.
Speaker 1: More anti climactic.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just like, yeah, I had a fun night
Speaker 2: and that's all I wanted. But in our mind, you've
Speaker 2: done absolutely nothing wrong. Okay, John's zero zero working against
Speaker 2: you right now. You're the perfect man, and I believe
Speaker 2: that firmly.
Speaker 3: While we dial her, not do I need to pass
Speaker 3: you another note?
Speaker 2: Keep your notes over there. Let's wait till we get
Speaker 2: her on the phone. Here we go, Hello, Hey, we're
Speaker 2: looking for CC.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is her.
Speaker 1: Hey, you don't have to sound too excited. CC.
Speaker 2: This is a good day for you because you're on
Speaker 2: the radio right now with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Hey, Hi, oh my god, I kind of like her already.
Speaker 2: Are you in a bad mood because something's going on
Speaker 2: with your family?
Speaker 5: You know, I'm radioations a little weirdine.
Speaker 2: But we're doing something maybe the clear things up here
Speaker 2: for you. We're doing something called a second Date Update,
Speaker 2: and we're trying to help one of our listeners out
Speaker 2: to get a hold of you.
Speaker 1: It's a guy that you went out on a date
Speaker 1: with recently named John Okay.
Speaker 3: John, who still has your cell phone charger?
Speaker 5: John Okay, it's where he's telling you stuff that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's kind of something that we do here.
Speaker 2: And the reason why I brought up the family thing
Speaker 2: earlier is because he told us about the text message
Speaker 2: that he sent you, the joke about you know, if
Speaker 2: you don't respond, you'll never see your family again, or
Speaker 2: something like that.
Speaker 5: What did you do?
Speaker 1: Everybody? Brook laughed the hardest in this entire room.
Speaker 3: It was a bold move. We'll say that. What did
Speaker 3: you think when you read that, Cec?
Speaker 5: I honestly I thought it was hilarious.
Speaker 2: Okay, well that's true. Then why didn't you respond?
Speaker 5: I honestly just don't want to leave him on. He's
Speaker 5: a funny guy. Just texting back, you know, even that
Speaker 5: kind of just another opening. You know, well, and that's.
Speaker 1: A funny guy.
Speaker 2: You're doing the right thing, because the second ul O
Speaker 2: l back, we're gonna.
Speaker 6: Just keep going. It is.
Speaker 3: It is exhausting.
Speaker 4: Someone else was actually complimented as being funny in Jose
Speaker 4: even use that as an opening.
Speaker 2: Well, don't you think that leading him on would ensue?
Speaker 2: Like going back to his place and spending the night.
Speaker 2: Isn't that kind of leading him on?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 3: Maybe you liked him at that point.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean, honestly, we had a great time. It
Speaker 5: was it was super fun. I had a lot of
Speaker 5: fun with him.
Speaker 6: I just.
Speaker 3: What is it? You just want a one night thing?
Speaker 5: Honestly. The tough part is I had such a good
Speaker 5: time with him. I honestly, I was waking up in
Speaker 5: the morning and I saw that's going on some more dates.
Speaker 5: It could honestly be something like, oh my gosh, yeah,
Speaker 5: leading this guy. I really liked him.
Speaker 1: Are you just like he's also good? I don't I
Speaker 1: don't understand.
Speaker 2: Are you nervous because it was too good and you
Speaker 2: think you'll never be able to match that level of
Speaker 2: greatness on a date ever?
Speaker 1: Again?
Speaker 2: I mean, I hear that about me all the time
Speaker 2: about other guys.
Speaker 1: So what's going on?
Speaker 5: I honestly wish that it was something like self involved?
Speaker 5: Is that I guess? But it's honestly so it sounds
Speaker 5: like he told you that I went to his house,
Speaker 5: thought I slept over. Yeah, yeah, And in the morning
Speaker 5: I went to the bathroom and he had like one
Speaker 5: of those like fancy heated toilets.
Speaker 3: Oh god, those are so nice in the morning.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Why is that important that we need to know that.
Speaker 5: So go back to the bedroom and like he's already up.
Speaker 5: We're about to probably make breakfast or get on oose
Speaker 5: our days. I'm getting dressed and I goes like, oh,
Speaker 5: like dude, I was like, that toilet is a leap.
Speaker 5: I was like, that is so awesome having a heated toilet, okay,
Speaker 5: And he said that he doesn't have a heated toilet.
Speaker 3: Huh, what do you mean he doesn't. He was just
Speaker 3: on it.
Speaker 5: So I suppose maybe it was hot from the person
Speaker 5: who had used it before me, But it was like
Speaker 5: I thought it was technology making it that hot.
Speaker 4: Oh, like he had been sitting there for a while
Speaker 4: before you went into the bathroom somebody else.
Speaker 5: I don't. I can't imagine how hot somebody would have
Speaker 5: to be to have this seat be that hot when
Speaker 5: I got to it, I don't know, y'all. I feel like,
Speaker 5: honestly awful, but it's like it's an ick. I literally
Speaker 5: can't get over it, and I feel so guilty. I'm like,
Speaker 5: I just it's not worth like hurting him and being weird.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just spending that long in there. It's like
Speaker 3: that's an I feel like a girl in your bedroom.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like he didn't. He wasn't even in there long.
Speaker 3: No, not when you have a long He was.
Speaker 5: Next to me in bed when I got up to
Speaker 5: go to the bathroom, and I hadn't seen him go
Speaker 5: to the bathroom. So it's like how long ago for
Speaker 5: just will be scolding hot?
Speaker 3: Well, it was next to him, be a hot sleeper,
Speaker 3: like we have a lot of coul.
Speaker 2: Rad I don't know how your ears feel if they're
Speaker 2: feeling a little bit warm right now, because John is
Speaker 2: actually on the line too, so maybe you're feeling.
Speaker 3: That he's about a button.
Speaker 6: Yeah, John, horri fine, can I ask you a question?
Speaker 6: Yourck is a guy using the bathroom before you? That's
Speaker 6: your eck?
Speaker 5: Like that's not my sick at all. No, it's how
Speaker 5: hot the seat was just so weird.
Speaker 3: Are you a sweaty guy? You run hot there?
Speaker 5: John?
Speaker 6: I mean I do, but like that's my butt with
Speaker 6: the assist you have like a nice, warm party.
Speaker 5: I'm not saying that's just unsane. I don't want to
Speaker 5: hurt your feelings like you're awesome. I don't want to
Speaker 5: make you feel weird about it. I'm like, I'm the
Speaker 5: one who feels I don't know what it is it.
Speaker 5: It's like in my head, I can't like ingrained, like
Speaker 5: how hot it was? Like I thought you had had
Speaker 5: technology making your seat hot.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it really is a problem for you, John.
Speaker 2: Do you ever notice that your underwear is like melting
Speaker 2: down through your pant legs.
Speaker 6: He's like, I don't need seat warmers now you teat
Speaker 6: me like on the human torch, like I don't know,
Speaker 6: just like a normal person using the bathroom here, Like
Speaker 6: it's not I know, I just.
Speaker 5: Feel this is what I didn't want to do. I
Speaker 5: didn't want to have to make you even like question
Speaker 5: how hot your butt was?
Speaker 4: Like see see there's no way you can work through this,
Speaker 4: Like yeah, sure, maybe in that moment it was anck,
Speaker 4: but like what about from now on you always get
Speaker 4: to use the restroom first, you know, not like.
Speaker 2: A good yeah, something that all relationships have to do,
Speaker 2: like schedule who goes to the bathroom when, or.
Speaker 3: Just you know, eventually down the road you just get
Speaker 3: someplace with two toils. I don't know you already have
Speaker 3: to schedule it if you live with a man. Let's
Speaker 3: be honest, Like you guys spend so much time in there.
Speaker 2: I mean, it does seem like, Cec, this is a
Speaker 2: lot to leave a guy who he had such a
Speaker 2: great time with, had a huge connection with. You're gonna
Speaker 2: give all of that up because the toilet seat was
Speaker 2: a little warm.
Speaker 5: Well, now am I the weird now that I had
Speaker 5: an ick about the hot seat? Like?
Speaker 3: I think you're overthinking this, thinking way too hard about
Speaker 3: the ick? Yeah, Like what about the good parts? What's
Speaker 3: the opposite of ick?
Speaker 2: Like Brooks trying to solve the issue for you over here,
Speaker 2: of John, do you have any ideas, any solutions in
Speaker 2: your mind?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll just buy a toil and you'll never know
Speaker 6: when I use.
Speaker 2: It, honestly, and now you know, regardless if that's a
Speaker 2: real solution. That's funny, Cec. He's a funny guy. He's
Speaker 2: a good time Yeah, and he has solutions too to
Speaker 2: the problems. I think personally, you should see him for
Speaker 2: another date, a date that we would pay for, if
Speaker 2: you're willing to go out with him one more time.
Speaker 5: I would very much be willing to go out on
Speaker 5: another date. Now that you guys bridge all of this,
Speaker 5: I didn't have to hide my shame.
Speaker 1: Congratulations, John. You can release her mother now out of
Speaker 1: your customer.
Speaker 6: I'll do it, but I'm keeping her sister.
Speaker 1: We took a little too farther bud.
Speaker 3: Looking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: It's funny.
Speaker 2: I feel like ladies have a lot more random x
Speaker 2: when it comes to dating than guys.
Speaker 1: It's actually funny.
Speaker 3: Nowadays we're just in more of a power position where
Speaker 3: I think we can.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, the powers gone to your It can
Speaker 2: always happen, but girls have a word for it now.
Speaker 2: I mean, if that happened to me with a warm
Speaker 2: toilet seat, personally, I wouldn't be grossed out by that.
Speaker 1: Alexis said she.
Speaker 2: Could understand the ick and that he's probably been on
Speaker 2: it for a long time.
Speaker 3: Alexis likes to imagine that no one actually goes to
Speaker 3: the back. This is my topic.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm just asking all the women out there
Speaker 2: to lower your ick tolerance. Please be a little bit
Speaker 2: more understanding of all the things that guys go through,
Speaker 2: things that we put up with you guys.
Speaker 3: Saying that giving you theck a little bit, it's like
Speaker 3: turning me off. Yeah, it's kind of. It feels like.
Speaker 1: You guys are just perfect, aren't you.
Speaker 2: I don't know what they're going to call this second
Speaker 2: update if they're going to call this hot Bottom Boys
Speaker 2: or whatever it is. But you go check it out
Speaker 2: on our podcast wherever you get yours, unless you don't.
Speaker 1: Want to get the ick. Check it out at Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey to
Speaker 3: Wait Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.