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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call, Brooke. You got married once?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he did.

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Speaker 1: And I'm curious how much of a say did you

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Speaker 1: have in picking Michael's groomsman? Was that one hundred percent

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Speaker 1: your choice? Or did you give him like five percent? Say?

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Speaker 3: Zero percent?

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Speaker 1: Zero?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Zero? No?

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Speaker 3: No, I had zero percent.

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Speaker 1: Why are you putting up air quotes when you say.

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Speaker 3: That it was all his choice? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You let him pick out his own groomsman.

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Speaker 3: Who doesn't do that?

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Speaker 1: Giving away all the power to the man? How nineteen

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Speaker 1: forty said, But I only asked because one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners is recently engaged and she is having an issue

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Speaker 1: with someone selected for their wedding party. Oh so let's

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Speaker 1: talk to her about it. Maria, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: I think, oh, you already sound a little annoying.

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Speaker 4: Maria.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well okay, so yeah, you seated up just told

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Speaker 2: me who the best man is going to be, and

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Speaker 2: I instantly hated it.

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Speaker 5: I instantly hated it.

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Speaker 3: He's not even him.

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Speaker 1: It's okay?

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Speaker 3: Is it obviously like his best friend or his brother?

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Speaker 3: Didn't you?

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Speaker 4: I mean, you kind of just know who that person's

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Speaker 4: person is right, it might be. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean we have a really large friend group, so honestly,

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Speaker 2: it could have been two or three different people.

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Speaker 1: So was it at this point where.

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Speaker 6: You were like hoping it wasn't this one person, like

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Speaker 6: anyone but them kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: I just really wish I would have been asked before

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Speaker 3: Why does it matter to you?

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Speaker 5: Well, here's the deal.

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Speaker 2: So my fiance doesn't know this, but I used to

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Speaker 2: date the best man.

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Speaker 1: Whoa and you never told? Okay? And it's not his

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Speaker 2: No, it's not a family member.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, because that would be more of a red

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Speaker 1: flag to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the red flag talking about.

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't want to ta get messy or weird.

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Speaker 3: Hi, it's messy now. I know how long ago are

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Speaker 5: We're talking like ten years.

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Speaker 2: This is like back in high school.

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Speaker 3: Back in high school.

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Speaker 1: Feel better.

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Speaker 3: It feels a little more innocent, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I didn't know that the guy that I'm

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Speaker 2: dating now now is my fiance is gonna be my

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Speaker 2: fiance either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So were you all high school friends?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Some of us were friends since high school. Others came

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Speaker 2: around in college. I didn't think that this friend from

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, so but he's made his choice, Like

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Speaker 1: what are you want to do?

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Speaker 5: Now, here's the deal.

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Speaker 2: Like this guy that's going to be the best man,

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Speaker 2: he really liked me, like he was super into me

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Speaker 2: and I broke it off in high school.

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Speaker 4: Heart yeah, and now.

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Speaker 2: So the same person's going to be making a best

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Speaker 2: man speech at my wedding with a microphone and a.

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Speaker 5: Couple of drinks.

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Speaker 2: But it flipped that we dated and I could just

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Speaker 2: I could just see.

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Speaker 3: Him doing that.

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Speaker 4: That's interesting. So you're actually worried about him outing you

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Speaker 4: for being.

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Speaker 3: A lawyer, about you look too right? Yeah? Yeah, but

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Speaker 3: sometimes drunk guys don't think they'll Yeah.

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Speaker 6: But it makes her I don't know, You're right, it

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Speaker 6: made them both look bad? Does it makes it look worse?

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Speaker 2: Just so you know, Like I never lied to my

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Speaker 2: every year, every maybe six months, like I'll tell him

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Speaker 1: Here we are, or like it'll naturally come up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like on his deathbedd I was in love with Evan.

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Speaker 3: You think it's too late to tell your fiance now.

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Speaker 2: God, yes, I think it's gonna be too much.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you don't think he would laugh if it came

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Speaker 1: up in the speech at the wedding. No, that's not

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Speaker 3: No exactly, it might be funny and a difference.

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Speaker 1: No, this is good because I clearly need to adjust

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Speaker 1: my wedding speech. I'm learning your exit. Yeah, so wait,

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Speaker 1: you don't want us to call your fiance about this.

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Speaker 2: No, we're gonna call a guy I used to date.

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Speaker 1: We're calling the best man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I know it's awkward Tuesday.

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Speaker 5: I've heard you guys help other people.

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Speaker 6: This is perfectly.

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Speaker 4: I have a question, how close are you friendship wise

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Speaker 2: I mean I see him all the time. We're out

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Speaker 1: Yeah okay, like Texas friends or you're familiar with each

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Speaker 1: other obviously, so well in the group chat. What advice

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Speaker 1: do you want? Like, what do you want to say

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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe what exactly to say? Tell him

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Speaker 1: Way, tell him why.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I just maybe don't be the best man.

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Speaker 1: What oh quit his best man job.

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Speaker 3: You can't do that to your fiance.

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Speaker 1: Crushed.

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Speaker 4: This is going to be coming out of the blue

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Speaker 3: Are you talking about? We dated in high school? Who cares?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think he might still have feelings.

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Speaker 2: That's why I want to get ahead of it.

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Speaker 1: That's a different situation.

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Speaker 3: That truth is coming out slowly.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about asking him to completely bow out.

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, has he like hit on you or

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Speaker 3: has there been a moment or something? Why do you

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Speaker 3: think he has feelings?

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Speaker 2: I mean I have felt like there's been some tension.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean it is kind of like you're both

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Speaker 1: I mean, Brooke, think of the vibe when you hang

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Speaker 1: You guy's got the secret, you know, I see the look.

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Speaker 3: We never dated love.

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Speaker 1: I know you want to, but I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: let it happen.

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Speaker 3: I think you miss you.

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Speaker 4: You're misremembering that segments feel that I feel.

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Speaker 3: Like Jeff is her in the situation.

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Speaker 1: It's all coming from over on that side. Of the room,

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Speaker 1: and I need to cut this off because we have

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Speaker 3: Bro have to call my husband, awkward.

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Speaker 1: I know you never want to call him to Look,

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Speaker 1: let's just you take some time to think some of

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Speaker 1: quality advice to give to Maria here, so we can

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Speaker 1: come back dial this best man and politely let him

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Speaker 1: during the speech. Yeah, all right, easy for you, So

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Speaker 1: let's do it with your opportunity to state phone call right

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Speaker 1: after this. Hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward, Tuesday phone call. Weddings are supposed to be

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Speaker 1: one of the most joyous, fun times of your life.

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Speaker 1: But we have a bride to be who is stressed

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Speaker 1: because her fiance picked out his best man. And he

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Speaker 1: doesn't know this, but she used to date that guy

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Speaker 1: back in high school. Dude, how awkward. She'll always know this.

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Speaker 3: And they've been keeping the secret, her and the guy

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Speaker 1: The worst part, though, is she feels like the guy

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Speaker 1: comes down to this. She's asked us to give her

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Speaker 1: advice about do you ask him to not come to

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Speaker 6: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Or can we ask him to go through with it

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Speaker 1: especially with a microphone in his hand? Yeah? Is that right, Maria? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So like I'm even more stressful.

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Speaker 1: get you some advice, Brook, What do you got first?

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Speaker 4: Okay, First, do not tell him to not be the

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Speaker 4: best man. I'm going to tell you that is just

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Speaker 1: Right, ask him to be your husband? No?

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Speaker 4: No, I would say, ask him nicely to not bring

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Speaker 3: And if you have to play a little.

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Speaker 4: Dirty okay, it's just like you've known this guy for

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Speaker 4: over ten years. You've got to have some like something

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Speaker 4: you can blackmail him with hell information?

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Speaker 3: Okay, just a little threatening.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about threatening the best man before

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Speaker 3: You made your bed. I agree with the high school relationships.

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Speaker 3: There's gotta be something cringey. You have of thank you.

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Speaker 5: That's fair, that's fair. I mean it'd be like a

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Speaker 3: I'd want to say, absolutely, I agree.

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Speaker 1: So idle threats are on the table. What do you

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Speaker 1: think you should just say?

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Speaker 6: Look, because of our history, my request to you is

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Speaker 6: you show up, but you shut up. Okay, don't say

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Speaker 6: anything about us dating and that I will consider your

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Speaker 6: official wedding gift to.

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Speaker 3: Us, oh anything. I kind of like it, Josey. I

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Speaker 3: would say what any bride wanted me to.

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Speaker 1: Gift a Maria? What do you think about that? Sad?

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Speaker 2: I didn't even think about the trade off of the

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Speaker 2: wedding gift.

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Speaker 1: I think that's actually really I mean, I'm smart. Everyone

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Speaker 1: tell me I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know who this guy was, but was he

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Speaker 3: planning on buying a gift? Anyway? I'm gonna let you

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Speaker 3: know at least half.

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Speaker 4: Of my husband's groomsmans did not get us anything you

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Speaker 4: tell them.

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Speaker 1: He's like, wow, Yeah, Brooks almost threatening her husband's groomsman's

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Speaker 1: now so taking her own advice threatener. Yes, so we

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Speaker 1: will have Brooke on deck to pass out all the

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Speaker 1: threats that you want. But I don't think you're gonna

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Speaker 1: need that, but I'm gonna dial this best man and

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Speaker 1: let you talk to him. Okay, okay, what is his

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Speaker 1: name by the way, Oh yeah, Brad Brad. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: Brad Brad is not going to see this coming. But

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Speaker 1: I'm das number right now here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello, hoy Brad, it's me who Maria?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Hey, yeah, I didn't have your numbers saved or something.

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Speaker 5: I didn't recognize that.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, I was just looking to see if you

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Speaker 2: had like some time to talk.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Sure, is everything okay, what's going on? Yeah? No,

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Speaker 5: everything's fine.

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Speaker 2: You know, you sure you're getting married?

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Speaker 1: Excited?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it's uh m, well, you know, it's just

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Speaker 5: a little awkward. It's everything. You know. What do you mean,

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Speaker 5: something wrong with like the venue or something.

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Speaker 2: No, no, nothing, that's fine. It's it's just like with

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Speaker 2: us with our history. Its right, like our relationships.

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Speaker 5: I mean, if you even want to call it that,

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Speaker 5: I didn't even think about it, like what about it?

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Speaker 5: I mean.

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Speaker 2: We went out, what are you talking about like like

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Speaker 2: seven or eight months?

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Speaker 5: I mean I wouldn't even call that a relationship, like

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Speaker 5: almost a joke. And it was a long time ago.

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Speaker 2: So I mean when we went out were It's like

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Speaker 2: the longest relationship that I had had in all of

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Speaker 2: high school.

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Speaker 5: If it was good for you, that's awesome and stuff.

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Speaker 5: But like, I never thought we were like, I don't know,

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Speaker 5: official or anything. I thought we just hung out a

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Speaker 5: few times.

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Speaker 2: You're joking, right, It was a real thing, I guess

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Speaker 2: to you, maybe, but I never thought we were like official,

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Speaker 2: like I said, Okay, well it was real, but listen,

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Speaker 2: we just these are not bring it up at the wedding.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I didn't plan on it because nothing even happened.

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Speaker 2: Oh did you get hit in the head? Like, are

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Speaker 2: you forgetting you were in love with me?

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Speaker 5: I don't remember it like that. I'm pretty sure you

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Speaker 5: were obsessed with me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, listen, I had to break up with you.

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Speaker 5: Why are we even talking about this. That was a

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Speaker 5: long time ago. That was high school? Like who cares?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a long time ago, but it was

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Speaker 2: a real relationship. You were really into me, And I'm

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Speaker 2: now worried you're going to ruin my wedding, you know,

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Speaker 2: just say something stupid again. My fiance doesn't know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I planned on keeping it that way because

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Speaker 5: I didn't think anything happened. Like, if you want to

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Speaker 5: say you broke up with me, I kind of just

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Speaker 5: led you to do that because I was just not

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Speaker 5: showing any interest because I didn't even know if I

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Speaker 5: was into you, So I just kind of made you

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Speaker 5: break up with me. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Okay, gross, Oh this is embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Okay, what was that?

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Speaker 5: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: You know what's going on, Brad is you're on the

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Speaker 1: radio right now with a really fun show called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Brad, seriously.

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Speaker 1: This is a segment that we do. It's called Awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone Call.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it should be embarrassing Tuesday folks all today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah there thing for him?

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Speaker 3: Who yes to go with that because you are our listener.

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Speaker 1: The whole thing, Brad, is that Maria was really worried

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Speaker 1: that because of the past, it might come up like

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Speaker 1: at the wedding and make things awkward for her fiance

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Speaker 1: and the family.

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Speaker 3: So she didn't know how to bring it up. She

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Speaker 3: asked for help.

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Speaker 1: She just wants no drama.

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Speaker 5: That is literally the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Like,

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Speaker 5: I haven't even thought about her in like ten years.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, Okay, you don't have to be rid, don't you

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Speaker 1: guys like hang out?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but like she's like the little sister. I don't

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Speaker 5: even like.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, you dated this woman? She can't be your sister. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, sister's hot. It's clueless.

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Speaker 5: I mean I don't hate her or anything. She's just there.

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Speaker 5: She's my buddy fiance. Like I don't think about her

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Speaker 5: like that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, that's what you want to hear, am

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Speaker 1: I right, yeah, this should be refreshing, right Maria. Yeah, Cash,

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 4: That was probably a lot to hear because yeah, what

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Speaker 4: you expected.

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Speaker 3: I mean, is there like a small chance that maybe

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Speaker 3: it was you that had the feelings?

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Speaker 4: Still?

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Speaker 2: No way. I don't know why he's downplaying it, but

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Speaker 2: like bred you were.

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Speaker 5: In love with me?

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Speaker 2: Like I still have the poem that you wrote?

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Speaker 1: You you still have it? Wait?

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Speaker 5: You still have that dumb poem that I wrote?

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Speaker 2: I mean it seemed really heart felt. Okay, I feel

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Speaker 2: like give that to more than one girl.

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Speaker 1: Copy paste action.

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Speaker 4: So okay, this is like, this is hard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know it's probably a little bit of an

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Speaker 1: ego blow to be hearing all this from Brad, but

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Speaker 1: getting married.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what you need to concentrate.

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Speaker 1: That's right. And maybe a good exercise is to take

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Speaker 1: that poem and throw it away or set it on

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Speaker 1: fire or something. I don't take a good first step.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I think it would be fine if you told

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Speaker 4: your fiance that you guys dated a long time ago obviously.

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Speaker 5: Happened. Yeah, why why would you do that? Like we

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Speaker 5: literally just messed around in that cabin that one time.

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Speaker 1: That okay, all right, maybe don't.

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Speaker 3: Bring it up.

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Speaker 1: It should be refreshing to know that your past relationship,

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Speaker 1: or I guess Brad would say, your your non relationship

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Speaker 1: is going to stay in the past past hook up.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, well thanks, I mean it's in play out

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Speaker 2: like I thought I would.

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Speaker 1: At least, you know, when.

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Speaker 6: He's looking at you now, he's not flirting with you.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, she said the retention.

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Speaker 1: That's actually cheered me up today. So Brad, thanks for

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Speaker 1: your time. Have one to the wedding guys.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm going to bring up this phone call,

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Speaker 5: that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: This is the one time we're asking people not to

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Speaker 1: share this on podcasts.

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Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the Morning