WEBVTT - Episode 354 "Tamira Smith" 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:07.600 They get a litty called me. Welcome to the Ball 0:00:07.840 --> 0:00:10.319 Show broadcast line from Atlanta, Georgia. I go by the 0:00:10.400 --> 0:00:10.879 name of Ferrari. 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:12.319 Go by to that you know BT. 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:16.600 Oh wow, A special friend, special episode the building. 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:20.480 Guys, I missed your Happy New Year. 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:22.160 Ye, happy New Year. 0:00:22.520 --> 0:00:25.040 Your best behavior this year, I'm always on my best behavior. 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:26.960 I agree with you pretty much all. I guess that's 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:27.360 for BT. 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:29.600 I'm always on my because I used to be on 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:35.239 my bad behavior and that costs me things supporting. So 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:38.919 therefore I say on best behavior because I can't afford 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:40.200 any mistakes. 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:41.520 What's been new with you? 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:43.800 I'm just working, trying to be out here, keep up 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.199 with y'all, to y'all all over the place. You're not 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:47.520 like the party with y'all. 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:49.400 Well yeah, b T yeah. 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:51.159 I had never seen Ferrari will. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:52.680 Be because I used to be out. 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:56.800 Doesn't go out anymore. I used to be out so much. 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:57.640 Ferrari. 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:01.080 I heard he was longs old Chris. 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:04.120 I think it was Christmas, and he's like, I'm drunk, 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:06.039 and then he posted I. 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:15.160 Drank a whole bottle of wine. It was a chateau chateau. 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:18.520 Yeah I drank, Yeah, I drank a whole bottle of 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:21.119 wine and I passed out, woke up and was bat normal. 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:23.120 I didn't have you drink wine. Bro, you don't have 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:23.600 no hangover. 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:24.240 I like that. 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:25.800 I can't drink. 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:29.920 I don't know how to stop. It's like drink old 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:31.920 wine that's in the valley and the. 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:34.800 Whole So you actually get drunk drunk. 0:01:34.920 --> 0:01:37.959 Yeah, okay, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do it anyway. Okay, 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:39.280 we're gonna leave that one alone. 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:41.160 Well, we wanted to bring you on the show because 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:43.520 we just wanted to kick off the new year. 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:46.120 Kick off the new year the right way. See you. 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:51.040 Was he terrorizing? Why you got this thing that it 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:54.560 almost slick bothers me? You call it's called men deserve less? 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:55.760 Why does that bother you? 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.160 Because men don't deserve less? I feel like it should 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:00.840 be equal equal. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:02.800 Yes, I don't believe in that. Ain't nothing in this 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:05.280 world equal, And don't let anybody ever lied to you. 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:06.560 Ain't nothing equal. 0:02:06.280 --> 0:02:08.440 In this world. Why do you think men deserve less? 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:11.680 Because they're not doing more we used to. And I 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:15.160 don't want to go into this rhetoric, but I just 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:21.560 know this is people get what they put out, and 0:02:21.639 --> 0:02:24.360 I think that, like we used to live in a world. 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:26.959 And I'm not just talking about financially because I don't 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:30.440 want the brokies in my comments. No, I've come to 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.720 a conclusion that I'm probably gonna be with someone I 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.960 make more money than, so y'all could cry somewhere else. 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:38.240 I'm aa trust my baby. I don't need y'all anyway. 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.440 Back to the story, I think that men should actually 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.080 find God. That's what y'all should do this year. Y'all 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:46.800 need to be led by a real man, and Jesus 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:48.560 Christ needs to come save the men that are on 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.000 this earth, because the ones you'll send down they got 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:53.440 a short fuse. They not really connecting all the way. 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:58.200 Is it the men that you like or is this 0:02:58.440 --> 0:02:58.959 all men? 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:01.560 Well, first of all, I don't like any particular type 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.200 of man. I've literally tried to date everything all across 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:09.000 the board. Short, tall, white, black, Asian, broke, rich, non 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:11.200 speaking English, speaking English. 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:11.720 A little gay. 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:13.600 I didn't tried at all. I'm trying to tell you 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:15.320 I didn't been there, done that with everything. I didn't. 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:18.040 I didn't gave every chance I can to everybody. I 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:20.320 did not want to box anybody out and it's just 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:25.520 not my experiences. If you luck anywhere, women of all races, creeds, 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:29.440 lifestyles are saying like this, ain't it? If you got somebody, 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:31.679 stay with them? But I cracked the cold? 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:32.480 What's the cold? 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.920 You gotta input your niggas. If you live in Atlanta, 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:38.920 you have to import them, or you gotta come with it. 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:41.840 But you can't come with one come with one move. 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:47.320 Did we have a guest on the show last year? 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:50.560 Whe She said, there's there's three there's only three men 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:52.680 to date in Atlanta. 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:56.200 One's gay, one's married, and what's the other one? 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:56.880 Oh? 0:03:56.960 --> 0:03:57.800 Is that not what you wet? 0:03:57.840 --> 0:04:03.160 That's was? No, that was that was our friend. That 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:04.600 was our friend. What's her name? Man? 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:06.040 Uh? Jesse? 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:06.760 Jesse? 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:07.240 Yep? 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:08.000 Was it Jesse? 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:09.280 Yeah? It was Jesse? 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:11.200 No? Was it Jesse? 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:17.920 Was the three things that they well, she said, Africans, 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:19.320 Oh no, we don't got that. No more than the 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:21.039 Africans got up out of here because y'all made it 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.320 hot and all them songs and all y'all men was 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:27.120 hating on Instagram. Oh you're the club. The Africans they got, 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:30.400 they did. They relocated to Texas. The rich Africans ain't 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:30.800 here no more. 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:33.279 The Africans left Atlanta and moved to Texas. 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:36.800 Yes, y'all laugh at all right, what part of what 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:38.039 part of Texas did they move? 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:39.320 I don't know, but they ain't here no more. We 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:41.680 don't got the rich one no more, the ones that 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:44.719 had money back in the day when I first moved 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:47.320 to all right, when I first came to Atlanta, I 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:50.520 used to lie one year okay, this is actually yesterday 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:53.560 was my ten year anniversary, so a while ago. So 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:56.800 when I first used to come to Atlanta, I used 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.680 to tell my friends, like, tell people you here visiting, 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:02.400 right always say you here visiting, and say you're about 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:04.440 to leave, Say you on your way to the airport 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.880 right now. For God tries to bag you, be like, oh, 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:08.320 I would love to talk to you, but I'm actually 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:10.719 I gotta go catch this fight. I'm on my way out, 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.200 and he's gonna be like, no, change your flight. Stay, 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.479 I got four hundred for you. Change your flight right now. 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:17.839 That's that's how it used to be. 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:26.120 Now these were talking about Jesse Wu. That's yeah, Jesse, 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:30.640 she's dating I want to say Caribbean African man. 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:33.440 They the ones, yes, you should because you know why 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:37.159 the American breed is happy. She should be. She deserves 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.880 the world. Black girls of all cons deserve everything that's 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:40.840 coming to them. Amen. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:41.960 So why are you single? 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:44.640 Well, I'm not like fully single, as we know. 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:47.720 Oh we got a segment on the show. We'll get 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:48.359 to that in a little bit. 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:52.680 But go ahead, oh ship now see friends, See, I 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:57.200 don't want to play because I know, go ahead. I'm single. 0:05:57.240 --> 0:05:57.400 One. 0:05:57.560 --> 0:05:59.960 I'm realistic, so I know why I'm single. I'm never satist, 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:03.320 like I have unrealistic expectations. I think I live in 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.640 the Disney like I think I'm gonna meet a guy 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.719 and I'm gonna see hearts and butterflies and the sky 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:12.520 is gonna open and we're gonna live happily ever after that. 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:17.240 I mean, not if you live in Atlanta, That's what 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:22.760 I will say. But while that combined with just when 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:25.640 you've been independent and strong for so long, I come 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:29.520 from single not My My grandmother was married, but my 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:32.440 grandfather died shortly after all the kids was born, so 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:36.839 I watched my grandmother had to raise her three daughters 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:41.520 mostly by herself. My my father got killed when I 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:43.200 was a baby, so my mom had to raise me 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.479 by myself. My two aunts they both got married, but 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:48.800 they didn't have kids. So I watched my uncle love 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:52.400 my aunt for thirty years, so I know what love 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:54.159 is supposed to be. Like, I've never heard him raise 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:57.200 his voice. I've never heard him say anything crazy. So 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:01.400 one thing about me, I just feel like men used 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:04.360 to like control themselves so much more. You never used 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.880 to hear men like just crashing out and yelling at 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:10.040 females and calling them names and being like overly emotional, 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:12.000 like it used to be, Like I want to take 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:14.000 that away from her. Like I think that when you 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:17.679 walk into anybody's life as a partner, your goal should 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.520 be to make their life easier in some way. And 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:22.680 it doesn't mean financially. It could be like okay, like 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:25.360 I don't know anything about cars, Like I tried to 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:27.280 put diesel gas in my car one home because I 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:30.200 never pumped the gas. So I was sitting there like 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:34.080 walking up to people like yeah, like the green things. 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:37.080 I don't know the difference the thing, and then I 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:39.360 grabbed it and I'm like it's not fitting in the 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:41.480 in the gas thing, and they're like, what are you doing? 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:42.800 So I go to a car and I'm like, can 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:44.880 you help me? And the god's girlfriend was like why 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:46.920 coming over to the car for And then when they 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:48.800 realized that I really did not know how to pump 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:51.400 the gas, they was like who, And I'm like, but 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:53.800 that's also because I'm about taking care of the guys 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:55.800 that I was dating. Always been maintenance on my cars, 0:07:56.160 --> 0:07:59.720 so I genuinely had no clue. So it's that too. 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:02.200 It's being spoiled you by ex boyfriends, right, I have 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:06.000 an unrealistic I dated scammers and drug dealers, so I 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:07.000 have an unrealistic. 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:08.880 Well, that would definitely make it unrealistic. 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:12.840 Yeah, yeah, So I'm like, I mean so much profession 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:15.520 doesn't have anything to do with their manners though, yes. 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:19.040 So man is a completely different but I don't I 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:19.400 know some. 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:22.400 Very well uh behaved killers. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:23.840 I love that. 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:30.840 You have no idea, just like five of the dirt, 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:36.480 Yes man, yes, ma'am, no man when you see him 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:37.480 anyway ahead. 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:40.200 Sometimes you got strippers that have good mora rules and 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:41.480 nice what I'm saying things. 0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:42.760 But you're right, you can't. 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:45.920 You can't judge a person based on their profession because 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:49.160 the whole like I feel like it was a whole 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:52.160 wave last year, like the whole Like nine to fivers 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:54.600 are doing this, and I'm like, there are some people 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:58.000 that work a nine to five job that makes a hell. 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:58.319 Of a living. 0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:02.360 First of all, and I be worried about the wrong thing. 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:04.840 I'll be worry about the wrong thing. First, Well, somebody 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:06.440 with nine to five has medical benefits. 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:07.640 These men for one. 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:11.000 K yes retiring, They come on like, please stop embarrassing 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:13.280 yourselves and chasing these men that's gonna go to jail, 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.520 cheat on you while they're in jail. Expect for you 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:17.760 to hold them down, Like, stop doing it. Nine to 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.040 five men one, You know they got structure and discipline. 0:09:20.400 --> 0:09:22.360 You know that they have a goal. You know that 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:25.480 they respect themselves enough to get up every day and 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:28.480 reach for that goal. They don't want the easy way out. 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:32.600 They they they either went to school or got in 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:34.400 a field that worked for them, and they stayed and 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:35.200 they stuck with it. 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:36.320 So I wish we should. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.400 I wish that we could stop job shaming because let 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:42.080 me tell you this, the Internet has made it so 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:46.760 bad that people think going to work is a bad thing. 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:48.720 First of all, I got a couple of friends. 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:51.320 That need to go go get a job, I'm telling 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:53.800 you right now, I got some friends that think they 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:55.840 too cool to get some get a nine to five, 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:57.840 and they need to They don't. 0:09:57.679 --> 0:09:58.560 Ones need to go to work. 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:01.920 I know. I know a couple of my partner's day 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:05.360 in the nightlife industry, a couple of them DJ some 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:09.320 of them promoters, and they literally are scraping the barrel 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:11.000 with money. And I'm over here, like, dude, go get 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:11.400 a job. 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:13.560 You could do both. 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:15.440 I know people who do both, and that's great. 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:17.760 I think why not do both, especially if you do 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:19.600 something like even me, now I have a good job, 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:20.719 you know how much I want to go back to 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:23.079 waygressing on the weekend and get some extra little bands 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:24.920 in my pockets. Like, yes, if you do what you 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.080 have to do, I don't think it's okay to raise 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:27.360 my hand. 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:31.080 Before I became Ferrari, I worked at a leasing apartment. 0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:33.400 I was able to get thirty percent off my rent. 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:35.960 I didn't have to drive to work. Then when I 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:38.400 got off work, I went to the club and I 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:41.160 hosted parties. I did that when I was running around 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:43.880 DJ holiday for about three and a half years until 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:45.920 I was able for him to get a job at 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:50.000 Streets Down for five then they officially hired me at Streets. 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:51.240 No exactly. 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:54.240 I had a day job when I met y'all. 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:56.200 Yeah, he was working at Verizon. 0:10:56.520 --> 0:11:02.480 I was working at Sprint, Sprint that coin commission, Sprint, 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:06.680 like the crazy thing about it. I was in Sprint 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:09.040 and like Lithonia, like the hood. 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:12.880 I'm talking about people getting shot outside the Walmart and 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:14.880 we got to sit there and lock the door and 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:20.400 be like it was damn Sprints bad taking back it. 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:21.839 Was badt free. 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:26.200 After nine I was coming up to the radio station, 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.560 working my job on the side because. 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.280 One thing about me, I ain't gonna never be without 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:31.040 having a. 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:34.960 Source of pocket. But why this man deserved less though, 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:36.760 because you're saying some nice stuff about us right. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:38.680 Now, because I'm trying to be nice to them this 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:40.680 year and hopes that I could hear the world on 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:42.160 my own because I like to believe I have that 0:11:42.240 --> 0:11:44.000 much power. So maybe if I'm nice of the men, 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:44.720 they'll be nicer to. 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:47.600 But maybe you just didn't meet the man that is 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:48.040 for you. 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:51.440 So speaking of nine tois right. So one of the 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:54.040 last guys I wanted to date, he worked for Delta. 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:55.560 Shout out to Delta. You know who he is. 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:57.640 His name is Delta. 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:00.559 That's what we call him. Delta. That's what my friend 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:02.800 group for you. Y'all all got nicknames in the group chat, 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:04.600 don't I like y'all know, So we call him Delta 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:08.120 because he works for Delta. One of the reasons why 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:11.120 I didn't pursue him or go further with our relationship. 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:14.720 Nice guy owns his own house, own his own car, 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:17.120 has a job, been with Delta for ten years. I 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:18.800 asked someone what was next for him, and he didn't 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:22.200 have an answer, and I literally didn't talk to him 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:24.800 after that because I just was like, I can't have 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:26.720 all these plans for my life and you don't have 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:29.679 any for yours. And that was about a year and 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.320 a half ago, and me and him started talking again recently, 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.079 just because we both realized ain't shit out there. Yeah, 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:36.880 we actually really did like each other. 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:38.880 But wait, not to cut you off. Why did you 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:39.679 not tell him? 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:41.800 So I did tell him One day I got drunk 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:44.240 in the airport seeing it, oh lord, And he will 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:46.320 always do that, like whenever I have flights, he would 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:47.880 meet me and make sure walk me to my gate 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.360 and stuff. So one day I got drunk and I 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.240 had him up and I'm like, will what, I'm like, 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:55.440 I'm magde whatever one something, come here. So he came 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:58.760 over and then I told him like and he took 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.000 it well. And he he has a new job with 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:03.079 in Delta now and now they're flying him all over 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:05.280 the country and he's doing all this other stuff. I 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:07.160 like to think that I kind of motivated him in 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:10.680 that aspect. So you can make people better. But patience 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:12.560 is the key. I think I didn't have pain. Okay, 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:17.360 I'm also want okay, okay, man don't deserve less. No, 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:21.000 I did not say that that man don't deserve less. 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:24.600 Or motivating him, motivating him. 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:27.079 It felt like I'm being nice to the men you are. 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:28.520 This is my clone. I'm a clone. 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:32.439 Look, I'm seriously, let's let's get to the I want 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.480 you to give me some points. Why do the man? 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:36.920 Why do you feel men deserve less? Don't don't. 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:38.680 Don't threaten me with a good time, because you know 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:40.640 I love to pull a good list out of my 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:42.920 back pocket as to why these men. I'll start with 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:44.880 RAJ off the top of my head. No matter of fact, 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:47.679 I'll go with old mother freaking sinko oho No, no, 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:52.559 this man sat here, got a bad a baddie with 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:55.480 her job, a career, and it's outside cheating on her 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:57.040 for fue just because he wants to. 0:13:57.200 --> 0:13:59.600 And then it's we know this for a fact that 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:00.560 he's her. 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:02.840 Yes, did you not see her? Just do her interview 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:05.160 and she said that she caught him cheating, and everybody 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:07.280 was like, well, wasn't you married when you started dating him? 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.640 And she was like, well it was over. But that's 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:13.319 how calmer but o cho. My problem is men say 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:14.840 that they want a certain type of woman, then they 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:16.560 get that type of woman and still cheat on her. 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:20.080 Why men don't cheat because they're missing something. Men chea 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:22.600 because they lack self self discipline, and they just be like, 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:23.320 oh shit, pussy. 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:25.880 I don't think that's a man thing. I think that's 0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:28.320 a person thing. That's men. 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.440 Cut it out just because you got it together after 0:14:30.480 --> 0:14:32.680 you done fucked up an old child's support, now you 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:35.080 got it together. You two trying to beat the beacon 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:36.960 of speaking for all the good men in the world. 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:40.920 You are one of two percent of these negroes. I 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:43.200 don't know BT business, so I can't really chew him 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:45.480 up the way I need to, but I'll do some research. 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:46.680 Okay, who else is the other person? 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:49.320 We got? O Cho, he ain't shit? Ray J the 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:52.560 audacity running around with Suki Chain like he a baddie 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:55.720 with her new new juice on his face and taking selfies. 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:58.920 Oh my god, if I was Princess Love, oh god, 0:14:58.960 --> 0:14:59.920 if I was Princess Love. 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:00.960 Was that one hundred. 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:06.120 Television that was one hundred percent accurate? We've seen it. 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:08.760 We've seen it, we've seen the text that wasn't though. 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:10.640 That was his shirt was probably messed up from something 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:11.280 that man. 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:15.880 I know, the smile of a man trying to show you, like, look, babe, 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:17.480 I still smell like you. I don't even wash my 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.720 face this morning. That's exactly what he had going on. 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.720 Please play with somebody else, you know, din Well? Ray 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:26.000 J had that girl now new juice all over his face. 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:27.080 On his lips, all right? Who else? 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:30.480 Okay? Who else I got? I didn't even opened my 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:35.160 list yet. I didn't even open it yet. Oh huh. 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.440 I don't know how this wasn't the first person. G Herbal. 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:43.160 Would you like to talk about that? You know why 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:46.800 I don't respect g Herbal? Whoa whoa whoa cheated on 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:49.640 every while she was pregnant with this girl, got with 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:53.720 the girl not to up two times and her prime. 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:55.880 Stop getting girls pregnant and a prime if you don't 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:58.720 plan on keeping them five. That's dead wrong taking girls 0:15:58.720 --> 0:15:59.840 out the game anyway. 0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:02.160 Look, you're doing too much on my boy. 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:05.960 Too much is he's doing? First of all? If you're 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.240 gonna cheat, stop leaving evidence. That's it. That's my only 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:08.800 message to man. 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:10.400 How do we know this is factual? 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:16.640 Though the pictures all this is allegedly me? 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:19.560 That ship is a fact you hear me is. 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:21.440 An upstanding US citizen. 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:24.640 He might be an upstanding father, being a father and 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:26.920 a boyfriend and a man or two different things. You 0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:29.000 can be a good father and a horrible man. And 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:29.400 that's what. 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:32.360 Whoa who else you got? Man? 0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:34.400 Okay, let me see if I got one more for you. 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:36.920 I'm gonna try to keep my list. See I said 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:39.280 I wasn't gonna be mean the men this year, and 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:43.240 then you got me started. Kirk. Who's who have to say? Nothing? 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:44.040 Kirk kurk? 0:16:44.680 --> 0:16:47.800 You know who is here for me? For me? 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:52.760 Little my camera? I can't I can't defend big down. 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:54.680 And Jasmine just playing. That's the girl named Ray Jasmine. 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:59.040 I think this is love. It love hip hop storyline. 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:02.120 That's a bad storyline. 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:05.160 The only reason why I love and hip hop. Yes, 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:08.640 that's why I don't all you want. But when babies, 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:12.159 like are y'all having children? Because that goes back to 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:17.760 like Peter Gunns and the original original, this goes and 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:19.280 I know that's been Zina. 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:19.640 I love. 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:21.720 I don't really got no love for anyway. Back to 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:26.040 the story. If we were doing ship for storylines, it's 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.359