Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Dit asked back there, Nice Little
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Speaker 1: what up? What up? Welcome back to another episode of
Speaker 1: Carefully Reckless with your Girl just hilarious story time. I
Speaker 1: remember we all took a trip to Puerto Rico. Now
Speaker 1: we all is me and a couple of other couples,
Speaker 1: because it was like a couple's trip. Don't ask me
Speaker 1: who I took, because honestly, I don't remember, and this
Speaker 1: was just last year. I do remember my aunt and
Speaker 1: my uncle being one of the couples. Now, I'm related
Speaker 1: to my aunt. She's my biological aunt, and my uncle
Speaker 1: is my uncle because he's married to her. My aunt
Speaker 1: is hmm, very snobby. She's the rich auntie that you
Speaker 1: know most families have. She's very straightforward, she's blunt. She's
Speaker 1: like me, but more disrespectful. And her husband, on the
Speaker 1: other hand, he's very quiet, laid back, chill to himself.
Speaker 1: I love my uncle. He's cool. Obviously they were having
Speaker 1: a problem in their marriage. I don't know why the
Speaker 1: hell they would even come on a trip and try
Speaker 1: to mask their problem. But game night. Right, the night
Speaker 1: before we left, we were playing the game Guestris. That's
Speaker 1: when you gotta do charades or whatever, and it's a
Speaker 1: team game. I don't know why we didn't do men
Speaker 1: versus women. I do not know why, just to keep
Speaker 1: the confusion down and it would have bit more fun.
Speaker 1: But we decided to do couples against couples. Now it
Speaker 1: was four couples. So it's eight people, two teams of
Speaker 1: two couples each. Right, Oh my gosh. They couldn't agree
Speaker 1: on anything. My oun uncle, they couldn't agree. First of all,
Speaker 1: when he first got there, they were very distant. They
Speaker 1: were being caddi toward one another. The tension was high.
Speaker 1: It was awkward as fun to be around them because
Speaker 1: you knew, you know, when two people are beating you
Speaker 1: walk into a room, toy quiet or they already quiet
Speaker 1: when you enter the room. That ship is crazy. Right,
Speaker 1: So we're playing a game. Round one, they couldn't agree
Speaker 1: on ship. Round two, couldn't agree on ship. They grew
Speaker 1: more heated and heated. By the end of the game
Speaker 1: they were at each other's next yea like real ship.
Speaker 1: So my uncle says something like, man, I'm out of
Speaker 1: this motherfucker. I'm I'm out. This bitch went on the balcony,
Speaker 1: went to go light up a blunt. On his way out.
Speaker 1: She said, don't worry about it. Don't worry about it.
Speaker 1: He just mad because I make more money than his ass.
Speaker 1: All bets are off. Now he turns back around, he
Speaker 1: gets upset. He looks like, how the fund can you
Speaker 1: even say this ship? How can you even say this
Speaker 1: ship in front of people. I told you she had
Speaker 1: a few drinks, so did he. But women, one thing
Speaker 1: about us. When we hit we hit below the fucking belt.
Speaker 1: And that ship is not healthy, not in a fucking marriage,
Speaker 1: not in a friendship, not in any type of companionship
Speaker 1: you got going on. Never hit below the belt, especially
Speaker 1: against somebody you love, in front of a bunch of people.
Speaker 1: I remember no body checking on him either. I remember
Speaker 1: that nobody would to go check on him, even the
Speaker 1: other guys. I mean, I guess they just didn't want
Speaker 1: to insert themselves into the business of my aunt and
Speaker 1: my uncle and ship like that. But all of us
Speaker 1: was trying to calm her down. We all was checking
Speaker 1: on her, and you know, even my date, I remember
Speaker 1: him check. Oh, I remember who it is now, but
Speaker 1: y'all still ain't getting that information. He would to go
Speaker 1: check on her. Everybody was checking on her. Nobody went
Speaker 1: on the balcony with my uncle to check on him.
Speaker 1: He's smoking a blunt heat chilling. He quiet anyway, so
Speaker 1: he's very unapproachable looking. So I guess that's why as well.
Speaker 1: I remember the next day when we all woke up
Speaker 1: to leave, because that was our our last day on
Speaker 1: the trip. Our flights were in the afternoon. We woke up,
Speaker 1: he was gone. He got up and he flew the
Speaker 1: funk out. He didn't say goodbye to anybody, nothing like that. Now,
Speaker 1: with that story in mine, today's topic is a black
Speaker 1: man's vulnerability. It's important to talk about that type of
Speaker 1: ship these days because it's a very feminist time in
Speaker 1: life right now. Women we get the spotlight a lot
Speaker 1: more now, and that's great. You know, the black woman
Speaker 1: is strong. The black woman is this, The black woman
Speaker 1: is that. Yes, we are where everything alpha and omega
Speaker 1: and everything in between. You take us away, you ain't
Speaker 1: got ship. But at the same time, we still have
Speaker 1: another another piece of humanity that we tend to just forget.
Speaker 1: That's the man. You can't spell humanity without man, and
Speaker 1: we we tend not to give a funk about a
Speaker 1: man's feelings. Now usually the next segment is just fix
Speaker 1: my mess. However, I knew, I just knew there would
Speaker 1: be no men who would willingly address their vulnerabilities and
Speaker 1: insecurities or whatever, and we have that. But that's the
Speaker 1: problem with our men these days. We have to get
Speaker 1: them to talk more. And I know the tradition is,
Speaker 1: you know, men don't cry. Men are not supposed to cry.
Speaker 1: Men don't be weak. You can't open up about ship.
Speaker 1: You have to keep it all inside because you're a man.
Speaker 1: You gotta be strong, you got to be barbarian like.
Speaker 1: But that's bullshit, because men still have hearts, they still
Speaker 1: have feelings. They're women without pussies. That's it, like a
Speaker 1: woman is a man without a dick. We are the same,
Speaker 1: We're all people. We just have different ships between our legs.
Speaker 1: That's the only difference between us. There are lots of
Speaker 1: insecurities that men struggle with, and it's a lot of
Speaker 1: ships that men deal with that women deal with as well,
Speaker 1: but it's overlooked when it's a man like men get
Speaker 1: cheated on, they get raped as children. You know, men
Speaker 1: go through all types of ship. They go through money problems,
Speaker 1: they go through losing friends, they have confidence issues. You
Speaker 1: got men getting surgery nowadays. If you don't like the
Speaker 1: way you look, change it. That's not only meant for
Speaker 1: a woman, you know what I mean. There are a
Speaker 1: lot of things that men deal with. But then you
Speaker 1: have the falsehood of ego. That's the mask that they
Speaker 1: put on so they won't have to face themselves or
Speaker 1: face their real problems, and also so no one around
Speaker 1: them will know what they're really going through. That's why
Speaker 1: it's very important to have barbershop talk. Like you know,
Speaker 1: how we go and get our hair done and we
Speaker 1: talk to our styles about everything. Well, I don't know,
Speaker 1: these days, these stylars are so fucking messy. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't talk to my styler is about a motherfucking thing.
Speaker 1: But you know it's easy, you know, as women we
Speaker 1: go and we talk about ship, talk about these men
Speaker 1: we're sitting these shares and let these women do our hand.
Speaker 1: We start spalking up conversations about how niggason did us wrong,
Speaker 1: and and then how we're doing a nigga's wrong. You
Speaker 1: never know what's gonna come out of your mouth and
Speaker 1: a fucking hand saloon because you're comfortable. You're amongst other
Speaker 1: women who are having some of the same problems. Now
Speaker 1: put the same thing in the barbershop. The barbershop setting.
Speaker 1: These men have these conversations, but I'm telling you a
Speaker 1: lot of times because I used to work at a barbershop. Yes,
Speaker 1: they have the same conversations we have, but men still front.
Speaker 1: Men front for other men. No man wants another man
Speaker 1: to know his struggles. Whether he's the man's best friend
Speaker 1: or not. He does not want anyone to know his struggles.
Speaker 1: You're always supposed to be the perfect strong man and
Speaker 1: anything your friendship. If you've got a group of friends,
Speaker 1: you want to be you want to appear as the
Speaker 1: richest friend, the friend that got it all together, and
Speaker 1: you don't. Now, men have a lot of issues that
Speaker 1: they struggle with. That's why they can't properly assess kids
Speaker 1: and women. You know what I'm saying. I'm not making
Speaker 1: up excuses because this is not every man's problem, but
Speaker 1: majority you'd be surprised. And I was having a discussion
Speaker 1: with one of my buddies and he calls it the
Speaker 1: trickle down theory. A lot of these men's issues are
Speaker 1: deep rooted, goes back to their childhood, goes back to
Speaker 1: generations and generations before them, great great grandfathers. They didn't
Speaker 1: know how to love properly because their father didn't do that.
Speaker 1: Their father didn't show them. Their father didn't put him
Speaker 1: on his back and you know, run around the house
Speaker 1: with him or wrestle them, or you know, or wrap
Speaker 1: them in his arms and telling me loves them. None
Speaker 1: of that. I remember a picture that was going around
Speaker 1: with whis Khalifa kissing his son Sebastian and his mouth. Now,
Speaker 1: a lot of men they had something to say about that,
Speaker 1: a lot of women had something to say about that.
Speaker 1: But that's why we feel like we that's I said,
Speaker 1: we like I'm a man and sometimes I swear I am,
Speaker 1: you know. But that's why men feel like they got
Speaker 1: to be so hard up, because they're scared to show affection,
Speaker 1: even to women. Scared to show affection. That's why a
Speaker 1: lot of gay men are scared of coming out. It's
Speaker 1: just a man is a man. At the end of
Speaker 1: the day. They have hearts, they have feelings. With Khalifa
Speaker 1: teaching that little boy love, he's teaching him love. There's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with him kissing his son in him off.
Speaker 1: That's his fucking son. Mind your fucking business. Then, on
Speaker 1: the other hand, you got a man who never kisses
Speaker 1: his son, whether it be on a forehead, cheek, whatever mouth.
Speaker 1: You got men that never kiss their fucking sons. Never Now,
Speaker 1: imagine those young men that's gonna grow up who don't
Speaker 1: know how to show affection to a woman. No no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. They they might think kissing his mushy. They
Speaker 1: don't want that ship. Oh no, no, no, hell no.
Speaker 1: My father never did. Dead no no, no no. Even
Speaker 1: if you did have a mother that's affectionate to you,
Speaker 1: telling your father plants the seed. Every household needs a dad,
Speaker 1: Every child needs a dad, and every child needs a
Speaker 1: mother's love, but also the love and affection from a father.
Speaker 1: That's why I praised Russell Wilson. He shows love to
Speaker 1: Baby Future, He shows him love. He's not hard up
Speaker 1: with the dude with the little boy. He's not that
Speaker 1: one on one they get Sierra is not always around
Speaker 1: when Baby Future is in the care of Russell. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. He wants that one on one
Speaker 1: showing him love and affection, not saying his father doesn't.
Speaker 1: But I only know what we see, and we see
Speaker 1: Russell giving him that affection. If you love me, you'll
Speaker 1: listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back again.
Speaker 1: General curses that has to be broken. Maybe someone's father
Speaker 1: beat their mother growing up in aboosive household. A lot
Speaker 1: of guys seeing there, their mothers get beaten by their father,
Speaker 1: seeing their fathers even you know, beat on them. That's
Speaker 1: also a generational curse. That's also how a man feels
Speaker 1: like he has to be so tough. When my father
Speaker 1: beat my mother, my father, another hugged and kissed on
Speaker 1: my mother. Us saw that, So that's what I am.
Speaker 1: My own brother can't stand his father, but in hindsight,
Speaker 1: he acts just like his dad. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That ship sticks with your kids, and that's why generational
Speaker 1: curses have to be broken. That's exactly why. Or it'll
Speaker 1: be hard for you to be a parent, it'll be
Speaker 1: hard for you to be a husband, it'll be hard
Speaker 1: for you to be a brother. It'll be hard. You
Speaker 1: have to break it. Many therapy, just like us women
Speaker 1: many love. A lot of times, there is no framework,
Speaker 1: meaning nobody taught this man structure. Nobody taught him how
Speaker 1: to be honest with himself about his struggles. Nobody taught
Speaker 1: him how to open up about them, you know, whether
Speaker 1: it be to other friends. That's why men are so
Speaker 1: scared of therapy. I'm not about to go lay on
Speaker 1: the couch and and tell no woman how I fail.
Speaker 1: She can't help me. I'm I'm I'm a man, I'm
Speaker 1: tough and no, but I don't want nobody in my business.
Speaker 1: That's where manipulation comes into play. Most mass manipulating men
Speaker 1: have these issues deep deep, deep down inside. Manipulation can't
Speaker 1: just come from nowhere. My son's father is very manipulative,
Speaker 1: and now so is my son. My son hasn't even
Speaker 1: lived his life fully. He's eight, and he is a
Speaker 1: little manipulator for real. He gets it from his dad.
Speaker 1: But you know, Jerome has a lot of issues. Jerome
Speaker 1: is my son's father's name, is a lot of issues
Speaker 1: that he hasn't come to grips with. He hasn't put
Speaker 1: out those fires in those roots yet. And he even
Speaker 1: told me, I mean, sometimes I think about going to therapy,
Speaker 1: but then I mean, what is that ship gonna do
Speaker 1: for me? That's that ego I was talking about. That
Speaker 1: goes back to the falsehood of ego. What do you
Speaker 1: mean you're trying to be so tough, You're trying to
Speaker 1: appear as something that you've trained yourself to be, so
Speaker 1: you don't have to deal with the issues, you don't
Speaker 1: have to face them. But in all reality, you will
Speaker 1: never be happy, you will never find love, You will
Speaker 1: never ever ever stop going from woman to woman looking
Speaker 1: for what you're missing if you don't get to the
Speaker 1: root of your problem, your own self. This is what
Speaker 1: I've told him tom after time, even examples and movies
Speaker 1: that they put in front of our faces on why
Speaker 1: did I get married? Angela and Marcus? She constantly put
Speaker 1: the man down. That's what my aunt did, put the
Speaker 1: man down about making less than she did. But then
Speaker 1: why did I get married? Marcus was pro football player.
Speaker 1: They started with his money. He got hurt, he got injured,
Speaker 1: and then the burden fell on the wife. Nevertheless, she
Speaker 1: picked it up, but she threw it in his face.
Speaker 1: This is my money, Marcus. You ain't going nowhere. You
Speaker 1: ain't gonna leave me because this is my money. That
Speaker 1: forced that man to cheat. He did not want to
Speaker 1: leave his wife. But dealing with a woman seven, that's
Speaker 1: throwing something in your face, that fox with a man's dignity,
Speaker 1: that fox with a man's pride. So he cheated. He
Speaker 1: cheated with someone who ain't gonna do that ship that
Speaker 1: ain't constantly talking about he broke and reminding him of
Speaker 1: his past, and oh, yeah, you you did make money
Speaker 1: until you hurt yourself. Now you ain't got nothing coming,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. She constantly reminded Marcus that
Speaker 1: he had to work for her in her salon the
Speaker 1: episode of Martin where Martin was so upset that Gina
Speaker 1: made more than him. He didn't even know that ship
Speaker 1: and it came out that she made more than him.
Speaker 1: He was pissed the whole episode. Now, these are real
Speaker 1: situations that they put on TV. Yes, it was a
Speaker 1: fictional sitcom, but it's real life. Ship Men deal with
Speaker 1: all types of ship. Men deal with financial struggles, men
Speaker 1: deal with aboost from their women. Men deal with a lot.
Speaker 1: These black men, man, they go through a lot. We're
Speaker 1: gonna take it back even further to color purple. Remember
Speaker 1: silly and Mr. He beat that woman and she still
Speaker 1: want to go get up and cook for the family
Speaker 1: through the baby's hair. All of that. That was regular
Speaker 1: back then. That was fucking regular. And then he had
Speaker 1: a fucking mistress who was sucked up in the head
Speaker 1: as well. She was being mentally abused, she was being prostituted.
Speaker 1: But Mr was dealing with struggles far beyond the abuse.
Speaker 1: Maybe he was abused when he was younger and Ship
Speaker 1: like that. He couldn't love Silly, he couldn't love Setter,
Speaker 1: He couldn't love anybody, probably because he didn't address his
Speaker 1: own issues. He would beat the shut out of Silly
Speaker 1: and she would get the funk up and go cook
Speaker 1: dinner for the family, like it was regular. That should happen.
Speaker 1: Even back in slavery, the black man has always had
Speaker 1: to bore the physical part of slavery. You gotta think
Speaker 1: about it. When the black man is born, they were
Speaker 1: trained by white men. They would take the biggest black man,
Speaker 1: this is the one I got to do all the work,
Speaker 1: then the workout in the fields and ship. They would
Speaker 1: get them real strong and buff like animals. They treated
Speaker 1: the black man like animals. That's what the black man
Speaker 1: was used for. The black man was seen as a machine,
Speaker 1: a strong ass animal, beaten when they didn't move, beaten
Speaker 1: for not doing something right, beaten no matter what it
Speaker 1: was for. Nevertheless, they were fucking beaten, which takes me
Speaker 1: back to Mr. And Silly. When she didn't do something right,
Speaker 1: he beat her. Sometimes she wouldn't even do ship. He
Speaker 1: would just beat her. His ass was beat you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's the trickle down effect that my
Speaker 1: homeboy was talking about. It's also the devalue of a
Speaker 1: black man. And even fast forward to the Welfare Reformation,
Speaker 1: when blacks started finally getting government assistance, the rules were
Speaker 1: a black man couldn't even be in the fucking house.
Speaker 1: For a woman to receive any type of benefits, the
Speaker 1: black man couldn't even be in the fucking house. So
Speaker 1: the black man had the hide. Of course it was
Speaker 1: for nest, but when he would come around for the
Speaker 1: visits and shipped to still keep up the benefits or
Speaker 1: whatever and all that type of ship the evaluations, the
Speaker 1: man had to get all of his clothes out of there.
Speaker 1: And and no man could even be in the house,
Speaker 1: No fucking black man could even be in his own
Speaker 1: house for the family to receive benefits, to receive help,
Speaker 1: and in my opinion, welfare reformation is what started the
Speaker 1: I don't need a man mindset for black women. Black
Speaker 1: women have had more training on how to defend themselves
Speaker 1: from a black man then to how to love a
Speaker 1: black man. I'm telling you it started right there. In
Speaker 1: my opinion, you're gonna always see a black woman even today.
Speaker 1: I don't need no man, I don't need no nigga.
Speaker 1: I do this ship by myself, like bitches love saying
Speaker 1: that ship. Listen, you do, you do just like the
Speaker 1: man needs us. Black women need black men, and black
Speaker 1: men need black women. I don't give a funk how
Speaker 1: you feel, what you say. If you turn this podcast
Speaker 1: it off right now, I don't give a fuck. Yes
Speaker 1: we do. We need our men and they need us.
Speaker 1: And that's also why black men are so aggressive. Not
Speaker 1: all of them, but a lot of the majority of
Speaker 1: these men are so aggressive because we've been taught to
Speaker 1: defend ourselves against them. So of course, like even when
Speaker 1: when you first meet a man, we can see a
Speaker 1: nigga walking down the street if it's pasts a lord
Speaker 1: too tight or depending on you know, the sway in
Speaker 1: his walking or whatever what he got on. Oh bitches game,
Speaker 1: oh bitch he's out drugs, like we're judging them at
Speaker 1: the fucking door. You haven't done that. We judge these
Speaker 1: men and then we get upset when they're with white women,
Speaker 1: but we often have that. We don't need your mentality.
Speaker 1: So actually we throw these niggas away. That's what we do.
Speaker 1: We're throwing them away, and we can be very spiteful.
Speaker 1: Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship getting good.
Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen. As black women, Yes,
Speaker 1: we can be very spiteful because, like I said, we
Speaker 1: have been trained to defend ourselves. So when a man
Speaker 1: do finally open up. Let's say he opened up and
Speaker 1: tell you about his past or he has an insecurity,
Speaker 1: he tells you about one of his vulnerabilities. You take it,
Speaker 1: you love him, he falls for you. Y'all get angry
Speaker 1: and you throw that ship in his face. You bring
Speaker 1: that ship up and you throw that ship out there
Speaker 1: at him. Well, you was telling me, whatever the problem,
Speaker 1: whatever the issue is. Then they shut back down and
Speaker 1: don't tell you, ask nothing else. We have to protect
Speaker 1: our black men just like we expect them to protect us.
Speaker 1: We have to get them to talk more. We have
Speaker 1: to get them to talk more. A lot of men
Speaker 1: grew up in foster homes and being passed around from
Speaker 1: group on the group home. I remember, I had a
Speaker 1: man that worked for me that told me that man,
Speaker 1: there's some real shiit sys growing up being passed around
Speaker 1: from group. I'm the group almost like Jail. I feel
Speaker 1: like he was trying to tell me something. Maybe he
Speaker 1: was touched, maybe he was raped. That's why he's so
Speaker 1: fucking mean. That's why he beat Nigga's the way he do.
Speaker 1: That's why he's had encounters with women and fucking children.
Speaker 1: That's why he's not scared to take a life the
Speaker 1: ship that he had to go through growing up. Now
Speaker 1: he has a lot of children, A lot of them
Speaker 1: got both nine ten children, and all of them are mixed.
Speaker 1: None of them are fully African American. He also explained
Speaker 1: to me why none of them are fully African American.
Speaker 1: He loves mixed women. He loves Hispanic women. They're more submissive.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have to worry about them going through his phone.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have to worry about them calling him out
Speaker 1: of his name, poisoning him when he's sleep, or anything.
Speaker 1: I'm like, nigga, what the hell have you been through
Speaker 1: with black women? What the fuck? That's why he said
Speaker 1: he's scared the day another one. He told me this,
Speaker 1: I ain't suing no black women scared the day to
Speaker 1: fucking black woman man. Black women think their men, is
Speaker 1: what he said. I can relate to that because sometimes
Speaker 1: I feel like I am you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like we're tough, we're very very tough, we don't take
Speaker 1: no ship, but sometimes it's okay to be soft. Sometimes
Speaker 1: it is. You also, notice how black men don't marry
Speaker 1: black women, even going way back to your grandmother. Now, listen,
Speaker 1: black people will stay together for years and years and
Speaker 1: years but never married because we've had no examples to
Speaker 1: look up to. Now, I don't want to hear nothing
Speaker 1: but no Beyonce and jay Z and grand Hero and
Speaker 1: to Mia and and Russell and Sierra. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about way back, not not celebrities. Don't throw
Speaker 1: no celebrities in my face. Let's go way back. Old
Speaker 1: people will stay together for fucking ether and still still
Speaker 1: don't marry each other. I don't know what it is
Speaker 1: about it, but it's hard to marry. We had no
Speaker 1: good examples. Even these days, it seems like people can
Speaker 1: be in love when they have babies, they break up.
Speaker 1: The divorce rate in black marriages is way fucking higher
Speaker 1: than any other race because people get married without getting
Speaker 1: to know each other. People get married with hidden factors,
Speaker 1: like men men don't like to talk about ship that
Speaker 1: they've been through. You have to really, really really get
Speaker 1: to know yourself and really get to the bottom of
Speaker 1: who you are before you marry someone. And a lot
Speaker 1: of times, because these men do have these masked egos
Speaker 1: and this type of ship, they go in a relationship
Speaker 1: being someone that they've trained themselves to be, being someone
Speaker 1: that they're really really not. And then when you're married,
Speaker 1: you're stuck with this person and you realize, damn, I
Speaker 1: did this too soon. But no, you're gonna keep making
Speaker 1: the same mistake if you don't get to know yourself,
Speaker 1: if you don't get to talk more. We have to
Speaker 1: get black men to talk more. If you are a
Speaker 1: black man. Listening to this episode of Carefully Reckless today,
Speaker 1: the topic was a black man's vulnerability. Hit the email.
Speaker 1: I'll give you advice. We'll get to the bottom of it. Ship,
Speaker 1: open up, open up to me, that's what the hell
Speaker 1: I'm here for. I am a black man sometimes, so
Speaker 1: I got you brother, look at me as your brother,
Speaker 1: but not real ship man. A black man's vulnerability is
Speaker 1: so important, and we need to get our black men
Speaker 1: to talk more, get them to open up. So black
Speaker 1: women hugging, kiss your black man, black man hugging. Kiss
Speaker 1: your boys, your baby boys, your children, your son's black man.
Speaker 1: Call your father and tell him you miss him, you
Speaker 1: love him, even if you know him and you ain't
Speaker 1: got a relationship with him. Before you leave this earth,
Speaker 1: make it your business to at least look your father
Speaker 1: in the eye, tell him you love him, give him
Speaker 1: a hug, palm his head, all of that. Because love
Speaker 1: is love, whether you're a woman or a man. Remember
Speaker 1: I said, the only difference between a man and a
Speaker 1: woman is what's between the legs. And I'm gonna leave
Speaker 1: it right there. Thank you for listening to another episode
Speaker 1: of Carefully Rightless. We'll be back next Wednesday. Hump Day
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