1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: Okay, so this is so fascinating, especially Sisney. I'm only 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: thinking about you right now because your husband's in a 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 1: rock band. He wanted to duet with, you know, a 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: female rock band slead singer. Would you like him to 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: do that or would you want him to do that? 6 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: Would you let him do that? And that's what this 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: is all about, Tanya. 8 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, I want to open it up 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 2: not just to the entertainment industry, but just think about 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 2: your job and certain things that you were asked in 11 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: the workplace. But when it comes to being married and 12 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 2: the entertainment industry, there is a lot of blurry lines. 13 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 2: Right People that are actors are making out on screen 14 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: that are married. But Gabby Barrett, she is a country singer. 15 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 2: She was on American Idol. She finished Yeah, she finished 16 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 2: third on American Idol. Her and her husband Kid have 17 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: set boundaries with their careers in order to protect their marriage. 18 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: Jami Meets on American Idol. 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: Yes they did. Yeah, So she said, there's been a 20 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: large song of coortunities that have come in for me 21 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: to do weet on or be a part of something, 22 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: but it's between myself and my husband and I respect 23 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: him a ton so I listen to what he has 24 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 2: to say, and I think he deserves that. And so 25 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 2: she basically went on to say she's turned down a 26 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: lot of big duet opportunities. She said, there's been songs 27 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 2: that have been not appropriate to seeing wording wise, like 28 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 2: these love songs that are really intimate wording wise. And 29 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 2: so I thought it was interesting because a lot of 30 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 2: people say that that can harm your career. You know, 31 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 2: if you're turning down these big possible duets, it's hindering 32 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 2: your career, but it could also be jeopardizing your marriage. 33 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 2: You know. I hate even those secure and confident person 34 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 2: can feel certain sense of insecurities when their partner is 35 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,839 Speaker 2: in this line of work. You know, Like my best 36 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 2: friend is dating a singer and has to watch her 37 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: grind on stage, and so I think that we grind well. 38 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: Like my best friend Becca, her girlfriend is a performer, 39 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 2: and so she has to watch her girlfriend and dance 40 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: intimately and do all this stuff. And what I'm saying 41 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 2: is I think Gabby Barrett is saying, I'm gonna I 42 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 2: don't want that. 43 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: I don't want to He's going to be grinding as 44 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,679 Speaker 1: she does a duet, Like your friend here. 45 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 2: But what she's saying is she's putting your relationship first. 46 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: We hear that. So the question is is that I 47 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: mean by the way, I yes, those two met. They 48 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: were so fun on the show together, and I love 49 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: their relationship, and I think that works for them, doesn't 50 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: work for everybody? Well, Tanya like, would you do it? 51 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 2: No? Honestly, I feel like I would. 52 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: I mean, look at Rema and Selena. They're fine. 53 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: It's art, right, I feel like there are certain ones, yes, 54 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 2: But I understand what she's saying is like she's like, 55 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: I don't want him to feel any certain type of way. 56 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 1: I think what's worse is and I just saw a 57 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: photo of was it Blake Lively because in her co 58 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: star on the set? Yeah, right on the set in 59 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: front of the camera. Yes, I saw the photos and 60 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't know i'd want to 61 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: see that, right, I mean, I lived that I was 62 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: dating an actress. I know, yeah, I didn't. I mean 63 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 1: that's not like it's it's nothing comfortable about that to me. 64 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: It's it's harder, I think, to see if you're dating 65 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: an actor, to see them kiss kiss another actor, right, 66 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: But like. 67 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: That also goes you know Penn Badgley has turned down roles. 68 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 2: He doesn't want to be nude anymore out of respect 69 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 2: for his wife, and so does that limit him there? 70 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 2: You know, so it's kind of that. 71 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: You would not duet, but you give me underwear. I 72 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: don't understand. 73 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 2: Okay, it's all like I just gave you underwear. It 74 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 2: was you were talking about misplacing your red favorite pair 75 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 2: of red underwear. 76 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: Was comfortable if you wanted to do a song to 77 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: get it. 78 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 2: Was very thoughtful. I thought it was a very thoughtful gift. 79 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: Let's go to sisiny on that about the gift or 80 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: about duetting. Just whatever you want to do. I don't 81 00:03:58,320 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: see an issue with having to do a duet with 82 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: somebody else if you're married. It's to me art, it's 83 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: it's it's just art, but acting is a whole next level. 84 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: Like would you preferred Tanya dueted with me, then give 85 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: me the red underwear? 86 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 2: I mean at the time, I don't think she saw 87 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 2: anything wrong with it. 88 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: Would you do it now? Yeah? I didn't she give you. 89 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: She gave you underwear for Christmas? Didn't she? Little shorts 90 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: like Hucie Daddy. 91 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: Shorts that my fiance. 92 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: With me sing with me instead. Please, I mean that's 93 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: the other issue. You're trying to dress them like your fiance. 94 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 2: I don't know where's the line.