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Speaker 1: Right you told me no, And okay, I get it.

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Speaker 1: God bless you. Oh my god, you guys are the

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Speaker 1: be awesome. So what's the deal, Sarah? What happened? So?

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Speaker 1: Hi Kara, how are you? Hey? Good? How are you? Yra?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to stay or go? What's going on with you?

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Speaker 1: And Jim? Tell us everything so we can then decide

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Speaker 1: what to do with your life. All right. So Jim

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Speaker 1: So he he's having these these dialogues with people on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: how do you discover this? Yeah? Okay, all right, so

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't the hacker be holding out saying I got pictures

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Speaker 1: don't pay me or you don't do something like that,

422
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:54,360
Speaker 1: isn't that them? Oh? I guess so you but you've

423
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,760
Speaker 1: seem you seem convinced of the possibility. Because you don't,

424
00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 1: you'd seem like, you know, I feel like you want

425
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,879
Speaker 1: us to tell you that you know you're probably wrong

426
00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 1: and that he probably did get hacked. But we're not

427
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 1: gonna say what I'm saying. I don't. Yeah, you don't

428
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 1: seem convinced that, but you have three times now you're

429
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,440
Speaker 1: still with the guy. You don't seem convinced that it's

430
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:16,439
Speaker 1: that that that it is him. I feel like talking

431
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,679
Speaker 1: to you guys like like a hear ridiculous. It sounds,

432
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,680
Speaker 1: but you know, I don't want to believe I guess

433
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 1: I just don't want to believe it. Right, I know

434
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,119
Speaker 1: if he's being hacked, and then how about he deletes

435
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:31,400
Speaker 1: his Instagram uh and starts over or delete it, gets

436
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 1: rid of the account because he's not, because I would

437
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 1: be very, very very What level of concern does this

438
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 1: guy express if if if my wife caught me supposedly

439
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:45,880
Speaker 1: cheating on Instagram profile and I wasn't, then I would

440
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 1: be doing everything in my power to just press is

441
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:53,439
Speaker 1: he doing that? I mean no, he's kind of charming

442
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 1: and then we just kind of you know m and

443
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 1: obviously you can't live with that, so you gotta go right,

444
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 1: let's let's take some calls on this. But maybe some

445
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,439
Speaker 1: people have some experience with this hacking and they can

446
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 1: put your mind at rest. But this guy is lying

447
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: to you. There's no way. Three times, I'm sorry, I

448
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 1: just I don't think you're asking for the everyone's opinion.

449
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 1: I don't think he's lying to you. I think he

450
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: wanted us to say, like, it's gonna be okay, but

451
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: I'm unfortunately, sometimes people have to be the voice of

452
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,680
Speaker 1: reason and sort of shake you out of your well.

453
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 1: And that person's always me and if you leave him, yeah,

454
00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 1: it don't be okay. I don't want to stay with

455
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,719
Speaker 1: someone like that. No, No, because you're never gonna trust him.

456
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: You're always gonna be like I don't look for something

457
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 1: I don't buy, Kara, let me take some calls, have

458
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,959
Speaker 1: a good day, listen to the radio, and follow up

459
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 1: with us and let us know what happens. Okay, thank you,

460
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: thank you. K Have you ever heard of anything like this?

461
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 1: I'm so obvious, but have you ever heard of something

462
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 1: like this multiple times where the same person is being

463
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: hacked and set up in some sort of a cheating situation,

464
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 1: and then the hacker is sending his nudes too? Come on?

465
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 1: I mean again, like hackers have nothing better to do.

466
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: I've heard of people's accounts being hacked multiple times, where

467
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 1: then the hackers get access to the pictures that are

468
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 1: in the phone and then I'll hold those out my

469
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 1: Instagram and some or whatever. I should have told her this.

470
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 1: My Instagram was hacked a couple of years ago. And

471
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 1: you get shut out of your own Instagram when that happens,

472
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 1: because the person immediately changes the access to it, like

473
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 1: the passwords and all that, and it takes forever to

474
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 1: undo all that. It was such a pain in the ass,

475
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: and so there's no way that they just hacked him,

476
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 1: And like you know, he still had access to his

477
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,199
Speaker 1: account and all this stuff. And I'm married and my

478
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: wife sees my deep pis being sent to some First

479
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: of all, you're not gonna find those. But I just

480
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: start a whole new account, signs it to somebody else,

481
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna be like I'm gonna be over there.

482
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: I mean, just going crazy intensely trying to disprove it

483
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 1: and fix it and get off Instagram. And no, I

484
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: didn't do it and it never is it's never gonna

485
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: happen again, and all this stuff, and he was away.

486
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 1: He's like, no, I wouldn't mean, okay, cool, next he

487
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: would have started a new account, like it's ridiculous. Hey, Karina, Yeah, hi, Karina,

488
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 1: you just heard that story. I'm sorry. I mean, I

489
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 1: hope we don't sound aggressive. We're being overly aggressive, but

490
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: I mean, this dude's lying. Oh. I think people need

491
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: to hear the truth. And I think she hears the

492
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: truth and she sees it, but she feels like in denial.

493
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: But there's a reason she called. You know what I'm saying,

494
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: Like she knows in heart of hearts that it's wrong.

495
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: She wanted some mass validation. And then from the looks

496
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 1: of it, she's about to get it. So that you

497
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 1: agree this guy's lying. Yeah, I definitely lying. I just

498
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,159
Speaker 1: came out of the relationship with the father of my

499
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 1: son and it was the same all the time, time

500
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: and the same thing. He was doing that on Instagram. Yeah, yeah,

501
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: multiple times with different women. Um, did you blame it

502
00:24:54,880 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: hacker too several times? Yeah, or say that it was

503
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: his buddy, Yeah, okay, Yeah, my buddy's gonna do that. Yeah. No,

504
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: one's get in here. Let's call Neve from Catfish and

505
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: he's gonna see he is a little noise, little Buddi's

506
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: not on the show anymore. So Neive's show up here

507
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: with like little NASAs and then they'll solve the problem

508
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: with Little Nasa too. This is the most obvious callow.

509
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: He'll show up with master p and they'll and they'll

510
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: solve they'll the crest. Thank you, Karina, have a good day, Legical,

511
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: we'll get Navan here. Hey, Sherry, there's that one person

512
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: who gonna take this guy's side. Not one, there's usually one,

513
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 1: and even sometimes I'll take Devil's advocate position is to

514
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,439
Speaker 1: piss everybody off. Not not doing that today either. There

515
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: is no other position, right, it's obvious. Yeah, because he's lying. Right.

516
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: I spent five years in a relationship with someone exactly

517
00:25:53,160 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: like him, everything with an excuse. Let me. He had

518
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: two Facebook accounts. He would do in the other account

519
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 1: to be like an adult group. But Cherry, let me,

520
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 1: what what caused you to stay? What? Why? Why did

521
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:14,360
Speaker 1: you stay the same thing? She said? He was charming

522
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: and he would apologize. Don't tell me how much he

523
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: loved me. Yeah. Sometimes are so manipulative and so slick,

524
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:25,239
Speaker 1: and narcissists are real good, you know, they are. Just

525
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,479
Speaker 1: tell you what you want to hear. Narcissists will charm,

526
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 1: gaslight you, makes you think that you're crazy and like,

527
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 1: oh they buy so much they believe their own line. Yeah. Yeah,

528
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: thank you, Cherry. I'm sorry you went through that. Have

529
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: a good Yeah, I love you too, Hey, Liz, Yeah,

530
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 1: there is a lot of stories like this. You went

531
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: through something similar, Yes, exactly similar. I was with someone

532
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: for seven years and his excuse was he wasn't keeping

533
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: she wasn't touching that. Oh sorry, sorry, but I can't

534
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: defend that one either, Okay, right, it's all Yeah, if

535
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: he send the pictures and have a conversation's emotional cheating,

536
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: physical cheating, talking about it's all. It's acceptive filing the relationship. Yeah,

537
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: it's all inappropriate to the strength at least. Yeah. Yeah,

538
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: And you could tell that that's what she was really

539
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: grappling with, is like yeah that she knowss but just

540
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 1: like she just needed some validation and like she's trying

541
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: to bring herself to get to that point. You can

542
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: hear it so many stories, just like yeah, thank you

543
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: for calling less, have a great day, appreciate you listening. Hi, Mona, Mona,

544
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,719
Speaker 1: you had the same experience. How did you catch this guy?

545
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 1: Oh my ex boyfriend of five years? Would you know?

546
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: Like he had pictures of the conference videos and I'd

547
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 1: be like, why are the tear He's like oh, like

548
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 1: you know, there's all then like the next day to

549
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: text her and be like, oh okay, you said more.

550
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 1: And then like we had two Facebook accounts, like two instagrams.

551
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: I found it, but once for business but it was

552
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 1: only like one girl. He had a whole girlfriend for

553
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 1: a whole year, like another girl friend for a whole

554
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: year while I was dating him. And I understand where

555
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 1: that girls coming from, because it's hard to leave when

556
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: you're so comfortable with somebody and they're so charming, like, oh,

557
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: but I love you and we have this life together,

558
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 1: and you just have to literally say, I deserve better.

559
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: And it's gonna happen again because I have a three

560
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:27,880
Speaker 1: times happening. Yeah, it doesn't. It doesn't end because these

561
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: kind of people think that they can get away with it.

562
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: And he is, Yeah, she taught him that he can

563
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: get away with it. Our host to leave and she's like,

564
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: you know what, I deserve better. I knows. She's very

565
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: thank you, mama, have a good time. Yeah, gonna move

566
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: on here. Thanks for calling. Have a great day. You're

567
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: glad you called. If you're just tuning in. Kara calls

568
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: us to tell us that her husband of a year,

569
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: as she's called him three times on Instagram, having interactions dialogue,

570
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: a dialogue with women, different women, the same woman, I

571
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: don't know, but including pictures of himself naked and in

572
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 1: sexual conversation, and every time he says that he's been hacked.

573
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: Every time. Hey, Susie, Susie, Hi, so you heard the story.

574
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 1: What do you think? Yeah, So I went to the

575
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: same thing with my husband a four and a half

576
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: years and it was on Facebook, and the first message

577
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 1: she said he was half and then I taught him.

578
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 1: At the third time I caught him. It was from

579
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: Facebook again, and it was through with his friend that

580
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: he um tart On in high school and they were

581
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: talking and they were trying to meet up, and I

582
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: got in contact with her and she sent me all

583
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 1: the messages and who thank you a good day. By

584
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: the way, if my boy is using like like the

585
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: one woman said, if my friend is using my profile

586
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: as the conduits to cheat, who does that? I mean,

587
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure it happens, but like, why are you set

588
00:29:55,960 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: the pictures of my job? Come on? Man, Hey, Brittany, Yeah,

589
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: there's no way you heard this old situation and you say, go, yes,

590
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: I think she should go and clean the bank account

591
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: on the way out. Oh yeah, there's no other way

592
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: of looking at her. I'm plus only being married here now.

593
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: She didn't say she had kids or not, but if

594
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: she's gonna leave now would be the time before kids

595
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: get involved. And that kid's a whole lot mess here. Well,

596
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: and she gave him a first shot and a second

597
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,719
Speaker 1: shot and a third shot, so it's not even like this. No,

598
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: I don't think there's any room for misunderstanding here, No,

599
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: not at all. He's just gonna keep doing and just

600
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: start press with a better person who will treat her better.

601
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: Have a good day. This might be the first love

602
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: you too, This might be the first stairgo ever where

603
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: it's a unanimous one hundred. No one even dares call

604
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: up here, and or no one in this room is

605
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: even dare taking the other side of this one the

606
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: good Morning everybody. There's a big celebrity Jessica album. She's

607
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: very irritated, as a quote, excuse me so irritated by

608
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,959
Speaker 1: one of her tattoos. These Sin City actress has a

609
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: few pieces of body yard, but particularly regrets having a

610
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: tramp stamp edged onto her lower back. I guess it's

611
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 1: a bow um, probably from a Blade three. She was

612
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: in Blade three and had a bow a floral designed

613
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,719
Speaker 1: on her neck, which she's desperately tried to have removed,

614
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: but I guess without luck. She says, I do have

615
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 1: a few tattoos. I regret one of them, maybe two.

616
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: I got flowers when I was like seventeen, and I'm

617
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: irritated that I got it. Do you have a tattoo

618
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: that you regret? Eight five five nine, one one three five.

619
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: Every time we do something like this, we get some

620
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: pretty good ones. Yeah, I mean we get we get

621
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 1: answers that I'm like, what, like, I need to understand

622
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: the thought process leading up to it, Like I'm not judging,

623
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: so I'm not judging you, but like, what on earth

624
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: were you thinking? And what was there? In particular learning

625
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: tunes characters? There was one tench time to your body. Yes,

626
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: there was believe it was ryme rhymes bird was there

627
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: was a tweety bird. It was on the back of

628
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: my like the back of my shoulder, and I had

629
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: it removed, thank you. Rinkle fairy. Wasn't there also the

630
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: original design of the tweety bird holding a sign that's

631
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: had screwed you or something? F off? Yes, you should

632
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: have gone all the way. Well, I didn't want to

633
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: be offensive, I see. I didn't want it to be

634
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: twe You wanted to make good judgment, expressed good judgment.

635
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: I wanted a classy tweety bird, which I knew you

636
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: had that scene. No, you don't that you you sound fun.

637
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: I only just I only just got what what do

638
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: you mean? No, you're so fun? But I got it

639
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 1: removed before my wedding day because I had, like, you know,

640
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: a strapless wedding gown and I didn't want tweety bird

641
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 1: hanging out of my back while I was walking down

642
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: the aisle. Emily high fun, what's the tattoo that you regret?

643
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: It's a tattoo I have on my forearm. That's super Dyke.

644
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: Super d came out really loud, apparently, what kind of

645
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: superhero powers are you? Super Dyke? I can't talk about that.

646
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: I was gonna say I got a few things I

647
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 1: can say it. We're gonna go well, so oh, Emily,

648
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: So do you plan to have it removed? Or are

649
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: you just gonna go loud and proud. My wife hates it,

650
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: so she says we have to. I have to remove

651
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: it before we have kids. Super I just get changed

652
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: the super dog like the hot dog place. No, I'll

653
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: go see Leslie c. She'll take it off for you.

654
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: Have a good day. Thank you, Bye, Hey, Vicky, Vicky,

655
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: let's hear about the tattoo that you regret, because Jessica

656
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 1: Alba has a couple and she's very upset about it.

657
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: I guess one of the names has sued on me

658
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: um When I was twenty one, and then I tried

659
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: to get a comed up with flowers and now it

660
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 1: even looks so I'm gonna go for a turtle, nick

661
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: and see how they turned out. I guess that you

662
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: were twenty one, But like, why, why does anybody really

663
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: think unless it's your child name or maybe a parent

664
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 1: or grandparent, why does anybody think that's a good idea?

665
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: Who whose name was it? That boyfriend? I assume yeah,

666
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: it's love, you know, Love's love or received landed down down.

667
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 1: It was more than a lay down the right way.

668
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: I'll get whatever tast nobody ever wanted to get a

669
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: tattoo of moname after the old top of me. I'll

670
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: tell you that. Thank you, VICKI goodbye, Hey clover, hey, hi,

671
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:32,320
Speaker 1: tattoo that you regret? Good morning, by the way, good morning,

672
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 1: and I actually do you not regret my But I

673
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 1: do have very strange one. I have a meat truck

674
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 1: and a bracelet of fake a bracelet of steak. Yeah

675
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: you have it. Where is the meat truck on your body?

676
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 1: I'm curious, arm, he's sting a puppet of a Blake game.

677
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: What the hell? I thought it was? The deliveries in

678
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: rear type oh boy, a lot of place. What are

679
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 1: you a chef or like, what's the deal? No, my

680
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 1: uncle tattoo, so I have a lot of him. Use

681
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: your body as his easel. I'm crazy. Oh boy, I

682
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 1: love you. Have a good day. I love you. Show

683
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 1: me your meat truck. Hey, Kelly, Hey, Hi Kelly, Hey,

684
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: I love you too. Who's who's got the bad tattoo?

685
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 1: It's not you? Okay, No, it's my brother. Um. She

686
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: actually got a Google sound tattoo and it's wrong. It said,

687
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: don't it make you sad to know that life is

688
00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:00,040
Speaker 1: more than or than who you are? Instead of a

689
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: band in New Orleans? Tattoo artist not know how to spell.

690
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 1: Probably they probably did what he told him to do.

691
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:16,240
Speaker 1: They probably know you have to approve it, don't you. Yeah,

692
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: well you know. I think it was like three am.

693
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: And she tried to wash it off the next day

694
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: and thank you, Kelly, have a good day. I have

695
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,720
Speaker 1: a friend And he grew up in a very prim

696
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: and proper family and he had a tattoo. When I

697
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: first saw it, I thought it was a joke. It

698
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: was he had an actual Western belt and like gun

699
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 1: slinger guns. Yeah, that's amazing. All the way round his

700
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 1: waist and the guns on his hips and everything. But

701
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: it sat low enough that he could wear shorts or

702
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: a swimsuit and nobody knew that it was there. And

703
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: when he first showed it to me, I'm like, did

704
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: I have a belt buckle? The whole thing? And I'm like,

705
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: what did you do? And I got it? I got it.

706
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 1: It's cool, it's painful. I gotta think he regrets that

707
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:07,320
Speaker 1: now because we were young. God, it's a lot of tattoo.

708
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 1: It's oh yeah, yeah, hey's sandy him very guys. Love

709
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 1: guys listening here every day. I love you too, Thank you.

710
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 1: What's the tattoo that you regret? Well, When in my

711
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: early twenties, we you know, went out drinking one night

712
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: and I decided to get a Chinese symbol that says

713
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 1: slaves girls. Who a slave girl? You like a slave

714
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:34,879
Speaker 1: bondage slave girl? So, you know, nobody ever really knew

715
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,280
Speaker 1: what it meant. For my daughter, it says banana hammock

716
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,879
Speaker 1: or something, doesn't it What does it really say? Oh,

717
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 1: my daughter starts, you know, she's an EIG school. She

718
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: starts taking Chinese and she says, mom, you teld me

719
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: that says baby girl, and I says it does Bianca,

720
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: and she says, Mom, that's her baby, that's her baby girl.

721
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: I know this symbol is girl. But then when I

722
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: can meet out. Every time I go to the Chinese restaurants,

723
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: they look at me and they're like, oh, they you

724
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,760
Speaker 1: that look. You know your daughter figuring out what Mom's

725
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:09,240
Speaker 1: into the first of I'm not getting a Chinese symbol,

726
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,320
Speaker 1: but if I did, I would take a Chinese person

727
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,439
Speaker 1: who I trusted with me to verify whatever the hellas says,

728
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: because I've heard a lot of the a lot of

729
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: the Chinese symbols in the tattoo shops are they don't

730
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 1: mean what they say. They mean thank you, saying they

731
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 1: have a good day. Daughter comes, So I'm taking Chinese. Hey,

732
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 1: maybe Usage Toys r Us is back two stores. I

733
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 1: don't know where they put in them, but I did

734
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 1: see a mock up. It looks nothing like the chys

735
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 1: rs stories that we remember, but they're coming back with

736
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: two stores. Um that's said, I don't know. I just

737
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: saying I don't know. But what's the store that's gone

738
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 1: that you would love to see come back? Marrig around.

739
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,280
Speaker 1: Most of these are gonna be stories from your childhood.

740
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 1: But I was thinking about this, uh this morning on

741
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 1: the way in it. I don't. I don't think there's

742
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: any store that I'm really truly missing like that, I

743
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: you know, because you're not Sam Goody. Well, you know,

744
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: I used to like to go there when I was

745
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: a kid. We'd go there on our little dates. You know.

746
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: It was like Saturday at the mall and and um,

747
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: you know, mom would drop off a couple of us

748
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: and we'd go to them. Then a couple of girls

749
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 1: would show up there, and then all of a sudden

750
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: we had a little date going at the food court.

751
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 1: We're like twelve or thirteen years old, and we'd go

752
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: to Sam Goody, we go to Spencer's all those places.

753
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,919
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, Like that was the only way

754
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,439
Speaker 1: you were gonna buy music. It was the only way

755
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: at the time that you were going to see what

756
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 1: was available and look at stuff. Now you can just

757
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 1: sit in your house or anywhere listen to song or

758
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 1: every any song you want. Talking about going and like

759
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: looking through you know, aisles of music and looking at

760
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: all the album art and things like that. There's something

761
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 1: about that that I love. Yeah, I don't that you

762
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 1: can't really do anymore unless you go into a record shop.

763
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm missing that as much anymore,

764
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:05,479
Speaker 1: because I take my daughter to the record shop because

765
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 1: she is a She placed vinyl and vintage vinyl, though,

766
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: But I love like going through and like, you know,

767
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: the albums, and yeah, I just I don't know what

768
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 1: Sam Goody would sell. You know, they don't make CDs anymore. Really,

769
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: they don't make tapes. What would they sell? They sold

770
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 1: DVDs at one everything music based. I don't know. Posters,

771
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: a whole poster story every mode across the country. Kind

772
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: of funny to think about, but I don't I don't

773
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,439
Speaker 1: even know what the hell they would do. Hey, Sean John,

774
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 1: Oh ways, sorry? Hey man? Yea, how you doing? How

775
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 1: you doing? All right? Hey? What store do you want back?

776
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 1: Radio ship? Yes? You want radio ship? Now? Why do

777
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: you want radio ship? Do you need a quard or something?

778
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 1: You needn't transition because you need any kind of like

779
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: audio part or any anything. You get an Amazon, you'll

780
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: have it to my morning everything. I used to call

781
00:40:56,320 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: it the chord store. How many chords do you need? Though?

782
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: Think about it? Think about this. You want these stores back?

783
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 1: But what's the utility of these stories? Well, though, the

784
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 1: other day my fuse went out in my amplifier for

785
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,919
Speaker 1: my old school stereo, so I needed a fuse. Well,

786
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: I'm going around, where am I going to go to

787
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: get it? Amazon? You get on Amazon the other day

788
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 1: and this isn't the other day. It's like a year

789
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: ago the U. I have like an outlets in the house,

790
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: you know, and they had the outlet cover over the

791
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 1: front of it and it cracked. Okay, So like I'm like,

792
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: what this is? This isn't like a standard outlet cover.

793
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,439
Speaker 1: They're all the same in my condo, but I don't

794
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: know where. All you have to do is pull the

795
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 1: thing off the wall, turn it around as a serial number.

796
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: You have the serial number into Amazon and there it

797
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: is right there. Boom sold at my house the next morning.

798
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: It prevented me. If you're having to go to home

799
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: depot and look through a hundred of them, Yeah, nothing

800
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: against some deeper. That's the stuff I enjoyed, though. It's

801
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: like going to the store getting it because I'm like, oh,

802
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: let me just order on Amazon. No, it'll be here tomorrow.

803
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 1: I could get it today, but there's but that's just

804
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: go but he's talking about a fuse or like a

805
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,240
Speaker 1: switch cuver. I mean, if you want paint or wood

806
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: or a lawn Moore, then you're gonna go look at

807
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: it and shop and choose it. And that's who can

808
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 1: go to home people. But there's other stuff that it's

809
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: just I mean that much easier. I'm not going to

810
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: drive to a music store, but want a song when

811
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: I can have it in ten seconds. Sometimes I like

812
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: to go just to see all the stuff that I

813
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: didn't know I need it though, too, because there'll be

814
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: a new product and I'm like, oh, I didn't know

815
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,320
Speaker 1: I needed that for the bathroom whatever. Hundred cars that

816
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: are in front of Radio Shack all the time, that's true. Yeah,

817
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: they're they're gone, right, doesn't even exist anymore, does it. No?

818
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: Radio Sex is gone? Yeah, thank you, Sean, have a

819
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: good day. Yeah, you're right. I mean, like in the

820
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 1: case of browsing too, if you're board or you don't

821
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: know what you want, like a hobby store or something

822
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: like a hobby store, it's interesting Michael's office applies or

823
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: I still like that those exist because most of the

824
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: time I don't really need anything. I'm just going in

825
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: there to find something that I'm gonna buy. Yeah, but

826
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 1: when it comes to I don't know what, I don't

827
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: know what, Sam, I'm good he would sell anymore. Um,

828
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: not to say that it's not nostalgic and it wasn't fun.

829
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: It still was ds and records and DVDs. I think

830
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: it's still be cool to like, there's so much tour

831
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: merch I could bye like just from everybody, Like your

832
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 1: favorite musicians have merchandise instead of like all on their website.

833
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: If you wanted to get a Katy Perry T shirt,

834
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: and how do you go in and get one there?

835
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: I remember you used to be able to like scan

836
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: the CD and listen to it on headphones. Oh yeah,

837
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. And every time I drive by a circus city,

838
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 1: I know it's a circus city. It looks like that,

839
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 1: even though they even though they try and conceal it.

840
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: If they played painting in a different color, it's like

841
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: that was the same with best Buy. Best Buy has

842
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: the big like angular like priacade. Yeah, and it's like

843
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 1: you drive by now and they're trying to paint over

844
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 1: it to make it look like something else. And Blockbusters

845
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: used to have those two. I remember. It's angular, yeah,

846
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: and best Buy, Like best Buy is a store that

847
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: I saw of I guess wish was still I mean

848
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: you can still go to some of them. I think

849
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 1: there's still one in the handcock, but like the one

850
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: actually closing, the one in the handcocks, it's just not

851
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: as big. And I remember, like again, you'd go in

852
00:43:55,360 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 1: and had every every stereo system, every computer, every car stereo.

853
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: He's right there and you could touch it, mess with it.

854
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 1: But they can't compete though. I was there over the

855
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: weekend that Best Buy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was amazing

856
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: and I was a little tipsy, like with the card.

857
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: I was having the best time. And see a TV.

858
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 1: I can see that because you want to look at

859
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 1: how the picture looks before you buy it. But the

860
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 1: problem is these these doors can't compete anymore because it

861
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 1: costs money to have the store and the take up

862
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 1: the space and have the TVs plugged in and the

863
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 1: employees there. That all costs money. It's cheaper if you

864
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: buy the same TV off sometimes on Amazon and these

865
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 1: out well and see it, I guess it's not. What

866
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,439
Speaker 1: they want you to do is take it in your house,

867
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,280
Speaker 1: plug it in if you don't like it. Send it back.

868
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 1: It's what they want you to do. The ass. What

869
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: kind of is um trending today on Twitter hashtag red

870
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 1: flags not to ignore. So what is something that in

871
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 1: your dating or friendship experience that you've You've discovered a

872
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 1: whole lot of thing. I wants to talk about the

873
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: other thing real fans, Hey, Anna, Yes, you want movie

874
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 1: rental stores back. Yeah, it's miss being able to go.

875
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: And I used to rent like they have to see you,

876
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 1: or used to rent five Bold movies for five days

877
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: for five dollars. Yeah, and it's like you can't always

878
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: looks through old movies anymore and find old classics movies.

879
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: And it's like I missed that so much. And I

880
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: will say that it was exciting to go to the

881
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,399
Speaker 1: movie store on Friday or whatever and he walked through

882
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,399
Speaker 1: and you'd see stuff, go oh, I want to see

883
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: this because you'd forgotten about it now. Yeah, it's even

884
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: like really really old one. Yeah, especially older movies because

885
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: now if you don't think of it, you're probably not

886
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: gonna see it and be triggered to then watch it

887
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: again like any other things. I was trying to watch

888
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: the old movie the other day and having I was

889
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: having a hard time finding it. I want to watch

890
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: Good Morning Vietnam, and I was having a hard time

891
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: finding how to watch it. You can get it on

892
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 1: an Apple, I guess, and rent it. What's happen There's

893
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: like no way to go look up old movies. Yeah, so,

894
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: like unless it's on TV or you think of it

895
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: to search it out and then find it and buy it,

896
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: or or you know, rent it or whatever, then you've

897
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: forgotten about it. Great. Yeah, thank you, Anna. I have

898
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 1: a good day. I could run the Blockbuster if they

899
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 1: open it. I still remember how to be a manager.

900
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 1: It was very, very difficult job. Hey, Alyssa, that's right, Alyssa.

901
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: I was the manager of a Blockbuster video in high school.

902
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 1: Yeah no, I was just telling a personal story. It's fine.

903
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: What story you wish would come back? How was kab

904
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: toys different than toys are us? Like? There was everything, Yeah,

905
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: but he was in the like I remember I would

906
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:38,919
Speaker 1: take the Pace bus to go to the Fort City

907
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: mall with my grandma. It was always in the yeah. Yeah.

908
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 1: Now there's not even a toy store in the mall.

909
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 1: Remember that crazy the toy store that was way over

910
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: the top was Fao Schwartz. Oh you remember, And it

911
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: wasn't there one in the Sears Tower. No, I wasn't. Yeah.

912
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: I remember when I was a real little kid, my

913
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: mom bought my first Nintendo, my only Tendo in the

914
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: fo Shorts in Chicago on vacation and I remember being

915
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 1: in there and it was just and it had a

916
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:09,479
Speaker 1: big didn't have a piano, yeah, big, yeah, over the top.

917
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: Like I just remember thinking, oh my god, this thing

918
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 1: has everything is here? What is it called? It was

919
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: like a boogie toy store you never want, no, I

920
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 1: mean I never bought it. You play stuff, yeah, no,

921
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: most of the stuff my mom would. It had a

922
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: multi level toy store like yeah yeah when he was

923
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: playing the piano with his and huge Teddy Bears and

924
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 1: like just big, over the top crazy stuff they had

925
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,320
Speaker 1: in there, and you'd walk in and be like wow.

926
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 1: And he had like animatronics, you know, like dog yeah cool. Yeah.

927
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: It's like a show thank you with Lissa have a

928
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 1: good Day by Hey Julianne. Yes. He records which one

929
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: it was called tech Wish Records. When I was a kid,

930
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: I brought up the city and other bands would come

931
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:01,760
Speaker 1: show up and autographs and every store like music store

932
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: signings and our records. I used to stand in line

933
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: forever when I was a kid to see musicians come

934
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: to store like signings. My daughter, I tried to explain

935
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 1: that concept to her because you know, meet and greens backstage,

936
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 1: and you know, if we have something here at the

937
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: radio station, like you can see an artist and get

938
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: something signed. But I was like, back in the day

939
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: they used to have the artists come and sign. When

940
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 1: I was a kid, they used to Actually, this was

941
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: down the alley from us. They used to practice in

942
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 1: the garage and was closed. They were practicing that. That's

943
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 1: crazy here, Dennisee. You in Calamett City they were. This

944
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:44,919
Speaker 1: was all the big acts for hiding out. I guess

945
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: over Dicks sticks the band store. No sticks, they're from

946
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 1: here at dis No, no, no, they would in the

947
00:48:56,120 --> 00:49:02,240
Speaker 1: garage down the sporting Well, what are you talking about.

948
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 1: You've been saying sticks this whole time. Yes, the whole time,

949
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: I thought you were talking about some place called Dick

950
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: That's what I thought. That's the other store. That's what

951
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: I say. I've been to call you, man, I've never

952
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 1: been a Dicks. It's gone. I guess that's why. But

953
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 1: the meantime sticks. I used to hear them playing in

954
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 1: the garage by Julie have a good day. I'm like,

955
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:29,240
Speaker 1: what is she talking about? Dicks? Hey, Olivia, why where's

956
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 1: my duncan? Over here? Olivia? The store that you wish

957
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: would come back? Um, it's called Livia Lou. Yeah. It

958
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: was a store in like dit Mall that you could

959
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: go for a birthday party, get your hair done like

960
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 1: rocket or like glitter everywhere. You would like the parade around. Yeah,

961
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,399
Speaker 1: don't remember what I would feel. And the kids would

962
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: come out and like all glittered out and they would

963
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: grade them around the wall. It was like what is

964
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: going on here? It was such a highlight because everybody

965
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: could be you know, whatever kind of comes to girls.

966
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: And it's like, well, I want to be a block through.

967
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to be the first store. All right, Okay,

968
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 1: thank you Loki Live Action, Lisa Franky, I wanted to Rainbows.

969
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 1: It's like the Joejoe s Why store. Yes, Emily, you're

970
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: a woman in my own heart. The store that you

971
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: you want this back? Hi? Ry you guys. Yeah, I

972
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: was thinking of Borders. Borders. They're not totally gone, are they?

973
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: Our Borders store Barnes and Nobles was still around. Yeah,

974
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: I know they're around. I used to have a Borders

975
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: by my house, but they closed it down, so I

976
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 1: kind of just figured they closed all of them down.

977
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: But I hope they don't close all the bookstores for good,

978
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: because I love bookstores. I know. I remember up I

979
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 1: grew up at Borders like me and my dad would

980
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 1: always go there when I was a kid, obviously like

981
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: to get a bug or something. They honestly had like

982
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: the best, like shot raining and a smoothie, so we

983
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: just so they're just for that wait to d smoothies

984
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: all this time, and I never knew. Yeah, Barnes and Noble,

985
00:50:55,800 --> 00:51:00,879
Speaker 1: the Barnes and Noble with Walden books with bookstores. Tries

986
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 1: to take my daughter at the bookstart too when she

987
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:05,400
Speaker 1: was little because they would have like readings. They're like

988
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: people with kids books and they always had the little

989
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:12,959
Speaker 1: kids corner nook. Yeah definitely was my favorite part. Yeah, yeah,

990
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: thank you, Emily. Have a good day. You guys gotta

991
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: you gotta go buy books and bookstores otherwise they're gonna close.

992
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: Years ago, when I was at the I guess it

993
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 1: was Borders, wasn't it. Maybe on on State Street and

994
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: I and they would try to sell me that membership,

995
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, They're like, they're like, we're borders

996
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: on State Street. We're not going anywhere. Man. So I

997
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 1: bought the membership. Six months later, it's gone. This is

998
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: They're like, yeah, they're like, no, man, we're not going anywhere.

999
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: We're good. We're the biggest borders in the you know,

1000
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,359
Speaker 1: country or whatever whatever it was. I'm like, okay, cool,

1001
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:53,919
Speaker 1: So I bought the membership. They're gone, Oh man, hey, Deborah, Yeah,

1002
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 1: you guys are all too young to remember this. I

1003
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 1: want thank you to come back. Venture? Yes? What was venture?

1004
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 1: Black and white? Venture? Yes? I don't know what that is.

1005
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: It's like the original target pretty much. Oh really, I've

1006
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:15,359
Speaker 1: never heard of a venture competition to Kmart. There was there,

1007
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: there was venture, and there was kmart where the never

1008
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 1: been to a venture in my life? Oh man, do

1009
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,840
Speaker 1: you remember Walworth here? Yeah? Yeah, that's what I was

1010
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 1: just gonna say. But here's the funny thing. Kitty Land Venture.

1011
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: Why the landmark get to citty Land because he remembered

1012
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: there was a venture right backty Land? Yeah? How long? Good?

1013
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,919
Speaker 1: A kitty Land shutdown? Like man, maybe like eight years ago,

1014
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: two or ten years ago. Yeah, nothing left is the

1015
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 1: little dippers at six flats now and I think it's

1016
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: a Costco over there. Debra. Thank you. I have a

1017
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: good day you call. No, it's kind of weird. Like

1018
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: I was flying the other day with the dogs and

1019
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: I was going from Kentucky back here, and you'll fly

1020
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: over these cities and you'll look down you'll see where

1021
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,359
Speaker 1: the mall used to be, and it's like the big

1022
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: structure and and then like the reason that you know

1023
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,919
Speaker 1: that it's done is because the parking lots all messed up. Yeah,

1024
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: And you can see this flying kind of low, you know,

1025
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: not as high as a commercial airplane. But you see

1026
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 1: these cities and like there was the mall and there's

1027
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: it's it's abandoned now because what are you gonna do

1028
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:19,320
Speaker 1: in them all? Like what you said, Fred, I've always

1029
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 1: wanted to like tour and abandon ye mall or amusement

1030
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:26,359
Speaker 1: park or something like that. That's c Yeah, it would

1031
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: be fun to walk around and just be like this

1032
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: is where stuff you know. Yeah, food Court used to

1033
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 1: be here and like yeah one Potato too, Yeah, Orange

1034
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: Julius Spencers used to be here. Yeah, Johnny Rockets used

1035
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: to be over here. This woman, I haven't heard this

1036
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 1: clip yet. I read the story though. Um. She went

1037
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 1: off on her boyfriend on an American Airlines flight that

1038
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: was set to depart from Miami. She hit the man

1039
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: on his head with her laptop because he was looking

1040
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 1: at other women. The man tried to escape down the aisle.

1041
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 1: He was chased by the woman who hit him as

1042
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: he ran. Here's some just for looking. I actually have

1043
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: not I should have previewed this ahead of time. I'm

1044
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,880
Speaker 1: not actually sure we're about to hear. Um. This was

1045
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: video that was captured by someone else on the flight.

1046
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 1: I'm assuming because it's on this website that it is

1047
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 1: intended for morning radio shows that it is edited. But

1048
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: we're about to find out together at the same time,

1049
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: assaulting you, damn? Whoa was that was the crack of

1050
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:44,839
Speaker 1: a laptop on top of his head? Damn? I want

1051
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: to hear the crack of the laptop again. Let me here. Oh,

1052
00:54:47,800 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 1: I'm assaulting you, repeating everything epise Damn. Yeah, that's the

1053
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: laptop across the head. Man. You didn't go look at

1054
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 1: anybody anymore. And I asked the same question to you

1055
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:13,280
Speaker 1: guys in the room. Um, and I would include myself.

1056
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: I just I'm just saying that I haven't acted crazy,

1057
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: But I don't know that I've ever thrown a temper

1058
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: tantrum like that in public. Have you ever really lost

1059
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 1: you or cool? Have you ever really lost your chill

1060
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: in public in such a way that, oh, yeah, what happened? Um?

1061
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,760
Speaker 1: Well I hadn't. The worst one was my current boyfriend

1062
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:35,800
Speaker 1: and I had broken up, and it was the first

1063
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 1: time I saw him since we had broken up. This

1064
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: was that boardroom here, okay, um rip and yeah, I

1065
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,759
Speaker 1: saw him come out of the bathroom. And then there

1066
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: was this girl that had been like trying to hook

1067
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: up with him the whole time that we were dating,

1068
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 1: and I saw him like bline to her, and I

1069
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 1: just I lost my ish. I was yelling at him,

1070
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 1: hitting him a little bit, like we had a we

1071
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: had a brawl. Are you under the influence? Yeah? I

1072
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:03,959
Speaker 1: mean I was at boardroom and take a late night Yeah,

1073
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 1: And so you see, you weren't you weren't there sober. No,

1074
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 1: you weren't there on the I'm you weren't sober salad

1075
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 1: that evening. You weren't the designated driver that evening. No,

1076
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 1: I was a little embarrassed, but he deserves so you

1077
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: lost your cool and you started Yeah you screen? Were

1078
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: you escorted out? No, he decided to leave because I was.

1079
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 1: I was wildent so much. But hey, I look at

1080
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:27,400
Speaker 1: you guys, now, look at us now. Don't kiss me

1081
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 1: off though, man, right, looking at us your before haven't

1082
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 1: you rufie all plenty of times? Man, I'm so I

1083
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:38,319
Speaker 1: have a quick I have a quick temper by your sign, man, yeah,

1084
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 1: And I don't know. It's like but I'm the one

1085
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: that will like talk all the issue. But then when

1086
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: it comes like, oh, don't I know it, let's fight. No, bro,

1087
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 1: you just kind of behind me. It was there, guys,

1088
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: I'm interestigating some fighting and I'm the one standing there

1089
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: going no hold on, No, everything's okay. I feel like

1090
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to be confrontational like I

1091
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 1: want to. I want to pacify even if even if

1092
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 1: there's a reason, because I just don't. I don't know,

1093
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 1: like I die yeah yeah yeah, and then I'll go

1094
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: home and get all tough about it. Yeah, I'll go

1095
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 1: home and get home. What I should have done was no, no, no, no,

1096
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: I'm famous I'm the famous should should have got because

1097
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 1: at the time I don't want to be embarrassed, you know,

1098
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: so it's like all right, all right, or right, all right,

1099
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: you know, let's just let's just go our separate ways whatever.

1100
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 1: And then I'll go home and be like, no, I

1101
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: was messed up. What happened, like you replay the whole situation,

1102
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 1: knew and what I should have said different? Oh, without questions,

1103
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 1: without question, Paula, why do I think you have a

1104
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: free cut story? Have you had? Have you have you

1105
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 1: pulled a move like this where you damn near crack

1106
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: somebody over the head with the MacBook? Well, I cracked

1107
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: a cell phone before when blackberries were in Um, I

1108
00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 1: forgot my X was doing something I mean, which X wasn't.

1109
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: But I loved my BlackBerry by the way, Yeah I

1110
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 1: miss it. I think he should too. But he made

1111
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: me so mad. I forgot what happened we were out.

1112
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 1: I mean I've jumped out of cars before, you know,

1113
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 1: when you're mad at him, and then like he tries

1114
00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: to pull the hole well and walk home, and you'll like,

1115
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 1: then I will car means that he's like hit the car.

1116
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 1: I was bad. And then one time I took his

1117
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 1: phone because I found a girl texting him that I

1118
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 1: knew he was texting the whole time, So I threw

1119
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: it down the stairs and I never paid for it. Yeah, yeah,

1120
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 1: it was bad. Look at you, and I don't think

1121
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 1: you have I think you'd do it again. Send him

1122
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 1: some booty picks. Now you do look skinny? Skinny, you

1123
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 1: look really skinny. Thank you, guys. At you. I'm a

1124
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: snatch to gale. What about your snatch one? I'm a snatch.

1125
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, I'm just heard that. Hey Shelley, I thought

1126
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 1: they did something to that too. I'm no kidding. Hey, Shelley,

1127
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: how are you doing? I'm doing good? How are you doing?

1128
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, you really got worked over in there? Girl?

1129
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 1: What do you can't sit? You freaked out yesterday? Shelley,

1130
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 1: what happened? What happened? That's office? I had my sick kits.

1131
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 1: They made you wait for two hours. My bet, my

1132
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:57,439
Speaker 1: favorite vet sold it. So this was the first time

1133
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: I went back. It made me wait two hours. Some

1134
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: lady walked in with her dog to get shots and

1135
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 1: they let her write. Oh no, they didn't. What you do?

1136
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 1: I streaked out and the I stood up. I said,

1137
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: you have back to be kidding me. This is how

1138
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna treat your customers. My stick. Can't all these

1139
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,840
Speaker 1: sick dogs sound so scared, like, leap in here for

1140
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: an hour and you're gonna let some ladies walk in

1141
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 1: and get her dogs shot. Now, hold on a second.

1142
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 1: Now in retrospect Shelley, do you think that are you

1143
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: a little embarrassed about that? No? No, I was justified

1144
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 1: because you don't know. Maybe she'd maybe she was laid

1145
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 1: for an appointment before you. Maybe what you were doing

1146
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 1: I was going to take longer. He said, Oh, no,

1147
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: he has an appointment. I said, she has an appointment.

1148
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 1: Oh that makes it better that all these thick animals

1149
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: have to wait for two hours. Now it was a

1150
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 1: three hour ordeal. Do you cracker in the half of

1151
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: the laptop? I hope, so said, that's gonna mess up

1152
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 1: your laptop, and that's gonna cost you more. I'm a lover,

1153
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 1: not a fighter. You're not. You're not, though, because you're

1154
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 1: streaming at people and doesn't mean she's a fighter. Help

1155
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 1: myself meet. You're an instigator, he said, no. I look,

1156
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: I get it, I get I get when people get up.

1157
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 1: I mean, but I just also think like as soon

1158
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 1: as someone starts yelling at me or calling me names, immediately,

1159
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:11,320
Speaker 1: any part of me that wants to help you is gone.

1160
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: Like now I'm not interested anymore. Like now now I'm

1161
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: no longer going to um, gonna go the extra people

1162
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 1: people screaming at the airline lady or airline guy. I'm like,

1163
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: you understand that you immediately the only person between you

1164
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 1: and where you need to go is that person. And

1165
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: same with you yesterday. It with all due respect Shelley,

1166
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 1: the only person between you and getting your dog fixed,

1167
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:34,640
Speaker 1: it's whoever you were screaming at. So it's pissed off

1168
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: as you are. I feel like you're better off going

1169
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 1: home and like, you know, taking it out on the

1170
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:41,479
Speaker 1: on a punching bag or a pillow or something, because

1171
01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:45,439
Speaker 1: ultimately you're trying to get your dog, cat, cat pat,

1172
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 1: you're ferrets, whatever it is, you're trying to get that

1173
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 1: thing fixed, and uh, and you're screaming at the person.

1174
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 1: Yet you get it right, I didn't call a name.

1175
01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 1: Oh you didn't call it names? Well man, now yeah, no, no, no,

1176
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 1: I get it. When people are passion, especially about your animals,

1177
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: I understand. I just think in retrospect most of the time,

1178
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 1: the yelling probably didn't help anything. But well, well, but

1179
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 1: they told me it's a forty five minutes to sixty

1180
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: minute wait. When I walked in, after I was there

1181
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: an hour and a half, sign changed. They changed the

1182
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: sign to ninety to one hundred and twenty minute. Weak.

1183
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: Were you at the DMV? No, No, it's a wonder

1184
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 1: like that. Oh no, come on now, Shelly. We don't

1185
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 1: gotta shut the damn place down. I mean, doctor, Okay,

1186
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:36,919
Speaker 1: I gotta go. She's trying to burn the place down.

1187
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 1: Come on, man, we're not doing that. Come on, Shelly,

1188
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 1: come on, Shelly. Go on, yelp if you want to

1189
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 1: say some about she feels bad. Yeah, come on, hey,

1190
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 1: milly By, you're the person who lost You're cool at

1191
01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:01,480
Speaker 1: the airport. What happened? Oh, going to my best friend's

1192
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 1: wedding in Mexico alone with the one year old. Get

1193
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: to your court like two and a half hours early.

1194
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: You're trying to be a sufficient using those news screens

1195
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: and they're like, sorry, you got to go to the

1196
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: check in or whatever it's to counter. I'm like, okay,

1197
01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:18,560
Speaker 1: wait two hours in that line. Because some ladies holding

1198
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 1: up the line. They call last call from Mexico. So

1199
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 1: I'm running over there and the girl's on a computer

1200
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 1: like for twenty minutes, and I'm like, what is going on?

1201
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 1: Like why can't you get me on the splice Like

1202
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 1: I'm trying, honey whatever, blah blah blah, and the supermas

1203
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: it supposed to me. And she goes, you're getting a refund.

1204
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you mean, I'm getting a refund?

1205
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 1: She goes, you're not getting on the split You're getting

1206
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 1: a refund. You can go tomorrow. I'm like, the wedding

1207
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: is tomorrow. I cannot go tomorrow, and she just kept competing,

1208
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 1: you're getting a refund, You're getting walked it, and literally

1209
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 1: everyone was staring at me in line. I was like,

1210
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: you need to figure this out, because I'm not moving

1211
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 1: from this spot until you helped me. And she walks away,

1212
01:02:57,040 --> 01:03:00,160
Speaker 1: and that's why I like it was even worse other

1213
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: people from getting on there. You know, I will say,

1214
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 1: dam right if I'm not flying nobody did it work?

1215
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 1: Did they wind up getting you out? No, we're gonna. Yeah.

1216
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: I to find my own take Millie. I love you,

1217
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 1: I love you too, I love you for call because

1218
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: I ask people to call and tell these stories. But

1219
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: the truth is, like the reason I think some people

1220
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: the airport are apathetic, it is because people go nuclear

1221
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 1: on them so much that at some point, like you

1222
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 1: just have to Yeah, I was like black black in

1223
01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 1: front of me. I was like, it's over. It's like

1224
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 1: you gonna happen today. Yeah, I don't know. That's a

1225
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:40,320
Speaker 1: tough one. Thank you, Millie, have a good day. Thank you.

1226
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:42,760
Speaker 1: I love you too. The airport's a tough one, man,

1227
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,480
Speaker 1: because you got some soup. I've met some super apathetic

1228
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: they just don't care and they're not trying to help you.

1229
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: But then other people it's like, look, you really think

1230
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 1: I want to deal with this? Because right now, if

1231
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 1: if there there weren't a storm cloud over this airport

1232
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 1: or that airplane's engine, what wasn't falling off, that I

1233
01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't have to be talking to you right now. I

1234
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 1: could be here planing Valitaire. You know it's the worst

1235
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: place too, because it's like it's a it's a government place.

1236
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: The report. Yeah yeah, technically if you cause it. Technically,

1237
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 1: if you cause a picking up stir, it's a federal

1238
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:14,360
Speaker 1: offense at least, Yeah, you went, what happened with your husband?

1239
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:15,920
Speaker 1: You hit him over the head of the MacBook. You

1240
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 1: cracked it. No clothes. So we're dating for like a

1241
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 1: year at the time, and I got mad at him

1242
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: for something stupid and I pulled the clover and I

1243
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 1: pulled my phone and hit him in the food and

1244
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 1: I broke his front tooth. Oh yeah, but obviously were

1245
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 1: past it. So that's what fast. Now that he had

1246
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: a fangled two, it's now nobody wants him so worry

1247
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 1: about that, I know. But at least you can laugh

1248
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 1: about it now, thank you. At least have a good

1249
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 1: day about it now. It's so funny. Now. I don't

1250
01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 1: think I've ever gotten nuclear. I don't think I have.

1251
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 1: I've wanted to so many times. Um, but I'm a

1252
01:04:57,640 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 1: flight guy. You know, this is a fighter flight. I'm

1253
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: the f like guy. I'll just bounce. Let be pissed

1254
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: about atlantic. Yeah, you were pretty passive in that rage

1255
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 1: where we went to a two. Fred. The rage went,

1256
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: oh yeah, you know, one man, I'm just one time

1257
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 1: I called the cops on myself. It was a it

1258
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 1: was a bad it's a bad story. I was dating

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01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 1: a girl and she was hammered and um decided she

1260
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 1: was going to drive away from an argument that we

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01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 1: were having. So she gets in the car. This is

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01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 1: actually a sad story, but this is the closest I've

1263
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,919
Speaker 1: gotten into raging um. And so I took the keys

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01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: from her and drug her out of the car, like

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01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 1: because I wasn't gonna let her drive. And then she goes,

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01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 1: I got a scratch on me, like she was uh,

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01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 1: like I had assaulted here. I called the cops on myself.

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01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 1: Who is this girl? Oh? Yeah, I call the car.

1269
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 1: This is why I'm single. So I called the cops

1270
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:48,400
Speaker 1: on myself. And the cops come and they're like, hey, dude, uh,

1271
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 1: like you should get a n WI, Like we should,

1272
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: we should take you to jail, saying to her and

1273
01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 1: so wow. So they we put her in a cab

1274
01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 1: and stick her home. I wish you could get that,

1275
01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 1: don't they have. These cops are like, dude, I'm sorry,

1276
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 1: Like they're apologizing. I'm sorry for life right now, because

1277
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what to do because if

1278
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 1: she gets in the car drives away as something happens, sir,

1279
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 1: I got to live with that for the rest of

1280
01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 1: my life. I can't do that. I did some psycho.

1281
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 1: This is a long time ago. This is an old

1282
01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 1: friends for you. This is in another city. Um, but

1283
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 1: we were in the parking ridge of my house and

1284
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm driving, like you can't drive, You're gonna

1285
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 1: kill yourself. Like I'm not talking about like a little drunk.

1286
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:29,240
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like incapacity, like like I don't know

1287
01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: that she could have gotten out of it. Was bad.

1288
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, that was the closest I've gotten to her

1289
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 1: life a real scene. Yeah, well that was the first

1290
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 1: time I ever had to call what happened? I just

1291
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 1: come out here? What did you do? I didn't do

1292
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 1: anything but come out of here? What's the crime? Nothing yet,

1293
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 1: not until you guys show up out here. And the

1294
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 1: problem is I was on TV at the time, So

1295
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 1: these guys come out and they're like, hey man, great, great,

1296
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 1: how long did you date her? Six months? Was that

1297
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: at the end? That was the very end, that was

1298
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:02,439
Speaker 1: we never we never We never spoke again. Wow. Yeah,

1299
01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 1: that'll do it. Yeah, But that's the closest. That's that's

1300
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 1: a little confession right there. That's the closest I've gotten

1301
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:10,840
Speaker 1: to to like really bad. That was very tame of you.

1302
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: You just like called the cops on myself. The girl no,

1303
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 1: but they wanted to give her one. Um. But the

1304
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 1: sad part is I think she came back out her

1305
01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 1: car and drove anyway. But that that's not on me

1306
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: because I that's a bad memory. Let's move on. Where's

1307
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 1: miss new Booty? Where'd she go? Come here? Miss new Booty?

1308
01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:32,439
Speaker 1: I got Talry Pauline us here today. She can't sit.

1309
01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:38,120
Speaker 1: She had a poor thing. A little redistribution procedure, took

1310
01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 1: some out of the midsection, put some in the booty.

1311
01:07:41,400 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 1: That sounded dirtier than I intended for it to sound,

1312
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 1: But that's what happened. You got to Kim Kardashian Special,

1313
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 1: did I know? It got very in depth on your

1314
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 1: instant stories and then we we got a lot more

1315
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 1: details than I needed in the podcast yesterday, The Tangent.

1316
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 1: If you're curious our off air uncentered podcast that's on

1317
01:07:58,000 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 1: the iHeart radio app and wherever you listen to pod

1318
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 1: cast to search for Fred Nangi at the Tangent. You're feeling,

1319
01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 1: O candidate, you know I feel good? Um I was

1320
01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 1: laying on the floor earlier, kneeling a lot. It's um,

1321
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 1: I found a new respect for the Kardashians just because

1322
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: of being on your knees all the time. You mean, no,

1323
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 1: I just like done and that's what you met. Hello,

1324
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:21,799
Speaker 1: it's not that painful, but you know it's it's not comfortable.

1325
01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm not used to he work. Yeah, girl, I'll turn

1326
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: that new booty off three weeks ago. Now in three weeks,

1327
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 1: can you are you liking back in business? Fully back

1328
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 1: in business? Like you can really take this for a

1329
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 1: ride or or somebody's I really hope. So I loved

1330
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 1: one who you care about, with whom you're in a

1331
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:44,000
Speaker 1: loving relationship can take it for a ride. I think so.

1332
01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: I guess it's for a doctor when I see him

1333
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 1: on Monday. You're a good girl. Oh thank you. So

1334
01:08:49,360 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 1: you you're considering having a body reveal party? Okay, So

1335
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 1: I saw a housewife or somebody did this? You've been

1336
01:08:57,040 --> 01:09:00,120
Speaker 1: binging too much Housewives. I could have sworn it was so.

1337
01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: I feels it was like some other show, but it

1338
01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 1: wasn't Vickie with her new face. Maybe yeah, someone's new face,

1339
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: that's her face. Yeah she did. She get fired from

1340
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 1: the show too. She got downgraded to Tamra's front Oh.

1341
01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:16,760
Speaker 1: That's a big down grade. Even I know that she's

1342
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 1: the og of the OC. Yeah, that's right. So you

1343
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:22,720
Speaker 1: you're thinking of, now, what do you think like a

1344
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 1: bar and then we'd all you, we'd all be there

1345
01:09:25,360 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 1: and then you'd walk in and we'd say wow. I

1346
01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:29,720
Speaker 1: don't know, I haven't thought about it like that, but

1347
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:31,640
Speaker 1: I was thinking, like I've come down some stairs, it

1348
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:33,640
Speaker 1: has to be a spiral staircase. So it's gonna be

1349
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:35,679
Speaker 1: like a Queer Eye type reveal, like you come down

1350
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 1: and it's the whole New Year. Yeah, and then I'm

1351
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:39,519
Speaker 1: gonna be really excited and then gonna take off a

1352
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: big robe off orca big cape. Yes, making a Queer Eye.

1353
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: I've been watching a lot of it lately. The Kenny

1354
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:49,559
Speaker 1: episode really got me last night. But I don't think

1355
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 1: I need to be on Queer Eye. But I would

1356
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:53,000
Speaker 1: like to be on Queer Eye if someoneould like to

1357
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:56,640
Speaker 1: denominate me, because they come in, they completely reorganize and

1358
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 1: redo your house, the house stuff, and you get an

1359
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,400
Speaker 1: entirely new war wardrobe. And I would get to hang

1360
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 1: out with those guys for five days, all of whom

1361
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 1: I like. So I don't think they would have me

1362
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,720
Speaker 1: on there because I don't. I don't think I'm I mean,

1363
01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:13,800
Speaker 1: I'm not certainly captain hip and I'm I'm I I'm

1364
01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 1: not captain fashion, but I'm yeah, I'm not desperate. They'd

1365
01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:18,600
Speaker 1: probably look at me and say, well, he's you know,

1366
01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 1: you gotta let yourself go, though, like starting now, I would.

1367
01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:24,040
Speaker 1: I would have to. Yeah, I would have to be

1368
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 1: in shambles. I know, Wow, I know you're asking too much.

1369
01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:30,360
Speaker 1: I mean that guy Bobby could come in and certainly

1370
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 1: make my house better, but I don't think. Yeah, I

1371
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:36,720
Speaker 1: don't think. I I'm not right. I'd have to. I'd

1372
01:10:36,760 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 1: have to grow like a Jeffrey dot Or like some

1373
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:41,800
Speaker 1: sort of serial killer beard and stuff would have to

1374
01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 1: be living in it, and I'd really have to let

1375
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:46,840
Speaker 1: it go to Howard Hughes pretty much. Yeah, which I'm

1376
01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:51,560
Speaker 1: fine with. You're almost there, except for the models and

1377
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 1: the billions and entirely reclusive and the mental illness, well

1378
01:10:57,439 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: the really serious mental illness. Yeah, you're right, I'm just

1379
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 1: like him. You guys like planes. I wouldn't mind being Howard.

1380
01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:05,479
Speaker 1: He was that ud never left his house and models

1381
01:11:05,560 --> 01:11:09,240
Speaker 1: came to him, right, can me? Anyway? So are we

1382
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 1: having this revealed party or not. I'm really thinking about it.

1383
01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 1: Would you guys come hell? Yeah, you need like a

1384
01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 1: like one of screen trying before picture of you and

1385
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:20,720
Speaker 1: you watch through it. Yeah, look at me now we

1386
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:22,600
Speaker 1: could we could have that here, We could set that

1387
01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 1: up here. I'm sure. I don't know, you know, like

1388
01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:26,800
Speaker 1: how I would like that With all due respect, I

1389
01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 1: don't know that I need to come to the party

1390
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:30,360
Speaker 1: because I'm looking at you right now. Dot Com been

1391
01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 1: a big paper thing like you know, how to bear

1392
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 1: report waiting a tunnel and then they crashed. Now yeah,

1393
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 1: you'd be like miss snoop, Yeah, and then you come

1394
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:46,720
Speaker 1: out and it would be so great she comes out

1395
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:50,320
Speaker 1: back and come out as first. Yeah, first, just twerking

1396
01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:53,960
Speaker 1: M five five five nine one one out three five?

1397
01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 1: Is that you get ahold of fred Nan? Do you

1398
01:11:55,120 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 1: have any of you guys, any of you at home.

1399
01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: I've been to any sort of revealed party like this,

1400
01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 1: any kind of odd reveal party, you know, agenda revealed parties,

1401
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,000
Speaker 1: and a lot of people do those and do one

1402
01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 1: that's okay. I'm okay, well okay, yeah, yeah, I'm okay

1403
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 1: that you did. I'm real happy for you. If you're

1404
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 1: having a baby and stuff. But I don't know, just

1405
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 1: tell us what you're happy. Yeah, yeah, I don't need to.

1406
01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't need for a party. But like,

1407
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:22,760
Speaker 1: come on, what other kind of revealed parties are there though?

1408
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,760
Speaker 1: I mean, like, I guess a house warming party is

1409
01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 1: kind of a revealed party. Maybe open it to like

1410
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 1: weird parties, like a divorce party. Yeah, yeah, you know,

1411
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 1: yeah coming out party. I go to a divorce dachelor party,

1412
01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:43,120
Speaker 1: dachelor party. Yeah, we're gonna have a dachelor party for you. Yeah. Yeah,

1413
01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:48,400
Speaker 1: we could do a joint dachelor slash booty booty revealed party.

1414
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:52,920
Speaker 1: I like it. Yeah, yeah, it'll be Rufio's booty party.

1415
01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:56,679
Speaker 1: This is amazing. Yeah, I would go to. I would

1416
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:58,760
Speaker 1: go to a female divorce party because you know, maybe

1417
01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:01,160
Speaker 1: she's go to a male divorce party. Well, if there

1418
01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 1: are single females there. I guess The point is, I'm

1419
01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:05,519
Speaker 1: I like women, and if there was a woman having

1420
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:07,960
Speaker 1: a party to celebrate her independence, I might like to

1421
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 1: be there just in case you would like to celebrate

1422
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 1: privately with me. Let me pull you all the way

1423
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 1: out of Yeah, let me help you right back into

1424
01:13:16,840 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 1: another one. You could almost guarantee though, that if you're

1425
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:23,680
Speaker 1: a hooking up with someone who just got divorced, that

1426
01:13:23,760 --> 01:13:26,320
Speaker 1: you're If you're the first one out, you can almost

1427
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 1: guarantee you're the that's it. That's that, you know, you

1428
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,680
Speaker 1: can't really expect much more to happen, because if I

1429
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:33,600
Speaker 1: just got divorced, I'm probably not gonna land on the

1430
01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:35,880
Speaker 1: first guy or a girl that I go out with

1431
01:13:36,240 --> 01:13:39,760
Speaker 1: who I go out with, even if they're amazing. Um,

1432
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:43,439
Speaker 1: Paulina wrote new car. If you have a party for

1433
01:13:43,479 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 1: your new car, I'm not car. This is I gotta

1434
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:49,760
Speaker 1: come celebrate the fact that you bet a new car.

1435
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:53,000
Speaker 1: I no, I don't think it's Instagrams for bro. Yeah,

1436
01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 1: just show me a picture. Cool. I'm happy for you.

1437
01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:58,960
Speaker 1: I think I need to party in your car. It's like, what,

1438
01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 1: where's the Let me talk to Zita Paulina. She's having

1439
01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:06,080
Speaker 1: an in depth conversation with her. Now, won't wait, Let's

1440
01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,680
Speaker 1: talk to Zita. Let's go all right, Zita? How are

1441
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 1: you doing? I'm good? How are you fred any morning?

1442
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:14,880
Speaker 1: What is the what is the odd party you went to?

1443
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 1: What kind of party wasn't our price seventy fix two?

1444
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 1: Birthday party for my mother in law? Seventy sixth birthday

1445
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:22,800
Speaker 1: party for your mother in law? Why is that weird

1446
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:26,800
Speaker 1: to have a birthday party? No, seventy six five, number

1447
01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 1: five seventy five, Yeah, why is that weird? Though? Ay mean,

1448
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: it's not the weird, but it's it's it was very

1449
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:38,160
Speaker 1: hard to hide it, hid it from her. It it's

1450
01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 1: a surprise surprise, right, we would full even if you go,

1451
01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:45,800
Speaker 1: if you go to a restaurant or vacation. We go

1452
01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:50,000
Speaker 1: every time together. So at that time we head to

1453
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:54,120
Speaker 1: together line like, oh you were going turns how so?

1454
01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 1: But and she knows that we don't have any like

1455
01:14:57,400 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 1: we don't go to friendshows like this, za za, Zita, Hey,

1456
01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:07,760
Speaker 1: it sounds like you're running the mill. It's friend um,

1457
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:14,639
Speaker 1: so that's not weird at all. Have a surprise surprise party,

1458
01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:23,360
Speaker 1: we would be weird. I never done that. Got all right? Well,

1459
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,840
Speaker 1: is she gonna when is she gonna have her booty

1460
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 1: reveal party? Is she gonna have one of those here? No? No,

1461
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:32,840
Speaker 1: she's not gonna have one this thing? No, all right, Zita,

1462
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:37,719
Speaker 1: have a good one. Time I went to a birthday

1463
01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:40,760
Speaker 1: party that was weird. Man, this person like they wanted

1464
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:43,360
Speaker 1: presents and there's a cake and they were like everyone

1465
01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:45,640
Speaker 1: was just like so pride. I was like, this is

1466
01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 1: so weird to the person who's I was like, what

1467
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 1: on earth is going out? I thought you were supposed

1468
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:56,439
Speaker 1: to be at your friend's house? Yeah, this is I was,

1469
01:15:56,520 --> 01:16:01,519
Speaker 1: this is so weird. Who does this? I love you that? Hey,

1470
01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:05,000
Speaker 1: I say, what weird party of you had a birthday party?

1471
01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 1: Hey Jake? Hey Brod. I was gone, Jake's okay, now visit.

1472
01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 1: So you actually went to a divorce party. Now that's something.

1473
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:16,880
Speaker 1: Who got divorce? What was the deal? So it's actually

1474
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 1: a weird stray than that. So I'm actually a uber

1475
01:16:19,640 --> 01:16:22,559
Speaker 1: driving the side and as I was driving, I picked

1476
01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:25,760
Speaker 1: up a group of like shick school and they're like, oh,

1477
01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:28,880
Speaker 1: whatever's avorce party for my friend. She's got divorced yesterday.

1478
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 1: She tied the papers and I was like, well this

1479
01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:34,880
Speaker 1: is interesting. Yeah right, and so pick them up and

1480
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:36,560
Speaker 1: then we dropped them off at a bar in the

1481
01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 1: city and they're like, we'll stop driving come to the party.

1482
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:42,679
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, I've done that before and the guy's

1483
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:47,800
Speaker 1: never come. But but you went, oh yeahr would you not?

1484
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:51,479
Speaker 1: I would? I would, But like we've had great uber

1485
01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:53,240
Speaker 1: drivers before and I've been like parked the car, come

1486
01:16:53,320 --> 01:16:55,080
Speaker 1: drink and they're like no, I kay, I'm working, Like

1487
01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:56,519
Speaker 1: what am I'm gonna do with the car? I'm like,

1488
01:16:56,560 --> 01:16:59,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, worry about that, lady. So you went in.

1489
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:01,400
Speaker 1: So you went in there, and then what did you

1490
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:03,280
Speaker 1: wind up driving one of them home? You know what

1491
01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. No, No, I drove a couple of them home.

1492
01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:10,000
Speaker 1: But like afterwards, but I mean I don't drink, and

1493
01:17:10,160 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 1: normally I was like, okay, cool, I can hang out

1494
01:17:13,360 --> 01:17:16,839
Speaker 1: and take a break. But I mean it was definitely interesting.

1495
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:18,880
Speaker 1: I mean it was like a bachelorette party with all

1496
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:23,920
Speaker 1: the except except yeah, like yeah except not Yeah. I

1497
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:26,720
Speaker 1: could see, like you know for weird parties. Does your

1498
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:32,040
Speaker 1: mom throw birthday parties for your dogs? Well, she doesn't

1499
01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:34,000
Speaker 1: have people over, but yeah, like she has parties with

1500
01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:36,599
Speaker 1: their balloons and there's a cake and and they get

1501
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:38,519
Speaker 1: special food. And you had a friend that had a

1502
01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:41,640
Speaker 1: birthday party for her dog and you were invited with

1503
01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:44,600
Speaker 1: your dog and all the dogs. My mom would do that,

1504
01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:48,200
Speaker 1: but she hasn't. No, thank you, Jake, have a good day. No,

1505
01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:51,200
Speaker 1: but they get parties like inside the house every year,

1506
01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:55,680
Speaker 1: like formal parties, Abby, Abby, what's the weird party you

1507
01:17:55,720 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 1: went to? And if you say birthday and just party?

1508
01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:04,479
Speaker 1: What the hell is that you move? When you move

1509
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 1: into an apartment, you know the house warming party, but

1510
01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:12,120
Speaker 1: when you move out of that place. I've never heard

1511
01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:13,560
Speaker 1: of that in my life. What am I supposed to

1512
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:17,679
Speaker 1: do for your moving out party? Help you move out? Help? Yeah?

1513
01:18:18,600 --> 01:18:23,120
Speaker 1: I think people together to get Yeah, okay, put that

1514
01:18:23,160 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 1: in that box over there. Yeah, I put that in

1515
01:18:24,960 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 1: a box. Owa a game. That's like having a house

1516
01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 1: a house painting party, Like, no, I'm not. That's called

1517
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:35,640
Speaker 1: free labor. And if you're over twenty answers, No, I

1518
01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:38,519
Speaker 1: don't care if there's pizza and wings, not painting your

1519
01:18:38,560 --> 01:18:42,479
Speaker 1: house for you. Thank you, Abby, have a good day.

1520
01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. Hey Erica, Hey love you, Gary,

1521
01:18:46,320 --> 01:18:48,400
Speaker 1: I love you too. So you went to a strange party.

1522
01:18:48,439 --> 01:18:51,320
Speaker 1: What is a non bachelorette party? What does that consist of? Yeah,

1523
01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:53,760
Speaker 1: so my best friend called off for weddings, so we

1524
01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:55,960
Speaker 1: all threw a huge party and went down to Louisville

1525
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:58,640
Speaker 1: and just celebrate it. I see, Okay, So it's like

1526
01:18:59,160 --> 01:19:01,160
Speaker 1: it was going to be a bachelorette party. But then

1527
01:19:01,560 --> 01:19:03,800
Speaker 1: she didn't get married, so it would have been like

1528
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:06,559
Speaker 1: that anyway. So right, yeah, yeah, we already had the weekend. Please,

1529
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 1: you know's gonna go down and we're going to celebrate.

1530
01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:12,360
Speaker 1: You called off your wedding non bridemaids. Yeah that makes

1531
01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:14,200
Speaker 1: I like that, all right? Did you guys go in

1532
01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:16,360
Speaker 1: like your bridesmaids dresses and stuff? You gotta get you

1533
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 1: out any money? Oh, that would have been a lot

1534
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 1: of fun. I know we didn't do that, good I hear. Yeah,

1535
01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:27,599
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do with tho? Yeah yeah, back, yeah,

1536
01:19:28,200 --> 01:19:29,960
Speaker 1: just done it and everybody knows you. I gonna wear

1537
01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:34,720
Speaker 1: that thing again anyway. Thank you, Erica, Thank yeah, glad

1538
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:38,080
Speaker 1: you coole. Have a great day. Hi Crystal, Hi? What

1539
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 1: was the party that you had? A strange party? I

1540
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:46,600
Speaker 1: hosted a breakup first three party a year after I

1541
01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:50,280
Speaker 1: broke up with one of my excess Okay, break up

1542
01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 1: first thy right? Funny? All right? Was it really traumatic

1543
01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:55,479
Speaker 1: to break up and that you wanted to commemorate that

1544
01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:59,479
Speaker 1: or what was the deal? The person I dated was

1545
01:19:59,720 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 1: real awful and I grew a lot that year, and

1546
01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:04,600
Speaker 1: I kind of just wanted to so great becoming a

1547
01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:07,240
Speaker 1: bout of your person. At the end of that, I'd

1548
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:12,679
Speaker 1: go to that good for you, good for you, nice

1549
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:15,080
Speaker 1: that I go to the presence and then we were

1550
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:21,000
Speaker 1: and we were building my go to that crystal have

1551
01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:23,680
Speaker 1: a good day. Somebody on Twitter said that they had

1552
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 1: a we Survived Y two K party. I love to

1553
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:30,000
Speaker 1: go to that. A small part of me that thought

1554
01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:31,760
Speaker 1: something bad was going to happen. Oh, there's a big

1555
01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:34,400
Speaker 1: part of me that I did think that I went.

1556
01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:37,120
Speaker 1: I specifically like went to a remote play. We went

1557
01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:40,559
Speaker 1: skiing um for New Year's and I'm like, at least

1558
01:20:40,640 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 1: if like something bad happens, I'm on a mountain. Hey,

1559
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:45,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. I want to be well, you're like

1560
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 1: not in the middle of the city where everything all

1561
01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:50,000
Speaker 1: of a sudden like blacks out and you know whatever.

1562
01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:51,760
Speaker 1: But I said, now you're stuck on a mountain where

1563
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 1: everything I just assumed like people would like riot and

1564
01:20:54,880 --> 01:20:56,720
Speaker 1: loot and go crazy. And I'm like, if I'm over

1565
01:20:56,840 --> 01:21:00,960
Speaker 1: here in a remote area, gotcha, You're just so that's good?

1566
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:07,559
Speaker 1: Hey Scott, Yeah, Hey Scott, you had a hurricane party. Yeah, okay, Well,

1567
01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:10,479
Speaker 1: I mean, what so you decided not to heed warnings

1568
01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 1: and not to evacuate. Well, so the idea is, when

1569
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:16,920
Speaker 1: you know our hurricanes coming into the town, you and

1570
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:19,559
Speaker 1: all of your neighbors who are about to lose power,

1571
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 1: we have all the food that's gonna go bad, so

1572
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 1: like eat or anything like that. It's gonna kind of

1573
01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 1: go bad and you lose. Just make it all now,

1574
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:30,519
Speaker 1: cook it all up exactly. Everyone brings it on over

1575
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:32,760
Speaker 1: to one house, brill it on up. Everyone enjoys. And

1576
01:21:32,840 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: then if you need to tie anything down, I'll run

1577
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 1: to your house on the golf cart, will tie down

1578
01:21:36,880 --> 01:21:41,760
Speaker 1: your boat and we'll run over your house. That's good.

1579
01:21:41,800 --> 01:21:45,240
Speaker 1: But you obviously survive the hurricane. Oh yeah, of course.

1580
01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:47,880
Speaker 1: Then obviously you know, after the hurricanes over, we all

1581
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:50,320
Speaker 1: meet back up that kind of that same spot, you know,

1582
01:21:50,479 --> 01:21:55,439
Speaker 1: is everyone okay, there isn't no need any help, you know, community.

1583
01:21:55,640 --> 01:21:57,639
Speaker 1: I like that. All right, that's good, thank you, Scott.

1584
01:21:58,240 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 1: Yeah one day. Yeah, glad you. Hey Dana, Hey Dana,

1585
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:04,599
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Fred Nange. What kind of weird

1586
01:22:04,640 --> 01:22:07,800
Speaker 1: party did you go to? I planned a party for

1587
01:22:08,120 --> 01:22:12,080
Speaker 1: a woman who was celebrating the end of alimony payments

1588
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:14,320
Speaker 1: for her wait she was having to pay him. That's

1589
01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 1: it now, wait a minute, who is she? He was ending? Okay,

1590
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:24,200
Speaker 1: I see, I see party for her, the last check

1591
01:22:24,320 --> 01:22:28,640
Speaker 1: she was going to receive. No, he they're married right right.

1592
01:22:28,720 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: The husband is paying his ex wife. Oh, I was gonna,

1593
01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:36,479
Speaker 1: says your friend who's having to pay out? And then

1594
01:22:36,520 --> 01:22:38,000
Speaker 1: she had to stop. I'm like, what the hell does

1595
01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:41,000
Speaker 1: she do? And what's her phone number? I'm interested in

1596
01:22:41,160 --> 01:22:44,080
Speaker 1: this woman, like to meet her. She's a she has

1597
01:22:44,120 --> 01:22:47,599
Speaker 1: a beautiful soul. I got it. Okay, thank you, Dana

1598
01:22:48,280 --> 01:22:50,480
Speaker 1: than I had a friend who had it all calculated

1599
01:22:50,520 --> 01:22:52,840
Speaker 1: out because he was paying a certain percentage of his

1600
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:55,200
Speaker 1: income to his ex wife, and he was he knew

1601
01:22:55,240 --> 01:22:58,760
Speaker 1: the the day and time, he knew when it was over, um,

1602
01:22:59,320 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 1: and he was very excited about that, as you might

1603
01:23:01,040 --> 01:23:02,599
Speaker 1: As you might imagine he was gonna get a big

1604
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:06,320
Speaker 1: fat raise on that day. Hey Andy, Hey, what kind

1605
01:23:06,360 --> 01:23:09,320
Speaker 1: of weird party do you have? I had an anniversary party.

1606
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:13,640
Speaker 1: An anniversary party Alice in Wonderland. No, it was the

1607
01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:18,000
Speaker 1: first anniversary after my divorce was finalise, and so me

1608
01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:20,639
Speaker 1: and my friends went out and we got completely white

1609
01:23:20,680 --> 01:23:27,040
Speaker 1: girl waisted good. I like it, Thank you, Andy. Thanks.

1610
01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:30,480
Speaker 1: I need to get invited to some of these breakup celebrations.

1611
01:23:30,600 --> 01:23:35,479
Speaker 1: I think that's a target rich environment. Um, is it? Nia? Yes? Hey,

1612
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:38,479
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Good morning? Good morning, how are

1613
01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:40,280
Speaker 1: you great? What if you called? So we're talking about

1614
01:23:40,280 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 1: sort of Paul was talking about having a body revealed

1615
01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:45,280
Speaker 1: party for everybody but us since we're looking at it,

1616
01:23:45,400 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 1: but um, what kind of weird party have you been to? Um?

1617
01:23:49,640 --> 01:23:54,800
Speaker 1: A long time ago, I used to sell um choice. Okay,

1618
01:23:55,320 --> 01:23:57,960
Speaker 1: I did a demonstration at a baby shower because the

1619
01:23:58,040 --> 01:24:01,240
Speaker 1: pregnant mom says she would never have other sex again,

1620
01:24:01,320 --> 01:24:06,920
Speaker 1: so she wanted to do well, that's an interesting sales opportunity,

1621
01:24:06,960 --> 01:24:08,920
Speaker 1: so she didn't want to be pregnant again since she's like,

1622
01:24:08,960 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 1: show me other ways. Basically, yeah, fair enough, thank you?

1623
01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:18,240
Speaker 1: Oh wow? But then how much it costs for you

1624
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:22,200
Speaker 1: to go or how much you made? Yeah? Well wow,

1625
01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:25,120
Speaker 1: people have really deprived to that party. Yeah all right,

1626
01:24:25,760 --> 01:24:27,720
Speaker 1: it was pretty quick. Yeah, thank you, Nia, have a

1627
01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:31,000
Speaker 1: good day. If my wife goes to it a sex

1628
01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:32,760
Speaker 1: toy party and comes home with like a case of

1629
01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:37,600
Speaker 1: I'm like which right, I know where I stand, Like,

1630
01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:40,040
Speaker 1: I know I know what I'm not doing to you

1631
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:43,040
Speaker 1: if that, if that happens, I'm not it's not a

1632
01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 1: good thing. I could have a party now if she's

1633
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:47,160
Speaker 1: if she brings it home, like and I get to

1634
01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:48,920
Speaker 1: be included. But if she's like, yeah, you don't need

1635
01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,800
Speaker 1: to worry about what's in this bad Yeah, like this

1636
01:24:51,880 --> 01:24:56,559
Speaker 1: doesn't concern you. Oh great exactly. Hey can you get

1637
01:24:56,600 --> 01:24:58,880
Speaker 1: us some batteries of Costco next time there