WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Abby 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:03.640 The best bits of the week with Morgan. It's Listener 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:04.640 Q and day time. 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:08.000 We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions. 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:10.719 What's up everybody? 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:12.799 We are here for listener Q and A. 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:16.079 Abby is with me this weekend. You're alive over there, Abbey. 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:17.760 I am. Do I look alive? 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:18.360 Are you warm? 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:19.080 Yeah? 0:00:19.120 --> 0:00:21.160 I have warmed up. I was so cold, but yeah. 0:00:22.640 --> 0:00:24.599 Studio well shout outs to start. 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:28.120 Laurie wanted to say she loves us both, and then 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:30.120 we also got another one that said no question, just 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:32.639 wanted to say loving the new podcast. So that's cool too. 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:33.360 I love that. 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:35.400 Yeah, some good little shout outs to start. 0:00:36.120 --> 0:00:39.040 Okay, we're diving in. I like to say that a lot, 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:41.000 and I realize I'm trying to take that back, so 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:42.879 we are. Don't ask me. 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:45.879 I find filler words because I get nervous. 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:48.879 I've never noticed it. 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:50.120 Yeah, I do it on. 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:52.160 The just on the podcast when I'm recording by myself, 0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:54.840 I'm trying to not that and say the word like 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:58.880 and uh, that's hard. Words are hard. They just need 0:00:58.920 --> 0:01:02.200 to go silent. So if you sure me, just is okay, 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:06.400 I'm not gonna I don't know though, has a double 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:10.119 date be planned. Love you girls here work. It talked 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:12.200 about a little bit on part one. 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:14.760 It's been talked about, it's been talked about. You know, 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:19.039 we have been really busy. I will say our schedules, 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:22.200 and then on the weekends we just I don't know, Yeah. 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:22.560 We're chilling. 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:26.040 I just when I'm done, like here for the weekend, 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:27.920 I just kind of go off of my own world. 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:29.280 I'm the same way. 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:31.959 And like I said, I'm not good at initiating with 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:34.520 people because I just kind of get caught up at 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:36.240 home and I don't really want to get out. I 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:38.360 don't know if that that sounds bad, but probably just 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:39.399 come tired and so. 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:41.040 No, I think understandably. 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.640 So Abby and I have incredibly busy stuff going on 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:45.839 right now, so it's been a little difficult to even 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:48.160 have personal lives, I know, outside of work. 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:51.760 But we have it planned now. We have what we're 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:52.160 gonna do. 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:55.320 Yeah, I always have to choose the date. The date. 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:57.560 Yeah, we're gonna go to dueling pianos, Well, buy you 0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:00.160 keys in Laney Wilson's. 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:01.800 Bar, and we're gonna make sure our songs get played. Yes, 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:07.320 just the date, and we do extensively talk about calendar. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:09.120 Where is it? 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:09.720 We will? 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:10.280 We will? 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:11.720 We need to do that before you leave. 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:14.240 Yeah, are you writing? And he love songs? Now that 0:02:14.280 --> 0:02:15.400 you've got a great guy. 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:18.400 This is from Leah in Pennsylvania, who loves us both. 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:23.399 Honestly, I haven't really written any Nope, he hasn't inspired any. 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:28.360 He has inspired him. I guess I'm just waiting for 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.400 this next one to come out that's more sassy, that 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:35.120 is anti love. So I'm in that head space. I'm 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:36.880 trying to do one thing at a time because I 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:40.480 get overwhelmed easily, and I'm trying to work on the 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:42.280 balance that we were talking about and the other one, 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:44.920 like balance, because right now it's like I focus on 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.919 Bobby Bone Show and then the podcast stuff and then 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:49.880 I forget that. It's like, oh, I need to focus 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.400 on me too, and so I kind of put that 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:54.720 on the back burner, which is not good. I'm still 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:56.600 playing guitar. I'm practicing that. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:03:00.000 But writing I think you're doing the guitar like a week. 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:02.360 Oh my gosh. So my boyfriend started playing now and 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.480 he's almost better than me, and I'm actually annoyed. 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:06.080 Are you for real? Yes? 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:08.720 Like he picks it up, so fast, like my brain 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:10.680 just won't pick it up. And I've said that from 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:13.200 the very beginning. That's why I haven't like played guitar 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:16.000 because I get frustrated and he's actually like better and. 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:18.560 I'm like, oh my gosh, he's just your permanent guitar player. 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:18.840 I know. 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:20.680 It's what I was thinking, Like, you don't have to 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:21.079 pay him. 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:23.760 Yeah, I give you a case every night exactly, this 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:24.399 is what you get. 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:25.640 Right. 0:03:26.320 --> 0:03:29.280 So when when we're together, he's always picks up a guitar, 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.840 He's like, okay, let's play, let's play. And I'm like, okay, fine, 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:34.800 Like he's good at fingerpicking. I'm like it's so hard 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:38.520 and he came out of nowhere. Yes, yes, I'm actually 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:40.720 I'm really annoying. He's very competitive and so am I, 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:42.560 and so he wants to be better than me. 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:45.080 And I'm like, oh day, so you got this is 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:48.240 also going on right now? Yeah, a lot of things 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:49.640 happening in Atty's brain. Yeah. 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:52.680 So no writing, no, but that's next. That's my next song. 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:53.440 I'll do a love song. 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:54.000 I love song. 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:55.920 Maybe he can write it with you with his guitar skills. 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:56.160 I know. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:59.640 Laurie from Massachusetts. 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:01.720 She was to know. Do you have any more shows 0:04:01.720 --> 0:04:02.760 planned for this year? 0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:06.040 Nope, none planned, They're none planned. 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:11.000 Just in her basement while boyfriend's playing guitar. Yeah, she's practicing. 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:14.920 My gosh, dang it. What is a song title? 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:15.200 Either? 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:15.880 Oh? 0:04:15.960 --> 0:04:17.080 No for a material? 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:18.200 Boy for a material? 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:21.960 Huh? I sing in the car a lot and the showers. 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:24.000 Because that's my singer, isn't that? 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:29.160 Yeah, I'm working lay because I'm a singer. 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:32.080 Yep, that's me. 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:37.920 What helped you in your single phase while everyone around 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:42.039 you was in a relationship love y'all and she would 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:44.600 like no name or he would like no name. Uh, 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:46.320 I'm not sure where it came from. 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:49.000 So I feel like I've lived my whole life being 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:53.000 that girl, you know. And like when I go home 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:55.960 every year to Kansas, everybody was married, All my friends 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:58.599 are married, and then I'd be the only one there 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:02.360 with no plus one, you know, And so they're asking 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:03.520 how to deal with that? 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:07.120 Yeah, like what how during the single phase when everybody 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:08.520 else was in love? 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:12.040 I would say, just like embracing the single and seeing 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:13.800 all the good parts of it, you know, like you're 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:15.880 not tied down to anybody, You can do whatever you want. 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:18.560 You can like go out of town, you can go 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:20.840 out with your friends. You don't have to ask anybody, 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:22.760 you don't have to check with anybody else. So I 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:24.760 think I did that a lot, and like focused on 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:27.960 I had a lot of time more to just focus 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:30.440 on me because I was home alone or whatever, and 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:32.520 what I want to do and what I want to accomplish. 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:34.520 And when you're dating someone, you're just kind of like, 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:37.039 oh wow, you kind of forget some of that. I 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.080 feel like, because you just want to spend time together 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:39.720 and watch. 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:42.520 Movies, you know. Yeah. 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:45.640 I think embrace being single in that season of your life, 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:49.040 because it will come, but just embrace what you have 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:49.640 right now. 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:53.680 It's really good advice. I the same thing happened to me. 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:56.920 I was I learned to embrace it and take it in. 0:05:57.760 --> 0:06:02.680 But I'll also say very genuinely that there were days 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:07.080 where I was so sad and so alone and I 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.479 was like, this is never gonna happen for me. I'm 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:12.120 not gonna find this, and I would almost be a 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:17.080 little bit pessimistic when I'm normally a pretty optimistic, hopeful person. 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:19.360 I'm like, there's no way this is just not gonna happen. 0:06:19.960 --> 0:06:23.720 So I think as you embrace because that's the best 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.240 thing that you can possibly do for yourself, and take 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:28.320 yourself out on dates and go try and learn some 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:31.640 new things. Because to Happy's point, once you do date someone, 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:35.479 all that's gonna be gone. The autonomy and getting to 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:37.320 do everything that you want when you want to do 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:40.719 it at that time on your own schedule is gone. 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:43.560 You do have to start considering somebody else. And so 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:46.920 I think doing all the things that you want to 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.919 do for yourself is something to focus on and it 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:51.920 allows you to kind of come out of that focusing 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:55.560 on everybody else, but at the same time embracing that 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:57.640 there's gonna be really crappy days. There are going to 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.720 be days you're gonna be sad in days where it's 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:03.320 gonna frustrating, and you just have to let it ride, 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:07.640 like literally let those emotions ride and face them instead 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:09.320 of running away from them because it's only going to 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:12.480 make your experience and all of that worse. 0:07:13.360 --> 0:07:15.280 But also not like drowning them, because I used to 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:17.000 do that and like kind of throw pity parties for 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:19.720 myself sometimes and like you know, I'd be like, oh 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.320 my gosh, I would pray and I'd be like why 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:23.840 why can't I have someone like that? Like why when 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:25.640 is it going to be my turn to find somebody 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:26.080 good for me? 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:26.680 You know? 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:29.360 And I would just get so mad and like be 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:32.760 crying and stuff. And it's like you can do that, 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:35.080 but don't do that for like weeks at a time, 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:36.720 you know, Like how you can have your moment, have 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:38.240 your day where you're just like, Okay, this is my 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:40.280 day to feel this way, but just try not to 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.600 get caught up in it. Try to just like you know, 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:45.400 go go to the gym or do something that you 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:47.600 know is good for you, like good for your. 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:49.680 Soul, like find a counterbalance to that. 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:51.720 So, say you had that day because. 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.120 It's gonna come out of nowhere and you're just gonna 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:55.240 be in it, or you're gonna get invited to eighty 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:57.880 weddings and you have to go by yourself. You're gonna 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:00.440 have that day, and once you have it, be like, Okay, 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:02.440 I'm in this right now. Tomorrow morning, I'm waking up, 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:05.280 I'm gonna take myself to breakfast, just me myself, and 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:09.160 I'm gonna go to breakfast. And there's a very empowering 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:12.280 feeling about that when you start taking care of yourself, 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:18.720 so it helps lift those feelings naturally. And also I 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:22.440 learned speaking of like that the new podcast that I dropped, 0:08:22.480 --> 0:08:24.280 I learned through one of the guests that's coming on, 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:28.480 you can train your brain to get over things. And 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:30.320 the only way to do that is by like learning 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:33.640 something new and treating your brain like it's a muscle 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:36.520 that you're trying to exercise. And so if you're really sad, 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:38.160 and you keep being really sad and you get stuck 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:40.920 in it, like Abby, pick yourself up. Say I'm gonna 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:44.520 go teach myself to play pickleball today. I mean I 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:47.280 want to. It's gonna suck to start, but then your 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.679 brain's gonna naturally start to shift and say, Okay, I'm 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:51.640 gonna pick up new things. This is what's gonna happen. 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:52.319 It's like a. 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:53.720 Pattern, a pattern of behavior. 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:55.360 Oh my gosh, because yeah, that used to happen to 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.400 me all the time, because when I'd go to concerts, 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.680 I would always notice the couple's holding hands, always notice 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:02.520 that that was the one thing. And it's like, why 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:04.400 am I noticing in this? Probably because I was thinking 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:04.840 about it. 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:05.320 You know. 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:07.200 It's like when you think of a yellow car. You 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.240 start seeing a yellow car like on the road. Yeah, 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:11.160 because you're thinking about it. And I was like, just 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:14.760 stop like thinking about that, you know, just realize that 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:15.959 it's not your time now. 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:18.440 I don't know, We're not trying to say down another 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:20.920 path in your brain and say, Okay, nope, I'm going 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:23.400 to focus on the singer in this moment, like for 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:25.559 Abby with the concert, I'm gonna focus on the artist, 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:27.200 or I'm going to focus. 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:30.040 On how many red boots there are. Anything. 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:31.880 It could be the stupidest thing, but if it helps 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.040 you get through it, then it helps you get through it, right, 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:39.240 So find your coping skills and lean into them. 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:41.679 Yeah, I mean that's great. That is weird. I used 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:42.880 to think that all the time and be like, why 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:45.960 are they couples here? There's all couples, And I'm like, Abby, 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:47.000 just stop thinking about it. 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:47.800 Just oh. 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:50.559 I would go to weddings and be so depressed. 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:53.760 Afterwards, I would put on my smile and be a 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:57.400 great you know, guests or part of the wedding party, 0:09:57.640 --> 0:10:01.160 but watching people interact because I was the last one 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:06.960 in so many cases, I just was like, Okay, here 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:07.319 we go. 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:09.920 Smile because there's love in the room. 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.720 And everybody's so happy, but I am miserable and this 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:16.880 sucks for me. Yeah, you know, I like, it's not fun, 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:19.040 it's it. And there's never gonna be someone who can 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:20.480 say this is how you're gonna get through it, because 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:23.240 it really just genuinely you gotta feel all the things 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:26.040 that you're feeling and be sad sometimes and be happy 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:29.080 sometimes and go through it. But I do think Abby's 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:32.520 point is great of like really embracing that time in 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:36.160 your life because it doesn't come back. No, you know, 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.280 I hope that tomorrow you'll meet the person that you're 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:40.800 gonna spend the rest of your life with. But until tomorrow, 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:43.040 you better live it up because when that person comes 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:45.000 and you're like, dang, I should have lived up my 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:48.040 single life a little bit more, you know. Yeah, there's 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:51.840 always regrets somewhere. So you're totally right spot on. All right, 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:53.880 We're gonna take a quick break, will be right back. 0:10:57.120 --> 0:11:00.240 I think this came from Sadie, But my can eater 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:02.320 like stick correct people's names. What are some of your 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:05.839 favorite places in Nashville like to eat? I didn't even 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:08.480 prepare you for this. I know you didn't, or I'll 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:12.480 just like look at my email and I'll think of something. Yeah, 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:17.120 do anything, activities, bars, I think the list could go on. 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:20.360 Okay, Broadway, I love going to the stage. That's one 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:22.839 of my favorites because they play more like nineties country music. 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:26.800 I love that. Let's see and then I've already mentioned 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:29.679 this before, but Lanny Wilson's Bar in the Dueling Pianos 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:33.199 super good, so good. I love the diner for food. 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:35.760 Downtown has the best like late night food. 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:38.160 I don't think I've eaten there. For the late night foods. 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:39.720 Oh my gosh, you have to go. They have like 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:41.960 a full menu and it is delicious. I get the 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.760 pretzel It's like these pretzel sticks, like a big pretzel 0:11:45.000 --> 0:11:46.640 and you dip it in beer cheese. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:48.760 I love a pretzel cheese delicious. 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:52.320 And then the chicken strips and fries so good. We 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:55.920 uhould go there after, but no fry butts if you know. 0:11:56.679 --> 0:11:58.720 Oh my gosh, I've been doing that, like and he 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.360 hasn't noticed. I didn't tell them either. I still haven't 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:04.360 told him. Huh. I think I like distract him. 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:07.000 I need you to like report back, like I need 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:09.120 you to actually ask him if he's noticed. 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:11.200 And he just ignores it and he loves you no 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:12.640 matter what, because that's. 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:13.200 Probably what it is. 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:16.040 It's because like I'll ask, I'll be like, you didn't 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:18.120 figure that out? He's like, yeah, no, I did for sure, 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:18.920 like right away. 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:19.160 Yeah. 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:21.280 People, if you don't know, like I leave the ends 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:23.600 of my fries, I still do it. What the part 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:25.520 I bite down on? I pick the end I don't 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:27.640 want to bite down on, like a crispy end or something. 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:30.880 Yeah, let you leave it, which is why I dubbed 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:33.680 them fry butts, and Abby will always have a plate 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:35.520 if she gets fries of fry butts at the end. 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:38.840 That's funny that he hasn't said anything I know. 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:39.880 Isn't that crazy? 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:40.440 Yeah? 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:43.959 Oh my gosh, Okay, let's see. In Midtown I love 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:45.800 Hopsmith Tavern. I love eating there. 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:46.960 Oh good brunch too. 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:49.440 Oh yeah, it's fun there. They do have a really 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:52.720 good brunch. And then I like in twelve South area, 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.400 I love this store I love going to and has 0:12:55.400 --> 0:13:00.360 good gifts. It's called like serendipitous. Oh yeah, yeah, it's 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:01.960 kind of by yes, is. 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:04.200 Sara, Well that's the word. I don't know if it's 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:06.320 called serendipity here I'll look at up while you're talking 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:06.640 about it. 0:13:06.640 --> 0:13:08.960 Okay. Yeah, it's on twelve South area, which is really 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:13.280 cool to walk around. I also love at Least barbecue. 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.520 It is so delicious. It's my favorite barbecue place. But 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:17.559 that whole area is just a street with like shops 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:21.720 and restaurants. Yeah, and that's my favorite place to get serendipity. Okay, 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:23.920 they have like jewelry and cute clothes. 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:26.520 And have you gone to Fonda over there? It's the 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:29.280 new Mexican restaurant. No, it's really good. 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:31.680 Yeah, I'm with you. I love that whole area. 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:32.280 Too, Oh my gosh. 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:35.200 Yeah. But fondas a good little Mexican spot over there, 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:37.079 Except that's the one that lunchboxs ond me I gave 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:37.760 a bad review of. 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:39.319 So whatever, what in the world? 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:42.440 Well he went, He's like it's horrible, And I was like, dude, 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:45.000 you're you want to talk about foody. 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:47.400 Lunchbox is the foody of all foody is. And he's 0:13:47.440 --> 0:13:50.120 so he's like a critic is he foody? 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:54.440 Yeah? Oh, I'm like simple, I'm like that great guacamole. 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:56.600 I'm also like he hated the guacamole. I was like, well, 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:58.280 that's your fault because you ate three pounds. I'm pretty 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:01.199 sure you're gonna hate guacamoy forever, right. 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:03.040 I was like that, Yeah, that was your problem or 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:05.240 your fault for ordering that crazy. 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.280 Oh my gosh, Okay, any others you want to add 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:07.720 to your list? 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:10.000 I don't think so. That whole area you really can't 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:12.400 miss with that. I like Frothy Monkey for coffee. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:14.120 It is really a good breakfast too. 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:16.520 Oh yeah they do. Oh my gosh. One of my 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:20.160 favorite places, okay, it's on Charlotte Avenue. It's called Weird 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:23.200 Stuff Cool Things, and they have all these like awesome 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:25.040 like there's a Nashville sign with lights on it. That's 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:26.680 where I got it, and it's in my house. But 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:28.920 it's just it's kind of like a fancy thrift store. 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:31.680 I'm like hiding found and I haven't gone, gou you 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:33.400 need to go. And then the coffee place right next 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:35.800 to it is Headquarters Coffee, Best Coffee. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:36.560 I love it. 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:38.560 It's like a cute. It's literally a hole in the wall. 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:41.520 I love but it's so great local. 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:44.040 Have you got into the street car taps right next 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:47.000 to that in that same area, because they have a. 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:47.960 Loaf of bread and butter. 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:50.600 That's amazing. What it's also just really good. They good 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:53.160 food and drinks and stuff on Charlotte. I've never heard 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:54.800 of that right in that same little area. 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:57.840 Oh my gosh. Yeah, that's awesome. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:59.920 The next time you go thrifting and you get your 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:01.960 just pop over and gets a food. 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:03.400 Okay, I'm gonna do that. 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:04.000 I didn't know that. 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:04.920 I love that. Thanks. 0:15:06.080 --> 0:15:08.640 Is your neighbor's dog still messing up your yard? No? 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:11.040 Oh my gosh, so awkward. 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:11.640 You know. 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:13.520 I put that note on his door. It was really nice. 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:15.760 It's just like, hey, could you please pick up your 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:18.640 dog's pooh? If this isn't you just ignore this. And 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:20.760 I was walking down the street and I saw him 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:22.080 and I was like, oh shoot, this is awkward. He's 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:23.560 with the dog too, and I was like, oh no, 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:24.400 and he's like, are you abby? 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:26.720 I was like, yeah, hey, yeah, he wrote your name 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:27.200 on the note. 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:31.840 Yeah yeah, Because I just was like, you're not gonna, yeah, 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:34.800 I put what I lived in. It's gonna be passive aggressive, 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:37.040 and you're it's not going to get handled right if 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:39.080 I just put this note, because he's not going to 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.680 know whose house it was. And then he's two doors down, 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:44.760 so like I was like, to avoid any future awkwardness, 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:46.160 I'll just put my name and I was like. 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:47.760 Yeah, yeah, there's future awkwardness. 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:50.160 I was like, yeah, I'm Abby, and yes I did 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:52.280 put the note on your door. And he's like, I'm 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:54.480 so sorry, Like my roommate had been letting him out. 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:56.040 He kind of blamed the roommate. I was like, I 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:58.000 don't know, but anyway, roommate, do you know there is 0:15:58.400 --> 0:15:59.880 I was like, yeah, I don't think you can fully 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:01.960 blaming the roommate for like one hundred percent of this, 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:03.960 but anyway, he was like, my roommate's been letting him 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:05.480 out and he didn't he didn't know he was going 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:08.200 in your yard. And I was like, oh, no, totally fine, 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:10.400 you're good. And the next day he picked all of 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:13.480 it up. He like, I'm like, I seriously think it 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:16.440