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Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone. On The Fred Show Tomorrow Morning.

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Speaker 1: We do it every day. Why did Somebody get ghosted?

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Speaker 1: Will investigate stay or Go, Will debate some relationship drama.

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Speaker 1: Fred Show on demand. It's a Fred Show. It's K's Court,

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Speaker 1: All rise, The Honorable Kikileik is here. Judge Kiki, if

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Speaker 1: you would present your case?

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get into the courtroom. The gavel has

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Speaker 2: been hit, it says Judge Kiki. Am I wrong for

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Speaker 2: skipping my sister's baby shower?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 2: My younger sister is pregnant with her fifth child by

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Speaker 2: her second husband, and she's living back at my parents' house.

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Speaker 2: Her ex is a deadbeat, her current husband can't hold

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Speaker 2: a job, and my parents have basically been carrying her

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Speaker 2: financially for years. We're talking school fees, medical bills, lawyer bills,

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Speaker 2: you name it. Now she's having another baby and expects

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Speaker 2: yet another baby shower. My mom is upset that I

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Speaker 2: won't help decorate or hosts like I've done in the past,

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Speaker 2: But honestly, I feel like going would just be me

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Speaker 2: co signing her irresponsible choices. My parents are supposed to

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Speaker 2: be enjoying retirement, not raising her kids and paying her bills.

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Speaker 4: I love my niece and nephews, but enough is enough.

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Speaker 2: Someone in the family has to draw the line, and

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Speaker 2: it looks like that person is me. So am I

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Speaker 2: a jerk for refusing to go to the baby shower?

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Speaker 1: First of all, how many? How many baby showers?

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Speaker 3: Do you know?

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Speaker 1: How many crib?

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Speaker 2: Mean?

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Speaker 1: I guess you need another crib because you go, But

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Speaker 1: I mean, don't you have enough stuff by now?

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Speaker 4: I would think so, like what happened to baby number four?

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Speaker 1: Stuff?

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Speaker 5: Hey?

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Speaker 1: How about baby number one? Baby number one's in college

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Speaker 1: now you know? Yes, what do you think? Kiki?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know y'all get mad at me when I

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Speaker 2: don't have sympathy for people who make terrible decisions in life.

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Speaker 2: Damn will take all the smoke on this one, because

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Speaker 2: I do not think she is wrong.

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Speaker 4: At some point, when.

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Speaker 2: You are not finance where you need to be, you

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Speaker 2: need to close your legs because I let me tell

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Speaker 2: you something, when my money is funny, I don't even

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Speaker 2: have the urge to do what you do to make babies.

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Speaker 2: Like I don't even come one talk to nobody. I'm

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Speaker 2: not in a joyful spirit. You know, you go through

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Speaker 2: a hard time. I understand that you went through a

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Speaker 2: bad divorce. I understand that it's okay to move back

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Speaker 2: sometimes you have a husband. Okay, somebody need to go

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Speaker 2: to work and keep a job. And then if you

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Speaker 2: can't keep a job and you can't go to work,

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Speaker 2: then you need to stop having children because who's paying

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Speaker 2: for this? And then the poor parents? You know, and

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Speaker 2: I have. I come from a family of my sister.

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Speaker 2: You know, she loves her grandchildren down She'll do anything

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Speaker 2: for her grandchildren. But if I was to ever see

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Speaker 2: one of my siblings taking advantage of her in her retirement,

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Speaker 2: I'm absolutely gonna speak up. You should it's not the pay,

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Speaker 2: it's not our parents' responsibility to raise your children. The loud,

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Speaker 2: but you you know, it's that's not fair to.

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Speaker 1: Down's Yeah, you should have used someone that money she

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Speaker 4: Hello, I mean.

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Speaker 6: That's responsible, that's real. Listen. I've always said this too, Like,

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Speaker 6: if you are not in a good place, Like, I

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Speaker 6: think having a child maybe isn't the best decision we're

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Speaker 1: Is always saying that she's always she always walking around saying, hey, you,

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Speaker 1: you don't look like you're in a spot for this.

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Speaker 6: As a mother, I can tell you firsthand, it is expensive.

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Speaker 6: It is hard. It is everything you can think of. Okay,

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Speaker 6: it is beautiful, but it is hard. And I also

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Speaker 6: feel like maybe she should work on picking her man correctly, Like,

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Speaker 4: Work out with this girl.

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Speaker 1: Hello, you guys are the journey though eight five five

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Speaker 1: pay the bill. I guess, but we call now, don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's unfair. I really don't. And I

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Speaker 1: know that accidents happened. I realize that it's possible, very

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Speaker 1: as you would say, when your money is funny mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: But I mean when we're on the fifth one. Come on,

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Speaker 1: at what point do we need to take responsibility for ourselves?

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Speaker 1: It was probably four kids ago, you know, when we're

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Speaker 1: dude doing, who's knocking you up? Why is he not

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Speaker 1: quality of life is affected by the fact that that

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Speaker 1: the resources aren't there. And now you got grandma and

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Speaker 1: you know, another baby shower, so we're it's just more

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Speaker 1: people enabling I'm with you, Kiki, I'm sorry, but you know,

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Speaker 1: you can call up here and you can say what

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Speaker 4: Right, and you're at home with our parents.

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Speaker 2: They have worked hard to enjoy their retirement and I'm

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Speaker 2: sure they love having the kids there, but they should

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Speaker 2: not be taken on the financial burden of raising your children.

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Speaker 2: You know, they should be enjoying themselves, going on vacations,

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Speaker 2: It just seems like you're just irresponsible and everybody in

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Speaker 2: the family is like enabling this because they keep having

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Speaker 4: That you keep bringing it to the family financially supporting, and.

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Speaker 1: To your point earlier, Kiki, there are two adults involved here,

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Speaker 1: right right, So if one needs to stay and raise

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Speaker 1: the kids, understandable because now you've got five of them.

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Speaker 1: But well, what's the other person doing? Like, and.

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Speaker 7: I mean clearly they're good at making babies. So and

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Speaker 7: where are his parents? Where are you're in laws? Maybe

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Speaker 7: you stay over their house a couple of months? Yeah, Alison,

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Speaker 7: good morning, Alison. There Hi, Hey, Alison Keky's court. So

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Speaker 7: just to recap here, this woman is on you know,

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Speaker 1: Well, she already worked on it. It's already done, it

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Speaker 1: was worked on, it's on the way. There's another baby shower,

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Speaker 1: out to judge Kiki is like, I don't think I

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Speaker 3: I completely agree that it's irresponsible for her to continue

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean, my niece nephew type get that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because if my aunt didn't go to mind,

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Speaker 5: Other siblings, I'd be like, you know who kind of

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Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying, Alison, But almost nobody who

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Speaker 1: is at my mom's baby shower for me is still

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Speaker 1: I mean she has she has the right to be

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Speaker 1: frustrated by this. I agree. I guess that the sentiment

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Speaker 1: celebrating that. At the same time, though, I can understand

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Speaker 1: why everybody in the family is exasperated. It's like, especially

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Speaker 1: when it's her parents having to pay for all this,

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Speaker 1: it again, I know that this stuff just happens sometimes,

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Speaker 1: but how many times has it happened and you're not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is true, But then I also think she's

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Speaker 3: looking out for her parents. Then it's just going to

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Speaker 1: Well, and these poor parents and what are they supposed

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't have to go back to work.

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Speaker 1: This is I know, it's terrible. Alison. Thank you, have

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Speaker 1: a good day. Love you. Normally I wouldn't I'm not

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Speaker 1: sure that I would do this, but but I would

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Speaker 1: really like to hear from Hadley. Now, Hadley is ten

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Speaker 1: years old. Hadley, all Hi, Hadley, Hi, Hi? Now you

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Speaker 1: you feel a certain kind of way about it. Now,

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Speaker 1: what did you want to say? Hadley?

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Speaker 8: I want to just say that I think it's okay

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Speaker 8: that she skipped out on this one because this is

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Speaker 8: their first kid. They they should have gone to the

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Speaker 8: other ones. And if you're financially not okay and you

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Speaker 8: have your parents helping you, you shouldn't be able to

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Speaker 4: You know what.

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Speaker 1: That's exactly right, Cali, that is fantastic. Now you is

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Speaker 8: My dad's here with me?

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Speaker 1: Can I talk to your dad. Yeah, let me talk

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Speaker 8: Hello.

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Speaker 1: I just want to I want to give you a

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Speaker 1: random A plus. That is a ten year old that

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Speaker 1: knows what's up. Random A plus santastic. How happy were

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Speaker 1: you to hear that from your ten year old? You

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Speaker 1: shouldn't have a baby unless you can afford it. How

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Speaker 1: happy did that make you? Oh?

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Speaker 5: When I heard that, I was like, well, I have

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Speaker 5: anything to worry about them.

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Speaker 1: This sounds good to me. That's right. You could start

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Speaker 1: planning your retirement because your daughter, Hadley knows what's up. Hey,

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Speaker 1: thank you, guys, have a great day.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: All right. That's the kind of responsible Yeah, that's the

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Speaker 1: kind of responsibility we need to hear it in today's youth.

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Speaker 1: Just you know what I mean.

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Speaker 6: It's more responsible than our own girl over there, eat

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you remember that, Hadley, You remember that you called

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Speaker 1: up here and said that, Okay, hey, Rebecca, good morning,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Rebecca. You got to follow up a ten

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Speaker 1: year old who just educated all of us. But what

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Speaker 1: would you like to say in Tiki scored?

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Speaker 5: I would just like to say that I fill hardly

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Speaker 5: agree with Tiki. I have actually found myself in a position.

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Speaker 5: I am forty, married for almost twenty years. I have

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Speaker 5: a fourteen year old son, and I felt pregnant recently,

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Speaker 5: not expected, but you know, with the economy in today's age,

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Speaker 5: it's really expensive to raise children, and I don't know

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Speaker 5: how anybody can do five children. That is outrageous. It's

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Speaker 5: ridiculous to think and expect your parents and your family

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Speaker 5: you know, my husband and I had to sit down

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Speaker 5: It's not in our plans, and it's about time that

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Speaker 1: Well, Rebacca, I said, that's a heavy situation. And I

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Speaker 1: So uh, Rebecca, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Good day.

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Speaker 1: Glad you called. Yeah. I mean, I all I can

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Speaker 1: say is every time my sister, you know, asked my

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Speaker 1: you know every time. Every time, it's every single time,

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Speaker 1: it's you know, what do you buy those kids?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 8: Mom?

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Speaker 1: You know that's that's coming out of my piece, you

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Speaker 2: You're not wrong when my brothers keep having kids, I

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Speaker 2: do add it up.

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Speaker 4: What's left Forlox?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, come on, no, I'm kidding,

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Speaker 1: but you know it's whatever my mom is with Polly,

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Speaker 1: and my mom's just whipping twenties like it's nothing. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: where were those when I was ten years old? You

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Speaker 1: all this stuff, I'm like, you know, I could retire earlier,

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Speaker 1: to Kiki, is that you know, how many times do

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Speaker 1: you have to do do you make decisions that affect

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Speaker 1: what are you supposed to do? But like maybe address

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Speaker 1: alternatives like birth control or abstinence. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: many times do you get to have other people fulfill

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Speaker 1: I can't help you anymore, Like it's time for me

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Speaker 1: to retire. It's time for me. I already did this,

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Speaker 1: you know. If I'm her parents, I'm like, I already

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Speaker 1: raised you guys, and now I'm raising for your kids.

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Speaker 1: I can't do five right?

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Speaker 2: And when do you start to feel some type of

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Speaker 2: self accountability, like when do you feel bad? You know,

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Speaker 2: when do you apologize? When do you get up and

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Speaker 2: try to go get a job to help out with

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Speaker 2: all the children you're creating.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand all right, well, Kiki, Close ladies,