WEBVTT - Second Date Update: We Built This Thing Together

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes in the dating world you realize the ideal person

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<v Speaker 2>that you have built up in your mind. Yeah, isn't

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily the ideal person for you in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, rip that right out of Brooks wedding vows.

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<v Speaker 3>To her husband.

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<v Speaker 1>But that could be the case for our listener, Rob today.

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<v Speaker 4>Rude.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you said him who says he met.

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<v Speaker 2>A different type of woman than the one he would

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<v Speaker 2>normally go for, and he described her in the email

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<v Speaker 2>as someone who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, is one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Vegan, and must be in bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Every night by eight forty five pm.

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<v Speaker 3>Rob, discipline, woman.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you let this party animal slip through your fingers?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know. I just found it endearing. I

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<v Speaker 4>thought she was kind of wholesome and not really the

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<v Speaker 4>type of girl that I normally go for.

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<v Speaker 6>But it's interesting because it could be wholesome or it

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<v Speaker 6>could be that she's done all those things so.

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<v Speaker 3>Much that she can't do them anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, on the party life. Okay, well, what's her name?

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<v Speaker 7>I think it's Maggie.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, how did you meet her?

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<v Speaker 4>We met online? But I just thought her pictures were

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<v Speaker 4>so natural. She was very naturally beautiful. The pictures weren't photoshopped,

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<v Speaker 4>and she wasn't out at the club. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 4>pictures of her hanging out with her friends, and I

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<v Speaker 4>just thought it was nice.

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<v Speaker 3>It was such a good photoshop. You didn't notice. Can

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<v Speaker 3>I ask, are you any of the things she is like?

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<v Speaker 7>Dry?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, no smoking, vegan?

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<v Speaker 7>No, not at all?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, yeah, I definitely drink and I definitely eat

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of meat.

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<v Speaker 2>So it could be in opposite subtract sort of situation

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<v Speaker 2>where you like mesh together over time, Bacon.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it could be the reason she's not calling

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<v Speaker 3>him back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what did you guys do when you guys went out?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's weird on two dates back to back over

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<v Speaker 4>a weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that makes sense because she has to be in

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<v Speaker 2>bed by eight forty five, so that's not very much

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<v Speaker 2>the first one.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, how did that work?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so she wasn't like to drink, so we got

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<v Speaker 4>ramen and then we got ice cream.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, took the vegan to ice cream.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I learned that they actually have vegan ice cream.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh cool, so you checked it.

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<v Speaker 7>To me.

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<v Speaker 1>But for her that's great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like coconut milk ice cream. Sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and it actually tasted pretty good, I mean a

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<v Speaker 4>spoon nice.

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<v Speaker 6>Because she was probably impressed that you like put some

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<v Speaker 6>effort in to find a place that could fit her.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did date number one end?

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<v Speaker 4>So there was no kiss at the end, but it

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<v Speaker 4>was like a long hug. And then she actually suggested

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<v Speaker 4>that we go out again the next day.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wow, okayugah, no kidding.

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<v Speaker 3>So what did you do the next day?

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<v Speaker 4>So the next day, I was like, you get to

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<v Speaker 4>pick where we want to go. So we went to

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<v Speaker 4>a vegan restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool, okay, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not vegan, but one of my favorite places to

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<v Speaker 6>eat is a vegan restaurant in my neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 2>Is scary, Like, I'm a foodie and even someone going

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<v Speaker 2>going to a vegan restaurant, it's kind of intimidated. Well

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it's like the ice cream shop where they have

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<v Speaker 2>the one vegan option for people one plate for the

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<v Speaker 2>media have.

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<v Speaker 1>A really bloody how was it?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well they had a bunch of like cauliflower stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's popular.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean it was okay, I didn't mind it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, they have like.

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<v Speaker 3>How is the connection between you two.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean after that date, we definitely kissed.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, your first two dates sounds like they went great.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's happened since then?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so then after the date, she starts texting me

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<v Speaker 4>and it's a lot of texts and like it's text

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<v Speaker 4>like I can't wait to see you. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of love gifts and uh memes out love and she

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<v Speaker 4>was really accentuating the love aspect of everything, and uh,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it was a little bit much.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't get why he's on with us if it

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<v Speaker 3>was freaking.

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<v Speaker 1>You out, calling you back.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Well what happened was she sent me a Spotify song.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a song by Starship called we Built.

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<v Speaker 7>This Thing Together. I don't know if you guys know

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<v Speaker 7>that song.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we built this string together.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing's gonna stop us.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good song. Everyone.

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<v Speaker 6>She trying to like force a couple song already.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, like what have we built?

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<v Speaker 4>We were on two dates?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you say that to her?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I said, oh, that's a nice song. I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>really into the song though, it's I'm not really a

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<v Speaker 4>big fan of it. And that totally changed things for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just slammed her taste in music.

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<v Speaker 3>No, she was trying to convey up.

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<v Speaker 6>And it's like when I used to make mixed CDs

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<v Speaker 6>and like put in secret songs for different dudes I

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<v Speaker 6>like and be like, yeah, I know that.

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<v Speaker 2>One hit, You're right, yeah, and we'd be like, dude,

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<v Speaker 2>once she gets a song for I prove yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm hoping it.

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<v Speaker 6>You basically turned her down by not liking the good honestly,

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<v Speaker 6>maybe she needed together, but.

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<v Speaker 1>You said that changed things between you two.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I wasn't trying to put her down. It

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<v Speaker 4>was just a little confused by it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, so what do you want our help with?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want another date or do you not?

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<v Speaker 4>So we had two really great dates together and the

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<v Speaker 4>only thing that was weird was when we were apart.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. I've been in situations where like.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe we can who you want to live together, Let's.

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty four hours a day with you from now and

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<v Speaker 2>so forever so you both die.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to see where she's at, and I

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<v Speaker 4>hope I didn't offend her, and I just want you

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<v Speaker 4>to check for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I see, I see it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe if she knows how you feel, she can lay

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<v Speaker 6>off the love gifts and the songs.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't know how to tell her that politely. If she

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<v Speaker 4>is that kind of person, I don't necessarily want to

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<v Speaker 4>change her, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we'll let Brook tell her to cut that crap out.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll do the second update right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, we're back to the nineteen eighties again.

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<v Speaker 3>Is this the song?

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<v Speaker 1>The Decade of Love?

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<v Speaker 2>Sixteen Candles, Dirty Dancing, Wow, Ghost, all the best love movies? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I can honestly say that we built this thing together.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing lasts forever. Nothing was gonna stop us. Now that's

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<v Speaker 1>a song.

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<v Speaker 2>Unless Maggie doesn't answer the phone, then that would kind

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<v Speaker 2>of stop us and we'd be screwed.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you all forgetting it's a song that she sent

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<v Speaker 3>to him?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>This is This is the song from the nineteen eighties

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<v Speaker 2>that kind of soured the relationship after Rob went on

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<v Speaker 2>back to back dates with both of which went great,

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<v Speaker 2>but this Spotify song ruined it because Rob said I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not really a fan.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean it's pretty cheesy.

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<v Speaker 2>But Brooke had a good point. He was trying to say,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really like this song. Maybe Maggie took it

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<v Speaker 2>as he doesn't like my love.

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<v Speaker 1>He's rejecting our relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how I would take it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sure, but that's not the case.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's why Rob has reached out to us, hoping

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<v Speaker 2>we can respark this, get this going again. Maybe do

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<v Speaker 2>a little ghost love scene situation, right Rob, that's right.

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<v Speaker 6>Pottery class you no alcohol, very vegan, you know, would

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<v Speaker 6>be perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we should offer to send them to if

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<v Speaker 2>we can get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it, Shirtless though.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you wanting to apologize to her for your response?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the way you put it, I guess I

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<v Speaker 4>kind of see it like I was being a little rude.

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<v Speaker 7>So yeah, I would like to apologize. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool, Well, we don't know for sure if she took

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<v Speaker 2>it that way. That's just Brook's opinion, and you know

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<v Speaker 2>how valuable that is.

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<v Speaker 1>So you throw a dig in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, we don't know. Yeah, let's let's find

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<v Speaker 2>out once and for all. I'm going to call it

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<v Speaker 2>right now here we go.

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<v Speaker 7>Hello, Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this Maggie?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes? This is she? Who is this?

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<v Speaker 1>We got you? Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I'm happy that you answered, is what I

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<v Speaker 2>meant to say. Because we're a radio show. We're called

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we've been dying

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay for what I mean, why what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Because we're doing a segment here called a Second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's where we try and help out our listeners

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<v Speaker 2>if they've kind of stalled out in their dating life

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<v Speaker 2>with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to help somebody named Rob.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yes, Rob, Okay, I see?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. Rod said you had two great dates together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, back to back dates and one weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually told us that he felt really good about it.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you feel?

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<v Speaker 5>I felt really good about it too. I felt like

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<v Speaker 5>we had this instant connection and potential to really go somewhere.

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<v Speaker 5>I was really really excited to keep things going with him.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Was there something that made that change? Because it does

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<v Speaker 6>sound like you're talking in past tense.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean, I'm the type of person who wants

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<v Speaker 5>a guy who's going to be my prince charming and

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<v Speaker 5>come in and ride in on the horse and professes

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<v Speaker 5>love to me and just go all out and then

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<v Speaker 5>we ride off into the sunset together.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you had.

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<v Speaker 1>Grand romantic gestures that's what you like. Yes, exactly, that's

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<v Speaker 1>totally fair.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be a lot though, for some guys to

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<v Speaker 2>process that after just one weekend hanging out out, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and not a.

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<v Speaker 3>Lot of guys are romantic at all.

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<v Speaker 5>Well they should be, and I made that very clear

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<v Speaker 5>on my profile.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really, wait, it's on your profile? What'd you say

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<v Speaker 3>on your profile?

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<v Speaker 5>I want someone who's sweet. So if you're wanting to

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<v Speaker 5>court me, I want you to send me messages and

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<v Speaker 5>let me know that you appreciate me, because that's my

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<v Speaker 5>My love language is affirmation's words of affirmation. So I

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<v Speaker 5>love giving those out and I want that back in return.

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<v Speaker 2>Got it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>And you feel like Rob was not fulfilling those needs

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<v Speaker 2>for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Correct especially came down to where you know, I sent

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<v Speaker 5>him what I thought was our first like love song

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<v Speaker 5>or potential first dance, and I just envisioned us already there.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Does that be a lot for anyone?

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<v Speaker 2>So we did hear about that text and the song

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<v Speaker 2>being sent to him. Honestly, here is what I worry

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<v Speaker 2>about for you, Maggie. Along the way in your life,

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<v Speaker 2>you've come up with this idea for a fairy tale romance.

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<v Speaker 1>In your mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, right now, I see.

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<v Speaker 2>It's totally okay to have these ideals in your head,

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<v Speaker 2>but you have to be able to adjust to other people,

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<v Speaker 2>because no one is going to match up perfectly with

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<v Speaker 2>everything that you've said.

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<v Speaker 3>It's already adjusting. I mean, she was already going out

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<v Speaker 3>with somebody who wasn't a vegan. She was already going

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<v Speaker 3>out with somebody that drinks when she doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>But she said the problem was he didn't like one song.

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<v Speaker 6>No, she said, the problem was he wasn't romantic Jack.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is, that's the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to go off of the two great dates

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<v Speaker 2>that you guys had together. That is not easy to

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<v Speaker 2>do in the modern dating world. We never hear about that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's special and that's something that you should actually hold

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<v Speaker 2>on to, not that he didn't like a song that

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<v Speaker 2>you texted him one time.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>I can see. I mean it was just my favorite

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<v Speaker 5>song and I just were getting along world.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you can hear it. And then I think Jeff's play.

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<v Speaker 2>It's too easy for people to just ghost right now

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<v Speaker 2>on these dating apps over one dumb little thing, and

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<v Speaker 2>then it gets awkward between you two. You have to

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<v Speaker 2>remember two great first dates, hold on to that, cherish

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<v Speaker 2>that and work on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you have to talk to each other about that thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Why did you drink this morning?

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<v Speaker 5>Brook?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need your love hate right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to build a love tower. And that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I know. That's why I need to tell you, Maggie.

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<v Speaker 2>Rob is on the phone right now. You like a

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<v Speaker 2>grand romantic gesture.

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<v Speaker 1>Here it is. He is waiting to talk to.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, Hey, Maggie, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi? Rob?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm good. How are you.

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<v Speaker 7>Good?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I just I wanted to apologize for blowing

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<v Speaker 4>off your song. I didn't realize that it.

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<v Speaker 7>Meant so much to you.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, I hear what you're saying about being

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<v Speaker 4>more romantic. It's you know, we've only been on two dates,

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<v Speaker 4>so maybe I need a little bit of a build

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<v Speaker 4>up my time a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Rob is a little bit more of a slow burner,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's willing to burn a little bit faster for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean, I do appreciate that, and I felt

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<v Speaker 5>like I was very transparent on my profile. I can't

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<v Speaker 5>change who I am, and I do want someone who's

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<v Speaker 5>going to be more forthcoming and romantic, so you know

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<v Speaker 5>you can still.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to say, Maggie real quick, just so you know.

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<v Speaker 6>When he was on the phone with only us, he

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<v Speaker 6>specifically said, I don't want to change.

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<v Speaker 3>Who she is.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh oh that's sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>So you hear that she doesn't have to change, Rob,

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<v Speaker 2>that is so sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, she's just looking for some you know, more affirmations

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<v Speaker 2>that the connection is there. Here's an opportunity for you

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<v Speaker 2>to say that to her right now on the radio

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<v Speaker 2>on the grand stage.

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<v Speaker 3>Are we going to have a romantic.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I don't want to lie.

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<v Speaker 7>Is The other thing is, I don't know if I love.

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<v Speaker 1>You yet, but but.

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<v Speaker 4>I can see that I can see that in our future.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely we're get.

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<v Speaker 1>If he put his heart out on the floor for you.

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<v Speaker 6>That's almost like a thank you after someone drops I

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<v Speaker 6>love you for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>He's trying, though, come.

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<v Speaker 5>On, okay, Rob, I know you might not be inherently romantic,

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<v Speaker 5>but I would appreciate if you could try a little more.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook's been saying that same thing to her husband for

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<v Speaker 2>the last ten years.

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<v Speaker 6>I think every woman has said it in any relationship

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<v Speaker 6>you've ever been proba.

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<v Speaker 5>If you could send me kind of a love song.

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<v Speaker 5>What would it be?

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<v Speaker 4>It would be that song Maggie by Rod Stewart.

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<v Speaker 3>Wake Up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just her name, right, Yeah, I think that's after Maggie.

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<v Speaker 6>Leaves him one night standing super romantic.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>What's amazing is he's not scared away right now? Is Honestly,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if you're gonna find that.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd like to offer to send you guys out one

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<v Speaker 2>more time and we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, let's do it. That'd be great.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true what they say, you can build this love together.

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<v Speaker 1>Some things do last forever.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing's gonna stop us now except we're running out of

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<v Speaker 2>time to do the second date updates, so we got

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<v Speaker 2>to stop it.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>The word of the day is compromise. Say it with me,

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<v Speaker 2>like compromise.

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<v Speaker 3>Like still like you came across as like love doctor during.

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<v Speaker 6>You did it was just a side of you that

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<v Speaker 6>we don't get to see very often.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, routin for them this time and I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I know all the answers to unlock the true

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<v Speaker 1>meaning of love?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's not And I keep those to myself for

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<v Speaker 2>personal selfish.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, we didn't have any more second date. Jeff

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<v Speaker 3>just gave everyone the answer.

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<v Speaker 2>I do feel like modern dating has made it way

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<v Speaker 2>too easy to completely write people off for saying one

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<v Speaker 2>wrong thing, not replying back to a text fashion. It's

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<v Speaker 2>literally me like yeah, like three girls I go to

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<v Speaker 2>this last week because I'm just saying, give someone a chance,

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<v Speaker 2>especially if you have that rare in person connection that's

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<v Speaker 2>worth holding on to at least one more day.

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<v Speaker 1>Compromise.

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<v Speaker 2>No speaking of giving people a chance, give our second date,

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<v Speaker 2>podc hast a chance wherever you get yours at broken

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey and have a blessed day.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a therapist.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy, Fine, have a fine day whatever, we don't care,

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<v Speaker 2>needs tail or something.

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<v Speaker 3>And Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.