WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Surprise Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to a new episode with the Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey Podcast. Thanks for being here, and a reminder, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been doing a video for y'all. Go be disappointed in

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<v Speaker 1>the way we look and how we don't match our voice.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you want to see a live Awkward or

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<v Speaker 1>a live second Date on video, you can do that

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<v Speaker 1>on our YouTube channel at Brock and Jeffrey. So thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for being here. We got a new

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<v Speaker 1>episode an Awkward Tuesday coming up in a second. But

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<v Speaker 1>comments Alexis Carter and Color said, I was listening on

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<v Speaker 1>Spotify and pause so fast to go watch on YouTube,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I'm heading back to Spotify.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I wonder.

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<v Speaker 3>If it's different to watch us and the orders to listen.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe you should do both.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's like reading a book and then go and

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<v Speaker 2>seeing the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, it's never yeah yeah yeah. So there it

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<v Speaker 1>issorning at Brick and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>Your new episode starts now.

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<v Speaker 4>They say two's a party, threes a crowd heard that

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<v Speaker 4>unless that third person is a waiter coming to your

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<v Speaker 4>table with this special surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh A big one A wait surprise?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, and that's what one of our listeners had

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<v Speaker 4>planned for her boyfriend, but now that waiter might need

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<v Speaker 4>to wait wait like wait wait, not wait on the table,

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<v Speaker 4>not wait on the table like wait confusing. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>will okay, because something weird happened the other day and

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<v Speaker 4>now the whole surprise could be in jeopardy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're start with that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why she's turned to us for help in your

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<v Speaker 4>brand new awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>Just wait because it's coming up right after this. It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>If you want to do something nice for somebody special

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<v Speaker 4>in your life, does it have to be a surprise?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, But it's nice when it is. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 3>is fun. That's true.

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<v Speaker 4>Like when I surprised Brooked the other day and told

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<v Speaker 4>her she was traded to another radio station for an

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<v Speaker 4>intern to be named.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, surprise is on you, Jeff, I'm still here. Unfortunately, yes, backfired, surprise, but.

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<v Speaker 3>That moment was priceless. I wouldn't change that for the world.

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<v Speaker 3>I totally believe our listener.

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<v Speaker 4>Today, Olivia says she's been planning a surprise for her boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 4>but now thanks to recent developments, she feels like maybe

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<v Speaker 4>she should just tell him and blow the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, sometimes that happens, you know, like if they

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<v Speaker 1>want to play something else and it's a day that

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<v Speaker 1>you have this price anyway depends.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's get more details before we start speculating. Olivia, Welcome

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<v Speaker 4>to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi, thanks so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you're a really thoughtful girlfriend, someone who

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<v Speaker 1>plans something for their boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice job.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe surprise breakup that'd be kind of cool, very thoughtful. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>good girlfriend, you are surprise you're single?

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<v Speaker 2>Breakups are a surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, So what's going on with you and your boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 6>So we've been living together for five months now, and

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<v Speaker 6>it's all most his thirtieth birthday, which I'm so excited about.

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<v Speaker 2>Is he a birthday guy? What's his name?

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<v Speaker 6>By the way, Oh, I'm sorry Jonah. Yeah, And yes,

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<v Speaker 6>I think he's excited for the most part. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like since it's a milestone, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 6>got that like I'm excited but also can't believe that

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<v Speaker 6>I'm turning thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, he's definitely not excited.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, who's excited to turn thirty when you're in your

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<v Speaker 4>twenty Let nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could argue with Jeffrey, but thirty is

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<v Speaker 1>the only one I cried at.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just like such a moment.

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<v Speaker 3>But you feel like maybe he's looking forward to it.

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<v Speaker 6>I think so, I mean I am so. I think

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going to be able to make him excited about

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<v Speaker 6>it if he's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So what do you have planned?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, so, Jonah and I have never really traveled anywhere

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<v Speaker 6>significant together. We've done like a day trip here and there,

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<v Speaker 6>but no, we're big.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So a friend of mine who works in travel, she's

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<v Speaker 6>helped me plan a big thirtieth get away to Mexico

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<v Speaker 6>for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa taking to Mexico is a surprise?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you going to pull that off? I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 2>for both of you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thrilled too. By the way, Sorry, I'm not like

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<v Speaker 3>jumping in all over it, but yeah, wow, Mexico. Sorry

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up and we went to other places. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>but Mexico is cool. Yeah, I know Southwest does like

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<v Speaker 3>a budget trip, and it's really you're just such a

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying. It's great, it's wonderful.

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<v Speaker 4>This is the best gift anyone has ever given anyone

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<v Speaker 4>ever ignored Jev.

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<v Speaker 2>How soon is this surprise trip supposed to happen.

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<v Speaker 6>It's going to be coming up, like right after his birthday.

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<v Speaker 6>So my plan was to take him out to dinner

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<v Speaker 6>and then after dessert, I'm going to have the waiter

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<v Speaker 6>drop off the envelope on the table that has the

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<v Speaker 6>itinerary on it, and then we would leave the next day.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, so it's like the waiter's idea to.

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<v Speaker 3>Give him all the credit.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, is the waiter coming with us?

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of cool. You got to take it to

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<v Speaker 3>Mexican food too.

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<v Speaker 2>Like put Oh, that's a good play.

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<v Speaker 3>You definitely planned this whole thing out though.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so what's happening that's derailing the plan?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>What's wrong?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? Okay, So I was going over the itinerary at

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<v Speaker 6>home and just kind of making sure everything was buttoned

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<v Speaker 6>up ready to go, and I got this phone call

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<v Speaker 6>from work which I had to step out to deal with.

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<v Speaker 6>And while that was happening, Jonah came home and when

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<v Speaker 6>I got back to my computer, it was just.

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<v Speaker 2>Off, Oh, no, do you think he saw it?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, there's no way he didn't see it.

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<v Speaker 1>And your computer doesn't have like an automatic shut off

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<v Speaker 1>thing like a sleep mode.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean I suppose like maybe he just reached

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<v Speaker 6>down and turned it off since I wasn't there, but

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<v Speaker 6>the document was up on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Screencae, maybe you had to shut the screen off to

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<v Speaker 1>is this reading it? If someone leaves their phone out

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<v Speaker 1>next to you, I'm like, close it so I don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>To read it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's I mean, but it's a good move on

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<v Speaker 1>his part not to bring it up, not to ruin

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<v Speaker 1>the supply.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's also true, like kind of protecting your feelings. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how was he acting after that.

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<v Speaker 6>Well I didn't bring it up either, but I thought

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<v Speaker 6>he was acting a little weird. Like the next day

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<v Speaker 6>he just sort of comments like, Hey, I hope you're

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<v Speaker 6>not planning on doing anything too big for my birthday.

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<v Speaker 6>You're super excited to go to dinner, but let's just

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<v Speaker 6>keep it low key and that'll be really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he didn't read the whole thing then, because

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<v Speaker 1>if you saw you book stuff, why would you say

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<v Speaker 1>that because.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't want to go.

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<v Speaker 3>To cancel.

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<v Speaker 4>That's like the polite way of being like, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know any plans, but if there are plans, let's not

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<v Speaker 4>do them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I get it, but that's so rude. If you

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<v Speaker 2>saw how detailed the itinerarian.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's maybe he's just really bad with secrets and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh, I know, I'll tell her that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want her to do anything and then she won't

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<v Speaker 1>think that I saw it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean there's a lot of speculation. What are you

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<v Speaker 4>feeling right now, Olivia?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I put a ton of work into this.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought Mexico would be great. We've talked about Mexico before.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, if he.

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<v Speaker 6>Can't even just be excited or appreciate that I put

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<v Speaker 6>in that kind of work, I'm going to be pretty upset.

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<v Speaker 2>So damn, what do you want to do right now?

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<v Speaker 3>What advice are you looking to get from us for

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<v Speaker 3>this phone?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay? I need a clever way to figure out if

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<v Speaker 6>he has seen the site itinerary or not.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to know.

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<v Speaker 6>And if he did see it and doesn't like it,

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<v Speaker 6>how do I react to that? Because to me, that

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<v Speaker 6>just doesn't even bode well for our relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I know a lad for me too, because if you

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<v Speaker 1>like to travel and he doesn't, that's I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>my parents have been married for like forty plus years,

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<v Speaker 1>and one loves to travel and one is really not,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe sometimes it works out.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my parents are kind of the same. Yes, we're

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<v Speaker 3>all over. The spectrum is either great or not great,

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<v Speaker 3>or somewhere in the middle. What if he's worried about money,

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<v Speaker 3>like he thinks, oh god, I have a whole big

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<v Speaker 3>bill now, or something like Mexican.

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<v Speaker 2>Trip the rest of your thirties. Distress about money.

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<v Speaker 3>Dump him because he's poor.

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<v Speaker 4>We support you when we come back and do your

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<v Speaker 4>awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there anything worse than when a person knows a

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<v Speaker 4>big surprise is coming so they.

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<v Speaker 3>Fake it just to appease you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, they fake the surprise.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's what happened yesterday when Brooke announced she was

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<v Speaker 4>pregnant for the third time.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not pregnant.

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<v Speaker 4>We all knew what was coming, and we just had

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<v Speaker 4>to fake pretend that we were shocked, I know, pregnant.

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<v Speaker 4>Jose even burst into tears just to make Brook feel

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<v Speaker 4>better about it.

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<v Speaker 6>For different reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>I went to doctor Snip and stayed in the room

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<v Speaker 1>when it happened for my husband.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I know, so doctor Snip is apparently the father.

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<v Speaker 4>Just a really sad moment all around.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what our.

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<v Speaker 4>Listener, Olivia is trying to avoid because her living boyfriend

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<v Speaker 4>has his thirtieth birthday coming up and she wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>surprise him with a special trip to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's so cool.

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<v Speaker 4>The problem is he might kind of already know because

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<v Speaker 4>of a little computer mishap, and even worse, if he

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<v Speaker 4>does know, he doesn't seem all that thrilled about it.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, he's basically telling her all I want to

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<v Speaker 1>do is dinner, cancel everything else.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, So she wants to find out for sure does

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<v Speaker 4>he know, does he not know?

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<v Speaker 3>Does he even care? Brook? What's your advice for her?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're gonna double down on the lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, things are gonna get a little messy here. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think what you have to do is you have

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<v Speaker 1>to say, Okay, I'm gonna let you in on a

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<v Speaker 1>little secret. I'm helping my friend plan a trip for

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<v Speaker 1>her boyfriend and it's a surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>But she thinks he doesn't want to go. What should

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<v Speaker 2>she do this?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, and then just let him answer it, and

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<v Speaker 1>he'll tell you exactly what you need to know, all.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, basically stealing the plot from Lindsay Lohan's parent trip

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<v Speaker 4>a little double trouble action.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think, Olivia?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm worried it'll be a little suspicious just because his

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<v Speaker 6>birthday is so soon, But I don't know. You know

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<v Speaker 6>how guys are sometimes they're not really paying attention to everything,

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<v Speaker 6>So maybe it'll work.

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<v Speaker 4>Speaking of not paying attention, Jose, what's your advice?

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<v Speaker 3>What advice for Olivia?

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<v Speaker 4>My advice would be bring up that there could be

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<v Speaker 4>a surprise at dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, just tell him, then e.

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<v Speaker 3>Gauge his reaction to that news.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Oh, I see, don't be specific about the surprise,

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<v Speaker 4>but you'll be able to tell if he already knows

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<v Speaker 4>based on his reaction.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what do you think about that, Olivia?

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<v Speaker 4>Just toss up the idea of a surprise could be

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<v Speaker 4>coming at dinner and see how he reacts to it.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I think that seems like a good idea because

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<v Speaker 6>he's not generally a great liar as far as I know,

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<v Speaker 6>so I feel like if he does know I'm going

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<v Speaker 6>to be able to tell I mean, I hate surprises.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you'll know, yeah, dumb them, not dumbham. But change

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<v Speaker 1>the ticket to your best friend's names.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, not good.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we have given you two pieces of great advice.

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<v Speaker 4>You could choose to use as much or as little

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<v Speaker 4>of it as you want to. But I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>dial your boyfriend right now and we'll find out what

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<v Speaker 4>he knows.

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<v Speaker 7>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, right, good luck down you right now?

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<v Speaker 7>Hello, Hey, how's it go in? Hey? Oh? Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 7>don't know your number didn't show it normostly weird k

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<v Speaker 7>like bloock call or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's weird.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know why I would do that. Sorry, we

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<v Speaker 6>I'm glad you answered. Do you think you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 6>able to swing by the store to pick up the

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<v Speaker 6>chicken for dinner?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? Yeah, I can do that. Well yeah this yeah yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>that would be great.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I don't know, I know that's not like the

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<v Speaker 6>most exciting, but I'm so work has been crazy. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>that's all I have time for tonight.

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<v Speaker 7>You okay, you sound a little nervous or maybe distracted

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<v Speaker 7>or something. You want to call me back later?

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, no, no, no, I'm good. Honestly, I'm a

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<v Speaker 6>little like excited but anxious for your birthday coming up.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, okay, well I think dinner.

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<v Speaker 6>I think that dinner is going to be amazing.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, no, it should be amazing. I mean, as long

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<v Speaker 7>as I'm not cooking it.

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<v Speaker 6>Obviously, I'm not going to make you cook your birthday dinner.

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<v Speaker 6>But I think maybe there would be another little surprise

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<v Speaker 6>at dinner too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, you don't. You don't have to do anything big.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, it's not that big a deal.

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<v Speaker 6>But I want to do something special for you. I

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<v Speaker 6>think it'll be I mean, if you're trying thirty, like

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<v Speaker 6>this only happens once, and I just think a little

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<v Speaker 6>extra surprise is in order for your birthday.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, don't tell me too much. I mean, it's this

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<v Speaker 7>kind of defeats the purpose of it being a surprise, right.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I can't tell you what it is, but no,

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<v Speaker 6>don't tell.

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<v Speaker 7>Me that it is. You got to keep a secret, Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I don't really feel like you seem that

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<v Speaker 6>excited about dinner or the surprise at this point. So

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<v Speaker 6>is that because you already know what it is?

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<v Speaker 5>What?

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<v Speaker 7>No? I mean I don't know. Maybe do I?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, so you saw my computer in the itinerary. I

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<v Speaker 6>knew this. I knew this is what happened. So you

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<v Speaker 6>already know that the day after dinner, I'm taking you

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<v Speaker 6>to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh no, I did not know about that.

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<v Speaker 6>Just said you knew?

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<v Speaker 7>You knew? I said, maybe, I like, maybe maybe I

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<v Speaker 7>didn't see your computer.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, surprise, we're going to Mexico after your birthday.

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<v Speaker 7>Well no, we're not.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you mean we're not. I've literally booked the tickets,

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<v Speaker 6>I've planned everything. It's like we're ready to go.

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<v Speaker 7>No I can't go. I'm on the no fly list. Wait,

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<v Speaker 7>hang on here? Who is who's on the phone?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey?

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<v Speaker 7>What did you going on? Hey?

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<v Speaker 3>Joanah. This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>in the Morning. Olivia is a listener.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not telling from the TSA. Do not worry.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh no, no, no, no, no, it's okay. This

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<v Speaker 4>is a segment we do. It's called the Awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 4>phone Call. And Olivia reached out because she had this

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<v Speaker 4>big surprise coming and she wasn't sure if you knew

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<v Speaker 4>about it or not.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm sorry. Nobody cares about that right now? You're

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<v Speaker 6>on the no twilist? Joe?

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<v Speaker 2>How did you not know this?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry I didn't tell you. I just didn't think

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<v Speaker 7>it was important.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you so chill right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Are we talking to a terrorist right now? How are

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<v Speaker 3>you on the no fly list?

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't know it was gonna be on the radio.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know if I really want to tell everybody?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it embarrassing? I want to know more.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious how you get on one?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I thought it's pretty embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 6>You need to explain this right now, Like, how in

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<v Speaker 6>the world does one.

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<v Speaker 5>Get on the no flyless?

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<v Speaker 7>This is insane.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not to put you on the spot, Jonah, but

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like this information needs to be out there,

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<v Speaker 4>at least for your girlfriend's sake, well and.

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<v Speaker 2>For everybody else and they can avoid doing what you

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<v Speaker 2>apparently did.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how do you how did you get on the list?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean we had all been drinking, right, and

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<v Speaker 5>who's we My buddies and I, Frankie and Joe and

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<v Speaker 5>oh yeah, a bachelor trip.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>How long ago was this bachelor trip?

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe a year ago?

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<v Speaker 4>So what happened on this bachelor trip that landed you

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<v Speaker 4>on a national no fly list.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, just the normal stuff. We've been drinking and

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<v Speaker 7>things got weird on the planet before you know, we're

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<v Speaker 7>doing stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>On the beverage cart, stuff on a beverage card, or

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<v Speaker 4>did in the beverage cart.

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<v Speaker 7>On top and around it. I don't want to talk

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<v Speaker 7>about it. I definitely regret it.

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<v Speaker 2>Fly for.

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<v Speaker 7>No. They just gave me time out for like a

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<v Speaker 7>couple of years or something. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, you're so casual about it, dude.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean it was really toss man.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you can't fly for another year?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh well, give or take. I think it's like two

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<v Speaker 7>or three years.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, So, Olivia, this is obviously a lot of information

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<v Speaker 4>coming your way.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you feeling? Where's your head at?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't even know what to think right now, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>I put a ton of time into this, and it

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<v Speaker 6>was supposed to be our first big trip together and

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<v Speaker 6>celebrating a huge milestone for your birthday. So I'm not even.

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<v Speaker 7>Like sure how to practice this yet. I mean, we

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<v Speaker 7>could drive somewhere, we could go, we go to Canada.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I have a feeling that there's something on

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<v Speaker 2>your record?

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<v Speaker 1>That will not let you into Canada.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry, baby. You know, listen, this happened over a

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<v Speaker 7>year ago, and that we were just barely talking. You know,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm a different.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy now, he's immature, thirty year old.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm gonna I think I'm gonna choose to believe

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<v Speaker 6>that that's true for now, because I, other than this,

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<v Speaker 6>had no reason to think otherwise. So we'll figure something out.

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<v Speaker 1>How refundable are any of these tickets that you bought.

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<v Speaker 6>Or Yeah, I'm gonna have to find a friend to

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<v Speaker 6>go with.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess Oh, baby, you can't go without me. I

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<v Speaker 7>mean it's my birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh if you're making demands for everything.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm not missing out just because of whatever you did.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like the new surprise is your girlfriend's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be out of town for a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so call Frankie and all the guys and let's

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<v Speaker 4>get together for just a bullets trip.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not a good idea, reok and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I will say that dude has a very very understanding girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I don't know that she's fully processed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, telling her I mean still understanding.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it honestly means they don't get to fly

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<v Speaker 1>anywhere for the next two to three years of their relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Anywhere, not even like a local.

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<v Speaker 4>If you found out your significant other was on the

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<v Speaker 4>no fly list and it's been hiding that from you

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<v Speaker 4>for a year, that might make me question a lot

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<v Speaker 4>about the relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think he was hiding though? He just seemed

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<v Speaker 2>like a dude who forgot to bring it up.

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<v Speaker 3>I swear we've talked about this before.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know, it just didn't come up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I totally forgot a warrant, by the way,

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<v Speaker 4>But she was just like, oh, that's a bummer, and

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<v Speaker 4>quickly pivoted to going on the trip with her girlfriends.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was a smart choice.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she should do that right now, just to cope.

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<v Speaker 3>Go to Mexico with your girls, knock it out, relaxed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you talk it out with your girls, you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna end up single.

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<v Speaker 4>But it sounds like they're just gonna celebrate his thirtieth separately,

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<v Speaker 4>and it doesn't seem like this will be a giant

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<v Speaker 4>bump in the room of their relationship whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 2>I love when you're not a sarcastings.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh I'm just.

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<v Speaker 4>Going blind optimism here, and that's what I recommend to

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<v Speaker 4>everybody who emails the show seeking our advice, and also

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<v Speaker 4>to anybody who's listening to the podcast right now, stay optimistic.

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